1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning. 2 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: tip is to figure out what happened in your life 4 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: on this day in the past. Revisiting this specific past 5 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: is a great opportunity to recall memories and reflect on 6 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: your life. Longtime listeners know that I have been tracking 7 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: my time for a great many years. Now. I will 8 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: be celebrating nine years of continuous time tracking this April. Yes, 9 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: that means that if you want to know what I 10 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:50,639 Speaker 1: was doing at ten thirty am on February sixteenth, twenty seventeen, 11 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: I could in fact tell you now. I don't normally 12 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: go hunting back for random memories from random times, but 13 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: for the past two years I have been doing something 14 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,199 Speaker 1: else to reflect on specific days. I finish my weekly 15 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: time log on Monday mornings, and since I name my 16 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: logs after the Monday, like February five, February twelve, February nineteen, 17 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: this means that the time log from six years ago 18 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: has the same name. February fifth was a Monday in 19 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four and twenty eighteen, though the leap year 20 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: will change that match anyway, On Mondays, I have been 21 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: opening the log with the same name from several years prior. 22 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: I look at exactly what I was doing on those 23 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 1: dates six years before. Usually, given all the detail I 24 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: see from tracking my time in half hour blocks, I 25 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: can remember that week. I reflect on what life was 26 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: like then, and these memories from daily existence. Oh, yes, 27 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: that was the week when the Eagles won the Super 28 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: Bowl and several of my kids got the stomach flu. 29 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: Life has both good and bad, often wrapped up in 30 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: the exact same block of time. Now. I know that 31 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: my time tracking obsession is perhaps rare, but lots of 32 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: us have some way of checking life in the past. 33 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: Think about what you could do regularly to remember what 34 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: life was like on this day in prior years. One 35 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: obvious way is to look at old photos. If most 36 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: of your photos are on your phone, and I am 37 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: guessing that is the case for many of us these days, 38 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: then they are probably tagged with the date. Likely your 39 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: phone offers you up and on this date option, sometimes 40 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: open it see what you were doing. If something was 41 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: worth taking a picture of in the past, it might 42 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: be interesting to see. And even if your phone isn't 43 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: creating such a slide show for you. You can do 44 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: this on your own. Just go back to months or 45 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: years and scroll back and choose this month from a 46 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: prior year in to see this time. What were you 47 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: doing two years ago this week? If nothing else, it 48 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: is fun to see pictures of kids when they were littler, 49 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: or you and your spouse when you were younger. You 50 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: might have other options. If you have kept any sort 51 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: of journal, you can go back and look around at 52 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: today's date. You might build this into some sort of 53 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 1: weekly ritual. What were you writing about three years ago 54 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:28,399 Speaker 1: or five years ago? Maybe something that was a big 55 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: problem then isn't now. That's good to know and celebrate. 56 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: You can even look at old calendars. Go back through 57 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: your electronic calendar if you can, and see who you 58 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: were meeting with on various dates, or go through your 59 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: paper calendars and see what was scheduled. I have wound 60 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:52,119 Speaker 1: up remembering events and conversations that I might have forgotten. 61 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: And if none of this is readily available, well commit 62 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: to leaving some breadcrumbs for future you to. Lots of 63 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: places sell five year journals that allow you to just 64 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: write a sentence or two about a date when that 65 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: date comes around again next year. If you are still 66 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: using the journal, you will see what you wrote about 67 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: the previous year, and when the date comes around again, 68 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: you will see what you are doing the previous two years. 69 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: Keeping this really doesn't need to take much time. I'm 70 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 1: sure it's less than sending that marginal extra email, but 71 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: it can be a big boost for your happiness. I 72 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: find that acknowledging the past and taking more active control 73 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: of our memories can be helpful in life. What I 74 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: like about my time log is that it shows everything 75 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: I might have remembered a week in February where multiple 76 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: kids had the stomach flu as being well. Not much fun, 77 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 1: and parts certainly weren't. But I also did cool stuff 78 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: like spend a few hours in the library working on 79 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: a book, and of course watching the Eagles win the 80 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: Super Bowl. I know my stories cannot be all good 81 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: or all bad, and that richness makes memory a lot 82 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: more rewarding. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, 83 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: and here's to making the most of our time. Thanks 84 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: for listening to before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, 85 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: or feedback, you can reach me at Laura at Laura 86 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: vandercam dot com. Before Breakfast is a production of iHeartMedia. 87 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartMedia, please visit the iHeartRadio app, 88 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. 89 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: M