WEBVTT - Ali Marpet: trading dollars for a doctorate, guarding Tom Brady, climbing Kilimanjaro

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<v Speaker 1>What's up everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>This is Spice Adams and you're listening to the NFL

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<v Speaker 2>Player's Second Acts Podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby, and welcome back. Thank you for tuning in to

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<v Speaker 3>the NFL Players Second Acts Podcast. It's been a minute,

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<v Speaker 3>but were back on, Peanut, and I got my uncle

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<v Speaker 3>Whitney as always, mister Roman Hormal.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's happening you good? I was not ready for

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<v Speaker 2>the drum roll or whatever you call that at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the normal introduction, that's not how it actually works.

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<v Speaker 2>I will not say your name because I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to give away who our guest is, but just know

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<v Speaker 2>that it's a different.

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<v Speaker 4>Opening every single time come on here.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's so I never know what's going to happen

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<v Speaker 2>comes out of this guy's mouth.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know as well.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, before we get all that this, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to push it on forward. Peanut, who's our guest today?

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<v Speaker 3>Today? We got an oldie but a goodie. This gentleman

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<v Speaker 3>played seven years for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. He was

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<v Speaker 3>drafted in the second round by Love Smith, one of

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<v Speaker 3>my former coaches. He's a Super Bowl winning champion. He's

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<v Speaker 3>an All Pro guard. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome Ali Marpetts.

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on, boss?

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on all right now, all right, before you even

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<v Speaker 2>go into Ali, we gotta address the elephant in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 4>You were a second round pick by Tampay Bucks from.

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<v Speaker 2>A Division three, Yes school, that means you, William Smith

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<v Speaker 2>and Baylor.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't even pronounce it. They got like eight names.

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<v Speaker 1>You got like three different D three programs right there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, so three player. Uh so I'm hyping myself

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<v Speaker 1>up here. I like to do it. You should introduction.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of it. Now.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was the I'm playing with D two guys,

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<v Speaker 4>never get three.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the highest drafted Division three player in NFL history.

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<v Speaker 1>So that the small school guys. You gotta you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>have school guys. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So I read though that you were the offensive player

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<v Speaker 3>of the year as a lineman.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, other things I feel proud of. Yeah. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was co offense. I don't know if does that work

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<v Speaker 1>another quarterback, but yeah, so I was a co offensive player.

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<v Speaker 1>At the conference, I was did you have any touchdowns?

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<v Speaker 1>No touchdowns or anything like that. So no real stats,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm telling you I was better. Just put up politely.

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<v Speaker 1>I was better than my competition pretty significantly enough to

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<v Speaker 1>to garner that honor. But yeah, so I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what football is like. You just like dominate, dude, dominate,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when you get to the NFL, it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, it's a bit different. These guys are getting paid.

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<v Speaker 3>To how much you have dominated a D three school?

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<v Speaker 4>Nowhere near as much as that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, like, so I play with a guy,

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<v Speaker 2>Jarry Evans, who went to Bloomsburg University. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>D two, right, and so I was like, how do

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<v Speaker 2>you get drafted from a D two school? And he

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<v Speaker 2>went like fourth round? You being second round. It is

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<v Speaker 2>like that's like being first round of any If you

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<v Speaker 2>went to D one, you're going first round. But he

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<v Speaker 2>went to small school, so everybody's like they're going to

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<v Speaker 2>question it, but second round is just like going first

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<v Speaker 2>round from where you are. And he was like the

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<v Speaker 2>only way you get drafted from a small school is

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<v Speaker 2>literally you have to destroy people as an offer to Lineman,

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, you're carrying him out of bounds, your body,

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<v Speaker 2>slamming somebody every play. You're like, you just jump off

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<v Speaker 2>the tape. You're like, I don't know, the film's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of grainy, I don't know where they're playing at, but

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<v Speaker 2>this kid is just dominating, kicking ass everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so that is kind of I got a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit hype myself up here, but a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how it has to play out. And also like

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<v Speaker 1>for me, like it takes a GM like or a

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<v Speaker 1>coach like to take their SHOT's gonna take the shot

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<v Speaker 1>on the It's so much easier pick the Alabama or

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<v Speaker 1>the SEC. You know what I'm saying. So like it

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<v Speaker 1>does take it like to kind of put it out

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<v Speaker 1>on the line, be like I trust my ability scouts,

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<v Speaker 1>my ability to evaluate talent, which is like a really

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<v Speaker 1>hard thing to do for those.

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<v Speaker 3>Smaller school So how was it when you went to

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<v Speaker 3>the Senior Bowl?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that was kind of like an eye opening.

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<v Speaker 3>Experience, Like damn, okay, I'm not really storing people or.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually did okay the Senior Bowl too, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a surprise for me. So like my

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<v Speaker 1>first rep one on ones, like that's the that is

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesday exactly. So like they say, the game doesn't really matter,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just really one on ones that matter anyway. So

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<v Speaker 1>my I'm like getting all fired up. It's exciting for me.

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<v Speaker 1>My first rep. I'm at left tackle against Nate Orchard,

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<v Speaker 1>who was the D one sack leader that year, you

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<v Speaker 1>tah and and so I'm like, well, I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>get found out, like they're going about to realize that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't belong here, Like what am I doing against

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<v Speaker 1>a sack leader? First rap? And I ended up winning it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, all right, maybe I do belong

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<v Speaker 1>And then slowly throughout the course of the week, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh wait, I can actually do this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can do it at high level. So there's a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of moments where I was like kind of surprising myself, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>along the way, does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, competition.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, and I realized they realized that I shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>playing left tackle, I think right. That was another.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing I was gonna say, like, so you played tackle

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<v Speaker 2>in college and then you transitioned to guard, because yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if the senior ball is playing next to Trent

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<v Speaker 1>Brown is a tackle and.

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<v Speaker 4>Six eight, yeah Trent three.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yething like that and had a terrible pro day,

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<v Speaker 2>terrible combine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, great player, great dude, great player. But I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was playing left tackle and I'm six four, three

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<v Speaker 1>oh seven or whatever. They got this left guard next

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<v Speaker 1>to me who's six sevens whatever, he is three seven

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Maybe we should switch those guys. You'll play

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<v Speaker 1>left guard tackle, you play left guard. So that was

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<v Speaker 1>a switch. Real.

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<v Speaker 3>So you were at your heaviest weight, you were three

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<v Speaker 3>or seven. What was that process like to go through

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<v Speaker 3>and eat the calories? I mean you weren't naturally big.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I read somewhere where you were like to

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<v Speaker 3>eighty to ninety three hundred, and you just kept putting

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<v Speaker 3>those calories on and on.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, I mean yeah, you can see where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at right now. I mean like, yeah, yeah, some down

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five pounds or whatever like that. So I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>my weight where I feel like I should be sitting that.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, it was hard, like when people tell me

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<v Speaker 1>they can't gain weight like young athletes, and I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to them like, yeah, I can't, Like you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to put on weight, like I can't gain with

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<v Speaker 1>like sit eat with me for a day, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee you you're going to gain weight. Like I had

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<v Speaker 1>my alarm set to eat food. Like I'm sure you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard the story, you know, the guys in the locker room,

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<v Speaker 1>they're like need to like like it's the job is

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<v Speaker 1>to eat right, And that was that was my mentality

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<v Speaker 1>around food. And so now what I've done since I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped playing is that I still had that mentality around food.

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<v Speaker 1>I just had to sort of like the awareness around

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<v Speaker 1>food is now changed. I just flipped that switch, if

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. Like I always I still have that

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<v Speaker 1>same awareness around food. I just now need to change

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<v Speaker 1>what that that goal is for me sense?

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<v Speaker 4>So do you eat less or do you eat differently?

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<v Speaker 1>I just eat less. I last night I had went

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't know if you guys been here, but

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<v Speaker 1>who's your Chicago baste? So ocell there's an Ocean burger

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<v Speaker 1>place here and there. Last night, I'm still eating your hood.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just.

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<v Speaker 3>Bacon.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the best burger get.

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<v Speaker 3>You have no idea, one of the best Burgers in

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<v Speaker 3>Chicago shout.

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<v Speaker 1>Out to.

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<v Speaker 4>Shout out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so yeah, I just have to eat less of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But again, the intentionality around food is not something I

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<v Speaker 1>can just like, you know, forget. So that's that's ingrained

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<v Speaker 1>in me from all those years of gaining to be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, aligneman.

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<v Speaker 3>So you look like a tight end right now. First

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<v Speaker 3>said it looked like a tight end.

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<v Speaker 4>Looks just like a tight end.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeh. I don't know if I got the hands for it.

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<v Speaker 2>So you you were co MVP and college you can

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<v Speaker 2>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hyping you up.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you should come back as a tight end. You

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<v Speaker 3>can go to tight End University to be with Greg

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<v Speaker 3>Olsen and there do some stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>No. So, Actually, one of my workouts for the in

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<v Speaker 1>my senior year, I was with the Bills, and the

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<v Speaker 1>o C tight ends coach and the line coach came

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<v Speaker 1>to Hobart. So it was I don't know, two hour

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<v Speaker 1>drive or whatever. So they all came out to the

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<v Speaker 1>school and I did five minutes of line position work

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<v Speaker 1>and then I did thirty minutes of tight end stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, i'mbout to play tight end. This would

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<v Speaker 1>be about to be cool, Like I'm gonna have a

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<v Speaker 1>whole different experience around football, like I'm gonna get my

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<v Speaker 1>name called and stuff like that and score touchdowns. But

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't end up.

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<v Speaker 3>What I want to ask is, when I retired, I

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<v Speaker 3>built a boat. I built a rowboat, and I rolled

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<v Speaker 3>across Lake Michigan. It's fantastically twenty twenty five, twenty six hours,

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<v Speaker 3>non stop straight. We built a boat. My buddy of mine, Jake,

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<v Speaker 3>we built a bowl a rowboat from scratch, and that

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<v Speaker 3>was kind of a you know what, I still got

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<v Speaker 3>it in my tank to do something competitive orthing like that.

