1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Muckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. My daughter's husband is the subject. Dear 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. My daughter got married young and she has 12 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: a short attention span. She's almost thirty, and it looks 13 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: like she's about to cheat on her husband. She married 14 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: a man that's thirty eight, and he's a lot more 15 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: settled than she is. My daughter has been talking to 16 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: a new guy on the phone, and she told me 17 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 1: he's smart and funny. I've seen her ignore her husband's 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: calls when she's on the phone with him, and she 19 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: doesn't even know her four year old exists. I asked 20 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: if she was having an affair, and she said they 21 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: are our platonic friends. The other night, she was supposed 22 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: to come pick her son up, and I hadn't heard 23 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 1: from her. She wasn't answering her my calls or texts, 24 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: so reluctantly I called her house and her husband picked up, 25 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: and he said he was looking for her too a 26 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: few more minutes. A few minutes later, he came to 27 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: get the baby, and I could tell he'd been drinking 28 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,559 Speaker 1: because he was talkative. He said he thinks my daughter 29 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: is cheating on him, and she hasn't had sex with 30 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: him in a month. I felt so bad for him, 31 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: so I hugged him. He told me that I felt 32 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: real good, and he squeezed my behind with both hands. 33 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: I stood there frozen for a second before I pulled 34 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: away from him. He apologized and said he'd been drinking, 35 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: but then laughed and said, I do feel like silk. 36 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: He asked me if I had ever thought about him 37 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: in a romantic way. He said when he first met 38 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: my daughter and I, he was initially attracted to me. 39 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: I clearly remember that day, and I did think he 40 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: was fine af but not for me. I'm only forty 41 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: eight and a man ten years younger can't handle me. 42 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: It's a good thing my boyfriend called when he did, 43 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: because things got heated quickly. I know I need to 44 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: talk to my daughter about her bad behavior, But do 45 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: I need to tell her about her husband's behavior too, well, 46 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: I mean not if you don't want to blow up 47 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: the spot. Because this letter took a hard left. I 48 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: mean it really really did, and you're talking about it 49 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: got heated quickly and all of this. I mean, were 50 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: you into this? You know it sounds kind of like 51 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: you were. So I'm going to tell you this, Mom, 52 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: you need to back all the way out of your 53 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: daughter's marital issues, telling her husband, telling her about her 54 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: husband's behavior. No need to at this point. She doesn't 55 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: care what you have to say anyway. I mean, you've 56 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: asked her about this other man. She's still doing her thing. 57 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: In other words, the only person she's listening to right 58 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: now is her so called toonic friend. 59 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: You said. 60 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 1: She even ignores calls when it's her husband when she's 61 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: talking to this other guy. Your daughter needs to be 62 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: concerned about her son. She's taking you for granted because 63 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: she knows the baby's safe with you. She can stay 64 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: out for days or whatever and not have to worry 65 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,399 Speaker 1: about him because you knows you got him. It's very 66 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: selfish and irresponsible of her to take advantage of you 67 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: that way. So now you need to get serious and 68 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: start telling her, no, you can't babysit. If you miss 69 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: the baby, you can go over there and visit him 70 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: in her house for a couple of hours, then leave period. 71 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: And I would suggest taking your boyfriend too. That might 72 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: keep her at home, you know, if you go over there. 73 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: The other thing you need to do is never ever 74 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: allow her husband to pick up this baby and drive 75 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: anywhere anything like that. Maybe he walked over to your house, 76 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, but don't do that, especially when he's 77 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: clearly been drinking. And please tell him when you get 78 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: the opportunity, and no uncertain terms. Should he ever touch 79 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: you like that and do what he did squeezing your 80 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: button saying he wanted you first come on, That's never 81 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: gonna happen again. It's their marriage. They have to figure 82 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: this situation out, get through their own problems. Stay out 83 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: of it, mom, she's going to end up resenting you 84 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 1: if you don't, and please stay away from her husband. 85 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 3: Steve chirly Ly shit, wonderful answer. 