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Speaker 1: Until I found you Stephen Tanchez, and then bye, hold

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Speaker 1: on kiss f M to.

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Speaker 2: Be or not to be? I do I do? Uh?

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Speaker 2: What other things do you say when you're getting married?

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Speaker 2: Or is that to be? Not to be?

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Speaker 3: That's not it, Shakespeare is the question.

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Speaker 2: I do I do? Until death do us part? There

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Speaker 2: you go got there in sickness and in how, and

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Speaker 2: in sickness and in how it's usually where I cried

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Speaker 2: that part. As long as you both shall live? Wow,

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Speaker 2: hopefully we live a long time. So pretty well.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, The reason we bring all this up is we

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Speaker 1: have yet another back room staff member. What is going

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Speaker 1: on at the at the rate here of potential engagements?

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Speaker 1: I got Ruby Ringwatch, Now I got collect Ringwatch. So

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Speaker 1: Collecte works in the back room with Ruby McKay and everybody, Marianna,

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Speaker 1: everybody's back there with the phones and the things that

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Speaker 1: all the moving parts and all the meat of the show,

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Speaker 1: all the bones of the show are back there.

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Speaker 4: We call ourselves the back room besties.

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Speaker 2: You do. That's nice, j'all go so cute.

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Speaker 3: Remember they have their own group text and.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I think those are station funds. So we'll

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Speaker 2: do a reading. Okay, so call out, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: You are you?

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Speaker 1: You and your boyfriend Raoul going strong? Being going strong

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Speaker 1: for a minute?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, over three years now.

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Speaker 2: That's great. So where are we? What's on your mind?

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Speaker 4: So? Uh, yesterday I saw on Instagram that's someone I

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Speaker 4: knew in college who's a year younger than me, but

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Speaker 4: started dating her boyfriend at the same time I started

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Speaker 4: dating Raoul got engaged, and so I showed him and

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, look this person got engaged.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 4: And then he and I wasn't trying to be like, oh, look,

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Speaker 4: like time, you know, but he was like, well, you

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Speaker 4: probably won't have to wait that long, and I was

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Speaker 4: like really, I was like literally like I was bugging out,

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Speaker 4: and then he and then he was like, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 4: end of year and I.

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Speaker 2: Was like end of year. Yeah, which so this should

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Speaker 2: be all like very exciting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just want to have a few more of

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Speaker 4: my ducks in a row.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, where are your ducks now?

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Speaker 4: So first he's like finishing up grad school. He finishes

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Speaker 4: up in December, which is the end of the year,

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Speaker 4: and then I'm hoping he gets a full time job

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Speaker 4: so he can get me a nice rings.

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Speaker 2: More of his ducks, not.

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Speaker 4: Your ducks, and I'd like to be in a better apartment,

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Speaker 4: and I like, you know, other things, like I just

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Speaker 4: like a few more things.

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Speaker 2: Not too much to ask.

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Speaker 1: Have you guys discussed p proposal or engagements?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, we plan on like he's it for me,

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Speaker 4: he's my dude.

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Speaker 2: We're good. But dude, once his ducks are in the

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Speaker 2: right spot.

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Speaker 4: Officially being my dude once.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Now did he get the drift? I didn't

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Speaker 2: say anything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like and I was like, oh cool,

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Speaker 4: because like I mean, if he asked, I'm not going

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Speaker 4: to say no.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to be a jerk about it. But well,

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Speaker 2: I think listen, I think this is very common.

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Speaker 1: You know, you want to know that when you take

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Speaker 1: that step, there is a certain place you are in

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Speaker 1: your life, and it's okay to set it as a

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Speaker 1: mile marker to go, Okay, we know it's going to happen,

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Speaker 1: but let's just let's let's let's sort through some organization first, right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So once he does all of those things, and once

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Speaker 1: you have this new apartment, then you know it'll be time.

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Speaker 2: I'm just concerned if he does this too soon, what

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Speaker 2: will you do? I mean, I'll say yes, but I

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Speaker 4: How do I even like bring it up to him, like, Hey,

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Speaker 4: that thing you mentioned the other day, don't do it?

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Speaker 2: I know, what do you say in the moment? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you say in the moment?

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Speaker 2: I was just like you should have read that. You

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Speaker 2: should have known what that meant.

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Speaker 3: What's a big concern that, like he's gonna get you

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Speaker 3: not going to have your own place? Like what's your

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Speaker 3: cons list? Like what do you want to tackle first?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess I'm because I'm only twenty four?

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Speaker 4: Is that like too young to get so.

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Speaker 2: You feel too young? It gets way too Then you

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Speaker 2: need to say that. Okay, so then.

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Speaker 3: That's that's the that's that's your first concern.

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Speaker 2: Then you need to voice that.

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Speaker 3: You need to say, I love you so much. I

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Speaker 3: think the end of the year is too soon for us,

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Speaker 3: and you need to voice that if that is truly

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Speaker 1: Otherwise you're gonna have the real awkward conversation about this

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Speaker 1: when he's knee and that's worse.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's take our time. Let's let's get our ducks

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Speaker 3: in a row. Like you said, I think that is

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Speaker 3: the true, honest, genuine conversation.

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Speaker 2: David's thunder that right, really thunder No that it's got

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Speaker 2: to be coming before the end of the year. Step

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Speaker 2: on those toes. Do we have that ringwatch thing? Ye?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me see if I can find that I

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Speaker 1: got the ducks. I mean, what else do you want

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Speaker 1: for me?

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Speaker 2: We already watched twenty twenty three. We might need like

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Speaker 2: a twenty twenty four. But some are just totally normal.

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Speaker 3: I think it's so normal for two people not to

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Speaker 3: have the exact same timeline of how they want things

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Speaker 3: to shake.

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Speaker 1: Out, which is something you got to communicate to Sysney's play,

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Speaker 1: and it will be worse if you don't, because he's

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Speaker 1: gonna literally propose.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna say not yet.

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Speaker 4: I think we're gonna have a long engagement though, like

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Speaker 4: either way, like even a big fan, yeah, ling a

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Speaker 4: one or two year engagement. So then do I want

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Speaker 4: to like, I also have to think about that in advance.

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Speaker 3: Even so you're only twenty four, long engagement only still

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Speaker 3: puts you at like twenty six twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: Getting married might shocking.

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Speaker 1: But at my age, I've never been engaged, so you

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Speaker 1: don't have to rush anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: Get married until twenty nine, almost.

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Speaker 2: Thirty thirty that year, like a ducks. I feel like

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Speaker 2: you have a lot of time. Yeah, but do what

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Speaker 2: you want. Yeah, you got to speak your truth. Don't

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Speaker 2: hold back.

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Speaker 3: Don't hold back feelings because that's where you're going to

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Speaker 3: get in trouble.

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Speaker 2: So if you're really feeling this stuff, you got to

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Speaker 2: voice it. I'll talk to him after work.

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Speaker 4: I'll wake him up because he'll probably still be maybe.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So if he's listening right now, I'm just going

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Speaker 1: to do this, you should know you we're talking about

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Speaker 1: that all right. Next, I got your Jonas Brothers tickets

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Speaker 1: and Ryan's roses.

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Speaker 2: Hang on,