Speaker 1: This guy.
Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio Morning. I have
Speaker 2: a story here from the Dance of Anger by Harriet
Speaker 2: Lerner the number one husband gripe. Now, these are gripes
Speaker 2: by husbands, and I'll read you the story and I
Speaker 2: encourage the guys on the show. What is your number
Speaker 2: one husband gripe? I'd love to hear it. The question
Speaker 2: is what's the number one complain of married men. The
Speaker 2: answer is being criticized by their wives. Nagging husbands tend
Speaker 2: to say, I'm tired of being the target. Nagging psychologists
Speaker 2: say a solution to the problem is for wives to
Speaker 2: dial down the criticism and make sure that positive comments
Speaker 2: out number the negative ones by a healthy margin. So
Speaker 2: what that sounds like to me is you can still nag,
Speaker 2: just make sure you're doing the fake comment the positive
Speaker 2: stuff first.
Speaker 1: I think for every negative, try to give five positives.
Speaker 2: There just aren't that many positive things about me, So
Speaker 2: I know that would just be a lie. If she's like, hey,
Speaker 2: I got all the I'm like, that's not true. I'm
Speaker 2: not that So what is your number one husband gribe
Speaker 2: to the husband's in the room, Let's go to lunchbox.
Speaker 2: I would say, my wife was like, oh, you unload
Speaker 2: the dishwasher.
Speaker 3: So I started unloading the dishwasher and I put a
Speaker 3: dish somewhere.
Speaker 2: Well, actually I.
Speaker 3: Would do it this way. Something tells you that, and
Speaker 3: then she tells me how to do it. She doesn't
Speaker 3: like the way I'm doing it. It's like, if you
Speaker 3: want me to do it, let me do it my way.
Speaker 3: Or like she wants me to help her cook. Every
Speaker 3: once in a while and I start cutting something up, She's like,
Speaker 3: well I would cut it this way. Well, then do
Speaker 3: it yourself. It is so annoying. I just can't help myself.
Speaker 3: And she says it every time. I can't help myself.
Speaker 3: You can help yourself. But is it something?
Speaker 2: Because if my wife does something like that, like I'll
Speaker 2: load the dishwasher in a very unconventional way at times,
Speaker 2: and she's like, this doesn't get cleaned if like stacked
Speaker 2: on top of each other. Probably do it this way.
Speaker 2: All she has to just tell me once and I
Speaker 2: never do it wrong again once. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying I know nothing. I'm just saying.
Speaker 2: Something like that, yeah, because I don't want to have
Speaker 2: to hear it again.
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought that y'all don't have that thing where
Speaker 1: you continuously mess up so you don't ever get asked
Speaker 1: to do it.
Speaker 2: Well, that's a whole different thing. That's different part of
Speaker 2: our life.
Speaker 3: Or if there's like papers on the counter, I'll get
Speaker 3: papers and I'll put them there. I wouldn't put them there,
Speaker 3: I'd put them over here. Well, if you want me
Speaker 3: to pick them up. If you wanted to put them there,
Speaker 3: then why didn't.
Speaker 2: You put them there? But then if you do it again,
Speaker 2: does she tell you again or do you learn? Because
Speaker 2: if you're if you learn, then she can tell you that.
Speaker 2: Once I'm done doing it, you're gonna criticize me. I'm like,
Speaker 2: all right, look, then do it yourself. Got it? I
Speaker 2: felt that? Oh man, we only get to do one.
Speaker 2: You're fired up, dude.
Speaker 3: It irritates me too much as a hole in the wall, okay, Eddie.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Mine's more of the expectation, like she always expects
Speaker 5: me to do something Like if I, for example, when.
Speaker 2: I leave work, I usually call her right.
Speaker 5: Say, one day I just don't call her and I
Speaker 5: show up and they're like, where were you?
Speaker 2: I'm like, what do you mean? You usually call me
Speaker 2: when you leave at work and.
Speaker 5: I'm like, I have to do the same thing all
Speaker 5: the time, Like why is it my fault that you're
Speaker 5: expecting me to do something without even asking.
Speaker 2: Me to do it. That's a question I would have
Speaker 2: for you back in college. If you had a class
Speaker 2: on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and you sat in the same
Speaker 2: seat every time because we all did well, because you're
Speaker 2: to have it, you'd set you know, third row fit
Speaker 2: seed over that you sat there every time, every time,
Speaker 2: every time. Yeah, and then you walk in it's saying
Speaker 2: people in the class, but somebody sits in that seat,
Speaker 2: how do you feel it's okay? I just didn't. I mean,
Speaker 2: it's all right. They decided to sit there one day,
Speaker 2: even though you've said it every single day, you're not
Speaker 2: it at all, because I would be like, I know,
Speaker 2: this isn't really my seat. We haven't like taken and
Speaker 2: wrote down this is my but I feel like that's
Speaker 2: my seat. Like I'm there every week and you're always
Speaker 2: in this class, But why are you sitting there because
Speaker 2: you've always had your seat. I feel like there's an
Speaker 2: expectation that over time, that that expectation when it becomes
Speaker 2: not only is it met, it's expected. Then when you
Speaker 2: don't meet it, because you have set that standard, and
Speaker 2: I can understand why there would be concern or irritation.
Speaker 2: But everything has to run the same every day. It's
Speaker 2: only because you've made it. You've run it the same
Speaker 2: every day. So when you don't run it the same,
Speaker 2: something must be awf or different, which raises concern, which
Speaker 2: they can manif I self into other things, anger, sadness.
Speaker 2: So that's why.
Speaker 5: So if I fall asleep on the couch because I'm tired,
Speaker 5: she in the mornings like, did you just falls from
Speaker 5: the couch?
Speaker 2: Are you mad at me? Like? What's going on? Nothing,
Speaker 2: I fell asleep on the couch. It's not a bus.
Speaker 4: Do you have to answer that way? Or can you say, oh,
Speaker 4: I was just tired.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm just I'm just being yea this devil's
Speaker 2: advocate there, I would say, I would understand if you
Speaker 2: do something the same every single day, then you don't
Speaker 2: do something the same. I would think something different in
Speaker 2: your life, and that could concern me because it's not
Speaker 2: so interesting anyone anything. Yeah, And I just used the
Speaker 2: school chair thing because that's what I think about, Like
Speaker 2: if I'm in that same chair, I don't own it.
Speaker 2: I never declared it officially, but if someone's in it,
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, that's that's my chair. Yeah, I've been
Speaker 2: doing the same way every single time, and that's weird,
Speaker 2: and weird is uncomfortable. You're the whole building.
Speaker 3: If we partnered where you parked every day, you wouldn't
Speaker 3: have pulled it like I want to park.
Speaker 2: Spot. What do you have? Yeah?
Speaker 6: Mine or two huge gripes. It's the meal thing, and
Speaker 6: it's because I work different hours. So either we can
Speaker 6: choose to be on the same meal schedule or we're not.
Speaker 6: So if I come home and eat it too and
Speaker 6: I say, hey, do you want to eat? I can
Speaker 6: put you something up and you say no, then that
Speaker 6: means you have chosen to not be on my meal schedule.
Speaker 6: So at four o'clock, two hours after I just ate,
Speaker 6: you cannot say, hey, what do you want to do
Speaker 6: for dinner?
