1 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: And I invited you here thought I made myself perfectly clear. 2 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: When you're a guest in my home, you gotta come 3 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: to me empty. 4 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 2: And I said, no guests, your own presences, presents, and 5 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 2: I already had too much stuff, So how do you dare. 6 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: To surbey me? 7 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 3: Welcome to? I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineger. We 8 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: are in the backyard. It's and it's a nice cold 9 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: one hundred and seventeen degrees. Already sweating. I'm not done 10 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 3: sweating for the day. I've been in the car too much, 11 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 3: driving all over town, barely had a lunch here. We 12 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 3: are just trying to get your pity and I need 13 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 3: it today, So pity me and let's get into the podcast. 14 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: I think our guest is so wonderful. It's Lane more Lane. 15 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 3: Welcome to. I said, no gifts, thank you for having 16 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 3: me glad here. And you brought your dog. 17 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 4: Yes, I did this as my dog lights well, you 18 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 4: can't see it at all. Unfortunate for you. 19 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 3: She's adorable. How old is she? 20 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 4: She's about seven eight years old. She's a rescue so 21 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 4: you have no idea and you just guess their birthday. 22 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 3: Isn't that a strange thing about a rescue animal. But 23 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 3: it's kind of you kind of get to do your 24 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 3: own thing. Yeah, you can do whatever you want. 25 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 4: I've already changed her birthday once just because I didn't 26 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 4: think it suited her. 27 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: What was her original birthday? 28 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 4: So I gave her Valentine's Day originally, and then I 29 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, I'm going to do Valentine's Day, but 30 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 4: I'm almost always touring that day and it's like a 31 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 4: really busy day, and I was like, I was like, 32 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 4: I don't think this is a very good brisk day 33 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 4: for you. Also you get overshadowed by Valentine's Day. 34 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: Of course, that was a real easy mistake you made. 35 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 4: I was a real to say, and I made it. 36 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 4: I didn't even give birth to her that day. I 37 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 4: gave birth to her another day. 38 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 3: When's her new birthday? See, this is the worst. 39 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 4: This is the only flaw I have in a relationship, 40 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 4: I swear to god. I was like, she seems like 41 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 4: a Taurus. I'm going to give her a birthday sometime 42 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 4: in April or May. And then I got really busy, 43 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 4: so now and then and then as the days go 44 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 4: by on the calendar, I'm like, oh my god, it's 45 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 4: Light's birthday this month or next month. I really and 46 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 4: this was only a couple months ago. So it's not 47 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 4: like this has been going. 48 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 3: On for years, right, But it is very neglect. 49 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 4: The neglect is very new. But to be fair, you know, 50 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 4: she's here with me, so she travels with me all 51 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 4: the time. 52 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 3: She just has no birthday, TPA. Do you ever have 53 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 3: you ever like had a birthday for her, bought birthday 54 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 3: gifts for her. 55 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 4: No, I've honored her birth and my love for her 56 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 4: consistently on social media and in my day to day 57 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: interactions with her. I tell her twelve thousand times a 58 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 4: day how much I love her, that she's my favorite 59 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 4: person in the world. I dedicated my book to her. 60 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 4: She's in my so I've done other things. 61 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 3: So she's controlling you. She's kind of a. 62 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 4: If she hits, that's fine with her. One person control me, 63 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 4: and it's my dog. 64 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 3: I don't care. She's very, very cute. You're here from 65 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 3: New York. Yeah? Did she? I assume she came on 66 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 3: the plane with you. She did. Yeah. 67 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 4: She travels just unbelievably well, she says. On my lap, 68 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 4: she curls up in a little donut shape. She's like 69 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 4: eight pounds, so she's very small. If people can't tell 70 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 4: what that would look like, but literally looks like a 71 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 4: little donut and she just sleeps. I bring her little 72 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 4: blankie when we travel and she I only recently started 73 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 4: doing that, and she loves it. And then I put 74 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 4: it on the hotel bed and we get there and 75 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 4: she's like, oh my god, I'm home, and I'm. 76 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 3: Like, wow, sense could really trick a dog. That's all 77 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 3: she needs. She thinks she's always home. 78 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think on some level she does. 79 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 4: I think on another level, she's very anxious and she 80 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 4: knows she's not home. But that blanket really is getting 81 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 4: me along with It's. 82 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 3: Very very sweet. I love you. I'm talking to her, 83 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: I'm looking at her, I'm telling her I love her. 84 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 3: She's very sweet. She looks kind of like a little 85 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 3: old lady in a good way kind of. Yes. 86 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 4: I also recently, uh someone street he asked me by 87 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 4: calling her the Taco Bell dog and it was just 88 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 4: Taco Bell Dog got a hot mom, And I was like, 89 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 4: I'll keep it. Yes, that's the only good street harassment 90 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 4: I've ever heard. Like, I don't even think it was 91 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 4: directed to me. I don't think it was about me. 92 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 4: I think the street arressment was meant for my dog. 93 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 3: That's incredible. I wonder how many Taco Bell dogs there 94 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 3: actually were, because you know, you have multiple dogs on 95 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 3: a shoot, maybe hundreds of dogs they were. 96 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 4: Using, allegedly, because I think I did look this up 97 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 4: at one point one of those like it's three am. 98 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 4: I'm somehow I landed here on Wikipedia looking at what 99 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 4: happened to the Taco Bell dog, like it's real. 100 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 3: I have some bad news for you. 101 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, it's dead. Yeah I did. I did realize 102 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 4: that that night. It was sad, but it had like 103 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 4: the years it was alive. It never because they said 104 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 4: that it was just like one dog. But is that 105 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 4: a lie? 106 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 3: Are lying to me? There's no way it was just 107 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 3: one dog. 108 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 4: There's no way it was ready. 109 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 3: It showed up for work every day. It never had 110 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 3: an off day. It's animal abuse. Are they allowed to 111 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 3: work that long? I don't think so. I don't know 112 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: they shouldn't be. 113 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, you're right, you know what, You're right in theory. 114 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 4: I'm always like lights needs to be in movies, she'd 115 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 4: be so good. But I swear to God, if I 116 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 4: got on a set and she looked at least a 117 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 4: little tired. I would grab her right out. I'd be like, no, 118 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 4: she's too sleepy. 119 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 3: She's a precious and commodity. Yeah, I think that. I 120 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 3: want to say they're probably eighteen Taco bell dogs. That's 121 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: my guess. On at least, do you have any idea? 122 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 3: Is there any well, I mean. 123 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 5: So far, the only what I'm seeing is a gidget 124 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 5: right Italy. 125 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 4: It was just that's the story of their sticking with is 126 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 4: that it was one dog and. 127 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: Who did Gidget play? Did the dog have a name? 128 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 3: She was the dog's name Gidget? 129 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 4: Or the dog's name was great, the dog's name was Gidget. 130 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 3: But on the commercials did they come up with a 131 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: new name. 132 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 4: I don't think that he had a name and she 133 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 4: had a name. 134 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 3: And I didn't realize that it was a girl dog 135 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 3: the whole time. 136 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 4: I didn't either had a man voice and it was 137 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 4: a lady. 138 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 3: I think it wasn't that. 139 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 4: It wasn't it like a low almost a yeah, yes, 140 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 4: I remember, I mean, very important part of my childhood. 141 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 3: So yeah, it's a really weird. 142 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 4: It was wild to hear a stranger shout that, because 143 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 4: it is the most dated reference I think I've ever. 144 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 3: I mean, it's so dated that I think it's kind 145 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 3: of come around to the foot that we can talk 146 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 3: about it again. 147 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 148 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 4: It was almost like refreshing, like, oh yeah, I do 149 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 4: remember that man on the street. 150 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 3: Should have could have just said nothing. 151 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: What have you? 152 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 3: What have you been doing in Los Angeles while you're here? 153 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:01,919 Speaker 4: I'm here doing uh I'm doing a book festival tomorrow. 154 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 4: And other than that, I have been mostly I finally 155 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 4: slept okay, very good h for the first time in 156 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 4: a couple days. 157 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 3: Last night. 158 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 4: We're we're getting me at my probably best My friend 159 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 4: this morning was like the world has never been ready 160 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 4: for a fully rested lane more And I was like, well, 161 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 4: they're getting them today, only except for like almost twelve hours. 162 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 3: It was one of those play sounds incredible. 163 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 4: It's one of those like you haven't slept in a 164 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 4: couple days, in your body's like finally ready. 165 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 3: Oh that feeling of waking up after twelve hours. 166 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, you look at the clock and it's I mean, 167 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 4: I'm all over the place, but like you look at 168 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 4: the clock and you're like, I did a good job. 169 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 3: I woke up last night in a pool of sweat again, 170 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 3: pity me, No, it was so hot. 171 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 4: I the temperature has actually been good in my hotel. 172 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 4: The hotel, but I was at before those who was 173 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 4: a man. I swear to god, I could hear him 174 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 4: fart and that is not a e feminism. I like 175 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 4: heard him fart in the next room, and I was like, 176 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 4: I hate this so much. And there was like a 177 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 4: party outside, like it was the worst hotel until like 178 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 4: five am. And then on top of that, there's also 179 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 4: like a train that goes by, so every tours you're here, Oh, 180 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 4: I can't live like that's. 181 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 3: Oh that's some poor hotel placement who is so awful. 182 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 4: And then when I like call to be like do 183 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 4: you know that, it's like this, like just you're almost 184 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 4: like stunned that they're able to run this, and that 185 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 4: the friend does is they're like, yeah, some of those 186 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 4: things we just can't control. And I was like, okay, well, 187 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 4: what do you at least like warn people like, hey, 188 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 4: do you love noise, like constant all night noise? Because 189 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 4: this is the hotel for you only are even just 190 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 4: in sleeping. You should absolutely not be paying human dollars 191 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 4: for this. 192 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 3: Is this the hotel where the woman went missing in 193 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 3: the water tower. Wait is that real? That's a real thing. 194 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 3: There's a whole documentary about it. She vanished and was 195 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 3: found in the watertowel. 