WEBVTT - Married vs Outside

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk Talk Talk.

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<v Speaker 3>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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<v Speaker 1>new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to

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<v Speaker 1>you dreamers and chasers. But I don't chase shit, not

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<v Speaker 1>even my liqua. You know. This is your co host,

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<v Speaker 1>AJ Holiday two point Oh, what's up, tam Bam.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, y'all, it's tam Vaan. I love y'all. I love

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<v Speaker 3>you to AJ. How you doing well?

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<v Speaker 1>You see how big these cities?

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I was saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You couldn't hear me. I never realized this talk make

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<v Speaker 1>my titties look that big. But listen to episode for

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<v Speaker 1>this week, y'all. Obviously it's pre recorded. Why am I?

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<v Speaker 1>You can see my whole nip Ninny ninny Yeah, and y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>so we say nanny. You can see my whole nanny

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<v Speaker 1>in that video the whole.

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<v Speaker 3>The whole time, this nipple and Jordan ain't say ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna put some sunglasses on them, like a

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<v Speaker 1>little MODI sunglass.

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<v Speaker 3>Them so we can get our views up girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I look like Mama Titties, like Mama tad exactly my

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<v Speaker 1>little mils. I'm a milk kids. Shall I do much

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<v Speaker 1>and nothing?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Work a little bit on the stuff. And what did

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<v Speaker 1>I really do this weekend? I don't think I did

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<v Speaker 1>ship like for real? No, not too much, not too much,

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<v Speaker 1>not too much.

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<v Speaker 3>I went One of my best friends had her twins'

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<v Speaker 3>first birthday. Baby would have thought this was roomy and

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<v Speaker 3>sir birthday. It was like she rented out this whole

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<v Speaker 3>petting zoo. And how she had it decorated. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>it was like the most beautiful thing I had ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>She had all those nice balloons, nice balloons.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like flowers. She had like flowers hanging from

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<v Speaker 3>the trees. She had a blue carpet. She had like

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<v Speaker 3>a big old entry sign that says daily and DJ's

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<v Speaker 3>circuits like they turned one. They'll never remember any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's for everybody else.

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<v Speaker 3>The party mom right, people walking on stilt walkers and

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<v Speaker 3>like acrobatics, and they had like a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>It was I don't want to have a baby. If

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<v Speaker 1>I can't have a baby like that, so good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was like, I ain't never had a party

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<v Speaker 3>for my grown self. This familyous okay, they were so cute.

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<v Speaker 3>They looked so cute. So that was Sunday and after

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<v Speaker 3>the party, she had rented the airbnb for all her

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<v Speaker 3>friends and family that came from out of town. So

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<v Speaker 3>I went to the Airbnb and we you know, drinking

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<v Speaker 3>at the Botto pool. I got pushed in the pool.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at my head. I got put what is wrong

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<v Speaker 3>with people pushing people in the pool.

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<v Speaker 1>That's dangerous. No horse playing around the pool.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was drunk. They said I fell in slow

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<v Speaker 3>motion like I was deciding if I weren't. I was

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<v Speaker 3>trying to balanced. Bitch, can you swim?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, yeah, did they ask you if you can

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<v Speaker 1>swim before they had?

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<v Speaker 3>I was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it three foot?

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<v Speaker 3>It was no, it was deep. But I was already

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<v Speaker 3>in the pool. So I was coming out of the pool.

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<v Speaker 3>And but I was like waiting in the pool, like

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't getting my hair wet, and I had it like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, tied up on the top of my head.

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<v Speaker 3>So when I got pushed in, obviously I went under

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<v Speaker 3>and my hair got wet. So I was mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Them dreads be heavy as tail too.

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<v Speaker 3>When they're coming out of Mars over shame.

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<v Speaker 1>No horse playing at the pool.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I made that bitch. I made that bitch. Go

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<v Speaker 3>get a blow dry and plug it up outside and

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<v Speaker 3>drive my roots sha Yeah, but that was my weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's getting this in. What the hell? What the hell?

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell? All that's stupid internet news. So we uh,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the docket first up? Please take all them?

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<v Speaker 1>So beyond say Beyonce is not on the fucking docket.

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<v Speaker 1>What Beyonce did?

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<v Speaker 3>Beyonce? Well, actually she ain't do shit, but my her

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<v Speaker 3>bees and everybody else was talking about Beyonce. What's going uh?

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<v Speaker 3>To the DNC right on Thursday, yes, August twenty second,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was gonna perform and freedom, Freedom, freedom everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>I was waiting and.

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<v Speaker 1>She she wasn't coming.

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<v Speaker 3>Which I'm at home drinking whiskey, drinking my whiskey that's

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<v Speaker 3>about to come out, That's what I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she wasn't coming. I don't think that the

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<v Speaker 1>card are fucking with politics right now. They haven't really

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<v Speaker 1>endorsed the presidential candidate since since Obama. And if this

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<v Speaker 1>is what y'all niggas need to decide, who y'all voting for?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all already fucking lost. Y'all need Beyonce to co sign? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your what y'all doing? So I already knew Beyonce

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<v Speaker 1>was coming. It was kind of weird even when I

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<v Speaker 1>started seeing the headlines about her supposedly supposed to support perform,

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody was sure anyway, And why would it be

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<v Speaker 1>a secret if she was going to be performing, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>Beyonce is a regular fucking person. Man, she is man,

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<v Speaker 1>that is regular, Okay. She takes all shits just.

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<v Speaker 3>Like she was watching, like I'm waiting to see who

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<v Speaker 3>coming out, right, So, it says.

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<v Speaker 1>The twenty twenty four Democratic National Convention saw its fair

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<v Speaker 1>share of buzz, but one rumor that circulated was that

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<v Speaker 1>Beyonce wouldn't make a surprise appearance on the final night.

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<v Speaker 1>The speculation, however, was unfounded, it says Ricky Kirshner and

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<v Speaker 1>Glenn Weise, the executive producer and director of the convention,

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<v Speaker 1>addressed to president rumor no excuse me. Addressed a persistent rumor.

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<v Speaker 1>In a recent interview, Ricky told Hollywood reporter, we never

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<v Speaker 1>put anything about Beyonce. We denied every time the media

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<v Speaker 1>asked about it, even though, by the way, people on

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<v Speaker 1>my staff didn't believe me. I kept getting text from

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<v Speaker 1>news organizations saying, when is Beyonce coming out? But come on,

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<v Speaker 1>we have the biggest star, the Democratic nominee of nominee

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<v Speaker 1>for president. Why would we overshadow that? So y'all thought

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<v Speaker 1>y'all think b was going to overshadow.

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<v Speaker 3>Kamala? Yes, she definitely would have, you know, like so Ya.

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<v Speaker 1>Had other people performed so that other people didn't overshadow her. No, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all put y'all have it to take these people off pedestals.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why y'all be so disappointed when shit be going

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<v Speaker 1>down with them. These be regular motherfucking people with a

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<v Speaker 1>little access.

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<v Speaker 3>Who is y'all? I ain't really cared about nobody like

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<v Speaker 3>I did feel the energy when Nipsey Hustle died. I

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<v Speaker 3>felt it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I was just talking about Nipsey today.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But and then when MJ died I felt that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Typically I don't be like, I don't really fan girl

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<v Speaker 3>too crazy. They do just be regular with people, and

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<v Speaker 3>they sometimes you meet somebody who you think is just

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<v Speaker 3>like extraordinary in their birthstink, and then you realize they're

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<v Speaker 3>just a regular motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 1>To check their gut health. That part Beyonce said he

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<v Speaker 1>was she was never going to be there. Okay, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>lost it. Y'all lost it. Shout out to Beyonce, stay

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<v Speaker 1>out this mess. This is about the most mess.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait for her whiskey to come out. You

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<v Speaker 3>buy it? Yeah, by it, I'm good. I'm going for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all. Keep buying all them spirits, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Not you with the Costco spirit, won't support be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Nope, I trust Costco more.

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<v Speaker 3>And watch it be at Costco.

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<v Speaker 1>At Costco we trust. Okay, y'all. First of all, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>ain't grown until you get a Dicon in a Costco card.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if y'all know that or not. But

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<v Speaker 1>y'all can walk around here like y'all grown because y'all

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<v Speaker 1>got kids in all type of shit. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a Dyson in a Costco card, you a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Bitty bitch bitty because I got neither one of those.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, y'all. This happens a lot in the Black family.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe what's up next on the dock, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>very sad, so it says Craig Max family reveals he

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<v Speaker 1>died of untreated HIV slash AIDS complications, claiming they said

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<v Speaker 1>it was heart failure to honor his privacy wishes, so

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted his family to keep it a secret exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>He you know, was sick. So apparently he actually passed

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<v Speaker 1>and it was on his death certificate. Actually, TMZ Nosey

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<v Speaker 1>Asses said his death certificate actually said, you know, complications

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<v Speaker 1>from HIV and AIDS. And I know people who have

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<v Speaker 1>passed away and the family always be saying cancer or

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<v Speaker 1>my daddy call it a broken heart.

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<v Speaker 3>When I tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like pulling teeth and nails, like trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>the cause of death out of black people about their

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<v Speaker 1>loved ones.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's crazy, But I think if his privacy wishes

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<v Speaker 3>word to keep it as a heart failure, then why

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<v Speaker 3>are y'all telling it now? I'm just confused as to

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<v Speaker 3>what that's about. Yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw him on an interview like when he was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of you know, looking sick, and you can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of tell, you know, what I'm saying. People will be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they act like you're making it up when

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<v Speaker 1>you ask, Like, damn, he's sick because you know he's sick.

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<v Speaker 1>What black people means do he got that ship right oftentimes,

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<v Speaker 1>but he looked like that. You know they get the

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<v Speaker 1>fine hair. But also with cancer, when people go through chemo,

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<v Speaker 1>their hair start getting fine and curly. But that's how

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<v Speaker 1>he was looking at them final days.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's sad. They should have continued to respect his wishes,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what why why just stop black people be cloud

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<v Speaker 1>chasing man?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, clout chasing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's terrible. I would have never Yeah, man, let that

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<v Speaker 1>man rest in peace.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm.

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<v Speaker 1>That business did not pay them, No, it didn't pay them.

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<v Speaker 3>And other business that don't pay Judge Matthew's wife fould

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<v Speaker 3>divorce for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that business might pay. Bitch don't pay his money.

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<v Speaker 3>But after thirty nine years file for divorce from Judge Mathis.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crackish to me, That's all I'm saying that what

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<v Speaker 3>he says.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of cast somebody a damn crackhead. He

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<v Speaker 1>might've been smoking crack. Why she wanted to get divorced. No,

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<v Speaker 1>Judge Mathis, I like Judge Mathis man, thirty nine years,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a long ass time to call it quits. Man

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<v Speaker 1>like y'all could just live together and be in separate houses.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe somebody got some tax issues or something, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to think that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>After thirty nine years, I ain't getting divorced. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be a widow before I ever divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I always be telling my mom, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>give a fuck if I'm a hundred, if I'm unhappy,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting the fuck up out of there. And I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of mean that, but it just depends on like

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm at in life. Really, like thirty nine years,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have probably accumulated all types of shit together,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, house home kids. Do you have kids? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Who want to be outside after thirty nine years? Men?

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<v Speaker 1>Men, men don't want to be outside. And she probably

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<v Speaker 1>hided that ship because I know, judge matthis probably be outside. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>probably been out be outside. You always hear that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't give a fuck, we neither.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't be way in this room over here, and

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<v Speaker 3>I have me a little like I do, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>what's that girl Giselle bunching? And fuck the jiu jitsu trainer.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be taking jiu jitsu classes.

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<v Speaker 1>The only way I'll leave your gass and get and

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<v Speaker 1>have you in court is if you start discounting me,

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<v Speaker 1>if you start taking the money and doing X, Y

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<v Speaker 1>and Z with it when it when it becomes financial,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a divorce your ass and I'm gonna eat your pockets.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna eat THEMB pockets because who you're playing with

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<v Speaker 1>after thirty nine years, she has probably known the worst

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<v Speaker 1>of him.

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<v Speaker 3>Well what if? But you know, we're assuming she might

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<v Speaker 3>have been the villain the whole time and they was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, let me just lead this man.

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<v Speaker 1>You make me sick with that Devil's advocate bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>I always would have played Devil's advocate because you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, Yes we do, we know, Judge Matthews. I stay

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<v Speaker 1>in the Caribbean, Okay, who you out there with? You

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<v Speaker 1>went out there with Linda? Well Linda, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>seen him in the Caribbean. And I never seen Linda, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Linda, Rich Linda. If they ain't signed no prena.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirty nine years, they might not have one. They was

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<v Speaker 1>together when he probably they ain't shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Sick of your shit, girl, rather be alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm born June nineteen eighty four. These people have

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<v Speaker 1>been married since you and nineteen eighty five.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm, as long as you've been alive. They've been in

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<v Speaker 3>a house together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. And where are you going?

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<v Speaker 3>Going around the corner and sit down.

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<v Speaker 1>This bella duplex mansion.

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<v Speaker 3>So listen to this. Two black men who recently had

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<v Speaker 3>to fight for their freedom against a white woman who

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<v Speaker 3>falsely accused them of rape are now suing the woman

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<v Speaker 3>and the police department for ruining their lives. So this

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<v Speaker 3>woman had a three song with these two brothers and

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<v Speaker 3>then accused them of rape. And then there was footage.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently there was some type of footage that vindicated them

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<v Speaker 3>of all wrongdoing. She was on their parent and my god,

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<v Speaker 3>you're black cock. You're black cock.

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<v Speaker 1>God, God shut up. Like one of the dudes look nice, man.

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<v Speaker 1>The other one got slashes in his eyebrow. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I seen this white lady before, Like this was

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<v Speaker 1>she not in another story? Is that not the same

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<v Speaker 1>person who got the train ran or her by all

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<v Speaker 1>her co workers?

