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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: Talk Talk Talk.

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Speaker 3: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: you dreamers and chasers. But I don't chase shit, not

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Speaker 1: even my liqua. You know. This is your co host,

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Speaker 1: AJ Holiday two point Oh, what's up, tam Bam.

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Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, it's tam Vaan. I love y'all. I love

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Speaker 3: you to AJ. How you doing well?

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Speaker 1: You see how big these cities?

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Speaker 3: That's what I was saying.

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Speaker 1: You couldn't hear me. I never realized this talk make

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Speaker 1: my titties look that big. But listen to episode for

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Speaker 1: this week, y'all. Obviously it's pre recorded. Why am I?

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Speaker 1: You can see my whole nip Ninny ninny Yeah, and y'all,

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Speaker 1: so we say nanny. You can see my whole nanny

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Speaker 1: in that video the whole.

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Speaker 3: The whole time, this nipple and Jordan ain't say ship.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna put some sunglasses on them, like a

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Speaker 1: little MODI sunglass.

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Speaker 3: Them so we can get our views up girl.

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Speaker 1: I look like Mama Titties, like Mama tad exactly my

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Speaker 1: little mils. I'm a milk kids. Shall I do much

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Speaker 1: and nothing?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Work a little bit on the stuff. And what did

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Speaker 1: I really do this weekend? I don't think I did

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Speaker 1: ship like for real? No, not too much, not too much,

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Speaker 1: not too much.

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Speaker 3: I went One of my best friends had her twins'

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Speaker 3: first birthday. Baby would have thought this was roomy and

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Speaker 3: sir birthday. It was like she rented out this whole

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Speaker 3: petting zoo. And how she had it decorated. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: it was like the most beautiful thing I had ever seen.

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Speaker 1: She had all those nice balloons, nice balloons.

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Speaker 3: It was like flowers. She had like flowers hanging from

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Speaker 3: the trees. She had a blue carpet. She had like

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Speaker 3: a big old entry sign that says daily and DJ's

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Speaker 3: circuits like they turned one. They'll never remember any of them.

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Speaker 1: That's for everybody else.

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Speaker 3: The party mom right, people walking on stilt walkers and

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Speaker 3: like acrobatics, and they had like a girl.

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Speaker 1: It was I don't want to have a baby. If

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Speaker 1: I can't have a baby like that, so good.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was like, I ain't never had a party

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Speaker 3: for my grown self. This familyous okay, they were so cute.

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Speaker 3: They looked so cute. So that was Sunday and after

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Speaker 3: the party, she had rented the airbnb for all her

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Speaker 3: friends and family that came from out of town. So

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Speaker 3: I went to the Airbnb and we you know, drinking

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Speaker 3: at the Botto pool. I got pushed in the pool.

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Speaker 3: Look at my head. I got put what is wrong

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Speaker 3: with people pushing people in the pool.

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Speaker 1: That's dangerous. No horse playing around the pool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was drunk. They said I fell in slow

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Speaker 3: motion like I was deciding if I weren't. I was

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Speaker 3: trying to balanced. Bitch, can you swim?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah, did they ask you if you can

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Speaker 1: swim before they had?

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Speaker 3: I was it?

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Speaker 1: Was it three foot?

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Speaker 3: It was no, it was deep. But I was already

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Speaker 3: in the pool. So I was coming out of the pool.

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Speaker 3: And but I was like waiting in the pool, like

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Speaker 3: I wasn't getting my hair wet, and I had it like,

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Speaker 3: you know, tied up on the top of my head.

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Speaker 3: So when I got pushed in, obviously I went under

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Speaker 3: and my hair got wet. So I was mad.

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Speaker 1: Them dreads be heavy as tail too.

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Speaker 3: When they're coming out of Mars over shame.

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Speaker 1: No horse playing at the pool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I made that bitch. I made that bitch. Go

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Speaker 3: get a blow dry and plug it up outside and

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Speaker 3: drive my roots sha Yeah, but that was my weekend.

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Speaker 3: Let's getting this in. What the hell? What the hell?

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Speaker 1: What the hell? All that's stupid internet news. So we uh,

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Speaker 1: who's on the docket first up? Please take all them?

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Speaker 1: So beyond say Beyonce is not on the fucking docket.

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Speaker 1: What Beyonce did?

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Speaker 3: Beyonce? Well, actually she ain't do shit, but my her

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Speaker 3: bees and everybody else was talking about Beyonce. What's going uh?

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Speaker 3: To the DNC right on Thursday, yes, August twenty second,

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Speaker 3: and she was gonna perform and freedom, Freedom, freedom everybody.

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Speaker 3: I was waiting and.

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Speaker 1: She she wasn't coming.

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Speaker 3: Which I'm at home drinking whiskey, drinking my whiskey that's

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Speaker 3: about to come out, That's what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: I know she wasn't coming. I don't think that the

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Speaker 1: card are fucking with politics right now. They haven't really

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Speaker 1: endorsed the presidential candidate since since Obama. And if this

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Speaker 1: is what y'all niggas need to decide, who y'all voting for?

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Speaker 1: Y'all already fucking lost. Y'all need Beyonce to co sign? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's your what y'all doing? So I already knew Beyonce

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Speaker 1: was coming. It was kind of weird even when I

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Speaker 1: started seeing the headlines about her supposedly supposed to support perform,

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Speaker 1: because nobody was sure anyway, And why would it be

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Speaker 1: a secret if she was going to be performing, Like,

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Speaker 1: Beyonce is a regular fucking person. Man, she is man,

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Speaker 1: that is regular, Okay. She takes all shits just.

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Speaker 3: Like she was watching, like I'm waiting to see who

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Speaker 3: coming out, right, So, it says.

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Speaker 1: The twenty twenty four Democratic National Convention saw its fair

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Speaker 1: share of buzz, but one rumor that circulated was that

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Speaker 1: Beyonce wouldn't make a surprise appearance on the final night.

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Speaker 1: The speculation, however, was unfounded, it says Ricky Kirshner and

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Speaker 1: Glenn Weise, the executive producer and director of the convention,

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Speaker 1: addressed to president rumor no excuse me. Addressed a persistent rumor.

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Speaker 1: In a recent interview, Ricky told Hollywood reporter, we never

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Speaker 1: put anything about Beyonce. We denied every time the media

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Speaker 1: asked about it, even though, by the way, people on

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Speaker 1: my staff didn't believe me. I kept getting text from

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Speaker 1: news organizations saying, when is Beyonce coming out? But come on,

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Speaker 1: we have the biggest star, the Democratic nominee of nominee

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Speaker 1: for president. Why would we overshadow that? So y'all thought

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Speaker 1: y'all think b was going to overshadow.

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Speaker 3: Kamala? Yes, she definitely would have, you know, like so Ya.

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Speaker 1: Had other people performed so that other people didn't overshadow her. No, girl,

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Speaker 1: y'all put y'all have it to take these people off pedestals.

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Speaker 1: That's why y'all be so disappointed when shit be going

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Speaker 1: down with them. These be regular motherfucking people with a

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Speaker 3: Who is y'all? I ain't really cared about nobody like

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Speaker 3: I did feel the energy when Nipsey Hustle died. I

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Speaker 3: felt it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I was just talking about Nipsey today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But and then when MJ died I felt that. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Typically I don't be like, I don't really fan girl

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Speaker 3: too crazy. They do just be regular with people, and

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Speaker 3: they sometimes you meet somebody who you think is just

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Speaker 3: like extraordinary in their birthstink, and then you realize they're

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Speaker 3: just a regular motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: To check their gut health. That part Beyonce said he

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Speaker 1: was she was never going to be there. Okay, y'all

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Speaker 1: lost it. Y'all lost it. Shout out to Beyonce, stay

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Speaker 1: out this mess. This is about the most mess.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait for her whiskey to come out. You

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Speaker 3: buy it? Yeah, by it, I'm good. I'm going for it.

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Speaker 1: Y'all. Keep buying all them spirits, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Not you with the Costco spirit, won't support be honest.

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Speaker 1: Nope, I trust Costco more.

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Speaker 3: And watch it be at Costco.

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Speaker 1: At Costco we trust. Okay, y'all. First of all, y'all

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Speaker 1: ain't grown until you get a Dicon in a Costco card.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all know that or not. But

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Speaker 1: y'all can walk around here like y'all grown because y'all

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Speaker 1: got kids in all type of shit. But if you

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Speaker 1: don't have a Dyson in a Costco card, you a little.

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Speaker 3: Bitty bitch bitty because I got neither one of those.

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Speaker 1: Okay, y'all. This happens a lot in the Black family.

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Speaker 1: I believe what's up next on the dock, and it's

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Speaker 1: very sad, so it says Craig Max family reveals he

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Speaker 1: died of untreated HIV slash AIDS complications, claiming they said

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Speaker 1: it was heart failure to honor his privacy wishes, so

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Speaker 1: he wanted his family to keep it a secret exactly.

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Speaker 1: He you know, was sick. So apparently he actually passed

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Speaker 1: and it was on his death certificate. Actually, TMZ Nosey

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Speaker 1: Asses said his death certificate actually said, you know, complications

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Speaker 1: from HIV and AIDS. And I know people who have

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Speaker 1: passed away and the family always be saying cancer or

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Speaker 1: my daddy call it a broken heart.

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Speaker 3: When I tell you.

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Speaker 1: It's like pulling teeth and nails, like trying to get

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Speaker 1: the cause of death out of black people about their

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Speaker 1: loved ones.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy, But I think if his privacy wishes

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Speaker 3: word to keep it as a heart failure, then why

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Speaker 3: are y'all telling it now? I'm just confused as to

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Speaker 3: what that's about. Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 1: I saw him on an interview like when he was

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Speaker 1: kind of you know, looking sick, and you can kind

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Speaker 1: of tell, you know, what I'm saying. People will be

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Speaker 1: you know, they act like you're making it up when

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Speaker 1: you ask, Like, damn, he's sick because you know he's sick.

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Speaker 1: What black people means do he got that ship right oftentimes,

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Speaker 1: but he looked like that. You know they get the

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Speaker 1: fine hair. But also with cancer, when people go through chemo,

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Speaker 1: their hair start getting fine and curly. But that's how

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Speaker 3: And that's unfortunate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's sad. They should have continued to respect his wishes,

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Speaker 1: Like what why why just stop black people be cloud

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Speaker 1: chasing man?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, clout chasing.

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Speaker 1: That's terrible. I would have never Yeah, man, let that

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Speaker 1: man rest in peace.

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Speaker 3: Mm.

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Speaker 1: That business did not pay them, No, it didn't pay them.

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Speaker 3: And other business that don't pay Judge Matthew's wife fould

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Speaker 3: divorce for him.

