1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Second date updated. If I've learned anything from reading countless 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: dating blogs, they all say the absolute worst thing you 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: can do is be open to trying new things. 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 2: No, they don't. That's the opposite of what they all say. 5 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: New experiences should scare you and you need to avoid 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 1: them at all costs. 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 2: Instead of reading the anti therapy blogs. 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: Again, you know, you need to stick to the places 9 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: that you've already been and people you already know, and 10 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: nothing bad can ever happen people. 11 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: Okay, Jeff, is how you end up in like my 12 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 3: hometown dating your passage. 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: Okay supports it as one of our listeners didn't take 14 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: that advice, thank god, and he's some sort of modern 15 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: renaissance man decided to try something new and look where 16 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 1: it landed him right here on our show, which I'm 17 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 1: guessing is another new experience for him that he's never 18 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: done before. 19 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 2: So yikes, we're the low point. 20 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 4: We are, Alvin, welcome to your new life. 21 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 5: Low awesome, glad to be here. This is my first 22 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 5: time ever doing that. 23 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: Now, are you feeling shame or excitement? 24 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 5: No, definitely excitement. I don't I'm not feeling shame. 25 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we're going to change that by the end 26 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: of the segment. But you said that you tried something 27 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: new for your dating life. 28 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 4: What was that? 29 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 5: Have you ever heard of a red envelope party? 30 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 4: That? 31 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 2: What's a red envelope party? 32 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 5: Well, it's like a like a dating event that people 33 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 5: put on. And there was this fancy house and you 34 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 5: went by yourself. 35 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 2: You didn't bring a friend, Yeah, no, this was. 36 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 5: A friend poked me up with this, but I went 37 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 5: by myself. Yeah. And then you scan like a QR 38 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 5: code and you fill out a questionnaire that's like about 39 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 5: your interests and your values. 40 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: You know what kind of person you are a dating profile, right. 41 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, just a brief little thing like that. And 42 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 5: then and once you do the questionnairey, I went side 43 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 5: the house and it was had the vibe of like 44 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 5: a slanky private members club. It was a fancy furniture 45 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 5: and well stocked bar, chandeliers, the whole you know, chandelier 46 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 5: that is rich. 47 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 4: People. 48 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 3: You get a house full of single people and you're 49 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 3: only allowed to talk to one person, so they give 50 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 3: you a move. 51 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 5: Is that the rule? No, No, You're you're supposed to 52 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 5: mingle and drink and have a good time. And that's 53 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 5: what I've been doing. About like an hour into it, 54 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 5: maybe a little more, a waiter came around with a 55 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 5: silver tray and on the tray were red envelopes, and 56 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 5: you find the one that had your name on it, 57 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 5: and that has inside the person that you are supposed 58 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 5: to meet once we'd already hung out. 59 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 3: From I'm guessing the whole point is so that you 60 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 3: go around the room and actually try to find the 61 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 3: other person, right, Yeah, it's. 62 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: More about talking to other Piani person my guess. 63 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: Anyway, And the fact that it's on a silver tray 64 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: makes me believe whatever is on it is like and so, 65 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: who was the person whose name was in your envelope? 66 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 5: My envelope had the name Natalie in it. 67 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 2: Okay, had you already met? Why are you laughing? 68 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: I thought he said he had his own name in 69 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: his envelope? 70 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: Did you had you already met Natalie or do you 71 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: have to go find her? 72 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 5: I had actually met her, and she was like obviously 73 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 5: on there to date. So I'm looking around, you know, 74 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 5: looking at all the ladies, and she was like top 75 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 5: of my list. 76 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 3: Oh you're like, yes, well he read envelope. 77 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 4: That's nice. 78 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: There was a yes, just bump, Yeah, Okay, so you 79 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: went and tracked her down. 80 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 4: How did that go? 81 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 5: It was great. We were having a really good time 82 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 5: and she was laughing a lot and I was laughing. 83 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 3: Oh that's a good sign because she could have been 84 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:47,839 Speaker 3: disappointed when she saw your name. 85 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 5: No, no, she seemed cool and she was kept encouraging 86 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 5: us to go back to the bar. And so, yeah, 87 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 5: we did drink a bit. I admit it. I definitely 88 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 5: was feeling a buzz nice. 89 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 3: Okay, but you're you know, you're doing it together and 90 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 3: it's a party. 