WEBVTT - Party Like It’s 2025

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, folks, this is I Do Part two, the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast where if you got love right the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to go ahead and stop listening right now,

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<v Speaker 1>because this podcast ain't for you. It's for those of

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<v Speaker 1>us who didn't get love right the first time, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the second time. There's someone didn't get it right

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<v Speaker 1>the third or the fourth, that's okay. We are here

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<v Speaker 1>for the folks who have not given up on love

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<v Speaker 1>and still have hope of getting it right. We are

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of your hosts. I'm TJ.

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<v Speaker 2>Holmes and I'm Amy Roeboch. And yeah, it's a new year.

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<v Speaker 2>It's twenty twenty five, which means there are new trends

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<v Speaker 2>in dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know that, t J?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. Well, I'm not dating. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>think I need to use these, no that these will

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<v Speaker 1>come in handy. I am now listening.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, But we are there for you,

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<v Speaker 2>for those of you who are dating, you're single, you're

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<v Speaker 2>ready to mingle, you want to couple up, it's cuffing season,

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<v Speaker 2>all those things.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's new right for some people. Some people are

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<v Speaker 1>newly single, are they not?

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, that's true. The new year can bring a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of new opportunities. It could close some chapters and

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<v Speaker 2>some old love. So yeah, a lot of people are

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<v Speaker 2>starting a new and they've got a new energized excitement

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<v Speaker 2>about finding that person, that soulmate, that soul mate yeah life. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't everybody looking for the loves of their life?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and look, this is an opportunity. This is actually

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<v Speaker 1>for a lot of people. A they're single voluntarily. This

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<v Speaker 1>isn't just a matter we talk so often about people

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<v Speaker 1>looking for somebody and I can't find. Well, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people are very happy right now to be single,

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<v Speaker 1>and it happens a lot uncoupling happens around the holiday. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for a new opportunity. It's New Year's eve.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to kiss you go up as again.

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<v Speaker 2>And so, yes, people are starting the new year, and

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<v Speaker 2>we wanted to pass along some of these new dating trends.

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<v Speaker 3>It could help you on your journey.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. So the first one, and this is interesting, we're

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<v Speaker 2>told one of the new dating trends of twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five is the return of romance. I didn't know it

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<v Speaker 2>went away, but apparently many folks are embracing romantic gestures

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<v Speaker 2>and a significant number of you identify as a romantic,

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<v Speaker 2>would you say you are a romantic?

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<v Speaker 3>TJ.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't think that's for me to say. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it is for you? Is it not? I would? I

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<v Speaker 1>like gestures. I like simplicity. I like I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>could call it old school, just a simple sending flowers

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<v Speaker 1>when it's not the birthday or it's not Valentine's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a random Wednesday, and I wanted to say

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<v Speaker 1>I love you or I miss you. Those types of

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<v Speaker 1>gestures I suppose are romantic. But the I love that idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I get caught up in it as well, but unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the reality for so many people, and some

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<v Speaker 1>people the same to thing that's like those are outdated.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think they are at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And you are a romantic, by the way, and you

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<v Speaker 2>are good at that, and I definitely would identify as

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<v Speaker 2>a romantic as well. I like all the little small gestures.

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<v Speaker 2>I like those small reminders, a note that just says

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<v Speaker 2>I love you, you know, or a little meme. We

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<v Speaker 2>have our little memes that we send each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so this is key. Now, when you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>being a romantic, it was always a matter of a

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<v Speaker 1>gesture that the guy does or you, Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>a woman can do as a romantic and you be

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<v Speaker 1>a romantic but be giving.

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<v Speaker 2>I would absolutely say so yes, so bye bye. It

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<v Speaker 2>is that same notion of saying I love you, of

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<v Speaker 2>sending you something, or reminding someone throughout the day when

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<v Speaker 2>it's unexpected that I'm thinking of you, or I can't

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<v Speaker 2>wait to see you, those types of things. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you can go as much as if you've been in

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<v Speaker 2>a longer relationship setting up a date or create an

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<v Speaker 2>experience gift where you say we're going to go somewhere together,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to do something, We're gonna date each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we take each other for granted sometimes. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>those are all romantic gestures I feel like. Anyway, Apparently

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<v Speaker 2>Bumble is predicting fifty five percent of women in the

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<v Speaker 2>United States this year will proclaim themselves as romantics. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>surprised it's fifty five percent guys lower high, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's low low.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I maybe I only know the world through

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<v Speaker 2>my own lens, but it just seems like more women

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<v Speaker 2>than not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what does that you say? No, you say chivalry

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<v Speaker 1>is dead? Not Yeah, not romance. You say chivalry is dead.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, randos aren't holding the door open or letting women

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<v Speaker 2>leave the elevator first or get into the subway car first.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's dead.

