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Speaker 2: to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because Rod and

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Speaker 2: Karen or Hut. The treatment accorded the Negro during the

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Speaker 2: Second World War marks for me a turning point in

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Speaker 2: the Negro's relation to America. To put it briefly, in

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Speaker 2: somewhat too simply, a certain hope died, a certain respect

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Speaker 2: for white Americans faded. One began to pity them, or

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Speaker 2: of a man who is wearing the uniform of his country,

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Speaker 2: so much for American male sexual security. Who does not

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Speaker 2: The very word begins to have a despairing and diabolical ring.

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Speaker 2: You must consider what happens to this citizen, after all

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Speaker 2: he has endured when he returns home, searched in his

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Speaker 2: signs saying white and colored, and especially the signs saying

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Speaker 2: white ladies and colored women. Look into the eyes of

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Speaker 2: with his ears to political speeches north and south. Imagine

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Speaker 2: yourself being told to wait and all. This is happening

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Speaker 2: the middle of the twentieth century. The subtle and deadly

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Speaker 2: not destroyed by wicked people. It is not necessary that

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Speaker 2: people be wicked, but only that they be spineless. Hey,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the Blackout to his podcast. I'm your host Rod,

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Speaker 2: joined us always by my co host Karen, and we're

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Speaker 2: The excerpt that I'm reading is from The Fire Next

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Speaker 2: Time by James Baldwin, and in particulars, I mean, the

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Speaker 2: all time classics. I think. You know, obviously James Baldwin

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Speaker 2: very racist. We had episode twenty two ninety seven Diamond

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Speaker 2: shit that happens in a school, right, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean? Teachers, to staff, to students' safety, to staff safety,

430
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 2: to be ensured everything's functioning.

431
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 1: Yes, there's a lot of shit.

432
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Speaker 2: And this was when she goes, I will make the time,

433
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 2: you know what. I'm gonna make their time.

434
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 1: Not fighting for my student's rights, but fighting against their rights.

435
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: She didn't like when I kissed her on the cheek.

436
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: This bitch must pay, you know what I mean. Like, meanwhile,

437
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 2: somebody's like, you know, somebody just shot Kid Ray. I

438
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 2: don't know about kid Ray, but I gotta go deliver

439
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 2: this paper station. That Diamond can't go to the prom.

440
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about kid right, Kid Ray

441
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Speaker 1: don't matter.

442
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 2: Right now, someone doing crack on the roof, Well, that's

443
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 2: too bad. I'll get to them myself.

444
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: Come out. That's too bad. Let them jump.

445
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 2: But right now I'm gonna make sure that this girl's

446
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 2: wearing a black gown when she crossed the stage and

447
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: last time she messed around with Principal Johnson or whatever.

448
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Speaker 2: A big thanks to Diamond for sharing her story with us,

449
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Speaker 2: and I hope she comes back as a guest whenever

450
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Speaker 2: she can. Thanks y'all, trade, Thanks Trey. And the poll

451
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Speaker 2: was have you ever ate on the toilet? Because and

452
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 2: guess the race there was a woman who was promoting

453
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: eating on the toilet by facing backwards the way you

454
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 2: can eat and use the bathroom at the same time.

455
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: No, No, like the way she was sitting on that

456
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Speaker 1: toilet and over the bowl.

457
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 2: No, okay, all right, well I'm not gonna lie y'all.

458
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 2: I ate on the toilet once it was not I

459
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Speaker 2: would not repeat zero out of five. Do not recommend.

460
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Speaker 2: It just ruins everything it does. It was the greediest

461
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Speaker 2: moment of my life. I think I had like a

462
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Speaker 2: breakfast sandwich or something, and I was already eating it,

463
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 2: and I was like, I gotta use the bathroom and

464
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Speaker 2: take a shower. And I in my mind, I thought, oh,

465
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Speaker 2: here I am multitasking. I'm eating, I'm using the bathroom.

466
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,479
Speaker 2: I got my shower, about to start, you know, warming

467
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 2: up with the water, and I was like, this was

468
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 2: a waste of all three of these things.

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Speaker 1: No, I never looked bad, I will say now facing

470
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Speaker 1: front with I have and it's one of those things.

471
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Speaker 2: I was like, that's what I mean facing front Okay.

472
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Speaker 1: Okay, because I was like, now I've never done that

473
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Speaker 1: bullet shit, but yes front, and I'm not like, every's

474
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: not a good moment, no doing this.

475
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like everyone had to have done it.

476
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: Like snacking this ship, like I got some m and

477
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Speaker 1: ms from going to the bathrooms.

478
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Speaker 2: Everyone had to do it once to realize this is

479
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 2: not a good I want to do. I would, I

480
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 2: would guess, I just don't. I just need to wait.

481
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 2: I think we're all living in the eating in the closet,

482
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Speaker 2: in the toilet closet, or the wash closet, as they say,

483
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: kay eating, We're all living in the in the wash closet, okay.

484
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Speaker 2: And I think it's time for us to come out

485
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Speaker 2: of the wash closet. And it meant that some of

486
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Speaker 2: us tried to eat on the toilet and went this

487
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 2: is not this isn't smart. Now my life has never

488
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 2: felt lower than than try.

489
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Speaker 1: Not doing this. This could have waited.

490
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,719
Speaker 2: I could have finished this big mac and after I

491
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Speaker 2: used the bathroom. Yes, this is this is just completely

492
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 2: a waste of my life anyway. Uh the pole results

493
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Speaker 2: yes eighty percent. No, so maybe I'm wrong. Maybe maybe

494
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 2: it's just me and you can green eyed Bander says,

495
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: anyone turning around on the toilet to set up shop,

496
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Speaker 2: skip the vaccine, You're good? Yeah, I think, Oh, maybe

497
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 2: that's what the problem is. They think, I mean turning

498
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Speaker 2: around and eating like this one.

499
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Speaker 1: Yes, that's why. That's why. Initially I was like, no,

500
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Speaker 1: I never No, that's some bullshit. Yeah, I ain't tut

501
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: I ain't turned around and set up no lunch tray

502
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: and there it was like, give me a full course

503
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: meal with a side of white wine. No, never done

504
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: that bullshit.

505
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Speaker 2: I just pictured of tying on that beib like mister

506
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Speaker 2: Bean or mister Bean, mister bean bro akison. Man. He

507
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 2: used to be he used to be killing it, man,

508
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 2: but he was about to eat something. You always be

509
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: making their faces and tying up that that viv and

510
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: cocking his head to the side of shit. I feel

511
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: like that's how you gotta eat. If you eat on

512
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Speaker 2: the trail on the back of your toilet.

513
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Speaker 1: You can't just come.

514
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 2: It's not just like grabbing a sandwich.

515
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Speaker 1: I mean shit, she put at the table cloth. She

516
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Speaker 1: had you tense, was like, the fuck is this? No,

517
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Speaker 1: I've never ate a full course to be a on

518
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Speaker 1: the to it No.

519
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 2: Blue way Rider says, what white nonsense? Is this? Nigga? Please?

520
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't blame y'all, but I wish I

521
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 2: should have worded the question differently. We should have said

522
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 2: sitting either way. Episode twenty two ninety eight. I'm sorry,

523
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Speaker 2: miss Jackson. We have full comments. Timman b eight to

524
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Speaker 2: six B eighty six says, in reference to the teen

525
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Speaker 2: Folks story, I definitely cringe when I see some of

526
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Speaker 2: my old Facebook posts from my twenties. A's for the

527
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,199
Speaker 2: Derreck Jackson story. I only have seen him once through

528
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 2: mutual friends. His content wasn't for me. I'm a little

529
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 2: leary of relationship advisors or couple content. I can't the

530
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: streets truly let him up. You both have me cracking

531
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: up this episode. Thank you, Tammy. That's another decision I

532
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: make sometimes where I'm like, I want today's episode to

533
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 2: be very funny, and then I'll be like we're just

534
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 2: gonna talk about these stories or we're gonna really get

535
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 2: into this guy. And that was, you know, like I said,

536
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 2: peep behind the creators whall. That was the thing I

537
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 2: was thinking, was like, Oh, this story gonna be so good.

538
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: I didn't even And like I that was my first

539
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 2: time playing Apology too, so that was, yeah, I didn't

540
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 2: even see it before.

541
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: A lot of shit I see steals and I just

542
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: keep trolling. I mean not con trolling, but strolling.

543
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: Scrolling, Yes, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling.

544
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep that time scrolling. Uh.

545
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: But but yeah, I think it is interesting how much

546
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: we're supposed to hold what this one girl did at

547
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 2: seventeen against her forever, right, But then this other woman

548
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: just fucked up like two years ago or some shit

549
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: or whatever, how many years her words, and she was

550
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 2: on the like get rid of her committee. And I'm

551
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: telling you it's something is up with this ship. I'm

552
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: I hate to use the words cancel culture because I

553
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: know it's a loaded term in this society, but but

554
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 2: but it's the term that has come to define all

555
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 2: this shit. So it is so a weird thing. It

556
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 2: is a weird, hypocritical thing that is very unfair, and

557
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 2: often people pick and choose their favorites about it. There's

558
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: sometimes where I think people call something being canceled when

559
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: it's literally just these were the consequences of doing something right.

560
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, but it is real, like it's you know,

561
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 2: it is a it is a thing. How you feel

562
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 2: about that thing and how it's willded is what changes.

563
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 2: And I'm telling you, conservatives are very smart. They've learned

564
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: how to cry file whenever it's pointed at them, and

565
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: then use the fact that people on the left kind

566
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: of believe in that shit to be like, yeah, I

567
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 2: don't believe it, yeah, because they like they're like, okay, well,

568
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: by y'all's rules, y'all got to get rid of this woman,

569
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: cause if it was one of us, y'all be like

570
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 2: get rid of them. Now when we go, well what

571
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 2: about you, Yeah, we ain't gonna do that. You know,

572
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: it's like it's like grabbing by the pussy. For Trump

573
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: was a death knelled man. Couldn't like he was supposed

574
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: to not even be able to run for president, but no,

575
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 2: it wasn't. He ran for president, he won. Nobody gave

576
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 2: a fuck on that side. He's our dude, we don't care.

577
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 2: Al Franken, he practical jokes and about titties and shit

578
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 2: like that. Uncomfortable needed to go, like like, it's just

579
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 2: it was just interesting to see the difference, you know

580
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: what I mean for the way that it's handled. Because

581
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: James Gunn you know, he ends up getting the job back,

582
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 2: but you know, he was taken off of a movie

583
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 2: because our old tweets that conservatives brought up because he

584
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: was making too many points about liberal shit. Today it

585
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: was like, we don't care about them old tweets. We

586
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: actually thought, you know, we love cringe humor and shit

587
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: that makes people uncomfortable and all this stuff. But guess

588
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 2: what you just said that you're you think Republicans are

589
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 2: wrong about something. You gotta go, you know, but it exists.

590
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: I just think it's funny because it doesn't work as

591
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 2: well for people that are very liberal, and so then

592
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,479
Speaker 2: they want to go it doesn't exist or it's not real.

593
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: It's like, no, that's not true. I'll tell you some

594
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: people that's been canceled. Collin Kaepernick, what would you call that? Right?

595
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 2: A bunch of people decided they don't want to see

596
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 2: him no more, regardless of his qualifications and it worked.

597
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: You know, it worked. So you know, people try to

598
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: say it's not real, and I think they just missing

599
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 2: the point. Anyway, I wanted to comment on the teen

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Speaker 2: Vogue thing. This is just say at eighty eight, I

601
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: do think it is out of line for people to

602
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 2: hold adults the things they said when they were young teenagers.

603
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: It is punitive and oftentimes done purely out of spite.

604
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 2: But I can't help. But it meant that I do

605
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 2: think it's okay when teenagers have college admittiss rescind it

606
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 2: when they get exposed for doing the same racist things

607
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 2: the fellow classmates, teachers, etc. But the way I reconcile

608
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 2: this is that college admission is based on what a

609
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 2: student did in high school. It limits the window of time.

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00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 2: Your mission into a university is based on grades. You

611
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 2: got a ninth tenth eleventh grade. Your mission is based

612
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 2: on the disciplinary actions you may have received the ninth,

613
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 2: tenth and eleventh grade. So in turn, your racist behavior

614
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: in ninth, tenth and eleventh grade matters, and schools have

615
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 2: a right to worry about it when letting a person

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00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 2: into their student body. Oftentimes, these students get caught up

617
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 2: because they have done the stack of things considered offensive

618
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 2: or racist over an extended period of time, and some

619
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 2: students is keeping the receipts. I like to think of

620
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: those students as black Twitter CSI Jr. Yeah, Yeah, for sure,

621
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: they're the ghost writer of Twitter. Cis black Twitter cs are.

622
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: There needs to be a time limit, but I can

623
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 2: understand if a person disagrees with my very specific stats.

624
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 2: Think about the Las Vegas mass shooting. There was a

625
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 2: country artist that performed for the event that felt strongly

626
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 2: about the Second Amendment beforehand. But a single, massive life

627
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: altering event change that stands completely, and that change and

628
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 2: ideas took place immediately. There's more nuance to the situation

629
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 2: than most people would choose to acknowledge. Well, this is

630
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: the most just saying post, just saying because we weren't

631
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: talking about this specifically, but I would do want to

632
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: say I agree with you one hundred percent. I think

633
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 2: it is different when you're talking about like this person

634
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: says something at seventeen and then they or let's say sixteen,

635
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,280
Speaker 2: they said they did racist shit at sixteen. They applied

636
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 2: to get into a college at say seventeen, and the

637
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: college accepted them and then this person gets exposed as like, yo,

638
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 2: they are being very racist. Yeah, I think you can.

639
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 2: The school is more than their rights to be like yeah,

640
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 2: we don't want you here, especially if it's like scholarship.

641
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 2: I know there's a cheerleader that had this happened last year.

642
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Speaker 2: I think I think that's totally different. I look at

643
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Speaker 2: it almost like not to compare something so harsh, but

644
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 2: like how people look at statutory sex, where it's like,

645
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Speaker 2: if a twenty five year old is dating a sixteen

646
00:34:53,640 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 2: year old, that is statutory rape. If a seventeen year

647
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Speaker 2: old is dating a sixteen year old, or eighteen year

648
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: old is dating a sixteen year old, I don't think

649
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 2: that's statutory rape anymore. Because now you're talking about two

650
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 2: people that you're talking about like a high school a

651
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 2: senior and a sophomore dating that happens all the time.

652
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Speaker 2: We start throwing people in jail for that. Everybody gotta

653
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 2: go to jail, you know. So I can see how

654
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 2: that's how I look at this, kind of like I said,

655
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 2: harsh comparison, I couldn't think of anything better, but where

656
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, I can see why this is much

657
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: more relevant to right now and the immediacy of it

658
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 2: in the context of it. And then at that same rate,

659
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: now though let's say you didn't allow that girl into

660
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 2: your specific college, you had to go to some other

661
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 2: college or whatever. The fuck If she's twenty five and

662
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: she gets a job at the New York Times and

663
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 2: so on, brings up she was racist when she was

664
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Speaker 2: fifteen in high school and she wasn't able to get

665
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 2: into the Tennessee College. I'd be like that shit don't

666
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 2: have nothing to do with now. Right, at some point

667
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 2: that has to go away. You know, I really think

668
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: we have a puritanical streak in us from all this

669
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: fucking religion and the way this country was.

670
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Speaker 1: Found it pishment.

