WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dumpster Dive

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up, We got an email from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners named Joey, and joe admits he went against

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<v Speaker 1>our show advice even before the date happened, and he

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<v Speaker 1>used a corny pickup line on a dating app. Joey

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<v Speaker 1>on dating apps is where you know, sometimes the corny

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<v Speaker 1>lines can come off a little bit funny, but we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be the judge of that in just a second. First, Joey,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>matched with. What's her name? Taylor? Okay, match with her

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<v Speaker 1>on Tinder? And what struck you about Taylor? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she's hot, but anything else, well, she didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>much of a bios so that was really good. So

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<v Speaker 1>do you really need any more than that, Brooke? I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like at some point, if you're scrolling so

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<v Speaker 1>many times, there's got to be something else that stands

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<v Speaker 1>out about somebody that makes you. That's not how dating

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<v Speaker 1>apps work, Brooke. You don't get to know a person's

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<v Speaker 1>personality just by their profile. I'm married. I know there's

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<v Speaker 1>rumors that I'm on dating app. Okay, I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 1>if a girl's like I have a degree, And this

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<v Speaker 1>is if we don't care about that crown. Okay, this

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<v Speaker 1>single guy in the room can tell you. So you

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<v Speaker 1>said you used to pick up line on her, let's

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<v Speaker 1>hear what was it? So? I said, I just saw

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<v Speaker 1>the best up sexy ever and I already get it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she replied, what's up sexy? And I said, not much?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up with you? Okay? How did she respond to that?

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<v Speaker 1>If she laughs? She liked that? Yeah, okay, it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say. My husband is the king of the

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<v Speaker 1>what's up jokes? He does snow, he does sapping in yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I even him. So, I mean, it was really

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<v Speaker 1>cute when we started dating. Something to it. So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do when you went out? So we

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<v Speaker 1>went up to this Chinese restaurant. We learned about each other.

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<v Speaker 1>She's kind of recently single, okay, just like a month

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, a little soon. But I guess she dated

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<v Speaker 1>some jerk and it didn't really work out with their breakup.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the best. But that's the best for you, Joey,

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<v Speaker 1>because it means that you're going to come off looking

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<v Speaker 1>good probably no matter what, unless you find a way

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<v Speaker 1>to really really screw this up. Yeah, the bar is

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<v Speaker 1>already so low, right, but they gave us so much food,

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<v Speaker 1>and we had a ton of leftovers, and she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go get dessert. So we're on our way to dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>We passed this dumpster. I tossed in the leftovers thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm never gonna eat all this stuff. You threw

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<v Speaker 1>away good leftovers I did. I was like too full

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<v Speaker 1>to the point of being uncomfortable, so I tossed it. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>why why are you even bringing that up? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>a thing for her? Because it would have been a

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<v Speaker 1>thing for me. Yeah, this is part of the story.

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<v Speaker 1>You just got to know that I threw this box

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<v Speaker 1>into the dumpsters. Okay, okay, all right, she had her

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<v Speaker 1>own food, so this is just my leftovers. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>food goes in the dumpster. So we get to the

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<v Speaker 1>dessert place and about to pay with my card and

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<v Speaker 1>then I realized I don't have it, and it clicks.

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<v Speaker 1>I left the card in the to go box that

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<v Speaker 1>I just threw out. Oh my god, how did the

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<v Speaker 1>card get in the box? He put it in there?

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously potatoes. I mean I'm hoping there was a bag.

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<v Speaker 1>You were carrying it all in the bag. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>receipt was in there. My card was in there. I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of forgot because you know, I'm with Tinder Taylor,

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<v Speaker 1>so what you do? So I told her and we

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<v Speaker 1>went back to the dumpster that I dropped it into,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, it was pretty dark at this point, and

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't see the box in the dumpster. I'm laughing

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like this is karma for throwing out

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<v Speaker 1>good Okay, yeah, so I had to jump into the

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<v Speaker 1>dumpster and oh wow, Yeah, but she was helping, like

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<v Speaker 1>she was all on board with me finding this to

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<v Speaker 1>go box in my card, and she's shining her light

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<v Speaker 1>in there and like encouraging me to find it and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I probably I probably would have just called

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<v Speaker 1>and canceled the card and ordered a new one. Looked

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<v Speaker 1>in the dumpster, been like, oh, somebody threw away some

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<v Speaker 1>tyfoo to grab it. Nothing goes to waste in here.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's kind of insane. You're dumpster diving

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<v Speaker 1>on your first date. I mean, I didn't want someone

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<v Speaker 1>to get my card, and like, it goes through all

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<v Speaker 1>of the process of canceling and getting a new one.