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<v Speaker 3>No? You sure that's not her?

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<v Speaker 1>What a look like her? They call?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't But you know what I feel. I feel bad

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<v Speaker 3>for these black men, but I also don't because why

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<v Speaker 3>is y'all listen if y'all not learned any lessons about

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I don't want to say that white women

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<v Speaker 3>will ruin your life because this is some good white

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<v Speaker 3>women that I know that are nice white ladies, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>But gots to be more careful.

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<v Speaker 1>No, almost these niggas be getting what's coming, so it says.

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<v Speaker 1>According to The Daily Mail, Freddie Douglas forty three and

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<v Speaker 1>John Marks forty one, grown as men who are lifelong partners,

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<v Speaker 1>decided to have fun, have a fun night in the

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<v Speaker 1>pool at Marx's newly built house in a neighborhood outside

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<v Speaker 1>of Texas on the night of November eighth. Marx and

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<v Speaker 1>his neighbor Amanda z Because what forty, had already been

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<v Speaker 1>having an affair prior to this day, so he invited

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<v Speaker 1>her over to get in a pool with them. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you already have an affair with one of the niggas,

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<v Speaker 1>he invites you over with him and his homeboy. As

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<v Speaker 1>the night went on, all of them skinny dipped in

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<v Speaker 1>the pool, which led to some consensual friggy deeky action

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<v Speaker 1>a threesome. Marx had repeatedly excuse me, Marx had reportedly

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<v Speaker 1>recorded Douglas and Z Douglas the lady okay, Amanda having

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<v Speaker 1>sex on his phone, and his in home security footage

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<v Speaker 1>caught all of the action as well. Can I get

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<v Speaker 1>in trouble for that? If she didn't know she was

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<v Speaker 1>being recorded? Now I can see the cell phone right

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<v Speaker 1>because you see me recording with my cell phone. But

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<v Speaker 1>like home footage, I mean, y'all are outside if that's

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<v Speaker 1>where it took place at and then it says Three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks later, Amanda, who was separated from her husband at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, went to the police to file a report,

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<v Speaker 1>claiming that the man raped her and held her against

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<v Speaker 1>her will that night. She claimed, even though her and

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<v Speaker 1>Marx were involved in an affair, the night with Marx

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<v Speaker 1>and Douglas was not consensual and she was scared for

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<v Speaker 1>her life. She alleged that she tried to fight Marks

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<v Speaker 1>off and then pushed her, and then he pushed her

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<v Speaker 1>over to Douglas, who, man, this sounded like a whole skit, bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>What plan diabolical?

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<v Speaker 1>What plan you may.

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<v Speaker 3>It's probably your work fantasy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, these people are dangerous and these black men stay

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<v Speaker 1>stayed trying to trash and just talk crazy about black women. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is how y'all be getting caught up from

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<v Speaker 1>high school and on on a.

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<v Speaker 3>This is like, like, so, I wonder if you if

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<v Speaker 3>you cry rape and it's proven that you're lying, you

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<v Speaker 3>should be able. You should receive some jail time for that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, absolutely, and nothing ever ever happened. So apparently Douglas

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<v Speaker 1>he's also a police officer in the area, so he

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<v Speaker 1>was immediately arrested and charged with aggravated sexual assault. Marx

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<v Speaker 1>was also charged, despite both of them pleading their innocence

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<v Speaker 1>to the El Campbo police, so they both got arrested.

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<v Speaker 1>One of these guys is a police officer. Are both

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<v Speaker 1>of them cops? Wait a minute, no, one of them

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<v Speaker 1>is a cop. This is disgusting.

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<v Speaker 3>It is so yet again.

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<v Speaker 1>Another white woman trying to ruin black men's lives. And

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<v Speaker 1>y'all stay crossing that Dan fence. Stay your ass in

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<v Speaker 1>the yard.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen. I don't have no problem with people dating who

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<v Speaker 3>they want to date, but I mean, this is the

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<v Speaker 3>consequences because white women crying rape against unharmed from black

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<v Speaker 3>people using the weaponizing the police again and has been

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<v Speaker 3>a thing since the beginning of time and Unfortunately y'all

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<v Speaker 3>don't lost all a lot of the things you have

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<v Speaker 3>because of it. And now you're on we talk back

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<v Speaker 3>and don't you.

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<v Speaker 1>Under the no donkey other day when we talked back,

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<v Speaker 1>shut up. We gotta come up with some ship like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Rme like, y'all, I'm sick of y'all, stay your ass

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<v Speaker 1>in the house. I wonder if they was an intimate

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<v Speaker 1>with each other too, cause.

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<v Speaker 3>Them slitting your eyebrows trying to wild out.

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<v Speaker 1>And we know those other women like you know. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying none of the sisters don't go for that

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<v Speaker 1>type of shit, but we know them niggas can be

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<v Speaker 1>who they want to be with the mothers mm hmm, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Score fighting the pool.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to see that video we too.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope somebody put it on ex videos at.

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<v Speaker 1>Some point, like to pay for them legal fees. They

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<v Speaker 1>better go ahead post that you're up there, then they're

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be revenge porn though if they do that.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she'll then she'll have a case then, so

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<v Speaker 3>leave it alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Shame.

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<v Speaker 3>So what's our episode today, y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So naddi I was about to say, speaking to

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<v Speaker 1>Judge Matthews, but no, that is not a good segue.

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<v Speaker 1>We we we want to delve in matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 1>a future episode, we're gonna talk about this Cam Newton ship. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but on today's episode, we have one married man and

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<v Speaker 1>a single man. I just want to understand the lives

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<v Speaker 1>and the dynamic, uh between these two people, like between

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<v Speaker 1>these two type of men. Right, so one's inside and

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<v Speaker 1>one's outside.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you was about to say I just want

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<v Speaker 3>to dive into the lies, but you say lives. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>oh that part too. We'll be right back you guys,

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<v Speaker 3>stay tuned, all right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're back, and we do have some lovely guests.

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<v Speaker 1>When we talked back this week, we got Jay Fresh

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<v Speaker 1>by way of Miami, and we got John John from.

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<v Speaker 3>The PD Helenkat South Carolina. Don't play with it, hemen.

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<v Speaker 1>How y'all doing today? Bob, Bob, I'm chilling introduce yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to our guest. What the waterfuck do? I keep saying that?

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<v Speaker 1>Introduce y'allself yourself to turn our audio?

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<v Speaker 2>How's everybody doing? My name is Jay Freshaw.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm hopping a three point nine ninety three point nine

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<v Speaker 4>Monday through Friday, seven to eleven night show.

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<v Speaker 2>Check me out three or five today? Though three represent

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<v Speaker 2>we do? Oh what's up? And I'm John John. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a little less famous than him, but I'm a ball

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<v Speaker 2>Brandon chef man rock with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you can cook? Oh? Want you be cooking anything?

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<v Speaker 3>What's your specialty? Like when you turn in person? Woman?

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<v Speaker 3>What you're gonna make for her?

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<v Speaker 2>Woman like that?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like seafood, Like if she's a seafood girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody loved pasta. Just depends on what you do with it.

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<v Speaker 2>That'll be it. So I'll figure out what she liked.

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<v Speaker 1>Then from okay, okay, what type of fish you be cooking?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm tired of seeing salmon people be rolling the salmon.

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<v Speaker 3>For I love salmon, do so much with it. Ye,

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<v Speaker 3>Tilapia used to be the ship, remember when you was Like.

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<v Speaker 1>When it first came out and.

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<v Speaker 3>With Tilapia dropped, there was the ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, one of the best fishes you can get.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is great.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's get on topic. Why did you why

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<v Speaker 3>did you invite these Why did you pick these particular

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<v Speaker 3>gentlemen to come on the shows?

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to have a conversation with men, right because

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of ours should be.

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<v Speaker 3>Very female related.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, one married gentlemen. So Jay Fresh is a

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<v Speaker 1>married man, happily married. How long have you been married?

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<v Speaker 2>It's coming up on six years.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he's been married for six years.

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<v Speaker 2>You got kids? Yes, I have two kids.

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<v Speaker 3>And your beer looked very moisturized. I feel like your

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<v Speaker 3>wife has something to do with that. But we'll get

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<v Speaker 3>into that later. Oh wait, I didn't do it that way.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm very sad.

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<v Speaker 1>We got John John. John John is a single man.

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<v Speaker 3>He outside?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, are you actively outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Every now and then?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I've been outside for how are you?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I no, I don't play that game.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm thirty six thirty seven.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I do know you're thirty eight. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>black don't crack. So that's why I don't play with

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<v Speaker 3>black people. White people. I'll be like forty four, forty five, thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>They know that. It's the running joke that everybody know.

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<v Speaker 1>They look at old.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. I put this weird question, and I want

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<v Speaker 3>to ask it right now. How many times a day

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<v Speaker 3>do you think about your wife?

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<v Speaker 1>Hm?

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say I can't put a finger on it.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, you get random thoughts you might think

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<v Speaker 4>of like what's going on today, what we're doing today?

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<v Speaker 4>Or you might think about how was your day? And

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<v Speaker 4>then sometimes you might just think about like, yo, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>what were eating tonight?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, So I will say, if you could put

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<v Speaker 3>a number on it, I'll say ten, ten times a day?

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<v Speaker 3>How many times a day do you think about sex?

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<v Speaker 1>Look, he's married. I don't think married many.

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<v Speaker 2>Things, but that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to ask him that too. I was

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<v Speaker 3>gonna come back to him five times a day. That's

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<v Speaker 3>fair morning.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a man like So you know, can I hit

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<v Speaker 2>it in the morning, that's like a bib on so morning, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Will say for sure, for sure. Afternoon, maybe at the workout, definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>And then sometimes you know, if you get into bed

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<v Speaker 4>earlier than the day or early in the night, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 4>you know you might rock that to you know, it depends.

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<v Speaker 4>So like three, I would say three, three to four.

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<v Speaker 4>It depends on what's going on that day. Having kids,

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<v Speaker 4>I will say, has changed.

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<v Speaker 2>That before that university you think about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it could be random thoughts, but if I

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<v Speaker 4>had to pick, I would say three three four.

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<v Speaker 3>So is it fair to say that once you're married,

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<v Speaker 3>you think of sex less than when you're single.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell no, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think it's the same with God.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I feel like you're gonna you're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>always You're gonna always feel that no matter what.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>So I won't say it's less. I just will say, like,

0:25:57.760 --> 0:25:59.359
<v Speaker 4>it depends on what you got going on. Like I

0:25:59.359 --> 0:26:02.040
<v Speaker 4>said before, kids, I feel like, yeah, shit all the time,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. Like you try to avoid

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<v Speaker 4>random thoughts, especially when you're married, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>So like in that case, I would say that.

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<v Speaker 3>So have y'all ever seen the movie I Think I

0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:14.760
<v Speaker 3>loved my wife with Curse her up and the wife

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:16.720
<v Speaker 3>she was like, I can't wait till you get home.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to suck your dick. And then after they

0:26:19.200 --> 0:26:21.040
<v Speaker 3>got married, she was like, I can't wait till you

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<v Speaker 3>get home. I want you to see these drapes. Like

0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:26.600
<v Speaker 3>it just changed. That's the fact it just changed.

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<v Speaker 4>So I would say this, you have to find a

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<v Speaker 4>way to make sure you don't forget about how you

0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:32.239
<v Speaker 4>got them.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how you get them and how you keep

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<v Speaker 2>them right.

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<v Speaker 4>So definitely, if we started off we were want to

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 4>freaky stuff, we talking about this and then we're talking

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:41.840
<v Speaker 4>about that. Drapes are great, you know, that's cool. Generations great,

0:26:41.880 --> 0:26:43.720
<v Speaker 4>stuff with the kids is great, but never forget how

0:26:44.440 --> 0:26:50.160
<v Speaker 4>you got your man rekindling those rekindling those same things

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 4>that made you love them before. So yeah, that's cool

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.600
<v Speaker 4>that happens the drapes, but I would definitely say I

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:55.840
<v Speaker 4>don't forget.

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<v Speaker 3>See that's the scary part though. I just feel like

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:00.399
<v Speaker 3>I see a lot of people who get me married

0:27:00.440 --> 0:27:04.359
<v Speaker 3>and they like lose that passion for their partner and

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 3>they start becoming more like brother and sister than husband

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:08.000
<v Speaker 3>and watching.

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<v Speaker 1>I already want to my own bedroom and bathroom when

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I get.

0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 3>There and you ain't even marry it. I want my

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:14.640
<v Speaker 3>own bathroom.

0:27:16.480 --> 0:27:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Bathroom for sure, and appointments to sleep in my room

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:24.399
<v Speaker 1>because I have the appointment and sleep in your rooms.

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<v Speaker 4>Linen, I will say this, you got to have your space.

0:27:27.400 --> 0:27:29.080
<v Speaker 4>You know, if you did you before, I did me before,

0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 4>you gotta have your space.

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 2>That's the balance. That's actually what makes I feel like.

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 4>We'll make a marriage work if you know each other,

0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:36.320
<v Speaker 4>that to that point where it's like, yo, I know

0:27:36.359 --> 0:27:38.320
<v Speaker 4>you need your space right now. Shit, I might want

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:40.600
<v Speaker 4>to play the game I might want to do something else,

0:27:40.640 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 4>you know, so you gotta have that space. You might

0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:44.400
<v Speaker 4>want to watch some show that I do not want

0:27:44.400 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 4>to watch. Give you your space and that way when

0:27:47.840 --> 0:27:49.680
<v Speaker 4>you do connect this kind of like you got you.

0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:50.919
<v Speaker 4>You talk about mommy Tom and.

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<v Speaker 3>So women Men typically give women access to marriage and

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<v Speaker 3>not the way other way around. Why would you say

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<v Speaker 3>that you're not married at thirty eight?