196 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 4: I do remember this, and I think so. They also 197 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 4: don't tell you that. It's like I. 198 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 3: Don't think this is a real hotel. I really don't. 199 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 4: I think it has like long term guests who are 200 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 4: just unbelievably loud. I also think it's just like a 201 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 4: party space that you can sleep at. I don't know, 202 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 4: but I was very grateful that in the middle of 203 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 4: a rave but literally I was like, I would have 204 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 4: been better off at a youth hostel. I should have 205 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 4: just gone full, Like at least inform me that's it, 206 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 4: Like people would love that, Like I'm gonna do cocaine 207 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 4: for thirty seven hours already. 208 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, welcome me. Uh are you doing anything enjoyable about 209 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 3: your hair other than sleeping on? Stop? 210 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 4: I've eaten? 211 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 3: What have you eaten? I love talking about food eating? 212 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have eaten. I ate a really good salad. 213 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 4: I ate a really good dip. 214 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 3: I love a dip. Dip. What sort of dip were 215 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 3: you have? 216 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 4: It was a because it's la it was a macadamia 217 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 4: nut cheese dip. But it also had that Uh, I 218 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 4: feel like it's it's on the fence, whether it's Brucetta 219 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 4: or brusquetta. 220 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: Oh, everybody's got a different take. You gotta kind of 221 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 3: just switch back and forth. So nobody ever catch and 222 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 3: that's usually what I do. 223 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 4: But it had whatever your choice is of that, I'm 224 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 4: gonna go with PRIs Shatta for right now. Even though 225 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 4: I think Briskeuett it sounds a little bit more fun. 226 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 3: It does sound a little more I mean, immediately you 227 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 3: send it Italian. 228 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 4: Right, don't I sound it? And I actually am so 229 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 4: there I go. 230 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: This is humiliating for you and your family. Yeah that's fine. 231 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like me, I'm them, don't care. But yeah, 232 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: so it. 233 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 4: Had that and then some olives and it was just 234 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 4: very nice and the tomatoes were very sweet. Where was 235 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 4: I Love? It's called all Lack. It's like downtown la. 236 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 3: Oh I've never heard of this nice all Lack. 237 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a U L A C. And it's like 238 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 4: a Vietnamese vegan food. 239 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: Oh. 240 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 3: Interesting, And what you were just describing as Italian food 241 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 3: this place, I don't know what happened. 242 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 4: It was all over the place. I was looking at 243 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 4: the menu and I was like, why do you have ravioli? 244 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 4: I thought this was Viennamese food, but okay. 245 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 3: And you're basically talking about nacho cheese. You know what's 246 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 3: happening in that kitchen? 247 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: I asked. 248 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 4: When I came there, I was like, oh, I love 249 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 4: Vnemy's food, Like, can you walk me through this menu? 250 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 4: And the words I wasn't saying were because what is 251 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 4: this like? 252 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: Men? 253 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 2: You? 254 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 3: Because it was there were a lot. 255 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 4: Of enemies things, and then there would be this, and 256 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 4: then they had like a ravioli And I was like. 257 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 3: Where am I? Where am I? It's fine, but where 258 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 3: am I? But it was all, yeah, are you do 259 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 3: you have any plans to eat anywhere else while you're here? 260 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 3: That's when I travel, That's all I do. I mean, 261 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 3: that's the only thing I care about doing is finding 262 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 3: something to eat. That's all. 263 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 4: That's that's really all I care about as well. Sometimes 264 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 4: I will sometimes I'll go thrifting. I haven't a good idea. Yes, 265 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,359 Speaker 4: I love going thrifting, exploring different places. 266 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 3: Getting a little drink. 267 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 4: I love getting a little drink somewhere, you know, like 268 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 4: it was somewhere and you get your eight dollars coffee 269 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 4: and some part of you dies inside when you pay 270 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 4: for it, and then you know you're also tipping. 271 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 3: So it's now a ten dollars coffee. I love that 272 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 3: coffee prices have jumped a dollar in the last probably 273 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 3: ten minutes. 274 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, And you know we're gonna keep We're gonna. 275 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: Keep a dollar. Why can't we just up it by 276 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 3: a quarter one time? I'm fine with a quarter up? 277 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 4: You know, just keeps going, Like, are we to see 278 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 4: like a fifteen dollar coffee in our life? 279 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: Like I can't, Oh, I can't do. I can't well 280 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 3: prepare I start preparing now. No, I'm guessing twenty thirty three, 281 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 3: you're gonna have a fifteen dollars coffee and you'll be like, oh, 282 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 3: there's another fifteen dollars. Who cares? Yeah? 283 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 4: Well, and at that point, you know, by twenty thirty three, 284 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 4: surely I've been making a lot more money. 285 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 3: Surely, or you might just have ten years it might 286 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 3: be your last fifteen dollars. Yeah, So I'm going to 287 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 3: treat myself. 288 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 4: I really don't know, Yeah, exactly, I'm going out this 289 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 4: way and then I go and buy an upsetting purchase. 290 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 3: That's right after the coffee. 291 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 4: The coffee is the energy I needed to go buy 292 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 4: the end of life purchase. 293 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 3: Oh well, look, I need to talk to you. You've 294 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 3: been doing various things in LA and some of them 295 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 3: sound good, some of them sound bad. I want to 296 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 3: talk to you about one of them that's terrible. I 297 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 3: was really excited to have you here on the podcast 298 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 3: day on I said no gifts, was looking forward to it. 299 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 3: I assumed you got all the emails at the top 300 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 3: of the podcast I described I've not. I've been having 301 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 3: a rough day, uh, sweating, driving, panicking, So it kind 302 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 3: of it didn't feel great when you. So I look 303 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 3: down the walk here in the backyard, and you have 304 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 3: got a gift for me. I mean, I'm just going 305 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 3: to call a spade a spade. That's a gift. Oh yeah, absolutely, 306 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 3: it's in a bag, in a white bag that says 307 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 3: and they lived happily ever after. I don't know what 308 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 3: your your plan is. 309 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 4: I don't know why that wouldn't cheer you up if 310 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 4: you saw that down the driveway, wouldn't you be like, 311 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 4: oh my god, everything's gonna be okay. 312 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 3: It's my night in Shining Armor. Yeah. 313 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's it's pink, there's there's goal. You know, 314 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 4: it's like maybe from a wedding, maybe a divorce, We 315 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:51,959 Speaker 4: don't know. 316 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: That's an interesting thing to say after divorce and they 317 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 3: lived happily ever after. Has anybody ever done that? No? 318 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 4: But I think well probably the days these people and 319 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 4: everybody else does something. Everyone's doing it. But what I 320 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 4: think is maybe, like because if you think about it, 321 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 4: these are the remnants from all weddings, right, they all 322 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 4: have like the and they lived happily ere after. But 323 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 4: surely at least fifty percent of those people got divorced. 324 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 4: And now all these people have their gift bags. That's 325 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 4: say something that did not turn out true and. 326 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 3: What you're basically describing as a horder if they're still 327 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 3: holding onto their gift bags. So we're surrounded by garbage 328 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: and divorced. 329 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 4: You don't hold onto your memories, every memory of every 330 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 4: gift bag, of every wedding you've ever gone to. Wow, 331 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 4: maybe this is why you're troubled. 332 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm deeply troubled. Well, do you want me to open 333 00:14:39,240 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: it here on the podcast? I would really love that. Yeah, Okay, 334 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 3: let's see here dipping, dipping, dipping, Okay, and I'm pulling 335 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 3: out what is this? It looks my get my initial guests, 336 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 3: and I could be wrong. Is stick on ear rings? 337 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 4: No, but you're clothes, which is it's a temporary tattoo. 338 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: And their bands so there's three of them. 339 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 4: So you could put it as an arm band if 340 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 4: you have like a really small arm, or you could 341 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 4: piece them all together and make one giant armband. They 342 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 4: could go all the way around your arm like you're 343 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 4: a hunk. 344 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 3: In nineteen ninety nine, where did these come from? 345 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: You know? 346 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 4: When I was picking out the gift, I realized this 347 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 4: story where I got it is going to sound unbelievable, 348 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 4: but it is true. The first time I did mushrooms 349 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 4: was with people it barely knew in Long Island and 350 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 4: they had some temporary tattoos they let me have and 351 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 4: I took so many. I was so excited about temporary tattoos. 352 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 4: I them and I was like, you know what, I know. 353 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 4: I know he said no gifts, but temporary tattoos are 354 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 4: the gift that keeps on giving for at least three 355 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 4: to five days. 356 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 3: That's about how long these last. This looks like a 357 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 3: good quality, temporary tattoo good quality, and also as a 358 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 3: show of solidarity. 359 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 4: Well, okay, so it depends where you put them. Because 360 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 4: I put some of these temporary tattoos on last night 361 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 4: and one of them has already started to go away. 362 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 3: Oh, no, one is definitely falling off. The other's an 363 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 3: elephant or something. 364 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 4: Yes, and that really does tell you the quality. There's 365 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 4: an elephant or something. But to be fair, it took 366 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 4: a long bath last night, like a really long bath, 367 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 4: after I put the tattoos on. 368 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: And before you slept for twelve hours. Yes, that helps you. 369 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 3: But this one, the one on my left arm, is Oh, 370 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 3: that one's looks like a real tattoo. 371 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 4: It looks like a real timetoo. It could be you 372 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 4: don't know. And then I also have a well, I 373 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 4: mean you do because I just told you. And then 374 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 4: I also one of the temporary tattoos because I really 375 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 4: wanted this to be a bonding experience on my upper arm. 376 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 4: You can't see it, but you'll have to imagine it. 377 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 4: It is some sort of long necklace that I think 378 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 4: you're suppos to put on your neck. 379 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 3: It's some sort of like. 380 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 4: Long necklace that has what looks like the Titanic's Jewel of. 381 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 3: The Ocean and the beautiful. 382 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 4: But I thought that'd be a cool arm tattoo for 383 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 4: just me to know I have secretly because I'm wearying 384 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 4: one sleep. 385 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 3: That makes more sense to me than like putting on 386 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 3: a fake necklace tattoo that just always makes me WinCE 387 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 3: because I think, oh, that area a needle there that 388 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 3: seems like pure hell to me. 389 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 4: But the good news is with these, you just put 390 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 4: a washcloth on it for thirty seconds. 