671
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 2: We're addicted to punishment. And what's happening is it's no

672
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 2: longer cool to be addicted to criminal punishment. Right, everyone's

673
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 2: seeing the Crack documentary. Everyone's called Hillary Clinton super predator,

674
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 2: and we all see massive cacarcerations. So we're not actually

675
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: becoming better people. What we're saying is we're gonna shift

676
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: that same ideology to social faux pause. So now the

677
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 2: death sentence is you fucked up somewhere along the line.

678
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 2: I don't want to ever see you do anything socially,

679
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 2: you know, That's why people get obsessed about like NFL

680
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 2: suspensions and not how much time should someone go to

681
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 2: jail for beating a woman, but how many games should

682
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 2: they lose? We just moved the punitive part of our brains,

683
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 2: the madulah blagalla whatever. We move that shit off of,

684
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 2: Like here's criminal justice to how do I make sure

685
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: this nigga can't work at loads? And I'm like, it's

686
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: kind of the same thing to me, you know, not

687
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 2: the same consequences, is the same mentality?

688
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I understand. I understand both perspectives, but I

689
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: guess for me, I look at it as though a

690
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: lot of this, particularly when it comes to college, A

691
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 1: lot of people and it boils down to everything else

692
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: is do I like you and do I support you?

693
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: A lot of people are for this kick him out

694
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: of college if they say something racist. But if they

695
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 1: was like, kick him out of college because they said

696
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: nigga but they black, would people still have this same energy?

697
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 1: Like this is how I feel like, would people still

698
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: have this same enjurgy? Because yeah, the college has the

699
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: right to decide who goes here who doesn't go here,

700
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: and they have the right to put these rules and

701
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: regulations in line, and they have the right to say

702
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: you don't have the right to go here. Yes, and

703
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: according to to to that rule, they had the right

704
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: to deny both. But would you have the same energy

705
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: for the white girl that got kicked doubt versus the

706
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: black person who may have rhaptialized nigga on the post

707
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: in Twitter? We we we'd A lot of people still

708
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: have that same energy if the answer is yes, I

709
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: am one hundred percent cool with this, But for a

710
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: lot of people answers is gonna be no. So this

711
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: is from this is me and and and it's not

712
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: to sugarcoat anything, and it's not too to act like

713
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: people don't fuck up. Everybody fucks up when they're a child.

714
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: That's the thing. These are children that they're they're children.

715
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: Everybody fucks up as a child. And so you're holding

716
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: somebody who they still haven't formed all their critical thinking skills,

717
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: they're still trying to naviget life that they still don't

718
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 1: understand all the consequences and repercussions and actions to what

719
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: they do. They don't understand that, and so you're holding

720
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 1: an action that they did against them for their admission

721
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 1: to college.

722
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: How far does that go for you?

723
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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know, Like that's like, I don't

724
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: have an answer.

725
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm asking you, like because you're kind of saying,

726
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 2: you know, just the other side of it. How far

727
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 2: does that go? So somebody says it does something racist,

728
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: they should it shouldn't really like their child, they get

729
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 2: a kind of passed, and they it should still be

730
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 2: able to go to the college. You know, I'm not.

731
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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna fit following the thread out. What if they, like,

732
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, beat somebody up for being like I

733
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,479
Speaker 2: beat up an Asian person because they was Asian? Would

734
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 2: you still feel the same way if they were you

735
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, like, yeah, cause does it work

736
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 2: the opposite way, because I know where you're saying, like

737
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 2: people feel kin to people who are like them. So

738
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Speaker 2: if it was that black girl, would you feel the

739
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Speaker 2: same way? And then my question is, okay, cool, how

740
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: far does that go?

741
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Speaker 1: And my thing is this, like you said, it's one

742
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: of those things where you really would have to get

743
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: into the nuance and draw the lines. It's like if

744
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: you verbally say some shit and you haven't committed any violence. Okay, Now,

745
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: if you out here committing violence and raping and assaulting

746
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: and doing all that shit, yes I have the right

747
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 1: to say I don't want you in the midst of

748
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Speaker 1: my community.

749
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Speaker 2: I think it even extends to racism, though. I think

750
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Speaker 2: if we were talking about that teen Vogue editor who

751
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 2: said the stuff about Asians when she was seventeen or whatever,

752
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 2: if she would have lost a scholarship at seventeen, I

753
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,959
Speaker 2: would not have a problem with it at all, because

754
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's what the fuck happens. Like you, when

755
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 2: I went to school on scholarship, that shit came with

756
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: some stipulations. They don't just give you a scholarship. So like,

757
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 2: if I'm failing to meet the shit that qualifies for

758
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: the scholarship, and then I basically because that's what really happens.

759
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 2: Like it's not simply like, oh, you said some racist,

760
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 2: You're out of here. It's like, no, you violated the

761
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 2: clauses in the scholarship by doing this racist shit. You

762
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 2: no longer can qualify for the scholarship or this admission.

763
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: It's not a right, it's a privilege to go to

764
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 2: these schools, at least the way it is in the

765
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 2: United States. It doesn't mean you can't go to any school.

766
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: But like, if you think you're gonna be on the

767
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 2: cheerleading squad at Tennessee and we got videos of you

768
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 2: going on whatever said, nigger, nigger, nigger, we want to

769
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 2: resend that offer. I think that's fine.

770
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Speaker 1: Okay, like like, like to an extent, I understand that

771
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: because it's it's and I wasn't thinking of it. From

772
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: that perspective, I'm like, I like, from that extent, it

773
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:21,240
Speaker 1: makes sense. Okay, the school says we have a moral

774
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: clause and and that's it's part of the moral clause. Now,

775
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: from that perspective, I get it, Like not trying it's funny.

776
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: Like from that perspective, I completely understand.

777
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 2: Imagine if you were raising a teenager Layla. There's things

778
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 2: Layla does that she faces consequences for because you're a

779
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: teenager and you're becoming responsible for yourself, right, So there's

780
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: things that she might have done at eight that you

781
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: be like, well, she's just a kid. But at fifteen,

782
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: you're starting to step into that Like all right, you

783
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 2: know you're going into a young woman. You have to

784
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 2: be accountable. We're teaching you accountability. We're teaching you consequences.

785
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 2: And the thing that I feel is even and the

786
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 2: consequences for a pain that she's paying at say sixteen,

787
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 2: I just don't think they should follow her at say

788
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: like twenty one, are lesson she learned. I would love

789
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 2: for that to stay with her forever, but I don't

790
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 2: want her to be like because the other thing that

791
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 2: the other side of this is we're not teaching them shit, Hey,

792
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 2: you can just do whatever the fuck you want. Man, Hey,

793
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 2: the world is your arts to go to Harvard after

794
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 2: you just called everybody to school a nigger on stage

795
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 2: when you want valedictorian. Fuck it, Like, hey, you're just

796
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 2: a kid. So that's extreme example. But like obviously I'm saying, like,

797
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 2: learning consequences part of growing up too. I just think

798
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 2: the impost to have the consequence last forever. That is

799
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 2: what the quote unquote cancel culture shit is what is

800
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 2: where a lot of people talk about And anyone who

801
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 2: just wants to be in denial of that, I questioned

802
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 2: them because I'm like, you don't even want to live

803
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 2: in reality. You just want to like you either part

804
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 2: of these mobs or you are so involved with arguing

805
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: with the racist people that disingenuinely engage on this shit

806
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 2: that you don't even want to see that there's a

807
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 2: bunch of reasonable people being like, yeah, we might be being

808
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 2: a little too harsh.

809
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: Yes, And the thing is, I guess for me, I

810
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: understand from that perspective, and it's also one of the

811
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 1: things that I'm like you and I guess I just

812
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: fight against just the social death that people put on this.

813
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: They're like, you fucked up, this shit follows you forever,

814
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, that shit is stupid and it's dumb,

815
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: and nobody could survive ever if that penalty was placed

816
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: upon everyone. This is stupid. And so yes, if I

817
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: applied for a job at thirty and there's some shit

818
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: I did at seventeen, no, that should not follow me

819
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: because I should have evolved in changes. If I fucked

820
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: up yesterday, that's a whole different story, because I'm an

821
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: adult and I should know better, and I think for me,

822
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: I have a better understanding. But I still challenge people's

823
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: motives behind them when they say certain things and they

824
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: think that's my more of my perspective. You know, if

825
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 1: we're gonna have these rules, cool, if we're gonna have

826
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: these moral rules, and we said in the college says

827
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: that you have broke the moral rules and you can't

828
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 1: be accepted here. Cool, but we're gonna have to understand

829
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: that also applies to us to this all. This is

830
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 1: not all the white people. This is the black people

831
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 1: that they feel like break these clauses in these rules also.

832
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: And if you're cold with that, I don't have a problem.

833
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that one. Yeah, but if it's

834
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: gonna be no, they black, they look like me, but

835
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: fucking racists, I don't agree.

836
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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I agree as well. Uh love your cover.

837
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Speaker 2: Starvey P Says love your cover of the Derek Akson

838
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: Jackson controversy earlier this week. Man, he really pissed a

839
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: lot of people off. Because it's been almost a week now.

840
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 2: The jokes just keep coming and the stories just keep

841
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 2: getting worse. I don't know how. I don't see how

842
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: people anyone can take us advice seriously, after all this, Yo,

843
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 2: he's still trying to go. I saw he put out

844
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 2: like an after video with him and his wife just

845
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: talking to the people on YouTube. I guess trying to

846
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: make it look like, you know, hey, it's just all

847
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 2: good and then he put out a response video to

848
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: his to his own cheating video, and it's like almost

849
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 2: like I'm in on the joke to y'all, I'm laughing

850
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,800
Speaker 2: at myself. And look, maybe they've had time to process

851
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 2: this behind the scenes and they can't laugh about it.

852
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 2: But I think you have to be aware of what

853
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: you're showing the audience. It would be essentially like if

854
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:36,919
Speaker 2: me and Karen showt up on the air one day

855
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 2: and was like, y'all, we're getting divorced, and then the

856
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 2: audience would be like, what the fuck? And then we

857
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 2: came on the edit next day and it was like, anyway, y'all,

858
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 2: that was crazy. Ain't it funny? How niggas be cheating

859
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,479
Speaker 2: on their wives? That's what I was doing. Like people

860
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 2: would be like, I'm not ready to laugh with you

861
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 2: about this at all, y'all. Y'all could have been getting

862
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 2: the process of getting divorced for a year, and y'all,

863
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: Aine came the.

864
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 1: Song It's new to us and let us process.

865
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 2: Right, And that was That's what was weird. And it

866
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 2: just shows so much of us up with that influence

867
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 2: of culture type shit, because it's like image over everything content.

868
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: Keep that brand going and like you say, this is

869
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: something that who knows how long they've been dealing with

870
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,919
Speaker 1: this and all this stuff and they literally have rode

871
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 1: through the steps. But for the audience, this is the

872
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 1: first time they're hearing this, So no, they don't want

873
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: to hear you come back tomorrow and joke about some

874
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: shit because they like, Nigga, we just heard yesterday. This

875
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: don't make no sense. How are you already over this?

876
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: Then you get those types of questions.

877
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 2: Right, So but yeah, I mean he doing clownery.

878
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: So it's very which means he don't take it seriously.

879
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very clownshet.

880
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: But even if he does, it doesn't appear that he's

881
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: taking it seriously.

882
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 2: But how could he possibly think he could move like

883
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 2: this in real life while portraying themselves as a perfect

884
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 2: man to a certain audience, and not think his dirt

885
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 2: would get exposed? You hate lucky love to see it. Yeah,

886
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 2: what else is funny about that they've been doing? Like

887
00:46:56,640 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 2: they write up his football stats like like these.

888
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: Talking talk about digging high school shit up.

889
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 2: Right, They was bringing up they had so much he

890
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 2: was mediocre. Well, my god, it was all ones and zeros.

891
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 2: It was a binary code. Who knows zero one. It

892
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: was bad, y'all. Evin E says, it seems it seems.

893
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 2: I've seen some of those Derek Jackson videos on Facebook,

894
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: but I figured he was going the opposite of Steve Harvey.

895
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 2: It's all bogus because no one has the answers. But

896
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 2: nothing tells me this is a griff more than the video.

897
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: Derek react to his own apology a third person like

898
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 2: it wasn't him in the video. It was to me, Yeah,

899
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 2: Like to me, nothing just shows you ain't taking it

900
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 2: that serious. If you got this audience of people you've

901
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 2: been talking too seriously for however long, and it's supposed

902
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: to be like, you know, these relationships trying to help you.

903
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 2: He got right back in the car, put on another

904
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 2: skully and did another video.

905
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: I bet it's scuddy collection. I mentioned in my last

906
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: video that this zimpt from that.

907
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 3: I deserve to be held accountable.

908
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 1: Just what Derek Jackson's no exemption.

909
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 3: He's not exempt from that.

910
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 2: I'm also not a victim big.

911
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 4: So when I looked in the comments of this video,

912
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 4: I don't know if old Boy was trolling or not,

913
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 4: but he said, d I think I want to see

914
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 4: a reaction to this video, So let's do it.

915
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 3: And by the way, I'm speaking third person, A lot

916
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 3: of you already seen.

917
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: By the way, he deleted this video off his channel,

918
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:28,439
Speaker 2: so this is why the only way I could play

919
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 2: this from other people channel.

920
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: Wow.

921
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 2: I mean, he must have got a lot of like,

922
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 2: what the fuck are you doing this?

923
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 3: But this is Derek Jackson.

924
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 4: A lot of people think of him as a relationship

925
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 4: expert and guru and all of that.

926
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 2: Well, so he's talking about aself a third person.

927
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,240
Speaker 4: He and his wife are making this video because apparently,

928
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 4: at some point in their marriage, or maybe even beforehand

929
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 4: in the relationship, he didn't take his own advice and

930
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:49,359
Speaker 4: he stepped out and he got involved with other women.

931
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 3: As you heard them saying.

932
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 4: Now, upon first impression, nothing really stuck out to me

933
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 4: about him, but more so about the wife, Like I

934
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 4: heard her say that she stands with her husband, she's

935
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 4: proud to love him.

936
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 3: I heard he say that, you know, this is some

937
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 3: time ago.

938
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 4: They've already processed this overcame this, dealt with this a

939
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,479
Speaker 4: long time ago, and nothing's really new to her.

940
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 3: But just by her body language, I was really wondering, like,

941
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 3: did he.

942
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 4: Force her to do this video, Like she looked super uncomfortable,

943
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 4: like she doesn't want to be there. But then I

944
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 4: watched their live chat that they did right afterwards, and

945
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 4: you know, I kind of caught that this is just

946
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 4: a part of her personality, So that kind of explains

947
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 4: somewhat of her.

948
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 2: This is keep in mind, this is the same dude

949
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 2: that would have been on anyone else would have been like,

950
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,959
Speaker 2: she was uncomfortable. She this man fucked up. She don't

951
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 2: need to accept this apology. Women need to stop, you know,

952
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 2: messing with these clowns. But when it came to him,

953
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: he could see all the nuance. Even people like John

954
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 2: Gray was leaving comments on his video. John the Gray.

955
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 2: John the Gray came out of what works she was sleeping,

956
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 2: comments like now when you talked about me, I support you,

957
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 2: My brother, he.

958
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: Was, go ahead and buy her that night fancy com

959
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: I can't nobody pronounced like I did my wife. That's

960
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 1: how you keep them.

