WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Speed Date My Ex

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're gonna have some fun today with a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>It's about to start. Who and Jeff just walked in

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<v Speaker 2>for the intro. Hey Jeff, Jeff, Yes, this was going

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<v Speaker 2>to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, don't leave, Jeff, just say hi to the second

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<v Speaker 1>date up day listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Jeff, I was disappointing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to read that guy's comment, but we

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<v Speaker 1>will read one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, says Jeff's in here, I'll read this comment that

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<v Speaker 3>says Jeff's voice always turns me on.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at that?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that a commentary? It was not a lexus definitely not.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get your brand new awkward Tuesday phone

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<v Speaker 1>call started right now.

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<v Speaker 3>If you've never done speed dating before, or if you have,

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<v Speaker 3>you know how awkward and exhilarating it can be, all

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<v Speaker 3>in the same moments.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I thought you were going to

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<v Speaker 1>end that with just the speed part.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, equally exhilarating, but you never know what you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to get from the one guy who won't make direct

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<v Speaker 3>eye contact with you to the one who just can't.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop drooling the entire conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>For one of our listeners, if you gave him a

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<v Speaker 3>million guesses. Never in his wildest dreams did he think

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<v Speaker 3>he'd be sitting across the table from this particular person. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>and that has led him all the way to us

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<v Speaker 3>asking for our advice in your brand new awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 3>phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll do it right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>You've heard stories of wild coincidences where you travel twenty

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<v Speaker 3>thousand miles across the world to visit a different country,

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<v Speaker 3>hop on a random bus tour, sit down and realize

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<v Speaker 3>your next door neighbor is there too.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it really does happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Are the odds of that? Websitting my kids? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently one of our listeners had a crazy coincidence happened

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<v Speaker 3>to him recently, so crazy that he needs our help

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<v Speaker 3>making the next step.

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<v Speaker 2>I love this. What's the story?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Sean. Sean, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, everybody, good to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you calling from a bus tour as we speak?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Really tickled him in Sean for yes or no? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you're not going to get that. Apparently, Sean, tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about your situation. What was the crazy coincidence that happened

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<v Speaker 3>to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So I've been single for a while, okay, and

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<v Speaker 5>the other night one of my friends finally got me

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<v Speaker 5>to go out to a speed dating event. Do you

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<v Speaker 5>guys know how these things work? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've hosted them before.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's timed right, So you have a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes with each person, and it's usually the men

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<v Speaker 1>that have to change tables.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, you like, write down what number you like the

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<v Speaker 2>best at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, last night? Yeah, accurate.

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<v Speaker 2>When you host him, you have to explain.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. So yes, I think we're aware of how they work.

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<v Speaker 4>What happened?

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<v Speaker 5>So? I mean I see a lot of a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of good people have a good conversation, but the third

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<v Speaker 5>person I recognize them?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh really, the third woman that you met with?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you know here from?

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<v Speaker 5>She is my ex wife?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Is not small? The girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 7>Are you like?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I skip table three?

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<v Speaker 4>How was that interaction?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, if it was a normal interaction, I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 5>calling I wouldn't Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean drama.

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<v Speaker 6>Did you thank you?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I want to know what the breakup was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you give us the t first. Are you guys friendly

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<v Speaker 2>or not?

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<v Speaker 5>It was amicable things. I just didn't end up working out.

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<v Speaker 5>It didn't end ugly, no kids, It was a pretty

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<v Speaker 5>clean break.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 4>How long were you together?

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<v Speaker 5>We were only married about a year and it was

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<v Speaker 5>it was a long time ago. We just got married

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<v Speaker 5>a little too young.

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<v Speaker 2>I hadn't found yourself yet. Yeah, okay, got it.

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<v Speaker 4>So did you interact with her? Like what do you

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<v Speaker 4>do at the speed dating event with your ex wife?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean we talked and I thought it went well.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm very surprised by that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Like well and like maybe you could be friends

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<v Speaker 1>or like, well, and what are you doing.

