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Speaker 1: Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. We're back and

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Speaker 1: thanks for joining us. We're so glad you're all here

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Speaker 1: with us.

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Speaker 2: We've been having so much fun doing this podcast, haven't

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Speaker 2: we got? And the best part is that the questions

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Speaker 2: are flooding in. I just love it. We get so

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Speaker 2: excited to listen and then read them all and get

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Speaker 1: It's really super We love that. We're going to get

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Speaker 1: into some of those in just a little bit. But first,

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Speaker 1: unless y'all have been living under a rock or at

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Speaker 1: the bottom of the ocean, you've probably seen it in

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Speaker 1: the news that Gary and Teresa have decided to divorce

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Speaker 1: and go their separate ways. And I thought, Susan, you

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Speaker 1: and I could talk about it a little bit first,

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Speaker 1: so you know, I want to give you some of

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Speaker 1: my thoughts. I feel that these two did something very

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Speaker 1: different than most people do. They met in public, they

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Speaker 1: dated in public, they got engaged in public, they got

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Speaker 1: married in public, and they're now getting divorced in public.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know about you, but when

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Speaker 1: I was dating, I did not date, get married or

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Speaker 1: anything else in front of eleven million people. And I

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Speaker 1: think that is really got to be tough, and so

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Speaker 1: for me, that's the elephant in the room. We all

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Speaker 1: feel like we want to know more, We should know more,

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Speaker 1: They owe us more. But I'm kind of with Ben

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Speaker 1: Higgins on this. Do we really have a right to

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Speaker 1: know more? You know, I don't think so. I think

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Speaker 1: that what they did had to be so hard publicly

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Speaker 1: to do it all publicly, and you know, for that,

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Speaker 1: I admire their courage. What about you, Susan? What do

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Speaker 2: Honestly, Kathy? We watched them fall in love and I

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Speaker 2: cannot deny that that wasn't real. I believe it was

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Speaker 2: real and they got caught up in a moment. Who

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Speaker 2: are we to judge anybody out there? Who are we

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Speaker 2: to judge? As I made a statement a couple of

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Speaker 2: days ago, it's about being kind. Yes, I know the

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Speaker 2: public everybody was disappointed. We all are, but they have

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Speaker 2: their reasons and that's their privacy. If it didn't work out,

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Speaker 2: it didn't work out. What my problem is is people

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Speaker 2: that are not kind about it. The things that they're saying.

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Speaker 2: I said, just imagine if it was your daughter or

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Speaker 2: your mother, would you like to read those things? Right?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: Teresa put a statement out saying thank you to all

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Speaker 2: the people that are being kind to her. Gary is

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Speaker 2: needs some closure, you know, just some quiet at time.

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Speaker 2: But the things that they're saying about Gary, who are

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Speaker 2: we to know this?

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Speaker 1: And you're that's exactly right. And I again, I think

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Speaker 1: it's difficult because we lived this romance with them, but

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Speaker 1: they deserve the respect and the peace to try to heal.

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Speaker 1: And I know when you and I've talked about at

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Speaker 1: the wedding, I mean we were sitting there crying watching them,

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Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know, people can't see, but

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Speaker 1: that's life. You know, this is life, and it's not

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Speaker 1: always pretty, and it's not always it doesn't always end

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Speaker 1: the way we wanted to. We all believe in fairy tales,

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Speaker 2: It definitely is. And I think they went in the

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Speaker 2: So I think everybody give them a break. Let's they

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Speaker 1: Are, because Susan, we still we've talked about this. We

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Speaker 2: I think because we know exactly what it is that

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Speaker 2: And if you meet a match, which I hope we do.

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Speaker 1: I totally agree with you, I think. I mean, we

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Speaker 1: just lived it with Gary and Teresa. You know, we

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Speaker 1: So I think for me, that's one reason that it's

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Speaker 2: Do you think you should have that conversation, although they

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Speaker 2: did have that conversation, but seriously, where do you live?

