WEBVTT - Black Girl In The White House

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we back were black.

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<v Speaker 2>Brown out ambition ambitionus ambition ambition. First of all, Manni,

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<v Speaker 2>why do I look like summertime and you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>what the time?

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<v Speaker 1>Look at the arms are giving drop the workout.

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<v Speaker 2>No, first of all, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Like naturally sculpted. It like naturally sculpted arms. That's really exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>On the top of girl, that they can fool. I

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<v Speaker 2>can fool people in a you know, like if you

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<v Speaker 2>have like a dating profile, I can fool people because

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<v Speaker 2>from the top of it's given. Okay, sculpting from the

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<v Speaker 2>from the from the waist down is given.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you're saying is your everyone's dream girl. Yeah, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>the girls are paying to look like you. If I

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<v Speaker 1>read another story about someone who dies from a BBL

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<v Speaker 1>just the state of America, he looks stunning. It's been

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<v Speaker 1>so I've been I missed you. Thanks for holding it

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<v Speaker 1>down while I was and Georgia. You had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>on your plate. I think the last time I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to you in person, were you about to go to Dubai?

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<v Speaker 1>You were in Dubai.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I went to Dubai and then also Sands and.

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<v Speaker 1>Bar, yeah, of course, and also the White House.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl I know it was sick at the White House.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm a black girl at the White House.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh please, what do you want to start with? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know just who are you? Even who am I?

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<v Speaker 2>That we have talked since we have, since he's been

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<v Speaker 2>our way and we have been talking, Well, maybe I could,

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<v Speaker 2>I could talk about the experience at the White House.

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<v Speaker 2>But honestly, also I think we should talk about like

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<v Speaker 2>the state of the Union, like the financial components of

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<v Speaker 2>the state of the Union that you know, pertains to

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<v Speaker 2>like get our audience. I think that'd be great to

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<v Speaker 2>just get a gage. I know you didn't get a

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<v Speaker 2>chance to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I had a chance. I just chose not to.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a chance. I had. I was busy, this

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<v Speaker 1>is very busy. Probably I was watching Love Is Blind,

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<v Speaker 1>and somehow I found time to watch like most of

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<v Speaker 1>the oscars. So I'm not even gonna lie, but I

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<v Speaker 1>read some notes, I saw some clips. Doesn't count if

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<v Speaker 1>you watch the cold open of SNL and you saw

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<v Speaker 1>the parody that scarlets of that Republican woman that did

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<v Speaker 1>the for the reports. Anyway, I think I also kind

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<v Speaker 1>of knew that I was going to get you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you and like.

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<v Speaker 2>The inside skill, but he used.

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<v Speaker 1>To fy it for me. So tell Us was Biden

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<v Speaker 1>like giving, you know, I'm resent mentally like mostly I'm

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<v Speaker 1>young and springing enough for another four years?

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<v Speaker 2>What was I don't know if anybody's youngest bringing up

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<v Speaker 2>another four years, but he definitely took a V eight.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say that, like Aba, we had a lot of energy,

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<v Speaker 2>which was great to see.

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<v Speaker 1>They gave men Bully Joe.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to meet Jill when you know, first lady again.

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<v Speaker 2>She was really awesome and nice and just like really

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<v Speaker 2>just she's always just really really really easy breezy. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>she came into our room. So just for anybody who's listening,

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<v Speaker 2>this is the second year in a row that they've

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<v Speaker 2>done like a creator kind of like White House invites,

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<v Speaker 2>So they invite like thirty to fifty creators or so,

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<v Speaker 2>and they invite us to watch the State of the Union,

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<v Speaker 2>but in the actual White House. Same thing happened last year,

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<v Speaker 2>and that we got to meet the first Lady. She

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<v Speaker 2>comes to say hello. This time we did a champagne toast,

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<v Speaker 2>which is cool. We also got to meet the first Gentleman,

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<v Speaker 2>Kamala Harris's husband came to say hello, I can't remember

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<v Speaker 2>his name.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, sir Dennis, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>We can barely see Kamala, so like let alone her husband.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we watched the State of the Union, take

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<v Speaker 2>your notes, do your socials. And then then afterwards like

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<v Speaker 2>so we get to see the president and the first

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<v Speaker 2>lady leaves. They have us all on like the verandah yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then afterwards we kind of you get to actually

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<v Speaker 2>come down to the ground level where the car pulls up.

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<v Speaker 2>President gets out, and then he greeted us. He actually

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<v Speaker 2>said something really really powerful when he came to us.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, you know, you guys on this like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the fifty of you or whatever like on these on

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<v Speaker 2>these steps, you know you collectively reach you reach more

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<v Speaker 2>people with your platforms than all the networks combined, probably,

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<v Speaker 2>And yes, no it's true because there are people there

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<v Speaker 2>were millions and millions and millions of followers, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and you think about the views and everything else. And

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, this is why it's so important that

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<v Speaker 2>we wanted to have you here, because we want our

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<v Speaker 2>message to get to as many young people as possible.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just want to really want to thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for helping us spread that message. And I thought that's

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<v Speaker 2>really powerful that this is the second year they've done this,

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<v Speaker 2>and how smart. And if you see, they literally have

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<v Speaker 2>a social media division for the White House and I

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<v Speaker 2>love it because it's filled with young people that understand

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<v Speaker 2>how to navigate, you know, And I just thought, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, what a cool job.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're basically doing the work of every like grandchild's

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<v Speaker 1>twenty something grandchild like Joe, Papa, Joe, let me see

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<v Speaker 1>your phone. This is how you This is Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And so it's because his grand his grandkids were

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<v Speaker 2>actually there, which is really cute. And so it was

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<v Speaker 2>just a really.

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<v Speaker 1>Love Jill and Biden, Like I love their love story. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I just wish they could sit down and enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>each other, you know what I mean, Like I wish

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<v Speaker 1>they could just like do what my grandparents did, which

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<v Speaker 1>is just have a bunch of frozen apple pie in

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<v Speaker 1>the freezer with the Mayfield vanilla ice cream and box

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<v Speaker 1>and watch Jeopardy and do the crossword and just be happy,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? But here they are

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<v Speaker 1>saving us from potentially another four years with Voldemort. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>be a fan we're going to take a quick break

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say this that, so the state of the Union,

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<v Speaker 2>some of the things that kind of pertain to like

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<v Speaker 2>our audience, I mean, all of it obviously pertains if

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<v Speaker 2>you're in a United States citizen. But some of the

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<v Speaker 2>things that stood out to me were he proposed extending

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<v Speaker 2>negotiations for prescription junk, so Medicare can directly now negotiate

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<v Speaker 2>with drug companies, and they've been able to do so

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<v Speaker 2>very successfully. So, for example, they were able to get

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<v Speaker 2>insolent cap at thirty five dollars, which is tremendous because

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<v Speaker 2>for some people it was just insolent. It's like if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't get it in your diabetic you don't live. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And so to price it at a way that that

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<v Speaker 2>a person can't you're sentencing people to death, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>so's they're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, it is negotiating with it. So is that for

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<v Speaker 1>people who are on medicare, yes, to be able.

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<v Speaker 2>To say like, Okay, you can't go past this. He's

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<v Speaker 2>also wanted to cap drug cross across the the I

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<v Speaker 2>guess across the map at two thousand dollars monthly and

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<v Speaker 2>not monthly annually. So like if I believe if you're

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<v Speaker 2>Medicare or I don't know, if it's just Medicare and

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't see it didn't specify, or just in general,

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<v Speaker 2>if you are on prescription drugs, that your drugs collectively

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<v Speaker 2>should not cost you more than two thousand dollars for

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<v Speaker 2>the year. That's something that he proposed, okay, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>for some people, like sometimes one drug is two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, especially if you have something like cancer. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's wild to me that, like my dad has

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<v Speaker 1>been in the hospital for a long time and we

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<v Speaker 1>are all just like hanging home for dear life with

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<v Speaker 1>those bills that start hitting. Yeah, you got one medication. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's cost that much. So that's okay, But that's proposed.

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<v Speaker 1>So the Congress got to do what Congress.

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<v Speaker 2>Got to do. The thirty five dollars, it's happening already,

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<v Speaker 2>and he wants to extend it like that, extend that

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<v Speaker 2>that that that correction. Something else that he's proposed was

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<v Speaker 2>a four hundred dollars monthly tax credit for two years

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<v Speaker 2>to home buyers to help them buy new homes. So

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<v Speaker 2>you would get this to like you know, so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can negotiate with the banks for a lower interest.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. Child. He was like, look, this is what

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<v Speaker 2>I can do. He also wants to get rid of

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<v Speaker 2>title insurance. That's what would save about a thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, because like it's such a you know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>supposedly to ensure that like so like someone else could

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<v Speaker 1>come and say, I had the title to this house. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>just like throw off your whole thing. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know how much that happened so.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, so it's like, you know, these for fee's sake,

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<v Speaker 2>fee for the pppee for pepee, you know. So he

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<v Speaker 2>also said that he wants to impose no new taxes

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<v Speaker 2>on anyone, any household earning under four hundred thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>a year. Then instead, he was like, they need to

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<v Speaker 2>raise the tax on billionaires. So there's about a thousand

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<v Speaker 2>billionaires in the United States, Mandy, can you guess what

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<v Speaker 2>percentage of their income they pay in taxes? Like what

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<v Speaker 2>their tax rate is currently?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably like two percent, I mean, because they have all

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<v Speaker 1>these loopholes that they get through.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, the average billionaire pays just over eight percent. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>can you guess what the average middle class person pays

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<v Speaker 2>for taxes.

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<v Speaker 1>I could guess from personal experience it's a lot more.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like twenty five percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, between twenty two and thirty two percent, So you're

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<v Speaker 2>right on the nose. So can you imagine that, like

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<v Speaker 2>these billionaires paying on average eight percent when like, why

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<v Speaker 2>should I remember as a preschool teacher, I remember distinctly

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<v Speaker 2>I was twenty one percent as a preschool teacher, making

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<v Speaker 2>thirty nine thousand dollars a year, and meanwhile, your local

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<v Speaker 2>friendly billionaire is paying eight percent or less. Why why

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<v Speaker 2>is more of my money going when like the impact

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<v Speaker 2>of every billionaire paying he wants to He wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>make it that no billionaire would pay less than twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five percent, which to me is even like low.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the tax code is written for businesses and

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<v Speaker 1>billionaires to have that access to those kinds of tax loopholes.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that was one of Trump's big pieces of

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<v Speaker 1>legislation with the American Jobs and Tax cook a two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand whatever it was. So yeah, it's no surprise. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to see some tax reform that eases

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<v Speaker 1>the burden on the rest of us who are like,

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<v Speaker 1>can we get you know, my big thing is like,

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<v Speaker 1>can I get a tax deduction for the three thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars a month I pay in childcare?

