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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to this kursing.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 1: You want to say together the decisions decisions Hot by

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Speaker 1: doing you welcome everybody to another episode of This is

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Speaker 1: the All. This is the All. It's your girl. Mandy

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Speaker 1: Lapel aka Mandy Baskets aka Mandy Vaughn aka Mandy Dirt.

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Speaker 1: I was ready, girl, Mandy Dirt is not Mandy Dirty one,

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Speaker 1: and I got dirt on you. Hose bitch, what pull

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Speaker 1: the card? Not you the whole I thought we talking

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Speaker 1: about two bitches and the YouTube comments you the hoes,

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Speaker 1: even you.

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Speaker 2: Hi, everybody, my name is Weezy. Welcome back. This episode

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Speaker 2: is special for two reasons. We're recording this Sunday, bitch.

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Speaker 1: We recorded this yesterday, so while y'all listen to it today,

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Speaker 1: we was in here yesterday. Baby, we ain't never done.

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Speaker 1: We have done it before. It feels like the breakfast club.

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Speaker 1: I feel like in out.

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Speaker 2: I don't like why, Like I could give the weather

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Speaker 2: right now and it's gonna be the same weather from

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Speaker 2: when y'all hear this, yes, but anyway, we also have

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Speaker 2: been talking a lot about inviting people to watch wait.

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Speaker 1: Yes to no y'all? Y'all really so, y'all we got

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Speaker 1: it like sexually like a punt. Oh wait, you're making

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Speaker 1: them think we fucking I don't like that they are

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Speaker 1: to join us. Actually five people are watching us now

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Speaker 1: is it fun? Okay? Really too? Yeah? No, so we

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Speaker 1: have we do have an audience if you hear laughter.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately I don't have a laugh sign, which I really

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Speaker 1: wanted because then y'all been left when when I'm funny,

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Speaker 1: but we have that audience watching it? Shut up? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god? Oh I don't like this now y'all could go?

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Speaker 1: Y'all can go? I can't wait a moment, like right, everybody?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'd be like leaving the comments was

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Speaker 1: right finally, but yeah, basically, we just came from doing

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Speaker 1: breath work with our patrons, and Wesy and I are

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Speaker 1: in good spirits, so we were like, oh, ship, we

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Speaker 1: can people watch us this time, because we were talking

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Speaker 1: about even doing live streaming, but we don't really be

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Speaker 1: talking until the bike's turn all sometimes, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want them to see us be awkward. But y'all,

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Speaker 1: we haven't seen each other in three months. Show look

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Speaker 1: Eden and Wolf. Why do you want? Why do you

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Speaker 1: want to bring up negativity? I gotta start right. No,

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Speaker 1: the worst was Eddie, Eddie from for Bastake Loves to

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Speaker 1: bring it up.

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Speaker 2: Mandy and I were recording and Eddie was coming in

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Speaker 2: to record after and Mandy gets to the door.

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Speaker 1: She goes, I don't know. He was like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 1: But no, y'all, we have not seen each other in

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Speaker 1: three months, and believe it or not, Oh my god, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we've been agreeing on calls. We actually jumped down someone's

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Speaker 1: throat yep, And I was like, actually, you not listening

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Speaker 1: to Wheezy and I agree with her? Have you have

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Speaker 1: you ever heard me say such a thing? Maybe be

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Speaker 1: like the sky is blue and I'd be like, you

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Speaker 1: know what, you could tell you ain't been here in

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Speaker 1: a while because the way you just not wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk into this mine.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm performing, Well, can you make it so that

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Speaker 2: the screen I'm looking at myself and it's giving me anxiety?

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Speaker 1: Why it is you don't want to look at yourself? No,

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Speaker 1: let your little blind here look at you trying to

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Speaker 1: be like me for the twenty twenty six Okay, y'all.

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Speaker 1: So basically I kind of forced Wheezy to give me

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Speaker 1: a gift because I told her on Patreon, I got

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Speaker 1: you a gift. She said, shiit, bitch, I gotta get

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Speaker 1: you something. By the way, somebody in the comments was like,

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Speaker 1: why did you ask how much it is? That's so tacky.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm gonna be honest here, nigga. When someone

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Speaker 1: gets you a gift, the first thing you think is like, damn, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie how much. I'm googling it because

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Speaker 1: you're rich. Hello, you're talking every time. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I had a bitch give me a fucking incense and

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Speaker 2: I'm like what And then I saw it was seventy

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Speaker 1: No, it was from like some high end company. But

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Speaker 1: right when she handed to me, she was like, you're

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Speaker 1: know you got to google it? Oh yeah, no, I

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Speaker 1: google my Christmas gift. One of my boyfriends actually pissed

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Speaker 1: me off with the gift giving for Christmas so, y'all know,

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Speaker 1: I've been asking for titties for about a year now,

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Speaker 1: and he had the nerve to tell me his thought process.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't like to get people what they asked for,

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Speaker 1: so he literally spent the amount of my titties and

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Speaker 1: was like, excuse me, nigga, what were the gifts? Though? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Do chin Gabana robe, do chain Gabana boots dot Chinkabona belt.

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Speaker 1: But the boots was like two thousand dollars, girl, and

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Speaker 1: they don't fit these cabs. So I had to ask

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Speaker 1: for a gift for seat and I'm like, fuck, now

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Speaker 1: I gotta go shopping for boots that fit these cabs.

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Speaker 1: But he literally spent for almost four grand or a

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Speaker 1: little over four grand. I don't give a fuck, nigga,

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Speaker 1: tense is twelve. Well, no, bitch'all was gonna take my

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Speaker 1: as a dr girl. You mean, actually get a little

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Speaker 1: light bulb at the same time, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Don't get it all double yeah, he did that bullshit.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, oh my god, me and Weezy

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Speaker 1: have been agreeing with each other. Let me show her.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the word gratefulness, gratitude, gratitude. There we

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Speaker 1: go and I was like, I'm gonna get her a

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Speaker 1: look give and you know you're the only person I

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Speaker 1: gotta know the niggas spent all the money. I got

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Speaker 1: him a gift, but you get him cigars, but expensive ones?

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Speaker 1: Like what what? No, that's a good gift and it

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Speaker 1: was expensive, more expensive getting that's a good gift cigars.

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Speaker 1: Where he was like, I tell everybody what I got

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend. Sure, no, I haven't seen you. Did I

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Speaker 1: bring it up? No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I got him a vintage I can believe

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Speaker 2: this is true. Nintendo sixty four is your vintage?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you did? You did? You did?

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Speaker 2: He fucking opened that gift because he's not a gamer.

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Speaker 2: I was like, bruh, Like it was such a fucking.

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Speaker 1: Cool turning your nigga into a gamer in twenty But.

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Speaker 2: Even the way looks on the counter like in front

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Speaker 2: of the TV is just fired because you're like, bro,

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Speaker 2: we tried to play it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all right now, Yeah, she was difficult,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know, it's up down a b no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: The way it looks now like we're doing h D

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Speaker 2: Ship like Niggas is coming out of the screen.

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Speaker 1: We got ai to go back to what land. I

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Speaker 1: love a little two D game, Give me a baby.

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Speaker 1: I just went to the arcade. That's a little fun spot, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I was doing pet Man like the arcade. That's my

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Speaker 1: favorite kind of I like the little first date. I've

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Speaker 1: been doing ship like that, and now you're doing a

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Speaker 1: lot Wait wait, wait, you play this game air Hockey.

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Speaker 1: Wait you wrapped? You wrap the gift of course. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you guys can talk about us in the comments.

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Speaker 1: I'm neurodivergent, so you can decide what part of neurodivergence

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Speaker 1: I am based on our gift giving kind of like,

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Speaker 2: People, as adults, we don't get to unwrap. I love

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Speaker 2: the feeling of unwrapping.

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. I looked at the fucking wrapping

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Speaker 1: paper with the scotch tape and got anxiety. I said, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not mind you. They're boxes. They're in boxes.

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Speaker 2: Well, your gift is actually wrapped by the store, okay,

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Speaker 2: but I just didn't want you to know where it's

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Speaker 2: from because when you see the boxing, know where it's from.

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Speaker 1: So that ain't the card, you bitch, bitch, you know

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Speaker 1: what's crazy? What open the card first? No way, no way,

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Speaker 1: no way. Oh I got about the choke. You know

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Speaker 1: why I got you what what I got you? Because

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Speaker 1: I knew you was gonna give you what I got you.

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Speaker 1: No way, but I added extra, I added extra. It

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Speaker 1: is the same. Okay, wait wait read the front of

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Speaker 1: the card. I never read the peace, love and jay

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Speaker 1: Joy it's from the pack. It was like, damn, one

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Speaker 1: of my niggas name is jar his car. Here's to

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Speaker 1: a new start, Mandy with two eyes. Thank you and

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Speaker 1: hopefully more x misgifts. Damn not. You want more exposity

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Speaker 1: and hopefully more ex misgifts and great vibes as we

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Speaker 1: approach our tenth year, enjoy a luxurious new way to

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Speaker 1: feed your addiction. That the card actually says, if your

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Speaker 1: Christmas is filled with the true gifts of the season, love,

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Speaker 1: eat weezy. So yeah, I just came and memorized my vows.

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Speaker 1: But it literally was this like knowing that we're getting

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Speaker 1: into our tenth year, I think sitting with myself a

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Speaker 1: little bit more in therapy, but also like really taking

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Speaker 1: the step away from you for so long and coming

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Speaker 1: back and feeling like, damn, do I miss this, bitch,

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Speaker 1: But also like really being excited about what we've created.

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Speaker 1: made me happy. I I said, is it doing too

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Speaker 1: much that I bought her a gift? No? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I missed doing the pod too three months off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I realized it. It gives you. But you know, it's funny.

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Speaker 2: One of my either my ex boyfriend or a close

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Speaker 2: friend of mine, said, you and Mandy are gonna stop

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Speaker 2: doing the podcast, and suddenly you want to see each other.

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Speaker 2: Years later.

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Speaker 1: You can be in your forties and be like, oh.

