WEBVTT - Best Bits of the Week 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:03.000 It's the Best Bit of the week. 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:06.400 With Morgan Part two, she's breaking down the top seven 0:00:06.480 --> 0:00:08.520 segments from the Bobby Bone Show this week. 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:12.880 Hello, everybody, welcome to the Best Bits. It's time to 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:15.520 catch up on the Bobby Bone Show together. We've got 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:17.760 a lot of stuff that happened this week. If you're 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:19.480 sticking around and want to hang out, you can check 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:22.160 out Part one and part three this weekend with Scuba Steve. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:25.599 Part one we talked about Valentine's Day and some fun 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:28.000 life moments that have happened for us recently. And then 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:31.400 part three we always answer listener questions, so check those 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:33.320 out if you want to get to know Scuba Steve 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:34.800 and myself a little bit better. 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:36.800 If not, you just want to catch up on the show, 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:40.240 that's cool too, So let's do that. The guys admitted 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:41.960 household fights that they get in. 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:45.000 There's a study about the things that cause the most 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.680 fights in households. So maybe you're gonna listen to this 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:49.680 and be like, oh, crap, this is what's happening in 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:52.879 my life. Well, maybe you can also relate to the 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:56.000 guys because they shared what's happening in their houses, and 0:00:56.200 --> 0:00:58.560 you know, everybody's got stuff going on, so just know 0:00:58.920 --> 0:00:59.920 you're not alone. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:00.880 Number seven. 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:05.000 A study found out what household issues couples living together 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:08.560 fight about the most. So I have the whole list here, 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:12.160 we'll just go to you guys they live with somebody lunchbox. 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:15.880 What do you fight about the most household issues? So money, 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.720 I don't think counts, okay, go ahead, Dishes okay, laundry, Oh, 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:22.319 there there's a list. What do you fight about? 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:22.520 Though? 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:23.920 Like you not doing them? 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:27.160 It's more of a hey, when are you gonna do 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:29.160 the dishes? Well? Why aren't you gonna do the dishes? 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:30.560 Like it's a it's stalemate. 0:01:30.640 --> 0:01:31.400 It's a stalemate. 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:32.759 Do you guys ever just leave them forever? 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:36.560 Yeah, like you'll have them. You'll tell the kids put 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:38.400 the dishes in the seak what's overflowing, and put it 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.400 on the counter so it spills out onto the counter 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:43.240 because no one wants. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:44.720 To do the dishes since of their dirty dishes all 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:45.160 over the counter. 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:50.480 Yeah, yeah, I got it. Clothes like laundry, there's clothes 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.200 all over the place. Who's gonna pick those up? Who's 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.000 gonna do the laundry? Who's gonna put the laundry away? 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:57.920 Will you guys, do the old Mexican stare down? 0:01:58.160 --> 0:01:58.440 Yep? 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:02.440 Is that what it's called that? No, So if my 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:04.880 Mexican friends haven't heard about it, possibly not a thing 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.880 they say in Mexico. Eddie, what about in your house 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:08.720 the air? 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.600 How cold it is, how warm it is? I like 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:14.320 it so warmed it. So we're always just arguing about 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:17.280 the temperature. And then UH just kind of like, uh, 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:19.400 she doesn't like that I set my alarm so early. 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:22.160 She kind of mentions like, you know, or things like 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:24.000 leaving the TV on, going to I love to go 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:25.679 to sleep with the TV. Stuff like that. 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:29.400 Leaving lights on around the house is number one. Number 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:32.680 two is the temperature. We used to disagree on temperature, 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.680 but now she likes it freezing cold. For some reason, 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:37.440 I think I've converted her. It's it's one of the 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:39.480 feathers of my cat. That's good because I would love 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:42.200 it freezing. And now she's totally in on that. Most 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:46.000 of our stuff is dog related, Like dogs go outside, 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:49.280 they come inside. Who cares if it's wet outside? They 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:53.160 can track everywhere. I don't give a crap, but she does. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.400 And so she's like, if you knew the dogs were 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.840 out yeah, maybe wap their feet or something. We're now 0:02:57.840 --> 0:03:00.840 a no shoe household, which I was really annoying for 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:02.720 me because everybody take their shoes off, and I'm embarrassed 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.240 to tell people to take their shoes off when they come 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.840 to the front door if they're coming in, I'm embarrassed 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:09.160 to go, oh, take your shoes off. I don't know why, 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:10.200 but that always feels weird. 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.400 It just seems fancy. It's not, but it just seems 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.520 like you're being too fancy, like take your shoes off, please. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:14.640 Oh. 