1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, Hey, we're back. 2 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: We're black, We're brown. 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: Ambition ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition. What's up, y'all. I'm Mandy 4 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: in the studio alone, but not for long. I'm joined 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: by a fantastic guest today, Jamila sous Frant, friend of 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: the show. She's been on a couple of times, but 7 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: never since launching her very first book, which comes out 8 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: this week. We're going to get into that episode, but 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: I thought I would just take a moment and check 10 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: in see how y'all are doing. We got some really great, 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: just so sweet, so heartfelt dms and email after the 12 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: last show where we were sort of sharing about the 13 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: holiday season and how it can start to feel, you know, 14 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: like you're sort of getting worn down by it rather 15 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: than enjoying it. I actually took my four year old 16 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: and my baby, but you know, he slept through most 17 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: of it. Took my four year old on a road 18 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: trip to Kingston in New York, which is about, I 19 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: don't know, ninety minutes or so away from where I live, 20 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: and we went on the Polar Express train, which is 21 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 1: very Yeah. So if you see the Polar Express ads 22 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: online and they target you moms and dads, listen, it's cute. 23 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: It is. But I had to like really sit with 24 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: myself in my own brain and be like, be in 25 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: the moment and look at this through your son's perspective, 26 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: because I'm like, this hot chocolate and cookies are giving 27 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: me are pretty whack. And these cookies is it's like 28 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: the cookie monster recipe because this tastes like cardboard. But 29 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: if I had to sort of like slow down, be 30 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: like you're here. It was so much work. It's hard 31 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: enough getting the kids in the car to go to 32 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: the grocery store, let alone for a ninety minute road trip. 33 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: So I had to just be like, hey, feel his magic, 34 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: Like look at him, he's feeling magic. He was so 35 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: excited he got to meet Santa. He talked to one 36 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: of Santa's elves, you know. 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Ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition. What's up, y'all. 88 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: It's your girl, Mandy Money, and I am here so today, 89 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: but not for long. I have a very very spectacular guest, 90 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: someone who I don't know. I feel like a couple 91 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: of years ago, I was like, I want to get 92 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: to know her better, and now I can say that 93 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: she is a friend, a peer, and I'm so so 94 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 1: excited to tell you guys all about her. 95 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 2: Brand new book. 96 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: Why did I do the Oprah voice for that? I 97 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: don't know, it just happened. But before I get into that, 98 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,799 Speaker 1: because I've known Jamila for a couple of years now, 99 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: but y'all may be hearing from her for the first time, 100 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: let me give you a little bit of her statue, 101 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: a little bit of her background. Her name is Jamila 102 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,359 Speaker 1: Sousfront and she is the author of Your Journey to 103 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: Financial Freedom, a step by step guide to achieving wealth 104 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: and happiness, emphasis on the Happiness. It is debuting What's 105 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: Today Tomorrow Tuesday, So if you're listening to this on Wednesday, 106 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: go and get the book. It's in stores right now. 107 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: She's also the host of the Journey to Launch podcast. 108 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,239 Speaker 1: She's a go to thought leader in the personal finance 109 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: field and her work has been featured everwhere like BuzzFeed, 110 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: Essence for Finer twenty nine, Business Insider, CNBCCBS, and This Morning, 111 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: Good Morning America. We can add to that list. Her podcast, 112 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: Journey to Launch has over four million total downloads and 113 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: was named by The New York Times No Big Deal 114 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: as a podcast to help you get better with your money. 115 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: So today I'm having Jamila on the show to talk 116 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: about her book, of course, and because we get into 117 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: the nitty gritty on here, we'll talk about the book 118 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: journey and the business journey that she has been on 119 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: and how her and her husband saved nearly one hundred 120 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: and seventy grand in just two years while also having 121 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: three children in Brooklyn, New York. Like the math is 122 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: not mathing here, I have questions. Okay, So Jamila, without 123 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: further ado, welcome to the BA STU. It's good to 124 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: have you back. 125 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: Oh, Mandy, It's great to be say having me. 126 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm so excited for you, as you can tell, because 127 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: I forgot you were going to be on the show, 128 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: so I texted you today as if I wasn't about 129 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: to talk to you in a couple of hours. H 130 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: How does it feel your book baby is born? 131 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, you know, it's still surreal. I 132 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 2: feel like it's not. But I am one of those 133 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 2: people where it has to be happening for me to 134 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: feel like it's happening. And now it's like it is happening, 135 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: So Jamila is happening. So it feels great. I mean, 136 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: I'm it's kind of nerve wracking because now the whole 137 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: world gets to open up a very importantant thing that 138 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 2: I've done and read it and have opinions about it 139 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 2: and hopefully it will be helpful to them. But this 140 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: is the first time, like the general public gets to 141 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: see this versus like not me or my editor or 142 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 2: book coach, who I feel like they're nice and they're 143 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: helping me. But this is gonna introduce me, hopefully to 144 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: a whole new audience and you know, interested to hear 145 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: the feedback of what people will start saying when they 146 00:07:58,400 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: read the book. 147 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: Tell me why a book in a time when I 148 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: feel like, I mean, I know why I'm writing a 149 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: book right now, but I want to know from you. 150 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: What was it that you felt like, Okay, it's time, 151 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: this is the book I need to write. 