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, let me just say I funneled a bad a

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<v Speaker 2>good opportunity.

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:10.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh you let one get away?

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Is she married?

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Now?

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:15.160
<v Speaker 3>So if you could talk to her right now, look

0:28:15.160 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 3>into that camera and tell.

0:28:16.119 --> 0:28:21.399
<v Speaker 1>Her what you what you would say to her married?

0:28:22.640 --> 0:28:23.800
<v Speaker 2>That's it?

0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:26.400
<v Speaker 3>You just say, you fumble her. Is she not married?

0:28:26.400 --> 0:28:27.680
<v Speaker 3>Why wouldn't you want to say more?

0:28:28.040 --> 0:28:29.159
<v Speaker 1>She got a baby with somebody?

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:31.720
<v Speaker 2>Now we talked about it. We talked about it that

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:32.800
<v Speaker 2>we and we moved crafted.

0:28:33.280 --> 0:28:35.760
<v Speaker 3>So it's just not gonna ever happen. I don't think

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. It's kind of said, do you feel a scorpion?

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:47.920
<v Speaker 3>How old were you when you lay? This happened yesterday?

0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 2>No? I mean I exact age. They say early thirties,

0:28:58.040 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 2>So it's been a minute time.

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<v Speaker 1>As you wait something years.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't say all of them was wasted.

0:29:05.640 --> 0:29:11.600
<v Speaker 5>But let's just say we we was bagging forth interacting probably.

0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:16.479
<v Speaker 3>Ten ten years. I'm sorry, my sister.

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<v Speaker 1>So, as a married man, advice for women, how long

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 1>should they wait on a man and be ready? How

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:27.160
<v Speaker 1>long should they wait to get a ring for a man?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, don't put pressure on him at all,

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 4>you know, like like let him do him, you know,

0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:37.240
<v Speaker 4>because I feel like if he chooses to do that,

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:39.400
<v Speaker 4>if they ain't ready, you know, if he choose to

0:29:39.440 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 4>do that, the most likely he's ready to make sure

0:29:41.800 --> 0:29:43.800
<v Speaker 4>that like, yo, you're the only person I want to

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 4>be with and I want to be with you forever.

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 2>You know. So if you put that pressure on him,

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 2>it might make him.

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 4>It might make him, let's say, relapse into like old habits.

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:57.920
<v Speaker 4>It could make him second guess xyz that might be

0:29:57.920 --> 0:29:58.280
<v Speaker 4>going on.

0:29:58.320 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:00.400
<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't say put pressure on it, you know, if

0:30:00.400 --> 0:30:02.600
<v Speaker 4>you know, you know, like, hey, I feel the way

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:04.240
<v Speaker 4>I feel about you, you feel way you feel about me,

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:06.960
<v Speaker 4>that at some point you know what's coming. But I'll

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 4>still say not pressure. Maybe ring shopping, maybe that that's

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 4>like the extent, But I.

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 2>Would say that's that's pressure.

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 3>That's pressure.

0:30:15.560 --> 0:30:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Pressure, Like it's just like you just say, oh, that

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 1>is a I got engaged somebody. I was engaged, right,

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:25.720
<v Speaker 1>and he didn't know my ring size. He really didn't

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:28.479
<v Speaker 1>know what I like. He went and bought what he liked, right,

0:30:28.520 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't a bad ring, right, It wasn't bad.

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't what I liked. So I would have liked

0:30:34.360 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 1>to had.

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 3>A like he should have communicated with one of your

0:30:37.120 --> 0:30:38.560
<v Speaker 3>friends or something.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'll say it's indirect pressure, especially when you

0:30:41.720 --> 0:30:44.120
<v Speaker 4>like cohabitating, you know what I'm saying, Like if you're chilling,

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:47.280
<v Speaker 4>you know, you go to different family events and that

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 4>like it might somebody might say it before she says it,

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 4>but I would still say for her, don't don't pressure them,

0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 4>just like let him, let him figure it out, like

0:30:56.160 --> 0:30:57.680
<v Speaker 4>usually they would figure it out eventually.

0:30:57.840 --> 0:30:59.000
<v Speaker 2>I would ship me.

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:01.640
<v Speaker 3>He said he had that girl for ten years and

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 3>they proposed to what you said.

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<v Speaker 2>Off and on we deal with each other.

0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:12.560
<v Speaker 7>That lines I had nobody.

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you gather up, Sorry, don't do that.

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, I feel like that'll be they're ready to

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:25.480
<v Speaker 4>do it, you know, but you can't. You can't personal

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 4>because again it's sometimes it's just what does it flight

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:32.080
<v Speaker 4>or fight like? People might rebel against that and you

0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 4>don't know how to. It could be relapsing into a situationship.

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:38.920
<v Speaker 4>It couldn't be finding new situationships.

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:40.520
<v Speaker 3>Could be So you don't think men need that pressure,

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:42.360
<v Speaker 3>just a little bit, just that little.

0:31:44.000 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 2>I would say. Again, family might do that indirectly too.

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:48.960
<v Speaker 2>You might be at an event, they might do that.

0:31:49.560 --> 0:31:51.400
<v Speaker 4>I would say, let it come from that more so

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 4>than anything else, because if you have respect for that

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 4>person's family, you have respect for them, you could see

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 4>a lot you at times when you're dealing let's say

0:32:00.040 --> 0:32:02.520
<v Speaker 4>little multiple people. Right, you're gonna find the best quality

0:32:02.560 --> 0:32:04.240
<v Speaker 4>that you like in that particular person, and you're gonna

0:32:04.280 --> 0:32:06.040
<v Speaker 4>choose to be with that particular person. So when you

0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:09.200
<v Speaker 4>do that, you know you have a sense that they

0:32:09.320 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 4>maybe one day I would marry this person.

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 2>You know, you look for that.

0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:14.520
<v Speaker 3>What was the thing that your wife had.

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:19.360
<v Speaker 4>Out of everybody that was a tough one. I would

0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:24.280
<v Speaker 4>say we were more like friends first. It was times

0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:26.239
<v Speaker 4>she would put me on girls like it was.

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:26.840
<v Speaker 2>It goes back.

0:32:26.840 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 4>We our friendship goes back that deep to where when

0:32:29.160 --> 0:32:31.920
<v Speaker 4>we did decide to talk, it was like, yo, you're

0:32:31.920 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 4>my dog at the end of the day, you know

0:32:33.480 --> 0:32:36.320
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. And so now us being married and

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 4>us being parents, like we cheated out just like yo,

0:32:40.160 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 4>hey you my dog. You don't even know they have

0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:45.000
<v Speaker 4>the ship we done did together. And so I feel

0:32:45.040 --> 0:32:47.600
<v Speaker 4>like them stories will help or they would be they

0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:50.360
<v Speaker 4>would love the side of marriage based off of those stories,

0:32:50.400 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't see my parents go through a lot

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 4>of shit, you know, like marriagees is working still, marriag Yeah,

0:32:55.160 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 4>they just actually just hit seven years.

0:32:57.200 --> 0:32:59.200
<v Speaker 2>Just they just hit thirty seven years on longer stories,

0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 2>so you know, so like but in that time, you know,

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 2>I've seen all types of shit, all types of shit.

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:06.840
<v Speaker 2>So marriage to work. You know, marriage is working. You

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:08.440
<v Speaker 2>got to kind of go on to do with the mindset,

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 2>like yo're really ready for this shit? You know.

0:33:12.920 --> 0:33:16.040
<v Speaker 3>Does your wife come from a single parent home.

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:18.400
<v Speaker 4>Or a I would say in a way, it was,

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 4>but she has a father that was in her life.

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 4>Her dad was in life as well, so she has

0:33:21.800 --> 0:33:25.120
<v Speaker 4>two fathers. So it's a little bit different from mine.

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:26.800
<v Speaker 4>Like I said, my parents have been married thirty few years.

0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:28.960
<v Speaker 4>Her parents have been married a little bit less than that.

0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 4>But at the same time.

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:31.720
<v Speaker 1>She always had a father.

0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:33.000
<v Speaker 2>She did have a father.

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 4>Figure, but I ain't a lot to raising like JITs

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 4>kids together. You see different parents in office, you see

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.120
<v Speaker 4>like yo, what you came from, and even coming together

0:33:41.200 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 4>sometimes you're like yo. Like That's why I feel like

0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 4>that cohabitation part before getting married is super vital because

0:33:47.120 --> 0:33:48.680
<v Speaker 4>you get to know that person. You get to know

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:50.840
<v Speaker 4>what you like, what you don't like. Also, you get

0:33:50.840 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 4>to know, like how you use raised. You might say

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to clean up. I just clean up

0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:55.600
<v Speaker 4>when I'm ready, you know. Or it might be a

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:58.360
<v Speaker 4>situation where you wake up every Saturday morning you clean

0:33:58.360 --> 0:34:00.600
<v Speaker 4>it up like it's it's different things. You will find

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 4>out that you liked about the person, and it's also

0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 4>different things. You will find out that you you grew

0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:08.360
<v Speaker 4>up different that particular person. So just getting used to that,

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:11.320
<v Speaker 4>the coappetation parts, I feel like before you get married.

0:34:11.480 --> 0:34:14.319
<v Speaker 1>So who was your family dynamic? Did you are your

0:34:14.320 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 1>parents married?

0:34:16.360 --> 0:34:19.239
<v Speaker 2>Okay, my father was around though I would only say

0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:23.719
<v Speaker 2>that to us, but you know, single mom, uh work

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:26.360
<v Speaker 2>a lot. That was kind of my bringing.

0:34:26.440 --> 0:34:29.239
<v Speaker 5>But I mean I still had family she had, I

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:33.600
<v Speaker 5>mean full sisters cousins on our dad's side, that wasn't far.

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:36.560
<v Speaker 2>But other than that, like parent house or more single

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 2>mind yet m interesting.

0:34:41.000 --> 0:34:43.239
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think that's common for if you were

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 3>grew up in the eighties, you.

0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Know, like you can come from a single I would say,

0:34:47.560 --> 0:34:49.520
<v Speaker 1>my mom was a single married woman for a long

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:53.720
<v Speaker 1>time and then it went to being a single parent.

0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:56.680
<v Speaker 4>So my mom definitely was single married a few times

0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:01.680
<v Speaker 4>in the relationship. I would say I learned from that.

0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:04.000
<v Speaker 4>But I was around them all a lot social in

0:35:04.040 --> 0:35:06.400
<v Speaker 4>those days, you know. So yeah, I would say that.

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:10.839
<v Speaker 3>Do you want to be married? Okay, but right now

0:35:10.880 --> 0:35:13.799
<v Speaker 3>you enjoy outside or do do you feel like because

0:35:13.840 --> 0:35:16.600
<v Speaker 3>sometimes I'd be like, I'm outside beach, we outside the night,

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 3>and then when I get home, I'll be like, lord,

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 3>it be so body like, like I really need that.

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean outside, I said at my age.

0:35:25.160 --> 0:35:27.880
<v Speaker 3>Anyway, you know what I'm saying, Outside you've been out there?

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:34.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely one day old the world. That's a beautiful talent.

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:37.440
<v Speaker 1>So social media is a part of all our lives.

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:40.799
<v Speaker 1>See you see these people online saying how men don't

0:35:40.840 --> 0:35:44.840
<v Speaker 1>really benefit from marriage as a married man, do you

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:49.760
<v Speaker 1>think that's true. Or do men benefit actually more from marriage?

0:35:52.560 --> 0:35:54.440
<v Speaker 1>I was I would say more than the woman.

0:35:55.040 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, does the men benefit more than the women all

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 2>of them? Depends on how you look at it.

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 4>I feel like, if you find that person that you

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:07.160
<v Speaker 4>that you love, y'all can build together, you know, and

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 4>at that particular point, Like I saw this story the

0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:13.560
<v Speaker 4>other day on this TV show where I'm saying wrong

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:16.640
<v Speaker 4>place for the Detroit Lions. His dad was saying women

0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:19.280
<v Speaker 4>are like dream killers, right, And it was a situation

0:36:19.320 --> 0:36:22.080
<v Speaker 4>where it's like, sometimes if you're focused on a certain thing,

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:24.319
<v Speaker 4>maybe it could if you let it.

0:36:24.360 --> 0:36:26.520
<v Speaker 2>But I would say it depends on the person. You know.

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 2>Being married, it can motivate you do want to do better.

0:36:29.280 --> 0:36:30.799
<v Speaker 2>It can motivate you do want to do more.

0:36:31.640 --> 0:36:34.719
<v Speaker 4>Also, being single, I feel like you might be more

0:36:34.760 --> 0:36:37.799
<v Speaker 4>focused and not worried about certain things that come with

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 4>being a relationship because you know, a lot comes of

0:36:39.960 --> 0:36:42.040
<v Speaker 4>being in a relationship and a lot comes of being married,

0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would say it depends on the person.

0:36:47.120 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 3>As far as that, well, statistics show that married men

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:53.000
<v Speaker 3>live longer than men who are single.

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, it's a good thing to go home

0:37:00.040 --> 0:37:02.319
<v Speaker 2>it be all I got to get paid to be

0:37:02.360 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 2>like that.

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm chilling at like I'm violent, you know, But then

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:08.000
<v Speaker 4>you get to murger sometimes like I want to go outside.

0:37:08.040 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 4>I took a shot at the crib downstairs. She upstairs

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:13.319
<v Speaker 4>and she she chilling. I'm gonna hit the club, you know.

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:15.759
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you you know, you gotta have that you just.

0:37:15.719 --> 0:37:17.000
<v Speaker 3>Be wanting to see if you still got it.

0:37:17.400 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 2>I won't say that. I would just say, like, you know.

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 3>Let me ask you, and you and your homeboys get

0:37:27.520 --> 0:37:30.759
<v Speaker 3>a section and y'all gonna invite random girls into the section.

