WEBVTT - A Very Winkler Holiday

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<v Speaker 1>You are listening to What in the Winkler and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello and welcome back to another episode of What in

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<v Speaker 1>the Winkler with another guest, a regular Henry Winkler.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Hi Dad, I'm so happy to be here, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy you're here. Thank you for saving me. Mom is

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<v Speaker 1>still out of town and you're my guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, yeah, I know you have a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and I'm really grateful that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but this is fine to do this thing. This

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<v Speaker 2>is fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It is fun. I like just talking to you. And

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<v Speaker 1>also what's so incredible about this opportunity is that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to have these memories for the rest of my

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<v Speaker 1>life on tape with you and with Mom, which is

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<v Speaker 1>such a beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, truly. Yeah, I'm very proud of you that this

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<v Speaker 2>exists and you're so good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm proud of you because without you, baby, it

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't Oh, it's a real wow. Just remember that we

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<v Speaker 1>both we both we both gave.

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<v Speaker 2>We gave gave at the office.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I think this week what I really was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about and what I've been thinking about is the

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<v Speaker 1>holiday season, because I cannot believe we're already at that time.

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<v Speaker 2>It goes so fast, and the older you get, the

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<v Speaker 2>faster it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm getting there. I mean I'm forty four. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting up there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm forty nine. That's You're amazing, Yeah you are.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. I can't believe, Like, would this week called

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<v Speaker 1>mid forties.

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<v Speaker 2>Your mid forties? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus. Okay, So anyways, what I wanted to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>was specifically we talked about this. I think like when

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<v Speaker 1>the first time you were on the episode was this

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<v Speaker 1>week is Thanksgiving, right, And I am so excited because

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow actually we do stuffing day here, right, which is

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite day of the year.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, It reminds me of the pioneer days.

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<v Speaker 2>All of the women in the family and friends are

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<v Speaker 2>so boys, so boys, your sons, but all of the

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<v Speaker 2>women in the family and their friends and your sons

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<v Speaker 2>come and in our kitchen make stuffing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, And it's Nanna's recipe, right, it's my mom's

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<v Speaker 1>mom's recipe, right, and.

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<v Speaker 2>My with and without sausage, within without sausage.

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<v Speaker 1>So we do one with sausage, one without one vegetarian.

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<v Speaker 2>But smell in the house is to die.

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<v Speaker 1>For but that that day is one of our main

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<v Speaker 1>traditions that I can for as long as I can remember.

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<v Speaker 1>And Thanksgiving is my very very very favorite holiday me too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love the food. But I also think it's

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<v Speaker 1>the coziest holiday mm hmm, because like it gets a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit cooler. I mean we are in Los Angeles,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not freezing, but usually it gets cooler. And

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<v Speaker 1>the colors, the colors, and it's family, it's all. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the whole family together, eased.

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<v Speaker 2>To have in our backyard, stragglers who didn't have a

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<v Speaker 2>place to go. Family. So there ended up to be

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<v Speaker 2>fifty or sixty people at a at a circular or

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<v Speaker 2>at a you shaped table, and then everybody got a

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<v Speaker 2>chance to say what it is they were grateful for

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<v Speaker 2>at that moment in that year.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you remember, and I remember, you would put

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<v Speaker 1>our artwork all over the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it. I saved every bit of your artwork,

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<v Speaker 2>thinking the kids will love to show their kids idea

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<v Speaker 2>their artwork. Nothing it's in boxing, I take it you.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, you've dropped off every box at my home.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a much smaller home than you, so it

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<v Speaker 1>is not as easy to house, all of that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I have You've dropped it all of the my house,

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<v Speaker 1>and I save all of it and I love it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I save my kids stuff. Oh yeah, but that

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<v Speaker 1>to me, Thanksgiving here is just like the best holiday

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<v Speaker 1>ever and it's still to this day, seventy five people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and and delicious. I mean it really does taste

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<v Speaker 2>like you dream Thanksgiving detection.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so too.

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<v Speaker 2>But I did love putting all three of your artworks

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<v Speaker 2>on the table, and that was the decoration.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was. I mean, I remember there's a home

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<v Speaker 1>and you also took home videos of every single thing,

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<v Speaker 1>so you would take you took a home video. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember where it is. We have to find it somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find it. Yeah. Of me sharing with the entire

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<v Speaker 1>table for way too long, going on for way too long.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone should have cut me off about my artwork at

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<v Speaker 1>the table, and I loved going around and saying what

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<v Speaker 1>we were thankful for.