91 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 2: Scene, like it seems appropriate. 92 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was appropriate amount And I was not alone, 93 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 5: you know, it was everybody was having a good time, 94 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 5: and she was having a good time. You know. Like 95 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 5: I said, we were laughing a lot. 96 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 4: These are all positive reviews. 97 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: Is there anything in your mind that like was like 98 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: a low moment of the night or something that could 99 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: have gone wrong? 100 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 4: Yes, yes there was. 101 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: Oh he's laughing now. 102 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 5: I mean it's not the worst. But like, we had 103 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 5: been sitting for a while and we stood up and 104 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 5: we walked outside and it was pretty warm, and I 105 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 5: definitely had like a head rush and I kind of 106 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 5: fell into a bush. 107 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh and this was in front of Natalie. 108 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, I was walking with her. 109 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 2: May have but she may have looked a little sloppy. 110 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, yeah I looked sloppy. I didn't like 111 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 5: fall over. Like I was just so hammered that I 112 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 5: was just like passing out. But you know, I definitely 113 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 5: leaned into it hard, let's put it that way. 114 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 4: Did lean into a bush. 115 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 5: But she help me out of it. But like, I'm 116 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 5: a pretty big guy, so she couldn't really do it. 117 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 5: So this guy like kind of stepped over and kind 118 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 5: of helped me too. Gave you a hand. 119 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: Not your proudest moment, but it's probably not like a 120 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: total deal breaker for you. 121 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 4: So how did it end that night? But with you 122 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 4: and Natalie? 123 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 5: Well, at the end of the party, I asked her 124 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 5: if she wanted to go up to have some food, 125 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 5: you know, soak up the alcohol, right, And she said 126 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 5: she wanted to hang back and find this friend that 127 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 5: she came with. And I don't know that's it. 128 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 6: Then. 129 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 5: I haven't heard back from her. I mean I got 130 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 5: her her her number, Yeah. 131 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: Exactly, have you called her or nothing? 132 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 5: I texted her once. I don't want to be the 133 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 5: dude who's stending multiple texts whatever. Definitely like damn, I 134 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 5: went to all that trouble and thought it was a 135 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 5: good connection and then just seem weird that nothing has 136 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 5: come since. Then. 137 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: Maybe she confidently leaned on the same bush and is 138 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 1: trapped inside of it right now waiting for somebody to 139 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: come pick her out. So we're gonna call, we'll see 140 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: if she answers, and try and get you your second 141 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: date update, fancy edition. 142 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, I'm gonna. 143 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: Need to set the scene here for any listeners just 144 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: joining us. Picture well dressed men and women sitting on 145 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: ornate couches, sitting on gimlets, mingling together. 146 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 4: Red envelope party people. It's fancy. 147 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 3: It does feel like something that happened in Jeff's neighborhood. 148 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 2: Girls. 149 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a lot of ask on gimlets and mint 150 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: julips and. 151 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 4: What's a red envelope party. 152 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: I'm still not one hundred percent sure I get the idea. 153 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: But one of our listeners, Alvin, attended one the other 154 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: night where he went to a house in an upscale neighborhood. 155 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: They have you fill out a dating survey and then 156 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: later based on the answers to your questionnaire. They bring 157 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 1: you a red envelope on a silver platter with the 158 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: name of the person that you matched with and are 159 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: supposed to meet that night of Alvin's person was Natalie, 160 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: So they met up, had a great time there until 161 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: he fell into a bush outside. 162 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: I didn't ruin the night. It was just a memory. 163 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 3: The thing is he remembers it, so he wasn't too 164 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 3: dryk exactly. 165 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: The problem is now Natalie is ghosting, So Brook, take 166 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: a break from putting your reservation and at the red 167 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: envelope house, and how do you feel about it? 168 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 3: My hometown was more like bush Light and you'd wrestle 169 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 3: a pig, you know they started. The problem is is 170 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 3: it's a singles party, so she could have easily just 171 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: met somebody else that night. Yeah, Like that's the whole 172 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 3: point in the red envelope is so you go around and. 173 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: Oh you're talking about before the envelopes were handed out, Yes, yea. 174 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 3: And like the friend that she had to find at 175 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 3: the end of the party air quotes was probably the 176 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 3: person she was talking to before him. 177 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: Alvin, did you notice Natalie speaking with any other guys? 178 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 5: I mean I did notice her speaking with other guys. 179 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 5: Not like you know, I'm sure. 180 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 2: That's what the point is. 181 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 3: That's it's not like they signed a contract that you 182 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 3: could only go out with this person in the red envelope. 