1 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 1: This guy. 2 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio Morning. I have 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 2: a story here from the Dance of Anger by Harriet 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: Lerner the number one husband gripe. Now, these are gripes 5 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: by husbands, and I'll read you the story and I 6 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 2: encourage the guys on the show. What is your number 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 2: one husband gripe? I'd love to hear it. The question 8 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: is what's the number one complain of married men. The 9 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 2: answer is being criticized by their wives. Nagging husbands tend 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 2: to say, I'm tired of being the target. Nagging psychologists 11 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 2: say a solution to the problem is for wives to 12 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 2: dial down the criticism and make sure that positive comments 13 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: out number the negative ones by a healthy margin. So 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 2: what that sounds like to me is you can still nag, 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 2: just make sure you're doing the fake comment the positive 16 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: stuff first. 17 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: I think for every negative, try to give five positives. 18 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 2: There just aren't that many positive things about me, So 19 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: I know that would just be a lie. If she's like, hey, 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: I got all the I'm like, that's not true. I'm 21 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 2: not that So what is your number one husband gribe 22 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 2: to the husband's in the room, Let's go to lunchbox. 23 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,639 Speaker 2: I would say, my wife was like, oh, you unload 24 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 2: the dishwasher. 25 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 3: So I started unloading the dishwasher and I put a 26 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 3: dish somewhere. 27 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: Well, actually I. 28 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 3: Would do it this way. Something tells you that, and 29 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 3: then she tells me how to do it. She doesn't 30 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: like the way I'm doing it. It's like, if you 31 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: want me to do it, let me do it my way. 32 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 3: Or like she wants me to help her cook. Every 33 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 3: once in a while and I start cutting something up, She's like, 34 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 3: well I would cut it this way. Well, then do 35 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 3: it yourself. It is so annoying. I just can't help myself. 36 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 3: And she says it every time. I can't help myself. 37 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,919 Speaker 3: You can help yourself. But is it something? 38 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: Because if my wife does something like that, like I'll 39 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 2: load the dishwasher in a very unconventional way at times, 40 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,559 Speaker 2: and she's like, this doesn't get cleaned if like stacked 41 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: on top of each other. Probably do it this way. 42 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: All she has to just tell me once and I 43 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: never do it wrong again once. Yeah, I don't know. 44 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 4: I'm just saying I know nothing. I'm just saying. 45 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 2: Something like that, yeah, because I don't want to have 46 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: to hear it again. 47 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: Oh, I thought that y'all don't have that thing where 48 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: you continuously mess up so you don't ever get asked 49 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: to do it. 50 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 2: Well, that's a whole different thing. That's different part of 51 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 2: our life. 52 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: Or if there's like papers on the counter, I'll get 53 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 3: papers and I'll put them there. I wouldn't put them there, 54 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 3: I'd put them over here. Well, if you want me 55 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 3: to pick them up. If you wanted to put them there, 56 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 3: then why didn't. 57 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 2: You put them there? But then if you do it again, 58 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: does she tell you again or do you learn? Because 59 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: if you're if you learn, then she can tell you that. 60 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: Once I'm done doing it, you're gonna criticize me. I'm like, 61 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 2: all right, look, then do it yourself. Got it? I 62 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: felt that? Oh man, we only get to do one. 63 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: You're fired up, dude. 64 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 3: It irritates me too much as a hole in the wall, okay, Eddie. 65 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, Mine's more of the expectation, like she always expects 66 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 5: me to do something Like if I, for example, when. 67 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: I leave work, I usually call her right. 68 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 5: Say, one day I just don't call her and I 69 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 5: show up and they're like, where were you? 70 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, what do you mean? You usually call me 71 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 2: when you leave at work and. 72 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 5: I'm like, I have to do the same thing all 73 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 5: the time, Like why is it my fault that you're 74 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 5: expecting me to do something without even asking. 75 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: Me to do it. That's a question I would have 76 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 2: for you back in college. If you had a class 77 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and you sat in the same 78 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: seat every time because we all did well, because you're 79 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: to have it, you'd set you know, third row fit 80 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: seed over that you sat there every time, every time, 81 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 2: every time. Yeah, and then you walk in it's saying 82 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: people in the class, but somebody sits in that seat, 83 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: how do you feel it's okay? I just didn't. I mean, 84 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 2: it's all right. They decided to sit there one day, 85 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: even though you've said it every single day, you're not 86 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: it at all, because I would be like, I know, 87 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: this isn't really my seat. We haven't like taken and 88 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 2: wrote down this is my but I feel like that's 89 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: my seat. Like I'm there every week and you're always 90 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: in this class, But why are you sitting there because 91 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 2: you've always had your seat. I feel like there's an 92 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 2: expectation that over time, that that expectation when it becomes 93 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: not only is it met, it's expected. Then when you 94 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 2: don't meet it, because you have set that standard, and 95 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 2: I can understand why there would be concern or irritation. 96 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: But everything has to run the same every day. It's 97 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,119 Speaker 2: only because you've made it. You've run it the same 98 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: every day. So when you don't run it the same, 99 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: something must be awf or different, which raises concern, which 100 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 2: they can manif I self into other things, anger, sadness. 101 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: So that's why. 102 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 5: So if I fall asleep on the couch because I'm tired, 103 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 5: she in the mornings like, did you just falls from 104 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 5: the couch? 105 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 2: Are you mad at me? Like? What's going on? Nothing, 106 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: I fell asleep on the couch. It's not a bus. 107 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 4: Do you have to answer that way? Or can you say, oh, 108 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 4: I was just tired. 109 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm just I'm just being yea this devil's 110 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 2: advocate there, I would say, I would understand if you 111 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: do something the same every single day, then you don't 112 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: do something the same. I would think something different in 113 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 2: your life, and that could concern me because it's not 114 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: so interesting anyone anything. Yeah, And I just used the 115 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: school chair thing because that's what I think about, Like 116 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: if I'm in that same chair, I don't own it. 117 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 2: I never declared it officially, but if someone's in it, 118 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, that's that's my chair. Yeah, I've been 119 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 2: doing the same way every single time, and that's weird, 120 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 2: and weird is uncomfortable. You're the whole building. 121 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: If we partnered where you parked every day, you wouldn't 122 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 3: have pulled it like I want to park. 123 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: Spot. What do you have? Yeah? 124 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 6: Mine or two huge gripes. It's the meal thing, and 125 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 6: it's because I work different hours. So either we can 126 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 6: choose to be on the same meal schedule or we're not. 127 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 6: So if I come home and eat it too and 128 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 6: I say, hey, do you want to eat? I can 129 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 6: put you something up and you say no, then that 130 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 6: means you have chosen to not be on my meal schedule. 131 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 6: So at four o'clock, two hours after I just ate, 132 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 6: you cannot say, hey, what do you want to do 133 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:30,559 Speaker 6: for dinner? 