0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 3>Y'all just gonna be in there and looking like some

0:37:32.320 --> 0:37:33.240
<v Speaker 3>dummies by yourself.

0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:35.319
<v Speaker 2>It happens, you know, people sometimes people want to just

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:36.680
<v Speaker 2>drink some of the ship. You guys, you don't have

0:37:37.680 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 2>all dumb I.

0:37:39.120 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 3>Was why you got to Yeah, like I would be out,

0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:44.879
<v Speaker 3>like I think it's weird for a bunch of men

0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:48.400
<v Speaker 3>to be in the section in the club that is together.

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 3>All the gay guys got a section over there, crazy

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:53.880
<v Speaker 3>and being.

0:37:53.760 --> 0:37:56.279
<v Speaker 4>Look being being brother. Sometimes I feel like, yo, hey

0:37:56.560 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 4>you got your vibes together. But in the same time,

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:01.200
<v Speaker 4>if you're out and about the bobs and we we

0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:03.440
<v Speaker 4>we through cookouts, and that's the same vibe. It's no

0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 4>different than it was.

0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 3>So your wife would be okay if you had a

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 3>section and y'all invited girls into the section.

0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 2>I feel like she would be because she knows like

0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:10.960
<v Speaker 2>she knows me.

0:38:11.000 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 3>I'm yeah, I would be okay with it as a wife,

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:16.839
<v Speaker 3>because don't I don't want my nigga being out there said,

0:38:16.880 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 3>look at it, stupid.

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:19.600
<v Speaker 2>You got to have your You gotta have your time.

0:38:19.640 --> 0:38:21.719
<v Speaker 4>You gotta have your meet talk like I ain't when

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:23.799
<v Speaker 4>you go to brunch and you get no emotions because

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:25.359
<v Speaker 4>you're gonna come back home and it's gonna be it's

0:38:25.360 --> 0:38:28.000
<v Speaker 4>gonna be. Do you like I'm a boby of the

0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:30.520
<v Speaker 4>crib and it's like we switch out, like I might go,

0:38:30.560 --> 0:38:33.320
<v Speaker 4>do me go? Do you know I get that balance

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:36.000
<v Speaker 4>helps you know if you don't have that balance, you

0:38:36.080 --> 0:38:38.440
<v Speaker 4>know she got that way?

0:38:38.480 --> 0:38:40.439
<v Speaker 3>All right. I want you to rank this in order

0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:47.320
<v Speaker 3>of the value to you. Okay, So it's money, career, family, fitness,

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:53.760
<v Speaker 3>health hobbies, money career, family.

0:38:54.120 --> 0:38:54.879
<v Speaker 1>That's too much.

0:38:55.760 --> 0:39:02.879
<v Speaker 3>It's not. It's money, career, family, fitness, hobbies. I said

0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 3>health and hobbies, but we're putting fitness and health as one.

0:39:05.160 --> 0:39:09.320
<v Speaker 4>Okay, So I'm gonna say family first.

0:39:09.520 --> 0:39:10.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm big on family.

0:39:10.960 --> 0:39:11.080
<v Speaker 3>Hm.

0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:14.880
<v Speaker 4>It's funny because one of the my favorite animals to

0:39:15.160 --> 0:39:17.080
<v Speaker 4>kill a will. You know that's a family into it,

0:39:17.280 --> 0:39:19.160
<v Speaker 4>like a family centered animal, you know what I mean?

0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:22.400
<v Speaker 4>Like the Traveling Facts for life. But families first.

0:39:22.400 --> 0:39:22.759
<v Speaker 2>For sure.

0:39:23.560 --> 0:39:25.279
<v Speaker 4>I want to say money, but I'm gonna say health.

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.279
<v Speaker 4>Hell gotta be second. You know you can't enjoy them money.

0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:35.320
<v Speaker 4>If you know, I would say, uh, definitely, hell second. Money,

0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:35.680
<v Speaker 4>What was it?

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:36.200
<v Speaker 2>What was the other?

0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:39.280
<v Speaker 3>It was money and career we'll keep We'll make those one.

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:41.400
<v Speaker 4>All right, Money and career. You got to support the

0:39:41.400 --> 0:39:42.640
<v Speaker 4>things you want to do, like, hey, we want to

0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:45.080
<v Speaker 4>go to Ruber tomorrow. You know we want to do this.

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:49.640
<v Speaker 4>Money helps, you know, what's hobbies?

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:50.200
<v Speaker 2>Hobbies?

0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:53.880
<v Speaker 4>Damn, hobbies can come last because you could. It's a

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:56.799
<v Speaker 4>thing at being with somebody, like I feel like y'all

0:39:56.800 --> 0:39:59.080
<v Speaker 4>can join and love the same hobbies. Like you might

0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:01.560
<v Speaker 4>like something different. I'm like something different, but we might

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:04.520
<v Speaker 4>eventually like that together, like y'all seen the X.

0:40:04.560 --> 0:40:04.880
<v Speaker 1>Men and.

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Dip movie.

0:40:07.560 --> 0:40:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Not yet, but I like excellent.

0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:14.319
<v Speaker 4>She likes Marvel right, but in a way like she

0:40:14.400 --> 0:40:16.759
<v Speaker 4>went because you know, but she enjoyed the movie when

0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:18.799
<v Speaker 4>she went So it's kind of like or I might

0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:20.839
<v Speaker 4>go to some I ain't want whatever ship, but oh

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 4>this was actually dopel girl.

0:40:22.080 --> 0:40:24.160
<v Speaker 3>What you're doing today? Girl? Doing this nerdy ass ship

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:29.960
<v Speaker 3>with my hands?

0:40:30.040 --> 0:40:30.320
<v Speaker 2>Fine?

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:33.200
<v Speaker 4>When they love the saying ship you love is doing

0:40:33.239 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 4>and then like I like from the jit perspective, like

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 4>our kids like she is she a cowboy fan again,

0:40:39.640 --> 0:40:41.919
<v Speaker 4>I'm born in bread day kind of three all day

0:40:42.120 --> 0:40:45.600
<v Speaker 4>right when they come to Miami Dolphins, Like, my daughter

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:48.040
<v Speaker 4>loves the dolphins and so like seeing that is like, yo,

0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 4>the ship I love you love too, you know, but

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:51.799
<v Speaker 4>at the same time our kids love it.

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:58.920
<v Speaker 3>Too, So she probably loves dolphins, you know, like with

0:40:59.200 --> 0:41:01.960
<v Speaker 3>this team because it's they're cute.

0:41:02.640 --> 0:41:04.359
<v Speaker 4>We got a cowboy fan on the counts, right, so

0:41:05.040 --> 0:41:09.080
<v Speaker 4>you know dolphins Listen, she will singing the song.

0:41:09.120 --> 0:41:10.919
<v Speaker 2>Bro, She'll get her hat, She'll get the hat. She'll

0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:17.839
<v Speaker 2>be like, dolphins, know what a dolphin is? Miami Dolphins. Look,

0:41:18.680 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 2>I play that song right now.

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 3>She will start dan because she makes her think about dolphins.

0:41:23.680 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 3>All right, what about you put that in order and rate?

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:28.960
<v Speaker 3>Do you need me to read them again? I know

0:41:29.000 --> 0:41:33.319
<v Speaker 3>they were a lot. It was you already, okay, thank you,

0:41:33.320 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 3>thank you, No, no, you don't sound crazy.

0:41:39.600 --> 0:41:42.600
<v Speaker 2>I like money and career a little first, just because.

0:41:44.120 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 5>Boom, some saying you gotta be in a situation to

0:41:46.600 --> 0:41:48.719
<v Speaker 5>be able to take care of family behind.

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:52.680
<v Speaker 3>Her family all y'all or creative family, yeah, all of that.

0:41:52.960 --> 0:42:00.239
<v Speaker 2>So that first, then family, their fitness thin.

0:42:00.640 --> 0:42:03.920
<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm okay, how about you?

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:06.319
<v Speaker 2>Hm?

0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I think I might be because I don't have any

0:42:10.000 --> 0:42:14.759
<v Speaker 1>kids yet. I think a lot of things we do

0:42:14.920 --> 0:42:23.720
<v Speaker 1>drive like money is the motivator, right, I'd like it. Okay,

0:42:24.040 --> 0:42:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I'd like a lot of it. So I would say

0:42:29.840 --> 0:42:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say money is my main thing, health right,

0:42:34.320 --> 0:42:39.440
<v Speaker 1>I think health would be my my top on the

0:42:39.560 --> 0:42:47.000
<v Speaker 1>very top of the list. Then money or maybe family health, family,

0:42:47.400 --> 0:42:50.040
<v Speaker 1>then the money and what was what would the other

0:42:50.080 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>two careers sound like?

0:42:53.680 --> 0:42:53.919
<v Speaker 2>Work?

0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:56.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I want to do what I want to do

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:57.399
<v Speaker 1>for the money.

0:42:57.719 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, money, I tied money in career be so many

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 3>a job Like when people say what is your dream job,

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:10.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I do not dream of working. What are

0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:12.359
<v Speaker 3>you talking about? Absolutely not?

0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:16.000
<v Speaker 1>And what was the other one? The hobbies and hobbies

0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:19.600
<v Speaker 1>I would like for my hobby to make me some money. Okay,

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:26.200
<v Speaker 1>so here we are talking ship that that's that's goal.

0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:30.239
<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted a job being myself because I think

0:43:30.280 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 1>when you start, when you work for other people, even

0:43:32.239 --> 0:43:35.279
<v Speaker 1>when you running a business of some sort, you have

0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:36.960
<v Speaker 1>to put a hat on for that.

0:43:37.040 --> 0:43:37.359
<v Speaker 3>I don't.

0:43:37.480 --> 0:43:40.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't like not being me, so I think I'm

0:43:40.480 --> 0:43:41.080
<v Speaker 1>pretty cool.

0:43:41.600 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 3>So mm hm.

0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:46.160
<v Speaker 1>So the hobby can make the money to feed the

0:43:46.200 --> 0:43:50.360
<v Speaker 1>family and I can work out in between. That's goals.

0:43:51.719 --> 0:44:00.359
<v Speaker 2>What you got, no, what made you choose that? Help?

0:44:01.400 --> 0:44:05.080
<v Speaker 1>So I have this the skin disorder called uh it

0:44:05.320 --> 0:44:11.600
<v Speaker 1>is petrisis, so pretty ry is having too rosia and

0:44:12.360 --> 0:44:18.800
<v Speaker 1>you know roseaesia rosatia, so it's petty rized rosia. And

0:44:18.800 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 1>and what I think I got diagnosed to that in

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:22.919
<v Speaker 1>like twenty thirteen. And I feel like it's viral because

0:44:22.920 --> 0:44:24.399
<v Speaker 1>my niece came to my house with like a little

0:44:24.400 --> 0:44:26.480
<v Speaker 1>spot on her and then all of a sudden I

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:30.000
<v Speaker 1>broke out in the spot. But maybe it just exposed

0:44:30.000 --> 0:44:31.160
<v Speaker 1>something pre existent.

0:44:31.239 --> 0:44:31.680
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't until I started removing shit from my

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:38.759
<v Speaker 1>diet right and then adding things back on that I

0:44:38.760 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 1>could see what was actually helping because the dermatologist doctors,

0:44:42.160 --> 0:44:43.719
<v Speaker 1>they don't really have a cure for half the ship

0:44:44.040 --> 0:44:47.560
<v Speaker 1>that they don't feel like having a cure, right exactly.

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:51.080
<v Speaker 1>So starting with a fast, and then I did vegan,

0:44:51.480 --> 0:44:53.359
<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't keep up with that shit because if

0:44:53.360 --> 0:44:57.640
<v Speaker 1>you're real vegan, like you're looking at you're looking at

0:44:57.719 --> 0:44:59.880
<v Speaker 1>like all the byproducts and stuff you can't eat shit for.

0:45:01.520 --> 0:45:03.319
<v Speaker 1>And then I added fish back of my diet. But

0:45:03.400 --> 0:45:05.759
<v Speaker 1>it was the chicken, the chicken that was causing my

0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:06.600
<v Speaker 1>skin to break out.

0:45:06.680 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 2>I would have thought beef already.

0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:11.440
<v Speaker 1>What Actually, I had stopped eating pork and beef wit

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>even before I stopped eating chicken. I did turkey and

0:45:14.640 --> 0:45:17.120
<v Speaker 1>chicken for a while, and then I just took that

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:19.520
<v Speaker 1>ship on my diet and my skin clear though, so

0:45:21.520 --> 0:45:23.359
<v Speaker 1>I eat for my blood type. At this point I.

0:45:23.320 --> 0:45:25.759
<v Speaker 4>Saw a book about of blood type. If you if

0:45:25.800 --> 0:45:28.640
<v Speaker 4>you this, you get this, need this, And I'm like, dank.

0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:30.360
<v Speaker 4>Some of that stuff on actually got right, especially with

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:30.800
<v Speaker 4>the dairies.

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 3>I mean, so I don't think none of us should

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:37.080
<v Speaker 3>eat dairy honestly because of the mucus and all that stuff.

0:45:38.160 --> 0:45:40.320
<v Speaker 2>But let me do mine.

0:45:45.440 --> 0:45:47.640
<v Speaker 3>Niggas talk about dairy. Hold on, let me give you

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:52.040
<v Speaker 3>my list. So obviously, for me, health is first, Uh

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 3>I do I don't say I have MS. MS tries

0:45:55.680 --> 0:45:57.759
<v Speaker 3>to have me, but it don't. So I always have

0:45:57.840 --> 0:46:00.200
<v Speaker 3>to be very mindful of my health. So that be

0:46:00.320 --> 0:46:04.760
<v Speaker 3>first for me. Family, because your wealth is in your family,

0:46:04.920 --> 0:46:11.840
<v Speaker 3>honestly to me. Next would be I guess money because

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:17.000
<v Speaker 3>you can't do. I guess because I mean I love it.