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<v Speaker 1>So we did you find it? Yeah? I did find it,

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<v Speaker 1>And it just felt like the right moment and I

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<v Speaker 1>could tell we were both feeling it, and we had

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<v Speaker 1>our first kiss in the dumpster. No, wait, you were

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<v Speaker 1>both in the dumpster together, and that's where you shared

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<v Speaker 1>your first kiss. Now she was like standing on this

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<v Speaker 1>crate outside, but I was definitely in the dumpster. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>your first kiss is a dumpster kiss? Why no, you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Lady in the tramp Okay, they were in

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<v Speaker 1>an alley, there was garbage around, Like this is a

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<v Speaker 1>dream come true for Idaho Brooken Lady in the tramp

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<v Speaker 1>kiss by like sucking a spaghetti together. It was dirty, Okay, animal,

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<v Speaker 1>All I'm saying is I think I think you turned

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<v Speaker 1>lemons into lemonade. I think you took a bad situation

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<v Speaker 1>and somehow made it romantic. She kissed him back. She

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<v Speaker 1>liked it. Taylor liked it, right, Yeah, we were both

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<v Speaker 1>in it. It was really nice. And like I walked

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<v Speaker 1>her to a car and I had to go like

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<v Speaker 1>clean up, but before she left, we kissed some more

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<v Speaker 1>and like it was really nice. Okay, Taylor liked the

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<v Speaker 1>dumpster kiss, or she hated it so much she had

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<v Speaker 1>to have another kiss just to erase the bad memory.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's how it ended. You shared a kiss and

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<v Speaker 1>then you went your separate ways. Yeah, and I've been

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out and she has not responded for it's been

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<v Speaker 1>like five days now. Oh wow, I think it's obvious.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what do you think it is a kid history?

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<v Speaker 1>They kissed twice after the dumpster. I feel like women

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<v Speaker 1>want to have the memory of a romantic first date,

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<v Speaker 1>with a romantic moment as the first kiss, and it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen in a dumpster in an alleyway. Let's find out.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor for you, and we'll try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, Joey, hold on second, you're just

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in for the second date update. We're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with Joey. And look, we've heard some weird first

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<v Speaker 1>kisses before doing this segment, but this one might be

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<v Speaker 1>the strangest. Yeah. I mean, you have to picture a

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<v Speaker 1>cell phone flashlight, a little light, romantic music playing in

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<v Speaker 1>the background, while you're surrounded by old Chinese food inside

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<v Speaker 1>a dirty dumpster. Yes, do you smell that? That smells

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<v Speaker 1>like love? That was definitely not Chinese food, love mixed

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<v Speaker 1>with sechuan sauce. She was leaning over the dumpster. He

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<v Speaker 1>was inside of it, covered in crab and they frenched.

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<v Speaker 1>They frenched in the moonlight. I've been making it better.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's a perfect analogy for this year. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm assuming Joey that you frenched her or

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<v Speaker 1>did you chinese her. I don't know what the protocol

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<v Speaker 1>was in this situation. There's some French, there was some French. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are making fun. But I think you're guy, Joey.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. I think it sounds romantic. Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know what I'm talking about. Joey told us

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<v Speaker 1>he had his first kiss with a girl named Taylor

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<v Speaker 1>inside a dumpster because he tossed his leftover Chinese food

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<v Speaker 1>into there and forgot his credit card was in the

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<v Speaker 1>tag bag. He was so happy when he located it.

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<v Speaker 1>He kissed her in the dumpster. But now she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back, and we don't know why, or do

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<v Speaker 1>we This is gonna be a weird question. But do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she may I've met someone else while you

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<v Speaker 1>were in the dumpster. What it's a good opportunity. I meant,

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<v Speaker 1>you can only go up, only go up. But here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Let let's call Taylor and we'll find out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that she's been blowing you off lately. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to do this, man? Yeah, okay, here we

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<v Speaker 1>go a minute down the number. Hello, Hi, is this Taylor?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Taylor. Hi Taylor. My name is Jeffrey from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a second to talk? Excuse me? What's going

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<v Speaker 1>on here? We're doing a morning radio show and we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something called a second date update. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard of that before? No? I have not. Okay, Well, basically,

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<v Speaker 1>the idea is, if you go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can email our show and we'll reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>that person for you to try and figure out the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why they're blowing you off. Okay, And so somebody

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us about you recently, about me? Yeah, oh oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, yeah you know Joey. Yeah I met Joey. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well he told us about the date that you guys had.

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<v Speaker 1>He says he had a really good time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can he tell you about the dumpster? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the most memorable part of your date, right, yea,

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<v Speaker 1>it was something okay? Oh, come on, wasn't it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cute? He told us about how it wasn't his fault.

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<v Speaker 1>He forgot his credit card was in the bag, he

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<v Speaker 1>threw it away, you helped him find it. Thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was dumpster thriving more than dumpster. He thought it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you think? I thought it was fine. It

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bother me. What was that kiss? Like? Oh? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when he went for it or he was

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<v Speaker 1>about to go for it, I just kept thinking it

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<v Speaker 1>smelled pretty bad, but it's fine, And you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know if I wanted to kiss him, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, Okay, it's not really a glowing review, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a bad review. I mean that's Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the reason you're not calling him back? No? No, not really? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because he told us that after the dumpster kiss you

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<v Speaker 1>had another kiss later we did, So why are you

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him off? Now? Are you just waiting for the

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<v Speaker 1>stink to get off of his clothes to come out? No?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he did not text me for a really

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<v Speaker 1>long time, and I just realized, like he's not that

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<v Speaker 1>into me, and I had plenty of other guys that

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<v Speaker 1>were a little more eager, and I was swiping and

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up meeting you guys. Wait wait wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold on, hold on, have been like five days? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, it's been five days since your date? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that right? That's correct? Wait? How long is too long

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<v Speaker 1>for him to text back? I mean he didn't text

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<v Speaker 1>me back for forty eight hours. Two days, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>sweet spot. Two. I think two days is a little

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<v Speaker 1>too long. I can see what she's saying. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to know how you fit three dates in the

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<v Speaker 1>last five days. That is the management of time. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Joey mentioned that she's hot, so she must be getting

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people wanting to go out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you match or did you actually go out in date?

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<v Speaker 1>I've met three since ye, so you have you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you have met three cents in person. Yeah. See, so

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<v Speaker 1>you can't just put invested on one guy you know

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<v Speaker 1>who's not getting back to you. You You gotta spread yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I say good for you. How many times

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<v Speaker 1>do we have to say that? Dude? I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>fine too. However, if you read anything, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>totally cool. But you know what I mean, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you liked him, I mean, even though you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to these other dudes, Like, why don't you contact him

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<v Speaker 1>back at all? Though, Like he's just totally out because

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<v Speaker 1>he took so long. Yeah, because I think we need

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<v Speaker 1>you to take that long to respond to someone. It's

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<v Speaker 1>clear that you're not that into them. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to date someone who's like I'm their second or

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<v Speaker 1>third pick. You know, I think that's a miscommunication. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking, like, forty eight hours, two days, that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem like very much time to give a guy. That's

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<v Speaker 1>plenty of time just for a text. I mean, just

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<v Speaker 1>for a simple text. He may have texted me after

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours, but he definitely did not call me

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<v Speaker 1>until forty eight hours later. Okay, so you didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>within one day. Now, it's a little much on my side,

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<v Speaker 1>a little effort, I could see it. She wants some

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<v Speaker 1>effort to be seen, you know. Yeah, I just have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys that are interested right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time to just hang out with some

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<v Speaker 1>guy I kissed near a dumpster. Good, it must be nice, yeah, options, Well, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you have guys that are wanting to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you all the time, Taylor. But maybe you have

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of time to actually speak with Joey

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to tell you he's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening. He wants to talk to you right now, Taylor, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, there is Hi. Hi. Sorry I didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you sooner. I just I thought there was like a

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<v Speaker 1>three day dating rule where kind of let things move

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<v Speaker 1>made maybe in like twenty seventeen. But yeah, oh damn, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait wait though, I mean you got to look

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<v Speaker 1>at it this way, Taylor, Like he was so into

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<v Speaker 1>that he actually called us for help to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you. I mean, that's how into you Joey is.

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<v Speaker 1>If he was really interested, if you want to call

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<v Speaker 1>you guys dinner, maybe the night of he should be

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<v Speaker 1>calling for a second day up day, Like, as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as you get into the taxi and leave Joey, tell

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<v Speaker 1>tell her how much you like her. I thought we

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<v Speaker 1>really hit it off. I was just trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>polite and like not come off too eager and don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to overwhelm you or anything. I really like you.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be overwhelming to call a girl before two days. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That like you go out on Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>He texted you in that time period, Like that's enough.

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<v Speaker 1>In my opinion, sounds like chill for a second. Sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you want a clingy guy. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>say guy, but I don't want there to be question mark.

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<v Speaker 1>The longer it takes to call, the more time you

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<v Speaker 1>have to overthink on it and just cancel them out. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's on you, that's not on the guy. I just

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<v Speaker 1>said something. I find it kind of ridiculous set you

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<v Speaker 1>have this rule, and like I didn't know about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if you wanted me to call or

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<v Speaker 1>text or what your time period was. I just was

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<v Speaker 1>out of a loop on that. So are you questioning

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<v Speaker 1>me right now about how I'm getting my gaping life?

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<v Speaker 1>Because remember I'm very good looking. O she's in charge.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that good for you, Joey? Does that turn you

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<v Speaker 1>on a little better? Is that something that is? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I could play the needy guy. I just didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I need. So Joey's still into it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Well, in that case, I would like to

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<v Speaker 1>send the two of you out on one more date

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<v Speaker 1>to the nicest dumpster in town. Yeah, we'll pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm more sure, but you didn't respond quick

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<v Speaker 1>enough Taylor to respond, so I'm going to take that

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<v Speaker 1>as you're not that into him. That's giving me a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time, Okay, Joey, just saying no, I do have

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<v Speaker 1>some more dates signed up for the coming week, but

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be till next week sometime. But I would definitely

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<v Speaker 1>give you another chance. Well, you're you're putting him at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the list. Well, yeah, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to break off a date with somebody else and he's

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<v Speaker 1>on the list. Jeffrey, what do you want so much? Okay, Joey,

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<v Speaker 1>you cool with that? Yeah, I mean I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is, But I mean next day, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>call you as soon as you're walking away. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>good idea, Joe, that's funny, But don't like actually do

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<v Speaker 1>that because that's kind of pathetic. By It's broke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning,