WEBVTT - Episode 50 Ft. Bre-Z 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:04.920 Hey, what happens? Slip service time? ANGELI, I'm g MacGuire, 0:00:05.040 --> 0:00:08.760 I'm lovel and you know, Stephanie's not here, but she 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:11.600 you know, she had some issue come up, so she'll 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:14.080 be back next week. But we got Breezy here. What's up? Breezy? 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:16.599 We were talking about how her feet don't reese the 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:18.680 floor because she's not a little How tell are you 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:23.160 like five one? Okay, so I'm five three? No, you're 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:31.360 not all right? So we always had the show off 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.680 with a tip. So today's tip is how do you 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:35.640 spice things up in the bedroom when they're getting a 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:37.800 little born? What are some tips you can give for 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.199 people that need to spice it up? Have a threesome? 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:45.479 Oh of course you would say, y'all know, y'all know 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:48.919 that you're serious. She said, I was joking, but no, ya, 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:52.240 that was my first thing to go to. Okay, threesome, 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.320 that'll do it. I se up. Just try something different? 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:57.000 Can I ask you when you have a threesome? Right, 0:00:57.680 --> 0:00:59.880 what are the rules that you set up for a threesome? Like? 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:04.200 It depends on the person, you know. Um, if it's 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:06.319 somebody I don't really feel that comfortable with, then I'm 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:10.080 not touching them too personally. Um, what is touching them personally? 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:15.800 In but they can put their mouth on you? Absolutely, okay, sleep, 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:18.160 But what if that when it comes to like your 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:20.240 man and at three ses? I'm not one of those 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:22.800 girls that's like you can't come with her and don't 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:27.240 do her like this and out like yeah, I do 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.839 what you wanna do? You never get jealous, like wait, 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:31.960 why is he seemed like he's enjoying it? Hello, I'm 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:37.119 not enjoying it. He appostly enjoying. He's supposed to not 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.040 think to turn me on that he's enjoying somebody else. 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:45.119 But I'm just happy for the break. I don't got glad. 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:51.480 I don't like do you direct it? Or does he like? 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.200 How does it work? You know? You kind of go 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.200 with the flow with it. It's never like a pause movie. 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:02.920 What about Anny kisser? Know? How are you noting? No, 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.680 you're not kidding. I've never understood that people don't kiss 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:09.680 during sexy People don't But no, I don't know. I don't. Again, 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:11.880 it depends on who it is. It depends on the person. 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:14.840 There are some people that I may feel a comfortable 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:18.440 with where you know, just about anything goes except protect 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.960 the sex. And then it's some people that I'm just like, 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.919 you know, it's it's very limited to what goes down. 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:25.960 Can't he eat her out? I was just gonna ask 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:31.240 that it depends on the person. He's gonna eat her, 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:33.919 then he's gonna kiss you because he's allowed to kiss you. Well, 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:35.800 if that's the case, then I'm gonna be eating her too, 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.040 So it don't matter. But if I'm not putting my 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:39.400 mouth on that, you're not putting your mouth on that. 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.480 To every case is it's a case by case, case 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:43.920 by case scenario. So, Laria, how do you spice things up? 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:48.560 I just felt like you just gotta be nastiest. I 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:52.560 think once I get drunk, things just happened differently, So 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:54.840 it could be boring with someone and I'll be like, 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.200 you know what, let's get drunk and then just see 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:03.720 what happens. Yeah, I mean, I have no idea. I 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.280 don't remember what was doing. What about your breezy? When 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:09.880 things get a little stale and dull, what's some tupic? 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:12.640 It really just takes for somebody to be the bigger 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:14.920 person to step outside today. So because most of the 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:18.120 times when sex gets born is because a pride, you 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:19.959 know what I'm saying, A person feel like I ain't 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:22.280 got to get up like make you feel like that, 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:24.519 you know what I'm saying. So somebody's just gonna have 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:27.880 to step it up and do something. The liquor does work, right, 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.720 Liquor works. The liquor works like you know, go to 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:33.720 a club or something, get drunk. It's hell do something different. 