1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host, 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: Bobby Bone. At a text like half hour ago from 3 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: Caitlin Wonham near the radio station, would you like a smoothie? 4 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: And I said yes, I would like a smoothie, so 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: she brought it by. Then I was like, hey, sit 6 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: in the chair, and she was like, this is a 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: trick and I was just to the post show. She 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: was like, but anyway, thank you for hanging out. You 9 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 1: don't have to say anything, just hang out. Okay. This 10 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: is like watch your husband at workday go ahead. Last 11 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: night I was going over some notes and I have 12 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: my laptop open and um, we've watched a TV or 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: something in um. Kaitlin was looking at some of the 14 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: stuff Ray had sent, and Ray sent a note going, 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: I promise somebody I'd play a song on the air, 16 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: and Kaitlyn I were like, oh lord, who did you 17 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: meet Rob Crosby. Okay, he's an older fellow, I believe 18 00:00:55,840 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: in his sixties or seventies. Fell and shockingly enough, he 19 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: was one of the writers on Concrete Angel, a huge 20 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 1: song Martina McBride. Okay, but keep going. And he's also 21 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: now does new rights with Eric Padsley. He did Friday Night, 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: which was a number one. Okay, And so I told him, 23 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: I said, I'm with the Bobby Bones show man. I 24 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: can for sure get one of those spun for you. 25 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: I got pull and he's like, okay, dude, I listen 26 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: that show. But how do you guys meet by the 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: way golfing? You went golfing him or just bumped into him. 28 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: I was about to golf solo, and then this older 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: feller seven years old comes up and says, would you 30 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: like to play with us? He's seven, he's sixty seven. 31 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: I just wi you were golfing by yourself. I always do. 32 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: It's my favorite thing to do. Hell weird, Yeah, right, 33 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: hold on you golf now. I know it's what we're 34 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: all getting taken away from the story by different parts 35 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: of it. Okay. So you meet him golfing? Yeah, And 36 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: then we just got to you know guys, how the 37 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: guys are. And I just told him I can play 38 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: I can get your song played. Bones will play it, dude. 39 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: That's not radio. Isn't what it used to be thirty 40 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: years ago. Now we can play whatever we want, even 41 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: if something's programmed. We can do it, dude. And I 42 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: don't know that that No, you know, you know, I 43 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: don't think you need to be promising people will play 44 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: their songs because you have cloud well, I mean he 45 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: does sit if I do want to, If I do 46 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: want to play something, I can't put it in. I 47 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: don't program the log every day because I don't really 48 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: want to. Although I think I'm gonna ask to what 49 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 1: you are a VP? Why do not mean to just 50 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: pick the songs we play? Because I don't. Now that's 51 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: a lot of work though every day. Oh it'd be 52 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: tough man. Yeah, but I'm not picking any of the 53 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: crap he gets played now. I'm picking like awesome old 54 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: school stuff, you know, like Tim McGraw. She's like the 55 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: rain that we were talking about. Absolutely not true. We 56 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: were talking about Tim mcgrawl last week and his top 57 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: five songs. Yeah, and i'd mentioned all my We've mentioned ours, 58 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: and nobody picks she's like the rain. She's like the rain. No, 59 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: he's not even saying it right, what is it? No? 60 00:02:56,280 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: Just now, just like the rain. That's okay, some sense 61 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: of cover. Yeah, No, it's she's my kind of rain, lady, 62 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: If she's my kind of rain. But it must have 63 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: been the time when you were listening more than anything else. 64 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: Maybe so because that's a great song, though I don't, Oh, 65 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: I don't. I think the song is actually good, but 66 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: it's top ten. I couldn't even do that. Well, that's fine, 67 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: but I mean there's a slight age gap between us. 68 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: So songs that you liked are going to be different 69 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: than songs I like. Anytime that I have any sort 70 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: of bother something on my body, I'm like, Oh, this hurt. 71 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: She goes what I say, No, that's not true. The 72 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: most recent reason that I said that was because he 73 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: was frustrated with his vision. And my dad is an optometrist, 74 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: and so I've grown up my whole life hearing my 75 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: dad talk about when people turn forty, they start thinking 76 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: that something's gone terribly wrong with their eyes and they 77 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: need to get in immediately for an eye check and 78 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: going blind and whatever. And my dad has often said 79 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: to them, around forty is just when your eyes start 80 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: to change. So I said to him, you don't have 81 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: great vision already, and that's that's sad, and that's something 82 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: that you've had to deal with. But right now I 83 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: think that maybe it's just you don't have great vision 84 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: on top of your eyes starting to change. At a 85 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: certain age, I'm gonna lose both. I mean maybe you might. 