1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Buggal up, hold on tight, we got it for you here. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: It is a strawberry subject an eighteen year old boy 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: who knows no limits. Hi, Stephen, morning crew. I am 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 1: writing this letter because I am in total disbelief my son, 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: who is eighteen, knows no limits. My husband and I 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: had built quite a collection of porn DVDs. I had 7 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: noticed over the years that some had walked away, but 8 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: never really paid it any attention. Now I realize we 9 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 1: are down to four DVDs four. He is my only 10 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: child and my husband's stepson. When my son was younger, 11 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: I caught him looking at porno on my TV while 12 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 1: I was asleep. I kicked his butt. He is the 13 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: only one here that could have taken them. My question 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: is is it normal that a young man would steal 15 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: porno DVDs knowing that his parents had watched and enjoyed them. 16 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: I feel I should confront his behind, no matter how 17 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: embarrassing this situation Asian is, I would not dare creep 18 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: into my parents sex lives when I was his age. 19 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 1: First of all, it would be disgusting. You know young men, Steve, 20 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: what do you think? Jokes aside, Signed utterly disgusted, all right, 21 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: utterly disgusted. You did catch him when he was younger 22 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: watching it on TV, so I don't know why you 23 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't be uh, why you wouldn't suspect him now? I mean, 24 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: it seems he is the one who did it. Okay, 25 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: to your question, is it normal for a young man 26 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,639 Speaker 1: to steal porn? And my question is is anything normal 27 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: going on at your house? Or maybe this is normal 28 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: to him. You guys have been doing it since he 29 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: was little, so he probably thought nothing of it. You know, 30 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,919 Speaker 1: I don't know that he placed a judgment on who 31 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: who watches them and who enjoys them. He probably just 32 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: wanted to do the same thing, watch them and enjoy them. 33 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: You know, I don't really know an answer to this. Really, 34 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: he knows no limits. He's eighteen, he's I don't know. Oh, 35 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: you just threw with this, I know, because really, just 36 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 1: let us come stupid and other peop who deal with it. 37 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: Let's just deal with it? Asked what it is? Just 38 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: let us stupid? Okay? Cool? First of all, you're pointing 39 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: a finger at the wrong person all throughout the letter. 40 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 1: You got an eighteen year old and knows no limits. 41 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: I think we gotta set a parents that don't know 42 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: no damn limits. That's who don't see the limit. First 43 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: of all, my husband and I had built quite a 44 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: collection of poeing DVDs. Well, congratulations, I'm happy for you. 45 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: But then you say you've noticed over the years that 46 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: some had walked away, but never really paid an attention. Okay, 47 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: excuse me, excuse me. You're and your husband build quite 48 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 1: a collection of DVDs. It's only one other person living 49 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: in the house, and you noticed they walking away, but 50 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: you don't pay it any attention. Any woman would have. God, 51 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: is my husband taking these DVDs to? Is he sharing 52 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: these DVDs with someone else? And then you come down 53 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: to the conclusion that it's your son taking them. But 54 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: you you gotta come to that conclusion. But you don't 55 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 1: pay that no attention because you're all so busy getting 56 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: your freak on with the DVD collection. When I come back, 57 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: I got some old news for you too, al right, 58 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: subject of the Strawberry letter year old boy who knows 59 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: no limits. Here's this little boy that got into his 60 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: mother and father's porn collection of DVDs. Not a lady 61 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: didn't say anything. They had a big, sizeable collection. Then 62 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: when it gets down to four, she wants to now 63 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: it's the boy who's taking them. Who else did you 64 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: think was taking and why would you wait so long? 65 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: And now she caught the boy looking at Point on 66 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: my TV and then kicked his butt. And then she 67 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: asked me, is it normal that a young man was 68 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: still point or DVDs? Knowing? Here here is a troubling 69 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,119 Speaker 1: thing about this letter. Is it normal that a young 70 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: man was still point or DVD? He's knowing that his 71 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: parents had watched and enjoyed them. What difference do it 72 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: make if you was using them for scientific study? What 73 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: what does that have to do with it? The fact 74 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: that he has the DVDs is the deal that he 75 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: can get to the DVDs? And now this whole thing. 