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<v Speaker 2>Another trend intentional connections. So singles are moving away from

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<v Speaker 2>swiping left or right and just kind of seeing what happens,

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<v Speaker 2>but focusing on finding that deeper, more meaningful relationship connection

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<v Speaker 2>not a situationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm rolling my eyes because I have I I tune

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<v Speaker 1>out every time I hear deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>Why because you have me watching all these damn love

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<v Speaker 1>Islands of the World and all these dating shows where

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<v Speaker 1>every time I hear it all the time, I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>for a deeper connection. I want something more meaningful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's hot. Did you see that data? It's so I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of tune out. What does that even mean? I

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<v Speaker 1>get what it means I suppose supposed to mean.

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<v Speaker 2>But is that really I think it means it's not

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<v Speaker 2>just about sex. Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what is supposed?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>More meaningful and swipe based?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because swipe based is like what you're doing right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the booty call, kind of like the accepted booty

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<v Speaker 2>call right, booty call app?

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<v Speaker 1>It can be not booty are that booty call apps?

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<v Speaker 2>I think so it depends on what tom a day

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<v Speaker 2>you're swiping left or right. But I think a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of younger folk and I just can only speak, even

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<v Speaker 2>from what I'm hearing from my daughter who's in her

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<v Speaker 2>early twenties and their friends. I'm not looking for relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want a situationship. I just want to have fun.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think the point is this year people are

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<v Speaker 2>maybe pivoting and saying, you know what enough of that?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, just surface stuff or sex stuff. But I

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<v Speaker 2>actually want someone who's my best friend, who I can

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<v Speaker 2>go do this with or talk about that with. And

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<v Speaker 2>so yes, the deeper connection versus just the sex.

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<v Speaker 1>And every time we've had a conversation with someone about this,

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<v Speaker 1>they end up going going back, well, where am I

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to meet these people? I can't get to know

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<v Speaker 1>anybody because of this and that, And it ends up

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<v Speaker 1>being so often what they're talking about here a swiping

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<v Speaker 1>or dating app. But this is challenging. It's easy to

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<v Speaker 1>say it, but it is, from our experience in doing

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, very challenging.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of women feel like they're ready

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<v Speaker 2>for it, but they can't find the man who's ready

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<v Speaker 2>for that, who wants to have, who's looking for a

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<v Speaker 2>long time or a long term partner or a life partner.

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<v Speaker 2>I think from what I've heard, that's always been the struggle.

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<v Speaker 2>So the dating apps are tough because usually the thought

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<v Speaker 2>is that a lot of men are on there for

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<v Speaker 2>one reason and one reason only.

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<v Speaker 1>And what the micro romance?

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<v Speaker 2>A micromance? This is a trend. Oh, this is what

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<v Speaker 2>I was kind of talking about that emphasizes those small,

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<v Speaker 2>meaningful interactions rather than grand gestures. And you know, this

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<v Speaker 2>is my language because I cannot stand the big gestures

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<v Speaker 2>like look at me doing something for you. I'm bringing

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<v Speaker 2>balloons to work in front of everybody because I'm the

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<v Speaker 2>best boyfriend of the year, or you know, look at

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<v Speaker 2>me giving you this.

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<v Speaker 3>It just I feel like it's self serving.

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<v Speaker 2>Like sometimes these big grand gestures are kind of more

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<v Speaker 2>about the person making the gesture than the person they're

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<v Speaker 2>giving it to. Look at what a good partner I am.

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<v Speaker 2>And the small little ones where you might not get

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<v Speaker 2>the big atta boy or the big like okay, you

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<v Speaker 2>you making dinner and then cleaning the dishes and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I come in and I'm thinking, he

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<v Speaker 2>just made dinner and did the dishes.

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<v Speaker 3>That is so sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so amazing, and that is such an unbelievable

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<v Speaker 2>recognize micro gesture that you didn't have to do that,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't ask you to do, but you did it anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>And that would be an example.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, some would argue you, yeah, he's supposed to help

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<v Speaker 1>out anyway. He's supposed to cook, he's supposed to clean.

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<v Speaker 1>But to your point, usually the guy isn't often doing right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. If you cook and clean, that is above and beyond.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think those are the moments you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>true though, and just it's the little things that aren't.

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<v Speaker 3>For everyone else. They're just for your partner.

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<v Speaker 2>And even if you don't get a thank you or

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<v Speaker 2>a recognition, you know you did something sweet for your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you made me think of something here.

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<v Speaker 1>Your parents were here and at least was coming back

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<v Speaker 1>Sabina and I had to go to La right. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to while we were gone. I wanted to send

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<v Speaker 1>you flowers. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you didn't want my parents to see.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want anybody to think I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>do something to be impressive while other people I actually

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<v Speaker 1>didn't send you flowers because I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>seen as the guy doing it for a grand gesture

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<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually appreciate that because I totally get that you

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<v Speaker 2>weren't doing it so that my parents think, Wow, what

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<v Speaker 2>a great guy Amy has. It's I do think that

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<v Speaker 2>it matters your intention if it's just to make somebody smile,

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<v Speaker 2>not for everyone else to see.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that, So I'm a huge fan of.