86 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: That's not a bad thing, No, because you can go 87 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: to a doctor and you can see KELP and you 88 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: can change your prescription. I also think you've been operating 89 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: on the same prescription for a while, and so you 90 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: could go my dad can check you out, and you 91 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: can get a new prescription and you could see better. 92 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: One of our finest moments as a couple, we were 93 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: in Oklahoma, and I feel like Klin thinks I dramatize 94 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: stuff sometimes just in general, I really don't. Everyone makes it. 95 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: And my right eye has like eight percent vision, always 96 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: has my whole life. Never now, it's never worked. Um, 97 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: there's no no chrispiness. It's always it's just blurs and light, 98 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: just nothing to it. And so I went and we 99 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: were seeing her dad, and I was like, would you 100 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: mind give me an eye exam, like at the dinner 101 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: table in front of he went to the office. Oh okay, 102 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: And so he doesn't like you made him taking the office. 103 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: He made him over in the office after hours for dad. No, 104 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: it was for free. And then he said, you know what, 105 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: you have no vision in that eye in front of her. Okay, 106 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: But the thing is, I never said he did. So 107 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,799 Speaker 1: it was so bizarre that he's like, see it felt 108 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: so good. You think she was doubting you, but he 109 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: did confirm it. Yeah he can, Okay, because I've doubted you. 110 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: Everybody's not. But to be Very's not color blind. He's 111 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: color impaired. Color Blind would mean he couldn't see any 112 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 1: color at all, and he can see shades of colors. 113 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: But people call that color blind, but people call it incorrectly. Okay, 114 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: but no, I don't call it what did she call it? 115 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: Don't ever call it that? Why? Well, because I don't 116 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: think anyone that's like black and white human color blind. 117 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: There are people in justice for them, but label But 118 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: when I say, it's people that are colorblind, like I, 119 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: all the dark colors, most dark colors looked exactly the 120 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: same to me. Yeah. So I've always just been told 121 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: I've been told your color blind, and you saw it 122 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: from a professional and he told you that's called color 123 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: and paired. And I would like us to stick to that, Okay, Caitlin. 124 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:35,239 Speaker 1: I've heard from Optometris that like at forty yes, your 125 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: your your eyes start getting tired. So the muscles just 126 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: start slowly getting tired and don't focus this it's just 127 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: like your body, like my body does. Like you're getting tired. Yeah. 128 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: So I've been doing bones that diamond painting and trying 129 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: to focus real hard on those numbers so I can 130 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 1: get that strength back. It's not working yet, but I 131 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: will tell you about that's that's a good thing. My 132 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: dad actually told me about something. Should just get him 133 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: on the phone sometime. He could give you some help. 134 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 1: It's about like staring, or supposed to stare at something 135 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: for X amount of seconds and then stare off in 136 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: the distance for X amount of seconds and then come 137 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: back to it, love it, yeah, right, and then dream 138 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: about her and then go back to her. Yeah. Yeah. 139 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: I can't see anything, Meaning if Kaitlyn has her phone 140 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: up but she's watching funny TikTok's, I can't. If I'm 141 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: next to her, I can't see what she's got going on, 142 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: or if a friend text, I can't see where. She 143 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: has laser vision, it can see any TikTok and a 144 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: little thing on it, So I can see nothing even 145 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: with phone. But when I get to be forty one, 146 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: I probably won't be able to. That's my point with you. 