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<v Speaker 3>So you retired after seven seasons. You retired fairly young,

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<v Speaker 3>and you lost seventy five pounds and you climbed Mount Killing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I hope I said that right, you got it. Do

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<v Speaker 3>you think you could have climbed that mountain at your

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<v Speaker 3>playing weight?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good question. Uh. I would like to think

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<v Speaker 1>that I could have. But so I was inspired by

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<v Speaker 1>a teammate of mine, so Bo Allen, who was he

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<v Speaker 1>was three, He was a de tackle. He did it

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<v Speaker 1>at three twenty probably at the time. So I like

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<v Speaker 1>to think that if he did it, I could do it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then also, uh, that same trip Pilodinada. He announced

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<v Speaker 1>his retirement up there.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, so I know you were So

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<v Speaker 1>I did it a couple of years later. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>not to I heard stories about it. They need a

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<v Speaker 1>little assistance now, But you're three thirty, you know, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you need a little help carrying some So I like

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<v Speaker 1>to think that I could do it. I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, I get it done.

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<v Speaker 3>No is it Is it a walk or is it

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<v Speaker 3>like like a legit climb.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the reason it's so popular is because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like a technical climb, Like it's just like you

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<v Speaker 1>just need you're on your feet for hours, so you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>anyone can like get it done. Yeah, it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of a grind.

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<v Speaker 3>And how long did it take?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's six days in and out, but it's like

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<v Speaker 1>five days in and like the summit night that's the hardest.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest of the time you're just walking fine. So

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<v Speaker 1>at like midnight, youbously you start your start your climb

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<v Speaker 1>and you're hiking pitch black with your head lamps. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at like you know, seventeen thousand feet or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and just one foot at a time. Incredibly slowly, just

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<v Speaker 1>like inching away up until you get to at sunrise

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<v Speaker 1>at six o'clock or seven o'clock in the morning when

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<v Speaker 1>and that's when you reach the summit. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of what you do. It's it's a freaking

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<v Speaker 1>crynd It's one of the hardest things I had to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that hard. They're gooding getting up there to that

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<v Speaker 1>that that peak summer night, totally totally manageable.

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<v Speaker 3>Air, super thin, Like I was struggling.

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<v Speaker 2>Really okay, So what was the training before you get there?

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<v Speaker 2>Like did you train it all or you just showed up?

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<v Speaker 4>Because you seem like a guy Ali that likes to prepare.

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<v Speaker 3>I am you come off as that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I'm friends with a guy that does a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of these mountain climbs nowt he's really gotten into it.

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<v Speaker 2>He has his own oxygen machine. He's like like high deprivation.

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<v Speaker 2>He watches TV for hour every day and just at

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<v Speaker 2>low oxygen levels just to like prepare and do all

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<v Speaker 2>these things. The shoes, the gear, what all did you have?

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<v Speaker 2>What did you not have? What would you suggest anybody

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<v Speaker 2>else to do this?

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<v Speaker 1>So I like to prepare. However, this trip kind of

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<v Speaker 1>came last minute. Like three weeks before the trip, They're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>someone dropped out, you want to come? I was like

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<v Speaker 1>bet so. So what I ended up doing was buying

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<v Speaker 1>all the gear and like walking around Central Park because

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<v Speaker 1>like that's like what else are you going to do

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<v Speaker 1>to train besides being on your feet? Like that's what

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<v Speaker 1>they recommend. So I had three weeks from just walking

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<v Speaker 1>with my dog around the Central Park trying to break

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<v Speaker 1>in shoes that can work for it. And then when

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<v Speaker 1>I get there, I realize you're supposed to have liked

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<v Speaker 1>medicine that helps like your brain from swelling from like altitude.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have that, So like I'm scrounging, like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get from other people whatever leftovers they have. So

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<v Speaker 1>like I ended up it ended up working out, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking like a quarter of the dosage that they recommend.

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<v Speaker 1>So like normally I like to prepare, this trip was

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<v Speaker 1>like the last minute, Like, yeah, I wouldn't recommend that

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<v Speaker 1>part of it. Okay, I recommend training for it and

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<v Speaker 1>walking around, but yeah, the whole last minute, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't know brain swell either.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't either. You that's something new.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never heard that. Did anybody know that the brain swell?

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<v Speaker 3>You're not supposed to You're not supposed to tell.

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<v Speaker 2>People that, right, because everybody just rose behind the cameras

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<v Speaker 2>is all like, nah, I ain't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody like isn't supposed to be at that elevation. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just your body is just not your organs aren't

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<v Speaker 1>functioning properly.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna say, let's climb the mountain, but you say,

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<v Speaker 3>my brain is swelling. So I'm good, No, we're not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm it's cold, I'm straight. I have adventures in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm just like, no, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Glad you did that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun, it's cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not for everybody, but that's cool too. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was with honestly, I just want to plug it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>with a great organization, so with Chris Long's Foundation, water Board.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you're supposed to do it one year and

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's not too late, tapped out. Not too late.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, if you're listening at me, water boys, I'm down.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go. They're finalizing the list for next year, finalizing

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<v Speaker 3>the list for next year. It's dope. So one of

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<v Speaker 3>the reasons you got out, it's just for you know,

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<v Speaker 3>talking about brain swelling and everything you played seven years.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you just won a Super Bowl All Pro

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<v Speaker 3>like Finn to come into like a large sum of cash,

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<v Speaker 3>and for you you said, nah, I think I'm good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm done. You just walked away. Why was that? How

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<v Speaker 3>How hard was it that decision for you to get.

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<v Speaker 1>To I mean, I think for most players and for myself,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the hardest decision I've ever had to make. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's it's so for me. I think I've always

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<v Speaker 1>sort of valued my health, right, there are certain things

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<v Speaker 1>that I value my life, and health is paramount for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I'm going to live authentically within my own values, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't continue to put my body in that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>difficult place weekend week out. So like that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>was my framework was, Like, if I'm truly going to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with myself and I'm going to be like

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<v Speaker 1>living within my health value, I can't keep playing football,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's there's for me obviously, there's there's money on

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<v Speaker 1>the table, right, and that's hard to walk away. From.

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<v Speaker 1>But at a certain point, I think you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with yourself and say, like, what what sort

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<v Speaker 1>of changes really is it's going to make for me?

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're for me. It was really important to have.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm satisfied kind of with where I was at, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the truth is more, it can be better. But

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<v Speaker 1>for me, it felt like I had reached a point

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<v Speaker 1>where I could do the things that I wanted to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I could travel, I a climb, kill and jar I

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<v Speaker 1>could do the things that I wanted to and still

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<v Speaker 1>having my health, and that was really important to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it makes sense? It does it? Does?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to put this perspective too, though, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>not just a little bit of money.

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<v Speaker 4>It was two years, twenty million dollars you left out there.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, so you checked a lot of boxes and

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<v Speaker 2>so at that point, because I won't like for me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, did that decision did it already start to

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<v Speaker 2>happen like early in that year or was it like

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<v Speaker 2>starting your seven Like, man, I'm just tired because before retirement,

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<v Speaker 2>we all kind of know that we sent something's changing

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<v Speaker 2>in us, all right before we make that switch. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying and I'm wondering for you, Ali, was

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<v Speaker 2>it was it those thoughts already in your mind or

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<v Speaker 2>was it Man I wanted I've got to the top

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<v Speaker 2>of the mountain.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good. Yeah, now I can let go.

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<v Speaker 1>So I so, actually, so my last game was actually

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<v Speaker 1>Pro Bowl last the Pro Bowl out in Vegas, So

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<v Speaker 1>that was my last game, which was kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>cool way to end it for me. Yeah, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I think actually, I know it sounds it might sound silly,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I think I started my football career with

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<v Speaker 1>the end in mind a little bit. I think, like

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<v Speaker 1>we all know, right, it's not it's it's not forever,

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<v Speaker 1>right exactly, And I think.

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<v Speaker 3>Right starting at the end, So I think I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think for me also coming from the D three school, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so like anything was just like I felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was playing with house money, right, So, like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think that I was going to have the career that

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<v Speaker 1>I did. So I kind of always identified and expected

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<v Speaker 1>that my career was not, i mean, going to be shorter.

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<v Speaker 1>So I kind of always had that framework of what

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<v Speaker 1>life after football is going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was just like a bonus for you to

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<v Speaker 3>make it to the league, like I made it to

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<v Speaker 3>the league. All right, cool, but it wasn't really in

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<v Speaker 3>my I didn't see myself playing. But now that I'm here,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all do it for a couple of years and then

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<v Speaker 3>all right, now I'm gonna do something else.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of how it felt for me. So like

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I was the kind of guy that like

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<v Speaker 1>circled like and like, I'm going to play in the

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<v Speaker 1>NFL when I'm five years old, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>That was not me, like a thousand person.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that respect that was all day long. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could like and I worked.

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<v Speaker 3>I worked for that. This is what I want to do,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I have that mentality and Nope, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 3>get drafted. I'm going to go here. I'm gonna like

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<v Speaker 3>I had, I wrote out goals and you know I wrote,

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<v Speaker 3>I had a chalkboard that I legit wrote my goal. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to run this, I'm going to this pro day,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to do this, this, this and that and

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<v Speaker 3>and it played out every way I I scripted my

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<v Speaker 3>life and it played out exactly the way I wanted.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think for me, it was harder to walk

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<v Speaker 3>away from the game because I had wanted it for

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<v Speaker 3>so long and so bad. So I respect the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that you could say yeah, I'm good, whereas me I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have that luxury. I didn't have that opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>to be like, yeah, I can walk away.

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<v Speaker 2>So first of all, you seem like a disaster prepper, right,

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<v Speaker 2>like like I'm preparing for the worst all the time

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<v Speaker 2>because when I get here, I'm like, dude, any at

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<v Speaker 2>any time, I can be gone.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, which it actually turned out.

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<v Speaker 2>To be a benefit for you, and so as you

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<v Speaker 2>make it, because I still want to know, like when

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<v Speaker 2>did you decide? Was it? Was it after Super Bowl?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it at Pro Bowl?

