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Speaker 1: I told my sister to stop bringing questionable dishes to Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: Now our family thanks on.

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Speaker 2: My control freak. Just bring turkey, yeah, control that.

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Speaker 3: Oh less if it's too dry?

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Speaker 2: Ooh big facts. Talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Every year our family does a big Thanksgiving dinner and

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Speaker 1: we all typically bring a dish or to my sister,

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Speaker 1: who's a lovely person in every other.

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Speaker 2: Way, insists in every other way.

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Speaker 1: True, we know she's terrible, okayo insists on cooking something

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Speaker 1: homemade every time.

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Speaker 2: The issue you might wonder she's not a great cook.

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Speaker 1: Ah, And I don't mean just not great quote unquote,

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Speaker 1: I mean she has somehow managed to turn classic dishes

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Speaker 1: into borderline and edible creations. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from Society Tiny seventy four on the our such okay

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Speaker 1: storytime subreddit. So for context on that which we're all wondering.

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Speaker 1: Last Thanksgiving, she showed up with her special recipe stuffing

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Speaker 1: that was seasoned with random spices like cinnamon and cardamom,

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Speaker 1: not the right spices for that dish, grete spices not

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Speaker 1: for that dish. It was dry, and the flavors were

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Speaker 1: confusing and totally off for stuffing. Only one person took

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Speaker 1: a small bite and the rest went untouched. Another year,

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Speaker 1: she brought a green bean cast roll that had some

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Speaker 1: kind of strange chewy texture.

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Speaker 4: She's a string she didn't string out of there.

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Speaker 2: There was literal strings in it.

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Speaker 1: She later admitted that she used coconut milk and almond

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Speaker 1: flour to experiment quote unquote, why are.

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Speaker 3: You using your experimentations on.

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Speaker 2: Bringing it to your family Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: It's like that's like, hey, I'm gonna I'm gonna test

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Speaker 1: out this, like helpless glass helmet on the NASA Moon mission.

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Speaker 3: I put I put tape on it, and there's a

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Speaker 3: little star.

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Speaker 2: It should be fine. No one wanted seconds of that

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Speaker 2: one either.

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Speaker 1: This year, I'm hosting Thanksgiving, since I'm responsible for putting

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Speaker 1: it together, I wanted to keep the menu consistent so

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Speaker 1: that people could.

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Speaker 2: Actually enjoy a cohesive meal.

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Speaker 1: I thought i'd avoid drama by asking her to bring

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Speaker 1: non food items instead, smart like wine, soda, or maybe

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Speaker 1: even some flowers. I explained to her very kindly. I

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Speaker 1: thought that I just wanted to make things easy and streamlined,

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Speaker 1: and I'd handle the main dishes. But she didn't take

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Speaker 1: it well. Oh of course she didn't take it well.

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Speaker 1: She got offended and told me that I was being

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Speaker 1: quote unquote controlling and quote unquote shutting her out of

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Speaker 1: the family gathering, slaming the door in her face metaphorically.

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Speaker 1: She then accused me of making her feel inadequate and

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Speaker 1: said that Thanksgiving is about everyone contributing, not me deciding

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Speaker 1: what's acceptable.

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Speaker 2: Okay, stop being a gatekeeper, all right.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I would listen to you if you actually could cook.

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Speaker 4: I'll be hearing if you could cook.

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Speaker 1: I think we need to insult her harder so she

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Speaker 1: learns the lesson. I think that's what we need to do.

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Speaker 3: Also, it's your house, you're hosting.

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Speaker 1: Kind of your rules. You know, house rules, house rules,

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Speaker 1: now home turf. I told her that everyone appreciates her effort,

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Speaker 1: but that she could contribute in another way and still

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Speaker 1: be part of it. She doubled down, and she's bringing

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Speaker 1: her famous scream beame castrole.

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Speaker 2: Whether I like it or not, she knows, she knows, dude,

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Speaker 2: easy solution here. Talk to me.

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Speaker 4: Hey, everyone, we're gonna start putting our names beside our

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Speaker 4: dishes so we know who to think it Thanksgiving, and.

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Speaker 1: You make it fun like little little like those like

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Speaker 1: fancy little like placard things that like fancy buffets.

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Speaker 4: And stuff, so they all know not to get the sisters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like sister's castle, Opie's turkey, Mom's.

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Speaker 3: Cray jelly, mom's spaghetti.

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Speaker 2: Oh nice.

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Speaker 1: Now, my mom and a couple other family members have

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Speaker 1: chimed in saying that I should just let her bring

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Speaker 1: whatever she wants because it's Thanksgiving and it's the thought

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Speaker 1: that counts. They're acting like I'm committing some huge offense

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Speaker 1: But I feel like I'm just trying to keep the

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Speaker 2: And frankly edible.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong to want guests to actually

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Speaker 1: of the effort to host it.

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Speaker 2: Am I being unreasonable here? And am I the ahole?

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Speaker 1: We have relevant comments, We have a lot more to

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Speaker 1: the story, but we need to answer this first.

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Speaker 4: Are we going wet toast or are we going sour dough?

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Speaker 1: Dude, sourdough spine. We're just absolutely bricking up our spine

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Speaker 1: with weak, old sour dough bread.

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Speaker 2: Molecules.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I okay, you want to know my family

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Speaker 1: solution to Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, go for it.

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Speaker 1: You go to the places that have uh, there's a

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Speaker 1: really dope like Thanksgiving like themed meals.

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Speaker 2: You can just do that.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, So you go it's it's it's ours. It's

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Speaker 1: like it's like a place live in Florida. So it's

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Speaker 1: a place by the water. It's very pretty. You get turkey,

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Speaker 1: you get stuffing, you get family, you get no hassle

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Speaker 1: stress or dishes.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 4: See my family is the complete opposite. Yes, yeah, let's

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Speaker 4: go to the other side of the spectrum. We're in

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Speaker 4: the mountains North Carolina, so we can't go to the beach.

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Speaker 4: You get turkey. If she was one of my sisters.

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Speaker 4: Cooking is a huge thing. If someone says they don't

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Speaker 4: like your dish, you're basically slapping them in the face.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Like one time I told my brother he played a

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Speaker 4: little bit too much seasoning on the chicken. He won't

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Speaker 4: talk to me.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 4: He didn't talk to me for a couple of days.

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Speaker 4: And so in this case, wet toast spine is just

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Speaker 4: a letter do it. Let every let everyone know what

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Speaker 4: she brought. Hey, this is sisters thing, to be honest,

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Speaker 4: that's wet toast on wet toast. Do we even like

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Speaker 4: she can just bring it and no one can.

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Speaker 2: Just eat it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Exactly? Or everyone what kind of Yeah, and even

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Speaker 4: for everyone else to be a wet toast bine real person.

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Speaker 4: They all put it on their plate and whenever she's

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Speaker 1: That's too much to me. To me, I'm just like, uh,

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Speaker 1: what is it?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: It's it's capitalism, right, it's green bean castle castrole capitalism, casseroleism.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds worse, but demand Yeah, just let hey listen.

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Speaker 1: You bring your food to the marketplace of the Thanksgiving table,

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Speaker 1: and you let the people decide.

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Speaker 2: I think I might be wet toast. We have a

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Speaker 2: lot more in to story, but I'm saying, what.

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Speaker 1: Guys wet toast from me? Wet toast or sour bread?

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Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna a legit poll right now. Wet

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Speaker 1: toast yes, And I'm not gonna explain it.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna do WT for wet toast and s D forur.

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Speaker 2: Tell you can probably do.

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Speaker 1: Put it, put in, spell out wet toast. I want

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Speaker 1: to see wet toast. Okay, no explanation, relevant comments, Get

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Speaker 1: back to the story. Crystal Queen three thousand says you're

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Speaker 1: the ahole. Yep, whoa yeah, real quick as obi a hole?

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Speaker 2: No, well, no, that's what you do to me a.

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Speaker 4: She's a for hurting sisters feelings.

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Speaker 1: This was so I think I'll say a whole two.

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Speaker 1: We can explain more later.

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Speaker 3: We can always change our minds.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Crystal Queen three thousand says, you're the a whole.

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Speaker 1: It's one dish that everyone knows is bad and won't eat.

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Speaker 1: Why is that a big deal? Opie says, I get

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Speaker 1: where you're coming from, but it's just not one dish.

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Speaker 1: It's every year, and every year she brings multiple dishes

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Speaker 1: with strange combinations that no one eats. It ends up

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Speaker 1: feeling awkward because she keeps pushing people to try her food,

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Speaker 1: be a big family meal where we enjoy the food together.

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Speaker 1: I just want people to actually look forward to the meal,

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Speaker 1: not feel obligated to pretend they're enjoying her experiments. I

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Speaker 1: didn't think it'd be a big deal to ask her

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Speaker 1: But maybe I could have handled it differently. Choice second

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Speaker 1: fifty five eighty seven says, I'm super curious what other

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Speaker 1: things she's made, if you're willing to expound on a

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Speaker 1: few more, I want to know how bad we're talking here.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: I want to see the experiments.

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Speaker 1: We've gotten, the laboratory doors have opened, and all of

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Speaker 1: the experiments we're about to find out about them. Opie says, Oh,

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Speaker 1: buckle up, because there's oh yes, yes, there's a list.

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Speaker 1: Here are some highlights from the past family gatherings.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh dude.

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Speaker 3: Do you see the first one?

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Speaker 2: The thanks?

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Speaker 3: That sounds gross?

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Speaker 1: Thanks Thanksgiving twenty nineteen, she made a spicy cranberry sauce

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Speaker 1: that had a whole chunks of halapenos in it.

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Speaker 2: Stop. I mean, I see where she's going.

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Speaker 1: But no, she insisted it was elevating the flavor profile

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Speaker 4: Sweet and spicy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right.

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Speaker 1: It ended up making people's mouths burn while eating turkey.

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Speaker 2: No gun no ewe pop. Reacting for Christmas twenty twenty.

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Speaker 2: You guys don't allow to read ahead.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Twenty twenty, she brought a fusion mac and cheese with

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Speaker 1: wasabi and horse radish mixed in.

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Speaker 2: Oh, disgusting time out.

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Speaker 4: Yes was sabbi. The wassabi we eat sabi is very expensive.

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Speaker 4: There was sabi. Movie is actually horse radish dyed with

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Speaker 4: mac and cheese.

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Speaker 2: Correct. Nice.

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Speaker 1: Let's just say it was a very unexpected flavor to

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Speaker 1: experience in a traditionally creamy, comforting dish. We have to

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Speaker 1: have our taste buds assaulted with mac and cheese. She

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Speaker 1: put the smack in mac and cheese. There are some

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Speaker 1: coughs and watery eyes at the table. That night, Easter

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, she made a carrot salad that had carrots, raisins,

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Speaker 1: and sardines. Yes, of course, she claimed it was based

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Speaker 1: on some Mediterranean recipe, but I'm pretty sure no Mediterranean

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Speaker 1: Grandma would approve on to last Thanksgiving. This was the

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Speaker 1: infamous cinnamum cardamom stuffing she wanted.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to be warm and aromatic. This is not.

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Speaker 1: A dirty chai latte, lady, but it ended up tasting

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Speaker 1: like a holiday candle. The texture was also super dry,

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Speaker 2: I have an opinion after this, but I'm saving it. Okay,

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Speaker 2: family barbecue.

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Speaker 1: This past summer, she did a barbecue tofu thing that

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Speaker 1: had an odd vinegar peanut butter sauce. Oh oh, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what cuisine inspired that, but it didn't belong

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Speaker 1: cRIO really quick, I'm upgrading from oh do we get our?

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Speaker 3: You want the final pole here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how many wet wet toast spines. Yeah, we got

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Speaker 4: But this could be dangerous. I'm like, let's say you

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think I think I'm upgrading from wet toasts

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Speaker 2: You can't be harassing people to eat it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't, Like like I.

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Speaker 1: Would be like awesome, like literally, bring all the dishes

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I can't I can't even do what she does

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Speaker 4: Yeah that, Yeah, I can't even there you go.

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Speaker 3: get ready for my Auntie's infamous dish. Oh it's really exciting. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: Messed up dishes, it's coming to us. Natural Wars twelve

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Speaker 2: But it's sead. She just get its.

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Speaker 1: She just gets upset if people don't eat it, and

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Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay, just let her bring what she wants.

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Speaker 1: It's not hurting you, and you don't have to eat it.

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Speaker 1: It might even be fun to pretend it's the best thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like such a small thing to hey, tell her.

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Speaker 1: She can't tell other people, like the forced people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like like okay, bring what you want, but don't harass people. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, is this emblematic of a lot? Is this

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Speaker 1: if you will? Thanksgiving themed where it's like, hey, this

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Speaker 4: You know, Like well, it's she's bringing bad food. Intwo,

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's it's if she just brought the terrible food, that's

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Speaker 4: And like she's not getting it either. I understand she's

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Speaker 4: I'm doing this cool thing, YadA ya YadA. But you

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Speaker 2: You can't.

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Speaker 4: You can't lie to her, you know, like, I'll entertain this,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't do that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's like, uh, the same way that I shouldn't

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Speaker 1: bring your dishes, you shouldn't be able to to force

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Speaker 4: But we just gotta respect each other about its, says OG.

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Speaker 4: One dish at a family dinner once a your exhaust

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Speaker 1: Yeah again, I feel like like we've been saying. I

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Speaker 4: That with my mom all the time. Yeah, my uncle's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: this don't have gluten in it. I can't be eating

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Speaker 4: He's slowly my mom has fed him, spoon fed him.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 4: All right, guys, God, what is I don't even know?

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for this update?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I actually am?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So all right, well, things have escalated fast, thanks

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Speaker 1: to everyone who offered advice.

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Speaker 2: I tried to compromise.

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Speaker 1: I tried to compromise, but it's already turning into a

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Speaker 1: After our last conversation, my sister was being pretty cagey

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she said. She frightened, She said, trio trifling down.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, especially after hearing about my sister's grocery hall,

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Speaker 2: Oh no, surprise, oyster.

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Speaker 1: Glitter oysters, glitter oysters, oysters but pretty heybricks oysters a Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 4: How do they make glitter edible?

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Speaker 4: Anything from that futuristic.

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Speaker 2: They say the oysters are the turkey of disease.

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Speaker 1: Then my mom let it slip that my sister has

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Speaker 4: Okay, dude, after Thanksgiving, we got to read the update.

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Speaker 1: That's true, we have we have to find out what

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Speaker 1: At this point, half the family thinks I'm overreacting, while

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Speaker 2: Is she really bringing glittered sweet potatoes?

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Speaker 1: I feel stuck. If I try to control it anymore,

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Speaker 1: I'm the bad guy. But if I don't, Thanksgiving might

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Speaker 4: I'm down she brings as much food as she wants. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: she's gonna have to sit there and eat it in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like Opie.

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Speaker 1: The more and more we we get into this, the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, And it's just like just just let's

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Speaker 2: Like I get, I get.

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Speaker 1: I I appreciate that op does want to have like

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Speaker 3: Just the sister and everyone's gonna be eating it rings it.

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Speaker 3: It's just like it's there. Yeah, it's just there, and

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Speaker 1: And you know what, even better, let every other people

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Speaker 1: be the bad guy. Let other people be like, Honestly,

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Speaker 2: Yeah I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want your your halapeno cranberry sardines. I just

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Speaker 1: don't want it.

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Speaker 4: I don't want your cranberry uh infuse Jilipino dish.

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Speaker 2: I don't want it good.

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Speaker 3: I want the sparkly oysters.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, the glittering sweet potatoes that did catch my attention.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't think she's getting sweet potatoes though. I

447
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Speaker 4: think someone just made that up. I think it's gonna

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Speaker 4: be glitter some oysters.

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Speaker 2: Someone made that up. But I like that idea. I

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Speaker 2: love sweet potato.

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Speaker 4: Cast glitter she thinks of Sofia made them facts.

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Speaker 3: What's the dish called? It's like scalloped potatoes? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: she's putting actual scallops of the potatoes.

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Speaker 2: Could we fire.

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Speaker 3: No scallops and potato.

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Speaker 4: Because potatoes are supposed to be warm and her scalps

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Speaker 4: supposed to be warm.

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Speaker 2: No, scalps are kind of warm. No, a little bit,

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Speaker 2: a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Uh like it's warm as like a lobster. Oh, it's

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Speaker 1: warm as a storm as crab.

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Speaker 3: Depends the dish. But it's not like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it depends like there's a lot.

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Speaker 2: I've had a room temperature.

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Speaker 3: But anyways, okay, but we do need to I want

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Speaker 3: to see at the updates, so you see what the

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Speaker 3: commons say or common say. But I do need to

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Speaker 3: see the update of what she made. Wow, we'll pin.

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Speaker 2: That relevant comments. Uh OPI when.

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Speaker 1: Told to let the sister take charge for the meal,

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Speaker 1: uh oh haha. I have to admit that the idea

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Speaker 1: is very tempting, letting her take the spotlight with her

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving trio experience. Why sit back, sip on a glass

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Speaker 1: of wine? Uh like one uh like one way to

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Speaker 1: make a memorial Uh sounds like one way to make

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Speaker 1: a memorable holiday, especially if everyone gets to see exactly

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Speaker 1: what I was trying to save them from. It would

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Speaker 1: be kind of poetic to just lean into the chaos

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Speaker 1: and let her creations be the star of the show,

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Speaker 1: for better or for worse. I have a feeling that

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Speaker 1: it would definitely be a Thanksgiving to remember, even if

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Speaker 1: I'd have to brace myself for the family reactions. It's

483
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Speaker 1: like a mix of malicious compliance and hands off hosting.

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Speaker 1: And I kind of love this idea of just throwing

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Speaker 1: in some edible arrangements, a ton of drinks and calling

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Speaker 1: it a day. Okay, And yeah, if it all goes sideways,

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Speaker 1: I'll still have plenty of remember that one Thanksgiving stories

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Speaker 1: to pull out in the future. Thanks for the laugh

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Speaker 1: and the wild suggestion. This just might be a holiday's fantasy,

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Speaker 1: but it's definitely a fun one to think about. In

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Speaker 1: Geo's left hand says, Honestly, I think you should just

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Speaker 1: let her do this. It can be a new family tradition.

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Speaker 1: Your sister brings something weird and inedible, you all ignore

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Speaker 1: it and poke fun at her terrible cooking. Later, is

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Speaker 1: this really something you want to create your MoMA over,

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Speaker 1: Opie says, You're right.

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Speaker 2: May be Opie changing her too. Oh wow, maybe I've

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Speaker 2: been looking at us all wrong.

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Speaker 1: Letting her bring her unique dishes could actually become a

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Speaker 1: little funny tradition.

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Speaker 2: If we let it. What did we say ten minutes ago?

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, we really did say that.

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Speaker 2: We already said it.

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Speaker 4: We already answered your probably.

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Speaker 1: We're done, stream over, story over videover, goodbye.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's it, guys. All right, I'm gonna end it.

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Speaker 3: That was a quick one.

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Speaker 1: Guys, just kidding, gotcha. So, I mean, every family has

509
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Speaker 1: its quirks, and maybe this is just one of ours.