152 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 2: You know, I like to look at things strategically and serendipitously, 153 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: meaning you know, yes, some things you do because it 154 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: makes sense, it's logical, and then some things you just 155 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 2: cannot deny when they need to happen. And I've been 156 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: approached to write a book years ago at the start 157 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 2: of my journey, but you know, those were not in 158 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 2: the way in which I'd want a deal. So I 159 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,839 Speaker 2: didn't have an established platform at the time, so I 160 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: knew I wouldn't get the best book deal. One a 161 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: publishing company approached me. They just wanted a name behind, 162 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: they already had the concept, they just wanted me to 163 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 2: be the author of it and all those things. I 164 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 2: was like, no, I'm not ready, it's not time. But 165 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 2: I knew as I was establishing myself and growing that 166 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 2: I wanted to do the traditional publishing route and I 167 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: wanted to do another meeting. You know, I have the podcast, 168 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 2: but not everyone listens to podcasts, and even people who 169 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 2: do listen to podcasts don't know my podcast exists. And 170 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 2: even so there's still so many questions I want do right, Well, 171 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: that's the thing. So but I still even have podcast 172 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: listeners who are like, I love this content, but you know, 173 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 2: I have to go to this episode in this episode, 174 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 2: And I thought to myself, you know, having another vertical 175 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 2: and media platform, adding this extension to my brand, to 176 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 2: help solidify all the information that I've spoke about and 177 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: over the hundreds and hundreds of episodes, to put it 178 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: in a book and a guidebook that someone can flip 179 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 2: through and I can say here, here are like all 180 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 2: the answers to all your questions that you have about 181 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: financial independence, just felt like the next thing to do. 182 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: It's like I could no longer deny that it was 183 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 2: the right time, and that because I was going to 184 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 2: the traditional route and it would take a couple of 185 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 2: years for it to be done, that when I signed 186 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: my deal, I was still solidifying, growing and getting my 187 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 2: concepts together, and so I do by the time it 188 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: came out that I'd be in a place to fully 189 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 2: enjoy and bring this book to light in the way 190 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 2: that it needed to be brought. 191 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: I feel exactly the same about like what you were 192 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: saying about it is a two year process. So you 193 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: sort of know, Okay, I can get the book deal, 194 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: and then I can keep growing, I can keep doing 195 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: all that. But then it's like, oh crap, Now I 196 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: got to write a book while I'm doing all of that. 197 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: So how did you How did you manage a time? 198 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: Plus you got three kids and they're not little. They 199 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: got lives, they got activities. You know, they want their mama, 200 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: So tell me a little bit about the process and 201 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: how you made it happen. 202 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 2: So it was hard. It's like being a parent. You know, 203 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 2: people tell you how hard it is to be a parent. 204 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: And I did a lot of research in terms of 205 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 2: writing the book and what it looked like. I listened 206 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 2: to people podcasts that just talked about writing. And as 207 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: much as someone tells you, just like being a parent, 208 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: the things you can expect, you don't know until you 209 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 2: are in the thick of it. And so I felt 210 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: that I did need support. So one of the things 211 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 2: that I did is that I'm not afraid to invest 212 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 2: in myself or to invest to see the results I want. 213 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: And I knew getting a book coach was going to 214 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,599 Speaker 2: be important, and I was going to pay for that 215 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: out of my own pocket, someone who could help motivate me, 216 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 2: help in additional edits that I would need to help 217 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 2: guide me through the process. So that was a big help. 218 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 2: I don't know if I would have survived without having 219 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 2: my book coach that I hired. And then on top 220 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 2: of that, the timeframe for my book, actually I felt 221 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 2: was shortened because I thought it was going to come 222 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 2: out in twenty twenty four. So when I first signed 223 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: my deal, it took quite a time for me to 224 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 2: actually sign it, but I was writing. I started writing anyway, 225 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: and I thought it was going to come out in 226 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 2: twenty twenty four, which gave me more time. And then 227 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 2: when we finally did sign the contract, they were like, yeah, 228 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: we're thinking about December twenty twenty three. I'm like, what 229 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 2: I thought. I had a couple more months, And so 230 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 2: that put a bit of pressure on me to get 231 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 2: things done, especially now with the kids. Like you said 232 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 2: at my kids are nine, seven and five, very energetic, 233 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 2: very rambunctious, and a lot of my writing had to 234 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: take place in the summertime, which for me, I always 235 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 2: like to say, I actually don't like working in the 236 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: summer around my birthday or holidays. So basically there's like 237 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 2: two months out of the year that I like to 238 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 2: work if that. And so the summer was so hard 239 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 2: because I would want to go to the beach. I 240 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 2: didn't want to sit and sit still to write. But 241 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 2: I knew that I had these deadlines, and I do 242 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: work pretty well with deadlines. You know, if you tell 243 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: me something is due in an hour, I'm gonna I'm 244 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 2: gonna find a way to get it done. And so 245 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 2: that really helped, and having the book coach and really 246 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 2: always coming back to the purpose of writing the book. 247 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 2: So yes, I do want more people to discover the 248 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 2: podcast and learn. But I thought to myself, my goal 249 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 2: right now is to write something that will last, you know, 250 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: beyond me and have an impact bigger than bigger than 251 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: I could imagine. And am I staying true to that 252 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 2: in the writing process even if I'm scared And I 253 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 2: felt like I did, and so I would let that 254 00:12:56,160 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: guide me when I felt nervous about writing or sitting down, 255 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 2: I felt that unease that comes along with writing a book. 256 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, the unies, the in between, I can be in 257 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:10,719 Speaker 1: between I can. So it took me a couple of 258 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 1: stabs to get my first chapter done. So far, I 259 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 1: haven't hired a book coach because I'm not opposed to 260 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: it and I think I might be like a first reader. 261 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: When you say book coach, do you mean so you 262 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: had a proposal coach. You're the one who taught me 263 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 1: that there were things like a proposal coach, you know. So, 264 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: but you had a coach also helping you through the 265 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 1: writing process, which I know a lot of people do. 266 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, So there's so many ways you can work with 267 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 2: people to help you. And so, yes, I had someone 268 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 2: help me with my proposal, which was amazing. And then 269 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 2: when it came to doing the book now now that 270 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 2: I actually know more, knowing what I know now, I 271 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: would have actually hired her in a different way. So 272 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 2: she was a book coach slash developmental editor. So she 273 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: helped me when we came back with how do we 274 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 2: set the book up? How do we get all these 275 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: thoughts and ideas and frameworks and tackle is every audacious 276 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 2: goal of trying to lay out people's path to financial 277 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 2: independence and put it in a book that makes sense. 