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:35.360 Go to the club and get drunk. Wait, it's not 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:39.000 different drunk. I'm just saying. But you know, liquor is 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:43.920 a good uh. It just takes you away from Yeah, 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:47.040 this ship start looking different when you start drinking, Like, 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:50.320 but what about if Okay, I know when my man 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.280 does this to me, it always makes me come do 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:55.000 you feel like sometimes you get into a right like 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.160 this always works for me, And then you'd be like, 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:58.400 I just want him to do this because I know 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:02.080 this always works for me, because you know what I mean, 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:04.760 like eat me out because I know that's always gonna work. 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.160 I think you gotta take a take away your limitation, 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:08.760 right because sense it would be like every time he 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:11.040 has sex, he eats me out first, then he does this. 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.240 You know, sometimes you switch it up a little bit 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.120 it's route. Yeah, I think you got You just gotta 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:19.560 be open and willing nit you a different things, okay, 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:22.720 and maybe sometimes a different setting helps too. I would say, 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:27.400 like sometimes you always have sex, yes in the bathroom, Yes, 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:30.279 I'm here for that. I'm also here for unit sex 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:33.320 bathrooms and hotel lobbies in the restaurants like Houston's. You 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.559 know how Houston's got those bathrooms where it's like behind 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:39.800 the door to this, Like I don't have that, you know, 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:43.960 like you know the second Stoll. You know how you're 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.280 going and use these bathrooms and then these songs are 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:49.440 actually behind doors, you know, or if you're going to 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.040 like some hotel lobbies have like just like a row 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.840 of bathrooms where it's not really and then everybody right, 0:04:56.200 --> 0:05:00.599 So you go in one of those bathrooms. Get I've 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:04.159 never done that club outside. I feel like you're gonna 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:06.359 come the quickest in your most awkward positions when you 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:09.359 know you got awkward circumstances in a club where you 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:12.200 feel like you're about to get caught. Your mama might 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:15.320 be home and visited for the weekend, like real quick, 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:20.520 come on, Like so the excitement breezy. It seems like 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:25.560 it's the thrill of possibly getting caught doing but you know, 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:28.520 now you're famous and everything, so it makes it different 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:31.240 because now if you get caught doing that, we all 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:35.719 gonna here. But we're don't mind. It's not a bad story, 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:38.720 you know what I'm saying in the bathroom, I'm not 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:42.760 I'm a test security to have keep an eye out 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:50.040 for you whenever you all right, Now, what's the craziest 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:51.839 thing and ex has done to you? We were looking 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:55.599 at Instagram today and we saw that benzino Um was 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:58.080 talking to a I guess she broke his car window 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:01.000 and said come get your car. And it's like, you know, 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.119 he doesn't seem phazed by it at all. Some people 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:07.000 love like the whole crazy relationship type of thing. But breezy, 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:10.840 what's the craziest thing somebody's ever done to you? I 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:13.120 think I had a window busted out of my apartment 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.039 from the outside. Yeah, from the outside. I was doing 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:20.920 the first floor. What was you doing that? Somebody did that? 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:24.560 They was nuts. I wouldn't do nothing. There's a reason 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.080 people don't just nothing to break your window. You're not 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.159 just going around. But but but you know what, people 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:32.240 love differently, So you can't. It doesn't necessarily mean you 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:35.320 did something. Some people just crazy and look, does that 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:37.800 bother you? It doesn't make you like is that a 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.599 reason to break up? Or is it? Okay, she broke 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:43.080 my window, you know, I'm just gonna get a new window. No, 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:48.760 Joey is a little slept up like crazy people. No, 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:56.200 I don't. I don't. Are you crazy? I was crazy? Nothing? 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:58.240 I try to keep it cool for the most part. 