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<v Speaker 5>Inst Well, I realized that out of everybody there, I

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<v Speaker 5>still had the most chemistry with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, to be fair, you did have like a year

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<v Speaker 3>of connection with her before that, so she did have

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<v Speaker 3>a slight advantage over all the other women.

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<v Speaker 2>Wedding together with.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you're saying that it's probably good that he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have more of a connection with the stranger.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's like I like rom coms. He's like me too,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>But sometimes that works out.

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<v Speaker 1>I got people who got divorced and then remarried later

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<v Speaker 1>and ended up staying together forever.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's not impossible. So where where's your head at?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the breakup was eight years ago. A lot of

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<v Speaker 5>time has passed. We are different people than we were before,

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<v Speaker 5>and I want to give it another go.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay are you asking?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know what kind of signs were you

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<v Speaker 1>getting from her that she'd be open to this.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it's hard to tell. We didn't have much

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<v Speaker 5>time together, maybe three minutes, but there's a lot of smiles.

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<v Speaker 5>We laughed a lot. It was a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Okay, So, like, what's the worst that can happen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, asking your ex wife out she's already divorced you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can't get lower than that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, worst case scenario, I just get divorced the

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<v Speaker 5>second time I'm married.

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<v Speaker 4>You can day without marrying people, you know, it's hard

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<v Speaker 4>to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, that doesn't count a second time. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>when you hook up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, you can just get married unlimited time. This is

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<v Speaker 4>a healthy way to approach it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm curious what made you reach out to our

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<v Speaker 3>show for help? Like, what are you looking to do?

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<v Speaker 3>With your awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>We've kept in touch since then. We've been texting, but

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not taking it that next step to flirting yet

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<v Speaker 5>because I don't know how to start that again without

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<v Speaker 5>it being really weird.

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<v Speaker 3>So you've come to the flirtation experts to get a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit of help.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke, this is where you're gonna shine me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm terrible at flirting, ask Alexis, Why would I know

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<v Speaker 2>if you're bad at flirting? Nod?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and I don't think we've got your ex wife's name.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, her name is Janelle.

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<v Speaker 2>Janelle.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Sean and Janelle is a cute couple names.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like Chanelle if you put it together.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your wedding hashtag? Something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>That was a long time ago. Hashtags weren't really popular

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<v Speaker 5>back then.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, maybe this is a good selling point when

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<v Speaker 3>we get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, we have a hashat.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we ship Chanel and we'll see if she ships

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<v Speaker 3>it too when we come back.

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<v Speaker 4>Give you our advice.

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<v Speaker 3>Let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to re

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<v Speaker 3>ask out your ex Wifey.

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<v Speaker 2>You met at a speed dating event.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's so romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll do it right after this hold on, it's awkward,

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<v Speaker 3>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it ever a good idea to give it another

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<v Speaker 3>try with your ex? That's what one of our listeners, Sean,

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<v Speaker 3>has been wondering lately after bumping into his ex wife

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<v Speaker 3>at a speed dating event. Yeah, their marriage, you should know,

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<v Speaker 3>was very short. It ended about eight years ago, but

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<v Speaker 3>they were young. They say they got married a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit too early.

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<v Speaker 2>He says that that's what he said. We don't know, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, but after he saw her the other night, he's

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<v Speaker 3>been thinking about her a lot, wondering if maybe they

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<v Speaker 3>should try going out again, and could it possibly be

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<v Speaker 3>better than the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and they met at a speed dating event, so

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<v Speaker 1>she's definitely open to dating right now and single right Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's smart.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't thinking about that, But is she open to

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<v Speaker 3>dating her ex husband? Does he even pose that question

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<v Speaker 3>to her without sounding like a total lunatic. That's where

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<v Speaker 3>our advice comes in. So, Jose, what have you got

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<v Speaker 3>for him?

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<v Speaker 4>If you want to.

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<v Speaker 6>See if there's still something between you and your ex,

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<v Speaker 6>you just need to get her in the right mindset.