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Speaker 2: I'm in the same city, let's talk about She's like,

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Speaker 2: watch you hate each other today because it's too much

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Speaker 1: In our forties. Is still gonna have Patreon? Bitch? That

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Speaker 1: said only five years, bitch, we at least still gonna

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Speaker 1: be doing a Patreon. I ain't going nowhere, y'all. Y'all

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Speaker 1: holes might get on the zoo, but it might just

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Speaker 1: be actual but if I said it's a feat, I

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Speaker 1: know what the gift is. That's why I got you

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Speaker 1: your gift. What is it, y'all? Do y'all want to

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Speaker 1: know what this is? This is a lay live o

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Speaker 1: candle girl. Oh no, you really about to be fun.

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Speaker 1: Damn it's a dog collar. Okay, she got damn colors.

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Speaker 1: The box bets her maid. Wow, we ain't go. I

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Speaker 1: ain't spend as much on you. The budget was budgeting.

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Speaker 1: You said it was cat dog like a cat collar.

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Speaker 1: I said to future, because I know you'll be doing.

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Speaker 1: So what are you addicted to? What am I hold on?

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Speaker 1: What am I addicted? Talk about? To feed your addiction?

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Speaker 1: A luxuriousmay to feed my addiction? That ch'all just took

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Speaker 1: a shroom. I don't know. I like this, okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: this is an addiction. Coffee. Coffee I do have. Now

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Speaker 1: this is some rich people ship. Bitch. I know you

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Speaker 1: would never buy for yourself ever, but now you've bitch,

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna google this ship. This is crazy. It

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Speaker 1: was it was what I actually spent more on you. Okay, O.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna get your gift for seat if you

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Speaker 1: want to turn it into a racelest. Wow, this is

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Speaker 1: this is this is nice and I just this is

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Speaker 1: to go with my five hundred dollars coffee maker I got.

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Speaker 1: I know this is really nice. Like, man, that's an

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Speaker 1: what you get niggas. You're you're inrodging it. Wait hold on,

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Speaker 2: Well, what did you get for Christmas? From WTFA wall?

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Speaker 1: You got woolf full a Lovo candle, But look it

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you. I know this from Landing. This isn't

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Speaker 2: So the lolavo candles will always tell you where it's

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Speaker 2: bayh told me one year he didn't answer the phone

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Speaker 1: Now. He ended up getting me this huge diffuser and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I love it so much.

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Speaker 1: I'll get you a cocktail glass and I'll get you.

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Speaker 1: I don't smoke an ash tray. No, I like you

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Speaker 1: if you smoking? Not smoking with the okay, not anymore?

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Speaker 1: And then uh the why is it be? It be tequila?

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Speaker 2: You know, I feel like women don't have the house

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Speaker 1: Who I don't know a nigga give it. You've giving

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Speaker 1: what what? What? What's the niggas you fucking with? My nigga,

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Speaker 2: Have tie and why we feel like my homegirls are

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Speaker 1: Like I've just talk about why they all single? Then like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not drinking, so I don't even have alcohol hole

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Speaker 2: and seat. And I'm like, bro, if you are hosting

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Speaker 2: got Scotch single malt liquor just bowa niggle. That's I got, Tennessee,

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Speaker 2: just bowa niggle I got. I don't drink the brown.

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Speaker 1: Now I do drink the jamison. But guess what I

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Speaker 1: You know what else I would like to say, I

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Speaker 1: that ain't almost halfway metro.

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Speaker 2: Like most niggas that I'm fucking with the last five

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Speaker 2: They have their like, they got their good shit going on.

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Speaker 2: I was in this like fake little ig argument with

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Speaker 1: And then went into the DMS again, and I know

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, you hella disrespectful and I was like,

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Speaker 2: and he was like, oh you and that nigga that

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, Fuck nigga, my man will

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Speaker 1: get up. We could be getting rabbitch dick swinging bonnet

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Speaker 1: off funky and dirty and nasty? No, no, I don't

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Speaker 1: fuck with wicked niggas. I don't clean up. Oh y'all

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Speaker 2: I don't want no nigga who's head ding like bro,

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Speaker 2: If your head is something, we gotta get the funk

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Speaker 1: Stop it. Don't we are bonding to bonnet. Okay, what

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Speaker 1: you be doing with your well, I'm gonna call smell

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Speaker 1: This is problematic. They're gonna get on this problematic girl.

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Speaker 1: Fuck clean your ship bitches too. The fuck how long

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have them braidsen? Take them out? Wash up

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Speaker 1: what did he say to you? Out of just want

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Speaker 1: y'all to know, I can't wash the twenty seven piece.

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Speaker 1: So that's why if you ain't getting washed underneath, you can,

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Speaker 1: from this hot it says it last three weeks. Three

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Speaker 1: It's a little bit, bitch. I'm gonna keep it in

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Speaker 1: for twenty three days. Just becauldn't it lift, bitch? If

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Speaker 1: braided and not you gotta braidrain, I said, my hair braided, fitch.

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Speaker 2: You know, I really do like the moment. I actually

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Speaker 1: I was the colors scares me. Uh. My homeboy just

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Speaker 1: should do red and pink. And I was like, oh, hold,

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Speaker 1: I see it. Calm it down, you put your heart,

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Speaker 1: Calm it down. But I guess we could start with

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Speaker 1: a ketch up with what's going on in our life?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything for you? Y'all have a very biracial

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Speaker 1: story to share. What you don't have nothing? The only

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Speaker 1: catch up I could think of holidays good I don't

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Speaker 2: Trap is expanding. If you guys hate pilates, go ahead,

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Speaker 2: come over. We now have yoga, Matt Skulp hit. Eventually

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Speaker 2: we'll be doing bar dance. And I got a toork

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Speaker 2: class coming to come on to work class. I will say,

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Speaker 2: we've been having this conversation for so long. And it's

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Speaker 2: funny because the girl I argued with it about she

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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck because I know she won't

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Speaker 1: So this is how bitches be sounding like prostitute? Oh

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Speaker 1: is gonna be. Go ahead, how is not like? How

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Speaker 1: do bitches not like prostitute?

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Speaker 2: So, without being too specific, homegirl's been dating a dude

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Speaker 2: maybe a month and a half.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, it's not an athlete.

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Speaker 2: Or a super wealthy guy, but well to do Okay,

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Speaker 2: I have money to take them to a nice hotel

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Speaker 2: The hotel is about seven hundred dolls a night, which

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Speaker 1: Okay, she was going to meet him on this island.

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Speaker 1: She hits me to say, it ain't one off the

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Speaker 1: I think that might be one of the ones. Bitch. No, no, girl,

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Speaker 1: do you not keep up with the politics? No, I

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Speaker 2: Oh, well, they ain't going anyway because the trip stops,

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Speaker 2: so here you go. So she was basically like, I

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Speaker 2: She was like, girl, I don't even know if I'm

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Speaker 1: I was like why. She was like, is this nigga

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Speaker 1: but he got your flight back with you. You're flying

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Speaker 1: from somewhere else. He's not flying with you. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Asp does sound like a prostitute. She said, Mandy can

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Speaker 2: So she's like, yeah, but he planned the trip for

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Speaker 2: much is the flight to get to the Turks from

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Speaker 2: where you at?

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Speaker 1: It's called it the Turks is crazy?

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Speaker 2: The Turks three hundred and eighty dollars right, And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: so you're about to cancel the trip over three eighty

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Speaker 2: She's like the principal, So here's the principle for him, bitch.

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Speaker 1: Oh. So she lets him know.

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Speaker 2: He's like, yo, what time do you get in? I

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Speaker 2: have the driver picking us up. I want to have

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Speaker 2: the driver pick us up at the same time.

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Speaker 1: I'll wait for you. She said, you should be telling

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Speaker 1: me what time I get in fas He said, oh,

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Speaker 1: And she's like, I sent you the hotel. I sent

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Speaker 1: you my travel information. Da da da da da.

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Speaker 2: He's like, facks, I got our flights going back together.

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Speaker 2: We're in first, I got the hotel you wanted. They're

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Speaker 1: He's like, to be quite honest with you, it actually

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00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: didn't cross my mind because I assumed we were booking

425
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 1: our flights together. And what I will tell you, though,

426
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm very bothered by the fact that you wouldn't even

427
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 1: jump on a plane to come for this trip. I've

428
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 1: planned to come. Hop on yo dick, suck yo dick. Wait,

429
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: Like that's so prostituted. I mean, but that's fine. But

430
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: if we're not together. They've been dating, bro, this is

431
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 1: but what is dating? But what is dating? They've been

432
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: I had that de word. That's the D word I hate. Okay, well,

433
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 1: let me explain what is david? Why is it to

434
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 1: hop on his dick?

435
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 2: When the bitch told him a few weeks ago it's

436
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 2: too cold while they were hanging out of the Blue Note,

437
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 2: and he was like, cool, let's go on a trip.

438
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: Where do you want to go? And booked all that

439
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 1: shit for you.

440
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 2: This is a dude that works on Wall Street, that's

441
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 2: not a millionaire, that's not a thousand air He's somewhere

442
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 2: right in the middle. But like, these are not the

443
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 2: fucking trick ass niggas that you've seen online putting bitches

444
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 2: on a private jet.

445
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,680
Speaker 1: So if you're going you're going for one.

446
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm really not, though, Mandy, because the

447
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 2: expectation that that man had to get the flight or

448
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: you won't go.

449
00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: You well, first off, you invited me to the island.

450
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 1: Hold on, you know, I said, it's cold, I would

451
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 1: like to be somewhere. He says, let's do a trip

452
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 1: to me. If a man the same way we say,

453
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 1: if a man invites you on a date, he should

454
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: pay for it. If a man invites me on a trip, bitch,

455
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: I might not have that three invited. No, but but

456
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 1: but let me finish. If he's like, I want to

457
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: take you on a trip, let's go on a trip.

458
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 1: You're you're starting this. You're starting the whole thing. You're

459
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: inviting me on a trip. If you're inviting me on

460
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: the trip, I'm not gonna lie. I don't expect to

461
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: all pay for my flight or whatever, because you invited

462
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 1: me on a trip. So for me, you don't know

463
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: if I got the three eighty. You don't know how

464
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: I'm spending my money holiday. It doesn't it doesn't no, no, wait, wait,

465
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: hold on, wait, I don't like the niggas assume I

466
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 1: got the most. They both met on Wall Street. She's

467
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: got three eighty and more, and so does he But

468
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: here's the thing.

469
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: Right when I said, well, how did it get to

470
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 2: the point where he booked your flights there but not

471
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: on the way. So she's like, when he was booking

472
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 2: the flights, I don't know what side of West Coast

473
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: she on Scotstar or fuck she yet, but she basically

474
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 2: was like He was like, oh, I'm gonna get it

475
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:04,479
Speaker 2: around too.

