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Speaker 2: Yes, that's all. We're here for two.

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Speaker 1: For two on this Lately. Recently, and I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to be specific, but I have sent two gifts to

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Speaker 3: One I don't know that she received.

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Speaker 1: It, because it's possible that for the purpose that I

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Speaker 1: this gift that I sent. Another one is a gift

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Speaker 1: I sent to someone. I know it was delivered. I

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Speaker 1: know both were delivered because I tracked it, but I

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: One was more of a gesture and one was an

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Speaker 1: and just assume this person never received or hasn't received

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Speaker 1: it yet. But what do you do when you send

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Speaker 1: someone a gift and you genuinely I don't need acknowledgment.

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Speaker 1: It's not like I wanted the person to say thank you. Well,

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Speaker 1: I think it's rude if they don't say thank you, right,

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Speaker 1: I kind of really just want to know if they

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Speaker 2: You want to thank you?

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Speaker 3: You deserve I don't even know that I want to

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Speaker 1: I just want to know that the thing I did

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Speaker 3: But like, how do you how do you, without.

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Speaker 1: Looking like you're fishing, get someone to acknowledge the thing

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Speaker 4: I'd reach out me too, and what do you say, like, Hey, yes,

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Speaker 4: it's my cash app. My brother fifty dollars yesterday because

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Speaker 2: And he did not acknowledge my cash app.

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Speaker 4: So I gave him about three hours and I said, hey,

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, I needed you to see that I

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Speaker 2: Thirty minutes? Do you know you have thirty minutes.

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Speaker 5: The way my friends do it is typically if they're

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Speaker 5: it's supposed to be delivered, they send the tracking and

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Speaker 5: say like, hey, like, looks like this is out for delivery.

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Speaker 3: Does it look like I'm fishing for thank you?

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Speaker 5: No, you just want to make sure they got it

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Speaker 5: because you're sending it because you care and you want

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Speaker 6: Unless you physically handed it to their hands, like you

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Speaker 6: don't know where it is or if they've received it.

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Speaker 6: You said to take that to them, I know they

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Speaker 6: got it exactly. And if you get to thank you,

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Speaker 6: thank you, they're physically in front of them. But I

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Speaker 2: Whatever.

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Speaker 1: Someone sectioned my goal for this year is to do

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Speaker 3: I just want to know if you got there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you received it, and you they may have

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Speaker 1: What of my gifts is just willing nearly out there

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Speaker 1: But yeah, at the same time, I want to know,

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Speaker 4: Like Kayln just bought me a gift and it took

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Speaker 4: do like a video now and I was like on

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Speaker 4: need I show her, I need to show her what's

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Speaker 2: That this is rude. At this point, you haven't opened

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Speaker 5: I just you were carrying this huge box with you

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, don't you want to know what's inside?

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Speaker 2: I wanted you to know. I was excited that I

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's just I did I did the thing, I

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Speaker 1: I put it out there. That's the energy that I exuded.

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Speaker 1: And then we're done with it. Like if you got

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't walk around with not knowing. At least they

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Speaker 3: Ray, Hey, Charlotte, Hi, Fred, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: What what is the thing to do here?

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Speaker 1: You know, you send somebody a gift and they don't

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Speaker 3: You got one of us.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, I want to know.

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Speaker 3: You rue to tell is what I want to know.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't any of it.

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Speaker 2: I don't get guests.

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Speaker 3: What do you do?

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Speaker 9: I did this recently because I sent somebody a like

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well it was it's a stand up of me.

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Speaker 1: So they definitely know that it was from me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: no it was. It's I did not sound I did

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Speaker 1: didn't do that this time. Thank you, hrew and have

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Speaker 1: a good day, I said, I sent you a life

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Speaker 5: So but people saying like, just you did a good thing.

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Speaker 5: Leave it out there in the ether, like truly. My

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Speaker 5: you need to make sure that they got age man.

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Speaker 1: And then the whole time, your dad thinks you're rude

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Speaker 1: because you sent you something. Anybody, Hey, Latasha, how.

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Speaker 3: You doing great?

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Speaker 11: Good morning?

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Speaker 3: What's the good morning? What's the proper etiquette here?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 13: I have a son in college, and if he doesn't

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Speaker 13: when I get around to it, if I don't hear

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Speaker 13: get you know, fifteen hours that was for your brother?

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Speaker 12: Could you pull over?

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 2: I like that, mom, oh for sure.

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Speaker 12: I mean broke is broke, right?

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Speaker 13: And then I did a snapbox during like exams, and

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Speaker 13: I thought, well, maybe he's a little busy, but I

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Speaker 12: I mean, it's how hard can it be?

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Speaker 13: And they didn't say anything, and I was like, hey,

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Speaker 13: did you accidentally get a snapbox? Because that was for

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Speaker 12: I sent it to them, you troll it was made.