278 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: So she helped me figure out like, all right, you 279 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:10,839 Speaker 2: know what if we broke the book down in these 280 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 2: sections or this part or what chapters should we use? 281 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 2: And then she did some line editing and helped out 282 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 2: a lot in that sense. But I knew that I 283 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 2: wanted to write it myself, so I didn't want to 284 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 2: have a ghostwriter or someone to write it for me. 285 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 2: But I knew i'd need additional help for grammatical and 286 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: line editing. But I actually would have hired her to 287 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: do more line editing and grammatical things, because while my 288 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 2: publisher did that, I felt like she was so good 289 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 2: at capturing like every single thing. And now that I 290 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:44,479 Speaker 2: know what I need going forward, if I write another book, 291 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 2: I can confidently hire her in this way to say, Okay, 292 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 2: this is what I actually need, this is how we're 293 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: going to work together. 294 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need her details. Yes, how'd you find her? 295 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 2: She's amazing. I found her through my agents, who we 296 00:14:58,600 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 2: have the same agents. 297 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: Right, Oh okay, well I did ask them, so maybe 298 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: they'll give me the same maybe, And I don't remember 299 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: the name that they gave me, because sometimes you know, 300 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: as a mom, I'll just be fire and text off 301 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like I'll get they're gonna send me an answer. 302 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: I'll look at it when I need it next time. 303 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 2: And I did want a woman. I wanted, uh, you know, 304 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 2: preferably one of one woman of color, preferably a black woman. 305 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 2: And I thought that, you know, when they had her 306 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 2: as a contact, I was like, yeah, let's go. And 307 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 2: then she was just I mean, she went above and 308 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 2: beyond because again I hired her in a certain capacity, 309 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: but I needed her for more and she she just 310 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 2: went above and beyond and she still does. Like she 311 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: helped me figure out some of this details for the 312 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: book cover because she worked in the publishing science today. 313 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, like and just for a minute, yeshit with that juice, 314 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: I keep juicy, juicy, juicy Tomila cover. Yes, like I said, 315 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: I just want to take a bite. So weird. It's gorgeous. 316 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: The orange and this is why I am wearing the 317 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: one orange shirt that was in my closet. I would 318 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: I was going to go for the yellow hoodie, but 319 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: Husby saundoks like a taxi cab and I just can't 320 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: hear it, so I can't put it on. But here 321 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: you go. 322 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: Well, you know, also with her, and thank you for that. 323 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 2: I just think in general, when I think this can 324 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 2: go just beyond the book writing process, because I did 325 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: this with the podcast. Also is that when I got 326 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 2: interested in something. I talk about this in the book, 327 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: when you get interested in something and you see someone 328 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 2: doing something. So I saw someone in one of our 329 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: payers get a book deal and she shared that, you know, 330 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 2: she had this person helped her with the proposal. She 331 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: shared who her agents were, like she shared, and I asked, 332 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 2: I asked her directly, like hot, what did you do? 333 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 2: And I'm one of those people I click on hyperlinks. 334 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 2: I talk about it in the book that something is 335 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 2: of interest to you, click on the hyperlink like you 336 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 2: want on the page that you're reading online, and it 337 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 2: takes you deeper and deeper. And sometimes hyperlinks take you 338 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 2: to pots of gold and changes your life, and sometimes 339 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 2: they're nothing. And for me, it was about I want 340 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 2: to write a great book. I want to put myself 341 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: in a position to get the best deal. What are 342 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 2: the things I need to do to do that? And 343 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 2: who can I talk to who have done those things, 344 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 2: and what were the resources they use? And can I 345 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 2: do that? And that's kind of like how I went 346 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 2: about like who I hired or what I invested in 347 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 2: to help me get to this point. 348 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: That's so so smart, and that's why I love podcasting 349 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: in general, and my background's a journalist is because it's 350 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 1: all about that double click. And I just like, I 351 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: don't like it when I don't feel like I get 352 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 1: something from one page. I got to go to the 353 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 1: next page. And like, everyone who knows me really deeply 354 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: and personally is like, stop asking me questions, Like I'm like, 355 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: I just want to I need to understand every single 356 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 1: angal Okay, But that's so wise and smart because it 357 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 1: you assume, like correctly that no one's doing it alone. 358 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 1: And that is the great gift I feel like, of 359 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: seeing how the sausage is made when it comes to 360 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you can put anything in that category, not 361 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: just publishing a book, but launching a business, even you know, 362 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: going on your journey toward financial independence. It's a lot 363 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 1: to do it alone. It's too much. And then if 364 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 1: you want to like have a social life, eat well, 365 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: work out, do your thirty minute runs like you do. 366 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: Be a woman, be a wife, be a sister, friend, Like, 367 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, so to get that help is such 368 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: a great, such a great, uh, you know, just a 369 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: great thought to have, and it's and it's liberating in 370 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 1: and of itself. But then to execute it and find 371 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 1: the exact help that you need from the right places. Yeah, 372 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: I love that you said that. Okay, so break down 373 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: the book for me, because I don't have a copy yet. 374 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Do you not have my address. 375 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 2: Or I'm not sure. 376 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: Apparently Barnes and Noble and Random Places has it, but 377 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: my Amazon has not come yet. 378 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: I no doubt. Well, you know you're coming to the 379 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 2: party in preview, Remember you're coming to the party, so 380 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 2: you get a signed book then also excited for the party. Yeah. 381 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 2: So thinking through what I wanted and how I want, 382 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: this is a very ambitious book to write, because I 383 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 2: wanted to really map out and share how someone who 384 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 2: either if you knew about the concept of financial independence, 385 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,120 Speaker 2: which is this ability to live off of just your 386 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 2: investments and not how to actively work for someone just 387 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 2: new hearing about it for the first time, or who 388 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 2: has an idea of what it is, how would I 389 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 2: explain to them how this works and how they can 390 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: apply it to their life and start their journey. And 391 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 2: so I ended up breaking out the book in four parts. 