1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: We're here. We're down to the top three. This is 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: crazy Your best second dates of twenty twenty five, and 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 1: this is number three. 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 2: Out of all the places where you could meet someone 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 2: at coffee shops, grocery stores, crime scene clean up training 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 2: and nothing says compatibility like wiping fake blood off of 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: a floor, trust me, but you really do love those. 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. But for one of our listeners, it got 9 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: even weirder when he met a good looking gal at 10 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 2: a furniture store. Oh yeah, Now you don't hear a 11 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 2: lot about those, but you're gonna find out the unique 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 2: way he managed to get her number in your number 13 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: three second date Update of the year Right now, Second 14 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 2: Date Updated. I saw a video posted by a bridal 15 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: stylist recently, and she talks to brides all the time 16 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 2: and always asks how they met their husband. 17 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. 18 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 3: A feat. 19 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: What's the number one way single people are finding their 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: spouses right now? The number one answer, she says, by 21 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 2: far is on. 22 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: Hinge ye, not like bumble or. 23 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: Like specifically his she says, Bumble is second. Nobody is 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 2: on Tinder. If you're seriously trying to find Number three 25 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: was a little bit surprising, though, she said, college Sweethearts, 26 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 2: not a website like people who actually met in college Sweethearts, 27 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: people who. 28 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: Met women looking for sugar Dad. 29 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 2: It's like the relationship lasted beyond graduation. 30 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: That's weird one. 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: And then the rarest is meeting somebody naturally out in 32 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,559 Speaker 2: the wild. And I don't know if I hear animal 33 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: noises right now, but that's exactly what happened with one 34 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: of our listeners, Chad. He was a lone tiger loose 35 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: in the jungle roman free till a certain frisky feline 36 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: caught his eye. So let's learn about it. 37 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 4: Chad. 38 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 39 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 4: Hey, thanks, Hey. 40 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: You're welcome. 41 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 4: Chad. 42 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: You sound like a frisky feeling. 43 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, he's the prowling tiger. Yeah still well, yeah, 44 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 2: a big feeling. 45 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: Sure. 46 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: And tell us about the girl that you met. What's 47 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 2: her name? 48 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 4: Her name is Lucy? 49 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 2: Okay, and we're out in the wild. Did you meet Lucy? 50 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 4: I met Lucy at a furniture store. 51 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 3: Why did that scream awesome? Because like shopping for furniture, 52 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 3: I could see girls out and about. 53 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: Everyone at the furniture store is married. Yeah, I've never 54 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: stepped in. Yeah. 55 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 3: Also, they got money, because furniture is not she you're 56 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: spending a couple hundred bucks. 57 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you were. 58 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 4: You were like a legit store. This wasn't like Assemble. 59 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: One of the nice shots fired at Ikea. So how 60 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 2: did you and Lucy? Like, how did that interaction happen 61 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 2: in the store? 62 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 4: Well, I was walking around the store. I was just 63 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 4: there looking to upgrade my place, and I had zeroed 64 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 4: in on this one sofa. But then Lucy came in 65 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 4: and was looking at the exact same couch. 66 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, style arm wrestle. 67 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 5: Who for? 68 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: Whoever's gonna buy it? 69 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I wish I could have. I mean 70 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 4: I would have loved to have done that. 71 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 3: Did you do the gentleman thing and buy the couch 72 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 3: for her? 73 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 4: I don't have that much money. 74 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: I'm what was your move? 75 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 4: The move was just to kind of like, what do 76 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 4: you like about the couch? And then it just kind 77 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 4: of got to a level where we weren't just talking 78 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 4: about a couch. 79 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: Well, and eventually you're gonna have to spoon on it 80 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: together to see if two people fit. That's important you 81 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: want to. 82 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: That's a really weird way of flirting. 83 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 3: I will say, I feel like we shouldn't have heard. 84 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 4: A yeah, yeah, it didn't get too racy. We just 85 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 4: kept like trying it out. 86 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: Okay, shocked it didn't get That's cute though. That's a 87 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: really organic way to have conversation. 