WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Love You, Meet My Dad

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<v Speaker 1>a guy today who says he falls fast for women.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yis is it Jose on the phone? You guys

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<v Speaker 1>want answers anymore? Yeah? But in other dates that he's

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<v Speaker 1>been on, he's fallen head over heels in love. But

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<v Speaker 1>he says the woman he's calling about today tops them all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure every every other one topped them all too.

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<v Speaker 1>He fell so hard his shoes flew off. What what

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<v Speaker 1>like talking about? No, not really, I'm just I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to describe his intense style of love. Ok this guy

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<v Speaker 1>is a lover oh, fast and furious, and his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Brian. Brian, You're the Vin Diesel of love. How

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<v Speaker 1>does that feel? Yeah? Loves fast and furious. Yeah, isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that right, Brian? Yeah? Sometimes it gets me in some trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>But Okay, I can't help who I am so so

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<v Speaker 1>that was an accurate description of you. Um, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>do have shoes on and I do fall hard though.

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<v Speaker 1>So who is the object of your love? What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Renee, and she is the best. She's

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<v Speaker 1>the best, and what makes her better than all the

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<v Speaker 1>other loves of your life the connection we had. For sure,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the best answer, because everyone knows what you mean

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<v Speaker 1>when you say that. So how did you meet Renee?

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<v Speaker 1>I met her on a dating app? Okay, sounds intense.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to know a guy like you who wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be in love immediately. What is your opening line

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating app? It's usually just hello? That seems

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<v Speaker 1>like too much for me anybody. I don't know? You

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<v Speaker 1>had me at hello? Yeah, So what did you and

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<v Speaker 1>Renee decide to do for a date? You know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been spending a lot of time on these dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>and we always meet for coffee or at a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>or something, and I just feel like you're under these

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<v Speaker 1>bright lights or you're an interrogation room. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to be myself. So this time, actually I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, I need to be myself more

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<v Speaker 1>on these dates. So I invited her out to go

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<v Speaker 1>to an arcade with me, and I thought that would

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<v Speaker 1>be a lot of fun. Okay, that does sound that

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<v Speaker 1>does sound like fun, although I will vouch for a

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<v Speaker 1>date in an interrogation room that is also a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'll tell you everything. To the arcade. How did

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<v Speaker 1>things go there? It went great. We played some ski balls,

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<v Speaker 1>she beat me in air hockey. We're laughing, and there

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<v Speaker 1>was like a moment where she shoved me and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of playfully like nudged her back, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>held hands and then we went to the bar there

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<v Speaker 1>we had some drinks and we just really really connected

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<v Speaker 1>and then, you know, after a few drinks, I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of it slipped out of my mouth. I said

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. Oh God, actually said the l work.

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<v Speaker 1>I just heard like record scratch. And how did she react? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't say it back, but she actually kissed me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Is that the first time you've ever dropped

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<v Speaker 1>I love you on a first date? Yes, but because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she didn't say it back, but she still kissed

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<v Speaker 1>you at the end of the night, So we'll kiss

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<v Speaker 1>you right after you said it. Well, that wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the night. What was the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were leaving the arcade and I said, do

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<v Speaker 1>you mind going for a ride with me? And she's like, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>total vin Diesel move get a drift or something. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we drove, and we were driving, you know, we got

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<v Speaker 1>out of the city and finally she was like, so

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<v Speaker 1>where are you taking me? And I was like, don't

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<v Speaker 1>freak out, but that's what is right. But I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>for you to come with me to meet my dad. No,

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<v Speaker 1>get out of here. I to open the door and

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<v Speaker 1>threw myself on Yeah, out of a moving car. Just

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<v Speaker 1>the dark alley would have been better. Yeah. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>starting to lose. She's like, why are you pushing your luck?

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<v Speaker 1>You run away with I love you? Slow it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Was she willing to meet the family? Yep, yep, just

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<v Speaker 1>the dad and it was good. She really seemed to

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<v Speaker 1>be okay, and she seemed to get along and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mind being around my dad at all. Well, that's wow.

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<v Speaker 1>How long did you hang out with your dad? We

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<v Speaker 1>weren't there very long, probably about ten minutes. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>that he's the most important person in my life. So

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to meet her. Oh well, as long

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<v Speaker 1>as she didn't see it. I don't know, man, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but he's not getting a call back.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's one of those things that maybe in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>so much is happening that you just go along with

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<v Speaker 1>it and then we get time to kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, go over the evening, you're like, WHOA.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, it's not like I do this every

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<v Speaker 1>first date. It was the best first date, and I just,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just thought it was really important for

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<v Speaker 1>them to meet each other because I'm hoping that going forward,

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<v Speaker 1>there will be the two most important people in my life. Wow. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, you're like, all right, she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>in my life forever. Introduced her to the day. Wow. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so now she's not talking to you. Nope. So I

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<v Speaker 1>took her back to her car at the arcade late

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<v Speaker 1>that night, made sure she got in safely, and I

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<v Speaker 1>messaged her the very next morning and asked her if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get together again, and she said she was busy,

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<v Speaker 1>and so first I didn't think much of it. But

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<v Speaker 1>now it's been about ten days or so and she's

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<v Speaker 1>still always busy. She's not ghosted me, but she's just

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<v Speaker 1>always busy. Yeah, yeah, you took a lot of risks.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, maybe that's what the dating world needs.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we need more people who are willing to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a limb and just take a risk. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why right now, Brian, I want you to know

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, and we're gonna play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>come back and we're gonna get you your second Dada dade. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of love in this room, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of clear I didn't hear. Okay, we're gonna do it

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<v Speaker 1>right after, ladies. If you want a man who's bold, daring,

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<v Speaker 1>an adventurous, we're looking no further than our listener, Brian Bold.

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<v Speaker 1>He said I love you on night one. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you can't argue that that is very bold daring. He

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<v Speaker 1>introduced his date to his dad. Within the first few

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<v Speaker 1>hours of meeting Adventurous, he came on the radio and

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<v Speaker 1>actually admitted to doing all. I said he was the

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<v Speaker 1>Vin Diesel of love, but now I'm saying he's the

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck Norris of love, and he's a roundhouse kicking his

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<v Speaker 1>way into your heart legends. That's just so, Brian. I

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<v Speaker 1>love you once again, and I love it. I love

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<v Speaker 1>what you did for your first day with Renee. Appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>I try, I try every time Brian has yelled it

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<v Speaker 1>back to you. Bro. Yeah. I mean the thing is

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<v Speaker 1>you are a very secure man, Brian, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>a refreshing thing to have on this show. Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do this. Are you ready to call Renee and find

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<v Speaker 1>out why she would reject the Chuck Norris of love? Absolutely? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going to be heartbroken if she doesn't want another?

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't get heartbroken? Jack? He bites heartbreak in the throat,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I take it back. That's right. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this. Let's call Renee. Let's do it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's here we go. Hello, can I speak to Renee?

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<v Speaker 1>Please speaking? Who is this I Renee? My name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping you have a second to talk with us

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<v Speaker 1>for a radio show. Yeah. Do you listens? But what

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<v Speaker 1>is up stings a little bit to you. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something you may be familiar with called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. That's where if you go out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if they don't call you back, you can

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<v Speaker 1>email our show and we'll call that person for you

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the reason why. Oh okay, so the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why we're calling you is because we got an

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<v Speaker 1>email from a guy named Brian. Remember Brian, I remember Brian. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not loving that reaction. I mean, Brian told us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date and he said he had a great

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<v Speaker 1>time with you, and I mean he admitted a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff to us. I won't go into all the

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<v Speaker 1>details about it just now, but he's hoping to get

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<v Speaker 1>a better understanding about why you're not calling him back afterwards. Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>great guy, I mean, I could say a good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you don't know who you're going to meet off

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<v Speaker 1>for these apps can be a murderer, you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. That's the first of everything is going

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<v Speaker 1>to murder me. Okay, she probably won't meet. But you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't murdered, so that's you know. I wasn't murdered literally,

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<v Speaker 1>I was murdered figuratively. Figuratively. I think the date killed you,

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<v Speaker 1>is what you're saying. Why do you say that? Like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Brian, we connected. There was a playful banter

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<v Speaker 1>of sort, you know, there was a little connection. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>here's where it went completely left. Well, hold on Rene.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're going to tell us about him saying I

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<v Speaker 1>love you on night one, he already told us about that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which sounds so intense. It was, so you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. Well, I can see how it's crazy, But

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<v Speaker 1>that's the whole thing is that love is sometimes crazy. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a lot, but it looked like it was

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<v Speaker 1>coming from a j anyone place, so I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>mind it at that time. Is that why you kissed

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<v Speaker 1>him back after he said it? Um? I kissed him

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<v Speaker 1>a little later, not not like after he said I

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<v Speaker 1>love you, because I'm like, whoa, I'm not doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>That didn't make me want to kill him that. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was bold on your part. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, she's into it that I got. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>what was the moment then for you? So he's the kicker.

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<v Speaker 1>It's midnight, right, you want me to go and see

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<v Speaker 1>your dad? Is really weird. Why would anyone want you

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<v Speaker 1>to see their parents at midnight? And why would a

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<v Speaker 1>parent ever want to see you? Yeah? That his dad

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<v Speaker 1>would be a wake that late, seriously, but right? But

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<v Speaker 1>so he I mean, I want to stand up for

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<v Speaker 1>this guy because he obviously has very strong feelings for

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<v Speaker 1>you things and the emotions must be going crazy in

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<v Speaker 1>his head, and he just has a very strong connection.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants you to meet the family right off the bat.

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't mean that he's a bad guy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just such a huge red flag for like Clinger. So

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I'm already in the car with him

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<v Speaker 1>when he asked me to go and see his dad.

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<v Speaker 1>So I kind of just felt I had no option

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<v Speaker 1>there and I just wanted to be nice. But we

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<v Speaker 1>end up at the cemetery. What did you just say? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>at midnight? So in my mind I'm like, oh, he

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<v Speaker 1>already has my plot for death, because why am I

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<v Speaker 1>here at midnight at a damn cemetery. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be freaking out. So now he gets out

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<v Speaker 1>the car, he walks down to a grave and then

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<v Speaker 1>he speaks to me from the grave and says, hey, dad,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the one that I want to spend the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of my life with. Oh, and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to run. It's just sad, like his dad

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<v Speaker 1>is dead. It's touching, touching. Oh that's weird. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little creepy. By a little, I mean a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I believed. I think it's important to note to you

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<v Speaker 1>that you're gonna go visit your dad's grave, of not

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<v Speaker 1>that you're going to go meet his father. Be the

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<v Speaker 1>way we see. I know you got a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>surprises during this, Renee, but I have one more surprise

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to tell you that Brian's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and everything that she said. Brian, Hi, Renee. Wow, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>So he set this whole thing up on the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>like really deflate you want to do? Yeah, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry about that, Renee. It's just I just missed you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. I was hoping to see you again. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know everyone's kind of laughing and think it's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, we don't think it's funny, Brian. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>that you left out a key detail about meeting the dad. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't lie. I mean I said I took her

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<v Speaker 1>to meet my dad. Yeah, but you didn't inform us

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<v Speaker 1>about where your dad was, and you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that's fine. I think that's a really sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>endearing thing to do in the daytime, right like on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. Was someone that you don't know at midnight,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's more than a lot. Yeah, to be fair,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't plan on taking her there. Just the motions

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<v Speaker 1>came over me. Like I said, it was the best

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<v Speaker 1>first date of my life, and I felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>had to take her there, and that's what my dad

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<v Speaker 1>would have wanted me to. Do You really think that's

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<v Speaker 1>your dad would have wanted to meet me at midnight

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<v Speaker 1>at the Great Site? Is that was? Like, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>hard to understand your whole mind behind that. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's just weird. You don't think it's weird, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>mirroring Ted Bundy or something like, oh wow, Ok, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't kill father. Don't know, I don't know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we get it, Brian, Like, it's hard. It's hard to

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<v Speaker 1>miss the love one. But she's right, your dad probably

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<v Speaker 1>would have maybe suggested a different type of scenario for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can see how it's kind of weird. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just want Renee to know that I wasn't trying to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything to scare or hurt her, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I love her. You know. Oh yeah, Bryant,

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<v Speaker 1>you do not love me. You could take it as

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<v Speaker 1>a compliment. Oh no, I love a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>in this world. I don't love you, and I see

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<v Speaker 1>that from a very nice place. Bial So you love

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<v Speaker 1>ice cream? He don't love Bryant. Well, Renee, if I

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<v Speaker 1>made a mistake, maybe like to meet my mom instead? No,

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<v Speaker 1>nor is your mom in the cemetery too? Or no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>she lives down in Palm Springs. She's doing That would

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<v Speaker 1>have been better dri drive all the way to Palm Springs.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually a really nice vacation. Actually. Yeah, but look,

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<v Speaker 1>I still feel like I want to stick up for

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<v Speaker 1>Brian as being a good hearted person. And I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually with Jeffrey on this, Renee. Like he's honest.

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<v Speaker 1>He may be a little bit too inside his feelings,

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<v Speaker 1>but like he's kind of a unicorn in the dating

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<v Speaker 1>world right now. You're not going to get someone as

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of crazy people in apparent as him. Yeah, Renee,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a perfect guy, you know. I'm really trying

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<v Speaker 1>to work on stuff and I just really wish you

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<v Speaker 1>would give me a second chance. Come on, With that

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<v Speaker 1>being said, Renee, we'd like to offer to send you

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<v Speaker 1>and Brian out on another date and we'll pay for

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<v Speaker 1>now what the date will be during the daytime. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Brian is a great guy, just not the guy

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Okay, fine, I'll take you to Palm Springs. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>are you really pay for that? Yeah, I'll pay for it. Okay, Okay, Renee,

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<v Speaker 1>I will go with him, but i'll take the trip.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you have to go with Brian in

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<v Speaker 1>no Love spin. Don't worry Brian. If Renee won't go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you to Palm Springs, then I will. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We're packing our speedos and leaving right now. Let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, Brian. I love you too. No, hang

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<v Speaker 1>up the phone before he actually falls in love. We're

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<v Speaker 1>in love, okay, Jeffrey in the morning,