0:46:17.040 --> 0:46:22.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I like money, but I just don't love money.

0:46:22.360 --> 0:46:24.520
<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't love money. I just like I

0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:27.120
<v Speaker 3>love the things that money can provide, but I just

0:46:27.280 --> 0:46:30.320
<v Speaker 3>don't love money Like I could. I would be happy.

0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:31.279
<v Speaker 1>I could be.

0:46:31.280 --> 0:46:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Happy with a man that I love, living on some island,

0:46:35.560 --> 0:46:38.919
<v Speaker 3>like growing my own fruit and vegetables, and like renting

0:46:39.000 --> 0:46:40.880
<v Speaker 3>jet skis or something shit like that if I was

0:46:40.880 --> 0:46:45.719
<v Speaker 3>in love life. Yeah, so so I'll be okay with

0:46:45.800 --> 0:46:48.520
<v Speaker 3>that and without a whole bunch of money. And then hobbies,

0:46:48.560 --> 0:46:50.319
<v Speaker 3>you know, I mean, I guess hobbies would be last

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:55.040
<v Speaker 3>for everybody because they are extracurricular in comparison to these things.

0:46:55.120 --> 0:46:56.680
<v Speaker 3>So that's the list.

0:46:56.840 --> 0:47:05.680
<v Speaker 4>Other than we talk back some hobbies andy.

0:47:02.239 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Shit, I'll be studying the starking mat all day making money.

0:47:08.440 --> 0:47:12.439
<v Speaker 3>I love movies. I love comedies like stand up that's

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 3>my ship. I love any stand up that comes out.

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna watch it. Books. I'm an avid reader, So

0:47:18.200 --> 0:47:22.520
<v Speaker 3>me and my sister, Yeah, what's my favorite book? If

0:47:22.560 --> 0:47:25.080
<v Speaker 3>I had to pick a favorite book, I guess it

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 3>would be Okay, let me ask this question, The Alchemist.

0:47:31.040 --> 0:47:33.640
<v Speaker 2>That's a. That's a. I would say, what book made

0:47:33.640 --> 0:47:35.400
<v Speaker 2>you like reading?

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:37.200
<v Speaker 3>Would be The Alchemist. That was one of my first

0:47:37.200 --> 0:47:39.000
<v Speaker 3>ones that I read, like cover to cover real quick,

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:40.920
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh, this is inspiring. What is

0:47:40.920 --> 0:47:44.160
<v Speaker 3>my legend? Personal legend like that?

0:47:44.200 --> 0:47:44.680
<v Speaker 2>Growing up?

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 4>But I was getting in trouble if my mom gave

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 4>me sister Soldier the Coldest.

0:47:50.239 --> 0:47:53.239
<v Speaker 3>Whatever, that's everybody black man.

0:47:53.320 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 1>I even that as an adult though with it, like

0:47:55.160 --> 0:47:57.040
<v Speaker 1>when she came out with that last book.

0:47:57.040 --> 0:47:59.680
<v Speaker 3>That book, read that book to the what did you

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<v Speaker 3>think of a new one?

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:05.840
<v Speaker 1>It was so it was weird, Okay, it was trash.

0:48:06.000 --> 0:48:08.400
<v Speaker 3>It was let's called the Spade and Spade. It was

0:48:08.440 --> 0:48:08.960
<v Speaker 3>so weird.

0:48:09.120 --> 0:48:11.239
<v Speaker 1>It was it wasn't trash, but it was. It was

0:48:11.520 --> 0:48:13.920
<v Speaker 1>winter speaking from the grady essentially, right, was.

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 3>That when she turned into a dog.

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:26.480
<v Speaker 8>I was like, man, I'm sorry, I was mad.

0:48:27.280 --> 0:48:29.160
<v Speaker 3>I was like man third ist in the fire.

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:32.440
<v Speaker 1>She was the one to release the book. That's how

0:48:32.440 --> 0:48:32.799
<v Speaker 1>I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>She must have been an under contrary. What was it? Oh? Yeah,

0:48:40.640 --> 0:48:44.239
<v Speaker 3>those were good. Those were excellent. Black. You should read that.

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:46.239
<v Speaker 3>You would read it so quick. It was so good.

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:48.520
<v Speaker 4>That's what actually made me dial in and so like

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:51.200
<v Speaker 4>Aaron Jerome Dickley and like that, like like the sex

0:48:51.239 --> 0:48:52.080
<v Speaker 4>books actually got.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's pause for a commercial and we are going

0:48:56.640 --> 0:49:03.640
<v Speaker 3>to be right back you guys one second. All right, guys,

0:49:03.719 --> 0:49:07.120
<v Speaker 3>we are back, and I already got some questions for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell us your top three anxieties as a man. Oh,

0:49:16.600 --> 0:49:19.839
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't ready for that, questions.

0:49:19.719 --> 0:49:26.280
<v Speaker 2>Grow three anxieties? You already got some. I don't know, man, that's.

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:29.920
<v Speaker 3>Because you know, like I feel like men aren't really

0:49:30.000 --> 0:49:34.840
<v Speaker 3>like vulnerable enough with themselves to even know their anxieties.

0:49:35.600 --> 0:49:37.520
<v Speaker 4>It makes you got to it makes you think, you know,

0:49:38.200 --> 0:49:41.200
<v Speaker 4>I would definitely say anything going wrong with your family.

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<v Speaker 2>First, Like I would say that's the top one.

0:49:43.920 --> 0:49:45.400
<v Speaker 4>I want to make sure everything to do with your

0:49:45.400 --> 0:49:47.600
<v Speaker 4>family at all times and out having kids in our life.

0:49:48.239 --> 0:49:55.839
<v Speaker 2>You want to like, what's going on you know, Oh, I.

0:49:55.760 --> 0:49:57.960
<v Speaker 4>Would say feeling. Feeling is a big one. You know,

0:49:58.719 --> 0:50:00.759
<v Speaker 4>you don't want to you don't want to fail as

0:50:00.760 --> 0:50:04.200
<v Speaker 4>a man. You know you have goals, you have things

0:50:04.239 --> 0:50:07.319
<v Speaker 4>you want to do. So I guess that fear of

0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:11.040
<v Speaker 4>feeling would always keep you motivated to to not fail.

0:50:11.239 --> 0:50:11.480
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:50:12.520 --> 0:50:13.560
<v Speaker 2>So I'll say that's number two.

0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:21.239
<v Speaker 1>Three, feeling at what like for you? Just because that's subjective. Yeah,

0:50:21.239 --> 0:50:23.320
<v Speaker 1>it's not reaching your full potential.

0:50:23.440 --> 0:50:24.120
<v Speaker 2>Not reaching your.

0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:27.239
<v Speaker 4>Full potential, that's a big one. Like if you know,

0:50:27.360 --> 0:50:28.839
<v Speaker 4>like yo, I know I could be a mean, I

0:50:28.840 --> 0:50:30.120
<v Speaker 4>know I can do this. I know I get that.

0:50:30.640 --> 0:50:33.239
<v Speaker 4>You definitely want to make sure that you can strive

0:50:33.320 --> 0:50:35.319
<v Speaker 4>to that. So just feeling that anything I would say

0:50:35.320 --> 0:50:38.320
<v Speaker 4>in general, but I would say feeling that your goals,

0:50:38.320 --> 0:50:41.279
<v Speaker 4>if you got a goal, feeling that your number one goal,

0:50:41.360 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 4>not your fifth goal, your number one goal.

0:50:43.600 --> 0:50:48.560
<v Speaker 2>That could that's an anxiety. Third, that's a tough one.

0:50:49.880 --> 0:50:51.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I have to think about something for

0:50:51.560 --> 0:50:54.480
<v Speaker 2>number three. But family and failings like you.

0:50:56.040 --> 0:50:59.560
<v Speaker 5>About and when you say family, I'm I'm gonna say

0:50:59.560 --> 0:51:02.479
<v Speaker 5>specific beely like parents, mm hmm, like.

0:51:02.760 --> 0:51:04.440
<v Speaker 1>You have children?

0:51:04.440 --> 0:51:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Eighteen year old?

0:51:05.080 --> 0:51:05.279
<v Speaker 3>So old?

0:51:05.400 --> 0:51:10.719
<v Speaker 5>Okay, feeling like you didn't do enough, or if you

0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:13.680
<v Speaker 5>could do something different, or just not doing it.

0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:15.480
<v Speaker 2>I guess what'suse.

0:51:15.960 --> 0:51:17.719
<v Speaker 5>I guess what they consider right in what you might

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:20.040
<v Speaker 5>see it right is gonna be two different things sometimes,

0:51:20.080 --> 0:51:23.680
<v Speaker 5>So I guess it's not being the parent that they

0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:26.160
<v Speaker 5>particularly need in that particular had. But that's a that's

0:51:26.200 --> 0:51:28.560
<v Speaker 5>a big thing that I guess I think about a

0:51:28.600 --> 0:51:30.439
<v Speaker 5>lot when it comes to like raising up.

0:51:30.600 --> 0:51:33.600
<v Speaker 2>A black boy in the world when live in Yeah,

0:51:33.640 --> 0:51:37.919
<v Speaker 2>like you said, just feeling that career wise, I think.

0:51:37.800 --> 0:51:39.600
<v Speaker 5>It's that you know, you good at things that you

0:51:39.640 --> 0:51:42.080
<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying you Lilly gagg or just and

0:51:42.080 --> 0:51:44.360
<v Speaker 5>they can lead back to your like you said, family

0:51:44.560 --> 0:51:45.759
<v Speaker 5>or parents or y'all.

0:51:45.800 --> 0:51:47.160
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. You feel that this so

0:51:47.200 --> 0:51:49.640
<v Speaker 2>you can't do that for your kid or for your

0:51:49.680 --> 0:51:50.640
<v Speaker 2>wife or something like that.

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:53.680
<v Speaker 4>So, yeah, money doesn't solve everything, but reaching those goals.

0:51:53.760 --> 0:51:55.200
<v Speaker 4>I feel like if you don't get that money, you

0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:57.600
<v Speaker 4>can't provide for that family. Yeah, and then sometimes you

0:51:57.640 --> 0:51:59.200
<v Speaker 4>might just say it that I feel like, you know,

0:51:59.239 --> 0:52:01.919
<v Speaker 4>I mean, know my kid. You know, it's all types

0:52:01.920 --> 0:52:04.319
<v Speaker 4>of shit. So yeah, third one, that's tough.

0:52:04.360 --> 0:52:07.799
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, yes, those two are good.

0:52:09.200 --> 0:52:11.799
<v Speaker 1>That's like a major one though not reaching your foot

0:52:11.960 --> 0:52:14.400
<v Speaker 1>from me? Right, I used to be afraid of like

0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 1>God for what until I realize, like it's inside me, right,

0:52:19.680 --> 0:52:24.640
<v Speaker 1>ship like that or being homeless was always a fair

0:52:25.239 --> 0:52:28.400
<v Speaker 1>for me. That's what I'm saying, Like once you, bitch,

0:52:28.480 --> 0:52:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't restart my life a couple of times, and.

0:52:31.040 --> 0:52:34.399
<v Speaker 3>I'm living out a suitcase right now, so there's no

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:37.120
<v Speaker 3>good at it, okay.

0:52:37.840 --> 0:52:40.919
<v Speaker 2>Like that like middle school, like going to high school?

0:52:41.160 --> 0:52:43.719
<v Speaker 4>That should Actually it humbleed me to a point where

0:52:43.719 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 4>like it don't matter what I go through, I can

0:52:45.120 --> 0:52:48.200
<v Speaker 4>push them anything because I went through that for sure.

0:52:50.280 --> 0:52:51.400
<v Speaker 3>Are my questions too deep?

0:52:52.080 --> 0:52:57.279
<v Speaker 1>Yes, bitch? Anyway, so when you dating a bitch, all right,

0:52:57.320 --> 0:52:59.640
<v Speaker 1>here's I may not talk about women like that. When

0:52:59.640 --> 0:53:01.319
<v Speaker 1>you going to date with a woman or when you're

0:53:01.680 --> 0:53:04.160
<v Speaker 1>dealing with a woman, what are some of the like

0:53:04.320 --> 0:53:08.160
<v Speaker 1>things that because I want to preface this question a

0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:11.239
<v Speaker 1>little bit. For women, right, when we don't like a guy,

0:53:11.520 --> 0:53:14.000
<v Speaker 1>we can point out exactly why we don't like them.

0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:21.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it's something that we were having all tight,

0:53:21.440 --> 0:53:24.719
<v Speaker 1>Like we can tell our friends exactly why we don't

0:53:24.800 --> 0:53:27.120
<v Speaker 1>like no, I don't think they're petty at all, But

0:53:27.200 --> 0:53:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't think men are able to men actually start.

0:53:30.200 --> 0:53:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like men stop talking to women for the

0:53:32.040 --> 0:53:35.359
<v Speaker 1>most subtle bullshit. What are some things that women do

0:53:35.840 --> 0:53:37.400
<v Speaker 1>to make you be like? Nah, I ain't funk with

0:53:37.440 --> 0:53:41.880
<v Speaker 1>this no more. I don't like her, like because you

0:53:41.920 --> 0:53:43.560
<v Speaker 1>want to at least have sex with her? What makes

0:53:43.600 --> 0:53:46.439
<v Speaker 1>you not want to have sex with a woman? No more?

0:53:48.640 --> 0:53:51.200
<v Speaker 3>Nothing like?

0:53:51.760 --> 0:53:53.759
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's the last time I fucking no more.

0:53:53.880 --> 0:53:54.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm done with this.

0:53:58.719 --> 0:54:00.200
<v Speaker 1>About Oh ye're just something about?

0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:03.839
<v Speaker 3>What's like? What does the turnoff for you? That's just like,

0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:06.720
<v Speaker 3>I don't I'm not feeling it. Cringe.

0:54:07.760 --> 0:54:09.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't like a conceited woman.