476
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not sure yet, keep you posted.

477
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: So there's some miscommunication there, right, So you were either

478
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: supposed to let this nigga know when whatever. Here's the point,

479
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 2: he basically said to her, I'm gonna be real with you.

480
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 2: I didn't expect you to spend a dollar on this trip,

481
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 2: he said, However, I didn't know which you got the driver.

482
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,439
Speaker 2: You've got a fabulous hotel for us, you booked us

483
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 2: first class on Delta back home.

484
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 1: That's doing it up to literally.

485
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: Say, and I actually kind of believe him. He's like, Yo,

486
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: you had your work shit going on. I didn't know

487
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 2: if you were going to re route your flight. But

488
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: now it's such a problem that I didn't book this

489
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 2: flight that you're willing to not show up to see

490
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 2: me is hello, weird?

491
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: Okay, So here's what I think needs to happen in dating, right,

492
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: that d word right. Both parties need to be real

493
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: with each other. If your friend actually liked this nigga

494
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 1: three eighty, wouldn't have It wouldn't have even been a thing.

495
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: The real thing, the real fact of the matter is

496
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: she don't really like this nig That's not true, bro.

497
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 1: When a woman really likes a man, it's let's plan

498
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: this together. Let's do this together. A lot of women,

499
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: especially if you're saying she's a woman with her own money,

500
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 1: doesn't mind going in on her part of the deal

501
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: or a quarter.

502
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: I agree with you here, but here's the thing that's

503
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 2: not the case. She's hell excited about him every post

504
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 2: on her close friend. I'm telling you that's not the case.

505
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 2: And where the real problem is this is the.

506
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 1: Noctation that you don't even know how to date because

507
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: you really think you need to be tricked on right now.

508
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 2: The nigga thinks that he's operating in a normal fucking

509
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 2: dating experience with you, but you're just expecting it to

510
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 2: be laid out for you. And this is a friend

511
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 2: that's also cried to me about being alone and single.

512
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 2: This guy heard you were cold at a jazz club

513
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 2: and was like, Yo, where's the place you haven't mentioned

514
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 2: that you want to go.

515
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I can absolutely see how two people

516
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 1: I would have just gave her my jacket. Br I

517
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: don't budget. I'm not gonna lie. Here's the thing anyway,

518
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: So we're not going though. That's what's fine. But when

519
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: it comes to dating at the end of the day,

520
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: as a woman, a woman with money, when you have

521
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: it and you really want to be with the man,

522
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: you don't mind spending it. However, I'm not also going

523
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: to start the year off by saying if a woman

524
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: is used to certain treatment, a lot of times that's

525
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: what they're used to. It doesn't have to be prostitution.

526
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: Me and my friends talk about this all the time.

527
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: Once you get treated well, once you're used to getting

528
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: a certain amount of gifts, once you're used to traveling

529
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: a certain way, once you're used like bro, I have

530
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: a date, man, I have a man for every single day.

531
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: Not that, but to me it is though. If you're

532
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,719
Speaker 1: a woman who doesn't want to settle, I'm not gonna lie.

533
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 1: I have a man that's that flies in to take

534
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: me to dinner. But Mandy what's the settling here. No,

535
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: to me, it's settling if she's used to a man

536
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: moving and operating a certain way. I don't want to

537
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: even push this into prostitution as much of when a

538
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 1: woman experiences something and really likes it. Anything less than

539
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: that is settling. Okay, less than that. Women have to

540
00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: talk about then expectations. Right, So here's where I believe

541
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: she's absolutely wrong.

542
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: Well, me and her got to the point we're okay

543
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 2: when we started really arguing on the call, I'm like,

544
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: this is me you're talking to. I've been in your

545
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 2: home while you've cried, while niggas have.

546
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: Done you dirty.

547
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 2: You've complained and complained and complained. You went through the

548
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 2: whole group chapter, tell us how great this guy is,

549
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: how smart he is, how thoughtful, and you literally are

550
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 2: sitting here canceling a trip and doing all this ship

551
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: to be alone again because he didn't get the flight there,

552
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: He only got the first class back. He got the

553
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: hotel you wanted, the driver, the driver that like that

554
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 2: you didn't fucking need. Also, why for the first because

555
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: she don't really like him?

556
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna that's not it. I feel like

557
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: that might be a no, Bro, I'm telling you I

558
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: have a bitch like her. She's spending the three eight.

559
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: I think that you need to get rid of that

560
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 2: thought because the real problem why I said we could

561
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 2: we could disagree. So I'm telling you why this an

562
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 2: issue in her mind? She cannot do this because he

563
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: hasn't paid for everything.

564
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 1: Good ba, no matter, get you a nigga that's gonna

565
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: do with you on this wht these holes, it's gonna

566
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: have nobody, And it's okay to have nobody until the

567
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 1: right one come. Why does the right one needs to

568
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: do every single thing? But he's ridiculous? Does he doesn't mind?

569
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 1: You a man? This is not a dating experience. That's prostitution.

570
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: I don't think it's prostitution to have standards. And that's

571
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: the thing too. At the end of the day, you

572
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 1: don't need to just settle with a man if that's

573
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: not everything that you want, if he's not gonna do it.

574
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: As women what I love right now in this modern

575
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: day era of dating, if she has the money, bro,

576
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing wrong to just be by yourself. It's

577
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with just saying single. And of course she

578
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: wants somebody, but I'm not gonna sit here and tell

579
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: the girl to go be with somebody who she feels like. Damn, now,

580
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: this is gonna be a thing. Every time we gotta

581
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: go on a trip. He not gonna move how I wanted.

582
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 2: To move over the flight cause you out of br

583
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: they didn't fly together for in the same city.

584
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: She didn't know what time she could leave word and

585
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: this is suddenly his fault. And this is what I mean.

586
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 2: The expectations of how much someone should be doing for you,

587
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 2: to me, needs to be put in check. This is

588
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 2: why niggas are fucking all over the place with women

589
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: and not settling down because they're just too much fucking

590
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 2: gratification with girls going crazy to do everything for them.

591
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 2: But this shit, to me is super ridiculous because it's

592
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: the idea that you are owed everything. That's not a

593
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: real dating experience unless you want to be dating multi millionaires.

594
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: If you want to be a taken woman, this is normal.

595
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but unless my homegirls were dating someone super wealthy,

596
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: going on trips is a moderate thing. You're having a

597
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 2: luxurious experience at one of the best fucking hotels in

598
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 2: the Turk, You're flying first class home. He is the

599
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: driver picking you up and was considerate enough to sit

600
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: in the airport, And you can't.

601
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: Understand it's because she don't like them that much. I'm

602
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 1: sticking with that she'd go no.

603
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 2: The truck disappointed that she got upset over and said

604
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: she wouldn't come.

605
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: He was like, yo, and even worse, what if that

606
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: was a test? What if that nigga did that shit

607
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: on purpose? The worst type of niggas. That's they both

608
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: Maybe doing that shit is test. Let me see she

609
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: I'll spend at three eighty to get himself here. No, no, no,

610
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: I don't think that was a test. But because for

611
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: him to say, regardless him not buying her flight but

612
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: buying one way make it make sense like he was

613
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: testing her. At the end of the day, I'm glad

614
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: they could both go out into the wilderness and find

615
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: other people. But basically this is how he ended.

616
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: So he said, uh, oh shit, I didn't realize you

617
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: didn't have it. You told me you were going to

618
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: keep me posted. She was like, yeah, you knew I

619
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 2: was in Arizona or whatever. So I guess they got

620
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: into this little thing. He calls her on the phone.

621
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 2: He's like, I don't want to get shit fucked up

622
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: over texts, like what's going on? And she said, yeah, like,

623
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving New York unless you get my flight.

624
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: You never got my flight for this trip. He said,

625
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 2: you're not leaving New York?

626
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: Are you dead? Ass? He's like, you know how hard

627
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: I'm working on this.

628
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 2: You wanted to go to this restaurant, I had to

629
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 2: book this blog, got our boat, Like, are you fucking

630
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 2: kidding me? He was like, that's insane to me because

631
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 2: I thought we were really enjoying each other. And she

632
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to enjoy for my light

633
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: and he said, okay, cool, I guess we ain't enjoying

634
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 2: the trip and cancel everything that brought.

635
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: Enough I had someone else as a backup. He probably

636
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 1: still went still kept the whole thing and said, oh,

637
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: this bitch want to do that. Don't worry mine. You

638
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: canceled her flight, which sucks because it's under her name.

639
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 1: She gonna keep the credits. He flew another bitch out proby,

640
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: you are in same that's what happened. I don't think

641
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't blame him for bringing someone else who's wrong,

642
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: who's right? We know you are, buddy, but my little

643
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: you agree. Yeah, Nah, see we can't be talking to

644
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: talk to add and girl right here in front of

645
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: your face. Oh yeah, this sound like girls. She didn't

646
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: like him. And that's the thing too, Like fellas, I

647
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: need you to pick up on clues when the bent

648
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: really like you and when she don't. It's that simple.

649
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: If a woman isn't willing to spend three hundred dollars

650
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: to come and see you, she doesn't really like it.

651
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 2: But that's principal ship that they both stood on, right,

652
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: because of course she has the money, right she of.

653
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: Course she could spend it. She's like, I want a

654
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: man that does this because she's had men that do that,

655
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: and I don't think that's prostitution shit. I gotta be

656
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: honest though, right Like we have all had been JOm Rich.

657
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: Now you're gonna book this place. We've all had niggas

658
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: do certain shit. Where are they at? What happened to them?

659
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:25,479
Speaker 1: Oh they're still around? Three boyfriends? Many say anything you want.

660
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: I've had niggas do a lot of things for me

661
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 2: in my life, and if I toss them to the side,

662
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: or if they aren't of significance, they weren't worth it

663
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: for me. So a lot of the niggas that have

664
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: done shit like that don't necessarily hold a lot of

665
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: value for me right in other areas.

666
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: But Honey, for her, that matters. For whatever it means,

667
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: that matters. That's what I'm saying.

668
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: We cannot say that that matters that much, money matters

669
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 2: that much and then cry at night about how lonely

670
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 2: we are.