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Speaker 1: Now that business might pay. Bitch don't pay his money.

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Speaker 3: But after thirty nine years file for divorce from Judge Mathis.

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Speaker 3: It's crackish to me, That's all I'm saying that what

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Speaker 3: he says.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of cast somebody a damn crackhead. He

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Speaker 1: might've been smoking crack. Why she wanted to get divorced. No,

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Speaker 1: Judge Mathis, I like Judge Mathis man, thirty nine years,

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Speaker 1: that's a long ass time to call it quits. Man

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Speaker 1: like y'all could just live together and be in separate houses.

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Speaker 1: Maybe somebody got some tax issues or something, right, I

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Speaker 1: would like to think that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: After thirty nine years, I ain't getting divorced. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be a widow before I ever divorced.

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Speaker 1: You know, I always be telling my mom, I don't

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Speaker 1: give a fuck if I'm a hundred, if I'm unhappy,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting the fuck up out of there. And I

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Speaker 1: kind of mean that, but it just depends on like

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Speaker 1: where I'm at in life. Really, like thirty nine years,

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Speaker 1: you guys have probably accumulated all types of shit together,

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Speaker 1: you know, house home kids. Do you have kids? I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure.

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Speaker 3: Who want to be outside after thirty nine years? Men?

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Speaker 1: Men, men don't want to be outside. And she probably

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Speaker 1: hided that ship because I know, judge matthis probably be outside. Okay,

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Speaker 1: probably been out be outside. You always hear that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Thirty nine years, they might not have one. They was

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Speaker 1: Now I'm born June nineteen eighty four. These people have

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Speaker 3: Mm, as long as you've been alive. They've been in

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Speaker 3: What plan diabolical?

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Speaker 1: What plan you may.

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Speaker 3: It's probably your work fantasy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, these people are dangerous and these black men stay

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Speaker 3: This is like, like, so, I wonder if you if

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Speaker 3: It is so yet again.

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Speaker 3: Listen. I don't have no problem with people dating who

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Speaker 3: and don't you.

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Speaker 1: Under the no donkey other day when we talked back,

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Speaker 1: Rme like, y'all, I'm sick of y'all, stay your ass

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Speaker 3: Them slitting your eyebrows trying to wild out.

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Speaker 1: And we know those other women like you know. I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying none of the sisters don't go for that

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Speaker 3: Score fighting the pool.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to see that video we too.

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Speaker 3: I hope somebody put it on ex videos at.

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Speaker 1: Some point, like to pay for them legal fees. They

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Speaker 3: And then she'll then she'll have a case then, so

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Speaker 3: leave it alone.

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Speaker 1: Shame.

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Speaker 3: So what's our episode today, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So naddi I was about to say, speaking to

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Speaker 1: So we're back, and we do have some lovely guests.

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Speaker 1: When we talked back this week, we got Jay Fresh

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Speaker 3: The PD Helenkat South Carolina. Don't play with it, hemen.

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Speaker 1: How y'all doing today? Bob, Bob, I'm chilling introduce yourself

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Speaker 1: to our guest. What the waterfuck do? I keep saying that?

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Speaker 1: Introduce y'allself yourself to turn our audio?

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Speaker 2: How's everybody doing? My name is Jay Freshaw.

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Speaker 4: I'm hopping a three point nine ninety three point nine

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Speaker 4: Monday through Friday, seven to eleven night show.

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Speaker 2: Check me out three or five today? Though three represent

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Speaker 2: we do? Oh what's up? And I'm John John. I'm

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Speaker 2: a little less famous than him, but I'm a ball

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Speaker 2: Brandon chef man rock with me.

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Speaker 3: Oh you can cook? Oh? Want you be cooking anything?

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Speaker 3: What's your specialty? Like when you turn in person? Woman?

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Speaker 3: What you're gonna make for her?

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Speaker 2: Woman like that?

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Speaker 3: I don't like seafood, Like if she's a seafood girl.

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Speaker 2: Everybody loved pasta. Just depends on what you do with it.

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Speaker 2: That'll be it. So I'll figure out what she liked.

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Speaker 1: Then from okay, okay, what type of fish you be cooking?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm tired of seeing salmon people be rolling the salmon.

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Speaker 3: For I love salmon, do so much with it. Ye,

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Speaker 3: Tilapia used to be the ship, remember when you was Like.

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Speaker 1: When it first came out and.

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Speaker 3: With Tilapia dropped, there was the ship.

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Speaker 2: Great, one of the best fishes you can get.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that.

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Speaker 2: Is great.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's get on topic. Why did you why

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Speaker 1: I wanted to have a conversation with men, right because

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Speaker 3: Very female related.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, one married gentlemen. So Jay Fresh is a

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Speaker 2: It's coming up on six years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's been married for six years.

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Speaker 2: You got kids? Yes, I have two kids.

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Speaker 3: And your beer looked very moisturized. I feel like your

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Speaker 3: wife has something to do with that. But we'll get

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Speaker 3: I'm very sad.

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Speaker 1: We got John John. John John is a single man.

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Speaker 3: He outside?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you actively outside.

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Speaker 2: Every now and then?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I've been outside for how are you?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 3: I no, I don't play that game.

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm thirty six thirty seven.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I do know you're thirty eight. Okay,

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Speaker 3: black don't crack. So that's why I don't play with

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Speaker 1: They know that. It's the running joke that everybody know.

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Speaker 1: They look at old.

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Speaker 3: All right. I put this weird question, and I want

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Speaker 3: do you think about your wife?

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Speaker 1: Hm?

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Speaker 3: Hmm.

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Speaker 2: I would say I can't put a finger on it.

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Speaker 4: I would say, you get random thoughts you might think

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Speaker 4: Or you might think about how was your day? And

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Speaker 4: what were eating tonight?

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Speaker 3: You know, So I will say, if you could put

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00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 3: a number on it, I'll say ten, ten times a day?

439
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 3: How many times a day do you think about sex?

440
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: Look, he's married. I don't think married many.

441
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 2: Things, but that's part of it.

442
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 3: I was going to ask him that too. I was

443
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 3: gonna come back to him five times a day. That's

444
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: fair morning.

445
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 2: It's a man like So you know, can I hit

446
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: it in the morning, that's like a bib on so morning, I.

447
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 4: Will say for sure, for sure. Afternoon, maybe at the workout, definitely.

448
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 4: And then sometimes you know, if you get into bed

449
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 4: earlier than the day or early in the night, excuse me,

450
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 4: you know you might rock that to you know, it depends.

451
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 4: So like three, I would say three, three to four.

452
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 4: It depends on what's going on that day. Having kids,

453
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,640
Speaker 4: I will say, has changed.

454
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 2: That before that university you think about it.

455
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 4: I mean, it could be random thoughts, but if I

456
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 4: had to pick, I would say three three four.

457
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,719
Speaker 3: So is it fair to say that once you're married,

458
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 3: you think of sex less than when you're single.

459
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 2: Hell no, I.

460
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: Think it's the same with God.

461
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I feel like you're gonna you're gonna

462
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 4: always You're gonna always feel that no matter what.

463
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

464
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 4: So I won't say it's less. I just will say, like,

465
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 4: it depends on what you got going on. Like I

466
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 4: said before, kids, I feel like, yeah, shit all the time,

467
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Like you try to avoid

468
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 4: random thoughts, especially when you're married, you know what I mean.

469
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 2: So like in that case, I would say that.

470
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 3: So have y'all ever seen the movie I Think I

471
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 3: loved my wife with Curse her up and the wife

472
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 3: she was like, I can't wait till you get home.

473
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,199
Speaker 3: I want to suck your dick. And then after they

474
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 3: got married, she was like, I can't wait till you

475
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 3: get home. I want you to see these drapes. Like

476
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 3: it just changed. That's the fact it just changed.

477
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 4: So I would say this, you have to find a

478
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 4: way to make sure you don't forget about how you

479
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:32,239
Speaker 4: got them.

480
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 2: You know how you get them and how you keep

481
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 2: them right.

482
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 4: So definitely, if we started off we were want to

483
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 4: freaky stuff, we talking about this and then we're talking

484
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 4: about that. Drapes are great, you know, that's cool. Generations great,

485
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 4: stuff with the kids is great, but never forget how

486
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 4: you got your man rekindling those rekindling those same things

487
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 4: that made you love them before. So yeah, that's cool

488
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 4: that happens the drapes, but I would definitely say I

489
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 4: don't forget.

490
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 3: See that's the scary part though. I just feel like

491
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 3: I see a lot of people who get me married

492
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 3: and they like lose that passion for their partner and

493
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 3: they start becoming more like brother and sister than husband

494
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: and watching.

495
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,959
Speaker 1: I already want to my own bedroom and bathroom when

496
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: I get.

497
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: There and you ain't even marry it. I want my

498
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 3: own bathroom.

499
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: Bathroom for sure, and appointments to sleep in my room

500
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: because I have the appointment and sleep in your rooms.

501
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 4: Linen, I will say this, you got to have your space.

502
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 4: You know, if you did you before, I did me before,

503
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 4: you gotta have your space.

504
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 2: That's the balance. That's actually what makes I feel like.

505
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 4: We'll make a marriage work if you know each other,

506
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 4: that to that point where it's like, yo, I know

507
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 4: you need your space right now. Shit, I might want

508
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 4: to play the game I might want to do something else,

509
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 4: you know, so you gotta have that space. You might

510
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 4: want to watch some show that I do not want

511
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 4: to watch. Give you your space and that way when

512
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 4: you do connect this kind of like you got you.

513
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 4: You talk about mommy Tom and.

514
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: So women Men typically give women access to marriage and

515
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 3: not the way other way around. Why would you say

516
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 3: that you're not married at thirty eight?

517
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 2: Honestly, let me just say I funneled a bad a

518
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 2: good opportunity.

519
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 3: Oh you let one get away?

520
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: Is she married?

521
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 2: Now?

522
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 3: So if you could talk to her right now, look

523
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 3: into that camera and tell.

524
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 1: Her what you what you would say to her married?

525
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 2: That's it?

526
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 3: You just say, you fumble her. Is she not married?

527
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you want to say more?

528
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 1: She got a baby with somebody?

529
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 2: Now we talked about it. We talked about it that

530
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: we and we moved crafted.

531
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 3: So it's just not gonna ever happen. I don't think

532
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. It's kind of said, do you feel a scorpion?

533
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 3: How old were you when you lay? This happened yesterday?

534
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: No? I mean I exact age. They say early thirties,

535
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 2: So it's been a minute time.

536
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: As you wait something years.

537
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say all of them was wasted.

538
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 5: But let's just say we we was bagging forth interacting probably.

539
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:16,479
Speaker 3: Ten ten years. I'm sorry, my sister.