88 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: It is good because you're kind of playing like you're 89 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: a couple already by like shopping together. It kind of 90 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: like plants that image into your mind in a in 91 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: a subtle way, so. 92 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: Not like that. It's important for him to know if 93 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: women like this couch? 94 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, fair, Were you able to spin it into a date? 95 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 4: Yeah? It come to find out we both wanted the couch. 96 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 4: You know, there's shalespeople at these high end furniture stores, 97 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,239 Speaker 4: and so it's like, okay, we're both interested in the couch, 98 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 4: and the guy's like, this is it. There's just the 99 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 4: one Yeah, and then you guys started a fight, So 100 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 4: what's the move. I was like, okay, well we both 101 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 4: want the couch, but if you want me to let 102 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 4: you have it, then why don't you give me something 103 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 4: in return? You know, like your phone number? 104 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: Okay, because they also sell beds over here, so that's. 105 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 1: A good way to get her number. Did she like that? 106 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: I mean good enough to give me the number. I 108 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 4: mean she got the couch, so yeah, the couch. 109 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 3: Wait hold up, hold up, you got the number, and 110 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 3: now she's ghosting you. 111 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: I think they went out out. 112 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 2: Did you go? 113 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 5: So? 114 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 4: Like fast forward to like the next three days, and 115 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 4: we're texting a lot. I mean like and I say 116 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 4: that a lot, I mean like fifty times a day, 117 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 4: well a day. 118 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: Wow, you haven't texted anybody fifty times in my whole life. 119 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 3: I really like each other. 120 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: Day. 121 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 4: So we scheduled a date and then she backed out 122 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 4: and I wanted to reschedule, and then like she backed 123 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 4: out again the night before, Okay, are you okay? 124 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 3: Convincing herself not to go on. 125 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: So it's weird that you guys were talking so much 126 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 1: though via text. I don't know someone who can't say no. 127 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: I would probably give up my number and talk for 128 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 1: a few days to not feel bad, and the couch 129 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,799 Speaker 1: is delivered and not my home, and then stop text 130 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: and then you finally be over. 131 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, chat are you feeling like? Maybe the 132 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 2: only reason that she said she would like give the 133 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 2: number and go out on the date was just to 134 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 2: get the couch, Like that was the whole point of it. 135 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 4: That thought has crossed my mind. But then there's all 136 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 4: these texts in between. So then like I did like 137 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 4: a little recon, I like googled myself and I was like, 138 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 4: all right, nothing weird came up here. 139 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 3: That was good. 140 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing. She gave you her number, 141 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: but she could have easily given you a fake number. 142 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 5: Yeah that's true. 143 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: You know, she didn't have to give you her real 144 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: phone number. 145 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird that she's backing out all of a sudden. 146 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 2: We're gonna call Lucy and try and get to the 147 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: bottom of this, because if she says no to going 148 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: out with you, then you deserve that couch. 149 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: In my opinion, that wasn't the deal. It was just 150 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: a phone number. Jeff, Oh. 151 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: Sorry, that was on you chat improve your negotiations. 152 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 4: Still, I know I thought it was a fair deal, 153 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 4: but it turns out not so much. Yeah, but anyways, 154 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 4: I need your help and hope you can help me out. 155 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 2: All right, Well, we're going to try our best. We'll 156 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: come back and get you your second date up date 157 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 2: right after this man hold oncond date update. I'm not 158 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: a lawyer, but Chad, if we're not successful in getting 159 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: you another date, what about at least getting you visitation 160 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: with the couch just like one week A couch doesn't 161 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: need to be much, just one weekend a month. Maybe 162 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: split it on holidays. We can negotiate something. 163 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: Yeah sure, Oh you know, shared custody is what you're saying. 164 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. Chad seems to like that idea, because if 165 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 2: you miss part one, he met Lucy at a furniture 166 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: store recently when they both liked the same exact couch, 167 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 2: but he generously let her have it if in exchange 168 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: she gave him his number. 169 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean that was the deal that they made. 170 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. 