961
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 2: We watched Unite. It was so crazy, like what the

962
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 2: fuck is wrong with you?

963
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: Man?

964
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 2: But yeah, mind you this was supposted by someone else

965
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 2: because he posted got roasted and deleted, but people uh

966
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 2: captured it before he deleted it, so it's still out there.

967
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 2: I last all right. He should know that too. You

968
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 2: can't never take it down. He posted got roasted and ghosted,

969
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 2: and haha posted roasted ghosted. Okay, still and still go

970
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 2: get fried because you can't take it down. It's on

971
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 2: the internet. It's for ever, nigga. Someone probably scream recording

972
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 2: this ship right now that we're doing.

973
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: Come on, I wish they took that ship and embedded

974
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: it on their own page.

975
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 2: Everybody want to take hold you put that shit on

976
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 2: the YouTube. The poe was, who are you forgiving Quavo,

977
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 2: Derrick Jackson or both of them? Care?

978
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 1: Ooh, I don't like this, bod, but if I got to,

979
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'd rather say none of them. But

980
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: that's not an option, and that's why you purposely bade

981
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: that an option or or I don't care, but that's

982
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: not an option either. M I think I have to

983
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: choose the Migos boy Quavo.

984
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forget Quavo as well, because Quavo didn't make

985
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,800
Speaker 2: his money on saying I don't cheat. No, he didn't,

986
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 2: you know, like I like, I assume. I assume Quaevo

987
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 2: was cheating because of the way he rapped. But anyway,

988
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 2: fifty eight percent say Quavo, thirty two percent say both

989
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 2: of them, at eleven percent say Derek Jackson. Now that's interesting.

990
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 2: Derek Jackson came in last, but both of them came

991
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 2: in ahead of that, which is given anyway. Blue Way

992
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 2: Rider says, who these niggas? And he says they both

993
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 2: ain't worth for damn but at least Quavo good for

994
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 2: a bop every now and then. Yeah, Derek Jackson gotta

995
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 2: start rapping. Common says neither. I have no words for

996
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 2: either situation. Well, that's not a vote.

997
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: That's not an option.

998
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 2: Brittain, he says, forgive and forget.

999
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't forgive and forget.

1000
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 2: Come through, belove it, okay, let the church say amen.

1001
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 2: Jay says I'm not or is it? Giji says I'm

1002
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,839
Speaker 2: not forgiving any of them, but I also don't care. Well,

1003
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 2: that wasn't an option on the foe. If you don't care,

1004
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 2: don't leave a comment, don't vote. The next episode was

1005
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 2: Between the Blue Lines by Kelly and Beauregard. No comments.

1006
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: I thought this episode was funny, so fuck y'all.

1007
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought it was quite hilarious.

1008
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 2: I had a good time.

1009
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too.

1010
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 2: Black puppets on Sesame Street. Yes or no Yes, ninety

1011
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 2: eight percent say yes, two percent say no. Kamma says

1012
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 2: for me. The colleague Jowinner smoke, the college jender smoke

1013
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 2: was mostly because she's surrounded by people that have money.

1014
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,760
Speaker 2: This person is like a key member to her time.

1015
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 2: Why are we even crowdsourcing the poors to get this?

1016
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 2: It's like I have a box of chocolates my kids

1017
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 2: fundraising for. I can set up shop outside the grocery.

1018
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 2: I can bring it to work. I could ask ten

1019
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 2: family members to spend a dollar sposting to go fund

1020
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 2: me like the grocery store option. Feels like the grocery

1021
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 2: store option and clearly the most public slash risky that.

1022
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: And also we don't have access to tame amount of

1023
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: people she does. And like we said, we don't know

1024
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: what's going on behind the scenes. They may have asked

1025
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: her to do this, like she might not have even

1026
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: planned on promoting it. They may have asked her to,

1027
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: you know, and to do this a lot of people

1028
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: assuming that she was just like here, help my friend,

1029
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: but you know, they may have went to her. And

1030
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: also it may be one of those things where they're like, hey,

1031
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: we might actually get more money from the public that

1032
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: we can from the amount of money that you might give,

1033
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: because that goes back to everybody wants to control everybody

1034
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: else's money. Yeah.

1035
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 2: Also the thing for me, though, is I think they

1036
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 2: do post those go fundmes at the request of the people.

1037
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 2: I mean, and for the record, I get people that

1038
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 2: just like give them the money, fuck it because it's

1039
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 2: not our money and we don't care. Like I get

1040
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 2: it totally. But you know, I also saw that the

1041
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 2: other people on the go fundme that was given like

1042
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 2: five thousand dollars or whatever. It was Bella Roland and

1043
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 2: other famous people that fuck with her. So to me,

1044
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 2: it was their version of ten friends or whatever the fuck.

1045
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 2: It was like, all right, now, the famous people that

1046
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 2: follow me who also know this person and roll in

1047
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,439
Speaker 2: our circles, we'll put in something to we all put

1048
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 2: in how much he'll more than get the go fundme

1049
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 2: or whatever. And honestly, the thing that I think is

1050
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 2: funny is like, people hate so much shit Kylie Jenner

1051
00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 2: and them do this is just a Tuesday. Yes, the

1052
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 2: only people that's out of whack about it is us

1053
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 2: being like, oh, this bitch, but literally, it's this bitch

1054
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 2: for posting everything she does. Post a picture breathing, this bitch,

1055
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 2: some flat tummy tee, this bitch, you know, a picture

1056
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 2: with some motherfucker. We don't like this bitch. Like at

1057
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 2: some point they probably immune to the bitches. They just

1058
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 2: like y'all don't like us. Anyway, here's five thousand dollars

1059
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 2: and yes, I'll share it on the timeline for you,

1060
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 2: no problem.

1061
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: Right, And they read it don't care because the thing

1062
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: is the reason why back to what the president of

1063
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:33,879
Speaker 1: the reason why people do that stuff, Because we don't

1064
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: have the money, just be like, here you go, We'll

1065
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 1: just pay it. Because a lot of people would not

1066
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: try me fund. A lot of people are like, fuck it,

1067
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: here's the money for the candy. I'm not going to

1068
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: sell shit, you know, but that's an option. Some people

1069
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: may have it and still be like, no, I'm still

1070
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: going to ask my friends.

1071
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't think she I don't think it

1072
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 2: was as milicious. I think a lot of this stuff

1073
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 2: that people take as malicious is because they're jealous. And

1074
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that as a as a statement of joy.

1075
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 2: I'm not saying it pejoratively. I think people are jealous. Fact,

1076
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 2: people are envious. Fact, Yes, you know what I'm saying.

1077
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 2: This is not a value statement of like and that's

1078
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:14,240
Speaker 2: why you're weak ass jealous. Like no, people see people

1079
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 2: that have a lot of shit, especially in times like these, Yes,

1080
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 2: and they go, if I had that shit, I would

1081
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 2: be better at having that shit than you have than

1082
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 2: you are, and I would have just gave the money.

1083
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 2: And shit, It's like, sure you would have. Sure, I

1084
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 2: don't know what you would have done or not. But

1085
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 2: you got a cousin that need sixty dollars right the

1086
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 2: fuck now, you know what I mean, Like you the.

1087
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 1: Phone calls, but I know, yeah, I got the sixty.

1088
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: But guess who ain't having it?

1089
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 2: You. You know, you walk by somebody at the at

1090
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 2: the store, they need five dollars outside right now every day,

1091
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 2: so like, you know, to me, I just look at

1092
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 2: it like, well, you know, it's kind of whatever. The

1093
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 2: person will probably get the money because she promoted it,

1094
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 2: even if she got fried, and at the end of

1095
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 2: the day, that's probably all that matters. So who cares

1096
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 2: if she gets fried?

1097
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: Really, and she don't even care, she don't got fried

1098
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,479
Speaker 1: so much like Esster, she becomes immune to the heat.

1099
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 1: And that's the funny part, Like people get up in

1100
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: the upgrade every time they do something, and you know what,

1101
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: she actually don't give a none of That's how.

1102
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 2: I would imagine. I don't know. Maybe they are reading

1103
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: all they shit, but I don't know them. Kr Dashians

1104
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 2: seem like they kind of got to figure it out

1105
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 2: with Look, controversy is what's gonna mood a needle and

1106
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 2: everything we do just about it's gonna be controversial. Fuck it.

1107
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: That's what it seemed like their whole model is. I'm

1108
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 2: not saying that's good. I just I don't want to

1109
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 2: get I think a lot of times I lend myself

1110
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: to the opposite of outrage when it comes to celebrity

1111
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 2: shit because I don't want to make that another trigger

1112
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 2: for me in my life. I want to have control

1113
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 2: over my own emotions and I want to have control

1114
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 2: over my own reactions and shit. So maybe I'm a

1115
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 2: bit out of touch with the general consensus. I'm fine

1116
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 2: with that. Like, I don't need to be in lockstep

1117
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 2: with with with the crowd every single time, and it's

1118
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 2: not to be a contrarion. I just literally find it

1119
00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 2: to be a waste of fucking anger to to be

1120
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 2: mad at these motherfuckers are. And I think there's an

1121
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 2: emotional toll and cost to anger, and I like to

1122
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 2: spend mine, not frivolously.

1123
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: Correct, because you don't have unlimited amounts of it. And

1124
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 1: I think for a lot of people, and that goes

1125
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: back to some of the things we talk about before,

1126
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: with the obsession and all that stuff. That's what a

1127
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: lot of that's them down to. And this is one

1128
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: of those things. But a lot of people feel like

1129
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: they did something. I must have an opinion or I

1130
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: must have something to say about it.

1131
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know that's what we do for a

1132
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 2: living too. It's just I don't I just prefer not

1133
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 2: to attack it from a place of anger all the time.

1134
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 2: I just it's too much.

1135
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, And sometimes they're just human beings and they do

1136
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: just normal regular human beings.

1137
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 2: Shit, But who are I'm just saying who are they?

1138
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 2: Without the outrage?

1139
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: Correct?

1140
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 2: I literally think that all the time with them? Who

1141
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 2: are they? How big is this family if it's not

1142
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 2: for the fact that people are consistently outraged and promoting them?

1143
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: Right? Earbady complained about how they want to go way,

1144
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: but if you quit looking, they.

1145
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 2: Would actually go, Yeah, I've been on it for years.

1146
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 2: It seemed like that's what it is. It hasn't changed,

1147
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 2: you know. But whatever she says, just black fathers on

1148
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 2: these sesme screeks about to be fixing cars for a

1149
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 2: couple of dollars and teaching Elmo how to roll dice.

1150
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 2: One here for it. If we going black, give me

1151
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 2: the authentic experience. Pops gotta have a sony walkman with

1152
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 2: algreen and two families around the corner from each other.

1153
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, they're gonna be playing spades, and you know

1154
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: what they've been gave them a little phades and stuff.

1155
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: I'm here for and I am here for it. I

1156
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: hope they have neighbors and little girls with that FROs

1157
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 1: and ponytails. I'm hip for it.

1158
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 2: I would love to see them teaching spades to like Elmo, Yes,

1159
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 2: el Mon, say flip that bitch over? Like what flip

1160
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 2: the queen?

1161
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:53,959
Speaker 1: Flip the bitch? Flip the bitch over?

1162
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 2: Why because I got the bit ygger slap Oh damn elm.

1163
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 1: And playing who know the black way? They're gonna be like,

1164
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: you can't stack fuck them rules were stacking.

1165
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 2: I do want to see the corrupted influence they would

1166
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 2: have on the other people, but then you know, the

1167
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 2: woke Blacks would definitely be against this, so I don't

1168
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 2: need to see the boycott. So on my timeline, let's

1169
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 2: get to the last episode of the week. Zeek the

1170
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 2: hype Man twenty three hundred, twenty three hundred smooth y'all, okay,

1171
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 2: twenty three hundred episodes eve, He says, I gotta admit

1172
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 2: that I keep forgetting to watch on Sundays, and then

1173
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 2: when I look at my DVR, I remember it's your

1174
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 2: recaps that has made these last few episodes interesting. As

1175
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 2: long as you guys keep recapping, I'll keep watching that.

1176
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 2: Set being said, this episode has been the most engaging

1177
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 2: since its return, and I'm looking forward to seeing this

1178
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 2: new world. I hope Eugene finally gets laid. Yeah. Once

1179
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 2: I realized what the purpose of these episodes were, I

1180
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 2: was just a lot more like, Okay, let me lower

1181
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 2: my expectations because I was expecting like a lot more

1182
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 2: plot lines, storylines and shit. But this is more like,

1183
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 2: look is hard, It is hard to film anything, and

1184
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 2: it's motherfucking pandemic, and we want to keep people working,

1185
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 2: but we not gonna be able to go back to

1186
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 2: anything that looked like normal for a while. So here's

1187
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 2: some more here's some more episodes letter almost like feature apps,

1188
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 2: and now I'm fine with that.

1189
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: Yes, And it would surprise me if they'd be like, hey,

1190
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: we're going to people get their shots. We're gonna quarantine

1191
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: like they know. I'm pretty sure, you know, once we

1192
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: get to the point where they got the cities and ship,

1193
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: they probably went through a lot of protocol to get

1194
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: all those people.

1195
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 2: That want Maybe, I mean they might not start filming

1196
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 2: all that shit till vaccines are available and stuff that

1197
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 2: it might be a while for they really put out

1198
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 2: that next season. I know they you know, have some

1199
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 2: dates and stuff, but I would imagine a huge part

1200
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 2: of this is gonna be like how many people are vaccinated?

1201
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 2: Who if there's actors who refuse to be vaccinated. That's

1202
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 2: gonna be a thing, you know, because Disney and stuff

1203
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 2: are showing you can film stuff, but you got to

1204
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 2: go to a bubble system and it's very hard. Yep.

1205
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 2: The Paul was have you ever been knocked out while

1206
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 2: wearing a helmet? Yes?

1207
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: Or no? No?

1208
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 2: For me? Nine percent said no. Three percent said yes,

1209
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 2: I'd love to see who that three percent was. Shay

1210
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 2: says no, I have not, but no kink shaming, though

1211
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 2: sounds like a hell of experience. If the helmet is rocking,

1212
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:23,959
Speaker 2: I will not come and knocking. Need some concussion sex.

1213
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 2: That's on you. I ain't judging, but no for me.

1214
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: Not for me. I've never been knocked out.

1215
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 2: Get that Will Smith in concussion sex. All right, let's

1216
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 2: get the voicemail seven O four five five seven zero

1217
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 2: one eight six. We got one voicemail seven O four

1218
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 2: five five seven zero one a six two minutes or less.

1219
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 2: Good morning, Rod and Karen. This is Yaffa from San Diego.

1220
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: I just saished listening to the last episode and I.

1221
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 2: Could not stop laughing.

1222
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm especially speaking to the part about Derek Jackson and

1223
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: you guys are still talking about it, and I thought

1224
01:02:57,680 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: I was so creative and was like, I'm.

1225
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 2: Sorry, but check.

1226
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: And run it like what was l I'm so out.

1227
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 4: I could not stop laughing like I could.

1228
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 1: Had to stop typing because I was laughing so hard.

1229
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: But anyway, I just want to thank.

