1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Am I they hole for rejecting my daughter's gift because 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,359 Speaker 1: she hid her mother's affair. This is about to get complicated, 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: and this is answering should the apparent child relationship be 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: placed above everything else. Let's make sure to answer that 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: at the end of this episode. This comes from far Appearances, 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: who says, my ex wife forty female and I forty 7 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: one male, have been divorced for a year now because 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: you had an affair, A good reason to get divorced. 9 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: She herself confessed to her affair a year later and 10 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: moved in with her affair partner. She herself confessed to 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: her affair a year later and moved in with her 12 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: affair partner, who she's now married to. I was pretty 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: to drop with the whole thing. We also have a daughter, 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: seventeen female. My daughter knew about the affair, but she 15 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: told me she hid it from me because she didn't 16 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: want to break up the family. It really hurt me 17 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: that she hid it from me for so long, but 18 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: I moved on. My daughter still apologizes for it, but 19 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: I told her that it is all right. My daughter 20 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: gave me a Father's Day gift, which was a handwritten 21 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: letter in a gift. 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: Okay, that's cute, that's cute. That's cute. 23 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: However, I was in no mood for a gift, so 24 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: I told her to keep it for herself. 25 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: Okay, buddy, okay. 26 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: My daughter seemed a bit shocked, and she went to 27 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: a room and I think she was crying when she 28 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: went to a room. 29 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 2: Was I the a hole? Sophia? Do you want to 30 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 2: sing the answer in harmony with me? 31 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: Oh? 32 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 2: Nice, beautiful? That was that was giving like church hymn. 33 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: So now getting into some livant Coleman's milk corn find 34 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: four says yes, in my opinion, that you're the a hole. 35 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: You say you told her it's all right, You say 36 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: you moved on. How do your actions live up to 37 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: your words? 38 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 2: Great question. 39 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: At least be honest with yourself and then to her 40 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: either move on or don't. But don't say everything's all 41 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: right and then not accept a gift from your daughter. 42 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: Plus maybe factor and she's a kid and in a 43 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: tough spot between your parents when you make some of 44 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: these evaluations, thousand percent gone to flin Flon says very 45 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: few adults would have courage to speak up in this scenario, 46 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: never mind a kid who probably didn't want to hurt 47 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: her dad. She needs her grace and you need to 48 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: show her how a person can move forward when life 49 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: is difficult. 50 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 2: You're the ahole. 51 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 1: Honestly, comment are spitting facts today. Hot mess Forever says, yes, 52 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: sorry for what happened to you, but you're the a hole. 53 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: Can you imagine the position she was in a child, 54 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: your child. She was afraid her home would break, her 55 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: nightmares come true, and you did this. You told her 56 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: it's okay, and then you crapped on her as if 57 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: it was her fault. 58 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: Shame on you. I get this is still raw for you, 59 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: but what about her judgment? You are the a hole. 60 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: I can understand op being Maybe I don't know if 61 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: frustrated or upset is the right word, like not feeling 62 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: good about the fact that she hit it, because that, 63 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: you know, prevented you from ending the relationship earlier. Yeah, 64 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: but you need to give her grace because she's your child. 65 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: She was scared, she didn't she didn't want to lose 66 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: her parents. 67 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean? 68 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: And I think I think she was just scared, and 69 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 1: you know she's she's seventeen years old. This is a 70 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: very complex emotional thing to navigate for a seventeen year old, Absolutely, 71 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: and like you just need to give her some grace. 72 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: And the fact that you didn't accept her father's Day 73 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: gift of a handwritten no is adorable, beautiful, beautiful, that 74 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: was not okay. I think you couldsider down and be like, 75 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: it would have been nice to know earlier and hear 76 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 1: from you. But I understand why you did it. 77 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that he's being a little bit harsh 78 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: on I think what you were saying I might have 79 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 3: misard you him reacting pretty harshly to a seventeen year old. Yeah, 80 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 3: a teenager who's having to pick and choose between parents 81 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 3: who are kind of putting her in the middle. And 82 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 3: I feel like he is continuing this pattern of putting 83 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 3: her in the middle of a situation that doesn't really 84 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 3: involve her. 85 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: Las gentlemen, we haven't updated one day later, so just 86 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 2: wanted to provide a quick update. 87 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: I did feel guilty after rejecting my daughter's gift yesterday, 88 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: and after reading a few comments, it was confirmed that 89 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: I was a day whole. I went to a room 90 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: yesterday apologize for everything. It really hurt me that I 91 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: made her cry that much. I told her that I 92 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: didn't mean it, and we had a chat. I got 93 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: the gift in the letter, and it was really sweet 94 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: and heartfelt, and I think through, Oh, it'll bring me 95 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: to tears. I felt really touched after reading it, and 96 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: I will preserve it forever. 