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Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decisions decisions. It sounded

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Speaker 2: like you was talking to Kirsty. You definitely say to welcome.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: You want to say together, decisions decisions, Welcome everybody into

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Speaker 2: another episode.

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Speaker 1: Sissy y'all said, Sissy has damn.

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Speaker 2: I can't say it's your girl, man, dv aka that beach?

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Speaker 1: Hey, don't I kind of hit the note a little bit.

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Speaker 2: I think you hit a beat, not a note. Sorrybody,

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Speaker 2: what is there a difference? You can sell me enough?

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Speaker 2: Be an off key? I mean, is this one thing

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Speaker 2: the gap meat tripping? I think I sound just like her. No,

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Speaker 2: you sound just like tiny desk.

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Speaker 1: I mean you feel me so given us. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you, no, love her down from the bank. We're

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie here, Oh boy, We're not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to lie.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't her day, you know how like sometimes we

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Speaker 2: come into the studio and it's like.

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Speaker 1: We're not feeling it. Maybe that was just that day, nigga.

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Speaker 1: You know who doesn't have an off day? Yance? I

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Speaker 1: saw her come no, no, no, no. I see some of

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Speaker 1: the youtubes.

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Speaker 2: Some days blue is giving way more energy than Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: You could tell when Beyonce beyonceak well. The vocals were

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Speaker 2: always vocal, but sometimes she don't hit the note. The

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Speaker 2: dance steps the same.

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Speaker 1: We ain't gonna talk about how Beyonce can't dance.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, she does dance, but sometimes you could

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Speaker 2: tell Blue this this is your show today, girl.

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Speaker 1: No, you give it to him.

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Speaker 2: That was what happened at the show I was at.

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Speaker 2: So I went to the June tenth show and I

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Speaker 2: was like, Oh, this isn't as much dancing as Renaissance. However,

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Speaker 2: literally I was telling my niggas.

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Speaker 1: She came out and I was like, you, Imagina how

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Speaker 1: much she gotta travel and shit? He's like, I know.

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Speaker 2: It's like, damn, this isn't exhausting life. We just start

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Speaker 2: talking about it. The way she was singing, I was like,

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Speaker 2: when is she off? No, her vocals are not Holy shit.

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Speaker 2: First of all, yah y'all, which is not my jam

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Speaker 2: on the fucking album. Yeah, when she was screaming at niggas,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, this country album is

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Speaker 2: doing it. Also, this is my first Cowboy Carter show,

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Speaker 2: and a lot of people have been going because it

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Speaker 2: hit the state. I didn't know this would happen, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone else felt this way.

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Speaker 1: So I'm out walking around for the show.

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Speaker 2: I just see a bunch of white people with American

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Speaker 2: flag gear and fucking hats and shit, dude, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: what the fuck.

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Speaker 1: Is going on?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: And it didn't hit me. Day was going to Cowboy Carter.

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Speaker 1: So I'm seeing on an American flag.

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Speaker 2: Where were you at the show where Miley Cyrus came out? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Also jay Z comes out two days later. I feel

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Speaker 2: like this June Teen's play.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I don't know how I

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Speaker 1: mean Miley was. She was for the culture. I like Miley. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I mean she's on the album, so I just know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But the fact that y'all.

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Speaker 2: Niggas got niggas of Harris and I got Piley, don't

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Speaker 2: do that. Miley is a legend, and you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't talk about white people too much like that.

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Speaker 1: I love me some Miley.

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Speaker 2: I was jealous that, Like, if that's the show you was,

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Speaker 2: I'm jealous.

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Speaker 1: I've seen jay Z perform. I went to the Blueprint too.

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Speaker 2: I went to the Blueprint three tour it was like this, Miley,

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you.

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Speaker 1: That's that's my little white girl right there.

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Speaker 2: I like her and she sound like she shouldn't sing

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Speaker 2: the way she sound and talked. She real deep with it, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I love med at the show where Rumy was a

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Speaker 2: tidy y'all niggas, and that's funny.

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Speaker 1: I will say this. So we got there. We're fucking burnt.

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Speaker 2: Out from cann and from fucking Berlin bergerheind and all

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Speaker 2: that shit. I woke up and I know that y'all

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Speaker 2: must think I don't love Yonce because I'm saying this,

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Speaker 2: But I got my tickets weeks ago. We were so tired.

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Speaker 2: I saw the clock with six forty five and you

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Speaker 2: know that show started.

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Speaker 1: Eight Door was open the city.

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Speaker 2: I said, maybe we can go see her another day

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Speaker 2: and he was like, baby, you gotta get it, Like

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'll lie. I don't care, I'll lie.

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Speaker 1: I don't give it. I ain't getting up. So we

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Speaker 1: put on a TV. I'm like, I just want to

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Speaker 1: cut up with you, and this is how much TV matters.

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Speaker 1: And I really was like, I'll go see beonce in Vegas. Something.

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Speaker 1: That's what I started thinking.

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Speaker 2: We watched the TV in France, and you know some

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Speaker 2: TVs you chrome cast, some hotel TVs you don't. I

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Speaker 2: didn't turn on the TV the whole time I was

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Speaker 2: in France. Well, I was tired, so I needed a break.

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Speaker 2: We turned that TV on and only thing it was

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Speaker 2: Donald Trump and motherfucking one channel that spoke ly and

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Speaker 2: it was ping pong.

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Speaker 1: I said, get up, we're going to CB. I didn't

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Speaker 1: watch a He's done. He's like, He's like, I'll get

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Speaker 1: I'll float it up. I'll get it so you can

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Speaker 1: get companied. Now we get in the car and something.

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Speaker 2: I just want to say that I appreciate France has

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Speaker 2: some of the most beautiful men. And again the thing

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Speaker 2: I think that makes them so beautiful, I'm looking at

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Speaker 2: black dudes.

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Speaker 1: Right, is there Africans you see?

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Speaker 2: You know, Africans got that fucking jawline, that model, bone structured,

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Speaker 1: Tall bro were walking up to Beyonce. He said, what

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Speaker 1: the girls too, the women, cops, all.

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Speaker 2: The security and all the policemen, all the police women.

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Speaker 2: Everybody was fine. Everybody's just statured. He's like, this is

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Speaker 2: fashion week. What the fuck on.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, welcome to France.

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Speaker 2: Figure it was getting ready to be fashion week though, no,

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Speaker 2: because that's how good look.

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Speaker 1: But Men's Fashion Week was happening there.

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Speaker 2: But Men's Fashion Week was so a lot of people

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Speaker 2: when I was there, but they were leading up to

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Speaker 2: it Monday.

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Speaker 1: Talking about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I was, I wasn't there, so basically, like we

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Speaker 2: traveling abroad, He's like, damn, I never think of Europeans

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Speaker 2: as black because euro is white.

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Speaker 1: I don't think about immigration.

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Speaker 2: Like you go to London, you meet all these Caribbean

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Speaker 2: batties because they.

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Speaker 1: Grew up there.

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Speaker 2: Like he's like, it just didn't hit me, Like every

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Speaker 2: bitch I'm looking at bad as fuck and they're they're

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Speaker 2: born here. Dog. At one point we had a bitch

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Speaker 1: Was bad, bitch.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you being able to be surrounded by black beauty,

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Speaker 2: that's just not at home.

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Speaker 1: We take New York for granted. You know where you

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Speaker 1: travel and you're.

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Speaker 2: Like, who this big is here in they because we're

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Speaker 2: just outside of our home, just being able to be

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Speaker 2: were in Europe for weeks and it was just it

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Speaker 2: was just dope and it made me really horny. And

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Speaker 2: even though we weren't successful at a threesome, something I

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Speaker 2: found very interesting. We were in the club talking to

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Speaker 2: this girl in Germany, super sexy, and she's like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you guys will love this party. It's an afrobeats

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, we're in an open

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Speaker 2: And she's like, oh, perfect, Like perfect, we'll go together.

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Speaker 1: When do you guys leave?

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Speaker 2: I was like, we leave the next day, then we'll

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Speaker 2: have our night together. We'll have a night perfect. That's

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Speaker 2: what she said. Next time we're talking to someone else,

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Speaker 2: we're talking about our relationship. We were in this club

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Speaker 2: TI nine the way, it's called Phantom Bar.

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Speaker 1: It's awesome.