171 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: It was a smooth move. But she keeps backing out 172 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: of dates now and now their initial flame has pretty 173 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 2: much gone completely ice cold. 174 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're losing chemistry fast. 175 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 2: So we he doesn't know why, we need to try 176 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 2: and help figure it out. 177 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: Can I ask Chad the one thing I never you know, 178 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: we never really got into you said, you guys texted 179 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: back and forth a ton. Was there any like inappropriate 180 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: text scene or something that could have or could have 181 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: been red wrong? Even you know, sometimes you said something 182 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: thinking you're joking and the other person doesn't read it right. 183 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: Can you read some inappropriate text to Brook right now, 184 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 2: she really wants. 185 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 4: To do something. Lead. 186 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: Is there something that stands out in all of those 187 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: conversations that you had. 188 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 4: No, I mean it was flirty, but without crossing the line. 189 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 4: It's the way I think about it. Asked about the couch. 190 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 4: You know, how's. 191 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: How's the couch doing? 192 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 4: Is it? 193 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 2: Okay? 194 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? 195 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,479 Speaker 1: He really did that though, that's what he said. Okay, 196 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: he laughed, like to be an innuendo, like the couch. 197 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. 198 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 3: No, he like, how's the couch doing? 199 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: How I heard it? Okay? 200 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: See, this is what text messaging is like right now. 201 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: You can't tell tone. 202 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: Someone text me how's the couch? Ha ha. 203 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 3: I would not understand that. 204 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 2: All right, it's okay, let's call Lucy and uh, hopefully 205 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 2: it's not what we were talking about earlier too, where 206 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 2: it was just all a big scam so that she 207 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 2: could get the couch have him back off of it. 208 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 3: Because it is very smart and percent your fone, that's 209 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 3: the case scam. 210 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 211 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: I mean she just said, oh well, thank you and 212 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 3: smiled and gave you your number. That's all that you asked. 213 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: There's no one in the room that wouldn't agree with that. 214 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's hope that. 215 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 4: The case. Then I don't know why she would even 216 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 4: agree to go out with me at the start of it. 217 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: It's a good point. 218 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, So hopefully there's an explanation. Let me 219 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 2: dial her number right now, let's see if she picks up. 220 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Lucy. 221 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 4: H Yeah, we're. 222 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 2: A radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 223 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 3: Hey, Lucy, your morning. 224 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: You're on the show, Lucy. 225 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 5: Okay, what's this about. 226 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: It's our couch review segment in a way. 227 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're doing a segment called second Date Update. 228 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 5: What is that? 229 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 2: Uh? 230 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 3: Oh, you don't know what that is. 231 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,599 Speaker 2: It's a segment we do where if someone's in like 232 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 2: a dating scenario and a person blows you off or 233 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 2: you're not getting back to them, we'll reach out on 234 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 2: behalf of that person to try and figure out if 235 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 2: there's a reason for it, just to like help them 236 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 2: understand what's going on. 237 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: And this one's kind of out of the norm because 238 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: you never actually went on a first. 239 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 2: Date, right, yeah, because we're talking about a guy named Chad. 240 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 4: Are you sorry? 241 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: We didn't need to explain more like, couch guy, you 242 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 2: know exactly who we're talking about. Yeah, we are noting you. 243 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 2: Chad says that you guys met at a furniture store 244 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 2: and you exchange numbers. 245 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 1: It seemed like there was like some flirtation there. Did 246 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: he read that right? 247 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I have a good reason for it, 248 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 5: but it would just be super uncomfortable. 249 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 4: Tell him, oh, you. 250 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: Have a good reason for not calling him back or 251 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:05,839 Speaker 1: going on the date. 252 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, because he said that you guys had scheduled dates 253 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 2: and you kept bailing. 