392 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 2: So the part one is about the why and how 393 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 2: financial independence, and it breaks out like what it is, 394 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,959 Speaker 2: why you need to pursue it, and then breaks out 395 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 2: the journey or stages that you need to go through 396 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 2: to reach financial independence, and so it's really like sets 397 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:35,239 Speaker 2: the stage for your journey. Part two, now, I think, is, 398 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,360 Speaker 2: you know, one of my favorite parts because these are 399 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 2: literally the things I did when I started my journey 400 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:41,640 Speaker 2: to get me to where I am today. So Part 401 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 2: two is about how do you map out your journey, 402 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: your enjoyable journey. What does it look like, what is 403 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,159 Speaker 2: your starting point, what is your end point? How do 404 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,439 Speaker 2: you go from being in debt and think about how 405 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 2: long you want it to take you to have investments 406 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 2: or to get to the different stages that I talk 407 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 2: about in the book. And so it lets you app 408 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 2: out and sit down and figure out how to apply 409 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 2: these concepts to your life. And so again Part one 410 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 2: and two are all conceptual. You know, there's not a 411 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 2: lot of doing, you know, there's a lot of learning 412 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 2: being setting the stage for your journey. And then part 413 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 2: three is about executing like the plan that you just 414 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: set in Part two, So you know you want to 415 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 2: reach financial. 416 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: And don't skip to part three because that would be 417 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 1: so me right, skip to the how too. I have 418 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 1: a feeling you're going to be much better prepared for 419 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: the part three that if you start right into it. Yeah. 420 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 2: Well, and plus you know I talk about. 421 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 1: A book, not a blog post. Okay, read the book right. 422 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: It's so here's okay, Okay, I'm going to go through 423 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 2: and how people. It's going to be best for people 424 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 2: to use the book to help them. So Part three 425 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 2: is about executing the things you want to do in 426 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,959 Speaker 2: part two, so you said you want to reach financial 427 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 2: independence or get out of debt in five years, ten years, 428 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 2: fifteen years. What are the things that you actually need 429 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 2: to do that will help you do that or what 430 00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 2: are the actual things like increasing your income, optimizing expense is, 431 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 2: working on your mindset and habits, paying down liabilities, increasing assets, 432 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 2: all these things and legitimate, just actionable items that you 433 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 2: can do. And then part four is about enjoying the journey, 434 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:14,360 Speaker 2: because this is a long journey to financial independence, and 435 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: how do you make it so that you are achieving 436 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 2: freedom on your way and happiness that you're not waiting 437 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 2: for this far off goal. And so what will happened 438 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 2: is like it happened for me. Is when I first 439 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: started my financial independence journey, I had mapped it out, 440 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 2: so I did my part one and two. Part one 441 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 2: for me was learning about it through podcasts or reading 442 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 2: blogs on my commute to work. And then I discovered, Okay, 443 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 2: how am I going to apply that to my life, 444 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 2: Like I want to reach financial independence by forty years 445 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 2: old is what I said seven years ago? And what 446 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 2: do I need to do to make that happen? How 447 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 2: long it will take, how much do I need to 448 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 2: invest or pay down debt to do this thing. Then 449 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 2: I started my journey and I realized some of the 450 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 2: things that I did, like you've mentioned in my intro, 451 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 2: saving and investing one hundred and sixty nine thousand dollars 452 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 2: in two years was amazing, but not sustainable for my journey. 453 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 2: And so some of the things I initially thought I 454 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 2: would do, like work full time to help me reach 455 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: my goal and still commute, grow, growing my family, and 456 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 2: have my business on the side. I thought I would 457 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 2: do that for the next seven years, and as I 458 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 2: started to do it, I was like, oh, no, this 459 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 2: is not sustainable, So I need to actually make a 460 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 2: decision here to quit my job, but doing that would 461 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: change my journey, and so I had to go back 462 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 2: to like the part two and map out what does 463 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 2: this new journey look like? How do I create or 464 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 2: adjust a plan that works for the current stage of 465 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 2: life I'm in. So the way I want people to 466 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 2: interact with the book is, yes, read it through one 467 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 2: time and actually do the things within the book. But 468 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 2: as you start your journey, you may need to come 469 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 2: back right to part two as you start executing, to say, 470 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 2: you know what, that feels great, But I don't want 471 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 2: to be as aggressive. You know, I don't need to 472 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 2: reach it financial independence in five years and be so 473 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 2: aggressive because I actually am working on finding more enjoyable 474 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 2: work or paying down debt. And so if it takes 475 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 2: me a little longer, because you know, I'm into the 476 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 2: stage of my life of growing a family or taking 477 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 2: a risk, that's fine. Let's go back to part two 478 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,239 Speaker 2: of the book and map out this new plan. And 479 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,399 Speaker 2: that's what I did, And so I really try to 480 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 2: make it where you can come back and recalibrate and 481 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 2: use it as a reference point even after you've read 482 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 2: it through, to help you and to continue to help 483 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 2: you on your journey. 484 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: Okay, be a fan. We're going to be right back 485 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: with more of our conversation with Jamila Souffront and we're back. Well, 486 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 1: first of all, I love that you're acknowledging that it's 487 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,479 Speaker 1: not like you're it's not like you're saying retire by forty, 488 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: you know, and here's what you got to do. Because 489 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 1: almost it's almost like it's turning the idea of retirement 490 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: on its head and saying, instead of working really hard 491 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 1: to enjoy the few years you have left after you 492 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:46,679 Speaker 1: stop working, start building a life financially but also personally 493 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: where you can enjoy what you have going on now 494 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,159 Speaker 1: while you're also building to sustain it, you know, for 495 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: the future. So like in our audience, like they've heard 496 00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: about five financial independence, they've heard about five or financial independence, 497 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:04,640 Speaker 1: retire early. Is this your take on it essentially, And 498 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: how what's the reception been from the fire fanatics if 499 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 1: there has been any at all, And how do you 500 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 1: think your approach is different? 501 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's so interesting about fire, the fire 502 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 2: community and movement. I feel like when I first started, 503 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 2: it wasn't as on the surface diverse in terms of 504 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 2: voices and people. But now I think it's totally different. 