WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hero to Zero

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<v Speaker 1>Second d date. Has everyone in this room been on

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee date before? Of course, Yeah, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>we all have. But I wanted to ask, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdest thing that's ever happened to you on a coffee date?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like they're pretty they're pretty boring. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's daytime, there's no alcohol. Really, I mean, I know

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<v Speaker 1>for me it was when they made my cinnamon vanilla

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<v Speaker 1>latte without soy and then I got really angry and

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<v Speaker 1>had to trash the whole place. Ye why did you

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<v Speaker 1>picking up a table and throw it? There is still

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<v Speaker 1>a warran out for my arrest in Mexico City, so

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<v Speaker 1>I can't go back there, But it's an interesting place

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<v Speaker 1>for that to happen. They had it coming. Just put

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<v Speaker 1>a pump a soy in it. How hard is that

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<v Speaker 1>that works? Anyway? One of our listeners says that they

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<v Speaker 1>had something strange happen on a coffee date recently, and

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<v Speaker 1>they've emailed us asking for hell. Her name's Joy, so Joy.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. How are you doing? Hi? I'm mom?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? How are you? Did you rage at a

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<v Speaker 1>barista like Jeffrey did? Your name's almost Soy. I'm worried. Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>are you okay? Don't don't sorry. I did not harm

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<v Speaker 1>a barista. No, I did not harm a barissa. No

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't harm a barista either, to be clear. But

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<v Speaker 1>the cappuccino machine, i'll just could not fare very well. Okay. Anyway, Joy,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell us about the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today? What's his name? His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Adam? Okay? And so how did you and Adam

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<v Speaker 1>come to meet? Okay, So it's a little awkward, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually on a terrible coffee date with another

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Wilson. Oh me, neither? What happened with you

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<v Speaker 1>and Wilson? So Wilsa, you know whatever, he was hot,

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<v Speaker 1>the personal trainer whatever. I agree to this coffee date, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I get there and he was already there, sitting down

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<v Speaker 1>with his coffee. Like mind you, it's a cafee date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like a dinner date where he was ready.

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<v Speaker 1>You're upset that Wilson didn't wait for you, And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like part of the coffee date experiences walking together.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you like to drink? Oh American person?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you know exactly exactly? He deprived me of that?

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<v Speaker 1>So we get up to get my coffee. He accompanies

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<v Speaker 1>me to get the coffee, but doesn't offer to pay. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so is this going to turn on the whole session

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<v Speaker 1>hating on Wilson because I feel like we need to

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<v Speaker 1>get to Adam. Yeah, yes, we're gonna get to Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>We're paly gonna get to Adam. So anyway, we we

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<v Speaker 1>sit that down, and after I paid for my own coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>he we're in five minutes, tried to kiss me. WHOA

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<v Speaker 1>how did that interaction go? Well, one, I was already annoyed,

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<v Speaker 1>So no, I'm not trying to kiss you, let alone

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<v Speaker 1>within the first five minutes of sitting in a booth

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<v Speaker 1>with you. So this is where Adam comes in. He

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<v Speaker 1>picked up on the context clues that this was an

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable situation and came over and intervened, and he was like, hey, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't really seem like she's into this, Todd. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was to a point that was so bad that

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else had to intervene. That's crazy. It was essentially

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<v Speaker 1>Adam is like, you know, they go back and forth, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Wilson's trying to defend himself, you know, and Adams like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let's let's let her be the judge of

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not she's into this, and and I said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. You know, like, thank you for being the

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<v Speaker 1>moderator here. So how did you parlay that into a

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<v Speaker 1>date with Adam? I mean, I assume Wilson left. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So after that, Wilson left and Adam offered me his

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<v Speaker 1>number and was like, you know, if you ever want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with someone who's not going to try

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<v Speaker 1>to for ask you in the first few minutes of

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<v Speaker 1>the date, let me know. He's like, all, wait, eight

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<v Speaker 1>minutes on somebody's failed date. It's like, I can't. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't be any worse than that guy, so I might