510
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Speaker 1: Instead of stressing about it, I could just embrace it

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Speaker 1: and let her dishes be part of the Thanksgiving Lord

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Speaker 1: that we joke about later. It's definitely not worth creating

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Speaker 1: unnecessary drama over and if we all just go with it,

514
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Speaker 1: it'll be less awkward and maybe even entertaining in its

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Speaker 1: own way.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for the reminder to just roll with it and

517
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Speaker 2: not take it so seriously. Good.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're reaching a much better place. I

519
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Speaker 1: feel like he're reaching much much better place. Although the

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Speaker 1: story's not over. Oh God, Jenny BCT says, Oh, please

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Speaker 1: update us after Thanksgiving. I can't wait to hear about

522
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Speaker 1: her culinary experiments, Opie, Hah, don't worry. I'll definitely keep

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Speaker 1: you all posted. I'm honestly half curious. Half terrified to

524
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Speaker 1: see what she ends up bringing.

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Speaker 2: Right, If past holidays are any indicator, we might be

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Speaker 2: in for some very creative dishes.

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Speaker 1: And I have a feeling the family reactions alone could

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Speaker 1: make for quite the story. So stay tuned. If anything

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Speaker 1: wild goes down, I'll be back with the juicy details

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Speaker 1: after Thanksgiving. Fingers crossed for a low drama meal. But

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Speaker 1: let's be real, I'm.

532
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Speaker 2: Probably not that lucky.

533
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Speaker 4: So we don't know.

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Speaker 2: We don't know.

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Speaker 3: We won't know until after Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: We won't know. Oh, we won't know.

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Speaker 3: So we have to keep ourselves on our toes for

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Speaker 3: the people who aren't from the States or know what

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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving it's. It's in what two weeks?

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Speaker 4: Two weeks to the last or four? Is it the

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Speaker 4: fourth or last?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, twenty fourth or twenty twenty. It's a Thursday.

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Speaker 4: It's the last Thursday of November.

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Speaker 2: There we go. That's it.

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Speaker 3: Also, I see everyone in the comments thinking that I

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Speaker 3: thought scalp potatoes were actual scallops of potatoes. No, no, no,

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Speaker 3: I know what scalped potatoes are. I was just saying

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Speaker 3: the what if she actually made scallops like the you

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Speaker 3: know seafood with you know with potatoes because she's making

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Speaker 3: interesting experimental combinations of food that no one really wants

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Speaker 3: to try.

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Speaker 2: Or were you or are you trying to save face?

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Speaker 3: I like scal potatoes like there's like a cheese on it,

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Speaker 3: and like, yeah, I know what scal potatoes are.

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Speaker 4: Or do you Okay, I haven't heard of scalp potatoes

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Speaker 4: like that?

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Speaker 3: Why is it doing that?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 4: You love it? Anyways, that's the end of the story.

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Speaker 4: That's the end of the story. You got some donos?

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Speaker 2: Oh, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Clary thinks it a five bucks love the show. Always

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Speaker 1: listening to the podcast while working. First time catching Alive

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Speaker 1: whoa profile three pm PST. Certifiably gen thanks for the

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Speaker 1: five bucks. I'm indigenous, so we used the day for

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Speaker 1: gathering and remembering our ancestors. Hell yeah, we also do

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Speaker 1: a taco a taco bar and fry bread instead of

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Speaker 1: a traditional turkey dinner.

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Speaker 2: All right, I love it. I freaking love it. Mandar's Panda,

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Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks.

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Speaker 1: Listening to you guys every night I work on Spotify,

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Speaker 1: Like at Spotify or do you work during Spotify? Or

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Speaker 1: let us know, finally able to catch my second live.

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Speaker 1: I love all you guys, I love you so much.

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Speaker 2: If you work at Spotify, we should go back to

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Speaker 2: the studios and record an episode there. Except that's far

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Speaker 2: so that thanks.

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Speaker 3: That was from yesterday, and that was from yesterday. Let

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Speaker 3: me you refresh it just to see we're.

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Speaker 4: Refresh the elephants they the five bucks reminded me to

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Speaker 4: exit the chat and like the video, so they will

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Speaker 4: spend the will like you, guys, what are we doing?

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Speaker 4: We got one oh five out of five hundred. We

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Speaker 4: got six hundred people on YouTube literally on Facebook, six

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Speaker 4: six hundred and four. We can spin the wheel right

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Speaker 4: now if you want on Twitch like a TikTok, we

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Speaker 4: could it.

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Speaker 2: It's up to you. It's just a thumb. Come on,

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Speaker 2: pigeon a prostalyizer.

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Speaker 1: Oh I remembered it. Thanks for the two bucks. So

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Speaker 1: rude to say.

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Speaker 2: People's palates need expanding. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The other sister was also like in a hole. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're both or for doing that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, slither worm.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Knights.

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Speaker 1: Let's up, let's freaking go, and Prince ex thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks. Please please please play the play the

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Speaker 1: grandma yelling, don't experiment on Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 3: What Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: Giving, Thanksgiving Giving that neither of I. Laurie, thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks. I'm a terrible cook, so I don't

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Speaker 1: cook for many people unless it's my own family, not

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Speaker 1: a holiday meal. And Nicole's bubbles, Nicole Bubbles. Peterson, welcome

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Speaker 1: to the Knights.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: The family's growing, Billy Claire, thanks for the two aussy

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Speaker 1: Riley streams are my favorite stream, boys, stream.

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Speaker 4: That means a lot coming from you.

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Speaker 2: That's so sweet.

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Speaker 4: I love being on Street with John.

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Speaker 1: It's been fun, right, it's been good, guys. Where everything

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Speaker 1: you see here? Where all that's left?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Actually, Sophia is done better.

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Speaker 4: Sophia's so he is recording right now.

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Speaker 2: She's she's coming back around cooking.

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Speaker 3: Notice how Riley didn't save me. It's fine and you

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Speaker 3: said this, okay.

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Speaker 4: Come on, No, I love working with you. That's what

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Speaker 4: I said. I'm working with you.

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Speaker 3: I love Yes, I love you too. Oh oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: Kisses for everyone, More kisses in the.

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Speaker 3: Maybe this this is how we got sick guys.

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Speaker 4: Megan out with each other.

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Speaker 1: God, Oh, Carlo Woods, thanks for being a member for

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Speaker 1: three months. Don't forget to like the stream. That's a

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Speaker 1: good reminder vix Mix give me five five memberships. Let's

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Speaker 1: freaking go Anna Welcome to the Night's and Katerra Rain

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Nights as well.

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Speaker 3: What's up here we go you guys welcome, welcome, oh

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Speaker 3: oh oh.

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Speaker 1: And then Nicole Bubbles Peterson celebrating her month of membership.

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Speaker 1: So happy to have found this fam everyone is awesome.

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Speaker 1: And Samantha Duchek also welcome to the Nights.

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Speaker 3: Wow. I think we just also got a new donation

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Speaker 3: right here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, Mount Dave's Girl, thanks for the

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Speaker 1: ten bucks.

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Speaker 2: Hello from Montana.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, Hello, I love Huckleberry.

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Speaker 4: So that's Finn.

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Speaker 3: That's a thing huncle Berry's Oh, hucleberry Finn. No huckleberries

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Speaker 3: in Montana.

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Speaker 4: I think I went in La too.

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Speaker 3: That's a good thing. That's like, that's a big thing

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Speaker 3: in Montana.

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Speaker 2: Also, I think we got a donation from Ugly Old Bat.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we did for five bucks. Does the glitter

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Speaker 1: come out the other end.

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Speaker 3: Like a unicorn?

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Speaker 2: That is a great question, and I feel like the

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Speaker 2: answered yes yeah on the same.

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Speaker 3: One way to find out. We read Clary.

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Speaker 2: We read Clary. Yep. I think we're gonna go yep.

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Speaker 2: Cut no, just got.

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Speaker 1: Whoa candy and candy thanks for the twenty five bucks

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Speaker 1: on the tip. Like, by the way, guys, just a

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Speaker 1: little reminder the tiplink doesn't take thirty percent like like me, cylinder, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: put it together. That's a code word.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Oh Carlo, oh gosh, wow, let's go to members.

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Speaker 4: What's up? Let's go carlon family members say hello?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, say hi in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Also, somehow my my personal account got in the queue

664
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Speaker 1: for being a gifted membership and someone was like, how

665
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: is John getting a gifted membership for his own show?

666
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, sorry, guys, I remember, I commented, I

667
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: guess not.

668
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 3: That's how democracy works.

669
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: I have like so many YouTube accounts. Dude, yeah, that

670
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: is the main one. So anyways, that's funny. Shall we

671
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:45,239
Speaker 1: get into the next door?

672
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

673
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 3: We have a couple more. Did we read adult Oh wow.

674
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: Jessica Grohl, thanks for being remember for five months? Woo

675
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: three months? I'm family now, right?

676
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: Or is this a cults? I'm good either way? Is

677
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: a cult? It is a family, and you're welcome.

678
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 4: It's everything you ever will need in life.

679
00:32:59,600 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: Right?

680
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 4: And then the one above that do we read that one?

681
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 2: We got candy. We got that one on yeatube is good.

682
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 3: It's good, We're good, We're good. There we go, Eddie

683
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: Donut's coming in. We'll read at the end of this

684
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 3: next door year.

685
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 4: Let's go, here we go.

686
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 3: It is the my you got it? My brother? Yep,

687
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,479
Speaker 3: all right, brother, ready, you are good to go.

688
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 4: My homophobic brother wants to reconcile. I refuse.

689
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 2: Bye bye. We rock with the gays here Yeah.

690
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 4: January ninth, twenty twenty. I'm nineteen mail. My brother is

691
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,719
Speaker 4: twenty one and is my only sibling. I realized I

692
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 4: was gay from a young age and came out at fourteen.

693
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 4: My parents were supportive from the get go, but my

694
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 4: brother was absolutely not. He tried telling me that I

695
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 4: he tried telling me I wasn't or that I was

696
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 4: trying to get attention, and tried to get me to

697
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 4: change my mind. By the way, hey, this comes from

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Speaker 4: throw it Away on the r slash Okay story time

699
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 4: sober So. When that failed, he called me a freak

700
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 4: diseased and said I was going to HG double hockey

701
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 4: sticks h even though we aren't that religious, and made

702
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 4: it clear he didn't want a relationship with me. He

703
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 4: outed me at school. Oh my friends already knew though, thankfully,

704
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and tried to get others to join in,

705
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:31,240
Speaker 4: but no one really cared that much. And no, nothing

706
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 4: much changed. No one really cared. Nothing much changed.

707
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 1: Okay, thank god, Wow my god, dude, if they went

708
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: to your high school, bro, bro, I remember, I remember.

709
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: I remember the first openly gay kid at my school

710
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: because he had a crush on me.

711
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 2: Whoa, it was true, just too handsome, and I was

712
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 2: just like, I love it.

713
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 4: Cool at a gay guy at my school asked if

714
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 4: I was gay, and I think he would have to

715
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 4: date me. I was like, Wow, being hot you get

716
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 4: guys and girls.

717
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 3: See, it's a huge compliment when gay guys hit on

718
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,760
Speaker 3: me and buy me drinks at bars. Mike, I appreciate that. Wow,

719
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: I'm beautiful. Sorry yeah, sorry, what can I say? I

720
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 3: like women, but I appreciate your gesture of kindness.

721
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 4: Uh, needless to say. I vowed to limit contact with

722
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 4: him as much as possible, but the comments continued until

723
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 4: we moved out and he turned eighteen for school. I've

724
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 4: since gotten into a great school and have completed a

725
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 4: year and a half. I'm in a relationship my grades

726
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 4: are the best they've ever been, and everything seems to

727
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 4: have fallen nicely into place. My brother sent me a

728
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 4: Facebook message back in August. He started by apologizing for

729
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 4: how he treated me, saying he was depressed before and

730
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 4: was stuck inside his own head. Slash fell into the

731
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 4: wrong crowd online that reinforces bitterness towards others.

732
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Speaker 2: We do we red pill, red pill?

733
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he was definitely. He said he got in

734
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 4: treatment for his depression, feels more confident than he has

735
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 4: in years, and was on the upswing and wanted to

736
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 4: meet up to repair art relationship. He said he was

737
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 4: proud of me for being gay and supported me, and

738
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 4: apologized for taking so long to make it known. We're

739
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 4: buying it.

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Speaker 2: You buy it, John, I, I I love it. Yeah.

741
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that we can meet up by me

742
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: best friends? Yeah, yeah, this is like this is like

743
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: step one. Yeah, this is like step one. The cracks

744
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: are still there. You drop a mug, you put it

745
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 1: back together. The cracks are still there. These are deep cracks,

746
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 1: gloomy glue, my cracks, keon glue, my cracks, blue.

747
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 2: His clacks, gloo my cracks. Why would you do it?

748
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 3: There are no cracks between us, John, We're perfect.

749
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 2: Oh, I got one.

750
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 4: That you could definitely glue.

751
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 3: All sitary, okay the story.

752
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 4: I didn't respond, nor did nor did I respond to

753
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 4: his happy Birthday message in September. Oh, opis September babies,

754
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 4: that's cool. Then he started texting me saying he understands

755
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 4: if I'm still hurt, but that he but he'd love

756
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 4: nothing more than to make up for the hurt he gost.

757
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 4: I have responded to these either Here's where my boyfriends

758
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 4: Here's where my boyfriend says, I'm the a hole. Over

759
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 4: the holidays, we were all back at my parents' house.

760
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 4: I had a great time seeing my family except him.

761
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 4: Each time he'd ask about me or try to talk

762
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 4: to me, I'd give him one word answers or clam up.

763
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 4: He offered to get me a game for me as

764
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 4: a gift, but I declined. He pulled me aside to

765
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:51,720
Speaker 4: apologize face to face, reiterating the stuff he said before,

766
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 4: but I also cut that short and walked away. Meanwhile,

767
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 4: I talked with my parents like normal and was very

768
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,439
Speaker 4: open with them about things happening my life, typically within

769
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 4: the earshot of him. The day we left, I said

770
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 4: goodbye and found him by my car crying. He says

771
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 4: he understands why I'm closed off to him and that

772
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 4: he regrets how it turned out. Wished me well and

773
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 4: went inside. I told my boyfriend about this when I

774
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 4: got back, and he is pissed and called me an

775
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 4: a hole. Real quick, pull a hole or not the

776
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Speaker 4: a hole in ta let's do h ah and nta

777
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 4: not the a hole? Ahole or not the day hold

778
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Speaker 4: not ahel that's the question.

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Speaker 3: Also vix Mix, thank you for the twenty five usd.

780
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 4: Ah Let's go g. I told my boyfriend about this

781
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,439
Speaker 4: when I got back, and he's pissed and he called

782
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 4: me an a hole. Boyfriend says, it's clear my brother

783
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 4: feels badly about how he used to be and he's

784
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 4: changed into and that, and to throw all that back

785
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 4: in his face is a wiener move. My parents agree

786
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 4: and say he's a good person, but ultimately fills it's

787
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 4: up to us personally. I've gotten used to the idea

788
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 4: of not having a brother that I don't know if

789
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 4: there's anything left to salvage. He's made his choice to

790
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 4: sabotage me, then is it really my problem? He regrets

791
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 4: his actions now and we got to edit am I

792
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 4: the ale.

793
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 2: So it's a good one.

794
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: I think that this is a good reminder.

795
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 2: For people that are.

796
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: Hateful, uh, spreading vitriol, not being loving, supporting and under understanding,

797
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: even if you might not understand someone, still loving them, oh,

798
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: embracing them.

799
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 2: You know.

800
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: That if you come, if you decide one day, you know,

801
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: down the line like oh no, I was wrong to

802
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you automatically you get to get to

803
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: repair the relationship. The pain and traumas that you give

804
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: to someone don't just magically get erased. If you if

805
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 1: you apologize almost every almost most every time, and you know, I,

806
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,240
Speaker 1: you know, I I think, I I like what OPI?

807
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: I I understand what the brother or who was it?

808
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: The person that was the boyfriend the boyfriend? Yeah, and

809
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: like look I get it. Would I, you know, if

810
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: OPI was my friend and asking me you know this personally,

811
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,399
Speaker 1: would I be like, hey, you know, if you had

812
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: good moments with with with your brother, like maybe give

813
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 1: him a chance to prove he's good and not have

814
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: to carry around this frustration and anger in your heart,

815
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: I would say, yeah, I give it a shot. But ultimately,

816
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: like the parents said, it's really up to them, you know,

817
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: really up to Ope, because Ope was the one.

818
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 2: Who was hurt.

819
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and again like just because you go back and

820
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: apologize doesn't take away the hurt.

821
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 4: Tyler says the apology was more for the brother than Ope,

822
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 4: because Ope, he's already moved on. I don't have a brother.

823
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,800
Speaker 4: He doesn't need this relationship. He's like, I don't. I

824
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,240
Speaker 4: don't think there's much for me here.

825
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah. The brother's doing it for himself basically.

826
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: It's like it's almost like it's quote unquote selfish in

827
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:26,959
Speaker 1: a way.

828
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 2: Yeah.

829
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, like and and and oftentimes that

830
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: that can be like the brothers now like, ugh, I

831
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 1: was a bad person.

832
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: I don't like the knowledge that I have to live.

833
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: With at let me go get the apology to make

834
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: myself feel.

835
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's gonna be so hard around holidays.

836
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,240
Speaker 2: If I was a brother, already been doing it though, right.

837
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 4: They've been doing it. But now the brother wants to

838
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 4: be civil and wants to be in conversations and I

839
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 4: actually kind of have somewhat of relationship. Yeah, I mean

840
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 4: I would if I was a brother, I'd be like,

841
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 4: I understand if you don't want to be around me,

842
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 4: and I know that I cause a lot of hurt.

843
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 4: Can we like somehow figure out a way that the

844
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 4: holidays don't work out or feel weird.

845
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 2: Not like bother the parents? Yeah, I think that's I

846
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 2: think that's.

847
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 3: Or just make it awkward.

848
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, because it is awkward right now.

849
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

850
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 3: The one thing I don't like that op he's doing

851
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 3: is just I get it. It's just a cold shoulder.

852
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 3: Like it's just a strict cold shoulder. It's like not

853
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 3: even like one word answers or replies. It's like it's

854
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 3: just already like I'm not responding. Yeah, you can get

855
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 3: that's the message, and I get it. It's just you

856
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 3: can tell that the brother is trying to make amends

857
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: in a way, and it's it's like a I know,

858
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 3: some people said like both the A hole and not

859
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 3: the A hole. It's like a mix of both, which

860
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 3: I get. Yeah, it's just like, ah, people grow because

861
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 3: what they were young when it was like in high school.

862
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: Right yeah, they were like fourteen fifteen, Yeah you know.

863
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: So yeah again, I'm like, if this guy was my friend,

864
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 1: I would definitely be like, I think you should give

865
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: him a chance.

866
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 2: It's because it also might help you.

867
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: It might not, You might not even really realize it now,

868
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: but maybe it ends up being therapeutic for you.

869
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 3: We got a huge don't know from Hannah Han Hannah

870
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 3: no where, no words, no words.

871
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 4: Yesterday too, Hannah, Anna donated again from yesterday. That's right,

872
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 4: it's the same one. Yeah, Hannah.

873
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 3: But guess what, guys, thirty more minutes, thirty more minutes, Hannah,

874
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 3: there we go.

875
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: Hey, you know what, guys, what what we gotta do

876
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 2: something for Hannah? What's uh? What's a banana?

877
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 4: Banana?

878
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 1: Banana's in the chat. I think it's up to Hannah.

879
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,240
Speaker 1: What Hannah, what do you want? Because maybe Hannah banana

880
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: is like really annoying.

881
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 4: We got we got Anna the banana already in chat.

882
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 2: That's true. Hannah tell us in the chat what you

883
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 2: want your emoji's momoji to be so we can flood it.