97 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 2: There we go. For the rest of the day. 98 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: I took her out on a shopping trip, and then 99 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: in the evening we went to the theaters to watch 100 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: a movie. She seemed very happy. At night, we had 101 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: one more serious chat where I told her it wasn't 102 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: her fault at all. She says she still feels very 103 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: guilty about hiding the whole affair from me, because even 104 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: though she hated her mom for the affair, he was 105 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: worried about exposing the affair because of how the family 106 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: would fall apart. 107 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: I totally see where the daughter's. 108 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: Coming from and her conflicted nature, like I would immediately 109 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: forgive her. I told her that she shouldn't feel guilty 110 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: about anything, and that's not her faults at all, and 111 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: it's only her mom's faults. We then talked a bit 112 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: about her mom, and she agreed that if there's one 113 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: thing she's learned from the entire thing, it's not to 114 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: emulate her mom when she is an adults. I agreed, 115 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: and also told her that it was unfortunate that she 116 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: got such a mom. I told her we both need 117 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: to go to individual therapy to deal with a divorce, 118 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: right and her mom's selfish actions, and my daughter was 119 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: open to it, So we are going to start looking 120 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: for a therapist. Tune bad mouthing the cheating X right now. 121 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: The daughter is seventeen. She is, you know, in the 122 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: cusp of adulthood and the fact that she knows that 123 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: she cheated and things like that. I think that she's 124 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: definitely old enough to at least know the straightforward truth, yes, 125 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: of what happened. But yeah, how do you feel about 126 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: I think he said, it's unfortunate that you got a 127 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: mom like the one you have. 128 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 2: How do you feel about what? I think? 129 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 3: It is always a little bit risky to put down 130 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 3: another parent in front of a child, especially when who's 131 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 3: seventeen that is still young. I think in this scenario 132 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 3: there are ways where he can still kind of validate 133 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 3: her feelings and emotions without necessarily walking down. And John 134 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 3: can't respond to that because he's helping som Elias Magic says, 135 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 3: I was the daughter when I was sixteen seventeen. Don't 136 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 3: sugarcoat it. Don't pretend the cheating parent is good, and 137 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 3: be honest with the GAD. I think, yeah, that's that's true. 138 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 3: I think honesty is just especially because the daughter did 139 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 3: bring it up. It's not like OP was like your 140 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 3: mom sucks and you should hate her. It was the 141 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 3: daughter bringing up her emotions and feelings. So I think that, Yeah, yeah, 142 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 3: I think there's a way to tell the daughter to talk, 143 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 3: to validate the daughter's feelings without talking. 144 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent agree. Yeah, I think yeah, I 145 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: think you can, yeah. 146 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 3: Validate supercoading as slightly. Tobe says, I think that. I 147 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 3: think she's seventeen years years old. I think she's old 148 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 3: enough to know the detail, like not maybe not the details, 149 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 3: but yeah. 150 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: You know, he's straightforward details of she cheated. 151 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that was wrong. That's why i'm, you know, 152 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: leaving the relationship. I don't think that that's a. 153 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 3: I don't think that's that's I don't think that's talking 154 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 3: bad about her saying this is what happened totally. You 155 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 3: already know some of this because you were involved in 156 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: keeping his here so you already know agreed, uh, and 157 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 3: you're valid in feeling whatever you want to feel. I'm 158 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 3: not going to force a relationship with you and your mom. 159 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 3: If you want it, I'm not going to be against it. 160 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 3: But yeah, just like validating it. I think that's where 161 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 3: I'm at. 162 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: I agree. FAM's here and I'm sure new chair whoso 163 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonnasun. You have literally so much to catch you 164 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 2: up on. It's crazy. This has been a wild episode 165 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: yeah of stories. 166 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: So all right, uh, so we found the update and 167 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna give Sammy boy here who just joined a 168 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: quick t o the arm. So basically, here's what happened. 169 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: OPI had a deceased wife and then started dating ended 170 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: up dating this woman Millie. The issue is Opie was 171 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: like fifty one, his daughter was twenty one. The Millie 172 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: was the daughter's friend. 173 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: Milly was the daughter's friend. 174 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: Yes, so this fifteen year old guy starts dating his 175 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: daughter's friend ex friend, ex friend. 176 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: To be clear, why were they ex friends? 