Speaker 2: I just ate? Yah. It's fair. We have chosen to
Speaker 2: be on different meal schedules. That's fair.
Speaker 6: So that's my biggest one. My second biggest one is
Speaker 6: with the TV. So I don't tell you, Hey, I'd
Speaker 6: love for you to come watch football with me. So
Speaker 6: why would you love for me to come watch a
Speaker 6: movie with you. I can watch a movie if we
Speaker 6: both are just in a room together and a movie
Speaker 6: comes on and we're both watching it. Why do I
Speaker 6: have to give up my football to watch a movie
Speaker 6: when I would never ask you to give up a
Speaker 6: movie to watch my football.
Speaker 2: Interesting, that's valid. Well I did. There's a lot of
Speaker 2: factors in that, like does he spend enough time with
Speaker 2: her in general, Like the football.
Speaker 1: Is on Thursday, Friday or no, Thursday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday,
Speaker 1: actually every.
Speaker 2: Day of the week and then Friday.
Speaker 4: If you got on Friday, it's.
Speaker 2: Gonna be a dynamic where he works all the time,
Speaker 2: doesn't It's not really about football to movie Ratio, it's
Speaker 2: about Raymundo hanging out with Why Ratio, it's just not
Speaker 2: a war against football.
Speaker 6: I would never criticize a movie, but I don't make
Speaker 6: you watch my football.
Speaker 2: Why are you making me watch these movies? Hey, listen,
Speaker 2: nobody's wrong. We're just talking good, We're just talking through them.
Speaker 2: My number one husband, Gripe is probably uh no, no
Speaker 2: street clothes in bed ever, like even like sit on it,
Speaker 2: that's like like nothing. She is so particular about what
Speaker 2: touches after I clean my feet, even though I'm walking
Speaker 2: out his barefoot, I have to clean my feet, and
Speaker 2: I get it, like it makes sense, it makes sense,
Speaker 2: but it's like it's so much work. Like if I'm
Speaker 2: wearing a pair of shorts and I've had outside and
Speaker 2: I can't sit on the bed, She's like, we don't
Speaker 2: have no no, Dan, It.
Speaker 5: Is weird though, if you like in your bed with jeans,
Speaker 5: it does feel weird that you're on the bed with jeans.
Speaker 2: You know, when I was single, not so weird. And
Speaker 2: then again, I now am just trying to go in,
Speaker 2: wet a washcloth and wipe my feet down before I
Speaker 2: go to bed every night. So she's like, you've been out,
Speaker 2: you take the dogs out of the peene ready barefoot.
Speaker 1: You should get a little like wipes to keep by
Speaker 1: your bed that you should have to wet a wet cloth.
Speaker 1: You can just get like a little white like I
Speaker 1: have them for my dog in her paws.
Speaker 4: It could be like your sea.
Speaker 2: No thanks, you have like a little bowl of water. Anyway,
Speaker 2: Thanks for sharing, guys, I appreciate. Let's get the show
Speaker 2: going here.
Speaker 7: Anymous sin bars.
Speaker 2: A question to me? Hello, Bobby, bones. This question is
Speaker 2: a sad one. A wife and I are seriously at
Speaker 2: odd about how to handle it. Our twenty three year
Speaker 2: old daughter is living with us. She has a pet cat.
Speaker 2: Yesterday she went off on a ten day trip with
Speaker 2: some girlfriends. Today her beloved cat passed away. She's had
Speaker 2: this cat since she was a kid. It's been an
Speaker 2: amazing fifteen years. I think we should tell her. My
Speaker 2: wife doesn't want to because it will ruin her trip.
Speaker 2: She's even suggested just burying it and telling her that
Speaker 2: it ran away. I feel like she's an adult, she
Speaker 2: can handle it. What's the best way to deal with this?
Speaker 2: Signed bearer of bad news? So I have a lot
Speaker 2: of answers from personal experience. I like first share a
Speaker 2: story with you. I was doing some work a few
Speaker 2: weeks ago. I was hosting an awards thing in New
Speaker 2: York and get a call from We always have somebody
Speaker 2: at our house watching our dogs. It's a double security
Speaker 2: dog thing, right. If we're gone, somebody's at our house
Speaker 2: because like Pat mahomes house got robbed, you know, And
Speaker 2: if there's somebody who's like Pat Mahomes, just me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: in every way except all so the person watching our
Speaker 2: dogs called and they were crying, and I was like,
Speaker 2: what calmdowncom dot comdown. My wife's me so I know
Speaker 2: she's fine and I'm like, what's up? And she's like,
Speaker 2: Ella's gone. The dog's gone. But she's calling me. Not
Speaker 2: to tell me that just she's gone, because I wouldn't
Speaker 2: be able to help find her from there. But we
Speaker 2: track her on the Apple lot on the air tag,
Speaker 2: so she's like, can you look on your air tag?
Speaker 2: Got her right, Luckily we found her. Everything was great.
Speaker 2: So I needed that call in that situation, so because
Speaker 2: I could help. Now if I couldn't help, it's a
Speaker 2: different story. I went to South America to tape a
Speaker 2: show called Snake in the Grass and we had to
Speaker 2: go live in the jungle. Miserable experience. Fine show, miserable
Speaker 2: experience is a living but we were there and the
Speaker 2: people that stayed at the house, can they stay there
Speaker 2: for a month and a half. I told them, if
Speaker 2: any the dogs die for any reason, do not tell
Speaker 2: me like they're dead. I can't do anything about it.
Speaker 2: Don't let the dogs die. But if the dogs die,
Speaker 2: there is nothing I can do that's going to help that.
Speaker 2: And there's only news that's going to affect me in
Speaker 2: a negative way while I'm here, like, there is no
Speaker 2: gain for me knowing that when I can do nothing
Speaker 2: about it. Luckily dogs didn't die and I would check
Speaker 2: in and be like, do the dogs die or how
Speaker 2: the dogs? They would say good, and I'd be like,
Speaker 2: I don know if I can believe you, because I
Speaker 2: had already told them, but there was no benefit to
Speaker 2: it running what I was doing. Now. Number One, you
Speaker 2: do not need to tell her until she comes back,
Speaker 2: because you will remove joy from her trip over something
Speaker 2: that she has no control over in any way whatsoever.
Speaker 2: She will get to mourn exactly the same way. But
Speaker 2: let her have her fund first. Secondly, you don't lie
Speaker 2: about the cat running away, because that is a different
Speaker 2: kind of anxiety, like, well, let's find it. Will it
Speaker 2: ever come back? Well, there needs to be closure with
Speaker 2: this as well. The cat was fifteen years old. It sucks.
Speaker 2: It sucks like when my last dog died, Like it's awful.
Speaker 2: Makes me so sad, sad thinking about it now. I
Speaker 2: dedicated my second book to my dog that died. I
Speaker 2: remember right on the front of the book, failing till
Speaker 2: you don't. I was like two dusty, but a great dog.
Speaker 2: Blah blah, you bet. I know you'll never read this
Speaker 2: because you're a dog. Was after like, I loved that dog,
Speaker 2: but it would have done me no good if I
Speaker 2: could do nothing about it, And I say the same thing.
Speaker 2: But you do need to tell her. It's gonna be tough.
Speaker 2: The decision is going to be do you freeze the
Speaker 2: cat until she gets back and let her bury it,
Speaker 2: or do you bury it yourself and say this is
Speaker 2: where the cat is. I think that's what it is.