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Speaker 13: Yeah he was mad.

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Speaker 3: Glad you called uh, you called her son broke? She did?

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Speaker 3: She called him a brokie. She did.

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Speaker 14: Well.

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Speaker 1: We had that problem around here for a lot of years,

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Speaker 1: where like people would send stuff up here and then

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Speaker 1: then people would email me and be like they thought

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Speaker 1: I was rude as now They'd be like, hey, that

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Speaker 1: you know, and I'd be like, where I never saw it,

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, at least you're gonna steal my stuff.

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Speaker 1: Get me the cards so I can say thank you

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Speaker 1: to the person who sent it, because it probably happens

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Speaker 1: all the time. People out there probably have been very

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Speaker 1: generous and send stuff I didn't even know. Hey Monica,

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Speaker 1: Hi friend, Hi Monica.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, welcome.

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Speaker 1: What do you do if you send somebody a gift

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Speaker 1: and then they don't acknowledge it.

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Speaker 2: I would reach out.

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Speaker 7: I've done this before with the friend. I send her

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Speaker 7: edible flowers and I just say like, hey, keep an

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Speaker 7: eye on the mail, not really necessarily say like I

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Speaker 7: sent you something, but just you know, good morning, f YI,

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Speaker 7: keep an eye on your on your mail or just

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Speaker 7: send them the tracking number.

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Speaker 3: See that's real bad. That's real bad.

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Speaker 1: If you know that they like if you did that

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Speaker 1: and you're like, hey, it's Jennifer, I send you something,

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Speaker 1: look for it. And then they still don't acknowledge you,

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Speaker 1: because at least they could do is write you back

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Speaker 1: if they didn't get it and be like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: didn't get it. But if they don't say anything, man,

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Speaker 1: they're off the They're off the Christmas card list.

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Speaker 7: They don't, they're they're off the list. Like I would

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Speaker 7: just you know, take the loss and be like, you

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Speaker 7: know when you send something unexpected, like it really does

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Speaker 7: brighten up your date.

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Speaker 1: Man, when they ask you for a kidney or something,

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Speaker 1: you say, no, I don't have one, not for you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Monica, have a good day.

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Speaker 7: You have a great day.

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Speaker 1: good morning. So you're the only one saying is let

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Speaker 10: Well, and that what you really sent it for, like

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Speaker 10: I get it.

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Speaker 9: I get it.

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Speaker 10: But you know, in this world there's a higher power

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Speaker 3: And chriss, that what it is. That's what I Jennifer,

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Speaker 1: Someone else got it, you know, maybe that's.

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Speaker 11: What Then you can't tell you a quick story. I uh,

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Speaker 10: Praying and praying and praying to her higher power, and

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Speaker 13: So you never know what people need.

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Speaker 3: If you wanted to you financial flowers.

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Speaker 10: Maybe it's even to say thinking about a friend, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's a very nice friend. My friends don't even they

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Speaker 3: We got you.

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Speaker 1: Jennifer have a nice day.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to you would enough.

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Speaker 3: Stay or go?

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Speaker 1: Kelsey, Good morning, Kelsey, how are you?

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Speaker 8: Hi? Hello? Amo, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the program. So you're looking for advice.

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Speaker 1: People can hit us up on all the different socials,

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Speaker 1: d m us whatever, Friend Show Radio, Fred Show Radio

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Speaker 1: dot com. You are having an issue with This is the

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Speaker 8: Of years, right, Yes, what's going to together?

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Speaker 3: Have a seat on the couch. What's going on?

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Speaker 8: Well, you know, I've been looking for two years. Everything's

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Speaker 8: been great. We've been talking about planning our future, TOG.

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Speaker 8: But the issue comes in with so he just recently

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Speaker 8: You know, they fuss, they whine, they cry, they're babies.

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Speaker 8: And I take that moturiously and I do all the

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Speaker 8: I tend to the dogs needs more than he does.

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Speaker 8: I feel like he's not giving me the same effort

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Speaker 3: So you guys talked about it ahead of time.

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Speaker 12: I hait.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get this dog and and you're gonna help

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Speaker 3: So we'll share.

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Speaker 1: In the responsibility of the dog, which is I think

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Speaker 8: You know, he's.

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Speaker 1: Does he say he explain why he's not helpful after

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Speaker 8: He always tells him he'll handle it next time, and

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Speaker 1: going with this. It's like, if he doesn't take care

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Speaker 8: Right? Right? He's the love of my life. I just

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Speaker 3: Or well, let me take some phone calls on this. Maybe.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure people listening have encountered something like this before,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you what are you going to do?

