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Speaker 1: My girlfriend caught me in my roommate's bed. Am I

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should have been there.

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Speaker 1: Well let's see why he was there. So my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Selene twenty female, and I twenty one male. I have

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Speaker 1: been dating for about seven months now, but I had

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Speaker 1: feelings for her for like three years beforehand. Wow, that

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Speaker 1: is awkward. How does it feel to have feelings for

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Speaker 1: me while living together?

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Speaker 2: I try to hide it, but day to day it's

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Speaker 2: it's a day by day to day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel especially when he grabs my.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like try to show like hey I really

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Speaker 2: want this, but also like this is a joke. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's a fine line.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a fine line. I have been. I have

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Speaker 1: also been sharing a flat with two other girls and

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Speaker 1: one guy. One of the girls is Kaya, and we're

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Speaker 1: pretty good friends.

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Speaker 2: I did not see did you see this platonic? Did

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Speaker 2: not see platonic there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I uh there, I was take it. Yeah, there's

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Speaker 2: no platonic pretty good friends.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, not to say platonic friends. It's imply

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Speaker 1: those it would help platonic friends. Is platon anyway? Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess maybe Selene was a friend initially hmmmm, I

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Speaker 1: mean I had feelings with three friends. Anyway, As it

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Speaker 1: so happens, Selene's ex cheated on her with Kaya. Kiya

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Speaker 1: had it known they were together at the time, So

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Speaker 1: when I first brought Selene over to my place earlier

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Speaker 1: into our relationship, she told me about what had happened.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, no, So the girl that stole your last

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Speaker 2: This is messy. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: I realized then that it would be messy, and I

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Speaker 3: asked Selene if this was a deal breaker for her,

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Speaker 3: but she said she wasn't sure, as she was aware

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Speaker 1: The next day, Selene said she thought it over and

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Speaker 1: had no resentment towards Kaya, but was insecure about herself

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Speaker 1: and felt uneasy that we lived in the same house

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Speaker 1: I understand. We agreed to continue with the relationship and

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Speaker 1: set our boundaries. One of them was that Kaya and

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Speaker 1: I won't sleep over in each other's rooms anymore anymore.

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Speaker 1: We used to have movie nights on Fridays. We have

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Speaker 1: movie nights, yeah, and sometimes I'd fall asleep in her

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Speaker 1: room during movie nights. Everything was platonic there you go, Riley,

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Speaker 1: and I told Selene about this.

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Speaker 2: Well, like we have movie nights, we will sleep over

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Speaker 2: in each other's rooms. Well that's because there's only one

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Speaker 2: spot on the couch. Have wait, have you slept on

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Speaker 2: the couch with someone?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I haven't wait all the time, Christian and I fall

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like you go back to your rooms, you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like it's just when I wake up. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I mean I feel like maybe if like

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Speaker 1: It was the only places to TV's. We have the

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Speaker 2: Yeah. True.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, let's move to the present time, where our relationship

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Speaker 1: is like a fairy tale. Being with Selene is pretty awesome.

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Speaker 1: But my exams are coming up soon, and because I'm

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Speaker 1: lock in. So I told Salne I would have to

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Speaker 1: So for the past three weeks my life has been

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Speaker 2: Three weeks.

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Speaker 1: That is rough. It's a horrible routine and I feel

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Speaker 1: that often. We only talked twice on FaceTime and texted

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Speaker 1: very little. She tried initiating, but I had my phone

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't I get that he's focused.

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Speaker 2: But three weeks at least take like an afternoon, I mean,

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Speaker 2: You know this is crazy, Okay.

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Speaker 1: On her second call, she said she felt neglected, understandable,

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Speaker 1: Then I got really sick. Three days ago because OPI

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Speaker 1: taken too long to get there. When I got into bed,

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Speaker 1: I threw up all over my sheets. At this point,

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Speaker 1: When I woke up the next morning, I was asleep

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Speaker 1: on Kaya's bed, shirtless.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I had no clue how I got there what But

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Speaker 1: Selene came to check up on me and walked in

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Speaker 1: And before I had a chance to say anything, she left.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: There is more to this story really quick.