391 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 3: Do you have any real tattoos? No, I don't. Actually 392 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 3: have you ever considered it? 393 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 4: Once when I was a teenager, and I paused, I said, 394 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,439 Speaker 4: I don't think we should make this decision, which is 395 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 4: very very adult of me, but I just kind of 396 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 4: had a feeling that one day I would regret it, 397 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 4: and not in a like you know, your grandma telling 398 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 4: you like you're gonna regreet that, but just I know 399 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 4: the way my brain is, and if I had something 400 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 4: on my body like I think eventually be like I 401 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 4: don't feel the same way anymore. I'm not the same 402 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 4: person anymore. Like I just I overthought it and it 403 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 4: didn't happen. 404 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 3: Did you have a did you have a tattoo in mind. 405 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like wanted something with like tree branches. I 406 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 4: don't I would have changed my mind for sure the place. 407 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it would have been like a full back tattoo, 408 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 3: like like it was a big tattoo. Well, I mean yes, 409 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 3: I think. 410 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 4: I saw like one Tumblr photo and I was like, 411 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 4: that's me. But it probably would have been like a 412 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 4: two thousand dollars tattoo. It would have been so painful. 413 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 4: It would have probably taken like seventeen days to don't. 414 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 3: I don't know the math, but I'm really glad I 415 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 3: didn't do it. Tumblr photos have led to so many 416 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 3: bad decisions. 417 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 4: It seems. And also also I don't even think that 418 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 4: it was the tumbler person's tattoo. 419 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 3: I think it was like photoshop. 420 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 4: But I was like, oh wow, their tattoo is so cool, 421 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 4: and looking back, I'm like, there's no way that was 422 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 4: a real tattoo or that anyone has ever had that. 423 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 3: Oh interesting, Well, you could have been the first, and 424 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 3: you dropped the ball in a huge way. Thank god. 425 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,199 Speaker 3: I that vulcan remain on the But I would have 426 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 3: hated it. 427 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 4: I think that's why, like I went to piercing, not 428 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 4: that I'm like a piercing's nut. 429 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 3: But it's like a very quick pain, a quick pain 430 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,360 Speaker 3: that can kind of vanish in an instant. Yeah, it's 431 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 3: not you know, you take out the piercing and it's 432 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 3: almost gone. That's it. 433 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 4: I do not kind of remember that pain, but I 434 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 4: feel like tattoo pain. You really you have to like 435 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 4: like that kind of pain. 436 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 3: I really did not. I would like somebody to explain 437 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 3: to me what sort of pain it actually is. Is 438 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 3: it a burning? Is it a sharp dull? You don't 439 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 3: have tattoos either. I have no tattoos. Do you have 440 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 3: tattoos on a Lisha's got to I forget? You have 441 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 3: tattoos I got? I have thirteen tattoos. Most of them 442 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 3: are small. 443 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 5: The best way I can describe it is imagine like 444 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 5: a mechanical pencil, just like scratching up and down your arm, 445 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 5: over and over and over again. 446 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 3: That sounds wonderful. It's like it's it's the most. I 447 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 3: always describe it as like the most. 448 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 4: Over and over again, though you have to think about 449 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 4: the over and over, like an hour. 450 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 5: It's the most uncomfortable I've felt without crying, Like you 451 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 5: feel like it's that kind of like wincing pain. 452 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 3: But it's not enough to cry. It's not enough to 453 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,679 Speaker 3: like like get it off of me. But yeah, okay, 454 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 3: well maybe I'll get a tiny one and it'll just 455 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 3: be a bit of scratching on my arm. I don't know. 456 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,880 Speaker 4: Are you doing that just so you can feel what 457 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 4: that pain feels like? 458 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just curious. I don't know what else would 459 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 3: give me. I mean, other than a mechanical Maybe I 460 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 3: hire someone to just rub a mechanical pencil all over me. 461 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 3: That's probably more expensive. 462 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it depends that you hire. I feel like 463 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 4: that if you get someone who's like into that and 464 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 4: they're like, maybe maybe you can get them to pay 465 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 4: you to do it, you got to think those through. 466 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 3: And then you have to throw the cost of the 467 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,239 Speaker 3: mechanical pencil on top of that. God knows how much 468 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 3: of that costs. 469 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 4: Maybe they'd cover it. I have your new agent for 470 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 4: this specific thing. 471 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 3: We're starting a website today. 472 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, please apply if that's you. We're looking for someone, 473 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 4: and that's all, and we're looking for someone. 474 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 3: For truly someone. 475 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: No. 476 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 3: I will occasionally consider a tattoo, but I don't know 477 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 3: what's going on. I don't know that I'm qualified as 478 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 3: a person. I don't know that I'm cool enough. I 479 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 3: don't know that I'm I feel like I would, I'd 480 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 3: feel like a fraud. 481 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 4: You could do it, though, I mean it could be 482 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 4: there's a couple of ways I could see you doing 483 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 4: a tattoo. You could do like a plant, and then 484 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 4: that could be like a dating starter thing where you're 485 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 4: just like, look, how sensitive I am? I have a 486 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 4: freaking plant. I'm in a relationship at well or maybe 487 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 4: maybe a break up. 488 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe relationship. It probably would to be honest, there 489 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 3: you go. But oh, nice, got a plant. You're really 490 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 3: on the plant tattoo trainer, aren't you? Trees? Plants, plants, 491 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 3: Oh oh, and that too. 492 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 4: But I was thinking for I was thinking for you, 493 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 4: but you're surrounded by so many beautiful plants. 494 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 3: I just thought, little plant. I don't know. Maybe that's 495 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 3: like when I turned fifty, but then turning fifty, oh, 496 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 3: that seems like a weird choice at fifty. 497 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 4: It really is like, and then I got some bogonias 498 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 4: on my right wrist to celebrate it. 499 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 3: It's very Yeah, I don't know who. I don't know 500 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 3: who that is. Yeah, I don't know who that is. 501 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 3: Do you feel like you have a high pain tolerance. 502 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 3: It's a complicated answer. I'm excited to you. I do. 503 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 4: I wish I didn't, and I also don't. But like, 504 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 4: because I have a high pain tolerance, I actually don't 505 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 4: want to be in pain ever, right, I have no 506 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 4: interest for it? No, no, no, no, Because it's like I know, 507 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 4: I know, I have a really high tolerance at the 508 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 4: point where like I won't even notice, like if I 509 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 4: like scrap my arm or something like, I won't even 510 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 4: notice that I did. And then days later I'm like, 511 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 4: was I bleeding? 512 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 3: Like it's that's not good. It's like you have nerve problems. 513 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just that, it's just that it's that I 514 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,440 Speaker 4: don't know, it's like a high tolerance for pain, and 515 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 4: I think high tolerance for ignoring your own needs. 516 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 3: To sure I understand that feeling in a very acute way. 517 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 3: I feel like I, well, I've been told redheads have 518 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 3: are extremely sensitive to pain, and so or is that 519 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 3: just it's kind of true? But I don't know. I 520 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 3: don't know. I've never really felt that sensitive to pain. 521 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 3: But my last dentist appointment and I have moved on 522 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 3: from this dentist thanks to someone named Ryan who reached 523 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 3: out and recommended a new dentist. They shot up. They thought, oh, 524 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 3: he has low pain tolerance. Put so much novacated in 525 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 3: my mouth that my mouth was numb for seven hours. 526 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 3: Oh no, horrifying. 527 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 4: He's just trooling, trooling, drooling. 528 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,120 Speaker 3: Just awful experience. You want that to be an hour 529 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,880 Speaker 3: and a half, two hours max. Yeah, when it gets 530 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 3: to like hour four, you begin to work. I mean 531 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 3: there's a real panic that sets it. 532 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 4: Eat anything. You're just chewing on your own tongue. 533 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 3: To your cheeks. 534 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 535 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 3: No, not a good experience. Who did this well, not Ryan? 536 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 3: You know, Ryan reached out recommended the new dentists. I 537 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 3: haven't been to the new dentist yet, but I've got 538 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 3: high hopes, high hopes. It better be good because that 539 00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 3: that may be the last dentist I ever have. 540 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 4: Ye, I need a new I need a new dentist 541 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 4: in a big way. If there's anyone with recommendations in 542 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 4: New York City. 543 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 3: Reach out to lay. So hard to find a dentist, it's. 544 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 4: So well, it's hard to find a dentist. Sorry, to 545 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 4: find a good you can swing anything. 546 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 3: There may be one in your home. Now. Yeah, they're 547 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 3: dentists everywhere. 548 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 4: They're everywhere, they are everywhere, but a good one. 549 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,959 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I've been through so many, so many dentists, 550 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 3: but I think this I've got. I'm I'm wishing myself the. 551 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 4: Best better with dentists. No, what the hell, I'm I'm 552 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 4: really upset about it. I feel like the longer I'm alive, 553 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 4: I think when I was a kid, I just thought like, 554 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 4: doctors are like not that Innocetillily had like the best 555 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 4: best healthcare then either, but you don't need it as 556 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 4: much because you're a child and you're like whatever, but 557 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 4: you're just like doctors and dentists are good at what 558 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 4: they do. And then the second that you get insurance 559 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 4: or not insurance or whatever it is, and you're just like, oh, 560 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 4: most doctors and dentists are really bad, like really bad, 561 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 4: and they'll and also you don't know like even if 562 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 4: I had bad ones then too, I didn't know it. 563 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 4: You just kind of assume like, oh, you like took 564 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 4: all my symptoms and like told me it was in 565 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 4: my head and told me to get fucked and then 566 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 4: charged me sixteen thousand dollars. And I was like, well, 567 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 4: I guess that's just the way life is. And then 568 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 4: ten years after that you're like, it shouldn't be. 569 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 3: No, no, no, yeah, that is a weird thing to 570 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 3: discover as an adult that most professionals, I mean a 571 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 3: lot of professionals simply aren't good at their job. Just 572 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 3: like everyone else. We're all probably bad at our jobs. 573 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 3: It's rare that somebody's, oh, that's very cute what the 574 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 3: dog's doing resting our head on your elbow. No, most 575 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 3: people are bad at their jobs or kind of don't care. 576 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 4: But that is. 577 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 3: Wild to me. 578 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 4: I really only realized that once I got my first, 579 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 4: like steady writing job, where I was like, oh, a 580 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 4: lot of people here are not good at what they do. 581 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 4: And the reason that I say that is because I 582 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 4: for so many years I had, like had not very 583 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 4: good jobs or I couldn't get like the jobs that 584 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 4: I wanted or whatever it was, and I struggled for 585 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 4: so long, and then I finally was like, oh, my god, 586 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 4: this is a really good writing job, and like it 587 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 4: pays pretty well in respect. It absolutely didn't, but I 588 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 4: thought it did because I had been so beaten down, right, 589 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 4: and uh, but then I looked around and I just 590 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 4: always assumed that people who had these jobs I wanted 591 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,959 Speaker 4: so much were like better than me, they were they 592 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 4: knew more than me, they were like all these things. 