1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. You never know 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: You never no, buckle up and hold on tight. We 9 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: got it for you here. It is a Strawberry. 10 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: Letter, thanking not you subject he caught her watching us. 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley or uncle and auntie, because I know 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: how to respect my elders. I'm twenty seven years old 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 1: and my boyfriend had been begging me to move in 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: with him, but I had a roommate and didn't want 15 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: to leave my roommate hanging ends up. My roommate was 16 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: planning to move in with her boyfriend all along without 17 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: telling me anything. I was kind of forced to move 18 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: in with my boyfriend at that point because I'm a 19 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: student and I can't afford to live alone. When I 20 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: moved in, one of his female friends lived with him, 21 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 1: and we're the best of friends, so I know they 22 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: weren't messing around or anything like that. A few nights 23 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: after I moved in, my boyfriend and I had the 24 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: place to ourselves, so we started having sex on the couch. 25 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: I heard our roommate come in, but my boyfriend didn't 26 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: because he was into what he was doing. She stood 27 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: right in the door of the den and she watched us. 28 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: The fact that she was watching made it even a 29 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: better experience for me, and the next day I asked 30 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: her why she was watching us, and she said it's 31 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: a fetish. She likes to watch others in the act. 32 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: I google this and it's called voyeurism. I told her 33 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: I'd leave the bedroom door cracked from now on. I 34 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: caught her watching us a few more times, and it 35 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: was our secret until two days ago when my boyfriend 36 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: caught her. She scared him so badly that he jumped 37 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: out of the bed. After he realized it was our roommate, 38 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: he told her she was welcome to join us. I 39 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: tried to explain to my bo boyfriend that she is 40 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: a war yeur and she just wanted to watch, but 41 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: he insisted that she get naked and join us. She 42 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: declined the offer. Now I'm not sure how to deal 43 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: with my boyfriend. Does he want a threesome with us 44 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: or have they been having sex all along? What's going 45 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: on here? 46 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 2: Yes? 47 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: And probably yes. They may have had some dalliances in 48 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: the past because she is freaky with her voyeurism and everything, 49 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: but whether the two of them did it before or not, 50 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: he for sure would love a threesome with her and 51 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: you right now his roommate. Is she staying there? I mean, 52 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: what's happening? Even though you moved in, she's still there, 53 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: She's not moving out. I think he was too insistent 54 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: about her joining you guys, and I'm glad she turned 55 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: him down when he asked her to join you. But 56 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: please don't take this any further. It will completely change 57 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: your relationship, not only with your boyfriend but with her 58 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 1: as well, who you say you're so close with. The 59 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: voyeurism was exciting to you for a while. It was 60 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: fun while it lasted, but let that be over now, Okay, 61 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: make it plain that you just want you and him together, 62 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:17,239 Speaker 1: no third parties. He seems really really into the minajehwa thing, 63 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean you have to do it. You know, 64 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: if you're not into it, then don't do it. Don't 65 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: let anyone change your mind. Period, You're gonna be staying there, 66 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: so you know, you never know what could happen. They 67 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 1: might be trying to persuade your he for sure, I think, 68 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: and I thank you for saying you respect your elders 69 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: in the beginning of this letter. But please also remember 70 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: to respect yourself and don't get caught up in a 71 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: threesome if that's not where you want to be. 72 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: Steve, little girl, Uncle Steve, You're gonna put it to 73 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: you like this, this relationship ain't gonna make it. I'm 74 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: just gonna be real honest with you. Y'all got too 75 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 3: much mess here, and it ain't a good way to start. 76 00:03:59,040 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 2: See, listen to me. 77 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: You can't build a relationship on mess like this. You 78 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 3: just can't and expect it to flourish and grow in 79 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 3: the right direction because it's already headed in the wrong 80 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 3: direction and you started it, and you started it. See now, 81 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 3: young lady, we all make mistakes. We all have to 82 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 3: be forgiven. Ain't nobody perfect. All of us have done it, 83 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 3: all of us will continue. 