134 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: I just ate? Yah. It's fair. We have chosen to 135 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: be on different meal schedules. That's fair. 136 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 6: So that's my biggest one. My second biggest one is 137 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 6: with the TV. So I don't tell you, Hey, I'd 138 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 6: love for you to come watch football with me. So 139 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 6: why would you love for me to come watch a 140 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 6: movie with you. I can watch a movie if we 141 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 6: both are just in a room together and a movie 142 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 6: comes on and we're both watching it. Why do I 143 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 6: have to give up my football to watch a movie 144 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 6: when I would never ask you to give up a 145 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 6: movie to watch my football. 146 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 2: Interesting, that's valid. Well I did. There's a lot of 147 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 2: factors in that, like does he spend enough time with 148 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 2: her in general, Like the football. 149 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: Is on Thursday, Friday or no, Thursday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday, 150 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: actually every. 151 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 2: Day of the week and then Friday. 152 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 4: If you got on Friday, it's. 153 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 2: Gonna be a dynamic where he works all the time, 154 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 2: doesn't It's not really about football to movie Ratio, it's 155 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 2: about Raymundo hanging out with Why Ratio, it's just not 156 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: a war against football. 157 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 6: I would never criticize a movie, but I don't make 158 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 6: you watch my football. 159 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,119 Speaker 2: Why are you making me watch these movies? Hey, listen, 160 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 2: nobody's wrong. We're just talking good, We're just talking through them. 161 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 2: My number one husband, Gripe is probably uh no, no 162 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 2: street clothes in bed ever, like even like sit on it, 163 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 2: that's like like nothing. She is so particular about what 164 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 2: touches after I clean my feet, even though I'm walking 165 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: out his barefoot, I have to clean my feet, and 166 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 2: I get it, like it makes sense, it makes sense, 167 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: but it's like it's so much work. Like if I'm 168 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 2: wearing a pair of shorts and I've had outside and 169 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: I can't sit on the bed, She's like, we don't 170 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 2: have no no, Dan, It. 171 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 5: Is weird though, if you like in your bed with jeans, 172 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 5: it does feel weird that you're on the bed with jeans. 173 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 2: You know, when I was single, not so weird. And 174 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: then again, I now am just trying to go in, 175 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 2: wet a washcloth and wipe my feet down before I 176 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: go to bed every night. So she's like, you've been out, 177 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 2: you take the dogs out of the peene ready barefoot. 178 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: You should get a little like wipes to keep by 179 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: your bed that you should have to wet a wet cloth. 180 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: You can just get like a little white like I 181 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: have them for my dog in her paws. 182 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 4: It could be like your sea. 183 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: No thanks, you have like a little bowl of water. Anyway, 184 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 2: Thanks for sharing, guys, I appreciate. Let's get the show 185 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: going here. 186 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 7: Anymous sin bars. 187 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 2: A question to me? Hello, Bobby, bones. This question is 188 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: a sad one. A wife and I are seriously at 189 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 2: odd about how to handle it. Our twenty three year 190 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: old daughter is living with us. She has a pet cat. 191 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: Yesterday she went off on a ten day trip with 192 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 2: some girlfriends. Today her beloved cat passed away. She's had 193 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 2: this cat since she was a kid. It's been an 194 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: amazing fifteen years. I think we should tell her. My 195 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 2: wife doesn't want to because it will ruin her trip. 196 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: She's even suggested just burying it and telling her that 197 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 2: it ran away. I feel like she's an adult, she 198 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 2: can handle it. What's the best way to deal with this? 199 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: Signed bearer of bad news? So I have a lot 200 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 2: of answers from personal experience. I like first share a 201 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 2: story with you. I was doing some work a few 202 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 2: weeks ago. I was hosting an awards thing in New 203 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 2: York and get a call from We always have somebody 204 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 2: at our house watching our dogs. It's a double security 205 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 2: dog thing, right. If we're gone, somebody's at our house 206 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: because like Pat mahomes house got robbed, you know, And 207 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 2: if there's somebody who's like Pat Mahomes, just me. Yeah, 208 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: in every way except all so the person watching our 209 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: dogs called and they were crying, and I was like, 210 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 2: what calmdowncom dot comdown. My wife's me so I know 211 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: she's fine and I'm like, what's up? And she's like, 212 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 2: Ella's gone. The dog's gone. But she's calling me. Not 213 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: to tell me that just she's gone, because I wouldn't 214 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: be able to help find her from there. But we 215 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 2: track her on the Apple lot on the air tag, 216 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: so she's like, can you look on your air tag? 217 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 2: Got her right, Luckily we found her. Everything was great. 218 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: So I needed that call in that situation, so because 219 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 2: I could help. Now if I couldn't help, it's a 220 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: different story. I went to South America to tape a 221 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 2: show called Snake in the Grass and we had to 222 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 2: go live in the jungle. Miserable experience. Fine show, miserable 223 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 2: experience is a living but we were there and the 224 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: people that stayed at the house, can they stay there 225 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 2: for a month and a half. I told them, if 226 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: any the dogs die for any reason, do not tell 227 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: me like they're dead. I can't do anything about it. 228 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: Don't let the dogs die. But if the dogs die, 229 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: there is nothing I can do that's going to help that. 230 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: And there's only news that's going to affect me in 231 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 2: a negative way while I'm here, like, there is no 232 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 2: gain for me knowing that when I can do nothing 233 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: about it. Luckily dogs didn't die and I would check 234 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 2: in and be like, do the dogs die or how 235 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: the dogs? They would say good, and I'd be like, 236 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 2: I don know if I can believe you, because I 237 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: had already told them, but there was no benefit to 238 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 2: it running what I was doing. Now. Number One, you 239 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: do not need to tell her until she comes back, 240 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: because you will remove joy from her trip over something 241 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,719 Speaker 2: that she has no control over in any way whatsoever. 242 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: She will get to mourn exactly the same way. But 243 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 2: let her have her fund first. Secondly, you don't lie 244 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 2: about the cat running away, because that is a different 245 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 2: kind of anxiety, like, well, let's find it. Will it 246 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 2: ever come back? Well, there needs to be closure with 247 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 2: this as well. The cat was fifteen years old. It sucks. 248 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: It sucks like when my last dog died, Like it's awful. 249 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: Makes me so sad, sad thinking about it now. I 250 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 2: dedicated my second book to my dog that died. I 251 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: remember right on the front of the book, failing till 252 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: you don't. I was like two dusty, but a great dog. 253 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 2: Blah blah, you bet. I know you'll never read this 254 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 2: because you're a dog. Was after like, I loved that dog, 255 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 2: but it would have done me no good if I 256 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: could do nothing about it, And I say the same thing. 257 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 2: But you do need to tell her. It's gonna be tough. 258 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 2: The decision is going to be do you freeze the 259 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 2: cat until she gets back and let her bury it, 260 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: or do you bury it yourself and say this is 261 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,839 Speaker 2: where the cat is. I think that's what it is. 262 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 2: You freeze in your freezer. 263 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, somewhere in a box, Yeah. 264 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 2: A cooler, like a place you think a cooler lunch. 265 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 2: She's probably right. You put it in an ice in 266 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 2: a cooler because you don't want in your fridge or freezer. 