593 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 4: And then I just looked around and I was like, 594 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 4: I'm more on top of it than these are the 595 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 4: people who've had jobs steadily since high school, and I've struggled. 596 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 4: This isn't about me at all. 597 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,639 Speaker 3: No, I mean, the bar for entry is so unbelievably 598 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 3: hind and then you get over it and you're like, 599 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,920 Speaker 3: how did you what did you hear? Well, it's because 600 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,479 Speaker 3: they were air dropped by their parents or something, literally 601 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 3: straight up a lot of them. And then you're just like, oh, okay, yes, 602 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:44,639 Speaker 3: I feel worse now. Yeah, it's a very very hard 603 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 3: thing to get into it then. But I guess that 604 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 3: is kind of true for a lot of professional jobs. 605 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 4: I feel like it shouldn't legally be allowed to fine 606 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 4: you want to like screw around at your office jobbling 607 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 4: or whatever, but I feel it shouldn't be allowed in 608 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 4: the medical profession. 609 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 3: Right when you're in charge of somebody's safety. 610 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 4: Yes, and like, well, being like that, you feel very 611 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 4: when I the last dentist I saw was a really 612 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 4: traumatic experiences I feel like almost every dental experiences. But 613 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 4: I'm I'm also not being like that's not hyperbolic. 614 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 3: It was really bad. 615 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 1: It was right. 616 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 4: It took me two hours to get to it because 617 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 4: it was the only when my insurants like it took 618 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 4: that didn't have like nineteen thousand zero star reviews that 619 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 4: were like this one took all my teeth and I 620 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 4: just needed a cleaning, Like did you see that? 621 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 3: I like, what the why is my insurance did this? 622 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 3: Why is this recommendation? And then you look and. 623 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 4: There's three other ones that were like he took my 624 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 4: teeth too, And you're like, what, how are you still? 625 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, when somebody goes out of their way to yell 626 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 3: review their dentists, you know there's a problem. Is no 627 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 3: one ill previews their dentist. It's so upsetting. 628 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 4: But when you just see all of the I've had 629 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 4: that happen at several doctors where they're like, yeah, he 630 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 4: did that to me too, he did that to me too, 631 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 4: And I'm like, how could you like possibly. 632 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 3: Get away with this? I just don't. Also, what's so weird? 633 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 4: There's like so much school that's involved, Like it's like 634 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:03,400 Speaker 4: the longest. 635 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 3: Con right we're all told like, oh, the smartest kids 636 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 3: go to medical and dental school, and then they have 637 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 3: such a hard time because they have to be good. 638 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 3: And then suddenly you're in the chair and they're drilling. 639 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: It. 640 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 4: I just don't And sometimes there's like a sadistic element 641 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 4: when you're like, oh god, like the rumors are true. 642 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 4: But then you know, every now and again you get 643 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 4: like a nice, gentle dentist and you see them. They 644 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 4: always look so beaten down by the reputations of all 645 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 4: of their peers, or they're just like, see, I think 646 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 4: I did good. Right, never mind, you're gonna hate dentists 647 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 4: no matter what I do. Have a great day. 648 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 3: And you're like, oh my god, maybe the secret is 649 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 3: to seeing a children's dentist. You never hear bad. Well it's. 650 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 4: But you're never hopefully you're never getting anything that's that 651 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 4: like crazy. As a kid, you're just going in for 652 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 4: like a light cleaning and they but they also are nice. 653 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 4: I wish they were nicer to you as an adult. 654 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 4: I wish like they were like, this is gonna feel weird. 655 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't around with me. Make it 656 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 3: a fun time. Although I could see that getting really creepy. Yeah, 657 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 3: of course, and. 658 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 4: The adults on me like that's gonna feel kooky. 659 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 3: I'm like, enough, be a corona. Yeah, that's maybe that's 660 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 3: not what I want. I don't know what I want 661 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 3: from a dentist. Sultimately, I just. 662 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 4: Trying to imagine my dream none dentures, I guess. Literally 663 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 4: the other day when I went in for the it 664 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 4: was so bad at the dentist that I literally like 665 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 4: started crying and like told the dentists, I was like, 666 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 4: what if you just pull them all out? What if? 667 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 4: I was at my breaking point, you know, when you're 668 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 4: just like when you've had multiple dentists, You're like, you 669 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 4: know what. 670 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 3: What if you just remove them all? I don't even 671 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 3: care anymore. And she looked at me, She's like why, 672 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm so tired. Take them? No, 673 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 3: I honestly don't the scientific community has that doesn't feel 674 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 3: like that big of a deal to create some sort 675 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 3: of little tooth that we can all get, we all 676 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 3: get them removed, and then you put in a dishwasher 677 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 3: safe tooth or something that you know you put in 678 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 3: and they're just good forever. 679 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 4: I don't think this is like I don't think the 680 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 4: teeth thing is working. It's all we don't have good 681 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 4: dentists for it. There's always something your insurance never covers it. 682 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 4: It's always like, we'll cover the rest of your body, 683 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 4: but like your teeth and eyes, like what are you 684 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 4: a king? It's like, yeah, that's part of my No, 685 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 4: it's not. That's your your mental health. 686 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 3: We don't cover that either. 687 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 4: Everything going on your skull, we're afraid. 688 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 3: No, thank you. Yeah, I mean we're halfway there with veneers. 689 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 3: Just fill them out or something dentures like, there's got 690 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 3: to be I feel like again, twenty thirty three, that's 691 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 3: the year that we get permanent teeth replacements that don't 692 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 3: get holes in them. You know, don't stink, don't rock, you. 693 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 4: Don't have to floss them. Maybe you drop them in 694 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 4: a solution every night. I could drop them in a solution. 695 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 3: Whatever, whatever I need to be dropped into a solution. 696 00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm not gonna fall daily. 697 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 3: I just know this about me now. 698 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 4: Five years ago, what is that? 699 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 3: Something different? 700 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 4: I would have been like I will one day, I'm sure, 701 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 4: But now one day has come. 702 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 3: I'm no longer pretending i've recently. I think I've about 703 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 3: every two days, which feels like a pretty decent amount 704 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 3: of flossing. I'm trying to get to the every day. 705 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 3: It's hard when I remember. 706 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 4: But the but the problem maybe I never get morning breath. 707 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 3: I don't really get back breath. Well, if I did, 708 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 3: let's ask some other. 709 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 4: No, that's fine, that's fine. I only this is not 710 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 4: coming from me. This is this has been said to 711 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,520 Speaker 4: me by partners. It's not that like, you know, I'm 712 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 4: not I'm not a robot. But it's been said to 713 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 4: me my partners. But I feel like if I did, 714 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 4: I would be encouraged to floss more. 715 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 3: I almost wish I did. Wow. Fascinating. So you're just 716 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 3: waiting for that one partner that's repulsed by your mouth. 717 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 4: I'll floss for you, babe. Ah, it's all really disgusting. 718 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 4: Guess what, guess he's gonna start flossing for you. Not 719 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 4: for my own health, No, no, no, I would never 720 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 4: do that for my own health. 721 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 3: Who has the energy. But I'm in it for the 722 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,959 Speaker 3: long term. Now, Yeah, I'm flossing. 723 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,600 Speaker 4: I'll change for you in a way that grossly benefits me. 724 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 3: Do you know what I've been doing recently. This is 725 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 3: a complete pivot, but I want to recommend this to everyone. 726 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 3: I've gotten one of these. I don't want to name 727 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 3: the theater chain, but they have these movie passes. It's 728 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 3: like twenty five dollars a month or whatever. They ripped 729 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 3: me off for quite a few months because I forgot 730 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 3: to see movies or was too lazy to see movies. 731 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 3: Recently have started seeing movies again. But the real secret 732 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 3: is if a movie's three hours long. Have I talked 733 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 3: about this on this podcast, Honaly? Well, I'm this is 734 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 3: now a hearty endorsement. I'm going to if it's three 735 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 3: hours long, I go and see an hour and a half, 736 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 3: then leave. I tell myself, I'm just going for an 737 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 3: hour and a half. We'll see what the movie's all 738 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 3: about and then leave. 739 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 4: Do you feel like you're getting your money's worth. 740 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 3: More than my money's worth? I feel like I'm getting 741 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,959 Speaker 3: double my money's worth. But wouldn't it be do you? 742 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 4: Have you seen it already? 743 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 2: No? 744 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 3: I haven't seen any of these, and I why wouldn't 745 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,960 Speaker 3: you stay? Because my life is at stake, I've got 746 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 3: other things to do with my time. But then, why 747 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 3: would you even waste the hour and a half because 748 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 3: I want to get a little taste. I want to 749 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 3: see what the movie's all about. I mean, I've seen 750 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 3: half of Avatar, a half of John Wick four, and 751 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 3: now half of bo Is Afraid. I might go back 752 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 3: to BoA's Afraid because I didn't get to see Parker Posey, 753 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 3: I didn't get to see Richard Kind, I didn't get 754 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 3: to see Patty Lapone. So I'd like to see them all. 755 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't come in until after an hour and 756 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 4: a half. 757 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I as long as three hours. Oh god, it's 758 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 3: a plague. 759 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 4: That's who's sitting in there that long. 760 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 3: Not me. I'm getting up and when it's. 761 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 4: Two hours, I'm like I start two hours. I'm like 762 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 4: even approaching two hours, I'm like, this is getting long. 763 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 4: Like my body feels like I'm like, as they're getting 764 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 4: really antsy. Unless you know what helps, though, Do you 765 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:39,600 Speaker 4: go to one of those theaters where the seats go back, 766 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 4: Oh can like if you want to bring a blanket. 767 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 3: And fall asleep, No, but just get cozy. I'm falling asleep. 768 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 3: There's no there's no better feeling in the world than 769 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 3: falling asleep during a movie. 770 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 4: I guess that's true, but I'm worried that I would 771 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 4: have that horrible feeling where you wake up snoring. 