540
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: So, as a married man, advice for women, how long

541
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: should they wait on a man and be ready? How

542
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: long should they wait to get a ring for a man?

543
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 4: I would say, don't put pressure on him at all,

544
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 4: you know, like like let him do him, you know,

545
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 4: because I feel like if he chooses to do that,

546
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: if they ain't ready, you know, if he choose to

547
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 4: do that, the most likely he's ready to make sure

548
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 4: that like, yo, you're the only person I want to

549
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 4: be with and I want to be with you forever.

550
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 2: You know. So if you put that pressure on him,

551
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 2: it might make him.

552
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 4: It might make him, let's say, relapse into like old habits.

553
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 4: It could make him second guess xyz that might be

554
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 4: going on.

555
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 2: You know.

556
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say put pressure on it, you know, if

557
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 4: you know, you know, like, hey, I feel the way

558
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 4: I feel about you, you feel way you feel about me,

559
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 4: that at some point you know what's coming. But I'll

560
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 4: still say not pressure. Maybe ring shopping, maybe that that's

561
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 4: like the extent, But I.

562
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: Would say that's that's pressure.

563
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 3: That's pressure.

564
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: Pressure, Like it's just like you just say, oh, that

565
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: is a I got engaged somebody. I was engaged, right,

566
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: and he didn't know my ring size. He really didn't

567
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,479
Speaker 1: know what I like. He went and bought what he liked, right,

568
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: and it wasn't a bad ring, right, It wasn't bad.

569
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't what I liked. So I would have liked

570
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: to had.

571
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 3: A like he should have communicated with one of your

572
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 3: friends or something.

573
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 4: You know, I'll say it's indirect pressure, especially when you

574
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 4: like cohabitating, you know what I'm saying, Like if you're chilling,

575
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 4: you know, you go to different family events and that

576
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 4: like it might somebody might say it before she says it,

577
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 4: but I would still say for her, don't don't pressure them,

578
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 4: just like let him, let him figure it out, like

579
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 4: usually they would figure it out eventually.

580
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: I would ship me.

581
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 3: He said he had that girl for ten years and

582
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 3: they proposed to what you said.

583
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 2: Off and on we deal with each other.

584
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 7: That lines I had nobody.

585
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you gather up, Sorry, don't do that.

586
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I feel like that'll be they're ready to

587
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 4: do it, you know, but you can't. You can't personal

588
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 4: because again it's sometimes it's just what does it flight

589
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 4: or fight like? People might rebel against that and you

590
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 4: don't know how to. It could be relapsing into a situationship.

591
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 4: It couldn't be finding new situationships.

592
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 3: Could be So you don't think men need that pressure,

593
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 3: just a little bit, just that little.

594
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: I would say. Again, family might do that indirectly too.

595
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 2: You might be at an event, they might do that.

596
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 4: I would say, let it come from that more so

597
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 4: than anything else, because if you have respect for that

598
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 4: person's family, you have respect for them, you could see

599
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 4: a lot you at times when you're dealing let's say

600
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 4: little multiple people. Right, you're gonna find the best quality

601
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 4: that you like in that particular person, and you're gonna

602
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 4: choose to be with that particular person. So when you

603
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 4: do that, you know you have a sense that they

604
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 4: maybe one day I would marry this person.

605
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: You know, you look for that.

606
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 3: What was the thing that your wife had.

607
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 4: Out of everybody that was a tough one. I would

608
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 4: say we were more like friends first. It was times

609
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,239
Speaker 4: she would put me on girls like it was.

610
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: It goes back.

611
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 4: We our friendship goes back that deep to where when

612
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 4: we did decide to talk, it was like, yo, you're

613
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 4: my dog at the end of the day, you know

614
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. And so now us being married and

615
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 4: us being parents, like we cheated out just like yo,

616
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 4: hey you my dog. You don't even know they have

617
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 4: the ship we done did together. And so I feel

618
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 4: like them stories will help or they would be they

619
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 4: would love the side of marriage based off of those stories,

620
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: Like I don't see my parents go through a lot

621
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 4: of shit, you know, like marriagees is working still, marriag Yeah,

622
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 4: they just actually just hit seven years.

623
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 2: Just they just hit thirty seven years on longer stories,

624
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 2: so you know, so like but in that time, you know,

625
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: I've seen all types of shit, all types of shit.

626
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 2: So marriage to work. You know, marriage is working. You

627
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 2: got to kind of go on to do with the mindset,

628
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 2: like yo're really ready for this shit? You know.

629
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 3: Does your wife come from a single parent home.

630
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 4: Or a I would say in a way, it was,

631
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 4: but she has a father that was in her life.

632
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 4: Her dad was in life as well, so she has

633
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 4: two fathers. So it's a little bit different from mine.

634
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 4: Like I said, my parents have been married thirty few years.

635
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 4: Her parents have been married a little bit less than that.

636
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 4: But at the same time.

637
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: She always had a father.

638
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: She did have a father.

639
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 4: Figure, but I ain't a lot to raising like JITs

640
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 4: kids together. You see different parents in office, you see

641
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 4: like yo, what you came from, and even coming together

642
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 4: sometimes you're like yo. Like That's why I feel like

643
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 4: that cohabitation part before getting married is super vital because

644
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 4: you get to know that person. You get to know

645
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 4: what you like, what you don't like. Also, you get

646
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 4: to know, like how you use raised. You might say

647
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to clean up. I just clean up

648
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 4: when I'm ready, you know. Or it might be a

649
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 4: situation where you wake up every Saturday morning you clean

650
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 4: it up like it's it's different things. You will find

651
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 4: out that you liked about the person, and it's also

652
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 4: different things. You will find out that you you grew

653
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 4: up different that particular person. So just getting used to that,

654
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 4: the coappetation parts, I feel like before you get married.

655
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: So who was your family dynamic? Did you are your

656
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: parents married?

657
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: Okay, my father was around though I would only say

658
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: that to us, but you know, single mom, uh work

659
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 2: a lot. That was kind of my bringing.

660
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 5: But I mean I still had family she had, I

661
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 5: mean full sisters cousins on our dad's side, that wasn't far.

662
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 2: But other than that, like parent house or more single

663
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 2: mind yet m interesting.

664
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 3: I mean, I think that's common for if you were

665
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 3: grew up in the eighties, you.

666
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: Know, like you can come from a single I would say,

667
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: my mom was a single married woman for a long

668
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 1: time and then it went to being a single parent.

669
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 4: So my mom definitely was single married a few times

670
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 4: in the relationship. I would say I learned from that.

671
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 4: But I was around them all a lot social in

672
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 4: those days, you know. So yeah, I would say that.

673
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 3: Do you want to be married? Okay, but right now

674
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 3: you enjoy outside or do do you feel like because

675
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 3: sometimes I'd be like, I'm outside beach, we outside the night,

676
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 3: and then when I get home, I'll be like, lord,

677
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: it be so body like, like I really need that.

678
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: I mean outside, I said at my age.

679
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: Anyway, you know what I'm saying, Outside you've been out there?

680
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely one day old the world. That's a beautiful talent.

681
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: So social media is a part of all our lives.

682
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: See you see these people online saying how men don't

683
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: really benefit from marriage as a married man, do you

684
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:49,760
Speaker 1: think that's true. Or do men benefit actually more from marriage?

685
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: I was I would say more than the woman.

686
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, does the men benefit more than the women all

687
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: of them? Depends on how you look at it.

688
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 4: I feel like, if you find that person that you

689
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 4: that you love, y'all can build together, you know, and

690
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 4: at that particular point, Like I saw this story the

691
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 4: other day on this TV show where I'm saying wrong

692
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 4: place for the Detroit Lions. His dad was saying women

693
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 4: are like dream killers, right, And it was a situation

694
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 4: where it's like, sometimes if you're focused on a certain thing,

695
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 4: maybe it could if you let it.

696
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: But I would say it depends on the person. You know.

697
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: Being married, it can motivate you do want to do better.

698
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 2: It can motivate you do want to do more.

699
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 4: Also, being single, I feel like you might be more

700
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 4: focused and not worried about certain things that come with

701
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 4: being a relationship because you know, a lot comes of

702
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 4: being in a relationship and a lot comes of being married,

703
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 4: you know.

704
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 2: So I would say it depends on the person.

705
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 3: As far as that, well, statistics show that married men

706
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 3: live longer than men who are single.

707
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's a good thing to go home

708
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: it be all I got to get paid to be

709
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: like that.

710
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 4: I'm chilling at like I'm violent, you know, But then

711
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 4: you get to murger sometimes like I want to go outside.

712
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 4: I took a shot at the crib downstairs. She upstairs

713
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 4: and she she chilling. I'm gonna hit the club, you know.

714
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 2: Sometimes you you know, you gotta have that you just.

715
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 3: Be wanting to see if you still got it.

716
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: I won't say that. I would just say, like, you know.

717
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: Let me ask you, and you and your homeboys get

718
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 3: a section and y'all gonna invite random girls into the section.

719
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 3: Y'all just gonna be in there and looking like some

720
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 3: dummies by yourself.

721
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 2: It happens, you know, people sometimes people want to just

722
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 2: drink some of the ship. You guys, you don't have

723
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: all dumb I.

724
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 3: Was why you got to Yeah, like I would be out,

725
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,879
Speaker 3: like I think it's weird for a bunch of men

726
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 3: to be in the section in the club that is together.

727
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 3: All the gay guys got a section over there, crazy

728
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 3: and being.

729
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 4: Look being being brother. Sometimes I feel like, yo, hey

730
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 4: you got your vibes together. But in the same time,

731
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 4: if you're out and about the bobs and we we

732
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 4: we through cookouts, and that's the same vibe. It's no

733
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 4: different than it was.

734
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 3: So your wife would be okay if you had a

735
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 3: section and y'all invited girls into the section.

736
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: I feel like she would be because she knows like

737
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 2: she knows me.

738
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 3: I'm yeah, I would be okay with it as a wife,

739
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 3: because don't I don't want my nigga being out there said,

740
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 3: look at it, stupid.

741
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 2: You got to have your You gotta have your time.

742
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 4: You gotta have your meet talk like I ain't when

743
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 4: you go to brunch and you get no emotions because

744
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 4: you're gonna come back home and it's gonna be it's

745
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 4: gonna be. Do you like I'm a boby of the

746
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 4: crib and it's like we switch out, like I might go,

747
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 4: do me go? Do you know I get that balance

748
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 4: helps you know if you don't have that balance, you

749
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 4: know she got that way?

750
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 3: All right. I want you to rank this in order

751
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 3: of the value to you. Okay, So it's money, career, family, fitness,

752
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:53,760
Speaker 3: health hobbies, money career, family.

753
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:54,879
Speaker 1: That's too much.