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<v Speaker 2>You were always a good talker, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I agree. And then this year I'm with my

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<v Speaker 1>husband's family, which I also love, and it's right up

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<v Speaker 1>the street.

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<v Speaker 2>Right and only right that you should switch off.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we switch off every year, but this year actually,

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<v Speaker 1>Ace is going to cook the mac and cheese and

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<v Speaker 1>the mashpapers.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about Ace. He I'm going to be thirteen

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<v Speaker 2>and just a month or two one month. He is

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<v Speaker 2>in his soul a chef he is. He loves food.

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<v Speaker 2>He knows how to make food. When you take a

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<v Speaker 2>picture of him cooking, he looks like all of those

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<v Speaker 2>chefs you see in magazines.

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<v Speaker 1>He loves it and he's thirteen. Such a passion for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was looking through all these videos, like all

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<v Speaker 1>the videos on my phone because I'm getting ready to

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<v Speaker 1>have a big celebration for him, and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>show a video and it goes back his cooking videos

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<v Speaker 1>go back to when he was five.

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<v Speaker 2>Years old, when we babysat for the three boys. Ace

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<v Speaker 2>woke up, came to my side of the bed and said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm up breakfast. I said, okay, what would

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<v Speaker 2>you like for breakfast? He said pancakes. I said, I

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<v Speaker 2>am so sorry, I don't know how to make pancakes. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, don't worry, and naked, he walked through the house,

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<v Speaker 2>took the little stool at his sink so that he

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<v Speaker 2>could reach up and brush his teeth, dragged it across

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<v Speaker 2>the house to the stove, lit the stove and made

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<v Speaker 2>chocolate chip pancakes that were unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cute because he spends the night now at

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<v Speaker 1>his best friend River. He spends the night there, and

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<v Speaker 1>the mom sent me a picture the other day of

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<v Speaker 1>Ace making breakfast for everybody, And then at Zoo's house,

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<v Speaker 1>same thing showed us, like, you know, lauren'sent. My friend

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren sent me a picture of him making breakfast the

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<v Speaker 1>next morning. It's such an amazing skill, honestly, because he

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<v Speaker 1>also loves sports, and he loves music, and he loves

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<v Speaker 1>so many things. But you can just see that this

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<v Speaker 1>is his.

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<v Speaker 2>But one day, two years ago, let's say he was here.

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<v Speaker 2>He came I picked him up at school and we

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<v Speaker 2>came here instead of going right home. And he was hungry,

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<v Speaker 2>and he went into the pantry and he found ramen

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<v Speaker 2>noodles and he made Ramen noodles. And then he went

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<v Speaker 2>about making the ramen noodles tasty, and he would add stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>He would say, no, you know what it needs a

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<v Speaker 2>and then he would find whatever I thought it needed.

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<v Speaker 2>He would add that to the mix until he said

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<v Speaker 2>they're ready, and they were delicious. They were They were delicious.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like he just likes it. He lives it,

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<v Speaker 2>He imagines food.

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<v Speaker 1>He does well. Just like our family has a big Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 1>so do the rhinuses. Yeah, that's like again, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like forty seven people, right, And so Ace is

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<v Speaker 1>in charge and we're all helping, and Ace is in

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<v Speaker 1>charge of I'm going to do the stuffing here on

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<v Speaker 1>the stuffing day, and Ace is going to make the

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<v Speaker 1>mac and cheese and the mashed potatoes for the entire dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think is really exciting. And he's excited. I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not excited for the way my kitchen's going to look.

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<v Speaker 1>Will deal, Yeah, isn't He hasn't mastered the cleaning up part.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what that that happens usually at about

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<v Speaker 2>thirty two, Yeah, thirty two, all of a sudden something

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<v Speaker 2>kicks in and goes I probably should hang up my clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>But one thing about me is that I am insane

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<v Speaker 1>about cleanliness.

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<v Speaker 2>Not when you lived here, but as soon as you

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<v Speaker 2>moved into.

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<v Speaker 1>Your own adult which which tracks I was then obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with cleanliness.