772 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 3: That's one of the world's worst feelings. I think, do 773 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 3: you snore? No, But sometimes it's rare. It's rare. 774 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 4: But sometimes if I pass out somewhere, sometimes you wake 775 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,759 Speaker 4: up and you if your mouth is open in that 776 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 4: certain way, and you do. 777 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 3: That like oh oh, and then you're. 778 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,439 Speaker 4: Like and I'll wake up immediately, and I'm like, I'm 779 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 4: so sorry. And usually as soon as it happens, I 780 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 4: wake up, so that's good. But I'm just afraid, like 781 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 4: that's like a public humiliation. 782 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,840 Speaker 3: I can't. That just does seem a little frightening to me. 783 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 3: And I mean it's rude too. You're like, sorry, I 784 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 3: really was liking the film. Maybe, I mean, I should 785 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 3: be honest right now, I fell asleep six minutes into 786 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 3: bow Is Afraid. Just for a minute. 787 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:38,360 Speaker 4: What is bo Is Afraid? 788 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 3: It's Joaquin Phoenix. It's a uh. I don't even know 789 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 3: how to describe the movie. It's kind of a horror 790 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 3: comedy movie about a man where everything's going wrong in 791 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 3: his life, and it's absurd and surreal and graphic and uh. 792 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 4: It's sort you write this movie about you, it should 793 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 4: have been about it feels like a humble brag. You're like, 794 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 4: it's a it's a pretty incredible film. I've really liked 795 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 4: it personally for myself. I see it a couple of 796 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 4: times up to you. 797 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 3: You like, look up IMDb and it's like literally your film. 798 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:12,719 Speaker 3: They're like, what now, huh No, did you see Midsummer Yes, 799 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,439 Speaker 3: same director. Oh, okay, interesting, I imagine kind of that level. 800 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 4: I saw that in theaters. 801 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 3: Okay, that's another long movie. 802 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 4: I'm glad I saw it in theaters because I know 803 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 4: if I saw it at home, I wouldn't have been 804 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 4: able to pay attention. 805 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 3: I would have started checking my phone. 806 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 4: In the trapped in the theater, yes, But in theaters 807 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 4: I was able to fully be really trapped and just 808 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 4: watch it, which I really did like, even though I 809 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 4: made it sound like I was tortured. 810 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 3: If I'm watching a movie at home, I'm watching it 811 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,399 Speaker 3: four minute blocks at a time and then rewinding and 812 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,800 Speaker 3: barely taking any of it in. Even on the plane. 813 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,760 Speaker 3: I tried to watch on the plane. 814 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 4: Here, I tried to watch a movie, and I was 815 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 4: like doing really well. I was really proud of myself. 816 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 4: I was like, wow, sure I am paying attention. And 817 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 4: then I don't know what happened? 818 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 3: What did you want? I think they brought us. 819 00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,839 Speaker 4: They brought us drinks on the plane, and I was like, 820 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 4: I was like, I'm eating my little snack. And then 821 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 4: I started like I pressed play again, but that I 822 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 4: wasn't really watching right, and like twenty minutes went by 823 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 4: and I was like, oh shoot, I went back and 824 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 4: restarted it, and then I like I didn't do that 825 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 4: like five times? 826 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 3: What movie was this significant? Other? What's this movie? I've 827 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 3: never wish movie. It's a horror movie. 828 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 4: I love horror movies with Jake Lacey and I don't know, 829 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,400 Speaker 4: I might be mispronouncing her name, but it's about like 830 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,720 Speaker 4: Mica Monroe. She was in The Guest, which is incredible. 831 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 4: If you haven't seen The Guests, I guess is the 832 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 4: guess is. 833 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:33,760 Speaker 3: So I think I've seen the Guest? Is that Dan Stevens? Yes, 834 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:38,839 Speaker 3: this sounds familiar and the incredible soundtrack Oh sorry, White 835 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 3: Twilli song? Is that the movie? 836 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:40,799 Speaker 2: Uh? 837 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 3: Looking for the Magic? Is that the movie? 838 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. 839 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 3: I don't think so. And they're like people in a 840 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 3: this is so exciting for the listener. For me to 841 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,400 Speaker 3: try to describe a movie, I can barely remember it. 842 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 3: But it's the people like you start in a house 843 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 3: with these people that are playing this great song and 844 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,760 Speaker 3: they get murdered and then CD starts skipping on a Lisa. 845 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 4: No one cares no, but I know what you're talking 846 00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 4: to sounders. 847 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,439 Speaker 3: No, I know what you're talking about. 848 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 4: But is it the one that I think? It ends 849 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 4: that way? There's a movie that ends that way? 850 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 3: Are you talking about? Don't at least look up Dwight 851 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 3: Twilly looking for the magic horror movie. 852 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,279 Speaker 4: Because there's one that ends that way. There's one where 853 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 4: it's like what I think it beginning, it begins and 854 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 4: ends that way or something where there's a movie and 855 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 4: I in. 856 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 3: The Hollywood Hills were next? 857 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 4: Is that the one? 858 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 3: Maybe? But there's these movies tell you nothing about what 859 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 3: the movie is. 860 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 4: There's another one. There's another one that ends with I 861 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 4: saw it recently, like takes place in the Hollywood Hills 862 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 4: and it's like their nextra neighbors. I've seen your next also, 863 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 4: But there's another one I saw recently and it ends 864 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 4: with like a skipping record. 865 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's the same song, So I 866 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 3: guess we have to stop doing that in horror movies. 867 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 4: I didn't know so many people were. I was like, yeah, 868 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 4: I know that one kind of in my own way. 869 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 3: The new thing should be their Spotify play. This just 870 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 3: continues and it gets to songs they don't like. 871 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 4: They don't here if we Go, which is its own 872 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 4: horror movie. And then also you're a little bit like insulted. 873 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 4: You're like, why would you think I'd want this next? 874 00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 4: You don't know me at all. 875 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 3: The algorithm real does not know me. It certainly doesn't 876 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,760 Speaker 3: know me. Like the guesses are so obvious or bad. 877 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 3: I'm right, you really, You're like, you're just kind of 878 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 3: looking at the last song I heard and then vaguely 879 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,359 Speaker 3: shooting at the next song. But it's an algorithm doesn't 880 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 3: be the best. Well, this one's not this one. It 881 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 3: stinks it. 882 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,480 Speaker 4: They're almost never good. I so many of the Some 883 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 4: of it too, is like like I look at my 884 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,879 Speaker 4: TikTok and stuff, and the algorithm like what it thinks I. 885 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,439 Speaker 3: Want is not at all what I want. 886 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 4: I'm like, please stop this. And then my friend's TikTok 887 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,439 Speaker 4: algorithm is exactly what I want, but I don't know how. 888 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 3: To get it. 889 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:39,919 Speaker 4: And it's because so he's a dude, but his whole 890 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,360 Speaker 4: TikTok is very like they don't know who he is 891 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 4: because he doesn't really follow anybody. Okay, he like follows 892 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,880 Speaker 4: like five people, and they don't know if he's like 893 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 4: a weird little boy who likes bugs and thoughts, or 894 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,240 Speaker 4: if he's a lesbian. Like, that's a TikTok. Yes, sane, 895 00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,280 Speaker 4: I'm like, that's a TikTok. 896 00:38:59,280 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 3: I want to be on. 897 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,799 Speaker 4: The videos he gets are just like this sweet man 898 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 4: in China making his own food in his backyard, and 899 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:12,880 Speaker 4: this really cool hawk, and then like these little like pandas, 900 00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,360 Speaker 4: who are you know, having a good time. Here's the 901 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 4: world's tiniest mushroom. 902 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 3: I'm like, I want to. 903 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 1: Be over that. 904 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 3: Do I get over there? What are you getting? I 905 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 3: don't know. 906 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 4: It's like I don't I don't even know because I 907 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 4: scroll past almost all of. 908 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 3: Them, So it's punishing you, I think. 909 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,880 Speaker 4: So well. It's also like again maybe who I follow 910 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 4: or based on I don't know what it's based on. 911 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,719 Speaker 4: But I'm like, don't you know, I'm swiping past all 912 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 4: of these, but you know what it is. I don't 913 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 4: think he cares. I think it's like that attention economy 914 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 4: thing where it's like, yeah, but you're still staying even 915 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 4: though we're treating you like garbage, And I'm like, oh, 916 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 4: I damn. 917 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 3: Well, it's because you're dissatisfied, You're look, you're hungry, you're 918 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,640 Speaker 3: looking for a little crumb to eat. That's me. That's 919 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 3: I've been on TikTok very few times, but the times 920 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 3: I have, and I'm like, I'm just going, going, going, 921 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 3: and then it's an hour later, I still haven't seen 922 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 3: anything I wanted to watch. 923 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:03,879 Speaker 4: And I wonder how many of us that is true 924 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,359 Speaker 4: for the only things I want to watch are I 925 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 4: like people who make like little fairy gardens. 926 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 3: I love that. 927 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 4: I love any like I don't know, like I love 928 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 4: good like witch outfits. 929 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,919 Speaker 3: Doesn't like what else? 930 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 4: Do I want more of anything with like that esthetic 931 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,359 Speaker 4: where it's like the wall is blue and there's like 932 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,240 Speaker 4: gold suns and moons, Like I find that very soothing. 933 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 4: I love it, Like, yeah, Showy wore that, so you're 934 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 4: just colors. 935 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 3: You want witchiness? 936 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 4: I guess so I haven't. Yeah, I guess I just 937 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:49,440 Speaker 4: but a specific type I guess, right, kind of, I. 938 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:50,560 Speaker 3: Guess I really just want to. 939 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 4: I really just remain on Practical Magic TikTok as much 940 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 4: as I can. I've created as much content around that 941 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 4: as I can, And anytime I see good practical Magic content, 942 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,959 Speaker 4: I'm like, yes, this is good, but then the next 943 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 4: thing will just be like it's the worst thing I've 944 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:04,359 Speaker 4: ever seen. 945 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 3: So that I've never seen Practical Magic. I need to 946 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 3: see the movie. That's a huge, huge blind spot for me. 947 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm the perfect person to introduce you 948 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,120 Speaker 4: to it, and I don't feel like that's wrong because 949 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,919 Speaker 4: people associate me so much of that movie that it's 950 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 4: very funny because I've talked about it so much online 951 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,760 Speaker 4: and I have a point of bragging for Practical Magic, 952 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,240 Speaker 4: which is that I've had a couple Practical Magic tweets 953 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,240 Speaker 4: that went really viral, so much so that Nicole Kidman, 954 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 4: who was one of the witches in Practical Magic, reposted 955 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 4: it on and so I feel like a Practical Magic ambassador. 956 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 3: That is something incredible. I mean, I've seen the dancing 957 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 3: through the kitchen, Oh what a great Yeah, incredible, but 958 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,279 Speaker 3: I've never I don't know why I haven't gotten into it. 959 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 4: Well, here's the thing. It does fall apart in the 960 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 4: third act. 961 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 3: Oh interesting, we all know it. 962 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 4: I'm not really feels like saying something negative about your level. 