267 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: But if you put it in a bag in a 268 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: box movie your friend has a deep freezer, oh yeah. 269 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 2: Something like that's fine, but don't tell them what it 270 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: is like. That's the decision you'll have to make knowing 271 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 2: your daughter. If she wants to bury it herself, or 272 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 2: if she's because she's not gonna be cool, it's gonna 273 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: be very sad, or if you think she'd be better 274 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 2: just knowing this is where it's buried. That's the decision. 275 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: The other ones you do not tell her, and two 276 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 2: you do not say it ran away when you say 277 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: when she's back, your cat died. This sucks. And you 278 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 2: lead it with going, I have terrible news for you, 279 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 2: and then you tell her the news immediately. You don't go, hey, 280 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 2: let's talk. Hey, you come to the house when you 281 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 2: talk about this. Nope, when she gets there, you say 282 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 2: the following, I have really bad news for you. Fluffy died, 283 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 2: and then you can do the rest. So good luck. 284 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: That sucks. That's a very sad story. It makes me 285 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 2: sad to think about it and talk about Thanks for asking, though, 286 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: And don't adopt a cat super fast to replace the 287 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 2: other one. That's what I'm going at. Yeah, I want 288 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 2: to say that, give it a minute. Don't don't ever 289 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 2: adopt a dog or a cat after yours dies to 290 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 2: immediately replace the other one. You need time to mourn 291 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 2: if you love to. Just like a human, I guess 292 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 2: we don't adopt a new humans, so do we. One 293 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 2: one dies, though, it's not like an uncle dies, you 294 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 2: adopt a new uncle. You don't really do that. Don't 295 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: do it, but you could is there an adopted uncle? 296 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: All right, you close it up. There's Brittany from Ohio. 297 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 8: Bobby was talking about how he wasn't feeling well and 298 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 8: he thought he had a stomach bug, but wasn't sure, 299 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 8: and it wasn't sure. If he knew there is an 300 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 8: e Coli outbreak with certain brands of organic full and 301 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 8: baby carrots, that might be something he wants to look into. 302 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 4: He might have cool. 303 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 8: I love the show. 304 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 2: Why would you say that? Oh geez, have you eaten? 305 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 4: I had the carrots. 306 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 2: I've had carrots. Oh, not only that, we give Ella. 307 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 2: Ella loves carrots. Our dog like she will take a 308 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: carrot and keep it for two hours, like treasures it. 309 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: And so we have a lot of carrots. My wife 310 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: like puts, is she sick too? I have a bola 311 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 2: no e coal? I? Oh sorry, yeah, I got a little. 312 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 4: Ket It's an outbreak. 313 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: But the dates were like you had to buy on 314 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: between this certain time. But I just went ahead and 315 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: I had the brands, So I was like, I'm just 316 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: getting rid of. 317 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: The scary when you see a recall and you have 318 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 2: that brand. I'm texting my wife right now because I 319 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 2: had a It's I'm still not all the way down 320 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 2: the stomach bug, and like, let's make up our mind, guys, 321 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 2: is it a twenty four forty eight hour? Seventy two hours? 322 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: Like I think people just say it about on how 323 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 2: sick they are. I had the sixty eight hour stomach bug. 324 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 2: That's a thing. Never heard of that? Or that's along 325 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 2: you had it. But I'm texting my wife. Did you 326 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 2: see the E Coli outbreak carrot story? I don't know 327 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 2: if there's a story. I'm just trusting a listener here 328 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 2: there is. Yeah. 329 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 3: And if you hear the symptoms severe stomach cramp, I've 330 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 3: been there, diarrhea, vomiting yep. 331 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 2: And the day one was when I was up here, 332 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 2: I was vomiting. Yeah. Yeah. 333 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 3: The symptoms usually start three to four days after swallowing 334 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 3: the carrot. 335 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: I've swallowed carrots there four days ago. Great, Oh my goodness, 336 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: whole carrot man, the whole thing. I probably just have 337 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: a stomach bug. But thank you for that. But I 338 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: am going to check a pile of stories. 339 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: So apparently some psychologists is saying that if you already 340 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: have your Christmas lights up, you're a self absorbed narcissist. 341 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 2: Agree what you don't agree with that. Yeah, well, well no, 342 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 2: I just don't have mine up. And I'm often called 343 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: the self absorbed narciss That's the only way I can go. 344 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: See I'm not one. Got it. 345 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: They're saying, it doesn't mean you have narcissistic personality disorder, 346 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: which would be like you check a lot of the 347 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: narcissistic traits. 348 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 4: This is just a trait. 349 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 2: I would just say it as a look at me trait, 350 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 2: especially way early light look at me. I don't give 351 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: my fancy lights up. I'm Christmas before you are. Even 352 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: if it's just like sub gone, just like I think 353 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 2: about that, I don't. 354 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 4: I don't get this at all, Like what is not 355 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 4: a doctor? 356 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: Like we have the joy of Christmas and wanting to 357 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: spark it up. 358 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 2: It's not Christmas and spark it up? Interesting term there 359 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 2: four twenty all. 360 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: Right, not that, but I mean just like, yeah, just as. 361 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 4: You know, light it up, exactly, light it up. 362 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 2: Would you say, Bob Marley, what turn them on? I 363 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 2: would just say, put your lights up early for Christmas? 364 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 2: It's fine. I love people do that if it makes 365 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: them happy. I don't care if it makes you happy. 366 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 2: It doesn't hurt anybody. I don't care, but I do 367 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: feel like there are some of our neighbors who went 368 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 2: hard two weeks ago are mostly like, we want to 369 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 2: be the first ones to have it up, so everybody 370 00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 2: sees we're the first ones to have it up. I 371 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 2: think that's part of it. Somebody real hard, really hard. 372 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 2: But I also do that in different ways, so I'm 373 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: not hating. I'm just dating well. 374 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: So in addition to the whole narcissistic trait, decorating early 375 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: may also quote fill a void, making people feel happy 376 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: when they otherwise wouldn't be. 377 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: And you also are like sealizations were. 378 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: Trying to portray that you're this picture perfect family when 379 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: you're not. Well, it's just Christmas deep yeah, okay, Speaking 380 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 1: of Christmas, kit cats that are shaped like Santa Claus 381 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: have hit the shelves for the holidays, and this is 382 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: the first time they've ever done anything other than their 383 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: normal kit cat shape. And if we know anything, from 384 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: an awesome candy putting things out in cute shapes like 385 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: hearts and santas and footballs like with reeses the reeses 386 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: trees and pumpkins and stuff, they taste so much better 387 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: and kit Cat says these are even crispier and wayfier, 388 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: like the ratio is they're. 389 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: Still chalkol Like they're just like a cacolic because if 390 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: they're doing white chocolate, yeah, like any benefit from them 391 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 2: doing a standish shape is lost in white chocolate. Like 392 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: white chocolate is not as good as dark chocolate. It's 393 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 2: a novelty if I happen to open up a white 394 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 2: chocolate harshy kiss, because sometimes you get into that. You know, 395 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 2: it's like sixty percent of the fun. Is it supposed 396 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 2: to taste the same because they tastes different? Okay, here 397 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 2: are my ranks of chocolates. Number one milk chocolate, number two, 398 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: white chocolate, number eight hundred and ninety nine. Dark chocolate 399 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 2: kill me? Really terrible? 