0:54:10.560 --> 0:54:12.520
<v Speaker 3>And what does conceit look like to you?

0:54:12.680 --> 0:54:16.640
<v Speaker 5>Like that that your your self compliment sounds like insecurity?

0:54:16.680 --> 0:54:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Now, I'm a bad itch like that every day? Right

0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to convince herself?

0:54:26.120 --> 0:54:28.799
<v Speaker 2>Let me compliment you know what I'm saying. Okay, let's

0:54:28.920 --> 0:54:29.919
<v Speaker 2>make it.

0:54:29.640 --> 0:54:32.719
<v Speaker 6>A reason to to make sense in the moment and

0:54:32.760 --> 0:54:35.640
<v Speaker 6>not just say it every day all day or telling

0:54:35.640 --> 0:54:39.799
<v Speaker 6>it he didn't say it enough, like what you're doing right?

0:54:40.800 --> 0:54:41.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:54:41.800 --> 0:54:43.960
<v Speaker 1>So what I'm hearing is you don't like women with

0:54:44.000 --> 0:54:46.239
<v Speaker 1>a lot of insecurities because that that does come off

0:54:46.280 --> 0:54:47.280
<v Speaker 1>as me as being.

0:54:47.680 --> 0:54:49.720
<v Speaker 5>Because I understand it, like I feel like your energy,

0:54:49.719 --> 0:54:53.040
<v Speaker 5>the way you walk and give you that that what you're.

0:54:52.920 --> 0:54:54.400
<v Speaker 2>Talking about it is like you need to hear it

0:54:54.480 --> 0:54:56.880
<v Speaker 2>more something. So that's all. It just can be a

0:54:56.920 --> 0:55:06.480
<v Speaker 2>little like too much idea. Yeah about like a I would.

0:55:06.239 --> 0:55:14.080
<v Speaker 4>Say, not being discreet. You know, there's certain things that

0:55:14.719 --> 0:55:16.960
<v Speaker 4>we talk about. You feel like you've got like you

0:55:17.000 --> 0:55:19.719
<v Speaker 4>got to put it out there or talk to so

0:55:19.560 --> 0:55:21.160
<v Speaker 4>and so about it. Not being discreet. I feel like

0:55:21.239 --> 0:55:23.799
<v Speaker 4>that's a turn off to me because like you know,

0:55:23.920 --> 0:55:27.120
<v Speaker 4>like I got a close family and we're closing certain things,

0:55:27.160 --> 0:55:29.800
<v Speaker 4>like you got to keep certain parts of your like private,

0:55:29.920 --> 0:55:32.640
<v Speaker 4>and I feel like not being discreet or in the

0:55:32.680 --> 0:55:33.760
<v Speaker 4>social media era.

0:55:34.880 --> 0:55:37.000
<v Speaker 3>Are dirty, laundery on it.

0:55:37.040 --> 0:55:38.719
<v Speaker 4>I come from a city where people, you know, South

0:55:38.719 --> 0:55:40.279
<v Speaker 4>Beach is one of those things. But like you don't

0:55:40.280 --> 0:55:43.960
<v Speaker 4>want to always post certain things because somebody might pull.

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:45.000
<v Speaker 2>Up on you, you know, things like that.

0:55:45.120 --> 0:55:48.239
<v Speaker 4>So I would say, like being discreet, having a certain

0:55:48.280 --> 0:55:50.680
<v Speaker 4>way you carry yourself, like yeah, we could post it

0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:53.600
<v Speaker 4>we're here, but don't do it in real time. Or

0:55:54.640 --> 0:55:56.680
<v Speaker 4>we could flaunt some shit flex or some shit, but

0:55:57.800 --> 0:55:59.279
<v Speaker 4>do it in a way where it's like it's not

0:55:59.400 --> 0:56:04.400
<v Speaker 4>exposing us, you know, whether that's whether we're mary situationship

0:56:04.520 --> 0:56:06.640
<v Speaker 4>or we're just talking like if I didn't actually can

0:56:06.680 --> 0:56:09.000
<v Speaker 4>take a picture, wellf ially give a cent my picture, Like,

0:56:09.440 --> 0:56:12.359
<v Speaker 4>you know, we got a situationship, we understanding that we're

0:56:12.400 --> 0:56:12.960
<v Speaker 4>not public.

0:56:13.080 --> 0:56:17.000
<v Speaker 3>You know, that's so true. I went out with this

0:56:17.000 --> 0:56:19.080
<v Speaker 3>guy one time and it was our first day and

0:56:19.080 --> 0:56:20.960
<v Speaker 3>he was like, can we take a picture? I was like, sure,

0:56:21.000 --> 0:56:23.480
<v Speaker 3>we can take a picture. And then I mean, he

0:56:23.560 --> 0:56:25.600
<v Speaker 3>invited me to move in with him on the first date,

0:56:25.680 --> 0:56:26.680
<v Speaker 3>so I was like, okay, this.

0:56:26.719 --> 0:56:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Niggas next level, you know what he wanted.

0:56:29.040 --> 0:56:31.680
<v Speaker 3>But that was too much for the first day. But

0:56:32.320 --> 0:56:37.600
<v Speaker 3>that wasn't even that was I know, we didn't even

0:56:37.600 --> 0:56:40.680
<v Speaker 3>sleep together. It was just like we went to we

0:56:40.719 --> 0:56:42.919
<v Speaker 3>went to then and we went to lunch. That was it.

0:56:43.160 --> 0:56:45.680
<v Speaker 3>And then I went home and later, because we were

0:56:46.040 --> 0:56:49.160
<v Speaker 3>he had we met on Facebook. So this is how

0:56:49.160 --> 0:56:51.960
<v Speaker 3>long ago that was. So when I got home, I

0:56:52.040 --> 0:56:54.600
<v Speaker 3>was on Facebook and he posted a picture and tagged

0:56:54.680 --> 0:56:57.000
<v Speaker 3>me and his family and his cousins and all these

0:56:57.000 --> 0:57:01.000
<v Speaker 3>people in this picture and made a post like why

0:57:01.239 --> 0:57:03.759
<v Speaker 3>like like on some wifey vibes. And that was like

0:57:03.800 --> 0:57:06.200
<v Speaker 3>a huge turnoff for me because nigga, I don't even

0:57:06.320 --> 0:57:07.240
<v Speaker 3>know you like that.

0:57:08.800 --> 0:57:10.920
<v Speaker 5>The first baddy, he's gonna lose his mind and so

0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:13.279
<v Speaker 5>you got to check the nigga history probably right, I

0:57:13.360 --> 0:57:15.480
<v Speaker 5>see somebody was losing his mind, like, oh my god,

0:57:15.560 --> 0:57:22.640
<v Speaker 5>she really went he knew that's it's crazy.

0:57:23.360 --> 0:57:25.120
<v Speaker 1>That first daddy ship is a real thing.

0:57:25.320 --> 0:57:25.760
<v Speaker 3>I see.

0:57:26.320 --> 0:57:29.000
<v Speaker 1>I've seen something that was like, you don't want to

0:57:29.040 --> 0:57:31.280
<v Speaker 1>be a man's friends daddy because they don't know how

0:57:31.280 --> 0:57:35.960
<v Speaker 1>to act. They don't they be insecure as fun, like

0:57:36.440 --> 0:57:37.880
<v Speaker 1>this is what you wanted and when you get it,

0:57:37.920 --> 0:57:39.080
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to dismantle it.

0:57:39.280 --> 0:57:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true. You can't be like that, you know, man,

0:57:43.000 --> 0:57:43.880
<v Speaker 2>it ain't yours. Man.

0:57:44.280 --> 0:57:47.920
<v Speaker 4>If your girl choose, let her do a thing like

0:57:47.960 --> 0:57:49.440
<v Speaker 4>you know, so at the end of like you can't.

0:57:49.440 --> 0:57:50.760
<v Speaker 4>You got to know that at the end of the day.

0:57:51.840 --> 0:57:54.200
<v Speaker 3>But some some men get upset, like if you're out

0:57:54.240 --> 0:57:56.160
<v Speaker 3>with him and you're posting a picture of the food,

0:57:56.280 --> 0:57:59.520
<v Speaker 3>he all in did you give me in the picture?

0:57:59.680 --> 0:58:02.520
<v Speaker 3>Paved with that to lock you?

0:58:03.120 --> 0:58:08.560
<v Speaker 4>I feel like if you take that, like you know anonymous,

0:58:08.640 --> 0:58:11.000
<v Speaker 4>like yo, you don't know, but you know you see

0:58:11.040 --> 0:58:12.440
<v Speaker 4>them like bank.

0:58:12.320 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 5>For the discretion because on the situation, right, don't put

0:58:14.640 --> 0:58:16.800
<v Speaker 5>me on the food with mm hmm.

0:58:17.240 --> 0:58:19.360
<v Speaker 3>Some men don't like that though, Like don't text your

0:58:19.440 --> 0:58:21.680
<v Speaker 3>picture of the food that I'm paying for and then

0:58:22.160 --> 0:58:22.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm not in it.

0:58:23.000 --> 0:58:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I try to have my phone out whatever I'm on

0:58:25.560 --> 0:58:26.520
<v Speaker 1>a date or something like that.

0:58:26.560 --> 0:58:27.400
<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't even.

0:58:27.760 --> 0:58:30.160
<v Speaker 4>You enjoyed the vibes like I do, say, like if

0:58:30.160 --> 0:58:32.479
<v Speaker 4>somebody want to do that, that's the securities we.

0:58:32.360 --> 0:58:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Were talking about, Like, Yo, I gotta be in a

0:58:34.040 --> 0:58:35.080
<v Speaker 2>picture much. I got to know them.

0:58:35.120 --> 0:58:38.040
<v Speaker 4>What you I'm like you keeping that ship player, Like

0:58:39.200 --> 0:58:42.080
<v Speaker 4>that makes sense. You gotta do it discreet, like you

0:58:42.440 --> 0:58:44.600
<v Speaker 4>wonder who's with me, You wonder what's going on?

0:58:44.920 --> 0:58:48.240
<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, that's not like you're like see a little sneaker,

0:58:48.400 --> 0:58:49.840
<v Speaker 3>a little wrists. That's it.

0:58:55.760 --> 0:58:57.920
<v Speaker 1>So as a single man, John, John, what are some

0:58:58.040 --> 0:59:01.720
<v Speaker 1>misconceptions you believe that people get our people have about

0:59:02.120 --> 0:59:11.919
<v Speaker 1>single people are single men, especially a single emotions?

0:59:11.960 --> 0:59:17.720
<v Speaker 2>Okay, they're always true. Some probably fit the description, but

0:59:17.760 --> 0:59:18.400
<v Speaker 2>not everybody.

0:59:18.640 --> 0:59:19.160
<v Speaker 3>What about you?

0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:22.360
<v Speaker 2>I got emotions I used to do.

0:59:23.800 --> 0:59:28.840
<v Speaker 3>How long ago did you delete your wholeness? Yesterday, she

0:59:29.720 --> 0:59:30.880
<v Speaker 3>might happen again to night.

0:59:38.520 --> 0:59:39.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you need to go through.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think women should have a hostage?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't got it. You don't suck up a good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Go out there, you knocking the streets. Don't love you

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<v Speaker 2>for real?

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<v Speaker 3>So you would want your woman to have a hostage before.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care about the history. Don't give me the

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<v Speaker 2>DETAI mean, we can't take the details.

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<v Speaker 5>But just no, and you I feel like you can

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<v Speaker 5>kind of not all men but me, like I can

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<v Speaker 5>probably get a by you did your things most.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like, is it in the head like.

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<v Speaker 4>This before I want to look, I want to learn

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<v Speaker 4>to teach me something, you know, exactly a little experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can't. Don't be here, not ar back. You

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<v Speaker 2>got scary can step back, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>You will finally.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all be running out Sometimes you literally gotta do yoga

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<v Speaker 1>and stretch before the sessions.

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<v Speaker 5>Man, like just your social media everything people listening to

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<v Speaker 5>want to talk about making a little the move.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying, dress, throw your bank out.

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<v Speaker 1>All kinds. I always say I'm glad to know the

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<v Speaker 1>man because man like I couldn't do that, like I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do all that thrusting my back. I respect it now.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm gonna question. Now I'm in a question, but

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<v Speaker 1>having it like slang dick. I don't think I could

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<v Speaker 1>do it like I'll be a lazy ass nigga. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>get on top, not on the side.

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<v Speaker 2>Be good. This is why you want that experience.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you don't want nobody that came satisfying that

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<v Speaker 4>you want someone to cut up for, So cut.

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<v Speaker 5>Up for show it again. I guess you still gotta

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<v Speaker 5>both have experience because as a nigga, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I'm saying. You kissed that willing that got that.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you crazy just like so would you prefer? So?

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<v Speaker 3>Would you prefer a woman who came already ready to

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<v Speaker 3>know how to do everything or someone who you could

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<v Speaker 3>teach to do it just how you like it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yet, first we can be talked to, so supposed to

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<v Speaker 5>deal with somebody like everybody likes stuff different, So we're

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<v Speaker 5>dealing with them.

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<v Speaker 2>You gonna, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn what they like and but you ain't gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out how she who taught her how

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<v Speaker 1>to do that easy time?

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<v Speaker 2>He would do that?

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<v Speaker 1>You want your dig something, not like why are you

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<v Speaker 1>so concerned about who taught me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, that's kind of you know, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>not teaching me you know what I want you to.

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>What do y'all feel like? Is some of the white

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<v Speaker 3>lies that you're telling the relationship they are just okay,

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<v Speaker 3>like this little white life, little white lies they happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's not pretend like.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't have a sample. Give me an example of

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<v Speaker 1>your white lie, bitch, despite the major lie, a.

