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Speaker 1: Hey there, folks, this is I Do Part two, the

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Speaker 1: podcast where if you got love right the first time,

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Speaker 1: you need to go ahead and stop listening right now,

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Speaker 1: because this podcast ain't for you. It's for those of

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Speaker 1: us who didn't get love right the first time, or

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Speaker 1: maybe the second time. There's someone didn't get it right

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Speaker 1: the third or the fourth, that's okay. We are here

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Speaker 1: for the folks who have not given up on love

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Speaker 1: and still have hope of getting it right. We are

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Speaker 1: a couple of your hosts. I'm TJ.

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Speaker 2: Holmes and I'm Amy Roeboch. And yeah, it's a new year.

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Speaker 2: It's twenty twenty five, which means there are new trends

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Speaker 2: in dating.

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Speaker 3: Did you know that, t J?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. Well, I'm not dating. But if you

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Speaker 1: think I need to use these, no that these will

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Speaker 1: come in handy. I am now listening.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, But we are there for you,

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Speaker 2: for those of you who are dating, you're single, you're

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Speaker 2: ready to mingle, you want to couple up, it's cuffing season,

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Speaker 2: all those things.

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Speaker 1: So it's new right for some people. Some people are

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Speaker 1: newly single, are they not?

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Speaker 2: That's true, that's true. The new year can bring a

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Speaker 2: lot of new opportunities. It could close some chapters and

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Speaker 2: some old love. So yeah, a lot of people are

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Speaker 2: starting a new and they've got a new energized excitement

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Speaker 2: about finding that person, that soulmate, that soul mate yeah life. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: isn't everybody looking for the loves of their life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and look, this is an opportunity. This is actually

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Speaker 1: for a lot of people. A they're single voluntarily. This

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Speaker 1: isn't just a matter we talk so often about people

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Speaker 1: looking for somebody and I can't find. Well, a lot

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Speaker 1: of people are very happy right now to be single,

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Speaker 1: and it happens a lot uncoupling happens around the holiday. Right,

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Speaker 1: you're looking for a new opportunity. It's New Year's eve.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to kiss you go up as again.

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Speaker 2: And so, yes, people are starting the new year, and

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Speaker 2: we wanted to pass along some of these new dating trends.

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Speaker 3: It could help you on your journey.

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Speaker 2: Right. So the first one, and this is interesting, we're

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Speaker 2: told one of the new dating trends of twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: five is the return of romance. I didn't know it

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Speaker 2: went away, but apparently many folks are embracing romantic gestures

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Speaker 2: and a significant number of you identify as a romantic,

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Speaker 2: would you say you are a romantic?

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Speaker 3: TJ.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't think that's for me to say. Is

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Speaker 1: it is for you? Is it not? I would? I

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Speaker 1: like gestures. I like simplicity. I like I guess you

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Speaker 1: could call it old school, just a simple sending flowers

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Speaker 1: I love you or I miss you. Those types of

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Speaker 1: gestures I suppose are romantic. But the I love that idea.

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Speaker 1: I get caught up in it as well, but unfortunately

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Speaker 1: it's not the reality for so many people, and some

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Speaker 2: And you are a romantic, by the way, and you

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this is key. Now, when you talk about

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Speaker 2: I would absolutely say so yes, so bye bye. It

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Speaker 2: you can go as much as if you've been in

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Speaker 2: surprised it's fifty five percent guys lower high, Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: Another trend intentional connections. So singles are moving away from

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of women feel like they're ready

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Speaker 1: And what the micro romance?

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Speaker 2: A micromance? This is a trend. Oh, this is what

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Speaker 2: I was kind of talking about that emphasizes those small,

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Speaker 3: It just I feel like it's self serving.

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Speaker 2: Like sometimes these big grand gestures are kind of more

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Speaker 2: That is so amazing, and that is such an unbelievable

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Speaker 2: But it's so funny. I totally get. I get that,

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Speaker 1: So this is I shouldn't say silly to each his

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's because we're older and we didn't grow up

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Speaker 1: Okay, well we're talking. There's two different things. Okay, if

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Speaker 2: And so people are actually turning their journey into finding someone,

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Speaker 2: their romantic escapades into content. And so then their followers

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Speaker 1: You don't have to explain that to me. But when

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Speaker 2: That's niche dating. That niche dating like comic con, like

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Speaker 2: Oh, the public pressure to stay together or the public

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Speaker 3: Because it's hard.

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Speaker 2: It's the responsibility. It's a lot of like checking the boxes.

445
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:37,919
Speaker 1: Okay, that does sound funny, it's not.

446
00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:39,639
Speaker 2: And but the thing is, I think a lot of

447
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 2: people can relate to that a lot. And it's not

448
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,159
Speaker 2: that you can't work through that. And a lot of

449
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,360
Speaker 2: people would say, hey, the magic can come back. You're

450
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 2: in the thicke of it with your kids. They have

451
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,400
Speaker 2: three kids. But you know what, I applaud them because

452
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 2: I would having been in this situation. Sometimes the right

453
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 2: thing to do is to separate the right thing for

454
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Speaker 2: the kids, even.

455
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Speaker 3: To to show them how.

456
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 2: And it seems like they're doing it amicably and responsibly,

457
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 2: and it's not easy and it's not what anybody wants,

458
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 2: but sometimes it is the best thing for everybody, and

459
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 2: I think it's important to remember that.

460
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 1: All right. This next, who is Brendan Ralph.

461
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 2: Brandon Ralph and Courtney Ford. They're divorcing after seventeen years

462
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 2: of marriage. And if you don't know, Brandon is a

463
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 2: Hallmark Channel alum. He rose to fame playing the Man

464
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 2: of Steel on Superman Returns. And then Courtney is a

465
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 2: Dexter alum.

466
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Speaker 1: And if folks don't remember, and I hate to put

467
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 1: this in there, but he was the Superman that didn't

468
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 1: really work out. This wasn't too terribly long ago. I'm

469
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 1: not knocking him. He has the look, the looking guy,

470
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Speaker 1: and I thought he did great in the movies. I'm

471
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 1: a big fan of all these, but he's that guy.

472
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 1: He only got one run I think as Superman and

473
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Speaker 1: as Man of Steel.

474
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 2: So you know what, here's the thing about which is

475
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 2: really tough. They were This is we can talk about this.

476
00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:00,239
Speaker 2: They were forced basically to confirm to the world that

477
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 2: they were divorcing because someone outed them. An online publication

478
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 2: announced that this was happening before they were able to,

479
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:13,239
Speaker 2: and it happened while the Los Angeles wildfires were going on.

480
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:17,199
Speaker 2: So it's Courtney actually put this out because she needed to.

481
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 2: We were focused on grabbing our go bags and evacuating,

482
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: and it feels ridiculous to post the statement. It was

483
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,959
Speaker 2: a statement that they were separating with the fires still raging,

484
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 2: but an online publication announced our news before we could. Damn.

485
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 3: We know what that's like. And it's unfortunate that.

486
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Speaker 1: One stings a lot. Anybody who was going through a divorce,

487
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: even a breakup, well, let's go with divorce in particular,

488
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: and he got kids involved. It's one of the worst

489
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,959
Speaker 1: things that you will ever experience is going through that divorce.

490
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 1: Even if it's amicable, sometimes just the pain off. You

491
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Speaker 1: have to look at your kids' faces and say this

492
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: is mommy and daddy aren't going to be together. It's

493
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Speaker 1: just hard. I hate this the idea that they all

494
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: that's going on. So you guys, a divorce going on,

495
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 1: trying to get your kids okay, and you're on the run,

496
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: and now this publication decides to out the most difficult

497
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: part of your personal life. Man, that sucks.

498
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 2: It actually makes me physically angry for them on behalf

499
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 2: of them, because it's just, even if you are a

500
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 2: public figure and you are a celebrity and you make

501
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 2: your living doing so, it doesn't mean you don't.

502
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 3: Have a right to a private life.

503
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 2: And I think when you're juggling so much for even

504
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 2: put the fires aside, they're managing their kids, they're managing

505
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 2: their families, their friends. Telling people you're getting divorced is

506
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 2: one of the most difficult things to do. And yes,

507
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 2: it starts with your kids, but it's also your parents,

508
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 2: your siblings, your shared friends. All of this is incredibly painful.

509
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: And to have someone force your hand and you have

510
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 2: to say it or at least acknowledge it when you

511
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,239
Speaker 2: weren't ready to. A lot of folks want to get

512
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: their divorce finalized. They want to have all their ducks

513
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 2: in a row before they.

514
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 3: Then announced it.

515
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 2: And I know that's where our heads were in our situations.