Speaker 2: You freeze in your freezer.
Speaker 4: Yeah, somewhere in a box, Yeah.
Speaker 2: A cooler, like a place you think a cooler lunch.
Speaker 2: She's probably right. You put it in an ice in
Speaker 2: a cooler because you don't want in your fridge or freezer.
Speaker 1: But if you put it in a bag in a
Speaker 1: box movie your friend has a deep freezer, oh yeah.
Speaker 2: Something like that's fine, but don't tell them what it
Speaker 2: is like. That's the decision you'll have to make knowing
Speaker 2: your daughter. If she wants to bury it herself, or
Speaker 2: if she's because she's not gonna be cool, it's gonna
Speaker 2: be very sad, or if you think she'd be better
Speaker 2: just knowing this is where it's buried. That's the decision.
Speaker 2: The other ones you do not tell her, and two
Speaker 2: you do not say it ran away when you say
Speaker 2: when she's back, your cat died. This sucks. And you
Speaker 2: lead it with going, I have terrible news for you,
Speaker 2: and then you tell her the news immediately. You don't go, hey,
Speaker 2: let's talk. Hey, you come to the house when you
Speaker 2: talk about this. Nope, when she gets there, you say
Speaker 2: the following, I have really bad news for you. Fluffy died,
Speaker 2: and then you can do the rest. So good luck.
Speaker 2: That sucks. That's a very sad story. It makes me
Speaker 2: sad to think about it and talk about Thanks for asking, though,
Speaker 2: And don't adopt a cat super fast to replace the
Speaker 2: other one. That's what I'm going at. Yeah, I want
Speaker 2: to say that, give it a minute. Don't don't ever
Speaker 2: adopt a dog or a cat after yours dies to
Speaker 2: immediately replace the other one. You need time to mourn
Speaker 2: if you love to. Just like a human, I guess
Speaker 2: we don't adopt a new humans, so do we. One
Speaker 2: one dies, though, it's not like an uncle dies, you
Speaker 2: adopt a new uncle. You don't really do that. Don't
Speaker 2: do it, but you could is there an adopted uncle?
Speaker 2: All right, you close it up. There's Brittany from Ohio.
Speaker 8: Bobby was talking about how he wasn't feeling well and
Speaker 8: he thought he had a stomach bug, but wasn't sure,
Speaker 8: and it wasn't sure. If he knew there is an
Speaker 8: e Coli outbreak with certain brands of organic full and
Speaker 8: baby carrots, that might be something he wants to look into.
Speaker 4: He might have cool.
Speaker 8: I love the show.
Speaker 2: Why would you say that? Oh geez, have you eaten?
Speaker 4: I had the carrots.
Speaker 2: I've had carrots. Oh, not only that, we give Ella.
Speaker 2: Ella loves carrots. Our dog like she will take a
Speaker 2: carrot and keep it for two hours, like treasures it.
Speaker 2: And so we have a lot of carrots. My wife
Speaker 2: like puts, is she sick too? I have a bola
Speaker 2: no e coal? I? Oh sorry, yeah, I got a little.
Speaker 4: Ket It's an outbreak.
Speaker 1: But the dates were like you had to buy on
Speaker 1: between this certain time. But I just went ahead and
Speaker 1: I had the brands, So I was like, I'm just
Speaker 1: getting rid of.
Speaker 2: The scary when you see a recall and you have
Speaker 2: that brand. I'm texting my wife right now because I
Speaker 2: had a It's I'm still not all the way down
Speaker 2: the stomach bug, and like, let's make up our mind, guys,
Speaker 2: is it a twenty four forty eight hour? Seventy two hours?
Speaker 2: Like I think people just say it about on how
Speaker 2: sick they are. I had the sixty eight hour stomach bug.
Speaker 2: That's a thing. Never heard of that? Or that's along
Speaker 2: you had it. But I'm texting my wife. Did you
Speaker 2: see the E Coli outbreak carrot story? I don't know
Speaker 2: if there's a story. I'm just trusting a listener here
Speaker 2: there is. Yeah.
Speaker 3: And if you hear the symptoms severe stomach cramp, I've
Speaker 3: been there, diarrhea, vomiting yep.
Speaker 2: And the day one was when I was up here,
Speaker 2: I was vomiting. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 3: The symptoms usually start three to four days after swallowing
Speaker 3: the carrot.
Speaker 2: I've swallowed carrots there four days ago. Great, Oh my goodness,
Speaker 2: whole carrot man, the whole thing. I probably just have
Speaker 2: a stomach bug. But thank you for that. But I
Speaker 2: am going to check a pile of stories.
Speaker 1: So apparently some psychologists is saying that if you already
Speaker 1: have your Christmas lights up, you're a self absorbed narcissist.
Speaker 2: Agree what you don't agree with that. Yeah, well, well no,
Speaker 2: I just don't have mine up. And I'm often called
Speaker 2: the self absorbed narciss That's the only way I can go.
Speaker 2: See I'm not one. Got it.
Speaker 1: They're saying, it doesn't mean you have narcissistic personality disorder,
Speaker 1: which would be like you check a lot of the
Speaker 1: narcissistic traits.
Speaker 4: This is just a trait.
Speaker 2: I would just say it as a look at me trait,
Speaker 2: especially way early light look at me. I don't give
Speaker 2: my fancy lights up. I'm Christmas before you are. Even
Speaker 2: if it's just like sub gone, just like I think
Speaker 2: about that, I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't get this at all, Like what is not
Speaker 4: a doctor?
Speaker 1: Like we have the joy of Christmas and wanting to
Speaker 1: spark it up.
Speaker 2: It's not Christmas and spark it up? Interesting term there
Speaker 2: four twenty all.
Speaker 1: Right, not that, but I mean just like, yeah, just as.
Speaker 4: You know, light it up, exactly, light it up.
Speaker 2: Would you say, Bob Marley, what turn them on? I
Speaker 2: would just say, put your lights up early for Christmas?
Speaker 2: It's fine. I love people do that if it makes
Speaker 2: them happy. I don't care if it makes you happy.
Speaker 2: It doesn't hurt anybody. I don't care, but I do
Speaker 2: feel like there are some of our neighbors who went
Speaker 2: hard two weeks ago are mostly like, we want to
Speaker 2: be the first ones to have it up, so everybody
Speaker 2: sees we're the first ones to have it up. I
Speaker 2: think that's part of it. Somebody real hard, really hard.
Speaker 2: But I also do that in different ways, so I'm
Speaker 2: not hating. I'm just dating well.
Speaker 1: So in addition to the whole narcissistic trait, decorating early
Speaker 1: may also quote fill a void, making people feel happy
Speaker 1: when they otherwise wouldn't be.
Speaker 2: And you also are like sealizations were.
Speaker 1: Trying to portray that you're this picture perfect family when
Speaker 1: you're not. Well, it's just Christmas deep yeah, okay, Speaking
Speaker 1: of Christmas, kit cats that are shaped like Santa Claus
Speaker 1: have hit the shelves for the holidays, and this is
Speaker 1: the first time they've ever done anything other than their
Speaker 1: normal kit cat shape. And if we know anything, from
Speaker 1: an awesome candy putting things out in cute shapes like
Speaker 1: hearts and santas and footballs like with reeses the reeses
Speaker 1: trees and pumpkins and stuff, they taste so much better
Speaker 1: and kit Cat says these are even crispier and wayfier,
Speaker 1: like the ratio is they're.