884
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 4: Yeah?

885
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: Just nothing, just silence, yeah, as she does comment nothing

886
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: like like a space bar and then enter.

887
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

888
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 4: I don't said what we could do for Hannah. I

889
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 4: was like, Oh, we'll just making Keon clap his cheeks.

890
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 4: So that's what I was about to say.

891
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: That's not what I was about to say that.

892
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 4: I talked to Hr. I talked to HR. Okay, Christian,

893
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,760
Speaker 4: he said he's cool with it. He said he actually

894
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 4: encourages that.

895
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: He did say that. I didn't hear that.

896
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 3: I need that. I need him on. I need him

897
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 3: live here to say that. So everyone I.

898
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: Have two witness what he said. He said he's not

899
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: coming on until he hit ten million zubs. Yep, so

900
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: everyone can. Okay, Yeah, anyways.

901
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 3: But's get back to the story. I mean, if you

902
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 3: look at the pole here.

903
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 4: It's sixty nine percent not the A hole, but.

904
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 1: I'm sure, but thirty one percent saying the A hole.

905
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: So this one is kind of split.

906
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:39,919
Speaker 3: There was a lot more votes prior before the poll

907
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 3: was up because we were reading the story, so yeah,

908
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 3: not maybe people saw that, so it honestly, I say,

909
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 3: we see what happens next find out all right. Edit.

910
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 4: So my boyfriend just texted and said that how I

911
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 4: handled this thing as him questioning things and he thinks

912
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 4: we should take a stepped back for a while. So

913
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 4: that's cool.

914
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 2: Oh whoa.

915
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 4: Okay. Update April fifth, three months later. So it's been

916
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 4: a few months since my first post and since a

917
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 4: few people were asking I thought, I owe you an updick.

918
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 4: I would have provided one sooner, but this throwaway I

919
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 4: had logged out earlier. Blah blah blah blah blah. The

920
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 4: TLDR or the post was I had ignored my brother's

921
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 4: attempts to have a relationship with me after the homophobic

922
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 4: crap he threw at me when we were younger. I'm

923
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 4: glad to say that's no longer the case. A little

924
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 4: after my last post, I texted him that I appreciate

925
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 4: his words, but his actions had really hurt me, and

926
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:50,320
Speaker 4: that I needed time. Okay. He texted back he understood,

927
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 4: and to take as much time as I needed. He

928
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 4: also thanked me for reaching back out to him. I

929
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 4: spent a lot of January and February in self reflection

930
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 4: trying to figure out what I needed. Lots of people

931
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 4: in the last post said I needed therapy, and I

932
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 4: agree I likely did. I never ended up seeing a professional,

933
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 4: but it got really into some guided meditation and calming

934
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 4: exercises I saw on YouTube, making it a habit. If

935
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 4: It helped me realize how much weight I was carrying

936
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 4: and has helped me to start and has helped me

937
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 4: start to let that weight down.

938
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 2: I like that.

939
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's awesome. I still have some ways to go,

940
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 4: but I feel like my empathy growing and I like that.

941
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 4: I went home for spring break and saw my brother

942
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 4: for the first time since Christmas. Long story shore. We

943
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 4: spent a lot of time hanging out, and our relationship

944
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 4: is recovery.

945
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 2: Okay, wow, okay, okay, all right.

946
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 4: That's awesome.

947
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 2: We're total holy cow.

948
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 4: We've had some hard conversations, cried, shared a couple joints,

949
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,919
Speaker 4: et cetera, and I came home away from the break

950
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 4: feeling so much better about everything. Dang, because he probably

951
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 4: had some like a lot of like pins up emotions

952
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 4: too against his brother. Yeah, he able to share that

953
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:12,399
Speaker 4: and get rid of that.

954
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: Like OPI said, OPI realized through like his meditations and

955
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: being able to think about it, it's like.

956
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 2: Oh, this is weighing me down. Yeah, which makes perfect sense.

957
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: Like the fact that I feel like the cult like

958
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: kind of came like what Kean was saying, he was

959
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: giving him this like just complete silent treatment out of

960
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: the anger.

961
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: So it's like this is hopefully.

962
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 3: Helping him let go of that building up to like

963
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 3: and building up like this is not who I am.

964
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 3: But like deserve this.

965
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, agreed, And since each of our schools have closed

966
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 4: down due to the pandemic, we're both at home and

967
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 4: doing our classes remotely and hanging out on the downtown

968
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 4: because this happened during the panty panpan yep. I don't

969
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 4: know if YouTube would flag.

970
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I censor it too.

971
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 4: But I want to thank those of you who said

972
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 4: I'd probably regret cunning him out, because I can tell

973
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,399
Speaker 4: you were right. My brother isn't perfect and did many

974
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 4: things to purposely hurt me, but people can change if

975
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 4: they want to, and he did. I wouldn't want to

976
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 4: be judged by my lowest point, and I'm working on

977
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 4: not judging him by his I finally have a brother back,

978
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 4: and forgiving him has helped me feel a lot better

979
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 4: in ways I didn't realize I needed. Thank you till yare.

980
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,760
Speaker 4: Forgiveness is a heck of a drug.

981
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 2: Nice.

982
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 4: We have an edits wow to answer oh, just saying wow, yeah,

983
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 4: the sec of a drug to answer some common questions. No,

984
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 4: my boyfriend from the original post and are no longer together,

985
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 4: but for separate reasons unrelated to the original post. We

986
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 4: just wanted different things and we are at different stages

987
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 4: of our life, but it was parting with minimal hard feelings.

988
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 4: I don't consider his reaction to be manipulative. It was

989
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 4: a hard to do this or word through? It was.

990
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 4: It wasn't a hard do this or we're through. Why

991
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 4: did my brother do it? There's no one reason. He

992
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,479
Speaker 4: was in a dark place and dealing with a lot

993
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 4: of issues in a bad way. He was ignorant about

994
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 4: a lot of LGBT stuff and relied on that ignorance

995
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 4: when it came to me. It took a while and

996
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 4: going off to college slash meeting new people for him

997
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 4: to begin questioning a lot of what he believed and

998
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 4: since getting help for his unresolved issues, it was a

999
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 4: step by step process until he saw how wrong he was.

1000
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 4: He said, he didn't even realize how what he was

1001
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 4: doing was hurtful a lot of the time because he

1002
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 4: was so in his own head and had some really

1003
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 4: bad influences on the influence on the internet reinforcing his mindset.

1004
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 4: I can understand that, and I love how far he's come. Wow,

1005
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 4: that's amazing.

1006
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 2: I'm really liking this story. Yeah, I'm really liking this story.

1007
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 4: W Redemption Kimberally fine, Why didn't our parents intervene though

1008
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 4: they always had Why didn't our parents intervene even though

1009
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 4: they always had my back? They did, they did a

1010
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 4: lot of the time, but most of what he said

1011
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 4: Slash did wasn't in their presence, and I was not

1012
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 4: going to be the one running to them each time

1013
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 4: I was a victim of something. They are good people,

1014
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 4: and I hold no animosity towards what they might have

1015
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 4: done instead. And what you can do. Every weekday at

1016
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 4: three PMBSD is tap our profile because we go live.

1017
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 4: What are your thoughts? You're loving this?

1018
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 2: I love it?

1019
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it.

1020
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1021
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 1: It's a great example of, like, you know, we don't

1022
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 1: we don't get a lot of stories where someone who's

1023
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: like super super like I'm not going to talk to.

1024
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 2: Them, just like stone stone volume right, pun intended. Nice.

1025
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 3: That's a deep cut right now, it's a deep cut.

1026
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 2: Wow.

1027
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 3: Yeah that took me a second, like, oh whoa.

1028
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: Anyways, So but I think that, Yeah, we don't usually

1029
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 1: get we don't usually see the someone flip around this much.

1030
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: And to be like it was a way I was carrying.

1031
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: It was anger I was carrying. I was able to

1032
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: let that go. I was able to have because you

1033
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: because to your point, Riley, it's like there's also the

1034
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: parents that you have to consider in this who are

1035
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 1: innocent because they were super accepting of Ope and they're

1036
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 1: trying to like, you know, and they know that the

1037
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: brother has Uh. It would be one thing if the

1038
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,919
Speaker 1: brother was still like so a raging homophobe, but now

1039
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 1: he's like they know that, he's like come around the corner,

1040
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 1: and he's like, hey, he's come around the corner now.

1041
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,359
Speaker 1: So you're almost in a way like the parents are

1042
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 1: just catching some shrapnel.

1043
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 2: You can continue to do that.

1044
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: So Yeah, just really nice to see Opie come around

1045
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: and the forgiveness bring them together.

1046
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. I love this beautiful.

1047
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 3: I like the parents how they let the brothers handle

1048
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 3: it and they didn't force it upon anyone. Yeah, you

1049
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 3: guys are adults. It's we're not going to force it

1050
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 3: down your throats. We're not going to take sides. Do

1051
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 3: what you need to do. If it doesn't work out,

1052
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 3: it doesn't work out. So your parents love it, honestly,

1053
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 3: don't let them. Let they let their brothers handle it,

1054
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 3: and look how it turned out.

1055
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:17,959
Speaker 4: Well, yeah it turned out. Here's the restless story.

1056
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 2: Here we go.

1057
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about showing my brother this and the previous

1058
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 4: threads so he has a better understanding of how I

1059
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 4: felt about this, and may update on later how it goes. Also,

1060
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 4: I just want to say to others out there who

1061
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 4: they feel they've been repeatedly wrong by someone to the

1062
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 4: point where they want to cut them off, that I

1063
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 4: know exactly how you feel. But the fact is people

1064
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 4: can change if they want to, and even if they do,

1065
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,479
Speaker 4: you're under no obligation to welcome them back into your life.