671
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm telling you now in twenty twenty six, what I

672
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: notice is I ain't telling y'all bitches nothing. Deal with

673
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: your baby, daddy, Deal with the man that you want

674
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: to suck it, fuck, deal with do what works for you, daddy.

675
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: If you like it, I love it. You know it's

676
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: cn you. All the little sayings. I don't know what

677
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: all the little sayings is, but all the sayings about

678
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. You're not gonna hear me

679
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: give you advice. I don't give a fuck about the

680
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: nigga you suck it and fucking and lay with who

681
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: you like. Why g every But let's be very clear,

682
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: you bitches are dumb. You bitches are dumb. You bitches

683
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:29,239
Speaker 1: are dumb as long as we are human beings. By

684
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: the way, I just read this thing, this little article.

685
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: By the way, I just take a shure. I think

686
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: it's hit me now. I'm sure I figured but I

687
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: just read this article y'all about how much science. But

688
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: it was a science article, and the science article said

689
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: there are so much that scientists are trying to figure out,

690
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: and the differences between genders, and now you know there's

691
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: all these other genders too, so we we fucked. Okay,

692
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: they don't know. Men and women apparently are leaps and

693
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 1: bounds so different that scientists are literally still trying to

694
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: figure out why then they're so different. So as long

695
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 1: as y'all want to be in heterosexual relationships, bitch, and

696
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: scientists don't get you. I ain't gonna get you. Read

697
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 1: an article that scientists.

698
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 2: I write an article I thought she was about to say,

699
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 2: so ship where scientists are trying to figure.

700
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: Out No, it's how they just wait there. Okay, Okay,

701
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: don't get me crying, because then they don't. It's not

702
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: gonna stop crying. Damn. I didn't think that true would

703
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: hit me that best. Okay, So anyways, y'all, uh the

704
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: prostitute conversation to biracialness. So over the last three months,

705
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 1: there has been a lot happening in my family a

706
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: whole lot actually, where my mom then went to therapy

707
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: and all the things, and so, yes, as y'all know,

708
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm the biracial with a white mom, and it was

709
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: just really interesting what happened. So my sister decided to

710
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: get on ancestry dot com. Mind you a parent, and

711
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: I left at my mama apparently because she wanted to

712
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: make sure she was Haitian. Bitch, I know your daddy deported,

713
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: but why the fuck you had to go to ancestry

714
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: dot com, like you know who your daddy is? Could like?

715
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,320
Speaker 1: I thought she knew who her daddy was. I get that,

716
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 1: I did asparially. That's why I was like, dang, now

717
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: she ain't believe it. He Haitian is something else, you'll know.

718
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: So she wanted to know her all of her lineage, right,

719
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: So my sister gets her ancestry dot Com. Apparently because

720
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 1: she did ancestry dot Com, there was if you get it,

721
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 1: you get pinged when other people do it. So bitch,

722
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 1: other people connected to you. Bitch other people yeah, connected

723
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: to my sister, so bitch. My mama got a whole

724
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: message talking about uh. So we just got an alert

725
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: that you're our sister, bitch. So my mom got hit

726
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: up on the internet and was like, hey, we just

727
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: got alerted that we have a sister based on this

728
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: ancestry test. You're my sister, bitch. Huh hold on you ready?

729
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: So my mom immediately goes into a mind you. She's

730
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: talking to me, and I have to hear how much

731
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: my mamma think my grandmama a hold down because her

732
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 1: daddy ain't her daddy. Is your grandma's still life? Yes? Girl?

733
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: So I'm sitting here, yep, my motherfucking mama just wanted

734
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: a nigga with money. She lied about who my daddy was,

735
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: and mind you, I'm having to deal with this and

736
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, Mom, calm down, like, you know, it's just

737
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: her dad, like whatever, like because maybe, well she didn't

738
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: even like her biological dad, that's good, But did she

739
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: found out, well, the dad that she thought was her

740
00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: biological dad, right, she like that she didn't like. She

741
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: didn't like the first one. He the one if y'all

742
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: read the book, he was racist. It's part of the

743
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: reason why I don't really talk to any of my

744
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: white family period, because you know, they had issues with

745
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: us being black. So Anyways, she gets this notification and

746
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: she's like going through it because she's like, my mom

747
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 1: lied to me this whole time. What did your grandma say?

748
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: She was, ah, wait, did you grandma? Like I? So

749
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: we damn. Then it also came out that my mom's

750
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: brother that daddy ate his daddy either, so oh bitch,

751
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: So now I hope no. It was like so much drama.

752
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: But apparently like my grandmama went after my like the

753
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 1: being she married for money, and it was like again,

754
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: we wasn't able to have beggar council until nineteen seventy four.

755
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: You know, crazy about this, but it's bloodline for us. Listen, No,

756
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: it's crazy. Apparently my grandmama was out of here girl,

757
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: and so he was a military guy, so they must

758
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: have sucked on a base somewhere, you know, he was

759
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 1: drinking or whatever. Anyways, my mom now has two sisters.

760
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 1: They are Mexican and white in San Diego. So that's

761
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 1: a whole other thing because they're biracial, which I don't

762
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: consider them. Wait as her dad Mexican or no, their

763
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: mom was Mexican, he's white. My mom was so mad

764
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: she wouldn't got ancestry dot com to make sure it

765
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: was proven, and like, my mom can what does come

766
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 1: from the swaps? Yeah? Yeah, I guess, I guess inside Okay,

767
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 1: Dan know why I'm confused. I thought ancestry dot Com

768
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: was when they do the family tree. Well they but

769
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: you got to send it in and they do do

770
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: that also they do like you're like where you're from,

771
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: and so uh yeah, my mama was real mad. She

772
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: was like, can you believe there's like no black in me?

773
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm real white. I was like, dub it. It's like,

774
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: my mama, what it like a little bit of not cher.

775
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: She was like not even once. She's like, not even

776
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: one percent. I said, no ship. She was like, I'm

777
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: actually German. Okay, bitch, calm down. Anyways, So the worst

778
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: kind no ship, the worst type of life, bitch. So anyways,

779
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: so she's going through this thing and she's getting to

780
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: know her sisters and she's like, y'all could have had

781
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: a family because they they're mixed over there. No one

782
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: is black over there, by the way, Mexican Mexican. Would

783
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: they live in California? Of course there's Mexicans, like they're

784
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: right there. Like if you would have had family that

785
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: wasn't all the way Mexican would help. So gets a

786
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: little deeper. They had the conversation that politics could not

787
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: be brought up, and someone daring Christmas got a Trump coin,

788
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: so just gonna say, there's a Trump coin. So they

789
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: were politics couldn't be brought up. So hold on, by

790
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: the way, by the way, hold on, you tell me,

791
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: y'all do you want you want to know the crazier

792
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 1: part about it? And she said, I, y'allness, but whatever,

793
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: I already said, I don't want to meet them, so

794
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 1: we'll talk about that too. So anyways, so while they're cooking,

795
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: they go to get some tortilla's and they said, they

796
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: go to get some, but they get them from this lady.

797
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: So mind you. The man that said it is a

798
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: Trumper and was like, but they don't make this woman

799
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: makes them so good, and I'm like, you can't get

800
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: her out of here. But that's what I'm saying. I said,

801
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: you shouldn't even be getting tortilla's from a bitch that

802
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: cake like because ice and all that shit. Because you

803
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: voted for Trump, you shouldn't even be able to have

804
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: any sort of fucking ethnic food. Bitch, each your ship

805
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: with no seasoning. So I was a little annoyed that,

806
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: like he talked about how good this woman makes her tortilla's,

807
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: But like I was just mad. I'm like these damn trumpers,

808
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: bro the older white lady that was saying, yes, you

809
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: should go to fucking the buffet, go to go to

810
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: Golden krrast don't go to a Mexican restaurant. AnyWho. So

811
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: me and my mom have had these three months of

812
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 1: talking because she's known for three months. You just saw

813
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: them for christ. She she found this out in September. Bitch,

814
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: while I was at he I got a call and

815
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: she's like, Mike, bitch, drunk bit ch'all mean he do?

816
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: When I get this call, she's like, my I just

817
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: found out by daddy, not by daddy. Sad, my lad.

818
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: I said, you fifty five, what does it matter? Like

819
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: I literally I didn't think it was gonna be a

820
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: big deal. And she was like, I never thought I

821
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: beloved that. This is why I literally just like mom. Okay.

822
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: So anyways, we get to talking and I decide, at

823
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: thirty five, I don't care to meet a whole bunch

824
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: of fifty year old white people like and introduce them

825
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: into my life, and so like we've had to have

826
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: the conversation because in her mind, she feels like we

827
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 1: could have had a bigger family, We could have had

828
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 1: family Like. It was really interesting because on New Year's

829
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: she even sat next to me and was like, I

830
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: always felt like I didn't even have anything to bring

831
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 1: to the table because I didn't come from a big family.

832
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, that made you feel less than

833
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: a partner. And so it was interesting hearing her say this.

834
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: And it's been interesting with her dealing with her therapists

835
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 1: and me dealing with mine and having to talk it

836
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: out because I'm literally like I don't need that family,

837
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: Like I've built so much of my own community with

838
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: my friends. And if y'all know my background story, like

839
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: my Jamaica side of the family real ghetto, like and

840
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: clearly my sister's dad is deported, my uncle is deported

841
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: because he was raping my cousin and it's just a

842
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: it's ghetto shit. Oh it's ghetto, Oh very ghetto. Oh

843
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: I know, it's it's dark. And so in her mind

844
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: she's like, now you have family letting it out. Wow, No,

845
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: but this is this is like, this is what the

846
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: last three months had been like with family, but also

847
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: in terms of identity, really like sitting with the fact

848
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: that I don't need to know the white people in

849
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: my life, like we had never really been accepted, and

850
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: now to also find out they're Trumpers, I already know

851
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: what we got to talk about. I'm not gonna hold you.

852
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 2: If they were Trumpers, I wouldn't have met them either,

853
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 2: But if they were regular whites, I'd have been okay.

854
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: And I say that because the way of white people

855
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: not being Trumpers is almost more important than white people

856
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 2: ever were to me, because I realized, like they're not

857
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 2: completely like even since Mom Donnie's been in office, which

858
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 2: is not if you or been elected, seeing how many

859
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 2: white people are rallying for a Muslim guy to do

860
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 2: something that's different for a democratic socialist, like that's literally

861
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 2: nothing in your favor unless you're a broke white person.