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:02.360 But I mean, I ain't running nothing. What's the craziest 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:03.919 thing you did? Maybe we need to ask you that 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:09.680 you don't did something. I could tell abus. You just 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:15.440 told us that craziest thing I did was probably dropped 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:20.400 somebody in the club somebody was dating, like dropped dropping 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:23.640 flat And then you said it like it ain't nothing. 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:25.480 And I felt like it wasn't nothing when I did it. 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:27.760 But for what reason would you have to ever do that? 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:33.760 Because disrespect? I don't tolerate. No disrespect. Don't disrespect me, 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:39.680 respect my name, respect disrespect me, like disrespect me? What's 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:43.440 disrespectful talking to other people? Okay? You know what happened 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:46.160 was is that I came in the club and they 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:52.040 were standing there with someone else, like totally engaging kissing. Okay, well, 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:56.680 I thought being they didn't know you were coming obviously, 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:03.760 Am I really seeing that? Hello? And you know, it 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.360 was really like they both was talking to me like 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:10.520 who the fund is? Whoa he was? Why you ain't 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:12.920 tell me? Like I was like I was in Atlanta, 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:17.440 it was a Clubamy, this is like what what happened? 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:20.480 And they said, who are you hurt? Yes? Like I 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:23.000 was so hurting, Like I don't care what you do, like, 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:25.960 don't ever hurt my feelings, do what you want and 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:29.880 not heard my feelings? Who are you bitch? Feelings was hurt? 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:33.120 I was just coming back from Sweet I just got 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.680 on the just got off the flight. So I just 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:38.679 pulled up at the club like, Okay, I know I've 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:41.160 seen you on the snap. I know where you're at, right, 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:44.400 and see I get the fight in the person that 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:46.720 they was there with. Okay, you feel me in the 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.560 path of cheaters? Right? The person I was dealing with 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:52.320 was standing there looking at me like I can't believe me. 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:57.800 Look and I like this kind of teared me on. Yes, 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:01.600 that's what it looking like. You're crazy? Fight for my love? 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:06.560 You want to die for this place? What's the craziest 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:12.679 thing that I do. And X did anything crazy to me? 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:17.240 But this girl bust out my car windows and broke 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:22.520 my um my sovvy mirrors. What a couple of times? 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.400 Like three times every time I got it? Every time 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:27.440 I got it, fends she came and did it again, 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.679 like three times in the rows and insurance don't cover that, 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:31.360 right fun. No, I had to pay on my pocket 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:35.480 each time, So you knew who. I'm not gonna say 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.679 what I did want to pick her but but but 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:40.800 I'm not gonna say that on in the airwaves. But 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:43.280 just best believe I got my Did you felt like 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:47.560 you deserved that? No, because you did something. No, I 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.160 didn't do anything to her. We had stopped being friends, 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:55.000 and I guess she felt like, you know, she needed 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:59.480 to see that. She probably still petty and A yeah, 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:03.440 this was this was like two thousand four, super black 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:07.800 female didn't want to miss out on the friendship. What 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:10.520 about you, Lauriya. What's the craziest thing somebody ever done? 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:16.000 I've done? Crazy thing? Person half Puerto Rican Larry does 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:19.319 crazy show. I'm gonna tell you what it was. Um 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:23.480 any relations I haven't had before this one particular person, 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:27.120 I never like really loved as hard. So when I 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.560 did have that one person that I just like really 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:32.800 fell in love with, it was just crazy, like I 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:36.520 would do things to him like I busted his window. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:43.000 I was stomping his cars, two of them. Yeah, he 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.000 cheated on me. I would you like like fucked up ship, 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.680 Like he would do grimy stuff and then try to 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:51.079 act like he didn't do anything, Like what did I do? 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.480 Like why are you mad? So I would like kicking 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:57.560 his car door something crazy. I broke the TV, I 0:10:57.640 --> 0:11:01.280 sprayed all his creed and bond out. Seeing how most 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:08.480 guys but you spend all that time spread out. That's 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:15.440 a good so much and that don't even feel like tough, 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:18.240 you know normally like breaking some yes, but standing there 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:21.320 with a little sulf coming there if I was like, no, no, no, no, 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:23.400 it's not broken. So I'm gonna figure out a way. 