1
00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,240
Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

2
00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:12,000
Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,

3
00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:13,080
Speaker 1: we are.

4
00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:16,639
Speaker 2: Scrubbing it in what Well, I'm just kind of on

5
00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,040
Speaker 2: a time crunch and you just were sitting there thinking

6
00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,080
Speaker 2: about what you were going to say?

7
00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,120
Speaker 3: Is that I'm not sitting here thinking where.

8
00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,600
Speaker 1: We are doing the podcast in a different room, and

9
00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,160
Speaker 1: so we don't get to hear the playback of our jingles.

10
00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:28,360
Speaker 1: Don't trying to time it out.

11
00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:33,040
Speaker 3: You don't have to time it out. I have to

12
00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:33,680
Speaker 3: get a character.

13
00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,120
Speaker 1: I hear it and then give my hello. I have

14
00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:37,760
Speaker 1: to greet everybody after I hear my jingle.

15
00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:39,680
Speaker 4: Whow that's beautiful.

16
00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,600
Speaker 3: So sorry, no, no, no, how's it going?

17
00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:42,920
Speaker 4: Oh?

18
00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,840
Speaker 1: Wow?

19
00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:47,000
Speaker 4: It's Thursday?

20
00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:48,879
Speaker 1: It is Thursday. You know what day it is?

21
00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:50,000
Speaker 4: Thursday?

22
00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,440
Speaker 1: I know what day of the December is it? It's

23
00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:57,680
Speaker 1: December fourth? Yeah, that's right. And I want to show

24
00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,160
Speaker 1: you this December marriage challenge I found online.

25
00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:02,200
Speaker 4: What is that?

26
00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:02,480
Speaker 2: Good?

27
00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,000
Speaker 5: Yeah?

28
00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:04,640
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. It's very full.

29
00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,400
Speaker 1: It's very full. It's every day basically thirty days of

30
00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,240
Speaker 1: connecting intentionally with your partner.

31
00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,240
Speaker 4: HM. Where'd you find that on.

32
00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,280
Speaker 1: Instagram and I was scrolling and I like screenshot it.

33
00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,160
Speaker 1: I sent it to Robbie said, we're doing this in December.

34
00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,760
Speaker 1: Who and but it's cute. It's like one of them said.

35
00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,000
Speaker 1: The first one was say one thing you admire about

36
00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,240
Speaker 1: your spouse and why you know, like they're cute little things.

37
00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:24,959
Speaker 1: It's not like anything.

38
00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:25,840
Speaker 3: Little prompts.

39
00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,480
Speaker 1: Little prompts like do a ten minute no phones check

40
00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,000
Speaker 1: in tonight, you know, like so cute. Our our thing

41
00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:36,280
Speaker 1: for Fridays, play game together love. Yeah, we love playing games.

42
00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:36,720
Speaker 4: Yeah.

43
00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, So every day of the month of December, we

44
00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,479
Speaker 1: have a little challenge to strengthen our marriage. Wow, it's

45
00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,600
Speaker 1: beautiful when you're in.

46
00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,360
Speaker 3: Haley would love that. That to me.

47
00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:50,520
Speaker 2: Okay, i'llso be like Merry Christmas. Yeah, we're doing a

48
00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:51,440
Speaker 2: December challenge.

49
00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,800
Speaker 1: There's a couple a doctor up change a couple of

50
00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,480
Speaker 1: them because they're not so much of us. But yeah, yeah,

51
00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:57,040
Speaker 1: I'll make them little.

52
00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,480
Speaker 2: Maybe you're oh, yeah, it didn't need to know that,

53
00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:04,320
Speaker 2: But you could just challenge yourself to do something that's

54
00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,400
Speaker 2: not you, you know what I'm saying.

55
00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:06,880
Speaker 1: M hm.

56
00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,400
Speaker 2: Maybe that's what the challenge actually is. Since you love

57
00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,560
Speaker 2: playing games and that's not a challenge. Maybe the ones

58
00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,120
Speaker 2: that don't feel like you could be part of.

59
00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,000
Speaker 4: The challenge aspect, we'll see.

60
00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:20,440
Speaker 2: That's like me, Haley every day recap. What's something that

61
00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,240
Speaker 2: I did that made you feel loved?