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<v Speaker 4>Was it during this?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know when you decided, like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>this is probably going to be it, because I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't know that until yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean so, I definitely don't think I was ever

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<v Speaker 1>going to be the guy that played ten twelve years.

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<v Speaker 1>That wasn't going to be. After my first training camp,

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that it's like in college, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hard camp.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like for y'all hard, it's real, Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like, oh I'm doing this ten more times.

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<v Speaker 3>I know hard three And I was like this stuff

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<v Speaker 3>is hard, Like I don't know, and I'm the guy

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<v Speaker 3>that can run on and I was like, yo, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know if I could do this.

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<v Speaker 2>I called my dad, and my dad this is like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, this is what I want to do.

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<v Speaker 4>And he was like, Roman, I want.

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<v Speaker 2>You to look at that check that you got all right,

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<v Speaker 2>and you've been working for this your whole life. This

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<v Speaker 2>is like what you wanted and just see what you

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<v Speaker 2>really want to do. And I was like, you're right,

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<v Speaker 2>get back out, get back.

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<v Speaker 3>Here that limon go. Like what were your reps? Like

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<v Speaker 3>do you do all the reps with like scout team,

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<v Speaker 3>first team, second team, thirteen? Do you have to do

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<v Speaker 3>special teams?

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<v Speaker 1>Special teams do or something like that? There's no there's

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<v Speaker 1>no you know, tapping anyone else in Like that's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing about playing line. You're getting all the reps, especially

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<v Speaker 1>as a young guy. And also that was always my

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<v Speaker 1>mentality too, even like as over year six or seven,

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<v Speaker 1>where maybe I could have cut back on something like

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<v Speaker 1>I was always the guy that was going to try

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<v Speaker 1>and get everything that I could, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>may have possibly contributed to the fact that I'd sort

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<v Speaker 1>of burnt out a little bit from doing it. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was always my mentality. But as far as your question,

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<v Speaker 1>as far as like when did I know, like when

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<v Speaker 1>it was that moment, I don't. The truth is I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if there was really like a definitive moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I will say like my rookie year, I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that like if I had saved up X right

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<v Speaker 1>if I Another indicator for me is like I saw

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<v Speaker 1>some older guys like if I'm taking you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>a celebrex or like an anti flammatory like every every

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<v Speaker 1>day just to get if just to get through, that's

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<v Speaker 1>an indicator that I should probably not be doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was another indicator for There's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things that I kind of contributed to it, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just so addicted, like I just loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>But then again, but you're a lineman, so you guys

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<v Speaker 3>are every plate.

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<v Speaker 1>It's different.

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<v Speaker 3>I was not like that corner safety like I just

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<v Speaker 3>I just ran more right, I wasn't a banger.

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<v Speaker 1>If it was running like I think like to think

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<v Speaker 1>that it would be different. But again, there's no like

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<v Speaker 1>getting away from It's like just sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard a lot of linemen talk about that, so

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<v Speaker 2>tell me this part. How did your family take this

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<v Speaker 2>friend's family? Did you get all positives when you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what this is? Like it's time because it's

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<v Speaker 2>not just you. Yeah, because when you retire, we all retire.

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<v Speaker 2>Like everybody's life changes because everybody celebrates when you win,

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<v Speaker 2>we all kind of down when you lose. You are

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<v Speaker 2>the heartbeat of a whole family. When you go to

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<v Speaker 2>the NFL, I don't think everybody understands that. So how

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<v Speaker 2>did how was their reactions? How's how did that play

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<v Speaker 2>on your heart as well?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh So to your point, my mom and I always

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<v Speaker 1>kind of joked like I was obviously a big dude,

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<v Speaker 1>so so big that I would have like gravitational pull,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's what football does, right, things everybody is does.

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<v Speaker 1>So my family wuld always congregate after games. So you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's not just you, it's everybody. Everybody that's part

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<v Speaker 1>of it. So I think even for like other people

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<v Speaker 1>in my family, like just navigating what the fall looks

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<v Speaker 1>like this past fall, like all right, what do we

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<v Speaker 1>do without football? It wasn't just me, but you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>but everybody was incredibly supportive. I think that was that

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<v Speaker 1>was lot so mom was like, whatever you want to do, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>we totally unconditional, so that I had. Fortunately, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a support system around me that like got it and

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<v Speaker 1>that helped the decision.

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<v Speaker 4>So you being so young, like, yeah, what are you

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<v Speaker 4>twenty nine?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thirty thirty?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, just turned the Big three? Oh yeah, April?

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<v Speaker 1>Right, should you guys do? Come on?

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<v Speaker 4>Called research?

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<v Speaker 1>It's called preparation. It's like watching game film.

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<v Speaker 3>Little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>We got good coaches too, Sure we got good coaches.

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<v Speaker 3>Still a good team, damn good team. But would you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Like thirty is a big one, you know, thirty forty fifty,

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<v Speaker 3>you got to do some big Like what what would

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<v Speaker 3>you do for the Big three?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm loky, so like I love one, I love food,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you know, people around me. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>people at the house, got a sush sushi chef pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much like all you can eat sushi and just hung

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<v Speaker 1>out there.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your favorite role sushi roll?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Interesting, I know, I don't think I've been asked

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<v Speaker 1>that question. Uh, just I'd go tune to salmon avocado

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, something simple that we might go to. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm big huge food guys. You can tell Oshibol sushi.

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<v Speaker 1>That's me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so what what is your favorite type of food?

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<v Speaker 3>Then out of you know, that was just I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>Japanese sushi.

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<v Speaker 1>Favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever been in Japan?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I need to. So I have done a fair

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<v Speaker 1>amount of traveling. So since that, we were going, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it out there. We're doing the shots, so

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's talk. Let's talk, let's talk travel, let's talk travel.

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<v Speaker 1>So actually, my my fiance and I when we first

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<v Speaker 1>sat down on our first date, we're like the three

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<v Speaker 1>places you want to go, right, So we both had Hawaii, Greece,

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<v Speaker 1>and Italy. Right, those are those are like.

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<v Speaker 4>Good places together?

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<v Speaker 1>You guys? Which one? All three?

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<v Speaker 4>All three?

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<v Speaker 1>All three together? No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, we didn't know why together. So we've we've been

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<v Speaker 3>agree together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Cool. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyway, so we did not hold hands romantic trip.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, did not hold hands with this guy. No, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't hold hands with your pass.

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<v Speaker 1>No. But so that was Those are the first three

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<v Speaker 1>trips that we took when I retired. It's like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we have let's bucket list types of trip trips. So

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<v Speaker 1>we did those three. Since then, we've done We did Thailand,

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<v Speaker 1>I did India, with my dad did come and draw.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about London and Paris. We're going to Spain

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<v Speaker 1>next month. So like all those types of things, like

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I felt like I couldn't do when

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<v Speaker 1>I played right, when I felt like I had to

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<v Speaker 1>train NonStop. The gym's in Europe, like, that's not any

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<v Speaker 1>that's not cutting it right.

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<v Speaker 4>They don't fit you, they don't fit me.

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<v Speaker 1>The free weights go up to forty five pounds. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm not training over there. So I put all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff off and now I'm able to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>which is.

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<v Speaker 2>I love child, and I think it's a I think

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<v Speaker 2>you learned so much more. Uh, seeing other cultures, other people,

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<v Speaker 2>how they live life and things like that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>naturally somebody that loves to travel, but being married to one,

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<v Speaker 2>uh it opens it up.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, they did.

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<v Speaker 1>Greece. That was really hard for you.

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<v Speaker 3>We met you in Athens, met in Athens and got

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<v Speaker 3>on a boat and went to We were in Greece,

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<v Speaker 3>Athens in Italy, Croatia, Croatia in Italy.

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<v Speaker 4>It was great.

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<v Speaker 2>I do want to go to Japan though, I think

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<v Speaker 2>Japan's got to be That's one of my bucket list

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<v Speaker 2>places and the reason why I want to go to

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<v Speaker 2>Japan so much. Number one is how techi in advanced is.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's also the mindset that the Japanese people have

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<v Speaker 2>is that, yeah, I do respect their culture and just

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<v Speaker 2>like it's one of the few nations that have never

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<v Speaker 2>been colonized, Like they've always had to depend on themselves

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<v Speaker 2>to always make it. That's like they're things that so they.

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<v Speaker 4>Always want to very forward thinking. They all, you know

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<v Speaker 4>me guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is like for me, I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>be around that because I want to see it.

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<v Speaker 3>The last Samurai coming here too with Tom Cruise, and

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<v Speaker 3>they were talking about the whole Japanese custom and samurai

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<v Speaker 3>and this, and so yeah, it really made me want

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<v Speaker 3>to go check out Japan a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do a trip, take the show on the road,

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<v Speaker 1>and we can.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go, Thomas, Melissa, let's go. We can we can

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<v Speaker 3>definitely do this. Get the show in Japan perfect. We

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<v Speaker 3>can definitely do this, and.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>So now let's talk about some traveling. We'll get back

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<v Speaker 2>to that as well. But this new journey you're on education.

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<v Speaker 2>You talked about why you're here, You're staying in the

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<v Speaker 2>New York area.

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<v Speaker 4>This last year and a half learning.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you were an economics major in college, but now you're.

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<v Speaker 4>You're trying to be a psychologist.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I understand the body, the health, the whole total

0:26:58.280 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 2>wellness thing. This is your packet, Ali, Please let the

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<v Speaker 2>people know share with us why you're on this journey.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think a big part, like when I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I started with the end in mind. For me, I

0:27:11.880 --> 0:27:15.600
<v Speaker 1>always talk about the values, right, some health being a value.

