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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How are you doing? Hi? I'm mom?

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Speaker 1: All right? How are you? Did you rage at a

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Speaker 1: I was actually on a terrible coffee date with another

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Speaker 1: guy named Wilson. Oh me, neither? What happened with you

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Speaker 1: It's not like a dinner date where he was ready.

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Speaker 1: So what do you like to drink? Oh American person?

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Speaker 1: Are you know exactly exactly? He deprived me of that?

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Speaker 1: So we get up to get my coffee. He accompanies

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Speaker 1: how did that interaction go? Well, one, I was already annoyed,

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Speaker 1: this Adam? Uh? Yeah, this is Sam who's been My

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Speaker 1: Oh no, Oka, say we were good when it was

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