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Speaker 2: So she said, seventy five percent of the people that

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Speaker 2: I meet that are under thirty five are in open relationships,

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Speaker 2: and some of my married friends are also in open

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Speaker 2: dynamics too. She's like, when I'm watching content from America,

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Speaker 2: I see that everybody's like thinking it's so crazy and

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Speaker 2: so whatever. She's like, I even grew up with my

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Speaker 2: she says that she feels we've been so blocked when

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Speaker 2: it comes to sexuality because of religion and all these

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Speaker 2: different things. And I must say, I wonder if open

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Speaker 2: relationships could be more successful if we weren't in these

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Speaker 2: current ideas every day. Because let's just say, you're a

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Speaker 2: girl who listens to Horrible or a guy that listens

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Speaker 2: to the show Decisions Decisions, and you're hearing about Mandy

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Speaker 2: and I and you tell your friends. Are your friends

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Speaker 2: gonna judge you? Because we all grew up thinking this

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Speaker 2: shit was bad?

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Speaker 1: Like? Are we really just a product of where we

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Speaker 2: I talk about that in the book literally, biologically, environmentally,

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Speaker 2: and socially, Yes, Like are like how our families raised us,

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Speaker 2: the religions that we were brought up, in the environments

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Speaker 2: of being able to have my twenties in New York,

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Speaker 2: like being back in Atlanta. There are light years behind

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Speaker 2: the sex clubs and sex spaces and lifestyle spaces that

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Speaker 2: Like it absolutely is your environment, how your family raised you.

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Speaker 2: And I think that's why it's so important, Like when

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Speaker 2: you have autonomy over the type of life you want

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Speaker 2: to have, the type of sexuality you want to have,

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Speaker 2: you got to do a lot of unlearning, especially if

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Speaker 2: you grew up with ignorance, if you grew up in

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Speaker 2: a religious household that said only monogamy was the way

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Speaker 2: to be happier or be in a relationship, or if

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Speaker 2: marriage is the by all with all of what happenings

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Speaker 2: looks like with a partner, like or if you're a

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Speaker 2: woman and you being raised to here you go, here's

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Speaker 2: your baby, here's the kitchen, a mom is what your

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Speaker 2: life should be. I think that there has to be

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Speaker 2: ways in which we kind of unlearn the things because

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Speaker 2: I don't think anything's really traditional anymore. I think with

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Speaker 2: social media, with the openness of being able to see

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Speaker 2: all these different lifestyles like right at our fingertips, I

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Speaker 2: think that it's been incredible for people not only to

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Speaker 2: have to visit new places, but listening to this show,

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Speaker 2: they get to see that there's a lot of possibilities

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Speaker 2: when it comes to like how you can exist and love. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think I've mentioned that in my antal sex chapter.

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Speaker 2: I talk about like the homophobia around anal sex growing

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Speaker 2: up and maybe it being rooted the homophobia specifically being

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Speaker 2: rooted in the black community because the black community is

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Speaker 2: ingrained in the church.

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Speaker 1: And there you go. That's all I gotta say about Dan.

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Speaker 2: You imagine just thinking you up there being a pastor,

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Speaker 2: We ain't learning all the kind of new sexuality, and

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Speaker 2: By the time y'all hear this episode, you would have

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Speaker 2: With a boyfriend, I was always just going out eating,

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Speaker 1: So got this story and it was real, real, real,

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Speaker 2: So we go out one night and we literally make

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Speaker 2: We hit up three spots. We started Little Alley, which

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Speaker 2: Now, I ain't called unfunction in the unction. Let's superunction.

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Speaker 2: So we go to Little Alley and it's mad guys.

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Speaker 2: We eat our dinner. We're like, well, damn, there is

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Speaker 2: and I was like, eh, it's a little small. Let's

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Speaker 2: Red Phone Booth is one of my favorite places that

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Speaker 2: You have to have a number to get in. It's

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Speaker 2: the Unction. It's like forty five fifty plus. Okay, pullamen pullamen,

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Speaker 1: How they look they got money? Like and they're black establishment.

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Speaker 1: How are there looking? There's not many women, Oh, there's

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Speaker 2: Walked in there was quite a bit. We walk in,

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Speaker 2: He's like, oh, we have these chairs here, mind you.

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Speaker 2: We're just really cute, Like there's dress codes at all

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Speaker 2: There's a table of these men. They're all taking pictures,

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Speaker 2: so you know, the we're I see two girls and

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Speaker 1: Hold on, we gonna get there. I already knew it.

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Speaker 2: A couple of them look good, very like sharp dudes,

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Speaker 2: They're fucking whiskey with the big old ice cube and

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Speaker 1: Because we looking at the watches.

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Speaker 2: So we sitting there in the corner, don't nobody speak

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Speaker 1: So finally finally we get the menu, I order my gimlet.

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Speaker 2: Why'd you said they hate us? I'm just like, bro,

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Speaker 2: this is our second place when we go out. Niggas

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Speaker 2: because she got his resting bitch face. I said, I

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Speaker 2: we get a compliment on our hair, our genes. Women

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Speaker 2: We sit here, we order our drinks. Our drinks come.

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Speaker 2: We keep talking and I'm like, bro, we're gonna smell

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Speaker 2: It's like three guys. Finally we go to Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: He said, some girl on TikTok recently made a video

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Speaker 2: He said, they come in, they'll sit in the corner

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Speaker 2: He was like, yeah, we saw y'all talk shit da

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Speaker 2: And I was like, what, Apparently not black men like

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I forget and I told her this.

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Speaker 2: I said, bro, it's because we light skin, and I know,

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Speaker 2: like people assume like there's a there's a and there

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Speaker 2: It was so interesting and also like good to know

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Speaker 2: they were like, yeah, like we like our brown girl

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Lights kidsage, little light skin bitches. We also wanted to

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Speaker 2: interesting hearing him a talk about like, unfortunately, light skin

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Speaker 1: He said, as soon as.

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Speaker 2: They go on dates, the girls are saying what bills

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Speaker 2: really no rapport in building a conversation or seeing what

435
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 2: chemistry looks like. In Atlanta, everything is really, really, really transactional,

436
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: and the men are hit that women's out here looking

437
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 2: for sponsors and tricks.

438
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:20,280
Speaker 1: I mean, can we be.

439
00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,240
Speaker 2: Real here for a second when it comes to Atlanta

440
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:27,400
Speaker 2: dating or big city dating. We said this a few

441
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 2: weeks ago doing Breakfast Lever. I think I mentioned it.

442
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:32,480
Speaker 2: Everybody's dating or trying to date the same niggas, right,

443
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,920
Speaker 2: So what happens in these cities, Like we've all decided

444
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 2: who the krem Dela gram nigga is, and everyone's really hmmm.

445
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 2: A friend is coming to mine, who I don't wanna

446
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 2: say sells pussy, but she's so pussy. No she doesn't.

447
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 2: I'm trying to like find the words she's sell experiences. No,

448
00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 2: she just always has a nigga taking care of her.

449
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 2: She's just like always that girl that's got a nigga

450
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 2: taking care of her. And I have a lot of

451
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 2: beautiful friends and sometimes it happens for them, sometimes that doesn't.

452
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,719
Speaker 2: This girl just always happens right, Okay, she doesn't live

453
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 2: in New York or Atlanta. However, one of the things

454
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 2: she said to me recently was like, girl, I just

455
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 2: really want love right now. And I find that men

456
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,119
Speaker 2: love me and my body and how I look. Because

457
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 2: she does have like a crazy natural body. She's like, well,

458
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 2: I'm just not me and dudes that like actually want me.

459
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I'm going to hold your hand.

460
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:39,720
Speaker 1: Now. I've known you maybe two or three years, not long.

461
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 2: I've never seen you once go out and scout a

462
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,640
Speaker 2: guy because he's attractive, because you want to go see

463
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:53,679
Speaker 2: a movie. I have seen you almost reject niggas coming

464
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 2: to talk to us because they look plain to you.

465
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 2: You have always notoriously dated the same niggas. So now

466
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,440
Speaker 2: we're on the phone for an hour about you telling

467
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,360
Speaker 2: me how this nigga ain't shit.

468
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 1: But she knew that nigga wasn't shit.

469
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 2: And I think what sucks is the reality of finding

470
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 2: out that, like the things that we're asking for aren't

471
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,360
Speaker 2: gonna come in the package that we're seeking. Sometimes, if

472
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 2: you live in Atlanta and you like to go to

473
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 2: the club with your friends and y'all look at the

474
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 2: niggas at tables.

475
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: Do you think that's the candidate?

476
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 2: Like, do you think the nigga that's always trying to

477
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 2: get a fucking table. I'm not talking about dudes that

478
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 2: are out with their friends because it's a birthday. I'm

479
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 2: talking about the nigga that's notorially, notoriously going to be

480
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 2: in the same spot, the one that everybody knows, the

481
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 2: one the pro promoter knows, not saying he can't be

482
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 2: faithful and never cheat on you and maybe has no

483
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 2: other children. But let's call a spade a spade. When

484
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 2: you want to meet decent men, how is it going

485
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: to be packaged like the niggas that look like they

486
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: ain't shit? For example, if I'm a man, let's just

487
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 2: call a stereo type of stereos side. You have a

488
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 2: fucking BBL and at Kim Kardashi and lip and hair

489
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 2: and you got that look. I'm gonna assume you might

490
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 2: be ah and got a bunch of niggas and maybe

491
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 2: fuck other niggas I know in the club, Just gonna

492
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 2: assume it.