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Speaker 1: You agree as a couple that you're going to take

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Speaker 5: I mean, I think regardless, if you say you want

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like now I understand why my mom

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Speaker 6: I love I have a dog. I love him very much. However,

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Speaker 1: I don't think, well it will be a big deal

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Speaker 3: The that's not else she's gonna leave him with the dog?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as she should.

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Speaker 1: She's doing all the work, so you know, you're tek

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Speaker 2: Terrible.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are saying that this is an

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Speaker 1: Dog's over human. She needs to go. He's not going

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Speaker 1: but show what he's on an animal lover. Okay, that

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Speaker 3: It has.

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Speaker 1: It has to do with saying that you're gonna do

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Speaker 12: Hey, lou Hey, how's it going.

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Man, So you say that there's no comparison between dogs

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Speaker 12: I don't think so, you know, I don't think so

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Speaker 8: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: So if you'd agree to take care of an animal

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Speaker 1: just say, hey, look, you can get a dog if

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Speaker 12: I think he was just trying to get through it.

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Speaker 12: And I have an argument. So he was like, hey, yeah, sure,

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Speaker 3: But that's a problem.

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Speaker 12: You just not a dog guy. That's pre per for sure.

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Speaker 12: He should have just been straight up for sure, but

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Speaker 3: So here we are.

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Speaker 12: But I think that, uh, I think that once the

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, Thank you, lou have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Glad you called. Yeah, I'm not convinced. Hey is it Latitia, Leticia?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? Welcome, how are you good? Good?

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Speaker 12: Good morning.

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Speaker 14: So I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is this is exciting for me too.

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Speaker 1: I honestly, this is one of the most exciting things

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Speaker 3: So what I'm going to do in this situation.

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Speaker 1: This dude agreed to get a dog with his long

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Speaker 14: Absolutely, absolutely, that is exactly what it is. He is

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Speaker 14: I think she should go or have a conversation about

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Speaker 3: Because I don't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, dogs in humans obviously different. But I think

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't know what prevents you from being like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: They're both innocent creatures who didn't ask to be here.

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Speaker 5: You summoned them exactly.

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Speaker 1: And it's that you made. And that's what it really

448
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Speaker 1: comes down to you, is okay, well he okay. Let's

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Speaker 1: say Lou the guy that called a minute ago, was

450
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Speaker 1: right and he just didn't want to argue. Well, then

451
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Speaker 1: don't adopt a living creature that's gonna live for fifteen

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Speaker 1: years in your home. I mean, that's not something to

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Speaker 1: lose an argument over. You know, if you if you're

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Speaker 1: that against it, then you have to stand up for

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Speaker 1: yourself and say I don't want this dog, and I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna I'm not gonna help you.

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Speaker 14: With it exactly. And it doesn't seem like he's trying

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Speaker 14: to own that either. So that's also another thing she

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Speaker 14: should keep in mind too, Like if he doesn't want

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Speaker 14: the dog now, I mean, how many other things in

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Speaker 14: the future are they gonna come across and he's gonna

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Speaker 14: be like, oh, well, no, I don't want to do this.

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Speaker 14: You can do everything.

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Speaker 11: No.

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Speaker 14: I mean, like I said, it's deeper than just oh

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Speaker 14: is it just a dog?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 14: My friends are saying it's just a dog. No, it's

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Speaker 14: actually deeper than that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, fair enough, thank you, have a great day.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, you guys to love you?

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Speaker 3: Do you call him? Hey, Rico, how are you guys? Rico?

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Speaker 3: What do you want me to do?

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Speaker 14: Man? I said, you guys should do just like you

475
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Speaker 14: do with waiting by the phone and call him and

476
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Speaker 14: find out why he don't want to take care of

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Speaker 14: the dog.

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Speaker 1: You'd be like, hey, dude, are you is this a

479
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Speaker 1: negligent dog? Is just a dead beat dog owner? My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred I'm calling from the Friends Show, the

481
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Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I to tell you that I

482
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Speaker 1: gotta tell you we are in the radio right now,

483
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Speaker 1: what'd you need your permission to continue with the call?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, I got the whole script down, man. I could

486
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Speaker 1: do it, Rico, I could go Yeah, I.

487
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Speaker 15: Could do it up married because because she'll find out.

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Speaker 12: More information that way, because she'll probably even find out

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Speaker 12: that he don't even love her.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling on behalf of I'm calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a dog that lives in your home that hasn't seen

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Speaker 1: you in a while. You ghosted the dog. Have a

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Speaker 1: good day, Rico. Yeah, you're good guy, have a good dag.

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Speaker 1: Let you call hey, Veronica, Hi, Hey, good morning. You

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Speaker 1: say go too, you say, get out of there?

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Speaker 12: Well, yeah, because it's foreshadowing of like what could be.

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Speaker 2: Why would you even want that? He could be the

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Speaker 2: love of your life?