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<v Speaker 2>Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, that's wild. It is wild that there aren't benefits

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<v Speaker 1>like that. My husband has that, like dependent care FSA

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<v Speaker 1>only five thousand dollars a year. Wow, less than two

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<v Speaker 1>months worth of wow take care expenses. You know. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope. I don't know if it'll be like the

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<v Speaker 1>Biden's term, but I'm hoping we get like a family first,

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<v Speaker 1>like childcare activist in the White House, I mean, just

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<v Speaker 1>doing some basic shit.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I mean, well, you know. And so he

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<v Speaker 2>spoke about investing in HBCUs. You know historically black colleges

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<v Speaker 2>and university. He didn't get specific about it. He just

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<v Speaker 2>said wanted to invest in them. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what that means. Also, too, he spoke about so far

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<v Speaker 2>about four million students have been helped with their reform

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<v Speaker 2>with student loans.

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<v Speaker 1>He pays me one like of his big got that's done.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, obviously he got pushed back, he said,

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<v Speaker 2>because it was about thirty five million students more that

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<v Speaker 2>if he would have pushed it would have been affected.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was about it was about forty million students

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<v Speaker 2>that would have positively been affected by the you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the bill that he was trying to push through, and

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<v Speaker 2>they had to acquiesce to something smaller. But so far

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<v Speaker 2>four million people have been helped, but they're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>still push. Yeah, it was And honestly, afterwards, they did,

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<v Speaker 2>like I think it was CNN or Wall Street Journal,

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<v Speaker 2>they did some sort of like I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 2>a poll, and they said about fifty six percent of

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<v Speaker 2>people who watched the State of the Union felt like

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<v Speaker 2>that he had a better handle on the economy. So

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<v Speaker 2>there seems to be some like, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's the economy, which by all measures is

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<v Speaker 1>doing well, and then they're like, you know, our personal economy, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>which I came home with two bags of groceries and

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<v Speaker 1>it was one hundred and forty.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, everybody I know is like I broke I dronk.

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<v Speaker 1>When I opened my trunk, Tiffany, this happened this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>The carton of eggs slipped out of the bag and

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<v Speaker 1>fell on the floor, and I was like, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do what those dramatic movie seems like ten fucking dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just trash immediately. Yeah, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>where the disconnect is. Yes, I'm happy to hear that

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred dollars that tax credit for homeowners. That is

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<v Speaker 1>something that he's proposing. It hasn't been passed or hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been so something like that. But yeah, this, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just it adds fuel to the fire for

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<v Speaker 1>like families who feel like, Okay, things are getting more expensive.

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<v Speaker 1>The economy is doing well, but at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we're not exactly seeing the huge wage growth

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<v Speaker 1>that was happening because you know, the FED is trying

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<v Speaker 1>to stop wage growth because that's part of the fight

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<v Speaker 1>against inflation, right, But it's like, so at what point

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<v Speaker 1>is it too much in the other direction?

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<v Speaker 2>Like well he said like he was like, we have

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<v Speaker 2>to raise So minimum wage was something he talked about

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<v Speaker 2>as well. I remember saying, like, you know, people, minimum

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<v Speaker 2>wage is supposed to reflect that at the bare minimum,

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<v Speaker 2>this should be able to support you and your family, like,

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<v Speaker 2>and it hasn't in a very long time. He's talked

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<v Speaker 2>about that. He also talked about like he has a

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<v Speaker 2>big environmental stance. Apparently he passed the biggest legislation in

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<v Speaker 2>the world to protect and support the environment that's ever

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<v Speaker 2>been passed. And that just was like, okay, So because

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<v Speaker 2>before we met, so when you go to the White House,

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<v Speaker 2>so like before but before you get there, we got

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<v Speaker 2>that little early and you got to we got to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of meet and chat with people who were working

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<v Speaker 2>on like these like so there was an I don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember his name, but he was an environmentalist working at

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<v Speaker 2>the White House and sharing like how this legislation has

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<v Speaker 2>been like literally earth moving, you know, and I did

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<v Speaker 2>not know.

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<v Speaker 1>That I was because that do like like that that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds so stupid, I know, like it I like does

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<v Speaker 1>that environmental legislation.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, like like you know, minimizing like what kind of

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<v Speaker 2>materials can be used in certain ways, like regulating like

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<v Speaker 2>how materials are disposed of? What else did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>He was just taking care of microplastics because that's taken

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<v Speaker 1>up an inordinate amount of stress, yes, by useless anxiety bucket.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just like also too, like you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm investing into clean energy. So that was really interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, okay, so you got to really

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<v Speaker 2>meet like I got to meet Oh, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 2>She's the the first black woman. Oh my gosh, she's

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<v Speaker 2>so awesome. So we got to ask her a question

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<v Speaker 2>and I was just like, Kareeine Jane, let me say

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<v Speaker 2>press secretary.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I saw that picture and I geeked.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, in my head is April Franklin

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<v Speaker 1>and that is not.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's Karne Jean Pierre. Yes, did I make that up? Okay? No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>she's Haitian. Both of her parents are Haitian, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like immigrants.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the country that Tom said was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you call Haiti something stupid? Yes, just meanwhile, she's

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<v Speaker 1>got her I mean what I.

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<v Speaker 2>Love about her though, so something. Because we got to

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<v Speaker 2>ask her questions. So someone said, how do you manage

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<v Speaker 2>with like all the negative feedback whatever? She's like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>she said, I learned a while ago that I don't

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<v Speaker 2>read anything about myself. I don't read anything good, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't read anything bad, So that way nothing affects me, like,

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<v Speaker 2>so I don't get to She's like, because this is

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<v Speaker 2>how to take care of my mental health, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the good will have you up and then crashing back down,

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<v Speaker 2>and the bad will have you feeling bad. And she said,

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<v Speaker 2>over time, you develop a really thick skin. She was

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<v Speaker 2>honestly so hilaried. She was like, because you know, they

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about how Fox is always basking me. She's like, yeah,

0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:12.880
<v Speaker 2>they're like obsessed with me. She's like one of my

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<v Speaker 2>girlfriend's like, oh my god, girl, it's giving obsession. But

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<v Speaker 2>she was so like, girl, I mean, say what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care. She was like, it's honestly, it's borderline obsession.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was like, honestly, it doesn't bother me because

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<v Speaker 2>I just refused to ingest anything good or bad. I

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<v Speaker 2>get to live in the moment with my partner, with

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<v Speaker 2>my family, with my friends, and do my job and

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<v Speaker 2>that's it. So I don't. She's like, you know, of

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<v Speaker 2>course I keep the news on, but I keep it

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<v Speaker 2>on mute. She said, the Big Four, CNN, Fox, I

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<v Speaker 2>forget that too, MSNBC. I guess it's CNBC. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's like, I keep it on so I can

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<v Speaker 2>know what's happening. But she was like, yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't subscribe to any any of the good

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<v Speaker 2>or the bad. And then I ask her questions exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So I asked her question. I was like, let's lighten

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<v Speaker 2>it up. I was like, you know, Jean Pierre. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, so both your parents are you know, Haitian

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<v Speaker 2>American immigrants, and I said, and dad are Nigerian immigrants.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, how lit was the WhatsApp Auntie chat when

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<v Speaker 2>you became press the secretary. She was like, girl, because

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I know, especially your mom, but it's telling

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<v Speaker 2>her prayer group her church. Not very easy, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>sacred thing. I was like. She started laughing She was like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even go food chopping. My mother be bringing

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<v Speaker 2>up you see those eggs. My daughter's a press secretary.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get she said. She got to be like mom, no,

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<v Speaker 2>just we're just here to get bread. She's like whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>She said her dad was a cab driver, and I

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<v Speaker 2>forget her what her mother did for a living and

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<v Speaker 2>raised her and like her. I think she got one

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<v Speaker 2>or two siblings and so she was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're very proud obviously, but she was like yeah. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know, she's a girl. You know, nobody

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<v Speaker 2>brags like an immigant. So I just love that.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just, I don't say, a very humanizing question.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's why I wanted to because I know it

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<v Speaker 2>could be very like, what are the policies on I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, girl, we go, let's let's giggle a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was like, you know, don't need any cool

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<v Speaker 1>Like who were the other internet celebs?

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<v Speaker 2>So there was this woman named jet you know econ jests.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like red hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I know now because I saw her on your story.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we did, because I could tell what I

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<v Speaker 2>pulled up. She's like, I don't know anybody, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, I remember her face, Jeff. She has

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<v Speaker 2>a book that's coming out and I did a blurb

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<v Speaker 2>for it. She's like, thank you so much for that

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<v Speaker 2>a blur for my book. And because I followed her

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<v Speaker 2>and I liked her, and I was like, I never

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<v Speaker 2>met her in person, but she was so nice and

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<v Speaker 2>so cool. There was another guy. He's kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>a fitness model, like I guess he represents like because

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<v Speaker 2>they tried to get people to represent different places, so

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<v Speaker 2>it was LGBTQ. He was talking about his husband and

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<v Speaker 2>but he was just like so much fun. So we

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<v Speaker 2>just had like a time. There were some other people

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<v Speaker 2>who I just this time around, I didn't realize. I

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<v Speaker 2>would say very few people from the first time were

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<v Speaker 2>here this.

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<v Speaker 1>Time, you got a second invite a.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, so you know who was there. Remember back in

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<v Speaker 2>the day, Ellen used to have this guy on it

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<v Speaker 2>who would talk about food, Kaitlin. I think his name is.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't watch Ellen.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh black influencer. He's hilarious and funny and he was

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<v Speaker 2>one of my face. When I saw him, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a few people who I didn't know names,

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<v Speaker 2>but I knew them because I followed them.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was cool. Michelle Obama portrait.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes again because I took a picture with the last time.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was just like, it was just honestly, it

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<v Speaker 2>was just like a really good time. Although we were

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<v Speaker 2>there fever, I didn't get back to the hotel till

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<v Speaker 2>like one o'clock in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you looked real tired. I'm like, oh, she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go home.

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<v Speaker 2>Like three girls, everybody's feet were screaming. This time around,

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<v Speaker 2>I knew better because there's a lot of walking. So

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<v Speaker 2>I brought flats with me. So I was like because

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<v Speaker 2>I had these cute boots, but I was like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>I already know, and so all the girls were heels

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<v Speaker 2>were like I did not know. I was like I knew,

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<v Speaker 2>so I had my flats on.