493
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: Am I wrong here?

494
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 2: Not saying that the normal bitchain doing that, But there's

495
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 2: a look to those men and there's a look to

496
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 2: those women.

497
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 1: So you can't sit here and.

498
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 2: Tell me how much you want love now whenever time

499
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 2: we go out, you like, oh, look at that niggas

500
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 2: this and that, and you're clocking them for bread. It's

501
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: just it's just not gonna happen. Bro, any relationship I

502
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 2: know that's successful. I'm sorry, but like it seemed to

503
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: have had some organic start to it. Maybe it was

504
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: a dating app, maybe they made a school, whatever the

505
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 2: fuck it was.

506
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 1: It's not this I'm scouting niggas tonight vibe.

507
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 2: And when you start to do that, that's the energy

508
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 2: you literally bring in.

509
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: He's scouting you too, bitch for pussy.

510
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 2: So how is it then that you start fucking the

511
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 2: nigga that just wanted to fuck you, that you just

512
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: wanted money from that three months down the road isn't really.

513
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: Taking you serious? How how did you fucking start off?

514
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 2: I think that's how a lot of women, though, are approaching,

515
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 2: Like the transactionalness of only going after a guy that

516
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 2: could do for you, not because you like him, not

517
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 2: because you you.

518
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: Have the same interest.

519
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 2: Like if you going out scowling for the next dude

520
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 2: that's gonna be able to pay your rent, your card note,

521
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 2: or take you on a trip like you gonna end

522
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: up with just saying.

523
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 1: These niggas doing Dog, I'm telling you, like it might

524
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: take them a couple of checks. They might have to

525
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: say a fuck a couple of checks, Mandy. They probably

526
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 1: own a home.

527
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 2: It's probably just taking on a fucking like you because

528
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,360
Speaker 2: tricks do it really fast.

529
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: Well, now I'm just talking about the economy.

530
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 2: We end like all right, But I'm saying when I

531
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 2: say regular, dude, I'm genuinely speaking, I really be thinking

532
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: these scammer niggas.

533
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: First of all, I ain't got no fucking money. Them

534
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: niggas got a.

535
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 2: Bank accounts, So I never talked about a scammers, right.

536
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 2: Just I'm just think about the popularity of that culture.

537
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 2: Maybe the scammer spends that money on you quick, bro,

538
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: the second you have you a regular nigga, that's like

539
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 2: planning his life.

540
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: Bit you safe.

541
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but like all this pain and a lot

542
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 2: of heartbreak, when I'm hearing about it, it sounds like

543
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 2: we saw the road to get there. So when I'm

544
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,359
Speaker 2: hearing my friends say this to me, dog, and it

545
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 2: was such a re conversation.

546
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: Oh, I told her. I was like, which I'm talking

547
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: about you on the show.

548
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 2: Like you are the epitome of I'm asking for something

549
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 2: and I'm not receiving it because I'm not looking for it.

550
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: Oh one of those days waiting for one of these

551
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,439
Speaker 2: lit dudes to be her dude. Yes, and the waiting

552
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 2: game and they feel it too, you know what I mean. Like,

553
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: I think what it boils down to is like, when

554
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 2: you genuinely are seeking partnership, you need to seek people

555
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 2: that seem like good partners. For example, if I wanted

556
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 2: a good business partner to open a club with nigga,

557
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 2: I could go.

558
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: To the niggas that's always in the club.

559
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 2: Or I could find somebody that's consistently working in hospitality

560
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: and understands what it's like to run a brick and order.

561
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: I could do that. I could do someone that looks

562
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: good on the outside. Oh yeah, of course it's gonna

563
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: work out because blah blah.

564
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: Or I could work with someone that has acumen. Literally

565
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: start treating dating like a fucking business. Nigga, would you

566
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: get into business with that nigga? These relationships that start out,

567
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 2: you know, just off the simple fact that he's lit

568
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 2: and you're lit in your like it just it gets

569
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 2: fucked up every time.

570
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 1: And I've done it too.

571
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 2: I've been the one looking for niggas with money too,

572
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 2: and that's when I genuinely think that's just got to

573
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: stay in my You're in the selling pussy, sugar baby laying.

574
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: You gotta be there, Bro, you can't ben want this.

575
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: Guy to not fuck anyone else, not do all these

576
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: other things when you're genuinely not treating it like a relationship.

577
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: You're trying to just want y'all to know.

578
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 2: The men is calling y'all prostitutes when y'all out order

579
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 2: and water, and then it becomes mysteriously a celebration. When

580
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 2: they come over with they pocketbooks, you immediately are being

581
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 2: looked at as something. If you don't want to be

582
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,239
Speaker 2: looked like that, Bro, have the money to where you

583
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: and your homegirl can at least go out and order

584
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 2: your own first drink. Have the money to order your

585
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 2: first drink. That would just be my sitting. Is a

586
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 2: good tip, bro, order your first drink. Don't walk into

587
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 2: a place and do your rounds and wait till a

588
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 2: man asks you, like, what's your name? Don't go to

589
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 2: a bar and just sit and wait. If your pockets

590
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 2: are even strained, please have enough money to order your

591
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 2: first drink, because then that just opens up to where

592
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 2: you don't look like you there trying to get picked up.

593
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 2: We gotta get these other niggas a chance. Dog, y'all

594
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 2: gotta stop looking at Instagram. Listen, everybody, first date being

595
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: a vacation is not real, bitch, It's not fucking real.

596
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: It's not fucking real. Like seriously, if we are wanting

597
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: the things that we saying, bitch in my twenties, and

598
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 2: if you're still in your twenties, keep sucking the niggas. Also,

599
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 2: if you want to read about how terrible we were

600
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 2: in our twenties, no holes barred a dual manifesto of

601
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: sexual exploration and power out now because I was saying

602
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 2: shaggy oh and was and was, and I'll talk about

603
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: that in the progression chapter. So I'm no longer gonna

604
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 2: tell y'all to use your pussy for Brent unless you

605
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: absolutely have to.

606
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: I literally, if you have to, don't be like old girl.

607
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 2: That's Taylapari movie. All she had to do was sell

608
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: some pussy and she would have been just fine. O.

609
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 2: What I'm just saying she could have just sold some

610
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: pussy dog. When we talked about were you screaming at

611
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 2: the TV talk with Kiki Palmer and Straw about one

612
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: of them days. At one point she said they was

613
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 2: in the writing room and there was a scene about

614
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 2: selling feet.

615
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: Let's be clear.

616
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: Yes, this is our biggest prize possession and it comes

617
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 2: with a price tag. Sometime the pussy got a price tag.

618
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 2: Use it if you absolutely need to. But yes, Toaji

619
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 2: could have just sold some pussy And finally.

620
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: You need rent page. This is your bottom dollar.

621
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: It's not I got enough niggas in my if my

622
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 2: phone hadn't got just if you had to on a counter,

623
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 2: three say your price not wait, you just said rent.

624
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: We have one rent price? You said if I need

625
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: to pay rent, just so, I said, help Tod Durant. Sorry,

626
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: it's a little extra cash. But you what's the what's

627
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: the price on the Kouchie one? Two three?

628
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: First time I couldn't even price on a cookie. Y'all

629
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 1: don't even know.

630
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 2: I ain't shared this story. This nigga wasted my time.

631
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: A couple of weeks ago, I'm in single. Yeah, this

632
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 2: nigga wasting my time. A couple of weeks ago, y'all.

633
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 2: He pissed me off so bad. I told him he

634
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 2: owed me ten thousand dollars.

635
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: For wasting my time. We didn't get he didn't get

636
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: no pussy, he ain't get no head. He sent me

637
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars points to my time, and I said,

638
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: I never want to talk to you again. And then

639
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: he really sent that money, and I was like, a couple.

640
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 2: Of days later, I was like, you good by, bahad,

641
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: I said, I was not cutting this nigga off. I said, okay, okay,

642
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: So now I'm just waiting for but I'm ready to

643
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: buy my house.

644
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, hey, you need help.

645
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 2: But to me to have a nigga on my line,

646
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 2: that I could be like, hey, fuck, nigga, don't waste

647
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: my time. You had me going all over the motherfuckering place.

648
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 2: Da da da send me ten thousand dollars pays to

649
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 2: my time, and.