505 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,199 Speaker 2: I think there are a lot of great voices, blogs 506 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 2: or podcasts or people from different backgrounds who are talking 507 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 2: about reaching it in a way that feels good to 508 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 2: them and so whether that is they're not living super frugally, 509 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 2: they want to spend a lot of money and so, 510 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 2: but they are investing and earning money accordingly to that goal. 511 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 2: Like so, I think the community itself has broadened and 512 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 2: is awesome. I feel like it is my take on 513 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 2: financial independence because you know, going through it myself and 514 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: the journey and making really great strides with my finances 515 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 2: doing it. What I thought was a traditional fireway, which 516 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 2: was being aggressive with investing and saving, which you do 517 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 2: need to be more aggressive than the average person dealing 518 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: with their money if you want to reach this audacious goal. 519 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 2: But I definitely focus more on enjoying the journey and 520 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 2: adjusting as you go. And then coming from my perspective 521 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 2: as a black woman, as an immigrant, as a mom 522 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 2: and wife living in New York City, I just I 523 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: feel like that perspective I didn't see when I first 524 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 2: came in and that I'm now highlighting and showing, like 525 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 2: the diversity of this journey and what it can look 526 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 2: like depending on your starting point. And I think ultimately 527 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 2: what I've been able to do. You know, I always 528 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 2: like to say when I wrote my proposal, when I 529 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 2: got my proposal, we worked on it together with the 530 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 2: person I hired, and we sent it out and I 531 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,719 Speaker 2: got the agents and they sent it out that I 532 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 2: had eleven I think I had a meetings with eleven 533 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 2: or twelve publishers. Eleven of them wanted the book, so 534 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 2: it went to auction meeting like. 535 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: They name. 536 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 2: Zame. But I had these meetings with the publishers and 537 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 2: you know, they've seen a lot of not public yet 538 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 2: when they were interested in buying the book. So we 539 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 2: have these kind of meetings to see if we like 540 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: each other, like to learn more about me, I learn 541 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 2: more about them, and you know, they see a lot 542 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 2: of proposals, they see a lot of books, and you know, Mandy, 543 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,880 Speaker 2: we are in the money space. There's but some ways 544 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 2: you can talk about how to budget and investing. It's 545 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 2: literally it's just you can google like all these things 546 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,640 Speaker 2: and find it. I think what people appreciated, the publishers appreciated, 547 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 2: and I think what I brought still to the book 548 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 2: and stay true to is this fresh approach on making 549 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 2: it attainable, achievable, enjoyable, and just reframing like certain concepts 550 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 2: that maybe people have not thought about before, Like, Okay, 551 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 2: we talk about financial independence and yeah, so many people 552 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: don't think it's possible because depending on where they're starting from, 553 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 2: I can see why. And so let's break out what 554 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 2: the journey looks like into five stages that anyone can 555 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 2: identify where they are. Or there's a cool concept that 556 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 2: I created called the Quak levels walk lifestyle levels. So 557 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,400 Speaker 2: depending on what you like and how fancy you want 558 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 2: to be is going to determine the type of money 559 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 2: you're going to need to invest or safe to get 560 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 2: to financial independence. And none of those choices are wrong. 561 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 2: Your journey or stage is never going to be wrong. 562 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 2: What you choose to live for your lifestyle is not wrong. 563 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 2: It's your choice. But breaking it out into these ways 564 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 2: that people you know, I will hope find refreshing is 565 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 2: my take on what it takes to bring more people 566 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 2: within to the space and to believe that they can 567 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 2: achieve financial independence. 568 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: Wow, eleven publishers. Sorry, I'm still stuck on that. That's 569 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: not a thing that happens. It happened in one book, 570 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: you know, a couple few, but not eleven. No, that's fantastic. 571 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: And I mean the bidding war. You know, I'm a 572 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 1: negotiation goal, so the bidding the negotiations must have been 573 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: real fun for Steven Chan our agents. I feel like 574 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: when I look at the books, I was just thinking 575 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 1: about this because I I the books that have come 576 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 1: out are coming out now. It's like getting to see 577 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 1: the fruits of trees that were planted, you know, two, three, 578 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 1: four years ago, starting of course with Tiffany's, but then 579 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: the wave that's comes since. You know, I think about 580 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: the cover for your book, and I think about the 581 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 1: cover for Vivian two, your rich bff, she's going to 582 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 1: be on the show later this month or in January sometime. 583 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,199 Speaker 1: And I think about the cover for Janice Torres Jokido Dinano. 584 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: Her book is like pop in bright pink, and you know, 585 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: Tippany's got that green. Then there was financial feminists with 586 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 1: like the sort of like punk rock sort of look, 587 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 1: and I'm just I'm like the shelves at the bookstores 588 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: could never you know, like the shelves of five years 589 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: ago could never there's going to be a whole section 590 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 1: and it's going to be like I will tell my 591 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: children these were the Barbies, this is the Barbie dolls 592 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,719 Speaker 1: that you can collect. Because it's just not to trivialize it, 593 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: but it's just it's stunning how we kind of go 594 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 1: from a time when there's so few and now you're 595 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: looking at the shelves and it's still not enough, mind you, 596 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: but it's like, Okay, something has changed. There's a shift 597 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,719 Speaker 1: in that, there's an acceptance there, and I'm so excited 598 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: that you're one of those voices. It's so so needed. Okay, 599 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 1: I want to ask you kind of a personal question 600 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: after you receive. 