Speaker 1: Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
Speaker 1: who talks. Thank you for tune in a friend new
Speaker 1: episode and we talked back and she was dedicated to
Speaker 1: your niggas and these bitches in these hoes and everybody else.
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, it's me Tim Bam. I love y'all.
Speaker 1: Did you say you were my co host AJ? That
Speaker 1: was my co host AJ? Everybody?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't get to you know, but it's me, you know,
Speaker 1: small back a j Oh, I'm big, bigger person. I'm
Speaker 1: big her back this year and I'm never going to
Speaker 1: be the bigger person.
Speaker 2: Well, it's big back Tam Bam, y'all, I love y'all.
Speaker 1: We gotta go. We got a co host this week, y'all.
Speaker 1: Uh look, y'all listen. This is my friend from first
Speaker 1: grade through fucking college. Okay, Terry, what you want to
Speaker 1: go by? We're doing low Oh you ain't going back
Speaker 1: to low teen.
Speaker 3: Y'all can call me Terry. Only people that know me
Speaker 3: like that can call me that, but everybody else come.
Speaker 4: And this has been my friends since eighteen years old
Speaker 4: to we're now twenty seven, so good good ten years
Speaker 4: almost y'all listen.
Speaker 3: More than that. More than that. We met in two
Speaker 3: thousand and three.
Speaker 2: We're twenty seven, nigga, I just said that ten years.
Speaker 1: Shame, y'all. Terry has been telling us fucking lie about
Speaker 1: me since I had a Jerry carl and elementary Okay,
Speaker 1: he has been going around and even into my adult
Speaker 1: life lying.
Speaker 2: Go ahead and tell everybody's story, Terry.
Speaker 3: Listen. One day we was in elementary school, Snandra's elementary school,
Speaker 3: Ashley had a Jerry cirl. It's not a lot everybody, Ashley,
Speaker 3: jeez is, why why are you saying my whole name?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: We go ahead, all right, y'all to school.
Speaker 5: One day Ashley came to school one day. I remember
Speaker 5: what she had on.
Speaker 3: She had the Jerry Curle for starters. She had on
Speaker 3: all black sweatsuit, the Lie Russell by Black Chuck Taylors
Speaker 3: and black Chuck Taylors. And I was like, yo, here
Speaker 3: a break dance and ever since game we been going that.
Speaker 3: And she called my mom a demolition man because she
Speaker 3: had going here.
Speaker 1: No, that same day, y'all, he go like, Terry cat
Speaker 1: oh because he got gray hand.
Speaker 2: I don't, okay. So let's be very clear, right, So.
Speaker 3: He you used to crack with my mama because she
Speaker 3: had going ahead.
Speaker 1: And tell him about your mom in a minute. But okay,
Speaker 1: Terry used to tell people. I would say, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: check it out, and then busting to me and then
Speaker 1: busting to the break dance. First of all, my mom
Speaker 1: was not buying no name brand ship, so I know,
Speaker 1: damn well. I had no Adidas or Russell anything in
Speaker 1: elementary school. Okay, it could have been Walmart, but I
Speaker 1: definitely was not wearing no fucking tracksuits back then, y'all.
Speaker 1: This never fucking happened. And he's been telling the same
Speaker 1: fucking lie since we were JITs.
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all think I'm gonna meet this up and carry
Speaker 3: us home for all these years.
Speaker 1: For forty years, but I love My name is a
Speaker 1: j we're characters on this podcast.
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all calling me Terry all right, as I.
Speaker 2: Wanted to be referred to by, as I asked.
Speaker 3: You forgive me, y'all forgive me.
Speaker 4: So Ashley was wearing no boundaries outfits.
Speaker 3: Hey, she.
Speaker 1: And Charlie Terry Carroll dripping in Charlie Taylor's y'all, I
Speaker 1: used to hate Jerry carl so bad because the fucking
Speaker 1: mosquitos in the summertime at Charleston ain't no fucking joke.
Speaker 1: Then she used to be stuck and.
Speaker 2: My hair stuck to the curls, stuck to the juice.
Speaker 1: Mad.
Speaker 2: They was like, Oh that looks shiny, let's land on it.
Speaker 3: And then die. Girl.
Speaker 1: My sister would come home and be like, girl, so
Speaker 1: and so said, you were sitting in that seat on
Speaker 1: the bus because your juice was like on the seat
Speaker 1: and in the window. You know, you like middle school
Speaker 1: to ride the same bus as the elementary at just
Speaker 1: different times, so people would be tripping off me in
Speaker 1: my absence.
Speaker 2: Right, this is how I learned all you mama jokes.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is how I learned how to fucking trip
Speaker 1: off people quick because I got an hour worth of
Speaker 1: stand up comedy for anybody trying to come from me.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, so go glow. Let's get into internet.
Speaker 1: Least. We ain't talked about our weekends. We've been talking
Speaker 1: about growing up and shit, I ain't do nothing this weekend. Nowhere,
Speaker 1: go ahead to him.
Speaker 4: I ain't just shit either. My hair been looking fulled up.
Speaker 4: I went back to swim class. It's just so hard
Speaker 4: to look cute and exercise if you don't have like
Speaker 4: a protective style in good grief.
Speaker 1: Yeah, black women be having it, howered, man, trying to
Speaker 1: trying to stay healthy and keep your head done is
Speaker 1: a real, real life struggle.
Speaker 2: So I didn't know what you had going on this weekend, Terry.
Speaker 3: Nothing much, man. I went to an all black party,
Speaker 3: A lot worked and uh just lively chilled out. You
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. With my homebole house to watching football.
Speaker 3: That's about it.
Speaker 1: What's your favorite team?
Speaker 3: Cowboys?
Speaker 6: Okay, stupid, stupid Sexy Red is pressed. Actually stupid Internet news.
Speaker 6: Go ahead, town, Sexy Red is pregnant, you guys. I
Speaker 6: know y'all seen it, but we're gonna report it. She
Speaker 6: is pregnant, and I think that is in a line.
Speaker 2: With her whole esthetic.
Speaker 1: Be pregnant baby mama. Yeah, like, we just saw a
Speaker 1: sex tape of her about two weeks ago, and now
Speaker 1: she's pregnant, y'all. And listen, we all swards just two
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and her stomach was flat.
Speaker 4: I didn't pay a really good attention to her stomach,
Speaker 4: but it didn't look like she she don't look super pregnant.
Speaker 1: You know that belly is round. We would have seen
Speaker 1: that round belly her performing three times. She performed three
Speaker 1: times at the at the BT Hip Hop Awards, so
Speaker 1: you might have missed the second time when she actually
Speaker 1: did her personal performance. But yeah, we would have seen
Speaker 1: that stomach girl. And then the pictures that are out.
Speaker 1: I didn't see her on the red carpet, but the
Speaker 1: pictures that are out. She said, she I don't know
Speaker 1: how you sucked that much stomach in, but more power
Speaker 1: to her. I wonder if the nigga she was on
Speaker 1: the sex tape, what is her baby daddy? We gonna
Speaker 1: find out soon.
Speaker 2: What did you think about sexy Red terry.
Speaker 3: Sexy Red is one interesting character. I saw that photograph
Speaker 3: of her, I guess saying that she was pregnant. I
Speaker 3: thought she was bloated.
Speaker 1: You think she full of ship?
Speaker 3: She said, And then she came back and said she
Speaker 3: was trying to suck it in or whatever like that.
Speaker 3: But if Sexy Red.
Speaker 5: Is pregnant, we're gonna have to expect a Sexy Red
Speaker 5: pregnancy song.
Speaker 4: Sexy Red baby. All right, y'all, listen, stick that stomach
Speaker 4: out let that pussy breathe.
Speaker 1: It's definitely gonna sound something like that. That sounds about right.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should go ahead and write the album for her,
Speaker 1: I mean I could.
Speaker 2: The lyrics are very elementary.
Speaker 1: Easy, okay, dumbitch, just rap speed easy, Right, y'all, Let's
Speaker 1: talk about this goddamn megachurch pastor in Texas who was
Speaker 1: just sued for two point forty five million dollars right
Speaker 1: are two point four million dollars forgiving women herpes that
Speaker 1: he was meeting on Facebook? Okay? A Texas pastor has
Speaker 1: in order to pay a woman her a woman he
Speaker 1: met online two point four million dollars after he gave
Speaker 1: her her herpes. Ralph Douglas West the Second, the assistant
Speaker 1: pastor of Houston's The Church Without Walls. That's the name
Speaker 1: of the church, The Church without Walls. I guess it's
Speaker 1: an online church. I don't know, was found guilty battery,
Speaker 1: intentional infliction of emotional distress, and fraudulent concealment. So apparently
Speaker 1: he knew he had herpes when asked about it. And
Speaker 1: so y'all think because he a pastor, like a safe
Speaker 1: to fuck him wrong? I know, I promote like i'd
Speaker 1: definitely be on here talking about you know, fucking without
Speaker 1: a condo. But the thing is that her piece is
Speaker 1: skin contact, so even if you use a condom, you
Speaker 1: might end up with herpees. People don't realize that herpee
Speaker 1: simplex one. Like the lips you could give you could
Speaker 1: also have fever. Blessings can also be simplex two, and
Speaker 1: you could give a person vaginal herpes via oral sex.