862
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 1: I said no before I knew they were Trumpers, because

863
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: I just don't care. I just wanted to supprime Mom.

864
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 1: I support her. I talked to her on the phone.

865
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: I let a cry, you know what I mean, Like

866
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: that's the way I chose to show up and support her,

867
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: like like literally by the way, and I sent it

868
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: to to weezy uh because I knew I was gonna

869
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: make sure to share this literally and I thought it

870
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: was the cutest thing. So when my mom uh went uh,

871
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: there was a sign on their house that said Tammy

872
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: and Alex because my other sister did choose to go

873
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: on the trip. Welcome to the Chaos Circus family, Thanks

874
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: Alex and ancestry dot com. It was given like the

875
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 1: nineties show of you know, like literally, you know, I

876
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: think that was nice. It was very nice, and I

877
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: said it was very nice. So then we went how

878
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: I showed my mom I supported her. She she sent

879
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: me a picture of her and her sisters and I

880
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: went on chat ChiPT and did the caricature of the

881
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: together more water. Well, she didn't know we get so

882
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 1: we were a sea world and you know, like you

883
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: gotta sit and they make the big heads and they

884
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, mom, chet chip does this in

885
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: like one minute. So I showed her that chet chivt

886
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: does it really quickly went to oh no, sorry, and

887
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 1: so I took her picture where her sisters and she

888
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: like fishing, so I put them fishing. So they on

889
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: a boat with the ship in the background. Are these

890
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: the Mexican sisters? Half? Yes, I need to see the

891
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: watch Trumps the Mexicans they married Trumpers. That's a lot

892
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: more common than we all think. I'm not gonna hold you.

893
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: You want to you want to see the thing I made?

894
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 1: Fucking insane? No, it's very common, very common, bitch. We

895
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 1: have a we have a fucking president that's literally trying

896
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: to kick immigrants out of the country while being married

897
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 1: to a whole fucking immigrant. Make it makes sense.

898
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 2: He's crazy, mane So, bitch, did you see the fucking

899
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 2: Milenia movie.

900
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: That's coming out? Okay? I go to the movies like

901
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: once a week, and I love the previews. Milania got

902
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 1: a movie coming out, and I ain't gonna hold you.

903
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to support them, but that shit looked

904
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: good because I just want to see the tea. I

905
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: just want to see a documentary. Yeah, like how fucked up?

906
00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: She has camera? But look they don't. That looks super

907
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: white girl at the top. There's beers and the soft

908
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: thing for the beers. Did you ask for the eagle

909
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: on the top? No? Well I made this one too. Yeah,

910
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: that bowl she looks like Rosie o'donald yeah, is it

911
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 1: Rosil o' donald kind of latina she has? She's a racist? Okay,

912
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 1: what's something about the look? You know what? No, Rosie

913
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: o'donnald is of Irish, Irish American ugly? You know what

914
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: I mean? Rose Donald's ugly. By the way, this was

915
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: just the character. Sure, this wasn't the real because mind you,

916
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: I said, make them look goofy. Donald's part of the

917
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: product was to make them look goofy. I think confused

918
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 1: with Roseanne's looking one. So wait, Rosanne racist one? Rosie

919
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: is the lesbian? Yes, Rosie o donald is. I'm not

920
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I was you was thinking rose They do

921
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: kind of look like is it Roseanne?

922
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: But I just want to say I do think you know,

923
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 2: when you're born unfortunate looking, it's easy to be a

924
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 2: Trumper because you get a little bit.

925
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: I would try to know, but now I feel you

926
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: make it be stick of for a family. I ain't

927
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: even want to meet you talking about that. I'm talking

928
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: about Trump, okay, because I was like it was a

929
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: cartoon bit.

930
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about Trump people. A lot of them

931
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 2: are unfortunate looking. They're not that hot if you think

932
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 2: about it, and so I just think it's easy.

933
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: It's like cops.

934
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: They like the superiority, like the power dynamic. Okay, so

935
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 2: if you know you're like an ugo in real life,

936
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 2: at least you could like do something else. Those people,

937
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, it's all connected. Hot people don't have

938
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 2: that much time to be a hater.

939
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 1: Cindy Sweeney, Oh oute, she's absolutely a trumper. See them.

940
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: But you know what I saw the Housemaid. She wasn't

941
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: that hot in the Housemaid, so she looked regular. It's

942
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,959
Speaker 1: just the tits. If she didn't have the tits, would

943
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 1: she be her no valid valid? Okay, well let's get

944
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: into y'all. But there's that outline here. I promise we

945
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 1: took a little bit. It's okay, girl, we doing good

946
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,919
Speaker 1: all time we got. We gotta least another fifteen minutes.

947
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: We started late because you remember, remember we started laking. No,

948
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: it was because we had an outing and they were hungry.

949
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:19,919
Speaker 1: Look at her. Blame y'all, everybody, bitch, how damn quickly

950
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: listen when you get mad of me to help you

951
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:31,760
Speaker 1: guys off this year, because even though we're decisions decisions,

952
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: we still want y'all to make horrible ones. I ended

953
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: up finding this list. So every episode we're gonna bring

954
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 1: 'all list and y'all want to know the name for

955
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: the segment. I love what I did here. Tops and Bottoms. Fine,

956
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: what I mean? So all right, So in Tops and

957
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: Bottoms we are listing this is for y'all maybe your

958
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: lonely friend too, the top ten cities to get laid.

959
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: These are the cities to get laid in basically saying,

960
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: if you go there and you don't get laid, bitch,

961
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: it might be you. You might be one of them

962
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 1: uglies that we see over here and talk about. Okay,

963
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: So starting at number ten, huh, we have Berkeley, California.

964
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: And do you know why because the city boasts a

965
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: huge variety of bars and nightclubs. And I think that

966
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: college too is over there, right, yes, Berkeley. Oh yeah,

967
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 1: so California is one of the top ten. This is

968
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: one of California's top ten easiest cities to get laid.

969
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: Number nine, bitch, we're taking it to Florida. Clearwater. Oh.

970
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 1: I can see that Clearwater has a mix of urban

971
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: and suburban vibe. Urban. Uh maybe they they don't mean

972
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: urban like no, not urban like us. But you also

973
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,879
Speaker 1: have the beach, which means you could go have sex

974
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 1: on the beach. Number eight. This isn't surprising. As we

975
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 1: get down, you're gonna be like, yeah, but I don't

976
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: fucked in this city. At this point, I think you

977
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: don't funcked in the rest of these cities. Let's see,

978
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: let's see how many we're not gonna go tokas were

979
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: to name niggas. Number eight l A Los Angeles, California. Okay,

980
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: you got late. Uh the city. The city is overflowing

981
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: with singles who come here from all around America and

982
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: the world to have fun and party. The city has

983
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: a relaxed five and culturally diverse, and you can find

984
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: women of Spanish, African, and European descent. Why they added

985
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:32,280
Speaker 1: that as crazy? By the way, as I'm scroll. As

986
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 1: I'm scrolling, you don't fucked in these cities. Next one,

987
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 1: Las Vegas, Nevada. I found dick in Vegas, but you

988
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 1: brought dick to Vegas. They don't count. Yes, it does.

989
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,760
Speaker 1: You fucked in Vegas. Easy cities to get late, all right, Fine, Okay,

990
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: so Las Vegas you already know that's the sins. It's

991
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 1: they thought Vegas was gonna be one or two Sin

992
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: City for a reason. Oh bitch, we're gonna keep it going.

993
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 1: Bit you don't fuck in aught these cities. Number six

994
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:02,439
Speaker 1: New York. Today, New York City is arguably the most

995
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: popular city in the US. Yes, and most foreigners that

996
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: tore the US also check out the city. In addition,

997
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: the pace of life makes it fast and because people

998
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 1: you know come here, it says they do not have

999
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: the time to be picky and they often look for

1000
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: immediate gratification for sexual needs. If you wanted to know,

1001
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:29,919
Speaker 1: New York is the one. Number five Atlantai, Georgia. Bitch,

1002
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 1: you took a greyhound in Atlanta, but phone got fucked

1003
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, so I know you don't start naming my niggas.

1004
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: It's a bigger with the fake ID. And you went

1005
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: up there with a girl that I ain't friends with

1006
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: no more. You was fucking in Atlanta. You fucked a

1007
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: nigga in you, but the nigga that used a skateboard

1008
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: you fucked hill in Atlanta. Don't. First of all, I

1009
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: just want you to know I was sixteen. By the way,

1010
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: the city's I'm clocking the puls work over here. Next

1011
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: city number four is Washington, d C. SO DC has

1012
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: nearly four bars per thousand residents. The city offers plenty

1013
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: of places for singles to meet each other, making it

1014
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: one of the easiest cities to get laid People are

1015
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 1: hot there too. Okay, now that I think about this,

1016
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 1: take me number one, you'll be shocked by number one, Austin, Texas.

1017
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: Number three Miami for yeah, very guilty, sorry, definitely, extremely

1018
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: absolutely could have walk down out. Miami is flooded with

1019
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: nightlife spots and beaches. The people of the city are friendly,

1020
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: which also makes it easiest spit strict conversation. I will

1021
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 1: say Miami is the city that I will say everybody

1022
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: there for a good time, not a long time. You

1023
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: gonna meet a nigga Friday, fall in love with him,

1024
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: and by Monday you forgot. You don't know what you got.

1025
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: How great Miami was. Miami was great. Miami is why

1026
00:52:58,000 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: I had to get out. I thought I was ready

1027
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 1: to mature and get rid of my whole life earlier

1028
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: than I really was, so I moved here, okay, and

1029
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: then it comes to find out it's only two cities down.

1030
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: Number two. The number two easiest city to get laid

1031
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: in is Chicago, Illinois. I never had text there. You

1032
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: never had sex there? Oh, bitch, I did. I liked

1033
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: me a little bit. I flew there actually for dick

1034
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: multiple times. Actually, I've had a lot of dick in

1035
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: Now I'm like, don't let me go. Not the line,

1036
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: But I really don't think so. Now, I wonder if

1037
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: this is because of the weather. It's so cold, so

1038
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 1: you really can't go do nothing. Befuck. But Chicago's one

1039
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: of the cities with the biggest whore hides. You never

1040
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: fucked anybody on tour in Chicago, and he was number one.