400 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 4: That part, Dount, Yeah yeah, that part okay. 401 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 402 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 1: Well, so check them out there at their in stores, 403 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: limited time only. And then I have some personal info, 404 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,640 Speaker 1: just reminders to keep off social media because the holidays 405 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: are here. You may be traveling, and this is just 406 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: stuff to keep in mind. USA Today did a whole 407 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: article about it, and I think it's just a good reminder, 408 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 1: Like if you have vacation plans, wait till after you get. 409 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 4: Home to post about them that happen on home Alone. 410 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 2: They posted on TikTok they were leaving and they got 411 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 2: rocked home alone twelve right. 412 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, videos of you talking like they're warning people of 413 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: doing that, Which what do you think that they're still. 414 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: That's what they're doing, but they're not really doing it, 415 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 2: but they are like a couple of people had done it, 416 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 2: so they're like making stories going. If you put yourself 417 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 2: talking on social media, they're going to steal your voice. 418 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 2: What are the odds? Probably not good. I probably wouldn't 419 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: listen to that one. 420 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, your relationship status like widows or widowers, they may 421 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: be big targets. Or if your recent divorce, are single 422 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: and you announce like I'm alone in my home and 423 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: no longer. 424 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: Announce though it doesn't matter the holiday. Don't do a 425 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 2: post of I'm alone in my home. Right. 426 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: Expensive electronics that you may be selling, your walking, hiking 427 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: and biking routes, your kids' school activities, and where they. 428 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 2: Are social Security number, Like they're getting weird. 429 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 1: I mean the kids' school stuff could be a thing 430 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 1: because like then they know your kid's name, then they 431 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: can show up there and be like they the. 432 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 2: Killers man paranoid. Most of these days are from like 433 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 2: Zimbabwe or it's not Harry and from home alone who 434 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 2: are coming. 435 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 1: There was someone that wanted to abduct their child or kidnap, 436 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: like if they look at you know. 437 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 2: You're gonna do it anyway. 438 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 4: Mostly they can find help them. They're like, oh, I 439 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 4: just want to. 440 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: Get it done quicker. That's why I'm gonna do it. Like, 441 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 2: if you're gonna do it, let's just go. 442 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 4: Okay, that's the list. 443 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 2: I'm sure that's a great list. We can post it. 444 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 4: Stay safe out there. 445 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 2: I just it makes people extra paranoid if we're constantly 446 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 2: talking about all the things that will go wrong if 447 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 2: you do something that probably won't well manifest itself into 448 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 2: something being wrong. So I want to avoid that super paranoia. 449 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 2: But I also want to go like look out and 450 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 2: it's a fine line. 451 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 1: The main part was because of the holidays and traveling, 452 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: so just that's the takeaway. 453 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 4: The other ones were just extra. 454 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 2: I would just say, don't build a fire under the 455 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 2: Christmas tree. That's safe. That's that's my note. 456 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 4: This was to keep off social media that has nothing to. 457 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 2: Do with them. More of a realist the fire is 458 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 2: really bad than. 459 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 4: It is okay, I'm Amy. 460 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 2: That's my file. That was Amy's pile of stories. It's 461 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 2: time for the good news. 462 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 4: How much Box. 463 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 3: Chase Thompson is nine years old. He lives in Idaho. 464 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 3: He's at home with his mom and in the morning, 465 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 3: his mom falls out of bend. 466 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 2: She's like, Chase, I need you to call nine one one. 467 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,239 Speaker 3: So Chase is looking everywhere for his mom's phone and 468 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 3: she's like, I can't find it. She must have left 469 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 3: at the store last night. So he needed to call 470 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 3: nine one one. So he went and got the family's 471 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 3: Alexa and told it to call and it didn't work. 472 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 3: So he's like, what am I going to do? I 473 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 3: don't have a phone. So he ran down to a 474 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 3: neighbor's house banging on the door. Hey, my mom needs help. 475 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 3: Call nine one one. Call nine one one. Amblance came. 476 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 3: She was having a stroke. 477 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,479 Speaker 2: I wouldn't trust that thing to call that that's all 478 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: he had. Yeah, and we were careful not to say hey, 479 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 2: I like said do the thing because we thought it 480 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 2: might do the thing. Yeah, but I think if that's 481 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 2: all you and your nine that's all you have. Sure 482 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 2: know He's like, it didn't even play the song I 483 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 2: want most of the time. That's a good point. And 484 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: lastie doesn't love around. 485 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 4: Maybe need to send her update yours and mine's pretty 486 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 4: well on the fact. 487 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: That she got her phone somewhere of the night before. 488 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 2: Not good. 489 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 4: Oh, you know all the time, especially with a relationship 490 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 4: a SiO, you know, it just gets it. 491 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 2: It gets dicey one those one gets jealousy the other 492 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 2: and multiple they're pulling hair. Yeah, hey you that's that 493 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 2: season for you. Good for you, good story, that's what 494 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 2: it's all about. 495 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 8: Good kid. 496 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,679 Speaker 2: That was telling me something good much about you. Were 497 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 2: with Bailey Zimmerman yesterday, Yeah. 498 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 3: And we were talking about like I used to fill 499 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,239 Speaker 3: out the free applications for credit cards so I get 500 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 3: a free T shirt And so then Bailey told me 501 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 3: the first time he got a credit. 502 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 2: Card about the big mistake he made. J C. 503 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 9: Penny's one and only time I ever signed up. They're like, hey, 504 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 9: you could save this and and we'll give you this 505 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 9: for free and you won't have to pay for that 506 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 9: shirt today, Like, oh, well, what is it And they're like, oh, 507 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 9: it's just a credit card and all you got. 508 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 2: To do is just sign up. Signed up. 509 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 9: Never paid for that shirt because it went on the 510 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,959 Speaker 9: credit card, which I didn't understand what a credit card was, 511 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 9: and then I ended up paying like two hundred and 512 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 9: seventeen for this. 513 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 2: So I think we've all been there. Oh yeah, but 514 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: it's funny to hear Bailey talk about it. Listen. I 515 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 2: love that kid. I guess he's not a kid, he's 516 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 2: a man. He's a young young man. He's kind of 517 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 2: a kid. He's a kid. And I knew and I 518 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 2: knew him before he got like big big when he 519 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,959 Speaker 2: just started being viral, and like we talk and like 520 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: he grew up very similar to how I did. Like 521 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 2: he's a good kid. He's why it gets kind of wild, 522 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 2: which I would to have had all that faming. But 523 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 2: he's twenty four years old and just he's killing it 524 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 2: right now. Hit that all this between a rocket place. Well, 525 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 2: and you know what I tell him most, And it's 526 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 2: not because he does this, and and it's not because 527 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 2: there's a reason for me to tell him, but I'm like, 528 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 2: do not get anybody pregnant. That's what I tell him. 529 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 2: That's what I tell him most, Like, dude, you're on 530 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 2: the road, you're having fun, but do not get anybody pregnant, 531 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 2: like that is something you won't be thinking about and 532 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 2: it'll affect ever like that. That's it. That's the one. 533 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 2: It's not like him. Man, work on the craft. But 534 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 2: you got clarify, like get married, you love one day, 535 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 2: get somebody pregnant. But and I'm not even saying he's 536 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 2: around doing that, and like hook, I'm not at all 537 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,439 Speaker 2: in anyway. He may. I don't even know if he's 538 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 2: dating anybody right now. I talked to him a couple 539 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 2: of months, I guess. But that's the advice, like these 540 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 2: young artists that all of a sudden have fame and 541 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: money thrust onto them, because with that comes girls sure clears, 542 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: and it's like, do not get anybody pregnant. Even if 543 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: I like see him, like he's like, what's up, Like 544 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 2: don't get pregnant. That the first thing he says, do 545 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: not get anybody pregnant, because that'll that'll set it all back. 546 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I love that kid or could. 