Speaker 1: Home Slow down, wait a minute, Winter, there's a couple
Speaker 1: of different forms of herpees, and you know, the herpes
Speaker 1: virus is also just a strand of like like shingles,
Speaker 1: chicken POXX, all that shit go together, right, herpes simplex
Speaker 1: one and two. A person who gets let me stop
Speaker 1: pointing at my motherfucking mouth like that and knock on wood,
Speaker 1: a person that gets one on their mouth. Absolutely absolutely so,
Speaker 1: even if you know, people don't associate that type of
Speaker 1: herpee with vaginal herpee. But it's all transferable, right so
Speaker 1: after that's something different that's warts. No, that's actually warts though.
Speaker 1: But HPV more so affects women more than affects men
Speaker 1: because we get cervical cancer. Well, I'm glad that.
Speaker 4: Women getting paid two point four million dollars. I know
Speaker 4: some people who got herpes for free.
Speaker 1: Listen, they say one in one in three and one
Speaker 1: in four people in America have herpes. It's something like
Speaker 1: seventy percent other people in America have herpes.
Speaker 2: Seventy people got herpies.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you've never been test you may have never
Speaker 1: even had a house outbreak. But that's not something that
Speaker 1: the doctors test you for unless you ask. Oh, because
Speaker 1: it's so common. Yes, it's just that common. It's alright,
Speaker 1: it's three of us right now. Which one of y'all
Speaker 1: got herpes? You been hate me?
Speaker 2: Not gonna will, right, Terry, he says, Terry got two
Speaker 2: or more?
Speaker 1: Congregate, somebody got herpies, Terry, real quiet.
Speaker 3: Recent test shows.
Speaker 4: They don't test you for that. You got to ask
Speaker 4: for no, ask for it. Yes, that's so you went.
Speaker 4: You went and asked for a herpes test.
Speaker 3: Why nah, you No, you ask for everything. They just
Speaker 3: do everything they want. They draw blood, you actually test
Speaker 3: for everything.
Speaker 1: This is why I was like disgusting when people were
Speaker 1: talking about usher because a lot of the people, like
Speaker 1: in the comments online, don't know their status.
Speaker 2: When it comes to herpees. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If you've never actually been tested, and a lot of
Speaker 1: people don't know they got dash it until they have
Speaker 1: a fucking output, So it lies dormant on your spinal cord.
Speaker 4: Well, I had a full panel test when I had
Speaker 4: my fireboards removing may so I think they tested.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna imagine they would test me for that too, right,
Speaker 1: it's a full panel, A full planel really doesn't include
Speaker 1: a herpes test though, that's a whole separate thing. Even
Speaker 1: media gonorrhea, even if they're working on my vagina and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, it seems like they would. Well, you
Speaker 1: can go back on your my chart and take a
Speaker 1: look and see if you actually have a test. Therefore
Speaker 1: it I'm a look on mine. So it says. After
Speaker 1: a three day trial and six hours of deliberation, a
Speaker 1: jury determined on Thursday that West gave the victim general
Speaker 1: herpes after they met on Facebook five years ago.
Speaker 3: You can't fix it.
Speaker 1: She's got it for the rest of her life, said
Speaker 1: the said the woman's attorney, Sean Murphy, as reported on
Speaker 1: Click to Houston. Y'all, that's terrible because there was another
Speaker 1: pastor who was given his congregation. Hi v I remember
Speaker 1: that ship, No.
Speaker 3: Remember that?
Speaker 2: Yes, girl?
Speaker 1: A real thing. Be careful who you follow or who
Speaker 1: you let hit raw, because even the pastor use condoms.
Speaker 1: I guess some of these.
Speaker 5: Some of these people, they use their influence to lure
Speaker 5: the women in.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 5: You know, if you're a pastor, you're the head of
Speaker 5: the church.
Speaker 3: You know, so that church don't got no.
Speaker 1: Right here.
Speaker 3: Words to manipulate. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Knowing that he's in and infecting women.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's that's.
Speaker 1: Wow, the head of the church. And obviously you had
Speaker 1: an outbreak while you was doing it. Yeah, terrible. Got
Speaker 1: to be more careful. Speaking of outbreak, let's talk about
Speaker 1: Jada Jada outbreak.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like every other month we having a Herpies
Speaker 4: outbreak of Jada.
Speaker 1: God damn Jada.
Speaker 2: If we can smith, it's like, why she don't stop?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 4: Let me just say this. I love Jada. She was
Speaker 4: the it girl when we were young. Everybody loved Jada
Speaker 4: Pink it right, we did. We thought she was so dope.
Speaker 4: Now in her fifties, she's just like this. I don't
Speaker 4: know if she wants attention or what it is why
Speaker 4: we are so involved in their life.
Speaker 1: So she has a book coming out, so she has
Speaker 1: something to promote, and she's promoting the fuck out of
Speaker 1: that book. I'm pretty sure going to be a New
Speaker 1: York Times bestseller. Okay when it does come out. I
Speaker 1: did click onto my audible the other day to see
Speaker 1: if it was on there, because I do got me
Speaker 1: some credits.
Speaker 2: I was definitely going to buy it so I can.
Speaker 1: I'm actually want to read her book and Will Smith's book,
Speaker 1: because y'all know, I'd be liking to understand where the
Speaker 1: fuck people coming from or like what's actually going on.
Speaker 1: But Will Smith was essentially on the same type of
Speaker 1: press tour about a year year and a half ago
Speaker 1: when his book came out. I think women period have
Speaker 1: a have a uh not so a nice way of
Speaker 1: saying things, you know what I'm saying, Like, maybe she
Speaker 1: could be a little have a little bit more kouth
Speaker 1: with the interviews that she's doing.
Speaker 3: But she's not doing.
Speaker 1: Anything that he didn't do before her, you know, and
Speaker 1: he actually he wrote a book, He wrote a nice
Speaker 1: letter to her telling her, you know how if he
Speaker 1: if he he wilhed he can go back thirty years,
Speaker 1: he would have hugged her more.
Speaker 3: M I just think that.
Speaker 5: Just to speak from a man's PERSPECTI it's kind of embarrassing.
Speaker 3: You know. You have to really I always think, why
Speaker 3: would she say these things publicly? You know, and you
Speaker 3: do have a husband, and you have to consider your
Speaker 3: husband before you say something. You got to think my husband.
Speaker 3: Don feel I say this publicly.
Speaker 5: But because the internet is vicious, I would tell you
Speaker 5: would never defeat the internet.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 3: I'm just like, look, this man.
Speaker 1: Just ain't nothing worse than the August Elsina. What the
Speaker 1: heck the Thebaka entanglement. It can't get no worse than that,
Speaker 1: I feel like at this point, but that wasn't her
Speaker 1: doing at the time August of Sina started that she
Speaker 1: was doing. For sure, she was definitely doing. Her issue
Speaker 1: was fucking with somebody who didn't have shit to lose. See,
Speaker 1: Will Smith is not exempt. We pretty I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: he has some ship that he's done before. She just
Speaker 1: got caught up at that particular time and she took
Speaker 1: accountability and she didn't say, well should I was sucking
Speaker 1: on that, young nigga because you was fucking on side
Speaker 1: to such. She just didn't do that. Now that's some
Speaker 1: shit I do. Okay, are you trying to check me
Speaker 1: by some shit I did. I'm gonna bring up some
Speaker 1: shits you did, like why are you tripping? Can I
Speaker 1: get some grace? Yeah?
Speaker 3: But she just took ownership of what was going on
Speaker 3: at the time.
Speaker 1: She didn't drag him down then, but now it's like
Speaker 1: now she's trying to defend herself. We weren't together then,
Speaker 1: and now he was amaze doing that. He got a
Speaker 1: whole boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Who oh, august Issina, I mean what I mean?
Speaker 3: People say things about thought too.
Speaker 1: I thought it was his cousin or something, and I
Speaker 1: thought he was just like doing that to make people
Speaker 1: think he was gay. Oh really, well, I definitely thought
Speaker 1: he was gay.
Speaker 2: That might be his boyfriend.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I ain't look too much into it.
Speaker 2: I don't really care that much.
Speaker 1: But that brings us to our topic, does it? It does?
Speaker 1: What are we talking about today?
Speaker 4: We're talking about people in your motherfucking business. When you're
Speaker 4: in a relationship, social media, your friends, your group, chat,
Speaker 4: your pastor who should you talk about your relationship with?
Speaker 4: Is it safe to share with anybody? Or should you
Speaker 4: just keep your relationship with your partner in that scene,
Speaker 4: we'll get into it when we get back from this commercial.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, so we're back, and just like Tam said,
Speaker 1: we want to talk about who do you tell your
Speaker 1: business too? Because I know I tell my business on here,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell my business to tell me.
