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It's a 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:09.440 limit of time only, and let's get this show started. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.160 The second Date of day. 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:16.360 It's more and more popular nowadays to go to restaurants 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.840 and food spots that do shared tables. 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.679 The community tables, you know, like the big long ones 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:24.840 at the end. 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:26.520 Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.560 The upside to that is you might meet somebody interesting 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:35.319 sitting at your table. The downside is you're sharing napkins. 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:40.600 It's wiping past. That's my experience, and I'm just hoping 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:42.800 I'm not fourth in line for the community nap. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:47.760 He's stealing other people's. 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:50.840 I think, Okay, that's the way forward. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.640 But the only reason that I even bring it up 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.120 is because one of our listeners says she met a 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:58.600 guy while sitting at a shared table. Her name is Donna. 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.480 That's cute, Donna. Do you have to share napkins at 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:02.320 the table like I do? 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.560 No? I didn't share any Okay. 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:06.960 Just sharing a straw past. 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:11.279 There was probably conversation, Jeff. That's probably all she shared, right, Donna. 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:12.640 Yep, that's pretty much it. 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:13.919 Okay, that's a good start. 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.359 Well, yeah, I definitely need to know where this place 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:18.680 is that had your community tables, because I'm going to 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:19.480 the wrong spots. 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:20.440 Where did you you. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:23.240 Are so unsanitary? 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:23.600 Jeff? 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:24.720 Where did you go? 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:26.560 It was a food festival. 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:31.600 Okay, so you met like a picnic table sitting down? 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:35.840 Yeah yeah, yeah, a fold out table sharing too. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:37.959 And who was this guy that you met? 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.440 Eric? Eric? 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:43.120 Okay? You was Eric eating? Does that would draw you 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:43.600 to him? 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:45.240 Is that how you struck up conversation? 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.120 God, look at that guy. 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:48.920 I only date guys who eat euros. 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.560 Can I get that napkin when you're done? By the way, Jeff, 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:55.240 how did you meet him? 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:57.400 Oh? He was actually a beer garden. 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:01.960 Okay, it's a little bit easier to meet somebody there. 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:02.800 How did you do it? 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:07.040 We were trying to like figure out where to sit down, 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:09.280 and so he had a little picnic table and it 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.240 was just kind of him and for friends. So it 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:13.560 was just kind of this nice, like perfect two guys 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:16.799 to go hang out at a picnic table kind of thing. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:17.440 Cool. 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.280 Okay, So how long did you guys hang out together? 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:21.000 Oh? 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:24.000 It was like an hour and a half, maybe because 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:25.639 we were just kind of having a good time. Yeah, 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.080 it was super natural, Like he was really funny, really 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:31.440 genuine nice guy, and I just saw myself laughing so 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:32.800 much because you're so goofy. 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:34.440 Oh that's awesome. 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:36.600 Yeah, I love that. 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.840 I wouldn't call him goofy to his face, but I 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:41.240 could see it's a positive thing to say. 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.960 Was your girlfriend like hyping you up? I mean, could 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:45.720 she tell that you were into him? 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:47.920 Yeah? I mean she was like making eyes at me, 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:51.040 like this guy really likes you, and she could totally tell. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:54.640 And he and I actually did agree to hang out later, 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:56.040 like after the event. 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.320 Perfect. So what did you and Eric do when you 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:00.480 met up after the event. 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:03.080 Well, we had already drank a lot because you're chilling 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:06.040 in the beer garden for a while, so we don't 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:08.360 want to drink anymore. We just walked around the city 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:13.480 and talked. We stoppedly got some dessert. Yeah. I just 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:14.240 really liked him. 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:17.840 Did you or did he kiss you or anything like romantic. 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:21.120 Appen No, no kissy stuff, no hand holding it or anything, 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:22.640 but you felt the vibe. 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:26.440 Yeah, So looking back now at the whole thing, what 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:29.039 do you think the reason is that he might not 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:29.960 be calling you back? 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:31.280 Is there do you have any idea? 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.960 Okay, Oh, why did you pause like that? 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:44.040 I don't know, I don't don't like it. 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:47.719 Why would you not be able to say it? Is 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:48.400 it about you? 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:50.159 Yeah? 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:53.920 Okay, well, you know how this segment works, Like, you 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:57.040 should probably be honest with us now, because if we 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.640 call him and he says it and we're not prepared 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:03.120 for that, you say you're not married, it could be 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:05.760 embarrassing for you. So if it's going to come out anyway, 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:06.960 you might as well tell us now. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.039 Just close your ears when you tell us so you 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:10.120 don't hear it. 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.719 It might be one of those things like maybe he 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:15.080 doesn't know this about me or something, and then it's 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:17.640 like I'm revealing this thing and I'm like, oh god, 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:18.800 what if that wasn't the thing? 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:20.400 Iury? 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.039 Okay, Wait, you don't know if he knows or not. 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:24.200 Would he be able to. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:28.039 Find it out on the internet? Yeah, okay, then he knows. 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:33.839 Well I mean, well, what is it? Can we know 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:35.320 what it is? And we won't bring it up to 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:36.440 him unless he says it. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.520 Okay, I okay, I didn't say any of this to him, 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.719 but I don't know if you found out, Like, okay, 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.479 I don't even know if I could say this right now. 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:46.560 Deep breath, you can. 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.400 It's probably Honestly, like all this stuff is usually not 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:53.159 as big of a deal as people think it is. 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:54.000 In their heads right. 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.839 Don't want my mom to be listening or something. 0:05:57.080 --> 0:06:01.279 Okay, God, we're big with moms. So kidding. 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:07.480 A murder suspect or what's going on? Yeah, hey we are. 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.440 An innocent he'll proven guilty type of show. 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:11.080 Yeah, just tell us. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.880 I'm not only can you're only fans. 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:17.720 Okay, Okay, you know what? 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:19.359 I bet your mom doesn't even know what that is? 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:21.160 I hope. 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.840 So okay, Like, how like if you searched your name, 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:25.440 would it come up? 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:26.800 You know, because he knows your name, he could do 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:28.920 more importantly, is like the content? 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:29.920 Like is it? 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:30.160 Is it? 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.240 Is it something? 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:35.360 Just asked her to send you a link? 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:35.600 You? 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:37.279 Okay? 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:38.839 Is it pretty aggressive? 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:43.440 It's not extremely aggressive, but it's definitely like leaning and 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:45.080 derighted are okay? 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:48.720 Well, some guys love that and some guys don't. It's 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:49.680 a personality thing. 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:53.640 And you're definitely gonna have to tell him whether whether 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:54.520 he knows now or not. 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:58.320 And we really appreciate you being vulnerable and coming clean 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:01.799 about that to us. We will definitely get your information 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:03.520 during the break for Jose's sake. 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:08.240 But I thought I was getting their information trial. 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:08.680 I was nicer. 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:11.160 We're very thorough in our research whenever we do this thing. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:14.880 But just I'm now I'm curious, how successful are you 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:16.920 with your only fans? Are you somebody who might be 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:17.720 more well known? 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:22.600 Well, yeah, yeah, I'm somewhat popular, like I I have 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:23.760 a pretty big following. 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:27.760 Okay, wow, well now I guess that has me curious. 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:30.040 If you've got all these followers and all the success, 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:34.120 then why Eric. 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:36.240 It's like, yeah, yeah, it's a great question. I'm not 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:40.440 on any dating apps and this happened organically, which, yeah, 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:43.440 it was very exciting to meet him, just like face 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:46.200 to face as strangers. It felt like a cute little 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:47.080 meet cute, you know. 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:50.040 Yeah, how will you handle it if it is an 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:50.680 issue for him? 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:53.680 I don't know. I mean some guys are scared. Some 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.880 guys are like way too into it. So it's like, 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:57.239 is that the only reason why. 0:07:57.040 --> 0:07:57.480 You like me? 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:59.720 I think I know which category we fell into. 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:03.800 But we will not bring this up again unless Eric 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.000 says it first, because we're gonna come back and call 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.880 him and ask him why wouldn't he call you back 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:12.200 after such a great, unique, genuine hangout forgetting he. 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:13.600 May not even know about the only fan. 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:15.880 It is so nice to have a listener, just be 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:17.440 honest with us from the beginning. 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:21.480 How much easier this makes our job. 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:22.760 It did take a lot to get it out. 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:23.679 It doesn't matter. 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.120 Is even worse than are So we're gonna find out 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.200 when we call Eric and get you your second date 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:35.600 up date right after this hold on. Brooks said it earlier, 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:38.880 and I think we all agree it is refreshing to 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:42.880 have a listener actually be honest and vulnerable with us 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:43.640 up front. 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:44.520 For real. 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:46.719 It makes me feel. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.200 So much less stressed going into this phone call, even 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:52.320 though that's like a big I mean it's a big thing, yeah, 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:52.760 but it. 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.360 Feels like we're from the same page. 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:57.280 Yes, it's good to know that information before we dial 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:01.480 this guy. And our listener, Donna whose Jose's already searched 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.280 that name fourteen times during the break she told us 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.440 so many Donna's onf By the way, I know it's 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:09.200 hard to nail it down which one she is, but 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:12.560 she told us about her meeting with a guy named Eric. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:15.199 It happened organically when they were both at a food 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:18.040 festival and they ended up bonding walking around the city 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:19.280 together sharing desserts. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:20.560 Now he's not calling her back. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:23.880 It was such a sweet interaction. It really felt genuine. 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:25.920 And the whole reason I bring up the honesty part 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:29.240 is because she admitted to us that Eric may have 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:33.400 found out that she is a successful model. 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:34.080 On only fans. 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.319 Yeah, here's the thing is we all understand that that 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:40.520 information can tend to freak some people out, and maybe 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:43.600 that could be the reason that Eric is avoiding her. 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.960 And if he brings it up, do you want us 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:48.160 to admit then that we already know Donna, or is 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:49.960 that something then you just want to talk to us? 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:51.480 Or do we lie and say that's not her? 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:51.960 Yeah? 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:55.880 Yeah, you know. Actually I feel like I would like 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:57.240 it if I were to be the one to say 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:57.600 it to him. 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:02.240 Okay, okay, if he knows fair online fair, if you 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:03.960 already know, I mean, he's gonna find out eventually if 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:04.840 you ever talk about work. 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:06.560 It's your will. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.080 You can always keep a secret life for twenty thirty 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:13.120 years before you have to claim about it from Yeah, 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:15.440 so okay, he doesn't have to know all the details. 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:17.280 But that's good advice, Jeff. 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:19.880 It's really it's really up to you, Johnna. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:22.360 This is your decision. We're just gonna call Eric. We'll 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:24.439 see if he answers the phone, and then from that 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:26.160 point on, we're just gonna roll with it. 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:29.200 Okay, okay, beautiful, all right, here we go. I'm gonna 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:30.679 dial his number right now. Let's do this. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:39.080 Hello. 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:41.440 Hey, we're looking to talk with Eric. 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.680 Yeah, this is Eric Crucis alright. 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.120 Hey, this is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:47.559 the Morning. 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:49.880 Morning all shows here. 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:54.679 I'm Jeffrey. I you guys want to go around the 0:10:54.720 --> 0:11:03.280 room and introduce yourself. Let's sound off. It's okay, Eric, 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:07.040 she's the fun one. 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:10.120 Why are you so awkward? 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:11.160 Anyway? 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:14.240 I want to hear him talk. 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.400 We're trying to help out one of our listeners that 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:19.319 you actually went on a date with recently. Her name's Donna. 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:20.800 Sounded like a cute date. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:24.839 I guess if I had to sum it up, I 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:27.640 would say that I just had a different impression of 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:31.160 her on her date from when we first met at 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:34.240 this beer garden. And I don't know how much she 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:34.640 told you. 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:38.600 Well, it's not much more than that, according to her, 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:41.880 was the beer garden you went out afterwards walking around 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:42.280 the city. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:44.120 I thought it was really sweet that you guys didn't 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:46.880 drink again either, Like you shared dessert it sounds like 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:47.960 a great conversation. 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.439 I don't know how that even happens. How do you 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:53.520 stop drinking? That was a personal comment, but. 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:55.800 You were saying that you got a different impression from 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.280 her from when you met and during the date, Like, 0:11:58.480 --> 0:11:59.559 can you explain what you meant? 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.679 Yeah, she's I want to make it clear, she's a 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:08.920 super sweet girl. She's really nice, she's really cute. And 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:11.480 maybe it was just because it was loud at the 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:14.400 beer garden where we were there, but she seemed a 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:20.000 little more outgoing and a little more I don't know, wild, 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:23.199 if that's a fair word. And when we were on 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:28.679 our date, she just seemed really shy and a little 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:30.960 conservative or. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.199 Can you elaborate on that conservative part? Like what made 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:37.520 her come off that way to you? 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:41.280 She just kind of gave off goodie goodie vibes and 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:46.120 generally what I'm into. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:50.000 And you're really good at reading people. 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.800 Right, Yeah, I am pretty good at reading people. And 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.360 to be honest, she just seems a lot more innocent 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:56.400 than I am. 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:59.360 Okay, I think she's too innocent. 0:12:59.880 --> 0:13:02.320 You want like a wild woman, Yeah, I. 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:05.480 Don't mean like wild. I'm just looking for someone who's 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.360 a little more adventurous, okay. 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:09.840 An adventures? 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:10.160 Yeah? 