254 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 5: Yes, I did bail. 255 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: Wait can I ask her just blunt like, did you 256 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: scammer boy? 257 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: Did you just get I think the question is did 258 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: you ever have any intention of actually going on a date? 259 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 2: Okay, then now let me ask did you ever have 260 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 2: any intention of actually going on a date? 261 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 3: Edited? So I sound smarter, thanks Jeff. 262 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 5: I mean I wasn't to go on a date with him. 263 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 5: I didn't, Okay, I didn't. 264 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 4: Have a problem with him. 265 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 5: It was just like I got the whole couch thing. 266 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 5: And then a few days after I met Chad, I 267 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 5: came back to the furniture place with some of my 268 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 5: friends to pick up the couch because one of my 269 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 5: friends the pickup truck whatever. 270 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta have a friend with the truck delivery. 271 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 3: Yeah you have not evere can afford two thousand dollars. 272 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: Probably would have got Jeff doesn't have truck guys in 273 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: his friend. 274 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 3: He's like, I just have one of my assistants make 275 00:11:58,840 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 3: me a new couch. 276 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: You want me to come by with my escalade, So. 277 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 2: You guys know how it works. Okay, you went to 278 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 2: the store to pick it up yourself. 279 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was some friends and then what happened? 280 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, so I went inside to pay, and who do 281 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 5: I see? Chad? 282 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: Why is that that he needs a couch? 283 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, you took the couch that he wanted to buy, 284 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 2: so he probably had to get a new one. 285 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 5: Okay, No, he wasn't like shopping. He was asleep on 286 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 5: one of the couches, like in the back room area. 287 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 5: I didn't even know what to do. He didn't see me, 288 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 5: Like he was asleep, he didn't see me. 289 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: Maybe he was just trying to couch out too hard. 290 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, way, too hard. 291 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 5: It was so awkward. So I was just gonna leave, 292 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 5: but I just asked the cashier. I was like, hey, 293 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 5: what's the deal? With that guy on the great couch 294 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 5: and he's like, oh, that's the Napper, but like he 295 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 5: just said it, like it's a nickname, the nap na what. Yeah, 296 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:57,719 Speaker 5: they called him the Knapper. 297 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: The Knapper okay name for him. 298 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 299 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 5: So like apparently he comes in during his lunch break 300 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 5: and he takes off his shoes and he takes a 301 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 5: literal nap. 302 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 3: No. 303 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: Oh, he comes in that often. 304 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 5: He said that the boss, like the manager lets him 305 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 5: do it because like once a month he buys all 306 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:16,839 Speaker 5: the employees lunch. 307 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 4: Oh let him do it. 308 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's a hack. 309 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: So he's sleeping during his lunch break. 310 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 2: What's going through your mind as they're telling you. 311 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 5: This, Lucy, I don't want to go out with the napper, like, 312 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 5: especially that he has a nickname. 313 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he liked it, Captu. You were on he's 314 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: tried to all out at the store. Yeah, like he 315 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: just happened to be talking to the expert and he 316 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 1: has a house, like he just goes during his lunch. 317 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it takes money. 318 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 2: But you're turned off by the idea of a guy 319 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: who spends every lunch break going into a nap store 320 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 2: and hanging out at nap store, well sorry, sorry, furniture store, 321 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:55,479 Speaker 2: and earned earned a reputation as a napper. 322 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: Honestly though, rebranding a furniture store to the nap store. 323 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: So well, then everybody's gonna doing. 324 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: I think you should give him a second chance on 325 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: that line. 326 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 2: I think you should at least hear him out on 327 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 2: what he has to say, Lucy, because he is on 328 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: the other line right now listening, unless he fell asleep 329 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 2: in his sore Yeah, I'm here, Hi, Yeah, hi. 330 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 5: Chat is so weird that you have a reputation of 331 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 5: a guy who naps in public? 332 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't understand what the big deal is. 333 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 5: I mean, it's like going into a subway and making 334 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 5: your own sandwich. You just don't do that. 335 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 4: And I could go and wait and make my own sandwich. 336 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 4: I do it, but I mean it. I mean it's 337 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 4: right near my work. They have nice employees, obviously, they 338 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 4: have really comfy furniture, so they get new furniture in. 339 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 4: I get to test like the couches, and I know 340 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 4: which ones are like the softest and the best. And 341 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 4: that's why I was like zeroed in on the work 342 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 4: you bought. 