Speaker 2: I literally got bout five people.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell the same fucking story too until I
Speaker 1: can't say it no more. And that's not always good
Speaker 1: because I really be feeling depleted by the end of
Speaker 1: the fucking evening, bitch, after I told all y'all bitches
Speaker 1: my relationship bullshit, right, But that's also therapy. That's therapeutic
Speaker 1: for me to be able to talk to whoever about
Speaker 1: whatever the fuck it is that going on now. Jada,
Speaker 1: if we're using her as an example for this, like
Speaker 1: she's telling the whole world via a book and now
Speaker 1: through press RUMs but is that healthy because you know,
Speaker 1: you do have to consider your partner and your kids.
Speaker 1: I know most men don't like people, most men don't
Speaker 1: like women to tell anybody what's going on in a relationship.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that, Terry?
Speaker 3: To answer that last question, I think it just depends
Speaker 3: on who that woman is telling. We already know that
Speaker 3: most women have that one go to friend that they're gonna,
Speaker 3: you know, confide in with a certain situations, and the
Speaker 3: man really might not mind because he already thinks like
Speaker 3: that person is cool. But I think it just depends
Speaker 3: on who you telling. You know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 3: then don't skew it. Don't make it look one sided.
Speaker 3: Try to be fair if you're telling the story. But
Speaker 3: you got to have an unbiased friend as well. And
Speaker 3: your friend got to know you. So if your friend
Speaker 3: know you, and they're gonna be like, all right, so
Speaker 3: what did you do? You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 3: think that's what it is, man. But at the same time,
Speaker 3: I'm back to Jada with this press friend. Like you said,
Speaker 3: you have to consider your kids and your husband, you know,
Speaker 3: even if they already know you just have to consider them.
Speaker 3: Just be respectful with things you say. You don't want
Speaker 3: to make the person look like it's a weirdo.
Speaker 2: You know, some people be weird those though.
Speaker 1: That's the thing some people do. I got a text
Speaker 1: message this morning that says something about arrows and bowls
Speaker 1: or some shit like that from somebody I've been ignoring
Speaker 1: for months, right, And we definitely have a different we
Speaker 1: have a difference in opinion or a perception of what
Speaker 1: transpired in that relationship.
Speaker 2: So I can tell the story, and we and me
Speaker 2: and Timmy, we.
Speaker 1: Talk about perspective and perception a lot, right, because that's
Speaker 1: really what's going on now. So I can't I'm telling
Speaker 1: what I'm telling my friends and whoever, how the relationship
Speaker 1: with went based on my perspective. Right, the other person
Speaker 1: probably had a grand old time. Meanwhile, I'm feeling like
Speaker 1: a maniac over here. I'm the one that's going crazy.
Speaker 1: You're the cause of it. But this is fun for you.
Speaker 1: This is your normal setting chaos. This isn't my normal setting.
Speaker 1: So you may not even recognize the ship you did
Speaker 1: in a relationship. So when I'm telling somebody my perspective
Speaker 1: based on what I'm feeling and what I'm going through,
Speaker 1: which is my story also to tell, right, So you
Speaker 1: can't always consider the other person's feelings, like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: can try to. You could try to, like you got
Speaker 1: to have accountability to write m h fact like right,
Speaker 1: so I can tell you why I have that.
Speaker 2: I hate that part. You hate accountability, yo, I.
Speaker 1: Don't mind it because let me tell y'all, I really
Speaker 1: try to follow the four I think a lot of
Speaker 1: black women in particularly hate accountability.
Speaker 4: I think a lot of people is not just black women.
Speaker 1: People, No, No, most people don't like.
Speaker 4: Omitting when they're wrong, and a lot of people have
Speaker 4: trouble saying sorry when they're wrong.
Speaker 1: I think we're black.
Speaker 3: When I'm conversing with men, almost ninety eight percent of
Speaker 3: them saying they struggle with women being accountable for their actions.
Speaker 1: I agree, black women, I'm not really I wasn't throwing
Speaker 1: us under the bus, Okay, It's just like I was saying, like,
Speaker 1: I'd be titting if you tat right, and I feel
Speaker 1: like when I tat, you should shut the fuck up
Speaker 1: because you tit me first. So no, I'm not taking
Speaker 1: accountability for some ship you started that I don't be starting.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I try to do my best.
Speaker 1: That is one of the four agreements, doing your fucking best.
Speaker 1: I try to do my best in every situation so
Speaker 1: that after the situation I could be like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I ain't did that shit?
Speaker 2: It was that, nigga.
Speaker 4: No, I've definitely started shit and fucked up and made
Speaker 4: bad decisions and relationships. I can own that, you know,
Speaker 4: I'm human, I was growing, I was learning. I think
Speaker 4: I'd be better in the next one. Now, as far
Speaker 4: as far as telling my business, I would tell it
Speaker 4: to anybody who would fucking listen. And I didn't learn
Speaker 4: my lesson in that too, Like especially doing bitches hair
Speaker 4: and I'm going through something, I'd be sitting there telling
Speaker 4: these holes my business and then you know, just everybody.
Speaker 4: And I had to get away from that because not
Speaker 4: everybody's your friend, and not everybody giving you advice because
Speaker 4: they care and they want you to be happy. Some
Speaker 4: people are giving you advice because they really don't like
Speaker 4: your motherfucking ass and want you to.
Speaker 1: Be Leave that motherfucker bitch.
Speaker 3: So the first thing, see, that's one thing I never
Speaker 3: tell my friends. I never tell my friends to leave
Speaker 3: their girlfriends. You know what I'm saying, no matter what
Speaker 3: they did, because one thing I learned, man.
Speaker 1: I will I will tell a bitch to leave. But
Speaker 1: that's if he's like very verbally abusive and hands and yeah, it.
Speaker 3: Depends on something like that. Yeah you're getting your behind,
Speaker 3: you getting your ass kicked, or they're just doing something
Speaker 3: that they can't take back. It's like, okay, yeah, you
Speaker 3: have to you know what I'm saying, get the kids.
Speaker 4: If you very verbally abusive too, I will the girl.
Speaker 4: You need to get up out of there. Then he
Speaker 4: don't respect you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, especially if he's calling you out your name. I
Speaker 3: can say that too.
Speaker 1: Well sometimes y'all, just that I don't like Sometimes if
Speaker 1: you're acting like a bitch, somebody need to tell you.
Speaker 3: No, no, no. If you huh no, how you gonna
Speaker 3: tell him you being a bitch right.
Speaker 2: Now you're telling a homegirl that or the man he
Speaker 2: being a bitch to do that? No, I mean if
Speaker 2: your dude can't tell you you being a bitch.
Speaker 3: All right? Oh okay, I thought you say.
Speaker 1: You know I can't call no man, not my man.
Speaker 1: I want to talk to my man like.
Speaker 2: No, if I start calling you a bitch, just kind
Speaker 2: of go. But if I don't like you.
Speaker 1: But if I'm being a bitch and you say, all right, man,
Speaker 1: you being a bitch, like chill out? I can.
Speaker 3: I can?
Speaker 2: I can, because sometimes I do, and somebody need to
Speaker 2: tell me.
Speaker 3: You know. See, one thing about men, men are very
Speaker 3: cooperative women only check it out now, but're not very
Speaker 3: cooperative with their women. But you got to know how
Speaker 3: to get that out of him. It's haul on how
Speaker 3: you talk a woman tongue listen, that they can either
Speaker 3: lift you up tail ass.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 3: You got to know how to talk to them. That
Speaker 3: nigga will move how you want him to move, but
Speaker 3: you got to speak it into him. You know, trust
Speaker 3: me on this, but.
Speaker 2: I think it's the same way the other way around.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like women need a man
Speaker 1: that's going to affirm them, who want to Who's going
Speaker 1: to give them words of affirmation depends I've had. I
Speaker 1: feel like my last couple of relationships, this is where
Speaker 1: I get this. You gotta talk to me nice. I
Speaker 1: really mean that shit right, because I was in relationships
Speaker 1: where motherfuckers was not talking to me nice right. And
Speaker 1: I'm a one upper, so I find myself being extra
Speaker 1: nasty to counter your nasty and that's not my normal setting.
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to I don't want to be
Speaker 1: able to say like the worst ship to my dude
Speaker 1: to win an argument or like to kind of leverage
Speaker 1: out how he's treating me. I don't want that, like,
Speaker 1: talk to me nice, because women are different when you
Speaker 1: talk to them nicely.
Speaker 3: Too.
Speaker 1: Everybody likes respect right. And you know we talk about
Speaker 1: this a lot on the show, like niggas always saying
Speaker 1: how they want peace, but a lot of these niggas
Speaker 1: are not peaceful. Okay, So you want to be a
Speaker 1: whole demon and you want me to still be loving. No,
Speaker 1: you have to be inviting of that type of shit.
Speaker 1: You cannot walk in the house change the energy at
Speaker 1: a home and I'm supposed to stow Come over, baby,
Speaker 1: what's the matter are you? No, y'all need you to
Speaker 1: be a big man and use your words. Tell me
Speaker 1: how you feel. And because the thing is, men will
Speaker 1: go outside the house and treat people better out there,
Speaker 1: then they treat the person that they got to deal
Speaker 1: with on a daily basis.