516
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: And when someone forces your hand, and it's just it's

517
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 2: a it's a it's a trauma on top of a

518
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: trauma that's unnecessary.

519
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 1: My next divorce, I'm going to announce it immediately. I

520
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: am going to be the first. I mean the moment,

521
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: it's going to be out there so quick, so quick.

522
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: Lesson learned. Next couple, deafening silence.

523
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: Deafening silence from me, h, yes, I know you were kidding.

524
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 2: This was another one Craig Conover and Paige Di Sorbo.

525
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 2: This was a Bravo Sphere crossover and a lot of

526
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 2: folks are rooting for them. Craig was from Southern Charm,

527
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 2: Page was from Summerhouse.

528
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 3: But they broke up. This isn't a divorce.

529
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 2: This was just a breakup, and I'm not trying to

530
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: minimize that because it's still significant. But they were dating

531
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 2: long distance for three years. Page was in New York,

532
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,159
Speaker 2: Craig was in Charleston, South Carolina.

533
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: Which, as long distance goes, that's some would say that's manageable.

534
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 2: Yes, because yes, it's a it's a easy quick plane ride.

535
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 2: It's it's a two hour plane ride.

536
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: And twelve hour I should know the drive. What's the drive?

537
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: I think it's twelve or thirteen hours. Yeah, but it's

538
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,239
Speaker 2: not really drivable. But that's tough when you have to

539
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 2: pick weekends and and really manage your time like that.

540
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: I drive that far for you every weekend. If I

541
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: needed to you would that would that's very Sweetfy God,

542
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: I don't have to.

543
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 2: Though, I was like, man, that will never have to

544
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 2: be proven, never get tested. But you know, speaking of

545
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 2: long distance, it's funny my mom, they never were in

546
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 2: a long distance relationship, but my dad traveled, she would say,

547
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 2: and I think my dad would do fifty percent of

548
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 2: their marriage before he retired.

549
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: And they've been married how long?

550
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 2: Well, I'm fifty one, so they have been married for

551
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 2: fifty two years.

552
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: They figured out the key to marriage.

553
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 2: So my mom said the key to their marriage was

554
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: being apart fifty percent of the time because that allowed

555
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 2: them to each kind of have their own time and

556
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 2: then miss each other and then come back together. So

557
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: some people say that works really really well for.

558
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 1: That, then we're doomed because we spend every waking moment together.

559
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 3: We have a no distance relationship.

560
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 1: No at all at all at all, You're I mean

561
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: even even when your showers go a little long. I'm like,

562
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: where is she?

563
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 2: I know? I know, I think we spent so much

564
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: time as friends missing each other that now we're just

565
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 2: so excited to be together that we actually get to

566
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 2: be together, and we choose to be together. But that

567
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 2: has come after a lot of time and a lot

568
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 2: of Yeah, I think longing, so that that does create

569
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 2: a different I think relationship or dynamic to begin with

570
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 2: going into it, could.

571
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Speaker 1: You manage this relationship if we only got to spend

572
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 1: time together once every two weeks.

573
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 2: I would if I had to, but it wouldn't be

574
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 2: my chore and it wouldn't be something I would say

575
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 2: helped our relationship. I think we would deal with it

576
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 2: and we would manage it. But there could be there

577
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: could be silver linings. I mean, there is that thing.

578
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: I mean when we're apart for a day or two,

579
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: I really miss you. It's happened silver lining It's only

580
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 2: happened like three times in the last in the last

581
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 2: in the last two and a half years, I think

582
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 2: we've only been a part a couple of days, Like seriously,

583
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 2: that's it.

584
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 3: Maybe two or three days here or there, and.

585
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 2: It's it is nice to know that I miss you

586
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 2: like crazy.

587
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: But could you do that for twenty years? It's the

588
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: thing we talked about shery Lee Ralph here, who is

589
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: someone we absolutely adore. She just exudes just grace and

590
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: we love her. We absolutely love her.

591
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 3: From an elementary and yes, she had a.

592
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: Long career stage career, but she has said she has

593
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: been married and going back, and I think going back

594
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: and forth, but living in a long distance marriage for

595
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: t years. Look at this.

596
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 2: He's where Pennsylvania and she is she's in Los Angeles.

597
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: That's tough.

598
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: That's tough.

599
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 3: I think that's really hard.