1230
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 2: Y'all for your show, and I appreciate everything that y'all

1231
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 2: do and just many more blessings y'all. All right, be easy,

1232
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 2: Oh thank you y'all, and we we appreciate you. Okay, yeah,

1233
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 2: it is. It was. It was funny because that did

1234
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 2: come to me like a few seconds into ninety seconds,

1235
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 2: but a few like a couple of minutes into us

1236
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 2: breaking it down. But I was like, I'm gonna save

1237
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 2: this for the last thing that I say when we

1238
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 2: in the segment. So but yeah, good luck to her,

1239
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 2: because if you go on her page, it's not funny

1240
01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 2: at all. I saw her Instagram, y'all, y'all.

1241
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:54,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even want to go.

1242
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 2: Look, it's not it's not a good look and low key.

1243
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 2: It's why I've said it on the show before. You know,

1244
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 2: don't get offended my Christian listeners. Okay, I'm sure it's

1245
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 2: probably all the religions, but I don't even really know

1246
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 2: a lot about Christianity. That's why I was raised in

1247
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 2: the thing that made me be like, I don't think

1248
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 2: this is right was how the church treat gave people

1249
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 2: and women. Man, it was just like, this is fucked up.

1250
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 2: The things you have to believe in order to be

1251
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 2: a good Christian woman, and a lot of pastors and

1252
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 2: a lot of church going men's eyes, at least since

1253
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 2: Sis had normative ways. It's real fucked up, like subsurd,

1254
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 2: almost slave shit. I know, I wouldn't you know. I

1255
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't want to be in a partnership with no woman

1256
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 2: that felt she needed to do all that shit, like

1257
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 2: she got to basically disrespect herself and let me disrespect

1258
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 2: her so we could be together. Or she a bad

1259
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 2: Christian and some people really believe in that. And I

1260
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 2: think what people are seeing with her with her social

1261
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 2: media it, you know, it could also be other things.

1262
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 2: I'm not ruling anything out. I don't know anything about

1263
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 2: a mental health, but just literally just from what she's

1264
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 2: saying at face value, a lot of that shit just

1265
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 2: gives me them vibes of like this is a cult,

1266
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 2: And I think anything can be a cult if you

1267
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 2: believe in it enough and let it take over your

1268
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 2: life enough, you know. And to the point where this

1269
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 2: man is clearly disrespecting you and you're y'all basically sitting

1270
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 2: there together like it's Satan somehow doing this and not

1271
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 2: his wayward penis Like my nigga, that the shit is

1272
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 2: gone too far, you know, so uh, but don't take

1273
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 2: my advice. I'm just a nigga that don't sit in

1274
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 2: this car and make video. So I don't know. You

1275
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I go put on a beanie

1276
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 2: and get in my car, and then I'm gonna tell

1277
01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 2: y'all and then we can uh, then.

1278
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 1: We might need to have a conversation all of us.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it's gotta be a lucrative deal. Though he

1280
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 2: got some books anyway. Kirk Franklin feedback Krystal Wright saying, Hello,

1281
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. I haven't commented in a while, and

1282
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 2: I'm way behind in my episodes. I just wanted to

1283
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 2: comment on the Kirk Franklin situation for myself. I haven't

1284
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 2: actually heard anyone say they were canceling Kirk Franklin. I

1285
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 2: know my opinion. Yeah I haven't either. I know my

1286
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 2: opinion isn't a minority. But my issue with the situation

1287
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 2: is a number of people I know in real life

1288
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 2: and online declaring that they routinely curse out their kids

1289
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 2: and staying in solidarily with Kirk Franklin. Perhaps it's someone

1290
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 2: who has seen family dynamics like this up close and

1291
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 2: personal with my mom and sister. It was triggering, and

1292
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 2: like you mentioned, maybe we are projecting our own anger

1293
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 2: on this. I have no idea the dynamics, but I

1294
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 2: do not understand anyone that thinks it's okay to speak

1295
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 2: to anyone, regardless of age, in that manner. Well, all

1296
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 2: I'm saying is this, if you from what you were

1297
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 2: able to see in that snippet that we played, it.

1298
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Speaker 1: Was obviously that happened beforehand.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, you are projecting. Everybody who is quote unquote

1300
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 2: picked some type of side in this is projecting. We

1301
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 2: literally don't have shit to go off of, but like

1302
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 2: twenty seconds and it's clearly cut out of a conversation,

1303
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 2: meaning that anything could have been said to him before

1304
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 2: he went the fuck off and all. And the people

1305
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 2: that are like, yeah, cuss him out because he deserved it,

1306
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 2: We don't know that. Don't cuss him out. He's an

1307
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:32,760
Speaker 2: innocent boy at thirty five or whatever. We don't know that.

1308
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 2: We don't know shit. I'm comfortable coming on this air

1309
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 2: and saying in some situations, I don't know enough. I

1310
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 2: don't know what the fuck. I do know why I

1311
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 2: was put out to manipulate the public perception and stuff,

1312
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 2: But do I really know what happened. No, and that

1313
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 2: is perfectly fine. Now if it makes you go on

1314
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: a mental tangent light it reminds me of this, so

1315
01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 2: that that's fine. But just understand that, as you brought up,

1316
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:02,720
Speaker 2: it is projection, you know. Pretty much, any deep take

1317
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 2: on that thirty seconds or whatever is a form of projection.

1318
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,320
Speaker 2: You know. People bring in what they're informed by in

1319
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,280
Speaker 2: their own lives. Whether it's abuse you experience as a kid,

1320
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 2: whether it's issues you have with your own children. You know,

1321
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 2: whatever it is you're bringing that. My sister routinely curses

1322
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 2: out me and my mom, and it's very toxic. My

1323
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 2: mom and her go back and forth. It's horrible. I

1324
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 2: don't have the same relationship with my mom as we

1325
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:30,600
Speaker 2: don't talk to each other in that manner. But I

1326
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 2: understand also my sister had different experience with me growing

1327
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 2: up as also when I interact with her, I tell

1328
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 2: her I'm sorry you feel that way and hang up.

1329
01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 2: I'm not going back and forth and cussing you out.

1330
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 2: It too is toxic. When you know better, you do better.

1331
01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 2: So all that to say, perhaps I understand her and

1332
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 2: frustration similar to the sun. I don't know that's how

1333
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 2: you feel.

1334
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 1: Yeah and yeah, And that goes back to we're protecting

1335
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:54,680
Speaker 1: we don't know the dynamic of their relationship.

1336
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:57,679
Speaker 2: Imagine your sister cusses out your mom, your mom cusses

1337
01:08:57,720 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 2: her back, and then she only put out the clips

1338
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 2: of your mom her and said, look what, Look how

1339
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 2: terrible mother she is. You know better because you have

1340
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:09,640
Speaker 2: seen that both sides of it, So you would be like, no,

1341
01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 2: this is a toxic relationship going back. And you also

1342
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 2: cussed me out as your sister, and I never cussed

1343
01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 2: back at you, So I know that a lot of

1344
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 2: this is coming directly from you and then my mom

1345
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 2: by reacting to it, because let's be let's be fair,

1346
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 2: you're bringing up being triggered. Well, your mom's being triggered

1347
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:32,680
Speaker 2: when her own daughter is calling her cussing her the

1348
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 2: fuck out, and that might trigger a reaction in her

1349
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 2: because she the lash back out. So you know that.

1350
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 2: So my point being like, there's there's a bunch of

1351
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 2: ways to react to something. I don't necessarily know that

1352
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 2: one's right or wrong, but I could tell from whatever

1353
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 2: was happening in that clip, Kirk Franklin was clearly reacting

1354
01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 2: to something that was said, because I know he didn't

1355
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 2: just pick up the phone hello, hello, motherfucker, I'm about

1356
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 2: to kill your ass, like it didn't happen that way.

1357
01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, I just I just don't. I don't feel

1358
01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 2: it strongly that, you know, I needed to have like

1359
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:10,160
Speaker 2: a definitive take. Now that being said, I wasn't really

1360
01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:12,000
Speaker 2: I didn't really see a lot of the you know,

1361
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 2: your parents don't be cussing you out, must couldn't be me.

1362
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:16,880
Speaker 2: I didn't see a lot of those tapes.

1363
01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: I kind of got rid of a lot of them. People.

1364
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if that was out there, that is fucked up,

1365
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 2: and I think normalizing that shit is pretty fucked up.

1366
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 2: I think emotional emotional abuse is still abuse and kids,

1367
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 2: especially if children not thirty something year old men, but children, really,

1368
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:35,760
Speaker 2: that's not much they should be able to do that

1369
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 2: would get a parent to that point. You know what

1370
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm sure there is something that I don't

1371
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:42,960
Speaker 2: know about, but I can't imagine there being a lot

1372
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 2: of shit that just leaves parents coming home cussing their

1373
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 2: kids to fuck out like Kirk was doing, talking about

1374
01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 2: stepping on their neck and shit. I did just want

1375
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 2: to point out that the kid that Kirk's wife is

1376
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:58,120
Speaker 2: not his son's mother. I think we know that because

1377
01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:01,439
Speaker 2: he already has been married before. If I'm not mistaken,

1378
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 2: he has a son from his first marriage. His son

1379
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 2: and I grow up in the same household and has

1380
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 2: a legend of past being our side for the family

1381
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 2: for being gay. I take what Kirk and his daughter

1382
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 2: say with a grain of salt. As a son also

1383
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 2: a ledgers, Kirk was inconsistent with therapy. Yeah, well, his

1384
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:19,240
Speaker 2: son just came out today and accused him of molesting him.

1385
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:24,759
Speaker 2: So once again, I don't know what the fuck happened.

1386
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:29,599
Speaker 1: Nobody does, nobody, nobody does. Nobody really knows what happens.

1387
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 1: Nobody really knows what's going on. And as somebody that

1388
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,840
Speaker 1: has been on the the other kind of the other

1389
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: side of that, you know these types of situation. It's

1390
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: one of those things where if you're not in it,

1391
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:44,639
Speaker 1: you just don't know, and like you say, everybody feel

1392
01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 1: like they must say something about it. I picked the side,

1393
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 1: picked that side. We don't know, we don't know how

1394
01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:52,600
Speaker 1: many years, we don't know how deep it goes. We

1395
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: don't know what's been done instead of what pain has

1396
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 1: been caused on both sides, So you know, and I

1397
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:02,840
Speaker 1: know that for a lot of people, these situations trigger

1398
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:04,839
Speaker 1: things in them, and that's why you get the people

1399
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 1: who feel either way very strongly.

1400
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:10,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm sorry Kirk did not marry his first

1401
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:13,160
Speaker 2: the mother of his first child, so just nobody write

1402
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:16,679
Speaker 2: in about that. But yeah, I'm just I know enough

1403
01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 2: to know that we don't know everything. And the same

1404
01:12:20,120 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 2: way that people like run to online to start shit

1405
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 2: and to to get that public opinion on them like

1406
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 2: that shit is very very alluring to folks. Now, it's

1407
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:38,800
Speaker 2: very tempting to take a con conflict you're having and

1408
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,880
Speaker 2: just go online and be like, here's my side of it. Now,

1409
01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 2: y'all go get them. And I'm like, yeah, that I'm

1410
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 2: trying to avoid being in any of these mobs. We'll

1411
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:51,280
Speaker 2: find out, and we have the luxury of time. If

1412
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 2: this shit is true, then Kirk will face you know,

1413
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 2: the ridicule and the consequences of it. And if it's not,

1414
01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 2: then who gives a fuck if I was late to

1415
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:01,839
Speaker 2: the party. You know, I don't need to be first anyway.

1416
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 2: Mainly stated, now, I'm on no one side. I understand

1417
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,839
Speaker 2: we will never know the family dynamics and cannot comment

1418
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 2: on things we are privy to. However, people are equating

1419
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:11,240
Speaker 2: yelling and telling your kids to clean up the house

1420
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,639
Speaker 2: with the tirade is mind boggling. Yes, his child has grown,

1421
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:17,080
Speaker 2: but this is an issue and has been bruined likely

1422
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:19,280
Speaker 2: since he was a child. I think it could have

1423
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:21,559
Speaker 2: been a good conversation for our community, but it's not

1424
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 2: okay to talk down to yeather your kids. That it's

1425
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 2: not okay to talk down to yell your kid. That's

1426
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 2: emotional abuse is a real thing. Instead, it devolved into

1427
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 2: people proudly stating they have how they routinely curse out

1428
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 2: their own kids, and how kids can test your patients. Yes,

1429
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 2: I'm a parent as well, so I understand to get

1430
01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:39,320
Speaker 2: frustrated with my own kid, but some of the commentary

1431
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 2: is downright sat in the polland anyways, just wanted to

1432
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:42,200
Speaker 2: write in.

1433
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: Oh thank you for writing in, And this boils down

1434
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: to something that I really feel. This letter is for

1435
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: people that are not in the room. This letter is

1436
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: for all those people on Facebook and social media is

1437
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 1: that you have interacted with, which is fine, but this

1438
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:59,439
Speaker 1: is not directly directed towards us or any of that

1439
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 1: They triggered something with the U and event happened. They responded,

1440
01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 1: and now you're responding to their response, which is fine.

1441
01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:08,559
Speaker 1: But I thank you for your comments and you having

1442
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 1: an understanding of this, because a lot of people do

1443
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 1: this and they don't have an understanding that they're just projecting.

1444
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think that's that's what happened, basically because

1445
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 2: we wasn't saying none of that, just checking in. Tyler says, Hi, y'all,

1446
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 2: congrats all making it to the big time. Y'all you

1447
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 2: are the new media and need a voice for the

1448
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 2: other people. Also, Karens food podcast is the shit. Glad

1449
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 2: you are all out here supporting small local restaurants. We

1450
01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 2: got this thing in Spokane called Spokane Quarantine. This guy,

1451
01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 2: Rick Clark started at last March to support restaurants during

1452
01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 2: the shutdown while providing meals to those in needs shelters

1453
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:48,559
Speaker 2: both homeless and the dv Old Folks homes. Then moved

1454
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 2: on to just anybody they could get to the restaurant.

1455
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:56,879
Speaker 2: We would raise money and buy food at full price. Anyway,

1456
01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 2: it would be nice to hear something like that was

1457
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:00,000
Speaker 2: happening in Charlott.

1458
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 1: I have no idea it might be possible, but we're

1459
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:06,800
Speaker 1: not aware of it.

1460
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. The only thing I see for

1461
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:13,720
Speaker 2: Charlotte quarantine.

1462
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 1: Oh so that's the thing.

1463
01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 2: I'm googling it. It's a thing, some type of music thing,

1464
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 2: Quarantine music together of Charlotte. So I don't know if

1465
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 2: they have something like that.

1466
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 1: They're not calling it that anyway.

1467
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 2: You guys are have a favorite small business of three

1468
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 2: restaurant or otherwise favorite small businesses? Uh in Charlotte. H

1469
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 2: what's qualified as small right? I mean I guess yeah.

1470
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 2: I mean there's like this Chinese place that we went

1471
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,880
Speaker 2: to actually last night, and I've actually made sure to

1472
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 2: go to them at least like once a month. I

1473
01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:02,000
Speaker 2: mean one because I love their food obviously, but also

1474
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 2: we just really got to know the owners and people

1475
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:08,639
Speaker 2: that running and you know, we fuck with them. It's

1476
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 2: called lotus too. And you know, for my money, they

1477
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 2: got the best Pride dumplings in Charlotte.

1478
01:16:15,400 --> 01:16:17,840
Speaker 1: But you get your money's work from what. I love everything.

1479
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 1: And he caught us model yeah yeah.

1480
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:23,599
Speaker 2: But like he was like they they love seeing us,

1481
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 2: and uh we watched like the kids get older and

1482
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 2: all this ship and then you know, with the fucking pandemic.