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<v Speaker 2>And how old were you when you finally moved out

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<v Speaker 2>of your dad.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really feel like that's a necessary conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I say, well, okay, so I know, okay, But

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<v Speaker 2>I want to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to college in Wisconsin. I came home after

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<v Speaker 1>two years. I really I wanted to be home. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a boyfriend. I missed home. Right, you should have

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<v Speaker 1>never let me come home by the way, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So then I came home.

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<v Speaker 2>Then what now you tell me we should never have

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<v Speaker 2>led you come home.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I went to Lila Marry Matt Universe classes?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you take a year been for this?

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<v Speaker 1>This was in our first episode?

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<v Speaker 2>It was no, I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a great second episode, I'm not great in

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<v Speaker 1>school anyways. I then moved out into an apartment my

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<v Speaker 1>roommate sticking and screening, you know, the first the first

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<v Speaker 1>one I liked the first apartment. My roommate went to rehab.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to come up. Then I came home because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be in that apartment by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I came home.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I loved being home, which is such a beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice it was.

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<v Speaker 1>And you mom said like, this is not okay? And

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<v Speaker 1>I my room is right next to your room, Yes

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<v Speaker 1>it is. And your TV is right against the true

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<v Speaker 1>of my bed.

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<v Speaker 2>We do listen to the TV.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are fucking deaf, and you listen to it

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<v Speaker 1>so loud at all hours of the night. At all

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<v Speaker 1>hours of the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom insists that the TV stay on so when she

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<v Speaker 2>wakes up she doesn't have to figure out the changer.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So every night I would be like, turn it down,

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<v Speaker 1>and you'd be like, get your own apartment right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Max stays here sometimes with his wife Jesse and their babe,

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<v Speaker 2>and he too comes in and said, could you turn

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<v Speaker 2>it's wild?

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually wild, but.

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<v Speaker 2>We know that this is here. Here's a great thing

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<v Speaker 2>about it. No, Mom, and I can actually hear what's

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<v Speaker 2>on the TV. That's great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. But I was thinking, thank you, you

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<v Speaker 1>should have gotten like earphones to just like watch and

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<v Speaker 1>hear so that I wasn't kept awake.

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<v Speaker 2>That would have been thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the time Max would have friends over, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, Max. All Max's friends still talk about how

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<v Speaker 1>I would just come out of the room and scream

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<v Speaker 1>over the banister. Shut up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, there was nothing banshee about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, well I was so not like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, because you know what, it's like, I really

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<v Speaker 2>loved that at the holidays at the Winklers, everybody's friends

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<v Speaker 2>were invited. Yeah, it didn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>And the mean now even now, if I like Ace

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<v Speaker 1>made an amazing friend in the Griffins, an amazing friend,

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<v Speaker 1>and their whole family's in Chicago in elementary school. Now

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<v Speaker 1>they're still friends. They're in seventh grade, and they've come

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<v Speaker 1>to our Thanksgiving, Like, you know, it's just so avy

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<v Speaker 1>and Miles so like it's the best. So it's just

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<v Speaker 1>so nice that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I met av when she was four, she wrote

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<v Speaker 2>me notes, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She so, but it's so nice. And then the next

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<v Speaker 1>day we do Thanksgiving like a Thanksgiving lunch for and

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<v Speaker 1>all of our friends caught and the boys play football

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<v Speaker 1>outside and it's wonderful. It's the best, and it's just

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite holiday. I love everything about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I do too, you know what, I could never have

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<v Speaker 2>a Christmas tree. My parents were very short Germans who

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<v Speaker 2>escaped Nazi Germany, and there was a pall over the house.

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<v Speaker 2>We lit the minora with friend. It means it was

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<v Speaker 2>no joy in my apartment. Growing up in New York

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<v Speaker 2>City did it so differently, And then I came out here.

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<v Speaker 2>I met mom, I met your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>But we were never allowed to have a.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I could not. I couldn't have a Christmas tree.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell now it's the front.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell now all these tell Now I went as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as I lived, when you made me move out, then

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<v Speaker 1>what did you get?

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<v Speaker 2>We got a Christmas tree celebration. But we got it

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<v Speaker 2>in July.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a ten foot Christmas tree. Thirteen okay, thirteen, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten would be affordable. The I'm not kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's so amazing about it is beautiful Mom puts

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<v Speaker 1>has like this has all these ornaments, yes, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>all personalized. So like there's a Paul Bunyan one that's rob.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a caviar one that's me. That's right, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>ballet one, there's a dance.