754
00:38:55,760 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 3: It's not. It's money, career, family, fitness, hobbies. I said

755
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 3: health and hobbies, but we're putting fitness and health as one.

756
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm gonna say family first.

757
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: I'm big on family.

758
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 3: Hm.

759
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 4: It's funny because one of the my favorite animals to

760
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 4: kill a will. You know that's a family into it,

761
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 4: like a family centered animal, you know what I mean?

762
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 4: Like the Traveling Facts for life. But families first.

763
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 2: For sure.

764
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 4: I want to say money, but I'm gonna say health.

765
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 4: Hell gotta be second. You know you can't enjoy them money.

766
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 4: If you know, I would say, uh, definitely, hell second. Money,

767
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 4: What was it?

768
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: What was the other?

769
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 3: It was money and career we'll keep We'll make those one.

770
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 4: All right, Money and career. You got to support the

771
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 4: things you want to do, like, hey, we want to

772
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 4: go to Ruber tomorrow. You know we want to do this.

773
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 4: Money helps, you know, what's hobbies?

774
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 2: Hobbies?

775
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 4: Damn, hobbies can come last because you could. It's a

776
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 4: thing at being with somebody, like I feel like y'all

777
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 4: can join and love the same hobbies. Like you might

778
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 4: like something different. I'm like something different, but we might

779
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 4: eventually like that together, like y'all seen the X.

780
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 1: Men and.

781
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 2: Dip movie.

782
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: Not yet, but I like excellent.

783
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 4: She likes Marvel right, but in a way like she

784
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 4: went because you know, but she enjoyed the movie when

785
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 4: she went So it's kind of like or I might

786
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 4: go to some I ain't want whatever ship, but oh

787
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 4: this was actually dopel girl.

788
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 3: What you're doing today? Girl? Doing this nerdy ass ship

789
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 3: with my hands?

790
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 2: Fine?

791
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 4: When they love the saying ship you love is doing

792
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 4: and then like I like from the jit perspective, like

793
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 4: our kids like she is she a cowboy fan again,

794
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,919
Speaker 4: I'm born in bread day kind of three all day

795
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 4: right when they come to Miami Dolphins, Like, my daughter

796
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 4: loves the dolphins and so like seeing that is like, yo,

797
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 4: the ship I love you love too, you know, but

798
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 4: at the same time our kids love it.

799
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 3: Too, So she probably loves dolphins, you know, like with

800
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 3: this team because it's they're cute.

801
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 4: We got a cowboy fan on the counts, right, so

802
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 4: you know dolphins Listen, she will singing the song.

803
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,919
Speaker 2: Bro, She'll get her hat, She'll get the hat. She'll

804
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 2: be like, dolphins, know what a dolphin is? Miami Dolphins. Look,

805
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 2: I play that song right now.

806
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 3: She will start dan because she makes her think about dolphins.

807
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 3: All right, what about you put that in order and rate?

808
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 3: Do you need me to read them again? I know

809
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 3: they were a lot. It was you already, okay, thank you,

810
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 3: thank you, No, no, you don't sound crazy.

811
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 2: I like money and career a little first, just because.

812
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 5: Boom, some saying you gotta be in a situation to

813
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 5: be able to take care of family behind.

814
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 3: Her family all y'all or creative family, yeah, all of that.

815
00:41:52,960 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 2: So that first, then family, their fitness thin.

816
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 3: Mm hmm okay, how about you?

817
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 2: Hm?

818
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: I think I might be because I don't have any

819
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: kids yet. I think a lot of things we do

820
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: drive like money is the motivator, right, I'd like it. Okay,

821
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: I'd like a lot of it. So I would say

822
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say money is my main thing, health right,

823
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: I think health would be my my top on the

824
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: very top of the list. Then money or maybe family health, family,

825
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: then the money and what was what would the other

826
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: two careers sound like?

827
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:53,919
Speaker 2: Work?

828
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I want to do what I want to do

829
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 1: for the money.

830
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, money, I tied money in career be so many

831
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 3: a job Like when people say what is your dream job,

832
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, I do not dream of working. What are

833
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 3: you talking about? Absolutely not?

834
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: And what was the other one? The hobbies and hobbies

835
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: I would like for my hobby to make me some money. Okay,

836
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: so here we are talking ship that that's that's goal.

837
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: I've always wanted a job being myself because I think

838
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: when you start, when you work for other people, even

839
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: when you running a business of some sort, you have

840
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: to put a hat on for that.

841
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 3: I don't.

842
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: I don't like not being me, so I think I'm

843
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: pretty cool.

844
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 3: So mm hm.

845
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 1: So the hobby can make the money to feed the

846
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 1: family and I can work out in between. That's goals.

847
00:43:51,719 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 2: What you got, no, what made you choose that? Help?

848
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: So I have this the skin disorder called uh it

849
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: is petrisis, so pretty ry is having too rosia and

850
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 1: you know roseaesia rosatia, so it's petty rized rosia. And

851
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: and what I think I got diagnosed to that in

852
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,919
Speaker 1: like twenty thirteen. And I feel like it's viral because

853
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: my niece came to my house with like a little

854
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 1: spot on her and then all of a sudden I

855
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 1: broke out in the spot. But maybe it just exposed

856
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: something pre existent.

857
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 3: I don't know.

858
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: But it wasn't until I started removing shit from my

859
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: diet right and then adding things back on that I

860
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: could see what was actually helping because the dermatologist doctors,

861
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: they don't really have a cure for half the ship

862
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: that they don't feel like having a cure, right exactly.

863
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: So starting with a fast, and then I did vegan,

864
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 1: and I couldn't keep up with that shit because if

865
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: you're real vegan, like you're looking at you're looking at

866
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: like all the byproducts and stuff you can't eat shit for.

867
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: And then I added fish back of my diet. But

868
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: it was the chicken, the chicken that was causing my

869
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: skin to break out.

870
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 2: I would have thought beef already.

871
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: What Actually, I had stopped eating pork and beef wit

872
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: even before I stopped eating chicken. I did turkey and

873
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 1: chicken for a while, and then I just took that

874
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: ship on my diet and my skin clear though, so

875
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 1: I eat for my blood type. At this point I.

876
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 4: Saw a book about of blood type. If you if

877
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 4: you this, you get this, need this, And I'm like, dank.

878
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 4: Some of that stuff on actually got right, especially with

879
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 4: the dairies.

880
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 3: I mean, so I don't think none of us should

881
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 3: eat dairy honestly because of the mucus and all that stuff.

882
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 2: But let me do mine.

883
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 3: Niggas talk about dairy. Hold on, let me give you

884
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: my list. So obviously, for me, health is first, Uh

885
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 3: I do I don't say I have MS. MS tries

886
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 3: to have me, but it don't. So I always have

887
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 3: to be very mindful of my health. So that be

888
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 3: first for me. Family, because your wealth is in your family,

889
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 3: honestly to me. Next would be I guess money because

890
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 3: you can't do. I guess because I mean I love it.

891
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I like money, but I just don't love money.

892
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 3: You know, I don't love money. I just like I

893
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 3: love the things that money can provide, but I just

894
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 3: don't love money Like I could. I would be happy.

895
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: I could be.

896
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 3: Happy with a man that I love, living on some island,

897
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 3: like growing my own fruit and vegetables, and like renting

898
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 3: jet skis or something shit like that if I was

899
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 3: in love life. Yeah, so so I'll be okay with

900
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 3: that and without a whole bunch of money. And then hobbies,

901
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 3: you know, I mean, I guess hobbies would be last

902
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 3: for everybody because they are extracurricular in comparison to these things.

903
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 3: So that's the list.

904
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 4: Other than we talk back some hobbies andy.

905
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: Shit, I'll be studying the starking mat all day making money.

906
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:12,439
Speaker 3: I love movies. I love comedies like stand up that's

907
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 3: my ship. I love any stand up that comes out.

908
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 3: I'm gonna watch it. Books. I'm an avid reader, So

909
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 3: me and my sister, Yeah, what's my favorite book? If

910
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 3: I had to pick a favorite book, I guess it

911
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 3: would be Okay, let me ask this question, The Alchemist.

912
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: That's a. That's a. I would say, what book made

913
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 2: you like reading?

914
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 3: Would be The Alchemist. That was one of my first

915
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 3: ones that I read, like cover to cover real quick,

916
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, this is inspiring. What is

917
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 3: my legend? Personal legend like that?

918
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 2: Growing up?

919
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 4: But I was getting in trouble if my mom gave

920
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 4: me sister Soldier the Coldest.

921
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 3: Whatever, that's everybody black man.

922
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: I even that as an adult though with it, like

923
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: when she came out with that last book.

924
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 3: That book, read that book to the what did you

925
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 3: think of a new one?

926
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 1: It was so it was weird, Okay, it was trash.

927
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 3: It was let's called the Spade and Spade. It was

928
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 3: so weird.

929
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: It was it wasn't trash, but it was. It was

930
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: winter speaking from the grady essentially, right, was.

931
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 3: That when she turned into a dog.

932
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 8: I was like, man, I'm sorry, I was mad.

933
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 3: I was like man third ist in the fire.

934
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: She was the one to release the book. That's how

935
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 1: I feel.

936
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 3: She must have been an under contrary. What was it? Oh? Yeah,

937
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 3: those were good. Those were excellent. Black. You should read that.

938
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 3: You would read it so quick. It was so good.

939
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 4: That's what actually made me dial in and so like

940
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 4: Aaron Jerome Dickley and like that, like like the sex

941
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 4: books actually got.

942
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 3: So let's pause for a commercial and we are going

943
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 3: to be right back you guys one second. All right, guys,

944
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 3: we are back, and I already got some questions for you.

945
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 3: Tell us your top three anxieties as a man. Oh,

946
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 3: I wasn't ready for that, questions.

947
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:26,280
Speaker 2: Grow three anxieties? You already got some. I don't know, man, that's.

948
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 3: Because you know, like I feel like men aren't really

949
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 3: like vulnerable enough with themselves to even know their anxieties.

950
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 4: It makes you got to it makes you think, you know,

951
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 4: I would definitely say anything going wrong with your family.

952
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: First, Like I would say that's the top one.

953
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 4: I want to make sure everything to do with your

954
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 4: family at all times and out having kids in our life.

955
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 2: You want to like, what's going on you know, Oh, I.

956
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 4: Would say feeling. Feeling is a big one. You know,

957
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 4: you don't want to you don't want to fail as

958
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 4: a man. You know you have goals, you have things

959
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 4: you want to do. So I guess that fear of

960
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 4: feeling would always keep you motivated to to not fail.

961
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 3: You know.

962
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 2: So I'll say that's number two.

963
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: Three, feeling at what like for you? Just because that's subjective. Yeah,

964
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 1: it's not reaching your full potential.