1483
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 2: We just make sure that just you know, because for

1484
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 2: a while I have forgot about them during the pandemic

1485
01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 2: because it was like, they don't do delivery out to

1486
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:43,599
Speaker 2: our area. They don't do any of the like door dash,

1487
01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 2: ub ship, and so I was just like, damn. One

1488
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 2: day I was thinking, I was like, did they go

1489
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:53,759
Speaker 2: out of business? Like maybe they went out of business.

1490
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh no, I fucking I love

1491
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 2: those guys. So then I just called and they was

1492
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 2: like they were still there, and I was like, okay, cool,

1493
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:03,600
Speaker 2: let me start going back, and you know, I go

1494
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 2: in there, like I said, at least like once a month,

1495
01:17:06,080 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 2: maybe twice a month, and just going there, buy a

1496
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:11,799
Speaker 2: bunch of food, and you know, they'll you know, sometimes

1497
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:14,640
Speaker 2: they talk to me about the hornets. Yesterday he was

1498
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:15,880
Speaker 2: talking about the stimulus.

1499
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: Yes, that was hilarious.

1500
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 2: He said he got the six hundred, but he ain't

1501
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 2: get some of the other stimulus. Yes, And he was

1502
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:24,240
Speaker 2: like what's up with that? Like I was like, he's like,

1503
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,439
Speaker 2: you get them, you get the six hundred, Like, yeah,

1504
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 2: you get the fourteen hundred. I was like, yeah, yo,

1505
01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: we got He's like, oh I no, fourteen hundred man.

1506
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, like that.

1507
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 1: He was hilarious.

1508
01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:39,080
Speaker 2: He's also a big basketball NBA fan. I used to

1509
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 2: talk to him about the NBA when I back when

1510
01:17:41,640 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 2: I lived on that side of town that I go

1511
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 2: in there all the time, and he always want to

1512
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 2: talk to me about the Hornets because he knew I

1513
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 2: was a Hornets fan. And he's like, Hornets suck man,

1514
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:54,559
Speaker 2: and I'm like, yeah, they do. That's my man dog.

1515
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 2: So that's the small business definitely. I don't know if

1516
01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 2: Infinity and there's a small business that counts, but definitely

1517
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 2: in one of those ones, I go in there about

1518
01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 2: all the incense, like once or twice a month, you know,

1519
01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:11,720
Speaker 2: stuff like that, Like I just think of places I

1520
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:15,240
Speaker 2: want to see stick around. Siam Garden another one that

1521
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:17,200
Speaker 2: I try to hit them up at least once a

1522
01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:19,439
Speaker 2: month or two. They got to me the best tip

1523
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 2: fried rice. Yeah, that that old woman in the back.

1524
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:28,760
Speaker 2: Then the kitchen, she be throwing down right right.

1525
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: She might not speak much, but she be cooking.

1526
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:35,880
Speaker 2: She be throwing down Okay, So I think, yeah, I

1527
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:37,719
Speaker 2: guess in a weird way, a lot of the businesses

1528
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:43,799
Speaker 2: are kind of like Asian businesses, but you know, we Saigon,

1529
01:18:44,520 --> 01:18:48,240
Speaker 2: I said, Sion Palace. And then there's also something Saigon

1530
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:52,680
Speaker 2: something that's a fun place up the street and I

1531
01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 2: haven't been to them, not sim Garden. And then the

1532
01:18:56,880 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 2: other one is something Palace, Saigon Palace like that anyway

1533
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:04,840
Speaker 2: that they do fun, and I haven't been to them

1534
01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:07,960
Speaker 2: because fun it's just literally by the time you get

1535
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 2: at home, it's not what it's supposed to be.

1536
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 1: It's not the same.

1537
01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 2: It just ain't the same.

1538
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 1: That's something that you actually need.

1539
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 2: All the water in the world can't make it right.

1540
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 1: You just it's something about just the bowl and the hotness.

1541
01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:25,160
Speaker 2: And they don't have no outside there's no outside thing

1542
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,400
Speaker 2: to eat, so you can't be like, let me sit outside.

1543
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:29,840
Speaker 2: They do sell Chinese food, so I guess technically I

1544
01:19:29,880 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 2: could order some Chinese food from them. But nigga, it's

1545
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 2: the fun. It's the fun.

1546
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:37,519
Speaker 1: It's so good. It's some of the best, and you

1547
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 1: get you get like you get, you get like that

1548
01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:43,639
Speaker 1: old school, big ass bowl full of it. It ain't

1549
01:19:43,640 --> 01:19:45,479
Speaker 1: the same at home when you don't have like the

1550
01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: hoison and the motherfucking like like the pios in there

1551
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:54,759
Speaker 1: and up and then you get like your glass noodles

1552
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 1: running noodles, like I can't explain it, but it ain't

1553
01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 1: the same. It's like you're doing it yourself and ain't

1554
01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 1: the same. But they have it already. The bowl ain't

1555
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:04,720
Speaker 1: burning your hands, Come on, what are you doing? And

1556
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,559
Speaker 1: the brown things burning your tongue?

1557
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:08,000
Speaker 2: Right, it ain't the same.

1558
01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 1: I ain't the same.

1559
01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:12,000
Speaker 2: But you know what, I'm gonna order for them soon.

1560
01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that too, because they, like I said,

1561
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 2: it's all these places. I'm like, I need them to

1562
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:18,200
Speaker 2: stay in business, you know what I'm saying. When this

1563
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:21,320
Speaker 2: vaccine kick in and the world starts looking a little

1564
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:23,120
Speaker 2: more normal, I would love for them to still be there.

1565
01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 2: And then, like I said, in this environment with so

1566
01:20:26,320 --> 01:20:28,840
Speaker 2: much agent hate, so much of the business went down

1567
01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:33,240
Speaker 2: because of coronavirus. So we try to like support that way.

1568
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 2: And it's one more top place downtown. And I can't

1569
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 2: remember the name of them, but they had the crab

1570
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 2: fry right, yes, so good, yes, but fuck, I can't

1571
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 2: remember the name, but I know you're.

1572
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:48,720
Speaker 1: Talking about too. And uh, Sushi one on one is

1573
01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:51,600
Speaker 1: one of another place that we love it. It's this

1574
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 1: place and if we had just started going to a

1575
01:20:55,040 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: Raleigh Thie. Yes, Raleigh Thie is absolutely delicious. What was

1576
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 1: it in this another place? I don't think it's uh Asian,

1577
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:07,960
Speaker 1: but easy like Sunday, it's like a brunch place. They

1578
01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:11,280
Speaker 1: had recently opened up. We had just started going. Their

1579
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 1: brunch is absolutely delicious and we don't want them to

1580
01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:15,080
Speaker 1: go out of business either.

1581
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they have, of course had very exclusive hours

1582
01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 2: and ship you know, like it's very much like we

1583
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:24,760
Speaker 2: closed at three, you know what I'm saying. But yeah,

1584
01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 2: I fucking love those guys.

1585
01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 1: So what is the What is the other breakfast places?

1586
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:33,720
Speaker 1: They got one up street from us, but it ain't

1587
01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:34,599
Speaker 1: as good as the one.

1588
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 2: The toast isn't a small business. I think that's huge.

1589
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 2: I think Toast is everywhere.

1590
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:40,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so.

1591
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's so Yeah, basically just all the Asian

1592
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:48,639
Speaker 2: places is what we're trying to keep in business around here.

1593
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:52,639
Speaker 1: You makes remember this restaurants so I bad.

1594
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:55,240
Speaker 2: You know, all the soul food places seem to be

1595
01:21:55,320 --> 01:21:58,559
Speaker 2: doing fine right now, but you know there's a few

1596
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 2: that I frequent. But it yeah, so all right, but

1597
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:05,280
Speaker 2: thank you, Tyler. It says I'm only up, I'm only

1598
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 2: up to late February. So you guys better still be

1599
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,639
Speaker 2: together or this is one awkward email. White supremacy is terrorism.

1600
01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:13,800
Speaker 2: Stay safe and healthy. Since herely Tyler still to go.

1601
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 1: We are and we got. We got that first round

1602
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:18,839
Speaker 1: waiting known as six second Micael Chip.

1603
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 2: Self slash Family traumas is from diverse plants. Hey, guys,

1604
01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:26,839
Speaker 2: so to Walking Dead Rod, you were right. I believe

1605
01:22:27,200 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 2: you mentioned a theme where with last week's episode about

1606
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:34,519
Speaker 2: family relations which turns out to be family traumas. Lol.

1607
01:22:34,600 --> 01:22:37,160
Speaker 2: I think it continued this week, Princess letting the audience

1608
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:39,599
Speaker 2: know more about her and the trauma from her family

1609
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,320
Speaker 2: pre apocalyst. Also, as a bonus, we got to see

1610
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 2: the difference in two characters, Princess and May psychological response. Oh,

1611
01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 2: I'm with Gabe. I would have killed that psycho too.

1612
01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: I want to see what happens with Micheon, but they

1613
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:57,719
Speaker 2: probably won't run that until the final season. I also

1614
01:22:57,920 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 2: enjoyed the interview y'all had with Diamond, Thank you, thank you.

1615
01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:04,439
Speaker 2: Hes happy to know you both received a vaccine. Yeah,

1616
01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:07,599
Speaker 2: and so far, so good. No side effects other than

1617
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:10,360
Speaker 2: the sore arm and that that lasted a day or two.

1618
01:23:10,439 --> 01:23:13,000
Speaker 2: And now I feel fun so we do you know?

1619
01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:16,680
Speaker 2: I did want delicious human brains Saturday afternoon.

1620
01:23:16,280 --> 01:23:19,000
Speaker 1: After I did not I was asleepy oh.

1621
01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:22,920
Speaker 2: And Zack Snyder's Justice League was amazing, Rod, your favorite

1622
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:26,800
Speaker 2: joker was back lol. And maybe some of those people

1623
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:29,400
Speaker 2: who voted yes to eating on the toilet or drunk

1624
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,320
Speaker 2: and still trying to make it make sense dang ye

1625
01:23:31,400 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 2: l D thank you. And I saw Zack Snyder's Justice

1626
01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:37,640
Speaker 2: League and I actually did a spoil more review of it,

1627
01:23:37,720 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 2: so if y'all want to hear my thoughts, check it out.

1628
01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 2: Cancel Culture. This is from Mike. Mike says, Hey, Rody Karen,

1629
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 2: this is wait Mike. I'm sorry, Ray, this is Ray.

1630
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 2: I don't know where I got Mike from. Ray says,

1631
01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:55,200
Speaker 2: this is Ray from the eight to oh FO. The

1632
01:23:55,280 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 2: last time I wrote to you was episode two, twenty

1633
01:23:57,840 --> 01:24:01,559
Speaker 2: six podcast side checks. Than y'all religiously and y'all got

1634
01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:04,439
Speaker 2: me through the early morning while I'm making breakfast and

1635
01:24:04,439 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 2: get ready to go upstairs to do remote work. Well,

1636
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:10,080
Speaker 2: thank you. I wrote in because I wanted to talk

1637
01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:12,479
Speaker 2: to you about Cancel Culture, and I think it's almost

1638
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:15,840
Speaker 2: entirely bullshit. I think that saying cancel culture plays to

1639
01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 2: the hands of political conservatives, white folks who want to

1640
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:21,639
Speaker 2: find a way to be victims. I think the reason

1641
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:24,160
Speaker 2: that I personally spend so much time ridiculing cancel culture

1642
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:26,919
Speaker 2: is because it's either a thing or it has always existed.

1643
01:24:27,320 --> 01:24:29,519
Speaker 2: Do some people deserve to be canceled? That's a person

1644
01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 2: to person decision. When you learn of some bad thing

1645
01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:35,280
Speaker 2: that some person has done. Yeah, I mean, I just

1646
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 2: think it's one of those things where I think the

1647
01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:43,880
Speaker 2: term means something, it is useful. I also think it

1648
01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:47,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't matter what the term was, you would have conservatives

1649
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 2: that would eventually use it for bad because that's what

1650
01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 2: the conservatives do. I don't want to let them govern

1651
01:24:53,360 --> 01:24:55,639
Speaker 2: what the fuck we can and cannot talk about, right,

1652
01:24:55,800 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 2: So I can so I can be like, you know,

1653
01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 2: this shit is O to control when uh, this black

1654
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:05,639
Speaker 2: woman is losing her job for some tweets from when

1655
01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 2: she was seventeen, and at the same time be like,

1656
01:25:09,360 --> 01:25:13,400
Speaker 2: but it's not cancel culture. When y'all say Sharon Osbourne

1657
01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:15,000
Speaker 2: needs to get the fuck off of TV for being

1658
01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 2: having a racist meltdown, Like I can live in that,

1659
01:25:18,840 --> 01:25:20,960
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying? Like I don't need to

1660
01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:23,839
Speaker 2: be like, I'm not even gonna use this word, like, Nah,

1661
01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 2: it's fine, and I do ridicule. I think I think

1662
01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 2: it's not even ridicule and cancel culture. I think what

1663
01:25:32,960 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 2: happens is that people want to be dismissive of it,

1664
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 2: right because they don't want to admit that it can

1665
01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:44,720
Speaker 2: be welded wrongly, because it's like, we like having this,

1666
01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:48,320
Speaker 2: We like this tool of outrage against other people because

1667
01:25:48,320 --> 01:25:52,400
Speaker 2: we're consistently mad. We like to uh, and then we

1668
01:25:52,520 --> 01:25:56,720
Speaker 2: like to pretend that it is harmless essentially, whenever it

1669
01:25:56,840 --> 01:26:00,639
Speaker 2: doesn't work well, people when people say cancel culture isn't real,

1670
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:02,840
Speaker 2: they're full of shit. They're like the people who say

1671
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:05,120
Speaker 2: there's no such thing as talking white or whatever, Like,

1672
01:26:05,960 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 2: you know, a person can sound white, a person can

1673
01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:13,200
Speaker 2: sound black. Shout out to black voice actors. I bet

1674
01:26:13,240 --> 01:26:15,599
Speaker 2: they heard that shit a lot, right, Oh, we got

1675
01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:18,240
Speaker 2: this black character, but there's no such thing as sounding black.

1676
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:19,719
Speaker 2: So why should we ask to I are a black

1677
01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 2: person to be the voice?

1678
01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:21,439
Speaker 1: Right?

1679
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,400
Speaker 2: Nah? Fuck that it is something that sounds black. I

1680
01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:27,479
Speaker 2: can tell, like, you know what I mean. So I

1681
01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:30,559
Speaker 2: do think that some of this shit is kind of

1682
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:35,080
Speaker 2: some bullshit where people are like, they're being so politically correct,

1683
01:26:35,200 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 2: or so not even politically correct, but they're being so

1684
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:40,600
Speaker 2: something that they're like, I'm scared to give ground to

1685
01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:43,519
Speaker 2: these conservatives. I'm like, you're not giving ground by being honest.

1686
01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:46,439
Speaker 2: You know what the opposite of conservatism is the truth.

1687
01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:49,800
Speaker 2: Just being truthful is enough. You don't need to like

1688
01:26:50,800 --> 01:26:53,479
Speaker 2: lie to be like I'm a line version of them.

