1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Andy Cone kept bringing up my name on watching It 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: Happens Live, like with Teresa, I think it's time to 3 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: end that war. And you know, he would say little 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: things like bringing me up. And I heard her in 5 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: a few different things where she was saying, like, you know, 6 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: she would talk to me or I knew it was there, 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: but I didn't want to reach out because I didn't 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: want to get back into that world, like I was, 9 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: I'm good here whatever. You know, I didn't know how 10 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: she truly felt, because sometimes she'll say one thing I 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: didn't know, you know. And then one morning, I like 12 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: woke up to a text from her saying she was 13 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: going to be in Vegas and that she wanted to 14 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: meet me for a cup of coffee. 15 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: Stay tuned, we'll be right back after these quick ads. 16 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: Welcome to Reality with the King. It's me Carlos King, 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: the King of Reality TV and one of the most 18 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 2: sought after executive producers in reality television with over ten 19 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 2: years a production experience. Once a week on Reality with 20 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 2: the King, we'll sit down with my friends across the 21 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows and revisit unforgettable 22 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 2: moments that we are still talking and tweeting about. Yes, 23 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: welcome back to season two of Reality with the King. Listen, 24 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 2: I missed y'all. I know y'all missed me because y'allbreak 25 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 2: who harassed me on the Twitter, the Instagram, TikTok, Facebook 26 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: and YouTube. Job, but it goes to show you that 27 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 2: I just missed y'all so much, and it goes to 28 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: show me that y'all miss me too. I love talking 29 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 2: to you guys. I love doing this podcast. We are reunited, 30 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 2: and baby, it feels oh so good. This season, we 31 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 2: are going to be more shady. 32 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: Y'all. 33 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: No, I'm not shady, wink wink no, but this season 34 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: we are going to be bigger and better than ever. 35 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 2: We are going to talk about some other reality shows 36 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 2: too that I can't wait to introduce you all to, 37 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: my opinion that is, and we are going to have 38 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 2: way more exclusive interviews than ever. One of the things 39 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: we are going to do differently this season is we 40 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: are going to start off giving you guys episodes once 41 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: a week. Why you ask, because I want you all 42 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: to marri day on exactly what I'm talking about. These 43 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: interviews that I'm doing are so special and I feel 44 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: like last season, Child, I'm a dropper interview. Y'all will 45 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 2: love it and then tell a friend, then phone a 46 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: friend word of mouth, and then the next thing you know, 47 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 2: y'all have all these other interviews, interfere with it, and Child, 48 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:50,839 Speaker 2: it was a big old mess. So we are going 49 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 2: to be much more streamlined this year. Look, it may 50 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 2: be once a we're gonna give out something, or if 51 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: we have some exclusive breaking news news, I may give 52 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 2: y'all an episode twice a week. But nevertheless, I'm back, baby, 53 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: and guess what i ain't going nowhere. I'm also going 54 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: to do a new segment called Hot Topics, Baby. Yes, 55 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 2: Hot Topics is going to be my take where I'm 56 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 2: going to give y'all some exclusive t of what's happening 57 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: in reality TV. So oftentimes you may get two recaps 58 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 2: in one episode. You may get a recap in addition 59 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 2: to an interview. So although you may get episodes once 60 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 2: a week, I'm still gonna feed y'all with a lot 61 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: more Child. All right, let's get right into it, y'all. 62 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 2: The Real Housewives of Potomy Park one reunion. This reunion 63 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: belonged to Candas. This was Candace reunion, and this is 64 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: the reason why I was so adamant that Candace should 65 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 2: have first seat. This first part proved that Candace and 66 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: Karen should have switched seat. So since we're on the 67 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: topic of seating, I thought it was very interesting that 68 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 2: for the first time in Real Housewives history, they broke 69 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: the fourth wall and actually discussed the reunion seating assignment. 70 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 2: I've said to y'all before that the seating assignment is 71 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 2: organized by the producers, and like Andy said tonight, yes 72 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: he does have a voice in it. I think this 73 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 2: setting assignment may be worse than last reunions of Atlanta 74 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 2: seitting assignment like this one made absolutely no sense. And 75 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: then the rationale love, Well, you know sometimes when people 76 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 2: are getting along, you know, we don't want them to 77 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 2: sitting next to each other. Well, if that's the case, 78 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 2: then while was Sognia, Richard Ross, and Drew sitting next 79 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 2: to each other last Atlanta reunion. The only thing I 80 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 2: will say is Candice proved tonight why she deserved first seat, 81 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna leave it at that. Now. What I 82 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: didn't love is Ashley making all these excuses about Michael. 83 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 2: Michael Darby played you sis, But that ain't nothing but 84 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 2: a good old karma. You have single handedly mess it 85 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: up for every woman who marries a man for his money. 86 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: Let's just call it what it is. You had to 87 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: slob on that Perdue Chicken Allah Michael Darby all these 88 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 2: years just to walk away with having to share a key, Ashley. 89 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 2: While you were sitting around meddling in everyone's business, Michael 90 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 2: was at Chase Bank Wells Fargo Vanguard getting all of 91 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 2: this information that he needed to make sure that his 92 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: bag was secured. You have resulted in the embarrassment of 93 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: your husband, allegedly photos of him in a hotel honey 94 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 2: with his boxer breaths, allegedly grabbing people's butts. You suffer 95 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: through all that embarrassment just to be doubled embarrassed by 96 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,799 Speaker 2: looking inside your savings account and seeing the point zero 97 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 2: one percent interest rate that you incurred over the years 98 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: of being next to Perdue Chicken. Candace got you when 99 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: she brought up generation of Wealth. She gave a good 100 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: old Vanessa Huxtable sermon. Baby. In the end, it goes 101 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 2: to show you that Kansas won. Not only did you 102 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 2: lose the round in your relationship, you lost the round 103 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 2: at the reunion because Candas got you real good and 104 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: you had nothing to say after it. We now have 105 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: to talk about the other portion of the reunion, which 106 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: is Mia. Mia watching you tonight reminded me of The Apprentice, 107 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 2: where you're in the boardroom fighting for your life in 108 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: front of Donald Trump, where you have to explain something 109 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: and the math wasn't math in and Mia allege that 110 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 2: there's eight board members a part of the company where 111 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 2: she's the CEO, and allegedly some members of this board 112 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 2: who allegedly maybe Gordon's brothers, they pretty much iced her 113 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 2: out of the account and she now has no income. 