0:27:15.640 --> 0:27:17.800
<v Speaker 1>Another value of mind, like being of service to others,

0:27:17.840 --> 0:27:19.640
<v Speaker 1>which I think you guys can both relate to, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me, I was trying to navigate ways in

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<v Speaker 1>which I can be of service to my community right

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that felt satisfying and interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's kind of how I landed on psychology because

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<v Speaker 1>like I think we as players, there's so much that

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<v Speaker 1>goes pours into the mental side of the game, right

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. So I was always interested in that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that was my that's my interest, those are my passions,

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:49.199
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sort of merging that with the value of

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<v Speaker 1>being of service to others, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of the mission that I'm on right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a long process. Right, So in the fall,

0:27:58.920 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll be starting doctor in psychology, So it's a five

0:28:02.240 --> 0:28:04.320
<v Speaker 1>year degree, right, So, like I've got all this is

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:07.920
<v Speaker 1>a long time horizon. Yeah, but again, I'm learning about

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 1>things that I'm interested in, and at the end of it,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope to be able to help people in some capacity,

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<v Speaker 1>which is I think something that feels really important to me.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think, so that's kind of where if that

0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:23.280
<v Speaker 5>makes sense, No, do you know what you would want

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:27.120
<v Speaker 5>to specialize in more or or as you continue to learn,

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.679
<v Speaker 5>like you're using this as a runway to now figure

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:32.119
<v Speaker 5>that out, you just know this is the pathway to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I don't. The truth is I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>specifically what population I want to work with, but I

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 1>will say the full spectrum of mental health is incredibly

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>interesting to me. So I think that there are people

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<v Speaker 1>like you're probably familiar with sports psychologists, right that sort

0:28:47.560 --> 0:28:51.880
<v Speaker 1>of work on the visualization techniques and how to improve performance.

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 1>And there's also with people that work, you know, with

0:28:54.880 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 1>higher needs populations, and I think all of that, all

0:28:58.520 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 1>of that is interesting to me. And so as I

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<v Speaker 1>continue my education, I'm going to try and dip my

0:29:05.400 --> 0:29:07.360
<v Speaker 1>toe in a double a couple of different areas and

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:09.760
<v Speaker 1>see what really resonates. So I don't really know. I

0:29:09.800 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 1>do know the full spectrum of mental health, oup performance

0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>and higher needs are are seem at least intellectually stimulating.

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 2>So so like, I'm very stimulated by this too. Because

0:29:21.480 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 2>I've watched I've gotten into a lot more tennis, Peanut,

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:26.400
<v Speaker 2>I know you don't know that, but I've gotten the

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<v Speaker 2>whole conversation about it, And so before you got breakpoint

0:29:30.760 --> 0:29:33.720
<v Speaker 2>was that. So that got me into it, And I

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 2>just didn't realize how many of these great tennis players

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:39.560
<v Speaker 2>like there there are the world's best, and mentally they're

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 2>all like they got cracks, all in the cracks everywhere

0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:47.040
<v Speaker 2>because they lose way more than they win overall a

0:29:47.040 --> 0:29:49.200
<v Speaker 2>lot of times, like you're losing matches and when you

0:29:49.240 --> 0:29:51.440
<v Speaker 2>lose one match, you're out, out of the term, you're done.

0:29:51.800 --> 0:29:54.520
<v Speaker 2>But so every term that you don't win, you're trying

0:29:54.560 --> 0:29:56.640
<v Speaker 2>to figure out why. And these players are the best

0:29:56.640 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 2>of the best, and they always have somebody right there

0:29:59.400 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 2>on their side whole time, like tell them, hey, you're great,

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:04.480
<v Speaker 2>Hey you're you're goods for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but do you have that when you play golf?

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't full swing because that's.

0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:13.480
<v Speaker 4>I like full swing.

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:14.960
<v Speaker 1>You good all the time.

0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:16.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm calling you to get golf.

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:18.120
<v Speaker 1>How do you how do you think you guys would

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 1>do in an individual sport? Like if that like you're

0:30:21.360 --> 0:30:23.040
<v Speaker 1>you're the guy, tennis, whatever the sport is.

0:30:23.080 --> 0:30:26.400
<v Speaker 4>I think that a great, great question.

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<v Speaker 3>I am going Thomas cannot curse. I can't curse. I'm

0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 3>crush it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm gonna suck it first, right, I'm going to

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:39.160
<v Speaker 3>be terrible at first, but the way I think and

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 3>how I train, I'm going to obsess over it, and

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to work, work, work until I get whatever

0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 3>it is that i'm trying to fix or get better on.

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 3>If you want to call it the Mamaman Mamba mentality. Yeah,

0:30:53.880 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 3>that that's what I would do. I'm actually currently I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to play pickleball because I am going to

0:31:00.560 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 3>crush it at pickleball.

0:31:02.040 --> 0:31:03.880
<v Speaker 1>You haven't played, but you just know you're going to

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 1>crush it.

0:31:04.440 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 3>I played pickleball and it's so slow.

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 2>It's the sport that you don't have to be an athlete.

0:31:10.320 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 3>You don't have to be and I'm saying I would

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:14.400
<v Speaker 3>crush it. But that's just my That's how I think.

0:31:14.440 --> 0:31:16.480
<v Speaker 3>Like I think as a guy man, like we size

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:18.400
<v Speaker 3>each other up, like all one of the first things

0:31:18.480 --> 0:31:20.800
<v Speaker 3>you said, okay, he looked like he looked like it's

0:31:20.800 --> 0:31:25.320
<v Speaker 3>tight end he sized and you go up. But naturally

0:31:25.360 --> 0:31:30.040
<v Speaker 3>that's like what we do. Though I can't take him

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 3>he kind of big or like we're sizing sizing each other.

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:37.239
<v Speaker 3>We're type of personality. So for me, anything that I

0:31:37.280 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 3>do that I try to Yeah, anything that I try

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 3>to do, I'm I have the mindset of like, oh yeah,

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm definitely gonna kill it.

0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I think I think the big watching those documentaries, the

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:52.479
<v Speaker 1>biggest thing was like in times of failure, right, who

0:31:52.560 --> 0:31:55.280
<v Speaker 1>do you have around you? Because like and who you

0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 1>have to be the one to sort of pull yourself

0:31:57.120 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>out of it for sure? Like how did you do?

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm sure, I'm sure you've lost in some capacity.

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 3>I have a guy.

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:05.760
<v Speaker 1>You got a guy, I have my guy.

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:08.040
<v Speaker 3>I have a guy in my corner. One of the

0:32:08.080 --> 0:32:11.040
<v Speaker 3>best things that he ever did was I read a

0:32:11.080 --> 0:32:15.280
<v Speaker 3>book called the World's Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale, and

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:18.440
<v Speaker 3>people have pondered this since the beginning of the time.

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:21.800
<v Speaker 3>What is the world's saying, philosophers and everybody else. We

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:26.240
<v Speaker 3>become what we think about. And that is something that

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:29.520
<v Speaker 3>when I started playing, I read this book and I

0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:32.000
<v Speaker 3>still use it with me to this day. So if

0:32:32.040 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 3>I have success, I'm thinking, you know, something positive. But

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:40.400
<v Speaker 3>when I have failure, why did I fail? Okay, I

0:32:40.440 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 3>was thinking about something at home, I was thinking about

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:47.240
<v Speaker 3>something else, and I thought that negative into existence. You

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:49.760
<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying. I read what I sold and

0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:53.080
<v Speaker 3>what I've really focused on now that I read that

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:58.959
<v Speaker 3>book fifteen twenty years ago. When something negative creeps into

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:01.960
<v Speaker 3>my mind, I tried to replace it with a positive

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 3>thought because if I'm thinking negative all the time, negative

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 3>tends to happen, you know what I'm saying. So that

0:33:08.600 --> 0:33:11.040
<v Speaker 3>was something that I learned early. So that's why when

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:12.840
<v Speaker 3>you ask you that question like, oh, I'm gonna kill it,

0:33:12.960 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna crush it, Like that's just that's just how

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 3>my brain works. I try to take out that negative

0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:21.959
<v Speaker 3>and then just one percent focus on the positive. Sure,

0:33:22.080 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 3>you know it's all We'll talk offline, but I can

0:33:25.080 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 3>give you the book. It's like a quick twenty minute,

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 3>twenty minute read and Rome knows. It's like, I'm a

0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 3>guy of quotes.

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 4>Yes, I read. I read a lot of hundreds of quotes.

0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 1>Take.

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 3>I take quotes. I can't give you like five right now, yeah,

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:42.360
<v Speaker 3>but I have. I have them in my phone when

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:44.200
<v Speaker 3>I read them, and I'm like, okay, yeah, like I

0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 3>but that's how my brain. I'm attracted. I gravitate toward that,

0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:52.600
<v Speaker 3>and that kind of helps me stay out of that negative,

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 3>that down, the darkness and all that. So it's yeah,

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 3>it's great. I love it.

0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:59.400
<v Speaker 2>And Ali, I'll be honest, I think I would not

0:33:59.480 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 2>be essex in an individual sport because I've always been

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:06.080
<v Speaker 2>a really good teammate. That's like what I pride my

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 2>cell phone is that I've been a great teammate. I

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:10.600
<v Speaker 2>haven't always been the star. I've been around a lot

0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 2>of really great players, and I've always been able to

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 2>add value to any situation I've been in. I know

0:34:16.120 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 2>how to get along with anybody. I know to pick

0:34:18.800 --> 0:34:20.959
<v Speaker 2>guys up when they're down. I know how to leave

0:34:21.000 --> 0:34:23.359
<v Speaker 2>when other people are down. Shoot I'll step out there

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 2>and do it, you know, And so I get this

0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 2>thing going. So I understand I be able to read

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 2>the room. And so I am genuinely not a great

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 2>individual sport guy. But I have gotten into tennis lately,

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 2>and I've really gotten into golf, and I got the

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:41.279
<v Speaker 2>golf blug bad people that knows this.

0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:43.040
<v Speaker 4>I try and golf as.

0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Much as I can and whenever I can. I've gotten

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 2>a lot better in a short amount of time because

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:48.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm actually focusing on it, and so.

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:51.439
<v Speaker 4>I'm seeing these results. And look, man, it's tough.

0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:52.920
<v Speaker 2>All of a sudden, you get a bad lie and

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 2>I should probably hit an iron out of this, but

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:57.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna hit this three wood anyways, and I don't

0:34:57.280 --> 0:34:59.359
<v Speaker 2>do well. And then trying to shake yourself out of that,

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:03.319
<v Speaker 2>and just like with all these individual sports, like we've

0:35:03.320 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 2>seen on point break or full swings, these guys and

0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:10.879
<v Speaker 2>these women, Man, when one thing happens, it's really hard

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 2>to shake yourself out of it. When you don't have

0:35:12.640 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 2>anybody else to lean on to get you out of

0:35:15.400 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 2>It's you. You got to go out there and make

0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:20.360
<v Speaker 2>the play every single time, and so it is tougher.