62
00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:23,440
Speaker 1: Yes?

63
00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:29,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so she may have written that challenge actually, Like.

64
00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,560
Speaker 1: Why I not thought about this? Like this is something

65
00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,400
Speaker 1: really good for January. Maybe I'll make one for January. Yeah,

66
00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,720
Speaker 1: with like like this fresh start five start start the

67
00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,640
Speaker 1: new year, and maybe not like partner Vibe, but like

68
00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,680
Speaker 1: self vibe. You know, I've hope people would love that. Yeah,

69
00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:45,400
Speaker 1: maybe I'll do that.

70
00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:51,360
Speaker 2: Yeahs for free and then sell the PDPs for free

71
00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:55,000
Speaker 2: and then sell it to the masses. Yeah yeah, yeah.

72
00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,560
Speaker 2: Robbie is filling in for me next week.

73
00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,200
Speaker 4: Is he feeling excited? Uh?

74
00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he gets like excited and nervous.

75
00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,560
Speaker 2: Oh really, yeah, I don't even I don't picture Robbie

76
00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,359
Speaker 2: getting nervous.

77
00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,120
Speaker 1: It's not nervous because, like it's funny, just because I

78
00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,880
Speaker 1: spend so much time with him, I can tell he's

79
00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,840
Speaker 1: like a little bit different when he's like on the air,

80
00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,480
Speaker 1: like he's himself, but I can tell like he's like

81
00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,919
Speaker 1: a little bit it's not natural, you know what I mean.

82
00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,280
Speaker 2: I think that's most people. Like I think we've been

83
00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,360
Speaker 2: doing this for so long and it's just me and

84
00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,000
Speaker 2: you and we just forget the thing is here. But

85
00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:33,120
Speaker 2: I think for most people it's a little out of

86
00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:37,320
Speaker 2: the ordinary. Like you literally do this every single day

87
00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,800
Speaker 2: on the radio and then every single week on the podcast. Yeah,

88
00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,440
Speaker 2: and then you think of someone like Robbie who's sitting

89
00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,400
Speaker 2: in an office his computer, phone calls all day and

90
00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,280
Speaker 2: then sitting down and talking about his line.

91
00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,600
Speaker 3: Kind of weird. It's so weird.

92
00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited to have him. Okay, great, Yeah,

93
00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:01,119
Speaker 1: if not you who oh he yeah, it's not you heat.

94
00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:06,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, We're We're going to Japan, and I'm so excited.

95
00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,600
Speaker 2: But I'm also very like my vibe when I travel,

96
00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:11,320
Speaker 2: I'm very much the go.

97
00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,960
Speaker 4: With the flow person and not the plan I booked.

98
00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,320
Speaker 2: And like, the reality is that a lot of the

99
00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,160
Speaker 2: things in Japan you do need to book, and so

100
00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,000
Speaker 2: it's not as good with the flow as I would

101
00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,200
Speaker 2: like as I can be. And so we've had to

102
00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,719
Speaker 2: have some conversations about her being like I need some

103
00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:35,200
Speaker 2: help because I know that I'm the leader and like

104
00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,760
Speaker 2: plan things. But I just need some help because we're

105
00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,560
Speaker 2: gonna be gone. We're going to a lot of places,

106
00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:43,520
Speaker 2: so I just you know, make some reservations and stuff.

107
00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,800
Speaker 3: So can you help me basically?

108
00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:51,360
Speaker 2: And I'm just chat GPT like a maniac.

109
00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,640
Speaker 3: I'm sending PDFs.

110
00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,240
Speaker 2: Asking it to create PDFs for me so it looks official.

111
00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,000
Speaker 4: I'm like making a tinerary. It is quite amazing.

112
00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,680
Speaker 1: Chatgyb T yeah yeah, and like add some doodles on

113
00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:06,320
Speaker 1: the PDIA.

114
00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really asked me.

115
00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,360
Speaker 2: You know what's sad is like I remember when I

116
00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:17,039
Speaker 2: had micro like a big old computer, and you know,

117
00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,279
Speaker 2: if someone was on the Wi Fi on the phone

118
00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,200
Speaker 2: and I couldn't get on the Internet and I had

119
00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,599
Speaker 2: to just keep myself entertained on the computer, I'd be creating,

120
00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,880
Speaker 2: like drawing on my Do you remember the thing where

121
00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,800
Speaker 2: you would draw on I think it was called.