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<v Speaker 1>You are a White House veteran, so tell the girls

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<v Speaker 1>how to hack it? How did you keep up?

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<v Speaker 2>And I got invited back on Monday the eighteenth, they're

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<v Speaker 2>having a Women's History Month's reception and they were like,

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<v Speaker 2>we'd like for you to ten. I got an official

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<v Speaker 2>invite from the president of the first Lady, I know

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<v Speaker 2>I live there.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, you keep your little name card.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course I got in their pocket. Okay, they let

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<v Speaker 2>it go, and they like so they give you these

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<v Speaker 2>little like there's fun things on one inside the actual bathroom,

0:20:16.400 --> 0:20:19.840
<v Speaker 2>which looks like I could live here. It's so fancy.

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<v Speaker 2>They have these like hand towels that are like a

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<v Speaker 2>mix between like an actual like cloth towel and like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like a paper towel with the presidential seal. Girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I took a stack put it right. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>klepto maniac. Old lady. They're like, girl, take out things,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they give you like these little eminems and candies.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything has like the presidential sealed girl on my bag.

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<v Speaker 2>I must have twenty of each because I'm like this

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<v Speaker 2>was for Amelia, for row room, for me, me for

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<v Speaker 2>for my mom, you know, oh my gosh, so like

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<v Speaker 2>yeah for Lily, so like I just like I just

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<v Speaker 2>it was and they encourage it. They're like, girl, we

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<v Speaker 2>don't need all these boxes of eminems and Hersy's kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>But it literally they're so cool because it has it

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<v Speaker 2>and like the presidential seals on everything. So everything I

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<v Speaker 2>could do. I literally brought like a non cute big

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<v Speaker 2>bag so I could just clap though maniac.

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<v Speaker 1>Like all this. Yeah, pocket I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I brought a cute little clutch and I wasn't able

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<v Speaker 2>to do damage. And they were like, if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>take these things home this I had a I had

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<v Speaker 2>a satchel to hold my flats and to bring home chatchkeys.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that black girl and.

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<v Speaker 2>The white white.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that so exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, ba fan, we're gonna take a quick break and

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<v Speaker 2>we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, for those of you who have now been educated

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<v Speaker 1>about the state of the Union, I would like to

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<v Speaker 1>educate you all with the state of pop culture. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's all my brain could taste past couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did watch the Oscars last night.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway. They were fun. There wasn't any like big slash

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<v Speaker 1>you know moment. I don't think we're ever gonna match

0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:08.639
<v Speaker 1>the Will Smith that iconique and tragique moment. But I

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<v Speaker 1>mean there were some wins. Like in Black Girl Magic

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<v Speaker 1>there was Divine Joy Rudolph.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Did I crack up her last name?

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<v Speaker 2>But she.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched a lot of the I try to watch

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<v Speaker 1>the Oscar movies thanks to streaming, because I have not

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<v Speaker 1>sat in a physical theater I think since like Avatar two,

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<v Speaker 1>which was before I had maybe I just first of all,

0:22:29.359 --> 0:22:31.600
<v Speaker 1>they keep shutting down near me. But anyway, so I

0:22:32.000 --> 0:22:34.960
<v Speaker 1>saw The Holdovers, which had Paul Giamadi and then Divine

0:22:35.080 --> 0:22:38.240
<v Speaker 1>Joy Rudolph, who played She had a really heartbreaking role

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<v Speaker 1>and I totally think she deserves the award. She was

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<v Speaker 1>up against Danielle Brooks from The Color Purple. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>like took over Oprah's role as Sofia and The Color Purple,

0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:50.359
<v Speaker 1>and she also did it on Broadway and she was phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 1>But Divine Joy Rudolph, she just really let me not

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<v Speaker 1>say her name wrong before I like, is it not

0:22:56.640 --> 0:23:02.520
<v Speaker 1>Rudolph Randolph? God, I knew that was stupid frandal. Anyway,

0:23:03.480 --> 0:23:07.080
<v Speaker 1>she played this woman who was the head cook at

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:09.919
<v Speaker 1>this like boys prep school in maybe the seventies, I

0:23:09.960 --> 0:23:13.359
<v Speaker 1>want to say, yeah, late seventies. And her she's also

0:23:13.440 --> 0:23:17.000
<v Speaker 1>like a grieving mother and she's she provides. Of course,

0:23:17.000 --> 0:23:19.320
<v Speaker 1>she brings some laps, but also just like a lot

0:23:19.359 --> 0:23:22.680
<v Speaker 1>of humanity in this, like you know, she's clearly trying

0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:24.879
<v Speaker 1>to like work through this grief that she has. It

0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:28.560
<v Speaker 1>was a beautiful, beautiful performance. I'm really happy for her.

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:31.480
<v Speaker 1>And then I also saw American Fiction, which had my

0:23:31.560 --> 0:23:33.680
<v Speaker 1>girl Aa Ray in it, but it was this really

0:23:33.720 --> 0:23:38.359
<v Speaker 1>funny movie about basically a black author played by what's

0:23:38.359 --> 0:23:42.200
<v Speaker 1>the name, what's his name, Jeffrey Wright, and he played

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:45.239
<v Speaker 1>a black author who was writing like literature, you know,

0:23:45.359 --> 0:23:47.960
<v Speaker 1>like trying not to be like trying not to be

0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:53.199
<v Speaker 1>too like not too literal, but like trying trying to

0:23:53.240 --> 0:23:56.359
<v Speaker 1>pander to like what publishers think black life is like,

0:23:56.600 --> 0:23:58.920
<v Speaker 1>whereas Asa Ray plays an author who's like, oh, yeah,

0:23:58.920 --> 0:24:01.600
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna write about Shanna Nay and they're gonna talk

0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:04.679
<v Speaker 1>an ebonics and it's like, oh, publishing is loving that

0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:07.240
<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, and so they're basically he creates this

0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:10.280
<v Speaker 1>fake name and writes like he literally makes up a

0:24:10.280 --> 0:24:14.600
<v Speaker 1>fake book and just like makes it the corniest like

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:18.920
<v Speaker 1>clear parody or satire of like what the publishing world

0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:21.600
<v Speaker 1>thinks black literature can sound like. But then he ends

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<v Speaker 1>up winning all this award, all these awards. Wow, yeah,

0:24:24.680 --> 0:24:25.680
<v Speaker 1>it's it's a good movie.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can definitely stream that one and I

0:24:29.240 --> 0:24:31.800
<v Speaker 1>saw it so sterling. Kate Brown was in that one.

0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:36.360
<v Speaker 1>Also Erica Alexander from Living Single. I know she's done

0:24:36.359 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 1>so many more.

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<v Speaker 2>Things since then, but she's scene attorney at law.

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<v Speaker 1>What I love it. It's also like he comes from

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<v Speaker 1>like a wealthy family. Oh yeah, Tracy Ellis Ross is

0:24:47.560 --> 0:24:49.919
<v Speaker 1>in there for anyway. He comes from like a wealthy family,

0:24:49.960 --> 0:24:52.400
<v Speaker 1>but it's like you don't usually see like a black

0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:56.280
<v Speaker 1>wealthy family in like a Cape cod esque like beach

0:24:56.400 --> 0:24:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, beach house kind of scenario. And that's sort

0:24:59.200 --> 0:25:01.399
<v Speaker 1>of where a lot of it takes place. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was a great film. But I mean Oppenheimer's like, oh

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I swept a lot of the categories, blah blah blah.

0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:11.159
<v Speaker 1>But Ken did you you have to watch her? But

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:14.240
<v Speaker 1>I didn't watch Ooh bab Bee. I'm not even like

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:16.879
<v Speaker 1>a Ryan Gosling fan, but he has the Riz, like

0:25:16.960 --> 0:25:19.200
<v Speaker 1>some serious Riz and they brought back a lot of

0:25:19.240 --> 0:25:21.439
<v Speaker 1>the actors from the movie to like perform that, and

0:25:21.480 --> 0:25:26.640
<v Speaker 1>it was just like a highlight for me. Let me think.

0:25:26.680 --> 0:25:30.119
<v Speaker 1>And Laverne Clark was doing the E News interviews on

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<v Speaker 1>the Red Carpet and I'm just like, I wish she

0:25:32.560 --> 0:25:34.840
<v Speaker 1>would be nominated for something. But it was really good

0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:36.919
<v Speaker 1>to see her. She's you know, from Oranges to New

0:25:36.960 --> 0:25:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Black and roundbreaking trends actress and I just I loved it.

0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:46.919
<v Speaker 1>And after I watched the Oscars, I took like a

0:25:47.080 --> 0:25:51.720
<v Speaker 1>hour long shower because I got a new sacred I

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:54.720
<v Speaker 1>got the whole sacred line. I treated myself.

0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:58.160
<v Speaker 2>Is it beautiful that the packaging? I heard, it's beautiful.

0:25:58.240 --> 0:26:00.840
<v Speaker 1>It's very beautiful. I tried to think about how much

0:26:00.840 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 1>plastic has been used to create it. But she really

0:26:03.880 --> 0:26:08.240
<v Speaker 1>took care, Beyonce. She really took care of the two

0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:10.119
<v Speaker 1>biggest gripes that I have with and I use a

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of different products, which are that they're really bright

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:15.840
<v Speaker 1>and like they don't really give a great they don't

0:26:15.880 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 1>really give a vibe in the shower, you know, for

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:20.680
<v Speaker 1>these you're trying to like, you know, set make your

0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 1>make your shower very like calming and spa like the

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.760
<v Speaker 1>nice grays. The whites of her line are just very

0:26:26.760 --> 0:26:29.479
<v Speaker 1>spaw like, and the bottle has like this texture to it.

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 1>The boy doesn't slip out of your hands when you're

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 1>trying to get the product out, so.

0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:36.639
<v Speaker 2>Onto your pink, your baby Tael. You're like, oh.

0:26:37.160 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, but my thing is like, there's there's only

0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 1>I think out of the six or seven bottles that

0:26:43.960 --> 0:26:46.159
<v Speaker 1>I got of stuff, like one of them was a

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 1>shampoo and all the rest were some kind of like

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:51.439
<v Speaker 1>conditioning deep situation. I don't think you're meant to use

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:54.080
<v Speaker 1>them all back to back to back to back, but

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:56.119
<v Speaker 1>I like lit a bunch of candles and I was like, oh,

0:26:56.160 --> 0:27:01.640
<v Speaker 1>we're doing so yeah. The ress rints, the rice shaker,

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:05.240
<v Speaker 1>like you make your own like little rice water cocktail.