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<v Speaker 3>White lie that I might tell, h no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>no no, Like if he asks something and I give

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<v Speaker 3>a white lie, like let's say, oh no, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>lie to my nigga about how his fit. The men

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<v Speaker 3>a lot to a woman about how they feel. That's

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<v Speaker 3>a white lie that a man will tell. But I'm

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<v Speaker 3>never gonna lie to my nigga because I don't want him, Like, boy,

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<v Speaker 3>what the fuck is that you gotta? But men do that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I would say, like, let's say if my man

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<v Speaker 3>just was trying to be nice and was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna cook something for you and it don't taste good

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<v Speaker 3>like that, I might, yeah, but just because a person

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<v Speaker 3>can cook doesn't mean their food is always good, right,

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<v Speaker 3>you can have an off meal. So I would be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this is good, and then I call my home girl like, girl,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm shipping right now because this nigga, this bullshit. My stomach. Fuck,

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<v Speaker 3>he's talk about, Oh, what's my favorite meal? Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I don't know if I have a favorite meal.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I love a good mac and cheese. I

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<v Speaker 3>love all right, so hold on, you're judging me. Why

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<v Speaker 3>would you assume? No, You're right, But that was just.

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of what kind of mac and cheese?

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<v Speaker 3>Though, like like black South Carolina baked mac and cheese

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<v Speaker 3>with all the cheese and the milk and the butter

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<v Speaker 3>and the eggs. I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>If you cook all your favorite foods around some craft macaroni,

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<v Speaker 4>how would you.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel around the craft? That's the white line. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>this ship was busting, baby bitch. He had a box

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<v Speaker 3>macaroni and cheese on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring the craft.

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<v Speaker 3>I would just say, this was just because of the

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<v Speaker 3>effort that it took to go into it, and like no,

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<v Speaker 3>but everything else, he did the best he could. And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just grateful that he wanted to please me in

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<v Speaker 3>that way. So that is a wide.

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<v Speaker 2>Line, lady.

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<v Speaker 3>Effort, it's the effort. It's the for ever that the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>Just try. I don't like what I get on my nerves.

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<v Speaker 3>If you can read, you can cook.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how I put love into it, though, ye matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, look like everybody putting YouTube on your phone. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so what's the white lie? Y'all have told a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Outfit for sure?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was something like, Yo, hey, you like that,

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<v Speaker 4>but if you like it, if you look it gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be an outfit I hate.

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<v Speaker 2>But I might not like it as much as you

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<v Speaker 2>like it. I don't I don't care to tell you

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<v Speaker 2>not to wear.

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<v Speaker 4>I might say something about it, but at the same time, like, yo,

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<v Speaker 4>do you I want to see your style. I want

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<v Speaker 4>to see what you like to wear. So I might

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<v Speaker 4>not like it, but I'm be like, yo, that's your fire,

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<v Speaker 4>do your thing for me.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, now see that would piss me off because

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<v Speaker 3>if I see you in your group chat like man,

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<v Speaker 3>my blue chair or some foolish That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, yo, you wore that ship the other day because

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<v Speaker 4>you want to wear I feel I with it. It

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<v Speaker 4>depends on your attitude when you rocket That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>So if I don't like your attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>Is don't like, Yo, you need to tell me if

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<v Speaker 3>I look stupid, like don't let me leave like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna tell my nigga every time if it's out here.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I think you should do this, but I want

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<v Speaker 4>to take away from the whole songble like, Yo, that's

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<v Speaker 4>what you want to do because we got but that

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<v Speaker 4>would be my white lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Like hey, if you like it, I love it, he said.

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<v Speaker 1>I just need you to be able to do all

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<v Speaker 1>the things right. I don't want to always see sneakers

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<v Speaker 1>and basketball shorts with the fitted you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I got a whole sneakerhead, okay, like for real,

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<v Speaker 1>for real.

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<v Speaker 3>And the only time to wear a suit is the court.

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<v Speaker 4>But let me be clear, let me speak for all

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<v Speaker 4>sneakers when I say this, Like, you know, sometimes it's

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<v Speaker 4>a it's a sneaker for everything you could, you could.

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<v Speaker 2>Find one that will set it off the right way.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I remember doing sneaker balls before there was even

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<v Speaker 4>a hot commodity.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I hate sneaker balls.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate when they first because if I hated it.

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<v Speaker 4>Kids doing it it's kind of like, Okay, it's gone,

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<v Speaker 4>but but at the same time, it's a sneaker for

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<v Speaker 4>every outfit I feel, you know, so I had.

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<v Speaker 3>A gown and a sneaker together. It's just never I've

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<v Speaker 3>never seen one that I was like, that was excellent. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>based on thing. It never translates for me. Like the

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<v Speaker 3>suits and the sneakers they can get away with, but

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<v Speaker 3>the women in the gowns and the sneakers, it's just like, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Did y'all have a jersey dress?

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<v Speaker 3>Era? Yeah, we were allied for that. We were alive

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<v Speaker 3>for that era. I can't even tell you. I guess

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<v Speaker 3>what Charlotte the Magic, Yeah, that was like the bulls.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's one of the best things for you about

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<v Speaker 1>being married?

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<v Speaker 2>Experiences?

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<v Speaker 4>For sure, hands down, Like you remember when we went here,

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<v Speaker 4>Like you ever look back at like old pictures of yourself,

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<v Speaker 4>You remember where you was at you hear a song,

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<v Speaker 4>you remember where you were at that time. I would

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<v Speaker 4>say being married different experiences, different situations. Like we could

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<v Speaker 4>laugh about you having a peel on the side of

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<v Speaker 4>the road, you know what I'm saying. We could laugh

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<v Speaker 4>about no, seriously, we could laugh about the time we

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<v Speaker 4>went to such and such place and I fell down

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<v Speaker 4>the stairs, you know what I mean, Like I would

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<v Speaker 4>say experiences like that's probably one of the best parts

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<v Speaker 4>in like having two JITs now to kids telling them

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<v Speaker 4>like yo, hey, me and mom did this, or showing them,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like you can see the picture we were

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<v Speaker 4>right here, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like experiences matter the most.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the best part to you about being single?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Probably not having to feel obligated to listen

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<v Speaker 2>to let so unstressed something that least.

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<v Speaker 7>That's like as a husband, no people, but you sometimes

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<v Speaker 7>white first, you're gonna be a punching bag.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me tell you what you're gonna have to listen about, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I'm saying. But other than that, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh right, so she comes out with her work drama,

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<v Speaker 3>like let me tell you what that bitch Brenda did

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<v Speaker 3>today at work, and you don't have to Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to hear about that.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean to be a bunch of surface level things

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<v Speaker 1>like that, Like that's like the main thing you don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds like you don't want to talk to a

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<v Speaker 1>woman then to me, like I don't feel like having

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<v Speaker 1>a topic.

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<v Speaker 2>I still came, but I don't. I feel like a husband.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you obligated to talk to your wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Versus me can selectively when you don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel you on that because I was listening

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<v Speaker 3>and I'll be like, my mam will calling me. I'm it's.

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<v Speaker 1>So, where do I do like enjoy conversations with my

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<v Speaker 1>homegirls over a man?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's fucked up. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish we would understand that too, because you get

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<v Speaker 2>that all the time. Members we talk about the same ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Nig I can't tell you right. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't care about sports. We really talk about sports

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<v Speaker 5>for hours straight. You don't drink beer. We can literally

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<v Speaker 5>talk about drinking beer. Like what I'm saying, I'll drink beer, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>But when me and Sam started this podcast, I was

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<v Speaker 1>in another relationship and we would talk about stuff, a

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<v Speaker 1>different one. It's a different one, but it's old, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a refurbished relationship. I'm calling it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So when we first started a relationship, I was engaged

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<v Speaker 1>at the time to somebody else, and the things we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. He would say, I didn't know that I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not supposed to know that, Like I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 1>my homegirl. Our conversations are supposed to be the same,

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<v Speaker 1>Like they're just not going to really not as interesting

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<v Speaker 1>as my friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, talking to that's not the engagement.

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<v Speaker 2>This was the one that you wasn't she was engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he's definitely. He was definitely interesting. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like when you dealing with somebody every day, we see

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<v Speaker 1>each other every day, we don't have no new stories.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my homegirls they living life, they outside, like I

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear this stuff. And then when we having

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<v Speaker 1>these conversations, we're talking about past things, things that don't

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<v Speaker 1>have nothing to do anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, like why would you be having that conversation,

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<v Speaker 3>Like why.

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<v Speaker 1>Would I talk to you about sending me some dick

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<v Speaker 1>one time? Like why would you know that?

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<v Speaker 3>Why does everybody keep having to bring that up? It

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<v Speaker 3>was one time? It was pandemic, I was lonely. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>let's move on.

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<v Speaker 1>Sonny asked me about that ship last week.

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<v Speaker 4>No situationships though that you might have had passed or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>Right do you feel that soul.

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<v Speaker 2>Tars are real?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely? You need to Like sometimes people be living in

1:12:06.520 --> 1:12:08.800
<v Speaker 1>you like you not got rid of them, but they

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<v Speaker 1>just they still there. You need to do you listen

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<v Speaker 1>Lionsgate August eighth, and it's twenty twenty four, which is

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<v Speaker 1>also eight is coming up on the eighth. Y'all, bet

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<v Speaker 1>do y'all some spiritual baths and watch some of these

1:12:19.840 --> 1:12:22.680
<v Speaker 1>niggas out, okay, because they still be around you.

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<v Speaker 3>What is a spiritual bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, men can do it.

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<v Speaker 3>What is a spiritual band?

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<v Speaker 1>For sure? A lot of things. But magic is just

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<v Speaker 1>about the intention. So you any everybody's like a like cooking,

1:12:35.920 --> 1:12:38.400
<v Speaker 1>like a recipe. Everybody got a different recipe. I can

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<v Speaker 1>give you a recipe for a spiritual bath, but you

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<v Speaker 1>can do your own little little thing. No, you could

1:12:44.640 --> 1:12:47.320
<v Speaker 1>do your own little thing. But it's the intention that

1:12:47.400 --> 1:12:50.360
<v Speaker 1>you put on what you're doing. Right, So I always

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<v Speaker 1>tell people don't order shit online, like go to the store.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the whole thing. So is it like the tanica?

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<v Speaker 1>Go there, get you put my.

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<v Speaker 3>Legs in the air, blow steam at like I saying,

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<v Speaker 3>even you can do the steam too.

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<v Speaker 1>You can start there, set your ass in the bathtub.

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<v Speaker 1>You might need to put a cap full of bleaching

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<v Speaker 1>that No, seriously, I don't need that. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>cap full of bleach. I'm serious, though, like, okay to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>About tell me.

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<v Speaker 3>Goodness. All right, I got one last question for you

1:13:33.680 --> 1:13:35.920
<v Speaker 3>guys before we get out of here. What would you

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<v Speaker 3>say your greatest regret is thus far.

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<v Speaker 1>Relationship wise? Is just overall?

1:13:43.120 --> 1:13:43.960
<v Speaker 3>Like over all?

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<v Speaker 4>I usually say, like, don't regret things you do, regret

1:13:49.400 --> 1:13:52.080
<v Speaker 4>things that you don't do. So it's hard for me

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<v Speaker 4>to like really answer that one, because like you living,

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<v Speaker 4>you learn without without doing something, you won't know what

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<v Speaker 4>to do forward, like yeah, fucked up that time, but

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<v Speaker 4>I know that the next time, or yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like so no regrets.

1:14:05.920 --> 1:14:12.559
<v Speaker 1>The regrets probably be repeated, probably be uh just doing

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<v Speaker 1>what you love.

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<v Speaker 2>Earlier in life.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like that retail world was like super

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<v Speaker 2>draining for me. Nothing they can't see know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it.

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<v Speaker 5>But cooking and cooking here like I can be like, okay,

1:14:24.120 --> 1:14:25.680
<v Speaker 5>I'm excited to get this.

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<v Speaker 3>That makes you happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want to say, I don't know I regret.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you don't have no regrets. That's that's excellent.

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<v Speaker 2>No regret.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean again, it's the experience thing to me, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>so I learned from that experience.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I don't regret that happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't regret that I did what I did or

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<v Speaker 4>messing up or you know whatever, because like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I learned from it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>So as much as I would want to say it,

1:14:52.320 --> 1:14:56.360
<v Speaker 4>you know, life is an ongoing cycle. I need a

1:14:56.360 --> 1:14:59.840
<v Speaker 4>complete specific projects in my life, and so therefore, at

1:14:59.840 --> 1:15:03.160
<v Speaker 4>this chapter, what happened happened, But the second chapter I

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<v Speaker 4>learned from it, so therefore it went better, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So I won't say any regrets.

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<v Speaker 3>What about you?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have any regrets these motherfucking niggas, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really have. I don't have regrets. You do learn from

1:15:22.000 --> 1:15:25.600
<v Speaker 1>every situation. I just wish, I wish I would have

1:15:25.680 --> 1:15:27.439
<v Speaker 1>learned a lesson and get the fuck up out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just like staying places too long, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. Like, so, we had young women on

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<v Speaker 1>an episode, and you know, don't stay in the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>place too long, you know what I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Saying, especially if you can go back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't stay in the wrong place too long

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, your relationships really shape your future, So

1:15:48.360 --> 1:15:50.320
<v Speaker 1>you want to make sure like you, even if it's

1:15:50.320 --> 1:15:53.880
<v Speaker 1>somebody you're dating, they add value. So even if y'all

1:15:53.920 --> 1:15:57.240
<v Speaker 1>stop talking, you still you can still remain friends. And

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<v Speaker 1>y'all you still see I got some I know some

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<v Speaker 1>real people, and some of them are probably smash that

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes at one point, but they're doing real good things

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<v Speaker 1>and then you can still have conversations. It's still connections,

1:16:09.560 --> 1:16:11.439
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, And not just everybody. I

1:16:11.439 --> 1:16:18.240
<v Speaker 1>didn't smash everybody. I'm just saying something she did. You

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<v Speaker 1>realize as friends, I'm talking about the deep relationships where

1:16:23.880 --> 1:16:25.519
<v Speaker 1>you know you need to have got the fuck up

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<v Speaker 1>out of there, get out of there sooner than.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you say, they similar regret in it, But.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't regret the relationship. I just regret, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>seeing the thing and not getting out of it sooner.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think only women calculate wasting time because we

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<v Speaker 1>literally have a clock, right, So men, y'all can always

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<v Speaker 1>get a younger woman once our good years are gone.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's all we gotta get. Listen, we got to

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<v Speaker 1>hit the cave and running as the team. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't really have a whole lot of time to waste,

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<v Speaker 1>so women calculate time different from men like men. Men

1:17:04.680 --> 1:17:07.240
<v Speaker 1>now consider a relationship with a woman a waste of time,

1:17:07.439 --> 1:17:10.439
<v Speaker 1>but were always telling men, oh, you waste my time.