122
00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,359
Speaker 1: Paint Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, paint paint.

123
00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,400
Speaker 2: And then you could if there was like one line,

124
00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,159
Speaker 2: one little space missing, you tried to fill it in

125
00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:37,240
Speaker 2: and fill in the whole thing.

126
00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

127
00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,480
Speaker 4: Anyways, I don't have that anymore.

128
00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:44,560
Speaker 2: That creativity chatte is yapped up.

129
00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,360
Speaker 1: Did you chat chubt for my wedding speech.

130
00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,360
Speaker 3: No zero zero.

131
00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,960
Speaker 2: I didn't start using chat jupt till, like I would say,

132
00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,080
Speaker 2: around September of this year.

133
00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,280
Speaker 3: Well, I was like anti and everyone was like, don't

134
00:05:58,279 --> 00:05:59,960
Speaker 3: do it. It's bad for the environment. And I was like,

135
00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,440
Speaker 3: you'll hold me back.

136
00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, sabotage the whole world, new world out.

137
00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:06,080
Speaker 3: There's a whole new world of brilliance.

138
00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,000
Speaker 2: You know. You have to go in and you just

139
00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,799
Speaker 2: need to go in and erase the long dashes and yeah,

140
00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:13,560
Speaker 2: tweak some things to make.

141
00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,200
Speaker 4: It look official and original.

142
00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,000
Speaker 1: So how many days are you guys gone?

143
00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,039
Speaker 3: How dare you ask? If I use that for your speech?

144
00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,920
Speaker 3: My speech was it was very heartfelt.

145
00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,960
Speaker 1: So that's why I was like wondering if you used it?

146
00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,320
Speaker 1: It did a really good job.

147
00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,640
Speaker 4: No, I didn't. I didn't, did Paulina?

148
00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:34,240
Speaker 1: I don't know about an asker. I'm gonna ask her

149
00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:35,800
Speaker 1: what was your question? How many days are you guys

150
00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:36,360
Speaker 1: gonna be gone?

151
00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,080
Speaker 2: So I leave, I have a work trip before and

152
00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,200
Speaker 2: then I'm meeting her.

153
00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:41,880
Speaker 4: And Marla there.

154
00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:47,520
Speaker 2: Oh what yeah, it's crazy. So I leave tomorrow. I

155
00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,719
Speaker 2: mean sorry, I leave, I'm already gone.

156
00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:58,000
Speaker 3: I do be gone. I have left.

157
00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,760
Speaker 2: I have been gone since Tuesday, okay, and then it

158
00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,440
Speaker 2: comes back when Monday the fifteenth.

159
00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,000
Speaker 5: Wow, like two weeks? Yes, crazy?

160
00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,160
Speaker 3: What I know?

161
00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:09,640
Speaker 1: Nice?

162
00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,520
Speaker 5: What You're gonna be gone for a fortnight? Two weeks?

163
00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:13,720
Speaker 4: That's what a fortnight?

164
00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:15,400
Speaker 1: Fourteen days?

165
00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,679
Speaker 3: That's what Tailor's talking about about?

166
00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:20,640
Speaker 4: Fourteen days?

167
00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:22,920
Speaker 1: What have you just founding that? Yeah?

168
00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,480
Speaker 4: I don't know. Fortnite was a video game I did too, actually.

169
00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,520
Speaker 5: For a long time, spelled differently it is.

170
00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:33,360
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my gosh, learning so much today.

171
00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:35,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

172
00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:36,960
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna be gone for a while.

173
00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,560
Speaker 1: And out of the two weeks, beat you all the

174
00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:43,000
Speaker 1: two weeks that you're gone. Do you have plans every

175
00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,080
Speaker 1: single day on my vacation?

176
00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:46,400
Speaker 2: Uh?

177
00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:47,280
Speaker 3: Huh yeah?

178
00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:47,760
Speaker 1: Nice.

179
00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll be doing things.

180
00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,920
Speaker 2: But you know, Hayley's very much like, we can go here,

181
00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,400
Speaker 2: we can go here. And I'm like, are we including

182
00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,800
Speaker 2: jet lag on this itinerary?