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<v Speaker 1>But tell your parents that you didn't get flowers because

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<v Speaker 1>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's so funny. I totally get. I get that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I and I support that date with me.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is I shouldn't say silly to each his

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<v Speaker 1>own or her own.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's because we're older and we didn't grow up

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<v Speaker 2>on social media and we didn't take people along with

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<v Speaker 2>us on our journeys to whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well we're talking. There's two different things. Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>you take them along your journey on social media, that's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing. I thought it was meaning like we're literally

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<v Speaker 1>bringing somebody, But.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's no, no, no, I get that. Actually, I totally

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<v Speaker 2>that I need a wing woman No Day with Me,

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<v Speaker 2>singles bringing others along for their romantic journey, sharing the

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<v Speaker 2>ups and downs of their love lives through social media.

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<v Speaker 2>And so people are actually turning their journey into finding someone,

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<v Speaker 2>their romantic escapades into content. And so then their followers

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<v Speaker 2>are weighing in. They're either cheering or they're booing. But see,

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<v Speaker 2>here's what the problem is with that for me is

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<v Speaker 2>that once you invite people along your journey, they get

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<v Speaker 2>to say whatever they think about it, and that can absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>Impact your decision on what you do next.

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<v Speaker 2>And not everybody gets it just because they see a

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<v Speaker 2>video you posted or a picture you posted. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's a little dangerous kind of It's almost like

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<v Speaker 2>you're letting people way in and I know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's part of what this podcast is.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't want to. I don't want to. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's great if you're open to the Peanut

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<v Speaker 2>gallery saying whatever they think.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, that's a little tough.

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<v Speaker 1>My problem is you let them in from the beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>but when does it end? At some point you're feeding

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<v Speaker 1>them like you have no excuse six months, eight months,

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<v Speaker 1>year and a half later to say, well, I want

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<v Speaker 1>some privacy or don't talk to me about my breakup

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<v Speaker 1>or give us a moment. You don't have it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of it as if it's a public figure. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>just you do that, And now you've got to let

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<v Speaker 1>everybody into the pain. How much do you give them

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<v Speaker 1>along the way?

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<v Speaker 2>It's easy when things are going great, when things are

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<v Speaker 2>fun and exciting, when things are interesting. But when things

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<v Speaker 2>actually get personal and problematic, which they always will every

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<v Speaker 2>single relationship, then it becomes a little trickier. And we

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<v Speaker 2>only know this because we've spent our professional lives in

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<v Speaker 2>front of the camera, and that has invited a camera

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<v Speaker 2>or a lens, so to speak, into our personal lives.

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<v Speaker 2>And it cuts both ways, people, it cuts both ways.

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<v Speaker 2>So just know what you're getting into.

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<v Speaker 1>My other issue here?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what's your other issue? The other person?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you want to date somebody that's putting all of

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<v Speaker 1>it out there?

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<v Speaker 2>So I thought that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody in the world, give me your opinion about this.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy, and do you want to be that guy? Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my gosh, So you're limiting who would date you, because

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of folks wouldn't date you knowing that they're

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<v Speaker 2>about to be talked about, commented about. I would think

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<v Speaker 2>that would be the right thing to do, and if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't and they found out later, that would be

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<v Speaker 2>another problem altogether. So you have to find the person

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<v Speaker 2>who's willing to be on that journey with you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting hang to each is Kelly Bensimon. Ye, she's

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<v Speaker 1>doing She's essentially letting people go along on the journey

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<v Speaker 1>while she's dating it.

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<v Speaker 2>And there are plenty of people who love the idea

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<v Speaker 2>that who like the attention and like the excitement of

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<v Speaker 2>having people come on the ride with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's try for a week. We won't make it to There's.

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<v Speaker 2>No way we're doing that, all right. Dopamine dates, Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we could get it. This is another trend. These are

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<v Speaker 2>designed to create excitement and joy, moving beyond traditional dating experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>The example we're given is going to an escape room.

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<v Speaker 1>Does a theme park like going to ride Corolla Coasters?

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<v Speaker 2>Does that? I think? So?

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<v Speaker 1>Count right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What about going to see a horror movie? Well, that's

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<v Speaker 2>a well for us, but a dopamine kick for us.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate the idea of going to a movie on

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<v Speaker 1>a date because you can't talk, That's true. I love

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<v Speaker 1>going to movies with you now because you can't talk.

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<v Speaker 1>It took a second. Y'all should see her face. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>should see her face.

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<v Speaker 2>I can still lean over and whisper use that one

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<v Speaker 2>for the social clip. I can lean over and.

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<v Speaker 1>Whisper her face.

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<v Speaker 2>Because when we're watching it on the couch, at least

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<v Speaker 2>you have a rewind button, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Use it a lot. And I refuse to do subtitles,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can't read what's happening, so I pause. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you will be talking for five minutes and then you

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<v Speaker 1>look up. Oh, you stop the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, and I'm always grateful because I missed it

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<v Speaker 2>too because I was talking.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but another dopamine date?