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<v Speaker 2>One, there's Meanwhile, I just saw our granddaughter, our oldest granddaughter,

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<v Speaker 2>in her musical at her high school Mia.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my good, very talented.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like there was a beacon of light that

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<v Speaker 2>just followed her around and she was in the back

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<v Speaker 2>row of the chorus because she was she just has it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's oh, she has.

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<v Speaker 1>Has it right, Wow, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>And then her sister or her younger sister is a

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<v Speaker 2>dancer with like a vengeance. There is a power that

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<v Speaker 2>comes out of that little body. Holy Molly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, moving on. Okay, So then also it's not on

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<v Speaker 1>the subject.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so then, well isn't it interesting? It's interesting. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't have to be about an ornament. But there

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<v Speaker 2>is an ornament on our tree for every single time,

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<v Speaker 2>for every single child.

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<v Speaker 1>And for every adult too, and or five or six.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's many Fonzie ones.

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<v Speaker 2>I got them in the mail from fans.

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<v Speaker 1>I love them and as it's where's the fanzi? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And and they were they were put out by a

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<v Speaker 2>Hallmark Oh yeah, do we get any.

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<v Speaker 1>Money for that? No, that's disappointing anyways. So now you

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<v Speaker 1>know what would be beautiful Christmas tree? And we celebrate Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>When we were little, we'd go to Hawaii every year for.

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas, right when there was happy days money, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you guys would mom would send ahead our stockings.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we would send nineteen boxes ahead. Yeah that's true, right,

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<v Speaker 2>not just stockings, every gift.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's let's really go back and wonder why

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<v Speaker 1>I am who I am? What came first? The chicken

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<v Speaker 1>or the egg, the nineteen boxes in Hawaii? How am

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<v Speaker 1>I supposed to live any different?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? Right, that's true. Nobody else except for me seize

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<v Speaker 2>the problem. Yeah, I did say to Stacy your mom

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<v Speaker 2>one of those Christmases, I said, we have Look, we

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<v Speaker 2>have nineteen bags.

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<v Speaker 1>Really you would let us each bring a friend to

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<v Speaker 1>Hawaii too?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? Okay, but we had nineteen bags. But that was

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<v Speaker 2>just the winklers. Do you think we wear all of

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>Question all the time?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think we can cut down? And the next

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<v Speaker 2>year we had eighteen.

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<v Speaker 1>So there you go. She listened. Every single time I

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<v Speaker 1>travel with Rob, the anxiety I feel when we get

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<v Speaker 1>to the airport and they weigh the bag is insurmountable,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I, so I got to travel.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a solution to that, you know, put less in

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<v Speaker 2>the bag, put less bags in the bags.

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<v Speaker 1>Put less? Well, no, because I need the option.

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<v Speaker 2>The option. You're in a bathing suit.

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<v Speaker 1>A nice right, Well, I don't like to Just sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like to just walk around in a bathing

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<v Speaker 1>suit all day. I need and also like it's more

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<v Speaker 1>expensive to do laundry, so I'd rather just bring a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of choices.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's what it is. Your saving us.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally, he has the same conversation with me, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, well, I'm the one that has to carry it.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, the bag has wheels, so he's not

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<v Speaker 1>carrying anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Second of all, Like, no, but you know what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not carrying it physically, it's keeping track of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's making sure it gets on the plane. It's making

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<v Speaker 2>sure it gets off the plane. It's making sure it

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<v Speaker 2>gets in the extra van. We have to rent for

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<v Speaker 2>the bags alone. Okay, Wow, that's a big responsibility. Wait.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt traveling by myself last two a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago, where I could just like put my suitcase

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<v Speaker 1>on there and just let my freak flag fly. Was

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<v Speaker 1>you have? I felt so free.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're traveling by your life. I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. It felt so good.

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<v Speaker 2>But try not to do it when you're traveling.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends if you're going hot weather cold weather.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's just well Hawaii is mostly hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it is, that's true, but you never know it could.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a cold friend, so you pack a sweater.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that was a great tradition, and we actually just

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<v Speaker 1>started doing that tradition again. Yes, last year we got

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<v Speaker 1>to go this year.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not going because mortgage.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because Jesse's having a baby. Oh yeah, Jesse, my

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<v Speaker 1>sister in law, Max's wife is having her second baby. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm so excited. And I get to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the room for the birth.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you were there the first time I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was her doula, and and and.