183
00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I remember.

184
00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,840
Speaker 2: Last time we went, which was like twenty nineteen, right

185
00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:08,880
Speaker 2: before the pandemic. We went to Japan and I was

186
00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,760
Speaker 2: fine for I would say four days, and then I

187
00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,600
Speaker 2: felt like the fifth day or something like way later

188
00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,000
Speaker 2: than I anticipated, the jet hit and we were at

189
00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:23,800
Speaker 2: a like very traditional Japanese hotel where you put you

190
00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,000
Speaker 2: can wear your like kimonos that they give you to

191
00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,760
Speaker 2: go to dinner at the in the dining area. And

192
00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,280
Speaker 2: I was so angry about having to get up and

193
00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,840
Speaker 2: go eat dinner because I just wanted to sleep. But

194
00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,480
Speaker 2: it was it was so traditional that if you didn't eat,

195
00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,720
Speaker 2: there wasn't like room service or anything. So if you

196
00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,920
Speaker 2: didn't eat the dinner that was served, you didn't eat right.

197
00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,720
Speaker 4: And Haley was like, you have to, like you're.

198
00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,040
Speaker 2: And so she got all dressed up in her kimono

199
00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:53,119
Speaker 2: and I just went down in my like sweatshirt, all grumpy. Oh,

200
00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,880
Speaker 2: and it was like the sixth day, I think. So

201
00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,400
Speaker 2: I'm anticipating that, you know.

202
00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,800
Speaker 1: I do think it's interesting because I feel like the

203
00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:04,679
Speaker 1: way you vacation is says a lot. And I really

204
00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:06,679
Speaker 1: feel like I met my match with like how I

205
00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,880
Speaker 1: like to vacation because Robin and I really like to

206
00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,760
Speaker 1: do it the same. Yeah, and that's very refreshing.

207
00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:14,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, Haley and I.

208
00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,600
Speaker 2: The thing is once we get to where we're going,

209
00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,080
Speaker 2: because she she's very much like I want to see things,

210
00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,360
Speaker 2: I want to do things, And I'm really grateful for

211
00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,920
Speaker 2: that because if if she wasn't like that, I would lay, yeah,

212
00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,559
Speaker 2: and I'd miss the vacation because I'd be laying.

213
00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:29,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

214
00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:30,280
Speaker 5: It was like.

215
00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:33,760
Speaker 2: I love laying, but why lay in Japan when I

216
00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,920
Speaker 2: could lay at home? You know, right, So I'm grateful

217
00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,800
Speaker 2: for our differences in that. But also I think I

218
00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,080
Speaker 2: because I love to lay, it makes her feel like

219
00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:46,440
Speaker 2: she can relax too, So if we need a day

220
00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,000
Speaker 2: of lay, we could just do it.

221
00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,360
Speaker 3: Like I told her, I go, Here's the thing.

222
00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,400
Speaker 2: I think we should have ideas of things we want

223
00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,640
Speaker 2: to do and plans, but if we wake up and

224
00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,920
Speaker 2: we're exhausted or jet lagged, that we don't feel like

225
00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,240
Speaker 2: we have to go do.

226
00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:05,560
Speaker 4: Them right, we can lay, rest and relax.

227
00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:07,280
Speaker 3: And lay down.

228
00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,199
Speaker 1: It's just so funny because like I honestly, I don't

229
00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,480
Speaker 1: think I've laid as much as I laid this weekend

230
00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,280
Speaker 1: this whole year. Like the fact that you lay that

231
00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:18,880
Speaker 1: much is like so.

232
00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,200
Speaker 3: Like it's very bad for my back.

233
00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,640
Speaker 1: Yes, it is very bad for your back, but like

234
00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,760
Speaker 1: that's why people usually go on vacation so that they

235
00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,800
Speaker 1: can lay, because they can't lay when they're at home.

236
00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,480
Speaker 2: Right, I have a I'm very privileged with my life schedule,

237
00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:34,360
Speaker 2: I can lay a lot.

238
00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:35,960
Speaker 4: And I love to go.

