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Speaker 2: Ola Cheeky's the Yellow Sandra, First, I really enjoy listening

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Speaker 2: to your podcast. I work from home, so I look

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Speaker 2: forward to pressing play. Thank you about your speaking skills.

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Speaker 2: I have noticed that you're very well.

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Speaker 3: Spoken in English and in Spanish.

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Speaker 2: Have you been like that?

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Speaker 3: That's that you keet that I say a lot of

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Speaker 3: ums and hums, and I pods and my voice cracks.

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Speaker 3: I just want to be able to sound confident when

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Speaker 2: I know I haven't in me, but I just don't

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Speaker 2: Gratia, take care, bye.

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Speaker 1: Sandra Guerlinda. Thank you so much. That is such a

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy and so proud of you for doing it.

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Speaker 1: And gueviga loke quira la tente. And there's a saying,

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Speaker 1: you're doing something amazing, so don't waste your energy on that. Okay,

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