114 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: All jokes aside, is a very sad situation. Normally, when 115 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: you're the CEO and you own majority of the company, 116 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: there's a clause in your operating agreement. Because MIA's right 117 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 2: about that, in the operating agreement where you pretty much 118 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 2: got final say. The problem is they took away MIA's 119 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 2: money and pretty much kicked her out of the company 120 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: that she's the CEO of. One thing about Mia, she 121 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 2: was right in the sense of when you're the CEO 122 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: of the company, oftentimes you get paid a salary as 123 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 2: an employee. I do not believe Mia was lying. I 124 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 2: think the business agreement was so complicated that Mia was 125 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 2: just trying to find the words in that environment to 126 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 2: explain herself. So I don't think she was lying. In general, 127 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: I do believe that she just got caught up in 128 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: the moment, the lights, the camera, the action, the heat. 129 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 2: But I do strongly believe that Mia, unfortunately is in 130 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 2: a very dire situation. I feel bad for her because 131 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 2: she's not the first and she won't to be the 132 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: last in terms of somebody that got handed a bad situation, 133 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 2: because sometimes you trust people to handle the books and 134 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 2: they could be doing something shady behind the scenes. And 135 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 2: I do think it's a tell tell sign that all 136 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 2: of us included, we gotta stop living outside of our means. 137 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: You don't need to be keeping up with nobody. It's 138 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 2: okay to say, until I get back on my foot, 139 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: I'm going to buy a house that may costs, I 140 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 2: don't know, two hundred thousand dollars for me, my husband, 141 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: my three kids. You don't have to live fancy. Ashley 142 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 2: came even for her own penhouse allegedly, that's why Michael 143 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 2: Darby has the keys to it. What else happened is 144 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: re union listen Gazelle is alleging that there was some 145 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 2: embelselement going on. Candace versus Gazelle. You want to hear 146 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: a full recap of my Real Housewives upper to Reunion 147 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: Park One, head over to my YouTube page at de 148 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 2: Carlos King Underscore. Stay tuned. When we get back from break, 149 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: we are joined by my special guest, Jacqueline LaRita, the 150 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 2: og from the Real Housewives of New Jersey. This is 151 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: Reality with the King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get 152 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: back into the show. This woman is my love, she's 153 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 2: my friend. We have so many great memories to share 154 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 2: with you all today. She is so iconic. She is 155 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: the most requested Jersey housewife that they want to come 156 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 2: back to the show. Of course, I'm talking Abouttho to Lucy, 157 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: we talk about Jacquelin LaRita. 158 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, Plan, I love you, I miss. 159 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 2: You, I missed you more. 160 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: You were the one producer I could pull anything out 161 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: of me. 162 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: I was like, I am not saying anything in my interview. 163 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna and then by the time I was 164 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: done with you, I'm like saying everything. 165 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, how did he do that? It's like magical, Oh, 166 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: you're so so, but no, you weren't. Listen, Jacqueline was 167 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: so fun to work with. Jacqueline, Let's talk about the 168 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: early days of Jersey when it was just so fun. Yeah, 169 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 2: it was so fun. 170 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, they're just gonna follow our lives. 171 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 3: It's like, you know, I was going in with friends 172 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 3: and family. You know, Danielle was new. We just met 173 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 3: her before filming. 174 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. We just had so much fun even 175 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: off camera, like on camera and off camera was like 176 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: so much fun. Like everybody would stay out after we 177 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: were done filming and we would just talk and eat 178 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: and have a good time. 179 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 2: Jacqueline would cook for the crew and you know, listen, 180 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: it's a big Italian family, so they love to cook. 181 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: And after we were wrapped for the day, they would say, like, guys, 182 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 2: we made extra food for you. Just stay here, have 183 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 2: a glass of wine. It was a family and acclam 184 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: was always like, Carlos, this is so funny, Like what 185 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 2: are we doing here? Like I'm kind of famous, this 186 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: is weird. I didn't sign up for this. When did 187 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: you realize Real House Spots in New Jersey was a 188 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 2: big hit. 189 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,719 Speaker 1: Well, it was after the table flip obviously, when it 190 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: started getting all this attention. I was like, no one's 191 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: gonna watch this show, Like I didn't even really watch 192 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: reality TV. 193 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 3: I didn't know it was that big of a thing. 194 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: Like I didn't really get the whole process, like where 195 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: this was going, who you know was watching it? And 196 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: then after the table flip, I started seeing it like 197 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: pop up everywhere. And then we were out in the city. 198 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: I think we were doing press or something, and people 199 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: were running up to us crying and like hugging us, 200 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, are they talking to me? Like who 201 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: do they think I am? Like it was the weirdest feeling, 202 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: just having people recognize you and talk to you like 203 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: and I love meeting people, you know, I talked to 204 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: like strangers, I talk to everybody like. I love it. 205 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: And I just had no idea that it was gonna 206 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: be that, you know, And it just came really fast 207 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:06,719 Speaker 1: and just people recognizing and reaching out, and I don't know, 208 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: it was really it was very surreal. 209 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 3: Like I have a lot of social. 