343 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,239 Speaker 5: You nap on the couch that I bought. 344 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 4: Ye so much. I wanted to buy it. I told 345 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 4: you it was soft the day. I mean, skin cells 346 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 4: are gross. We're going to go on a date. I 347 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 4: mean you probably have your tongue in my mouth. 348 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: Whoa strong? 349 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 3: Too much? 350 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: A good nap is really. 351 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 4: Life? Yeah, that's the way I live. Man. 352 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: We're not talking about if naps are good or not. 353 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 2: We're talking about if Lucy is attracted to a man 354 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: who does that. 355 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 3: I don't understand so much that he has a moniker, 356 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 3: his own nicknacks. 357 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 1: I still haven't heard a solid reason, Lucy, why this 358 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: is a turnoff. 359 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: Explain it to Chad. 360 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 5: Guys, it's weird and it's embarrassing. 361 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's only the Kyle guy who knows about it. 362 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: You know. 363 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not going on dates at the furniture store. 364 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 5: If you really aren't that embarrassed by why didn't you 365 00:15:58,000 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 5: say that when we met? Why weren't you like, Hey, 366 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 5: I really like this couch. I've been sleeping on it 367 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 5: for the last three weeks. 368 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 4: Maybe because you know that's weird. Coach. 369 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 3: That doesn't sound right. 370 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: You guys sound like you actually have some chemistry here. 371 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: I don't think that you should let this like get 372 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: in the. 373 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: Way, And if you're willing to not let it get 374 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: in the way, then I guess we're willing to pay 375 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 2: for it for your next date. 376 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 5: No, because if I like him, now I'm dating the napper, 377 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 5: and I just don't want to do that. 378 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: But he's resourceful, he's friendly, you. 379 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: Know, he knows where tongues go, and hopefully he has 380 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 2: enough money to get your couch officially clean, too, Lucy, 381 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 2: with all those dead skin cells that he's left. 382 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: On, I would be more worried about the slobbery. Bros. 383 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 4: Hey, look, I just want to let you know I 384 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 4: did not leave any residue on your cat. 385 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: Pretty, you have to say it. 386 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 3: I tell every girl I talked to you. I did 387 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 3: not leave residue on your. 388 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: Couch Jeffrey in the morning. You know, it was interesting 389 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 2: to hear broken Alexis' take on. 390 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: That why you were so anti. 391 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: I'm not anti. 392 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it felt like it though. 393 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it was just if it was me. And 394 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 2: I walked into a store and I saw the person 395 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 2: that I was scheduled to date sleeping there, and I 396 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 2: found out all of the employees know that person as 397 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 2: the sleeper during break it would it's still that would 398 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 2: be like, this is kind of weird. I would take 399 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 2: a step back. 400 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: And reassessing it's because we've all slept and taken naps 401 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 1: in our car before. I feel like he's actually taking 402 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: a one up from us. But do you know we 403 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: didn't add Yeah, do you know what we didn't ask 404 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: those if he was an ugly sleeper because. 405 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I also didn't really understand Brooks point that she'd 406 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 2: saddle up next to him and spoon him. 407 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: That was testing out of the couch. That's what my 408 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: husband and I do. We need to know if we 409 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: both fit on the couch together when were walking TV. 410 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 2: It's really sweet. 411 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: What is that important? 412 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 4: I see? 413 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,159 Speaker 2: It's just when I'm looking at the Textport seventy five two, 414 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: it is split. Some people thought that it was weird. 415 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 2: Some people are like, that's awesome. Good for that guy. 416 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, Edny buys the employees lunch. Yeah, they're taking it, 417 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: taking advantage of them. 418 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why they let it. 419 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: Let's normalize napping and random We're on board. 420 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 3: You see Brooke a sleep at Old Navy today, Do 421 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 3: not judge. 422 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: She wants you to cuddle up right next time. 423 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: Put one of those scarves around now. 424 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, but Goacha had all of our second Date updates 425 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 2: where you get your podcasts are available online have broken. 426 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,719 Speaker 1: Jefferson Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning