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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than excited talking about telling about

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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like

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Speaker 1: we're writing in our diaries, except we stayed them alive.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs kinky.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, go all right, dear blog.

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Speaker 4: Over the weekend, I tried to do less dilly dallying

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Speaker 4: and more planning. Okay, so I was trying to get

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Speaker 4: my wedding planning bag. Didn't really go anywhere, but during

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Speaker 4: the process, we were getting ready to go out to

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Speaker 4: date night with my favorite couple, which is my brother

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Speaker 4: and sister in law, and I over hear big tim.

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Speaker 4: Now he hasn't mentioned anything about wedding planning. He doesn't

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Speaker 4: even know who his groomsmen are going to be. But

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Speaker 4: for some reason, he and my brother decided that they

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Speaker 4: needed to discuss plans for their bachelor parties. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: excuse me, Like you had we don't have a venue,

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Speaker 4: we don't have a date, we don't I don't have

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Speaker 4: a dress. But you're worried about a bachelor party and

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Speaker 4: like he has solid plans, Like he's like, yeah, so

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Speaker 4: we're going to go to Mexico and right, and they're like,

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Speaker 4: you know, because I thought our plan was always to

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Speaker 4: have a joint party Bachelor and Bachelorettes together. I can

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Speaker 4: watch him, he can watch me. But I don't like

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Speaker 4: that idea. I don't like that idea.

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Speaker 2: But he doesn't need that.

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Speaker 1: Let's a man have his thing, You go have your thing.

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Speaker 1: You guys travel together all the time.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we do.

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Speaker 1: I mean, just let them have their little, you know,

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Speaker 1: male bonding thing. Yeah. I don't know if we need that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if we need that, and I definitely

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Speaker 4: don't think that should be your focus at this point.

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Speaker 2: Well I agree with that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So now I'm sad eyeing some things.

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Speaker 1: But he probably figures that he's not gonna have any

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Speaker 1: saying this anyway, so he may as well plan on

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Speaker 1: the thing that he has some control over, because this

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Speaker 1: day is going to be all what you want as well.

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Speaker 2: It should be, Yes, yes, it should be.

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Speaker 4: And I don't know if he's gonna have control over

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Speaker 4: this thing, because now I'm just like, why do we

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Speaker 4: need this?

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Speaker 3: We going to be eight years in a game, Why

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Speaker 3: do we really need Bachelor?

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Speaker 4: You don't need need to go off with your homeboys

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Speaker 4: and do all this, Kaylin.

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Speaker 3: And he's like, it's not for me, it's for my friends.

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Speaker 2: Like my friends. Oh okay, now hold on, he gets

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Speaker 2: one bachelor party.

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Speaker 1: I can see a world where I would have a

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Speaker 1: bachelor party at this stage of my life, only because

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Speaker 1: it's so hard to get all my friends together at

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Speaker 1: once to go do something like that.

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Speaker 3: You sound like him.

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Speaker 2: That's not because I because now we kind.

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Speaker 1: Of have like I don't have a lot of money.

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Speaker 1: I've grown up money, though. Now my friends have grown

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Speaker 1: up money. So we go do something fun and it's

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Speaker 1: not even about like strip clubs and whatever, like it

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Speaker 1: would have been getting hammered twenty years ago. It would

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Speaker 1: be like because because these guys, I went to all

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Speaker 1: their bachelor parties, so they can go to their wives

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Speaker 1: and be like, hey, in three months or six months

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Speaker 1: or whatever, we're going to friend's bachelor party. We're going

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Speaker 1: to wherever we're going, and so that would be a

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Speaker 1: way to get everyone together. I don't see it as

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Speaker 1: the last hurrah or whatever, because there's nothing that we're

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Speaker 1: ever going to do on this thing that I haven't

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Speaker 1: already done with these people. So it's not like that.

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Speaker 1: It's just but I don't need to go on trip

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Speaker 1: with the person I'm married. That's just another trip with

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Speaker 1: the person I'm marrying, Like, let me have my little

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Speaker 1: thing with my buddies, you know, especially because as people

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Speaker 1: get married and have kids and families, it's very difficult

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Speaker 1: to get the time and the allocation of the time

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Speaker 1: to break off and do something like that.

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Speaker 3: In write you already because you sound just like him.

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Speaker 2: We practiced this. We practice the speech.

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Speaker 1: I told him, I am his pr director, I'm communication director.

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Speaker 1: We went through the talking point.

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Speaker 3: You sound like him. He's like, it's not about me.

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Speaker 1: Big Tim and I had a video call last week.

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Speaker 1: We went through everything we practiced. Right, it is about him,

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Speaker 1: but it's also about grown ups hanging out and getting together,

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Speaker 1: and it's hard to do unless there's an occasion.

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Speaker 3: Well, why do you need to hang out with the

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Speaker 3: midnight ballerinas? Can't you hang? I thought we were going

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Speaker 3: this vacation.

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Speaker 4: I said, Okay, the guys break off, go jet ski,

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Speaker 4: go atv riding.

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Speaker 2: Like he's openly talking about going to strip clubs.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we need to find out which club we're gonna go.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna hit up.

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Speaker 3: And then so me and my sister in law like

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Speaker 3: exkills us.

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Speaker 4: And then my brother's like, well, I'm not gonna you know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't even like Strippless. He's like, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Just gonna be in there.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna just be talking.

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Speaker 1: His hands in the air when he was telling this story.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Timothy, He's like, it's just not about me.

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Speaker 4: It's like, if I'm going to have my groomsmen do this,

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Speaker 4: I may deserve, but it's serious.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, so please, Jelfless. I love it. You're

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Speaker 2: a good one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Honestly he's thinking about other people first, he really is.

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Speaker 2: I love that for him.

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Speaker 4: Man, we don't even know what the menu is going

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Speaker 4: to be at this thing, and you are playing a bachelor.

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Speaker 1: I'm just sounds like it's playing Yeah, a lot of

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Speaker 1: let's going into this already. Actually, I already got the invitation.

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Speaker 1: He ordered them from exit. It was wild. It's like

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Speaker 1: a paper invitation. I'm like, he's so fans.

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Speaker 3: I believe it.

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Speaker 2: I believe that.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't get the joint I mean, I

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Speaker 1: get it, but I'm like, we're gonna spend our whole

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Speaker 1: lives together, and I feel like if I'd be really transparent,

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Speaker 1: the joint parties are for exactly what you said. And

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Speaker 1: you you're gonna say you're being facetious, but you're not.

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Speaker 1: It's because you want there to be some oversight of

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Speaker 1: what happens on this thing. But you are marrying this man.

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Speaker 1: What oversight you're marrying the guy gonna do.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 4: He can have his bachelor party if Jason goes, and

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Speaker 4: I expect to be on FaceTime the entire time.

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Speaker 2: The salid Oh no, not neither. Nark on the straight

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Speaker 2: eyes for me, someone texted. But Big Tim is single

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Speaker 2: until he gets married, you know,