86 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 4: You just gay full of hope and optimism and getting 87 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 4: people to do the right things and all that. 88 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 3: That's wonderful. 89 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 4: And to the lady who wrote the letter, please listen 90 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 4: to what Shirley told you. Now what I'm about to 91 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 4: tell you. I'm here to tell you about yourself. Now. 92 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 3: If you can see some help in that, fine, But my. 93 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 4: Initial approach is not to help you, it's to tell 94 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 4: you the truth. 95 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 3: Let's start with the truth. You say your. 96 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 4: Daughter got married young and she has a short attention span. 97 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 4: That's not what she has, and I will prove it 98 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 4: throughout the letter. She doesn't have a short attention span. 99 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: She's not. 100 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 4: She has a maturity problem and a morality problem. She 101 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 4: has a maturity problem and a morality problem. They ain't 102 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 4: got nothing to do with short attention spans. She ain't 103 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 4: in school, lien, Hey, add this ain't. 104 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 3: What this is. 105 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 4: So now she's almost thirty and looked like she's about 106 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 4: to cheat on her husband. She's married to a man 107 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 4: this thirty eight. He's a lot more subtle than she is. 108 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 4: My daughter has been talking to a new guy on 109 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 4: the phone, and she told me he's smart and funny. 110 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 4: I've seen her know her husband's call when he's on 111 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 4: the phone with him, and she doesn't even know her 112 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 4: four year old exists. That's not a short extension stick 113 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 4: attention span. She has a maturity problem and a moral problem, 114 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 4: and she's not even a good mother or it is. 115 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 3: Just not a really really good person so far in 116 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 3: the letter. 117 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,679 Speaker 4: I ask her if she's having a fairs. She said, 118 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 4: they are in They are plutonic friends. Yeah, well, platonic 119 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 4: whatever that means whatever. 120 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 3: The key word in that? No second? 121 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, the key word in platonic is tonic, and 122 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 4: tonic always means something tonic. Always remember that about plutonic, 123 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 4: that means it's something in there. 124 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: We have to take altonic relationship. Okay, whatever you want. 125 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 1: To call me, it's platonic. Okay, listen, we're coming back 126 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: with part two of the Strawberry Letter and Steve's Steve's 127 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: second half you don't want to miss as well. The 128 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: subject is my daughter's husband. We'll get back into it 129 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:54,679 Speaker 1: right after this. 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The subject 141 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: is my daughter's husband. 142 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 4: Well, this woman wrote this letter about this thirty year 143 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 4: old daughter. She says that she has a short attention 144 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 4: spand we find out in the letter she has a 145 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 4: maturity problem, a morals problem, and she's just not a 146 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 4: good mother. Doesn't seem like a nice person to me. 147 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 4: She's married to a man, her daughter that's thirty. She's 148 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 4: married to a man that's thirty eight. He's more settled. 149 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 4: My daughter's been talking to a new guy on the 150 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 4: phone that he describes as smart and funny. She ignores 151 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 4: her husband calls whenever she's on the phone, and she 152 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: doesn't even know. 153 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 3: Her for you old exists, I asked her. 154 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 4: The mother asked the daughter, she's having a fair and 155 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 4: she said they in a platonic relationship. Plutonic is what 156 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 4: is spelled he l platonic were having a disagreement about that. Shirley, 157 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 4: of course knows the proper pronunciation of it, but I 158 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 4: know the meaning of it. 159 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 3: See. 160 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 4: Knowing how a word is pronounced and what it means, 161 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 4: it's two different things. Key word in here is tonic, 162 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 4: tonic mean that's something in it. So if you in 163 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 4: a platonic, a plutonic relationship with a man or woman, 164 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 4: the key word is tonic tonic, mean that something in it, 165 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 4: or else what you're having in fault? Talking to me anyway, 166 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 4: The other night, she was supposed to come pick up 167 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 4: her son, and I hadn't heard from it. She wouldn't 168 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 4: answer the cause and text, so she reluctantly called her house. 169 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 4: Her husband picked up the phone, said he was looking 170 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 4: forward to a few minutes later he can't to get 171 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 4: the baby. And I could tell he been drinking because 172 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 4: he was talking to him. He said, he thinks your 173 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 4: daughter is cheating on him, and he ain't had sex 174 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 4: with her in the month. See now all of this 175 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 4: gets blamed on drinking. But I'm gonna show you something 176 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 4: about this in a minute. 