177 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: Because they had this big blow up and it was 178 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: it was it looked like for a while that they 179 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: had a relationship because his daughter is gay. 180 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: He was like basically dating someone that his daughter could 181 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: have been interested, Yes, crotch shot sopio oh yeah, oh yeah, yes. 182 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: But possibly, but basically so they did all this and 183 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: then Millie and the dad kept like basically hurting Op 184 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: and kind of stabbing Op in the back. The mill 185 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: Milli was like, hey, don't contact your dad for a 186 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 1: few days. We're going to be spicy sleeping all over 187 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: the place. 188 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 2: She the dad's not nice. 189 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: The dad, who, by the way, didn't refer to his 190 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: late wife as his late wife, rather his ex wife. 191 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 2: They never divorced, she just passed away. Sounds like he 192 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 2: murdered her. 193 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 1: Right he used He used the the wed ring to 194 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: try and bribe. He went to his daughter and he's like, hey, 195 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: I'll give you the wedding your deceased mother's wedding ring 196 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: if you come to our baby shower. He's you know, 197 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,959 Speaker 1: he marries and has a baby with her experen He's 198 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: using it as collateral. He's bribing her right with the 199 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: memory of her mother exactly. And the daughter of course 200 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: said no. So then he has the audacity to give 201 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: the ring to her ex friend to marry her and 202 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: have a baby with her, and then they crash. Opie's wedding. 203 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 1: She's like, I don't want you there. She did, I 204 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: don't want your your your wife fiance there. 205 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: You know the exprae crash the wedding. 206 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, because she has a panic attack. Wasn't real or not, 207 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: we don't know. He has a panic attack. So the 208 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: dad was invited. But the dad was like, oh, I 209 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 1: need her with me in case of a medical issue 210 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: or whatever, so brings her with They explicitly were like, 211 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: don't do it. 212 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 2: Don't do it. 213 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: Called right before the wedding, They're like, don't bring her, 214 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: don't bring her. He brings her anyways, she falls over, 215 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: causes a scene, wears a red dress. 216 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: It's a whole. It's intentionally, it's intentionally sabotage is Opie's wedding. 217 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: Everything, basically the big picture, everything Millie and the dad 218 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: do is trying to sabotage and hurt his daughter Bianca. 219 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:19,079 Speaker 2: And but they're doing it very sneakily. They're like, so 220 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 2: like none of the other family might like like could 221 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 2: hold it again? 222 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: Exactly all of that stuff. Right, So we have an update. 223 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: We heard from the dad, we heard from the daughter. Okay, 224 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: we are now hearing from the evil stepmom. The woman 225 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: who married the dad. 226 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 3: Oh my god, and this it's about to blow your mind. 227 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 2: Oh my god, my sock's blown off. 228 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: In another comment, he discloses that Millie is by and 229 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: at one point she and Bianca were in a relationship. 230 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 2: Is what I said, dude, which is what I said. 231 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: Do you think that Op's friend ex lover is doing 232 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 2: all this? 233 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 3: That's what I said. 234 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,839 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, is doing it for revenge, just 235 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 1: siphoning him of his money, is doing it to torture, Yes, 236 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,599 Speaker 1: to the degree of marrying and having a child with 237 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:10,959 Speaker 1: this guy. 238 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 2: I mean, this is like top tier evil, low key 239 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 2: commitment to the bit though, bro, ultimate commitment to the bit. 240 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: My god. 241 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: Who knows if the relationship had ended even before Milly 242 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: hooked up with the dad and got pregnant, so they 243 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: might even heating, maybe maybe. 244 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 2: Might have College's dad. Did the dad know that they 245 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,079 Speaker 2: were dating or no? Not. 246 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 3: I don't believe until his daughter, Banca said he started 247 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 3: dating her. Yes, and then Beyonca, his daughter, was like, hey, 248 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:44,199 Speaker 3: I know this girl. And I think also someone in 249 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 3: the chat, and I didn't see this comment, but someone 250 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 3: in the chat said that dad didn't recognize their Bianca 251 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 3: and Millie's relationship as like real. 252 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: But he still knew they were friends. No, no, eventually 253 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 2: until until, not until Beyonca told him so he did. 254 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: He was dating her to some degree, and then once 255 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: they finally met in person, Bianca was like, Yo, this 256 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: is her, I know her, this is my ex friend, 257 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: ex lover x something. All right, let's get into this, Okay, 258 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: let's do it. So Hi, all, this one's been upsetting 259 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: me for weeks. I have just gotten engaged to my partner, 260 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: Sean fifty one male that's his real name, who I 261 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: love very very much, and I've been living with the 262 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: past few months. I'm working on planning our wedding next summer. 263 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: He has a daughter, Bianca twenty one female, my future stepdaughter, which, 264 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: by the way, when Beyonca is twenty one, Millie, the 265 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: person writing this post is twenty nine, so. 266 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,599 Speaker 2: She's eight years younger, older, older. 