963 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:01,719 Speaker 3: But it's not. 964 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 4: It's loving them despite their flaw, is what it is. 965 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 3: It falls apart. 966 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 4: And when it becomes about men, she like falls for 967 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,839 Speaker 4: a cop, like come on, her husband dies and then 968 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,719 Speaker 4: call back a cop come on, and he's like kind of. 969 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 3: Like, have you seen Fred Kabajack? He's like that already. 970 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 3: He's like, whoo, so totally underwhelming. What's this aiden Quinn? 971 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,879 Speaker 3: Never heard of him? There you go. Sorry he's dead. 972 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:26,839 Speaker 3: No he's not. He's alive. 973 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. 974 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,360 Speaker 3: He might be very nice, but so does. The movie started. 975 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 3: They just three friends who happened to be witches. Do 976 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 3: they find each other through a witch website. 977 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,800 Speaker 4: It's like it starts with I won't you know, I 978 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,600 Speaker 4: won't take you to the Literally. As I started talking 979 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,959 Speaker 4: about it, the theme for Practicalized started playing in my head, 980 00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:41,760 Speaker 4: as though. 981 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,640 Speaker 3: There's a theme. Oh god, this is in the nineties 982 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 3: when everybody could afford like a. 983 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,840 Speaker 4: I know that's what even I saw the new screen 984 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 4: movie and I was like, oh, you don't have like 985 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 4: the thing guy doing the soundtrack, Like the soundtrack was 986 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:54,879 Speaker 4: such a big part of Scream. 987 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 3: I have a lot of thoughts. 988 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 4: But it was just like you know, uh, there was 989 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,919 Speaker 4: like a curse on their family and it's this whole thing, 990 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 4: and then it like curses whoever they fall in love with, 991 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 4: and it's kind of set that up. And then she 992 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,879 Speaker 4: finally finds love and then it's like the curse takes 993 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 4: him and then there's just I don't know, it's just 994 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,360 Speaker 4: it is a movie. I would say that is like 995 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,720 Speaker 4: about the like the power and the magic of women 996 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 4: and female friendships and connection and then it gets ruined 997 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 4: by men. 998 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 3: Is that is that accurate? For yes, Well that's just 999 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:27,959 Speaker 3: like a nice time. 1000 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1001 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,520 Speaker 3: Do they do little spells? Do you get to see 1002 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 3: them do fun things or you know, lifting objects or 1003 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 3: shooting fireworks? 1004 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 4: Theape you know nothing about what did they shoot off fire? 1005 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 3: Do they write a broom? If they don't write a 1006 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 3: broom with I mean, come, but. 1007 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,080 Speaker 4: Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. 1008 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,840 Speaker 4: They jump off the house, They jump off out and 1009 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 4: they land, so they fly down. Yeah, I mean it's 1010 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,879 Speaker 4: a tall house. It's a tall house. And then they 1011 00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 4: do use the brooms to sweep away this. Hear it, 1012 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 4: I'm an abusive. 1013 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 3: There we go. That's that's a fair and modern use 1014 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,719 Speaker 3: of the broom. Fair Martina, I do, okay, I'm on 1015 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:11,320 Speaker 3: board brief cameo. But oh, she just lights up the 1016 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 3: screen every scene she's in. I mean, speaking of the 1017 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,760 Speaker 3: Little Witch Store, speaking of Margo and Algorithm. I started 1018 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 3: watching this show, Missus Davis, Marco Algorithm. She should be 1019 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 3: the algorithm. Have you heard of the show, Missus Davis. 1020 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,760 Speaker 3: It's about a nun fighting an algorithm. 1021 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 4: Oh, I really want to watch that with Betty Gilben, 1022 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 4: who I love. 1023 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 3: Oh, she's incredible. She's so good in it. I mean, 1024 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 3: she's truly outstanding. 1025 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 4: I think it just it started a couple days ago, 1026 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 4: right like it finally? 1027 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I haven't. I've been. I mean I can't 1028 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,319 Speaker 3: completely recommend it yet because I barely watch it. But 1029 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 3: I'm having a good time. She's in a watch things now. 1030 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 3: You know, you don't have to deserve that. And I'm 1031 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 3: in my not danging anything era just getting a taste here. 1032 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,960 Speaker 4: I still love your taste. Are you are you sober? 1033 00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:59,840 Speaker 4: Because this is not even like a sober person who's 1034 00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,960 Speaker 4: like edging on relapse. No, no, I just go there 1035 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:03,760 Speaker 4: for a little taste. 1036 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 3: I'm fine. I don't need to call anyone. I'm permanently sober. 1037 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,839 Speaker 3: Richard Weineger is permanently sober. So I guess maybe that's 1038 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,799 Speaker 3: my problem, that's what's going on. I don't know, but 1039 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,839 Speaker 3: uh yeah, I mean Margot Martindale's there. She's a nun. 1040 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,360 Speaker 3: So many nuns. We love a non costume. 1041 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think it's isn't it like the isn't 1042 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 4: that the guy who did lost? 1043 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:25,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1044 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I really want to watch it. I've literally just 1045 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,359 Speaker 4: been on tour. But I but I very dorkily put 1046 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:35,440 Speaker 4: it in my calendar for get a minute. I should 1047 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 4: do that with I do that with TV shows that 1048 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:41,919 Speaker 4: I'm really excited about. Drops on this date, Lane, don't 1049 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 4: forget it. I'm like, and then and then I don't. 1050 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 4: But then what's so funny is sometimes the date will 1051 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:53,000 Speaker 4: come and I'll be like, I'm tired, but then but 1052 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,319 Speaker 4: then very diligent, I will move it a week out. 1053 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 3: Oh very nice. I love a push. I love push this, 1054 00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 3: dismiss nudge. I love a remind me about the email. 1055 00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 3: Anything that I can just push things into the future. 1056 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,319 Speaker 3: I'll do it not in the moon. 1057 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,920 Speaker 4: Don't have it to give, even though it's literally just 1058 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 4: watching a television show. But I'm like, cannot focus on 1059 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 4: that at this time. And also, it takes a lot 1060 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,359 Speaker 4: for me to start a new show. 1061 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:18,840 Speaker 3: I mean, it's an investment. 1062 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,880 Speaker 4: It's an investment. I gotta know, watch of new people, 1063 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 4: even though I know I'm gonna like them, but I 1064 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:27,200 Speaker 4: gotta watch Betty Gilben and be like, this isn't Glow, 1065 00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:29,800 Speaker 4: And then I remember that Glow should have had more time, 1066 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 4: and then I'm off on that tangent, and then I'm like, 1067 00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 4: I want to rewatch Glow like it's uh my, adhd 1068 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:36,280 Speaker 4: is wild? 1069 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 3: Do you have a current show you're loving? 1070 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,720 Speaker 4: A current show is in one? I'm not rewatching either. 1071 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 3: Okay. 1072 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 4: I am kind of between shows right now, which is 1073 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:46,880 Speaker 4: the darkest space. 1074 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 3: Writing that's being between shows books. It makes me panic. 1075 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 4: It makes me really really feel like I don't have 1076 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:53,759 Speaker 4: a safe place to. 1077 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 3: No because you're you're flailing, you're grabbing, there's nowhere to go. Yeah, 1078 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:03,360 Speaker 3: you feel u lost, you feel scared. It feel really scared. 1079 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 4: And then sometimes you try to go back to one 1080 00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 4: that you recently rewatched a whole bunch and then you're like, 1081 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,400 Speaker 4: I can't do this again. This doesn't feel right, like 1082 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 4: it takes it like it feels very serious to be 1083 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,160 Speaker 4: in my mind. But I have been Oh, I am 1084 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,839 Speaker 4: watching Oh what is it called, uh, jury Duty? 1085 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,800 Speaker 3: Have you seen jury Oh? I've seen the first episode. 1086 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 3: I've really had a good time. I'm so. 1087 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:25,040 Speaker 4: One of the things on my calendar that I had 1088 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 4: to push because I was traveling was the the finale. 1089 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,279 Speaker 4: I watched all episodes except for the finale because the 1090 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 4: finale just aired like a couple of days ago. 1091 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 3: Oh, so they put all the episodes up and then 1092 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 3: made you white except for one interest, which. 1093 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 4: I thought was interesting because I was like, oh, that's 1094 00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,239 Speaker 4: actually that is how I want to watch it. But 1095 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,640 Speaker 4: I did like it. It is weird, it's surprisingly funny. And 1096 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 4: then when I looked at like who was behind it, 1097 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, okay. 1098 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a it's a it seems like a fun experiment. 1099 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,240 Speaker 4: It was, but it was like, it's a very strange 1100 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 4: show to watch. But James Marsden is like so unbelievably 1101 00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,800 Speaker 4: funny on it, very very funny, and he's like pretty 1102 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,400 Speaker 4: much improvising everything, and like, how are you this funny 1103 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,920 Speaker 4: incredible James Marsden. I just wouldn't have thought that, Like, 1104 00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 4: I mean, he's very funny on rolls, but like plenty 1105 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,720 Speaker 4: of comedic actors are like very funny in their roles, 1106 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 4: but like kind of quiet or whatever. 1107 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 3: But I was just like, he's outstanding, and he's outstanding. 1108 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 3: I mean, for the listener, describe what the show is 1109 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,960 Speaker 3: really quick, because it's kind of confusing. 1110 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 4: It's a little confusing. So it's like, basically it's jury duty. 1111 00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,719 Speaker 4: Everyone on the jury is an actor except for this 1112 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 4: one guy, so it's basically just and. 1113 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 3: Then and he doesn't know. 1114 00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 4: He doesn't know that that everybody else is an actor, 1115 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 4: and I didn't know what to expect, Like I didn't 1116 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,400 Speaker 4: really know. And then at first I was like, oh, 1117 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 4: is this all rehearsed? Because when I was like kind 1118 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,719 Speaker 4: of hate stuff like that, it's just like like in 1119 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:42,279 Speaker 4: my head, I. 1120 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,080 Speaker 3: Was boring to watch. 1121 00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 4: He's so boring to watch, and so I kind of 1122 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 4: thought it was maybe gonna be like that. I'm like, oh, 1123 00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 4: I don't want to see like a like a prank 1124 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 4: show or something that's. 1125 00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 3: Like this poor guy. 1126 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,319 Speaker 4: But it really wasn't like that right, And then when 1127 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 4: I realized that, I was like, oh, because you're interacting 1128 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 4: with somebody who can do or say anything, you don't know. 1129 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 3: What they're gonna say. Got to be on your toes. 1130 00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:04,320 Speaker 4: It actually like is more improvised. So that's interesting. 1131 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,400 Speaker 3: It's a fun little show. It's it's more fun than 1132 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:11,680 Speaker 3: either of us. Yes, yes, I think we should play 1133 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,279 Speaker 3: a game. Yeah, let's do it. We're gonna play a 1134 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,239 Speaker 3: game called Gift Master. I need a number between one 1135 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,080 Speaker 3: and ten from you too. Okay, I have to do 1136 00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 3: some light calculating. So you have the mic. You can promote, recommend, 1137 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 3: do truly whatever you want with a microphone. Be responsible. 1138 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,040 Speaker 3: You have some power here. I'll be right back. 1139 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 4: Okay, well, uh, I have My second book is out. 1140 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,359 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm talking to a room full of 1141 00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 4: no one, but I know there are real people out there. 