210 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: Anxiety and I'm great with people one on one, but 211 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: around like a bunch of people or people looking at me, 212 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: like if I was in front of a stage or 213 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: a crowd, I can't do that. 214 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 3: So for me, it was very uncomfortable for me. 215 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: Having to do interviews, and when we would go on 216 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: these talk shows and stuff, I get like anxiety before 217 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: those things that would break out and. 218 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 2: Hide like she's not lying. Even when we had to 219 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 2: do our interviews, she was always like, Carlo, this is 220 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 2: the worst part of the experience, Like me sitting in 221 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 2: a chair talking to you, like we can talk off camera, 222 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 2: but talking to the camera, you were always like that 223 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 2: part was always where so no, she's telling the truth 224 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: about that. Talk to us, Jacqueline. Before we get to 225 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 2: your iconic history on the show, how did you begin 226 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 2: cast to be on The Real Housewives in New Jersey? 227 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: I guess to the producers from Sirens were going around, 228 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: you know, our neighborhood, and they went to our local 229 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: salon and they were asking the owners of the salon, like, 230 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 1: do you know a group of women around here they're 231 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: like friendly with each other, that have a little, you know, 232 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: a little affluence and that would make good TV or 233 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: I don't even know. They were asking the owners of 234 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: the salon, and I guess they gave them my name 235 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: and Dina's name, and they called me at the time 236 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: they said it was called Jersey Moms. It was kind 237 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 1: of yes, we didn't know like what that really was about. 238 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: And I remember I was on a trip to California 239 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: and I was talking. 240 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 3: To Lucilla from Sirens at the time. Yeah, and then 241 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 3: I came back. 242 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: We did an interview, and then they called and said 243 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: that we got it. I guess they liked me. 244 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 2: No, listen, you're so genuine. And the reason why I 245 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 2: believe the show was a hit is because I think 246 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 2: the earlier days of Our Housewives was rude in reality. Yes, 247 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 2: it was so real. I think nowadays people are playing 248 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: the camera yes right exact when they want to have 249 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 2: a moment, and it's not where it used to be. 250 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 2: Like obviously, your sister in law was Dina and Caroline, 251 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 2: your friend was Teresa, your friend was Danielle, And when 252 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 2: you look back on the show is not what it 253 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 2: represents anymore. To me, I believe. 254 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: So what happened was we came on being ourselves. This 255 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: is like real drama. We got ourselves into everything was 256 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: authentically you know, happening and whatever. We didn't know what 257 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: was going on. Then it airs and it blows up. 258 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: But I feel like anybody knew coming to the show, 259 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: They're coming knowing kind of the show has drama, so 260 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: they're like, I'm coming to bring it. I'm gonna do it. 261 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: Like everyone wants to have that moment on camera. Instead 262 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: of being authentically in the moment and reacting how they 263 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 1: would naturally react, everybody's like hyping everything up. It feels 264 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: like that to me, and they're like playing to the 265 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: camera a lot more. I feel like a lot of 266 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: even storylines are more fabricated and it's not as authentic 267 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: as it used to be. And that's when I thought 268 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: it was good when it was family and heart and 269 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: relatable to people. Now it's like, let me get in 270 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: there and show myself, you know, like people just wanting 271 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: to be famous or you know, I don't know. 272 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 3: It's a different vibe for sure. 273 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, And I will say this when it comes 274 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 2: to the five original Housewives of Jersey, you all were 275 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 2: just being yourselves. Jacqueline and Teresa was like, we're just 276 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 2: gonna have fun. We think it's funny. We're just like, 277 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 2: you know, like listen, we're real housewives. We have all 278 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: these kids. We take care of our children. Jacqueline Teresa 279 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 2: used to stay on the phone from six am until 280 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 2: we were filming, and then they would look. I would 281 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 2: get so mad at Jacqueline. Guys, this Jacqueline. Jacqueline will 282 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 2: leave the seed. Call Teresa, tell Teresa everything. You know, 283 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: I'm like the Jacqueline wait, not tell me and. 284 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: Tell your friend. 285 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? 286 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: You don't think the girls do that. We would always 287 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: like give each other a heads up, and I know 288 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: we weren't allowed to do that, but it was like 289 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: you have to give the little heads up to know 290 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: where what's going on. 291 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 2: You know, well, you look back at the earlier season, 292 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 2: I mean listen. Obviously, it was a lot of fun 293 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: moments and it was a lot of deep stuff because 294 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: it was family. One of the biggest moments that people 295 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: shall talk about, Like you said, it's the table flip, 296 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: but it's also dealing with the fact that you were 297 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 2: caught in the middle between your friendship with Danielle and 298 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 2: your sister in laws. Can you talk to us about 299 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: that moment, because one thing I shared was the fact 300 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 2: that we knew Danielle was gonna bring the book I 301 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 2: hit under the table. 302 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know that, Carlos, How did you get under 303 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 1: the table. Is that true? You were under the table. 304 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 2: I left video village where the producers were. I crawled. 305 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was a long table. 306 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: It was a long table. And listen, I'm like five 307 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 2: foot ten and I'm like crawling. And it was so 308 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 2: funny to sort of reveal that the tension was so 309 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: thick in that room. My god, talk to us about 310 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 2: that and how you just had to blurt out like, 311 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: oh my god, I gotta just be honest here. And 312 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 2: I think that was the moment we all realized Jacqueline 313 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 2: and are the same, the sense of they can't fake it. No. 314 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: And it's funny too, because I was talking about a 315 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: whole different thing than what the viewers were talking about, 316 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: because on the show, they thought the whole coming out 317 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: of the book was at Chateau is where it first 318 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: came out, and that's where and I wasn't a part 319 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: of that, Like I wasn't there for that. I was 320 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 1: told by people that worked there that they were both 321 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: showing the book there, but I did not. I couldn't 322 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: speak to that because that's not where the book came 323 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: out for us. So I think I was just frustrated 324 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: because you know, when the book brought I don't want 325 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 1: to like bring up bad feelings because like I'm in 326 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: a good place with my fly. But when the book 327 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: came out, like everyone was curious about it, and when 328 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: it was in one's hands, you know, people were talking 329 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: about it. So for me, I was frustrated because when 330 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: everybody was owning up to the fact that they knew 331 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: about the book, like for me, everyone got afraid to 332 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: held Danielle that they saw the book. I'm like, I 333 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: don't care. I'll tell her like I want answers, you know, 334 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,399 Speaker 1: like I'll talk to her. I don't care. And I 335 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: think I got mad in the moment because I was 336 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: trying to stay out of it. But then when I 337 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: think it was when Dina said the book never touched 338 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 1: her hands. That's when I was like, what is she 339 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 1: talking about? Like everyone touched it and everyone was talking 340 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: about it, and it was like this big thing, you know. 341 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: So I was like no, no, no, Like in the moment, 342 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: I was like, your hands aren't clean either, you know 343 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, what are you talking about? So 344 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: I was talking about the moment that when the book 345 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: came out and everybody was freaking out and calling. 346 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 3: The producers like, why, who are we on the show with. 347 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:39,120 Speaker 1: This crazy person? You know, like what's happening? So that's 348 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: what I was speaking to. I wasn't speaking to Chateau 349 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: and the book there, and I think a lot of 350 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: people got those two moments confused. I don't know who 351 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,719 Speaker 1: was showing the book in the salon, you know, like 352 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: we heard they both were. Caroline said it was her, Dina, 353 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: didn't you know. I was referring to, come on, like, 354 00:18:57,880 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 1: you're the one that told us about it. You're the one, 355 00:18:59,800 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: you know. 356 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 3: That's what I was speaking to. And that's where I 357 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 3: kind of got upset. 358 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: You know. 359 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 3: I sat down with Danielle and talked to. 360 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: Her about it. I wanted to know about it. You know. 361 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 1: I was the only one that sat down with her 362 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: and had the balls to say it to her face, 363 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: you know, that talk to her about it and find 364 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: out what's true and what's not true and everything else. 365 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,160 Speaker 1: So that was really hard to put like a big 366 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: you know, obviously a big wedge in the family, which 367 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: really sucks. I'm a very big truth teller, and I 368 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 1: get frustrated when people are telling the truth. 369 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 2: No, you are a truth teller, And that's the reason 370 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 2: why a lot of fans resonated with you because they 371 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 2: knew that if Jacqueline said it, then it's true to it. Obviously, 372 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: Dina exited the show the next season, and then Caroline 373 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: obviously left the show a few seasons after that, and 374 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,199 Speaker 2: so did you. What is your current relationship like with 375 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 2: Dina and Caroline? Is there a relationship there? 376 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: The last time I talked to Dina really was when 377 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: her father passed away. We haven't We used to be 378 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: super close, like we used to go on vacations together. 379 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: We used to be super close. The show and everything 380 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,959 Speaker 1: that happened, like you know, we were feuding, and we 381 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 1: didn't speak when her father passed OU really before that 382 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: a few times when when you know that happened to her, 383 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: with the breaking down her house and everything. I spoke 384 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 1: to her a couple of times, and I'm always open 385 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: and willing to forgive people and be you know, friendly 386 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 1: with people. I think she had a harder time with 387 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: like letting go of the past, so she kind of 388 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: keeps like her safe distance. I would say, but like 389 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: we don't talk, we don't hang out, we don't do anything. 390 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: My husband has talked to her a few times. My 391 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,120 Speaker 1: husband is you know, when he's been in California, he's 392 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 1: had dinner with her, She's been out to Vegas before, 393 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: and he's met with her here. 394 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 3: But I haven't really hung out with her yet. 395 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 1: I mean, who knows. I'm moving to the OC, so maybe. 396 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 2: Way You're moving to the LC in June Exclusive. Look, 397 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 2: jack Lane, we want you on the Real Houseposal of 398 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:50,400 Speaker 2: New Jersey. We could go on the LC Housewives. 399 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,360 Speaker 1: I I at this point in my life, I think 400 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm done with that, Like that is such stress in 401 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,880 Speaker 1: my life. I know, it was just I was stressful. 402 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: Do you have anything fun to do, Jacqueline? I belong 403 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 2: to work with you again. 404 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: You know. During the time of filming, so much was happening, 405 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:12,919 Speaker 1: you know, like and it was hard, like dealing with 406 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,679 Speaker 1: the issues I had with Ashley, and then there's Nicholas was, 407 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: you know, regressing as we were filming, and then he 408 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 1: finally got diagnosed, And I mean, that is a lot 409 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: to deal with, more than I let on even because 410 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: I didn't want to keep bringing attention to that, and 411 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: that was very hard, like privately to deal with. And 412 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: then you had that the friendship fallout, the fighting. 413 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 3: It was a lot for me, it was a lot. 414 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 2: Are you in Kroenlinel speaking terms? 415 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 1: Yes, I actually I actually just reached out to her 416 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: with the whole So, Carolyn's not a phone person. We 417 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: don't get on the phone and sit there and talk 418 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 1: for hours, you know, like little texts here and there. 419 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 2: She's not a phone person at all. 420 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: No, So it's you know, Caroline's the type of person 421 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: you have to be there in front of her. It's different. 422 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,640 Speaker 1: But I have no ill feelings towards like anyone my family. 423 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 1: So yes, I reached out to her when stuff happened 424 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 1: with Brandy. I know there's a lot she can't talk 425 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: about right now. 426 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 2: How is she doing after that Brandy Glanville situation? 427 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,199 Speaker 1: I mean not well, it was very traumatizing. You know. 428 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: She couldn't really talk to me about a lot of it. 429 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: So I didn't push it too much, you know, I 430 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 1: just wanted to know if she was okay, because originally 431 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: it came out like I thought she like beat her 432 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 1: up or something happened. 433 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, what the hell happened? 