WEBVTT - All In My Business with Terry 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:06.400 Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:11.880 who talks. Thank you for tune in a friend new 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:14.000 episode and we talked back and she was dedicated to 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:17.400 your niggas and these bitches in these hoes and everybody else. 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:22.200 Hey, y'all, it's me Tim Bam. I love y'all. 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.119 Did you say you were my co host AJ? That 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:25.759 was my co host AJ? Everybody? 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:26.479 Yeah, I didn't. 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:28.600 I didn't get to you know, but it's me, you know, 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:33.800 small back a j Oh, I'm big, bigger person. I'm 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:37.479 big her back this year and I'm never going to 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:38.479 be the bigger person. 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:41.800 Well, it's big back Tam Bam, y'all, I love y'all. 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:48.120 We gotta go. We got a co host this week, y'all. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:53.640 Uh look, y'all listen. This is my friend from first 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:58.720 grade through fucking college. Okay, Terry, what you want to 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:01.440 go by? We're doing low Oh you ain't going back 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:01.959 to low teen. 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:06.440 Y'all can call me Terry. Only people that know me 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:08.320 like that can call me that, but everybody else come. 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:12.640 And this has been my friends since eighteen years old 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:17.480 to we're now twenty seven, so good good ten years 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:19.839 almost y'all listen. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:21.759 More than that. More than that. We met in two 0:01:21.760 --> 0:01:23.440 thousand and three. 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:28.080 We're twenty seven, nigga, I just said that ten years. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:33.759 Shame, y'all. Terry has been telling us fucking lie about 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:37.560 me since I had a Jerry carl and elementary Okay, 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:41.120 he has been going around and even into my adult 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:42.520 life lying. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:44.400 Go ahead and tell everybody's story, Terry. 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:49.920 Listen. One day we was in elementary school, Snandra's elementary school, 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:57.920 Ashley had a Jerry cirl. It's not a lot everybody, Ashley, 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:00.920 jeez is, why why are you saying my whole name? 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:01.320 Okay? 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:04.800 We go ahead, all right, y'all to school. 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:08.120 One day Ashley came to school one day. I remember 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:08.680 what she had on. 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:13.440 She had the Jerry Curle for starters. She had on 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:22.600 all black sweatsuit, the Lie Russell by Black Chuck Taylors 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:26.760 and black Chuck Taylors. And I was like, yo, here 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:30.320 a break dance and ever since game we been going that. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:34.320 And she called my mom a demolition man because she 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:35.000 had going here. 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:37.880 No, that same day, y'all, he go like, Terry cat 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:39.120 oh because he got gray hand. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:42.160 I don't, okay. So let's be very clear, right, So. 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:43.640 He you used to crack with my mama because she 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:44.320 had going ahead. 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.720 And tell him about your mom in a minute. But okay, 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.560 Terry used to tell people. I would say, hey, guys, 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:53.240 check it out, and then busting to me and then 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:56.079 busting to the break dance. First of all, my mom 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:59.000 was not buying no name brand ship, so I know, 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.400 damn well. I had no Adidas or Russell anything in 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.360 elementary school. Okay, it could have been Walmart, but I 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.160 definitely was not wearing no fucking tracksuits back then, y'all. 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.720 This never fucking happened. And he's been telling the same 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:13.920 fucking lie since we were JITs. 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:16.160 Okay, y'all think I'm gonna meet this up and carry 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:17.799 us home for all these years. 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:24.840 For forty years, but I love My name is a 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:27.119 j we're characters on this podcast. 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:31.760 Okay, y'all calling me Terry all right, as I. 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:34.480 Wanted to be referred to by, as I asked. 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.680 You forgive me, y'all forgive me. 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:41.280 So Ashley was wearing no boundaries outfits. 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:43.160 Hey, she. 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:51.160 And Charlie Terry Carroll dripping in Charlie Taylor's y'all, I 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:53.560 used to hate Jerry carl so bad because the fucking 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:56.080 mosquitos in the summertime at Charleston ain't no fucking joke. 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:58.600 Then she used to be stuck and. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.560 My hair stuck to the curls, stuck to the juice. 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:02.160 Mad. 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:05.640 They was like, Oh that looks shiny, let's land on it. 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:06.840 And then die. Girl. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:10.560 My sister would come home and be like, girl, so 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:12.440 and so said, you were sitting in that seat on 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.640 the bus because your juice was like on the seat 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:17.640 and in the window. You know, you like middle school 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.680 to ride the same bus as the elementary at just 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:24.080 different times, so people would be tripping off me in 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:24.839 my absence. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:29.440 Right, this is how I learned all you mama jokes. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:32.280 Okay, this is how I learned how to fucking trip 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.080 off people quick because I got an hour worth of 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:37.120 stand up comedy for anybody trying to come from me. 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:41.320 All right, all right, so go glow. Let's get into internet. 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:44.960 Least. We ain't talked about our weekends. We've been talking 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:48.119 about growing up and shit, I ain't do nothing this weekend. Nowhere, 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:48.760 go ahead to him. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.680 I ain't just shit either. My hair been looking fulled up. 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:54.680 I went back to swim class. It's just so hard 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:57.400 to look cute and exercise if you don't have like 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:59.440 a protective style in good grief. 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:02.480 Yeah, black women be having it, howered, man, trying to 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:04.880 trying to stay healthy and keep your head done is 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:06.480 a real, real life struggle. 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:10.200 So I didn't know what you had going on this weekend, Terry. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:14.120 Nothing much, man. I went to an all black party, 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:18.360 A lot worked and uh just lively chilled out. You 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.400 know what I'm saying. With my homebole house to watching football. 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:21.000 That's about it. 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.640 What's your favorite team? 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:24.400 Cowboys? 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:33.279 Okay, stupid, stupid Sexy Red is pressed. Actually stupid Internet news. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:36.080 Go ahead, town, Sexy Red is pregnant, you guys. I 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.680 know y'all seen it, but we're gonna report it. She 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:41.880 is pregnant, and I think that is in a line. 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:43.880 With her whole esthetic. 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:49.760 Be pregnant baby mama. Yeah, like, we just saw a 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:51.800 sex tape of her about two weeks ago, and now 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:56.640 she's pregnant, y'all. And listen, we all swards just two 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:58.559 weeks ago, and her stomach was flat. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.520 I didn't pay a really good attention to her stomach, 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:06.600 but it didn't look like she she don't look super pregnant. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:10.240 You know that belly is round. We would have seen 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:14.360 that round belly her performing three times. She performed three 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:16.960 times at the at the BT Hip Hop Awards, so 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:18.839 you might have missed the second time when she actually 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:23.360 did her personal performance. But yeah, we would have seen 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.400 that stomach girl. And then the pictures that are out. 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:27.000 I didn't see her on the red carpet, but the 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:33.279 pictures that are out. She said, she I don't know 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:36.679 how you sucked that much stomach in, but more power 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:38.159 to her. I wonder if the nigga she was on 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:41.400 the sex tape, what is her baby daddy? We gonna 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:42.080 find out soon. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.640 What did you think about sexy Red terry. 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:53.240 Sexy Red is one interesting character. I saw that photograph 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:56.159 of her, I guess saying that she was pregnant. I 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:58.960 thought she was bloated. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:06:59.960 You think she full of ship? 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.440 She said, And then she came back and said she 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.960 was trying to suck it in or whatever like that. 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:05.560 But if Sexy Red. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:08.360 Is pregnant, we're gonna have to expect a Sexy Red 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:09.120 pregnancy song. 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:15.400 Sexy Red baby. All right, y'all, listen, stick that stomach 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:17.560 out let that pussy breathe. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:23.400 It's definitely gonna sound something like that. That sounds about right. 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.200 Maybe you should go ahead and write the album for her, 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:26.600 I mean I could. 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.240 The lyrics are very elementary. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:34.520 Easy, okay, dumbitch, just rap speed easy, Right, y'all, Let's 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:40.920 talk about this goddamn megachurch pastor in Texas who was 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:46.120 just sued for two point forty five million dollars right 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:49.920 are two point four million dollars forgiving women herpes that 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:54.120 he was meeting on Facebook? Okay? A Texas pastor has 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:57.600 in order to pay a woman her a woman he 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:01.200 met online two point four million dollars after he gave 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:06.280 her her herpes. Ralph Douglas West the Second, the assistant 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:11.040 pastor of Houston's The Church Without Walls. That's the name 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:14.240 of the church, The Church without Walls. I guess it's 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:18.640 an online church. I don't know, was found guilty battery, 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:25.920 intentional infliction of emotional distress, and fraudulent concealment. So apparently 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:29.600 he knew he had herpes when asked about it. And 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:32.440 so y'all think because he a pastor, like a safe 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:36.240 to fuck him wrong? I know, I promote like i'd 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:38.880 definitely be on here talking about you know, fucking without 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.839 a condo. But the thing is that her piece is 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:43.880 skin contact, so even if you use a condom, you 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:47.040 might end up with herpees. People don't realize that herpee 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:50.320 simplex one. Like the lips you could give you could 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:55.120 also have fever. Blessings can also be simplex two, and 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:59.280 you could give a person vaginal herpes via oral sex. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:04.360 Home Slow down, wait a minute, Winter, there's a couple 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:06.439 of different forms of herpees, and you know, the herpes 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:10.400 virus is also just a strand of like like shingles, 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:14.439 chicken POXX, all that shit go together, right, herpes simplex 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:18.320 one and two. A person who gets let me stop 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.960 pointing at my motherfucking mouth like that and knock on wood, 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:30.000 a person that gets one on their mouth. Absolutely absolutely so, 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:33.160 even if you know, people don't associate that type of 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:39.160 herpee with vaginal herpee. But it's all transferable, right so 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:45.360 after that's something different that's warts. No, that's actually warts though. 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:49.280 But HPV more so affects women more than affects men 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:52.959 because we get cervical cancer. Well, I'm glad that. 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:55.400 Women getting paid two point four million dollars. I know 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:58.400 some people who got herpes for free. 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.160 Listen, they say one in one in three and one 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.840 in four people in America have herpes. It's something like 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:09.120 seventy percent other people in America have herpes. 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:11.839 Seventy people got herpies. 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.480 Yeah, if you've never been test you may have never 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:16.600 even had a house outbreak. But that's not something that 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:20.439 the doctors test you for unless you ask. Oh, because 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:25.640 it's so common. Yes, it's just that common. It's alright, 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.480 it's three of us right now. Which one of y'all 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:31.640 got herpes? You been hate me? 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:43.360 Not gonna will, right, Terry, he says, Terry got two 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:43.800 or more? 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:47.800 Congregate, somebody got herpies, Terry, real quiet. 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:50.240 Recent test shows. 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:53.680 They don't test you for that. You got to ask 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:56.960 for no, ask for it. Yes, that's so you went. 0:10:57.080 --> 0:10:58.720 You went and asked for a herpes test. 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:03.440 Why nah, you No, you ask for everything. They just 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:06.760 do everything they want. They draw blood, you actually test 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:07.200 for everything. 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:09.400 This is why I was like disgusting when people were 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:11.560 talking about usher because a lot of the people, like 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:13.959 in the comments online, don't know their status. 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.600 When it comes to herpees. You know what I'm saying. 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:17.400 If you've never actually been tested, and a lot of 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:19.280 people don't know they got dash it until they have 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:23.280 a fucking output, So it lies dormant on your spinal cord. 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.480 Well, I had a full panel test when I had 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:30.920 my fireboards removing may so I think they tested. 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:32.920 I'm gonna imagine they would test me for that too, right, 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:37.040 it's a full panel, A full planel really doesn't include 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.040 a herpes test though, that's a whole separate thing. Even 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:44.240 media gonorrhea, even if they're working on my vagina and 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:47.920 stuff like that, it seems like they would. Well, you 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.120 can go back on your my chart and take a 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.400 look and see if you actually have a test. Therefore 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:57.960 it I'm a look on mine. So it says. After 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:00.800 a three day trial and six hours of deliberation, a 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:04.000 jury determined on Thursday that West gave the victim general 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:06.920 herpes after they met on Facebook five years ago. 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:08.200 You can't fix it. 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:10.600 She's got it for the rest of her life, said 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:14.040 the said the woman's attorney, Sean Murphy, as reported on 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:19.000 Click to Houston. Y'all, that's terrible because there was another 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.760 pastor who was given his congregation. Hi v I remember 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:23.120 that ship, No. 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:23.920 Remember that? 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:24.720 Yes, girl? 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:27.680 A real thing. Be careful who you follow or who 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:31.400 you let hit raw, because even the pastor use condoms. 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:33.400 I guess some of these. 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:36.760 Some of these people, they use their influence to lure 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:37.320 the women in. 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:38.199 You know. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.160 You know, if you're a pastor, you're the head of 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:41.679 the church. 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:45.160 You know, so that church don't got no. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:49.720 Right here. 