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:25.960 So I tried to spy out as much as of 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.000 them as I could. So you could have donated that 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.199 to some of you should have went on Instagram and said, 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:33.439 who wants some creedy Nah, I'm not don't get it now. 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:36.160 I just I wanted him to see his stuff messed up, 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.720 like because you try to mess me up like you 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:45.000 try to mess up my feelings? Can you now if 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:48.400 somebody did that to you, could you stay with them? Um, 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:50.839 he's not stuff to me, But it's not. No, I'm saying, 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:53.760 if somebody messed up your car, smash your windows, keep 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:59.600 your car right right out all the creed listen. Maybe not, 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:01.880 but what this is the thing. I would never do 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:04.080 that to him. I wouldn't do to him what he 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.640 did to me to make him. Yeah, exactly, I would 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:12.720 see the justifying we do. Yeah, that's crazy thing somebody 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:16.560 did to me. Yeah, what if I done? That's crazy. 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:19.800 I'm not gonna lie. I'm not the craziest person done 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:23.720 crazy stuff. I'm pretty chill, though you don't seem I'm pretty. 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:26.800 I'm pretty chilled. I broke up pair of sunglasses one time. 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:33.160 That might be like that. That wasn't a deal. But 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:40.640 I climbed somebody's window. Ones, I climbed somebody's window, but 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.120 it was on the first floor, similar to your house 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.560 with the first floor window. It was on the first floor, 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:48.560 so it wasn't that bad. Let me see, I had 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:50.480 I did have a girl bust the window to my 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.679 car to went up to my car, somebody's baby mama. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:56.199 That happened to me one time. But I never messed 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:59.640 up nobody's stuff, you know, because I felt strongly about that. 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:01.800 You what I think for me, I don't ever want 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:04.120 somebody to take me out of character because I feel 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:06.440 like that's me giving up too much. Like I don't 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:08.520 want somebody to see me at crazy. I feel like 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:11.000 it's always stupid when you break the ship in your health. 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:17.960 It's the word I have done that. You bring your 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:27.959 own yeah, yeah, later I got cleared it up, cleaned 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:30.320 it up for me. Well, you break your own phone, 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:33.480 they can't contact you know, break I'm not breaking my phone. Laurie. 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:37.560 I definitely broke her own phone and then stole another one. 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.160 He got me another one he had to talk to. 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:44.599 But that's stupid though, Like, listen, I don't break it. 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:47.960 That's my number one. Ain't breaking nothing because I don't 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:52.160 want nobody to hold me with I'm cool. Like if 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:53.640 you want to argue, but you want to do all that, 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.800 I'm cool, man. Listen, All right, now, let's talk about this. 0:13:56.880 --> 0:13:58.800 Would you date somebody if you know that they're dating 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:01.680 other people? We've been watching this whole drama with fetti whipe. 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:04.640 But all these different women that he's been dating, so 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:08.600 clearly they know that there's other women. We all know, right, 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:11.360 we all know. But you know, sometimes people say just 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:13.280 be honest, Like if you just are honest with somebody, 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.280 maybe they'll still date too, even though they know you're 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:18.640 in other situations waited out? Whatever could you date somebody 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:20.720 if you knew you're not the only one. I was 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.960 in an open relationship before it was cool. He was 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:29.560 a weirdo, but you know him. You know who you are. 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:31.120 By the way, G and Breezy don't know each other. 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:36.800 If I'm Philly, stay in Atlanta in Atlanta, Okay, Um, yeah, 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.480 we was in the open relationship. It didn't work because 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:41.720 he got somebody else pregnant and lied to me about 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:44.600 it and I didn't care. Yeah, it was the lies. 