Speaker 4: But but no, that's not fair because sometimes like you
Speaker 4: need to baby your man every now and then you
Speaker 4: come home in his energy bad. It's okay to shift
Speaker 4: the energy in your space. Like maybe he had a
Speaker 4: real man my energy, but maybe he had a really
Speaker 4: bad day. Maybe something happened to him that day. He
Speaker 4: hasn't even had an opportunity to speak on it. And
Speaker 4: here you come, like, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 3: No? I don't say nothing. That's the thing.
Speaker 1: I match energy, right, So, and that's that is a
Speaker 1: problem of mine, right, I match energy. So my attitude
Speaker 1: depends on you. So if I'm chippery and I'm happy
Speaker 1: and you come in the house crazy, I'm automatically coming down.
Speaker 1: Like now I don't feel good because I could feel
Speaker 1: I could feel your energy. Right, So it's like, exactly,
Speaker 1: you've now you've completed how I and I've been chilling
Speaker 1: all day long, feeling great, feeling good, right, But that's
Speaker 1: not your normal setting. And this is me going based
Speaker 1: off of previous situations when men, I just want people
Speaker 1: to get away from the finger pointing as if this
Speaker 1: is something that women do, because there are a lot
Speaker 1: of men out here who and I won't call it
Speaker 1: feminine energy because it may very well be a part
Speaker 1: of masculinity, right, because we already know when niggas get mad,
Speaker 1: somebody could die. When niggas getting their feelings, somebody gets shot.
Speaker 1: It's a real thing. So who's more emotional?
Speaker 3: Men?
Speaker 2: Are women?
Speaker 1: Who's more violent?
Speaker 4: I think we're more emotional, But these niggas is more
Speaker 4: violent than this. When they get emotional, we typically ain't
Speaker 4: gonna kill nobody. I mean we do sometimes don't get
Speaker 4: me wrong.
Speaker 1: But men go there more than we do.
Speaker 5: So'll y'all basically think that a lot of men have
Speaker 5: a communication.
Speaker 3: Is absolutely.
Speaker 1: I think, and we just communicate differently.
Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing I disagree that men. If we
Speaker 3: just stay on that men have a communication issue, because
Speaker 3: men will come into a barbershop or whatever and spill
Speaker 3: everything out in front of a room full of strangers. Right,
Speaker 3: So that tells me right there, you don't have a
Speaker 3: communication issue. I think they have a communication issue with that.
Speaker 2: That's still a communication issue.
Speaker 1: So if you can tell strangers of what's going on,
Speaker 1: but you have neglected because I got little toys and
Speaker 1: tell me all their business. But have you communicated that
Speaker 1: with your woman so she can course correct the problem.
Speaker 3: Most of the time, and most of the time most
Speaker 3: men who have not communicated that with their women after
Speaker 3: you ask them, it's mostly it's because that woman having
Speaker 3: created that space for him to come to her knowing
Speaker 3: that it's a safe space.
Speaker 5: Basically, she have to create that safe face for him
Speaker 5: to come to him, becau it's already hard coming to
Speaker 5: woman be vulnerable without it being tossed back in your face.
Speaker 1: You know, that's a mean person and I want to
Speaker 1: get away from that too. That is not a woman thing.
Speaker 1: That is just a mean person thing when somebody throws
Speaker 1: your vulnerabilities into your face, because it's happened to me
Speaker 1: for men, right, So yes, in order to be in
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship with somebody, y'all got to be able
Speaker 1: to communicate whatever it is. And that's when me and
Speaker 1: Tom talk about like open relationships. It's not just about fucking.
Speaker 1: It's just like being able to be completely open with
Speaker 1: the person you sleeping next to every night, Like why
Speaker 1: do you Why are you more comfortable telling one of
Speaker 1: your homegirls about me and you can't tell me about me?
Speaker 1: Right now? That is where accountability comes in a women's part,
Speaker 1: right if a man, I think a lot of times
Speaker 1: that a lot of times women think that they have
Speaker 1: no fault in a relationship. They're not at fault for
Speaker 1: anything because a man never communicated his grievances with her.
Speaker 2: We are very vocal when we have a problem with
Speaker 2: a man.
Speaker 1: We tell you until you until you correct the issue,
Speaker 1: we're gonna keep telling you about it. Men have a
Speaker 1: tendency of going outside the relationship to resolve the issues. Right,
Speaker 1: they might go fuck on somebody else to complete their happiness,
Speaker 1: and they still come home and be disgruntled towards you.
Speaker 1: They haven't communicated to you what the problem is right
Speaker 1: so that they can correct, so that you can correct it.
Speaker 1: We gonna keep telling you, keep telling you. So women
Speaker 1: really be thinking they don't have no problems out here.
Speaker 1: Meanwhile your nigga think you nasty, like you even clean
Speaker 1: your bathroom?
Speaker 3: Been sure, I'm telling.
Speaker 5: You it comes back to not being a conversation bully.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. So if your man come
Speaker 5: to you about an issue, listen, I understand and adjusts.
Speaker 3: That's it. It's really simple. But when you hear something
Speaker 3: coming from your partner and it's on you, it's hard
Speaker 3: to take accountability for something like that. Damn really pointing
Speaker 3: out some shit I said or did last last night
Speaker 3: or yesterday? Why he said then probably trying to you know,
Speaker 3: process it.
Speaker 4: My thing is, I don't like when I'm complaining to
Speaker 4: you any of my agrievances, and then that's when you
Speaker 4: take the time to give me your a grievances. When
Speaker 4: you was upset about whatever you were upset about, you
Speaker 4: should have told me in that moment, because now it's
Speaker 4: just coming to me like this makes it okay what
Speaker 4: I did because of some of the old ship, Like
Speaker 4: you should have been said that ship. Don't wait till
Speaker 4: I'm saying something, because.
Speaker 3: That's a fact. Don't you use my moment to address
Speaker 3: something that I'm taking the address?
Speaker 1: But do you do y'all consider that maybe this moment
Speaker 1: stems from a moment that they created. Why I can
Speaker 1: even go back and say something about what you previously did,
Speaker 1: Like like I said, I might type type shit, I
Speaker 1: might not leave right, but you're gonna feel my wrath
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna put a mirror. I'm gonna show you
Speaker 1: what you did based off what the funk I'm about
Speaker 1: to do to your eyes.
Speaker 2: But that's manipulation though.
Speaker 1: It's just.
Speaker 4: If you are upset about something, if you want to rectify,
Speaker 4: you do it in a loving way.
Speaker 1: That's not loving. If this is your person, you need
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 4: It in a loving manner because the issue is not
Speaker 4: the person, is the behavior.
Speaker 2: So you attack that the issue. So if you're just.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe not intentionally, they're not intentionally hurting you.
Speaker 1: They're just like, let's talk about cheating, then is that
Speaker 1: not intentional? When somebody makes a conscious decision, because that's
Speaker 1: all cheating is is a choice. So now if you've
Speaker 1: continuous made a choice to cheat, and I take your
Speaker 1: ass one time, and I may not even actually have
Speaker 1: sluck with somebody, I might have just went and hung
Speaker 1: out with a nigga, right, and now this is the
Speaker 1: now the argument is, AJ you did such and such,
Speaker 1: you was talking to this nigga, but you've been talking
Speaker 1: to hundreds of bitches.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, but it's not You're not right because
Speaker 2: you did that.
Speaker 3: You just even I'm.
Speaker 1: Not saying I'm not I'm not saying I'm right. I'm
Speaker 1: saying the same way I gave you grace with your situation,
Speaker 1: let me get mine, or we could just stop all
Speaker 1: of this, right because I'm only doing what you've got
Speaker 1: what you're doing basically okay, but you don't think that
Speaker 1: women are the reason man need a time and place
Speaker 1: for cheating. But you don't feel like all of that
Speaker 1: is just toxic. It is, right, So I'm no longer
Speaker 1: I'm no longer in that energy field, right, but I've
Speaker 1: definitely been on that type of time in a relationship
Speaker 1: because I just feel like we are humans, so can
Speaker 1: I be human too, since since this is regular human behavior, can.
Speaker 4: I be like, yeah, that's even. Let me let me
Speaker 4: get even with your ass, nigga. That's what that is. No,
Speaker 4: that's let me show you how it feels. Yeah, let
Speaker 4: me show you how it feels.
Speaker 3: Listen, but show him show him listen you can, you can.
Speaker 3: You can show him how it feels in the most
Speaker 3: simplest way. And that ship will sting worse than you
Speaker 3: sleeping with another man if you just leave. And then
Speaker 3: if you leave, trust me, that ship will sting worse
Speaker 3: than a hundred niggas that ran up in you. Which
Speaker 3: ain't saying gon let hunte niggas unp for you. What
Speaker 3: I'm saying is you packed your ship and you say,
Speaker 3: you know what, cool, I'm gona take that l.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you got the first time. What I'm talking
Speaker 1: about is after you and then now you.
Speaker 3: Tell a nigga not to play with you. If he
Speaker 3: know you capable of doing that, he had no not
Speaker 3: to play with you. Leave. That's a fair. I'm trying
Speaker 3: to tell you the reason why most niggas do this
Speaker 3: because they know y'all ain't going nowhere. She ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 3: She probably even but she's gonna stay here. If you
Speaker 3: just said, hmm okay, James, I know you slept with
Speaker 3: Kim and it's cool. Your ship already packed, you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Your car already packed, gas already full,
Speaker 3: of the closet empty. That niggas gonna lose plenty.