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.040 Words to manipulate. You know what I'm saying. 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:55.400 Knowing that he's in and infecting women. 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:57.160 Yeah, that's that's that's. 0:12:57.120 --> 0:13:00.640 Wow, the head of the church. And obviously you had 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:06.959 an outbreak while you was doing it. Yeah, terrible. Got 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:09.960 to be more careful. Speaking of outbreak, let's talk about 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:12.880 Jada Jada outbreak. 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:16.679 Yeah, it's like every other month we having a Herpies 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:22.480 outbreak of Jada. 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.000 God damn Jada. 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:29.280 If we can smith, it's like, why she don't stop? 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:30.800 All right? 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.040 Let me just say this. I love Jada. She was 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.880 the it girl when we were young. Everybody loved Jada 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:41.000 Pink it right, we did. We thought she was so dope. 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:45.680 Now in her fifties, she's just like this. I don't 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.640 know if she wants attention or what it is why 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:51.640 we are so involved in their life. 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:55.280 So she has a book coming out, so she has 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:58.280 something to promote, and she's promoting the fuck out of 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:00.560 that book. I'm pretty sure going to be a New 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:03.520 York Times bestseller. Okay when it does come out. I 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:05.480 did click onto my audible the other day to see 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:06.840 if it was on there, because I do got me 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:08.160 some credits. 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:10.240 I was definitely going to buy it so I can. 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.920 I'm actually want to read her book and Will Smith's book, 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:14.959 because y'all know, I'd be liking to understand where the 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:17.440 fuck people coming from or like what's actually going on. 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.840 But Will Smith was essentially on the same type of 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:22.960 press tour about a year year and a half ago 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:26.920 when his book came out. I think women period have 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:30.240 a have a uh not so a nice way of 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:33.520 saying things, you know what I'm saying, Like, maybe she 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:35.800 could be a little have a little bit more kouth 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:37.680 with the interviews that she's doing. 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:38.880 But she's not doing. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:43.280 Anything that he didn't do before her, you know, and 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.440 he actually he wrote a book, He wrote a nice 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.960 letter to her telling her, you know how if he 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:50.680 if he he wilhed he can go back thirty years, 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:51.760 he would have hugged her more. 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:56.720 M I just think that. 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:01.440 Just to speak from a man's PERSPECTI it's kind of embarrassing. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.880 You know. You have to really I always think, why 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:08.520 would she say these things publicly? You know, and you 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:10.560 do have a husband, and you have to consider your 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:13.200 husband before you say something. You got to think my husband. 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:14.640 Don feel I say this publicly. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:18.960 But because the internet is vicious, I would tell you 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:20.200 would never defeat the internet. 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:20.360 Man. 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:23.280 I'm just like, look, this man. 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:28.120 Just ain't nothing worse than the August Elsina. What the 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:36.680 heck the Thebaka entanglement. It can't get no worse than that, 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:39.680 I feel like at this point, but that wasn't her 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:42.400 doing at the time August of Sina started that she 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:46.480 was doing. For sure, she was definitely doing. Her issue 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:49.440 was fucking with somebody who didn't have shit to lose. See, 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:52.480 Will Smith is not exempt. We pretty I'm pretty sure 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:55.080 he has some ship that he's done before. She just 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.680 got caught up at that particular time and she took 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:00.360 accountability and she didn't say, well should I was sucking 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:01.960 on that, young nigga because you was fucking on side 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:03.400 to such. She just didn't do that. Now that's some 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:05.640 shit I do. Okay, are you trying to check me 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:07.120 by some shit I did. I'm gonna bring up some 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:09.160 shits you did, like why are you tripping? Can I 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:11.840 get some grace? Yeah? 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:14.280 But she just took ownership of what was going on 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:14.760 at the time. 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:17.640 She didn't drag him down then, but now it's like 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:20.800 now she's trying to defend herself. We weren't together then, 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:22.920 and now he was amaze doing that. He got a 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:24.000 whole boyfriend. 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:28.680 Who oh, august Issina, I mean what I mean? 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.720 People say things about thought too. 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:34.200 I thought it was his cousin or something, and I 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:36.520 thought he was just like doing that to make people 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:40.720 think he was gay. Oh really, well, I definitely thought 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:41.240 he was gay. 