965
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 2: Not reaching your.

966
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 4: Full potential, that's a big one. Like if you know,

967
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 4: like yo, I know I could be a mean, I

968
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 4: know I can do this. I know I get that.

969
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 4: You definitely want to make sure that you can strive

970
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 4: to that. So just feeling that anything I would say

971
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 4: in general, but I would say feeling that your goals,

972
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 4: if you got a goal, feeling that your number one goal,

973
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 4: not your fifth goal, your number one goal.

974
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: That could that's an anxiety. Third, that's a tough one.

975
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 2: I don't know. I have to think about something for

976
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 2: number three. But family and failings like you.

977
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 5: About and when you say family, I'm I'm gonna say

978
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,479
Speaker 5: specific beely like parents, mm hmm, like.

979
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: You have children?

980
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: Eighteen year old?

981
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 3: So old?

982
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 5: Okay, feeling like you didn't do enough, or if you

983
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 5: could do something different, or just not doing it.

984
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 2: I guess what'suse.

985
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 5: I guess what they consider right in what you might

986
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 5: see it right is gonna be two different things sometimes,

987
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 5: So I guess it's not being the parent that they

988
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 5: particularly need in that particular had. But that's a that's

989
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 5: a big thing that I guess I think about a

990
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 5: lot when it comes to like raising up.

991
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 2: A black boy in the world when live in Yeah,

992
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:37,919
Speaker 2: like you said, just feeling that career wise, I think.

993
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 5: It's that you know, you good at things that you

994
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying you Lilly gagg or just and

995
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 5: they can lead back to your like you said, family

996
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 5: or parents or y'all.

997
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You feel that this so

998
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 2: you can't do that for your kid or for your

999
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 2: wife or something like that.

1000
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 4: So, yeah, money doesn't solve everything, but reaching those goals.

1001
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 4: I feel like if you don't get that money, you

1002
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 4: can't provide for that family. Yeah, and then sometimes you

1003
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 4: might just say it that I feel like, you know,

1004
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,919
Speaker 4: I mean, know my kid. You know, it's all types

1005
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 4: of shit. So yeah, third one, that's tough.

1006
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 3: I don't know, yes, those two are good.

1007
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 1: That's like a major one though not reaching your foot

1008
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: from me? Right, I used to be afraid of like

1009
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 1: God for what until I realize, like it's inside me, right,

1010
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 1: ship like that or being homeless was always a fair

1011
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 1: for me. That's what I'm saying, Like once you, bitch,

1012
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't restart my life a couple of times, and.

1013
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 3: I'm living out a suitcase right now, so there's no

1014
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 3: good at it, okay.

1015
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,919
Speaker 2: Like that like middle school, like going to high school?

1016
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 4: That should Actually it humbleed me to a point where

1017
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 4: like it don't matter what I go through, I can

1018
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 4: push them anything because I went through that for sure.

1019
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 3: Are my questions too deep?

1020
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: Yes, bitch? Anyway, so when you dating a bitch, all right,

1021
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: here's I may not talk about women like that. When

1022
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,319
Speaker 1: you going to date with a woman or when you're

1023
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: dealing with a woman, what are some of the like

1024
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: things that because I want to preface this question a

1025
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: little bit. For women, right, when we don't like a guy,

1026
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: we can point out exactly why we don't like them.

1027
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: I don't like it's something that we were having all tight,

1028
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 1: Like we can tell our friends exactly why we don't

1029
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: like no, I don't think they're petty at all, But

1030
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: I don't think men are able to men actually start.

1031
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: I feel like men stop talking to women for the

1032
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:35,359
Speaker 1: most subtle bullshit. What are some things that women do

1033
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: to make you be like? Nah, I ain't funk with

1034
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 1: this no more. I don't like her, like because you

1035
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: want to at least have sex with her? What makes

1036
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:46,439
Speaker 1: you not want to have sex with a woman? No more?

1037
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 3: Nothing like?

1038
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the last time I fucking no more.

1039
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 3: I'm done with this.

1040
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 1: About Oh ye're just something about?

1041
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 3: What's like? What does the turnoff for you? That's just like,

1042
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:06,720
Speaker 3: I don't I'm not feeling it. Cringe.

1043
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 2: I don't like a conceited woman.

1044
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 3: And what does conceit look like to you?

1045
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 5: Like that that your your self compliment sounds like insecurity?

1046
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: Now, I'm a bad itch like that every day? Right

1047
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: to convince herself?

1048
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 2: Let me compliment you know what I'm saying. Okay, let's

1049
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:29,919
Speaker 2: make it.

1050
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 6: A reason to to make sense in the moment and

1051
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 6: not just say it every day all day or telling

1052
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 6: it he didn't say it enough, like what you're doing right?

1053
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 3: Okay?

1054
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: So what I'm hearing is you don't like women with

1055
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: a lot of insecurities because that that does come off

1056
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 1: as me as being.

1057
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,720
Speaker 5: Because I understand it, like I feel like your energy,

1058
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 5: the way you walk and give you that that what you're.

1059
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 2: Talking about it is like you need to hear it

1060
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 2: more something. So that's all. It just can be a

1061
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 2: little like too much idea. Yeah about like a I would.

1062
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 4: Say, not being discreet. You know, there's certain things that

1063
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 4: we talk about. You feel like you've got like you

1064
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 4: got to put it out there or talk to so

1065
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 4: and so about it. Not being discreet. I feel like

1066
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 4: that's a turn off to me because like you know,

1067
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 4: like I got a close family and we're closing certain things,

1068
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 4: like you got to keep certain parts of your like private,

1069
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 4: and I feel like not being discreet or in the

1070
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:33,760
Speaker 4: social media era.

1071
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 3: Are dirty, laundery on it.

1072
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 4: I come from a city where people, you know, South

1073
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 4: Beach is one of those things. But like you don't

1074
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 4: want to always post certain things because somebody might pull.

1075
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: Up on you, you know, things like that.

1076
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 4: So I would say, like being discreet, having a certain

1077
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 4: way you carry yourself, like yeah, we could post it

1078
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 4: we're here, but don't do it in real time. Or

1079
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 4: we could flaunt some shit flex or some shit, but

1080
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 4: do it in a way where it's like it's not

1081
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 4: exposing us, you know, whether that's whether we're mary situationship

1082
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 4: or we're just talking like if I didn't actually can

1083
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 4: take a picture, wellf ially give a cent my picture, Like,

1084
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 4: you know, we got a situationship, we understanding that we're

1085
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 4: not public.

1086
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 3: You know, that's so true. I went out with this

1087
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 3: guy one time and it was our first day and

1088
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 3: he was like, can we take a picture? I was like, sure,

1089
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 3: we can take a picture. And then I mean, he

1090
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 3: invited me to move in with him on the first date,

1091
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 3: so I was like, okay, this.

1092
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: Niggas next level, you know what he wanted.

1093
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 3: But that was too much for the first day. But

1094
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 3: that wasn't even that was I know, we didn't even

1095
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 3: sleep together. It was just like we went to we

1096
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:42,919
Speaker 3: went to then and we went to lunch. That was it.

1097
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 3: And then I went home and later, because we were

1098
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 3: he had we met on Facebook. So this is how

1099
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 3: long ago that was. So when I got home, I

1100
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 3: was on Facebook and he posted a picture and tagged

1101
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 3: me and his family and his cousins and all these

1102
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 3: people in this picture and made a post like why

1103
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 3: like like on some wifey vibes. And that was like

1104
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 3: a huge turnoff for me because nigga, I don't even

1105
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:07,240
Speaker 3: know you like that.

1106
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 5: The first baddy, he's gonna lose his mind and so

1107
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 5: you got to check the nigga history probably right, I

1108
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 5: see somebody was losing his mind, like, oh my god,

1109
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 5: she really went he knew that's it's crazy.

1110
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: That first daddy ship is a real thing.

1111
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 3: I see.

1112
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: I've seen something that was like, you don't want to

1113
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: be a man's friends daddy because they don't know how

1114
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: to act. They don't they be insecure as fun, like

1115
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: this is what you wanted and when you get it,

1116
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: you're trying to dismantle it.

1117
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. You can't be like that, you know, man,

1118
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 2: it ain't yours. Man.

1119
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 4: If your girl choose, let her do a thing like

1120
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 4: you know, so at the end of like you can't.

1121
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 4: You got to know that at the end of the day.

1122
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 3: But some some men get upset, like if you're out

1123
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 3: with him and you're posting a picture of the food,

1124
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 3: he all in did you give me in the picture?

1125
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 3: Paved with that to lock you?

1126
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 4: I feel like if you take that, like you know anonymous,

1127
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 4: like yo, you don't know, but you know you see

1128
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 4: them like bank.

1129
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 5: For the discretion because on the situation, right, don't put

1130
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 5: me on the food with mm hmm.

1131
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 3: Some men don't like that though, Like don't text your

1132
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 3: picture of the food that I'm paying for and then

1133
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 3: I'm not in it.

1134
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: I try to have my phone out whatever I'm on

1135
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: a date or something like that.

1136
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 3: I wouldn't even.

1137
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 4: You enjoyed the vibes like I do, say, like if

1138
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,479
Speaker 4: somebody want to do that, that's the securities we.

1139
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 2: Were talking about, Like, Yo, I gotta be in a

1140
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 2: picture much. I got to know them.

1141
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 4: What you I'm like you keeping that ship player, Like

1142
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 4: that makes sense. You gotta do it discreet, like you

1143
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 4: wonder who's with me, You wonder what's going on?

1144
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that's not like you're like see a little sneaker,

1145
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 3: a little wrists. That's it.

1146
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: So as a single man, John, John, what are some

1147
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 1: misconceptions you believe that people get our people have about

1148
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:11,919
Speaker 1: single people are single men, especially a single emotions?

1149
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 2: Okay, they're always true. Some probably fit the description, but

1150
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 2: not everybody.

1151
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 3: What about you?

1152
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 2: I got emotions I used to do.

1153
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 3: How long ago did you delete your wholeness? Yesterday, she

1154
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 3: might happen again to night.

1155
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to go through.

1156
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 3: Do you think women should have a hostage?

1157
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 2: We don't got it. You don't suck up a good thing.

1158
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 2: Go out there, you knocking the streets. Don't love you

1159
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 2: for real?

1160
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 3: So you would want your woman to have a hostage before.

1161
00:59:58,160 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 2: I don't care about the history. Don't give me the

1162
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 2: DETAI mean, we can't take the details.

1163
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 5: But just no, and you I feel like you can

1164
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 5: kind of not all men but me, like I can

1165
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 5: probably get a by you did your things most.

1166
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 2: Of the time.

1167
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: Just like, is it in the head like.