650
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: He do it.

651
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 2: I got he did, he did that, nig did. I

652
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: ain't gonna hold you. But here's here's my thing. Right

653
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 2: And it's a really hard time for a lot of

654
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: people right now, especially single mothers.

655
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how y'all do it best birth control

656
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: for me? Hear how you spend my own girl some money?

657
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: It's so raw.

658
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 2: It's so for me though, not to push prostitution on

659
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 2: the girls. I'm about to say a lot of people,

660
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 2: oh my god, not prostitution on the girls. But to me,

661
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 2: it is poor pussy management. If you are well into

662
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 2: your thirties and you done gave that pussay out for

663
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 2: the last fifteen twenty years, depending on where you started fucking.

664
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 2: Say you started fucking at fifteen, you thirty five, that

665
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: is twenty years of dick.

666
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: No, I know that's how's your body count? Eight? I

667
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: don't believe you even if it's eight. If you come

668
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: across hard times and now one of them eight.

669
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: Niggas could shoot you some money, you gotta go into

670
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 2: the little stall at the church and talk to the man,

671
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 2: or you gotta call your therapist.

672
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: But you have to sit in a mirror.

673
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 2: And be like, bitch, you got some poor pussy management

674
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 2: and you should never fucking nigga again.

675
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: Who can't throw you a little bit of change? And

676
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: you going through a hard time?

677
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 2: Bitch, I saw that ship, I said, Toronji, you got

678
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 2: a whole kid you can't call nobody.

679
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: You ain't put that pusso.

680
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 2: On nobody wait for me on the y real quick,

681
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: lit many just it Trojhi.

682
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: You can't call him, No, you can't. You can't now

683
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: one nigga?

684
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: Is mister your pussy enough to be like where you

685
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 2: hit him up and be like, hey man, I'm going

686
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 2: through hard time right now, I need a little help.

687
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: Dog by that ship y'all so bad.

688
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 2: I was like, now what it is, Dick could throw

689
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 2: you a little bit of change, hold puss the minute.

690
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 2: I literally want to do a test, but I gotta

691
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 2: respect that relationship.

692
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: But I really know what we should do a test

693
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 1: on patroon. Hey, we should just hit.

694
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 2: Him like three old niggas and be like, amen, let

695
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 2: him get three hundred dollars.

696
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, we got money. Now we got you

697
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: gotta ask for at least a thousand. Now, I'm no.

698
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: If you on hard line page six what from ken,

699
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I can't talk you any way? Famous? Oh

700
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: my god, who all spen? Wait?

701
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: We are on page sex bitch with Eva Longoria? My relationship?

702
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,239
Speaker 2: My home girl is there?

703
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: Me?

704
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:08,959
Speaker 2: Need?

705
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: I need? I need that? AnyWho?

706
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, popus management, ladies. It is twenty twenty five.

707
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 2: We is in a recession. We about to have World

708
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 2: War three. You need to have your niggas in check

709
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: right now.

710
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: Go through your phone. Any man that.

711
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: You would engage some pliss to two put him in

712
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: your notes. You need to have on speed dial the

713
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 2: three dudes that you know can help you out.

714
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: When the missiles start dropping, go come and save you.

715
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: Who's coming to save you? Bitch? God damn it, it's

716
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: rough out here.

717
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 2: Damn I really don't you got three that you as

718
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 2: You might be able to ask that Jamaica from back

719
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 2: in the day which one one of them? But you

720
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: was the club, you had a little group. You was out.

721
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: I know, for shup. I'm not gonna lie. I feel

722
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: like I got shit.

723
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 2: He just had a thirty fifth birthday on the yacht

724
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,959
Speaker 2: with his baby mama, and I was like, oh, you're

725
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 2: still trapping cause I.

726
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna hold you.

727
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: Even the sugar daddies that I mentioned in the book

728
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 2: being staybof Divorce now so I feel like I could

729
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 2: really slide back in if I wanted to.

730
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: But we're just friends. We're friends. We're friends.

731
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 2: You know, I've been the person people borrow money from

732
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 2: so often. I even wanted to talk about this v

733
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: Simone thing because I have a take that I think

734
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: you the obvious take is after the H and them thing,

735
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 2: we're all rolling ours. A couple of weeks ago, be

736
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 2: Simone went viral for two clicks We've got done.

737
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,479
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to insert that reactionary.

738
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 3: Being a best friend with a celebrity.

739
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 4: Everybody thinks that, oh, because you're connected to this person,

740
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 4: then your life is just as grand as theirs, or you.

741
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: Got you got it, stay helping you.

742
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 4: Baby, didn't have a job, living with my parents, a

743
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 4: single mom.

744
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 3: All this happened to me this past year, Jesus.

745
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 4: And then it's like to not have resentment in my

746
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 4: heart towards you because I saw you do this for

747
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,760
Speaker 4: other people. I saw you give a check to somebody

748
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,479
Speaker 4: to help them through whatever they went through.

749
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 3: And it's like, God, Like, nobody didn't give me a handout.

750
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 3: But guess what that wasn't your responsibility.

751
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: God had to take me.

752
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 3: Through that for my own season, for my own thing.

753
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 3: I had to get my car.

754
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: Repossessed, Jesus.

755
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 3: I had to go through the food stamps line.

756
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 4: I had to be on medicaid because whatever, he I'm

757
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 4: building my story too.

758
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 3: But it's like, as a friend who somebody who.

759
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 4: Has it, it's hard to digest.

760
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 3: They're probably shocked that not even saying this right now.

761
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: So number one and click with the friend. Yep.

762
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 2: Now I'm someone that has an apartment or two in

763
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: my name for a friend dog like I really and

764
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 2: my friend.

765
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: God kids, I'll do anything for you, But one, I

766
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: don't think that's our best friend. And two.

767
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: I must say I don't know how long that person

768
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 2: has been there, right me neither. I have had friends

769
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 2: that I've helped they can't fucking get it together.

770
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, same in that clip.

771
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 2: Even though I rolled my eyes at bisim Hom, I

772
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 2: then thought, mmmm, if my friend called me in a

773
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 2: panic with no place to live, obviously I would do anything. However,

774
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 2: we all have that friend it never pays us back.

775
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 2: We all have that friend that were like, how you

776
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: got a job and no money? Where does your money go?

777
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: What is going on? And I started to think about

778
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 2: that and it really made me kind of settle into

779
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: the feeling of I have been weeding out friends that

780
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 2: really do have that poor money management shit out of

781
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 2: my life slowly not like I'm trying to dub a

782
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 2: broke friend, but all SOMEO shit like fuck, I hate

783
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: the fact that you're always in a bad position. This

784
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 2: is my friends with all children saying, and people with

785
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 2: kids don't have bad management. It's just I can't imagine

786
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 2: taking care of you people. I'm gonna say something something

787
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 2: problematic on top of that, if you are a friend

788
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 2: that I constantly have to get out of a bind,

789
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 2: but you fucking oh bitch, don't let me find out

790
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 2: you need money, but you just fucked a week ago.

791
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: You giving up to puss it what you need me?

792
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 2: But you need me, oh bitch, you better get show

793
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 2: at the fuck together.

794
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 1: And then also, don't be putting.

795
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 2: Don't be fucking if you if you are in a

796
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: bind where you can't ask this man that you're laying down,

797
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 2: legs up in the air, you.

798
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: Probably riding, because y'all bitches be riding. I don't.

799
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 2: You probably riding that nigga dick from the back. But

800
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 2: you calling me your friend, which yes, I will help

801
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: if I can. But you are laid up with somebody

802
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 2: who's occupying your space, your body, your mind, and you

803
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable enough to ask men, you're not trying

804
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 2: to ana.

805
00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 1: Let me tell you this.

806
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 2: So I just conversation with Brionda because me and her

807
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: was hard. Bit someone asked for forty bucks, I ain't

808
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: go lie. If someone asked for forty they really need it.

809
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 2: And another friend asked me for five thousand, okay, in

810
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 2: the same forty eight hours. Okay, so we're talking about this.

811
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, bro, obviously my friend of the needs forty

812
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 2: dollars is getting one hundred or two hundred bucks, like

813
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 2: I know you need to. But the one that with

814
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 2: the five thousand, I said to Bree, I'll be doing

815
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 2: lectures if you borrow money from you sometimes I'll be

816
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 2: doing a little lecture with that five thousand.

817
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like I'll get that back

818
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: in a second. Yeah, for sure.

819
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 2: What is it about when someone needs that type of

820
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 2: money where it's like, ooh, I had a misstep in

821
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,720
Speaker 2: a check, something happened, it was an emergency.

822
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 1: But then when it's that little money, you're like, what,

823
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,479
Speaker 1: you will never get that back?