239
00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:39,240
Speaker 2: Like that's why I love Easton and Allison and how

240
00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,640
Speaker 2: y'all travel. I just love how y'all live because I

241
00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,600
Speaker 2: feel so inspired by the just go go go of

242
00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,839
Speaker 2: it all, and like, I don't care if we're tired,

243
00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,800
Speaker 2: We're gonna go see these things because we're here for

244
00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,880
Speaker 2: twenty four hours and we're gonna see everything we can

245
00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:55,400
Speaker 2: fit in because I don't have that.

246
00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,040
Speaker 5: When we when we were on our honeymoon, we were

247
00:10:58,040 --> 00:10:58,840
Speaker 5: there at for a fortnite.

248
00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,120
Speaker 6: We were in Hawaii, and we we did two weeks

249
00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,680
Speaker 6: and why and we would there was like multiple days

250
00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:07,320
Speaker 6: where we would walk to the breakfast area, eat breakfast,

251
00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,320
Speaker 6: and then walk to a beach chair and sit there

252
00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,880
Speaker 6: and then sit there for like ten hours.

253
00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,199
Speaker 3: That's so it was the best.

254
00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,480
Speaker 6: And it's very unlike us to just sit in one

255
00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,840
Speaker 6: spot on vacation, but we did that a lot on

256
00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:19,440
Speaker 6: our honeymoon.

257
00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:20,520
Speaker 1: Was I love that.

258
00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:21,120
Speaker 5: It's the best.

259
00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,520
Speaker 4: Did you all lay over the holiday break?

260
00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,079
Speaker 5: We sure did, Oh you did.

261
00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,280
Speaker 6: We went and we were at my mom's house for

262
00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,480
Speaker 6: a whole week, but we did a lot of laying

263
00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:33,480
Speaker 6: there she was very excited to show me the CMA Awards.

264
00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,920
Speaker 6: My mom she wanted she wanted my take on Luke

265
00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:37,839
Speaker 6: Combe's performance.

266
00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,439
Speaker 4: So, wow, what did you think?

267
00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:41,600
Speaker 6: I thought it was great, played with Big X the plug,

268
00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,720
Speaker 6: it was awesome, and yeah, we played around. Watched the

269
00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:48,240
Speaker 6: Thanksgiving Day parade on YouTube later in the day.

270
00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:50,719
Speaker 5: And it was it was the best. We had a

271
00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:51,079
Speaker 5: great time.

272
00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,559
Speaker 2: Well, I think people obviously people know that you're busy,

273
00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,880
Speaker 2: but I don't think people realize how like insane your

274
00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,240
Speaker 2: schedule is. So I'm, for one, I'm grateful that you

275
00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,440
Speaker 2: get time to do nothing and watch a Thanksgiving pretty late.

276
00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:05,800
Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you.

277
00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:06,120
Speaker 7: Yeah.

278
00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:10,600
Speaker 5: I came off. I had really like hectic months. Oh

279
00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,560
Speaker 5: my god. I took a day a couple weeks ago,

280
00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:13,839
Speaker 5: a Sunday and just laid.

281
00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:14,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

282
00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:15,360
Speaker 5: I bought I bought a set.

283
00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:19,000
Speaker 6: I bought a Boy's Life set and I bore the

284
00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:20,680
Speaker 6: set in my house and it felt great, And I

285
00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,040
Speaker 6: was like, now I get it.

286
00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:22,679
Speaker 5: I get the lay.

287
00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,560
Speaker 1: I really get it, like I really genuinely do. And

288
00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:29,160
Speaker 1: like December is gonna be so hectic. I'd be like, really, what,

289
00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,400
Speaker 1: oh it is the first two months because you're like

290
00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,440
Speaker 1: doing all the Christmas stuff and like everybody has their

291
00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:38,559
Speaker 1: holiday parties and like your schedule gets like booked. Yeah,

292
00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,720
Speaker 1: but there's gonna be a week period where I have

293
00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:45,120
Speaker 1: a couple of days to lay. Yeah, and you better believe.

294
00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah lay I will.

295
00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,800
Speaker 1: I'd recommend I want to put clothes on. That's how

296
00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,080
Speaker 1: much I just want to lay.

297
00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:54,080
Speaker 2: Wow, sheesh, I haven't even reached that level of Yeah.

298
00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,160
Speaker 2: But I do recommend getting up and doing some stretches

299
00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,760
Speaker 2: a point careen there, Yeah, to engage your core because

300
00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:02,520
Speaker 2: when you're.

