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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Jordan is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for it to catch a Cheater, and he thinks

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Speaker 2: that his girlfriend of almost eight years named Kim might

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Speaker 2: be cheating on him. Wow, Gordon, why after eight years,

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden you think she's cheating.

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Speaker 3: Uh, it's kind of a longest story, but I'll try

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Speaker 3: to keep that short. So yeah, I mean we've been

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Speaker 3: together for eight years total. Probably about a year or

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Speaker 3: so ago, things kind of took a turn, like it do.

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Speaker 3: We just started feeling distant things like that. We actually

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Speaker 3: we tried to make the adult decision like, hey, let's

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Speaker 3: just take a break before we start to hate each other.

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Speaker 3: I guess, kind of look inward, you know, like take

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Speaker 3: some time apart, let's focus on ourselves and if it

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Speaker 3: was meant to be, well, you know, if you love

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Speaker 3: it stead for.

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't know the whole, if it comes back,

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Speaker 4: I tell myself that all the time.

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Speaker 2: That's a Maria here lyric, you know, butterfly.

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Speaker 3: Oh anyway, that's what We've come back stronger than ever.

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Speaker 3: And about a month later we did we reconnected and

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Speaker 3: and it was amazing, like it felt like a genuine

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Speaker 3: fresh start. And then it it Uh I don't know.

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Speaker 3: This last month or so, it's it's just taken another turn,

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Speaker 3: and it's weirder than the first one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what is specifically weird about this time?

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Speaker 3: Uh? I think because it felt so new again, you know,

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Speaker 3: like I was, I couldn't believe. Honestly, I didn't know

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Speaker 3: how it was going to go after the break, but

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Speaker 3: I reached out first, like that was I kind of

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Speaker 3: instigated it, but she was super on board and I

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Speaker 3: missed you too, and you know, if we can do

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Speaker 3: it right, let's do it again. And uh, I think

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Speaker 3: I was just so optimistic. And then about a monthly,

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Speaker 3: she just got I don't know, man, like it's like

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Speaker 3: a new distance, if that makes sense. Like she's quiet again.

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Speaker 3: She it seems like she finds reasons to not be home,

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Speaker 3: holl lay with my friends, but it feels like her

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Speaker 3: friends aren't out. It's frequently it she is. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it just feels it feels strange. Sometimes I'll catch her

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Speaker 3: like looking at her phone and she's kind of smiling,

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Speaker 3: and I'll be like, hey, what's up, and she's like

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Speaker 3: I just saw something on oh yeah, Instagram, But it

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Speaker 3: feels like she's talking to someone. But I don't press

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Speaker 3: it because I don't want to ruin it.

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Speaker 2: I know that feeling where you look over and it's

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Speaker 2: like I recognize that smile. You have a smile at

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Speaker 2: me like that a long time, you know, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I saw that a lot of my last relationship, and

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Speaker 2: I was just like, but I never asked same thing.

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Speaker 4: I was like, maybe not. I don't want to be that,

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Speaker 4: but maybe I should have. I have an idea, Right,

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Speaker 4: did you ask Gordon? You didn't say anything when she.

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Speaker 2: Was doing that.

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Speaker 3: I didn't. I just benefit of the doubt, because the

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Speaker 3: thing that I did, you know, during our break was like,

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Speaker 3: you know, maybe I'm too jealous, Maybe I'm too I

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Speaker 3: tried to analyze myself, and it was like I should

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Speaker 3: Maybe my fault was not giving her the benefit of

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Speaker 3: the doubt frequently enough. So I just I just let

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Speaker 3: it go. I just trust her, you know, like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: something funny, I'm talk whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it could have been, but also, you know,

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Speaker 2: guts are loud exactly all right? Well man, well you

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Speaker 2: already told us a grocery store. She's a rewards card

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Speaker 2: member at so we'll play a song come Back, and

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Speaker 2: then pretend to be from there and call her and

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Speaker 2: say that. Every single month, we choose one rewards card

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Speaker 2: member at Randon who gets free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 2: floral department as our way of saying thank you, and

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Speaker 2: we'll see if she believes that, and if she does,

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Speaker 2: if she sends a flower see you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, sounds good.

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Speaker 2: All right man, We'll play a song come Back and

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Speaker 2: get your to Catch a Teater.

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Speaker 5: Next, it's time to Catch a Cheater only on.

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Speaker 2: The Jubile Show. Right in the middle of to Catch

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Speaker 2: a Cheater and if you're just joining us, Gordon is

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Speaker 2: on the phone, and Gordon has been with his girlfriend

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Speaker 2: for almost eight years, but now he thinks that she

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Speaker 2: might be messing around. So we're gonna see if we

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Speaker 2: can catch her before we call her. Though, Gordon, why

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Speaker 2: don't you refresh everybody's memory about why you think that

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Speaker 2: your girlfriend Kim as cheating?

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Speaker 3: Sure? So, yeah, like you said, we've been together, I

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Speaker 3: mean in total, yeah, going on eight years. I don't

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Speaker 3: know about a year so ago we took a break

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Speaker 3: because things got really rough prior that, talking about marriage

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Speaker 3: and the whole nine. But then things got really rough.

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Speaker 3: But after the break, I mean, we've been back together

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Speaker 3: now for I don't know, I mean probably coming up

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Speaker 3: on a new six months, and things are great. But

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Speaker 3: this last month has been a new kind of rough

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Speaker 3: and I'm suspicious. I've not mentioned it to her, but

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Speaker 3: I'm definitely suspicious.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna do what we usually do, call her

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Speaker 2: from the grocery store where she's a rewards card member,

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Speaker 2: and thank her for her business, and say that every

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Speaker 2: single month, we choose one rewards card member totally random.