0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:07.280
<v Speaker 1>They give you a shaker and a powder and you're

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:11.040
<v Speaker 1>just like sh And then there was a scalp scrub

0:27:11.240 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>and some hair oil and hair lotion, and I think

0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:16.120
<v Speaker 1>the results, you know, I.

0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Mean, wait here has always popping. I'm not even gonna liae,

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:19.640
<v Speaker 2>so girl, what were you talking about here? Maybe even going?

0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:26.600
<v Speaker 1>But yeah it was really pretty though, thank you, But

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:28.600
<v Speaker 1>it was nice because it really is like a ritual.

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:30.919
<v Speaker 1>None of those products is for the quick and easy.

0:27:31.480 --> 0:27:35.000
<v Speaker 1>It's all like twenty minutes, thirty minutes, apply heat all

0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:39.280
<v Speaker 1>this stuff. So it was a nice little self offul

0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 1>May Yes, and the last little bit of pop culture news.

0:27:43.560 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if it even counts, I guess as love

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:46.440
<v Speaker 1>is blind.

0:27:46.400 --> 0:27:48.720
<v Speaker 2>Well sidebar one, how much had like the whole set costs.

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:53.760
<v Speaker 1>I think it was two hundred American US dollars or something,

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:57.840
<v Speaker 1>and the narrows, Oh, listen, hey, if you're listening and

0:27:57.960 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>you're on the PR line and you want to send

0:27:59.880 --> 0:28:02.600
<v Speaker 1>me some free haircare, but actually don't because it's too much,

0:28:02.760 --> 0:28:05.760
<v Speaker 1>Like it takes forever to go get through product and

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:08.159
<v Speaker 1>I have too many that I just like still have

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:12.639
<v Speaker 1>it open anyway. Yeah, but two hundred something dollars, but

0:28:12.720 --> 0:28:16.200
<v Speaker 1>it was basically every product in the line. So but

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I think like most of the products are very reasonable.

0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:21.520
<v Speaker 1>They're just kind of what you expect to be like expensive.

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Why it's like twenty to thirty dollars, Ok, maybe even

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 1>like a forty dollars product here and there, but not crazy.

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.639
<v Speaker 1>And I think we could have gone, you know, she

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:32.639
<v Speaker 1>could have gone like insane, but I really appreciate her

0:28:32.760 --> 0:28:36.880
<v Speaker 1>for keeping the price point not so painful. And they're

0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 1>good sized products and you don't need a ton, so

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:43.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, good to know hair is expensive. We all

0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 1>know this, but I gotta talk about Love is Blind too,

0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>because everyone is losing their mind eighty and what did

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:52.200
<v Speaker 1>you hear? Well?

0:28:52.320 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 2>I heard that there was a black guy that left

0:28:53.640 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 2>the black girl at the altar. Yeah.

0:28:55.720 --> 0:28:58.840
<v Speaker 1>See, we got really spoiled by the very first like

0:28:59.040 --> 0:29:02.200
<v Speaker 1>Love is Blind success story Lauren and can't Cameron can

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 1>And then later on the Tiffany and Brett couple from

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:10.479
<v Speaker 1>a couple of seasons ago from Washington State, like they

0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 1>were black love personified, and you got really excited. And

0:29:13.520 --> 0:29:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I honestly think that people go on to this show thinking, oh,

0:29:17.000 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be the Tiffany and the Brett or

0:29:18.960 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>the Lauren and Cameron. And this season I could tell

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:23.920
<v Speaker 1>off the jump that it was not going to be

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:28.280
<v Speaker 1>it because this guy, Clay was so like fidgety and

0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 1>it's just so awkward. I mean, if you could just

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 1>find some highlights on TikTok, you don't have to watch

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:36.480
<v Speaker 1>the whole show. But he clearly was like so uncomfortable

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 1>with himself and with the whole situation. But then you

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:44.360
<v Speaker 1>see this poor girl ad who's like stunning and so

0:29:44.640 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>excited and so wants to fall in love and puts

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>everything into this guy, and he's clearly like one foot

0:29:51.240 --> 0:29:56.120
<v Speaker 1>out the door mentally the entire time. And they not

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:59.760
<v Speaker 1>only let this girl walk down the aisle looking so stunning,

0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 1>you know she really thought she was getting married. I

0:30:02.840 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 1>mean every detail, the dress, the hair, everything, the slit.

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, come on, you need picture and little flower

0:30:10.680 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 1>girls like I don't know if they were like her

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 1>baby cousins or whatever, but those girls are going to

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 1>be They're going to be traumatized because they had to

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:24.240
<v Speaker 1>see Auntie a d in tears after being jilted at

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:26.800
<v Speaker 1>the altar. And I think people are pissed because Clay's

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:30.640
<v Speaker 1>excuse was, like, my dad cheated on my mom and

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:33.960
<v Speaker 1>everything is a lie, and I don't know if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to not cheat and I don't

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:37.640
<v Speaker 1>think I'm ready for marriage.

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 2>Well here's the thing, she donned a bullet.

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Then Okay, I know, but I think they might be together.

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:46.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. The reunions on Wednesday, we have to

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:53.360
<v Speaker 1>see there was this moment that I think the producers

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 1>kept in and which has kind of gone viral, which

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:57.600
<v Speaker 1>is when Clay's mom, who is the mother. You know,

0:30:58.040 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>he watched his father cheat on his mom for years

0:31:01.920 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and his dad even apparently took him with him when

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I heard yeah, these little like you know, rendezvous or

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 1>whatever for his affairs, and you see his mom talking

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 1>to his dad, and his dad is clearly like trying

0:31:15.080 --> 0:31:18.840
<v Speaker 1>to you know, has revisionist history. He's like, well, he needs,

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, Clay needs to meet a woman as great

0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 1>as you. And he's all like, you know, like he's

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:25.880
<v Speaker 1>got the he's got the charisma and the jokes and

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:27.720
<v Speaker 1>kind of the smirk. And she's like, well, no, no, no,

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:30.800
<v Speaker 1>no no, you did not treat me well like you

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 1>had me, but you hurt me. And I love that

0:31:34.560 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 1>she kind of got a chance to like put him

0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:39.480
<v Speaker 1>in her place, his place and remind him of the

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:41.560
<v Speaker 1>pain you know, that he had caused.

0:31:41.720 --> 0:31:45.440
<v Speaker 2>And I say lots of not. I remember when I

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 2>the first time my college boyfriend he had his grandfather,

0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:53.440
<v Speaker 2>was like the first time I went to his island,

0:31:54.240 --> 0:31:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Like he was like, oh, you know me my grandfather.

0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:58.080
<v Speaker 2>So we're out with his grandfather, and his grandfather was

0:31:58.120 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 2>taking us around to kind of took island's not that big.

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.640
<v Speaker 2>So we're pulling up at this lady's house, beautiful older

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 2>lady because grandfather is probably like six in his seventies eight,

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 2>This beautiful like like, oh, this is my friend Sharon.

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:10.440
<v Speaker 2>She was sa like, oh, hey, whatever is next person?

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Next person. Then after a while I hear like I

0:32:12.840 --> 0:32:14.520
<v Speaker 2>would say his name. I hear him kind of angrily

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 2>being like I'm not gon't do this. This man is

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:20.800
<v Speaker 2>taken us at this big grown, seventy seven year old

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:24.520
<v Speaker 2>age taking us around to his ladies, still married to

0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:28.520
<v Speaker 2>his grandmother. I was like, what does it end? I

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:32.360
<v Speaker 2>couldn't believe it, Like, can you imagine taking me for

0:32:32.440 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 2>a tour and then oh, let me let me show

0:32:34.600 --> 0:32:38.880
<v Speaker 2>you my ladies. I think my extra So I couldn't

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:42.840
<v Speaker 2>believe it. I just thought, yeah, yeah, some people just

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 2>that is just who they are. I remember I was

0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 2>telling you talking to a young girl, and she was

0:32:48.640 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 2>just like, I heard that all men cheat. I said,

0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:54.320
<v Speaker 2>that's not true, you know, but I'm unfortunately good men

0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:57.360
<v Speaker 2>don't have good pr and a.

0:32:57.400 --> 0:33:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Lot of men don't have the multitasking skill that is required.

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm so serious to cheat it's very smart and kind

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 1>of and a lot.

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 2>Of it are not that there are like to me.

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:12.600
<v Speaker 2>I told her. She said, well, how would I find

0:33:12.600 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 2>a man that's not a cheater? I said, The thing is,

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:17.360
<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people, a lot of women

0:33:17.520 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 2>who are to date men, think that a man is

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 2>not going to cheat on me because he loves me.

0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 2>That is actually not what you're looking for. Oh yeah,

0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:29.720
<v Speaker 2>because girl, man will love you down you do her

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Facebook post and everything else, but while laying next to

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 2>his other lady. So it's not love that keeps men

0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:41.240
<v Speaker 2>from cheating, it's their own internal code. Like I have

0:33:41.360 --> 0:33:43.680
<v Speaker 2>met men. I remember I was talking to my brother

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 2>in law, Terrelle. He's been with his partner since they

0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:49.200
<v Speaker 2>were fifteen, sixteen years old. He's never cheated. I remember.

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:52.000
<v Speaker 2>Started to be like Terrell's the most faithful man I

0:33:52.160 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 2>ever met, never like you know, like they broke up

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:57.600
<v Speaker 2>for a little bit like in their twenties at her

0:33:57.720 --> 0:34:00.479
<v Speaker 2>request because she wonted to date, I think, and then

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:02.720
<v Speaker 2>got back together. He was waiting to get back together

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:05.840
<v Speaker 2>with her, and I was asking to Herell like a

0:34:05.920 --> 0:34:09.000
<v Speaker 2>year or so ago, like wow, you know, like you

0:34:09.200 --> 0:34:13.320
<v Speaker 2>love her so much, and you know, I know. Jerell said, like,

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, he's never seen anybody more faithful than you

0:34:15.080 --> 0:34:17.320
<v Speaker 2>because it's been like more than half your life. And

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 2>he was like, oh, I'm not faithful because I love

0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 2>her so much. I love her so much. That's why

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:23.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm with her. He said, I'm faithful because I'm not

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 2>a cheater. And it was like wait what he was Actiffany, like,

0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:30.399
<v Speaker 2>whether it was her or somebody else, I'm not a cheater.