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<v Speaker 2>The first time. It was during the pandemic. And because

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<v Speaker 2>you were in the room, they would not allow the

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<v Speaker 2>grandparents to go up and see their grand chi.

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<v Speaker 1>They did think that maybe if you showed your face

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<v Speaker 1>they would break the.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I show my face? They did, and they did

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<v Speaker 2>not bring I want to tell you, I showed my

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<v Speaker 2>nipp I did everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You were so sad. You were so sad. The only

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<v Speaker 1>other place that didn't work was didn't typhung one time?

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<v Speaker 2>And they didn't care that I was not one bit famous.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was. That was the first time I'd ever

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<v Speaker 1>seen it. It was the first time that's never happened before.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome yours and didn't typhon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. All of the people who were working at desks

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<v Speaker 2>now are younger. And they watched Barry.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a hip show.

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<v Speaker 2>They watched Barry. They didn't watch Barry, but the Fawns

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<v Speaker 2>was the one that was so universal. And that is

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<v Speaker 2>like my wife would say, if we got into trouble,

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<v Speaker 2>show the show your face. Now it's can I see

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<v Speaker 2>your license? Sir?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait? But you know what Ace and I started watching.

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<v Speaker 1>Ace is watching the entire like all the seasons of

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<v Speaker 1>Arrested Develot.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know that? Isn't that wonderful?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? So at night, when after I put Gust to bed,

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<v Speaker 1>which takes anywhere from an hour to four, I come

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<v Speaker 1>into my room, Jewles goes to bed, easy peasy, and

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<v Speaker 1>Ace is in our bed watching Rested Development. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>watched Modern Family and now he's under rest.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes me I wasn't on Modern Family.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's over, but he's watching Arrested develop Wow. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes me happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think for every holiday we do it here, every

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<v Speaker 1>single like Easter we do here. We do like an

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<v Speaker 1>East d egg hunt. We do the only passover we

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<v Speaker 1>do at my in laws. That's their holiday, right and

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<v Speaker 1>we all you guys all come and all the kids

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<v Speaker 1>do yep. And my father in law dresses up in

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<v Speaker 1>a costume called Offye coman Man and.

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<v Speaker 2>He's an Affie coman. For those of you who don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>is the middle matta on the table. It is broken

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<v Speaker 2>in half and hidden. H And then all of the

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<v Speaker 2>children spend right after the meal spend all of their

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<v Speaker 2>time looking for that piece of matza, and the one

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<v Speaker 2>who finds it gets a prize.

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<v Speaker 1>And then my favorite part of it is every single

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<v Speaker 1>person is given a passage to read. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>do it, it is literally like you are doing a monologue.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that true?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? And I film it every year and I put

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<v Speaker 1>it on my Instagram and it is to die for.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to find it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know why I want something. Let me just

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<v Speaker 2>say I literally cannot read and it is hard for me,

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<v Speaker 2>so that I can read it and read it with gusto.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Gusto is the word.

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<v Speaker 2>Now? Can I just can I brag?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? It's holiday time. Yeah, my memoir being Henry. Can

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<v Speaker 2>I say this is out in pay paper back, so

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<v Speaker 2>you now have a pay a bendable buddy. We love that, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And our thirty ninth Lynn Oliver and I our thirty

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<v Speaker 2>ninth children's novel for emerging readers called Detective Duck. She

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<v Speaker 2>is a little duckling who dreams about being a detective

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<v Speaker 2>great and also an environmentalist. I love that for that duck,

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<v Speaker 2>and they are I think would be amazing gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>Beyond bless that duck.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Actually, Gus brought in that book for his

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<v Speaker 1>class with the duck, the detective Duck. He brought it

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<v Speaker 1>in for his first grade class, and he said to

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<v Speaker 1>all and then apparently this is another good story. So

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<v Speaker 1>at the country Mart there's a bookstore there, Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>Gus went with my incredible nanny Emily to the country

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<v Speaker 1>Mart to have lunch, and he walked into the Gus

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<v Speaker 1>love's older girls. He just thinks that they're the coolest.

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<v Speaker 1>So he saw all these older girls in the bookstore.

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<v Speaker 1>They were looking at books, and he went and found

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<v Speaker 1>your memoir and said this is my papa. And they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't believe him. And he was so upset that they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't believe him, and so he came back and he said, Emily,

0:21:09.400 --> 0:21:10.520
<v Speaker 1>you have to go in there and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell them that that's my papa. So Emily went into

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<v Speaker 1>the bookstore and she said, yes, it's it's the papa.