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<v Speaker 2>What would it be? What could we do that would

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<v Speaker 2>be a dopamine date?

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<v Speaker 1>Would it be jumping out of we talk about skydiving.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, we tried to go pair gliding. Remember that would

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<v Speaker 2>have been a dopamine date.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was too windy.

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<v Speaker 3>The winds were too high.

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<v Speaker 1>We kicked up too much, but they were we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>blow away, so we didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that would that would have known?

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<v Speaker 1>Anything like that?

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<v Speaker 2>No, but we I want to and you you're into that. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we've written on a motorcycle together that could be a

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<v Speaker 2>dopamine date.

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<v Speaker 1>It was my motorcycle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I'm I'm totally trusting you, like I'm putting

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<v Speaker 2>my life into your hands.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a commuter vehicle. That wasn't a date that we

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<v Speaker 1>just needs to get from one place to one another.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we do have plans to take the motorcycle out

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<v Speaker 2>to go hiking.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be a dopamine date.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, fine, you can call it whatever you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call it, my love, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>The next trend that we're seeing in twenty twenty five

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<v Speaker 2>is niche dating. So we've all heard that opposites attract,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's not always the case. Bumbles survey found that

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<v Speaker 2>for forty six percent of singles, sharing interest, especially niche

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<v Speaker 2>interests that others might consider strained or even creepy, is

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<v Speaker 2>what they really want. And I get that because if

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<v Speaker 2>someone else is sharing the weird that you have in you, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>A bond that works, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>And horror movies that would be the best way, because

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<v Speaker 2>people think we're crazy for going to see.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is strange or even creepy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, some people would say going to horror movies and

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<v Speaker 2>loving horror movies the way we do is strange or creepy.

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<v Speaker 2>People have questioned, maybe even members of my own family

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<v Speaker 2>have questioned my fascination with the abomination that why do

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<v Speaker 2>you want to go watch something that is filled with

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<v Speaker 2>you know, terror and sometimes torture and sometimes gore. Like

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, I have been judged as being strange. For really,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't just like horror movies.

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<v Speaker 3>I love horror movies and we bonded over that.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to explain that to me. But when

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about niche dating, you have to find someone

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<v Speaker 1>that's into it, Like what kind of like Pokemon? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's niche dating.

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<v Speaker 2>That's niche dating. That niche dating like comic con, like

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<v Speaker 2>if you like if you like to dress up and

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<v Speaker 2>I like or or that kind of thing, like people

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<v Speaker 2>who both like to do role playing, that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So if I wanted to go to one of

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<v Speaker 1>these things and say, hey, I want to be mister

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<v Speaker 1>incredible and you'd be a lastic girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, uh new, Not for me, that's not my niche dating.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think if there's something else, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Else is there a super producers sitting into it? What

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<v Speaker 1>else would there be? Renaissance?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yep, yep, yep. That's a really good The Stories renaissance. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I do that that kind of thing makes sense

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<v Speaker 2>because if that's your that's what gets you going, that's

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<v Speaker 2>your you need to probably have somebody or it would.

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<v Speaker 1>Be helpful you really.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Otherwise, if I put on a big bear costume and say, hey, sweetheart,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be back at six, I don't think that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>work for us, not for long anyway. Everybody, do you thing,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what we're saying. But if someone is that,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just not necessarily right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you need to find your your person who

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<v Speaker 2>also enjoys said strange interest. Yes, that makes total sense.

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<v Speaker 1>But the what are we very early on in the

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<v Speaker 1>year now, and there seemed like so much last year

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<v Speaker 1>there was a lot of celebrity. I guess the main

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<v Speaker 1>un let's just do this. We talked about j Lo

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<v Speaker 1>and Ben was the big that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was our big breakup. We were we were really upset.

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<v Speaker 2>We were so so rooting.

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<v Speaker 1>I was holding on until they said the they asked

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<v Speaker 1>the judge to sign off on the divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>Even then, you you believed, you believe that maybe someone

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<v Speaker 2>was going to back.

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<v Speaker 1>Out of it. If I sent the letters to the

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<v Speaker 1>judge asking him to not sign off on the divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>I know we were rooting for them, always rooting for love,

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<v Speaker 2>but sometimes rooting for someone, rooting for a person means

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<v Speaker 2>also saying that sometimes you're better off not together, and

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<v Speaker 2>that is the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>That is true. We all this was one Obviously we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about j Lo and then here that that was

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<v Speaker 1>one story, a love story that's twenty plus years going,

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<v Speaker 1>and we talk about the movies she made about him

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<v Speaker 1>and them and all that. You're just like, wow, love

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing and how life works. And given our experience

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<v Speaker 1>and what we went, like, wow, you could relate to

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<v Speaker 1>how that could possibly be. And then for it not

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<v Speaker 1>to work out. Yeah, I'm still hoping they'll get back

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<v Speaker 1>together a third time.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's to say, I mean, if they if they could

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<v Speaker 2>wait twenty years, and maybe they just need for their

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<v Speaker 2>stars to not be shining so brightly.