Speaker 2: Still chalkol Like they're just like a cacolic because if
Speaker 2: they're doing white chocolate, yeah, like any benefit from them
Speaker 2: doing a standish shape is lost in white chocolate. Like
Speaker 2: white chocolate is not as good as dark chocolate. It's
Speaker 2: a novelty if I happen to open up a white
Speaker 2: chocolate harshy kiss, because sometimes you get into that. You know,
Speaker 2: it's like sixty percent of the fun. Is it supposed
Speaker 2: to taste the same because they tastes different? Okay, here
Speaker 2: are my ranks of chocolates. Number one milk chocolate, number two,
Speaker 2: white chocolate, number eight hundred and ninety nine. Dark chocolate
Speaker 2: kill me? Really terrible?
Speaker 4: That part, Dount, Yeah yeah, that part okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, so check them out there at their in stores,
Speaker 1: limited time only. And then I have some personal info,
Speaker 1: just reminders to keep off social media because the holidays
Speaker 1: are here. You may be traveling, and this is just
Speaker 1: stuff to keep in mind. USA Today did a whole
Speaker 1: article about it, and I think it's just a good reminder,
Speaker 1: Like if you have vacation plans, wait till after you get.
Speaker 4: Home to post about them that happen on home Alone.
Speaker 2: They posted on TikTok they were leaving and they got
Speaker 2: rocked home alone twelve right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, videos of you talking like they're warning people of
Speaker 1: doing that, Which what do you think that they're still.
Speaker 2: That's what they're doing, but they're not really doing it,
Speaker 2: but they are like a couple of people had done it,
Speaker 2: so they're like making stories going. If you put yourself
Speaker 2: talking on social media, they're going to steal your voice.
Speaker 2: What are the odds? Probably not good. I probably wouldn't
Speaker 2: listen to that one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, your relationship status like widows or widowers, they may
Speaker 1: be big targets. Or if your recent divorce, are single
Speaker 1: and you announce like I'm alone in my home and
Speaker 1: no longer.
Speaker 2: Announce though it doesn't matter the holiday. Don't do a
Speaker 2: post of I'm alone in my home. Right.
Speaker 1: Expensive electronics that you may be selling, your walking, hiking
Speaker 1: and biking routes, your kids' school activities, and where they.
Speaker 2: Are social Security number, Like they're getting weird.
Speaker 1: I mean the kids' school stuff could be a thing
Speaker 1: because like then they know your kid's name, then they
Speaker 1: can show up there and be like they the.
Speaker 2: Killers man paranoid. Most of these days are from like
Speaker 2: Zimbabwe or it's not Harry and from home alone who
Speaker 2: are coming.
Speaker 1: There was someone that wanted to abduct their child or kidnap,
Speaker 1: like if they look at you know.
Speaker 2: You're gonna do it anyway.
Speaker 4: Mostly they can find help them. They're like, oh, I
Speaker 4: just want to.
Speaker 2: Get it done quicker. That's why I'm gonna do it. Like,
Speaker 2: if you're gonna do it, let's just go.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's the list.
Speaker 2: I'm sure that's a great list. We can post it.
Speaker 4: Stay safe out there.
Speaker 2: I just it makes people extra paranoid if we're constantly
Speaker 2: talking about all the things that will go wrong if
Speaker 2: you do something that probably won't well manifest itself into
Speaker 2: something being wrong. So I want to avoid that super paranoia.
Speaker 2: But I also want to go like look out and
Speaker 2: it's a fine line.
Speaker 1: The main part was because of the holidays and traveling,
Speaker 1: so just that's the takeaway.
Speaker 4: The other ones were just extra.
Speaker 2: I would just say, don't build a fire under the
Speaker 2: Christmas tree. That's safe. That's that's my note.
Speaker 4: This was to keep off social media that has nothing to.
Speaker 2: Do with them. More of a realist the fire is
Speaker 2: really bad than.
Speaker 4: It is okay, I'm Amy.
Speaker 2: That's my file. That was Amy's pile of stories. It's
Speaker 2: time for the good news.
Speaker 4: How much Box.
Speaker 3: Chase Thompson is nine years old. He lives in Idaho.
Speaker 3: He's at home with his mom and in the morning,
Speaker 3: his mom falls out of bend.
Speaker 2: She's like, Chase, I need you to call nine one one.
Speaker 3: So Chase is looking everywhere for his mom's phone and
Speaker 3: she's like, I can't find it. She must have left
Speaker 3: at the store last night. So he needed to call
Speaker 3: nine one one. So he went and got the family's
Speaker 3: Alexa and told it to call and it didn't work.
Speaker 3: So he's like, what am I going to do? I
Speaker 3: don't have a phone. So he ran down to a
Speaker 3: neighbor's house banging on the door. Hey, my mom needs help.
Speaker 3: Call nine one one. Call nine one one. Amblance came.
Speaker 3: She was having a stroke.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't trust that thing to call that that's all
Speaker 2: he had. Yeah, and we were careful not to say hey,
Speaker 2: I like said do the thing because we thought it
Speaker 2: might do the thing. Yeah, but I think if that's
Speaker 2: all you and your nine that's all you have. Sure
Speaker 2: know He's like, it didn't even play the song I
Speaker 2: want most of the time. That's a good point. And
Speaker 2: lastie doesn't love around.
Speaker 4: Maybe need to send her update yours and mine's pretty
Speaker 4: well on the fact.
Speaker 2: That she got her phone somewhere of the night before.
Speaker 2: Not good.
Speaker 4: Oh, you know all the time, especially with a relationship
Speaker 4: a SiO, you know, it just gets it.
Speaker 2: It gets dicey one those one gets jealousy the other
Speaker 2: and multiple they're pulling hair. Yeah, hey you that's that
Speaker 2: season for you. Good for you, good story, that's what
Speaker 2: it's all about.
Speaker 8: Good kid.
Speaker 2: That was telling me something good much about you. Were
Speaker 2: with Bailey Zimmerman yesterday, Yeah.
Speaker 3: And we were talking about like I used to fill
Speaker 3: out the free applications for credit cards so I get
Speaker 3: a free T shirt And so then Bailey told me
Speaker 3: the first time he got a credit.
Speaker 2: Card about the big mistake he made. J C.
Speaker 9: Penny's one and only time I ever signed up. They're like, hey,
Speaker 9: you could save this and and we'll give you this
Speaker 9: for free and you won't have to pay for that
Speaker 9: shirt today, Like, oh, well, what is it And they're like, oh,
Speaker 9: it's just a credit card and all you got.
Speaker 2: To do is just sign up. Signed up.
Speaker 9: Never paid for that shirt because it went on the
Speaker 9: credit card, which I didn't understand what a credit card was,
Speaker 9: and then I ended up paying like two hundred and
Speaker 9: seventeen for this.