1168
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 4: This before I want to look, I want to learn

1169
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 4: to teach me something, you know, exactly a little experience.

1170
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't. Don't be here, not ar back. You

1171
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 2: got scary can step back, you know what I mean?

1172
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:35,920
Speaker 2: You will finally.

1173
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: Y'all be running out Sometimes you literally gotta do yoga

1174
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: and stretch before the sessions.

1175
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 5: Man, like just your social media everything people listening to

1176
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:50,919
Speaker 5: want to talk about making a little the move.

1177
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, dress, throw your bank out.

1178
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: All kinds. I always say I'm glad to know the

1179
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 1: man because man like I couldn't do that, like I

1180
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:07,920
Speaker 1: couldn't do all that thrusting my back. I respect it now.

1181
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna question. Now I'm in a question, but

1182
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 1: having it like slang dick. I don't think I could

1183
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 1: do it like I'll be a lazy ass nigga. Okay,

1184
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 1: get on top, not on the side.

1185
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 2: Be good. This is why you want that experience.

1186
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 4: You know, you don't want nobody that came satisfying that

1187
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 4: you want someone to cut up for, So cut.

1188
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 5: Up for show it again. I guess you still gotta

1189
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,440
Speaker 5: both have experience because as a nigga, you.

1190
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. You kissed that willing that got that.

1191
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 2: Now you crazy just like so would you prefer? So?

1192
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 3: Would you prefer a woman who came already ready to

1193
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 3: know how to do everything or someone who you could

1194
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 3: teach to do it just how you like it?

1195
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 5: Yet, first we can be talked to, so supposed to

1196
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 5: deal with somebody like everybody likes stuff different, So we're

1197
01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 5: dealing with them.

1198
01:01:58,520 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 2: You gonna, you know what I'm saying.

1199
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: Learn what they like and but you ain't gonna be

1200
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: trying to figure out how she who taught her how

1201
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: to do that easy time?

1202
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 2: He would do that?

1203
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:11,440
Speaker 1: You want your dig something, not like why are you

1204
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: so concerned about who taught me?

1205
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that's kind of you know, you know, like

1206
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 2: not teaching me you know what I want you to.

1207
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:23,920
Speaker 2: You know?

1208
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 3: What do y'all feel like? Is some of the white

1209
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 3: lies that you're telling the relationship they are just okay,

1210
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 3: like this little white life, little white lies they happen.

1211
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 3: Let's not pretend like.

1212
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: They don't have a sample. Give me an example of

1213
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 1: your white lie, bitch, despite the major lie, a.

1214
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 3: White lie that I might tell, h no, no, no,

1215
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 3: no no, Like if he asks something and I give

1216
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 3: a white lie, like let's say, oh no, I don't

1217
01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 3: lie to my nigga about how his fit. The men

1218
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 3: a lot to a woman about how they feel. That's

1219
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 3: a white lie that a man will tell. But I'm

1220
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 3: never gonna lie to my nigga because I don't want him, Like, boy,

1221
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:13,479
Speaker 3: what the fuck is that you gotta? But men do that.

1222
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 3: But I would say, like, let's say if my man

1223
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 3: just was trying to be nice and was like, I'm

1224
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 3: gonna cook something for you and it don't taste good

1225
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 3: like that, I might, yeah, but just because a person

1226
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 3: can cook doesn't mean their food is always good, right,

1227
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 3: you can have an off meal. So I would be like, oh,

1228
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 3: this is good, and then I call my home girl like, girl,

1229
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 3: I'm shipping right now because this nigga, this bullshit. My stomach. Fuck,

1230
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 3: he's talk about, Oh, what's my favorite meal? Mm hmm.

1231
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 3: I guess I don't know if I have a favorite meal.

1232
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 3: I guess I love a good mac and cheese. I

1233
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 3: love all right, so hold on, you're judging me. Why

1234
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 3: would you assume? No, You're right, But that was just.

1235
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 2: What kind of what kind of mac and cheese?

1236
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 3: Though, like like black South Carolina baked mac and cheese

1237
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 3: with all the cheese and the milk and the butter

1238
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 3: and the eggs. I love that.

1239
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 4: If you cook all your favorite foods around some craft macaroni,

1240
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 4: how would you.

1241
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 3: Feel around the craft? That's the white line. I was like,

1242
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 3: this ship was busting, baby bitch. He had a box

1243
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 3: macaroni and cheese on the.

1244
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 2: Bring the craft.

1245
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 3: I would just say, this was just because of the

1246
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 3: effort that it took to go into it, and like no,

1247
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 3: but everything else, he did the best he could. And

1248
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 3: I'm just grateful that he wanted to please me in

1249
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 3: that way. So that is a wide.

1250
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 2: Line, lady.

1251
01:04:56,480 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 3: Effort, it's the effort. It's the for ever that the kitchen.

1252
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:05,320
Speaker 1: Just try. I don't like what I get on my nerves.

1253
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 3: If you can read, you can cook.

1254
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 4: That's how I put love into it, though, ye matter.

1255
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 2: Man, look like everybody putting YouTube on your phone. I

1256
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 2: don't care.

1257
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 3: That's so what's the white lie? Y'all have told a woman.

1258
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 2: Outfit for sure?

1259
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was something like, Yo, hey, you like that,

1260
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 4: but if you like it, if you look it gonna

1261
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 4: be an outfit I hate.

1262
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 2: But I might not like it as much as you

1263
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: like it. I don't I don't care to tell you

1264
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 2: not to wear.

1265
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 4: I might say something about it, but at the same time, like, yo,

1266
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 4: do you I want to see your style. I want

1267
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 4: to see what you like to wear. So I might

1268
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 4: not like it, but I'm be like, yo, that's your fire,

1269
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 4: do your thing for me.

1270
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, now see that would piss me off because

1271
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 3: if I see you in your group chat like man,

1272
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 3: my blue chair or some foolish That's what I'm saying.

1273
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 4: Look, yo, you wore that ship the other day because

1274
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 4: you want to wear I feel I with it. It

1275
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 4: depends on your attitude when you rocket That's what I'm saying.

1276
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 4: So if I don't like your attitude.

1277
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 3: Is don't like, Yo, you need to tell me if

1278
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 3: I look stupid, like don't let me leave like that.

1279
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell my nigga every time if it's out here.

1280
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 4: Hey, I think you should do this, but I want

1281
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 4: to take away from the whole songble like, Yo, that's

1282
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 4: what you want to do because we got but that

1283
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 4: would be my white lie.

1284
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 2: Like hey, if you like it, I love it, he said.

1285
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 1: I just need you to be able to do all

1286
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 1: the things right. I don't want to always see sneakers

1287
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,919
Speaker 1: and basketball shorts with the fitted you know what I'm saying.

1288
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: I like, I got a whole sneakerhead, okay, like for real,

1289
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 1: for real.

1290
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 3: And the only time to wear a suit is the court.

1291
01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 4: But let me be clear, let me speak for all

1292
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 4: sneakers when I say this, Like, you know, sometimes it's

1293
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 4: a it's a sneaker for everything you could, you could.

1294
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 2: Find one that will set it off the right way.

1295
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 4: Like I remember doing sneaker balls before there was even

1296
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 4: a hot commodity.

1297
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:52,640
Speaker 3: Like I hate sneaker balls.

1298
01:06:53,920 --> 01:07:00,120
Speaker 1: I hate when they first because if I hated it.

1299
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 4: Kids doing it it's kind of like, Okay, it's gone,

1300
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 4: but but at the same time, it's a sneaker for

1301
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 4: every outfit I feel, you know, so I had.

1302
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 3: A gown and a sneaker together. It's just never I've

1303
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 3: never seen one that I was like, that was excellent. Yeah,

1304
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 3: based on thing. It never translates for me. Like the

1305
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 3: suits and the sneakers they can get away with, but

1306
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 3: the women in the gowns and the sneakers, it's just like, girl.

1307
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 2: Did y'all have a jersey dress?

1308
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:32,640
Speaker 3: Era? Yeah, we were allied for that. We were alive

1309
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 3: for that era. I can't even tell you. I guess

1310
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 3: what Charlotte the Magic, Yeah, that was like the bulls.

1311
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 1: What's what's one of the best things for you about

1312
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 1: being married?

1313
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 2: Experiences?

1314
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 4: For sure, hands down, Like you remember when we went here,

1315
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 4: Like you ever look back at like old pictures of yourself,

1316
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 4: You remember where you was at you hear a song,

1317
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 4: you remember where you were at that time. I would

1318
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 4: say being married different experiences, different situations. Like we could

1319
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 4: laugh about you having a peel on the side of

1320
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 4: the road, you know what I'm saying. We could laugh

1321
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 4: about no, seriously, we could laugh about the time we

1322
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 4: went to such and such place and I fell down

1323
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 4: the stairs, you know what I mean, Like I would

1324
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 4: say experiences like that's probably one of the best parts

1325
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 4: in like having two JITs now to kids telling them

1326
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:28,960
Speaker 4: like yo, hey, me and mom did this, or showing them,

1327
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 4: you know, like you can see the picture we were

1328
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:31,639
Speaker 4: right here, you know what I'm saying.

1329
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 2: And I feel like experiences matter the most.

1330
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:37,759
Speaker 1: What's the best part to you about being single?

1331
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 2: All right? Probably not having to feel obligated to listen

1332
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 2: to let so unstressed something that least.

1333
01:08:56,400 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 7: That's like as a husband, no people, but you sometimes

1334
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:07,200
Speaker 7: white first, you're gonna be a punching bag.

1335
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 5: Let me tell you what you're gonna have to listen about, you.

1336
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. But other than that, but.

1337
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 3: Uh right, so she comes out with her work drama,

1338
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 3: like let me tell you what that bitch Brenda did

1339
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 3: today at work, and you don't have to Yeah, you

1340
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 3: don't want to hear about that.

1341
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:30,120
Speaker 1: You mean to be a bunch of surface level things

1342
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: like that, Like that's like the main thing you don't want.

1343
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:34,439
Speaker 1: That sounds like you don't want to talk to a

1344
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 1: woman then to me, like I don't feel like having

1345
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 1: a topic.

1346
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 2: I still came, but I don't. I feel like a husband.

1347
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:42,759
Speaker 1: I feel like you obligated to talk to your wife.

1348
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 2: Versus me can selectively when you don't want to.

1349
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 1: Talk to.

1350
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel you on that because I was listening

1351
01:09:53,920 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 3: and I'll be like, my mam will calling me. I'm it's.

1352
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 1: So, where do I do like enjoy conversations with my

1353
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 1: homegirls over a man?

1354
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1355
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 1: And that's fucked up. Listen.

1356
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 2: I wish we would understand that too, because you get

1357
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 2: that all the time. Members we talk about the same ship.