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:16.280 I feel it's the opposite. I really feel like it's 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:18.400 not fancy at all. Like it's just total redneck oh, 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:23.760 like bare feet everybody. So, but now it's weird if 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:25.640 I go to someone's house and I'm wearing shoes because 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:27.320 I'm like all the crap that I've bought on my feet, 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:29.800 I'm not tracking all over their house. Yeah, feels dirty. 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:35.440 So that was one. So she's converted me in the shoes. 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:38.120 I've converted her in the air. We still disagree on 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:40.680 dogs sometimes because I really don't care what they do 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:41.200 their nature. 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:42.880 Definitely try to wipe their pulls. 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.640 Leaving the toilet set up is number three. Not really 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:49.160 an issue in our house, maybe because I think she 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:50.839 just sees it up and puts it down. I don't 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.880 ever think it, really, I never think about it. I 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:55.320 haven't been trained to think about it. One time she 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:56.160 fell in the middle of the night. 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:56.880 Huh. 0:03:56.920 --> 0:04:00.640 But I mean, I don't. 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.200 Really think about it when I pee, not doing dishes 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:07.080 at four, starting but not completing housework is at five? 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.240 Whose turn is it? Clean the floor at six? Okay, 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.720 dirty clothes on the floor, Yeah, I do that when 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:16.360 I think about it. In the bathroom, just the bathroom, 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:19.160 only in one spot, and I will leave towels up 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:22.560 on the sink instead of hanging them, yeah, or putting 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.279 me the dirty clothes. And she's like, you're gonna use 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:26.840 that tally gangs I've used a couple of times. No, 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:28.440 I've used it a couple of times. Well, why is 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.599 it still on the sink. Well, you never know. I 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:33.279 may decide to use it again. And then finally, not 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:36.000 making the bed, which she's a big bed maker. I 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.320 leave so early in the morning that I'm never there 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:41.880 to be part of the bed making. But if i'm 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:43.920 there in the afternoon, it's not made. I am told 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:45.680 to go in and make it with her because it's 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:46.640 easier with two people. 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:48.000 You still have a lot of pillows. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:49.840 Oh dude, there's like one hundred. It's awful. Yeah, it 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:51.320 could they cover the whole bed. It's not even a pillow. 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:52.400 I mean, it's not in a bed. It's a pillow, 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:53.760 it's a pillow holder. 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:54.960 It's a pillow with a bed. 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.680 She's put three new massive pillows on the bed and 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:00.440 they don't stand there when you sleep. They go off 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:02.200 the bed, but they can't go on the floor because 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.640 that would be gross to take pillows that have touched 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:06.080 the floor to put back on the bed. So on 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:09.200 this little stand. And then secondly, she has this little 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:10.760 blanket she puts at the very bottom of the bed 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.680 that we don't even use. It's just there for look, 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:15.599 and it's not even. 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:18.120 Less, Like, why do we need this for decoration? 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:19.720 Yeah, I mean I know, but I don't. 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:20.600 We don't. 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.960 We never use it. And it's not like people are 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:26.160 going into our room. Why decorate where nobody goes It's 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:29.960 my whole argument there. But yeah, those those would be ours, Mike. 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:31.840 What about you guys? What do you guys fight about? 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.039 I'd say I make a mess in the kitchen a lot, 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.880 and then I don't restock anything, Like I'll see something 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:39.240 that's empty or almost empty, and I won't think to 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:40.240 get any more of it. 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:42.480 My favorite thing is still much boxed. Does dirty closing 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:43.000 in the bathtub? 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:46.719 Yep, that's where my hamper is is the bathtub. Because 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:48.880 we don't have a hamper, so we're you gonna put them. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:50.360 You don't want them on the floor, throw them in 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.160 the bathtub. Then when it's trying to wash them, take 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.040 them out of the bathtub, take them to the washer 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:54.480 and dryer. 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:55.480 But you can never take a bath. 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:58.200 Never take a bath. Bath is off limits. 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:01.480 Why not get a hamper? What if we got you 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:03.800 a hamper, would you guys use it? 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:05.479 I think my wife would love that. I think it's 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:09.279 like five bus nothing. I'm honest. I think my wife 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:11.480 would be over the moon if you got us a hamper. 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.559 She's like her whole marriage. She's like, I've been wanting 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:14.239 to take a bath. 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:16.599 I mean she does. She gets so she's like, I 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:17.200 don't understand. 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:18.720 So that's a you thing that puts dirty clothes. 