76 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: She signs this letter utterly disgusted. She's disgusted because she says, now, 77 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: listen to this. I would not dare creep into my 78 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: parents sex lives when I was his age. First of all, 79 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: it would be disgusting. Okay, Granted, nobody wants to walk 80 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: in the room and see their mama legs. All right, 81 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: let's just get that out, okay, Okay, really keeping it real. No, 82 00:04:54,680 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I really nobody wanna walk and see 83 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 1: their mama. Okay, now I got that. But you're saying 84 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: that I wouldn't dare creep into my parents sex like, 85 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: first of all, it would be disgusting, signed utterly disgusted. 86 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: Excuse me, ma'am. Why are you not ashamed of this? 87 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: How is this just disgusting to you? How is it 88 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: that all you can do is be disgusted with your 89 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,679 Speaker 1: son that he would be watching tapes that he knew 90 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: me and my husband had enjoyed together. He don't know 91 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: why y'all got the tapes. All he know is they 92 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: in the house and y'all must think it's all right. 93 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: So now he think it's all right? And is it 94 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: normal for an eighteen year old boy? Lady, let me 95 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: help you to seen year old boys. Please let me 96 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: help you understand something. If you think it's just at 97 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: the DVD stage out of your mind, do you know 98 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: why an eighteen year old boy is watching the DVD 99 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: because he got it on his mind. But let me 100 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: tell you something, He didn't have it on his mind 101 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: since he was fourteen. His body is doing some things 102 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:11,679 Speaker 1: while he's sleep. He him and him DVDs is dreaming together. 103 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: He is, he is the most with himself at night. 104 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: That's a good way to play with them DVDs. He's 105 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: having a relationship with several people in them DVDs. Why 106 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: he's sleep All right, Steve, we gotta get out of here. 107 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: You can email us or instagram us your thoughts on 108 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at my Girl Shirley and please join 109 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: me this coming Thursday at one thirty pm Eastern Time 110 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: on Facebook Live for the Strawberry Letter After and you 111 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: can catch me. I'd be in the screen in the bed. Yeah, 112 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: just being a distraction. He looks good. Strawberry Letter Live 113 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: after show coming up this Thursday, one pm Eastern time 114 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: on Facebook Live. Alright, switching gears. Now, we were all 115 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: so busy. Well you guys were, i know, watching the 116 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 1: All Star Game trying to figure out what was going on. 117 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: We talked about this earlier with Fergie and this national anthem. 118 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: I started addressing, Yeah you my office watching it on 119 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: TV next night. I know I ain't had no shirt on, 120 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: I said. She keeps singing like this because it comes 121 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: it did look like something to go down here, you see? 122 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: Oh boy? Yeah, she was to take a shower after Wow, 123 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: the shower after that. That was just too much. Let 124 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: me drop a little call on, you know, just to 125 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: make you feel good. Can I drop a little call 126 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: a little because it was the greatest worst of all, 127 00:07:50,560 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: the greatest worst. I don't know. Oh, shame stop it. 128 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: He wrong key right that right there? It's a gospel, 129 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: you know he did that? You flat boy? The line free, 130 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: stay stay there. Everybody know you're ppposed to go up 131 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: right helens the worst one else head boy. And I 132 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: never heard that before that, Carl, Yes, you ain't ever 133 00:08:53,280 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: heard this. No, I had never now I know, prior 134 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: to y'all telling me a hold on, hold on, hold on, 135 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: give me a chance. Now wait a minute, anyway, hold way. 136 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: He did this one time. He didn't know he he 137 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 1: hit a note, said himself. Caught up where that came from? 138 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: That boy tasted that note. M you know when you 139 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: do that to yourself? Yeah, but boy, let me tell 140 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: y'all something. On March first show time with that, Apolo 141 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 1: was back. Yeah, I've been you're Let me tell you something. 142 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: I believe which one was it that I'm more ignorant 143 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: at sixty that I was when I first got on 144 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: because I didn't I didn't know what my limits was. 145 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: I don't, I got, I got, I don't give a 146 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: damn show was not no brainer that you're yeah, you're 147 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: you're way worse. Now. You gotta see this rin trilo 148 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: quist that comes on, this white lady quist coming on 149 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: the show. It's one of the worst. But it wasn't 150 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: there then. I wouldn't believe that he was telling I 151 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: can't even tell you that this is one of the worst. 152 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: If I if you want to hear the story, I'll 153 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: tell you all right, when we come back, suffers from anxiety. 154 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: Just remember that when we come back, we come back, 155 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: Steve's gonna tell us his Apollo story. You're listening to 156 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.