547 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know. I like to look at the 548 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 4: game the bright side. 549 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 2: We don't need to be a bright side, and there's no 550 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 2: sad side. Don't get pregnant. He's not doing it first 551 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: and odds are if you don't know the girl and 552 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 2: she gets pregnant, if that ain't gonna be good for life, 553 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 2: that's gonna be good. Yeah. I think you can turn 554 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: it into something good later whenever. Yeah, if it does happen. No, No, 555 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 2: you don't want that. You just don't want it. You 556 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 2: don't want there to be a bright side, because that 557 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 2: means there's a dark side, you know what I mean. Yeah, Anyway, 558 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 2: the lottery has four hundred and thirty eight winners because 559 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 2: the pick four for four four four four. Much actually 560 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 2: play the lottery a lot Do you ever play all 561 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: the same number at anything? Ever? No? 562 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,360 Speaker 3: Never, because if I miss it then I'll be really upset. 563 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about Do you ever play like one 564 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 2: one one one two two two two? 565 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 8: No? 566 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 3: Because I don't play those weird games like where youre 567 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 3: going to have to get three balls. I only play 568 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 3: the Mega millions and the power ball. 569 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 2: That's it. It's not enough the weird games. Yeah, Like 570 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 2: it's like you're too good for those. 571 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 3: I don't know how those work, and they're confusing and 572 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 3: I haven't looked into them. 573 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 2: Maybe they're better odds. I don't know, they are much 574 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 2: better odds, but oh yeah, he's only playing three or 575 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 2: four numbers instead of seven numbers. I mean, mathematically that's 576 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 2: much better odds, But you don't win as much money 577 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 2: if you win. So four four four four all hit 578 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 2: a combined pad of one million dollars and so, but 579 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,120 Speaker 2: four hundred and thirty eight people won. 580 00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 1: Damn. 581 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 2: That's what is so divided by so prizes like a 582 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: few grand which is which, which is great, But you 583 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,400 Speaker 2: also have to know if you're picking at four four 584 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 2: four four to a lot of people are probably doing that. Yeah, 585 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 2: it's crazy that the odds of it being four it 586 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 2: would be one in ten times one in ten times 587 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 2: one and ten times one and ten. Oh so that's 588 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: a lot of no no, no, no, mayban like try to 589 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: do that? Wait next to park visitors on a ride 590 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 2: are stuck mid air for two hours. This is happening 591 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 2: too often, man, I saw it was terrible. More than 592 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,119 Speaker 2: twenty riders were suspended mid air for hours after a 593 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: Nott's Very Farm ride. But I don't think they were 594 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 2: hanging upside down though, because that would be the toughest. 595 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: That's good. Guests at the Southern California Theme Park were 596 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 2: stuck on the Soul Spin ride. They forced to stop 597 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 2: at two pm local time. The twenty two riders were 598 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 2: evacuated pretty close to five o'clock. It's one of those 599 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 2: things that you like, how did you describe it? You like, 600 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 2: are on it and it's strapped over your chest and 601 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,880 Speaker 2: it lifts you up and it spins you. Yeah, I've 602 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,919 Speaker 2: seen those of the carnival. Yeah, I like spiders kind of. Yeah, 603 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 2: like if you were to draw a circle around it, 604 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 2: it'd be like a. 605 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 4: Like a carousel, but lifted in the air kind of. 606 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like a windmill. Yeah, that a windmill, 607 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:28,639 Speaker 2: but flat okay, okay, not like an umbrella. Yeah, we're 608 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 2: really trying hard. But they were just held up there 609 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 2: for hours. Oh yeah, yeah, that sucks. I would worry 610 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 2: if that were me up there, since it's broken, you 611 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 2: know what else is going to break? That thing holding me? 612 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 2: Because it's also it's also on a latch, because it's 613 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: not like a buckle, it's on like a shoulder thing 614 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 2: comes over that's latched that a button locks it, and 615 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,640 Speaker 2: I I'll be worried. Well if that broke, Oh god, what if. 616 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:55,400 Speaker 4: I didn't think about that part? 617 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 1: Because like when you're when you buckle it yourself, you 618 00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: like you and you see it and you're like, that's 619 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:00,880 Speaker 1: but yeah, if. 620 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: It's a button, if something breaks, why wouldn't something else. Yeah, yeah, 621 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 2: that would suck. 622 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 10: It's time for the good news, So. 623 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 2: Just tell me something good. Is not a news story. 624 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 2: It's from me. It's not about my life. It's about 625 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 2: something that could affect all of you guys, and it 626 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 2: is a probably now. For a long time on this show, 627 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 2: I've been I've been anti doing a cruise because I 628 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 2: don't want to do a cruise because I get see sick. 629 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 2: I just don't want to do it, like I want 630 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 2: to go on the boat and get see sick. And 631 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 2: so you guys have been like, let's do a cruise 632 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 2: for three years. I've been like, Nope, I don't want 633 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 2: to do it. I don't want to do it. Yes, 634 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:51,439 Speaker 2: there's a really good shot that that because of some 635 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 2: things that I have requested to help me in case 636 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 2: I do get sick, that we could be doing cruise. 637 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 9: Show. 638 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 7: So nothing is official yet, And I will go I 639 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 7: will go places. I will go places, or I will 640 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,439 Speaker 7: be on tour and they'll be like will you Listeners 641 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 7: have been saying forever, because you guys have made such 642 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 7: a big deal, will you please do a cruise? And 643 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 7: I'm like no, no, no, no, no, And I think that. 644 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 2: Seventy chance that's good. So we're head of the multi coast. 645 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, we don't know where we're going. 646 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all the coast the world really far. 647 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,679 Speaker 2: What we're doing. I'm not giving any details. There's no details. No, 648 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: probably because I don't want to like set an expectation 649 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 2: that's not met. 650 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's not do that. It's probably going to be landlocked. 651 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not going car right, be called the road trip. 652 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 2: But they tell me something good for the show is 653 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 2: I was only saying no because I didn't think there 654 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 2: was a way for me to make it happen, because 655 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 2: I get so boat sick anytime. But I think we 656 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 2: I think we're gonna be able to do it. Not 657 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 2: anytime in the next couple of months or anything like that, 658 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 2: but soon we could be doing a by bunch of 659 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 2: cruise only because you guys have been asking for it. 660 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 2: Meant has been asking for it. I tell me something good, 661 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 2: that's all I have. Tell me something great, that's all. Yeah, 662 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 2: that's all. I have for now. Okay, everybody, Amy anything, Amy, 663 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 2: you excited. 