147 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: Not far from it, But i'll be Kaitlyn back to 148 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: your dad's test. Is there anyway bones could have messed 149 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: that up on purpose? No? No, no, I didn't take it. 150 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: No no, wait what that was eyeball examination? No it wasn't. 151 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: It was a book you were looking color blindness, he's 152 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: he's talking about the blind. Oh no, he was looking 153 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: straight in the cornea. Oh okay, yeah, suck it because 154 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: I can totally see you being like I can't see. 155 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: That was no questions, that was like going. But this 156 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: is what confuses me about it, is why do you 157 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: take pride in that? Like that's bizarre to me that 158 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: you're like getting all fired up that you're color blind 159 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. You're right, justice, No, but I'm 160 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: talking about from his mouth. It's just he's like, I'm colorblind, 161 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: I can't see, and like getting really excited about it. 162 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: I don't talk like that. Okay. You know what's funny. 163 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: We watched the Bear Girls episode we did together, and 164 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: she just does not think she has an accent, and 165 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 1: she's she's watching herself, but she's like, well, I just 166 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 1: went up that mountain. She's like, did I say I 167 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: have an accent? And I'm like, yes, you're from Oklahoma 168 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: and I have one up from Arkansas. I don't think 169 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: i've heard that. I knew that's what I said. I 170 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: think it's some kind of like filter they put on 171 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: the audio, you know, let's country her up a bit. 172 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: I think that's what they did. Well, bear girls, I 173 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 1: don't know if that rope hold me. You're one to talk, 174 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 1: I know, but I know I'm a hill Milling. I 175 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 1: know I grew up at Hillbilly. I know I grew 176 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: up at hill Billy too, But I have no But 177 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: you're like, I don't. She's watching an all sudden as British, 178 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: I don't have an access Like, yes you do, it's 179 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: right there on TV. What did you think of Still Water? 180 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: Because I mentioned it on the show this morning? Um, 181 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: I mean it's a movie with Matt Damon. It was interesting. 182 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: What would you mean, what would you grade it as 183 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: a teacher? Oh? Gosh, probably U b okay, I give 184 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 1: it a C plus and said you'd probably give it 185 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: a slightly higher grade. Okay, yeah, but it's pretty good. Yeah, 186 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: it was interesting me. It's not at all about Oklahoma. Yeah, 187 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: all Um, but it's an interesting it's an interesting mix 188 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: of cultures because it's like everyone I grew up with 189 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: all of a sudden in France and it's just a weird. Yeah, 190 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:54,719 Speaker 1: it's just a weird combination of lifestyles. Um. No, I 191 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: was gonna say, would you like Bobby with a goatee? 192 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: Because he mentioned, oh yeah, talked about Matt Damon No 193 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: one time he did agot remember that as a joke? Yeah, 194 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: you got it was not cute. I think I think 195 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: he kept it for twenty four hours, and I think 196 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: she kept yelling tragic and I probably had to like 197 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: do a TikTok to get him to agree to take 198 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: it off. It's usually how our bargaining works. Um. Speaking 199 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: of seeing texts, Amy, you were flying yesterday and you 200 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: saw a girl talking trash about you on her text message? 201 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: Yeah so yeah, Well it was actually my my flight 202 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: down or up to New York. I had a really 203 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: bad allergy situation and I was coughing and sneezing so 204 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: much so that I didn't know what was going on 205 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: with me. That right before I left, I had a 206 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: COVID test just to make sure, so I didn't like 207 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: travel to a friend's birthday and effective everybody. Yeah, so, um, 208 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm a little obnoxious on the plane. I get it. 209 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed for myself, but there's nothing I can do. 210 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: And I'm coughing and sneezing into my mask. And some 211 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: millennial next to me or what's the one below us 212 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: j Caitlin's age is above Okay, some gen zer next 213 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: to me that it's text. She texts so fast I 214 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: couldn't even keep up. But I have twenty twenty vision 215 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 1: at forty and I could see that she straight up 216 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: sent to her friend. The girl next to me has 217 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: COVID I roll emoji and then like, I'm sure she's 218 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: being sarcastic, but she's like irritated that she's setting next 219 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: to COVID girl, which was, yeah, yeah, you would have 220 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: done the same thing. Yeah, you would have too. Anybody 221 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: on the plane. Here's that automatically you think, oh, I'd 222 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: have been like seven, had I But I don't know 223 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: if she knew that I could see that, So then 224 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: I didn't call her out on it, but I kindly 225 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: I was in the middle seat. I let the people 226 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: in my row, the two girls know that I was negative. 