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<v Speaker 1>And they were like, oh my gosh. We thought he

0:21:17.400 --> 0:21:20.000
<v Speaker 1>was joking. It was so cute. He's figuring it out

0:21:20.000 --> 0:21:21.639
<v Speaker 1>at a young age, how he gets the ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but can I just say that story warms my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you never know what is affecting them. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't really see what I do for a living

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<v Speaker 2>in their daily life, except that one day I did

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<v Speaker 2>come to your house because you really celebrate Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Halloween is our.

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<v Speaker 2>And Ace the oldest, Yeah, was dressed as the Fawnds,

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<v Speaker 2>and I could not contain myself. I think I wet

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<v Speaker 2>my pants.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, the best part was is that eight. Rob

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<v Speaker 1>always likes to like match and Rob was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so uncomfortable that I'm dressed as your father, like because

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<v Speaker 1>Rob was also the Fons and Rob wanted to cry.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, I'm dressed as your father. This is

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<v Speaker 1>some weird shit. And I was like, enjoy but his

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<v Speaker 1>was more like a Danny Zuka. Weren't you supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be Danny? Weren't you supposed to be in Greece?

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<v Speaker 2>I was asked, I was asked to be Danny Zuko,

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<v Speaker 2>but I thought I've already done the Fonds for ten years,

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<v Speaker 2>I will be completely type cast. Yeah, and of course

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<v Speaker 2>not thinking right clearly because I was typecast and I

0:22:33.480 --> 0:22:36.520
<v Speaker 2>could have done the movie. But John Travolta was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>He was he did great.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he was even in his commercials now, his

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<v Speaker 2>holiday commercials today, he's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Never seen them, but I'm sure, yeah, he's dressed great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. I'm trying to think what other holiday

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<v Speaker 1>things we do. We always have bagels on Christmas morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I do. Yeah, okay, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>When we open the gifts. Can come here really early.

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<v Speaker 2>In the morning, right, leave a mess. Yeah, have bagels. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and have bagels.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember we learned the hard way because we were

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<v Speaker 1>always out of town for the holidays. So a couple

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, maybe like five years ago, we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't out of town, and so we came here in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and we tried to get bagels, and every

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<v Speaker 1>single thing is obviously close. And now we get them

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<v Speaker 1>the day before pro tip. But I'm sure everybody already

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<v Speaker 1>knows that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a morning tip. Yeah, you know, we're celebrating Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>When I finally understood that it's probably okay to have

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<v Speaker 2>a tree, especially one that smells so beautiful in the

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<v Speaker 2>world and is made with such care and beauty. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't see it as a religious symbol. I just the

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<v Speaker 2>the idea of Christmas and snow and sleigh bells and

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<v Speaker 2>the music, you know, just I actually I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I do too, and we also like the minora and at.

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<v Speaker 1>Queen, I make incredible lock cou do and I just

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<v Speaker 1>can like I turn them out, I make like.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, you want to bring some over?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I'll make them at my house so they

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<v Speaker 1>don't smell bad here because the oil, that's what that's

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<v Speaker 1>the only thing that happens, is like when you make

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<v Speaker 1>the lakas, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Oil take to get rid of that smell.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like I open and it's okay in

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<v Speaker 1>the fan, No, but I I love making lakas. And

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<v Speaker 1>we celebrate Hanuka too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. A potato pancake with either apple sauce

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<v Speaker 2>or sour cream or both, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's even better.

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<v Speaker 2>Shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>So one of my best friends owns a caviar company

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<v Speaker 1>called row Yes, and it's a sustainable caviar company and.

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<v Speaker 2>A what does that mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>A loaca with crem fresh or sour cream and a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of row. Caviar is to die.

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<v Speaker 2>Now do you think that? What? What about the people

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<v Speaker 2>who are listening who cannot have cave.

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<v Speaker 1>Get cavia at the market, Like it's yeah, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you can get it. You can get any kind of caviar. Actually, Bethany,

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<v Speaker 1>that Frankel, she was a housewife. Yes, I remember, he

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<v Speaker 1>gets tobiko. She's like taken over TikTok by storm. She

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<v Speaker 1>gets like these like they're like crunchy fish eggs and

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<v Speaker 1>they're actually really good and they're ten dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. You have a publisher, your publisher who travels with

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<v Speaker 1>you when you do book tours.