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<v Speaker 3>The pressure, the public pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Of a public romance is real and it's tough, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're feeling it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's getting so much better. I felt it for Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>the first year was really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, the public pressure to stay together or the public

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<v Speaker 2>pressure of just.

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<v Speaker 1>Being a couple, just being a couple.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel it as much now I did then

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<v Speaker 2>as I did a year ago. And it does add

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<v Speaker 2>to stress levels because you feel like you're being watched,

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<v Speaker 2>you feel like you're being talked about. You feel like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's pressure associated with that, without a doubt, But in

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<v Speaker 2>that sense, I feel like, maybe even more so than not,

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<v Speaker 2>you root for public couples because you want them to

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<v Speaker 2>make it.

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<v Speaker 3>Because it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard already and adding fame and all.

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<v Speaker 3>Of that pressure to it is just tough.

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<v Speaker 2>But we already have some big celebrity breakups. And the

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<v Speaker 2>one that was shocking to me and I think to

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of folks was Jessica Alba and Cash Warren.

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<v Speaker 2>They just announced they are separating after sixteen years of marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>They have three kids together, and they were always on

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<v Speaker 2>the red carpets together with their family. Howebba, If you

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<v Speaker 2>go back just even last year, Jessica might have been

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<v Speaker 2>hinting at it in a couple of her interviews. There

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<v Speaker 2>was one in particular where she was talking about she

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<v Speaker 2>basically said, and again, this is someone who'd been married

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<v Speaker 2>at this point to fifteen, sixteen years after two and

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<v Speaker 2>a half years of marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like we became roommates.

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<v Speaker 2>That's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she said it in jest. Maybe it was just

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<v Speaker 1>he was just being pack.

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<v Speaker 2>She might have been paving the road. She might have

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<v Speaker 2>been preparing the road or preparing her fans for what

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<v Speaker 2>was to come.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she had a bad day that day. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a bad marriage day that day. I think we all have.

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<v Speaker 2>Them after two and a half years, and she's sixteen

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<v Speaker 2>years into it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can have it after two months, have a bad

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<v Speaker 1>marriage day.

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<v Speaker 3>She said it was that.

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<v Speaker 2>She described her marriage as you're just going through the motion.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the responsibility. It's a lot of like checking the boxes.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that does sound funny, it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>And but the thing is, I think a lot of

0:20:39.640 --> 0:20:42.720
<v Speaker 2>people can relate to that a lot. And it's not

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<v Speaker 2>that you can't work through that. And a lot of

0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:46.360
<v Speaker 2>people would say, hey, the magic can come back. You're

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<v Speaker 2>in the thicke of it with your kids. They have

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<v Speaker 2>three kids. But you know what, I applaud them because

0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:56.520
<v Speaker 2>I would having been in this situation. Sometimes the right

0:20:56.560 --> 0:20:58.760
<v Speaker 2>thing to do is to separate the right thing for

0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:00.080
<v Speaker 2>the kids, even.

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<v Speaker 3>To to show them how.

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<v Speaker 2>And it seems like they're doing it amicably and responsibly,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's not easy and it's not what anybody wants,

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<v Speaker 2>but sometimes it is the best thing for everybody, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's important to remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. This next, who is Brendan Ralph.

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<v Speaker 2>Brandon Ralph and Courtney Ford. They're divorcing after seventeen years

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<v Speaker 2>of marriage. And if you don't know, Brandon is a

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<v Speaker 2>Hallmark Channel alum. He rose to fame playing the Man

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<v Speaker 2>of Steel on Superman Returns. And then Courtney is a

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<v Speaker 2>Dexter alum.

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<v Speaker 1>And if folks don't remember, and I hate to put

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<v Speaker 1>this in there, but he was the Superman that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really work out. This wasn't too terribly long ago. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not knocking him. He has the look, the looking guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought he did great in the movies. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a big fan of all these, but he's that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He only got one run I think as Superman and

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<v Speaker 1>as Man of Steel.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know what, here's the thing about which is

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<v Speaker 2>really tough. They were This is we can talk about this.

0:21:56.400 --> 0:22:00.239
<v Speaker 2>They were forced basically to confirm to the world that

0:22:00.280 --> 0:22:06.040
<v Speaker 2>they were divorcing because someone outed them. An online publication

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<v Speaker 2>announced that this was happening before they were able to,

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<v Speaker 2>and it happened while the Los Angeles wildfires were going on.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's Courtney actually put this out because she needed to.

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<v Speaker 2>We were focused on grabbing our go bags and evacuating,

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<v Speaker 2>and it feels ridiculous to post the statement. It was

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<v Speaker 2>a statement that they were separating with the fires still raging,

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<v Speaker 2>but an online publication announced our news before we could. Damn.

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<v Speaker 3>We know what that's like. And it's unfortunate that.