0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:33.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm not cheating. I have an internal code for me

0:34:33.640 --> 0:34:36.000
<v Speaker 2>that says I don't do that. And it was kind

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 2>of like the first time that I realized, like, oh, then, yes,

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 2>he obviously he loves this woman so much. You're not

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 2>with somebody for this long, you hope, not out of love.

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:48.239
<v Speaker 2>But that wasn't the thing that it was like, I

0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 2>have already decided I'm not a cheater, so I don't

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:53.320
<v Speaker 2>navigate in that space in that way. And you know,

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:57.520
<v Speaker 2>like Jerrell and Trurel, really handsome guy six five sixty six, high,

0:34:57.560 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 2>cheap bones, dark skinned, I mean really handsome. I mean, sure,

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:03.760
<v Speaker 2>there's plenty of opportunity, but I just love that because

0:35:03.840 --> 0:35:06.600
<v Speaker 2>I have met a number of men that operate with

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:09.719
<v Speaker 2>that same internal code of like I'm not a cheater.

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:13.080
<v Speaker 2>It's almost like I'm not a smoker. So it's like, oh,

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:14.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm so wild. You should be so proud of yourself

0:35:14.800 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 2>that you don't smoke because no, no, I don't smoke,

0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 2>not for some moral reason. I don't smoke because I'm

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:21.800
<v Speaker 2>not a smoker. It comes from inside out. And so

0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 2>I think that's really like that love is blind. Like

0:35:25.160 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 2>you know your father cheats because he's a cheatter. Yeah, period,

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:31.279
<v Speaker 2>And so if you don't want to be a cheating yes,

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:33.440
<v Speaker 2>if you don't want to be a cheater, you just

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:36.680
<v Speaker 2>decide on that and you don't be that everyone doesn't steal.

0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:40.200
<v Speaker 1>You know the fact that he was saying in interviews

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:43.279
<v Speaker 1>after he's or in like his interviews on the show,

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:45.839
<v Speaker 1>you know they do like the straight to cam kind

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:48.359
<v Speaker 1>of like answering a question, and he was saying how

0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:51.480
<v Speaker 1>he just didn't have many he didn't have many black

0:35:51.600 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 1>male role models you know who he saw that were

0:35:56.440 --> 0:36:00.440
<v Speaker 1>that were wait many black Romeo roll mom, else we're

0:36:00.480 --> 0:36:03.080
<v Speaker 1>male and like we're faithful that he saw a lot

0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:06.279
<v Speaker 1>of unfaithful black role models and I'm like, but there's

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:11.240
<v Speaker 1>so many like I mean, Sterling K. Brown comes to mind,

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:16.040
<v Speaker 1>like what's his face from the basketball Lebron Jesus.

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:19.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And who knows, maybe those men do or don't.

0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:23.200
<v Speaker 2>But as a person, man or woman, at some point,

0:36:23.640 --> 0:36:26.399
<v Speaker 2>you are in charge of your life. You're not ten,

0:36:27.440 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 2>you're not six. You can decide I'm not a drinker,

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm not a smoker, I'm not a cheap like. You

0:36:33.480 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 2>actually get to decide. You actually don't need an example

0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:39.719
<v Speaker 2>of like like, well you know I've seen people get killed,

0:36:39.760 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 2>so that made me a kill. No, No, I'm not

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 2>a killer. You know what I mean. You actually do

0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:46.400
<v Speaker 2>get to decide, and if you're having trouble deciding, the

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:49.360
<v Speaker 2>onus is on you to fix it. There is therapy,

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:53.520
<v Speaker 2>There is group therapy. There is like like, I'm just like,

0:36:53.760 --> 0:36:56.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't like. One thing therapy has taught me is

0:36:56.520 --> 0:37:00.560
<v Speaker 2>I do not subscribe that. You know, this is my life,

0:37:00.600 --> 0:37:03.160
<v Speaker 2>so this is how it has to go. Like, certainly

0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:06.000
<v Speaker 2>that plays a role, but you can at some point

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:07.960
<v Speaker 2>we all have to look in the mirror and say,

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:10.759
<v Speaker 2>I do get to decide how this unfolds for me

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:14.760
<v Speaker 2>and if I need help figuring that out. It's available,

0:37:14.800 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 2>and I'm going to lean into it, but just to

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:18.719
<v Speaker 2>just say, like, well, you know, I'm a person that

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 2>hurts other people. That's just how it goes. It doesn't

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:21.839
<v Speaker 2>have to go that way.

0:37:23.280 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And also you don't get that we have to

0:37:27.680 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 1>also hold people accountable for being adults with their own thoughts,

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>their own less and I mean, he needs some good friends.

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 1>He needs some friends to tell him to sit down

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:39.919
<v Speaker 1>and take a good look in the mirror, because even

0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 1>with his dad, he was so fidgety and awkward and uncomfortable,

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 1>like very uncomfortable. But I hope ad is doing well.

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:48.680
<v Speaker 1>I also hope that they stop this stupid show from

0:37:48.760 --> 0:37:52.439
<v Speaker 1>like forcing people to get married four weeks after meeting

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 1>each other for the like, it's just it's just not healthy.

0:37:55.680 --> 0:37:57.680
<v Speaker 1>And at this point it's no longer that fun for

0:37:57.840 --> 0:37:58.560
<v Speaker 1>me to watch it.

0:37:59.040 --> 0:38:01.320
<v Speaker 2>Because people deserve good things, Like I just have so

0:38:01.360 --> 0:38:03.920
<v Speaker 2>many girlfriends and people who are like, oh, this guy

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:07.839
<v Speaker 2>mistreated me. You know, maybe it speaks about myself. I said,

0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:11.320
<v Speaker 2>here's the thing that I've just learned that, like, you know,

0:38:11.840 --> 0:38:15.919
<v Speaker 2>at some point we all run into both good and bad.

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 2>So it's not like, oh, you are attracting like only

0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:25.440
<v Speaker 2>bad things. It's like like learning that hey, when something

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 2>comes in and it's not a fit of not letting

0:38:28.239 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 2>it linger. You know, like when we read that book Attached,

0:38:32.040 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 2>and you know, like I tell all my girlfriends it's

0:38:34.440 --> 0:38:36.160
<v Speaker 2>such a great book. If you guys have not read it,

0:38:36.200 --> 0:38:38.600
<v Speaker 2>It's like this kind of book about like how do

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:42.000
<v Speaker 2>you navigate relationships? It specifically talks about romantic relationships and

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:46.719
<v Speaker 2>like learning very early on as you're dating to be like, hey,

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:50.840
<v Speaker 2>I recognize this, this is not actually a healthy connection.

0:38:51.480 --> 0:38:54.920
<v Speaker 2>Because Wendy Womens used to always say interested men at interested.

0:38:55.960 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 2>You know, we've all had the time when a man

0:38:57.840 --> 0:39:00.399
<v Speaker 2>maybe we were not interested in, was interested and you knew,

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 2>you knew he called you, he texts you, he showed up,

0:39:04.719 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 2>he pulled your hair at lunchtime, and you know he

0:39:07.560 --> 0:39:09.239
<v Speaker 2>like sat next to you, he brought you cookies, and

0:39:09.480 --> 0:39:13.400
<v Speaker 2>the character you knew because interested men are interested. Oh

0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:16.719
<v Speaker 2>well he's so busy, that girl hand that busy. Oh well,

0:39:16.760 --> 0:39:18.040
<v Speaker 2>you know it's just that you know he has a

0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:21.640
<v Speaker 2>kid and that No, I promise you, when someone is

0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:26.080
<v Speaker 2>interested in you, they show up as an interested person.

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:29.920
<v Speaker 2>No level of shyness. Yes, is going to like now,

0:39:30.000 --> 0:39:32.560
<v Speaker 2>he might be shy, and it will look like shy

0:39:32.760 --> 0:39:35.759
<v Speaker 2>but shy interest. And so if you have to make

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:39.279
<v Speaker 2>excuses for yourself and why this person is not making time,

0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:42.600
<v Speaker 2>it's because he's not that into you, and that's okay.

0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 1>It goes for friendships.

0:39:44.160 --> 0:39:47.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, that out there. Yes they're not that into you,

0:39:47.719 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 2>and that's okay. And you are allowed to say I

0:39:50.800 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 2>am worthy of the best you have to offer. And

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.160
<v Speaker 2>if you're not offering that, I don't need to be here.

0:39:56.640 --> 0:39:59.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm not mad at you when not like no, I look,

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:01.719
<v Speaker 2>it took me a long time, man, you know, and

0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 2>you too, right, it took a long time and from

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:08.520
<v Speaker 2>my friendship circles to clean house to being like I

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:11.919
<v Speaker 2>only want people around me who are kind and good

0:40:12.480 --> 0:40:16.480
<v Speaker 2>and interested and make effort. If not, I don't, why

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 2>are you here?

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:40:19.120 --> 0:40:21.720
<v Speaker 2>And so like I just am like no, I just refused.

0:40:21.960 --> 0:40:23.640
<v Speaker 2>My favorite thing I used to heal Darell tell to

0:40:23.680 --> 0:40:25.839
<v Speaker 2>his friends because they if they would want to hang

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:27.879
<v Speaker 2>out or do something like, oh you should do that, man,

0:40:28.000 --> 0:40:30.360
<v Speaker 2>just tell your wife. I would hear him say, Man, Tiffany,

0:40:30.360 --> 0:40:35.320
<v Speaker 2>ain't with that shit. I love that because what that

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:39.800
<v Speaker 2>meant was, he knows she whoever, I ain't with the shits.

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:42.439
<v Speaker 2>So consider that as you make these choices, you don't

0:40:42.440 --> 0:40:44.800
<v Speaker 2>wait next to that man that like it's me, you know,

0:40:45.040 --> 0:40:47.520
<v Speaker 2>because what that told me was that I had created

0:40:47.560 --> 0:40:50.640
<v Speaker 2>a boundary where he knew that, like, yo, if I

0:40:50.719 --> 0:40:53.440
<v Speaker 2>want to maintain happiness in my household, that there's a

0:40:53.520 --> 0:40:55.200
<v Speaker 2>certain level and way I have to show up for

0:40:55.280 --> 0:40:57.360
<v Speaker 2>her because she's not going to allow me to do

0:40:57.440 --> 0:40:58.040
<v Speaker 2>anything else.