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<v Speaker 6>Bring up your favorite memory of you two being happy together,

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<v Speaker 6>and that's going to get her in that headspace of

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<v Speaker 6>the good times.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, right, I see what you're saying, Sean. What do

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<v Speaker 4>you think about that?

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<v Speaker 5>At a little embarrassing?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh embarrassing?

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<v Speaker 5>Ah?

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<v Speaker 4>Was that remember when we were happy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Even just your wedding day I think would be a.

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<v Speaker 2>Good Do you have a hard time with emotions?

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<v Speaker 5>You need to know that now it's actually the morning

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<v Speaker 5>after it was a mild hangover.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't need to tell us. You can tell her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we don't need to know it. I'm sure Janelle

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<v Speaker 4>will remember. But that's one's advice.

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<v Speaker 3>Get her head in the right place by bringing up

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<v Speaker 3>something happy from your time together, brook.

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<v Speaker 4>Brook What do you think.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not trusting him either.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why we're just gonna alter that advice a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>In set a favorite memory. Let's bring up hottest memory, right.

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<v Speaker 2>The best, most adventurous, whatever you had. That's that's where

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<v Speaker 2>you need.

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<v Speaker 4>This is less for Janelle and more for just Brooks.

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<v Speaker 4>She wants to hear it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not sure about that one.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't want to talk about hot things. Don't talk

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<v Speaker 2>about happy things.

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<v Speaker 5>John, I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, you don't have to give all the gory details.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say, like, remember that time at the lake cabin,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's all you'll You'll brook.

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<v Speaker 4>With the lake cabin a personal life out of this,

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<v Speaker 4>I know she does.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's remember it's.

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<v Speaker 4>In a separate room. Okay, let's just move on. Sean,

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<v Speaker 4>I apologize. This is why people think they saw Bigfoot.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's the advice that we have. I wouldn't dare

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<v Speaker 3>give you another piece of advice. Let's just call Janelle.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see if she answers, and hopefully we can get

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<v Speaker 3>her to agree to you the.

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<v Speaker 4>Idea of going out with you one more time. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it sounds cool.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, we've done it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm dialing the numbers and we're gonna shut up.

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<v Speaker 7>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 8>Hello, hey Janelle. Oh Sean, yeah, hig, I'll give you

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<v Speaker 8>a call.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's been a while since we've talked.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean, I said her the other night that

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<v Speaker 7>was kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah it was, but well I had a good time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you're seeing you as well.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean it's been a long time. How how

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<v Speaker 7>are you doing.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm doing all right, I mean mostly, uh.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, what are what are you been doing right now.

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<v Speaker 5>In general or right now, right now, right now, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>talking to you.

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<v Speaker 7>I just mean, why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was driving around the other day and I

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<v Speaker 5>saw a treehouse right and I was kind of brought

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<v Speaker 5>back to eight years ago.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, do you do.

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<v Speaker 5>You remember the treehouse that one summer?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I remember?

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<v Speaker 7>But why are we talking about this?

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<v Speaker 5>Because it was a good hot memory, you know, the

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<v Speaker 5>door showers, the fun. It just it's been on my mind.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Honestly, I gotta go, But I mean I'm sure

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<v Speaker 7>i'll see you around or whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>Before you go. I do have some things I want

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<v Speaker 5>to say that are a little more thought out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I know it sounds crazy. I mean, we got married before,

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<v Speaker 5>and we got married for a reason when we really

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<v Speaker 5>liked each other way back then, and being with you

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<v Speaker 5>again it felt amazing, and.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, well, I mean, if I'm being honest, it

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<v Speaker 7>was really good to see you again too. But I

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<v Speaker 7>was kind of surprise as you were even there.

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<v Speaker 5>Surprised that was why.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, because a year and a half ago I ran

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<v Speaker 7>into Joe. He told me the situation and.

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<v Speaker 5>What situation you know that you're.

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<v Speaker 7>That you're gay.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh, what what I mean?

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<v Speaker 7>It's okay? Like everybody knows what?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is he confused?

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<v Speaker 5>What are you?

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<v Speaker 7>What are you talking about? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, Hey Janelle, I don't know if you can hear.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think you're on the radio right now.