664 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 4: I have said a lot. 665 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 2: She was debating on car Ride. 666 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: No, I was going to start setting certain expectations, and 667 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: then Bobby's expect multi coast. 668 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 2: Well, that's that's ridiculous. I don't even know what that is. 669 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 1: I just see it on What I said is that 670 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: sounds great, and I'm going to wait for more details. 671 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. Already got a picture in my head. 672 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 2: Keep it in your head though, okay, not in your mouth. 673 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 2: Out of your mouth, all right, thank you. That's what's 674 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 2: all about. That was telling me something good. I was 675 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 2: looking at pictures. I was not able to go to 676 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 2: the CMA's last night, regretfully, I was. I've been sick 677 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 2: the last few days, even here on the show. So 678 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 2: Amy looked great. Thank you. Eddie looked great. Oh thanks. 679 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 2: More than I saw your video. You're like, I'm just 680 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,040 Speaker 2: just a girl, just kind of wet if I'm a 681 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 2: shower and I'm not going out, and you did your 682 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: hands white boom, and then she's like in her dress, 683 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 2: you know, one of those things is good. And then 684 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 2: you guys can help me. Because I only saw a picture. 685 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 2: It was Lunchbox in a hoodie. 686 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like a sweatshirt hoodie. But it was an 687 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: It looked is nice. 688 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 2: I just saw the group picture and every not just 689 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 2: our show, but like they did a picture of like 690 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: everybody who won, and every single person's in a suit 691 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 2: or like a really nice dress, and Lunchbox is in 692 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 2: a hoodie. But I would I'm not judging yet. We 693 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 2: all love to judge on this show, but I would 694 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 2: like to hold back for a second. What what was that? Well, 695 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 2: what do you mean it was an outfit? It's called style. Uh. 696 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 2: No one told me that I had to wear a suit. 697 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 2: No one said there's a dress code. You've been to 698 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 2: that many We've done that many times. 699 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 3: Justin Bieber goes to something, he wears a hoodie and 700 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 3: people say, oh fashion, I wear a hoodie and it's 701 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 3: like the worst thing in the world. 702 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: I don't think it's the worst thing in the world. No, no, no, no, no, no. 703 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 4: He's not judging you yet. 704 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 2: I'm not asking you to be defensive. I'm they are 705 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 2: not jumping in because they've already all made fun of 706 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 2: you behind your back, so I'm but they. 707 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 3: Made fun of me in my face when I walked in. 708 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 3: Morgan did a double thing and goes, are you wearing 709 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 3: a hoodie? 710 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:08,720 Speaker 2: About? 711 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 3: And then I'm gonna Eddie says, are you gonna change? 712 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,400 Speaker 3: Then these white first things she says to me goes, 713 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 3: I see you got your nicest clothes out. 714 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 2: And here's my thing. If I went up to Morgan 715 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 2: and said you look like crap. No, but Morgan was 716 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 2: dressed approaching it doesn't matter for like what they they say, 717 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 2: you know, it's like whatever they can what the style 718 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 2: of dress like, this is what I like to do. 719 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 2: Everybody else shut up except for lunchbox because he's gonna 720 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 2: get mad at you guys. And I'm not trying to 721 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: talk to him like I'm upset or irritated. 722 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 6: I don't. 723 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 2: And see here's the thing a boy, Now, no, let's 724 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 2: take it out. Let's think it about half. Not she's 725 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 2: me and you talking. 726 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 3: If if I went up to a girl and said, 727 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 3: why are you wearing that crap? I'm a jerk, right, 728 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 3: But Morgan does it to me and it's oh cool. 729 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,239 Speaker 3: If I told her your dress looks like trash, how 730 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 3: would she feel? 731 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 4: Well? 732 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 2: I don't think I liked your hoodie by the way. 733 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 2: See here's the thing there. I don't give a crap 734 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 2: what I liked your hoodie. I did think that it 735 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 2: was a bit underdressed for the occasion, but I just 736 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 2: wondered what your thought was. 737 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 3: I thought it was a nice event. It's a nice hoodie. 738 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 3: It ain't some trashity that I wear every day. I 739 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 3: think my hoodies are nice. You wearing here red Kleistrace today. 740 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,479 Speaker 2: I love that I wore today because I saw them 741 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: last night. There you go? Uh so, yeah. 742 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 3: I thought it's no one said anything about a dress 743 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 3: code or what you're supposed to wear, and just said, hey, 744 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 3: we're going to the Cmas. I'm like, cool, man, this 745 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 3: is a nice hoodie that. 746 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 2: Is expensive, and I love you for being here. 747 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 3: And I wore it and I wasn't worried about it. 748 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 3: And now one person was like, oh my gosh, we 749 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 3: can't let you in because you have a hoodie on cool. 750 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,720 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah great. I have said nothing to the 751 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 2: fact that I'm upset or irritated. I just saw it 752 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 2: and thought, is that real? I thought, like a fun 753 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 2: picture he took like after he changed out of his suit, scuba. 754 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 2: I want to get everybody else mouth shut, please, yeah, yeah, 755 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 2: what's up. It's good. But you're the executive producer of 756 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 2: this show. Yes you know, of course my name's on it. 757 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 2: But like you run this thing, no doubt about it. 758 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 2: You're well as that guy. What were your thoughts? 759 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 10: Well, I guess my first question would be, you get 760 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 10: the CMA emails right lunchbox. They come through about to 761 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,479 Speaker 10: vote for this, and here's information for this, and I voted, gotcha. 762 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 10: So in one of those emails, there's an important line 763 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 10: here says attire and additional information. It says the CMA 764 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 10: Awards encouraged you to honor the tradition of country music's 765 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 10: biggest night, but dressing in black tie or formal attire. 766 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 2: I say that I didn't know that. I just see 767 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 2: everybody else doing it every year, so I, well, yeah, 768 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 2: and everyone else is doing it as well. 769 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 10: I will say it's a it was a really nice 770 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 10: hoodie for him, it was it was more of an 771 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 10: upgrade for what we normally see. So I could see 772 00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 10: in his eyes he's like, well, I wore a really 773 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 10: nice hoodie. This is like my black tie, and it 774 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 10: is okay fair to the audience. 775 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 2: In a suit. No one's seem to complain about that, 776 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: and I wore. 777 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 10: Sunglasses, so I kind of like didn't care a little 778 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 10: bit myself. But I still wore like a suit and 779 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 10: looked somewhat nice. But I just think maybe he doesn't 780 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 10: understand in his world he thinks that was awesome. 781 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 2: That's on our you know what, that's on me as 782 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 2: the leader to not go and say, hey, be sure 783 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 2: to wear a suit. I mean, I got not even 784 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 2: norse from rack. But also I. 785 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 10: Think to solid he wasn't sure he was gonna make 786 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 10: it as well because his wife was doing something, so 787 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,719 Speaker 10: I think he was like scrambling last second to put 788 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,280 Speaker 10: something together his best hoodie. 789 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 2: Okay, that's on me, And I knew it. 790 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 3: Matched because it was black and white, so I knew 791 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 3: that the match with black jeans. 792 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,280 Speaker 2: What's what's on you? I don't understand, Well, there's a mistake. 