0:40:58.320 --> 0:40:58.480
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:40:58.480 --> 0:40:59.960
<v Speaker 2>I only have to tell him one time. I said,

0:41:00.440 --> 0:41:03.000
<v Speaker 2>just so you know, if we're going to be together

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:05.919
<v Speaker 2>in a relationship, I don't go through phones. I don't

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:07.759
<v Speaker 2>look through sock drawers, I don't do any of that.

0:41:08.040 --> 0:41:10.719
<v Speaker 2>I just leave. One day. You will come home and

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:12.920
<v Speaker 2>the house will be empty, and you will watch me

0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:15.800
<v Speaker 2>on TV. I'm just gonna say that one time, and

0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 2>he was like, I'm not even doing I faid, no,

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying I'm not cure. I didn't think that.

0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm just letting you know, just so we're clear, you

0:41:21.760 --> 0:41:25.440
<v Speaker 2>will come home to an empty house. He was like,

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:28.919
<v Speaker 2>duly noted, you know, like I never had any reason

0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 2>to suspect otherwise, But I just wanted to like let

0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 2>it be said that, like I'm not the one, the two, oh,

0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:36.960
<v Speaker 2>the three, you know, and we're allowed to say.

0:41:36.800 --> 0:41:37.239
<v Speaker 1>That, you know.

0:41:37.719 --> 0:41:39.359
<v Speaker 2>And I know so many of my friends who are

0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:41.360
<v Speaker 2>like kind of like in their late thirties and forties,

0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:43.880
<v Speaker 2>and they're wanting to be partnered so badly. You know,

0:41:43.960 --> 0:41:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I can promise you that bad partnership is far worse

0:41:49.239 --> 0:41:51.560
<v Speaker 2>than being by yourself, you know.

0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, one of my good friends was saying, we

0:41:54.600 --> 0:41:56.880
<v Speaker 1>were texting about love is Blind and cheese. We're in

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.000
<v Speaker 1>this group chat and I two of us are married

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:01.520
<v Speaker 1>with kids and the other two single pringles and like

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:04.239
<v Speaker 1>live in their best you know, we got we got

0:42:04.840 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 1>extra money left over. We're living our lives kind of lives.

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, you know what, it's not said

0:42:10.120 --> 0:42:14.240
<v Speaker 1>often enough that being single and being by yourself is okay,

0:42:14.400 --> 0:42:15.960
<v Speaker 1>And like a lot of us who are single out

0:42:15.960 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 1>here are made to feel othered and are made to

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.640
<v Speaker 1>feel like, what's wrong with you? And then we find

0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:24.239
<v Speaker 1>ourselves in these horrible situations with people who are not

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 1>right for us to like sort of like make ourselves

0:42:26.640 --> 0:42:29.239
<v Speaker 1>feel better and make other people around us, like, you know,

0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:32.280
<v Speaker 1>more comfortable with who we are and in the process,

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:36.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're missing out on this happy, whole life

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>that you can have when you are unpartnered or you know,

0:42:39.560 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 1>by yourself. And I, yeah, I whole lot of wholeheartedly agree.

0:42:45.200 --> 0:42:47.120
<v Speaker 1>And then you see these shows like Love is Blind,

0:42:47.200 --> 0:42:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's exactly the kind of person they're

0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 1>preying upon.

0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like Resa Tisa, like let me ignore everything just

0:42:55.520 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 2>for partnership. I mean, I mean she came up because

0:42:57.200 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 2>she had a Netflix. She do all the stuff. Now

0:42:58.760 --> 0:43:01.320
<v Speaker 2>she's signed the c aa A something real fast. I

0:43:01.480 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 2>mean because recent, nothing else is a storyteller.

0:43:05.120 --> 0:43:08.400
<v Speaker 1>So I saw her, I was like, did I miss someone? Like?

0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 1>Who is this recent? She was on every single man

0:43:10.800 --> 0:43:12.759
<v Speaker 1>outlet when I went on the I opened my phone

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:15.160
<v Speaker 1>one day last week and I had to go backtrack.

0:43:15.239 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>But thank god there's people who have done the work

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:19.240
<v Speaker 1>for us, because you know what, I don't have time.

0:43:19.160 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 2>To do be watching worth. I said, give me the recap.

0:43:23.520 --> 0:43:24.960
<v Speaker 2>I started to watch a little bit. I say, girl,

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 2>give me the recap. But I'll say that like yeah, yeah,

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 2>I just I just wandered, like you know, I just

0:43:32.640 --> 0:43:34.680
<v Speaker 2>it's I just as more and more of my friends,

0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:37.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, the thought is if I don't get married,

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:38.879
<v Speaker 2>this is what the world tell you. If you don't

0:43:38.880 --> 0:43:40.600
<v Speaker 2>get married, have kids, who's gonna look after you when

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:43.720
<v Speaker 2>you get old? You're making the assumption that your husband

0:43:43.760 --> 0:43:47.320
<v Speaker 2>will make it. I'm someone who lost my husband. Getting married,

0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:50.800
<v Speaker 2>even a good marriage, does not guarantee that that's what

0:43:50.960 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 2>that's what the ending is going to look like. So

0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:56.160
<v Speaker 2>trying to get married for that reason, No, I had

0:43:56.200 --> 0:43:58.320
<v Speaker 2>a great marriage. My husband was great and amazing, and

0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:01.399
<v Speaker 2>but he's not here. I'm forty four. He died when

0:44:01.400 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 2>I was forty one, you know, And so that doesn't

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:08.400
<v Speaker 2>guarantee this financial stability at the end, it does it.

0:44:09.040 --> 0:44:13.879
<v Speaker 2>There are financial things that you can do to set

0:44:13.880 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 2>yourself up that you can have yourself looked after one

0:44:16.000 --> 0:44:17.600
<v Speaker 2>way or the other. And one thing that women are

0:44:17.680 --> 0:44:21.800
<v Speaker 2>really good at is building community around ourselves, meaning like

0:44:21.960 --> 0:44:25.960
<v Speaker 2>your siblings, your friends, your neighbors, and that like, not

0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:29.000
<v Speaker 2>getting married does not mean that you're not going to

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:32.400
<v Speaker 2>have access to like the glove surrounding you, you know

0:44:32.440 --> 0:44:36.759
<v Speaker 2>what I mean? You know, and as somebody who was

0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:39.400
<v Speaker 2>married and it was good, you know, and who is

0:44:39.840 --> 0:44:43.759
<v Speaker 2>not married anymore because he's not here, you know, like

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:47.280
<v Speaker 2>life is still like I'm learning good despite the loss,

0:44:48.120 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 2>but I am now navigating from a place of like, Okay,

0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:51.719
<v Speaker 2>what does it look like to make sure I have

0:44:51.800 --> 0:44:55.080
<v Speaker 2>things in place to look after myself? You know, like

0:44:55.160 --> 0:44:56.800
<v Speaker 2>I checked all the boxes what they tell you to do,

0:44:57.600 --> 0:44:59.440
<v Speaker 2>and still I found myself here. So I don't want

0:44:59.440 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 2>you checking is just because I wanted to check boxes

0:45:01.680 --> 0:45:03.960
<v Speaker 2>for happiness, like if I ever get married again, which

0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:06.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't necessarily see that in my future. I mean,

0:45:06.480 --> 0:45:09.320
<v Speaker 2>you never know, I guess, but if I do, it

0:45:09.400 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 2>won't be because I feel like I have to check

0:45:11.200 --> 0:45:13.640
<v Speaker 2>a box. It would be because you know that this

0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:16.640
<v Speaker 2>is a connection that I want to like have more deeply.

0:45:16.880 --> 0:45:19.359
<v Speaker 2>But other than that, I'm happy either way not having

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:21.160
<v Speaker 2>it because I'm surrounded by so much love. I have

0:45:21.280 --> 0:45:23.839
<v Speaker 2>such awesome friends. I have cleaned house. All the friends

0:45:23.840 --> 0:45:27.360
<v Speaker 2>who weren't awesome are no longer here bye, And I

0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 2>know they be listening because I'll be here through the

0:45:29.520 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 2>great from her in a while, she.

0:45:33.280 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 1>Cleaned me, She threw me out.

0:45:35.680 --> 0:45:38.600
<v Speaker 2>Who wants to clean house? Asked you to have the

0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:43.000
<v Speaker 2>show called clean house? But yeah that ultimately, if you

0:45:43.080 --> 0:45:45.520
<v Speaker 2>take care of your financial life, you know, even if

0:45:45.560 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 2>you don't, Like, here's the thing, even if you get married,

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:49.200
<v Speaker 2>that doesn't mean that's not guaranteed that in your old

0:45:49.239 --> 0:45:51.520
<v Speaker 2>age that you know this person is going to look

0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 2>after you or be able to take.

0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:55.399
<v Speaker 1>Care of it, that they'll want to. Yeah, you'll want

0:45:55.440 --> 0:45:55.680
<v Speaker 1>them to.

0:45:56.360 --> 0:45:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Even if you have kids, give me kids be like

0:45:58.000 --> 0:46:00.160
<v Speaker 2>they don't talk to their parents. I'm no contact with

0:46:00.320 --> 0:46:01.759
<v Speaker 2>my mom, Like.

0:46:02.480 --> 0:46:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't even if they do sibling rivalries and all

0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 1>this like girl ship that gets twisted.

0:46:08.160 --> 0:46:09.960
<v Speaker 2>They might be you know, they might marry somebody who

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:12.120
<v Speaker 2>is not, you know, trying to have them look after you.

0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:15.840
<v Speaker 2>So like, ultimately you create your plan for yourself and

0:46:15.920 --> 0:46:17.799
<v Speaker 2>you lean in and you love on the people who

0:46:17.840 --> 0:46:19.920
<v Speaker 2>were here while they're here, and that's the best you

0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:24.600
<v Speaker 2>can do. It's time for the bootstamp breaking, boots stamp breaking,

0:46:24.719 --> 0:46:26.319
<v Speaker 2>boost them break. That's something else I used to say,

0:46:26.400 --> 0:46:29.359
<v Speaker 2>Do you want a boost? Do you want to break?

0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:30.719
<v Speaker 1>What?

0:46:30.880 --> 0:46:31.400
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna do?

0:46:32.840 --> 0:46:33.680
<v Speaker 1>What you say?

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:37.680
<v Speaker 2>But there was something before that I forget. I forgot

0:46:37.719 --> 0:46:40.000
<v Speaker 2>every time that you were to hear many anymody used

0:46:40.000 --> 0:46:41.320
<v Speaker 2>to have to pop and be like, girl, this is

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:44.200
<v Speaker 2>the song. I don't know why I breakingnot hold today.