0:35:20.400 --> 0:35:23.080
<v Speaker 2>It is a totally different thing. And you being a

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:26.359
<v Speaker 2>psychologist down the line, and I think it's these things

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:28.319
<v Speaker 2>are very very interesting, and you're going to have a

0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 2>unique perspective. Yes, you will from all of these, from

0:35:31.680 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 2>all your sports. You know what sports has taught you

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:35.040
<v Speaker 2>and what has given you.

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.879
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. And I'll just say real quick again,

0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:42.279
<v Speaker 1>so not clinical advice or anything like that, but I

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:45.480
<v Speaker 1>would say from a framework of experience right to your

0:35:45.560 --> 0:35:50.640
<v Speaker 1>point on sort of being in that team environment, like

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 1>what former players struggle with, right, So like what does

0:35:53.800 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 1>that look like when we don't have that, when we're

0:35:55.840 --> 0:36:00.839
<v Speaker 1>not leaning on each other? Just how much harder are life? Right?

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:05.040
<v Speaker 1>We don't have that locker room that we're used to.

0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:07.439
<v Speaker 1>I think to your point, that's one of the many

0:36:07.520 --> 0:36:11.840
<v Speaker 1>challenges that you guys know obviously that I'm navigating too. Personally.

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 1>It's like, all right, I'm not in the locker room.

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 1>What is who's my supports? I mean, I have a

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>sports system, but like navigating all those things, it's it's tough.

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:21.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And that's a perfect sad way to my next

0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:25.319
<v Speaker 2>question was you know, with young guys now more and

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:28.000
<v Speaker 2>more retiring, they're looking up, they're retiring early, they make

0:36:28.080 --> 0:36:31.680
<v Speaker 2>more money at an earlier age, and the NFL is

0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:33.960
<v Speaker 2>being so successful and being so great and blessed so

0:36:34.000 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 2>many of us. But when younger guys are starting to

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 2>want to retire, what advice would you give them? You

0:36:39.640 --> 0:36:43.000
<v Speaker 2>were a young guy that decided to retire in your twenties,

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:46.319
<v Speaker 2>and now you see that more and more often, what

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:49.040
<v Speaker 2>would be the advice for that you would give to them?

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:52.359
<v Speaker 2>The good, maybe some of the bad, and maybe some

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:54.839
<v Speaker 2>of the pitfalls that may be out there, especially like

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:56.480
<v Speaker 2>not being in the locker room anymore.

0:36:56.520 --> 0:36:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Sure, Okay, so there's a lot to unpack and them

0:36:59.360 --> 0:37:00.840
<v Speaker 1>them thinking about a lot of different things. But I

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:01.880
<v Speaker 1>would say we're still.

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 3>Kind of going through it too though. You're still trying

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 3>to figure it out though, right.

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.239
<v Speaker 1>So I think that that speaks to where, like where I'm.

0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 3>At, right, Yeah, And that's what I was saying, Like,

0:37:08.640 --> 0:37:10.759
<v Speaker 3>great question, but you're still trying to figure it out,

0:37:10.800 --> 0:37:12.080
<v Speaker 3>like you're navigating through it.

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm in it.

0:37:12.840 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm in it, That's what I'm saying.

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:17.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I would I would say is and I

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:23.719
<v Speaker 1>I almost would say I anticipated feeling. I'm not like diagnosing,

0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:28.239
<v Speaker 1>but like depressed the like things like I anticipated that

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:31.000
<v Speaker 1>after retirement. After talking to guys that are retired yea.

0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:34.480
<v Speaker 1>And I would say that like the lack of structure

0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:36.640
<v Speaker 1>and lack of clay, like those are things structured Claier,

0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:39.040
<v Speaker 1>that's where I live, that's in a safe space. So

0:37:39.120 --> 0:37:44.319
<v Speaker 1>like without those, I struggled, Uh you know pretty significantly.

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:46.759
<v Speaker 1>It's it's without that, it's tough. Like I'm still in it.

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm still navigating talking about like my professional interests, like

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:51.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm still I'm still narrowing in right. Yeah. So like

0:37:52.520 --> 0:37:54.839
<v Speaker 1>even up until this point recently before I was in

0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:58.319
<v Speaker 1>decided to go to to get my doctorate, Like there's

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:02.279
<v Speaker 1>a lot, there's a entire year of navigating. I was

0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:04.879
<v Speaker 1>in a Master's of Mental Health counseling program. Now I'm

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>doing this and doing that, and it's like this period

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:11.040
<v Speaker 1>of like uncertainty that just doesn't sit well day in

0:38:11.200 --> 0:38:16.560
<v Speaker 1>day out. So it's I would just say for anyone transitioning, Uh,

0:38:16.920 --> 0:38:19.359
<v Speaker 1>there's gonna be that period. Yeah, there's gonna it's just

0:38:19.480 --> 0:38:24.400
<v Speaker 1>the the uncertainty is going to happen. And that's totally fine.

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:27.120
<v Speaker 1>And I think that there's there was a piece of me,

0:38:27.320 --> 0:38:29.799
<v Speaker 1>a part of me that I kind of I don't know,

0:38:30.000 --> 0:38:31.919
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to like pride myself and being like, oh,

0:38:32.040 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be the poster boy of like a successful

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 1>transition of right, I want to be like one of

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:37.839
<v Speaker 1>the guys that knows how to do it the right way. Yeah,

0:38:39.200 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>exactly exactly in my head like those those But then

0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:45.239
<v Speaker 1>then that feels like burdensome to me, of like I

0:38:45.280 --> 0:38:47.520
<v Speaker 1>need to do everything right and like if I don't

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:50.040
<v Speaker 1>have clarity and I don't have structure, Uh, then it

0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:53.279
<v Speaker 1>almost just added into that anxiety and uncertainty that I

0:38:53.320 --> 0:38:58.240
<v Speaker 1>was feeling throughout the transitioning processes. Does that make sense totally?

0:38:58.800 --> 0:38:59.160
<v Speaker 3>I felt?

0:38:59.360 --> 0:38:59.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:38:59.600 --> 0:39:01.160
<v Speaker 3>I was the same way. Like I was like, all right,

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 3>I know what I want to do. I'm gonna do

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 3>this and that, and then I'm doing everything and I

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:06.600
<v Speaker 3>still struggled. I was just like, man, I miss football,

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:08.000
<v Speaker 3>Like what's god, I don't have my locker room mind.

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:10.120
<v Speaker 3>I got my boys, and I still had friends, like

0:39:10.160 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 3>we talked and we did all this stuff, but there's

0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:15.879
<v Speaker 3>just a piece of you missing because you've had this

0:39:16.320 --> 0:39:22.840
<v Speaker 3>unique experience high school, college, NFL, and then like that

0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:25.040
<v Speaker 3>it's over and you're just like, now, what am I

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 3>going to do now? Even though you might have it

0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:30.360
<v Speaker 3>planned out and you have your support system, you're still

0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:33.480
<v Speaker 3>there's still gonna be some form of struggle. Like if

0:39:33.480 --> 0:39:36.600
<v Speaker 3>you've done something for twenty years, thirty years, whatever, you're

0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:39.160
<v Speaker 3>gonna you know, I had a buddy say, you lose

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:42.520
<v Speaker 3>you lose your a little bit of your identity. You

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:46.200
<v Speaker 3>go through a small or some form of depression forget

0:39:46.280 --> 0:39:48.360
<v Speaker 3>I forget what the other one. But like, no matter

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:52.400
<v Speaker 3>how good you have it, you will you will struggle.

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 3>But it's just how long does that struggle last? This

0:39:55.760 --> 0:39:57.880
<v Speaker 3>last a month, two months, three months, and then once

0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:00.040
<v Speaker 3>you're in it, then you come out of it and

0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:02.240
<v Speaker 3>and you you were able. It's kind of like grieving,

0:40:02.280 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 3>you know when you go to a funeral, you know

0:40:03.800 --> 0:40:06.200
<v Speaker 3>the five stages or four stages of grieving, Like you

0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:09.880
<v Speaker 3>have to grieve your your career, Like, yeah, I warned it,

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 3>and then now you just once you get over it,

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:14.879
<v Speaker 3>that's when it, in my opinion, it starts to kind

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:18.840
<v Speaker 3>of blossom and grow and you start your new life.

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:20.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't expect it, but there are times where like

0:40:20.719 --> 0:40:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I would legitimately just I mean I did, I would

0:40:23.160 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 1>cry or whatever, and it was because of the feeling

0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:28.920
<v Speaker 1>of grief. Like it was a very similar process for me,

0:40:29.000 --> 0:40:30.640
<v Speaker 1>so like, yeah, that was a part of my journey,

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:32.200
<v Speaker 1>and the way that I would describe it is just

0:40:32.280 --> 0:40:35.719
<v Speaker 1>sort of unsettled. So God's transitioning, just like anticipate that

0:40:35.920 --> 0:40:38.400
<v Speaker 1>there's going to be some unsettled aspect, like that's just

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:42.040
<v Speaker 1>part of finding your next thing or the next chapter

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:44.879
<v Speaker 1>is in any period of transition, it's just a little

0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:48.360
<v Speaker 1>bit unsettling, and especially for me because I love clarity

0:40:48.560 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 1>and that's what I had with the NFL, so I

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:53.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't have that and that was especially hard. And now

0:40:53.360 --> 0:40:54.880
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm starting to get there, so that

0:40:54.920 --> 0:40:55.840
<v Speaker 1>feels good again.

0:40:55.719 --> 0:41:00.200
<v Speaker 2>I think for and this was my struggle was at

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 2>I just I wasn't confident in myself in doing other

0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:07.520
<v Speaker 2>things as well, Like I've just been so good at football,

0:41:07.560 --> 0:41:08.759
<v Speaker 2>and I mean, I just.