Speaker 2: So I think we've all been there. Oh yeah, but
Speaker 2: it's funny to hear Bailey talk about it. Listen. I
Speaker 2: love that kid. I guess he's not a kid, he's
Speaker 2: a man. He's a young young man. He's kind of
Speaker 2: a kid. He's a kid. And I knew and I
Speaker 2: knew him before he got like big big when he
Speaker 2: just started being viral, and like we talk and like
Speaker 2: he grew up very similar to how I did. Like
Speaker 2: he's a good kid. He's why it gets kind of wild,
Speaker 2: which I would to have had all that faming. But
Speaker 2: he's twenty four years old and just he's killing it
Speaker 2: right now. Hit that all this between a rocket place. Well,
Speaker 2: and you know what I tell him most, And it's
Speaker 2: not because he does this, and and it's not because
Speaker 2: there's a reason for me to tell him, but I'm like,
Speaker 2: do not get anybody pregnant. That's what I tell him.
Speaker 2: That's what I tell him most, Like, dude, you're on
Speaker 2: the road, you're having fun, but do not get anybody pregnant,
Speaker 2: like that is something you won't be thinking about and
Speaker 2: it'll affect ever like that. That's it. That's the one.
Speaker 2: It's not like him. Man, work on the craft. But
Speaker 2: you got clarify, like get married, you love one day,
Speaker 2: get somebody pregnant. But and I'm not even saying he's
Speaker 2: around doing that, and like hook, I'm not at all
Speaker 2: in anyway. He may. I don't even know if he's
Speaker 2: dating anybody right now. I talked to him a couple
Speaker 2: of months, I guess. But that's the advice, like these
Speaker 2: young artists that all of a sudden have fame and
Speaker 2: money thrust onto them, because with that comes girls sure clears,
Speaker 2: and it's like, do not get anybody pregnant. Even if
Speaker 2: I like see him, like he's like, what's up, Like
Speaker 2: don't get pregnant. That the first thing he says, do
Speaker 2: not get anybody pregnant, because that'll that'll set it all back.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I love that kid or could.
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know. I like to look at the
Speaker 4: game the bright side.
Speaker 2: We don't need to be a bright side, and there's no
Speaker 2: sad side. Don't get pregnant. He's not doing it first
Speaker 2: and odds are if you don't know the girl and
Speaker 2: she gets pregnant, if that ain't gonna be good for life,
Speaker 2: that's gonna be good. Yeah. I think you can turn
Speaker 2: it into something good later whenever. Yeah, if it does happen. No, No,
Speaker 2: you don't want that. You just don't want it. You
Speaker 2: don't want there to be a bright side, because that
Speaker 2: means there's a dark side, you know what I mean. Yeah, Anyway,
Speaker 2: the lottery has four hundred and thirty eight winners because
Speaker 2: the pick four for four four four four. Much actually
Speaker 2: play the lottery a lot Do you ever play all
Speaker 2: the same number at anything? Ever? No?
Speaker 3: Never, because if I miss it then I'll be really upset.
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about Do you ever play like one
Speaker 2: one one one two two two two?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 3: Because I don't play those weird games like where youre
Speaker 3: going to have to get three balls. I only play
Speaker 3: the Mega millions and the power ball.
Speaker 2: That's it. It's not enough the weird games. Yeah, Like
Speaker 2: it's like you're too good for those.
Speaker 3: I don't know how those work, and they're confusing and
Speaker 3: I haven't looked into them.
Speaker 2: Maybe they're better odds. I don't know, they are much
Speaker 2: better odds, but oh yeah, he's only playing three or
Speaker 2: four numbers instead of seven numbers. I mean, mathematically that's
Speaker 2: much better odds, But you don't win as much money
Speaker 2: if you win. So four four four four all hit
Speaker 2: a combined pad of one million dollars and so, but
Speaker 2: four hundred and thirty eight people won.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 2: That's what is so divided by so prizes like a
Speaker 2: few grand which is which, which is great, But you
Speaker 2: also have to know if you're picking at four four
Speaker 2: four four to a lot of people are probably doing that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's crazy that the odds of it being four it
Speaker 2: would be one in ten times one in ten times
Speaker 2: one and ten times one and ten. Oh so that's
Speaker 2: a lot of no no, no, no, mayban like try to
Speaker 2: do that? Wait next to park visitors on a ride
Speaker 2: are stuck mid air for two hours. This is happening
Speaker 2: too often, man, I saw it was terrible. More than
Speaker 2: twenty riders were suspended mid air for hours after a
Speaker 2: Nott's Very Farm ride. But I don't think they were
Speaker 2: hanging upside down though, because that would be the toughest.
Speaker 2: That's good. Guests at the Southern California Theme Park were
Speaker 2: stuck on the Soul Spin ride. They forced to stop
Speaker 2: at two pm local time. The twenty two riders were
Speaker 2: evacuated pretty close to five o'clock. It's one of those
Speaker 2: things that you like, how did you describe it? You like,
Speaker 2: are on it and it's strapped over your chest and
Speaker 2: it lifts you up and it spins you. Yeah, I've
Speaker 2: seen those of the carnival. Yeah, I like spiders kind of. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like if you were to draw a circle around it,
Speaker 2: it'd be like a.
Speaker 4: Like a carousel, but lifted in the air kind of.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like a windmill. Yeah, that a windmill,
Speaker 2: but flat okay, okay, not like an umbrella. Yeah, we're
Speaker 2: really trying hard. But they were just held up there
Speaker 2: for hours. Oh yeah, yeah, that sucks. I would worry
Speaker 2: if that were me up there, since it's broken, you
Speaker 2: know what else is going to break? That thing holding me?
Speaker 2: Because it's also it's also on a latch, because it's
Speaker 2: not like a buckle, it's on like a shoulder thing
Speaker 2: comes over that's latched that a button locks it, and
Speaker 2: I I'll be worried. Well if that broke, Oh god, what if.
Speaker 4: I didn't think about that part?
Speaker 1: Because like when you're when you buckle it yourself, you
Speaker 1: like you and you see it and you're like, that's
Speaker 1: but yeah, if.
Speaker 2: It's a button, if something breaks, why wouldn't something else. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: that would suck.
Speaker 10: It's time for the good news, So.
Speaker 2: Just tell me something good. Is not a news story.
Speaker 2: It's from me. It's not about my life. It's about
Speaker 2: something that could affect all of you guys, and it
Speaker 2: is a probably now. For a long time on this show,
Speaker 2: I've been I've been anti doing a cruise because I
Speaker 2: don't want to do a cruise because I get see sick.
Speaker 2: I just don't want to do it, like I want
Speaker 2: to go on the boat and get see sick. And
Speaker 2: so you guys have been like, let's do a cruise
Speaker 2: for three years. I've been like, Nope, I don't want
Speaker 2: to do it. I don't want to do it. Yes,
Speaker 2: there's a really good shot that that because of some
Speaker 2: things that I have requested to help me in case
Speaker 2: I do get sick, that we could be doing cruise.
Speaker 9: Show.
Speaker 7: So nothing is official yet, And I will go I
Speaker 7: will go places. I will go places, or I will
Speaker 7: be on tour and they'll be like will you Listeners
Speaker 7: have been saying forever, because you guys have made such
Speaker 7: a big deal, will you please do a cruise? And
Speaker 7: I'm like no, no, no, no, no, And I think that.
Speaker 2: Seventy chance that's good. So we're head of the multi coast.
Speaker 2: I don't know, we don't know where we're going.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all the coast the world really far.