301
00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,559
Speaker 1: I know, I should do my back strengthening exercises.

302
00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:11,720
Speaker 2: Yes, put your orthotics one and dear back strengthen the exercise.

303
00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:14,920
Speaker 3: So don't worry, guys, we're not eight yet.

304
00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,719
Speaker 1: Somebody asked me to link my herthotics the other day

305
00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:19,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's where I am in life.

306
00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:28,320
Speaker 3: Shot my shot my orthon Like, honestly, I wish I

307
00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:28,760
Speaker 3: had a link.

308
00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:29,480
Speaker 1: I don't even know.

309
00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,760
Speaker 2: Wait, this is this is not funny. But we do

310
00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:33,920
Speaker 2: have a scrubber who wrote in how do I tell

311
00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:35,600
Speaker 2: my boyfriend to stop being lazy?

312
00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:42,120
Speaker 7: You come back and repeat, Okay, we'll be right back,

313
00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:01,200
Speaker 7: all right, So at a lease at least I love

314
00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:01,720
Speaker 7: this name.

315
00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:05,240
Speaker 2: It's spelled ad E l i Z, which is so pretty.

316
00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,960
Speaker 2: Hi Beck at Tanya Mark in easton day one scrubber

317
00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,120
Speaker 2: and still love the pod just as much. This is

318
00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,800
Speaker 2: my first time writing in I finally had something bothering

319
00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,760
Speaker 2: me enough. I stay with my boyfriend most of the week.

320
00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:20,160
Speaker 2: He's a pilot, and I bartend at events when he's away.

321
00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,720
Speaker 2: I actually like using the time to clean, partly for

322
00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,720
Speaker 2: my own sanity and partly to do something nice for him.

323
00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,720
Speaker 2: But as he's gotten more comfortable, he's gotten so messy

324
00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,640
Speaker 2: and it's driving me insane. He leaves dirty clothes on

325
00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,080
Speaker 2: the floor or toss over his gaming chair. He leaves

326
00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,280
Speaker 2: dishes in the sink overnight after I just did all

327
00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:39,040
Speaker 2: the dishes and ran the dishwasher. And sometimes he even

328
00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,280
Speaker 2: forgets to flush the toilet.

329
00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:42,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so gross.

330
00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:45,280
Speaker 2: If I do his laundry and fold everything, he'll let

331
00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,280
Speaker 2: it sit for days before putting it away. I have

332
00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,720
Speaker 2: no idea how to bring this up without sounding like

333
00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,680
Speaker 2: I'm nagging or being a total B word.

334
00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:55,760
Speaker 3: Peep.

335
00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,880
Speaker 2: How do I tell him he needs to stop being

336
00:14:57,960 --> 00:14:59,880
Speaker 2: lazy and clean up after himself. Help?

337
00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:02,920
Speaker 4: This will drive me insane.

338
00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,160
Speaker 1: This will drive me like insane.

339
00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,480
Speaker 2: I'm messy and I have my piles, but like in

340
00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,680
Speaker 2: terms of just daily chores and laundry and stuff like

341
00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:14,800
Speaker 2: that is just the signs of a adult.

342
00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I also feel like you should just tell

343
00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,240
Speaker 1: him who cares if you sound like you're nagging. I

344
00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:20,240
Speaker 1: do this all the time.

345
00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,320
Speaker 2: Well, I think there's a way of just making it

346
00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:30,080
Speaker 2: about feeling like disrespect towards you, because he is disrespecting you, like, yeah,

347
00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:33,840
Speaker 2: you're cleaning, and then he's not even having enough respect

348
00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:39,040
Speaker 2: for you to clean up after himself or even help you.

349
00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,440
Speaker 2: So it doesn't even have to be naggy, it's just like, hey,

350
00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:46,000
Speaker 2: I sometimes I think the problem is that you almost

351
00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,920
Speaker 2: probably feel like you're being like a mother to him

352
00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,400
Speaker 2: cleaning up after him, and you're gonna end up presenting

353
00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:52,680
Speaker 2: him and be like so icked out, yeah if you're

354
00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,840
Speaker 2: not already, And so I think you just need to

355
00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,680
Speaker 2: make it more about you feeling disrespected and that you

356
00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,880
Speaker 2: put in the effort and you do these nice things

357
00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,360
Speaker 2: him and then he turns around and just like either

358
00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,720
Speaker 2: disregards it or lets it sit and doesn't doesn't contribute.