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Speaker 2: But Sole's got to start playing some defense, dude, Kyle,

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Speaker 2: I was like, two, oh on you, I start playing some.

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Speaker 1: I don't think.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I don't think op cheated doesn't sound

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Speaker 2: So can you be that sick where you have no

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Speaker 1: I mean I've been pretty delirious fall sick. Wow, But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think anything happened. I think what happened is

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Speaker 2: So but can you blame Selene for filling this way?

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Speaker 1: Not a good look. Definitely not a good look. And

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Speaker 1: I can imagine being like so hurt and just not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because like it does not help that the past

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Speaker 2: three weeks no contact, feeling neglected, walking in Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, dude, yeah, like it kind of like it would

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Kaya told me that when she saw me asleep on

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Speaker 1: trying to reach out to Selene, but she blocked my number, WhatsApp, Insta.

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Speaker 1: We have two mutual friends, but they both haven't replied

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Speaker 1: lot of the blame goes on me. My exams aren't

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Speaker 1: I made a very unnecessary decision and had I put

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Speaker 2: The thing that sucks is he has no proof to

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Speaker 1: Well, he texted her that he was sick. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I told you I threw up on the sheets, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I just think it's a sucky situation all the

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Speaker 1: And I think that goes to show like, even when

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Speaker 1: you should still give You need to check in even

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Speaker 2: You need to prioritize it someone if it means something

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Speaker 2: to you, if it's if it's important to you, you

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Speaker 2: got to show that it's important to you, as important

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not necessarily about time spent. It's about

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Speaker 1: I think, And if it's really quality, the intentional time

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Speaker 2: Just FaceTime twice and little texting in between within the

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Speaker 2: more than that. That's what he said. Though he said

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Speaker 2: only twice in a few texts over three weeks. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, Like, and plus I don't know what he's saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we only talked twice on FaceTime and texted very

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Speaker 1: little over three weeks. That's actually crazy.

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Speaker 2: Like what are you doing on Saturday nights and Friday

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Speaker 1: But bro, Like, I don't know what course, but in

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Speaker 1: engineering you're studying twenty four to seven one one class

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Speaker 1: took me. It was like fifty hours a week, just

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Speaker 1: one class. What the my computer science class? Like you, sela,

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Speaker 1: engineering is so hard? It was. It was tough, especially

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Speaker 1: if you're not like a genius, like, oh yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I'm I was struggling.

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Speaker 2: Struggling, You're you're very smart.

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Speaker 1: Not engineering, not like I could do it. I could

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Speaker 2: and they're like, I have to go submit a conversation

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Speaker 1: Today's the day. Let's do it. And today is also

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Speaker 2: He doesn't need to eat.

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Speaker 1: So I twenty four female, got off work a bit ago.

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Speaker 1: What's the key word? What do you mean his age?

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Speaker 1: Yes they're young, Yes they are young. That is true.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I was put off by that. I had just

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you need to be fair. At

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Speaker 1: Green flag on the husband for calling Brian out, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But is op thea Riley? What do you think?

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Speaker 2: This guy's at your house. You didn't even know he

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Speaker 1: Who all right? First of all, if like how the

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Speaker 1: But she isn't hosting these people. The husband is, and

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Speaker 2: That's whack that smells so good and that's and it's

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Speaker 2: ram and you. I mean if it was. I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to think of some shareable food, but I don't think

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Speaker 2: You have pizza, dude.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brian, Brian stinky stinky man. But what do you

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Speaker 1: think is is Brian the A hole? Is op? The

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Speaker 2: We'll add I wish ip he used a different name

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Speaker 2: because every Brian I know would to do this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. The Brian's in our lives are good people.

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Speaker 2: It's say it Tyler's. I could see it Tyler doing.

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Speaker 1: This, and I have seen it Tyler's. Watch out. Small update.

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Speaker 1: The rest of the friends left, and husband came to

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Speaker 1: I guess we're gonna get some t and Brian, why

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Speaker 1: Robin was the only thing that would make him feel better.