Speaker 1: N then she might you might lose your life. So
Speaker 1: my suggestion, bitches, leave you left.
Speaker 3: You're on the phone, right, Yeah, you left already. You
Speaker 3: gotta be real strategic with this thing and calculated. You're
Speaker 3: already left, telling you and they're gonna be coming back,
Speaker 3: hands and knees crawling. Baby, I'm sorry to Yeah, that.
Speaker 1: Was my mistake leaving the last relationship I told the
Speaker 1: nigga I was leaving. I should have just already been
Speaker 1: gone and then like, yeah, I'm out. Ahad that ship.
Speaker 4: But leaving ain't always easy as just packing it up
Speaker 4: the next day being out, You got it.
Speaker 1: You have to strategically plan that ship. Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: That's a fact, especially if you you know, we're talking
Speaker 3: about just regular people that dating. If you're married. I
Speaker 3: would never tell about.
Speaker 1: Taking peles like small pebbles at a time, baby, small
Speaker 1: moving it from here today. That's like a bird. But
Speaker 1: that's where I was at when I left. I was
Speaker 1: like moving like so my last little bit of shit.
Speaker 1: I'm like, dog, I'm taking all this ship today and
Speaker 1: I ain't never coming back.
Speaker 2: Come back. This nigga get home is one wire hanger
Speaker 2: in the closet for.
Speaker 3: Y'all. Do y'all think it's levels the cheating what you mean?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 4: There are emotional, financial, sexual online?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, what's the simplest what do you what do
Speaker 3: y'all think the simplest level of cheatiness? Internet sport?
Speaker 1: Niggas? Just listen. I like to frightenize a little bit.
Speaker 1: I like it, okay, And I think that anybody I'm
Speaker 1: in my next relationship with need to understand like I'm
Speaker 1: a flirt.
Speaker 3: I feel like it's natural. A lot of people are flirts.
Speaker 1: A lot of people are flirt but some people they'll
Speaker 1: be flirting while you're making it a problem for your
Speaker 1: partner to be flirting. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Let's just be honest that this is normal human behavior.
Speaker 1: And it's not like something that should happen every single day,
Speaker 1: but the occasion, like you want to feel like you
Speaker 1: still got it a little bit. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Niggas is checking for me. Nigga, don't get it. Don't
Speaker 1: get me fucked up. Okay, that's a slippery slope. That's
Speaker 1: a slippery slope because first kid, you mess around and
Speaker 1: slip on a banana piel and land on somebody. Why no, no, baby.
Speaker 1: I feel.
Speaker 5: I think that the simplest form of cheating is communicating
Speaker 5: with somebody while keeping it away.
Speaker 3: From your partner.
Speaker 5: You don't want your partner to know you're just communicating.
Speaker 3: It could be texted.
Speaker 1: That's the Internet sport.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like the simplest.
Speaker 1: That's snap Chat. Ship messages disappear. Now, that's where the
Speaker 1: cheaters at the cheaters is on Snapchat.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you where the cheaters. Let me tell
Speaker 4: you where the cheater is really at Android users. If
Speaker 4: that nigga don't want no iPhone. He don't want to
Speaker 4: be facetimed, bitch. He don't want you to be able
Speaker 4: to FaceTime.
Speaker 1: And that was me for years. I always used to
Speaker 1: be like, iPhone is for fucking stalkers. That's why I
Speaker 1: don't want to eye for y'all. Niggas want to see
Speaker 1: when I see the message y'all want to see where
Speaker 1: I'm at iPhone is how I got caught up in
Speaker 1: my last situation. This nigga like really was logged into
Speaker 1: my ship and he had that fucking that that find
Speaker 1: my phone ship on.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: If your nigga got an Android, he hiding some ship, bitch.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't even when I see it back to
Speaker 4: android and nigga text me and it's green, I'd be like, oh, nigga,
Speaker 4: you toxics full.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's try to get back on topic a little bit.
Speaker 1: As far as like telling people about your relationships. Okay,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm uh I do that ship. I
Speaker 1: definitely be telling people ship. Niggas be mad. They be
Speaker 1: mad because they you know. I guess you gotta be
Speaker 1: careful who you're telling your shit too, because I don't
Speaker 1: want to like once I'm good, but my man, I
Speaker 1: don't need you like acting nasty towards something because I
Speaker 1: told you some ship that he pissed me off about.
Speaker 4: Hi, James, that's how you speak to your friend nigga
Speaker 4: because some shit he did. Yes, yeah, be like that,
Speaker 4: So you gotta be careful if you're gonna stay with
Speaker 4: him and you know you ain't leaving. You gotta be
Speaker 4: careful what you tell him because your family ain't gonna
Speaker 4: want him as a cookout, you know, right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there are some things even like in any relationship
Speaker 5: I've ever been in, if my partner did something, I'd
Speaker 5: be like, I want to tell somebody, but nah, I
Speaker 5: don't want them.
Speaker 1: And you don't want people to judge you for staying
Speaker 1: with somebody, judge you yourself.
Speaker 4: I love my friend, but that's this week ass bitch boy,
Speaker 4: she keeps saying with that nigga, I just be listening.
Speaker 2: I don't say nothing.
Speaker 3: I hate to sound like this, but that's a woman thing.
Speaker 3: Like men don't tell they homeboys nah, because they know
Speaker 3: you ain't leaving. I've heard mos sleep women tell different.
Speaker 2: What Meanwhile, they'll say situation.
Speaker 3: Take them in private.
Speaker 4: The people I tell my ship too, is the ones
Speaker 4: that I know that ain't just gonna be like agreeing
Speaker 4: and full agreeance with me all the time. Like I
Speaker 4: have certain people like aj my best friend Takia Janee,
Speaker 4: They'll and Ryan, They'll tell me. They'll like tell me
Speaker 4: and don't care if I'm mad, don't care if I'm
Speaker 4: like trying to combat them with how I feel. They
Speaker 4: be like, no, bitch, you're wrong. Bitch I said you're wrong,
Speaker 4: You're wrong, be mad about it, you know. So I
Speaker 4: need people like that because I do have friends that
Speaker 4: be like, girl, you're right and give me high five
Speaker 4: every time.
Speaker 2: You know, I need them.
Speaker 1: I need them to No.
Speaker 3: No, you need them. But I'm saying them the ones
Speaker 3: they gonna tell you you right every time.
Speaker 4: Sometimes sometimes when I'm on my toxic time, I just
Speaker 4: go to them so I can be like, I'm right.
Speaker 2: Ain't a bit the valide?
Speaker 1: Yeah you right, you bitch, I knew you was on
Speaker 1: my side.
Speaker 3: Yes, man, yes, But then I feel like my own
Speaker 3: boys when they call me, I'm I'm fair across the
Speaker 3: board because I know you, nigga, Like I know what
Speaker 3: you do. I know what you came for love, So
Speaker 3: if you tell me some ship, I'd be like, all right,
Speaker 3: but you know you, okay, so you understand I know
Speaker 3: you for twenty years. I know what you did. What
Speaker 3: are you talking about? She did this? Okay? But what
Speaker 3: you did to cause this? Oh?
Speaker 1: That was okay for a third party to point out
Speaker 1: what they did, but it's not okay for if the
Speaker 1: partner herself is saying we I did this because you
Speaker 1: did this.
Speaker 2: That's not okay though.
Speaker 3: That's for that, like you said, right.
Speaker 1: But why is it okay outside the relationship.
Speaker 5: When he do it, you need to address it right there,
Speaker 5: like Tam said.
Speaker 3: I agree, I address it right there. I don't wait
Speaker 3: till he brings something you to bring up something he did. No, no, no,
Speaker 3: that's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I okay, I consciously like it's for sure now
Speaker 1: and I'll see how it actually goes in my next relationship.
Speaker 1: I'm not letting nothing fester. And it's so I told Tammy,
Speaker 1: I'm and I told multiple people this this year. I'm
Speaker 1: not arguing with nobody no more. I'm just not doesn't
Speaker 1: make me feel good. I don't feel well. I physically
Speaker 1: feel sick when I argue with people, right, So I'm
Speaker 1: no longer in the business of arguing. So my next
Speaker 1: relationship Dog and I actually had a situation recently, like
Speaker 1: I was dating this guy, and I just I just
Speaker 1: knew that if I would stay in that situation because
Speaker 1: in the past, like I would just end up in
Speaker 1: a five year fucking relationship somehow right.
Speaker 2: With somebody I know. I wasn't supposed to be with.
Speaker 1: So now I'm learning to nipshit in the bud soon
Speaker 1: because I have foresight right that me and this person
Speaker 1: gonna be arguing a lot. I'm saying, like the back
Speaker 1: and forthness, like I am not, I'm not into it anymore. Right,
Speaker 1: So if we cannot effectively communicate from day one, I'm
Speaker 1: not fucking with you.
Speaker 3: Hmmm. I'm just not doing it.
Speaker 2: Because you gotta learn people.
Speaker 1: You gotta learn.
Speaker 4: People, you know, but you also got to meet people
Speaker 4: with the I don't have to do to do that.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, show you whant somebody, show you exactly
Speaker 3: who they are.
