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Speaker 1: It's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. You found the

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Speaker 1: Second Date podcast. Thanks for being here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys't hide it very well.

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Speaker 1: Find Hey, and today one of our listeners kept a

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Speaker 1: big secret from her date about who she was.

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Speaker 3: We're going to get into that in just a second,

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Speaker 3: but first I got a shout.

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Speaker 1: Out Onyx because they wrote and said, I got my

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Speaker 1: merch and I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 3: I love you all so much.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm obsessed with yours, with by our merch. Hey,

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Speaker 1: and thank you so much for everyone who is tagging

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Speaker 1: us at Brooke and Jeffrey with pictures of their merch.

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Speaker 1: I know the first shipment went out, of course, merch

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Speaker 1: for a cause. We got the Second Date Update edition

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Speaker 1: and one hundred percent of proceeds go to a great charity.

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Speaker 1: It's called Convoy of Hope. So please keep supporting. And

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Speaker 1: they are so cute.

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Speaker 3: You're also going to be obsessed.

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Speaker 1: You can, of course order the The link is in

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Speaker 1: the show notes right and shirt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's important.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't want to hoodie, No, no.

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Speaker 3: No, USA, it is all right. Order today. It's a

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Speaker 3: limit of time only, and let's get this show started.

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Speaker 2: The second Date of day.

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Speaker 4: It's more and more popular nowadays to go to restaurants

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Speaker 4: and food spots that do shared tables.

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Speaker 3: The community tables, you know, like the big long ones

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Speaker 3: at the end.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: The upside to that is you might meet somebody interesting

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Speaker 4: sitting at your table. The downside is you're sharing napkins.

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Speaker 4: It's wiping past. That's my experience, and I'm just hoping

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Speaker 4: I'm not fourth in line for the community nap.

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Speaker 3: He's stealing other people's.

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Speaker 2: I think, Okay, that's the way forward.

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Speaker 4: But the only reason that I even bring it up

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Speaker 4: is because one of our listeners says she met a

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Speaker 4: guy while sitting at a shared table. Her name is Donna.

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Speaker 4: That's cute, Donna. Do you have to share napkins at

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Speaker 4: the table like I do?

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Speaker 5: No? I didn't share any Okay.

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Speaker 2: Just sharing a straw past.

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Speaker 3: There was probably conversation, Jeff. That's probably all she shared, right, Donna.

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Speaker 5: Yep, that's pretty much it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good start.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I definitely need to know where this place

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Speaker 4: is that had your community tables, because I'm going to

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Speaker 2: Where did you you.

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Speaker 3: Are so unsanitary?

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Speaker 5: Jeff?

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Speaker 2: Where did you go?

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Speaker 5: It was a food festival.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you met like a picnic table sitting down?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, a fold out table sharing too.

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Speaker 2: And who was this guy that you met?

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Speaker 6: Eric? Eric?

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Speaker 2: Okay? You was Eric eating? Does that would draw you

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Speaker 3: Is that how you struck up conversation?

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Speaker 2: God, look at that guy.

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Speaker 3: I only date guys who eat euros.

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Speaker 4: Can I get that napkin when you're done? By the way, Jeff,

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Speaker 4: how did you meet him?

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Speaker 5: Oh? He was actually a beer garden.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's a little bit easier to meet somebody there.

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Speaker 2: How did you do it?

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Speaker 5: We were trying to like figure out where to sit down,

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Speaker 5: and so he had a little picnic table and it

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Speaker 1: Okay, So how long did you guys hang out together?

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Speaker 5: It was like an hour and a half, maybe because

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't call him goofy to his face, but I

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Speaker 1: Was your girlfriend like hyping you up? I mean, could

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean she was like making eyes at me,

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Speaker 5: And he and I actually did agree to hang out later,

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Speaker 2: Perfect. So what did you and Eric do when you

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Speaker 5: Well, we had already drank a lot because you're chilling

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Speaker 2: Did you or did he kiss you or anything like romantic.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So looking back now at the whole thing, what

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Speaker 4: do you think the reason is that he might not

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Speaker 2: Is there do you have any idea?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh, why did you pause like that?

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't don't like it.

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Speaker 3: Why would you not be able to say it? Is

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, you know how this segment works, Like, you

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Speaker 4: for that, you say you're not married, it could be

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Speaker 4: embarrassing for you. So if it's going to come out anyway,

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Speaker 2: Just close your ears when you tell us so you

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Speaker 5: It might be one of those things like maybe he

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Speaker 5: what if that wasn't the thing?