183 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 5: They don't know. 184 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: Who's in the red envelope for the first hour jet 185 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: it's a red envelope with a red flag attached to 186 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm worried, but let's call Natalie here and see what 187 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: she has to say. 188 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 4: Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Natalie? 189 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 6: Yes, this is Natalie. Who is this? 190 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: My name is jeff and I'm part of a radio 191 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're 192 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:42,719 Speaker 1: all here eager. 193 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 4: To talk to you. 194 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 5: What. 195 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we actually were given your phone number by one 196 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: of our listeners that went out. 197 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,319 Speaker 4: It was kind of on a sort. 198 00:08:56,160 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 3: Of a date, met you at a dating party singles. 199 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: And this segment is called second Date Update because we're 200 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: trying to get you two back together and figure out 201 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: if there's maybe chemistry or if if you feel the 202 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: same way. Thank you, Brooke. But this guy's name is Alvin. 203 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 6: Oh okay, oh my gosh. 204 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 4: Remember him from the Red On Remember him? 205 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 5: Right? I do? 206 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 6: I do remember him. I'm just surprised. 207 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Describe like what that party was like 208 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 2: for you. 209 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 4: Also, if it's one of those parties, you don't have 210 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 4: to describe too much. 211 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 6: So I just I had never been to one, so 212 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 6: I don't know what to tell you about it because 213 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 6: I didn't stay. 214 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: You didn't. 215 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 3: Well, I don't say he stayed very long either. Did 216 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 3: you meet somebody else? Is that what it come down to, 217 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 3: which is totally fine, that's the whole point of the party, right, 218 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 3: success for you? 219 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 6: Well, I've had friends who have done these parties, Like 220 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 6: I was really just trying to experience it and leave 221 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 6: because my friends who've done his parties, they say that 222 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 6: you should leave by midnight if you don't want to. 223 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 6: You know that it can get pretty crazy, let's put 224 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 6: it that way. And I was just trying to get. 225 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 5: Out of there. 226 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 2: Is it really actually one of those. 227 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: Can you elaborate? What do you know what happens at midnight? 228 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 6: I heard that they open up these like other rooms 229 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 6: for activities after midnight, and I just that's not really 230 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 6: my damn, Like each one apparently has a theme. 231 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 3: I don't know, are you not calling Alvin back because 232 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 3: you think he stayed or are you not calling him 233 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 3: like I don't understand why you still be or the 234 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 3: fact that he was. 235 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 4: At that party. 236 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I think I made the assumption that 237 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 6: he's been to more than one, maybe a bunch of these. 238 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 4: And that's not. 239 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 6: Really my thing. I'm not into that after midnight. 240 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 1: Well yourself if you think that you're making an assumption there. 241 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's fair to jump to a 242 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: full conclusion until we actually talked to Alvin himself. 243 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 2: Because he seems like such an innocent guy him. 244 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: And you don't even have to wait because Alvin is 245 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 1: on the other line right now, listening to this conversation 246 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: from a secret room in your studio. 247 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 5: Don't say that yes I'm here. 248 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, what is happening? 249 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 5: Natalie? 250 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 2: Did I die? Did you stay after midnight? 251 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 5: Alvin? 252 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 4: Do you know what she's talking about with the extra 253 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 4: rooms that open up? 254 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,599 Speaker 5: Yes? I do? 255 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 4: You do you and you're laughing? 256 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: Okay? 257 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 3: Bro? 258 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 5: Well yeah, I mean she laughed, and like I said, 259 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 5: I was kind of feeling it, you know, and I 260 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 5: was like, all here. 261 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: Well themption. 