1066
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 4: But if you can find it in your heart, I'd

1067
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,359
Speaker 4: strongly encourage you to give them a fair shot at

1068
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 4: doing so. People do fed up things, sometimes many things,

1069
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 4: or for many years before they realize it and feel remorse.

1070
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 4: We're only human art, that's the only story. Wow, that's

1071
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 4: a great message.

1072
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 2: Same thing as before.

1073
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 1: Beautiful Yeah, and love the like message of forgiveness and

1074
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: you know, giving someone a chance on that and that

1075
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: person living up.

1076
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1077
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I like that they said fair shot too.

1078
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 4: It's on both sides. Yeah, they can't just be dragging

1079
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 4: you through the mud.

1080
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 3: No, it's it's a it's like a dance, you know,

1081
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 3: fifty to.

1082
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 4: Fifty, little dancy, little dango.

1083
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 2: Heck, yeah, we got any donos.

1084
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 4: We've got a lot of dons.

1085
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's in that story though, guys. Let's go

1086
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,879
Speaker 3: ahead and get the the next one, yes, sir? All right, John,

1087
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 3: you got the donos?

1088
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 2: Yes, sir, I think we're Yeah, it's three fresh.

1089
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're fine. I was just stopping the.

1090
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: Let me see it, I already Oh yeah, Mandar's Panda,

1091
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks in the clarification.

1092
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:53,399
Speaker 2: I listened to Spotify at work.

1093
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: Thanks clarification there, and then vix makes thanks for the

1094
00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 1: twenty five bucks on the Dono link. Boys, stream your

1095
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: favorite Auntie lunch Lady vix mixes here.

1096
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 4: Let's go.

1097
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 2: I will be doing more, but I want.

1098
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 3: A streams the best guys, all of you guys are

1099
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:10,359
Speaker 3: the best.

1100
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 4: No, it's ten hour stream.

1101
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: We haven't popped Keon's ten hour Cheery yet. It hasn't

1102
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:15,959
Speaker 1: happened yet.

1103
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,799
Speaker 4: We're good at twenty four hour one right?

1104
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, dude, whatever happened to that? Forgot

1105
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 2: about that?

1106
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 3: Do you guys see these bags? I like sleep. I

1107
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 3: don't get enough of it, Insomnia it sucks.

1108
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: And Slothy Cappuccino great username. Thanks for to ten Bucks,

1109
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: finally catching alive after many months of watching Love the Show,

1110
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 1: sending all the good juju to the crew and healing

1111
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 1: vibes Sophia from way over in New York.

1112
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 2: Oh kisses, love you. Thanks Slothy Cappuccino.

1113
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,399
Speaker 4: Oh thanks Amy. I vote that it's okay to pee

1114
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 4: outside Riley. It's a hillbili way, Grab a bush and

1115
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 4: pee on that tree. Amy, Thanks Amy.

1116
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 1: Stop encouraging chat. Stop encouraging him. I'm putting my foot down.

1117
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, I haven't done it in a minute.

1118
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 4: John caught me one time I did.

1119
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 3: It's like save a horse, right a cowboy? This is.

1120
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 2: Stopped him? She did? He did?

1121
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 3: He did?

1122
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 4: He stop my stream? And you know how I hate

1123
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 4: it when the stream stopped.

1124
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: Dude, he doesn't like a stop stream. Nope, No, that's

1125
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: I know that.

1126
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:23,760
Speaker 4: For facts, Amy, is Sam faking sick to ghost us again?

1127
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 2: He's not.

1128
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,760
Speaker 4: He's not. He's actually staying quiet.

1129
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 2: He's staying super quiet. He's on a ten day.

1130
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 4: How do we explain that.

1131
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's his thing. Well he'll explain it when he

1132
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 3: gets back.

1133
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll explain it when he gets back. I like that.

1134
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 3: You know what you know when I emailed him John,

1135
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 3: when I emailed both to you earlier, he replied back,

1136
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 3: it's like I'm out of office, don't email me.

1137
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I was, probably it wasn't an automated one.

1138
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 3: It could have been an automated one, but I think

1139
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 3: he like replied with a smile back, I don't know.

1140
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was probably automated.

1141
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 3: Okay, okay. I was like, automated one shouldn't have a smile. Yeah.

1142
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 4: What gave me so much joy. So I was like, so,

1143
00:55:58,280 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 4: what are you doing? He's like, I don't really know,

1144
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 4: but I'll be gone for today's and where. Oh sweet,

1145
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 4: it's good. It's good guys.

1146
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 2: Oh, Lindsay, thanks for to tuned New Zealand. Bucks. Sorry,

1147
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 2: I'm broke, but I love you guys so much like

1148
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: the dreams. You're good.

1149
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 4: We just want you here.

1150
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 2: We just got hang. We can say no, no donation

1151
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 2: is needed.

1152
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 3: Your presence is a donation enough.

1153
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 4: Oh there we go.

1154
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 2: Your presence is the gifted membership. Let's talk about it.

1155
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 2: Laurie thanks her of five bucks and the cute paarsticker.

1156
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: Love that dropping the mic? Oh dropping the mic? True

1157
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: and Hidi thanks for being a member for seven months. Uh,

1158
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: y'all are hot and sweet.

1159
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 2: It's a nice combination. Thank you, thanks, thanks. And then

1160
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:37,919
Speaker 2: is that something over there?

1161
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 1: Winter ninety six girl, five gifted memberships, let's go Winter

1162
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: ninety sixth girl.

1163
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 2: Has been Yep, we're dropping them.

1164
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 4: Yep, she has been spoking, speaking.

1165
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 2: Putting numbers on the board. And then Carl Woods says.

1166
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 3: Ten gifted memberships, let's go down.

1167
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 2: We love that.

1168
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 1: Oh and Lady of the Elephants takes it a five

1169
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 1: bucks so close, exit the chat and like the video.

1170
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 2: So those ben the wheel.

1171
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've got a lot of people here and nobody's

1172
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 4: spinning this week.

1173
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: We have so many people here. Guys, if you like

1174
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: the stream, will spind the wheel. It's it's really that's

1175
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 1: it's it's math. I don't know what it's math.

1176
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 2: You like it equals one like math, quick math.

1177
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 4: You get five hundred of your friends to also like

1178
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 4: we spin the wh bro.

1179
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: You don't even need five hundred your friends. You just

1180
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: need your one little little fingertip.

1181
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, click it.

1182
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 3: Calc the first has another guy stream. Yeah, everyone's sickle

1183
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 3: Mode right now.

1184
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 2: That's true. Super Sickle Mode.

1185
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 3: Were the only survivors right now.

1186
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:31,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1187
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:35,439
Speaker 4: Oh well, whoa, but Claire, I live in my van,

1188
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 4: so of nature's calling with me.

1189
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: Okay, well like roads, road road trips, all that stuff,

1190
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: like yeah, of course, of course, go ahead in a.

1191
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 2: Full house with multiple bathrooms.

1192
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 4: Unnecessary, don't My four year old also enjoys ping outside.

1193
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 4: Thank you, miss Ryan.

1194
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:54,919
Speaker 2: What is helping?

1195
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 3: What have you done Riley to like, I just be.

1196
00:57:58,240 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 4: Outside, dude, I don't understand.

1197
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: Like chat just wants to get a rise out of me.

1198
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: So they're now they're like all supporting Riley. That's exactly

1199
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: what's happened.

1200
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 4: Whatever. They're just supporting me being outside. No one's around.

1201
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 4: I'm not hurting anyone. I'm watering trees.

1202
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 2: Hurting me fixed mixed thanks to gifted membership, Big.

1203
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 4: Fifteen, I think from her true Yeah, I think we

1204
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 4: got Lori with five gifted memberships. Whoa, we got new

1205
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 4: family members dude, we are in the chat if you're

1206
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 4: a new family even me, I'm a new family man.

1207
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 4: He got gifted of membership.

1208
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 2: I got gifted membership. Whoever commented that reply, I forgot

1209
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 2: who it was.

1210
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: But if you're here now, let me know, because that

1211
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: made that made me laugh, Like why does John get

1212
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: a gifted membership of his own.

1213
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm.

1214
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, thanks, thank you validating me.

1215
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready? Yeah?

1216
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 4: Oh wait wait Francy in my pants. Riley saber Bush

1217
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 4: uses no.

1218
00:58:57,840 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 2: Stop it.

1219
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 4: She she was agreeing with you. You just said no, so

1220
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 4: now you're disagreeing with her, so then you're agreeing that side.

1221
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 2: Let's go.

1222
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 3: I kind of want to do a poll. And see

1223
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 3: he already did the poll.

1224
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:12,439
Speaker 2: Poll.

1225
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 4: He said no polls because he knows he's gonna lose.

1226
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 2: I don't care, no poll.

1227
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 4: Okay, al ready, allie, topy, thanks for coming a night.

1228
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 3: Let's go, John it is I went no contact, yes, sir,

1229
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 3: cool still Tilly is coming up and you are ready

1230
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 3: to go?

1231
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: My friend, I went no contact with my sister after

1232
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: years of mistreatment, but my family is pressuring me to

1233
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 1: reconnect talk to her.

1234
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: Go now, do it.

1235
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: I nineteen female haven't spoken to my sister twenty six

1236
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: females since November of twenty twenty two.

1237
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 4: Wow.

1238
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 2: This dilemma started around the time she.

1239
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 1: Was pregnant with her first child and we had a

1240
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,919
Speaker 1: relative come over to our family house to drop off

1241
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 1: a late baby shower gift. My sister doesn't live with

1242
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: us anymore. Instead, she lives with her boyfriend and his family,

1243
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: which is an hour and a half away when commuting.

1244
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 2: By the way, this.

1245
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: Comes from outside Macaroon thirty five. I've sent me two

1246
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: on our slash Okay start times about it. So the

1247
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,479
Speaker 1: gift sat there for a few weeks until my mom

1248
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: tasked me to keep the gift with me in my

1249
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: dorm until my sister had the.