601 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: That yes, I'm receiving it. 602 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 1: I know it's hard to receive. It's really hard, easy 603 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 1: to give, hard to receive. As I was writing the 604 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: first chapter of my book, you know, I took two 605 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: stabs that excuse me, and I was really surprised what 606 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: an emotional like personal journey I went on. I do 607 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 1: talk a lot about my personal life, you know, as 608 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 1: a coach and through the podcast, which is true, but 609 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,719 Speaker 1: when it comes to really unpacking my journey from like 610 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 1: the mindset phase, you know that the impact of my 611 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: childhood and young adolescence really had on my approach. It 612 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: kind of like it just knocked me down. I was 613 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting the emotional side of it, and even 614 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 1: to share some anecdotes that I ended up putting in 615 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: the first chapter. So I wanted to ask you because 616 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,719 Speaker 1: I know you talk about your Jamaican heritage and your 617 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: relationship with your mom and the sacrifice is that she 618 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: had to make. Was there anything that you were almost 619 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: hesitant or surprised, you know, ended up in your story 620 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: in the book. 621 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I think I always knew I wanted 622 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 2: to lead with my mom and make sure I gave 623 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,479 Speaker 2: her homage because everything that I am and that you 624 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 2: see is because of like who she was and what 625 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 2: she sacrificed. So you know, she had me at pretty 626 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 2: young at twenty years old and immigrated here from Jamaica 627 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 2: to the States, had to leave me behind to help 628 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 2: establish herself, and so sharing that in the book, and 629 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 2: I remember I went there was a point where I 630 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 2: went to Atlanta to write like for a week because 631 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 2: I was like, I have deadlines I need to meet 632 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 2: and my mom was there. So my mom and I 633 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 2: hung out in Atlanta, and she was telling me more 634 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 2: of her story, like where she like, like how she 635 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 2: was raised. And I knew some of this. I knew this, 636 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 2: but we really just wanted to learn more because I 637 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 2: knew I was going to be bringing some of that 638 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 2: into the book, and I, you know, there were there's 639 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 2: some parts where I'm just like, how blessed am I 640 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 2: to have a mom like that who, even though she 641 00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 2: was not given the opportunities to express herself or she 642 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 2: didn't get the kind of love and support that she 643 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 2: needed as a child, that she like turned around and 644 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 2: gave that to me, you know, like you know, some 645 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 2: people repeat the cycle and some people break it. And 646 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 2: my mom smashed it, like she she's like, we're not 647 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 2: doing that. And she did every and to do that 648 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: at such a young age. So all that I wanted 649 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 2: to make sure it came through in the book because 650 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: I also knew that. You know, I feel like I'm 651 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 2: privileged and it's not a bad thing, you know. I 652 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 2: don't when people like get all offended when you you know, 653 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 2: you say that you have privilege or you had to help. 654 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 2: I just feel like it's supposed to be that way, 655 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 2: Like our kids will have help you know, like they 656 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 2: would be the product and have a bit more privileged 657 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 2: than we did. And the points as long as they're 658 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 2: not you know, ENTI old you know a holes, right, 659 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 2: we don't want that, But isn't that the point? And 660 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 2: so I know that some people, if they see my 661 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 2: story and see what I'm doing now, they probably look 662 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 2: at it and they're like, oh whatever, Like easy for 663 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: you to say because you had all these things which 664 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 2: it worked hard for. But again there's some privilege in that, 665 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: you know, being able to be here or be raised here, 666 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,880 Speaker 2: versus some of my siblings who were stayed in Jamaica. 667 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 2: And so sharing my mom's story and making sure like 668 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 2: it started with her and what she had to do 669 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 2: in order to produce me, I think was important to 670 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 2: share and made it into the book. And of course 671 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 2: there were just some parts where you know, I wanted 672 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 2: to be careful about who I included or how I 673 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 2: included them, because you know, while it does impact me, 674 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 2: it's just not I also don't want to step on 675 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 2: or you know, share things that don't need to be 676 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,719 Speaker 2: shared if I can still accomplish the story and the 677 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: mission of the story. So I just feel like, yeah, 678 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 2: there were a bit of that, and I bet you 679 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: it's so funny. Even though I wrote it and I 680 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 2: read the audiobook, I bet you, if I read it 681 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 2: again and through and through, I'd probably remember like, oh, yeah, 682 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 2: I put that in. I'd probably forget that. 683 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh I know. And it's like okay if I 684 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 1: have to. If I'm putting something and I'm like I 685 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 1: might need to run this by them, I'm like, cool, cool, 686 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm waiting till the very bitter end when I know 687 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: it's maybe going to get published. Well, that's that's amazing. 688 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 1: Has your mom read it yet? 689 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 2: She has a copy? I don't think she's read it. 690 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 2: She might have read, you know, the dedication and acknowledgment. 691 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 2: I don't know she knows that. I would be very careful, 692 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 2: you know, so like when I talk, you know, I'm 693 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 2: talking more about her and like, you know me, because 694 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 2: it was just the two of us for a very 695 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 2: long time versus like bringing other people into it. You know. 696 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 2: I feel like if I were to write another book 697 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: or be more personal like that would be you word, 698 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 2: I'd have to like run things by people and be like, 699 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 2: all right, a lot of shit. 700 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I only scratched the service in the first book. 701 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 1: I gotta dig deep. Now we got to get some skeletons, 702 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: kind of get some skeletons on the gladst Okay, so 703 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 1: people are going to get this book, and I mean 704 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: it's a perfect time around the holidays. I can see 705 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,759 Speaker 1: why your publisher was like, let's push it into December. 706 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 1: But what's the first thing you hope someone does when 707 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 1: they close it? 708 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. The first thing I hope someone does 709 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 2: after they read it or even read your a portion 710 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:27,879 Speaker 2: of it, is to have this incredible sense that it's 711 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 2: possible for them. Like I want whatever dreams that they 712 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 2: had that they thought like oh, you know, like that's 713 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,839 Speaker 2: not something I should be pursuing or that's silly or 714 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 2: I can't do that. Like I want them to look 715 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,919 Speaker 2: at this and read this and say, wait a second, now, 716 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 2: like maybe this can be done. And I mean that's 717 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 2: the whole goal. Like for me, I know, financial independence 718 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 2: is a very audacious goal. I know when people roll 719 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 2: their eyes at herring fire, like okay, really, like I 720 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 2: have this much debt, I'm so maybe I'm I'm so 721 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 2: much older, I started lay all these things and I 722 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 2: get it. But what you'll be able to accomplish with 723 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,280 Speaker 2: your life even if you don't reach complete financial independence 724 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 2: in the timeframe that you've set out for yourself. Just 725 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 2: like me, I said I was going to reach it 726 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 2: at forty years old. I would never have to work 727 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 2: ever again. You know, I'd be done. And I'm you 728 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,359 Speaker 2: know that age now, So I feel so bad saying it. 729 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 2: I can't even say it. 730 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes fabulous and forty, I know, right, it's okay because 731 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,760 Speaker 1: you got the melon and you love twenty five. 732 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 2: Right right that part. So, but what's amazing is what 733 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 2: I've been able to do with my life, like accomplishing, 734 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,479 Speaker 2: having freedom, the opportunities, doing these things in my life 735 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 2: where I literally am living that life financially independent life now. 736 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 2: Of course I'm not like spending in ways that I 737 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 2: probably would spend, or I still do have to show 738 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 2: up and work here and there. But I have much 739 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 2: more freedom than I thought I could ever have starting 740 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 2: this journey seven years ago. And I'm not completely financially independent. 