824
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: I mean I think, I think yeah, but I think

825
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 2: a grown ass person, which is why I say, when

826
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: you just said asking four hundreds, two hundred dollars. No,

827
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 2: you got to ask what thousands and you're gonna ask

828
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 2: for something with a common.

829
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: Because now is my apples. I want to calm a bitch.

830
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 2: But to me, if someone is asking for forty dollars,

831
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 2: they don't know how to go get.

832
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: Forty dollars, well, yeah, like you know what I mean

833
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: if you're.

834
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 2: Asking for the forty dollars any me, the check came

835
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 2: out something a bill hit you wasn't ready for.

836
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: I got you now.

837
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 2: The thing that her and I were vening about because

838
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 2: Brie had a situation where someone asked for that too,

839
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 2: and she was like, bro, this is hard for me

840
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 2: because I just started this newvie. You know, she's doing

841
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 2: trap House for me. And she's like, I'm just thinking

842
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 2: to myself, I know this friend makes money, and I

843
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 2: know I've been in places where I did it, and

844
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 2: I would never fucking do that. I'd fucking wait till

845
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: that Friday life.

846
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my shit together.

847
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fucking be here putting myself in situations

848
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 2: where I'm gonna embarrass myself to ask.

849
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: My friend for forty dollars. It ain't got it either.

850
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 2: And I was like you know what, some people, and

851
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 2: I've said this on the show. Someone that taught me

852
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 2: this lesson, some people are natural born givers and takers.

853
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: And for me, for the most part, when my friends

854
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 2: are kind of in bad money situations, they've always been

855
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: given shit. They're so used to just taking they just

856
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 2: don't feel like a big deal. And so when I

857
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 2: saw this Simone clip, it was hitting me a lot

858
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 2: because I'm like, she's had her moments that have made

859
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 2: me side on her, and I like.

860
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: Me someone a lot.

861
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: I think she's so sweetie, but she's had moments. But

862
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: in that one, I was like, Nah, that girl's putting

863
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 2: that shit on her.

864
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: I didn't like that.

865
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 2: It reminds me of you, Gab who was It reminds

866
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 2: me of jay Z when he said like every like

867
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 2: he stopped going to family functions because every time he

868
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 2: went it was like his cousins and people asking him

869
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 2: for money. I can see that happening to me, and

870
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 2: it's just like, bro, and I mean, that's the thing

871
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: with my dad. Like the girl moved over with her

872
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 2: mom right when she said that. Andandy, sorry to interrupt you,

873
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 2: did you know I think to yourself, like, Okay, you

874
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: had a place to go, Like why were we acting

875
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 2: like he was on a street with a kid and

876
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: be someone new like that? She was like I had

877
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 2: to move back to my mom, Like okay, that's the thing.

878
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: As a friend. Then if you couldn't even pay.

879
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 2: For a roof over your head for you and your child,

880
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: how much did you want be someone to show up

881
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: for you? Did you want her to put you in

882
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 2: an apartment like was be Samoe supposed to show up

883
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 2: and then raise a grown woman that she didn't push

884
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 2: out of her Guccie.

885
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: I think that we can be supportive for our friends.

886
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 2: But I do think that And I said this, this

887
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 2: is a it's a layer take. I hate you and

888
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: I have busted our ass. Yeah, I've seen this for

889
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 2: the last eight years. Like I remember coming on here

890
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 2: just wanting a Gucci belt and the Balenciaga's to look

891
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 2: like socks. Couldn't even afford a six on a loud

892
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: pair of shoes a couple of years ago on this pod.

893
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 2: And I think that it's it would be nasty for

894
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 2: any of our friends, any of our family members, to

895
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,720
Speaker 2: feel entitled to any of our money because they're unwell,

896
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 2: like they're not doing well, like and me and my

897
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 2: friends talk about all the time. We always uplift each

898
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 2: other anytime we can, like I'll give my friend a job,

899
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 2: I'll find a way to hire my friends. But to me,

900
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 2: the entitlement that it seemed like, like, girl, I saw

901
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 2: you get someone else to check, but you couldn't help.

902
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: Me physilanthropic shit. She's like, you don't know her. She

903
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: said that.

904
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 2: She said, I've had liquid cash before. She's like, I haven't,

905
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 2: but she has a whole app now. You don't know

906
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 2: the investments that people are making. You don't know how

907
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: much overhead they had for you to just feel entitled.

908
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,240
Speaker 1: To be given a gift.

909
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 2: I will say if b slone knew her friend was

910
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 2: struggling bad and maybe didn't, because the girl kind of

911
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 2: sounded like she was going through something and didn't see

912
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. It was awkward, but a lot of

913
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: people were jumping out her throw and I was like,

914
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 2: that wasn't the clip to the throat jump.

915
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: I think what I saw made me feel sorry.

916
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 2: But also people will put that shit on you too,

917
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,399
Speaker 2: like Vinnie tried to check her friend about that shit once.

918
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: So Vinnie on sex Cells.

919
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 2: If you watch the unedited version on Amazon Prime for

920
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: the Botox one. I've talked about that a lot, where

921
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 2: he got his his dick grew at the Dick Doc

922
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 2: in Vegas.

923
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 1: It's a thing, and he said that some guy he knows.

924
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 2: We're like, oh, so, Wheezy's just on vacation and traveling

925
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: doing this and you're just at work with your dick

926
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: on TV.

927
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: For her show. And he was like, you don't know

928
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 1: what the fuck Weezy.

929
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 2: Like, dude, I literally find there's not an episode of

930
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: Sex Cells where I'm not trying to get video if

931
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 2: any is in two little clips, I'm like, he went,

932
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 2: he's this and gets this and gets this, Like you know,

933
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 2: he's our tour manager. Like just like your friends help

934
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 2: us and stuff like get in our friends checks.

935
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: Is what we're supposed to do. If they're good, that

936
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: what they do. They have to begin with. I'm not

937
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:23,479
Speaker 1: handing Vinnie out nothing.

938
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: Vinnie is valuable to my life and worthy, but yes,

939
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 2: we should be putting our people on. However, entitlement is

940
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: in the same with these the ah and M clip.

941
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 2: I did look a little sideways, and it was only

942
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: because I don't.

943
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: Think she realized how how such she was in that

944
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: moment we.

945
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 2: About to go into a world war, Queen a recession,

946
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 2: eggs thirty six dollars have the Shopah, it's listen. But

947
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 2: I watched her Road to a Million video and never

948
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,959
Speaker 2: counting someone's pockets. But that was account right. I think

949
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 2: that's what makes it hard.

950
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: That was also a couple of years. But like me

951
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: someone being a comedian, that's just.

952
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: But I think so many people don't get to also

953
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 2: see her, like BE used to break my hair, like

954
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 2: BE used to work as a hostess and a waitress.

955
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: I would come to Atlanta, we would hang out, and

956
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 2: I'd be like her on she would break hair, she

957
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 2: would do any and everything a million she did. She

958
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 2: did any and everything that she could do to make

959
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 2: money when maybe she didn't. She relocated from Dallas, moved

960
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: like and who B is to her core, She's a hustler,

961
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 2: but she is a good person. So I hate that

962
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 2: the clips are coming out and I see the Internet

963
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 2: talking about her because she she has shown up in

964
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 2: so many dope ways over the last decade of me

965
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 2: knowing her that I hate.

966
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: That this narrative is not being created by her.

967
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 2: But I think that B is a I think it's

968
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 2: that clip is hard to see for people that go

969
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 2: through shit. Yeah, we all need to keep in mind

970
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: sometimes sharing. I was having a conversation with this. I

971
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 2: talk about Brooke Devart a lot. I talk about black

972
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 2: girl luxury because and I said this to the girl,

973
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 2: don't I make up this morning? I said, for some reason,

974
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 2: Brooke is completely in touch with her demographic. And I

975
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 2: think it's because luxury is kind of her brand. So

976
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 2: Brooke can get on her fucking phone with her family

977
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 2: and board the Delta one lounge, you know, no chairs

978
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 2: and have that private security and talk about Oh, I

979
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 2: think I'd get these, Marcilla. I don't know what about

980
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 2: the like And we love it and we're accepting of it.

981
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 2: There are certain people for some reason it doesn't hit

982
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 2: for us, and I wonder how we figure out that

983
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 2: line and when we start to hate, because I'm never

984
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 2: gonna hate how rich she gets for some reason. But

985
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 2: it was annoying to watch be Simone say that thing.

986
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 2: Why is it this is a black girl that came up.

987
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: We know she's worked hard, she's a comic. We see

988
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 2: you getting it out of the mud. I don't think someone

989
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: gives up. It was handed to me vibe.