0:41:08.719 --> 0:41:09.479
<v Speaker 4>That's what I did.

0:41:10.000 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 2>And you gain all this confidence because you confirm validity

0:41:13.600 --> 0:41:15.000
<v Speaker 2>with all the successes that you have.

0:41:15.400 --> 0:41:17.040
<v Speaker 4>You just continue to knock down doors.

0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:19.799
<v Speaker 2>You know, you get the scholarship, the first scholarship, you

0:41:19.800 --> 0:41:21.479
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean to go to college, so.

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 4>That builds confidence.

0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 2>Then you get to college and you're on the bench

0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:25.919
<v Speaker 2>and all of a sudden, you're playing you're like, dude,

0:41:25.920 --> 0:41:28.200
<v Speaker 2>that builds confidence, and then you see yourself in the

0:41:28.200 --> 0:41:30.799
<v Speaker 2>newspaper and then and now you get drafted, and so

0:41:30.880 --> 0:41:33.200
<v Speaker 2>you just continue to stack all these things that happened

0:41:33.239 --> 0:41:35.160
<v Speaker 2>for you're like, man, you just get more confident who

0:41:35.200 --> 0:41:38.719
<v Speaker 2>you are. That switch is turned off. And now you're

0:41:38.719 --> 0:41:40.840
<v Speaker 2>trying to transition because you know that's what we all

0:41:40.920 --> 0:41:44.080
<v Speaker 2>say we're gonna do. We're gonna be great at it, and.

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:48.080
<v Speaker 3>You don't know, and you just you just like old

0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:50.320
<v Speaker 3>block you've ever had in your life because you we've

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:53.359
<v Speaker 3>we've all been fairly successful, right right, you're the top

0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:57.239
<v Speaker 3>one point one to make it to the league, right

0:41:57.320 --> 0:42:00.600
<v Speaker 3>and then when you retire, when we retire, it's like that.

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:04.240
<v Speaker 3>It's the first I don't know, I would say roadblock

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:07.960
<v Speaker 3>that that's happened in our lives, Like whoa wait what happened?

0:42:07.960 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 2>And for me and when I tried to do some things,

0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:12.000
<v Speaker 2>it was like, man, am I even good? Like I

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:14.080
<v Speaker 2>don't know, like I know in ball because like you

0:42:14.480 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 2>see it, do you understand it? And you get you

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 2>get promoted because of it. In other lanes, it's just

0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 2>not as a clear.

0:42:21.920 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 1>So here's the question I'd pose and I think it's

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:27.560
<v Speaker 1>like it's extraor rhetorical, like what does successful transition even

0:42:27.560 --> 0:42:31.719
<v Speaker 1>look like? Like if I'm crying and I'm upset like that,

0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:35.080
<v Speaker 1>that can still be part of the transitions. Like so,

0:42:35.160 --> 0:42:37.400
<v Speaker 1>like I think I don't even like it's like I

0:42:37.440 --> 0:42:39.240
<v Speaker 1>want to be I want to have a successful transition,

0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:41.000
<v Speaker 1>but I don't even know what that looks like. At times,

0:42:41.040 --> 0:42:42.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know what that even meant, you know

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:45.680
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. So, like, I think navigating what that

0:42:45.719 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>looks like and defining what that looks like for young players,

0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 1>I think, uh, or retiring is an important thing to do.

0:42:51.880 --> 0:42:55.040
<v Speaker 3>I think that's what's huge. Yeah, that's great. That is

0:42:55.040 --> 0:42:57.759
<v Speaker 3>what's I think it's what you make it. That's what

0:42:57.800 --> 0:42:58.879
<v Speaker 3>makes it successful.

0:42:59.000 --> 0:42:59.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:42:59.520 --> 0:43:01.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have to take a day and cry a

0:43:01.200 --> 0:43:03.360
<v Speaker 3>little bit and grieve and you know what.

0:43:03.280 --> 0:43:08.200
<v Speaker 1>I think though, so and then another So that's at

0:43:08.280 --> 0:43:10.960
<v Speaker 1>least something that I've I've found for myself. And then

0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:14.760
<v Speaker 1>to your point as well as earlier in your question

0:43:14.840 --> 0:43:18.279
<v Speaker 1>as far as other things for young guys transitioning and

0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:21.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm still young guy transitioning, but the strengths that we

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:24.040
<v Speaker 1>have as players, right, so I know that people talk

0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:26.560
<v Speaker 1>about that and your strengths you're saying in the locker room,

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:29.239
<v Speaker 1>like the community, like build whatever your strengths were as

0:43:29.280 --> 0:43:32.759
<v Speaker 1>a player, though, that's your identity. That's the important thing

0:43:32.760 --> 0:43:34.839
<v Speaker 1>to carry on. If you're the team player, if you're

0:43:34.880 --> 0:43:36.160
<v Speaker 1>the guy in the locker room, if you know how

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 1>to read people, like, how can I take these aspects

0:43:39.080 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 1>of myself, these skills that I've developed developed playing football,

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:43.920
<v Speaker 1>and how do I bring that to my next career?

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:46.279
<v Speaker 1>And I think that I'm assuming that you've done that

0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:49.239
<v Speaker 1>in some capacity. You're doing it's not a single man.

0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:51.759
<v Speaker 1>It's not one dude doing the podcast, right, like you

0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:54.040
<v Speaker 1>work in a team, like that's what you do. I

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:56.759
<v Speaker 1>think that's so important. And that's what I found that.

0:43:56.800 --> 0:43:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I think that the things that I liked while playing,

0:43:59.160 --> 0:44:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to try and you in my next career.

0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:01.799
<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense?

0:44:02.200 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 3>Total makes total sense? So so now the fun questions

0:44:06.560 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 3>we all have had our bell rung, We've all had

0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:12.480
<v Speaker 3>like wait, I'm in the league now, Oh snap, I

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:14.920
<v Speaker 3>remember mine, Like I'm in the NFL. You know the

0:44:14.920 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 3>first time I went to the locker room some of

0:44:16.239 --> 0:44:20.759
<v Speaker 3>my uniform and you just eyes wide open. What was

0:44:20.800 --> 0:44:24.440
<v Speaker 3>that what was your welcome to the NFL moment when

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:26.920
<v Speaker 3>you got there your first like you know, first just

0:44:27.440 --> 0:44:29.040
<v Speaker 3>whether it was a hit, whether it was looking at

0:44:29.080 --> 0:44:32.200
<v Speaker 3>your pain like just like damn, welcome to the NFL,

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:33.360
<v Speaker 3>Like holy snap.

0:44:33.640 --> 0:44:36.960
<v Speaker 1>So I mean I can say earlier like that moment

0:44:37.040 --> 0:44:39.520
<v Speaker 1>one on one with at the Senior Bowl. Like for me,

0:44:39.640 --> 0:44:41.719
<v Speaker 1>that was the first experience that I had. It's like, oh,

0:44:41.800 --> 0:44:44.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm like you to think mentality like a D three,

0:44:44.440 --> 0:44:46.040
<v Speaker 1>like I'm playing for the love of the game, right,

0:44:46.080 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 1>there's no scholarship, like this is just this is just

0:44:48.440 --> 0:44:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm out here. I'm like this guy's so Florida, Alabama

0:44:51.120 --> 0:44:54.160
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I'm like, oh wait, like I'm I'm I'm

0:44:54.160 --> 0:44:57.560
<v Speaker 1>out here. So that was my first moment. And then

0:44:58.239 --> 0:45:03.160
<v Speaker 1>after I was drafted, I'd say, uh, probably my first

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:07.680
<v Speaker 1>preseason game. Yeah, I was similar. I was. I can

0:45:07.760 --> 0:45:10.600
<v Speaker 1>still picture like my hands were just like dripping sweat,

0:45:10.640 --> 0:45:12.600
<v Speaker 1>like I was just like I was like, wait, this

0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:15.320
<v Speaker 1>was a first preseason. I wasn't even starting. It was

0:45:15.400 --> 0:45:18.200
<v Speaker 1>like nothing, nothing game and looking back on it, but

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:21.160
<v Speaker 1>like freaking out and then just I don't know, getting

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:23.040
<v Speaker 1>the flow and when you're starting to play football and

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:25.719
<v Speaker 1>then everything starts to kind of come together. Like I'd

0:45:25.719 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>say that was another moment for me.

0:45:27.400 --> 0:45:29.080
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, nice, all right.

0:45:29.360 --> 0:45:31.439
<v Speaker 2>I mean my first preseason game, I think I played

0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:32.520
<v Speaker 2>like four plays.

0:45:32.880 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 4>I didn't even play. It was I mean, I didn't

0:45:35.239 --> 0:45:37.000
<v Speaker 4>even care. I was just happy to be out there. Yeah,

0:45:37.200 --> 0:45:39.120
<v Speaker 4>it happens, all right.

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:44.480
<v Speaker 2>My question is what is your best Tom Brady's story

0:45:44.960 --> 0:45:48.400
<v Speaker 2>or I actually like Gronk too because he's pretty entertaining.

0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:51.319
<v Speaker 2>Not gonna lie, give me one of those two. For

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:53.839
<v Speaker 2>those two to come to Tampa Bay, it probably really

0:45:53.920 --> 0:45:56.319
<v Speaker 2>changed everything. I know, the ticket sales went way up.

0:45:56.600 --> 0:46:00.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh sorry, having like I can define my career of

0:46:00.840 --> 0:46:02.440
<v Speaker 1>what like football looked.

0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:05.600
<v Speaker 4>Like prem post I'm telling you.

0:46:05.600 --> 0:46:10.239
<v Speaker 1>Like like like like prior to Tom, like the bucks were

0:46:10.320 --> 0:46:13.759
<v Speaker 1>weren't that that could yeah uh and like I don't

0:46:13.800 --> 0:46:16.760
<v Speaker 1>know even like going out right and public, going to restaurants,

0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:20.640
<v Speaker 1>but don't we cared. It's just fine, like I preferred

0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:27.319
<v Speaker 1>that way. Yeah, yeah exactly. And then Tom comes around,

0:46:27.520 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 1>we start getting you know, five uh, you know, primetime games,

0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:34.960
<v Speaker 1>and people start to know what's going on. And I

0:46:35.000 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 1>think either the community in Tampa became a little bit

0:46:37.520 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 1>more of a football town which is awesome movie be

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:42.160
<v Speaker 1>a part of. But that was a cool, uh cool

0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:42.960
<v Speaker 1>experience having.