84 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 2: To make mistakes, and to the day we leave this world, 85 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: all of us. 86 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 3: Don't nobody get it perfect. Nobody So I'm not dogging. 87 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 3: I just want you to understand I've seen this movie before, 88 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 3: and you all are writing the script that the way 89 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 3: the end can only be one thing, because you all 90 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: have introduced things into this relationship that don't really need 91 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 3: to be there. 92 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: And I want you to look at how all of 93 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 2: it got started. 94 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 3: You got this boyfriend and been begging you to move 95 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: in with him, but you had a roommate. 96 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: You didn't want to leave a hanging. 97 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 3: But then it end up that your boy your girl, 98 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: your roommate was planning on moving in with her boyfriend 99 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 3: all along without telling me anything, and so then she 100 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 3: moved out on you, and then you was kind of 101 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: forced to move in with my boyfriend at that point 102 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 3: because I'm a student and I came forward to live alone. 103 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 2: Right there, we got a problem. 104 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 3: We got a problem because this ain't really nothing you 105 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 3: wanted to do, and you really didn't want to move 106 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 3: in with your boyfriend, and you was using that you 107 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 3: got a roommate as an excuse and don't want to 108 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 3: leave them hanging as the excuse, But you really didn't 109 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 3: want to move in, because this letter with the red 110 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 3: totally different if you really wanted to move in with 111 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: him and was saying and just as luck would have it, 112 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 3: my roommate. 113 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 2: Was planning to on move in with her boyfriend. 114 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 3: So it all worked out. No, it didn't. You were 115 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 3: forced to move in with it. Now, when I moved in, 116 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 3: one of his female friends lived with him. That's shaky again. 117 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 3: I keep telling y'all about this here, Buz. No, y'all 118 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 3: ain't listening. And I know we're all the best of friends, 119 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 3: so they won't messing around anything. A few nights after 120 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 3: I moved in, my boyfriend and I had the place 121 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 3: to ourself, so we started having sets on the couch. 122 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 3: I heard our roommate come in, but my boyfriend didn't 123 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: because he was into what he was doing. She's still 124 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: right in the door to then, and. 125 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: She watched us. 126 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 3: The fact that she was watching made it a mu 127 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 3: experience for me, And the next day I asked him 128 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 3: why she watched this. She has't a fetish. She likes 129 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 3: to watch others in acts. So I google it is 130 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: called voys. I told him I leave a bedroom. Don't 131 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: crack from now right there, right there. Hold on, you've 132 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 3: fighted another person into your relationship. 133 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: Hold on, Steve, we'll have Part two of your response 134 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 135 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject he caught her watching us. We'll get 136 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning show. 137 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 138 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: The subject he caught her watching us? 139 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 3: Well, this young twenty seven year old girl got forced 140 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 3: to move in with her boyfriend because her roommate moved 141 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 3: in with her boyfriend. Now she's living with this guy. 142 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 3: I wish she really didn't want to do according to 143 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 3: the way the letter was written. But she's a student. 144 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 3: She can't afford to stay by herself. He has a 145 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 3: roommate that's a friend of you all, some mutual friend 146 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 3: who's female. She wasn't there, y'all had to place the self, 147 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 3: So you started having sex in couch. While you having it, 148 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 3: the roommate the girl comes in and stood in the 149 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 3: den and watched, y'all. And you saw her, but your boyfriend, 150 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 3: and now why she. 151 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 2: Was watching y'all? You just kept right on going. 152 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 3: But you said the fact that she was watching it 153 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 3: made it even better experience for me. The next day 154 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 3: I asked her why she was watching us, and she said, 155 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 3: it's a feti. So you went online, looked it up 156 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 3: in It's called voyeurs. I told her I'd leave the 157 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 3: bedroom door crack from now on, and I caught her 158 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 3: watching us a few more times, and it was our secret. Well, 159 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 3: let me tell you about you all secret. You have 160 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 3: allowed someone into y'all's relationship. You introduced this. See, you 161 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 3: could have told your girlfriend, hey, hold up, want well, 162 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 3: me and my man do ain't none of your biss. 163 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 3: But it turns you on. Now you excited. So now 164 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 3: you're leaving doors cracked, so when we're in here, you 165 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 3: can look in here. Okay, so that's what you want. 166 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 3: You want to introduce somebody else to the relationship. 