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<v Speaker 1>as well give me a shot. Life is about comparisons, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, So what did you and Adam end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing together? Adam and I wound up going out

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<v Speaker 1>together and he got my drink? Are you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar? This was a date night or this

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<v Speaker 1>is another coffee date? No, I'm sorry, this was at

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<v Speaker 1>a bar. The second one was at a bar. Okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>got my drink, he went to the bathroom and never

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<v Speaker 1>came back. Within five minutes. Bro, that sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>Wilson move. We find something in the middle for you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I need you. This is why I need you.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, what happened in the five minutes that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys did spend together? What would make him want to leave?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I really couldn't tell you because I was

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<v Speaker 1>really excited. We talked about what we were going to drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I got mine, and then he was like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go to the bathroom and never returned. Another girl, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>another girl, walked up to Adam and was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear you're on a bad dat. Yeah, I hope not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean paying for the drink seems to be a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty big deal for you. Did Adam pay for it

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<v Speaker 1>by his own will? Or did you force him to

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it? Even still, no, I didn't force him.

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<v Speaker 1>He offered, Oh, did you mean that sucks? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>go look for him? Did you send somebody in the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom to find him? Like? I did get up and look,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also didn't want to go into the men's

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<v Speaker 1>room and seem like a stalk or like, hey, can

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<v Speaker 1>you go in there and look for this person it,

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<v Speaker 1>which is very awkward. Do you know what I mean, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so why are we calling at him if he just

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<v Speaker 1>abandoned you five minutes into a date because he's not

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<v Speaker 1>responding to Michaels. Yeah, okay, you sound upset, which better

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<v Speaker 1>every right to be. Absolutely so you're you're just mad

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<v Speaker 1>at him. I am absolutely mad at him. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm mad at him actually for you. We're hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to get some answers to explain to you. Absolutely should

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<v Speaker 1>be mad. What type of dude act like zero in

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<v Speaker 1>one scenario and then a scenario? Yeah, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. I would have knocked over the margarita

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<v Speaker 1>mixer in that bar if I was you. You got

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<v Speaker 1>to get yours, I was. Okay, rip the drafts off

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<v Speaker 1>the walls. That's how you get stuff done. Let's we

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<v Speaker 1>get things done on this show. So we're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, we'll come back, We're gonna call Adam for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to try and get you some answers

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<v Speaker 1>when we do your second date update right after this. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on. You know they teach you when

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<v Speaker 1>life gives you lemons, you make lemonade. Yeah, but what

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<v Speaker 1>happens when you make lemonade, and then your lemonade ghosts you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sad all of a sudden, That's what happened to one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners. Join. She was out on a really

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<v Speaker 1>bad coffee date with a guy who tried to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>her way too soon. So another dude name Adam stepped

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<v Speaker 1>in to save the day and help her out. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and Adam said, Hey, if we hang out, I'll show

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<v Speaker 1>you how a real man treats a lady. And how

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<v Speaker 1>was that? Apparently it means ditching her five minutes into

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<v Speaker 1>their day at a bar because he went to the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and then never returned. Now she can't get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of him and wants us to call him instead

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<v Speaker 1>to get some answers. Yes, now, Joy, how long has

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<v Speaker 1>it been since Adam walked out on drinks with you?

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<v Speaker 1>I know you guys usually do like longer durations, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's only been three days. Okay, Okay, But that's okay

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<v Speaker 1>because he hasn't even texted you right or called you

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<v Speaker 1>or anything, apologized, none of it. Nothing. Yeah, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so bad to me. I just I've never ditched someone

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I can't imagine what's going through your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like five minutes in, I'm just gonna leave. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the people usually ditch you. I just don't understand like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a I mean, at most he hangs out for

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<v Speaker 1>an hour, it's an hour of his life. Even if

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't enjoy you. Suck it up exactly. Yeah. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not making this better, Am, I No, I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on your side. I think we need to all