262 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 4: I'm afraid to go into any more details of what 263 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 4: actually happens. Did you partake or are you just enjoying 264 00:11:59,600 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 4: the view. 265 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 5: Brother, I was just enjoying the view. 266 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 3: Why in the world would you contact a radio show 267 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 3: if this is the type of event that you want to. 268 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: Why did you You didn't mention any of this to us? 269 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 5: True, you guys asked me to talk about the date part. 270 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 5: That's the part that I was interested in talking with 271 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 5: you guys about the rest of the party. In the 272 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 5: event and stuff is like another story. 273 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 1: Okay, well sure, but it's a pretty important detail. 274 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 5: I think to bring up, like the story end when 275 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 5: Natalie left, like afterwards, that was just on this. 276 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 2: You know, Okay, we don't need to I mean, is 277 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 2: this making you feel better or worse? Natalie? 278 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 6: I mean I don't like the idea of him watching 279 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 6: other people. Yeah, I don't like why does he want 280 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 6: to contact me because you. 281 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 5: Were not interested in Like I was thinking about you 282 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 5: the whole rest of the night, Like that's all I. 283 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 6: Want other people thinking of me. 284 00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 2: That's so, well, why do you party if you're not 285 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 2: into that type of people? Like Natalie, wh what are 286 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 2: you doing? 287 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 3: That's actually but sometimes you don't know until you try it. 288 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 6: Right now, Yeah, I was trying to just do something 289 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 6: outside of the box because I'm not super adventurous, but 290 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 6: I definitely have boundaries as far as not wanting to 291 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 6: participate in the late night activities. 292 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 5: Okay, you guys are going to sound like I'm some 293 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 5: kind of total freaker's into like wild. This is the 294 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 5: first time, just like Natalie, the first time I ever 295 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 5: went to one of these things. 296 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 4: We're not judging. Some of us are jealous. 297 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 2: Like a podcast about these crazy. 298 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 4: How long were you there? 299 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 5: So like like three a little after tree, like three 300 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 5: thirty something. 301 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 4: You watched for three hours? 302 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 5: I mean, I'll only really actually watched like this one 303 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 5: room called the ascot room. That's like the only one. 304 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 4: That I even the ascot room. 305 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 5: You know what ascots are, like those ties like scarfs. 306 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 4: Oh, it's actually a smart idea, saber. 307 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 5: Pretty creative. 308 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, that's so gross. I don't what I 309 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 6: say to that. 310 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: Well, look, he didn't use one of the ascots. He 311 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: just watched people with the ascots. 312 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 6: Oh no, but I like, oh no, I don't. I don't. 313 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 6: I don't know why I shouldn't have pulled you out 314 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 6: of that bush. I don't know. 315 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 2: Different meanings. 316 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: Before I ask officially, Alvin, is there anything else that 317 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: you want to say? 318 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 4: To Natalie like a like a final plea. 319 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 5: Maybe I just want to say, like I thought we 320 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 5: had a good turn before, and it's not like like 321 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 5: I said, I'm not like into that scene. That's not 322 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 5: like my place and my people or something. And you 323 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 5: got to admit we were having a good time at 324 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 5: least I think we were. 325 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 3: It's a good yeah, I mean, and he obviously his 326 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 3: intentions was to meet one person. 327 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I just need to know are you going 328 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 6: to go to the next one. 329 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 5: I mean, if you wanted to go with me to 330 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 5: one of those, that would be cool, but I'm not 331 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 5: going to be going by myself. 332 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 2: Well I was a little soon to say that. 333 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not too soon to ask if we 334 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: can facilitate another meet up between the two of you. 335 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 4: We have a red envelope party over at Chili. 336 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: I'm going to see you in the baby bedroom. 337 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 6: That's what I was going to say, as long as 338 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 6: there aren't extra rooms being opened up after. 339 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 4: Okay, you're open to it, you know. 340 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 6: What I am, because like I said, I'm trying to 341 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 6: be adventurous. And it sounds like he went and he 342 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 6: committed to the experience, but it doesn't sound like it's 343 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 6: something that he does all the time. 344 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 4: Oh my Janitor's classes, gradus. You got yourself another day, Yes, 345 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 4: but I really am. 346 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 2: It's gonna be so sweet when you guys tell this story. 347 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 5: When you met. Yeah, everybody has red as Scots in 348 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 5: the wedding party, just on honeymoon, his ascots. 349 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 4: No playing the billboard. Can watch 350 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.