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Speaker 1: the relevant comments. Death to All Aunts says not the

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of frozen robin? What the f a

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Speaker 1: simply sell their fancy homemade robin as frozen for a

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Speaker 1: Most of you readers will pick up what Sam picked

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Speaker 1: Brian told him we'll think about it and asked him

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for last night. I don't think I want

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Speaker 1: you can define it. I'm probably not getting the exact definition.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I just I didn't know it. I thought they

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Speaker 1: It's a simpaspific type of thing. Yeah, it's a symptom

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Speaker 1: of bipolar disorder, feeling extremely high spirited and irritable or upbeat,

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Speaker 1: and also exhibited by talking faster.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, and you could say it was a little bipolar.

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Speaker 2: The way he reacted to that. At the game nine,

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Speaker 2: you could argue we could.

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Speaker 1: See, we could see the other guys were more concerned.

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Speaker 1: I think Brian is having a manic episode or is

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Speaker 1: getting into Andrew Tates. It's one or the other, as

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Speaker 1: Brian is the last single one of the group. My

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Speaker 1: husband kind of doesn't care, though, and told them not

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Speaker 1: to involve him in Brian's issues. For me, I kind

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Speaker 1: of don't know what to make of it. I feel

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Speaker 1: bad for my husband because he's very stressed after it all.

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Speaker 1: This isn't the only friend group that he has, but

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Speaker 1: he has known these guys for many years. I think

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Speaker 1: most commenters clocked it correctly. He is misogynistic and was

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Speaker 1: just angry at my existence. Yeah, sounds like it. I

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Speaker 1: doubt there will be another update. Husband wants to step

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Speaker 1: away from the whole situation. So thank you all again,

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Speaker 1: and we got two more little updates, so as of

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Speaker 1: now there's an update. I also kind of hope there

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Speaker 1: won't be the friend group try to get husband involved

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Speaker 1: or whatever intervention they planned for Brian, but he said

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Speaker 1: he didn't want to be involved. They respected that and

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Speaker 1: haven't told him for their updates. They still play video

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Speaker 1: games together, but husband is mostly hanging out with other now.

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Speaker 1: And finally about this, finally about the frozen ramen, spicy broth,

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Speaker 1: handmade noodles, bean sprouts, green onions, and mushrooms, then just

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Speaker 1: a protein. I pretty much always get chicken, but they

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Speaker 1: do salmon and pork. I'm surprised going through the comments

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Speaker 1: a few days later seeing so many people wanting the ramen,

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Speaker 1: and that is where that story ends. So another misogynist,

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Speaker 1: I guess hopefully gets crap worked out masages. Another Masada

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Speaker 1: I think I've we've seen that, like with other gaming groups,

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Speaker 1: where they'll have it at significant others houses and there

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Speaker 1: will be like one guy that's single and just feels

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Speaker 1: threatened by the presence of a significant other because they

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Speaker 1: don't have that in their life. And they feel that

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Speaker 1: maybe they're competing for attention with the friend group with

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Speaker 1: like between them, like their friend group and their significant others,

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Speaker 1: their friends significant others rather.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I could, I could definitely see that.

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Speaker 1: You could, Bradley, Well, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Not that point of view, but I could see that

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Speaker 2: in friend groups because if they're spending all their free

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Speaker 2: time just playing video games and not being social. Because

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Speaker 2: when they play video games.

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Speaker 1: With social and they're playing card games, so you can

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Speaker 1: be social during that.

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Speaker 2: But like, yeah, I've just read I mean, I've just

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Speaker 2: read a lot of stories on here about guys that

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Speaker 2: like play a lot of video games and like the

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Speaker 2: people they become into.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know if it's a product of video games.

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Speaker 1: I think it's more of a product of like being

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Speaker 1: the only single guy in a group full of people

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Speaker 1: with girlfriends. I don't know. But also, there are probably

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Speaker 1: a lot of gamers that are in selly too, and

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Speaker 1: Andrew Taty, I think you could be both.

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