1250
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 2: Time to come pick it up.

1251
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: As the drive of my university to her house takes

1252
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: around forty minutes, so a lot less time.

1253
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 2: The gift sat in my.

1254
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: Possession for maybe a month, and there was two instances

1255
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: where she had planned on picking it up but things

1256
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: didn't work out.

1257
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 2: I don't have a car so taking to so taking

1258
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 2: it to her was out of the picture.

1259
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 1: That was until an opportunity presented itself where my friends

1260
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: and I were going to have a trip and I

1261
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: had the idea to drop off the gift for her.

1262
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: I facetimed her to let her know of the trip,

1263
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 1: and I had asked for a small sum of gas

1264
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: money since it was still an added forty minutes to

1265
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: our original location.

1266
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, shipping fee five bucks.

1267
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: I'm just like, yeah, it seems like more than you

1268
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: need to do. Yeah, I would just wait for it

1269
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: to pick it up, but I Didn'teah.

1270
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, thee go on.

1271
01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: Over FaceTime, she agreed and everything seemed fine. A few

1272
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: days later I checked up on her to see if

1273
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 1: she was okay with spending the money for gas. She

1274
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: took a full one point eighty and was upset that

1275
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: I was charging her to drop off my nephew's new

1276
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 1: clothes and instead to drop it off at the family

1277
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: house for Thanksgiving and my mom would bring it to

1278
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 1: her instead. I was confused because she said it was

1279
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 1: completely fine over FaceTime, and I got a little upset

1280
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: because this was now the third attempt at handing over

1281
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: the gift, she said. She She said she originally agreed

1282
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: because she's used.

1283
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 2: To me doing something for something in return, and.

1284
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: She felt like she had to say yes because if

1285
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 1: she hadn't, then I wouldn't have said no to dropping

1286
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 1: off the gift. I told her that she didn't have

1287
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 1: to lie, and to be honest with me, she called

1288
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 1: me sensitive and I can't handle being told anything without

1289
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: taking offense. You see, eugen Z snowflakes, you snowflakes.

1290
01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 4: Flakes? Oh no, look at this boomer make a new here.

1291
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 3: I am leave him alone, Leave him alone, Leave us alone.

1292
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't handle, I responded, saying I'm the sensitive one,

1293
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 1: and my sister then brought up instances where she made

1294
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 1: comments about my appearance and I'd start crying.

1295
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 2: Oh my hey, you're ugly. Hey look why are you crying? Wow,

1296
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 2: you don't have a car, so sensitive.

1297
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 4: And your face is big and you can't drop off

1298
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 4: my package.

1299
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 2: Hey big face? Oh look at you. My face is

1300
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 2: so big.

1301
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: Huma humad hey stop it, damn leave us alone.

1302
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 2: I had added enough at this point and told.

1303
01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 1: Her that she'd been treating me awfully since I was

1304
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 1: a younger kid, and that I'd have enough of her

1305
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: poking fun at me and I'd like to stand up

1306
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: for myself instead of being called sensitive. This was the

1307
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: last message that was exchanged, and we haven't formally spoken

1308
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:53,919
Speaker 1: to each other since.

1309
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 2: So have we informally? Is this? Do we have some

1310
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 2: off the record conversations?

1311
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 3: Was this it? That's the like? This sounds like just

1312
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 3: like sisterly like sibling stuff. Yeah, this seems like it

1313
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 3: sounds like normal sibling stuff.

1314
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 2: Pretty light. Yeah, all things considered, especially specific, what we

1315
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 2: do like this is very very.

1316
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 4: Like this is what This is what my brother and

1317
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 4: I do every time I drop a package.

1318
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, like we mean to pick it up.

1319
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 2: It's like, ah, we forget, like you know.

1320
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 4: And then I call him fat face and then he

1321
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:28,480
Speaker 4: gets upset and you're like, who am I our childhood, though,

1322
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 4: my relationship.

1323
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: With my sister has been rocky for as long as

1324
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 1: I can remember. Literally, my parents kept a note my

1325
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: sister wrote that contained a list of reasons.

1326
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 2: Why they should give me away. WHOA how old is she?

1327
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 2: That's the question.

1328
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: If she was ten okay, like eight or nine? Okay,

1329
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: if she was six two? Oh yeah, that's bad.

1330
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 2: One of them being I liked going to the bathroom.

1331
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 2: Oh uh. One of them.

1332
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: One of them being because I liked going in the

1333
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:04,959
Speaker 1: bathroom to ask how their day was going.

1334
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 3: I was like three, she dude, this is like diet.

1335
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 4: So what is yeah, sister, because she asked how people's

1336
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 4: day Also so so Opie.

1337
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: They have a seven year age difference, which means that

1338
01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 1: she was ten yeah and Opie was three. But like

1339
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: come on, come what so she did right when even

1340
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 1: even still like I'd be like I'd sit my ten

1341
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 1: year old ten year old down and be like are

1342
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: you kidding?

1343
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 2: Are you stupid?

1344
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 3: No, it's literally the kids say the darness things. It's like, okay,

1345
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 3: don't say that's.

1346
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 2: So cute, and I'd be like, are you stupid?

1347
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 4: That's john.

1348
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1349
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: I can confidently say that I have more memories of

1350
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,479
Speaker 1: my sister being cruel to me than genuinely good ones.

1351
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: Some memories I have as a toddler range from her

1352
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 1: spilling hot chocolate on me and not caring, using scare

1353
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 1: tack on me to stop eating chips until I was

1354
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: hysterically crying, and constantly being told.

1355
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 2: This is why you have no friends.

1356
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 4: Oh oh wow.

1357
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 2: If there's one thing I remember from my childhood, it's

1358
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 2: that phrase from her. Wow.

1359
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 1: It's easy to disguise these behaviors as just sibling interactions,

1360
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 1: but these remarks continued, especially when I was going through puberty.

1361
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 4: Oh no, that's when it really sets in.

1362
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: She told me I wreaked of menstrual blood and I

1363
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 1: looked unattractive with all my facial hair. There were so

1364
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 1: many instances where I'd be mining my business and I

1365
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 1: was interrupted with a terrible comment. We share the same

1366
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: mendroom and any concern or boundary I had set with

1367
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 1: her was always met with an attitude and complete disregard.

1368
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: It seemed like I had to abide by her rules

1369
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: or else I'd be given a lecture regarding my sensitivity

1370
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: and how much of.

1371
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 2: A diva I was.

1372
01:05:56,840 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: Dude, I had finally had my space from her when

1373
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 1: she moved away from college, until I thought so when

1374
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen, my sister thirty female, Oh this is

1375
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 1: the even older sister, My even older, my oldest, hopefully

1376
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 1: sister thirty female had a very small presence of my

1377
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 1: childhood she was probably much older, moved back to the

1378
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,600
Speaker 1: house with her two kids, and I asked my dad

1379
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 1: for a lock to the room.

1380
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 2: We all once shared. I was berated by both of

1381
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 2: them for being his favorite, and they took it as

1382
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 2: an opportunity for me to be grateful because I have

1383
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 2: it so different from them versus when they were growing up.

1384
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 4: Oh wow, what the heck?

1385
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 2: So the older sister is also terrible?

1386
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 4: Wow?

1387
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 2: What's going on here?

1388
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 4: Speaking of that? Can I have a lock on my

1389
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 4: door from my bedroom?

1390
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 2: No? Just kidding, of course, Okay, it's crazy. We don't

1391
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 2: have locks in this house. I don't know what's going on.

1392
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 4: It does scare me some days.

1393
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, this kick started my depression. I didn't have the

1394
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: confidence to fully stand up for myself until I got

1395
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: out of pression and into my junior year of high

1396
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 1: school twenty twenty. But there wasn't many instances where I

1397
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:08,800
Speaker 1: had to until this whole gift dilemma.

1398
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 2: By the way, you can get the gift of us

1399
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 2: every weekday at three pm PSD. Just tap our profile

1400
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 2: to unwrap our smiles.

1401
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 4: Aw. That's beautiful.

1402
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, join us, but so really quick, let's let's

1403
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 2: let's let's talk as we're getting to the end.

1404
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 4: Here we go. Yeah, box gasoline match picture, sind a sister. Wow,

1405
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 4: that's what I'm doing. That's a that sounds like you've

1406
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 4: done that before. It sounds like you have the whole

1407
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 4: step by step. You have a you know, an sop u,

1408
01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 4: a list, a to do list, how to get out

1409
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 4: of it because you've.

1410
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 2: Done it so many times. It's just easy, like clockwork.

1411
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 4: Make sure there's just rock and gravel around, no trees.

1412
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: You're good, Riley, You're allowed to pee outside. I don't

1413
01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:58,440
Speaker 1: want any problems.

1414
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 3: Start bringing that up because chat still is talking about it.

1415
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, is still talking about but where's the

1416
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:08,960
Speaker 2: parents in all this?

1417
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:15,000
Speaker 1: Because again, again in all seriousness, if my ten year

1418
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: old daughter gave me a list of reasons why I

1419
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: needed to get get rid of my toddler and.

1420
01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:23,680
Speaker 3: They kept it, by the way they kept it, they

1421
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 3: kept the list. That was one thing that everyone is

1422
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 3: bringing up, like why.

1423
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 2: Did they keep it?

1424
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 4: They probably put on their fridge too.

1425
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 1: For you middle daughter, Yeah, I would, I would, I

1426
01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 1: would sit down and have a heart to heart and like, honestly,

1427
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 1: that's a.

1428
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 2: Good list, Like listen, no notes, this is that eleven?

1429
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, Like, depending on how that conversation goes, might

1430
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 1: like put her in therapy because I'm like, I don't know,

1431
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 1: like where is this coming from? Because I feel like

1432
01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 1: the I mean, it's normal to be jeal you know,

1433
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 1: like the baby of the family.

1434
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, but like callin her means saying and then getting

1435
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 4: facial hairs gross.