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<v Speaker 1>One stings a lot. Anybody who was going through a divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>even a breakup, well, let's go with divorce in particular,

0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:47.000
<v Speaker 1>and he got kids involved. It's one of the worst

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<v Speaker 1>things that you will ever experience is going through that divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if it's amicable, sometimes just the pain off. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to look at your kids' faces and say this

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<v Speaker 1>is mommy and daddy aren't going to be together. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just hard. I hate this the idea that they all

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 1>that's going on. So you guys, a divorce going on,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get your kids okay, and you're on the run,

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<v Speaker 1>and now this publication decides to out the most difficult

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<v Speaker 1>part of your personal life. Man, that sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>It actually makes me physically angry for them on behalf

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<v Speaker 2>of them, because it's just, even if you are a

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<v Speaker 2>public figure and you are a celebrity and you make

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<v Speaker 2>your living doing so, it doesn't mean you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a right to a private life.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think when you're juggling so much for even

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:33.399
<v Speaker 2>put the fires aside, they're managing their kids, they're managing

0:23:33.400 --> 0:23:37.119
<v Speaker 2>their families, their friends. Telling people you're getting divorced is

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<v Speaker 2>one of the most difficult things to do. And yes,

0:23:39.800 --> 0:23:42.360
<v Speaker 2>it starts with your kids, but it's also your parents,

0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:46.440
<v Speaker 2>your siblings, your shared friends. All of this is incredibly painful.

0:23:46.760 --> 0:23:49.520
<v Speaker 2>And to have someone force your hand and you have

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<v Speaker 2>to say it or at least acknowledge it when you

0:23:52.160 --> 0:23:54.239
<v Speaker 2>weren't ready to. A lot of folks want to get

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<v Speaker 2>their divorce finalized. They want to have all their ducks

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<v Speaker 2>in a row before they.

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<v Speaker 3>Then announced it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know that's where our heads were in our situations.

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<v Speaker 2>And when someone forces your hand, and it's just it's

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<v Speaker 2>a it's a it's a trauma on top of a

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:09.040
<v Speaker 2>trauma that's unnecessary.

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<v Speaker 1>My next divorce, I'm going to announce it immediately. I

0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:14.520
<v Speaker 1>am going to be the first. I mean the moment,

0:24:14.560 --> 0:24:17.240
<v Speaker 1>it's going to be out there so quick, so quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Lesson learned. Next couple, deafening silence.

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<v Speaker 2>Deafening silence from me, h, yes, I know you were kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>This was another one Craig Conover and Paige Di Sorbo.

0:24:43.280 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 2>This was a Bravo Sphere crossover and a lot of

0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:48.359
<v Speaker 2>folks are rooting for them. Craig was from Southern Charm,

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:50.200
<v Speaker 2>Page was from Summerhouse.

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<v Speaker 3>But they broke up. This isn't a divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>This was just a breakup, and I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 2>minimize that because it's still significant. But they were dating

0:24:58.040 --> 0:25:01.080
<v Speaker 2>long distance for three years. Page was in New York,

0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:03.159
<v Speaker 2>Craig was in Charleston, South Carolina.

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<v Speaker 1>Which, as long distance goes, that's some would say that's manageable.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, because yes, it's a it's a easy quick plane ride.

0:25:10.800 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 2>It's it's a two hour plane ride.

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<v Speaker 1>And twelve hour I should know the drive. What's the drive?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's twelve or thirteen hours. Yeah, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not really drivable. But that's tough when you have to

0:25:21.320 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 2>pick weekends and and really manage your time like that.

0:25:24.880 --> 0:25:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I drive that far for you every weekend. If I

0:25:27.800 --> 0:25:30.600
<v Speaker 1>needed to you would that would that's very Sweetfy God,

0:25:30.680 --> 0:25:31.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to.

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<v Speaker 2>Though, I was like, man, that will never have to

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<v Speaker 2>be proven, never get tested. But you know, speaking of

0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:41.119
<v Speaker 2>long distance, it's funny my mom, they never were in

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:44.880
<v Speaker 2>a long distance relationship, but my dad traveled, she would say,

0:25:44.880 --> 0:25:47.159
<v Speaker 2>and I think my dad would do fifty percent of

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<v Speaker 2>their marriage before he retired.

0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:49.840
<v Speaker 1>And they've been married how long?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm fifty one, so they have been married for

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<v Speaker 2>fifty two years.

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:56.120
<v Speaker 1>They figured out the key to marriage.

0:25:56.240 --> 0:25:58.240
<v Speaker 2>So my mom said the key to their marriage was

0:25:58.240 --> 0:26:01.600
<v Speaker 2>being apart fifty percent of the time because that allowed

0:26:01.640 --> 0:26:05.680
<v Speaker 2>them to each kind of have their own time and

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:08.080
<v Speaker 2>then miss each other and then come back together. So

0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:11.320
<v Speaker 2>some people say that works really really well for.

0:26:11.280 --> 0:26:14.159
<v Speaker 1>That, then we're doomed because we spend every waking moment together.

0:26:14.280 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Speaker 3>We have a no distance relationship.