1358
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:19,920
Speaker 2: Nig I can't tell you right. You know what I'm saying.

1359
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 5: You don't care about sports. We really talk about sports

1360
01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 5: for hours straight. You don't drink beer. We can literally

1361
01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,639
Speaker 5: talk about drinking beer. Like what I'm saying, I'll drink beer, dude.

1362
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 1: But when me and Sam started this podcast, I was

1363
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 1: in another relationship and we would talk about stuff, a

1364
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 1: different one. It's a different one, but it's old, okay,

1365
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: it's a refurbished relationship. I'm calling it.

1366
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

1367
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:48,479
Speaker 1: So when we first started a relationship, I was engaged

1368
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: at the time to somebody else, and the things we

1369
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,720
Speaker 1: talk about. He would say, I didn't know that I'm like,

1370
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:57,640
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to know that, Like I'm talking to

1371
01:10:57,680 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 1: my homegirl. Our conversations are supposed to be the same,

1372
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 1: Like they're just not going to really not as interesting

1373
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:04,839
Speaker 1: as my friends.

1374
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:10,600
Speaker 3: Okay, talking to that's not the engagement.

1375
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 2: This was the one that you wasn't she was engaged.

1376
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,599
Speaker 1: No, he's definitely. He was definitely interesting. I'm just saying,

1377
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 1: like when you dealing with somebody every day, we see

1378
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:22,439
Speaker 1: each other every day, we don't have no new stories.

1379
01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 1: Like my homegirls they living life, they outside, like I

1380
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 1: want to hear this stuff. And then when we having

1381
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 1: these conversations, we're talking about past things, things that don't

1382
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 1: have nothing to do anymore.

1383
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 3: So yeah, like why would you be having that conversation,

1384
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:36,719
Speaker 3: Like why.

1385
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 1: Would I talk to you about sending me some dick

1386
01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:41,080
Speaker 1: one time? Like why would you know that?

1387
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:44,840
Speaker 3: Why does everybody keep having to bring that up? It

1388
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:47,719
Speaker 3: was one time? It was pandemic, I was lonely. Okay,

1389
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 3: let's move on.

1390
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 1: Sonny asked me about that ship last week.

1391
01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,719
Speaker 4: No situationships though that you might have had passed or whatever.

1392
01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:01,759
Speaker 4: Right do you feel that soul.

1393
01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 2: Tars are real?

1394
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 1: Absolutely? You need to Like sometimes people be living in

1395
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:08,800
Speaker 1: you like you not got rid of them, but they

1396
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 1: just they still there. You need to do you listen

1397
01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 1: Lionsgate August eighth, and it's twenty twenty four, which is

1398
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 1: also eight is coming up on the eighth. Y'all, bet

1399
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 1: do y'all some spiritual baths and watch some of these

1400
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 1: niggas out, okay, because they still be around you.

1401
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:24,360
Speaker 3: What is a spiritual bad?

1402
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:27,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, men can do it.

1403
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 3: What is a spiritual band?

1404
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: For sure? A lot of things. But magic is just

1405
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 1: about the intention. So you any everybody's like a like cooking,

1406
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: like a recipe. Everybody got a different recipe. I can

1407
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 1: give you a recipe for a spiritual bath, but you

1408
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 1: can do your own little little thing. No, you could

1409
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: do your own little thing. But it's the intention that

1410
01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 1: you put on what you're doing. Right, So I always

1411
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:52,719
Speaker 1: tell people don't order shit online, like go to the store.

1412
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,639
Speaker 1: It's the whole thing. So is it like the tanica?

1413
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 1: Go there, get you put my.

1414
01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 3: Legs in the air, blow steam at like I saying,

1415
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 3: even you can do the steam too.

1416
01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 1: You can start there, set your ass in the bathtub.

1417
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 1: You might need to put a cap full of bleaching

1418
01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 1: that No, seriously, I don't need that. I got a

1419
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: cap full of bleach. I'm serious, though, like, okay to talk.

1420
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:26,920
Speaker 2: About tell me.

1421
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:33,640
Speaker 3: Goodness. All right, I got one last question for you

1422
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 3: guys before we get out of here. What would you

1423
01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:39,799
Speaker 3: say your greatest regret is thus far.

1424
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 1: Relationship wise? Is just overall?

1425
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 3: Like over all?

1426
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,360
Speaker 4: I usually say, like, don't regret things you do, regret

1427
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 4: things that you don't do. So it's hard for me

1428
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 4: to like really answer that one, because like you living,

1429
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:58,800
Speaker 4: you learn without without doing something, you won't know what

1430
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 4: to do forward, like yeah, fucked up that time, but

1431
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 4: I know that the next time, or yeah.

1432
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 3: Like so no regrets.

1433
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 1: The regrets probably be repeated, probably be uh just doing

1434
01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 1: what you love.

1435
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 2: Earlier in life.

1436
01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.

1437
01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 2: Like I feel like that retail world was like super

1438
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 2: draining for me. Nothing they can't see know what I'm saying.

1439
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 2: I loved it.

1440
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 5: But cooking and cooking here like I can be like, okay,

1441
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 5: I'm excited to get this.

1442
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 3: That makes you happy.

1443
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:32,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to say, I don't know I regret.

1444
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 3: I don't think you don't have no regrets. That's that's excellent.

1445
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 2: No regret.

1446
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean again, it's the experience thing to me, Like,

1447
01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:42,559
Speaker 4: so I learned from that experience.

1448
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 2: So like I don't regret that happened.

1449
01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 4: I don't regret that I did what I did or

1450
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 4: messing up or you know whatever, because like, you know,

1451
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:49,120
Speaker 4: I learned from it.

1452
01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 2: You know.

1453
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:51,519
Speaker 4: So as much as I would want to say it,

1454
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 4: you know, life is an ongoing cycle. I need a

1455
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 4: complete specific projects in my life, and so therefore, at

1456
01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 4: this chapter, what happened happened, But the second chapter I

1457
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 4: learned from it, so therefore it went better, you know.

1458
01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:07,320
Speaker 4: So I won't say any regrets.

1459
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 3: What about you?

1460
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 1: You don't have any regrets these motherfucking niggas, I don't

1461
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 1: really have. I don't have regrets. You do learn from

1462
01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:25,600
Speaker 1: every situation. I just wish, I wish I would have

1463
01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:27,439
Speaker 1: learned a lesson and get the fuck up out of there.

1464
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 1: So it's just like staying places too long, you know

1465
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, so, we had young women on

1466
01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 1: an episode, and you know, don't stay in the wrong

1467
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 1: place too long, you know what I'm.

1468
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 2: Saying, especially if you can go back.

1469
01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't stay in the wrong place too long

1470
01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: because you know, your relationships really shape your future, So

1471
01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 1: you want to make sure like you, even if it's

1472
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 1: somebody you're dating, they add value. So even if y'all

1473
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 1: stop talking, you still you can still remain friends. And

1474
01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 1: y'all you still see I got some I know some

1475
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 1: real people, and some of them are probably smash that

1476
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,040
Speaker 1: sometimes at one point, but they're doing real good things

1477
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 1: and then you can still have conversations. It's still connections,

1478
01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And not just everybody. I

1479
01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 1: didn't smash everybody. I'm just saying something she did. You

1480
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 1: realize as friends, I'm talking about the deep relationships where

1481
01:16:23,880 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 1: you know you need to have got the fuck up

1482
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:28,280
Speaker 1: out of there, get out of there sooner than.

1483
01:16:32,080 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 3: Now.

1484
01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 2: Like you say, they similar regret in it, But.

1485
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't regret the relationship. I just regret, you know,

1486
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 1: seeing the thing and not getting out of it sooner.

1487
01:16:43,240 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: And I think only women calculate wasting time because we

1488
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: literally have a clock, right, So men, y'all can always

1489
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 1: get a younger woman once our good years are gone.

1490
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:53,560
Speaker 1: And that's all we gotta get. Listen, we got to

1491
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:57,360
Speaker 1: hit the cave and running as the team. You know,

1492
01:16:57,439 --> 01:16:59,839
Speaker 1: you don't really have a whole lot of time to waste,

1493
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 1: so women calculate time different from men like men. Men

1494
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 1: now consider a relationship with a woman a waste of time,

1495
01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: but were always telling men, oh, you waste my time.

1496
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,639
Speaker 1: But you know, really it was the experience and you

1497
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 1: had to go through that thing to be who you are.

1498
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:21,880
Speaker 2: Now. Both spend time, so yeah, mutually.

1499
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 3: So exactly right.

1500
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 2: I don't think you went with it didn't work out right?

1501
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:30,200
Speaker 3: What's my biggest curgrant? Damn? I hate to admit this,

1502
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 3: this is true though, that was one of but that's

1503
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 3: not my biggest. My biggest hergret is mm. I'm gonna

1504
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 3: say it. I wish I had learned to shut the

1505
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:52,479
Speaker 3: fuck up earlier, like with men like I wish I

1506
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:55,599
Speaker 3: had been so mauthy and I done lest some good

1507
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 3: men pass me by, And here I am whatever age

1508
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 3: I am without a husband. I don't know, my age

1509
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 3: is fluid. But I wish I had learned to just

1510
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:14,520
Speaker 3: pick my battles more wisely and not be so combative

1511
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:19,680
Speaker 3: with men earlier in life. And I probably would be

1512
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 3: somebody's wife right now had I not, I think I would,

1513
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 3: And I've lest some very quality men pass me by

1514
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:36,320
Speaker 3: because of my mouth. Honestly, baby, I used to. I

1515
01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 3: don't anymore. Now I can't. I still can if I

1516
01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:45,599
Speaker 3: want to, but I don't. Yeah, yeah, that part it

1517
01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,559
Speaker 3: is in me. But I just learned, like everything ain't

1518
01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:51,320
Speaker 3: worth a fight, Everything ain't worth a rebuttal.

1519
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Speaker 4: You know, something you learn. I was talking about habitating early.

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01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 4: That's something you learn in those periods. Like if you

1521
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 4: don't get that out before, then.

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01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 3: I was terrible. The nigga could be like, Serie, what

1523
01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 3: more motherfucking thing? And I'd be like, hmm, I would

1524
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:07,280
Speaker 3: find something to say, you know, just just always.

1525
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 4: But now, so how do you fix that?

1526
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:14,920
Speaker 3: I just think I think growth and wisdom and getting

1527
01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 3: older and realizing that it ain't worth a fight, Like

1528
01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:19,599
Speaker 3: what did I What did I gain from always having

1529
01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 3: something to say? What did I gain? Ain't say that,

1530
01:19:24,920 --> 01:19:27,760
Speaker 3: But I'm just going to like be more conscious of

1531
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 3: how I communicate, Like how I'm going to think about

1532
01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:34,759
Speaker 3: how my words. What if someone said what I'm saying

1533
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:37,519
Speaker 3: to them to me, how would I take it? You know?