227 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 1: I'm just letting y'all know. I'm sorry about my cough 228 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: got tested totally negative. Do you think she knew you 229 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: saw her text? I mean, I don't know which such 230 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: a rookie move to out lower the brightness on your 231 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: screen or angle at a different Oh, I go all 232 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: the way brightness low and then text, you know, and 233 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: then turn. I didn't even think that it is Amy. 234 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: I mean you coughed earlier. I texted Rayma that. I 235 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: was like, great, Amy has COVID. Yeah no, I said 236 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna. I did look at her and got COVID. 237 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: So I can't bind the girl on their aplane because 238 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: I texted that you had COVID earlier. So yeah, I 239 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: mean it happens. But I just thought, dang, that's rude, 240 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 1: little talking trash right in front of me. Well you're 241 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: coughing right in front of them. What was I supposed 242 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: to do? I had, I would put up like a 243 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: blanket or something over my head. Yeah, I mean just 244 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,559 Speaker 1: what it was. I know, I hated it for myself. 245 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 1: I should take Yeah, um, anything anything on your mind? Yeah? No, 246 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 1: what was that? It's like, where do I start? I 247 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 1: think terrible? Um, okay, I think that's it. Thanks thanks 248 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:59,599 Speaker 1: for stopping by. You're welcome. I know you had no 249 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: attention to be on the post show here, but you 250 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: know what, thank you for sitting down and talking with us. 251 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: You're welcome. Ray. We never played your song, but I 252 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: guess this doesn't count as on air it does it? Well? Now, 253 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: Concrete Angel, you can't reel? But what's the song? He 254 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: wants fun? You know, Kaitlin knows every lyric to every 255 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: song ever, No, but Concrete Angels just such I mean, 256 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: it's just a it's a you can't even really call 257 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: it beautiful because it's such a sad story. It is 258 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,079 Speaker 1: a beautiful song. But my specific memory to that is 259 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: in the fifth grade, we had a talent show and 260 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: my friends saying Concrete Angel and it was just like, 261 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: and it's about her being abused, right, Yeah. My fifth 262 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: grade friend was up there just belting it on the 263 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: Tiger Theater stage and we were all just like, oh gosh, 264 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:45,079 Speaker 1: did you know what it meant? I don't know, surely 265 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: I knew what it meant. I did the same thing 266 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: in seventh grade. I sang Garth Brook somewhere other than 267 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: the Night, and it's like all romantic, like somewhere other 268 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: than the night you should tell her that you love her, 269 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: like belted it in front of the gym, and the 270 00:13:55,920 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 1: coaches afterwards were like, wow, interesting song shows, right, I 271 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: mean it probably showed off your vocal ability, but the 272 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: lyrics or yeah, I saw a TikTok yesterday where the 273 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 1: girl was like when you listen back to songs you 274 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 1: sang as a kid, and it was right round by flow, right. 275 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: I never they tell us all the TikTok. I never 276 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: knew what it meant. Right round you. Let me sing 277 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 1: it to you. You spend my head right round, right 278 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: round when you go down, when you go dang dang, 279 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: dang dang. I did a dance to Genie in a 280 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: bottle like um, like a competitive dance competition. I did 281 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: a dance that and my whole middrift was showing. I 282 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: was probably seven, but you probably thought it was about 283 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: a real Genie. I did think that at the time. Yeah, 284 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: but it's not. I know, like you think differently once 285 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: you're an adult and you see like, but I mean 286 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: you had adults around to you that, what's that? I mean, Yeah, 287 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: I guess my parents were just like, it's dance. They 288 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 1: can't pull me out right. Obviously my whole team was 289 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: depending on me. Did you know she was a competit 290 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 1: to cloggers obvious clogger clogger? Yeah, oh boy, I mean cone? Yeah? 291 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: Is that like tap ants? Like? Yeah? No, you want 292 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: to take your headphones off and oh do this, hold 293 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: stand up and hold the headphones because you can get 294 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: up with that and you can hear music. Come on 295 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: a ricochet Daddy's money, Shaddy's money, her mom is good. 296 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: You don't want to do it? Is a camera on? Yeah? Yeah, 297 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: it can be just I don't want the camera. It 298 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: can be that's no, Hey, Ray, will you play ricochet 299 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: Daddy's Money. I don't remember the routine. Just show them 300 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: how good you pop up and do everything. I was 301 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: gonna say, when you hear the music is gonna come 302 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: back to you. She's really good. Yesterday she did a 303 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: flip in the house. What she does this thing she 304 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: got on her hands, flipped up against the wall with 305 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: her feet up high right it started doing push ups 306 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: with her. It was wild. Well, I'm trying to do 307 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: like Amy where my therapist says I need something to 308 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: do to like get aggression out when I'm really mad 309 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: oh break something? Yeah, yeah, but I don't want to 310 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: break anything necessarily, so I just like have been just 311 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: kind of experimenting with some different things. Bostick, you need 312 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: a broomstick to break it. That's too hard. It's a 313 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: rage room where they have a bunch of like TVs 314 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: and stuff. Good. Want to go there? One here? I 315 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: don't know, is there we can open one sounds like 316 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: a venture. You can throw ice cubes outside, ice cut people. 317 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: You can jump in the poll fully clothed like Amy. 318 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: I know, honestly think my therapist told me that was brilliant. 319 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:34,479 Speaker 1: By the way, I think anything that gets those emotions 320 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: released that's not harming another person is brilliant and fair game. Yeah, 321 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: like it was. She said that was my body protecting me. 322 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: Like it was like, okay, hey, I got you. I'm 323 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna go down underwater and you're gonna emerge 324 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: and you're going to feel better. Yes, No, I agree 325 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: with you. Your body can protect you in the weirdest ways. Yes. 326 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: I don't react to stress the same way. Yeah, because 327 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: because all I think about is I don't want to 328 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: have to take all these wet clothes off and then 329 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: put them in the wall, That's what I was thinking, 330 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: And you ruin your shoes stuff because then I got 331 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,640 Speaker 1: to clean it up. But yeah, you handle it differently. 332 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: How how do you think I handle stress? Um? I 333 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: think that you don't even really recognize you're under stress, 334 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: because I think from the time you could even understand 335 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: your emotions, you've always been under stressed since you were 336 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 1: a child, like everything was stressful, you know, or are 337 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 1: you gonna eat? Or are you gonna you know that 338 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: sort of a thing. Um. So I think that you've 339 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: just lived in a perpetual state of stress from then 340 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: to now that I don't even think that you realize it. 341 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: I think that's just life for you. And so you're 342 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: weird feeling where my weird feeling is like I'm really 343 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 1: understressed right now, You're weird feeling is like I'm happy 344 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: it is. She's true, yeah, kind of normal. She's true. 345 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 1: She's telling the truth. There are times where I'm like, uh, oh, 346 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: things are everything's done pretty good. I don't know what 347 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: to do here. But that's a normal feeling for a 348 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: lot of people, but for you it's not. So I 349 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: just think that that's a difference in how you grew up. 350 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: I think too. Whenever I think things are starting to 351 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 1: feel good, I immediately go, Okay, well, how's it gonna end? 352 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 1: When's this gonna end? Some some bad's about to happen 353 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 1: to me real quick. But that's okay, because that I 354 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: was talking to my therapist. And I have those feelings 355 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 1: a lot too, because just with like stuff I've been 356 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,360 Speaker 1: going through, I'm constantly living like, oh no, it's about 357 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 1: to happen. You know, you get you get what I'm saying. 