741 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,759 Speaker 2: So I just feel like I want someone when they 742 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,840 Speaker 2: read this book, and yes, I'm like dangling this audacious 743 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 2: goal in front of you, and I want you to 744 00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 2: attempt to do it because I know in the attempt 745 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 2: that you will blow your mind about how your life 746 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 2: can change. And that's what I want people to understand 747 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 2: about what can happen for them if they start this journey. 748 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,399 Speaker 2: It's just it's not about the number. It's not about 749 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 2: you know, getting X amount in your investment accounts. It's 750 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 2: about who you become on the journey and path. And 751 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,399 Speaker 2: I just I want to shout from the mountaintops because 752 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 2: it happened in my life, and it happened in so 753 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 2: many other people's lives that either I interviewed or I 754 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 2: say in the book, I profile in the book, and 755 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 2: I'm just like, listen, you don't understand, but life is 756 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,800 Speaker 2: waiting for you, like it's possible. You just got to 757 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 2: attempt to do it. 758 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I mean when I launched my business, 759 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 1: it was it was exciting and invigorating and all of that. 760 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 1: And some days I get really beat down by the 761 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 1: some of the burdens of being a business owner. You know, 762 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 1: for example, my husband has a traditional nine to five, 763 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,240 Speaker 1: but he has like a boss. So when his bosses 764 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 1: like show up, he just shows up. And I'm like, 765 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,759 Speaker 1: you just do what they say. You just have to go, 766 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 1: which means I am like a business owner but also 767 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 1: sort of like a mom, a stay at home mom 768 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:02,799 Speaker 1: at the same time, and I'm just like, this is 769 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,439 Speaker 1: too hard. How can I be both and all that? Well? 770 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 1: First I look to people like you, and I'm like, 771 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 1: higher help. I think about how you got someone to 772 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 1: cook meals for you? Is she still cooking or you? 773 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 2: We don't do that right now, but we might need 774 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 2: to start again because we were struggling. 775 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 1: The way that I sent Panera to my son's school today, 776 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:27,319 Speaker 1: he's four. I door dashed him his lunch because I 777 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 1: was trapped. I was nap trapped at home with the baby, 778 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,880 Speaker 1: and the lunch just didn't make it into his backpack 779 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: this morning. And I was like, hmm, I can't. I'm 780 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: going to just have to spend this twenty dollars right 781 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 1: here to get him some mac and cheese. And it 782 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: was done. You know what I mean. Old me would 783 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:47,880 Speaker 1: have been like, I can do this. Put the baby 784 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,479 Speaker 1: in the car. Oh he's crying, give him a bottle, 785 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,880 Speaker 1: he'll be funny. You can nap later, you know, stress, stress, stress, 786 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: make the sandwich and you know, unnecessary. Where was it 787 00:37:55,239 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 1: going with this? I just feel like it's mom brain. Yeah, 788 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 1: I just think that there's so many on the positive side. 789 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: When I thought about my work day today, I was like, 790 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 1: I know, I have the podcast with you in the 791 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 1: middle of the day. I get to stay home a 792 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 1: few hours. I get to take a nap later if 793 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 1: I need to, you know, I get to have this 794 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:25,360 Speaker 1: conversation with you, and no one is sort of jerking 795 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 1: me in any direction. You're on the show because I 796 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,359 Speaker 1: wanted you to be here. No one's forcing that, and 797 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: there is and you know, and I'm not financially free 798 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 1: in the sense that I never have to, you know, 799 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 1: ever work again. And you know, I'm on my own journey. 800 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 1: But the journey feels good and I love and I 801 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 1: keep looking at your book title. I like, it's the 802 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: journey to financial freedom. I almost feel like they should 803 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 1: have made that word the biggest one. But it's the journey. 804 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 1: And it's like, what are how how is your journey 805 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 1: gonna go? And are you gonna look back on it 806 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: and think, oh, hell, yeah, we have some good times 807 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: and look we're here now, or are you going to 808 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 1: look back and be like, oh, I remember nothing. It 809 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 1: was such a slog It was it was bitter, it 810 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,919 Speaker 1: was a fight, you know, And I love that you're 811 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: sort of making it something that can be positive, something 812 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,719 Speaker 1: that can be as bright and glowing and gorgeous as 813 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:21,720 Speaker 1: that the cover. 814 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, book, I mean, it's meant to be enjoyable. So 815 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,840 Speaker 2: I think life, you know, there's so many things happening 816 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 2: in this world and so many reasons why we can 817 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,160 Speaker 2: just say, you know, what's the point. And when I 818 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:39,799 Speaker 2: think like that, you know, I just have to be 819 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 2: reminded and center myself back to like there's a reason 820 00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 2: why I woke up this morning, Like what am I 821 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 2: doing this for? You know? And I ultimately, yes, money 822 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 2: is a tool and we need to understand how to 823 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 2: use it to our own benefit. But it's you know, 824 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 2: it really is just a tool. It's made up, you know, 825 00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,880 Speaker 2: like literally the printed when they want to right, And 826 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:06,240 Speaker 2: I think just understanding that and being your biggest asset. 