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<v Speaker 1>stop talking and finally get some answers here. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call Adam for you. Hopefully he answers and we can

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<v Speaker 1>and we can ask him what's up. All right, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>stand by. Hopefully we're not standing by for too long too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I promise we won't ditch you. Joy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna dial Adam's number right now. Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 1>this Adam? Uh? Yeah, this is Sam who's been My

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<v Speaker 1>name's Jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hoping that you had a moment to talk with us. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, he said. This is the radio station. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're a morning radio show and we're calling because we

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<v Speaker 1>heard you did something really nice for somebody the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, they're trying to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I'm talking about? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure though. So you recently, you do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of nice things, and you can't think one nice

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<v Speaker 1>thing you've done. One of our listeners named Joy is

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get a hold of you. Joy. I do

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<v Speaker 1>remember Joy. Wow? Yeah, yeah, Okay, you sound positive about

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<v Speaker 1>it's just crazy. It's just really I've had I've had

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<v Speaker 1>a really wildly and so I do remember Joy. Yeah, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she told us about your guys's interaction at the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop and that you guys, we're going on a

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<v Speaker 1>date afterwards. But because you totally saved her from the

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<v Speaker 1>jerk who was trying to kiss her, Yeah, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of just stepped into that weird situation she

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<v Speaker 1>was in. Yeah, so we gave you a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>props for that until we found out what happened when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went to a bar and you ended up

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<v Speaker 1>just ditching out on her after five minutes. Wait, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what happened. What are you talking about? Doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. She said that you got the drinks, you

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<v Speaker 1>went to the bathroom and never came back. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>that part is true, but I did not ditch her.

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<v Speaker 1>What you like days, what's your definition of not ditching

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<v Speaker 1>somebody because leaving and never coming back. Yeah, she's pretty straightforward. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all are really not going to believe this story, because

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<v Speaker 1>when I left to go to the bathroom, I happened

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<v Speaker 1>to see another situation where this guy was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>take this girl into the bathroom and she seemed really

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<v Speaker 1>tipsy and he was kind of really forceful. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of stepped in. You just you were like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're left and right seeing men harassed women, and I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like props, man, but why can't you go back to

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<v Speaker 1>the table? Definitely, So you know, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>pushing the guy towards the kitchen area, tell him just

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<v Speaker 1>back up and let the lady go to the front,

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<v Speaker 1>because she seemed like she was trying to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the bar. And as I did that, he kind

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<v Speaker 1>of got a little puffy chest and was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the same things like this is not your place for man,

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<v Speaker 1>And then it got physical. Oh oh, so you got

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<v Speaker 1>into a physical fight with him. I can see that.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he's right. Being in the kitchen probably isn't

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<v Speaker 1>technically your place. We're not supposed to be in here.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a restricted area. Yeah, I'm just telling y'all

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. Like he swung on me, I swung on him,

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<v Speaker 1>took him to the ground, and then we like full

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<v Speaker 1>out started just wrestling and fighting on the floor. Should wait, well,

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<v Speaker 1>while Joy was sitting at the bar and she had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea this was going on, This was all that

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<v Speaker 1>was going on. Yeah. So then but again, like the fight,

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<v Speaker 1>what did somebody break it up? Yeah? Yeah, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of cooks come through and break it up,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the manager came and threw us out, both

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<v Speaker 1>of you. Really in that process of the tussling and fighting,

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<v Speaker 1>broke my phone, lost my wallet. Yeah, so then how

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<v Speaker 1>are we calling you right now on the same number

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<v Speaker 1>that during literally just got a new phone four hours ago.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why this is so wild. So you're like catching

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<v Speaker 1>up when your whole life was a bunch of people

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get a hold you. So you didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. You didn't know that Joy has been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you over the last few days.

