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Speaker 2: The second Date of day.
Speaker 4: It's more and more popular nowadays to go to restaurants
Speaker 4: and food spots that do shared tables.
Speaker 3: The community tables, you know, like the big long ones
Speaker 3: at the end.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: The upside to that is you might meet somebody interesting
Speaker 4: sitting at your table. The downside is you're sharing napkins.
Speaker 4: It's wiping past. That's my experience, and I'm just hoping
Speaker 4: I'm not fourth in line for the community nap.
Speaker 3: He's stealing other people's.
Speaker 2: I think, Okay, that's the way forward.
Speaker 4: But the only reason that I even bring it up
Speaker 4: is because one of our listeners says she met a
Speaker 4: guy while sitting at a shared table. Her name is Donna.
Speaker 4: That's cute, Donna. Do you have to share napkins at
Speaker 4: the table like I do?
Speaker 5: No? I didn't share any Okay.
Speaker 2: Just sharing a straw past.
Speaker 3: There was probably conversation, Jeff. That's probably all she shared, right, Donna.
Speaker 5: Yep, that's pretty much it.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good start.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I definitely need to know where this place
Speaker 4: is that had your community tables, because I'm going to
Speaker 4: the wrong spots.
Speaker 2: Where did you you.
Speaker 3: Are so unsanitary?
Speaker 5: Jeff?
Speaker 2: Where did you go?
Speaker 5: It was a food festival.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you met like a picnic table sitting down?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, a fold out table sharing too.
Speaker 2: And who was this guy that you met?
Speaker 6: Eric? Eric?
Speaker 2: Okay? You was Eric eating? Does that would draw you
Speaker 2: to him?
Speaker 3: Is that how you struck up conversation?
Speaker 2: God, look at that guy.
Speaker 3: I only date guys who eat euros.
Speaker 4: Can I get that napkin when you're done? By the way, Jeff,
Speaker 4: how did you meet him?
Speaker 5: Oh? He was actually a beer garden.
Speaker 4: Okay, it's a little bit easier to meet somebody there.
Speaker 2: How did you do it?
Speaker 5: We were trying to like figure out where to sit down,
Speaker 5: and so he had a little picnic table and it
Speaker 5: was just kind of him and for friends. So it
Speaker 5: was just kind of this nice, like perfect two guys
Speaker 5: to go hang out at a picnic table kind of thing.
Speaker 3: Cool.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how long did you guys hang out together?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: It was like an hour and a half, maybe because
Speaker 5: we were just kind of having a good time. Yeah,
Speaker 5: it was super natural, Like he was really funny, really
Speaker 5: genuine nice guy, and I just saw myself laughing so
Speaker 5: much because you're so goofy.
Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't call him goofy to his face, but I
Speaker 4: could see it's a positive thing to say.
Speaker 1: Was your girlfriend like hyping you up? I mean, could
Speaker 1: she tell that you were into him?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean she was like making eyes at me,
Speaker 5: like this guy really likes you, and she could totally tell.
Speaker 5: And he and I actually did agree to hang out later,
Speaker 5: like after the event.
Speaker 2: Perfect. So what did you and Eric do when you
Speaker 2: met up after the event.
Speaker 5: Well, we had already drank a lot because you're chilling
Speaker 5: in the beer garden for a while, so we don't
Speaker 5: want to drink anymore. We just walked around the city
Speaker 5: and talked. We stoppedly got some dessert. Yeah. I just
Speaker 5: really liked him.
Speaker 2: Did you or did he kiss you or anything like romantic.
Speaker 5: Appen No, no kissy stuff, no hand holding it or anything,
Speaker 5: but you felt the vibe.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So looking back now at the whole thing, what
Speaker 4: do you think the reason is that he might not
Speaker 4: be calling you back?
Speaker 2: Is there do you have any idea?
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh, why did you pause like that?
Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't don't like it.
Speaker 3: Why would you not be able to say it? Is
Speaker 3: it about you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, well, you know how this segment works, Like, you
Speaker 4: should probably be honest with us now, because if we
Speaker 4: call him and he says it and we're not prepared
Speaker 4: for that, you say you're not married, it could be
Speaker 4: embarrassing for you. So if it's going to come out anyway,
Speaker 4: you might as well tell us now.
Speaker 2: Just close your ears when you tell us so you
Speaker 2: don't hear it.
Speaker 5: It might be one of those things like maybe he
Speaker 5: doesn't know this about me or something, and then it's
Speaker 5: like I'm revealing this thing and I'm like, oh god,
Speaker 5: what if that wasn't the thing?
Speaker 2: Iury?
Speaker 1: Okay, Wait, you don't know if he knows or not.
Speaker 1: Would he be able to.