Speaker 2: What we're doing. I'm not giving any details. There's no details. No,
Speaker 2: probably because I don't want to like set an expectation
Speaker 2: that's not met.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's not do that. It's probably going to be landlocked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not going car right, be called the road trip.
Speaker 2: But they tell me something good for the show is
Speaker 2: I was only saying no because I didn't think there
Speaker 2: was a way for me to make it happen, because
Speaker 2: I get so boat sick anytime. But I think we
Speaker 2: I think we're gonna be able to do it. Not
Speaker 2: anytime in the next couple of months or anything like that,
Speaker 2: but soon we could be doing a by bunch of
Speaker 2: cruise only because you guys have been asking for it.
Speaker 2: Meant has been asking for it. I tell me something good,
Speaker 2: that's all I have. Tell me something great, that's all. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's all. I have for now. Okay, everybody, Amy anything, Amy,
Speaker 2: you excited.
Speaker 4: I have said a lot.
Speaker 2: She was debating on car Ride.
Speaker 1: No, I was going to start setting certain expectations, and
Speaker 1: then Bobby's expect multi coast.
Speaker 2: Well, that's that's ridiculous. I don't even know what that is.
Speaker 1: I just see it on What I said is that
Speaker 1: sounds great, and I'm going to wait for more details.
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. Already got a picture in my head.
Speaker 2: Keep it in your head though, okay, not in your mouth.
Speaker 2: Out of your mouth, all right, thank you. That's what's
Speaker 2: all about. That was telling me something good. I was
Speaker 2: looking at pictures. I was not able to go to
Speaker 2: the CMA's last night, regretfully, I was. I've been sick
Speaker 2: the last few days, even here on the show. So
Speaker 2: Amy looked great. Thank you. Eddie looked great. Oh thanks.
Speaker 2: More than I saw your video. You're like, I'm just
Speaker 2: just a girl, just kind of wet if I'm a
Speaker 2: shower and I'm not going out, and you did your
Speaker 2: hands white boom, and then she's like in her dress,
Speaker 2: you know, one of those things is good. And then
Speaker 2: you guys can help me. Because I only saw a picture.
Speaker 2: It was Lunchbox in a hoodie.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like a sweatshirt hoodie. But it was an
Speaker 1: It looked is nice.
Speaker 2: I just saw the group picture and every not just
Speaker 2: our show, but like they did a picture of like
Speaker 2: everybody who won, and every single person's in a suit
Speaker 2: or like a really nice dress, and Lunchbox is in
Speaker 2: a hoodie. But I would I'm not judging yet. We
Speaker 2: all love to judge on this show, but I would
Speaker 2: like to hold back for a second. What what was that? Well,
Speaker 2: what do you mean it was an outfit? It's called style. Uh.
Speaker 2: No one told me that I had to wear a suit.
Speaker 2: No one said there's a dress code. You've been to
Speaker 2: that many We've done that many times.
Speaker 3: Justin Bieber goes to something, he wears a hoodie and
Speaker 3: people say, oh fashion, I wear a hoodie and it's
Speaker 3: like the worst thing in the world.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's the worst thing in the world. No, no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 4: He's not judging you yet.
Speaker 2: I'm not asking you to be defensive. I'm they are
Speaker 2: not jumping in because they've already all made fun of
Speaker 2: you behind your back, so I'm but they.
Speaker 3: Made fun of me in my face when I walked in.
Speaker 3: Morgan did a double thing and goes, are you wearing
Speaker 3: a hoodie?
Speaker 2: About?
Speaker 3: And then I'm gonna Eddie says, are you gonna change?
Speaker 3: Then these white first things she says to me goes,
Speaker 3: I see you got your nicest clothes out.
Speaker 2: And here's my thing. If I went up to Morgan
Speaker 2: and said you look like crap. No, but Morgan was
Speaker 2: dressed approaching it doesn't matter for like what they they say,
Speaker 2: you know, it's like whatever they can what the style
Speaker 2: of dress like, this is what I like to do.
Speaker 2: Everybody else shut up except for lunchbox because he's gonna
Speaker 2: get mad at you guys. And I'm not trying to
Speaker 2: talk to him like I'm upset or irritated.
Speaker 6: I don't.
Speaker 2: And see here's the thing a boy, Now, no, let's
Speaker 2: take it out. Let's think it about half. Not she's
Speaker 2: me and you talking.
Speaker 3: If if I went up to a girl and said,
Speaker 3: why are you wearing that crap? I'm a jerk, right,
Speaker 3: But Morgan does it to me and it's oh cool.
Speaker 3: If I told her your dress looks like trash, how
Speaker 3: would she feel?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: I don't think I liked your hoodie by the way.
Speaker 2: See here's the thing there. I don't give a crap
Speaker 2: what I liked your hoodie. I did think that it
Speaker 2: was a bit underdressed for the occasion, but I just
Speaker 2: wondered what your thought was.
Speaker 3: I thought it was a nice event. It's a nice hoodie.
Speaker 3: It ain't some trashity that I wear every day. I
Speaker 3: think my hoodies are nice. You wearing here red Kleistrace today.
Speaker 2: I love that I wore today because I saw them
Speaker 2: last night. There you go? Uh so, yeah.
Speaker 3: I thought it's no one said anything about a dress
Speaker 3: code or what you're supposed to wear, and just said, hey,
Speaker 3: we're going to the Cmas. I'm like, cool, man, this
Speaker 3: is a nice hoodie that.
Speaker 2: Is expensive, and I love you for being here.
Speaker 3: And I wore it and I wasn't worried about it.
Speaker 3: And now one person was like, oh my gosh, we
Speaker 3: can't let you in because you have a hoodie on cool.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah great. I have said nothing to the
Speaker 2: fact that I'm upset or irritated. I just saw it
Speaker 2: and thought, is that real? I thought, like a fun
Speaker 2: picture he took like after he changed out of his suit, scuba.
Speaker 2: I want to get everybody else mouth shut, please, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: what's up. It's good. But you're the executive producer of
Speaker 2: this show. Yes you know, of course my name's on it.
Speaker 2: But like you run this thing, no doubt about it.
Speaker 2: You're well as that guy. What were your thoughts?
Speaker 10: Well, I guess my first question would be, you get
Speaker 10: the CMA emails right lunchbox. They come through about to
Speaker 10: vote for this, and here's information for this, and I voted, gotcha.
Speaker 10: So in one of those emails, there's an important line
Speaker 10: here says attire and additional information. It says the CMA
Speaker 10: Awards encouraged you to honor the tradition of country music's
Speaker 10: biggest night, but dressing in black tie or formal attire.
Speaker 2: I say that I didn't know that. I just see
Speaker 2: everybody else doing it every year, so I, well, yeah,
Speaker 2: and everyone else is doing it as well.
Speaker 10: I will say it's a it was a really nice
Speaker 10: hoodie for him, it was it was more of an
Speaker 10: upgrade for what we normally see. So I could see
Speaker 10: in his eyes he's like, well, I wore a really
Speaker 10: nice hoodie. This is like my black tie, and it
Speaker 10: is okay fair to the audience.
Speaker 2: In a suit. No one's seem to complain about that,
Speaker 2: and I wore.
Speaker 10: Sunglasses, so I kind of like didn't care a little
Speaker 10: bit myself. But I still wore like a suit and
Speaker 10: looked somewhat nice. But I just think maybe he doesn't
Speaker 10: understand in his world he thinks that was awesome.
