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Speaker 1: the phone, It's the Fread Show. Hey Danielle, good morning,

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Speaker 1: welcome to you waiting by the phone on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for helping me.

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Speaker 1: So what's going on with this guy Dakota? I see

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Speaker 1: that you met on the dating apps, but then I

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Speaker 1: want to hear about, you know, kind of any kind

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Speaker 1: of courtship or whatever, and then any dates you've been on,

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Speaker 1: and then why do you think you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So, okay, there's this guy named Dakota and we

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Speaker 2: met onlike these like on a dating app, but either way,

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Speaker 2: we match and we were talking for like about like

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Speaker 2: a good week and just like flirting back and forth.

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Speaker 2: And then he's like Okay, do you do you want

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Speaker 2: to go and get drinks?

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Speaker 3: I was like, of course, yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: So I was like super excited to meet him and

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Speaker 2: super excited like when I was there, because like he

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Speaker 2: we connected. It was like awesome, most perfect and actually,

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Speaker 2: like a lot of the guys I ended up dating,

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Speaker 2: like they're kind of they're kind of weird. I mean,

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Speaker 2: like it's just twenty twenty five. I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: how it is now, but Dakota was actually normal. So

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Speaker 2: I really like.

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Speaker 1: That either way.

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Speaker 2: I am calling you guys because first he didn't reach

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Speaker 2: out after our great or anything to me, and then

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Speaker 2: now my text like that I sent, like I wasn't

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Speaker 2: just because I mean a few days went by, so

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Speaker 2: I was like, uh so when ahead and texted him,

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Speaker 2: and it's just showing up as like like not delivered,

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Speaker 2: and it wasn't like that before. So I kind of

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Speaker 2: actually just I'm like, I'm annoyed that I think it's

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Speaker 2: is he actually safe? Is everything? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean that's puzzling. It's puzzling to go from

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Speaker 1: who's not weird to be essentially blocked. Because it looks

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Speaker 1: like it looks like you've been blocked. I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: usually what happens when it or I don't know, or

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Speaker 1: the guy changed his phone number, or I guess there's

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Speaker 1: some other possibilities too, but usually when you used to

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Speaker 1: get delivered and now you don't get delivered on the phone,

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Speaker 1: you got blocked.

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Speaker 2: Well, we never know, so like, maybe we can figure

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Speaker 2: it out, you know.

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Speaker 1: I like the positivity. I like that, and that is

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Speaker 1: what we're here to do here. I am like letting

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Speaker 1: you marinate it. Yeah, you got blocked, all right, Well

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Speaker 1: thanks for calling them a good day. No, we are

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Speaker 1: going to call this guy Dakota in just a second.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone hopefully we didn't get blocked,

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Speaker 1: and we'll ask some questions on your behalf. You'll be

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Speaker 1: on the phone, of course, and you're welcome to jump

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Speaker 1: in at any point. But the hope is that we

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Speaker 1: can figure out what's up, straighten things out, and then

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Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, I love that. Thank you, Danielle.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's call this guy Dakota. You met out

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Speaker 1: one of the dating apps, and I think, like a

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Speaker 1: some kind of weirdos and stuff that didn't really mesh.

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Speaker 1: But this guy Dakota, you liked him, You like chatting

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Speaker 1: with him, You thought the date went well, except you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And the whole time before we were talking for

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, let's call him now. Good luck. Danielle, is

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Speaker 1: this Dakota. Yeah, Hi Tekota, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to bother you, but I do have

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Speaker 1: now and I would need your permission to continue with

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Speaker 1: the call. Can we chat for just a second. You

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Speaker 1: can hang up anytime or block us? Yeah, yeah, okay, sure, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. I know it's strange to get

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Speaker 1: a call like this and kind of abrupt, but we're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a woman named Danielle who says

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Speaker 1: that she met you on one of the dating apps

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Speaker 1: and you guys chat it for a while a week

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Speaker 1: or so, I guess, and then went on a date recently.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember meeting her? I hope, yeah, no, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I remember Danielle.

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Speaker 3: Huh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we talked to her just a minute ago,

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Speaker 1: and she had nice things to say about you. She

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Speaker 1: seeing you again. Thinks that maybe her messages aren't being delivered,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just curious what your inside of the story is,

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Speaker 1: because she'd like to go out with you again.

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, we chaded for a while before we met,

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Speaker 3: and and she seemed really cool, so I asked her

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Speaker 3: and you know, pretty early on, she she was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know, I have to admit, I found your Instagram.

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Speaker 3: little worried you had a girlfriend or something, which which okay,

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Speaker 3: like sure, you know, I mean, I guess, but like

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Speaker 3: it's actually a picture of my my best friend, whose

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Speaker 3: name is Kylie. And I told her that right away,

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Speaker 3: Immediately as soon as I making Kylie's name, Danielle's like

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Speaker 3: and she's like, oh, Wow, you guys are together a lot.

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Speaker 3: And uh, you know, it struck It struck me kind

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Speaker 3: there was something kind of I don't know, like.

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Speaker 1: Like she was really sure about this person, like she

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Speaker 1: because this person seems to be, you know, central in

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Speaker 1: and then she comes up in a story, So so

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Speaker 1: what that turns you off? That that that she seems

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Speaker 3: I mean, if if she had left it there, I

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Speaker 3: probably not. Like, you know, I get it. It's it's

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Speaker 3: not super common, I guess for guys to have best

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Speaker 3: she would like bring Kylie up and be like, are

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Speaker 3: you sure you never dated? You never thought about sleeping

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Speaker 1: You don't think she's secretly in love with you?