Speaker 3: Find it out on the internet? Yeah, okay, then he knows.
Speaker 2: Well I mean, well, what is it? Can we know
Speaker 2: what it is? And we won't bring it up to
Speaker 2: him unless he says it.
Speaker 5: Okay, I okay, I didn't say any of this to him,
Speaker 5: but I don't know if you found out, Like, okay,
Speaker 5: I don't even know if I could say this right now.
Speaker 3: Deep breath, you can.
Speaker 1: It's probably Honestly, like all this stuff is usually not
Speaker 1: as big of a deal as people think it is.
Speaker 3: In their heads right.
Speaker 5: Don't want my mom to be listening or something.
Speaker 3: Okay, God, we're big with moms. So kidding.
Speaker 2: A murder suspect or what's going on? Yeah, hey we are.
Speaker 3: An innocent he'll proven guilty type of show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just tell us.
Speaker 5: I'm not only can you're only fans.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you know what?
Speaker 3: I bet your mom doesn't even know what that is?
Speaker 6: I hope.
Speaker 1: So okay, Like, how like if you searched your name,
Speaker 1: would it come up?
Speaker 3: You know, because he knows your name, he could do
Speaker 3: more importantly, is like the content?
Speaker 2: Like is it?
Speaker 1: Is it?
Speaker 3: Is it something?
Speaker 2: Just asked her to send you a link?
Speaker 6: You?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: Is it pretty aggressive?
Speaker 5: It's not extremely aggressive, but it's definitely like leaning and
Speaker 5: derighted are okay?
Speaker 2: Well, some guys love that and some guys don't. It's
Speaker 2: a personality thing.
Speaker 1: And you're definitely gonna have to tell him whether whether
Speaker 1: he knows now or not.
Speaker 4: And we really appreciate you being vulnerable and coming clean
Speaker 4: about that to us. We will definitely get your information
Speaker 4: during the break for Jose's sake.
Speaker 3: But I thought I was getting their information trial.
Speaker 2: I was nicer.
Speaker 4: We're very thorough in our research whenever we do this thing.
Speaker 4: But just I'm now I'm curious, how successful are you
Speaker 4: with your only fans? Are you somebody who might be
Speaker 4: more well known?
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, yeah, I'm somewhat popular, like I I have
Speaker 5: a pretty big following.
Speaker 4: Okay, wow, well now I guess that has me curious.
Speaker 4: If you've got all these followers and all the success,
Speaker 4: then why Eric.
Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, yeah, it's a great question. I'm not
Speaker 5: on any dating apps and this happened organically, which, yeah,
Speaker 5: it was very exciting to meet him, just like face
Speaker 5: to face as strangers. It felt like a cute little
Speaker 5: meet cute, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how will you handle it if it is an
Speaker 1: issue for him?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean some guys are scared. Some
Speaker 5: guys are like way too into it. So it's like,
Speaker 5: is that the only reason why.
Speaker 4: You like me?
Speaker 2: I think I know which category we fell into.
Speaker 4: But we will not bring this up again unless Eric
Speaker 4: says it first, because we're gonna come back and call
Speaker 4: him and ask him why wouldn't he call you back
Speaker 4: after such a great, unique, genuine hangout forgetting he.
Speaker 2: May not even know about the only fan.
Speaker 1: It is so nice to have a listener, just be
Speaker 1: honest with us from the beginning.
Speaker 3: How much easier this makes our job.
Speaker 2: It did take a lot to get it out.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: Is even worse than are So we're gonna find out
Speaker 4: when we call Eric and get you your second date
Speaker 4: up date right after this hold on. Brooks said it earlier,
Speaker 4: and I think we all agree it is refreshing to
Speaker 4: have a listener actually be honest and vulnerable with us
Speaker 4: up front.
Speaker 2: For real.
Speaker 3: It makes me feel.
Speaker 1: So much less stressed going into this phone call, even
Speaker 1: though that's like a big I mean it's a big thing, yeah,
Speaker 1: but it.
Speaker 2: Feels like we're from the same page.
Speaker 4: Yes, it's good to know that information before we dial
Speaker 4: this guy. And our listener, Donna whose Jose's already searched
Speaker 4: that name fourteen times during the break she told us
Speaker 4: so many Donna's onf By the way, I know it's
Speaker 4: hard to nail it down which one she is, but
Speaker 4: she told us about her meeting with a guy named Eric.
Speaker 4: It happened organically when they were both at a food
Speaker 4: festival and they ended up bonding walking around the city
Speaker 4: together sharing desserts.
Speaker 2: Now he's not calling her back.
Speaker 1: It was such a sweet interaction. It really felt genuine.