358 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:26,199 Speaker 1: You all get what I'm saying. And I will have 359 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: these like thoughts in my head and I'll start to 360 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: spiral and go down these these paths. And my therapist 361 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: said that, you know, I used to think of it 362 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: as this negative thought that I'm having is really bad 363 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: and I need to shut it down. And she told me, 364 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: you actually don't necessarily need to shut it down because 365 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 1: that's your body protecting itself. So sometimes those thoughts are good, 366 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: but if you don't want to deal with them in 367 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: the moment, you acknowledge it. This is going to sound silly, 368 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,439 Speaker 1: but you acknowledge it and say, Okay, I hear, I 369 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 1: hear you, brain, and I know you're trying to protect me, 370 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: but I cannot deal with that right now, so we'll 371 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: get back to you. And I've been doing that for 372 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: about a month and it is so helpful. Sometimes you'll 373 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 1: tell me stop spiraling, yeah, and then I go, yes, well, 374 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: and then also, like Amy and I have had this 375 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: conversation before about how you need to think if you 376 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 1: start to spiral. I know this is like not even 377 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 1: the topic we start, but Amy and I've had this 378 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: conversation before, and I think maybe you told me or 379 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 1: we both seen the same meme or something. But it's like, 380 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: when you start to spiral, you need to think about 381 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: whatever you're telling yourself. Think about it as a court case, 382 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 1: and you're your own judge, so you can only present 383 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 1: yourself with actual evidence. So I can't be like Amy 384 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: looked at me yesterday, and I know she's mad at me, 385 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 1: and so what could you possibly be mad at me about? Oh? 386 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: Maybe because I couldn't walk last Thursday and I was 387 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 1: busy and blah blah blah. Can't do that. You have 388 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 1: to say, what are the facts? Amy looked at me, 389 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 1: she didn't smile, That's it. What was like, you can't 390 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: create all. You can't create oreos in your head that 391 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,239 Speaker 1: are not true, because then you build up all this 392 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: anxiety about lies. Yes, it's just a story you're telling 393 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 1: yourself to try to put an ending or a perfect 394 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: little bow on why you might not have smiled at me, 395 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 1: And this is not a true story. She smiled at me. 396 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: So do you guys find that you do a lot 397 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: more massaging on people now that you're married. Okay, what 398 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 1: does that have to do with it? Why do you 399 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: massage Caitlin more all the time? But Pete, you said people, Yeah, 400 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: just in general massage Just I meant, I mean I 401 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: have to I have to massage. I'm all the time. 402 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 1: So it's changed in the last month of becoming husband 403 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: and why no, it was always but now it's all 404 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: it's constant massaging. I think I get to massage her 405 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,200 Speaker 1: feet and she doesn't like her feet massage? Right, are 406 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 1: you talking like shoulders back? He's not talking about what 407 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: you're trying to ask him if he's talking about like massaging. No, No, 408 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,479 Speaker 1: I really don't feel like she has like her coupon 409 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 1: book got a quite it's it's quite robust now and 410 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: she's just always like rum we rub my shoulder, rumba back, 411 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: and now I feel like I have to because I'm 412 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: married to her, or in the past I felt like 413 00:20:54,400 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: fifty that often you like it. I mean mean I 414 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: would say, on average, as from like a shoulder rub 415 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: four times a week, like this right, halo works out 416 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 1: so hard. Mostly it's like, oh, I think I hurt 417 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: my back or my lower back is tight. Yeah, it's 418 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: not like I need relaxation. It's like I'm physically hurting 419 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 1: in this area that I can't reach. Can you just 420 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 1: rub it for one minute? Yeah? I rub for like 421 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: fifteen Just sweet here. It acts like I ask you 422 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: to bring me flowers every single day. I don't. I 423 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 1: don't know. That's all I mean, that's it's the newly 424 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 1: wind phase. Okay, No, I mean I think she just 425 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 1: has sore muffle. No, no, no. But he's right though 426 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: at some point, but I was gonna be like, no, 427 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 1: get your exactly, He's gonna okay, that's far down the road. 428 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: He's better not down the road, fazzy thing. I mean, 429 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: we are newly phase or whatever. Yes, I'm sure, but 430 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. I was actually thinking about 431 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: that yesterday, like what's what's just being really in love? 432 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,119 Speaker 1: And what's the newly wed phase. Um, well, it just 433 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: changes like because you're new you're really in love and 434 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: you'll still be really in love or whatever, but it's 435 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 1: old hat like it's like okay, cool, and then and 436 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: then throw kids into the mix and it's just gonna 437 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: be like I ain't got time to beside your shoulders. 