359
00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,680
Speaker 1: It sounds like, yeah, it's just also doesn't seem like

360
00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:14,720
Speaker 1: he has respect for you, because, like I would say,

361
00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm way like Robbie's not messy at all. But like I,

362
00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:19,520
Speaker 1: if there's like a dish in the sink, I will

363
00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:20,800
Speaker 1: wash it and put it in the you know, like

364
00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,360
Speaker 1: the clean side of the sink, whereas like he would

365
00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,920
Speaker 1: let him pile up before he does them. But because

366
00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,680
Speaker 1: I am the way that I am, he doesn't let

367
00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,160
Speaker 1: the sink get full because he knows it's important. It's

368
00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,040
Speaker 1: important to me, you know. So it's just kind of

369
00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,240
Speaker 1: like I feel like it's not even about him being lazy.

370
00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like it doesn't even respect you.

371
00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,920
Speaker 2: I think you should come out of maybe as like, hey,

372
00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,480
Speaker 2: we're we're a partnership or a team. And I feel

373
00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,520
Speaker 2: like I'm carrying a lot of the work of like

374
00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,600
Speaker 2: the housework, and I love doing it because I have

375
00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,400
Speaker 2: the time, and I like doing it for you and

376
00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:50,400
Speaker 2: keeping our space clean.

377
00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:51,920
Speaker 4: But if you could just you.

378
00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:53,880
Speaker 3: Know, doilet.

379
00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,720
Speaker 1: I mean that two seconds.

380
00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,800
Speaker 2: I am so grossed out for her, but like flush

381
00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,400
Speaker 2: the toilet or make sure that if I do the

382
00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,240
Speaker 2: dishes and you eat something that you clean off the

383
00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:06,800
Speaker 2: dishes or put it in the dishwasher.

384
00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:08,480
Speaker 4: You're not asking a lot.

385
00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,000
Speaker 3: You're literally asking your clothes and fold them.

386
00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,200
Speaker 1: Please just put them in their basket or yeah, closet.

387
00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,200
Speaker 2: I would just approach it not as like you need

388
00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,320
Speaker 2: to do this, but more is like, hey, it would

389
00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,520
Speaker 2: it would make me feel really loved and it would

390
00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,040
Speaker 2: make me feel really respected if you contributed to the

391
00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,560
Speaker 2: things that I do around the house.

392
00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:26,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm sorry.

393
00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:33,120
Speaker 2: That's really rough, tough, yeaf and tough, and he needs

394
00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:33,879
Speaker 2: to get it together.

395
00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:34,560
Speaker 1: He does.

396
00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:39,439
Speaker 2: Flushing the toilet is a privilege. Not everyone has a

397
00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:40,240
Speaker 2: flushing toilet.

398
00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:41,640
Speaker 5: It's true, It's true.

399
00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,639
Speaker 4: Okay, this one's fun. You want to read this one?

400
00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:49,080
Speaker 1: Aaron shout out to the Facebook group. Hey gang, First,

401
00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:50,959
Speaker 1: I just want to say that my four year old

402
00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,280
Speaker 1: still continues to ask why don't beck On Tanya sings

403
00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,760
Speaker 1: to grub a dub dub anymore? Oh, Tanya, your jingle

404
00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:59,760
Speaker 1: is missed in my household? Thank you erin. Secondly, and

405
00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,280
Speaker 1: the why I'm writing is I read a Facebook post

406
00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:04,920
Speaker 1: in our Facebook group that I think deserves a shout out.