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Speaker 2: Do you?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 3: And like yeah, I mean, and you know it just

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Speaker 3: I don't have time for someone to be jealous of

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Speaker 3: someone who's important to me, and and like, I'm not

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Speaker 3: gonna cut my best friend out of my life, right,

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Speaker 3: I have aud I'm dating someone that's insecure, and I

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Speaker 3: was just like, I don't know. And it's even been

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Speaker 3: dating for long. It was our first date. She was

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Speaker 1: I can see what that would be a turn off,

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Speaker 1: because I mean, if you, I suppose, if you wanted

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Speaker 1: on the dating apps meeting other people. But let me

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Speaker 1: I'd like to hear Danielle's side of this. And I

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Speaker 1: forgot to mention that Danielle is here. I'm very forgetful.

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Speaker 1: I get caught up in the story. Sorry, Danielle. So

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Speaker 1: you didn't tell us that you were sort of obsessing

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Speaker 1: over this friend of his? Like, can you see how

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Speaker 1: you bringing it up over and over again might might

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Speaker 1: make you look insecure if you're if in fact, you're not, Oh,

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Speaker 2: To say hi, Dakona samiel ya. And I'm actually surprised

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Speaker 2: that you're even on the line because I thought something

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Speaker 2: actually happened to your phone or that like you like

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Speaker 2: weren't okay, And first of all, shocks that you think

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Speaker 2: it's okay to go someone like I don't under that's

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Speaker 2: so rude. And also like if you're single, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I just Tony Andersen writer, were so many pictures of

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Speaker 2: a girl on your instagram, So.

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Speaker 1: Like why can't he have a female friend, Like what

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Speaker 1: do we know? Maybe she's a lesbian, Like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I mean honestly, like we don't know anything about this person.

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Speaker 1: I mean, imagine if you imagine if he went out

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Speaker 1: with you and and he had done this perusal, he

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Speaker 1: you know, went looked at all your stuff ahead of time,

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Speaker 1: all your socials, and then he was asking you tons

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Speaker 1: of questions about these other men. It's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's not necessarily putting your best foot forward, is it. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Everyone like everyone looks like everyone's socials all the time.

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Speaker 2: I'm not like the only girl to like to do

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Speaker 2: that or guys probably should do that. But like if

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Speaker 2: a girl your best friend, like that's not even a thing.

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Speaker 2: That's like that's not legit at all, Like someone likes

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Speaker 2: someone and if your guy, a guy should be your

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Speaker 2: best friend, not a girl.

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Speaker 3: What Okay, hang on, I'm sorry, Like, first of all,

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Speaker 3: that's crazy. People can't be best friends with anyone. It's

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Speaker 3: not just guys with guys, it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Ever, it can never work out because someone either likes

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Speaker 2: someone and like, yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of you're just going to a lot

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Speaker 1: of conclusions. I mean, I know it's not as common

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Speaker 1: maybe as as men having men best friends or women

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Speaker 1: having women best friends. But again, I mean to immediately say,

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Speaker 1: all you're projecting all these things. You're saying all these things,

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Speaker 1: and we don't know if any of that's true. We

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Speaker 1: haven't even heard about this woman.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, hang on, hang on, hang on. You that

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Speaker 3: at most conversations. But you know what's bad a conversations, Danielle,

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Speaker 1: What No, he's saying that women are more they're they're

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Speaker 1: they bet what he's saying is like, yeah, he enjoys

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Speaker 2: So that's that's like a judgment. That's like a fake judgment.

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Speaker 2: Or you know, you.

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Speaker 1: Tell him, Danielle, he's a lot to have an opinion.

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Speaker 1: He's locked a female man. Why why is he on

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Speaker 2: Ask, she secretly likes him?

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Speaker 1: Like, we don't know that.

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Speaker 2: Either one of them is being someone being friend zoned.

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Speaker 3: That's what's going on, right, because they're friends one of them.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't pay.

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Speaker 1: So you subscribe to the idea that men and women

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's what you're saying over and over, but

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Speaker 1: I just want you to Danielle, a man and a

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Speaker 2: There's so many scientific things that prove that they just can't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but did you ever I mean, I know

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Speaker 1: you've asked, you asked a lot of questions about her,

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Speaker 1: but like he answered the question, like he said to you,

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Speaker 1: I'm not interested in her in that way. She's that

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Speaker 2: Well, he probably doesn't know that. I'm sure. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: Her, or she likes Let me ask you this, Danielle.

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Speaker 1: Here's a question. If if you feel this way, then

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Speaker 1: as far as you're concerned, there's something going on. So

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Speaker 2: Well, because I didn't know that he would actually ghost

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Speaker 1: Oh girl, So okay, So he cannot be best friends

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean if I had a guy that was

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Speaker 2: I'd like, okay fine, and then I would lean him

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Speaker 1: That's how rare Forever with someone?

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Speaker 1: You mean forever? You went on one date, Danielle, This

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you've jumped to so many conclusions. You have

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Speaker 2: Very yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: Justice for Kylie. We know you're being honest, and I

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Speaker 1: but it shows a lot of insecurity and it's asking

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Speaker 1: a lot for someone to say on a first date. Fine,

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Speaker 1: I'll just abandon this person in my life because you

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Speaker 2: Don't first date lead to something which is like us

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Speaker 1: Not this one? Yeah? Yeah, not in this case? No?

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Speaker 1: All right, Look, I feel like I'm giving you the

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Speaker 1: what's are down? Sound good?

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Speaker 3: I guess I never thought about it in those terms.

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Speaker 1: No second date. Yeah, I look, Danielle, I don't know

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Speaker 1: But I think you have a lot, a lot of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or not, or just have a guy as a

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Speaker 2: best friend like normal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's normal to you, I guess guys. Yeah, Dakota,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time, Danielle. I truly wish you

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Speaker 1: the best. Not going to work out this time,