827 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 2: So I know we talk a lot in the finance 828 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 2: world about like investing in assets and all these things externally, 829 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 2: and I really think so the big part of the 830 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 2: book too is yes, I'm asking you to do these 831 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 2: external things and to do things, but it's really about 832 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 2: being It's about your mindset and habits and who you 833 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 2: are despite the numbers, despite being in debt, despite not 834 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 2: understanding something and still figuring it out, despite being nervous 835 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,799 Speaker 2: to go ask for that raise, or to put your 836 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 2: hand up, you know, in a meeting, or to stand 837 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 2: up for yourself, despite even if you don't do it 838 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 2: right away, maybe it takes you five meetings to raise 839 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 2: that hand. It's just who are you in that process 840 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 2: and recognizing like the smallest you know, you know, even 841 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,799 Speaker 2: just raising your hand a little bit, like that's when 842 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 2: because you didn't do that before. And so like for me, 843 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 2: it is about the journey and like reveling in that 844 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 2: and like enjoying it and making it uniquely your own. 845 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 2: So everyone's starting point is different. Everyone's going to have 846 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 2: different privileges or assets that they can use to help 847 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 2: them or you know whatever. And so I just think 848 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 2: understanding that and wanting to relay that to people and say, 849 00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 2: like listen, it's it's gonna take some work, but it 850 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,960 Speaker 2: doesn't have to be miserable, and you'll have so much 851 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,760 Speaker 2: more happiness once you do focus on the internal journey 852 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 2: as well as yacht one outward one that it's going 853 00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 2: to be well worth it once you start. 854 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: Were there ever times on the journey where you questioned 855 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: like is this working? Am I gonna? Is this going 856 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 1: to happen? Can you talk about any of those moments 857 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: and what sort of kept you going? 858 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:42,319 Speaker 2: Well? Of course, yes, and in all aspects of my life, 859 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 2: whether it was my entrepreneurship journey, and they all intertwine, right, 860 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 2: like they're all kind of intertwined together, these roads that 861 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 2: were on in paths, my motherhood journey, you know, my 862 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 2: financial journey, like all these things were you know, I 863 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,799 Speaker 2: remember when I quit my job and at the time, 864 00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 2: Journey Launch wasn't making anything there of what my job 865 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 2: was making, but I just had this desire that you know, this, 866 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 2: this was what was next for me. 867 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 1: You've had that hell commute three hours? 868 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like one and a half hours one 869 00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 2: way on a good day, you know, and so I 870 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 2: was just like this is not like I can't and 871 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,839 Speaker 2: so but there were times when you know, I wasn't 872 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 2: making money, or we were pulling from our savings account 873 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 2: to help pay for our expenses because I didn't have 874 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 2: my income anymore, where I thought like what did I 875 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 2: just do? And that's when, you know, after some of 876 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,920 Speaker 2: those feelings I'd go back to the plan I created, 877 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 2: and I reassured myself that, Okay, worst case scenario, what 878 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 2: is going to happen, You'll be okay. I always like 879 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,720 Speaker 2: to tell people look back. So when I get those feelings, 880 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 2: whether it was like why did I like, you know, 881 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 2: is this going to work? Even writing the book, I'm 882 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 2: just like, even though things were going so well, I 883 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 2: have to like remind myself, and I tell people to 884 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 2: remind yourself, like of all like it took to get 885 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 2: you here, Like, there are a lot of things that 886 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 2: went right. I know some things are going wrong, but 887 00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 2: there are a lot of things that went right to 888 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,439 Speaker 2: get you here. Listen to this our voices to put 889 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 2: you in the position you are today. And that's kind 890 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 2: of what I always go back to, is like, look 891 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 2: at like you're doubting yourself and writing this book, but 892 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 2: look what got you here. Look how many people were 893 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,319 Speaker 2: interested in this book. There's a reason for that. And 894 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,400 Speaker 2: so I just I try to cent her back into 895 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 2: so much amazing things have happened. Who's like, why would 896 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 2: it stop? Right? As long as I continue to have 897 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 2: the faith and I'm living what I hope is a 898 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 2: good life and being a good person like that, all 899 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,040 Speaker 2: that will continue. 900 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's that. It's I think I wrote about the 901 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 1: post about this recently too. It's like, what would you 902 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,919 Speaker 1: five years ago be amazed that you're doing right now? 903 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I bet five years ago you'd be like, 904 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,720 Speaker 1: I kind of want to write a book and dang 905 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:47,359 Speaker 1: girl on the GMA. But jumbo tron and your book 906 00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,520 Speaker 1: on shelves. Congratulations, and thank you so so much for 907 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,840 Speaker 1: sharing a bit of your journey with the ba fam 908 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,360 Speaker 1: and for being a returning guest. That's your second or 909 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: third time. I don't know you can come back a 910 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 1: friend of this sh shoe. All right, y'all, go grab 911 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 1: your copy and buy some for your family, your friends, 912 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 1: anyone to put in that stocking. Get it extra big 913 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,799 Speaker 1: stocking in this year. Okay, just shove it on in there. 914 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 1: The bank again. It's called your what's that? Go ahead? 915 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,520 Speaker 2: No, no, go ahead, No, it's gonna be the website. 916 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get there. 917 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: Don't you worry, because you know you can tell you've 918 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:25,240 Speaker 1: been uh, you've been tutored by Tiffany when you domain 919 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 1: for your book. 920 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:26,719 Speaker 2: All right. 921 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 1: The book is called Your Journey to Financial Freedom, A 922 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 1: Step by step guide to achieving wealth and happiness and 923 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: it's out right now. And what is the website where 924 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 1: everyone can cop that book? 925 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 2: Jamila? You can go to your Journey to Financialfreedom dot 926 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,800 Speaker 2: com and see all the places you can buy. 927 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,400 Speaker 1: Awesome. And you got some freebies or some like goodies, 928 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 1: right or was that for the pre orders now? 929 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 2: Actually I'm gonna I'm gonna keep it up until I 930 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,880 Speaker 2: think maybe next week. But you get a free course 931 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 2: and some goodies when you order a hard copy of 932 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 2: the book and you put your information in at your 933 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 2: Journey to Financialfreedom dot com. I have a starter fire course. 934 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 2: Tell people get started. And it's a great compliment to 935 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 2: the book Your Journey to Financialfreedom dot com. 936 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 1: I hope it is a huge success no matter what happens. 937 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,560 Speaker 1: You did a thing, Mama, You wrote a book. It's incredible. 938 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 1: I want to be you when I grow up in 939 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 1: two years from now. Okay, all right, y'all be sure 940 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,959 Speaker 1: to go to your financial your Journey to Financialfreedom dot 941 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 1: com and Jamila take care. We'll see y'all pretty soon. Actually, 942 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,359 Speaker 1: because Jamala is sticking around for the VAQA, So go 943 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 1: ahead and check out that episode. Hitting your phones or 944 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 1: your I was about to say Radio, that's not No 945 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 1: one has those coming to you on Friday with the 946 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:44,440 Speaker 1: VAQA will be taking some of your financial freedom questions, 947 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,480 Speaker 1: all right Bye,