1142 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 3: I feel like you've. 1143 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:43,400 Speaker 4: Left me in a room alone to talk about my 1144 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 4: new book to myself. But I can do it. My 1145 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,760 Speaker 4: second book is out. It's called You Will Find Your People. 1146 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 4: It's about how to make meaningful friendships as an adult, 1147 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,000 Speaker 4: which is my hell. 1148 00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 3: It's it can be really, really horrible. And painful. 1149 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 4: So it's all about how to make friends and maintain 1150 00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 4: relationships and actually have better friendships and get rid of 1151 00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 4: toxic friendships if you need to, and break up with friends, 1152 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,920 Speaker 4: and how to grieve a friend break up and just 1153 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:19,360 Speaker 4: all of those things. And uh, I do a comedy 1154 00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 4: show called Tinder Live that is very funny and goes 1155 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 4: on tour and makes fun of horrible dating app profiles. 1156 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 3: You did a perfect job. Thank you, you got it in. 1157 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,800 Speaker 3: You got perfect. I have no no notes, no notes whatsoever. 1158 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 3: And we're ready to play the game. Now. This is 1159 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:36,280 Speaker 3: how you play gift Master. I'm gonna name three gifts, 1160 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,120 Speaker 3: three things you can give away, and then three celebrities. 1161 00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,319 Speaker 3: You're gonna tell me which gift you're going to give 1162 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,279 Speaker 3: which celebrity and why that makes sense? 1163 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:43,520 Speaker 2: Right? 1164 00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 3: Yes it does? Okay, these are the gifts you'll be 1165 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 3: giving away today. Number one is a terrarium. Nice. Everybody 1166 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:50,280 Speaker 3: loves a terrarium. 1167 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 4: See can you say I'm obsessed with plans? 1168 00:50:52,719 --> 00:51:00,799 Speaker 3: One wonders, Well, this was randomly picked, and there's an 1169 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,720 Speaker 3: interesting one coming up that's barely tied to this episode, 1170 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,279 Speaker 3: but it is interesting. Uh. Number two, the second gift 1171 00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 3: is a bottle of Centrum silver. So that's a vitamin. 1172 00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:14,439 Speaker 3: I think they're for people over fifty. Oh, vitamin for 1173 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,280 Speaker 3: you know your gold. I was thinking of Selson blue. 1174 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 3: What Seltzon blue? Dandriff shampoo? 1175 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,320 Speaker 4: I was thinking about which also my people over fifty, 1176 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:22,800 Speaker 4: I'm sure. 1177 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:23,760 Speaker 3: I don't everybody gets standard. 1178 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,960 Speaker 4: It's fine, okay, So so what is. 1179 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:32,920 Speaker 3: This so far? Uh? Bottle of Centrum silver. You're paid 1180 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 3: by the Standrift company. I wish call me actually, please don't. 1181 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:39,320 Speaker 3: Can you imagine? 1182 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 4: I'm like, I love my Dandriff, but sometimes I don't 1183 00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 4: want it. 1184 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 3: Dan Drift positive. Uh no, this is a bottle of 1185 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,239 Speaker 3: Centrum silver. It's a multi vitamin. I believe. Yes, once 1186 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,399 Speaker 3: you hit fifty you've got to get apparently some other 1187 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:58,360 Speaker 3: vitamins in your body. I don't know how it works. 1188 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,640 Speaker 3: And number three is horrible news. You're gonna be giving 1189 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:06,319 Speaker 3: them horrible news. Yeah, that's not great. These are the 1190 00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 3: three celebrities. Number one is Kurt Russell Off Kurt Russell. 1191 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,400 Speaker 3: Number two Octavia Spencer terrific. Number three this is the 1192 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 3: weird one, Keith Urban. We were just talking about Nicole. 1193 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:17,680 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, this. 1194 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 3: Feels like some magic. So what would you. 1195 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 4: Do Octavia Spencer gets the terrarium like she deserves it. 1196 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,200 Speaker 4: I think that's a very obvious. 1197 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:29,200 Speaker 3: One, simply because she deserves it. I think she'd like it. 1198 00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,280 Speaker 4: It's like really nice. 1199 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,440 Speaker 3: It is nice, but it is a responsibility. How much 1200 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 3: taken care of you? 1201 00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 4: Not really though, I wouldn't feel like I was like 1202 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,560 Speaker 4: giving her a chore, like I feel like you just 1203 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 4: like take a water bongle like sometimes. Yeah, I guess 1204 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,399 Speaker 4: it was a realistic spray bottle noise anyone's ever done 1205 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:47,839 Speaker 4: in this show. 1206 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 3: I'm willing to bet well every episode I say, what 1207 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 3: is your spray bottle noise? I'm giving you the. 1208 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,440 Speaker 4: Opportunity, wen you listen to them all back and let 1209 00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:56,719 Speaker 4: me know. 1210 00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 3: I guess. Yeah, I guess arium is not a huge 1211 00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 3: it's so I think that's good. 1212 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 4: So it's not like I'm like I would be giving 1213 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 4: her like a plant that like is requiring her undivided attention, 1214 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,360 Speaker 4: has to like hire an assistant to take care of 1215 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 4: this plant. I would feel bad about that, right, but 1216 00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,480 Speaker 4: also like giving her like centrum silver, like I don't 1217 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 4: know how old she is, but that feels like insulting, right, 1218 00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,279 Speaker 4: it feels really weird to be like keep your bones good, 1219 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:21,880 Speaker 4: Like what that's really rude to say? OKTV a spencer 1220 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:23,840 Speaker 4: and then the other one don't want to give her 1221 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:27,840 Speaker 4: horrible news. It's like, you know it's fine, no, no, yeah, 1222 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:28,799 Speaker 4: So then who were. 1223 00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 1: The other ones? 1224 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 3: Russell and Keith Urban, two of our favorite k's. 1225 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:37,680 Speaker 4: Okay, yes, I know exactly what I would do. Kur 1226 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 4: Russell is getting what is it, centrum silver. 1227 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 3: Yes, centrum silver. He's getting it. 1228 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 4: And here's why, because there's no way he would take it, 1229 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,360 Speaker 4: like because I'm sure he's on like space vitamins. You know, 1230 00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:51,160 Speaker 4: I'm sure he's on like like the finest vitamins, money goodbye, 1231 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,759 Speaker 4: like they all like somebody's always are. 1232 00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,120 Speaker 3: I feel like he's on the truck driver diet. He's 1233 00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:56,279 Speaker 3: tough as nails. 1234 00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 4: Maybe, but I but the reason I would be excited 1235 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:00,440 Speaker 4: to give it him is I feel like it'd be 1236 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:01,680 Speaker 4: really gracious when he got it. 1237 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 3: I feel like because what. 1238 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,239 Speaker 4: I'm imagining is like it's like after like a Q 1239 00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,439 Speaker 4: and A or something like or like meeting or maybe 1240 00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:08,719 Speaker 4: like I'm working on a film set with him and 1241 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:10,400 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, so working so good, working 1242 00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:12,760 Speaker 4: with you and then I just hand him this bottle 1243 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,319 Speaker 4: of vitamins, and I feel like he'd look at them, 1244 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 4: he'd shake them and he'd be like and he'd be 1245 00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,920 Speaker 4: like thank you Lane hmm. Like he would just be 1246 00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:21,600 Speaker 4: like realized about it. He wouldn't like make a big 1247 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,239 Speaker 4: thing about it. He wouldn't be like what are these? 1248 00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,279 Speaker 4: He would like ask all up questions. He'd just be like, well, 1249 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,440 Speaker 4: thank you, and he'd just like move it along. And 1250 00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,000 Speaker 4: then the reason I want to give Keith Urban bad news, 1251 00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:33,880 Speaker 4: I feel like he's like such a happy dude like that. 1252 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 4: Don't mean like I want to like ruin his life. 1253 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,560 Speaker 3: I feel like he'd be okay, oh interesting, he can 1254 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 3: handle it, or like he just the scale is sol. 1255 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,840 Speaker 4: Seems a little bit more put upon, doesn't. 1256 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 3: He he's been through I mean, I don't know. 1257 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 4: Because I think I think Keith Urban is like an 1258 00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,440 Speaker 4: I think he struggled with addiction. It's not that like 1259 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,239 Speaker 4: there's a good person to give bad news to you, 1260 00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,239 Speaker 4: But I feel like Kurt Russell, I don't know, he's 1261 00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 4: always looks a little sad and Keith always. 1262 00:54:56,280 --> 00:55:00,319 Speaker 3: Got to real happy, Like Keith Urban's Australian. Is that true? Yeah? 1263 00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,880 Speaker 3: And I feel like Australians are naturally happy people, just 1264 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:03,479 Speaker 3: naturally happier. 1265 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,759 Speaker 4: You're marriageing Nicole Kidman, Your life's fine. You got a lot, 1266 00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 4: a lots a lot's going on. 1267 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 3: You don't hear that screeching car? Oh yeah, wow, someone's 1268 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 3: in danger. That was upsetting. 1269 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 2: Oh. 1270 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:17,400 Speaker 4: Also on my drive here, we like straight we straight 1271 00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,800 Speaker 4: up heard somebody like get into like a horrible accident. 1272 00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:20,960 Speaker 4: We just like kept driving and I was like, the 1273 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:24,680 Speaker 4: city is wild, like we just heard Like I was like, 1274 00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,120 Speaker 4: is that just what driving is here? You just like 1275 00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:28,400 Speaker 4: hear people die and you're. 1276 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 3: Like, I have a meeting in five I have a 1277 00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,919 Speaker 3: lunch to get to. Yeah, well, I think that's beautifully played. 1278 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,360 Speaker 3: I really like the idea of going up to a 1279 00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 3: celebrity post Q and A and saying, here's a bottom 1280 00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:40,919 Speaker 3: of it sounds dangerous. 1281 00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,080 Speaker 4: You know, well, I think I think it's better to 1282 00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 4: say that, like if we were working together in some way, 1283 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,280 Speaker 4: because otherwise it just sounds like you like put arsenic 1284 00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 4: on everyone, like. 1285 00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:53,800 Speaker 3: The tailant all killer. Do you remember that? No? But 1286 00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,799 Speaker 3: but I vaguely I remember that it was a thing. 1287 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 4: Right, we have the caps right? Yes, as far as 1288 00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 4: I know that's another That's another thing that I learned 1289 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,600 Speaker 4: at like two am or I was just like I 1290 00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,120 Speaker 4: saw one thing and it led me to the tilt 1291 00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 4: all color. 1292 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:09,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a real two am discovery and not a 1293 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 3: great one to find. 1294 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 4: Not a great one, hell yeah, because it's like, weren't 1295 00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 4: like kids killed or something, and you're like, oh, this 1296 00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,799 Speaker 4: gets darker and darker anyway, time for bed, Like it's 1297 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,400 Speaker 4: always right before bed, and then I have the worst 1298 00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 4: dreams I've ever had in my life. 1299 00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:27,920 Speaker 3: Because that's how I'm winding down well, beautifully truly, beautifully played. 1300 00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,560 Speaker 3: This is the last segment of the podcast. It's called 1301 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,520 Speaker 3: I said no emails. People are writing into I Said 1302 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:39,080 Speaker 3: no gifts at gmail dot com. My listeners there, you know, 1303 00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,360 Speaker 3: their lives have have texture. We'll say that I'm gonna 1304 00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,239 Speaker 3: take it easy on them. They've got, you know, some 1305 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,080 Speaker 3: rough patches that they're dealing with, and they're Kurt Russ. 1306 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,680 Speaker 3: They're Kurt Russell's. They are not Keith Urbans. We've got 1307 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,480 Speaker 3: a whole thousands and thousands of Kurt Russell's writing in 1308 00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,400 Speaker 3: every day and. 1309 00:56:55,960 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 4: We're giving them all center of silver. However, you're welcome. 1310 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 3: They're asking questions. They need help. Will you help me 1311 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,960 Speaker 3: answer a question? Okay, let's get into it here. We're 1312 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,120 Speaker 3: opening the dark. Could it be creative? Like Tomorrow Morning? 1313 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 4: Page six is like the new sponsor firsts whatever. The 1314 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,240 Speaker 4: centrum silver is Laine Moore and I'm like, what, No, 1315 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:20,920 Speaker 4: I like, rigged it so it came up? 1316 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 3: I would be you know what it was? 1317 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:27,160 Speaker 4: Wow, she's a genius. 