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:21.240
<v Speaker 1>No at all at all at all, You're I mean

0:26:21.560 --> 0:26:24.159
<v Speaker 1>even even when your showers go a little long. I'm like,

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:24.600
<v Speaker 1>where is she?

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<v Speaker 2>I know? I know, I think we spent so much

0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 2>time as friends missing each other that now we're just

0:26:32.080 --> 0:26:34.520
<v Speaker 2>so excited to be together that we actually get to

0:26:34.560 --> 0:26:36.919
<v Speaker 2>be together, and we choose to be together. But that

0:26:36.960 --> 0:26:40.200
<v Speaker 2>has come after a lot of time and a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of Yeah, I think longing, so that that does create

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<v Speaker 2>a different I think relationship or dynamic to begin with

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:50.400
<v Speaker 2>going into it, could.

0:26:50.240 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 1>You manage this relationship if we only got to spend

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<v Speaker 1>time together once every two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>I would if I had to, but it wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>my chore and it wouldn't be something I would say

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<v Speaker 2>helped our relationship. I think we would deal with it

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 2>and we would manage it. But there could be there

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:11.600
<v Speaker 2>could be silver linings. I mean, there is that thing.

0:27:11.640 --> 0:27:13.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean when we're apart for a day or two,

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:16.680
<v Speaker 2>I really miss you. It's happened silver lining It's only

0:27:16.680 --> 0:27:20.520
<v Speaker 2>happened like three times in the last in the last

0:27:20.960 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 2>in the last two and a half years, I think

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:25.680
<v Speaker 2>we've only been a part a couple of days, Like seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>that's it.

0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:29.640
<v Speaker 3>Maybe two or three days here or there, and.

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 2>It's it is nice to know that I miss you

0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 2>like crazy.

0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:39.000
<v Speaker 1>But could you do that for twenty years? It's the

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:40.720
<v Speaker 1>thing we talked about shery Lee Ralph here, who is

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:47.000
<v Speaker 1>someone we absolutely adore. She just exudes just grace and

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:49.000
<v Speaker 1>we love her. We absolutely love her.

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<v Speaker 3>From an elementary and yes, she had a.

0:27:52.119 --> 0:27:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Long career stage career, but she has said she has

0:27:54.920 --> 0:27:57.359
<v Speaker 1>been married and going back, and I think going back

0:27:57.400 --> 0:27:59.639
<v Speaker 1>and forth, but living in a long distance marriage for

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<v Speaker 1>t years. Look at this.

0:28:01.880 --> 0:28:05.639
<v Speaker 2>He's where Pennsylvania and she is she's in Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 2>That's tough.

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:07.040
<v Speaker 1>That's tough.

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:08.080
<v Speaker 3>I think that's really hard.

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 2>I think it depends on your relationship, and there is

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:15.879
<v Speaker 2>value in all sorts of different types of relationships. We

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:18.120
<v Speaker 2>just happen to be best friends, and I think that's

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>a little bit of a different relationship you can have

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:23.080
<v Speaker 2>and a lot of these. It also depends on your

0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 2>individual personality. I know you do like alone time. I

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:29.200
<v Speaker 2>don't know when you get it. I don't love alone time,

0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:31.399
<v Speaker 2>so I'm really happy in this relationship.

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Here's the deal. I do like alone time when I'm

0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:36.600
<v Speaker 3>with people who I don't want to be around.

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 2>So the point being is you are somebody who I

0:28:40.280 --> 0:28:42.320
<v Speaker 2>want to be around, So I don't ever need to

0:28:42.560 --> 0:28:45.200
<v Speaker 2>or want to be alone here or there.

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:47.600
<v Speaker 3>I can be though, you.

0:28:47.560 --> 0:28:50.840
<v Speaker 1>Can be alone. I'm just only I just appreciate it

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:53.120
<v Speaker 1>because I have for the past thirty years, I had

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:55.720
<v Speaker 1>so little of it, just been working in the business.

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:58.200
<v Speaker 1>You're just constantly eaving us like a work trip. I'm

0:28:58.280 --> 0:29:01.240
<v Speaker 1>surrounded by people, and I just whenever I get a

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.160
<v Speaker 1>chance to eat a meal alone, to just sit on

0:29:03.200 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 1>the couch and it's just me. I do appreciate it.

0:29:06.240 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 2>I think that's great, and I think that you have

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 2>to have a lot of trust and that's a beautiful thing.

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 2>So Cheryl Lee Ralph is on Judith Light from Who's

0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 2>the Boss. Do you remember her? I grew up watching her.

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't realize this. She's been in a long distance

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 2>marriage with her husband of thirty nine years. Judith resides

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:29.800
<v Speaker 2>in New York, her husband is in Los Angeles. That's tough.

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 3>It's very tough.

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:31.440
<v Speaker 2>She says.

0:29:31.480 --> 0:29:32.240
<v Speaker 3>They talk every day.

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 2>I would hope so thirty years they FaceTime every day.