434 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: You know, I think it's been hard for her. I 435 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: don't have all the details still, I just you know, 436 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: I hear stuff in the press and I hear it, 437 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: you know, but I don't really know. But anytime anybody's 438 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: like you know, it's not good. 439 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, and we love you, Carolina. We're praying 440 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 2: for you, and you know you have a family over 441 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 2: here too, so I just wanted to say that that 442 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 2: we love you. And yeah, look, we don't have all 443 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 2: the details, like you said, everything is alleged, but at 444 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 2: the end of the day, we are praying for Caroline 445 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 2: to heal after that situation. 446 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: Definitely, it's like she went through her traumatic event, Dina 447 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,360 Speaker 1: would do her traumatic event, and it's just it's yes good. 448 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 2: What is good, though, is Teresa and Jacqueline broke the 449 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: internet with this five hour lunch in Vegas. So let 450 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: me tell you guys. I have been talking to Jacqueline 451 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 2: for months about coming on the podcast, and Jacqueline said, 452 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: I'm going to do it. The time has to be right. 453 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 2: I text Jacqueline last week and she said, I maybe 454 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 2: having dinner with an old friend and I so I'll 455 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 2: let you know after that, and I said, okay, and listen. 456 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 2: Because me and Jacqueline are friends and we know each other. 457 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 2: I didn't ask who. I kind of figure who it was. 458 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 2: My respose was yes. 459 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: I know because it's funny because I kept seeing like 460 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: Andy Cone kept bringing up my name on watching it 461 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 1: happens live, like with Teresa, I think it's time to 462 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 1: end that warn and you know, he would say little 463 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: things like bringing me up. And I heard her in 464 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: a few different things where she was saying like, you know, 465 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 1: she would talk to me or I knew it was there, 466 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: but I didn't want to reach out because I didn't 467 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 1: want to get back into that world, like I was, 468 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm good here whatever. You know, I didn't know how 469 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: she truly felt, because sometimes she'll say one thing I 470 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: didn't know, you know. And then one morning, I like 471 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: woke up to a text from her saying she was 472 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: going to be in Vegas and that she wanted to 473 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: meet me for a cup of coffee. And then she's like, 474 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: you can bring Chris, I'm going to have Louis. And 475 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 1: I was just like, I like sat up and I 476 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: like had to look at it again. I'm like, what 477 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 1: is this. I was in such shock, and I showed Chris, 478 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, uh, wees wants to meet for coffee? 479 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 2: What do you think? 480 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 1: Like I was just like I didn't know what you know, 481 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 1: and Chris was like, you should sit down. It's been 482 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: a long time. I think you should sit down and 483 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: talk to her. Just hear her out, see what she 484 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 1: has to say. And so we agreed to meet with her. 485 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: We were going to meet for breakfast. 486 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 3: But then we ended up meeting for lunch instead the 487 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 3: day before. 488 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 1: And I was like excited to see her, and it 489 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: was just weird when I saw her. And you know 490 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: how we fight, like we're two tauruses. We'd go ahead 491 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: head it's like collision, you know, but we saw each other, 492 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: we literally almost like it was almost like running towards 493 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 1: each other to hug each other. And she sat down 494 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 1: next to me. Louis sat across from Chris. We were 495 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: at Tiffriyani's at the Wynn in Las Vegas, and we 496 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,959 Speaker 1: just started like talking like no time it passed, and 497 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: we didn't even really address the old issues. We were 498 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 1: just like catching each other up on everything they were 499 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: telling me about. You know, she has a step son, now, Nicholas, 500 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 1: who also has autism, you know, and his name is Nicholas. 501 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: So we were talking a lot about that and how 502 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 1: that came about, and you know, some of their stories 503 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:42,239 Speaker 1: and we were exchanging stories and just really catching up. 504 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: I know everyone was like, oh, they're meeting to you know, 505 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 1: do something with and I was kind of waiting to 506 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 1: see if there was like another motive to it, you know, 507 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: but there wasn't. 508 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 3: She was very genuine and just so sweet. 509 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: We both kind of just said, you know, during the 510 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: time of the show, we were both going through things 511 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: in our life that was very stressful. We have a 512 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: lot of pressure being on the show, not only from producers, 513 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: but people in our ears, you know, from people on 514 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: the cats or outside influences and stuff. So when you 515 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: have a lot of people in your ears and you're 516 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,959 Speaker 1: under a lot of stress and your things are happening 517 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: on the show, you don't really know who to trust. Anyway, 518 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: It's very hard to make up and maintain a friendship 519 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,239 Speaker 1: on a show like that because you know, it's kind 520 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: of about coming out with things. You could be thinking 521 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: something in your head and this was very hard for 522 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: me in the first interviews, but you don't say it 523 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: out loud because it hurts somebody's feelings, right, But you 524 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: learn on the show after a while, but the audience 525 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: doesn't know what you're thinking, So you've got to say 526 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is you're thinking, to put it out there 527 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: so the audience knows what you're thinking. Because you are 528 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: on a show, I think more things are brought to 529 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: the surface than need to be when you're on a 530 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: reality show. And especially what people don't understand too, is 531 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: if there's a lot of things going on in the 532 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 1: press and the media, it has to be talked about 533 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,199 Speaker 1: on camera because you can't have all this going on 534 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: out here and then it not discussed on the show. 535 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: So like when you're being told, listen, everybody on the 536 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: show is talking about this and this and this, you 537 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: have to talk about it too. It causes a lot 538 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 1: of problems. So now that we're I'm away from the show, 539 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm We're both in really good places in our lives. 