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<v Speaker 1>Go best. She is like a lot of people are,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just trying to get my life back together.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, this is all this is all good

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<v Speaker 1>and everything, But why didn't you tell the cook or

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who threw you out? Like, hey, can you at

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<v Speaker 1>least let my date know at the bar that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out here? And I don't really feel like that'd be

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<v Speaker 1>on your mind? Yeah, I was concussed. Oh and I

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<v Speaker 1>was bleeding that. All I wanted to do is get

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<v Speaker 1>back home to tell my roommates. That is terrible. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're stressing about so many things at that point. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy story, man. But the one person that has

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<v Speaker 1>yet to hear it, Joy, she's on the other line listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants to talk to you. Wait. Joy's on

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<v Speaker 1>the line right now. Yes, yeah, I'm here, o. Joy.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? I you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I buy this. Oh you don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe him? Why do you say that? It just seems

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ridiculous. Which part seems the part where something

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<v Speaker 1>similar happens twice in one week to someone that seems

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<v Speaker 1>a little strange. Quite frankly, I don't know how you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are. That is the only thing that stood up

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<v Speaker 1>to me was the frequency. I think one time in

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<v Speaker 1>my whole life if I stepped in and asked a

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<v Speaker 1>girl if everything was okay? Not twice. It's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people get hit by lightning twice. It can absolutely happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're in like the second time, you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>setting of a bar, which is a very common place

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<v Speaker 1>for those type of situations to happen. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that coffee shop which you were part of and

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<v Speaker 1>no was the truth, sounds more unbelievable than the bar

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<v Speaker 1>situation to me, Autam trash. Yeah, seriously, any that you

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<v Speaker 1>can prove that this is true? Like, can you show

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<v Speaker 1>her the spot on your forehead where you got concussed?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's only three days ago. I'm sure you're still

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<v Speaker 1>looking pretty beat up. Adam. What can you say to

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<v Speaker 1>Joy to make her believe you? Look Joy, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we had a great connection, and I'm telling you what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I would not lie to you, and I'm just hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that I can make it up to you. Show you

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<v Speaker 1>this busted live, this bruised eye, and let you know

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<v Speaker 1>I was not lying. Wow, listen, Adam, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>believe you, but I don't know you. I just met

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<v Speaker 1>you for five minutes. I've probably had ten minutes total

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<v Speaker 1>FaceTime with you at this point. She's kind of right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean joy, we called him out of the blue,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a pretty intricate story to make up on

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<v Speaker 1>the spot. That's what liars do. They create details to

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<v Speaker 1>sell their stories. Liars do tend to draw in the

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<v Speaker 1>same stories over and over too, and they just switch

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<v Speaker 1>around a couple details here and there so that they

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<v Speaker 1>can keep recycling. Show a black eye. Believe he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to give himself a black eye to show you what

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<v Speaker 1>a black guy's kind of gone away? You know it's

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<v Speaker 1>not still there? Oh now it's going away. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't even that bad to begin with, all right, coincidence,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a great Now, I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>believe you, Adam. I still believe you, Adam. Who knows

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<v Speaker 1>how many girls he's saved and you've gotten their phone

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<v Speaker 1>numbers improven that he's a good guy. That could be

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<v Speaker 1>his thing where he's got a damn sexy voice. It

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't surprise me. Thank you for the compliment, But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling the truth here. Okay, Well, I guess we have

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<v Speaker 1>to leave it up to the two of you, because

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<v Speaker 1>we'll offer to send you guys out on another date

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<v Speaker 1>if you both agree to it. Adam, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>give it one more shot with Joy? Yes, I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to. All right, Adam's up for it, so Joy, Joy.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe him? And are you willing to give

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<v Speaker 1>him one more chance? You don't even have to believe him,

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<v Speaker 1>just give him another shot. Honestly, my guy was telling me, no,

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<v Speaker 1>what if it turns out to be true? Great guys, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you know why? You know why because at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it is true, I don't necessarily want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with someone who's constantly interspering in other people's business.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, Oka, say we were good when it was

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<v Speaker 1>all about you and thanks so much anymore than someone

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<v Speaker 1>from drowning. She's like, wow, pay attention to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so lesson learned here. Never help a woman in distress.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you say that? Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,