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<v Speaker 2>Christine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm obsessed with her.

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<v Speaker 2>I am obsessed with her.

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<v Speaker 1>She travels with you and Mom, I cannot imagine. I

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<v Speaker 1>heard you guys talking much order, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this woman deserves a medal of sorts.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the that she travels with us for the memoir.

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<v Speaker 1>She's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she all over the United States.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's available.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you're going to write an your bendable buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>Will you write another memoir?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you could do a memoir part two, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do, and what would it be? It would be all

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<v Speaker 2>about me? Yeah, I kind of had the feeling now.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be all about like now, like these years,

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<v Speaker 1>ever since, ever since when the memoir one stopped, memoir

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<v Speaker 1>too about like.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, it's only a year worth of life, and it's a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot of life, a lot of life, a lot of life.

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<v Speaker 1>It is true, it's a tremendous amount of life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that is true.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I do think you should write a

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<v Speaker 1>book about them, his being a grandparent and a parent, really,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it's pretty interesting that you had kind

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<v Speaker 1>of an abusive, verbally abusive childhood.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you could take kind of out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I didn't know. Okay, So I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>do know, but I didn't know if that was an

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<v Speaker 1>okay thing to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember when my father was talking to you

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<v Speaker 2>and said something he slapped to you, and no, you

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<v Speaker 2>slapped him first, and he he slapped you back. What

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<v Speaker 2>you do? I said, Dad, you probably don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>slap my daughter. But I slashed It was free.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I remember Opie slapped me. I thought the story

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<v Speaker 1>was he slapped to me and I slapped him back.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently I slept him first.

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<v Speaker 2>Good to know, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've been telling the story all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, and then I said, you probably don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Slap my daughter, And then what happened, And.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I don't think he ever did great. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they were a trip my parents.

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<v Speaker 1>But you do it so differently, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's such a it's really when you I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't grow up in an abusive household, but I

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<v Speaker 1>would assume that a lot of the things I do

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<v Speaker 1>know what it's like to grow up in a household,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of the things that you learn or

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<v Speaker 1>that you that you are exposed to as a child,

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<v Speaker 1>it shapes you so to.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost every day I said, I promise myself I will

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<v Speaker 2>not be like them.

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<v Speaker 1>But to actually do that, I think takes so much strength.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, I'm not saying that if you have

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<v Speaker 1>an abusive household, you're going to be an abuser, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just mean to do it so differently.

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<v Speaker 2>But remember when you came in and I would be

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<v Speaker 2>rude and I would say to you, I didn't mean it.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't mean to sound like that. I'm taking that back.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the way I meant to say it. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you know that in parent did I not say that? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>But do you know that in parenting classes and groups

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<v Speaker 1>like I meet with a parenting specialist, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>always important to keep working on it. They say that

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<v Speaker 1>that is the number one thing that a parent should

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<v Speaker 1>do to create closeness between their child repair because everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>going to make a mistake. There's no such thing as

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect parent. There's a million times where I you

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<v Speaker 1>just said that, and couldn't you apply it to me? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's for the child to this. It's for the parents

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<v Speaker 1>the child. You're my parent, But I'll accept all apologies

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Would you like to start?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? Okay, deeply?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember that one time when we were going

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<v Speaker 1>fishing and I took too long to get ready and

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<v Speaker 1>you threw the boot across the room, but not at you,

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<v Speaker 1>But it raised my head.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't graze your head, it didn't touch you.

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<v Speaker 1>One time you threw deodorant when the room. I do

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<v Speaker 1>that time, I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>The amount of times you've gotten mattered literally on one hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I will say that when I'm fishing or

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<v Speaker 2>when I have the opportunity to actually get on the

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<v Speaker 2>rear animal. I was not going to say that, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's possibly true that.

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<v Speaker 1>You loved it. But I only went that one time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a big fisher.

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<v Speaker 2>No no, but I actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it at this dude ranch and I loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it with the boys, and I liked fly fishing.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for listening to this episode of

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<v Speaker 1>What in the Winkler. Tell a friend to follow us

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<v Speaker 1>and subscribe and listen. Yeah, and thanks for being my

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<v Speaker 1>guest dad again. You know what you have next week off?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, enjoy I'm going to take a nat