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Speaker 2: It gets free flowers delivered from our flooral department, and

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Speaker 2: we'll see if she if she sends them to Gordon

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Speaker 2: or to somebody else. All right, Gordon, are you ready?

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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 2: All right, man, I'm gonna call her right out here

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Speaker 2: we go. All right, Hi, this is chartle Calls. Is

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Speaker 2: this our rewards card member? Kim? It is Kim. Please

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Speaker 2: don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling to let you know. Congratulations, you're this month's

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Speaker 2: big winner. Thank you for shopping with us.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe you didn't know. That's fine. Every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member at random who gets

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Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from a brand new from our brand

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Speaker 2: new and improved floral department. We're doing delivery now. You

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Speaker 2: just won thirty six long stim red roses, a card,

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Speaker 2: and box of chocolates to be delivered anywhere within the

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Speaker 2: United States absolutely free.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, and thank you very much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. I'm excited. Exciting.

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Speaker 2: So here's what to expect and how this can work

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Speaker 2: is if you know where you want them sent right now,

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Speaker 2: It's really easy for me to take the information over

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Speaker 2: the phone in just a matter of minutes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have an idea who I send it to you?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So what is the name first and the last

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Speaker 2: of the person you'd like to receive the flower?

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Speaker 1: Okay? His name is Tim?

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Speaker 2: You said Tim, like Tim m Okay, and would you

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Speaker 2: like to put anything on a card to Tim?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 3: U right?

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Speaker 1: Every week without you as an eternity thinking of you.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not even gonna need the address. Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it turns out that I won't need that because this

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Speaker 2: is not a grocery store at all. This is actually

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Speaker 2: jubil That was the radio show called The Jubile Show.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina f I'm also the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 2: I'm Victoria from the Jubile Show. Also, we do a

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Speaker 2: secon where try to catch cheeters. And Gordon, your boyfriend

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Speaker 2: is actually on the phone, has been.

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Speaker 1: Listening, you know what him?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 5: Uh guy? Yeah, you know what, I don't even care anymore.

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Speaker 1: Nope, I'm not going to deny it. You know, Gordon,

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Speaker 1: when we were on our break, I met someone.

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Speaker 5: I was out with friends and technically we were not together.

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Speaker 5: So Tim and I hooked up. That's not cheating because

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Speaker 5: basically we were not together. And then, you know, while

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Speaker 5: this is happening, like Tim and I started getting closer,

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Speaker 5: and I don't know if that's when you reached out

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Speaker 1: So we started talking again. I mean, we have history,

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Speaker 1: so I went with it, and I had feelings for you.

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Speaker 3: It's just.

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Speaker 1: I know I was starting to fall to him. It's

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Speaker 1: just been really confusing.

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Speaker 3: That's not what our break was supposed to be for,

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Speaker 3: was meeting other But it was supposed to be looking inwards,

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Speaker 3: supposed to be focusing on ourselves. That we weren't supposed

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Speaker 3: to be up dating.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we were I did. I focused on myself, and.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we've been together for a long time, and

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Speaker 5: to say that we still have that thing spark that

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Speaker 1: Come on, why wouldn't you just break up.

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Speaker 2: With him then?

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Speaker 3: Right? Why? Why? So when I reach out, why not

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Speaker 3: say hey I met someone? Why even? Like why do

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Speaker 3: why be dishonest from the start, Like that's how you're

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Speaker 3: going to start our second time around? Out of the gate?

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Speaker 3: Is this on? Just tell me then we just si

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Speaker 3: more months together, just prolonging this.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm sorry that it had to be this way.

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Speaker 1: It's like that was just the reality of the situation.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt you.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna miss with that. This is awful. I mean,

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Speaker 3: just tell me up front, like this is whatever?

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Speaker 4: Man, Wait, are you with this tim guy? Or is

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Speaker 4: this something that you're just exploring.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. We're still talking, so

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Speaker 1: I guess we're exploring. And like, poor, I'm sorry, I

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Speaker 1: just I didn't know how to tell you. I just

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Speaker 5: Seemed so hopeful, so optimistic, and I really I wanted

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Speaker 5: that for you.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to hurt you, and I just I

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Speaker 1: can't do this, goodbye. Damn.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't done yet. I was just Gordon, Man, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: It's all right, man, I mean, I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: was probably like sixty for I don't know, I was

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Speaker 3: like sixty percent sure. But it was rough to hear,

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Speaker 3: you know, you don't want to hear it.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like your goat was right, you know. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: really sorry.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate it. I appreciate it. I appreciate you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, not trapping, but kind of helping me

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Speaker 3: reveal it because I honestly did not even come at

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Speaker 3: her about it, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And if you didn't know, then you probably wouldn't

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Speaker 4: have let it go and then just spiraled out of control.

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Speaker 2: Which at least you know that your butterfly is supposed.

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Speaker 4: To be free, yeah, or with Tim, And I bet

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Speaker 4: you this Tim is temporary anyway, so don't worry about it.

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Speaker 3: It's nice, I mean, honestly, yeah, it's just at the start.

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Speaker 3: It's nice to though, Like you said, I'd rather know

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Speaker 3: than not for another what six months?

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Speaker 2: And this goes on on my back, so he's temporary. Yeah, hotly, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: that was a terrible.

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Speaker 4: Joke, but every time you get upset, you just say

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Speaker 4: that to yourself temporary.

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Speaker 2: Actually, man, well, thank you for being, thank you for

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Speaker 2: doing this, and good luck, good luck with everything.

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Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 5: Stake Care the Jewel Shows to catch a Cheater