177 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 3: Now. 178 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 4: If she wasn't answering the phone for nobody texts, phone 179 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 4: calls us, she was in the plutonic relationship. 180 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,839 Speaker 3: This is where she was. It is spelled p l 181 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 3: u t o. Pluto is a Disney. 182 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 4: Character, but if you put tonic on the end of it, 183 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 4: that means he is some see Pluto. Was it a 184 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 4: plutonic relationship with Daisy Duck? But guess what though, But 185 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 4: y'all didn't know behind the scenes were he was doing daze. 186 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: He's getting it in, But Daisy. 187 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: What ain't. 188 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 4: Charlie just said it like there always something Donald didn't know, 189 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 4: just like the husband in this now that don't know anyway, 190 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 4: and said that his daughter been cheating on him and 191 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 4: she ain't had sex with him in the month. 192 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 3: I felt so bad for him, so I hugged him. 193 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 4: He told me I felt good, and he squeezed my 194 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 4: behind with both hands. I stood that frozen for a 195 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 4: second before I pulled away from him. He apologized and 196 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 4: said he'd been drinking, and then laughed and said I 197 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 4: felt like si, okay, let's quit blaming everything on drinking. 198 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 4: First of all, he wasn't drinking that much because he 199 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 4: drove over to the house. He wasn't drinking that much 200 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 4: because you was willing to put your grandbaby in the car, 201 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 4: wouldn't even let him drive hunks. He wasn't drinking that 202 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 4: much because he was cuffing you off. 203 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 2: WHOA, see what all this got to do with. 204 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 4: Because I've done all this stuff without a sip. So 205 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 4: let's put blame in this on drinking, because now let's 206 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 4: get into what you said. He asked me if I 207 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 4: had ever thought about him in a romantic way, because 208 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 4: he said when we first met my daughter and he 209 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 4: was initially attracted to me. Then you said, I clearly 210 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 4: remember that day and I did think he was fine. 211 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 4: Al okay, lady, where'd that comes from? You didn't even 212 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 4: have to put that in the letter. But you know 213 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 4: when he grabbed you, it took you, It froze you, 214 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 4: and it took you several moments to push away. Then 215 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 4: you said, I'm only forty eight and a man ten 216 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 4: years younger can't handle me. That's not true, Oh lord, lady, 217 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 4: that's not true. You forty eight and a man thirty 218 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 4: eight can't handle you. 219 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 3: That's not true. I did thirty eight before hello had 220 00:11:56,679 --> 00:12:01,839 Speaker 3: a forty eight year old boy. Let me tell you something. 221 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 3: I was twenty three one time. 222 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, grown woman, good and gronk taught me some things. 223 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 3: But after I learned it, though, whoo. 224 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 4: Oh dog yeah, because the cookback ability I had at 225 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 4: twenty three was incredible. Oh you got me, But give 226 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 4: me five minutes to watch this hill. 227 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 3: I could could. I did multiple shows in the night. 228 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 3: It was easy. 229 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 4: That's why when I became a stand up, to do 230 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 4: four shows in the night wasn't nothing from me because 231 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 4: I had been there four five shows. I was usually 232 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:44,679 Speaker 4: performing multiple times in the night. Anyway, A good thing 233 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 4: my boyfriend called when he did, because things heat it 234 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 4: up quickly. I know I need to talk to my 235 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 4: daughter about her bad behavior, but I need to do 236 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 4: I need to tell her about. 237 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 3: Her husband's behavior too. 238 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 4: Well, then hold on, now you're also gonna have to 239 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 4: tell her about your behavior, because you did mention some 240 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 4: bad behavior of your own in here. You did think 241 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 4: he was fine af and you did say if your 242 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 4: boyfriend had not called, things was heating up really quickly, 243 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 4: so you was entertaining the conversation and all of is here. 244 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 4: So now you could talk to your daughter. But I 245 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 4: think the whole family kind of a little bit tricky, 246 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 4: and I think the dude, the thirty eight year old 247 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 4: know it. So please write us back after you have 248 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 4: an affair with this boy that came home. 249 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:40,839 Speaker 1: On your at Instagram, at the Steve BARBFM, and please 250 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast Done to Men. 251 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 4: You already know what it is masin match Go Bean 252 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 4: and you are now listening to the Steve Hobby Morning 253 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 4: Show