1534
01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:39,639
Speaker 1: But you probably still say the things that you would

1535
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:42,000
Speaker 1: probably you would want to change how you singing them,

1536
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:44,639
Speaker 1: because I think that's the problem with that that black

1537
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: men in particular have with black women. I was recently

1538
01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 1: watching that with Trump on the National Association of Black Journalists,

1539
01:19:55,960 --> 01:19:58,720
Speaker 1: and somebody on the YouTube comment was like, because he

1540
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 1: was up there, Trump with three black women, And the

1541
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 1: dude in the comments was like, this is exactly how

1542
01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 1: I feel when black women talk to me, because it

1543
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:12,960
Speaker 1: wasn't it time, you know what I'm saying. So I understand,

1544
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:17,240
Speaker 1: like I I I understand, But it's how we say.

1545
01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:17,800
Speaker 3: It's how we.

1546
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:22,759
Speaker 1: Say that, right, That's what I choosing to be happy.

1547
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 4: You know. You think I'm old like you can It's

1548
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 4: like you're like, I'm gonna take that from my mom.

1549
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 4: You know, my mom typened me up, but you like

1550
01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 4: certainly ways like yo, like just you know, let me

1551
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:33,599
Speaker 4: bob a little bit.

1552
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 2: You don't want too much, you know.

1553
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like some men are literally sons of bitches.

1554
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 1: So I dated somebody who had a real combative mom.

1555
01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:44,800
Speaker 1: So I'm not like that. Right, So now your love

1556
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 1: language is me cussing you out. So you're doing ship

1557
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:49,960
Speaker 1: to get cussed out because now we can make up

1558
01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:51,480
Speaker 1: and now you feel loved.

1559
01:20:51,400 --> 01:20:58,280
Speaker 3: People that people, Yes, yeah, that is, but that's definitely.

1560
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:03,679
Speaker 1: A lot of black men come from single black women.

1561
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:07,639
Speaker 1: Who were frustrated and angry and mad that they got

1562
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 1: to deal with these kids and where is the man

1563
01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 1: daddy maybe and they don't know how to do.

1564
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:18,200
Speaker 4: Like it's just crazy like dukes. But like I remember

1565
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:21,120
Speaker 4: my dad was incarcerated. It would be times like we'll

1566
01:21:21,160 --> 01:21:22,680
Speaker 4: be cutting up the house and she'll kick us our

1567
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 4: house like no locked the door and not know, like

1568
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 4: not looking back at it. I'm like, damn, my mom

1569
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:28,960
Speaker 4: was really going through something, you know what I meaning?

1570
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:31,559
Speaker 4: So like some of that stuff she could have projected

1571
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:34,000
Speaker 4: on us in a way, like it could have made break.

1572
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 2: It's three of y'all, so it's like it's one of

1573
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:37,639
Speaker 2: them things.

1574
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:39,640
Speaker 3: So and then here you come in here looking.

1575
01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 2: Just like you.

1576
01:21:42,640 --> 01:21:44,799
Speaker 3: Wor yeah, get off.

1577
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 2: My to it.

1578
01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 4: You know, see where just a parent in general, it

1579
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:54,880
Speaker 4: don't have to be a mom or it could be

1580
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 4: a dad to like sense of a parent fall on

1581
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:59,200
Speaker 4: the child. Some things that you might have went through

1582
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 4: could have an effect job, you know.

1583
01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 2: So it's it's best I.

1584
01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 4: Would say, have a clear mind and a lot of

1585
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:06,719
Speaker 4: that stuff and just try to raise them mutually.

1586
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:09,639
Speaker 1: And I'm calling y'all mama's bitches. I'm just saying, though,

1587
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 1: you know your mom was on your neck. We're not

1588
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 1: that's on your neck.

1589
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 3: We just call it as a collective.

1590
01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:19,600
Speaker 1: Collectively, the bitches.

1591
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:25,040
Speaker 3: Creatures.

1592
01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So before we do have a segment

1593
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:32,640
Speaker 1: when we talked back, we got simp series for men. Okay,

1594
01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 1: so you gotta tell us the time y'all got played

1595
01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:37,599
Speaker 1: by a woman or whoever.

1596
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:48,280
Speaker 2: Real easy way to say this, but damn.

1597
01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:51,360
Speaker 4: I had a situation in high school where I was

1598
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:53,960
Speaker 4: caught up she in't doing different things like that. So

1599
01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:56,400
Speaker 4: I would say my experience came from carma with that

1600
01:22:57,760 --> 01:23:00,680
Speaker 4: freshman year of college, like you know, I'm out of

1601
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 4: here doing.

1602
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:02,800
Speaker 2: My own thing. I still got that relationship back home

1603
01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:03,040
Speaker 2: in Mia.

1604
01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:06,439
Speaker 4: I'm in South Carolina and I'm doing me or whatever,

1605
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 4: and the joint I was feeling like like I bought

1606
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 4: some I feel like I've bought a bunch of shit

1607
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:14,759
Speaker 4: for valance. I was day all right, And I typically

1608
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 4: don't do that for nobody, like yo, my mind something

1609
01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:18,559
Speaker 4: for you fuck me, you know what I mean? So

1610
01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 4: I would say I did that, and at the end

1611
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 4: of the night there was really not a situation and

1612
01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 4: not over that.

1613
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:28,240
Speaker 2: Not only that, it was like another situation at all.

1614
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:31,680
Speaker 2: It was crazy, right, So it was one of the

1615
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:33,519
Speaker 2: situations like damn, like what the fuck?

1616
01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:36,400
Speaker 4: Meanwhile I'm cutting up on what was happening in Miami,

1617
01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 4: So like that was like my instant karma, Like yo,

1618
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:41,960
Speaker 4: I'm playing you down here doing what I'm doing in

1619
01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 4: f C and then I get played in that C

1620
01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:46,960
Speaker 4: by somebody from VA and it was like fuck. It

1621
01:23:47,040 --> 01:23:52,120
Speaker 4: was like damn that eventually happened, you know, it still happened,

1622
01:23:52,360 --> 01:23:54,400
Speaker 4: but it didn't happen at that time. I just remember

1623
01:23:54,439 --> 01:23:56,840
Speaker 4: myself looking at myself like, bro, I want to custs

1624
01:23:56,880 --> 01:23:58,560
Speaker 4: this whole lot, you know what I mean. And it

1625
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 4: was one of a situation like and it was key.

1626
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:02,760
Speaker 4: I did snap a little bit because it was it

1627
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:04,880
Speaker 4: was a dumb ass situation like it was. I don't

1628
01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:06,400
Speaker 4: want to bring up a high school situation, but it

1629
01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:09,080
Speaker 4: was like freshman of college, you still kind of on

1630
01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 4: them high school jit vobes, but you stepping into the world.

1631
01:24:12,160 --> 01:24:15,840
Speaker 4: So it's like, yo, I learned instantly that it's instant karma, Like, bro,

1632
01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:17,439
Speaker 4: you it's gonna happen.

1633
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:19,240
Speaker 2: And I felt like a sucker. I'm like I watch

1634
01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:20,640
Speaker 2: you on this ship, and you know what, I mean

1635
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:22,679
Speaker 2: that was on them like it was crazy.

1636
01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:25,839
Speaker 3: Again, thank you.

1637
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:37,080
Speaker 2: It did happen. But she got me, I got you. Dang. Yeah,

1638
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:42,800
Speaker 2: this thing from Charleston for real went war hopping. That's

1639
01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 2: all that she was kind of feeling me a little bit,

1640
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 2: but it was it was just for the dreams, That's

1641
01:24:47,800 --> 01:24:50,320
Speaker 2: all I'm gonna say. It was time to go, you know.

1642
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 2: I mean it was like we just went separate ways and.

1643
01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:56,960
Speaker 3: I thought I was gonna get something that ain't that bad,

1644
01:24:57,120 --> 01:24:58,800
Speaker 3: like you just but I.

1645
01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:01,840
Speaker 5: Guess like I came up different lane on circle like,

1646
01:25:01,840 --> 01:25:03,759
Speaker 5: so I'm gonna see it before it happened in that aspect,

1647
01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:05,200
Speaker 5: but I wish I would have saw that.

1648
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 3: So what you were anticipating that the drinks was gonna

1649
01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 3: get you something?

1650
01:25:09,360 --> 01:25:13,160
Speaker 2: Talked about what it was. I just meant like I

1651
01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:15,880
Speaker 2: came to Charleston for this, you know what I'm saying.

1652
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:16,960
Speaker 1: Oh damn.

1653
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:20,360
Speaker 3: So the conversation was like, oh, it's going down and

1654
01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 3: I see yeah.

1655
01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 1: And then so did she even let you come back

1656
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:27,360
Speaker 1: to the crib or you had to go back.

1657
01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:35,840
Speaker 5: And somebody driving you drive let nobody follow you.

1658
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:42,200
Speaker 1: I was just straight lost to you on the highway.

1659
01:25:43,360 --> 01:25:46,960
Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, Tokyo, drip your ass.

1660
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:55,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I feel you.

1661
01:25:56,120 --> 01:26:03,240
Speaker 1: God damn, I feel you.

1662
01:26:03,439 --> 01:26:05,519
Speaker 3: Getaway driving y'all.

1663
01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:07,439
Speaker 4: I would say this, y'all are different down in Chawston,

1664
01:26:07,600 --> 01:26:10,320
Speaker 4: like me being from Florida and like coming up here

1665
01:26:10,400 --> 01:26:13,320
Speaker 4: Carolina different. You know, he got his different Like Chaunton

1666
01:26:13,439 --> 01:26:16,840
Speaker 4: is really good. You can tell that was like throwbacks, man,

1667
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:19,200
Speaker 4: I messed with it.

1668
01:26:18,040 --> 01:26:26,160
Speaker 3: Yeah A right, gentlemen, gentlemen, plug all your things, plug everything,

1669
01:26:26,200 --> 01:26:29,120
Speaker 3: your socials, anything you want to share with our audience.

1670
01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:30,040
Speaker 2: Okay, you already know.

1671
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1672
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1673
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1674
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Speaker 4: f R S sp hey Man with the freshness Fresh

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Speaker 5: Up Facebook, John Jay Johnson Snapchat and I g gonna

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Speaker 5: podcast content peas in a We're getting back in there.

1682
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:03,679
Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna have some new episodes coming out soon.

1683
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Speaker 3: All right, thank you, guys, this was fun.

1684
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Speaker 1: Got Snapchat? Yes, I just delete that ship. You got Snapchat?

1685
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:15,799
Speaker 2: Stay Snapchat?

1686
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