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.400 Like if we're in the open relationship and you know 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:48.120 what you're doing and I know what you're doing, then 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.760 why can't you be You know, I didn't want any baby, 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:52.280 so if you wanted to get the next bit pregnant 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:55.520 and have a baby, then I would have been right mama, 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:59.600 a good one all day. But lied about it. That 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:02.560 called me to have to break up with him. But um, 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:06.360 at this point, what I know because people always say, oh, 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.600 just be honest, Well I agree with that. I agree 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.960 with if I was single and I met somebody and 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:13.600 he explained his situation. So for instance, I had a 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.600 relationship way back when I was younger. Um, this guy 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:18.400 had a baby on the way and he lied in 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:20.360 told me that that the baby mom was his sister. 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:23.320 So he had he was having a baby on the 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:26.200 way with his sisters. Well, he never told me that 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:27.720 it was his baby, but he told me, like in 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:31.000 the very beginning of our relationship, he said, you know, 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:32.640 he had just got out of jail and he was 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.160 staying with his sister. But his sister wasn't never there 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:36.960 because she was always at her boyfriend's house. Was because 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.880 she was pregnant. So he had me in the Yeah, 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:41.760 I believed him, and he had me in the in 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:43.680 the apartment. And the crazy thing is I used to 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.320 talk so much about his sister because she was just busted, 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:47.720 and I can tell about her the stuff in her 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:49.440 apartment that she was busted, and I stopped so much 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:51.440 about her while I wasn't her partner, Like you gotta 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:56.160 introduce me to your sister, so because she was so 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:58.800 she had the baby, and the mom was cursing him 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:00.160 out the day that she had the baby because he 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.440 wasn't there. I still didn't put two them two together. 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:04.160 And so one time he got locked up and he 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:06.160 sent me to the sister to pick up the rest 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:09.120 of the money that he needed. She didn't came downstairs 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:10.600 with the baby, and I get to playing with the baby, 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.160 extra baby with his name, and you know how you say, 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.320 what's your name? She told me. I say Derek, just 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:17.520 like your daddy. Like but I could let her know that, 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:19.440 you know, I was just founding this out. So I 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:21.680 took the money when spent it, didn't belling out of jail, 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:23.480 and then we broke up, and they kind of find out. 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:30.000 The baby doesn't even his crazy think about it was 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:32.720 though he was staying with me, paying my bills, helping 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.400 me take care of my child. But you're denying your 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:37.040 own child. So it wasn't his. But it wasn't his. 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:39.720 He didn't know, but he didn't. He thought it was. 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:43.000 The baby was named after him and everything. The girlfriend 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:45.600 was always the girlfriend was always at the mom's house. 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:48.720 The girlfriend wasn't always at the boyfriend's house. The girlfriend 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.360 was always at his mom's house, which is why I 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.480 was always at her house. It was yeah, that sounds 0:16:53.520 --> 0:17:00.160 like but he had he in the beginning this I 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.040 got a baby on the way. I don't know if 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:03.400 I would have been ready to chill up in his 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:05.320 big house. I had my own house. We can chill 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:06.440 up my house. I don't have to chill up in 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:07.760 this bit chop. I wouldn't have been chilling up in 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:09.200 her house. But if he said I got a baby 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:11.639 on the way, I'm not sure if it's mine and 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:14.400 have not really kicking it right now, but she is pregnant, 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:16.240 then I would have been able to make that own 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:17.600 decision if I want to deal with you or not. 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:22.560 But don't throw me into no situation. Guys are so bold, man, 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.480 Guys will lie about anything. Listen, we're gonna get back 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:28.840 to the would you be with somebody? But I dated 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:31.880 a guy one time, and man, he was so crazy. 