990
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: Neither does Brook by the way, But I'm just saying, like,

991
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: what is it? And when do we learn who.

992
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 2: Can do it and who you can't? Because I didn't

993
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 2: feel bad for me, Simone.

994
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: I was really sitting it like the tree. Sorry.

995
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's it's demographic, and like I said,

996
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 2: I think it's also the timing.

997
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: It's the time that we are in. There's a lot

998
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: of people going through it.

999
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 2: Like I've been having the conversation with my friends and

1000
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, this year is hitting a lot different

1001
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 2: than the past couple of years for so many of

1002
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 2: my friends, for so many of my peers, and I'm like,

1003
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: I was just having a talk with a good friend

1004
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: of mine and savings depleted and trying to come back

1005
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 2: to finding a new passion. And I said listen, like

1006
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 2: almost in tears, and I said, listen, as long as

1007
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: I got it, you got it. Don't never think you

1008
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 2: can't cover it. And luckily she ain't fucking nobody right now,

1009
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 2: because otherwise I would have been like, bitch, bitterg that's

1010
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 2: that nigga. But I literally looked at her because I

1011
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 2: love her daughter, I love her and I'm just like, listen,

1012
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: as long as I'm your friend, you got it.

1013
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 1: Don't ever think you know.

1014
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 2: But it's because she's never like she's not someone that's

1015
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 2: ever constantly asked. I've seen her like you know, she's

1016
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 2: just an a in an era. We all have these

1017
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: ebbs and flows with life. But boy do I see

1018
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 2: life is life and right now for so many people. So,

1019
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 2: like I said, I think that clip didn't hit right

1020
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: now because of the time.

1021
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: That we're in, Like Israel, help with people is real,

1022
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: just as real.

1023
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: I hope listen, y'all got twenty six dollars, hope, I

1024
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 2: hope I get it in that book.

1025
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, listen, And I don't know. I don't know.

1026
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,919
Speaker 1: Might be up to twenty nine, it be going on sale,

1027
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: it goes between twenty nine and twenty three. How that happens,

1028
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: Like it depends where they get it from.

1029
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 2: Oh okay, like Amazon has different prices, Barnes and Nobles,

1030
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 2: all the things.

1031
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, I've been seeing the comments.

1032
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 2: So we're gonna get a little horrible okay with the

1033
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 2: sex history. Yeah, So I decided to do a sex

1034
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:59,399
Speaker 2: history dive into pet play and animal role play.

1035
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: Because the funk not.

1036
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 2: So we're gonna start off with the ancient roots of

1037
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 2: spirits and shape shifters, y'all.

1038
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: This is prehistoric to early.

1039
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 2: Civilizations, and so we really only get to see it

1040
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 2: through like you know, the shit the hieroglyphics and the

1041
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 2: writings and shit like that stuff ancient texts, totemism and

1042
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:22,280
Speaker 2: tribal identity.

1043
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: So many indigenous cultures believed.

1044
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 2: In animal spirits as clan ancestors or protectors.

1045
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: So think wolves, bears, or.

1046
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 2: Ravens, symbolizing traits like strength, cunning, or transformation.

1047
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: So having animals be at this like.

1048
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 2: Godly realm is where the animal play in the bedroom

1049
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: kind of took placed a pup. So I have you

1050
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 2: familiar with shamans or whatever that is, So shaman rituals,

1051
00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: shamanic rituals donned where an masks and furs to become

1052
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 2: the animal invoking its power or guiding spirits during trance states.

1053
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 1: So while you would be in this your fork state,

1054
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: this is where.

1055
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 2: Back in the day they was putting on animal masks

1056
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 2: and furs. Mind you, I feel like we have seen

1057
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 2: this in like eyes wide shut, like just showing it

1058
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 2: looks a little demonic, but it's kind of like cool

1059
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 2: because the lemonade issh, I think.

1060
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: I think it depends how you like to me.

1061
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you well, I don't know, because

1062
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 2: we be referring to niggas as goats now, like you

1063
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 2: know how the goats, that's where you're going with it.

1064
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking of like goats be looking demonic.

1065
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 2: But also we call Kobe a goat, so imagine you

1066
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 2: just fucking a goat because you imagine it inside.

1067
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: Like a nigga like Ron or Kobe. You know what

1068
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, don't niggas be like they goats. It's

1069
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: a whole emoji.

1070
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So nigga, maybe you want to suck a goat

1071
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: because your nigga not a goat, So turn that nigga

1072
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 2: to a goat.

1073
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, all right.

1074
00:48:55,320 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 2: Symbolism, animals weren't just beasts again going back to the

1075
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 2: demonic things, they were cosmic inter intermediaries.

1076
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,240
Speaker 1: Sack I was like, how do I say this word.

1077
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 2: Intermediaries and channeling them meant spiritual transformation. So pretty much

1078
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 2: pet plays started with the primal roots that took place

1079
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: from how our ancestors viewed animals period. Just think about

1080
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: how expensive animals are in dowry, Like you talked about

1081
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 2: a dowry, just the way that like they honor animals

1082
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,399
Speaker 2: and then you just be like, I can't value a cow,

1083
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 2: but first off, let me tell you, and I don't

1084
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 2: know how much they cost. In Oklahoma City, I was

1085
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: out there for Juneteam Fish.

1086
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 1: Niggas was out there riding horses like go carts.

1087
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 2: Like it was just niggas, like not not even a hat,

1088
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 2: they had no shirt.

1089
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:52,240
Speaker 1: It was just black boys riding off. Was a team theme.

1090
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no, apparently there's like a black cowboy thing, but

1091
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: they don't dress like cowboys.

1092
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,720
Speaker 1: It's like niggas on horses like they.

1093
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 2: Stretched, had like some baggy jeans, no shirt, and it

1094
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 2: was just out there riding a horse like not with

1095
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 2: a saddle or anything, bare back horses.

1096
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: And so I'm asking, I said, how these niggas just

1097
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:09,959
Speaker 1: got all these.

1098
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 2: Horses, and they was like they're cowboys, like people got

1099
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: horses out here. I was like in Oklahoma City, mind

1100
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 2: you like teenagers to like they look like young boys.

1101
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 2: But it was just out there on their gallivan on

1102
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 2: their horses, not galivant and so I don't know, maybe

1103
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 2: there's a discount on horses in like the middle that

1104
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 2: part of the world, In that part of the country,

1105
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 2: I said, I thought horses was expensive, and we just

1106
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 2: out here with horses, just riding through the festival.

1107
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: I was shot making me a little horny. You ever

1108
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: been on making you horny? It's crazy? You know what's crazy?

1109
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 1: I actually don't.

1110
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 2: My hips don't really open that wide. I'll be looking

1111
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 2: at them like, but you go, this ain't the hair

1112
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 2: we be buying. I'll be looking at their hair like

1113
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 2: I'll be looking at h So that's what it is.

1114
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: It definitely wasn't the milky ware that warns here. Okay,

1115
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into myth and metamorphosis. So this

1116
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,760
Speaker 2: is where it kind of started getting really mo kinky.

1117
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 2: So we're talking really mo kinky. We taken it too

1118
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 2: ancient Egypt, Greece, in India. So God's in animal form.

1119
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 2: So Anubis was a jackal, that's it was a cat,

1120
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:23,280
Speaker 2: and Pan was a goat. So divine beings with beastly

1121
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 2: traits weren't rare, so pretty much they turned it into

1122
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 2: fucking gods.

1123
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: You know how you be like, oh.

1124
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 2: My God, this is where it started. But they were

1125
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 2: dressing up as animals. So there's also myths of transformation,

1126
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 2: so Zeus became a swan, and Hindu myths feature beings

1127
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 2: like Hanuman, who was a monkey god erotic symbolism. Animal

1128
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 2: features often represent raw instincts, so sex, chaos, power. So

1129
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,439
Speaker 2: including those elements into the bedroom like say you got

1130
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 2: say baby girl, okay, her drinking that milk out of

1131
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 2: the thing, and either being a cat or a dog,

1132
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: there's submission and loyalty as what we normally relate to

1133
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 2: animals that way. So now you're bringing in those elements

1134
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 2: that you have when you think of a dog being

1135
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 2: loyal or a dog you know, kind of listening when

1136
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 2: you say sit. Those elements are what brings about the

1137
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 2: arousal while you in the bedroom, like and that's sexy.

1138
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:28,479
Speaker 2: I mean, it's all at the end of the day,

1139
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 2: one's the top, one's a bottom. Now let's get into

1140
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 2: the Victorian era to the mid nineteen hundreds, which we

1141
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: around so Freud fetish and furry hints. Okay, so psychoanalysis

1142
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 2: and libido. Freud and Jung explored animal dreams as symbols

1143
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 2: of raw desire or her pressed urges. Now, there was

1144
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 2: a rise in fetishism in the Victorian kink culture that

1145
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 2: included pony girls, corsetry, and power dynamics.