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:20.320 And I'm the one that started it, but she. 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.080 Started to join in because I think it's sort of 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:23.520 like you can't beat them, join them. 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:26.160 I think I wore her down, for sure, wore her down. 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.760 That's a weird one though, Like the air thing. I 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:31.000 wore my wife down, the shoot thing. She wore me down. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:34.000 Dirty cloths in the bathtub, that's the weirdest one. 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:36.720 Hey, you know what I mean. You got to You've 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:38.040 got to start new traditions. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.120 Not really a tradition, but okay. 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:46.800 It's the best bits of the week. With Morgan number two, there's. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.240 All kinds of national holidays. 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:52.080 Now, well, we decided to create our own national holidays, 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:53.640 and everybody went a different. 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:56.040 Route with this. It was kind of all over the board. 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:59.920 So listen, let us know what national holiday of ours 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:01.559 that you may be joining into. 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:02.880 Number six. 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:07.520 Hight everybody follow me here. Imagine this, if you could 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:11.960 create a new holiday that was to be celebrated by 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:16.640 everyone in the world, you have full control. What would 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:22.680 that holiday be? So a brand new holiday, you get 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:26.280 to create it. Everybody has to celebrate it because it 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:30.080 matters to a lot of people. What would that holiday be? 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:35.800 I'll go first. I would create National Left Handed People Day. 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:40.760 Our life in many ways is way more difficult than 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:44.640 right handed people because Let's say you have a pencil 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:46.400 or a pen and you got to write. It's all 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:47.560 in the back of your hand. And that's just the 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.080 start of it. A desk built for writing. A person 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:52.480 scissors right handed scissors, you have to go track down 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:56.000 left handed scissors. Who even has those? Playing ball baseball, 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:57.960 we go to Walmart to find a glove. You have 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:59.480 to go through five hundred glove before you find one. 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:02.560 Left handed playing guitar. I never get to play my 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:06.000 friend's guitars. Nobody plays left handed. It is playing baseball 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:07.600 and has a pretty good baseball player. There's only really 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:09.800 one position in the infield you can play. Otherwise you 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.080 got to play in the outfield, and that's if you 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:13.520 don't have it like a can of an arm, So 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:15.560 you can only play first base. You can't catch. You 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:17.760 can pitch, but that doesn't count. That's not really in 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:21.000 the infield. Like that's that's the pitching is different. But 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.640 you can't play second base, third base, shortstop, can't catch. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:27.000 Being left handed is very difficult. And I would like 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.480 to have a day to celebrate the marginalized left handers 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:30.120 of the world. 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.959 But then the right handed people participate. 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:34.760 Yeah, they celebrate us. That's about us. 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:36.160 Everyone do everything left handed. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.920 No, you just celebrate us. You get us treats. It 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.880 could be like cupcakes, or you get us a gift 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.080 for like a massage or something. I don't know. National 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.960 left Handed People's Day is my holiday that everybody celebrates 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:47.679 because you have no idea how hard it is for us. 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:49.400 Thank you, Amy. 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:49.800 Oh gosh. 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.800 When you said massage, I was like, okay, you run 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:56.480 my mind because my holiday would be for adoptive. 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.480 Parents adopted kids. 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:01.840 It's a national holiday where you go and any place 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:03.840 that offers a massage, you go in, you show proof 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:05.880 of adoption, and bam, you get a free massage. 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:07.880 Does it matter though you chose to be an adopted 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:09.640 parent because I didn'tchoose to be left handed, And I 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.320 feel like that's why I should be celebrated. I had 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:11.640 no choice. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:12.840 You should still be celebrated. 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:15.120 We're speaking up holidays, but I know, but I think 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:16.719 I would make up a holiday. I'd go adopt a 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:17.760 kid to get a free massage. 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:18.800 Noah, you can do that. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:19.400 That's what I'm saying. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:24.320 Let me tell you, Lunchbox National prom King Day. 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:27.400 No, just celebrating ourselves here, No, no, no, and that. 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:30.240 Knows me all the prom kings in the world if 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.079 you were voted prom king, and I guess you. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:34.240 We could include the queens. But that's like something good. 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:35.640 You already got something good. 