600
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 2: I think it depends on your relationship, and there is

601
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 2: value in all sorts of different types of relationships. We

602
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 2: just happen to be best friends, and I think that's

603
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 2: a little bit of a different relationship you can have

604
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: and a lot of these. It also depends on your

605
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 2: individual personality. I know you do like alone time. I

606
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 2: don't know when you get it. I don't love alone time,

607
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 2: so I'm really happy in this relationship.

608
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 3: Here's the deal. I do like alone time when I'm

609
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 3: with people who I don't want to be around.

610
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 2: So the point being is you are somebody who I

611
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 2: want to be around, So I don't ever need to

612
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: or want to be alone here or there.

613
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: I can be though, you.

614
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: Can be alone. I'm just only I just appreciate it

615
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: because I have for the past thirty years, I had

616
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: so little of it, just been working in the business.

617
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: You're just constantly eaving us like a work trip. I'm

618
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: surrounded by people, and I just whenever I get a

619
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: chance to eat a meal alone, to just sit on

620
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: the couch and it's just me. I do appreciate it.

621
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 2: I think that's great, and I think that you have

622
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: to have a lot of trust and that's a beautiful thing.

623
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 2: So Cheryl Lee Ralph is on Judith Light from Who's

624
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: the Boss. Do you remember her? I grew up watching her.

625
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 2: I didn't realize this. She's been in a long distance

626
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 2: marriage with her husband of thirty nine years. Judith resides

627
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: in New York, her husband is in Los Angeles. That's tough.

628
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 3: It's very tough.

629
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 2: She says.

630
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 3: They talk every day.

631
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: I would hope so thirty years they FaceTime every day.

632
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 2: But her quote is he loves to be alone and

633
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 2: I love to be alone. We both love our alone time.

634
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 3: We have that. It's also very creative for us.

635
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 2: So, I mean, I guess that makes sense if you

636
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 2: know who you are, and again, there's a huge level

637
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 2: of trust and respect and it works, and perhaps if

638
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 2: they live together it wouldn't.

639
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 1: That's the key. There are things that work for this

640
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: couple that might not work for this one. There is

641
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: no one sign it hits all to meet to hear

642
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: a long distance relationship for that long, I can imagine either,

643
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: and I would never want to sign up for that.

644
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: But for them and to hear it works, it's kind

645
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: of cool.

646
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then this was a little I don't really

647
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 2: know how to interpret this next relationship. That's a long

648
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 2: distance relationship, but maybe it isn't anymore. China Phillips and

649
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: Billy Baldwin, they recently met headlines when they explained it

650
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 2: like this. They said they were living separately because of

651
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 2: an allergy.

652
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:32,959
Speaker 3: To one another.

653
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: Allergic to your spouse.

654
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 2: That's a big.

655
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 3: Problem because I don't think Clariton's going to fix that.

656
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 1: I think they were being funny. I think I'm allergic

657
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: to this dude. I don't want to be around them.

658
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: They have an allergy to the person. And she might

659
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: have been that might have been a sweet, acute way

660
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: of saying, you know, we're having problems right now.

661
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 2: So after I guess there was a lot of backlash

662
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: for saying that. And by the way, they've been together,

663
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 2: they've been husband and wife for nearly thirty years. So

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Speaker 2: she said they had an allergy to one another, and

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Speaker 2: we're living in separate homes. But then she says, wait

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Speaker 2: a minute, I'm retracting that comment, and I am now

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Speaker 2: saying that it's probably a very foolish, very unwise, very destructive,

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Speaker 2: stupid decision, because that's not going to solve our problem

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Speaker 2: with the allergy. With the allergy, so meaning they have

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Speaker 2: some problems they need to work out, and perhaps living

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Speaker 3: So now she is saying that they do live together.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thirty years, they're doing something right.

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Speaker 2: And I also feel like, you know what, she doesn't

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Speaker 2: have to explain herself. I have to remind myself, you

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Speaker 2: don't have to explain yourself and your choices with your

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Speaker 2: it's working for you.

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Speaker 1: Well you say that, I know, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean you have to explain it to one another.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I was making a joke about us having to.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, we kind of did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think we were trying to not have to

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Speaker 2: and that didn't work and it blew up in our faces.

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Speaker 2: So then we actually had to go ahead and explain. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I hear you yeah, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, well, OK, twenty twenty five already not farg in,

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Speaker 1: We've got some breakup news. Hopefully we don't get too

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Speaker 1: We do part far apart in those cases, but we do.

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Speaker 1: We're here for you. We will continue to be a

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