1436
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 3: Yeah. And then also the oldest sister. We don't have

1437
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 3: any sisters, but assuming this is three sisters, I think

1438
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 3: so so far I count three, and the oldest sister

1439
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 3: also gangs up on the little sister with the middle sister. Yeah,

1440
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 3: the fact that.

1441
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 2: Ye both suck.

1442
01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 4: What's up that?

1443
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:25,000
Speaker 3: I mean, this is pretty relevant, Like it says like

1444
01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 3: it's out there in the open. It seems like, but

1445
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:29,600
Speaker 3: did Op talk to her parents about this?

1446
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 2: That's what I'm wondering, is like, yeah, I don't know.

1447
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 1: Secret Waller says, I don't think the parents care about

1448
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 1: Ope much, which maybe that's where it stems from.

1449
01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:42,599
Speaker 2: Maybe they just like, I don't know why. I don't

1450
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 2: know why. Oh wait wait they did say.

1451
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 1: Now, now this this might have just been them creating,

1452
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 1: inventing something to torturopy with. But remember the oldest sister

1453
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:55,320
Speaker 1: said like, oh, your dad's like favorite, your dad's golden

1454
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 1: child or whatever.

1455
01:09:56,200 --> 01:10:00,640
Speaker 2: Right now? Is that true? We don't know, but I

1456
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. Yeah, it's kind of crazy.

1457
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 4: But no, if she's gonna be talking to this crap,

1458
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 4: don't give her the gift. Yeah yeah, just nef to

1459
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 4: use clothes, Okay whatever. He's probably outgrown by now because

1460
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 4: she's had it for a while.

1461
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1462
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: I also completely forgot. I'm aware this all started. The

1463
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 1: little gifts for the baby. Oh my gosh, super small. Okay,

1464
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 1: story time, My my mom's older sister was also like

1465
01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 1: eleven or twelve years older than her, and uh one

1466
01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 1: time she told her if she ate a watermelon seed,

1467
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:35,599
Speaker 1: then a watermelon would grow inside of her, and then

1468
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 1: she got really scared.

1469
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 4: Ah, that's so sad.

1470
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:41,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but anyways, let's get back to the story.

1471
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 1: So since our no contact started, she's already welcomed her

1472
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 1: second child into this world, and my guilt eat eats

1473
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 1: me every now and then because I haven't had proper

1474
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 1: time with either of her two babies. Both of my

1475
01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:56,640
Speaker 1: parents and my older sister are always pressuring me to

1476
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 1: reconcile with her, So the parent's side, the parent's side

1477
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: with her doesn't make any sense, even to the point

1478
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 1: of having a surprise face time with her while I'm

1479
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 1: in the car, I said hi, wave to the baby,

1480
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 1: and she later claimed to my older sister, I was

1481
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 1: making a rude face to her baby. You know, I

1482
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: think at this point we just got to beat the

1483
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: crap out of her. We just got to like little sibling,

1484
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 1: a little little sibbing, a little wrestle, a noogie war.

1485
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 2: We need a nuggy war. No, you never can get

1486
01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 2: a lock in.

1487
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 4: That's that's for brothers, niggi sisters. They fight totally different

1488
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 4: they're pulling hair. Oh yeah, theils.

1489
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 2: Dude, Cray, Do you have siblings? Oh yeah, you have

1490
01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:35,559
Speaker 2: the sisters.

1491
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:38,600
Speaker 3: That's older than you, she's younger, she's younger than you.

1492
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:41,679
Speaker 3: She looks older than me though I got my mom's looks,

1493
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 3: she got my dad's looks. Oh but yeah, no, like

1494
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 3: this sounds like because my sister's what five years younger

1495
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 3: than me? So this this all sounds like what I

1496
01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 3: grew up with both both ways, like like we would

1497
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:58,560
Speaker 3: just and then we're cool now we're cool now. But

1498
01:11:58,680 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 3: like growing up, it was just like, oh my god,

1499
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 3: do you suck? No? You suck? No, you suck, you suck.

1500
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 3: Da Coda's in the chat by the way, Dakota, we

1501
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:07,719
Speaker 3: miss you guys. Do you guys use.

1502
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 1: Wait gobblin Chaos Club. I was like, because it's all

1503
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: one word. I was like, what is he saying right now?

1504
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 1: I can't wait to be back to one of my

1505
01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: beautiful bebes.

1506
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:20,320
Speaker 4: Let's go get back to work, dude.

1507
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 3: But the words that were being said, like especially like

1508
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:23,640
Speaker 3: the facial hair kind of thing.

1509
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, it's like it's like two f

1510
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: It's like beyond the regular sibling, Like yeah.

1511
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 3: It's like there's always gonna be sibling sibling banter and

1512
01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 3: like you know, butting heads. Yeah, but this is just

1513
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 3: kind of intense.

1514
01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 4: If my sibling's been doing this, I'm not doing a

1515
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 4: nice thing for them. I'm setting their box on Flower.

1516
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 4: I'll maybe like watch their kid if they needed, but

1517
01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 4: anything for her.

1518
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, do you because Riley, Wait, John, do you

1519
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 3: have siblings?

1520
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 2: I have one younger sister. Yeah, how is that?

1521
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 3: How what's the age difference?

1522
01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 2: She's she's like twenty five right now.

1523
01:12:57,439 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've met your sister for a second.

1524
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:02,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. It was it was pretty good, honestly. Yeah, like

1525
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 2: we had some like just like you know, really, I

1526
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 2: think it's.

1527
01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 3: The age difference is also a huge factor. And again

1528
01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 3: these are seven years apart.

1529
01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 1: Oh that's actually we've never like talked about that show.

1530
01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 1: The longer the age gap is there more like tension between.

1531
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 4: I think to a point, to a point, I think

1532
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 4: it's like my brothers are ten and twelve years younger

1533
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:24,600
Speaker 4: than me.

1534
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:26,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're more like fatherly.

1535
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're like also a great guy, so yeah, yeah,

1536
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 4: but I'm like they're like my uncle. One time I

1537
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 4: did punch the crap out of my one of my

1538
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 4: little brothers, and I had I had to do everything

1539
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 4: in my power to make sure, like mom did not know.

1540
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 2: Was it like oh no, No, I was like, you're okay.

1541
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 4: Why I did it was I punched him really hard

1542
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 4: in the gut, and I was like, oh no, because

1543
01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 4: I was like a teenager and I didn't realize like

1544
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 4: my strength, and I was like, oh okay. And then

1545
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,759
Speaker 4: I was like, this is I'm training you as a ninja,

1546
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 4: Like you have to be able to have ninja reflexes

1547
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 4: and stop that. And that is the hardest punch you're

1548
01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 4: ever gonna fill in your life. So you got to

1549
01:13:57,920 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 4: be ready for that. And he bought it and he

1550
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 4: loved He's like.

1551
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, tears just coming down his face.

1552
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, Riley said, the world's gonna beat you up,

1553
01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 2: so I'm gonna beat you up harder. So let me

1554
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,400
Speaker 2: show you what the world feels like. Yeah, this is

1555
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 2: brotherly love.

1556
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 4: Yeah that was not anyways, that's you're going to We'll

1557
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:17,080
Speaker 4: get it back to the story.

1558
01:14:17,160 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 1: So I've always seen it as the ball is in

1559
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: her court because I uh sent the last text and

1560
01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:27,680
Speaker 1: I would like an apology for being insulted and lied to.

1561
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:29,639
Speaker 2: This feels like a strong word too.

1562
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 1: This problem obviously has roots beyond gas money, and I'm

1563
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 1: not sure if I even want to continue.

1564
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:36,519
Speaker 2: A sisterly relationship with her.

1565
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like the straw that brooks the camel's

1566
01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:40,640
Speaker 1: back if I've been doing just fine without her, and

1567
01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: sometimes I even forget I have another sister. But it

1568
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 1: sounds really cool, cool, and I feel bad my family

1569
01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:48,559
Speaker 1: can't be together in the same room all at once.

1570
01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

1571
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 4: N I feel like she may have done some sisterly

1572
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 4: things back to them in a way. Do you think so?

1573
01:14:57,360 --> 01:14:59,719
Speaker 4: Or was she just so bullied so much she didn't

1574
01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 4: even think she could do like she would like like

1575
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 4: does some kind things like in her shoes or whatever.

1576
01:15:06,439 --> 01:15:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean she's like down to like go out

1577
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:12,600
Speaker 1: of her way a bit to you know, bring the

1578
01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: clothes and stuff. So I that seems to suggest you

1579
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 1: would do other nice things.

1580
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:20,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think not the whole.

1581
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I would be like, hey, you've like

1582
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: hurt me for years and you haven't really ever recognized that.

1583
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:29,559
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I ever snap or anything. Carlina Winn

1584
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 1: says uh that she.

1585
01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:35,559
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're.

1586
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 3: Okay, You're okay, You're okay, okay, don't do don't tell mom,

1587
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:38,760
Speaker 3: don't tell that you're you're fine?

1588
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:39,800
Speaker 2: Can you crowl up a little bit?

1589
01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 3: And it else? Did let me stop that?

1590
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: The s no, you're okay, you're okay was done to

1591
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 1: me by my brother when I started crying after he

1592
01:15:48,240 --> 01:15:52,720
Speaker 1: hurt me too low, I think she said, Yeah, Yeah,

1593
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: I think uh, I think Op deserves an apology for uh,

1594
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 1: like how the sister constantly like just emotionally hurt her,

1595
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:04,560
Speaker 1: you know, And I feel like the family needs to

1596
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 1: recognize that and should and the parents should be encouraging

1597
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: her to do that too.

1598
01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1599
01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 4: Agreed, Yeah, agreed.

1600
01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:13,719
Speaker 2: That's my thoughts.

1601
01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 3: That's is there No agree, It's just that was it?

1602
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:18,680
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's all we got