0:46:42.840 --> 0:46:45.360
<v Speaker 3>Him something something about when you start winning. We're like

0:46:45.480 --> 0:46:47.239
<v Speaker 3>we were in Charlotte. We would come home at like

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:50.799
<v Speaker 3>midnight from you know, coming from the West Coast, and

0:46:50.840 --> 0:46:53.400
<v Speaker 3>then we get home at like midnight one am, and

0:46:53.480 --> 0:46:56.920
<v Speaker 3>it was fans outside and it was regular season already

0:46:57.000 --> 0:46:59.040
<v Speaker 3>even in the Super Bowl yet you know what I'm saying.

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.680
<v Speaker 3>But it was just it's something about when you start winning,

0:47:02.600 --> 0:47:05.560
<v Speaker 3>it's gravity. It pulls you in. You know what I'm saying,

0:47:05.560 --> 0:47:07.560
<v Speaker 3>Like it's it's I don't know. I think it's just

0:47:07.760 --> 0:47:09.520
<v Speaker 3>that's why I love the game football, man. It just

0:47:09.560 --> 0:47:13.040
<v Speaker 3>it brings It really does bring a lot of people together.

0:47:13.320 --> 0:47:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Is it bad?

0:47:13.680 --> 0:47:14.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have to go back.

0:47:14.560 --> 0:47:17.000
<v Speaker 1>And google, like what you look like? Seventy five pounds.

0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:18.839
<v Speaker 3>You had longer hair, right.

0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:22.640
<v Speaker 2>I think I'm looking at you and I'm just like,

0:47:22.719 --> 0:47:25.040
<v Speaker 2>I can't even imagine you playing old line right now.

0:47:25.120 --> 0:47:27.279
<v Speaker 2>You just don't even have to look. And a lot

0:47:27.280 --> 0:47:29.359
<v Speaker 2>of people that lose weight like they look like they

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:29.799
<v Speaker 2>just had a.

0:47:29.719 --> 0:47:33.120
<v Speaker 4>Big old head. It's all in your face.

0:47:34.200 --> 0:47:37.040
<v Speaker 1>It was all my arrest of my body too. I

0:47:37.040 --> 0:47:38.320
<v Speaker 1>mean I'll get you another kacure.

0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:42.120
<v Speaker 3>You can see his cheeks.

0:47:44.440 --> 0:47:48.160
<v Speaker 1>So I had a little a pretty unimpressive beard, but

0:47:48.280 --> 0:47:50.160
<v Speaker 1>so I would what I do is I would cut

0:47:50.200 --> 0:47:52.319
<v Speaker 1>my hair like once every two years, let it grow out,

0:47:52.719 --> 0:47:54.839
<v Speaker 1>cut it again, buzzet right before the season, and then

0:47:54.840 --> 0:47:57.000
<v Speaker 1>also I would let my facial hair grow out throughout

0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 1>the course of the season. So clean shaving and training

0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 1>camp and the beard grow out. Beard was pretty unimpressive.

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:06.759
<v Speaker 1>But my next profession, psychologist, I like to think, is

0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:09.520
<v Speaker 1>another professional I can have a beard. So like two professions,

0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:13.280
<v Speaker 1>football player and psychologists got the green light to grow beard.

0:48:13.320 --> 0:48:17.520
<v Speaker 1>So I'm fired about that. I like that podcast host

0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 1>look at.

0:48:19.040 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 3>This like I'm not used to seeing the you know

0:48:21.760 --> 0:48:24.520
<v Speaker 3>all this, he's you finally just letting it go. I

0:48:25.080 --> 0:48:25.640
<v Speaker 3>had a lot of.

0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:27.320
<v Speaker 4>Haircutting, well my barber.

0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:29.759
<v Speaker 2>My barber had his mom passed away, and just like

0:48:30.560 --> 0:48:33.400
<v Speaker 2>just every everybody's off thank you, thank you.

0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:35.120
<v Speaker 4>I feel like that appreciate it.

0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:38.000
<v Speaker 3>So here's a Jewish question for you at my ancestry

0:48:38.040 --> 0:48:40.919
<v Speaker 3>dot com, like two percent Jewish whatever.

0:48:40.719 --> 0:48:42.799
<v Speaker 1>So how about that.

0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:49.280
<v Speaker 3>Part of the tribe. So uh, I never had a mitzvah,

0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:52.480
<v Speaker 3>Uh was never offered that as a kid because I

0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:54.640
<v Speaker 3>didn't know I had the two three percent Jewish in me.

0:48:55.080 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 3>And I know you passed on yours as a kid.

0:48:57.480 --> 0:48:59.840
<v Speaker 1>Right, So so I yeah, I did not do a bumbs.

0:49:00.280 --> 0:49:03.640
<v Speaker 1>But you keep going, this is going.

0:49:03.960 --> 0:49:05.000
<v Speaker 3>Are you gonna have one?

0:49:05.160 --> 0:49:05.359
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

0:49:05.400 --> 0:49:06.440
<v Speaker 3>Is it too late to have one?

0:49:06.600 --> 0:49:09.840
<v Speaker 1>No, it's not too late for either one of us.

0:49:09.680 --> 0:49:12.640
<v Speaker 1>That's exciting. Dude. You want to have a bar mittal,

0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Let's do it.

0:49:13.320 --> 0:49:14.000
<v Speaker 3>Let's do it.

0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:16.520
<v Speaker 1>You would have it would be an elite celebration.

0:49:16.719 --> 0:49:18.640
<v Speaker 3>My god, I am so game.

0:49:19.120 --> 0:49:20.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't know if you're waiting for an

0:49:20.360 --> 0:49:22.760
<v Speaker 1>invitation for who We'll get you connect to the rabbi.

0:49:22.800 --> 0:49:25.480
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter. Let's let's do it. Well, do I

0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:27.400
<v Speaker 1>need to do one too? So way we can do

0:49:27.400 --> 0:49:29.040
<v Speaker 1>a joint bar mits. I'm with it.

0:49:29.120 --> 0:49:32.040
<v Speaker 3>So I was at ah So Chicago, a lot of

0:49:32.120 --> 0:49:34.120
<v Speaker 3>Jewish people, right, I know a lot of Jewish people

0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 3>in the community. So I'm in Houston and I'm the

0:49:38.200 --> 0:49:39.880
<v Speaker 3>best man, and I get ready to give a I

0:49:39.920 --> 0:49:42.360
<v Speaker 3>get ready to give a toast, and I grabbed my

0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:46.359
<v Speaker 3>my my glass wine and I go lime everybody and

0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:50.359
<v Speaker 3>it did not go over well. It was just cowboys

0:49:50.400 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 3>and black people, and they were like, is he choking

0:49:52.560 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 3>on something?

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:55.880
<v Speaker 4>What the hell is know your audience.

0:49:58.239 --> 0:50:01.360
<v Speaker 3>In Chicago, but it's amazing. It's like, because I know

0:50:01.400 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 3>there's a lot of Jewish people in the audience, I

0:50:04.160 --> 0:50:07.560
<v Speaker 3>do that and they were like I was like, Okay,

0:50:07.680 --> 0:50:09.759
<v Speaker 3>that didn't go over it. And it was like just

0:50:09.760 --> 0:50:11.919
<v Speaker 3>give the toes, dumb and I was like all right, yeah,

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:15.240
<v Speaker 3>best man, love you, bless you, blessings right drinko.

0:50:15.760 --> 0:50:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, you're halfway through your bars now.

0:50:18.080 --> 0:50:21.600
<v Speaker 2>So this is this is my last question is that

0:50:22.600 --> 0:50:25.279
<v Speaker 2>it goes back to traveling because we talked about the

0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:27.920
<v Speaker 2>traveling and we both kind of opened up about it

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:31.879
<v Speaker 2>a little bit. I want your top five travel destinations

0:50:31.920 --> 0:50:34.560
<v Speaker 2>bucket list, whether you've done it before or that you

0:50:34.680 --> 0:50:36.320
<v Speaker 2>want to hit next.

0:50:37.000 --> 0:50:39.799
<v Speaker 1>So all the ones that I hit, So Italy to

0:50:39.880 --> 0:50:44.520
<v Speaker 1>me is that's a must. So Florence is unbelievable. The

0:50:44.560 --> 0:50:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Malfi Coast is unbelievable, but all put that as one.

0:50:47.520 --> 0:50:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Two Greece is unbelievable. Islands off Greece are great. So

0:50:54.920 --> 0:50:57.120
<v Speaker 1>those are two places that I've done, places that I

0:50:57.200 --> 0:50:59.600
<v Speaker 1>want to go hit. Three Portugal I want to go

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna be going uh in Japan would be.

0:51:02.800 --> 0:51:05.600
<v Speaker 1>Those are probably my next three trips. So yeah, I'm

0:51:05.360 --> 0:51:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait.

0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:07.680
<v Speaker 3>All of those places.

0:51:07.920 --> 0:51:08.480
<v Speaker 1>Look at you.

0:51:09.160 --> 0:51:11.120
<v Speaker 3>Every single place I've been to the.

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:14.759
<v Speaker 2>World Traveler, he is, he is, He's encouraged me to

0:51:14.760 --> 0:51:16.319
<v Speaker 2>do I'm trying to encourage him.

0:51:16.640 --> 0:51:19.640
<v Speaker 3>True story. We went to Croatia. We're in de Bruvnick.

0:51:20.080 --> 0:51:22.680
<v Speaker 3>We went to the Brevnick Croatia, went jumped on the

0:51:22.719 --> 0:51:26.920
<v Speaker 3>Mediterranean and tried to play like two big black guys

0:51:26.960 --> 0:51:28.360
<v Speaker 3>trying to play water polo.