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Speaker 2: Iury?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Wait, you don't know if he knows or not.

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Speaker 1: Would he be able to.

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Speaker 3: Find it out on the internet? Yeah, okay, then he knows.

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Speaker 2: Well I mean, well, what is it? Can we know

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Speaker 5: Okay, I okay, I didn't say any of this to him,

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Speaker 5: but I don't know if you found out, Like, okay,

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Speaker 5: I don't even know if I could say this right now.

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Speaker 3: Deep breath, you can.

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Speaker 1: It's probably Honestly, like all this stuff is usually not

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Speaker 3: In their heads right.

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Speaker 5: Don't want my mom to be listening or something.

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Speaker 3: Okay, God, we're big with moms. So kidding.

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Speaker 2: A murder suspect or what's going on? Yeah, hey we are.

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Speaker 3: An innocent he'll proven guilty type of show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just tell us.

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Speaker 5: I'm not only can you're only fans.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you know what?

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Speaker 3: I bet your mom doesn't even know what that is?

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Speaker 6: I hope.

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Speaker 1: So okay, Like, how like if you searched your name,

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Speaker 3: You know, because he knows your name, he could do

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Speaker 3: more importantly, is like the content?

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Speaker 2: Like is it?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 3: Is it something?

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Speaker 2: Just asked her to send you a link?

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Speaker 3: Is it pretty aggressive?

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Speaker 2: Well, some guys love that and some guys don't. It's

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Speaker 2: a personality thing.

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Speaker 1: And you're definitely gonna have to tell him whether whether

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Speaker 4: And we really appreciate you being vulnerable and coming clean

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Speaker 2: I was nicer.

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Speaker 4: We're very thorough in our research whenever we do this thing.

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Speaker 4: But just I'm now I'm curious, how successful are you

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, yeah, I'm somewhat popular, like I I have

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, well now I guess that has me curious.

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Speaker 4: If you've got all these followers and all the success,

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Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, yeah, it's a great question. I'm not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how will you handle it if it is an

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Speaker 2: I think I know which category we fell into.

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Speaker 4: But we will not bring this up again unless Eric

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Speaker 4: him and ask him why wouldn't he call you back

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Speaker 4: after such a great, unique, genuine hangout forgetting he.

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Speaker 2: May not even know about the only fan.

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Speaker 1: It is so nice to have a listener, just be

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Speaker 3: How much easier this makes our job.

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Speaker 2: It did take a lot to get it out.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: Is even worse than are So we're gonna find out

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Speaker 4: when we call Eric and get you your second date

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Speaker 4: up date right after this hold on. Brooks said it earlier,

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Speaker 4: and I think we all agree it is refreshing to

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Speaker 2: For real.

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Speaker 3: It makes me feel.

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Speaker 1: So much less stressed going into this phone call, even

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Speaker 1: though that's like a big I mean it's a big thing, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Feels like we're from the same page.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's good to know that information before we dial

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Speaker 4: this guy. And our listener, Donna whose Jose's already searched

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Speaker 4: she told us about her meeting with a guy named Eric.

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Speaker 4: It happened organically when they were both at a food

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Speaker 2: Now he's not calling her back.

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Speaker 1: It was such a sweet interaction. It really felt genuine.

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Speaker 2: On only fans.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, here's the thing is we all understand that that

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Speaker 1: And if he brings it up, do you want us

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Speaker 3: Or do we lie and say that's not her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know. Actually I feel like I would like

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, if he knows fair online fair, if you

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Speaker 1: already know, I mean, he's gonna find out eventually if

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Speaker 3: It's your will.

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Speaker 4: You can always keep a secret life for twenty thirty

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Speaker 3: But that's good advice, Jeff.

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Speaker 2: It's really it's really up to you, Johnna.

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Speaker 4: This is your decision. We're just gonna call Eric. We'll

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, beautiful, all right, here we go. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're looking to talk with Eric.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Eric Crucis alright.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Morning all shows here.

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Speaker 2: I'm Jeffrey. I you guys want to go around the

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Speaker 2: room and introduce yourself. Let's sound off. It's okay, Eric,

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Speaker 2: she's the fun one.

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Speaker 3: Why are you so awkward?

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Speaker 2: Anyway?

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Speaker 3: I want to hear him talk.

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Speaker 4: We're trying to help out one of our listeners that

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Speaker 4: you actually went on a date with recently. Her name's Donna.

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Speaker 3: Sounded like a cute date.