1146
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: That's a pony girl. I don't know that one.

1147
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 2: We can look up with a pony her DJ name

1148
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: of her horse girl, y'all know who that is? No,

1149
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 2: but does she look like she'd be dressed like a horse. Yeah,

1150
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 2: I don't like it because you don't think horses are sexy.

1151
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: Because she don't like cat like I had no problem

1152
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 2: with Doja cat coming out here like a cat girl?

1153
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: She like really and she's really popping too. I think

1154
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 1: who is it? Oh? Yeah, this is her? I think

1155
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: I saw Kim Krash she posted her or North. Oh.

1156
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,479
Speaker 5: A pony girl is a woman, usually submissive, who takes

1157
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 5: the role of a pony.

1158
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: Oh make a pony sound.

1159
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 2: Now your turn, bitch. She ain't gonna make up it

1160
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 2: just sound like one. I can't do one, gidiat. Oh

1161
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 2: my goodness, this sorry trash.

1162
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 1: All right.

1163
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,439
Speaker 2: Now, we're gonna get to nineteen seventies to today, where

1164
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,240
Speaker 2: we have talked about it for the last few years.

1165
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 2: Do not know how eight years in we have yet

1166
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 2: to have a goddamn furry on the show. But if

1167
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 2: you are a her, opportunity me. But they just be

1168
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 2: so introverted and weird. I don't I mean, yeah, we can't.

1169
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 2: Your kink isn't weird for the people. You're just weird,

1170
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 2: Like why is it weird? It gives a little tism

1171
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 2: in the messages. Sometimes I talk to two or three

1172
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 2: of them doing avia we can what the hell is

1173
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 2: going on?

1174
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't. Well, maybe that's why they're in these costumes. Bro.

1175
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: One girl literally I booked her. Let's just say. It

1176
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 1: was like twelve to two on a Sunday, Vegas. She

1177
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: never responded. I sent an address.

1178
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, good to go, nothing, we get a new

1179
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 2: guest because the bitch doesn't reply. Miss furry lady shows up,

1180
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 2: no replies to me at eleven forty five, like, hey,

1181
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 2: twenty minutes away. I said, there was no conversation. I

1182
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 2: asked you for stuff. She wrote back and said you

1183
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 2: told me where to be, though, what bitch, do you

1184
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: talk to people?

1185
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: Do you talk or.

1186
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 2: Do you just oh she ain't confirmed. Damn, yeah that's

1187
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 2: just all. And then another one was like, well, what

1188
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 2: would I talk about side of the furry So that's

1189
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,240
Speaker 2: the thing like furries have now like so in modern

1190
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 2: day BDSM community is so pet play became a recognized kink,

1191
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 2: so especially in Puppy Kit and Ponty play. Like we talked,

1192
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: it combines obedience, care, power, exchange, and identity. But the

1193
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 2: furry fandom is the overlap, and it's focused more on

1194
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 2: identity and community and community but shares anthrow pomorphic and

1195
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 2: constant role play.

1196
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 1: So I think that's the different. There's the way you

1197
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:36,359
Speaker 1: could look out on the walk, she said, Ted, did

1198
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 1: I not? I don't do that. I did that right,

1199
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 1: but the way that they can right now.

1200
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 2: I agree, But she was happy that I got that

1201
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 2: word going on anthrket whatever.

1202
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 1: See.

1203
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 2: I ain't say at that time that was too fast,

1204
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 2: but I said it when I was reading it. By

1205
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 2: the way, there's an online boom for the furries with

1206
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 2: forums Tumbler. I don't know if that's still out, but

1207
00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 2: and TikTok where they brought visibility so with its crazy

1208
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 2: is and it's why y'all got to watch when your

1209
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 2: kids is on the TikTok o. They're like there's a

1210
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: community where they dress up the same way like the

1211
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 2: anime girls like where that's actually a sexual thing, where

1212
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 2: some people might scroll by it and be like, oh,

1213
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 2: she's dressed up like Sailor Moon. There's a nigga on

1214
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 2: another side of a screen jacking off to Sailor Moon.

1215
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 2: So there's the same thing happening right now on the

1216
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 2: TikTok where the people are dressing up as animals and

1217
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:30,760
Speaker 2: people are being aroused at the furries online hashtag furry

1218
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 2: and you will see all bunch of people dressing up

1219
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: as these animals where you might think maybe they're just

1220
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: they like.

1221
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: Barney and maybe what are you talking about? What furries

1222
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 1: being a thing online? Like the same way are we

1223
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,760
Speaker 1: talking about the splashing right the people?

1224
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: So kids are dressing up now, kids are dressing up,

1225
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 2: adults are dressing up because you said the same way,

1226
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 2: don't dress.

1227
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: Up as anime and these things.

1228
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 2: That's the cause playing the anime character your kids on

1229
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 2: because because a lot of things that people don't understand

1230
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 2: have a sexual limit to it. Yes, oh is it

1231
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,280
Speaker 2: kind of like the girl that goes yem i scream

1232
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 2: or the splashing of the cakes.

1233
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 5: Yes, the making a mess we talked about that necessarily

1234
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 5: mean there's a sexual affiliation to it. But but for example,

1235
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 5: there are animas that are very kid centrico centric, and

1236
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 5: I understand how that can be a little weird and

1237
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 5: where you should be cautious of having your children post

1238
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 5: up possibly as these characters because there might be creeps

1239
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 5: on the other side.

1240
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 2: Coming comic con and video game people. And my confusion,

1241
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 2: so serious, serious thing. I would like to know. Yes,

1242
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 2: when you go to comic con and you put that

1243
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 2: you're just around the peach coon, dream con, dream Gon,

1244
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 2: when you put the aphon.

1245
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 6: On, you're not about to come for cosplayers right now?

1246
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: Yes, she is, uh huh, I'm gonna let her go.

1247
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her go.

1248
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 2: I just want to know you put the costume on

1249
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 2: Batman girl, batgirl, whatever.

1250
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: Not at you're telling me, yes, this is just for

1251
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: fun and you don't want to fuck. How is it possible, Oh,

1252
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know we were going this way.

1253
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 2: That there is no connection to the to the people

1254
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 2: that are dressing up a comic con and sexuality. How

1255
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 2: is it possible that we are all in this room

1256
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 2: because we love comic books that much. At forty you're

1257
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 2: telling me you don't want to fuck. So now we're

1258
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 2: at booth together, and we're just going back and forth

1259
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 2: talking about Pokemon, and you dressed up in the whole

1260
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 2: fucking latex and this isn't sex. You ready, we would

1261
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 2: let me throw you the fucking analogy right now, because

1262
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 2: you sound crazy. You're telling me you didn't go to

1263
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 2: the Beyonce tour and your god damn cowgirl hat and

1264
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 2: your chaps, and you were talking about Beyonce and the

1265
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 2: records you like and you are thinking about.

1266
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: Sex while you dressed up and talked to a whole

1267
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: bunch of people with the same lights to you. Oh,

1268
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: I got one another one, pretty bag. That's a theme.

1269
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 1: What's a theme? Not a costume? No, no, no, no, no, no,

1270
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: it's a theme. Dressing up, bro, that is a theme.

1271
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: The a mask. Go ahead, there, there we go, There

1272
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: we go.

1273
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 2: You don't dress up for Halloween, period, she said, thought

1274
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 2: the she wants to stop. That's not a good analogy,

1275
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: No it is. And then you know, dressed up the

1276
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 2: fuck every Halloween. Every Halloween, you dress dress a fuck

1277
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 2: a little bit. But I'm dress but you don't dress

1278
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 2: up too.

1279
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: Fuck.

1280
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 2: Hold on, so you're telling me, you grown ass Nico Rock,

1281
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 2: you take your little Latino ass and put on a

1282
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 2: costume and none of us.

1283
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 6: Sections play myself, but I have friends who cosplay. Yeah,

1284
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 6: people like to cosplay.

1285
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: You have friends who cosplay I And that's the thing.

1286
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1287
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 2: I've been I've been hanging with more of the nerds.

1288
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 2: And it's crazy because I'm on record talking about gamers and.

1289
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: Ship a real person that's not a real person that

1290
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: just really likes it.

1291
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 2: Like how they make the Saalian, like make the Stallion

1292
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 2: be dressing up in anime Characterstan.

1293
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: I thought that that's.