438 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: I got to change the diaper. I gotta do this, 439 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: Like you're not gonna it changes everything. I just saw 440 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 1: differently growing up, Like my parents are very much still 441 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: like in love. My dad gives my mom a shoulder massage. 442 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: They're always holding hands, like I've just seen that for 443 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: my whole life. So you're probably right, But I just 444 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,360 Speaker 1: think I had a totally different example my whole life. 445 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: So I don't know the other side of that. My 446 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:44,479 Speaker 1: side is I never saw anything I'm serious to make 447 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 1: a joke about now that and that will bring that 448 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: will show up in your in your marriage, things like 449 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 1: that will show up of like I don't know a 450 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 1: successful couple like from me growing up and what there 451 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 1: was no such thing as a successful relationship ever until 452 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 1: so talk got to be an adult and to watch 453 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 1: them as an adult. But you watched my parents like, 454 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 1: I know you didn't grow up that way, but like 455 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm knowing your bards like two years. No, I know, 456 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that they're an example for you growing up. 457 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,959 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that, like probably as far as married 458 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: older couple, they are our example. Yeah, it's good. They're 459 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 1: definitely still like in love. And I ask her sometimes, 460 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, are they they still in love? She's like, yeah, 461 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 1: like crazy, O, mine's blown. Yeah, I guess my parents 462 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: are still in love. But they don't hold hands and 463 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: all that. They don't they're not really the touch you 464 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: feel the time. Yeah. Maybe they have different love languages. Sure. 465 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: Speaking of love languages, mine is gifts like I brought 466 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 1: you that smoothie, thank you, and I appreciate that, Yeah, 467 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: thank you. And hers is she likes words, no, good, 468 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: try to. I think physical touch is probably my third. 469 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 1: My first two art words afformation and quality time. Oh, 470 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,119 Speaker 1: quality time that's a killer for us, that's only a 471 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: month in the No, that's a killer. That's that's a 472 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: killer for us. It's not a killer for us for 473 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: me because I don't I'm not I'm not conscious enough 474 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: all the time that that's what you need. Because I've 475 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: never had to give it, but I'm doing better. It's 476 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 1: a killer for me. You give it to me all 477 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 1: the time. But but because I have to really remember 478 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: that it's important and I have to really remember a 479 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 1: lot of things. Yeah, that's what I'm saying though, Like 480 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: I have to really remember. Yeah, because I would just 481 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: stay on my computer or stay and work and not 482 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 1: think I'm neglecting you, but just think I'm only doing 483 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: me because I've only done me for so long. Well, 484 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: we definitely had to figure out we You definitely had 485 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: to figure out that there's a difference in cohabitating and 486 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 1: like spending quality time together. Yeah, so that was what 487 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 1: do you yeah's a big difference if if we're just 488 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: first laptop or ch that's roommates. Yeah, that's what she says. 489 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 1: That's what she says. Y' all been good about dating? 490 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 1: Oh totally. Yeah, it's I mean week date night. Yeah, 491 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 1: we've gotten so much better, both of us, I think, 492 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: and the balance. I have been working from a complete 493 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: deficit and I'm trying to just get to even you 494 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 1: give a lot more than I do in the relationship, 495 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 1: and I'm trying. I don't think I give a lot 496 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: more in the relationship. I just think we give different things, 497 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: and now I give a lot of massages. You do. 498 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 1: Thank you anything else anybody else where? We go good? 499 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: Pretty in depth chick Amy, I'm good, Caitlin, I'm good. 500 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, thank you. Kim is your lawyer. 501 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: I was wondering what that said. Kiss your lawyer, Kim 502 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: Kardashians lawyer. Up, it's my attorney. Really, yeah, just hired her, 503 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:55,399 Speaker 1: coming after a lot of people. All right, that's it. 504 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 1: Thank you guys, See you soon, see you soon.