Speaker 4: And the whole reason I bring up the honesty part
Speaker 4: is because she admitted to us that Eric may have
Speaker 4: found out that she is a successful model.
Speaker 2: On only fans.
Speaker 4: Yeah, here's the thing is we all understand that that
Speaker 4: information can tend to freak some people out, and maybe
Speaker 4: that could be the reason that Eric is avoiding her.
Speaker 1: And if he brings it up, do you want us
Speaker 1: to admit then that we already know Donna, or is
Speaker 1: that something then you just want to talk to us?
Speaker 3: Or do we lie and say that's not her?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know. Actually I feel like I would like
Speaker 5: it if I were to be the one to say
Speaker 5: it to him.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, if he knows fair online fair, if you
Speaker 1: already know, I mean, he's gonna find out eventually if
Speaker 1: you ever talk about work.
Speaker 3: It's your will.
Speaker 4: You can always keep a secret life for twenty thirty
Speaker 4: years before you have to claim about it from Yeah,
Speaker 4: so okay, he doesn't have to know all the details.
Speaker 3: But that's good advice, Jeff.
Speaker 2: It's really it's really up to you, Johnna.
Speaker 4: This is your decision. We're just gonna call Eric. We'll
Speaker 4: see if he answers the phone, and then from that
Speaker 4: point on, we're just gonna roll with it.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, beautiful, all right, here we go. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: dial his number right now. Let's do this.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hey, we're looking to talk with Eric.
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Eric Crucis alright.
Speaker 2: Hey, this is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 2: the Morning.
Speaker 3: Morning all shows here.
Speaker 2: I'm Jeffrey. I you guys want to go around the
Speaker 2: room and introduce yourself. Let's sound off. It's okay, Eric,
Speaker 2: she's the fun one.
Speaker 3: Why are you so awkward?
Speaker 2: Anyway?
Speaker 3: I want to hear him talk.
Speaker 4: We're trying to help out one of our listeners that
Speaker 4: you actually went on a date with recently. Her name's Donna.
Speaker 3: Sounded like a cute date.
Speaker 6: I guess if I had to sum it up, I
Speaker 6: would say that I just had a different impression of
Speaker 6: her on her date from when we first met at
Speaker 6: this beer garden. And I don't know how much she
Speaker 6: told you.
Speaker 4: Well, it's not much more than that, according to her,
Speaker 4: was the beer garden you went out afterwards walking around
Speaker 4: the city.
Speaker 1: I thought it was really sweet that you guys didn't
Speaker 1: drink again either, Like you shared dessert it sounds like
Speaker 1: a great conversation.
Speaker 2: I don't know how that even happens. How do you
Speaker 2: stop drinking? That was a personal comment, but.
Speaker 4: You were saying that you got a different impression from
Speaker 4: her from when you met and during the date, Like,
Speaker 4: can you explain what you meant?
Speaker 6: Yeah, she's I want to make it clear, she's a
Speaker 6: super sweet girl. She's really nice, she's really cute. And
Speaker 6: maybe it was just because it was loud at the
Speaker 6: beer garden where we were there, but she seemed a
Speaker 6: little more outgoing and a little more I don't know, wild,
Speaker 6: if that's a fair word. And when we were on
Speaker 6: our date, she just seemed really shy and a little
Speaker 6: conservative or.
Speaker 1: Can you elaborate on that conservative part? Like what made
Speaker 1: her come off that way to you?
Speaker 6: She just kind of gave off goodie goodie vibes and
Speaker 6: generally what I'm into.
Speaker 3: And you're really good at reading people.
Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, I am pretty good at reading people. And
Speaker 6: to be honest, she just seems a lot more innocent
Speaker 6: than I am.
Speaker 2: Okay, I think she's too innocent.
Speaker 3: You want like a wild woman, Yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Don't mean like wild. I'm just looking for someone who's
Speaker 6: a little more adventurous, okay.
Speaker 3: An adventures?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, there is a very adventurous woman on the
Speaker 4: other line listening in on this phone call. And I'm
Speaker 4: not sure if you could guess that girl would be Donna.
Speaker 4: No way, Oh yeah, really really Donna?
Speaker 2: Are you there?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 1: Eric?
Speaker 3: Oh my god? Are you dying on the inside?
Speaker 2: Donna?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, Hey, Donna, I didn't know you were on the
Speaker 6: other end of the line. And I don't want to
Speaker 6: seem like a jerk here, like you. You are super sweet.
Speaker 6: You're such a kind girl, and I have.
Speaker 5: No I get it. I get it, and I hear you.
Speaker 5: I literally heard everything he said.
Speaker 2: I totally get it.
Speaker 5: And maybe I you come across that way in when
Speaker 5: I want scenarios, but I'm adventurous. I do have quite
Speaker 5: an adventures wild side.