407
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,439
Speaker 1: A woman named Daniella checked out of a hotel and

408
00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,040
Speaker 1: left her crimper there. The hotel wanted to charge her

409
00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,359
Speaker 1: fifty bucks to ship it back, so she reached out

410
00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,439
Speaker 1: into the Facebook group to offer the crumper to anyone

411
00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,080
Speaker 1: local if they wanted to go pick it up. Honestly,

412
00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,639
Speaker 1: a pretty nice gesture. I would have just said forget

413
00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,800
Speaker 1: it and not even thought to offer it to someone else,

414
00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,720
Speaker 1: but let the hotel dispose of it or whatever they

415
00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:28,440
Speaker 1: do with forgotten things items. Sorry. But then right away

416
00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,600
Speaker 1: someone else in the Facebook group named Jen said that

417
00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,400
Speaker 1: she was local and would pick it up for her

418
00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,760
Speaker 1: and then pay for the shipping herself to get Danielle

419
00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,119
Speaker 1: or her crumper back. I know this exchange is so

420
00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,399
Speaker 1: minor in the grand scheme of life, but these small

421
00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:41,720
Speaker 1: acts of kindness make our world such a better place.

422
00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,080
Speaker 1: And I feel like these ladies deserve a shout out

423
00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,360
Speaker 1: from you guys. They have inspired me to go out

424
00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,280
Speaker 1: of my way to do something similar. I hope this

425
00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:50,720
Speaker 1: inspires our listeners to do the same. Love you all

426
00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,919
Speaker 1: and happy holidays. That is so sweet, and you know

427
00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:57,239
Speaker 1: what I do feel like sometimes we get in our

428
00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,680
Speaker 1: own way because, especially during the holidays, you want to

429
00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,560
Speaker 1: do nice things, and you get so overwhelmed because you're

430
00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,920
Speaker 1: like everybody needs so much. People need money, people need groceries,

431
00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:08,800
Speaker 1: people need so much that you kind of get overwhelmed

432
00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:09,399
Speaker 1: and you don't even.

433
00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:09,879
Speaker 3: Know where to start.

434
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,879
Speaker 1: And it's just like all these little tiny things, like

435
00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,880
Speaker 1: every little thing makes such a huge impact.

436
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:16,440
Speaker 3: Yeah.

437
00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:19,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes when I'm feeling like when I'm doomed scroll too

438
00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,399
Speaker 2: far and things feel dark, sometimes I just go on

439
00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,960
Speaker 2: the Facebook group because it's always it's either like lighthearted

440
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,240
Speaker 2: and funny, or like outrageous sex questions or just like

441
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,840
Speaker 2: really like these moments of nice gestures and.

442
00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,680
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, it's such a little.

443
00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:36,480
Speaker 2: Like small pocket of like nice joy and kindness. Yeah,

444
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,880
Speaker 2: so thank you for sharing that, Jen.

445
00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,440
Speaker 1: For securing the crimper and sending it back.

446
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:43,280
Speaker 3: We love you.

447
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, we love you guys. Thanks for being the best,

448
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,919
Speaker 4: so warm, so kind, the best.

449
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 3: That's all for now. I I have to head off.

450
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:56,480
Speaker 1: Becka has to go. But if you guys have any

451
00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 1: questions for Robbie, He's coming in next week, you can

452
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 1: DM them on Instagram or you can email us at

453
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 1: scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot com.

454
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:06,960
Speaker 4: Wonderful. We love y'all so much.

455
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 1: I'll miss enjoy your trip.

456
00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 2: Thank you.

457
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,840
Speaker 1: I'll be watching you on find my can't wait. Yeah,

458
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:13,760
Speaker 1: that's going be fun.

459
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you'll be like, where is she today?

460
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

461
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,359
Speaker 3: Is she moving? Or is she let No, I'll be

462
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 3: on the.

463
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 1: Move yeah yeah yeah.

464
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 2: Haley's like, we can sleep on the trains. I don't

465
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,240
Speaker 2: sleep on trains more planes or automobiles. I only sleep

466
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:26,760
Speaker 2: laying down.

467
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,080
Speaker 5: What parts of your pan are you going to We're.

468
00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,080
Speaker 2: Going to Kyoto, We're going to we're going to do

469
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 2: a day trip in Hiroshima. We're going to do a uh,

470
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 2: we're going to Mount Fuji, and then we're going to

471
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,360
Speaker 2: Tokyo and we're going to do a I think that's it.

472
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:42,880
Speaker 1: Wow.

473
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:49,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So we're really excited. I can't wait and

474
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,879
Speaker 2: can't wait to come home and report back on my travels.

475
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 1: Can't wait to have you back.

476
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 4: We love you so much.

477
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:56,640
Speaker 1: I love you.

478
00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 4: Bye.