793 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 2: There's a mistake that happens with this show. And because 794 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 2: even one of our executives reach out to me saying, 795 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 2: was this a bit oh the hoodie? Yes? And I said, 796 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,919 Speaker 2: not that I know of, because I didn't. 797 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 4: Got he looked he looked nice just for him. 798 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: He had jeans that fit like really the jeans were nice. 799 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 4: The hoodie was you could tell he just where he 800 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 4: bought it, and showing up. 801 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 2: To a funeral and a tank top and jeorts and 802 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 2: you're like, well, I'm wearing clothes, but I hear you. 803 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 2: I hear you. 804 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 4: But it was still up level for him. 805 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:13,320 Speaker 2: Yes, I it is my fault because I because I 806 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 2: will take and I will message that executive back because listen, no, 807 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,319 Speaker 2: no executive is st our show. They only care about 808 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 2: us when we get in trouble. Nobody cares. So I'll 809 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 2: message executive and be like, you know what, that's on me. 810 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 2: It was a bit. It was like, because Lunchbuck, what 811 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 2: was the nicest hoodie he could find to wear? And 812 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 2: that's We're good. That's on me. It is my fault. 813 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 2: I thought you look great. I thought you were a 814 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 2: bit under dressed for this occasion. But that's on me 815 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 2: for not explaining that everybody needed to wear what the 816 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 2: email said in the official rules of black tie. Yeah, 817 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 2: I still. I mean, I'm looking through this email and 818 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 2: I don't see that anywhere. But also, can I have 819 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 2: one other thing? And I mean this because I feel 820 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 2: this way about me too. You're not jolly roller Justin 821 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 2: Bieber oh, oh really he thinks he is. 822 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but here's the thing, people, fashion is different for everybody. 823 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 2: I agree, and so like for you to say, oh, 824 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 2: you can't wear this, I did. I didn't say that. 825 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 2: I'm saying that's I think the hoodie looks great. It 826 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 2: is my fault that I didn't explain expressed to everybody 827 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 2: that you need to do what's traditionally done that you 828 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 2: guys have seen for like, I don't know, eight or 829 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 2: nine years in a row, many longer. Yeah, And the 830 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 2: bit that I suggested of lunchbox, can you wear the 831 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 2: nicest hoodie you can find? Was not the greatest idea 832 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,879 Speaker 2: for me to do that bit clink link. I don't 833 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 2: want him to get in trouble because I have a 834 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 2: feeling that they're going to be like you guys with disrespect, 835 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 2: you know, these executives are. So that's my everybody, that 836 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 2: was my bit. I made it up. Okay, it's bad taste. 837 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:40,839 Speaker 7: Man. 838 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 10: If you think that was bad, he should hear he 839 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 10: heard his speech. He took over and to the speech 840 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 10: at the awards in the hoodie, in the hoodie front 841 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 10: and center and doing a speech. We got an audio of it. 842 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 2: I don't play yet because I don't think I'm in the 843 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,879 Speaker 2: place to hear it. Well, I don't. I'm on the place. 844 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,439 Speaker 2: Hold everybody hold, we can play in the next segment. 845 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 2: I just I don't I need a. 846 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,439 Speaker 3: Break, Okay, So can I tell Like when a woman 847 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 3: says that to her, I'll be like, well, why are 848 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 3: you wearing a trash bag? 849 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 2: Isn't it? It was? You were under dressed according to 850 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 2: the dress code. 851 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 3: I mean showed me a dress code would. 852 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 2: For the past ten years. But it doesn't matter. It's 853 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 2: my fault. It's my fault. Please everybody, thank you for 854 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 2: remaining quiet during this segment. And it's my fault. Okay, 855 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 2: that's all. I will play George Burge this cowboy songs, 856 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,400 Speaker 2: and then we'll come back, and then we'll here's some 857 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 2: stuff I don't know about the speech though, Okay, all right, 858 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 2: we'll be back. I would like to propose that we 859 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 2: hold off on here in the speech until the morning 860 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 2: tomorrow show. Okay? Is that okay with you? Guys? Yeah? 861 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 2: We live just because I'm I know, I'm gonna I'm 862 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 2: in a space. I'm gonna good move. You already had 863 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 2: that on depart I've been sick for a few days. 864 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 2: I'm finally feeling okay, and I just wanted to do 865 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 2: I'd rather do it tomorrow. That smart put up. How 866 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 2: why did you guys let him do it? Though? Oh? Well, 867 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:12,439 Speaker 2: like you're the leader. 868 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 1: You were sick, yes, And last time we did this, 869 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 1: I gave the speech, so I felt like we should chair. 870 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,919 Speaker 1: But I was there last time. I think I was all, yeah, 871 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 1: but you had to be on red carpet. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 872 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 1: that's what you were there. But then I had to 873 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 1: do it, and so then I feel like we should 874 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 1: chair that. 875 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,839 Speaker 2: So then then just official ruling from here. Okay, you 876 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,600 Speaker 2: are the leader when I'm not around, Okay, you do 877 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 2: it next to it, I know, But I'm just saying generally, 878 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 2: she was nice and the leader decided that should do it, 879 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 2: and maybe if the leader decides you should do it, 880 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 2: that's great. Yeah. 881 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 4: Okay, Now I didn't know it wasn't official ruling. 882 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 2: So this is the official I'm having to be official 883 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 2: now to people what to clothes to wear and what 884 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:56,399 Speaker 2: you're the leader. But what if you liked the speech though? 885 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,399 Speaker 2: Where that change? Yeah? You might. I still think she'll 886 00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 2: be a leader, but she'll be like, oh was she 887 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 2: the Lunchbox again because you crushed it. But if I'm 888 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 2: not here, Amy is the leader. I mean that's what 889 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 2: I assume. 890 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 5: When we walked up there, I was like, oh, Amy's 891 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 5: gonna speak no, oh Lunchbox okay, oh really yeah. 892 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 2: It was like that we'll do tomorrow. No more than 893 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 2: because I'm almost play I do speaking to Lunchbox. Chase 894 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,399 Speaker 2: Beckham apparently has inspired Lunchbox to quit the lottery. Now, 895 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,200 Speaker 2: Chase Beckham, I Chase has Do you have a song? 896 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,920 Speaker 2: Ray of chases? Like a clip we could play. I 897 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 2: knew Chase from back in American Idol. I mentored him 898 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,919 Speaker 2: for weeks and he didn't win in the show, which 899 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 2: was crazy. Our second I think he won and he 900 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,359 Speaker 2: has a great song. Now that's called like if I 901 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 2: was thirty, we'll play clip. But this is twenty three. 902 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 2: Yeah that's what it is, twenty three play it. Yeah. 903 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,439 Speaker 2: So this is Lunchbox and you were talking about the lottery. Yeah, 904 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 2: I asked me if he ever plays the lottery? Okay, 905 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 2: here we go. 906 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,400 Speaker 3: So speaking of a fiance, you know you had to propose, 907 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 3: you know, get down on the knee, say oh you 908 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 3: marry me, and you know you're kind of a musician 909 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,399 Speaker 3: now that has money. Did that mean the ring had 910 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,919 Speaker 3: to cost a lot more money? Because they say that 911 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,800 Speaker 3: the rule online is like it's like three months paycheck 912 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 3: is what you're supposed to pay on the ring. 913 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:09,320 Speaker 2: I mean, God, did you live up to that? Chase? 914 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I can't get her a million dollar ring 915 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 2: like that, you. 916 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 3: Guys, breaking news, breaking news. 917 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,240 Speaker 2: Chase back up his rolling in the cash. 918 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, man, No, I mean this year I had a 919 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,160 Speaker 3: solo right number one, So that means no more lottery. 920 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 2: I just need to write a song. And that's where 921 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,279 Speaker 2: the lottery. I don't know where this was going. 