1294
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 2: Supposed to be sexy. I mean, it's sexy, but she's

1295
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 2: also a fan. It's sex shit, right, what she's doing

1296
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 2: is not sex shit. She's a fan of anime. So

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Speaker 2: you don't believe the e grown person should dress up

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Speaker 2: as an anime or want them to do it. You

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Speaker 2: want them to do it, but you're like, why are

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01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 2: you doing it without fucking why are we at the

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Speaker 2: Javit Center, and why it's a convention?

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Speaker 1: Why are we not all right?

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01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 2: You're telling me you did this for Javits and you

1304
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 2: walked down on the broad day.

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01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: You never got your dick card.

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01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 6: Not everybody's warning like that.

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01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 2: Bro.

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01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: I came out of the wall.

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01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 2: I don't want to say I'm not coming for them.

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Speaker 2: I'm just it's not bad because not everyone thinks about sex.

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01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 2: Maybe this is their hobby. It's just really fandom.

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Speaker 1: Like when you go when you go.

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Speaker 2: To listen to my piano, does your pussy have to

1314
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:51,919
Speaker 2: be leaking? Because that's what you enjoy to go do

1315
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 2: if I start working also that Okay, maybe that was

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01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 2: a yeah because if it's like the sexual energy, But no,

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Speaker 2: I'm just really thinking to myself, Okay, you get up,

1318
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 2: you're putting on this disguise. It's mysterious. Maybe have a

1319
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 2: mask on.

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01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 1: Maybe look at someone else.

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01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:11,080
Speaker 2: You're looking at someone, what if they look like pikachuu?

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01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 1: What if they in a big old.

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01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 5: Round, there'd be some sexy like.

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01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: Why are men wearing one? Late sex? One's the fucking things?

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01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 6: Or maybe the same of the animal.

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01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 2: But now you're telling me you gotta go peep anything

1327
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 2: costume is expensive.

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01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: That mean they got a little cooint.

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01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 2: So you're just doing this to wait in line to

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01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 2: talk or see a things and embrace the culture and

1331
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 2: Jordan the culture, and then what do you do after

1332
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 2: you don't fuck? Are these people don't have their virgins. No,

1333
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 2: maybe not their virgins that all these cosplay people. What

1334
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 2: about your friends? They not each other? But do they

1335
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 2: fuck other women and men? Yes, who also wear costumes.

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01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're saying.

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01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 6: Women and men who causeway right, it's not just men?

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01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, of course I'm saying do they

1339
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 2: fuck other people that are also in there?

1340
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 6: Probably?

1341
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, they have common they have hobbies and common that

1342
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 2: it is.

1343
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: Just find your bitch at the Pikachu tad.

1344
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 5: But that's my point, right, and say, if you like

1345
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 5: Pokemon and I like Pokemon, let me Pokemon.

1346
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: Never fuckmon Tomato, Tomato Tomado. I'm sure that's a fucking

1347
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: veggie tails costume where you are? Tomatoes? Baby? Do that

1348
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: that veggie tails? I can't dress up as an eggplant?

1349
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 6: Excuse me?

1350
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: I can't dress up as the eggplant?

1351
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 6: Are you asking me that again?

1352
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? Hold on, I want to pull.

1353
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: Do you know Veggie Tails was Christian based? Yes? Did

1354
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: you know that? Like Jesus Son, Yeah, the veggies, the

1355
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: veggies were Christians. Yeah. They used to talk about love God. Yeah.

1356
01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 2: Wait, because I used to watch the Beggie Tails. Okay,

1357
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 2: hold on, now I'm trying to pull up this ship.

1358
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:57,360
Speaker 1: Wait, what is it?

1359
01:02:57,480 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 2: Most popular costumes, most popular comic con outfits.

1360
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: Let's just see if they.

1361
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 2: Could be sex not, let's see if they could be

1362
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:13,680
Speaker 2: sexy deck because as absolutely be said that that's a that's.

1363
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if these people are ugly or it's

1364
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: just not good.

1365
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 2: I just see the characters. Because, Okay, Woody and Buzz

1366
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 2: light Year fund.

1367
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 6: The girl Woody and buzz Lightyear.

1368
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:25,560
Speaker 1: What's that bad bitch?

1369
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 2: The white girl was at the top, Harley Quinn, that's

1370
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 2: kind of sexy between.

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01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: Yes, wood he is Woody.

1372
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 2: The way he was moving like this, he had some

1373
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 2: sugar in his tank.

1374
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: Well a long the cat woman, that's sexy. Yes.

1375
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 2: Then there's Zelda, who's in kitties out on the stomach out.

1376
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 2: These bitches look like hose. Not these bitches look like hose.

1377
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 2: You know why too?

1378
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:55,919
Speaker 1: They were drawn by men. Sorry, they were drawn by men.

1379
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 5: First of all, the virginal characters don't look super hyper sexualized,

1380
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 5: but yes, today they do. That are a lot they're not.

1381
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 5: Zelda is not hyper sexual.

1382
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: No, Zelda was a fucking had elf ears.

1383
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Velda was just trying to say the hell, oh sorry.

1384
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 6: Well I'm sure, you probably see the very like sexualized

1385
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 6: I do.

1386
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 2: Speaking of elf ears, do you know I realized okay,

1387
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 2: I was thinking about it when I looked at you

1388
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 2: today during the breakfast. I was like, is that Mandy's

1389
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 2: real ear? Yes, it's my real ear. I have a

1390
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 2: spock here? Hold on, I do? Do you know that that?

1391
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: That's like the fun I do.

1392
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 2: I have a spuck here. It used to be more prevalent.

1393
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 2: It's just one ear. It used to be more prevalent

1394
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 2: when I was younger. This one is round, this one

1395
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 2: is spot. It was so distracting, you know why, because

1396
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:37,800
Speaker 2: I'm a mythical fucking creature.

1397
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: It's crazy. I know what was looking at my ear

1398
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: at the breakfast?

1399
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 2: If you were sitting tar, But I looked at you,

1400
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 2: and I'm like, it's because I'm a mythical creature, y'all.

1401
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 2: I've never seen this Mandy's ear.

1402
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: I'm a fairy. Do this? Oh yeah, oh my god, wait,

1403
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: it's just that one ear. Let me see the gain. Yeah,

1404
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: is it a rich fair? Yes, my ear is real.

1405
01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: Don't do that now.

1406
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 6: It looks like a really nice like, oh yeah, metrical.

1407
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 2: But Jeeves, the white guy, I used to fuck this

1408
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 2: is obviously a white story.

1409
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: So maybe my spock here is because I'm half white.

1410
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: He used to be. That's why. That's why only one

1411
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: of them is Spock. The other one is my nigga here? Oh, come,

1412
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: what it is around? Its little like my daddy here.

1413
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what this is.

1414
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 2: Your therapy. I don't think she got spock here. She

1415
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:25,439
Speaker 2: got them long white people.

1416
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: But I don't notice that. Man, you got short air

1417
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,439
Speaker 1: for how many years now? Yeh like five years?

1418
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 2: Maybe I just haven't been that close in proximity. But

1419
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 2: we're turning because Charlaine's on the right to the left,

1420
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 2: I'm looking at her.

1421
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: Wait when did she get that?

1422
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 4: Now?

1423
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: When did I get that?

1424
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 6: Right now?

1425
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: Oh? Maybe because there was jail because I did a

1426
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 1: little slip back today.

1427
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 2: Anyway, if Mandy's ear in detail, please take your ass

1428
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 2: over to Patreon. H that's right, not only Patreon, bitch,

1429
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 2: we on the YouTube as well. Y'all could also see.

1430
01:05:55,880 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 2: That's why you're here, or does a bitch you said?

1431
01:05:58,280 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: What? No?

1432
01:05:59,880 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 2: I think he did it in this ear because also

1433
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 2: I had tubes in my ears. I had sinus infections

1434
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 2: and then I had two bull leggate not the Tube bloggation.

1435
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,959
Speaker 1: That's where the get Sheaver my mind a no holds

1436
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 1: barns out now.

1437
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 2: Also, if you want bonus content, patreon dot com backslash

1438
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Speaker 2: Horrible Decisions, Bitch, Horrible Decisions ain't going nowhere. You just

1439
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 2: gotta pay as little. It's five dollars a month. We

1440
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 2: got horrible Decisions over on a Patreon, y'all.

1441
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 1: Go check it out.

1442
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 2: It's sex, it's nasty, And if you want to hear

1443
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 2: more about my breakup, it's over there behind a paywall.

1444
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

1445
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,439
Speaker 2: From here on you just get in my dating life. Okay,

1446
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 2: but it's over there on the paywall. Go go hear

1447
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 2: it over there. Anyways, y'all, thank y'all for tuning in

1448
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 2: to yet another episode of The Cisions, The Cisions.

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Speaker 1: We'll see you next week