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<v Speaker 7>This is I don't know what is going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is We're a radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Hi, good morning that and everybody heard that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, everybody, We've all been listening to your conversation because

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<v Speaker 3>Sean needed our help.

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<v Speaker 4>He told us about running into you at the speed.

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<v Speaker 3>Dating event the other night and he felt, yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 3>a connection.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people go between right like people tay guys

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<v Speaker 1>and people tay girls and that's totally fine.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. But Sean, why do you sound confused.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I'm not day? Are you sure.

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<v Speaker 7>It's not something you have to hide?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 7>I still even talk to your mom and she thinks

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<v Speaker 7>the same thing.

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<v Speaker 5>She knows my mother.

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<v Speaker 4>What everyone?

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<v Speaker 7>You know what?

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like you've got some fires to put out

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<v Speaker 3>with all of your other friends and family, Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>But are you just like embarrassed about the information coming out?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I swear I'm not gay? I've never been gay. We

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<v Speaker 5>got married, but that doesn't mean anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're really losing the point.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to refocus because the whole reason that we

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<v Speaker 3>made this call Janelle. Obviously you don't know this, but

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<v Speaker 3>we're trying to see if there's still any potential romantically

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<v Speaker 3>between you and Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now that you know that he also likes women only, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it opened for him.

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<v Speaker 2>He needs to go either way.

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<v Speaker 5>To me, I am interested in women. I am interested

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<v Speaker 5>in you, Like, are you sure or is this just like.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's just because you were so awkward about

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<v Speaker 1>bringing up that treehouse memory.

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<v Speaker 4>Of the hook up.

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<v Speaker 5>That was your advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I meant to do it in a more comfortable, like

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<v Speaker 1>sexy way.

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<v Speaker 4>You that, Okay, do you get your husband in the woods.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's forget the treehouse.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's let's focus more on you and Janelle possibly hanging out.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like she's starting to like process the information.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, don't believe any rumors from my stupid friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Or rumors from your stupid mom and.

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<v Speaker 7>Your mom like your mom.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess I need to have a conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 2>But hey, great, you're from such a loving family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, Sean, why don't you give you know, one

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<v Speaker 3>final pitch on why she should see you.

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<v Speaker 5>I like the chemistry we had eight years ago and

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of nights ago good, and I think it's

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<v Speaker 5>worth another shot to at least go out on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, Janelle, Like, what is going to drinks with

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<v Speaker 2>your ex husband?

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<v Speaker 7>Hurt? I mean, if you tell me how your mom reacts,

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<v Speaker 7>then it might be worth it.

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<v Speaker 3>After their conversation, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Think Janelle believes you still shot.

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<v Speaker 4>Janelle, you need to meet up and find out.

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<v Speaker 5>I believe you, but I mean, I'll talk to my

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<v Speaker 5>mom and over dinner, I'll tell you what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, that is romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that was the hottest start of a.

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<v Speaker 3>Data I feel like I'm in that tree house right

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<v Speaker 3>next to the outdoor shower all over again. Goodness, Brook

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<v Speaker 3>and Jeffrey in the morning. Brook, he really didn't like

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<v Speaker 3>your advice, even though he did use it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because he can't be sexy. It's not my pot Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not my fault.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the most awkward way to bring up a

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<v Speaker 1>hot memory.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>I think from now on you need to give your

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<v Speaker 3>advice and also tell them how to say it.

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<v Speaker 2>She wasn't even impressed when he's a treehouse. It's so

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it wasn't as hot as he thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he just doesn't have your sex appeal. You just

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<v Speaker 3>use sultry every day. That's what jose and I talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>It's oozing again.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to be me. Just this curse that I've

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<v Speaker 2>been dealt in life.

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<v Speaker 6>She's always wearing a silk robe.

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<v Speaker 2>Smoking a pie.

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<v Speaker 4>Careful, you're turning everybody off.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I have an ask?

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<v Speaker 4>On? Bottom line? It worked whether or not it was sexy.

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<v Speaker 3>It got the job done, and our podcast is working too,

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