Speaker 2: That's on our you know what, that's on me as
Speaker 2: the leader to not go and say, hey, be sure
Speaker 2: to wear a suit. I mean, I got not even
Speaker 2: norse from rack. But also I.
Speaker 10: Think to solid he wasn't sure he was gonna make
Speaker 10: it as well because his wife was doing something, so
Speaker 10: I think he was like scrambling last second to put
Speaker 10: something together his best hoodie.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's on me, And I knew it.
Speaker 3: Matched because it was black and white, so I knew
Speaker 3: that the match with black jeans.
Speaker 2: What's what's on you? I don't understand, Well, there's a mistake.
Speaker 2: There's a mistake that happens with this show. And because
Speaker 2: even one of our executives reach out to me saying,
Speaker 2: was this a bit oh the hoodie? Yes? And I said,
Speaker 2: not that I know of, because I didn't.
Speaker 4: Got he looked he looked nice just for him.
Speaker 1: He had jeans that fit like really the jeans were nice.
Speaker 4: The hoodie was you could tell he just where he
Speaker 4: bought it, and showing up.
Speaker 2: To a funeral and a tank top and jeorts and
Speaker 2: you're like, well, I'm wearing clothes, but I hear you.
Speaker 2: I hear you.
Speaker 4: But it was still up level for him.
Speaker 2: Yes, I it is my fault because I because I
Speaker 2: will take and I will message that executive back because listen, no,
Speaker 2: no executive is st our show. They only care about
Speaker 2: us when we get in trouble. Nobody cares. So I'll
Speaker 2: message executive and be like, you know what, that's on me.
Speaker 2: It was a bit. It was like, because Lunchbuck, what
Speaker 2: was the nicest hoodie he could find to wear? And
Speaker 2: that's We're good. That's on me. It is my fault.
Speaker 2: I thought you look great. I thought you were a
Speaker 2: bit under dressed for this occasion. But that's on me
Speaker 2: for not explaining that everybody needed to wear what the
Speaker 2: email said in the official rules of black tie. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I still. I mean, I'm looking through this email and
Speaker 2: I don't see that anywhere. But also, can I have
Speaker 2: one other thing? And I mean this because I feel
Speaker 2: this way about me too. You're not jolly roller Justin
Speaker 2: Bieber oh, oh really he thinks he is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but here's the thing, people, fashion is different for everybody.
Speaker 2: I agree, and so like for you to say, oh,
Speaker 2: you can't wear this, I did. I didn't say that.
Speaker 2: I'm saying that's I think the hoodie looks great. It
Speaker 2: is my fault that I didn't explain expressed to everybody
Speaker 2: that you need to do what's traditionally done that you
Speaker 2: guys have seen for like, I don't know, eight or
Speaker 2: nine years in a row, many longer. Yeah, And the
Speaker 2: bit that I suggested of lunchbox, can you wear the
Speaker 2: nicest hoodie you can find? Was not the greatest idea
Speaker 2: for me to do that bit clink link. I don't
Speaker 2: want him to get in trouble because I have a
Speaker 2: feeling that they're going to be like you guys with disrespect,
Speaker 2: you know, these executives are. So that's my everybody, that
Speaker 2: was my bit. I made it up. Okay, it's bad taste.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 10: If you think that was bad, he should hear he
Speaker 10: heard his speech. He took over and to the speech
Speaker 10: at the awards in the hoodie, in the hoodie front
Speaker 10: and center and doing a speech. We got an audio of it.
Speaker 2: I don't play yet because I don't think I'm in the
Speaker 2: place to hear it. Well, I don't. I'm on the place.
Speaker 2: Hold everybody hold, we can play in the next segment.
Speaker 2: I just I don't I need a.
Speaker 3: Break, Okay, So can I tell Like when a woman
Speaker 3: says that to her, I'll be like, well, why are
Speaker 3: you wearing a trash bag?
Speaker 2: Isn't it? It was? You were under dressed according to
Speaker 2: the dress code.
Speaker 3: I mean showed me a dress code would.
Speaker 2: For the past ten years. But it doesn't matter. It's
Speaker 2: my fault. It's my fault. Please everybody, thank you for
Speaker 2: remaining quiet during this segment. And it's my fault. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's all. I will play George Burge this cowboy songs,
Speaker 2: and then we'll come back, and then we'll here's some
Speaker 2: stuff I don't know about the speech though, Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: we'll be back. I would like to propose that we
Speaker 2: hold off on here in the speech until the morning
Speaker 2: tomorrow show. Okay? Is that okay with you? Guys? Yeah?
Speaker 2: We live just because I'm I know, I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 2: in a space. I'm gonna good move. You already had
Speaker 2: that on depart I've been sick for a few days.
Speaker 2: I'm finally feeling okay, and I just wanted to do
Speaker 2: I'd rather do it tomorrow. That smart put up. How
Speaker 2: why did you guys let him do it? Though? Oh? Well,
Speaker 2: like you're the leader.
Speaker 1: You were sick, yes, And last time we did this,
Speaker 1: I gave the speech, so I felt like we should chair.
Speaker 1: But I was there last time. I think I was all, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you had to be on red carpet. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what you were there. But then I had to
Speaker 1: do it, and so then I feel like we should
Speaker 1: chair that.
Speaker 2: So then then just official ruling from here. Okay, you
Speaker 2: are the leader when I'm not around, Okay, you do
Speaker 2: it next to it, I know, But I'm just saying generally,
Speaker 2: she was nice and the leader decided that should do it,
Speaker 2: and maybe if the leader decides you should do it,
Speaker 2: that's great. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Okay, Now I didn't know it wasn't official ruling.
Speaker 2: So this is the official I'm having to be official
Speaker 2: now to people what to clothes to wear and what
Speaker 2: you're the leader. But what if you liked the speech though?
Speaker 2: Where that change? Yeah? You might. I still think she'll
Speaker 2: be a leader, but she'll be like, oh was she
Speaker 2: the Lunchbox again because you crushed it. But if I'm
Speaker 2: not here, Amy is the leader. I mean that's what
Speaker 2: I assume.
Speaker 5: When we walked up there, I was like, oh, Amy's
Speaker 5: gonna speak no, oh Lunchbox okay, oh really yeah.
Speaker 2: It was like that we'll do tomorrow. No more than
Speaker 2: because I'm almost play I do speaking to Lunchbox. Chase
Speaker 2: Beckham apparently has inspired Lunchbox to quit the lottery. Now,
Speaker 2: Chase Beckham, I Chase has Do you have a song?
Speaker 2: Ray of chases? Like a clip we could play. I
Speaker 2: knew Chase from back in American Idol. I mentored him
Speaker 2: for weeks and he didn't win in the show, which
Speaker 2: was crazy. Our second I think he won and he
Speaker 2: has a great song. Now that's called like if I
Speaker 2: was thirty, we'll play clip. But this is twenty three.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's what it is, twenty three play it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So this is Lunchbox and you were talking about the lottery. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I asked me if he ever plays the lottery? Okay,
Speaker 2: here we go.
Speaker 3: So speaking of a fiance, you know you had to propose,
Speaker 3: you know, get down on the knee, say oh you
Speaker 3: marry me, and you know you're kind of a musician
Speaker 3: now that has money. Did that mean the ring had
Speaker 3: to cost a lot more money? Because they say that
Speaker 3: the rule online is like it's like three months paycheck
Speaker 3: is what you're supposed to pay on the ring.