1:17:10.600 --> 1:17:12.639
<v Speaker 1>But you know, really it was the experience and you

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<v Speaker 1>had to go through that thing to be who you are.

1:17:15.320 --> 1:17:21.880
<v Speaker 2>Now. Both spend time, so yeah, mutually.

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<v Speaker 3>So exactly right.

1:17:22.600 --> 1:17:25.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't think you went with it didn't work out right?

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<v Speaker 3>What's my biggest curgrant? Damn? I hate to admit this,

1:17:30.200 --> 1:17:33.400
<v Speaker 3>this is true though, that was one of but that's

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<v Speaker 3>not my biggest. My biggest hergret is mm. I'm gonna

1:17:41.479 --> 1:17:49.120
<v Speaker 3>say it. I wish I had learned to shut the

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<v Speaker 3>fuck up earlier, like with men like I wish I

1:17:52.520 --> 1:17:55.599
<v Speaker 3>had been so mauthy and I done lest some good

1:17:55.640 --> 1:17:59.080
<v Speaker 3>men pass me by, And here I am whatever age

1:17:59.120 --> 1:18:03.200
<v Speaker 3>I am without a husband. I don't know, my age

1:18:03.280 --> 1:18:10.120
<v Speaker 3>is fluid. But I wish I had learned to just

1:18:11.000 --> 1:18:14.520
<v Speaker 3>pick my battles more wisely and not be so combative

1:18:14.640 --> 1:18:19.680
<v Speaker 3>with men earlier in life. And I probably would be

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<v Speaker 3>somebody's wife right now had I not, I think I would,

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<v Speaker 3>And I've lest some very quality men pass me by

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<v Speaker 3>because of my mouth. Honestly, baby, I used to. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't anymore. Now I can't. I still can if I

1:18:39.320 --> 1:18:45.599
<v Speaker 3>want to, but I don't. Yeah, yeah, that part it

1:18:45.680 --> 1:18:48.559
<v Speaker 3>is in me. But I just learned, like everything ain't

1:18:48.560 --> 1:18:51.320
<v Speaker 3>worth a fight, Everything ain't worth a rebuttal.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, something you learn. I was talking about habitating early.

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<v Speaker 4>That's something you learn in those periods. Like if you

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<v Speaker 4>don't get that out before, then.

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<v Speaker 3>I was terrible. The nigga could be like, Serie, what

1:19:01.479 --> 1:19:04.800
<v Speaker 3>more motherfucking thing? And I'd be like, hmm, I would

1:19:04.840 --> 1:19:07.280
<v Speaker 3>find something to say, you know, just just always.

1:19:07.320 --> 1:19:12.519
<v Speaker 4>But now, so how do you fix that?

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<v Speaker 3>I just think I think growth and wisdom and getting

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<v Speaker 3>older and realizing that it ain't worth a fight, Like

1:19:17.120 --> 1:19:19.599
<v Speaker 3>what did I What did I gain from always having

1:19:19.640 --> 1:19:23.360
<v Speaker 3>something to say? What did I gain? Ain't say that,

1:19:24.920 --> 1:19:27.760
<v Speaker 3>But I'm just going to like be more conscious of

1:19:27.840 --> 1:19:31.240
<v Speaker 3>how I communicate, Like how I'm going to think about

1:19:31.400 --> 1:19:34.759
<v Speaker 3>how my words. What if someone said what I'm saying

1:19:34.800 --> 1:19:37.519
<v Speaker 3>to them to me, how would I take it? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>But you probably still say the things that you would

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<v Speaker 1>probably you would want to change how you singing them,

1:19:42.120 --> 1:19:44.639
<v Speaker 1>because I think that's the problem with that that black

1:19:44.680 --> 1:19:48.439
<v Speaker 1>men in particular have with black women. I was recently

1:19:48.520 --> 1:19:54.760
<v Speaker 1>watching that with Trump on the National Association of Black Journalists,

1:19:55.960 --> 1:19:58.720
<v Speaker 1>and somebody on the YouTube comment was like, because he

1:19:58.800 --> 1:20:02.360
<v Speaker 1>was up there, Trump with three black women, And the

1:20:02.439 --> 1:20:06.080
<v Speaker 1>dude in the comments was like, this is exactly how

1:20:06.120 --> 1:20:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel when black women talk to me, because it

1:20:09.040 --> 1:20:12.960
<v Speaker 1>wasn't it time, you know what I'm saying. So I understand,

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<v Speaker 1>like I I I understand, But it's how we say.

1:20:17.240 --> 1:20:17.800
<v Speaker 3>It's how we.

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<v Speaker 1>Say that, right, That's what I choosing to be happy.

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<v Speaker 4>You know. You think I'm old like you can It's

1:20:26.200 --> 1:20:27.760
<v Speaker 4>like you're like, I'm gonna take that from my mom.

1:20:28.000 --> 1:20:30.000
<v Speaker 4>You know, my mom typened me up, but you like

1:20:30.200 --> 1:20:32.760
<v Speaker 4>certainly ways like yo, like just you know, let me

1:20:32.800 --> 1:20:33.599
<v Speaker 4>bob a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want too much, you know.

1:20:35.560 --> 1:20:38.000
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like some men are literally sons of bitches.

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<v Speaker 1>So I dated somebody who had a real combative mom.

1:20:41.800 --> 1:20:44.800
<v Speaker 1>So I'm not like that. Right, So now your love

1:20:44.880 --> 1:20:47.200
<v Speaker 1>language is me cussing you out. So you're doing ship

1:20:47.600 --> 1:20:49.960
<v Speaker 1>to get cussed out because now we can make up

1:20:50.040 --> 1:20:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and now you feel loved.

1:20:51.400 --> 1:20:58.280
<v Speaker 3>People that people, Yes, yeah, that is, but that's definitely.

1:20:59.080 --> 1:21:03.679
<v Speaker 1>A lot of black men come from single black women.

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<v Speaker 1>Who were frustrated and angry and mad that they got

1:21:07.680 --> 1:21:10.000
<v Speaker 1>to deal with these kids and where is the man

1:21:11.080 --> 1:21:14.880
<v Speaker 1>daddy maybe and they don't know how to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's just crazy like dukes. But like I remember

1:21:18.200 --> 1:21:21.120
<v Speaker 4>my dad was incarcerated. It would be times like we'll

1:21:21.160 --> 1:21:22.680
<v Speaker 4>be cutting up the house and she'll kick us our

1:21:22.720 --> 1:21:25.760
<v Speaker 4>house like no locked the door and not know, like

1:21:25.840 --> 1:21:27.360
<v Speaker 4>not looking back at it. I'm like, damn, my mom

1:21:27.479 --> 1:21:28.960
<v Speaker 4>was really going through something, you know what I meaning?

1:21:28.960 --> 1:21:31.559
<v Speaker 4>So like some of that stuff she could have projected

1:21:31.560 --> 1:21:34.000
<v Speaker 4>on us in a way, like it could have made break.

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<v Speaker 2>It's three of y'all, so it's like it's one of

1:21:37.240 --> 1:21:37.639
<v Speaker 2>them things.

1:21:37.640 --> 1:21:39.640
<v Speaker 3>So and then here you come in here looking.

1:21:39.600 --> 1:21:40.160
<v Speaker 2>Just like you.

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<v Speaker 3>Wor yeah, get off.

1:21:44.720 --> 1:21:47.800
<v Speaker 2>My to it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, see where just a parent in general, it

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to be a mom or it could be

1:21:54.880 --> 1:21:56.800
<v Speaker 4>a dad to like sense of a parent fall on

1:21:56.840 --> 1:21:59.200
<v Speaker 4>the child. Some things that you might have went through

1:21:59.200 --> 1:22:00.760
<v Speaker 4>could have an effect job, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's it's best I.

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<v Speaker 4>Would say, have a clear mind and a lot of

1:22:04.200 --> 1:22:06.719
<v Speaker 4>that stuff and just try to raise them mutually.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm calling y'all mama's bitches. I'm just saying, though,

1:22:09.840 --> 1:22:12.559
<v Speaker 1>you know your mom was on your neck. We're not

1:22:13.640 --> 1:22:14.240
<v Speaker 1>that's on your neck.

1:22:15.120 --> 1:22:16.960
<v Speaker 3>We just call it as a collective.

1:22:17.560 --> 1:22:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Collectively, the bitches.

1:22:24.640 --> 1:22:25.040
<v Speaker 3>Creatures.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, So before we do have a segment

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<v Speaker 1>when we talked back, we got simp series for men. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you gotta tell us the time y'all got played

1:22:35.760 --> 1:22:37.599
<v Speaker 1>by a woman or whoever.

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<v Speaker 2>Real easy way to say this, but damn.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a situation in high school where I was

1:22:51.400 --> 1:22:53.960
<v Speaker 4>caught up she in't doing different things like that. So

1:22:54.000 --> 1:22:56.400
<v Speaker 4>I would say my experience came from carma with that

1:22:57.760 --> 1:23:00.680
<v Speaker 4>freshman year of college, like you know, I'm out of

1:23:00.680 --> 1:23:01.160
<v Speaker 4>here doing.

1:23:01.000 --> 1:23:02.800
<v Speaker 2>My own thing. I still got that relationship back home

1:23:02.800 --> 1:23:03.040
<v Speaker 2>in Mia.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in South Carolina and I'm doing me or whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>and the joint I was feeling like like I bought

1:23:10.160 --> 1:23:11.960
<v Speaker 4>some I feel like I've bought a bunch of shit

1:23:12.000 --> 1:23:14.759
<v Speaker 4>for valance. I was day all right, And I typically

1:23:14.760 --> 1:23:17.080
<v Speaker 4>don't do that for nobody, like yo, my mind something

1:23:17.080 --> 1:23:18.559
<v Speaker 4>for you fuck me, you know what I mean? So

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<v Speaker 4>I would say I did that, and at the end

1:23:21.360 --> 1:23:24.920
<v Speaker 4>of the night there was really not a situation and

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<v Speaker 4>not over that.

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<v Speaker 2>Not only that, it was like another situation at all.

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<v Speaker 2>It was crazy, right, So it was one of the

1:23:31.720 --> 1:23:33.519
<v Speaker 2>situations like damn, like what the fuck?

1:23:33.880 --> 1:23:36.400
<v Speaker 4>Meanwhile I'm cutting up on what was happening in Miami,

1:23:36.880 --> 1:23:38.880
<v Speaker 4>So like that was like my instant karma, Like yo,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm playing you down here doing what I'm doing in

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<v Speaker 4>f C and then I get played in that C

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<v Speaker 4>by somebody from VA and it was like fuck. It

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<v Speaker 4>was like damn that eventually happened, you know, it still happened,

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<v Speaker 4>but it didn't happen at that time. I just remember

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<v Speaker 4>myself looking at myself like, bro, I want to custs

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<v Speaker 4>this whole lot, you know what I mean. And it

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<v Speaker 4>was one of a situation like and it was key.

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<v Speaker 4>I did snap a little bit because it was it

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<v Speaker 4>was a dumb ass situation like it was. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>want to bring up a high school situation, but it

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<v Speaker 4>was like freshman of college, you still kind of on

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<v Speaker 4>them high school jit vobes, but you stepping into the world.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like, yo, I learned instantly that it's instant karma, Like, bro,

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<v Speaker 4>you it's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 2>And I felt like a sucker. I'm like I watch

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<v Speaker 2>you on this ship, and you know what, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>that was on them like it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>It did happen. But she got me, I got you. Dang. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this thing from Charleston for real went war hopping. That's

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<v Speaker 2>all that she was kind of feeling me a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was it was just for the dreams, That's

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<v Speaker 2>all I'm gonna say. It was time to go, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it was like we just went separate ways and.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I was gonna get something that ain't that bad,

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<v Speaker 3>like you just but I.

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<v Speaker 5>Guess like I came up different lane on circle like,

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<v Speaker 5>so I'm gonna see it before it happened in that aspect,

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<v Speaker 5>but I wish I would have saw that.

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<v Speaker 3>So what you were anticipating that the drinks was gonna

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<v Speaker 3>get you something?

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<v Speaker 2>Talked about what it was. I just meant like I

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<v Speaker 2>came to Charleston for this, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh damn.

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<v Speaker 3>So the conversation was like, oh, it's going down and

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<v Speaker 3>I see yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then so did she even let you come back

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<v Speaker 1>to the crib or you had to go back.

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<v Speaker 5>And somebody driving you drive let nobody follow you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just straight lost to you on the highway.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Wow, Tokyo, drip your ass.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I feel you.

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<v Speaker 1>God damn, I feel you.

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<v Speaker 3>Getaway driving y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say this, y'all are different down in Chawston,

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<v Speaker 4>like me being from Florida and like coming up here

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<v Speaker 4>Carolina different. You know, he got his different Like Chaunton

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<v Speaker 4>is really good. You can tell that was like throwbacks, man,

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<v Speaker 4>I messed with it.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, thank you, guys, this was fun.

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