1689
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:55,960
Speaker 2: That's how I feel about it. Anyway. It's like, if

1690
01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:57,960
Speaker 2: I were to say something like, cancel culture isn't real,

1691
01:26:58,040 --> 01:27:01,280
Speaker 2: I'm essentially lying. But what I'm really saying is cancel

1692
01:27:01,320 --> 01:27:03,639
Speaker 2: culture isn't very effective and it doesn't work the way

1693
01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:07,360
Speaker 2: I would like it to work. So cancel culture doesn't

1694
01:27:07,400 --> 01:27:12,800
Speaker 2: work in getting Woody Allen to stop making movies. You

1695
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:15,640
Speaker 2: see what I'm saying. So then I go, it's not real. No,

1696
01:27:15,920 --> 01:27:20,439
Speaker 2: it is real, because it wasn't enough to stop you know,

1697
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:22,439
Speaker 2: say Daniel Caesar for putting out an album.

1698
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:25,280
Speaker 1: It was enough to get Michelle right, it.

1699
01:27:25,200 --> 01:27:27,400
Speaker 2: Was enough to get Colin Kaepernick out of the league.

1700
01:27:27,640 --> 01:27:30,639
Speaker 2: So it is real. It just don't work for us

1701
01:27:30,760 --> 01:27:32,559
Speaker 2: or in the ways we would like to. We think

1702
01:27:32,600 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 2: we would like to see it.

1703
01:27:33,439 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 1: Work well, and a lot of times, the people that

1704
01:27:35,240 --> 01:27:38,080
Speaker 1: get the punishment from it is us, like, yeah, sometimes

1705
01:27:38,160 --> 01:27:40,639
Speaker 1: we're the ones that quote unquote get canceled. But because

1706
01:27:41,040 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 1: we don't have the power to cancel, a lot of

1707
01:27:43,920 --> 01:27:46,840
Speaker 1: these white people people act like it don't exist because

1708
01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:49,840
Speaker 1: we can't cancel them. Because the thing is, when I

1709
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 1: say nobody get canceled, that's a true statement, because all

1710
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:53,960
Speaker 1: people have to do is stay away from a while

1711
01:27:54,040 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 1: and come back if they choose to. Some people just

1712
01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:58,160
Speaker 1: actually don't opt not to come back to the line light,

1713
01:27:58,200 --> 01:28:00,200
Speaker 1: and most people will be just fine. They can on

1714
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:02,200
Speaker 1: the other jobs, they can do other things, they can

1715
01:28:02,240 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 1: continue to work. When people go cancel culture, they their

1716
01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:07,760
Speaker 1: thing is, I don't ever want you to work again. Now,

1717
01:28:07,800 --> 01:28:10,439
Speaker 1: from that perspective, that's not realistic, but that's that's the

1718
01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:14,040
Speaker 1: in my opinion, that's the in goal of people that

1719
01:28:14,120 --> 01:28:15,720
Speaker 1: are in this. And I think, in my opinion, a

1720
01:28:15,760 --> 01:28:17,479
Speaker 1: lot of times, and maybe I might be wrong with this,

1721
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:19,800
Speaker 1: a lot of people that say country culture doesn't exist,

1722
01:28:19,840 --> 01:28:21,720
Speaker 1: they don't participate in it, they don't participate in it,

1723
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:23,760
Speaker 1: and they don't understand it, and they just y'all just

1724
01:28:23,800 --> 01:28:24,960
Speaker 1: so angry mob, just yelling.

1725
01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:27,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely would disagree with you that a lot

1726
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:29,679
Speaker 2: of those people do participate in it, and what they're

1727
01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:31,960
Speaker 2: really trying to say is is harmless because they don't

1728
01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:33,840
Speaker 2: ever want to be the bad guys, the bullies. I

1729
01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 2: tell you, it's the same way I say, one person's

1730
01:28:36,479 --> 01:28:38,440
Speaker 2: dragging is another person's harassment.

1731
01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:39,200
Speaker 1: Agree, you know.

1732
01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:42,799
Speaker 2: So that's so what they're doing is they're being the bully,

1733
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:46,080
Speaker 2: but at the same time being like, I'm not the bully.

1734
01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 2: This doesn't even really exist. It's a gaslighting type of thing.

1735
01:28:50,240 --> 01:28:54,720
Speaker 2: To me. It's it's like Chrissy Taguan left Twitter this,

1736
01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:56,200
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm leaving Twitter.

1737
01:28:56,439 --> 01:28:58,920
Speaker 1: Man collected a motherfucking food over that, but go ahead.

1738
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 2: But but what was funny is in the articles announcing that,

1739
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 2: you could look in the quotes and the retweets and

1740
01:29:05,320 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 2: I'm not to retweet their comments and the replies, and

1741
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 2: you could see why she was leaving because people were

1742
01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:14,840
Speaker 2: being abusive. But they just think it's okay because she

1743
01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:17,160
Speaker 2: said some shit they didn't like a long time ago.

1744
01:29:17,680 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 2: And they're like, from this point on, I can say

1745
01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:23,880
Speaker 2: any negative all the negative things I tell people not

1746
01:29:23,960 --> 01:29:26,559
Speaker 2: to say about other folks, all the grace I want

1747
01:29:26,640 --> 01:29:28,720
Speaker 2: for black women and women of color. Shit, I don't

1748
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 2: have to give you that because I have this time

1749
01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:33,960
Speaker 2: that you fucked up, and as long as I have that,

1750
01:29:34,640 --> 01:29:37,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make your life a living hell. If I

1751
01:29:37,160 --> 01:29:40,160
Speaker 2: know you're reading my words, I'm gonna make them sting.

1752
01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:43,680
Speaker 2: And that shit is real. That like people want to

1753
01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:47,160
Speaker 2: pretend that that's no real power. We know that social

1754
01:29:47,240 --> 01:29:49,960
Speaker 2: media can drive people to depression, but folks want to

1755
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:52,960
Speaker 2: act like ganging up on people that make mistakes is

1756
01:29:53,400 --> 01:29:55,960
Speaker 2: it's harmless. So that that's when they say when they

1757
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:58,599
Speaker 2: say cancel culture isn't real, that's what they mean. And

1758
01:29:58,760 --> 01:30:00,760
Speaker 2: I will always fight back on that because I'm like,

1759
01:30:00,800 --> 01:30:04,040
Speaker 2: that's not true. Living the truth, admit to what you

1760
01:30:04,120 --> 01:30:06,800
Speaker 2: are doing. Now you can be like it is real.

1761
01:30:07,439 --> 01:30:09,200
Speaker 2: It's not as effective as I like it to be.

1762
01:30:09,400 --> 01:30:11,479
Speaker 2: And if anything, I don't give a fuck that I'm

1763
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:15,080
Speaker 2: hurting people's feelings. I feel like these people have earned

1764
01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:18,240
Speaker 2: the ridicule or they've said and I'm saying, fine, but

1765
01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:21,960
Speaker 2: just understand everyone thinks that, Okay, it's not like you

1766
01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:24,360
Speaker 2: said earlier. It's not just for the people that you

1767
01:30:24,439 --> 01:30:26,439
Speaker 2: don't agree with. It's a lot of people that you

1768
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:28,880
Speaker 2: like and all this shit that are gonna get quote

1769
01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:33,120
Speaker 2: unquote canceled or attempted to attempt at cancelation. And I'm

1770
01:30:33,160 --> 01:30:35,840
Speaker 2: not saying that every black person that is attempted to

1771
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:38,160
Speaker 2: be canceled gets canceled. That's not true. I'm not saying

1772
01:30:38,240 --> 01:30:41,960
Speaker 2: every white person that attempts to get canceled doesn't get canceled.

1773
01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:44,120
Speaker 2: But I would bet if we did some type of

1774
01:30:44,160 --> 01:30:48,120
Speaker 2: study of who's seen the biggest repercussions from quote unquote

1775
01:30:48,160 --> 01:30:51,600
Speaker 2: cancel culture, it's probably black and brown people, probably marginalized

1776
01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 2: folks that didn't have who weren't on like that in

1777
01:30:54,479 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 2: the first place. You know, there's some people that are

1778
01:30:57,840 --> 01:31:01,040
Speaker 2: big enough to withstand it, but it's definitely an effort

1779
01:31:01,479 --> 01:31:03,800
Speaker 2: and an attempt to try to get someone shut down.

1780
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:04,920
Speaker 1: Yes, yes it is.

1781
01:31:06,040 --> 01:31:10,479
Speaker 2: Anyway back to this email, Mike Vick went to prison

1782
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:12,360
Speaker 2: rightly for running the dog Fright and ring. He served

1783
01:31:12,360 --> 01:31:14,080
Speaker 2: his time, he met it with animal rights groups. He

1784
01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:16,799
Speaker 2: continued to donate to animal rights causes, and it's toosedly

1785
01:31:16,840 --> 01:31:19,400
Speaker 2: declared that he was wrong and understands that. Is he

1786
01:31:19,439 --> 01:31:21,880
Speaker 2: deserving a forgiveness, Was he deserving of a second chance

1787
01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:23,599
Speaker 2: in the NFL. That's a question each of us has

1788
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:28,200
Speaker 2: to answer ourselves. Yeah, that's the thing though, Right he

1789
01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:32,439
Speaker 2: got the second chance in the NFL. He did. He

1790
01:31:32,479 --> 01:31:36,040
Speaker 2: did not get forgiven by a lot of people. There

1791
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:38,320
Speaker 2: was still a concerted effort to try to keep him

1792
01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:42,040
Speaker 2: out the league. Peter was was not just Peter, but

1793
01:31:42,080 --> 01:31:44,839
Speaker 2: a lot of animal lovers were, you know, outside the arena,

1794
01:31:45,360 --> 01:31:48,600
Speaker 2: people that you know Ben Roethlisberger was a rapist, and

1795
01:31:48,640 --> 01:31:51,080
Speaker 2: they weren't outside the arena like this, Gray riightced his

1796
01:31:51,120 --> 01:31:53,600
Speaker 2: wife on camera. They weren't outside the arenas like this.

1797
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 2: So every day people are making a decision about who

1798
01:31:56,040 --> 01:32:00,559
Speaker 2: and what they deem as cancelable. But that doesn't mean

1799
01:32:00,600 --> 01:32:04,559
Speaker 2: that they're not ganging up, grouping up and deciding like,

1800
01:32:05,320 --> 01:32:07,840
Speaker 2: let's try to do it. They're trying to do it.

1801
01:32:07,840 --> 01:32:09,120
Speaker 2: It just ain't always working.

1802
01:32:09,280 --> 01:32:10,679
Speaker 1: Yes, they're trying to do it.

1803
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:12,600
Speaker 2: I was happy that he got a second chance in

1804
01:32:12,600 --> 01:32:14,280
Speaker 2: the league. I think he has redeemed himself. A lot

1805
01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:16,360
Speaker 2: of people agree, but a lot of people disagree and

1806
01:32:16,400 --> 01:32:18,840
Speaker 2: feel he should never got another shot or another good

1807
01:32:18,920 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 2: job ever get. And the thing is, nobody's actually wrong

1808
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:24,000
Speaker 2: here because it's based on your feelings we overlook bad

1809
01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:26,719
Speaker 2: shit for some people and not for others. Not entirely

1810
01:32:26,760 --> 01:32:29,400
Speaker 2: sure how to tie the end of this thing up,

1811
01:32:29,680 --> 01:32:31,519
Speaker 2: but I will add that most of the people who

1812
01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:34,160
Speaker 2: talk about cancel culture are fucking hypocrites and aren't arguing

1813
01:32:34,200 --> 01:32:37,040
Speaker 2: in good faith, so I personally ignore their complaints. Well,

1814
01:32:37,240 --> 01:32:41,000
Speaker 2: you know us, we're I mean, every human being is hypocritical,

1815
01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:42,600
Speaker 2: but you know that we would never get on this

1816
01:32:42,640 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 2: mic and not talking good faith. And I'm a person

1817
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:48,479
Speaker 2: that thinks, Yeah, the cancel culture culture war type shit,

1818
01:32:48,520 --> 01:32:51,559
Speaker 2: whatever you want to call it, it is weird. It

1819
01:32:51,640 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 2: is you've kind of just described it here, but you

1820
01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:57,400
Speaker 2: just didn't want to call it. You don't want to

1821
01:32:57,400 --> 01:33:00,360
Speaker 2: call it that because that's what conservatives are using, becauseers

1822
01:33:00,360 --> 01:33:03,639
Speaker 2: are also using woke now, Conservatives eventually will use every

1823
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:08,559
Speaker 2: fucking thing they can to just leverage a lie over

1824
01:33:08,600 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 2: the truth, and I just don't want to give in

1825
01:33:11,000 --> 01:33:11,320
Speaker 2: to that.

1826
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:12,439
Speaker 1: You know.

1827
01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:15,839
Speaker 2: It's like, how a long time ago we had discussion

1828
01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:17,880
Speaker 2: on the show about the word feminist thing. Karen's like,

1829
01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:19,559
Speaker 2: I'll never I don't want to call myself that and

1830
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:23,439
Speaker 2: out of stuff, and I'm like, yeah, but then you're

1831
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:26,360
Speaker 2: just giving it to the bad people, you know what

1832
01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:29,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Then we're literally just giving the word over

1833
01:33:29,360 --> 01:33:31,680
Speaker 2: to them, Like here you go, This is now what

1834
01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:34,559
Speaker 2: feminists means. And from this, from the rest of our lives,

1835
01:33:34,840 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 2: you know, And I see people starting to do it

1836
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:39,040
Speaker 2: with woke. Woke was a term that people use kind

1837
01:33:39,040 --> 01:33:43,520
Speaker 2: of jokingly, Black people used amongst ourselves, and now conservatives

1838
01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 2: are using woke pejoratively, and now people are like, I'm

1839
01:33:46,760 --> 01:33:49,680
Speaker 2: gonna stop saying woke. I'm like, why why are you

1840
01:33:49,800 --> 01:33:52,800
Speaker 2: giving it to them? Fuck them? They don't get to

1841
01:33:52,800 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 2: define it. Why do they get to define everything for us?

1842
01:33:55,960 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Why do they immediately when

1843
01:33:58,120 --> 01:34:00,160
Speaker 2: they step in, we all gotta all right, well, I

1844
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:02,880
Speaker 2: guess the party is over, nah, because they just gonna

1845
01:34:02,960 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 2: keep taking They're just gonna keep taking shit. So to me,

1846
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:08,760
Speaker 2: I'm like, nah, I know what I mean when I

1847
01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:10,479
Speaker 2: say cancel culture. You know what I mean when I

1848
01:34:10,560 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 2: say cancel culture. And it's different than what Bill O'Reilly

1849
01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:15,479
Speaker 2: means when he says it. And anybody that can't tell

1850
01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:17,400
Speaker 2: the difference after we sit on this mic and talk

1851
01:34:17,439 --> 01:34:19,680
Speaker 2: for an hour and a half to two hours, is

1852
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:24,800
Speaker 2: willfully trying not to understand us, so I personally know

1853
01:34:24,840 --> 01:34:26,920
Speaker 2: their complaints. I do, and I ain't know their complaints too.

1854
01:34:26,920 --> 01:34:28,960
Speaker 2: By the way, you ain't never heard me come on

1855
01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 2: here and echo any of that shit, right, you ain't

1856
01:34:31,200 --> 01:34:33,479
Speaker 2: never heard me and karing like you know, Stacy dash

1857
01:34:33,479 --> 01:34:35,360
Speaker 2: makes a point about cancel culture, like, no, get the

1858
01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:38,280
Speaker 2: fuck out. I don't do the internet pile on shit,

1859
01:34:38,520 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 2: I fuck with someone or I don't. But at the

1860
01:34:40,360 --> 01:34:41,880
Speaker 2: end of the day, we are all accountable for what

1861
01:34:41,880 --> 01:34:44,960
Speaker 2: we say and do. Seems like the majority Christian country

1862
01:34:44,960 --> 01:34:49,280
Speaker 2: should have learned that from the Bible, which Bible I

1863
01:34:49,400 --> 01:34:53,400
Speaker 2: just but yes, I hear what you're saying to everything,

1864
01:34:54,000 --> 01:34:55,800
Speaker 2: and I appreciate the words you know what I'm saying,

1865
01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:58,320
Speaker 2: But I feel like all you did was describe what

1866
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:01,120
Speaker 2: we be talking about. You just didn't want to use

1867
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:04,519
Speaker 2: the word cancel culture, which is fine, but I think,

1868
01:35:04,760 --> 01:35:07,000
Speaker 2: to me, that's just like the conservatives got in your

1869
01:35:07,040 --> 01:35:10,280
Speaker 2: head and you're just seeding ground to them, like yeah,

1870
01:35:10,360 --> 01:35:14,160
Speaker 2: that's what it means. Like I remember when it was

1871
01:35:14,280 --> 01:35:17,439
Speaker 2: black people, gay people talking about cancel like we cancel

1872
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:19,599
Speaker 2: and so and so, and it was kind of a joke,

1873
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 2: but it was also kind of like a way of

1874
01:35:22,600 --> 01:35:26,600
Speaker 2: people measuring their moral superiority through their consumption, which is

1875
01:35:26,640 --> 01:35:28,479
Speaker 2: what this has always come back to because it's on

1876
01:35:28,520 --> 01:35:31,000
Speaker 2: social media. See, I think about this shit a lot,

1877
01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:34,880
Speaker 2: so now you got to be talking about it. But

1878
01:35:35,479 --> 01:35:37,479
Speaker 2: the thing about social media is that it all comes

1879
01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:40,000
Speaker 2: back to us. Everything we do comes back to us, right,

1880
01:35:40,280 --> 01:35:43,800
Speaker 2: And so a lot of social media for people is

1881
01:35:44,280 --> 01:35:48,320
Speaker 2: virtue and vanity right. And I'll say this for everyone,

1882
01:35:48,360 --> 01:35:51,280
Speaker 2: including myself, virtue in vanity right, were all on there

1883
01:35:51,360 --> 01:35:56,400
Speaker 2: for our whatever purpose. For Instagram models, it's simple, right, Yo,

1884
01:35:56,720 --> 01:35:58,880
Speaker 2: they look good, we want to fuck them. That's the

1885
01:35:58,920 --> 01:36:01,439
Speaker 2: whole virtual invanity is right there before a lot of us,

1886
01:36:01,960 --> 01:36:05,519
Speaker 2: we're not as as as as beautiful as them, or

1887
01:36:05,560 --> 01:36:08,840
Speaker 2: out there as them, or as shallow whatever you want

1888
01:36:08,840 --> 01:36:11,679
Speaker 2: to call it as them. It's just you saw a picture,

1889
01:36:11,800 --> 01:36:14,519
Speaker 2: you saw my ass, and you said heart right. So

1890
01:36:14,600 --> 01:36:16,320
Speaker 2: for a lot of us, it takes on a different

1891
01:36:16,320 --> 01:36:18,880
Speaker 2: type of things like these are my politics, like me

1892
01:36:19,400 --> 01:36:22,920
Speaker 2: for my politics, these are my These are the artists

1893
01:36:22,960 --> 01:36:25,960
Speaker 2: that I like. Like me because I like these artists.

1894
01:36:26,280 --> 01:36:30,120
Speaker 2: This is my favorite, Uh what you know, movies? Like

1895
01:36:30,200 --> 01:36:32,400
Speaker 2: me because I like these favorite movies. Are these your

1896
01:36:32,439 --> 01:36:35,200
Speaker 2: favorite movies, then I should be your favorite person. You

1897
01:36:35,200 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 2: see what I'm saying. So a lot of this stuff

1898
01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:39,800
Speaker 2: is pointing back to us. But what has started to

1899
01:36:39,840 --> 01:36:42,240
Speaker 2: happen And I think this always existed, but social media

1900
01:36:42,280 --> 01:36:44,479
Speaker 2: just gives us a place. That's why the word cancel

1901
01:36:44,520 --> 01:36:46,920
Speaker 2: culture is coming up. It's because social media now, Like

1902
01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 2: you said, it's always existed, but what is happening now

1903
01:36:51,160 --> 01:36:54,280
Speaker 2: is that people are using whether it be political ideology,

1904
01:36:54,800 --> 01:36:58,840
Speaker 2: whether it be social ideology, that they want to like,

1905
01:37:00,400 --> 01:37:04,280
Speaker 2: that they want to like, signal to people with We're

1906
01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:09,680
Speaker 2: using our consumption of media to be the thing. It's

1907
01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:11,840
Speaker 2: the reason why if I were to go into a

1908
01:37:11,960 --> 01:37:14,759
Speaker 2: room full of people and say, man, I just watched

1909
01:37:14,760 --> 01:37:18,519
Speaker 2: this Woody Allen documentary, and boy is he a terrible person.

1910
01:37:19,160 --> 01:37:20,760
Speaker 2: You know what a lot of those people will say,

1911
01:37:22,000 --> 01:37:24,880
Speaker 2: I never liked his movies anyway, Well, what the fuck

1912
01:37:24,920 --> 01:37:27,120
Speaker 2: that got to do with him being a fucking child molester.

1913
01:37:27,600 --> 01:37:30,360
Speaker 2: It wouldn't matter if you fucking allegedly, It wouldn't matter

1914
01:37:30,400 --> 01:37:34,719
Speaker 2: if you fucking hated his movies, loved his movie, never

1915
01:37:34,760 --> 01:37:38,120
Speaker 2: saw the movie, saw every movie. It does not matter

1916
01:37:38,400 --> 01:37:41,960
Speaker 2: to what he did. He either did that shit or

1917
01:37:42,000 --> 01:37:44,680
Speaker 2: he did not do that shit. You know, it's how

1918
01:37:44,680 --> 01:37:48,760
Speaker 2: can people watch this TV show? It's got this type

1919
01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:52,360
Speaker 2: of person in it that that's the kind of It's like, Well,

1920
01:37:52,400 --> 01:37:53,719
Speaker 2: what I'm really saying is.

1921
01:37:54,080 --> 01:37:54,720
Speaker 1: Look at me.

1922
01:37:56,000 --> 01:37:59,320
Speaker 2: I am such a better person than other folks. I

1923
01:37:59,360 --> 01:38:02,799
Speaker 2: can't even watch a TV show if I heard someone

1924
01:38:02,840 --> 01:38:06,439
Speaker 2: on the show did anything because I'm better than everybody else,

1925
01:38:06,760 --> 01:38:09,120
Speaker 2: doesn't that make me so good? Can we talk about me?

1926
01:38:09,520 --> 01:38:09,720
Speaker 1: Hey?

1927
01:38:09,760 --> 01:38:12,920
Speaker 2: Everyone, let's just talk about me, you know, Like that's

1928
01:38:12,960 --> 01:38:15,719
Speaker 2: what we're doing when you make that post on social media,

1929
01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:19,280
Speaker 2: Like I used to love such and such, but now

1930
01:38:19,280 --> 01:38:22,240
Speaker 2: that I know blank about so and so, I can't

1931
01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:24,679
Speaker 2: even do this. It's for all of us to come together.

1932
01:38:24,960 --> 01:38:27,360
Speaker 2: You're a great person, you know what. I'm also a

1933
01:38:27,400 --> 01:38:30,040
Speaker 2: great person. I can't watch it. We're all great person

1934
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:33,280
Speaker 2: high far right good people. We would never do anything

1935
01:38:33,360 --> 01:38:36,320
Speaker 2: bad because we're all together over here saying how we

1936
01:38:36,360 --> 01:38:40,719
Speaker 2: can't even tolerate viewing something bad, consuming something a person

1937
01:38:40,760 --> 01:38:43,639
Speaker 2: that did something bad once or twice or how many times,

1938
01:38:43,720 --> 01:38:47,439
Speaker 2: or serially like Bill Cossi, we can't even fucking consume

1939
01:38:47,560 --> 01:38:50,439
Speaker 2: that art. That's how good we are. We're you know what,

1940
01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:53,799
Speaker 2: I'm saying, and that's a human thing that people do experience.

1941
01:38:53,840 --> 01:38:56,439
Speaker 2: There are times there's plenty of shit that I'm like, yep,

1942
01:38:56,600 --> 01:38:59,280
Speaker 2: I can't listen to that. No more, don't watch this show.

1943
01:38:59,479 --> 01:39:02,360
Speaker 2: But it's it's the social media aspect that gives us

1944
01:39:02,360 --> 01:39:05,479
Speaker 2: this place to come together on it, right, And when

1945
01:39:05,520 --> 01:39:09,200
Speaker 2: you come together, that's something, right, That is some type

1946
01:39:09,200 --> 01:39:11,200
Speaker 2: of community. That is and I think that is a

1947
01:39:11,200 --> 01:39:16,479
Speaker 2: cultural thing. So us quote unquote canceling people and it

1948
01:39:16,640 --> 01:39:20,519
Speaker 2: coming together in community to commiserate about how we and

1949
01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:23,800
Speaker 2: why we cancel them, and even further to then go

1950
01:39:23,920 --> 01:39:26,040
Speaker 2: harass those people because we now have a lifeline to

1951
01:39:26,080 --> 01:39:30,200
Speaker 2: each person via social media. Together, that is a culture.

1952
01:39:31,160 --> 01:39:35,080
Speaker 2: So that's why I say it's real. Now when you

1953
01:39:35,160 --> 01:39:39,200
Speaker 2: say it's not real, what I hear is the intended

1954
01:39:39,320 --> 01:39:44,280
Speaker 2: effect is not achievable on a consistent enough scale for

1955
01:39:44,320 --> 01:39:47,920
Speaker 2: me to consider this a real threat to anyway. Which

1956
01:39:47,960 --> 01:39:50,840
Speaker 2: is fine if that's your measurement, because then I go,

1957
01:39:51,080 --> 01:39:55,840
Speaker 2: what are you trying to achieve with the culture, And

1958
01:39:55,920 --> 01:40:00,559
Speaker 2: it seems to be either one or two things. One well,

1959
01:40:00,560 --> 01:40:03,320
Speaker 2: on a philosophical level, let's say three things. One to

1960
01:40:03,439 --> 01:40:06,920
Speaker 2: either get these people to stop creating whatever they do

1961
01:40:07,040 --> 01:40:11,120
Speaker 2: like they cannot no more movies or whatever. You know

1962
01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:12,840
Speaker 2: that don't make me feel better is if this person

1963
01:40:12,840 --> 01:40:16,240
Speaker 2: stops making movies. The second thing is to not be

1964
01:40:16,320 --> 01:40:18,920
Speaker 2: employed by anyone else, to have no friends, to be

1965
01:40:19,040 --> 01:40:22,360
Speaker 2: kind of like a cast out of society, right, And

1966
01:40:22,439 --> 01:40:24,280
Speaker 2: then the third one is kind of a philosophical thing

1967
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:26,640
Speaker 2: me and Bobby to talk about sometimes low key. I

1968
01:40:26,680 --> 01:40:29,799
Speaker 2: think people want these people to kill themselves and not exist.

1969
01:40:31,280 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 2: And that's the ugly, dirty part of it. No one

1970
01:40:33,240 --> 01:40:34,120
Speaker 2: wants to tell you out that.

1971
01:40:34,120 --> 01:40:37,360
Speaker 1: Right, because it's such people act so visceral to it.

1972
01:40:37,360 --> 01:40:40,479
Speaker 1: It's like, what is the end result? And nobody actually

1973
01:40:40,479 --> 01:40:42,519
Speaker 1: wants to think the end result is to harass this

1974
01:40:42,640 --> 01:40:45,760
Speaker 1: person and harass them enough where they don't exist. And

1975
01:40:45,800 --> 01:40:48,160
Speaker 1: when you say don't exist, you mean off the face

1976
01:40:48,200 --> 01:40:49,560
Speaker 1: of the earth, and what is off the face of

1977
01:40:49,560 --> 01:40:51,960
Speaker 1: the earth mean death. And nobody wants to think that

1978
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:54,880
Speaker 1: their problems will contribute to that end result.

1979
01:40:55,040 --> 01:40:57,400
Speaker 2: Like at the end of the day, we don't want

1980
01:40:57,560 --> 01:40:59,479
Speaker 2: it's a social thing, right, so we can all say

1981
01:40:59,520 --> 01:41:02,360
Speaker 2: it's not the criminal death penalty, but we like don't

1982
01:41:02,360 --> 01:41:06,800
Speaker 2: want to see somebody we don't like making a run

1983
01:41:06,840 --> 01:41:08,760
Speaker 2: to Starbucks, Like we don't even want to see that.

1984
01:41:08,800 --> 01:41:11,000
Speaker 2: Like if the Paparozzi say so and so went to

1985
01:41:11,040 --> 01:41:13,400
Speaker 2: Starbucks atter they did something terrible, we'd be like, fuck

1986
01:41:13,439 --> 01:41:16,320
Speaker 2: this motherfucker, what the fuck? You know, Like I'm not

1987
01:41:16,360 --> 01:41:18,320
Speaker 2: gonna eat Starbucks no more or whatever. Like it's just

1988
01:41:19,080 --> 01:41:21,280
Speaker 2: it is a It is some It is taking a

1989
01:41:21,320 --> 01:41:26,080
Speaker 2: puritanical will that started this country, that fucking religious zealot

1990
01:41:26,280 --> 01:41:28,559
Speaker 2: that was the people that were kicked out of Europe

1991
01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:32,599
Speaker 2: of being way too fucking puritanical and religious and crazy.

1992
01:41:32,840 --> 01:41:36,639
Speaker 2: It is taking that energy from our ancestors and putting

1993
01:41:36,640 --> 01:41:39,720
Speaker 2: it into this thing now, this funnel that is the Internet,

1994
01:41:40,120 --> 01:41:44,320
Speaker 2: and collecting and doing the same gladiatorial crowd type shit,

1995
01:41:45,000 --> 01:41:49,840
Speaker 2: but now with social media. And I think that's why

1996
01:41:49,920 --> 01:41:52,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, it is a real thing, you know

1997
01:41:52,160 --> 01:41:55,880
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I think to say it's not is

1998
01:41:55,960 --> 01:42:00,000
Speaker 2: almost to be. It's almost to be a denial about it.

1999
01:42:00,439 --> 01:42:04,320
Speaker 2: Now do I care? That Is it the most destructive? No?

2000
01:42:04,840 --> 01:42:07,800
Speaker 2: Is it the number one thing? No? And I say

2001
01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:10,400
Speaker 2: all the time on the show, anybody that's promoting us

2002
01:42:10,520 --> 01:42:13,479
Speaker 2: is like just the biggest ructa you are privileged as fuck.

2003
01:42:13,720 --> 01:42:17,040
Speaker 2: If the biggest problem in your life is Sharon Osborne

2004
01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:19,559
Speaker 2: doesn't get to be on TV. You don't have no problems,

2005
01:42:20,320 --> 01:42:23,080
Speaker 2: don't So you know, can I say that, yeah, it

2006
01:42:23,160 --> 01:42:25,040
Speaker 2: is kind of problematic and it is fucked up, but

2007
01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:27,679
Speaker 2: we don't really seem to know where this is going? Sure?