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:16.319 Wow, yeah, there is a very adventurous woman on the 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:20.800 other line listening in on this phone call. And I'm 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:22.839 not sure if you could guess that girl would be Donna. 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:28.160 No way, Oh yeah, really really Donna? 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:28.480 Are you there? 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:29.400 Hi? 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:29.800 Eric? 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:35.720 Oh my god? Are you dying on the inside? 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:36.079 Donna? 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:38.040 Yeah? 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:41.800 Yeah, Hey, Donna, I didn't know you were on the 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:43.640 other end of the line. And I don't want to 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:47.200 seem like a jerk here, like you. You are super sweet. 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.760 You're such a kind girl, and I have. 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.760 No I get it. I get it, and I hear you. 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:58.000 I literally heard everything he said. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:59.160 I totally get it. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:01.679 And maybe I you come across that way in when 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:06.800 I want scenarios, but I'm adventurous. I do have quite 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:09.880 an adventures wild side. 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:13.559 I mean that, that's cool for you to say that, 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:17.160 And again, I think you're I think you're really cool. 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:19.960 But like, you can say that, but I don't know 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:22.760 how I'm supposed to believe that based on the signals 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:24.520 that I was picking up from you. 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:32.200 You know, well, you can just trust me that I'm 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:36.120 not as shy as I seem. I don't really meet 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:41.440 people in person, so Yeah, it's exciting a little weird, 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:45.680 and I obviously came off very shy, but I don't 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:52.840 say I do have I'm experienced. I'm an experienced woman. 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:58.640 You have to say that. I don't feel like she's 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:00.120 not used to having to say no. 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:01.360 But she's obviously not shy. 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.960 She called a radio station and is here with us, 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:06.960 even outside of the other stuff. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:09.600 I mean, it's pretty wild that you called a radio station. 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:14.480 But again, you sound imotent to me, and you're just 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:16.680 kind of trying to pretend to be someone you're not 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:19.680 to please me, and that doesn't you don't need to 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:20.080 do that. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:27.000 Okay, Well, I guess if you feel that way and 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.000 you don't want to believe me or get to know 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.920 me more than I guess, nice meeting. 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:36.040 Yeah, my god, I think that's a good choice. Donna. 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:44.040 Yeah, Donna, Okay, I do too. I think she should 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:46.880 tell him like before before he hangs up. 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.200 I mean, he is so certain who she is and 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:52.880 doesn't have an open mind to see anything else, like Donna, 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.320 I'm guessing doesn't feel like he deserves that knowledge. 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.680 Well, fine, but at least before we go, I have 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:00.440 to ask Eric, would you like to go out with shy, 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:03.560 innocent Donna one more time, and we would pay for 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:04.000 the date. 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:08.280 You know again, it doesn't seem like a match. I 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:08.960 appreciate it. 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:09.320 Wow. 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:12.920 I mean, Eric, I think you made a mistake and 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:15.400 maybe I'll see you online sometime. 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:24.040 He here, Yeah, what does that mean? I wouldn't worry 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:27.600 about it, Eric, You know what, can somebody just tell 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:28.960 me what's going on? Not? 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:29.600 Sorry? 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:34.000 All right, he's gone. Sorry, Donna, we had to hang 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:34.680 up on that guy. 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:37.360 I am glad. I'm glad you did. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.360 Have you ever had a guy assume that about you before? 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.240 I can maybe see why he maybe thought that, but 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:47.680 like it was so crazy. They just didn't want to 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:48.720 give me another chance. 0:16:49.240 --> 0:16:50.760 I like, how hard for it he thought? 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:51.160 He was. 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:54.160 Yeah, No, it's just crazy. I want to be there. 0:16:54.200 --> 0:16:57.040 The day he finds out what you do, it's probably 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.880 the day that he listens to this podcast and it's like, all, 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.440 oh my god, the mistakes that I've made. 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:05.000 He was so sure he knew how to reach people. 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:06.399 That was That's what got me. 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:10.399 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:13.600 We're getting a lot of text in seventy five nine 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:16.600 to two on this one. One says, I hope Eric's 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:19.639 listening right now and realizes he missed out on the 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:20.840 chance of a lifetime. 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:23.800 Yeah, it's right. It's really a learning moment to not 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:24.720 judge people so. 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:27.720 Quickly, really, you know, Yeah, don't judge a book by 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:28.679 its cover sort of thing. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:30.720 I don't think it was a cover that was the problem. 0:17:30.840 --> 0:17:31.920 This is just like her attitude. 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:32.440 Yeah yeah. 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:34.840 Another text says I've been trying to date an only 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:36.040 fans girl for years. 0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:37.320 That guy's an idiot. 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:38.760 Oh man. 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:41.439 There's a lot of other people on the text board though, 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:44.280 going crazy because we didn't tell him and didn't say it. 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:46.000