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Speaker 3: This and that? But no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 8: Also, that dog was probably put in her life to

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Speaker 8: show her unconditional love you on condition.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the dog was some kind of a signal or

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Speaker 1: a sign, or the dog came along to show her

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Speaker 1: this dude wasn't going to nurture the way she thought.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's some stuff right there. But maybe, Oh lord,

506
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Speaker 3: I'm a dog rummer and I see it every single day.

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Speaker 3: Dogs love their owners unconditionally.

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Speaker 2: Yes, they do. We don't deserve them.

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Speaker 1: I do think it's a bigger it's a bigger sign

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Speaker 1: that you'll go for a major commitment and then back

511
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Speaker 1: out of it simply if in fact, simply do avoid

512
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Speaker 1: an argument like that's not that's not healthy.

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Speaker 12: The question, the other question is does the dog like him.

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Speaker 1: If it doesn't, if he's not connecting with the dog,

515
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Speaker 1: maybe he's got bad energy and maybe.

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Speaker 3: That's in that age and the dog picks up on it.

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Speaker 3: Maybe thank you so much something of the day. Yeah

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Speaker 3: you too, Glad you called. Thank you for listening.

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Speaker 1: So Clint, you're upset because you think the comparison between

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Speaker 1: dogs and kids is crazy.

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Speaker 13: Wait, I wouldn't say, you wouldn't say.

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Speaker 1: Up set okay, but you're saying that we cannot compare

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Speaker 1: the two things. If you don't connect with a dog,

524
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Speaker 1: or you're not gonna help with the dog after you

525
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Speaker 1: agreed to, you might still be okay with kids.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, totally. But I think that the agreement that

527
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Speaker 15: he made to get the dog is it does show

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Speaker 15: that he shirks responsibility. So there's a little bit of

529
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Speaker 15: there's a little bit of question there. But I mean,

530
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Speaker 15: like I'm not sending my kid outside to go play

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Speaker 15: by himself when he's a baby, and I do that

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Speaker 15: with a puppy. Like, the comparison between a dog and

533
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Speaker 15: a child is crazy. I treat my children far differently

534
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Speaker 15: than I treat my dog, and I take care of

535
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Speaker 15: them in a far different way. Now the responsibility aspect

536
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Speaker 15: is much different.

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Speaker 3: Though.

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Speaker 15: She should have to very minimum have a conversation about

539
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Speaker 15: the responsibility aspect and see how he reacts to that

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Speaker 15: before just leaving over a dog.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, yeah, I guess I would just hate

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Speaker 1: to have a kid with somebody who's going to be

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Speaker 1: the same way about the kid, because that's obviously a

544
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Speaker 1: much different commitment.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, one hundred percent, I agree with that. I mean,

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Speaker 15: you get a dog for you get a dog for

547
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Speaker 15: a couple hundred bucks, but you're not getting a kid

548
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Speaker 15: for a couple hundred bucks. So you need to have

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Speaker 15: the conversation to see where the responsibility aspect lies. But

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Speaker 15: the comparison of a dog and a child is just

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Speaker 15: crazy to me.

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Speaker 1: All right, fair enough, Clinton, thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're talking to crazy people here who'd like

554
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Speaker 1: think that, think the dogs and animals or think that family.

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Speaker 1: Dogs are part of the family. I understand, don't you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't. It is different.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't feed poly dog food regularly that we do

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Speaker 1: get that fresh pet stuff, which is it's the nicest

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Speaker 1: you can get.

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Speaker 2: I give her the best, only the best for my girl.

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Speaker 3: It is a nice thing to do. No, I get that.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the more overarching theme of is this

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Speaker 1: dude gonna do what he says he's going to do?

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Speaker 1: And are you going to get suck with a dog

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Speaker 1: and a kid and he's not going to do anything

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Speaker 1: after he said that he would. I don't think that's good.

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Speaker 1: You guys ready. Keyword number two. Keyword number two Harry

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Speaker 1: Styles in Australia. The first keyword is on the iHeart app.

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Speaker 1: You can go listen and it's there. We left it

571
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Speaker 1: in so you can cheat that way search for Fred

572
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Speaker 1: show on demand. There are ten total keywords that you need.

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Speaker 1: I gave the first one out yesterday at this time.

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Speaker 1: Keyword number two in in I N yeah, we're getting

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Speaker 1: don't worry, we're getting clever in in all right. Keyword

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Speaker 1: number two is in And if you ever miss a keyword,

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Speaker 1: we have every one every day. At this time, we'll

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Speaker 1: give you a keyword so you can see Harry styles

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Speaker 1: in Australia. You need ten total. If you ever miss one,

580
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Speaker 1: go to the iHeart app. They're up there, but in

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Speaker 1: is keyword number two to see Harry in Australia.

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Speaker 3: So we're getting there. We're twenty percent of the way there, guys,