540 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: We're both really happy in our lives where they are 541 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 1: right now and everything. I think that makes it easier 542 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: when you're away from the drama, you're away from the 543 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: toxic energy of the show, that now we can actually 544 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 1: because we were friends before the show, we're able to 545 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: be friends again after the show and just ignore, basically, 546 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 1: just forget the time on the show, because it's hard 547 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: to maintain a friendship when you're on the show because 548 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 1: something else is going to come around that's going to 549 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 1: cause a problem, you know, somewhere. 550 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 2: The elephant in the room is the fact that Teresa 551 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 2: was dealing with a lot of legal stuff. Teresa was 552 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 2: on the cover of those tabloids every week, and at 553 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 2: that time, I wasn't producing the show, but I get 554 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 2: as a producer, if it's in the press, you have 555 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 2: to talk about it. And the one thing that I 556 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,200 Speaker 2: remember watching the show was Teresa didn't want to address 557 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 2: anything because I think some embarrassment was happening. You were 558 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 2: obviously like, I'm your friend, but I'm also doing my job. 559 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 2: It was weird, and that's why I appreciate the fact 560 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 2: that in this five hour lunch you don't have to 561 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,479 Speaker 2: address anything in the past because it's the past. And 562 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 2: what I tell people about Teresa is when I spoke 563 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 2: to her recently, she's the same woman. She's so funny. 564 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 2: And the fact that we saw loosing fl get back 565 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 2: together it made everyone happy because it goes to show 566 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 2: you that the issue you and Teresa had honestly, Jacqueline, 567 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 2: as a viewer at that time, watching it, I'm like, 568 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 2: it's not that serious. 569 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, we said hurtful things to each other 570 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: about each other, honestly, Like I haven't seen the Housewives 571 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: of New Jersey in years. I watched the reunions because 572 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: it kind of tells me the whole story. And I've 573 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: caught like a few key episodes and someone's like, oh, 574 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: you have to see you know this whatever, But like 575 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: on the reunions, she was very different like the person 576 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: I saw in the reunion In person, she was much 577 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: more humbled, very we very like. Her demeanor was very 578 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: different and just she was reminded me of the old Teresa. 579 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: I was like very happy to see her, and it 580 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: just like we picked up like no time had passed 581 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: and just laughing, talking, catching up with the girls. Gabriella 582 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: called while I was on the phone with her, Oh, 583 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: so I got to see her, and so it was 584 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: just really nice. And I had heard things about Louis, 585 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: but I didn't know anything about him, you know, I 586 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: just had heard things from other people. 587 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 3: I met him, I loved him. I thought he was 588 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 3: the nicest person. 589 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: You could tell he was very caring, an upbeat and positive, 590 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: and he was like, you know, Teresa's been wanting to 591 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: reach out to you for a long time, and you know, 592 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm glad that she did it, so that made me happy. 593 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm like she wanted to, but I think she knows 594 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: me like anybody who extends an olive branch. That was 595 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: meaningful of my life before with Teresa. We have a 596 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 1: history before the show and her I was just very 597 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: open to it. 598 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 3: It was like her fifth time making up. 599 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: But I think this time is for good. 600 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you different. I reconnected with Teresa, who 601 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: was so apologetic. She was like, I didn't invite you 602 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 2: to my wedding. I'm so sorry, Teresa. Our friendship is 603 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 2: not predicated on an invite your wedding. We picked up 604 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 2: where we left off. What you said the Teresa who 605 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 2: we talked to Jacqueline, that's not the person that's on 606 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 2: the show. And when I say that, I'm going to 607 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 2: say this because she's on the show with her brother 608 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 2: and her sister in law and with people who are 609 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 2: dealing with dramatic things. Teresa has to have her guard 610 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 2: up because she doesn't know and you know this being 611 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 2: on the shoe. 612 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: Shoulder, like who's bringing up what? Who's gonna say what? 613 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 2: Who's yes? And I'm glad you said that the fact 614 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 2: that Teresa humbly reached out to you, the Teresa who 615 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: you see on the show, you would think she'd be like, no, bitch, 616 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 2: you need to reach out to me. It's bitch better, 617 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 2: you know, like all that bad. Yeah, But but she's 618 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 2: she's so sweet. And one thing I will say to 619 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 2: the audience, and I'm glad you can echo this is 620 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 2: she literally is the same person. Obviously met her two 621 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 2: thousand and eight doing the show, but you knew her 622 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 2: before that that's who she is. And I think again, 623 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: her brother in law and Melissa just makes it hard 624 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 2: for her. A lot of people wanted to know because 625 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 2: you know, listen, I share that based on my conversation 626 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: with Teresa that she called me to let me know 627 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 2: she just found out Melissa was joining the show. 628 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 3: So I didn't know that she was also trying to 629 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 3: contact you. 630 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: I knew that afterwards that she was like reaching out 631 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: to Danielle telling her stuff. I found out later, but 632 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know she was reaching out to producers trying 633 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 1: to get on the show. But the way I saw 634 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: that she got on the show, and then I'll tell 635 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: you Teresa's reaction and all that I thought because when 636 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 1: we would film, because Teresa always invited them to, like 637 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: the baby shower, the christening, her housewarming party. They were 638 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 1: there during filming, but Teresa always used to say while 639 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: we were Mike, don't talk to Melissa. She just wants 640 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: her face on camera, Like she knew what Melissa was about, 641 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: so she didn't want her to be noticed and on camera. 642 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 1: So guess what. As Teresa's friend, I didn't talk to 643 00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: Melissa because I knew that Teresa didn't want me too, 644 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 1: so I didn't have anything to do with her because 645 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: of that. But she's saying that in her microphone. I'm 646 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 1: thinking the producers are hearing this, and she's like, who 647 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 1: doesn't she want filmed? Who's Melissa? Who you know? And 648 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: then she's on Facebook and you guys always look for 649 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: who's friends with, who related to who? They see them 650 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: fighting on Facebook over the Sprinkle cookies or something, and 651 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: I think that drew their attention even more. The producers. Actually, 652 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 1: a produce another producer told me this. They were looking 653 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,239 Speaker 1: at that like she doesn't want to be around them. 654 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 1: They're fighting on social media. 655 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 3: She was feeding Danielle. 656 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: With stuff information and I remember Melissa was scared about 657 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 1: that at one point she didn't want Danielle to come 658 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 1: out with what she had said to her. 659 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 3: And she didn't tell me what she said to her, 660 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,239 Speaker 3: but I can imagine. 661 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: What it all was then with her. I guess talking 662 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: to you, trying to get on the show and everything, 663 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: that's what kind of got them on the show. It 664 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: was about a week before filming when she found out, 665 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: I think, because I remember the christening was going to 666 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: be the first scene that they filmed. So Teresa was like, 667 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 1: I'm not doing this show, Like, I'm not filming with them. 668 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,959 Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it. She was so against it, 669 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: And I said, Teresa, why don't you just call your brother, 670 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: make up with them before you start filming and come 671 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: to an agreement that you're not going to fight on camera, 672 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 1: that you're just going to put the ship behind you, 673 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 1: you know, if they if they're going to be on 674 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: the show, get to a good place with them before filming. 675 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: And Teresa was like, fuck that, I'm not talking. You know. 676 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: She was so mad. She would not talk to them, 677 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I really think you should talk to 678 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 1: them before filming. Nope, nope, no. The night before the christening, 679 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 1: she still hadn't signed her contracts because I think we 680 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: had like renewed our contracts. We're getting more money or whatever. 681 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: She hadn't signed the night before, and I was like, Teresa, 682 00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: I said, are you seriously going to go to this 683 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 1: christening tomorrow while they're miked up and have the cameras 684 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: all around them filming on the show that you put 685 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: on the map, you know, and you're just gonna hand 686 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:53,719 Speaker 1: it over to them, and you're going to watch them 687 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: from across the room, watch them filming. Then you called her. 688 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 2: She hung over. 689 00:33:58,880 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: You were calling her. 690 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 2: Yes, pill it, Jaqueline, Yeah. And then I. 691 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: Guess you talked her into it. 692 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,959 Speaker 2: I don't know how you did it, because I did, 693 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 2: I said to Teresa. So Jacqueline's right. I called her 694 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,240 Speaker 2: back because Teresa called me and she said, I'm not filming. 695 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 2: I said, look, listen here, Teresa, this is your show. 696 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 2: You're not going to let anyone run you off your show. 697 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:24,279 Speaker 1: Exactly. 698 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 2: Sign the contract and go to work tomorrow. And mind you, 699 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 2: I'm not a producer on the show anymore. But because 700 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 2: I love you, ladies, I said, go to work tomorrow, 701 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 2: and she said, okay, Fino. 702 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 1: So what happened was instead of talking to him before 703 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: she started filming and resolving it. She kind of thought, 704 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna act like nothing's wrong on camera, and 705 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: she went over to put her arms around, like, hey, guys, 706 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 1: what's going on guys? 707 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 2: You know, like she. 708 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: And then they were like, now you're being nice to us, 709 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: like they called her out on Cara. She was gonna 710 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 1: just to pretend like nothing was wrong, you know, but 711 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 1: if they wanted to come on the show and be peaceful, 712 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: why do that? Like I talked to them about it, 713 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 1: and they were so adamant about not they weren't going 714 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,719 Speaker 1: to try to hurt her and you know that kind 715 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 1: of thing. But they're really good at playing the vay 716 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 1: Like they had a lot of stories about how Teresa 717 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 1: treated them and like a lot of things. I think 718 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: that they were just very I think they were upset 719 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 1: that they weren't included on her show when she was 720 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 1: on the show, and so now they're like, all right, 721 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna, you know, we're going to get on our 722 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: own way kind of thing. 723 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, And do you feel like that was the same 724 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 2: for Kathy and Rosie too. 725 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,720 Speaker 1: No, Kathy wasn't after Terri's like, no, I think Kathy 726 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,919 Speaker 1: just like someone had approached her about being on the show. 727 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 1: I guess through Melissa the Facebook or whatever. We had 728 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: reached out to her, and she didn't say anything at 729 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 1: first to Teresa because she didn't even know if they 730 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: were going to pick her, and she didn't want to 731 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: go through the whole interviewing process and then not get 732 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 1: on it and then have to be like, yeah, so 733 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: they didn't pick me for your show, you know kind 734 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 1: of thing. So she was waiting to see if she 735 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 1: got it first before she decided for sure if she 736 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: was going to do it or not, and she was 737 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,280 Speaker 1: gonna tell Teresa, but then she had gone away first. 738 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: They were trying to decide, Okay, are we really doing this, 739 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,800 Speaker 1: and then when she got back, Teresa had already found out, 740 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 1: and then it was like a whole thing. But like, 741 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: I think she was going to tell her, and I 742 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 1: don't think Cathy's plan was to like get it. I 743 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,879 Speaker 1: don't think she felt the same way about Teresa. They're 744 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 1: like Melissa and jo did agreed. 745 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 2: Now that makes sense, That makes a lot of sense. 746 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 2: Do you have any regrets on the show? 747 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 3: I mean, do I think I always handled myself? 748 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 1: Well? No, you know how it is like a lot 749 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 1: of the scenes are cut out too, and you're not 750 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 1: seeing the whole picture. That, like what got me to 751 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,320 Speaker 1: certain places weren't shown, so that was annoying. I can't 752 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:48,080 Speaker 1: say that I regreted, just because I always feel like 753 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 1: in life, things happened for a reason. You learn lessons 754 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: you I don't know, things happened to move you forward 755 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,280 Speaker 1: and grow from. 756 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 2: And I loved you on the show because you were 757 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 2: always yourself and my match's point. Producing the first two 758 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 2: seasons and then watching the rest of the seasons. I 759 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 2: don't see any regrets based on you because you always 760 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 2: did what you wanted to do, and you were always 761 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 2: authentically you. You never wavered from like Carlos, this is 762 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 2: my truth, and I'm only going to do what I 763 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 2: feel is right, whether it gives me in trouble with 764 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 2: the family or my friendships. 