1041
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: Not even now, okay number one. Let me give you

1042
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: a hint. I think it's Texas. No, this is gonna

1043
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: shock you, but maybe not. You better not be Seattle

1044
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: or Portland close. So the easiest city Phoenix to get late,

1045
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: and it's because forty percent of their population is single. Boston, Massachusetts.

1046
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: What the fun? So Boston is the easiest US city

1047
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,879
Speaker 1: to get laid in, and that's because nearly forty percent

1048
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: of the population of Boston is single, which is why

1049
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: it's easy to get laid It also doesn't hurt that

1050
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: the city is one of the largest markets for.

1051
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 2: Tender let's have a conversation about who's making these lists. Well,

1052
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 2: this is for Clearwater to be on list, for Berkeley, California,

1053
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 2: and for by the way.

1054
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: By the way, is that college? No? Are you ready?

1055
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: This list actually has twenty thought that would take us

1056
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: too long. Dallas is at twenty. You have Baltimore, Minneapolis, Jacksonville,

1057
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: San Francisco, Philly, New hamn of Connecticut, Houston, Cambridge, and Hartford. Okay,

1058
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 1: so you is also wise, this is twenty. People don't

1059
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: know how to get out there?

1060
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: What because you got to a city with nine million

1061
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: people in it and you telling me it's easier to

1062
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 2: fucking Boston.

1063
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: Because the people are single, which so even being in

1064
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: the South, right, you gotta realize too, And it's what

1065
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: I learned, goddamn that the little Mason Dixon line. Bitch,

1066
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: it's a different world down there. So when you're in

1067
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: the South, or you're in these places that are more

1068
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 1: conservative where a lot more people are married, or they

1069
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: have to hide their sexuality, which it's not as fluid

1070
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 1: as up here in what the trust this trust state, Right,

1071
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 1: That's why a like Connecticut was on there, That's why

1072
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 1: Boston on there. That's why all this. That's why we

1073
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: came here in our twenties, bigger hose. We were already hosed,

1074
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,760
Speaker 1: but first but we were able to find our sights.

1075
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 1: Slow down, you know, let's go to the next to

1076
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: fight for myself. Okay, we're gonna make this fun because

1077
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,919
Speaker 1: we did a lot of catching up. So the next

1078
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 1: thing that I want to bring up and we'll end

1079
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: with reactionary actually, but first we're gonna go to kinky

1080
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:05,839
Speaker 1: court return. No, that's we listen and we judge. Oh,

1081
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: we're going to KICKI kor this time we're also taking

1082
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: it to church. Bitch, Are you ready for this one? No,

1083
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: it's a little crazy, but you do have cross hearings on.

1084
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's that type of church. We'll see.

1085
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 1: It's going to boing boying dot net and I don't

1086
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 1: understand you can you read it? It's the pastor and

1087
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: the fart that yes, can you read it? Can you

1088
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: read it for us so that we can discuss. So basically,

1089
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: Eden is going to read what took place? This isn't real,

1090
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:39,399
Speaker 1: This is real business and this is real going boying

1091
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 1: dot net. No, that's not real. But he found another article.

1092
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 3: I did find another arcicle, limpo pastor farts on congregation

1093
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:50,280
Speaker 3: to heal them of God's power. Self styled pastor Christ Penelope,

1094
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 3: who found a Sevenfold Holy Spirit Ministries, reportedly farts on

1095
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 3: his congregates as a healing process that cures all spiritual

1096
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 3: and physical problems. Now, wow, there's a literal photo. There's

1097
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 3: a photo of somebody's face. This is real so and

1098
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 3: it's in limpump vote.

1099
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,439
Speaker 1: Now. I brought this up because y'all, this man is black.

1100
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: I can't in the image. He's sitting on a man's

1101
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: face now right now. Church is one of those things

1102
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: I'll be telling y'all about. And because y'all want to come,

1103
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: motherfucker TLC for Mary Crisby and her church calling it

1104
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: a cold This is what a cold activity look like

1105
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: to me to convince people like by the way, I

1106
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: want to hear him speak because he got to be

1107
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: he gotta be powerful. The same way y'all be buying

1108
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: these courses online from people that they never did nothing.

1109
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 1: They just want to take your money. That's what this

1110
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: man doing. He said, I'm so powerful to tell y'all

1111
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 1: so much what to do that if I fart on

1112
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: your face. The Lord will save you. It makes sure

1113
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: you was blissed baby. And the other thing that makes

1114
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: it even crazier, right, that's his king for sure. There

1115
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,919
Speaker 1: was a documentary that came out with a pastor being

1116
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 1: nasty with the little girls, and one of the things

1117
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: he talked about, Aphelia is different.

1118
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 2: This is like a real kick, but no, like in

1119
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 2: the In the thing, he basically said that his semen

1120
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 2: was holy water.

1121
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: And so wait, wait wait wait, nobody saw this on Netflix.

1122
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 1: It was like no eight series. It was like six

1123
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: five or six years ago. I watched it.

1124
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 2: But basically he talked about his semen and how it

1125
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 2: was spiritual. I'm telling you it's there are so many

1126
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 2: pastors that take advantage of people saying that something in

1127
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 2: their body giving to them. It's like this thing of

1128
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 2: I'm the next prophet. That shit is hella fucking weird.

1129
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: And even though it's not pedophilia, the fart shit just

1130
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 1: saying something no from you, it ain't on somebody's face

1131
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: and far in in they face telling them that God

1132
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: was God, that God He's gonna come in and bless you,

1133
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: and you was gonna be That's what it was called

1134
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: The Keeper Healed healed through farts. That ship is so

1135
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: fucking tea. I ain't gonna hold you. But lallama, poom poom,

1136
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: where was the bro.

1137
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So I've been watching the ninety Fiance and they

1138
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 2: got a Nigerian doctor over there who's like trying to

1139
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 2: let this guy know if this new like fat white lady,

1140
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 2: because that's all they do, you know what I'm saying.

1141
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: When they come from Nigeria, they want the fat white girl.

1142
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: That's all they do. So basically, when I'm watching this

1143
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: whole thing, I was like.

1144
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 2: Damn sure this could be right. Voodoo is real, et cetera.

1145
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 2: But how many of them is faking it? And how

1146
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 2: far can you fake it?

1147
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: This to me? Is it? Let me let me ask

1148
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: both of you. This is only fans.

1149
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 3: Wait, he said, it's sort of with Master Jesus when

1150
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 3: he stepped on Peter, this demonstration of God's power. And

1151
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 3: just like God made Adam go into deep sleep, it's

1152
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 3: a similar thing. God did anything with the body of

1153
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 3: Adam while he was on the ground in deep sleep

1154
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 3: and he wasn't feeling anything.

1155
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: He used the Bible as an explanation for him. Far

1156
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: in all people faces, Yeah, it's important that the fart

1157
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: be near the person's nostrils so the healing power in

1158
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: quotes can enter the body and do its work. You know,

1159
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: it's crazy, they are. No, That's why I picted it

1160
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: because like talking like it's easy to ford white people

1161
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 1: that like enter this shit, but like he's black, and

1162
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: who the fuck gonna go up there and be like

1163
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: we gotta get it along poom boom, so I can

1164
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: get hurted on what is it again? I ain't gonna

1165
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: hold you all like a thigg it was. That's that's

1166
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: just crazy business. Okay, but that was when when I

1167
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 1: saw this. But when I saw this, I was like,

1168
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: my talk game ain't what it need to be because

1169
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 1: I kind of wish I could convince niggas that I could,

1170
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like this is a powerful man.

1171
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: I want to be actually okay, this is Oh, you

1172
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 1: can do this easy, be a little fake pastor, you

1173
01:00:56,720 --> 01:01:00,439
Speaker 1: can do this. I could be a fake pastor for sure.

1174
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I was.

1175
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 2: And I've got an unemployed life coach and all like,

1176
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:09,919
Speaker 2: well they are the life coach, but I'm not working

1177
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 2: employed by coaching. No, no, no, bitch, she said, I'm

1178
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 2: unemployed right now, but I work as a life coach,

1179
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 2: and all I can think is, what the fuck could.

1180
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 1: You tell me? Bitch?

1181
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 2: Once you get your ship together, what you gonna tell me?

1182
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 2: And then when she told me about how many people

1183
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: she used to lead in these sessions, I'm like, but

1184
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: you don't really know shit. And that's what the fuck

1185
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 2: I'm talking about this time.

1186
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 1: I ain't even got a following. Bitch, Well you got

1187
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 1: a new skunk care. It gives I knew you said

1188
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: la pew oh man, you said skunk care.

1189
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, I'm going that's what she told me.

1190
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. People always got an eclectic

1191
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 2: look when it got something.

1192
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: Like oh, I'm not gonna lie reading that article, was like,

1193
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 1: or you don't think highlight enough of yourself? Like I

1194
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 1: was like, bro, I could if I could get that,

1195
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: like to get like to make them believe that if

1196
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: they just even enter my womb, they're gonna be like

1197
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 1: a different type of nigga, you know what I mean. Like,

1198
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 1: I just want to be able to tell somebody that

1199
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 1: if I do this bullshit you like, farting is crazy.

1200
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 1: The idea that if I tell a nigga if I

1201
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: fart on you, you got to be blessed by God.

1202
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 1: Like I'm sure someone would believe that fall clearly. I

1203
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: mean that's a church though, Like that's the thing, Like

1204
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 1: this is the blind this is this is when you

1205
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: just need faith. But I don't know what look about

1206
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: what that is like Following cults is so fun for me.

1207
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 1: I do it on first. I don't want him to like,

1208
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: but this is cult. This is cult. But that's what

1209
01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying. All you got to do is have a

1210
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 1: weird look going on, and you got it right now.

1211
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 2: You need to have a cult name the shit is

1212
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 2: that he But by the way, I'm saying weird look respectfully,

1213
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 2: by the.

1214
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: Way, I could actually probably get a whole congregation of niggas.

1215
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 1: Don't want to get pegged. He'd be in my DM.

1216
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 1: I can have them all show up, sit at the

1217
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: pew and bend them all. Oh my god.

1218
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 2: You know what you can call it so that you

1219
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 2: can make a bank account of shit. You gotta call

1220
01:02:56,200 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 2: it as us a syst. But it's really Pegasus, that's there.

1221
01:03:00,440 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: You go. Look, look why pegasus us usus as as

1222
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: peggan asses.