Speaker 2: I mean, God, did you live up to that? Chase?
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't get her a million dollar ring
Speaker 2: like that, you.
Speaker 3: Guys, breaking news, breaking news.
Speaker 2: Chase back up his rolling in the cash.
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, No, I mean this year I had a
Speaker 3: solo right number one, So that means no more lottery.
Speaker 2: I just need to write a song. And that's where
Speaker 2: the lottery. I don't know where this was going.
Speaker 3: Yes, because he said all you do is write a
Speaker 3: song and he got millions of dollars.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is solo, right then this is well, uh,
Speaker 2: he's a solo.
Speaker 1: That's being specific because he doesn't he didn't have to
Speaker 1: split it with another writer three ways.
Speaker 2: But that's what he said.
Speaker 3: He goes, I couldn't buy that big of a ring,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I did not realize if you write
Speaker 3: a song you get that big of a check.
Speaker 2: I think for a number one, depending on the amount
Speaker 2: of weeks, it's probably like a million bucks. Like generally speaking,
Speaker 2: if it's taxes.
Speaker 3: Though, hold on, if it's number one for one week,
Speaker 3: you get a million dollars.
Speaker 2: It's not about the one week it's number one. It's
Speaker 2: about the many weeks it stays on the chart, climbing up,
Speaker 2: and then once it hits number one, it's being played
Speaker 2: so many times. I guess all that in. If you're
Speaker 2: like a top five, it's close to that, oh, top ten,
Speaker 2: little less because it takes a long time to climb up.
Speaker 2: You don't like that? What I will do? Let me
Speaker 2: ask one of my friends how much a number one
Speaker 2: is worth? Okay, hold on, if you I guess too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you wrote it and he's saying it, because
Speaker 1: then you're not sharing it.
Speaker 2: It's a different it's a different royalty. Cool completely, okay,
Speaker 2: hold on, So so we gets money for writing and royalty? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Well no, no, no, okay, nember for singing. I don't know. Hey, man,
Speaker 2: question and I'm not going to say it to you.
Speaker 2: That told me. But we're talking about a number one song.
Speaker 2: What is generally speaking, let's say it takes thirty five
Speaker 2: to forty weeks to be a number one. What is
Speaker 2: a number one song? All in? If it's a solo, right,
Speaker 2: what will that pay total? All right? Thinks I get
Speaker 2: an answer. I just thought it was interesting. I was like, man,
Speaker 2: so now you want to write a song. I'm like,
Speaker 2: why don't I just write a song? Then?
Speaker 3: That seems like a better option than the lottery?
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah? Here is I love a good exercise. Today
Speaker 2: is November twenty first, so we'll have this month and
Speaker 2: then we'll have December and December obviously we'll be here
Speaker 2: for a few of the weeks we've gone for Christmas.
Speaker 2: When we come back, and that could be like January fifth,
Speaker 2: or sixth or se fourth, I don't know. Have that
Speaker 2: song for us. You have two months to write a song,
Speaker 2: one song, and if it's good, I'll get somebody good
Speaker 2: to record it.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, yeah, because that will make all the difference
Speaker 1: in the world.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean he's not gonna sing it. Well, there's
Speaker 2: no chance. Yeah, you'll sing it in here. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: you can't if you write it with anybody, you lose money.
Speaker 2: Oh so I got to write a solo, that's what
Speaker 2: That's what you just said. Yeah, you know you kind
Speaker 2: of have to have a melody to like with it,
Speaker 2: don't you. Worry about me. Okay, so write it. I
Speaker 2: mean write a song, yeah, and then I could have
Speaker 2: Abby sing it. You wouldn't do that because you mean
Speaker 2: to have yeh, you're right, because I wanted to go
Speaker 2: number one.
Speaker 4: But if he sets himself up for his own jokes.
Speaker 2: If it's good, I can probably have somebody produce it
Speaker 2: that does number one song, probably get someone to sing it.
Speaker 4: So verse chorus, verse, like how long is already?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I would say it needs to at least be
Speaker 2: like two and a half minutes on the short side,
Speaker 2: all right, and no stairway to have it, No like
Speaker 2: thirteen minutes, no guitar solos. But you have to write it.
Speaker 2: I'll write it. Okay, here we go.
Speaker 4: This would be amazing message.
Speaker 2: I just got a message back here. Come on. I'd
Speaker 2: say a solo, right, he says, lots of variables, would
Speaker 2: be about half a million dollars a solo. Right. Lots
Speaker 2: of variables though, so it can be more, it can
Speaker 2: be less. This person has like forty number one songs
Speaker 2: that I'm messaged. That's only half a million. It's still
Speaker 2: worth it, that's worth it. But then Chase sang his
Speaker 2: two so he would get more money on money on
Speaker 2: top of that.
Speaker 4: Then Lunchbucks Lobby said, there's lots of variables.
Speaker 2: It could be higher, could be higher. You can sing
Speaker 2: it and.
Speaker 4: Then what if it stays at number one.
Speaker 2: For oh gosh, multiple weeks. No, it doesn't do that.
Speaker 2: Sometimes that doesn't do that.
Speaker 4: Hey it does.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's on like the Hot one hundred flights seventeen
Speaker 2: weeks in a row, number one.
Speaker 4: It's exactly right seventeen.
Speaker 2: So maybe I'll go Hot one hundred instead of country.
Speaker 2: It don't need to be country. But if it gets
Speaker 2: so big here, then that's like Morgan wall and songs.
Speaker 2: They're sober tree.
Speaker 4: He has the prose of her vibe. You have that energy.
Speaker 2: Nobody has more of her appeal than this guy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I agree. So January, when we come back, have a song.
Speaker 2: Have the song, okay, and I'm assuming you're gonna sing
Speaker 2: at acapella? Yeah, would sing it? I mean a guitar player.
Speaker 2: I could write it then have a player play it
Speaker 2: with you. They just can't write it with you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't hire someone, No, no, no, I'll do it for you,
Speaker 2: but you don't have to pay me. But you got
Speaker 2: to tell me how to avoid that I don't want to, yeah,
Speaker 2: cause there's gonna be fights. So if you want to
Speaker 2: get some lawsuits and stuff, no, no, no, they'll be fights.
Speaker 4: Just so shere at my daughter, she's been learning guitar.
Speaker 2: Don't subject heart of that interesting. You can find it
Speaker 2: if he wants to find a guitar player, I don't
Speaker 2: want a guitar player. Okay. So he's going to do
Speaker 2: an acapella. It's going to stand on its own. Okay,
Speaker 2: I love it. Do you know who doesn't have guitar players? Pentatonics?
Speaker 2: That's right, what they do it with all their mouth.
Speaker 2: That's what I was doing. Then someone else was spool.
Speaker 4: Are you going to help them with a theme or
Speaker 4: like a.
Speaker 2: Nope, because I don't know why would I be writing?
Speaker 2: Would be the creative process. I don't need help writing it.
Speaker 2: He doesn't need help. Cool, All right, Well, guys, good luck.
Speaker 2: He's got a couple more this. What if it is
Speaker 2: that I have changed his life?
Speaker 4: I mean, this could be that's what it could be.
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