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:39.040 I didn't choose this right, but it was bestowed upum me. 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:41.520 And let's not forget. Let's not just leave it in 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:44.440 the past. We need to remember it every year, how 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:47.320 much we sacrificed and how awesome we were to get 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:49.760 to that position. We go into restaurants on National prom 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:51.600 King Day, guess what, free meal? 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:54.720 Oh that's not a hardship or anything difficult, Like you 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:56.520 were already awarded, so you want to get awarded again 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:57.959 for your award one. 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:01.480 I don't want you to forget. Okay, that's what I'm saying. 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:04.079 We forget about a lot of things, like presidents. We've 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:06.280 already given them their their flowers, but we celebrate them 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:06.680 every year. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.480 It's because they did things that probably did things. 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:11.640 We made your life better. What do you think prom 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:13.920 king is? It's everybody wanted to be around us. They 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:14.680 looked up to us. 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.040 Do you guys remember your prom king? 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:17.200 No? 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:19.680 Yes, yeah, because you weren't it. That's what I'm saying. 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:21.120 We got to bring it back. You've got to call 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:22.600 your prom ging be like this is called. 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:24.520 Peaked in high School Day. That's how we call it, 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:28.920 Peaked in high School Day. Okay, Eddie, National Outdoor Grilling Day. 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:32.040 It doesn't matter if you've never grilled before. This day, 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:33.040 you are grilling. 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:33.439 Now. 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:35.880 The firefighters should probably be ready to go just one case, 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:38.479 because I think there'll be more fires than usual. 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.319 And we'll follow that day with National Firefighter Day. There 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:43.920 we go celebrate them. Yeah, and then you know there's 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.080 a lot of like PSAs on how to grill. Yeah, 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:49.040 the whole education I grew it. Okay, that's that'd be fun. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:50.960 That's pretty good more than anything. 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:53.640 Yeah, it would be similar in yours. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.720 It would be National Short People's Day because I am 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:59.080 five foot tall and I'm always made fun of. There's 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:00.719 you're always the butt of the joke because you're the 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:03.679 short person. You can't ever reach anything. There's never a 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:06.080 place for you to be able to reach sing. Nothing 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:07.200 is made for short people. 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:10.320 Gladders everywhere, every score you go into on a sale 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.160 on cell step ladder, step ladders to get Oh, now 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:14.040 we're talking like. 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.839 We all have to lower ourselves. 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:19.640 Oh, we have to get down on that. 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:22.199 You have to help every short person you see and 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:23.800 you cannot make fun of them for doing it, like 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:25.000 when you're in the grocery store. 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:27.600 Well, no, short is not. I would say average hige 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:30.199 anything below average high, like you can define that. I 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:33.080 think most of these days are people that have given 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:36.160 up something or not been given something, and it's an education. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.400 And then the other days peaked high schoolday, which I 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:42.160 do find we could do. It's like you're a quarterback 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.240 in high schoo football team and then you kind of flamed. 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:45.680 Out like Uncle Rico. 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:49.040 Yeah, Uncle Rico haters hate day. 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:54.559 Yeah, it's the best bits of the week with Morgan. 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:59.360 Number two, there was an anonymous inbox about a mother 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:01.880 in law driving our listener crazy, and it propped in 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:03.600 the guys on our show to talk about their mother 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:05.560 in laws, and it even went to the point of 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:08.920 them sharing their best and worst parts about their mother 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:09.400 in laws. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:13.640 Number five, it's anonymous sin by. 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:21.120 Anonymous sinbar. Here's the question to be because. 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:29.120 The well, hello, Bobby Bones, my wife and I are 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.760 expecting our first child, but my mother in law's making 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:36.240 everything about her. She's planning a nursery at her house 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:39.480 without asking us, telling everyone she'll be taking care of 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:42.640 our baby after my wife returns to work, even tried 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:46.480 to come to doctor's appointments. My wife says, this is 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.400 just how her mom shows love, but it's making me 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:52.800 start to dread becoming a parent. This is supposed to 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:55.000 be the happiest time in our lives, but my mother 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:57.640 in law is ruining it. How do I set boundaries 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:03.160 without causing family drama signed trouble with the mother in law? 