1223
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 2: Hey, all right, you know you gotta you gotta go

1224
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 2: fly under radar to call. And if we being honestly

1225
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 2: under the radar, we.

1226
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: Got the whrror hide nigga. That takes me to open, Like,

1227
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: are you horse, let's go, let's unite. Only we took

1228
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: our horse on tour around the country.

1229
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 2: The only difference between the colt and a religion is

1230
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 2: the amount of people you got, because if you have

1231
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 2: hundreds of thousands of people, suddenly it's a religion.

1232
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: So bitch, we are a religion. The whole hive is

1233
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: a religion. That's a good No, bitch, we need to

1234
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: file differently. We shouldn't be paying taxes. Oh, this is

1235
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: a church. We is. We is praising the gospel. Nobody's

1236
01:03:54,240 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 1: still an account, an unemployed account. Okay, last one. We

1237
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 1: are going to get into our reactionary. I did want

1238
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: to bring this up because this has been going viral

1239
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 1: over the last week or two and it's Claudia Jordan

1240
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: who sat on I think it was just the Shade

1241
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:18,479
Speaker 1: Room podcast and she gave herself advice to her younger self.

1242
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 1: Now because this is the top of the year, Oh,

1243
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: I saw it. I wanted us to discuss this and

1244
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: talk to our tribe okay, And I would love to

1245
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 1: know if you agree with her or not as we're

1246
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 1: getting up there in age. So this is what she

1247
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 1: had to say.

1248
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 4: You know, you think that when you're ready to settle down,

1249
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:37,080
Speaker 4: that there's always going to be a lot of supply

1250
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 4: on the shelves. And it's not like at this age

1251
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 4: a lot of the good guys are married or taken

1252
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 4: because they're good guys. And I was having a conversation

1253
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 4: with a girlfriend mind the other day, and I'm like, well,

1254
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 4: your best bet now is maybe so on that aod

1255
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 4: a good man that maybe is coming out of a marriage,

1256
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:57,479
Speaker 4: getting a divorce. So, you know, I think in our youth,

1257
01:04:57,560 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 4: and I would like people to know this when they're younger,

1258
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:02,080
Speaker 4: we think, oh, that's always going to be an endless supply.

1259
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 4: I can wait till tomorrow. Don't put off your happiness waiting.

1260
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 4: And I think I will say specifically with black women especially,

1261
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 4: I feel like we don't really have the luxury to

1262
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 4: think that we can kind of take time off like that,

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Speaker 4: you know. And I specifically say black women because like

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01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 4: we're usually the backbone of everything, you know, not even

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01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 4: just with our families, but with our friend circles like,

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01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 4: it's always something for us to do. We're always taking

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01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 4: care of somebody else. I don't have children, but I'm

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01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 4: always like feeding a friend or taking care of someone

1269
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 4: or helping somebody out doing a favor. And I think

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01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:35,640
Speaker 4: that's a cap that we put on ourselves.

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Speaker 1: No one told us to do this to do with me,

1272
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: because that said the ship the prostitute. I just want

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01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 1: to hear. It's so funny you brought that up because

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01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 1: this was Yeah. I just I would love to know

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01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 1: your thoughts on this sentiment.

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01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so the reason to me, what I sounded like

1277
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 2: earlier sounded a little bit like her. But I would

1278
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 2: never tell a woman to like lay back on her

1279
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 2: career for love. I think that's stupid, same, very very stupid.

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01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 1: The only thing I can under stand is passing people

1281
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: by because you think there's more out there.

1282
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 2: Her answer is kind of different. So I've actually had

1283
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 2: this conversation with male friends more than women. A lot

1284
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 2: of my homeboys aren't settling down with women because they're

1285
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 2: kind of living a fast life, or they think there's

1286
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 2: more or better out there, even though they're super interested

1287
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 2: in somebody or falling in love, or think they've a

1288
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 2: great girl, they just want more and more and more.

1289
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 2: And I think because non monogamy is such a thing,

1290
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 2: a lot of men feel like they have options and

1291
01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 2: they'll be fine. And I'm like, that sounds terrible because

1292
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 2: even if you want to come back to this girl,

1293
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 2: she knows how you treated her, and you'll always have

1294
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 2: this fucked up underlying relationship. So I think that when

1295
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 2: you do meet somebody great, you should go for it.

1296
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 2: But what she's talking about, in particular about the expense

1297
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 2: of your career, I can't relate.

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01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I didn't like this. I don't think that

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01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 1: even the idea that as you get older, the supply

1300
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 1: lessons and there's not going to be as many options,

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01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:56,560
Speaker 1: And I just don't find that to be true.

1302
01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 2: I mean, but dating is harder when you're older, that's true,

1303
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:00,320
Speaker 2: she said, for it isn't fifties.

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01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: Okay, it could be, but the idea that there's no

1305
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 1: supply is not true. My grandma well hoo ass apparently

1306
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 1: she got married in her fifties. So to me, like,

1307
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 1: and I mean, we're seeing now too, as long as

1308
01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 1: it's legal. The idea of the age gap is widening,

1309
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 1: Like a lot of women are now willing to date

1310
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: younger I think for me, and are those younger guys

1311
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 1: willing to settle down a lot of them older? Yeah,

1312
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: a lot of these younger men. And that's the thing.

1313
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: I know. We like the predatory thing, but a lot

1314
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: of these younger men love an older one. We can't

1315
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 1: get a nigga to commit thirty five to thirty five.

1316
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. The idea that then if it's

1317
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: twenty two and twenty three and twenty four, there are

1318
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: people starting families getting married at those ages. I don't

1319
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: understand why this idea of singledom when you get older,

1320
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 1: those same people that were willing to get married, that

1321
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: were purchasing homes, that were starting families, can't do it.

1322
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 1: It's just not true. Like I have right now, my

1323
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: little whyan that I sent you where his Instagram lot.

1324
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 1: I thought he was a rapper. He has his own

1325
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 1: business and it's great, but he like meeting him girl.

1326
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,320
Speaker 1: He cooked for me. He owns a business, has one

1327
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 1: in Texas, has one in Jordan. You're not that much

1328
01:08:09,520 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 1: older than him. I have him by ten years, forties

1329
01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 1: and twenties and a Wi Fi. But what I'm saying,

1330
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,920
Speaker 1: is even my friend right now, if I'm dating guys

1331
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,720
Speaker 1: in their thirties, they're not much more mature than the

1332
01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: twenty five year old that I'm dating.

1333
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 2: So okay, we're having a different conversation. No, he's really

1334
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 2: talking about forties and fifties.

1335
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 1: That is what I'm saying is I do not like

1336
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 1: this idea that as a woman in her forties or fifties,

1337
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: there's slim pickings. There's not. There are men that are

1338
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 1: done with marriage or men that never got married. There

1339
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 1: are men that are younger that are interested in older women.

1340
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: Mind you, even to just label it as black women,

1341
01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:45,600
Speaker 1: we are now clearly we see what just happened with

1342
01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 1: Venus and Serena Baby. Black women are now not sitting

1343
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:51,799
Speaker 1: here hell bent on finding black love and they stepping

1344
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: theirs in Rangel that I think are maybe conflating one.

1345
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: Her advice about of like Kevin Samuels, her.

1346
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 2: Advice of like kind of slow going down in life

1347
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 2: and like grabbing someone while you can was bad advice.

1348
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 2: What she's saying about forties and fifties true, And I'm

1349
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:09,599
Speaker 2: gonna tell you why. For one, it's not that it's

1350
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 2: slim pickings. More than it's the lifestyle we're living in

1351
01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:15,600
Speaker 2: forties in their fifties. Okay, it's easy to date in

1352
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 2: your twenties and thirties because you're out, you're doing more

1353
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 2: one someone in let's just say forty eight. You're not

1354
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:23,560
Speaker 2: going out all the time solo to sit at the

1355
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 2: bar to look for someone. And even if you are,

1356
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: are you going to meet decent gentlemen that are your age?

1357
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 2: And if you are meeting younger guys, how many of

1358
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 2: those younger guys are looking for the things that you're

1359
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 2: looking for?

1360
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 1: That is that's that is different. A lot of look

1361
01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 1: at us in our twenties and thirties. Look at the

1362
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:40,559
Speaker 1: men that you that you're that you even dated. Where

1363
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: did you meet them? A lot of us in our

1364
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:45,679
Speaker 1: twenties and thirties aren't meeting people at bars. We're meeting

1365
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,720
Speaker 1: them through friends. We're meeting them at jobs, We're meeting

1366
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,960
Speaker 1: them on trips, like the way that we even meet

1367
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 1: people dating apps. But that's what I'm saying, the activity

1368
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,720
Speaker 1: that you know, but just forties and things. I just said.

1369
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 1: In your forties and fifties, you're going to work. You

1370
01:09:57,880 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: might meet someone at your job in your forties and fifties,

1371
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 1: you still have friends of family that can introduce you

1372
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,560
Speaker 1: to someone else in your forties and fifties. You're swiping like.

1373
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is the way that even in our

1374
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 1: twenties and thirties we meet men or women is the

1375
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: same way that you can still meet them in your

1376
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: forties and fifties. What I'm saying is when you go

1377
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 1: to a bar, when you go to a club, you're

1378
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:18,519
Speaker 1: not really running this in that really worth the damage

1379
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 1: even vote. I don't know how old your oldest friend is.

1380
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 1: They old. I'm the youngest of my friends and I'm

1381
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: thirty five. He sure, how old your oldest friend that's single, Well,

1382
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 1: my friend is my oldest is forty five and she

1383
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 1: got married. I was at the Thronot and her man's

1384
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 1: fifty five. Now the forty five age range right to me.

1385
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 2: You don't look old, but you feel like you're aging

1386
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 2: out of a certain process.

1387
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 1: And no, it's true home girl, bad to doctor bitch

1388
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: and they live in the best life. Ray for them, Mandy.

1389
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,640
Speaker 1: But women that are forty five feel like they are

1390
01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:54,880
Speaker 1: too old. Thought. I'm telling you right now, Sis, go

1391
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:58,639
Speaker 1: get you Awaiian, go get you something. They are out there.

1392
01:10:58,760 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 1: I look at.

1393
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 2: Claudia your what baddie successful and she's even talking like that.