765 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 1: I used to get calls from the producers the higher ups, 766 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 1: like because I wouldn't do something or like whatever, and 767 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: I would get in trouble and. 768 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 2: You did not even show up to a reunion. 769 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't show it to there because you know what, 770 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:38,839 Speaker 3: I thought. 771 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,320 Speaker 1: I quit it that way. I don't know if people realized. 772 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,840 Speaker 1: But like, we wrapped season four finale the night before 773 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,760 Speaker 1: season three reunion, and we were not in a good place. 774 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,439 Speaker 1: I had already shut down off of filming. I didn't 775 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: know that my contract still had me on there another year, 776 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 1: so I had to come back the next season. But 777 00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,839 Speaker 1: but I really felt like I couldn't take any more. 778 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 1: That was at the height of Nick's regression. He was 779 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,799 Speaker 1: not diagnosed it he was about to be diagnosed. I 780 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,439 Speaker 1: was fighting with. It was just so much negativity and 781 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: the whole Strippergate thing that like disgusted me that that 782 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: was like the whole thing. And like I had heard 783 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 1: they were bringing in Danielle was going to be there, 784 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,399 Speaker 1: kim Ge was going to be there. I'm texting Caroline going, oh, 785 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 1: you're the target tonight, kim GE's on our way, you know, 786 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: Like because we were all trying to figure out who 787 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: the target was, because you know, the finale, someone's always 788 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: the target, and we wanted to know who the target was. 789 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,839 Speaker 1: So like anytime I would hear something, I'd be like, 790 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 1: it's you. We were trying to figure it out. I 791 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 1: couldn't go to the season three reunion to pretend like 792 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm great with Teresa, you know, because they didn't break 793 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:46,919 Speaker 1: that fourth wall. 794 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,840 Speaker 3: Then well they kind of did it that reunion. 795 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,359 Speaker 2: Well they had to because you're such a big part 796 00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 2: of the show that they had to explain it somewhat. 797 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: I like, seriously have the biggest breakdown. I was like 798 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 1: my life Like at the time, I'm like with Nick 799 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,880 Speaker 1: fighting the pressures the show, how ugly the show gets. 800 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 1: I just didn't want any part of it. I was 801 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,719 Speaker 1: like screaming at the producers. You guys, it's like so bad. 802 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 1: I was like, not in a good place. I cried, 803 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: like it was terrible. 804 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, look you're in a great place now. How is 805 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,320 Speaker 2: Ashley doing. Ashley's good. 806 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 1: She's got, you know, my grandson Cameron, who's now six, 807 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,640 Speaker 1: and he's like the cutest thing. Like I love facetiming 808 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 1: with him. It just sucks that he's not here all 809 00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,320 Speaker 1: the time for me to, you know, but I spoil 810 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,600 Speaker 1: him from Afar and she's a good mommy with him, 811 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,720 Speaker 1: and you know, she's just she lives in New Jersey 812 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 1: and I live here. 813 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 2: What was the last time you spoke to Danielle Season 814 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 2: two reunion? Oh? 815 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: Really? 816 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:42,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 817 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,799 Speaker 3: Because remember she like hugged me and she's like yes. Well, 818 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:47,839 Speaker 3: then we had gone to. 819 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 1: Do press and someone from the press outlet told me 820 00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,800 Speaker 1: she was trying to give them or tell them stories 821 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 1: about me. And they were like, yeah, she's trying to 822 00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: give us these stories about you that blah blah blah 823 00:39:59,040 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: blah blah. 824 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,680 Speaker 3: And I'm like, what I thought we made a truth? 825 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 1: Like why is she doing that? One of her friends 826 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 1: or fans or whatever turned on her started sending me 827 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,319 Speaker 1: all their private dms where she was telling that girl 828 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 1: to attack me on social media and put. 829 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 3: This out and I was just like, what is she doing? 830 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 3: Like why is she doing that? 831 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 1: And then she was telling lies about my daughter to people, 832 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,399 Speaker 1: things that weren't even true, and so I was like, 833 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 1: how can she just make this kind of stuff up 834 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: about people that to me is a dangerous person. And 835 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm not having anything to do 836 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 1: with her. 837 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 2: Are you open to a five hour lunch with Danielle? No? 838 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: Because I wasn't friends with her before the show? Yeah, No, 839 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: she too many dangerous lies and things it to me, 840 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,800 Speaker 1: It's just I would rather keep my distance. 841 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,839 Speaker 2: Would you ever do Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip? 842 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 1: Everybody asked me this. The thing is could I handle 843 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 1: two weeks on a girl's trip. Yes, I could handle it. 844 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 1: I could have fun even if I fought for two weeks. 845 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 1: It's two weeks of my life. I could handle it. 846 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 1: But really, sickly, I can't do it because I don't 847 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 1: have a sitter for two weeks. Long for me to 848 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 1: go on a trip like that to watch Nicholas. 849 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:10,319 Speaker 2: It's only seven days. It is. You're there for like 850 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 2: seven days maximum, and then you get to go home. 851 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,320 Speaker 1: Oh well even seven days? 852 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 3: No, no, but even seven days. Who would watch my 853 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 3: son for seven days? 854 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 2: All right? 855 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: Maybe with a combination of like CJ, my mom, Chris, 856 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: maybe I could juggle it. Maybe. But if anybody wants 857 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 1: to touch my boobies and vagina unwont wanted, I won't 858 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 1: say what I want to do. 859 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,720 Speaker 2: Jaccoline, thank you so much, bro appearing on the pod listen. 860 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 2: I am so happy you did this. I know you're 861 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 2: a busy woman and you have a lot going on 862 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 2: with the kids and everything. I just want to say 863 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,720 Speaker 2: thank you so much. I love you, I adore you. 864 00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to Reality with the King, Share, comment, follow, 865 00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 2: and subscribe to Reality with the King wherever you get 866 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 2: your podcasts. 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