Speaker 1: I disagree.
Speaker 4: Do you see how many times black men will be
Speaker 4: at they wait and be like she made me a
Speaker 4: different man, She changed me, She helped me to grow
Speaker 4: into the man I am.
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for you because sometimes these niggas be
Speaker 1: me and not just the me and the women too.
Speaker 1: You know, they come into each but each I don't
Speaker 1: change much. We're getting older. People don't change much. So
Speaker 1: who you meeting today, what's going to be going on
Speaker 1: going forward?
Speaker 4: Like I I disagree with you, that's fine, you can
Speaker 4: meet somebody and what I'm saying is I don't want
Speaker 4: constant compromise.
Speaker 1: I don't want constant compromise in a relationship. I do
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I want constant compromise.
Speaker 4: I want someone who's willing to compromise with me at
Speaker 4: all times because they love me and I love them,
Speaker 4: so instead of us button heads, we're compromising for each other.
Speaker 1: I think you mistaken what I'm saying. In a relationship,
Speaker 1: there should be a meeting of the minds to where
Speaker 1: there is not always constant compromised, because what constant compromise
Speaker 1: means is that you're constantly bumping heads with this person
Speaker 1: and somebody has to digress every single time. I don't
Speaker 1: want that in a relationship. You should be able to
Speaker 1: have a partner that y'all have a meeting in the
Speaker 1: minds where y'all agree a lot of times. Y'all agree
Speaker 1: on a lot of things. It shouldn't be constant compromises.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying. You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Now, I get what you're saying, But I think I
Speaker 4: think compromise is always necessary in a relationship, and you're
Speaker 4: not always going to agree and see things exactly the same.
Speaker 1: Oftentimes opposite to track. You're with somebody who isn't exactly
Speaker 1: like you, and that's why you're going to compromise. But
Speaker 1: compromise doesn't have to be a negative thing, you know.
Speaker 1: I think people if you compromise something that's negative, and
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be. It's just about ebb and
Speaker 1: flow and give and takee.
Speaker 3: You know, I think to respond to both of you.
Speaker 3: I think that in any relationship, especially if it's new,
Speaker 3: each person have to ask every question they need to ask.
Speaker 3: Don't wait later and then you find out damn, I
Speaker 3: ever knew this motherfucker, think like this, this is crazy
Speaker 3: and you really think like that's norm You have't been
Speaker 3: talking to somebody you like yes, Like yeah, you'd be like,
Speaker 3: look at that's not normal, Like what That's why in
Speaker 3: the beginning you need to ask every necessary question.
Speaker 5: You need to ask whatever them questions may.
Speaker 3: Be, because later on your five years in damn this
Speaker 3: thing is like the way his draws inside out and
Speaker 3: said put him in the dirty clothes, You'll be like.
Speaker 2: Get yeah, like what would you ask to know that?
Speaker 4: Like it's like that you only go learn about people
Speaker 4: by being with it, living with them, like.
Speaker 1: You're sitting there and they're like, do you want do
Speaker 1: you watch? You watch where you wear your draws? Twice?
Speaker 2: Like you can't ask nobody that.
Speaker 3: No, no, you wash clothes every week? Gonna be two weeks?
Speaker 3: You shall we use wash clod or loofah or just
Speaker 3: the soap. Nigga might be like, I just use my hand.
Speaker 4: You know You're gonna be like this bitch is weird.
Speaker 4: She asking weird? Ask questions, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You might be like, what that's what I'm saying that
Speaker 3: these are the questions you might need to ask. It
Speaker 3: might be like low debatable questions like what you thinking
Speaker 3: about like people using wash rags, you know, sponges, and
Speaker 3: might be like, ship, I don't use none of that.
Speaker 3: Ship You'll be like, will you I use my hand?
Speaker 3: Like what?
Speaker 1: Because European people don't use wash clothes like that and
Speaker 1: washlots who hold a lot of bacteria. So really using
Speaker 1: your hands to take a shower with the soap bar
Speaker 1: itself is not really a bad thing, Like we use
Speaker 1: washwrags in the Western I remember I went to Grenada.
Speaker 1: They didn't even exist wash rags, because they do if
Speaker 1: you're not using a new one every single day. It's
Speaker 1: holding bacteria, so at least with soap, like the bacteria
Speaker 1: slides off.
Speaker 2: That's the slippery thing is. So if somebody says, why
Speaker 2: use my hand to.
Speaker 1: Wash like, I'll be like, okay, now you ain't sliding
Speaker 1: your hand up your ass, crag?
Speaker 3: Are you just say the nigga take his hand, take
Speaker 3: the damn thing and squeez.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how they do in England and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: And the hotels.
Speaker 3: Doesn't even you in the shower, y'all take the shower.
Speaker 3: I don't like.
Speaker 4: Don't wear the same draws twice. That's a problem for me.
Speaker 4: And don't try to use them shots. Oh that be
Speaker 4: uh them gem shots be stinking the cross area.
Speaker 1: I bet you the areas all type of ship right there.
Speaker 4: I used to make my nigga like when he came
Speaker 4: back from the gym, take them ships off in the garage.
Speaker 1: Nigga, that ship smell bad. How does that coming off
Speaker 1: for you?
Speaker 2: I think they like it.
Speaker 1: Listen, my gym boyfriend, that nigga hands be so stink.
Speaker 1: One day I smell his hands. He was like, I
Speaker 1: love how that ship smelled. Make me feel like I'm
Speaker 1: getting it in what I smelled? Bacteria, bitch, that's what
Speaker 1: I smell. If you don't them gloves in the trash,
Speaker 1: nasty bastard.
Speaker 2: So what's the what's the questions that you feel like
Speaker 2: you need to ask a woman?
Speaker 3: Number one for me? Hygiene? That's number one.
Speaker 5: Yes, hygen, that's self explanatory.
Speaker 1: Okay, what you're gonna ask her?
Speaker 3: Like, Yeah, what kind of body watch you use? You
Speaker 3: smell good the other.
Speaker 4: Day, But that don't mean she got good HII she
Speaker 4: could use that that best once a week.
Speaker 3: I used. That's how you started. You started like that.
Speaker 3: They y'all going to you know what I'm saying. I used, So.
Speaker 1: That's all she used.
Speaker 3: Dry listener, you got bad hygiene. Out of it.
Speaker 5: I don't care how fine you was. You got bad hygiene.
Speaker 5: I'm out of it.
Speaker 2: Okay, But that's that's basic.
Speaker 1: What else.
Speaker 3: Different questions about that hygiene?
Speaker 4: Let me tell you, like just most women washing the
Speaker 4: body regularly, that is not true.
Speaker 3: You were off a lot of people struggling with hygiene problems.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, that's why we putting it on Facebook
Speaker 3: in the morning that morning. Fellas, don't forget to take
Speaker 3: a shower. Yeah, you got to tell.
Speaker 1: People that don't.
Speaker 2: Because a lot of people be taking baths and dirty showers.
Speaker 3: Yeah, start worry about cleaning the tough second clean. You
Speaker 3: gotta clean first to have the tough get dirty. If
Speaker 3: the top clean and you ain't washing wash, that's first,
Speaker 3: clean a tough second, people will be like, that's clear.
Speaker 3: You gotta tell people that, Yes, we all know somebody
Speaker 3: or know somebody that knows somebody who struggle with hygiene.
Speaker 3: Even in college, everybody had that one roommate or friend
Speaker 3: that had a roommate wash you. Oh man, man, y'all
Speaker 3: smell him or her, and they don't be taking our
Speaker 3: house just I'm telling you, we'll struggle with that.
Speaker 1: I might watch too much though, so like I know
Speaker 1: some people might skip even in a bath. I don't.
Speaker 1: I can't, like, I can't, like even if I like,
Speaker 1: take a shower right now and I run outside to
Speaker 1: the store and I don't leave the house for the
Speaker 1: rest of the day, Like I still have to take
Speaker 1: a shower right before bed, right, everybody don't do that.
Speaker 1: So if I have a partner who like we we
Speaker 1: go out and he comes in and then get in
Speaker 1: the bed, and I.
Speaker 2: Took a shower, like, don't be right.
Speaker 1: I'm like looking at you a little bit from the side,
Speaker 1: even though you might still smell that you might have
Speaker 1: took a shower right before we went out, And my
Speaker 1: mind is like I have to excuse some things, right,
Speaker 1: because maybe it's me that I washed so much.
Speaker 3: Now that's a compromise that you talking about that, Yeah,
Speaker 3: because it's funny.
Speaker 2: You come in and he drunk and want to fuck
Speaker 2: me real hard, and I don't want to wait.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I can, Okay, we can start in the shower,
Speaker 1: my nigga.
Speaker 4: Sometimes that energy you kind of fuck it up with it.
Speaker 4: Sometimes the energy just be like, come here, get me
Speaker 4: on the counter, right that your.
Speaker 2: Mouth is for a bit, you can get it back together.
Speaker 1: I don't want no nigga who gotta come in and
Speaker 1: fold up his clothes before we fuck, Like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna after this you sleep.
Speaker 3: Might that man might be O C D one.