1394
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 1: But that's but that's what I'm saying, and I think

1395
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: that that is a Kevin Samuel's way of thinking for

1396
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 1: me when I'm out like girl even in Atlanta, and baby,

1397
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 1: there's just met and you see, by the way, forties fifties,

1398
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 1: look at me along, look at j Low. Look at

1399
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:18,639
Speaker 1: what women are looking like in their forties and fifties.

1400
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 1: They're not looking how long as Jy Low. Look at

1401
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 1: fucking Tracy Edmonds who was just out with doctor Brian,

1402
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 1: Doctor Briant was probably the youngest bitch in that group.

1403
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 1: And look at that group. Bye, yeah, what I mean,

1404
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 1: It's true. Bro, what I'm saying at the end of

1405
01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,680
Speaker 1: the day is with this platform and what I'm seeing, Bro,

1406
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: the niggas out here is a shiit. No, they're never

1407
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 1: gonna be but you're never gonna not have men to

1408
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: date there is because that's the easiest thing to get.

1409
01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: Yankee Nigga. Never say nating being difficult and men to

1410
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 1: date are two different things. By the way, again, bro,

1411
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: nig can always get it. Think about you and your.

1412
01:11:55,680 --> 01:11:59,599
Speaker 2: Twenties, the volume of dating versus thirties. When you know more,

1413
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 2: you put up with less shit. You don't want to

1414
01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 2: be around fuck niggas, You barely want to fucking be

1415
01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:05,200
Speaker 2: out in the clubs that you're like, this is trash.

1416
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: Shout out to your friend with sanders in her thirties.

1417
01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:10,599
Speaker 2: Imagine that, fucking imagine the shit ten to fifteen years

1418
01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 2: from now that you're gonna have knowledge about and feel

1419
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 2: and you're not gonna want to put yourself in those predicaments.

1420
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: So dating will be no, dating will be harder. Yes,

1421
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 1: that's all, But it doesn't mean that the pickings are slim,

1422
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying, and that's what she said. Agree,

1423
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 1: so that when you get to your forties and fifties,

1424
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 1: that the pickings are slim. You actually finally finding self

1425
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:31,680
Speaker 1: love and having standards. That's what makes it hard, but

1426
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 1: not your age, Like, bitch, my friend having standards is

1427
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:37,960
Speaker 1: so shout out to your friend with standers. Shout out

1428
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:40,600
Speaker 1: to the ladies with sanders. Ladies, if you don't have

1429
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 1: to buy one way, don't because if you used to

1430
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 1: a nigga buying you round trip, bitch, stick to your

1431
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 1: round trip standard. If you met a dude you like,

1432
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 1: would you, Oh, Bitney, I'll fly him in if I

1433
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: met it. That's why I said, your friend don't like

1434
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 1: that nigga. She do like that nigga. She believes that

1435
01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:57,679
Speaker 1: this is how she's supposed to be dating. That's the problem.

1436
01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:03,639
Speaker 1: Heard you, sure, I hear you. I'm trying to find

1437
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 1: a way to like three and disagree like it's twenty

1438
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 1: twenty six. I said what I said, And your friends

1439
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:11,240
Speaker 1: don't like that nigger, But you know what it gives

1440
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:12,720
Speaker 1: to me, which is why I thought you would agree.

1441
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:15,600
Speaker 1: This to me is very you have to do X

1442
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 1: y Z for me. This is very bill money to me. Oh,

1443
01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold you the way And will you

1444
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 1: come to to procestutes? No, when you come to my

1445
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 1: house now you're taking my trash out, and if you coming, don't.

1446
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:28,679
Speaker 1: But this is what I'm saying. You're doing it because

1447
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 1: there's a monetary value. No, no, no, you and I

1448
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 1: have had conversations or bitches act like prostitutes, right, And

1449
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that is not acting like a prostitute.

1450
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: Because I want you to buy my full flight to

1451
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,600
Speaker 1: a trip you invited me on like to me, I

1452
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 1: have standards of ways I want niggas to show up.

1453
01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna talk about it on the Patreon if

1454
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: you join me on Patreon, talk about how I got

1455
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:49,280
Speaker 1: a new look cake with these niggas. But but to me,

1456
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 1: once you get to a place where you're like, this

1457
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 1: is what I want, this is what I deserve because

1458
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: this is how much I value myself and this is

1459
01:13:56,800 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: what I've gotten, there's nothing prosituting about telling the next

1460
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 1: nick good, you either do this or this ain't gonna

1461
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: work for me.

1462
01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 2: Is value then attributed to having everything done and laid

1463
01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:06,560
Speaker 2: out for you?

1464
01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: It's not everything done and laid out like to me,

1465
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 1: the fact that you weren't even said I picked the

1466
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 1: hotel like she the hotel? Are you serious right now?

1467
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:20,880
Speaker 1: So so now that's girl telling we talk about how

1468
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: we don't want Now you bugg get right, it's something

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Speaker 1: as women we complain what we have to pick where

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01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 1: we go on dates.

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Speaker 2: So the fact that she even had to help Wait, now,

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01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:34,240
Speaker 2: now this actually sounds crazy to me. If you've heard Mandy,

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01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 2: if you tell a nigga, yo, is there a place

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01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 2: you tell me a place you've never been? You want

1475
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 2: to go the Turks. Really, is there a place you

1476
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:41,800
Speaker 2: want to stay? I want to stay here, and I

1477
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 2: do it for you. Now, I picked it and there

1478
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 2: was too much work.

1479
01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell a nigga when I fought on his face,

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01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: he goes, see Christ the Lord. That's why he didn't

1481
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:51,720
Speaker 1: get you. The You don't want to pick your guest.

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01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no, no, no, it won't much. I'll

1483
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:56,760
Speaker 1: lead it to the Okay, you are narcissist, all right.

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01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:01,080
Speaker 1: I don't think that's really what it is, what the dating,

1485
01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 1: but like that's my thing, Like, it's not dating, Like

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01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 1: to me, you're either together you're not. Like, that's why

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01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm making these That's why I say I have boyfriends.

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01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:11,960
Speaker 1: Oh bro, we don't put titles on shit now, like

1489
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 1: because there's certain ways that you show up when you're

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01:15:14,600 --> 01:15:16,680
Speaker 1: in a relationship with somebody. And so for me, if

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01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:19,680
Speaker 1: you're this idea that we're dating, to me, if I'm

1492
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: just dating you as most women, I don't care where

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01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:25,679
Speaker 1: it's at. You're still courting me. You're paying for everything.

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01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 1: That's how we date now. It just is, it is

1495
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: what it is. Okay, unless you want a date a

1496
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 1: broke in you want to pay for everything. When women date,

1497
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,599
Speaker 1: men normally pay for everything until it starts getting serious,

1498
01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: or until the woman starts being invested, and maybe she's

1499
01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:40,160
Speaker 1: just not to the point where she wants to invest

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01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 1: in him. Clearly, their communication sucks. I wouldn't want to

1501
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: fucking fly myself out to an island with a nigga

1502
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 1: where communication is black, like we're missing each other on

1503
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 1: text messages. You don't hear from me for a couple

1504
01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:54,720
Speaker 1: of days or long enough to me, the communication ain't

1505
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:56,760
Speaker 1: even there to where this is a nigga. I want

1506
01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: to invest in three eight again. I gotta set your

1507
01:15:58,479 --> 01:15:59,360
Speaker 1: dick from the back, nah.

1508
01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:01,800
Speaker 2: I think think the largest issue in this whole thing

1509
01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 2: is one. If you're gonna have a trip with somebody,

1510
01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 2: it means sometimes for me going on trip with.

1511
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:12,880
Speaker 1: Oh girl, I done turned down Hawaii Panama. Nigga wanted

1512
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 1: to take me to the snow, I said in the winter,

1513
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 1: I said, what are we gonna do?

1514
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 2: Hot coco and fuck no no. But that's what I'm

1515
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 2: saying right. I've been on trips with niggas I can't stand,

1516
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 2: don't care about whatever. With some people, a trip is

1517
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:26,479
Speaker 2: a big fucking deal.

1518
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,280
Speaker 1: And it's not for her. That's why she said nigga

1519
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 1: for three and I don't want this free trip.

1520
01:16:30,560 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 2: Because he's not the guy that she normally has been dating. Okay, well,

1521
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 2: I guess that's why she cried about a nigga now,

1522
01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:41,600
Speaker 2: and yes, she's literally upset. She's just like, this was

1523
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 2: so ridiculous, like he didn't want to talk it out,

1524
01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 2: blah blah blah.

1525
01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 1: No, bit, you're ridiculous, and that's why you're in the

1526
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 1: She is dumb. You a dumb. Everybody is dumb. You

1527
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Speaker 1: know how much.

1528
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Speaker 2: Jump on Patreon dot comic did you hear the laughter

1529
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Speaker 2: in the background. You'd be a real dumb bitch if

1530
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Speaker 2: you don't go right now to Patreon dot com backslash

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1533
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Speaker 2: beyond the town halls. And we also have an additional

1534
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Speaker 2: tier where you're gonna see an announcement.

1535
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Speaker 1: We're adding a bunch more shit. Yeah, we're about to

1536
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Speaker 1: start blogging, bitch and blogging, blogging and blogging. Oh B

1537
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Speaker 1: and B now what about oh yeah, blogging and blogging.

1538
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Speaker 1: It's gonna be so much fun. Just join us on there, bride.

1539
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Speaker 1: Yeah no, thank you guys uh for tuning in. Also, girl,

1540
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Speaker 1: can we plug? Also, if you have it yet, make

1541
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Speaker 1: and Schuster site, you can actually get the signed copy

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1547
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Speaker 1: mean depend where blood are not the pen? When the pen?

1548
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Speaker 1: Please the ink? Please not me? Okay, I'm hoping you're

1549
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Speaker 1: not giving people bloody books, so make sure you go

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Speaker 1: And if you were unaware, at the one year mark,

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Speaker 1: in June. Also, if you're in Atlanta, check me out

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Speaker 1: nine and follow me on my socials. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Ghana this year with Carnival Kingdom and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Jamaica with Chocolate Bliss. She is our yeah, you know,

1563
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Speaker 1: and I like Ghana over Nigeria, but I'll save that

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Speaker 1: for uh uh Patreon because y'all go drag me bitch. Anyways,

1565
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Speaker 1: thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of

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Speaker 1: the Cisyons. The Cisyons everybody night. Oh leave the quick