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:08.040 So I will say this, You're very lucky to be 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:11.000 annoyed by this. You have somebody that cares. I can 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.800 for sure see why you would be annoyed, because at 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:17.800 times people can be a bit overbearing, a bit controlling. 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:22.320 But why I would be fortunate in this situation is 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:26.560 that it is totally out of love. So, first of all, 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:30.839 temper your annoyance, because this mother in law is doing 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.000 this out of love, not out of spite, which I'm 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:34.880 sure is going to happen at different times and for 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:36.840 different reasons. So that's what I will say. 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:37.160 First. 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:40.840 Now, we don't have kids yet, so it's hard for 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.599 me to do the whole having a baby mother in 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:45.880 law hopping in Eddie. What would be your advice. 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:47.800 Here, get it early. 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:50.440 You have to set those boundaries early. I remember when 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:53.319 we had our first son. It was my parents that 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.360 were kind of the tough ones. They would just show 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:56.840 up unexpectedly, and. 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:58.160 I remember from different states. 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.040 No from San Antonio, which was like an hour and 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:01.360 have drive, but they would just. 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:03.760 Ding ding, we're here, where's the baby? 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:06.800 And we just had to draw that line early, like, 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:10.240 you know, this is our family, let us know when 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:10.760 you're coming. 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:11.280 That kind of. 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.880 Stuff, because grandparents do feel I don't know what it is. 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:16.839 I'm not a grandparent, but they do feel like ooh, 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:20.400 once that grandchild is born, like yes, they're mine, we 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:22.200 want to love them, we want to spoil them, and 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:24.240 it's really hard on the parents. So I say, just 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.920 set those boundaries early and let them know immediately that 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:28.520 this is how it's going to be. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.720 Never did I hear you say how fortunate you were 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.920 that your parents or her parents cared so much. No, 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:34.800 I'm just annoyed it. 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:36.840 You don't feel that, man, You're just like, what are 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:38.320 you doing showing up in my house? 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:39.520 Lunchbox? 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:41.920 Listen, man, I'm gonna tell you what I'm gonna be 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:45.400 the exact opposite. You are so lucky that you have 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:47.680 family closed by. You know how much money you're gonna 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:50.040 save by not sending that kid to daycare. If they 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:53.320 are willing to watch your kid for free, Oh my gosh, 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:55.720 when the baby is born and your wife goes back 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.400 to work and you got free daycare, you should be 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:02.040 thanking the heavens. Dude, your pocketbook is gonna be fatter 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:04.560 now coming to the appointments. Tell her to kick rocks, 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:08.160 like this is for me and my wife and our baby. 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:09.920 If I can't make it, you can go to the appointment, 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:11.680 but we don't need you showed up to the appointments. 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:13.920 You can tell her straight up, but say we thank 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:16.040 you make a nursery. You are gonna be such a 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.440 good grandma, and you're gonna watch that kid for free. Wlah, 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:19.280 whah whah. 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:22.160 Maybe she comes to an occasional appointment or so so 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:22.720 she doesn't. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:25.360 That's right, and I'm gonna say it like it's great. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.880 I know mother in law's gonna be annoying. In law's 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:30.080 gonna be annoying. My mother in law's annoying a lot 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:33.120 of the times. But the fact that they are willing 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.440 to watch the baby for free and they are already 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:36.200 all on board. 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.800 That is awesome. Yeah, there you go. I think it's 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:44.640 a pretty good little selection of opinions. All that kind 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:46.760 of say the same thing. You need a little boundary, 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:50.800 but appreciate right now what you will for sure appreciate later, 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:54.760 and that would be these people, these in laws, these 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:57.440 mother and father loving the baby and wanting to be there. 0:15:57.920 --> 0:15:59.720 The best thing about your let's do best and worst 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.600 best thing about your in laws at EGO. 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:06.280 First, the best thing about my in laws they are 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:09.360 very sweet and kind. They're like I can talk to 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:11.160 them very easily about things. That's awesome. 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.080 Should we do best thing about mother in law specifically 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:15.560 since it's mother in laws. Okay, besting about mother in law? 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:15.680 Go. 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:16.760 My mother in law loves me. 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:19.040 That's the best thing about her. She loves you. 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:19.920 She loves me. 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.800