167 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 2: Okay, watch this. 168 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 3: So now it was y'all's little secret until a couple 169 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 3: of days ago my boyfriend caught her. She scared him 170 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 3: so badly he jumped out the bed. Okay, so now 171 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 3: you're thinking game over. But after he realized it was 172 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 3: our roommate, he told her she was welcome to join us. 173 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: Now listen to this party. 174 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 3: The reason he invited her to join us if because 175 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 3: there was no shock or surprise on your face when 176 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 3: she when he caught her and he jumped up. 177 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 2: You laid there like whoa. So now he going, oh 178 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: you was cool with this? 179 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 3: See he read the room right away because you should 180 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 3: have jumped up with it. But it wasn't no surprise 181 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 3: for you because you left the door, see what I'm saying. 182 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 2: So now he say you welcome to join us. 183 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: I tried to explain to my boyfriend that she is 184 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 3: a boyan and she just wanted to watch. Oh no, 185 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: see he ain't going for this him. You want to watch? 186 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 3: Why that turns her home? Because he is that laying it. 187 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 3: He in that laying it and she watching. So now 188 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 3: if you watch it, you must want it, and I 189 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 3: would think the same thing. 190 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: What dude, you know I ain't gonna think that. 191 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 3: So now he insisted that she getting naked and join us. 192 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: She declined the offer. Now I'm not sure how to 193 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 3: deal with my boyfriend. What you don't know how to 194 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 3: deal with your boyfriend. You don't think your boyfriend trying 195 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 3: to figure out how to deal with you. You leaving those open, 196 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 3: inviting other women into y'all's relationship, and now you don't 197 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 3: know how to deal with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend to 198 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 3: figure it out. I'm telling you he didn't figured it out. 199 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 3: Says he want a threesome with us? Or have they 200 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 3: been having sex all along? Hell yeah, he want a three, 201 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: so all of the bus hell yeah, he want a three. Now. 202 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 3: I don't know if they've been having sex all along, 203 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 3: but he damn show won the three. 204 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: So you had the three. 205 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 3: So because you invite us somebody else in there to watch, see, 206 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 3: you can't introduce the three someome concept and then try 207 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 3: to make the three some concepts stay where you wanna stay. 208 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 3: A homeboy got ideas for you. Now, what's going on here? 209 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 3: I just told you, y'all, relationship ain't gonna make it. 210 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 3: You can't figure your boyfriend out. He ain't gonna un. 211 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 3: He ain't gonna unremember what he knows. He not finna, 212 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 3: He not finna do that. He not finna ever forget 213 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: that you invited that other girl in that room to 214 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: come on in here. He ain't through trying. This is 215 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 3: shot number one. He gonna be laying around his draws 216 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 3: all day now, y'all. Ain't ain' gonna be no crashing 217 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 3: the door. He's just gonna leave the door. Y'all gonna 218 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 3: be doing it. 219 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: In the hallway. 220 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 3: Y'all gonna be in there in her room in a minute. See, 221 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,839 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, this relationship is done. This boyfriend you got, 222 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 3: y'all ain't got no future, and you introduced it little girl. 223 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 3: So I feel badly for you, but you brought this 224 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 3: on your own. There's nothing you can do, and he 225 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 3: will never He's not gonna unforget. He's not gonna forget 226 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 3: what he saw. He's not gonna forget that you invited 227 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 3: her to watch. It's on his mind all the time. 228 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 3: I can't tell you how many times a man think 229 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 3: about sex in the course of the day. Now you 230 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: introduce it most sex. 231 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 2: Oh, come on, how many often? Yeah? Very honest. 232 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: Volunteered like, okay, that's a lot. 233 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 2: That's the lot. 234 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 3: It don't turn off. You gotta be in some real 235 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: troubles quid thing about sexon. You got to be in 236 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 3: some real trouble for that not to cross your mind. 237 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 3: I can give you some examples of when you want 238 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 3: to think about. 239 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: What's one wand court? All right? 240 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: See post your comments of Fay Strawberry letter were on 241 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: the list. 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