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:33.960 He had a baby on the way. But he told 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:36.280 me that it was his brother that had got the 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:39.000 girl pregnant. So this whole time, I'm thinking the girl 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:41.600 is pregnant about his brother, and that's the girl who 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:44.920 broke my Windshiel too, so I'm all the time. It's 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:47.920 the only reason I found out was he got arrested. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:50.080 This is crazy. See, that's why you shouldn get arrested 0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:52.920 because that's when you really get cut. He got arrested 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:57.200 and while he was in jail, his baby mom was like, 0:17:57.680 --> 0:17:59.400 he need to buy some papers for his baby. I said, 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:02.040 that is not his baby, and she was like, yes, 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:03.679 it is. And then I spoke to his brother and 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:07.000 his brother said it is. So that's how I found out. 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:10.720 All right, So back to this breezy. What would you 0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:13.239 date somebody knowing that they're already dating other people? Are 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:16.120 you a comming? If I'm dating, I'm dating now, would 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:20.200 I have a relationship? No? But if i'm dating, I'm dating, 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:22.480 I don't care what you do. I mean, it don't 0:18:22.480 --> 0:18:24.280 make you feel weird, like sleeping with somebody, like you know, 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:26.000 I gotta date with this person. Would you want them 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:27.600 to tell you that, like, Hey, I went out with 0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:29.480 sitting sex last night, I had a date last night, 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:32.959 I got another date tomorrow. If I was your day 0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:35.040 or what you did, like you could tell me, I 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:39.119 don't I don't really care. Are you honest about stuff? 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:41.920 If somebody as you. Yeah, because I don't care. They're like, so, 0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:44.000 who else you're dating? So tell me show me a picture? 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:47.879 They damn you show the picture. I don't think that's 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:51.520 none of their business. Do you think somebody really would say, 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:57.760 let me see a picture? Yeah, yeare? What was the girl? 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:01.879 What does she look like? What's her Instagram? I'm not 0:19:01.880 --> 0:19:07.000 about to be that's not a weird. Think about it. Now, 0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:08.840 I could end up being friends with her and now 0:19:08.880 --> 0:19:12.000 we both dating the same person. That's weird. I want 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:14.360 to see who is this person you're dating if that's 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:17.360 the case, Like, if you're dating them and I'm dating you, Like, 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.679 that's kind of weird. If you can't tell me if 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:22.159 we're just dating, what's the big deal? That would be 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:24.040 a form of lying. It's the big day off, you know, 0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:27.040 because if they're my friend, I'm cool. I don't. So 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:33.639 do you tell guys if you're dating other people? Um? No, i't. 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.800 I won't like throw it in their face, like, yeah, 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:37.240 I just went on a date with some and so. 0:19:37.640 --> 0:19:40.639 But you would know that I'm not exclusively with you 0:19:40.680 --> 0:19:42.960 because I will let it be known. Right. Would you 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:44.879 tell the two if they asked you, like so where 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:50.159 were you last night? I called you from the Bronx. 0:19:51.640 --> 0:19:58.880 I don't like guys from the bronze I'm from. I mean, 0:19:58.920 --> 0:20:01.080 it's a little awkward, you know what I mean? But 0:20:01.320 --> 0:20:04.479 you have to you know, like, you're not my boyfriend, 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:06.800 so don't ask me questions like that. Damn, they can't 0:20:06.800 --> 0:20:11.000 ask you questions involved with you should be able to 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:13.760 ask anything you want. If I was sucking somebody last night, 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:15.919 and I'm gonna be like, yeah, I was sucking somebody, 0:20:15.920 --> 0:20:19.119 that health issue in money, if you got on the condom, 0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:25.600 that doesn't count, right, it's still count now. I don't know. 0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:27.919 That's just an awkward situation. I guess it depends on 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:31.439 the person and the whole situation with me and the person. 0:20:31.760 --> 0:20:33.919 All right. Now, when you date somebody have involved you 0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:35.720 with what they do outside of you, Like do you 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:38.480 want to go out with them? If they're, say, you know, 0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:40.159 out with their friends for the night, they're on a 0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:42.640 vacation with their people's do you feel like you want 0:20:42.640 --> 0:20:46.000 to be involved in those things? Like should they be asking, oh, 0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:47.760 we me and my boys is going to watch the game? 0:20:47.800 --> 0:20:51.400 You want to come with us? No? You know, I'm 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:54.320 not really into sports. So if he invited me, say hey, 0:20:54.359 --> 0:20:56.040 we're gonna watch the game. I want you to come, 0:20:56.359 --> 0:20:58.600 then that would be like, okay, I'll come, and I'll 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.479 come from coming out have a dream, right. See if 0:21:01.520 --> 0:21:03.879 any of my other friends, but I'm going to to 0:21:03.880 --> 0:21:05.400 watch the game, do you want to come? I would 0:21:05.400 --> 0:21:07.119 probably say not. You feel like he should invite you, 0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:11.800