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm not gonna get Yes, you know what I
Speaker 1: don't like, Like I love hotel sex, but I always
Speaker 1: side I a nigga who puts his clothes on the
Speaker 1: hotel floor, like even in your own home, like, get
Speaker 1: your clothes off the fucking floor. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: So me if my nigga falling ship up before you
Speaker 1: fuck me, like I'm cool, like hang your ship up
Speaker 1: or whatever.
Speaker 3: How it is you coming y'all, ain't coming in the
Speaker 3: room and just taking clothes. TV it real, baby, that's
Speaker 3: y'all been out on the town. Y'all had a good time.
Speaker 3: Y'all feeling good.
Speaker 1: Shot before you touch me. Oh my god, I swear,
Speaker 1: I swear I've been feeling.
Speaker 2: So clammy clean.
Speaker 3: We showered before we left, but I don't feel like that.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It could be with me, so that.
Speaker 1: And not the pictures off the wall, bitch, come not
Speaker 1: the pictures off the wall. I had this what nigga,
Speaker 1: we got all the pictures off the wall. We was
Speaker 1: all on the counter like, Yes, that's the energy I like.
Speaker 3: I mean, if we said we're going out at nine thirty,
Speaker 3: we both showered at eight, we get back at one.
Speaker 3: We're clean.
Speaker 2: No, it depends we're just sitting down.
Speaker 1: It just depends we've been touching door knobs and ship
Speaker 1: and now you want to put that in my hands.
Speaker 1: If I feel like, if I I feel like I
Speaker 1: do a smell check, if I feel like a little musty,
Speaker 1: I'll be like, all right, no, baby, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: but if I feel clean, take out of me these titties, y'all.
Speaker 3: Think y'all, TITTI is gonna be having a little older
Speaker 3: from eight pm to one.
Speaker 1: Sweeties, titties, I ain't got enough to titties a little
Speaker 1: smaller the wheaties.
Speaker 2: Titties said baby, yes, okay, down in the middle, like.
Speaker 4: I'm definitely what I'm definitely, I'm definitely going to do
Speaker 4: a smell check on my vagina before I feed it
Speaker 4: to you.
Speaker 1: So I need niggas that washed just as much as
Speaker 1: me as with all I'm saying. And I have had that.
Speaker 1: I have had men who he takes just as many
Speaker 1: showers as I do. Like that's on my list of things. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: that's one of my deal breakers. Sometime the energy you
Speaker 1: so you ain't never came in and was like, oh
Speaker 1: when we getting that door, boy, and he was like, no,
Speaker 1: let me go, I'm about.
Speaker 2: To take a shower when we get in that door,
Speaker 2: and I'm the latest.
Speaker 1: When I get out.
Speaker 3: Yes, you know, listen, you know some men like that
Speaker 3: natural vagina smell.
Speaker 4: That's the pheromones you washing all your pheromones, your vagina.
Speaker 1: It's not stink. Just relax and let him stink.
Speaker 3: Have it.
Speaker 1: Not about it being stink.
Speaker 2: It's clean, it's clean.
Speaker 1: It's clean, your vagina self clean. It's not even about
Speaker 1: my vagina because the vagina's covered up. It's about the
Speaker 1: skin that was exposed outside. Girl, you are up the earth,
Speaker 1: you are up the earth. It's okay. We're from a
Speaker 1: different tribe. I ain't trying to explain shit to y'all
Speaker 1: no more. My tribe were the perst civilized tribe. Okay.
Speaker 1: We used to take it.
Speaker 3: If I take a shower, a good, good shower at
Speaker 3: eight thirty pm, I get dressed, were in the room.
Speaker 3: We probably ain't leaving until ninety five, So we get
Speaker 3: back at one am. I'm clean, I know I'm clean fresh.
Speaker 1: It depends on that we were sweating, Like if we
Speaker 1: were sweating heavy, then okay. But if we're not sweating,
Speaker 1: I'm okay.
Speaker 3: We do. You were walking walking down to be hog,
Speaker 3: going to.
Speaker 1: This time to be hot. We was at the main event, right,
Speaker 1: We was at the main event, and little Wayne came home,
Speaker 1: was like.
Speaker 3: Right, So.
Speaker 1: It just depends.
Speaker 2: But I'm not going to ruin the moment with a
Speaker 2: full my clothes up, hang your pants up?
Speaker 1: What I lean?
Speaker 4: My pennies and the ball on the floor. If it ain't,
Speaker 4: it wasn't good.
Speaker 3: Just don't win.
Speaker 1: That's me. I don't win, that's for real. Did y'all
Speaker 1: be packing so many panties when I go out of
Speaker 1: town and bitch, don't wear that panties. I don't even
Speaker 1: know why I'm doing this.
Speaker 2: Bitch, belly wear bras. Okay, just packing ship the package, y'all.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna take a break right quick, and when
Speaker 1: we come back, we're gonna get a simp story from Terry.
Speaker 2: Okay, way to say this.
Speaker 1: But y'all we back. Tam had to take a ship,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: Why you gotta tell everybody my business? I had, everything
Speaker 2: came out, all right. It was Starbucks, man, I had Starbucks.
Speaker 1: Hey, he's definitely a diarrhetic diuretic, yes for me as well.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, Terry, Now we want to hear
Speaker 1: about this this sim story.
Speaker 3: Oh man, I remember it like it was yesterday. Go ahead,
Speaker 3: This is like I think, all right, eight or nine.
Speaker 3: I used to go to Atlanta to go see my
Speaker 3: homeboys and party with them. Back back in the day.
Speaker 3: So I met this chick. It was at Compound exchange
Speaker 3: phone numbers, but I was leaving the next day, so
Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, I'll call her when I get home.
Speaker 3: You connect with schedule. Were talking on the phone every day,
Speaker 3: everything going good. So she started taking the conversation to
Speaker 3: the next level. I'm like, oh, word, that's how we're coming.
Speaker 5: All right, cool, you already know what we're talking about.
Speaker 3: So I said, all right, I'm gonna come see you,
Speaker 3: right and uh, we agreed to a date. I'm already
Speaker 3: anticipating everything you saying you're gonna do. Oh I feel
Speaker 3: like such a sympom. So I hit up Aging, right.
Speaker 3: I head up Aging and like, Yo, I'm coming to Atlanta.
Speaker 3: She was living in Atlanta. I'm like, yo, I'm just
Speaker 3: there for like a day and a half. I can
Speaker 3: get a room, but let me just crash on the couch.
Speaker 3: She's like, all right, cool, boom, get there, Boom, hit
Speaker 3: the check up. You know I'm in town. I was
Speaker 3: a little nervous because she wasn't answering the phone like
Speaker 3: you know, you call people just to be like everything's
Speaker 3: still good. Good for eight o'clock or whatever. She wasn't
Speaker 3: answing the phone, so she finally hit me back head.
Speaker 3: I took a nap. I'm like, all right, cool. I
Speaker 3: then drove three hours. Oh my god. We get up,
Speaker 3: I get dressed, tell aj boom, I go pick her
Speaker 3: up from her spot. We go to a nice restaurant
Speaker 3: in uh it's Atlantic something. What's it called. It's like
Speaker 3: an area in Atlanta, Atlantic Station.
Speaker 5: Atlantic Atlantic Station.
Speaker 3: That's where it was at. Go this nice restaurant, right,
Speaker 3: she ordering drinks. I'm ordering drinks. I'm like, oh, okay,
Speaker 3: we lit boom. I'm holding the dope. And for trying
Speaker 3: to be a gentleman, she asked for the man. The
Speaker 3: bill came out to like three eighty four with tip. Yes,
Speaker 3: this spot. I didn't she picked the spot. I'm like,
Speaker 3: all right, cool. I had a little bit of cheese
Speaker 3: at the time of little something. The bill came out
Speaker 3: of like three. I never really I was like, oh
Speaker 3: a lot, but alcoholic beverages. Runs to the checker. Everybody
Speaker 3: got to know that you ordering them drinks that would
Speaker 3: drinks me twelve dollars in restaurants and I'm like all right,
Speaker 3: I'm like, are you ready to get out of here.
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, we can get out of here. So
Speaker 3: I'm thinking, like, finally get back to the car, held
Speaker 3: the door before we driving on the way back to
Speaker 3: her house, I don't got my overnight bag in the trunk.
Speaker 3: So I'm like yeah, so I'm like we pull up.
Speaker 3: We pull up to the door. She's like, all right, thanks,
Speaker 3: thank you for good night and uh it was good
Speaker 3: seeing you again. So I'm like huh. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 3: let me finesse it. I got finansa in somewhere right,
Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, well, let me let me walk
Speaker 3: you to the door. You know, I think about walking
Speaker 3: to the door. I might can just get inside, you
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. Maybe try to get a little
Speaker 3: kissed or whatever like that. Get to the door, she
Speaker 3: gave me like a little hug, like one of them
Speaker 3: lit like all right. Like I was just like wow, Wow.
Speaker 3: She's like, yo, text me when you get back to
Speaker 3: your people house. And I'm just like.
Speaker 1: Wow, hold on what you mean what you thought? Because
Speaker 1: you bought her dinner and drink? She owe you some pussy. Nah.