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Speaker 6: I guess if I had to sum it up, I

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Speaker 4: Well, it's not much more than that, according to her,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was really sweet that you guys didn't

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Speaker 2: I don't know how that even happens. How do you

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Speaker 4: You were saying that you got a different impression from

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she's I want to make it clear, she's a

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Speaker 1: Can you elaborate on that conservative part? Like what made

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Speaker 6: She just kind of gave off goodie goodie vibes and

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Speaker 3: And you're really good at reading people.

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Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, I am pretty good at reading people. And

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think she's too innocent.

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Speaker 3: You want like a wild woman, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 6: Don't mean like wild. I'm just looking for someone who's

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Speaker 6: a little more adventurous, okay.

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Speaker 3: An adventures?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, there is a very adventurous woman on the

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Speaker 4: not sure if you could guess that girl would be Donna.

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Speaker 4: No way, Oh yeah, really really Donna?

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Eric?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god? Are you dying on the inside?

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Speaker 2: Donna?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Hey, Donna, I didn't know you were on the

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Speaker 6: other end of the line. And I don't want to

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Speaker 6: You're such a kind girl, and I have.

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Speaker 5: No I get it. I get it, and I hear you.

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Speaker 5: I literally heard everything he said.

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Speaker 2: I totally get it.

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Speaker 5: And maybe I you come across that way in when

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Speaker 5: I want scenarios, but I'm adventurous. I do have quite

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Speaker 6: I mean that, that's cool for you to say that,

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Speaker 6: And again, I think you're I think you're really cool.

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Speaker 6: But like, you can say that, but I don't know

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Speaker 5: You know, well, you can just trust me that I'm

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Speaker 5: not as shy as I seem. I don't really meet

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Speaker 5: and I obviously came off very shy, but I don't

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Speaker 5: say I do have I'm experienced. I'm an experienced woman.

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Speaker 2: You have to say that. I don't feel like she's

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Speaker 3: But she's obviously not shy.

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Speaker 1: She called a radio station and is here with us,

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's pretty wild that you called a radio station.

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Speaker 6: But again, you sound imotent to me, and you're just

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Speaker 6: to please me, and that doesn't you don't need to

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I guess if you feel that way and

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Speaker 5: you don't want to believe me or get to know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my god, I think that's a good choice. Donna.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Donna, Okay, I do too. I think she should

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Speaker 1: I mean, he is so certain who she is and

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Speaker 4: Well, fine, but at least before we go, I have

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Speaker 4: to ask Eric, would you like to go out with shy,

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Speaker 6: You know again, it doesn't seem like a match. I

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 5: I mean, Eric, I think you made a mistake and

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Speaker 6: He here, Yeah, what does that mean? I wouldn't worry

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Speaker 6: about it, Eric, You know what, can somebody just tell

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: All right, he's gone. Sorry, Donna, we had to hang

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Speaker 5: I am glad. I'm glad you did.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had a guy assume that about you before?

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Speaker 5: I can maybe see why he maybe thought that, but

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Speaker 5: like it was so crazy. They just didn't want to

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Speaker 3: I like, how hard for it he thought?

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Speaker 5: He was.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it's just crazy. I want to be there.

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Speaker 1: The day he finds out what you do, it's probably

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Speaker 5: He was so sure he knew how to reach people.

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Speaker 5: That was That's what got me.

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Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: We're getting a lot of text in seventy five nine

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Speaker 4: to two on this one. One says, I hope Eric's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's right. It's really a learning moment to not

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Speaker 4: Quickly, really, you know, Yeah, don't judge a book by

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was a cover that was the problem.

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Speaker 3: This is just like her attitude.

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Speaker 4: Another text says I've been trying to date an only

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Speaker 2: That guy's an idiot.

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Speaker 1: Oh man.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of other people on the text board though,

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Speaker 2: She never revealed what she.

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Speaker 4: I thought this would be like Alexis going out with

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Speaker 4: it's like, you're not my type.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what are you doing? Guy in the world

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Speaker 2: need email the show?

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Speaker 4: After we recorded that, though, and said I thought I'd

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Speaker 3: So she did not.

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Speaker 2: I think he knows now.

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Speaker 3: She's just trying to get more subscribers.

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Speaker 2: Out of this. She probably did.

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Speaker 4: We're hoping to get a few more subscribers. If you

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Speaker 2: We still have my shirt off.

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Speaker 4: By the way, on YouTube you can find us or

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Speaker 4: anywhere where you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: and make sure. If you need help with your dating life,

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Speaker 4: email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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