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:43.240 That might be his boyfriend. 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:43.600 I don't know. 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:44.680 I ain't look too much into it. 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:45.760 I don't really care that much. 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:54.680 But that brings us to our topic, does it? It does? 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:56.720 What are we talking about today? 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:00.280 We're talking about people in your motherfucking business. When you're 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:04.480 in a relationship, social media, your friends, your group, chat, 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:07.800 your pastor who should you talk about your relationship with? 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:11.320 Is it safe to share with anybody? Or should you 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:15.480 just keep your relationship with your partner in that scene, 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:18.360 we'll get into it when we get back from this commercial. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:26.800 All right, y'all, so we're back, and just like Tam said, 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:30.719 we want to talk about who do you tell your 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:32.760 business too? Because I know I tell my business on here, 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:34.359 I'm gonna tell my business to tell me. 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:35.920 I literally got bout five people. 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:39.320 I'm gonna tell the same fucking story too until I 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:41.600 can't say it no more. And that's not always good 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:44.320 because I really be feeling depleted by the end of 0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:46.960 the fucking evening, bitch, after I told all y'all bitches 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:55.919 my relationship bullshit, right, But that's also therapy. That's therapeutic 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:58.680 for me to be able to talk to whoever about 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:01.119 whatever the fuck it is that going on now. Jada, 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:03.919 if we're using her as an example for this, like 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:06.840 she's telling the whole world via a book and now 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:11.399 through press RUMs but is that healthy because you know, 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:13.480 you do have to consider your partner and your kids. 0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:17.400 I know most men don't like people, most men don't 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:21.800 like women to tell anybody what's going on in a relationship. 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:23.359 How do you feel about that, Terry? 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:29.320 To answer that last question, I think it just depends 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:32.520 on who that woman is telling. We already know that 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:35.480 most women have that one go to friend that they're gonna, 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:37.879 you know, confide in with a certain situations, and the 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:40.000 man really might not mind because he already thinks like 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.879 that person is cool. But I think it just depends 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:44.600 on who you telling. You know what I'm saying. But 0:18:44.640 --> 0:18:47.320 then don't skew it. Don't make it look one sided. 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:50.040 Try to be fair if you're telling the story. But 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:52.240 you got to have an unbiased friend as well. And 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:54.680 your friend got to know you. So if your friend 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:56.280 know you, and they're gonna be like, all right, so 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:00.399 what did you do? You know what I'm saying. I 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.760 think that's what it is, man. But at the same time, 0:19:03.200 --> 0:19:05.400 I'm back to Jada with this press friend. Like you said, 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:09.600 you have to consider your kids and your husband, you know, 0:19:09.680 --> 0:19:12.239 even if they already know you just have to consider them. 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:14.719 Just be respectful with things you say. You don't want 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:16.359 to make the person look like it's a weirdo. 0:19:16.520 --> 0:19:18.160 You know, some people be weird those though. 0:19:18.640 --> 0:19:20.680 That's the thing some people do. I got a text 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:24.879 message this morning that says something about arrows and bowls 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:27.639 or some shit like that from somebody I've been ignoring 0:19:27.760 --> 0:19:34.000 for months, right, And we definitely have a different we 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:36.679 have a difference in opinion or a perception of what 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:39.000 transpired in that relationship. 0:19:39.440 --> 0:19:41.119 So I can tell the story, and we and me 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:41.720 and Timmy, we. 0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:44.640 Talk about perspective and perception a lot, right, because that's 0:19:44.640 --> 0:19:49.919 really what's going on now. So I can't I'm telling 0:19:50.160 --> 0:19:53.719 what I'm telling my friends and whoever, how the relationship 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:57.000 with went based on my perspective. Right, the other person 0:19:57.040 --> 0:20:01.600 probably had a grand old time. Meanwhile, I'm feeling like 0:20:01.640 --> 0:20:04.760 a maniac over here. I'm the one that's going crazy. 0:20:04.840 --> 0:20:07.080 You're the cause of it. But this is fun for you. 0:20:09.760 --> 0:20:13.600 This is your normal setting chaos. This isn't my normal setting. 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:16.200 So you may not even recognize the ship you did 0:20:16.240 --> 0:20:19.639 in a relationship. So when I'm telling somebody my perspective 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:21.560 based on what I'm feeling and what I'm going through, 0:20:21.560 --> 0:20:24.760 which is my story also to tell, right, So you 0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:27.520 can't always consider the other person's feelings, like, yeah, you 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:33.199 can try to. You could try to, like you got 0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:37.200 to have accountability to write m h fact like right, 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:38.680 so I can tell you why I have that. 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:45.320 I hate that part. You hate accountability, yo, I. 0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:47.720 Don't mind it because let me tell y'all, I really 0:20:47.760 --> 0:20:52.720 try to follow the four I think a lot of 0:20:52.720 --> 0:20:54.720 black women in particularly hate accountability. 0:20:54.920 --> 0:20:58.400 I think a lot of people is not just black women. 0:20:58.520 --> 0:21:02.160 People, No, No, most people don't like. 0:21:02.119 --> 0:21:05.239