0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:28.920
<v Speaker 1>How'd that go?

0:51:29.360 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 3>Terrible? Because mister Harbor over here jumped in the lake

0:51:33.400 --> 0:51:38.160
<v Speaker 3>or the met the sea. He jumped in and he goes,

0:51:39.480 --> 0:51:42.240
<v Speaker 3>jumps down and comes up and goes, ain't no bottom.

0:51:44.840 --> 0:51:47.560
<v Speaker 1>A little bit different. That's a little bit.

0:51:47.480 --> 0:51:50.120
<v Speaker 6>Different, first of all, because it was like little kids

0:51:50.120 --> 0:51:51.759
<v Speaker 6>out there. You got to understand, I just draw the

0:51:51.800 --> 0:51:54.720
<v Speaker 6>picture for everybody, all right, So it's little kids out there.

0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:57.880
<v Speaker 6>We're in our speedos because that's what everybody has, and

0:51:57.880 --> 0:51:58.960
<v Speaker 6>and so we're all.

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 1>In Oka and so.

0:52:02.239 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 2>And then so so we get out there. I'm like,

0:52:05.520 --> 0:52:07.000
<v Speaker 2>if little kids are out here doing it, like I

0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:08.880
<v Speaker 2>could do it too. It wasn't that bad. So I

0:52:09.000 --> 0:52:11.640
<v Speaker 2>go in and I'm just you know, standing up top

0:52:11.680 --> 0:52:13.279
<v Speaker 2>at first. Then I'm just gonna kind of relax, go

0:52:13.400 --> 0:52:15.680
<v Speaker 2>down and then come back and get my breath. And

0:52:15.719 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 2>I went down and I kept going, kept bro I

0:52:18.640 --> 0:52:20.880
<v Speaker 2>came back up like, I ain't no bottom, this is

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<v Speaker 2>not it. And so from there on I was very

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<v Speaker 2>uncomfortable the rest of the time the water polo bottom.

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<v Speaker 4>The water polo experience was not good for me. It

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<v Speaker 4>was not great.

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<v Speaker 2>We had a good time, but overall, I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>just didn't realize that you just you know, you're just

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<v Speaker 2>out there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it wasn't it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Mary was great, but that was probably his worst experience.

0:52:44.560 --> 0:52:46.719
<v Speaker 3>It was I just remember him coming and saying, it

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<v Speaker 3>ain't no bottom.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like laughing. So I was a little nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>O my god.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. The final question to you Mount Rushmore. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>who would you put on your Mount Rushmore? The people

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<v Speaker 3>that have helped you, uh just kind of guided you

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<v Speaker 3>along the way. They were there before you retirement, when

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<v Speaker 3>you play, coaches, teachers, just a group of people that

0:53:15.640 --> 0:53:20.000
<v Speaker 3>have really been team Alley, ye your entire life thus far.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a great question. I think for me, I

0:53:22.400 --> 0:53:26.280
<v Speaker 1>was super fortunate that like I could name the people individually,

0:53:26.320 --> 0:53:28.399
<v Speaker 1>but like my family, So I'd start with my mom

0:53:28.440 --> 0:53:29.920
<v Speaker 1>and dad, Like for them, you.

0:53:29.840 --> 0:53:31.480
<v Speaker 4>Don't make that make it too because.

0:53:32.040 --> 0:53:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I actually put them one one into put

0:53:34.960 --> 0:53:37.080
<v Speaker 1>them for two different reasons. My dad from like a

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<v Speaker 1>work work ethic standpoint, like a standard of like sort

0:53:40.560 --> 0:53:42.960
<v Speaker 1>of excellence like that coming from him. And then my

0:53:43.040 --> 0:53:46.600
<v Speaker 1>mom just from like I don't know, from an emotional standpoint,

0:53:46.680 --> 0:53:49.600
<v Speaker 1>like from a compassion to myself and others and being

0:53:49.680 --> 0:53:51.839
<v Speaker 1>the service of others. Those those two things that are

0:53:52.320 --> 0:53:57.480
<v Speaker 1>ingrained in me. So those two i'd say, Uh. While

0:53:57.480 --> 0:54:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I was playing my fiance right now soon to be wife,

0:54:01.520 --> 0:54:04.960
<v Speaker 1>she was a huge support to me throughout playing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a hard it's a hard thing to do right, There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of stress, a lot of pressure. To have

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<v Speaker 1>someone to help sort of carry that load was absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>massive for me. And then I would probably put for

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<v Speaker 1>number four. Uh for my football career. Uh. He's now

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<v Speaker 1>the head coach at at Hobarty was my offensive line

0:54:22.960 --> 0:54:26.200
<v Speaker 1>coach and offensive coordinator. But Kevin Dawalla, he was a

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic again standard of excellence of like how to hold

0:54:30.880 --> 0:54:33.800
<v Speaker 1>yourself the high standard, and how to get improved on things.

0:54:33.840 --> 0:54:36.440
<v Speaker 1>And you know that was that. He was absolutely massive

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<v Speaker 1>for me. So and still as so we're staying in

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<v Speaker 1>touch obviously. So those are my four.

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<v Speaker 2>So you like the standard at your college, like, hey,

0:54:45.680 --> 0:54:48.960
<v Speaker 2>if he can do it, you can do it, and

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<v Speaker 2>before before and before you that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more like if you do everything right and you

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:59.480
<v Speaker 1>can check these boxes, then they'll find it. They'll find

0:54:59.480 --> 0:55:00.840
<v Speaker 1>a way. Like that's the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>So why do you think you didn't get like a

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<v Speaker 3>D one offer or a D two offer? Why do

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<v Speaker 3>you think that is?

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<v Speaker 1>So? I grew up in Westchester, New York, so sellers

0:55:08.719 --> 0:55:10.600
<v Speaker 1>in New York City. It's not really like football country.

0:55:10.640 --> 0:55:13.719
<v Speaker 1>It's like so that. And then also I was super undersized.

0:55:13.719 --> 0:55:17.319
<v Speaker 1>I was like two hundred and twenty whatever pound offensive lineman.

0:55:17.680 --> 0:55:20.120
<v Speaker 1>It's not playing D one. And then I also didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have the best frame of reference. I wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 1>like camps and things like that and how someone tell

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<v Speaker 1>me to do X, Y and z. So just navigating

0:55:26.440 --> 0:55:30.759
<v Speaker 1>those things. So that's why cool. But I do have

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<v Speaker 1>one other thing that I kind of can I tie together? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So talking about travel and quotes, right, because that's that's

0:55:36.280 --> 0:55:37.799
<v Speaker 1>you too. I want to pull it up. But so

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<v Speaker 1>I was in London, was doing some traveling recently in

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<v Speaker 1>April or whatever, and we went to the Winston Churchill

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<v Speaker 1>Museum and we get to see, you know, the war

0:55:51.680 --> 0:55:53.680
<v Speaker 1>rooms were like where he conducted the war. Right, So

0:55:53.800 --> 0:55:57.440
<v Speaker 1>it's a underground bunker, it's unbelievable. It's also a Churchill museum.

0:55:57.600 --> 0:55:59.960
<v Speaker 1>And he had a quote in there that I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I think that you'll want to make a note

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<v Speaker 1>of if I can find it. Yeah, So I refuse

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<v Speaker 1>to be exhibited like a prize bowl whose chief attraction

0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:14.520
<v Speaker 1>is his past prowess. So I'll say it again, I

0:56:14.640 --> 0:56:18.200
<v Speaker 1>refuse to be exhibited like a prize bowl whose chief

0:56:18.280 --> 0:56:22.560
<v Speaker 1>attraction is his past prowess. So as that relates to

0:56:23.520 --> 0:56:26.360
<v Speaker 1>formed players, right. So I think a lot of times

0:56:26.360 --> 0:56:29.319
<v Speaker 1>we identify and and hang our hats on that. But

0:56:29.360 --> 0:56:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I think as we look forward to the things that

0:56:32.080 --> 0:56:35.640
<v Speaker 1>we can bring to our communities, I think that's what's

0:56:35.680 --> 0:56:38.200
<v Speaker 1>going to excite us and invigorate us. And I think

0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:40.640
<v Speaker 1>that that quote is awesome. You make a note of

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:41.560
<v Speaker 1>that one.

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<v Speaker 3>I will get it after we wrap up on the

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<v Speaker 3>show's not about just our football prowess.

0:56:47.120 --> 0:56:49.759
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's apt for our setting here so.

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<v Speaker 3>Perfect and with that, we're done. That's that's my job.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like the perfect outro.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't drop the.

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<v Speaker 3>Metaphor I heard gonna build us on that. We can't

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<v Speaker 3>do that. Hey, Ali, I man, this is good. All right,

0:57:07.520 --> 0:57:08.760
<v Speaker 3>well this was great.

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<v Speaker 1>This is great for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell a friend to tell a friend to tell a

0:57:34.920 --> 0:57:40.160
<v Speaker 3>friend were out put. Hey, thank you, this is dopeciously.

0:57:40.240 --> 0:57:43.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm glad we get to do him in person. We'll

0:57:43.160 --> 0:57:46.960
<v Speaker 3>exchange rumbers offline. But like your transitioning everything, feel free

0:57:46.960 --> 0:57:49.040
<v Speaker 3>to use me as a reference or a resource, not

0:57:49.120 --> 0:57:52.600
<v Speaker 3>reference a resource room. He know everything. He's probably what

0:57:53.280 --> 0:57:55.840
<v Speaker 3>he been playing. Would you retired here. He retired in

0:57:55.880 --> 0:57:58.800
<v Speaker 3>twenty sixteen. But he started playing in the eighties.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why.

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<v Speaker 3>The first time I met him, I thought he was

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<v Speaker 3>like forty five, but he was like, no, man, I'm

0:58:05.360 --> 0:58:08.480
<v Speaker 3>twenty seven. I was like, ain't no way, but yeah.

0:58:08.280 --> 0:58:11.040
<v Speaker 1>He just yeah. But wealth and knowledge, you said.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my god, so much.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to end the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sorry, we got to end the show. We appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>shall thank y'all for tuning in. We out