0:29:35.920 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 2>But her quote is he loves to be alone and

0:29:38.720 --> 0:29:42.120
<v Speaker 2>I love to be alone. We both love our alone time.

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 3>We have that. It's also very creative for us.

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 2>So, I mean, I guess that makes sense if you

0:29:46.920 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 2>know who you are, and again, there's a huge level

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 2>of trust and respect and it works, and perhaps if

0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 2>they live together it wouldn't.

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:56.959
<v Speaker 1>That's the key. There are things that work for this

0:29:57.040 --> 0:29:59.160
<v Speaker 1>couple that might not work for this one. There is

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:01.920
<v Speaker 1>no one sign it hits all to meet to hear

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:06.320
<v Speaker 1>a long distance relationship for that long, I can imagine either,

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 1>and I would never want to sign up for that.

0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:11.160
<v Speaker 1>But for them and to hear it works, it's kind

0:30:11.160 --> 0:30:11.480
<v Speaker 1>of cool.

0:30:11.640 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And then this was a little I don't really

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 2>know how to interpret this next relationship. That's a long

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:22.120
<v Speaker 2>distance relationship, but maybe it isn't anymore. China Phillips and

0:30:22.160 --> 0:30:27.920
<v Speaker 2>Billy Baldwin, they recently met headlines when they explained it

0:30:27.960 --> 0:30:31.080
<v Speaker 2>like this. They said they were living separately because of

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 2>an allergy.

0:30:32.320 --> 0:30:32.959
<v Speaker 3>To one another.

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Allergic to your spouse.

0:30:35.400 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 2>That's a big.

0:30:35.960 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 3>Problem because I don't think Clariton's going to fix that.

0:30:37.920 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 1>I think they were being funny. I think I'm allergic

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 1>to this dude. I don't want to be around them.

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>They have an allergy to the person. And she might

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:47.280
<v Speaker 1>have been that might have been a sweet, acute way

0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:50.120
<v Speaker 1>of saying, you know, we're having problems right now.

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 2>So after I guess there was a lot of backlash

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:54.800
<v Speaker 2>for saying that. And by the way, they've been together,

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 2>they've been husband and wife for nearly thirty years. So

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 2>she said they had an allergy to one another, and

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:05.040
<v Speaker 2>we're living in separate homes. But then she says, wait

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:08.280
<v Speaker 2>a minute, I'm retracting that comment, and I am now

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 2>saying that it's probably a very foolish, very unwise, very destructive,

0:31:11.680 --> 0:31:14.760
<v Speaker 2>stupid decision, because that's not going to solve our problem

0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 2>with the allergy. With the allergy, so meaning they have

0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 2>some problems they need to work out, and perhaps living

0:31:20.080 --> 0:31:23.040
<v Speaker 2>in separate homes is not the way to solve those problems.

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 3>So now she is saying that they do live together.

0:31:25.760 --> 0:31:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, thirty years, they're doing something right.

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 2>And I also feel like, you know what, she doesn't

0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 2>have to explain herself. I have to remind myself, you

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 2>don't have to explain yourself and your choices with your

0:31:39.200 --> 0:31:41.680
<v Speaker 2>partner or your husband or wife to anyone else if

0:31:41.680 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 2>it's working for you.

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 1>Well you say that, I know, I.

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:46.320
<v Speaker 2>Mean you have to explain it to one another.

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:49.200
<v Speaker 1>No, No, I was making a joke about us having to.

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, we kind of did.

0:31:51.120 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:31:51.440 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think we were trying to not have to

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:55.280
<v Speaker 2>and that didn't work and it blew up in our faces.

0:31:55.280 --> 0:31:59.480
<v Speaker 2>So then we actually had to go ahead and explain. Yeah, yeah,

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:00.640
<v Speaker 2>I hear you yeah, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, well, OK, twenty twenty five already not farg in,

0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 1>but it's given us a lot, including some dating trims.

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:09.760
<v Speaker 1>We've got some breakup news. Hopefully we don't get too

0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:12.960
<v Speaker 1>much of that. And again, I'm fascinated by the people

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:18.240
<v Speaker 1>who are together for decades but are still living apart.

0:32:19.360 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 1>We do part far apart in those cases, but we do.

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<v Speaker 1>We're here for you. We will continue to be a

0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:28.520
<v Speaker 1>part of I Do Part two and try to help

0:32:28.560 --> 0:32:31.120
<v Speaker 1>you along in your life. And again we want to

0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:34.200
<v Speaker 1>remind you we are here to help along with our

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<v Speaker 1>team of experts and mentors.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So the only trend we really want to see

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<v Speaker 2>happen in twenty twenty five is that you are attracting

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<v Speaker 2>the love that you want into your life. And so

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<v Speaker 2>that's why we're here to help, or at least we

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<v Speaker 2>We're falling in love and hopefully staying in love is

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<v Speaker 2>the main objective.

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<v Speaker 1>But if not, just come back to the podcast, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>help you find your next love to. Well, for now,

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<v Speaker 2>J Holmes and I made me Robock. How A wonderful

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