922 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 3: Yes, because he said all you do is write a 923 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 3: song and he got millions of dollars. 924 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,919 Speaker 2: Okay, this is solo, right then this is well, uh, 925 00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 2: he's a solo. 926 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 1: That's being specific because he doesn't he didn't have to 927 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: split it with another writer three ways. 928 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 2: But that's what he said. 929 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 3: He goes, I couldn't buy that big of a ring, 930 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 3: and I'm like, I did not realize if you write 931 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 3: a song you get that big of a check. 932 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 2: I think for a number one, depending on the amount 933 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,320 Speaker 2: of weeks, it's probably like a million bucks. Like generally speaking, 934 00:40:57,840 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 2: if it's taxes. 935 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,919 Speaker 3: Though, hold on, if it's number one for one week, 936 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 3: you get a million dollars. 937 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 2: It's not about the one week it's number one. It's 938 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 2: about the many weeks it stays on the chart, climbing up, 939 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 2: and then once it hits number one, it's being played 940 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,399 Speaker 2: so many times. I guess all that in. If you're 941 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 2: like a top five, it's close to that, oh, top ten, 942 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 2: little less because it takes a long time to climb up. 943 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 2: You don't like that? What I will do? Let me 944 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,239 Speaker 2: ask one of my friends how much a number one 945 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,000 Speaker 2: is worth? Okay, hold on, if you I guess too. 946 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you wrote it and he's saying it, because 947 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 1: then you're not sharing it. 948 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,359 Speaker 2: It's a different it's a different royalty. Cool completely, okay, 949 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 2: hold on, So so we gets money for writing and royalty? Yeah? 950 00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,399 Speaker 2: Well no, no, no, okay, nember for singing. I don't know. Hey, man, 951 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 2: question and I'm not going to say it to you. 952 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,280 Speaker 2: That told me. But we're talking about a number one song. 953 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 2: What is generally speaking, let's say it takes thirty five 954 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 2: to forty weeks to be a number one. What is 955 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 2: a number one song? All in? If it's a solo, right, 956 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 2: what will that pay total? All right? Thinks I get 957 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 2: an answer. I just thought it was interesting. I was like, man, 958 00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:58,800 Speaker 2: so now you want to write a song. I'm like, 959 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 2: why don't I just write a song? Then? 960 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 3: That seems like a better option than the lottery? 961 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 2: Right? Yeah? Here is I love a good exercise. Today 962 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 2: is November twenty first, so we'll have this month and 963 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 2: then we'll have December and December obviously we'll be here 964 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 2: for a few of the weeks we've gone for Christmas. 965 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,839 Speaker 2: When we come back, and that could be like January fifth, 966 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 2: or sixth or se fourth, I don't know. Have that 967 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 2: song for us. You have two months to write a song, 968 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 2: one song, and if it's good, I'll get somebody good 969 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 2: to record it. 970 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, yeah, because that will make all the difference 971 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:27,600 Speaker 1: in the world. 972 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean he's not gonna sing it. Well, there's 973 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,840 Speaker 2: no chance. Yeah, you'll sing it in here. Yeah, but 974 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 2: you can't if you write it with anybody, you lose money. 975 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 2: Oh so I got to write a solo, that's what 976 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 2: That's what you just said. Yeah, you know you kind 977 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 2: of have to have a melody to like with it, 978 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,840 Speaker 2: don't you. Worry about me. Okay, so write it. I 979 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,640 Speaker 2: mean write a song, yeah, and then I could have 980 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,319 Speaker 2: Abby sing it. You wouldn't do that because you mean 981 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 2: to have yeh, you're right, because I wanted to go 982 00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 2: number one. 983 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:54,800 Speaker 4: But if he sets himself up for his own jokes. 984 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:59,160 Speaker 2: If it's good, I can probably have somebody produce it 985 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 2: that does number one song, probably get someone to sing it. 986 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 4: So verse chorus, verse, like how long is already? 987 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? I would say it needs to at least be 988 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 2: like two and a half minutes on the short side, 989 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 2: all right, and no stairway to have it, No like 990 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 2: thirteen minutes, no guitar solos. But you have to write it. 991 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 2: I'll write it. Okay, here we go. 992 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 4: This would be amazing message. 993 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 2: I just got a message back here. Come on. I'd 994 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:25,439 Speaker 2: say a solo, right, he says, lots of variables, would 995 00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 2: be about half a million dollars a solo. Right. Lots 996 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 2: of variables though, so it can be more, it can 997 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,000 Speaker 2: be less. This person has like forty number one songs 998 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 2: that I'm messaged. That's only half a million. It's still 999 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 2: worth it, that's worth it. But then Chase sang his 1000 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,799 Speaker 2: two so he would get more money on money on 1001 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:42,279 Speaker 2: top of that. 1002 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,960 Speaker 4: Then Lunchbucks Lobby said, there's lots of variables. 1003 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 2: It could be higher, could be higher. You can sing 1004 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 2: it and. 1005 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,560 Speaker 4: Then what if it stays at number one. 1006 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 2: For oh gosh, multiple weeks. No, it doesn't do that. 1007 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 2: Sometimes that doesn't do that. 1008 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 4: Hey it does. 1009 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's on like the Hot one hundred flights seventeen 1010 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:01,279 Speaker 2: weeks in a row, number one. 1011 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 4: It's exactly right seventeen. 1012 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:04,840 Speaker 2: So maybe I'll go Hot one hundred instead of country. 1013 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,319 Speaker 2: It don't need to be country. But if it gets 1014 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 2: so big here, then that's like Morgan wall and songs. 1015 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,480 Speaker 2: They're sober tree. 1016 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 4: He has the prose of her vibe. You have that energy. 1017 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 2: Nobody has more of her appeal than this guy. Yeah, 1018 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:21,359 Speaker 2: I agree. So January, when we come back, have a song. 1019 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 2: Have the song, okay, and I'm assuming you're gonna sing 1020 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:28,439 Speaker 2: at acapella? Yeah, would sing it? I mean a guitar player. 1021 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 2: I could write it then have a player play it 1022 00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:31,839 Speaker 2: with you. They just can't write it with you. Yeah, 1023 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 2: I don't hire someone, No, no, no, I'll do it for you, 1024 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 2: but you don't have to pay me. But you got 1025 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,000 Speaker 2: to tell me how to avoid that I don't want to, yeah, 1026 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,360 Speaker 2: cause there's gonna be fights. So if you want to 1027 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,359 Speaker 2: get some lawsuits and stuff, no, no, no, they'll be fights. 1028 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 4: Just so shere at my daughter, she's been learning guitar. 1029 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 2: Don't subject heart of that interesting. You can find it 1030 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 2: if he wants to find a guitar player, I don't 1031 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,360 Speaker 2: want a guitar player. Okay. So he's going to do 1032 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 2: an acapella. It's going to stand on its own. Okay, 1033 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:58,359 Speaker 2: I love it. Do you know who doesn't have guitar players? Pentatonics? 1034 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 2: That's right, what they do it with all their mouth. 1035 00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:06,840 Speaker 2: That's what I was doing. Then someone else was spool. 1036 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 4: Are you going to help them with a theme or 1037 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 4: like a. 1038 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 2: Nope, because I don't know why would I be writing? 1039 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 2: Would be the creative process. I don't need help writing it. 1040 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 2: He doesn't need help. Cool, All right, Well, guys, good luck. 1041 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 2: He's got a couple more this. What if it is 1042 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,239 Speaker 2: that I have changed his life? 1043 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 4: I mean, this could be that's what it could be. 1044 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 2: Amazing, Okay. And that is the end of the first 1045 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:30,880 Speaker 2: half of the podcast. That is the end of the 1046 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:35,320 Speaker 2: first half of the podcast. Theirs the podcast. That is 1047 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,560 Speaker 2: the end of the first time of the podcast. You 1048 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,520 Speaker 2: can go to the podcast to or you can wait 1049 00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,279 Speaker 2: till podcast to come out.