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Speaker 2: Where do you want to live? That's something that you

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Speaker 1: Right And I do think that it's It's one of

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Speaker 1: we're not going to settle. We have raised our families,

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Speaker 2: Well, just like we talk about on other episodes, didn't

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to put that on my tombstone. I

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Speaker 2: So we do have some great questions, okay, question number one,

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Speaker 2: Victoria says, first of all, ladies, I love y'all show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. It has been so good to hear from you. Guys,

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Speaker 2: each week. My question is not about love specifically. I

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Speaker 2: I am recently engaged in planning a wedding. Wow, that's

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Speaker 2: a lot. I used to be so gun ho about

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Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, Wow, that's a lot.

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Speaker 2: Okay. I feel like she's in a moment right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping that she digests and breathes. Ye, don't waste

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Speaker 2: your career. Well, I have a little I have a

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Speaker 2: lots right, there's lots of options open to Victoria. You're

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Speaker 2: not throwing away your education. Doctors can work part time.

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Speaker 2: You might find a great nanny. I think you're probably

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Speaker 2: and I think you can do it all really well.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping, just selfishly that she's majoring in geriatrix and

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Speaker 2: Parents didn't pay for this education, because they're the ones

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Speaker 2: that are going to say, hell, dare you? Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: but you can do it all today. I really believe that.

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Speaker 1: Do you. I mean, would you have a problem if

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Speaker 2: No, No, but I wouldn't want her to throw it

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Speaker 1: I would either, But I think I think you're right.

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Speaker 1: again after you finish school. And and congratulations on your wedding.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, And I believe you can do it all, honey,

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Speaker 2: you can. We are women, we are powerful, and we

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Speaker 1: Out, all right? And number I want to get to

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Speaker 1: question number two because it's so interesting for me, Alan writes.

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Speaker 1: I believe my college age grandson may be gay. I

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Speaker 2: Of them? Go right ahead?

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Speaker 1: So, as many of you may know, some of you

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Speaker 1: And I think, just like many things in people's lives,

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Speaker 1: I'm your grandmother and I love you, and just see

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Speaker 1: what happens. But I would wait.

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Speaker 2: I think I would definitely be open. I have some

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Speaker 2: And he knows how comfortable we all are no matter

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Speaker 1: And I think the most important thing and I think

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Speaker 1: I got the solution for this.

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Speaker 2: You kidding me.

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Speaker 1: He needs to be a big amiss. He just needs

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Speaker 1: a couple more wants, and preferably young ones.

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe at your age, you got to tell them, honey,

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Speaker 2: I want to go to part times so I could

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Speaker 2: be here for you more. Honestly, what I would suggest,

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Speaker 2: go get hormones, baby doll, Go get hormones.

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Speaker 1: Make a hormone. Susan gotter.

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Speaker 2: I get bioidentical hormones and they really really help.

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Speaker 1: So honestly, you know, you often say this, Maybe they

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Speaker 1: need to spice up their life a little bit, Maybe

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Speaker 1: they need to do things differently, you know, take a

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Speaker 1: little weekend, vacation night, Yeah, date night, things, you know it.

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Speaker 1: Things do get humdrum after a while. And it takes

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Speaker 1: a lot of work to keep a marriage happy, spicy,

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Speaker 1: all of those things.

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Speaker 2: It takes sex though he wants it more than she says.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, the good news is, you really

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Speaker 2: are blessed because hey, at his age, you can do

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Speaker 2: it five times a week. I think that's wonderful.

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Speaker 1: Stop Susan stopping envious, just saying Susan wants his number.

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Speaker 2: Don't give up. Work on it with your husband and

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Speaker 2: tell them, do you know, to you a little bit,

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Speaker 2: have them turn you on a little bit. It's not

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Speaker 2: just a service though.

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Speaker 1: Oh got you for it. Good advice.

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Speaker 2: Good but thank you, Joe. And I'm sorry I didn't

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Speaker 2: get to call you first. I didn't know I was

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Speaker 2: going to have time for this today, but I'm glad

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Speaker 2: I had it. Thanks.

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Speaker 1: We've got to keep the questions coming. We've got to

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Speaker 1: keep the questions coming.

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Speaker 2: I love it, and that does it for today. I

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Speaker 2: know this was a quick episode, but keep those questions coming,

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Speaker 2: and you can go on bachelornation dot com slash Golden

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Speaker 2: of you out there are still struggling a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Kathy and I every week or so put a video out.

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Speaker 2: Kathy remind me we'll do that after this and teach

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Speaker 2: them how to get there. Once again, thank you all

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