Speaker 6: I mean that, that's cool for you to say that,
Speaker 6: And again, I think you're I think you're really cool.
Speaker 6: But like, you can say that, but I don't know
Speaker 6: how I'm supposed to believe that based on the signals
Speaker 6: that I was picking up from you.
Speaker 5: You know, well, you can just trust me that I'm
Speaker 5: not as shy as I seem. I don't really meet
Speaker 5: people in person, so Yeah, it's exciting a little weird,
Speaker 5: and I obviously came off very shy, but I don't
Speaker 5: say I do have I'm experienced. I'm an experienced woman.
Speaker 2: You have to say that. I don't feel like she's
Speaker 2: not used to having to say no.
Speaker 3: But she's obviously not shy.
Speaker 1: She called a radio station and is here with us,
Speaker 1: even outside of the other stuff.
Speaker 6: I mean, it's pretty wild that you called a radio station.
Speaker 6: But again, you sound imotent to me, and you're just
Speaker 6: kind of trying to pretend to be someone you're not
Speaker 6: to please me, and that doesn't you don't need to
Speaker 6: do that.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I guess if you feel that way and
Speaker 5: you don't want to believe me or get to know
Speaker 5: me more than I guess, nice meeting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my god, I think that's a good choice. Donna.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Donna, Okay, I do too. I think she should
Speaker 4: tell him like before before he hangs up.
Speaker 1: I mean, he is so certain who she is and
Speaker 1: doesn't have an open mind to see anything else, like Donna,
Speaker 1: I'm guessing doesn't feel like he deserves that knowledge.
Speaker 4: Well, fine, but at least before we go, I have
Speaker 4: to ask Eric, would you like to go out with shy,
Speaker 4: innocent Donna one more time, and we would pay for
Speaker 4: the date.
Speaker 6: You know again, it doesn't seem like a match. I
Speaker 6: appreciate it.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 5: I mean, Eric, I think you made a mistake and
Speaker 5: maybe I'll see you online sometime.
Speaker 6: He here, Yeah, what does that mean? I wouldn't worry
Speaker 6: about it, Eric, You know what, can somebody just tell
Speaker 6: me what's going on? Not?
Speaker 4: Sorry?
Speaker 2: All right, he's gone. Sorry, Donna, we had to hang
Speaker 2: up on that guy.
Speaker 5: I am glad. I'm glad you did.
Speaker 3: Have you ever had a guy assume that about you before?
Speaker 5: I can maybe see why he maybe thought that, but
Speaker 5: like it was so crazy. They just didn't want to
Speaker 5: give me another chance.
Speaker 3: I like, how hard for it he thought?
Speaker 5: He was.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it's just crazy. I want to be there.
Speaker 1: The day he finds out what you do, it's probably
Speaker 1: the day that he listens to this podcast and it's like, all,
Speaker 1: oh my god, the mistakes that I've made.
Speaker 5: He was so sure he knew how to reach people.
Speaker 5: That was That's what got me.
Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: We're getting a lot of text in seventy five nine
Speaker 4: to two on this one. One says, I hope Eric's
Speaker 4: listening right now and realizes he missed out on the
Speaker 4: chance of a lifetime.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's right. It's really a learning moment to not
Speaker 3: judge people so.
Speaker 4: Quickly, really, you know, Yeah, don't judge a book by
Speaker 4: its cover sort of thing.
Speaker 3: I don't think it was a cover that was the problem.
Speaker 3: This is just like her attitude.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 4: Another text says I've been trying to date an only
Speaker 4: fans girl for years.
Speaker 2: That guy's an idiot.
Speaker 1: Oh man.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of other people on the text board though,
Speaker 4: going crazy because we didn't tell him and didn't say it.
Speaker 2: She never revealed what she.
Speaker 3: Does to her for any I I agree. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I thought this would be like Alexis going out with
Speaker 4: Christiano Ronaldo and just not realizing he played soccer and
Speaker 4: it's like, you're not my type.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what are you doing? Guy in the world
Speaker 2: need email the show?
Speaker 4: After we recorded that, though, and said I thought I'd
Speaker 4: just send him a screenshot as a parting gift.
Speaker 3: So she did not.
Speaker 2: I think he knows now.
Speaker 3: She's just trying to get more subscribers.
Speaker 2: Out of this. She probably did.
Speaker 4: We're hoping to get a few more subscribers. If you
Speaker 4: like the second Dates, you can always Yeah one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: We still have my shirt off.
Speaker 4: By the way, on YouTube you can find us or
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Speaker 4: and make sure. If you need help with your dating life,
Speaker 4: email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling
Speaker 4: you back.