1318 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:32,960 Speaker 3: Okay, this says deer Bridger and redacted guest. Okay, so 1319 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 3: that you. I'm writing on behalf of my friend, whose 1320 00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:39,800 Speaker 3: boyfriend is a terrible gift giver. In the two years 1321 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,040 Speaker 3: they've been dating, he has gifted her a sun hat 1322 00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,400 Speaker 3: fit for an old woman. Okay, well, I don't know. 1323 00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 3: I feel like sun hats are for everybody, and made 1324 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:50,200 Speaker 3: a weird custom T shirt of an inside joke. Though 1325 00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:53,720 Speaker 3: she accepted each gift graciously, on both occasions, my friend 1326 00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:57,040 Speaker 3: said privately to me, I'll never wear this. This year, 1327 00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 3: for his birthday, she got him an air fryer. She 1328 00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:03,880 Speaker 3: loves food, and everyone knows she loves their air fryer. Okay, 1329 00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,439 Speaker 3: but when she gave it to her boyfriend, he kept 1330 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 3: making very odd jokes about what a boring gift. 1331 00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:09,120 Speaker 2: It is. 1332 00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,760 Speaker 3: The jokes really bothered my friend, and when the boyfriend 1333 00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 3: asked what was wrong, she cried and told him his 1334 00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:17,920 Speaker 3: response had hurt her feelings. My friend is very serious 1335 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,720 Speaker 3: about this boyfriend, and the two are planning to get engaged. 1336 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,640 Speaker 3: I don't think it's fair that she's possibly facing a 1337 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,520 Speaker 3: lifetime of getting bad gifts from him and disguising her 1338 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 3: true feelings while he blatantly makes her feel bad for 1339 00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,280 Speaker 3: the gifts she gives. Do you think I should point 1340 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,000 Speaker 3: out this imbalance? Should my friend feel empowered to say 1341 00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:36,880 Speaker 3: something to him when she doesn't like the gifts he 1342 00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,840 Speaker 3: gives her? Thank you kindly? And that's Katie in New Jersey. 1343 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,160 Speaker 3: What a situation this friend is in. 1344 00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,720 Speaker 4: I'm really upset by this relationship. I mean, this doesn't 1345 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:46,320 Speaker 4: sound good. 1346 00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:47,600 Speaker 3: This is Splitsville. 1347 00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I literally the first thing I thought before I 1348 00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,480 Speaker 4: even heard about the freaking wedding. 1349 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:53,520 Speaker 3: Oh God, can you imagine? 1350 00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,880 Speaker 4: And there's was a good gift at the wedding. Hell though, 1351 00:58:56,760 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 4: imagine the God registry registry. I guess though they're gonna 1352 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 4: have to have separate registries. But the first thing I 1353 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 4: thought before they even mentioned all of the wedding stuff 1354 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,720 Speaker 4: was like, do these people know relationships are voluntary? No 1355 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,200 Speaker 4: one's making you be with this person. You're not like 1356 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:13,200 Speaker 4: stuck with them. You weren't like a sign like I'm 1357 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,320 Speaker 4: assuming you know it's it's not like an arranged marriage, 1358 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 4: Like I don't think it is. 1359 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 3: They would have said that. 1360 00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,960 Speaker 4: But like you can leave them and fite the more 1361 00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 4: compatable because it doesn't sound like it's like a miscommunication. 1362 00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,440 Speaker 4: It's like they're both like, I hate your gifts. Ha ha, 1363 00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:30,880 Speaker 4: They're awful. 1364 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:31,280 Speaker 3: Haha. 1365 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,240 Speaker 4: I'm miserable. I'm crying now, ha ha. Let's get buried. 1366 00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,680 Speaker 4: Like I don't understand these people. I really know among set. 1367 00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:40,040 Speaker 3: Two years in and he's gotten her only gifts you 1368 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 3: can buy at the boardwalk. That feels bad to me. 1369 00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 4: He made fun of like the thing that she I. 1370 00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,120 Speaker 3: Know, which is a great everybody loves an air frier. 1371 00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 3: I don't own one. I should get one because she 1372 00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:55,200 Speaker 3: loves it. Why do you care? I don't. If he 1373 00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,040 Speaker 3: doesn't know that she loves air friars, then he's not 1374 00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:02,720 Speaker 3: listening attention to her. It's really upset. I hate you know. 1375 01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,240 Speaker 3: I rarely use the word well, actually I use it 1376 01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:09,560 Speaker 3: probably every four hours. I hate this soon to be 1377 01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:12,360 Speaker 3: a fiance I do too. I don't like this. She 1378 01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:13,560 Speaker 3: sounds really unhappy. 1379 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,800 Speaker 4: And also the tough thing is in the situation like 1380 01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:17,920 Speaker 4: this is you can't even really say, like, I have 1381 01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 4: some concerns about this, because there's no way she doesn't 1382 01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:20,360 Speaker 4: have them. 1383 01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no way. She's she's feeling. 1384 01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 4: Also, literally this, this friend whoever they are like, tried 1385 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 4: to bring it up and she started crying. 1386 01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,400 Speaker 3: Well, let's see, is that what it was? The boyfriend 1387 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,360 Speaker 3: asked what was wrong? So the friend is not approach 1388 01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 3: The friend is wondering do I approach? I think the 1389 01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:41,200 Speaker 3: friend maybe mildly hints or cheats with the boyfriend and 1390 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:41,800 Speaker 3: then revealed. 1391 01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 4: I mean, I guess if you look at it this way, 1392 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:48,880 Speaker 4: if the friend hasn't approached it, it's so tough when 1393 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,080 Speaker 4: somebody's like straight up getting married. If they're like on 1394 01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:52,920 Speaker 4: the fence, then it's a lot easier to be like 1395 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:55,680 Speaker 4: my two sons, this isn't making you happy, But if 1396 01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:56,600 Speaker 4: somebody's getting. 1397 01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,400 Speaker 3: Married, it feels a lot weirder. Who knows. 1398 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,760 Speaker 4: Maybe it's one of those like romantic many weddings where 1399 01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,920 Speaker 4: it's like even when they're at the altar, they're just 1400 01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 4: like I don't want to do this, and then you're 1401 01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 4: actually like saving your friend's life. So I mean, I 1402 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:09,360 Speaker 4: think there might be a way to kind of do 1403 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,280 Speaker 4: it in a in a nice way where you're like, 1404 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 4: I don't know how serious you want this answer to be, 1405 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:17,480 Speaker 4: I'm giving it, but I mean I think you could 1406 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 4: do a like you're probably like I'm sure you're really happy, 1407 01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 4: like you seem really happy. 1408 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:22,720 Speaker 3: Whether that's true or not, I don't know. 1409 01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,120 Speaker 4: Or you could just say look, actually you could say 1410 01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 4: because they don't seem really happy, so why don't want them? 1411 01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 4: But just saying something like hey, like sometimes I feel 1412 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,240 Speaker 4: like this person makes you kind of unhappy, Like how 1413 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:34,480 Speaker 4: do you feel about that? I want you to know, 1414 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,040 Speaker 4: like I've seen it too, like no judgment, Like I 1415 01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:37,800 Speaker 4: want you to be happy. 1416 01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:38,160 Speaker 1: That's it. 1417 01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:41,080 Speaker 4: I think that's just like leaving a door open, because 1418 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:44,240 Speaker 4: sometimes when you're in a bad relationship, you almost want 1419 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:44,880 Speaker 4: somebody else to. 1420 01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 3: Come in and be like is this good validation? Yeah, 1421 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:49,000 Speaker 3: because she could. 1422 01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 4: Be sitting there being like it's fine, it's fine. 1423 01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:56,000 Speaker 3: Boyfriend buys them crappy gifts and that's not no, no, no, no, 1424 01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:58,919 Speaker 3: they should be. I mean, well, I mean, you don't 1425 01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 3: have to give good gift. Some people are bad at giving. 1426 01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 3: But this guy sucks. Let's be honest. 1427 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I don't. I don't like that. I don't 1428 01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:07,160 Speaker 4: like the dynamic. 1429 01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,959 Speaker 3: I really like it. And also, like you were pointing 1430 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,640 Speaker 3: out the wedding, nobody ever takes advantage of the speak 1431 01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,520 Speaker 3: now or forever hold your peace. I mean, if you 1432 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 3: want to wait at the wedding, you want, that might 1433 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:24,240 Speaker 3: be the greatest gift you could give her wedding. Yeah, exactly. 1434 01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 4: Everyone at the wedding is like, yeah, we were not. 1435 01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:29,720 Speaker 3: Here for this, that would be amazing. And then it 1436 01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:32,560 Speaker 3: becomes a party by the guy's like kicked out. I 1437 01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,760 Speaker 3: don't know, want to carry him out and throw him 1438 01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:36,880 Speaker 3: in a river or something, burn him at the stake. Yeah, 1439 01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 3: I mean the I mean, the possibilities are truly endless here. Yeah. Okay, uh, Katie, 1440 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,520 Speaker 3: you have your answer. We've done it perfectly. I think 1441 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 3: we've I mean we've improved a new jersey. Yeah, just 1442 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,520 Speaker 3: by answering an email. That's the power of podcast cancel 1443 01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,400 Speaker 3: a week a wedding. I guess it's incredible. We've made 1444 01:02:57,440 --> 01:03:04,280 Speaker 3: some wedding planner furious exactly. Uh, wonderful, Katie. Goodbye. Okay, 1445 01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,680 Speaker 3: Now I have my tattoos. I'm so excited. I'll put 1446 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,600 Speaker 3: them on for the Instagram several weeks from now. Yes, 1447 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,080 Speaker 3: but I'm very I'm looking forward to it. It's a 1448 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,880 Speaker 3: little again, a little taste. I'm loving tastes. 1449 01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,120 Speaker 4: I think that's what's nice about temporary tattoos. It literally 1450 01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,240 Speaker 4: is now I think about it, a little taste. Yeah, 1451 01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 4: you got a little thing on your hand or your 1452 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 4: body or wherever you want to put it. 1453 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 3: I don't care. And then and then and then it's 1454 01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 3: gone whenever you want it to be gone. Hi. Uh, 1455 01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,960 Speaker 3: you saw me, You saw me from a mile away, 1456 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:35,840 Speaker 3: and you came to the podcast and really changed my life. 1457 01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 3: I'm so glad. That's what I like to do on 1458 01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:42,800 Speaker 3: every podcast. It's radically change the Who and then I 1459 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 3: was I ever real? We don't know. Was she an angel? 1460 01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,000 Speaker 3: We're not sure. Do not ask her on your podcast 1461 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,600 Speaker 3: unless you want things to shift in a big way. Laine, 1462 01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:53,200 Speaker 3: thank you for being here and thank you for bringing 1463 01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 3: the dog. 1464 01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:57,040 Speaker 4: Yes, thank you for having me, and you're welcome radically 1465 01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:57,919 Speaker 4: changing your life? 1466 01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:02,560 Speaker 3: Uh, listener, the podcast. As you know, if you've been listening, 1467 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,400 Speaker 3: and I hope you have, you may have drifted off. 1468 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 3: I don't know, you may have fallen asleep. There's no 1469 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:10,040 Speaker 3: telling with you. The podcast is over. It's time to 1470 01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:17,320 Speaker 3: do whatever you want. Get going. I love you, goodbye, 1471 01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:21,840 Speaker 3: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. It's 1472 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:25,400 Speaker 3: produced by our dear friend Annalise Nilson, and it's beautifully 1473 01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,720 Speaker 3: mixed by Leona Squilatchi. And we couldn't do it without 1474 01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:32,880 Speaker 3: our guest booker, Patrick Kottner. The theme song, of course, 1475 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:37,320 Speaker 3: could only come from miracle worker Amy Mann. You must 1476 01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:40,280 Speaker 3: follow the show on Instagram. At I said no Gifts, 1477 01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 3: I don't want to hear any excuses. That's where you 1478 01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,040 Speaker 3: get to see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. 1479 01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:46,840 Speaker 3: And don't you want to see pictures of the gifts? 1480 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 4: And I invit? 1481 01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:57,200 Speaker 1: Did you hear thun a man myself perfectly clear? When 1482 01:04:57,280 --> 01:05:02,160 Speaker 1: you're a guest to merha m hmm, you gotta come 1483 01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:08,000 Speaker 1: to me empty And I said, no, guest, your own 1484 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,200 Speaker 1: presence is presents enough. 1485 01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 2: I already had too much stuff, So how do you 1486 01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:18,280 Speaker 2: dare to surbey me