Speaker 1: She was talking about.
Speaker 3: Talking like that. She was talking heavy like that.
Speaker 1: She initiated, she.
Speaker 3: Was talking like. I was like, all right, cool, Like.
Speaker 1: So she made you think that it was up.
Speaker 3: And then I got back to South Carolina hit her up.
Speaker 3: A nigga answered the phone.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh yeah, there's this story.
Speaker 3: Don't be calling my girl phone. I'm like, oh god.
Speaker 3: And that was it. Man. I drove three hours, then
Speaker 3: three hours back and spent almost four hundred dollars plus gas.
Speaker 1: You came back with he came to visit me. That's it.
Speaker 3: I appreciate it. Actually didn't open her doors. I had
Speaker 3: to spend on the hotel. I appreciate her for that.
Speaker 1: You spent the hotel money on that. You ain't get.
Speaker 3: Everybody got everybody, and I had a few of them,
Speaker 3: but that one stuck up. That one stuck out the most. Man.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh god, yeah, we all got.
Speaker 4: At least you got a grown up story. Some of
Speaker 4: these guys be talking about high school lunch money.
Speaker 5: That don't count. I was a young adult then.
Speaker 3: But.
Speaker 2: Money back then.
Speaker 5: I'm telling you it's the alcoholic beverages.
Speaker 3: That's what it was. She kept ordering drinks like top
Speaker 3: shelf drinks, like.
Speaker 1: You got her drunk for the next nigga, go ahead,
Speaker 1: if you went out on the day with the girl,
Speaker 1: and she ordered four trays of oysters and ate all
Speaker 1: of them, and the bill came out high and a
Speaker 1: bunch of drinks. Would you leave her there? Did y'all
Speaker 1: see that with a girl? I saw that.
Speaker 3: I saw that I wouldn't leave her there. But in
Speaker 3: the process of her order, I'm like, yo, good, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna say something.
Speaker 5: All right, you can't now you're just being greed Like.
Speaker 2: Come on now, oss, we could have went the highs
Speaker 2: that house, bitch.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what people got to know. Man. Well, I'll
Speaker 3: just say this, women, if a man is going to
Speaker 3: take you out of the day, he asks you, he's
Speaker 3: fronting the bill everything.
Speaker 5: There's a certain level of class you gotta have when ordering.
Speaker 3: If he's paying the bill, what the fun? Basically, don't
Speaker 3: just take advantage of this just because I'm pain. We
Speaker 3: can tell when you're just trying to be greedy versus hey,
Speaker 3: we just hunger. Youre trying to get something to eat.
Speaker 3: Don't think of this, nigga. Pan.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I want to I ain't gonna lie. I'm
Speaker 4: gonna get what I want. But you know what, let
Speaker 4: me tell you, especially when I.
Speaker 1: Can I get not can I get some more oysters?
Speaker 1: I'm asked.
Speaker 4: Uh, when I used to go out with drug dealers,
Speaker 4: I'd be like, the money are scammers, like the money supplies,
Speaker 4: use all them that, Uh what a gift cards?
Speaker 2: My boy car good? But like I got a whole
Speaker 2: Charlotte bitch, we be running it up.
Speaker 4: But if he but we're talking about average the working man,
Speaker 4: and I'll because I'll be conservative, be conservative.
Speaker 2: But I had to learn that.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that.
Speaker 4: Like I was ordering drink after drink and then I
Speaker 4: looked and he was looking like.
Speaker 1: Nervous about the bell. I was like, damn, this ain't
Speaker 1: a jointing lost and banking app and all that.
Speaker 5: Working man he's gonna he's gonna be calculating his head.
Speaker 2: And then he kept saying he didn't want nothing else.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, you know what. He probably can't.
Speaker 4: So I was like, no, the fact that he just
Speaker 4: don't want to break our help, like I'll pay for
Speaker 4: my drinks.
Speaker 1: He's like, no, no, no, man, you ain't gotta do that.
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta do that.
Speaker 3: But I felt I'm.
Speaker 2: Felt bad after I realized this ain't a drug dealer
Speaker 2: and scammer.
Speaker 1: This is a and it's not even about him not
Speaker 1: being able to afford it. It's just like some people
Speaker 1: don't want to spend that type of money on entertainment,
Speaker 1: especially entertaining a bit he may not get pussy from.
Speaker 1: Like that's really what it falls down to. That.
Speaker 2: So it's understandable. And let's be very clear.
Speaker 1: When young girls go eat, I'll go look at a
Speaker 1: black woman's table when it's for them.
Speaker 4: No, it looks like a buffet. Right, I still would
Speaker 4: eat like that by myself. Don't get a twisted.
Speaker 1: I didn't come with you.
Speaker 2: I didn't come with you and run it up in
Speaker 2: a way I read it up by myself.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: See, y'all be trying to act cute on fun, not me.
Speaker 3: Y'all know y'all be hungry. Some of y'all know y'all
Speaker 3: be hungry. And she'd be like, oh, I'm just gonna
Speaker 3: get ah.
Speaker 2: That was twenty year old me, Yo, that's.
Speaker 3: All you're gonna eat. But I done heard women say
Speaker 3: I don't want to look. I don't want him to
Speaker 3: be like I'm greedy. I don't want to look.
Speaker 2: He need to know who he getting involved with.
Speaker 1: I could telling nigga.
Speaker 2: Fact right, I've been telling the nigga before we go.
Speaker 1: I'm like, we're your wallet because I'm bringing my appetite.
Speaker 3: Like that. That's good though. We want you to be
Speaker 3: comfortable and eat, but at the same time have like
Speaker 3: dining CURDI just be courteous, like have some cool like
Speaker 3: don't be like, oh yeah for appetiser, let me get
Speaker 3: the she crab soup and me get the cocktails. And
Speaker 3: for my aunt, I'm going to get the rabbi medium.
Speaker 1: That's not right.
Speaker 3: Go to big theme vegetables, shrimp skewers grilled on both sides.
Speaker 2: If you see my drink low, just bring another.
Speaker 3: He's gonna be like, well, god damn. She mustn't get
Speaker 3: out much.
Speaker 5: She's just taking advantage of the opportunity.
Speaker 1: Yes she do, yes, the yes.
Speaker 3: How often people eating shrimp skewers and steak surfing turf.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, when I come back here, which is often,
Speaker 1: this is my spot, they know me. I did the
Speaker 1: same ship.
Speaker 3: Problem him.
Speaker 1: I definitely take all my niggas in the same place,
Speaker 1: and if I catch you in there with another bitch,
Speaker 1: is gonna be a motherfucking problem. I own this place.
Speaker 1: I'm clearing the table if I catch you in here
Speaker 1: when somebody else introducing people to my place, like you
Speaker 1: know where it's good to eat at.
Speaker 3: Boy, that's funny, y'all. I do say, don't be bringing
Speaker 3: nobody no place.
Speaker 1: I don't introduce you to yrus. Now you're impressing the
Speaker 1: next bitch with my again.
Speaker 3: You see? Yeah, what's up? Yeah? Here, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Put this drink on their tab over there, the nigga
Speaker 2: over there, No.
Speaker 5: Sir, I yeah, bring somebody to the restaurant.
Speaker 1: I put them because what are you doing? You don't
Speaker 1: even notice place existed.
Speaker 2: I come over the table like, so did your peace?
Speaker 1: I break Clara Terry? Yeah, okay, well y'all enjoy girl,
Speaker 1: don't lick them. Yeah, y'all, let's get out of here.
Speaker 1: We run it all forever.
Speaker 2: Can you log into your my chart for me, please, sir?
Speaker 3: That's crazy, yo.
Speaker 1: That might be. That might be the new thing. Y'all
Speaker 1: might have to tell motherfuckers to pull up that my chart.
Speaker 1: If a nigga don't got my chart, it's problem. Just
Speaker 1: air dropping. Air drop your my chart before we go
Speaker 1: out on the day.
Speaker 5: Yeah, why would I have to do that? I don't
Speaker 5: even know if we're gonna sleep together.
Speaker 1: That's the only way you're gonna considering it. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: I'm considering fucking. That's the thing now, y'all be thinking.
Speaker 1: Y'all got some control over whether or not we fuck. Nah,
Speaker 1: and we already calculating that l A F N score
Speaker 1: and ahead. Okay, we we we thinking about fucking you already.
Speaker 1: We just need to We needed more information.
Speaker 3: I was tell me this too, I said, Usually when
Speaker 3: you meet a woman and you're thinking, she already, you
Speaker 3: already got it. You just gotta get it.
Speaker 2: I don't fumble it, right.
Speaker 3: Don't fumble it. Don't fumble it. So just don't say
Speaker 3: nothing stupid, don't talk yourself out of it. You'll be
Speaker 3: all right, be cool, you'll be.
Speaker 2: All right, y'all.
Speaker 1: That's our homeboy, lo T Terry and I I ain't
Speaker 1: talk about your mam at this time. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: talk about her, man low T. I did talk about
Speaker 1: her before on this show, but not this episode, like
Speaker 1: literally last weekliaus lady, go ahead.
Speaker 2: Tooous lady. Okay, she still got here too. All right,
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