2008
01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:30,639
Speaker 2: Can I also say that ain't really that big a deal,

2009
01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:33,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? It's not effective enough to

2010
01:42:34,000 --> 01:42:37,920
Speaker 2: truly it's not and it might be getting more effective,

2011
01:42:37,960 --> 01:42:40,320
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it's not effective enough to truly

2012
01:42:40,439 --> 01:42:43,760
Speaker 2: be the cudgel people want it to be. But I

2013
01:42:43,800 --> 01:42:47,960
Speaker 2: do understand the impulse of it isn't good and it

2014
01:42:48,040 --> 01:42:50,160
Speaker 2: probably will lead to a bad place eventually.

2015
01:42:50,560 --> 01:42:53,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and going back, and all you did was make

2016
01:42:53,880 --> 01:42:55,519
Speaker 1: me think about what I was saying before. And I

2017
01:42:55,560 --> 01:42:58,720
Speaker 1: do understand your perspective. But I do think it is

2018
01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:01,320
Speaker 1: a very It might be a very small percentage of people,

2019
01:43:01,320 --> 01:43:04,559
Speaker 1: but I think it's a small percentage of people who

2020
01:43:04,680 --> 01:43:08,280
Speaker 1: actually don't think council culture do not does not exist

2021
01:43:08,320 --> 01:43:10,680
Speaker 1: because they don't participate in it. It is, but in

2022
01:43:10,680 --> 01:43:13,960
Speaker 1: my mind, it's that small percentage, and that small percentage

2023
01:43:14,000 --> 01:43:16,720
Speaker 1: of people they go, I don't participate in it. I'm

2024
01:43:16,760 --> 01:43:19,160
Speaker 1: an individual. I don't. I'm not in these groups. I'm

2025
01:43:19,160 --> 01:43:22,160
Speaker 1: not in these cliques. I don't see them, quote unquote,

2026
01:43:22,360 --> 01:43:24,559
Speaker 1: they're not in my timeline, they're not in my space,

2027
01:43:24,600 --> 01:43:26,760
Speaker 1: they're not around me. So if they're not around me,

2028
01:43:26,880 --> 01:43:29,800
Speaker 1: they don't exist. And this thing that y'all keep calling

2029
01:43:29,880 --> 01:43:32,360
Speaker 1: the counter culture, I don't see it. And because I

2030
01:43:32,439 --> 01:43:35,000
Speaker 1: don't see it as far as it's concerned, in my mind,

2031
01:43:35,120 --> 01:43:37,519
Speaker 1: it doesn't exist because I don't see the end results

2032
01:43:37,520 --> 01:43:40,000
Speaker 1: of this thing that y'all keep calling the council culture,

2033
01:43:40,160 --> 01:43:42,599
Speaker 1: so it does not exist. And to me, that's very

2034
01:43:42,600 --> 01:43:45,880
Speaker 1: frustrating because it's like, Okay, just because you don't see it,

2035
01:43:46,240 --> 01:43:49,080
Speaker 1: because you don't see it and you don't participate in it,

2036
01:43:49,120 --> 01:43:51,639
Speaker 1: does not mean it does not exist. It's not out

2037
01:43:51,680 --> 01:43:54,200
Speaker 1: of sight, out of mind thing. So it justifies you

2038
01:43:54,400 --> 01:43:57,760
Speaker 1: saying that cancil culture does not exist because it's not

2039
01:43:57,840 --> 01:44:01,400
Speaker 1: something that I see or i'm privilege to or because

2040
01:44:01,439 --> 01:44:03,640
Speaker 1: I don't see these groups harassing people, or I'm not

2041
01:44:03,680 --> 01:44:06,360
Speaker 1: in the circles of other people being harassed. So in

2042
01:44:06,400 --> 01:44:09,519
Speaker 1: my mind, discounsel culture does not exist. A small percentage

2043
01:44:09,520 --> 01:44:12,040
Speaker 1: of people use that as an excuse to dismiss because

2044
01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:13,720
Speaker 1: they don't want to face the reality that this shit

2045
01:44:13,800 --> 01:44:14,559
Speaker 1: might actually be real.

2046
01:44:14,640 --> 01:44:17,400
Speaker 2: You know what, that's valid. That's valid here because I

2047
01:44:18,080 --> 01:44:20,200
Speaker 2: was thinking about where I see people say that the most,

2048
01:44:20,200 --> 01:44:22,640
Speaker 2: and I mostly see it on social media from the

2049
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:25,479
Speaker 2: same people that do a lot of the harassing behavior,

2050
01:44:25,760 --> 01:44:28,439
Speaker 2: and then go, it's not real. I'm like, I saw

2051
01:44:28,479 --> 01:44:32,240
Speaker 2: you harassed a motherfucker all night. You either it's real

2052
01:44:32,960 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 2: and it's real, and you don't want to admit that

2053
01:44:36,280 --> 01:44:38,360
Speaker 2: it's just not effective because you wanted this person to

2054
01:44:38,439 --> 01:44:41,160
Speaker 2: kill themselves last night and they didn't, so therefore it

2055
01:44:41,240 --> 01:44:44,720
Speaker 2: must not it's not even real. But that's bullshit. Be

2056
01:44:44,800 --> 01:44:46,599
Speaker 2: on the other side of that shit for five minutes.

2057
01:44:46,680 --> 01:44:47,800
Speaker 2: Most people can't take it.

2058
01:44:47,960 --> 01:44:51,559
Speaker 1: No, they cannot, and they don't understand it. It's something else.

2059
01:44:52,200 --> 01:44:55,080
Speaker 2: Uh, kim right saying falcons Steve, I believe it says

2060
01:44:55,120 --> 01:44:58,439
Speaker 2: thank you for my divorce. Hi, Karen and Rod, I

2061
01:44:58,479 --> 01:45:00,400
Speaker 2: hope this gets to you before the e on the

2062
01:45:00,400 --> 01:45:02,760
Speaker 2: feedback show. I just got the notification that you're going live.

2063
01:45:03,000 --> 01:45:04,800
Speaker 2: I've been writing this email for a few weeks or

2064
01:45:04,840 --> 01:45:07,960
Speaker 2: months time, and the Panini ain't like it used to be. Yeah,

2065
01:45:08,160 --> 01:45:12,240
Speaker 2: definitely in that that Avengers five years now come off anyway,

2066
01:45:12,320 --> 01:45:14,760
Speaker 2: when you guys discussed halle Berry clapping back on Ig,

2067
01:45:15,040 --> 01:45:17,519
Speaker 2: I was reminded that the blackout TIPS is responsible for

2068
01:45:17,560 --> 01:45:20,840
Speaker 2: my divorce and happily ever after. It was late twenty

2069
01:45:20,880 --> 01:45:23,360
Speaker 2: fifteen or early twenty sixteen, but I wrote it in

2070
01:45:23,400 --> 01:45:28,160
Speaker 2: about Holly Berry. Well, it was another discussion about how

2071
01:45:28,160 --> 01:45:30,200
Speaker 2: she can't keep a man. I can't remember exactly what

2072
01:45:30,240 --> 01:45:32,080
Speaker 2: I said, but it was something about perhaps she really

2073
01:45:32,080 --> 01:45:35,360
Speaker 2: loved her husband's got married and decided it wasn't what

2074
01:45:35,439 --> 01:45:37,840
Speaker 2: she wanted and decided that she got out. I must

2075
01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:40,120
Speaker 2: have mentioned something about me finding out that marriage wasn't

2076
01:45:40,160 --> 01:45:41,920
Speaker 2: for me. But I do know I said a lot

2077
01:45:41,960 --> 01:45:44,120
Speaker 2: when women, a lot of just women just hang on

2078
01:45:44,200 --> 01:45:47,439
Speaker 2: the marriage instead of getting out if they're unhappy. Rod,

2079
01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:50,640
Speaker 2: you said, sounds like that's what you're doing. After I

2080
01:45:50,680 --> 01:45:53,640
Speaker 2: picked my cracked face off the floor, I realized you

2081
01:45:53,640 --> 01:45:56,519
Speaker 2: were right, and I started to process the regame I happeness.

2082
01:45:56,560 --> 01:45:58,400
Speaker 2: Funny thing is I know you were trying to be

2083
01:45:58,520 --> 01:46:00,280
Speaker 2: I know you weren't trying to be shady any thing

2084
01:46:00,600 --> 01:46:02,600
Speaker 2: you said. It's so matter of fact, but it was

2085
01:46:02,600 --> 01:46:04,880
Speaker 2: an eye opener for me at fate would have it

2086
01:46:05,200 --> 01:46:08,479
Speaker 2: on May twelfth, twenty seventeen, I found out my divorce

2087
01:46:08,600 --> 01:46:11,400
Speaker 2: was final while listening to Balls Deep and the Blackoutips

2088
01:46:11,400 --> 01:46:14,600
Speaker 2: family got to celebrate a little with me in the chat. Oh,

2089
01:46:15,120 --> 01:46:17,360
Speaker 2: I had listen the voice. A lot of people see

2090
01:46:17,360 --> 01:46:20,160
Speaker 2: the voice is failure. And I'm always like, if you

2091
01:46:20,200 --> 01:46:25,840
Speaker 2: know what's failure, you know what's failure Snapped because the

2092
01:46:25,880 --> 01:46:29,760
Speaker 2: people that don't get divorced end up on Snapped.

2093
01:46:29,479 --> 01:46:32,640
Speaker 1: Because they snapped every fucking episode.

2094
01:46:32,800 --> 01:46:37,719
Speaker 2: It's just these niggas had a raggedy ass relationship, neither

2095
01:46:37,760 --> 01:46:39,880
Speaker 2: one of the one to take that public ale quote

2096
01:46:39,960 --> 01:46:43,120
Speaker 2: unquote of saying it didn't work out. And so now

2097
01:46:43,160 --> 01:46:46,439
Speaker 2: a motherfucker got a poisonous nigga slowly for seventeen years

2098
01:46:46,520 --> 01:46:49,600
Speaker 2: until he has a stroke and put dirt in his

2099
01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:53,360
Speaker 2: fucking cathe or some shit. So he died of a

2100
01:46:53,400 --> 01:46:56,040
Speaker 2: fucking staff infection. And then you get caught in that

2101
01:46:56,200 --> 01:46:59,080
Speaker 2: you gotta go to prison and be an episode of Snap.

2102
01:47:00,000 --> 01:47:01,000
Speaker 2: You could have got the divorce.

2103
01:47:01,200 --> 01:47:03,280
Speaker 1: You could have got the divorce.

2104
01:47:03,080 --> 01:47:05,439
Speaker 2: You know, so I feel like you won, Okay, right,

2105
01:47:05,640 --> 01:47:07,400
Speaker 2: Divorce is not the end.

2106
01:47:07,520 --> 01:47:11,240
Speaker 1: Divorce is the beginning of something beautiful. It's the beginning

2107
01:47:11,280 --> 01:47:13,920
Speaker 1: of the rest of your life. Because the thing is,

2108
01:47:14,400 --> 01:47:16,800
Speaker 1: all the years you're beal a motherfucker you don't like

2109
01:47:16,920 --> 01:47:20,000
Speaker 1: or can't stand at, y'all fussing and y'all fighting, you

2110
01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:22,720
Speaker 1: could be free and living your own life. You could

2111
01:47:22,760 --> 01:47:24,880
Speaker 1: have been by the time the time you waste with them, honey,

2112
01:47:24,920 --> 01:47:26,559
Speaker 1: you could be done, went on and found yourself a

2113
01:47:26,600 --> 01:47:29,200
Speaker 1: new love. You couldne went on and loved yourself. It

2114
01:47:29,240 --> 01:47:30,519
Speaker 1: was a lot of shit you could have been doing

2115
01:47:30,520 --> 01:47:32,760
Speaker 1: in wasting your time with this motherfucker, whoever they are.

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Speaker 2: It's also wild. I love the fall. It's my favorite.

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Speaker 2: It's my favorite season. I look forward to it every year.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people like spring, a lot of people like, uh,

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Speaker 2: you know, summer. But to me, I'm like, the fall

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Speaker 2: is so important because the fall is when you are

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Speaker 2: letting things go so you can leave room for the

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Speaker 2: new thing. And until you learn to let things go,

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Speaker 2: you can't have new things, right. You can't have new

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Speaker 2: leaves growing where the dead leaves still on there, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. And the fall is beautiful because

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Speaker 2: it's just change. And you know we all were not

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Speaker 2: we all, but I know I love going out of

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Speaker 2: my back patio and looking at the trees and the

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Speaker 2: and the and the leaves and all this shit and

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Speaker 2: the you know everything going into hibernation and all that.

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Speaker 2: I love that because it's telling me like, there's room now,

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Speaker 2: there's space, you know, there's time for healing, there's time

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Speaker 2: for renewal. And I think divorce is like the fall,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, because it's like, yeah, it's sad,

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Speaker 2: you gotta let these things go, but you're also creating

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Speaker 2: room for that that new greenery, that new you know,

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Speaker 2: new whatever, and don't forget after the fall, you got

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Speaker 2: the winner. So you still have this time of you know, uh,

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Speaker 2: of stagnation, of not moving, of stillness to to be like, okay,

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Speaker 2: it's cold. Now I'm going through this season, my morning,

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Speaker 2: all of this stuff, and then I'm coming out on

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Speaker 2: the other side and it's time to start tentatively growing

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Speaker 2: some things. And then summer you be backing for a bloom.

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Speaker 2: So I think it's just part of life cycle.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do too. And also the thing is, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm thinking about this, but the

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Speaker 1: thing is, a lot of times people don't get divorced

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Speaker 1: because the children, you know, who is your who rooted

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Speaker 1: for you the most to be happy. Your kids. Your

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Speaker 1: kids want you to be happy.

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Speaker 2: But she got kids.

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Speaker 1: No, not she got kids, but just when you're talking

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Speaker 1: about divorce in general, but you know a lot of

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Speaker 1: people might actually stick together like you say. You're there

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Speaker 1: and you have these reasons why you must stay connected

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Speaker 1: to this person and talk about happiness and stuff. Your

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Speaker 1: kids want you to be happy, and sometimes divorce might

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Speaker 1: be might make you happy and your kids happy because

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Speaker 1: now I don't have to see mom and daddy fight.

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Speaker 1: Now I don't have to see them be stressed out

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Speaker 1: they are if they are happy separated, I'm happy for

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Speaker 1: them being separated, you know, because a lot of times

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Speaker 1: people think of divorce is it only impacting parents, But

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Speaker 1: it impacts everybody around you, just directly inside of the household.

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Speaker 2: Yeah uh, and she goes on to set. I had

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Speaker 2: more to say, but I need to press in before

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Speaker 2: it's tool. Lol. I just wanted to tell you another

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Speaker 2: reason why I love you guys so much. Thank you

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Speaker 2: and yo, congratulations and I'm happy for you. I hope

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Speaker 2: everything's going well for you in this pandemanium. All right, y'all,

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Speaker 2: that's it. Tomorrow will be back with Roywood Junior ten

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Speaker 2: thirty a m. The Standard Time should be a very

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Speaker 2: all right, y'all, thank you so much. We'll talk to

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Speaker 2: you tomorrow. Till then.

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Speaker 1: I love you.