0:46:44.160 --> 0:46:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Used to be like a Mickey Mouse club.

0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:50.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Now and now it's time to boost. That's how

0:46:50.400 --> 0:46:54.680
<v Speaker 2>it started. Yeah, are you gonna boot I'm gonna do

0:46:54.680 --> 0:46:56.800
<v Speaker 2>a little promo for my for my boost. So unless

0:46:56.800 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 2>you got something deep, you got a booty breaking.

0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Not too deep, I'm going to do a boost, Okay.

0:47:02.000 --> 0:47:04.520
<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna do a little promo for my aboost.

0:47:05.640 --> 0:47:10.120
<v Speaker 2>So I told myself, I got a little confessional. I

0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:12.839
<v Speaker 2>don't know how to invest. I mean certainly like, oh,

0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:15.279
<v Speaker 2>in the ETF and a mutual fund, yes, But I

0:47:15.400 --> 0:47:18.080
<v Speaker 2>told myself that I actually wanted to like learn how

0:47:18.120 --> 0:47:21.439
<v Speaker 2>to actively invest. I mean investing can look like real estate,

0:47:21.440 --> 0:47:23.799
<v Speaker 2>which I have some. It can look like business, which

0:47:23.840 --> 0:47:26.120
<v Speaker 2>I have, you know, But I mean like in the market.

0:47:26.480 --> 0:47:29.680
<v Speaker 2>If I'm being honest, I feel really overwhelmed and intimidated

0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:32.160
<v Speaker 2>by it. And so I told myself, this is the

0:47:32.239 --> 0:47:35.560
<v Speaker 2>year that you're going to learn. And I actually asked so.

0:47:35.760 --> 0:47:38.279
<v Speaker 2>I when I went to Dubai. One of the people

0:47:38.320 --> 0:47:40.520
<v Speaker 2>out the Mastermind, we had her on the show, Terry Ijama,

0:47:41.320 --> 0:47:43.200
<v Speaker 2>I had asked her. I said, Terry, what would it

0:47:43.239 --> 0:47:44.879
<v Speaker 2>look like if you coached me? You know? I asked

0:47:44.880 --> 0:47:46.279
<v Speaker 2>her for like, what is it like like a one

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:48.040
<v Speaker 2>on one and she was like, I you know, I

0:47:48.080 --> 0:47:51.759
<v Speaker 2>can help. And I said, okay, what would that look like?

0:47:51.840 --> 0:47:53.320
<v Speaker 2>You know, do you have a course? You like, what

0:47:53.400 --> 0:47:54.960
<v Speaker 2>does it look like? Because I want to tap into

0:47:55.000 --> 0:47:57.440
<v Speaker 2>her personally, you know, like I've read the books whatever,

0:47:57.560 --> 0:48:00.479
<v Speaker 2>but I still am scared to pull the trigger. He said, actually,

0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:03.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm having this challenge, this five day challenge that you

0:48:03.200 --> 0:48:04.919
<v Speaker 2>should join. Matter of fact, she said you should speak

0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:06.200
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, well, I don't know to vest.

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 2>She's like, no, I have speakers talking about regular personal

0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:11.439
<v Speaker 2>finance stuff. Like She's like, maybe you could talk about

0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:13.320
<v Speaker 2>how to budget and save some money so you have

0:48:13.400 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 2>money to put into the market. I said sure. So

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:18.320
<v Speaker 2>she's got this challenge. It's this five day challenge and

0:48:19.120 --> 0:48:21.840
<v Speaker 2>it's going to be in April, and I think I

0:48:21.920 --> 0:48:23.439
<v Speaker 2>want to say Day one is like you learn about

0:48:23.440 --> 0:48:26.720
<v Speaker 2>the stock market, Day two about indexes, Day three about

0:48:27.000 --> 0:48:29.320
<v Speaker 2>how to choose a brokerage firm and open up an account.

0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Day four how to actually buy a stock. And I

0:48:33.520 --> 0:48:35.440
<v Speaker 2>think you could do so live with her. In day

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:37.680
<v Speaker 2>five how to sell a stock. So it's like she

0:48:37.800 --> 0:48:40.239
<v Speaker 2>calls it, you take your first trade challenge, So I

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:43.080
<v Speaker 2>am going to be speaking. I'm excited about that, but

0:48:43.160 --> 0:48:46.080
<v Speaker 2>also I'm not gonna lie. I'm actually excited about taking

0:48:46.200 --> 0:48:49.239
<v Speaker 2>the challenge because Terry has like this is like a

0:48:49.360 --> 0:48:52.960
<v Speaker 2>quick start. Obviously, this is not super you know, it's

0:48:53.000 --> 0:48:54.560
<v Speaker 2>not like, oh, now you can go ahead and start

0:48:54.640 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 2>training stocks. But it's more so for someone like me

0:48:58.000 --> 0:49:00.520
<v Speaker 2>who is nervous about doing anything in the market by

0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:04.160
<v Speaker 2>myself in this way to be like, literally, how do

0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:06.000
<v Speaker 2>you open a brokeras account. I'm not gonna lie, I

0:49:06.040 --> 0:49:08.080
<v Speaker 2>don't know how how do you just?

0:49:09.400 --> 0:49:09.440
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:49:09.680 --> 0:49:13.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean like I know, I know, no, yes, meaning

0:49:13.680 --> 0:49:15.680
<v Speaker 2>like I have one. I mean I have like obous have,

0:49:15.760 --> 0:49:19.120
<v Speaker 2>like Robin Hoood I have, but I kind of like

0:49:19.200 --> 0:49:21.719
<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm playing like a video game, Like I

0:49:21.760 --> 0:49:24.040
<v Speaker 2>don't even know why this should be the right one,

0:49:24.120 --> 0:49:26.280
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? Like I feel like whenever

0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:28.320
<v Speaker 2>I want to learn something new, the first thing I

0:49:28.400 --> 0:49:30.320
<v Speaker 2>do is like I read a book, I listen to podcasts,

0:49:30.320 --> 0:49:32.719
<v Speaker 2>and then I look for a teacher. Honestly, that is

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:35.240
<v Speaker 2>like one of the next things. Like if I like Mandy,

0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:37.320
<v Speaker 2>for example, when we were I had you come to

0:49:37.440 --> 0:49:39.560
<v Speaker 2>the team and talk to the team about like, oh,

0:49:39.680 --> 0:49:41.480
<v Speaker 2>how do we What was it that you came to

0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:45.239
<v Speaker 2>talk to our team about not CEO? Yes, because I'm like,

0:49:45.400 --> 0:49:47.000
<v Speaker 2>we had to listened to the podcast. I had read

0:49:47.040 --> 0:49:49.800
<v Speaker 2>the books, but I'm like, Mandy has done this, so

0:49:49.960 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 2>I like to tap into who. Like I learned that

0:49:52.680 --> 0:49:54.960
<v Speaker 2>from Lynette. She was like, it's not the how the

0:49:55.080 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 2>who can you come teach us? And so now I'm

0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:59.400
<v Speaker 2>at the place where I'm like, of course I know

0:49:59.480 --> 0:50:01.719
<v Speaker 2>how to techechnically like open up an account, but I'm

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:03.640
<v Speaker 2>not really sure why I'm doing it and what I

0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:05.919
<v Speaker 2>should be looking for. So anyway, so I'm excited about

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 2>the challenge and if you want to join us in

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:12.800
<v Speaker 2>the challenge, So this is my link, right, so I'm

0:50:12.840 --> 0:50:13.920
<v Speaker 2>going to text it to you can put it in

0:50:14.000 --> 0:50:18.640
<v Speaker 2>our in our show notes. It's Trade and Travel dot Com,

0:50:18.880 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 2>slash the Budget Nesta. So that is my link to

0:50:21.120 --> 0:50:24.440
<v Speaker 2>sign up for the challenge with us. And yeah, it's five.

0:50:24.320 --> 0:50:26.919
<v Speaker 1>Days and find like a teacher. I mean, Terry has

0:50:27.040 --> 0:50:35.000
<v Speaker 1>like the number one. She's in a teachable course, right, ye, Like, hey,

0:50:35.080 --> 0:50:37.520
<v Speaker 1>you think you could like cand In Best She's like, yeah,

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:39.799
<v Speaker 1>she taught like millions of people out of the best.

0:50:41.040 --> 0:50:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Terry is the best at it. I'm like, I'll be

0:50:42.520 --> 0:50:44.480
<v Speaker 2>a light about it, but yes, Terry has taught thousands

0:50:44.480 --> 0:50:47.960
<v Speaker 2>of thousands of people how to trade. Her big thing

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:50.040
<v Speaker 2>is like how to make a thousand dollars in one day,

0:50:50.160 --> 0:50:51.800
<v Speaker 2>So not every day, but in one day, so you

0:50:51.920 --> 0:50:53.799
<v Speaker 2>learn how to like make a trade that can make

0:50:53.840 --> 0:50:56.600
<v Speaker 2>your thousand. Terry's biggest one of her biggest trades. I

0:50:56.760 --> 0:50:59.600
<v Speaker 2>saw her on I think it was Karen Hunter. That's

0:50:59.640 --> 0:51:02.880
<v Speaker 2>another podcasts at my mom sometimes we're live. I remember

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:04.560
<v Speaker 2>I asked her about it. She had done this trade.

0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:07.600
<v Speaker 2>She always wanted to do a million dollar trade. So

0:51:07.680 --> 0:51:10.840
<v Speaker 2>I was like, so it was disney stock and she

0:51:10.960 --> 0:51:14.600
<v Speaker 2>started with three hundred thousand dollars and she made a

0:51:14.719 --> 0:51:16.920
<v Speaker 2>trade meaning like you know, bought it and then sold

0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:19.839
<v Speaker 2>it live so we could all see. So she went

0:51:19.880 --> 0:51:22.600
<v Speaker 2>from three hundred thousand dollars to a million dollars in

0:51:22.719 --> 0:51:24.560
<v Speaker 2>that trade. Now, she had been setting that trade off

0:51:24.600 --> 0:51:27.399
<v Speaker 2>for months because you know, you basically there's like charts

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:28.799
<v Speaker 2>you could follow up when it's going to go up

0:51:28.840 --> 0:51:30.120
<v Speaker 2>and down. It all the stuff that I don't know,

0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:33.960
<v Speaker 2>but you know, she had been like waiting for this moment, like,

0:51:34.400 --> 0:51:37.320
<v Speaker 2>based upon like all of her charting and whatever she

0:51:37.440 --> 0:51:39.759
<v Speaker 2>had been doing, that this should be the day that

0:51:39.960 --> 0:51:42.680
<v Speaker 2>the stock basically should triple within this timeframe or whatever.

0:51:43.080 --> 0:51:45.160
<v Speaker 2>And it did. So she took three hundred thousand and

0:51:45.200 --> 0:51:47.520
<v Speaker 2>made it into a million, and I was like, and

0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:49.600
<v Speaker 2>obviously that is not typical, because girl, who're doing all that?

0:51:49.640 --> 0:51:51.600
<v Speaker 2>Cause who has three hundred thousand? But what if you

0:51:51.640 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 2>have thirty to make it into one hundred or three

0:51:54.080 --> 0:51:57.800
<v Speaker 2>hundred into a thousand, or three thousand into ten thousand.

0:51:58.040 --> 0:52:00.680
<v Speaker 2>And I just don't want to feel like, like I said, obviously,

0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:02.800
<v Speaker 2>like I know how to do some basic mechanics, but

0:52:02.880 --> 0:52:05.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't feel empowered. Honestly, I don't, you know, Like

0:52:05.920 --> 0:52:07.520
<v Speaker 2>I kind of like set it and forget it, which

0:52:07.600 --> 0:52:09.960
<v Speaker 2>quite honestly is better than nothing if you don't do

0:52:10.000 --> 0:52:11.400
<v Speaker 2>nothing else I set it and forget it. It is

0:52:11.440 --> 0:52:14.080
<v Speaker 2>way better than most. But I wanted this is an

0:52:14.160 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 2>area where I have this limiting belief that it's too hard,

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:20.680
<v Speaker 2>and I want to prove myself wrong. Like that's not true, Tiffany,

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:23.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, so if you want to join along with me,

0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:25.920
<v Speaker 2>she's my coach and you will see me there. But

0:52:25.960 --> 0:52:28.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not teaching trading like I'm like, I'm one of

0:52:28.200 --> 0:52:30.840
<v Speaker 2>like she like has these bonuses for the challenge and

0:52:30.880 --> 0:52:32.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm one of the bonuses. But teaching you how to

0:52:32.960 --> 0:52:35.040
<v Speaker 2>budget and say, so you have money to trade. But

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:37.520
<v Speaker 2>Terry's going to teach for the five days. I'm just

0:52:37.600 --> 0:52:40.160
<v Speaker 2>really excited about it. And I told her I want

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:42.840
<v Speaker 2>to do an even deeper lesson with her later, but

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:44.640
<v Speaker 2>for now, this is a good quick start. If you

0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:46.719
<v Speaker 2>already savvy in the market, this ain't for you. I mean,

0:52:46.760 --> 0:52:49.200
<v Speaker 2>certainly could sign up if you want to, but yeah,

0:52:49.280 --> 0:52:50.719
<v Speaker 2>but if you're savvy the market, this ain't for you.

0:52:50.840 --> 0:52:52.480
<v Speaker 2>This is really for like the girlies like me who

0:52:52.520 --> 0:52:55.160
<v Speaker 2>are like I know, I'm smart. So it's trade intravel

0:52:55.200 --> 0:52:59.319
<v Speaker 2>dot com, slash the Budgetista, and it'll be in our

0:52:59.360 --> 0:53:01.920
<v Speaker 2>show notes and so like yeah, and it'll be in April.

0:53:02.320 --> 0:53:06.480
<v Speaker 2>I want to say that in nineteenth yes, yes, and

0:53:06.600 --> 0:53:09.080
<v Speaker 2>so five days and yeah, it's gonna be a good time,

0:53:09.160 --> 0:53:11.320
<v Speaker 2>not a long time, but let's do it. So we

0:53:11.360 --> 0:53:13.240
<v Speaker 2>could talk about it, so I could talk stock. Stuff's

0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:17.120
<v Speaker 2>not gonna be like so my stock it's currently I

0:53:17.160 --> 0:53:18.640
<v Speaker 2>can't even tell you what my stock is. The one

0:53:19.080 --> 0:53:21.040
<v Speaker 2>like my retirement accounts and stuff like that. But yeah,

0:53:21.120 --> 0:53:23.759
<v Speaker 2>so join us. That's my that's my boost that like,

0:53:23.840 --> 0:53:26.479
<v Speaker 2>your girl is going to be a savvy investor, maybe

0:53:26.520 --> 0:53:27.719
<v Speaker 2>not by the end of the year, but at least

0:53:27.760 --> 0:53:28.480
<v Speaker 2>on the road to be.

0:53:29.160 --> 0:53:31.600
<v Speaker 1>M I love it. And then if you are by

0:53:31.680 --> 0:53:35.160
<v Speaker 1>osmosis or like I feel like it's gonna be contagious,

0:53:35.239 --> 0:53:39.080
<v Speaker 1>then like I'll also become a savvy investor. That's awesome.

0:53:39.160 --> 0:53:42.040
<v Speaker 1>You're never it's never too late to start learning stuff. Yes,

0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait. I'm gonna sign up now, just because

0:53:45.040 --> 0:53:49.160
<v Speaker 1>everything you say to do, I just do it. Like sickness.

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:50.640
<v Speaker 1>You're like an influencer.

0:53:50.960 --> 0:53:51.719
<v Speaker 2>Just want you to know that.

0:53:53.440 --> 0:53:55.640
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, I want to do a boost because if you

0:53:55.719 --> 0:53:59.000
<v Speaker 1>guys listen to it. Maybe it was in January or February.

0:53:59.000 --> 0:54:03.239
<v Speaker 1>I had my cousin on and Anna Banana and she's like, please,

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:05.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm calling me that, but I can't stop. She was

0:54:05.920 --> 0:54:07.400
<v Speaker 1>on the show We did a whole show, Tiffany when

0:54:07.440 --> 0:54:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you were out about her career journey so far and

0:54:10.480 --> 0:54:12.920
<v Speaker 1>like the three years that I adopted her and I like,

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:15.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, forced her to come up here during the

0:54:15.200 --> 0:54:19.799
<v Speaker 1>pandemic and restart her entire life, and at the time,

0:54:19.920 --> 0:54:23.600
<v Speaker 1>she was working like she basically earns like minimum earned

0:54:23.680 --> 0:54:27.640
<v Speaker 1>minimum wage working at in the luxury spa space. And

0:54:27.840 --> 0:54:30.600
<v Speaker 1>we went to which was beautiful, yes, and we talked

0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:32.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot about her LinkedIn game and how she could

0:54:33.600 --> 0:54:36.480
<v Speaker 1>do a lot better and all this. I like fought

0:54:36.560 --> 0:54:38.120
<v Speaker 1>her on how to put a picture up. You know,

0:54:38.360 --> 0:54:40.239
<v Speaker 1>go back and listen to that episode with Anna. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really good if I do say something myself. But I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to give an update because Homegirl got her first

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<v Speaker 1>like big girl salaried job where she's making above the median.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not trying to give her business away,

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<v Speaker 1>but like she's making good money. To me, yeah, twenty six,

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<v Speaker 1>you know year old something. It was like a huge

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<v Speaker 1>rais and she's no longer doing like you know how

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of those minimum wage jobs are like weird hours.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to work on the weekends, you got to

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<v Speaker 1>work at nights, and so she wasn't like she wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>I told her be careful what she wished for. She

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<v Speaker 1>wanted like a regular, regular nine to five, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you're gonna find out the reason. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh, I can do things in the evening now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, yeah, but you're not gonna want to

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<v Speaker 1>because now you got a nine to five sucking the

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<v Speaker 1>life out of here. Just to say, I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of in the corner like a troll under

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<v Speaker 1>the bridge. Come to the nine to five life.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to love it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm super proud of her for taking that leap,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, just continuing to move, make moves in her

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<v Speaker 1>career and incrementally just make it happen for herself, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's built a lot of confidence. And so if

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<v Speaker 1>you're out there also, I think she talked about just

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<v Speaker 1>applying to millions of jobs on LinkedIn too. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're out there and you're waiting for your opportunity, just

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<v Speaker 1>a little extra hope for you. Courtesy of my cousin Anna.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love that. Go ahead, Anna, we love a

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<v Speaker 2>big girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Jab as long as she's still available for babysitting up

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<v Speaker 1>I know, for free.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, that's the show, folks, here's the thing. This

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<v Speaker 2>was a pretty awesome show. It was go ahead on

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<v Speaker 2>it for it to your bestie, your bestie, yr yaboo,

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<v Speaker 2>your mamma, your daddy, your cousin, your friend, and while

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<v Speaker 2>you're at it, you might as well go ahead and

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<v Speaker 2>leave us a review, because why not? Wayne not do

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<v Speaker 2>a quick review? Mandy, when do you read a look review?

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<v Speaker 1>I was right on it, girl. One yeah, oh, here's one. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>February twenty sixth Okay, this is new. This The review says.

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<v Speaker 1>This is from Idelka. She says this is the best

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<v Speaker 1>podcast ever with like seven rs. She said, I started

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<v Speaker 1>listening to be a while looking for something for my

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<v Speaker 1>long commute to work, and this is by far the

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<v Speaker 1>best one out there. I listened to other podcasts as well,

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<v Speaker 1>but none compared to the authenticity, sound, advice, and humor

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<v Speaker 1>of this one. The chemistry is for The chemistry is perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh perfect. I look forward to listening each and every episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Mandy and Tiffany as if they were my BFFs. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>She signed it Karen from the Bronx. Karen from the Bronx.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it too, So if you guys want to

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<v Speaker 1>please leave a review. If you do, oh, okay, let

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<v Speaker 1>me see. Oh this is such a good one too. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I love this podcast. Very few podcasts can juggle being

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<v Speaker 1>both serious and fun. But Brown Ambition does it with ease.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the financial advice. It's always so practical and

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<v Speaker 1>easy to follow. I tell all my friends about this

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<v Speaker 1>great podcast. Yea from anonymous. But we've got some that

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<v Speaker 1>call us the big sisters of finance. Yes, call us

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<v Speaker 1>dream builders. I love you guys, keep it up. I

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<v Speaker 1>love them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So if you leave us, we might read you

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<v Speaker 2>out lit No, because honestly, when you leave reviews, it

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<v Speaker 2>lets other people find this. So when you share us

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<v Speaker 2>and lets other people find this, and so you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we want to be found.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a reason why we've got thousands of reviews, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the norm for podcasts. So we appreciate each

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone and always for holding us down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, y'all, to see you on Friday for

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<v Speaker 2>b a Q A brand a mission question to answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can't wait, it's been a minute, all right,