267 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 1: Than the daughter. But the dad is fifty one, so 268 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: they're like, what which is a large age gag? Large 269 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: twenty two. 270 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: Year age gaga? 271 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, he has one daughter, Bianca twenty one female, 272 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 1: my future stepdaughter with his wife who passed away four 273 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 1: years ago and who absolutely hates me. And has from 274 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: the start because I met her him online and she 275 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: is pretty conservative in my opinion. 276 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 2: Shut up, Oh my god, so we're getting this is 277 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: a double This is a double feature. We're getting the 278 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 2: other side. 279 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 3: Now we're getting. No, this is a triple feature. Sam, 280 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: we got the dad side and Millie. 281 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: So this is Millie's side now, Yes, yes, dude, it is. Wow. 282 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 2: I don't think we've had a triple feature ever. But 283 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 2: an okay story type history. 284 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 1: By the way, this is her saying pretty conservative, my 285 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: opinion is so stupid because Millie, who's writing this post, 286 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: would not allow Bianca or didn't want Bianca at her 287 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: wedding because. 288 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 2: I didn't want her wife at the west But Beianca's 289 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 2: twenty three, Millie's twenty nine, Beyonca's dad's fifty one. Yes, okay. 290 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: At this point is the writing, and it spans the 291 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 2: years though the whole story and. 292 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: When when spans yes, and when when Milly was getting 293 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: married this was deeper into the years of that. She 294 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,599 Speaker 1: was like, I don't want your daughter's wife at the 295 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: wedding because it's a Catholic church. 296 00:13:56,760 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 2: I don't want your daughter's banka wife. Yes, because they 297 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 2: were lesbian. Oh, she's like, you can't have your your 298 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 2: I want you Bianca. 299 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: You know my dad's I want my husband's daughter to 300 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: be there, but you're not allowed to have your wife 301 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: in here because it's the Catholic church. 302 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: When they were in a bisexual relationships, is Milly saying 303 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 2: that yes, yes, or they were in a relationship with 304 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 2: each other, I should say rather wow a romantic Somilli 305 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: is like, oh, she's super conservative, yet she was banning 306 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 2: her ex lover from being at the wedding and she. 307 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: Herself is bisexual. This is crazy anyways, more gas letting 308 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: so like, literally every layer is just pure insanity. So 309 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: me and her I have really struggled to live in 310 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: the same house. I wasn't trying to replace her mom. Yeah, 311 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: you were just trying to ruin her life. But I 312 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: did want to be friendly, so I asked her on 313 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: days out and trips abroad with us and asked if 314 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: she wanted to work on decorating the house with me. 315 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: I am very respectful of her mom at the time. 316 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: I doubt that while redecorating her house, I put up 317 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: lots of photos of her and I never tried to 318 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: butt in when Sean and Bianca went to visit her 319 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: mom's family or grave Bianca again. The daughter had been 320 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: planning to move out with a friend for months and 321 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: was just starting to pack up her bedroom when two 322 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: months ago I asked Sean if we could turn our 323 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: spare room, which she has been using as a music room, 324 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: into an office slash shooting space for my work, which 325 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: involves social media. Since I need the space for work 326 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: and Bianca barely uses the room, Sean agreed, and Bianca 327 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: kicked off at both of us, lashing out at me 328 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: and breaking my camera. She moved out the next week 329 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: and told Sean that she won't see me unless she's warned. 330 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: I'll be at an event in advance, you know, not 331 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: a cool move breaking the camera and whatnot. But this 332 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: event that just happened, that was the like what set 333 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: everything off in the So this this is like the 334 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: catalyst event. Yes, and we are I think we're about 335 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: to have maybe years ago, Yeah, this is a few 336 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: years ago. This is we might be recanting the journey 337 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: from solid perspective. Okay, So basically it starts with with 338 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: this broke can This is like, yeah, this is the 339 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: catalysis start of the fire. 340 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: Is Milly admitting that she was in a relationship with Bianca. 341 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 2: She's not admitting that right now. She's not admitting that 342 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 2: right now. Okay, it's just like this crazy step daughter 343 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: broke my camera. She's mad because we met online. 344 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: No, she's mad because you two were in a relationship 345 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: and now you're dating her freaking father. 346 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 2: That's why she's mad, right, yes, which we're unsure if 347 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 2: Milly is admitting to this, so far she has omitted it. Okay, 348 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: she has omitted. 349 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: So. It was my birthday recently and I asked Sean 350 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: to go to a specific restaurant which was a bit 351 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: fancy and I had heard was super tasty. We got 352 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: there and it turns out, yes, Sam Bianca was working 353 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: as a server there, which I did not know about. 354 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 2: Liar. 355 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: Bianca behaved like a baby, looking at me like she 356 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: wanted to murk me, barging into our table, and when 357 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: I asked her to stop for the bill, she slapped 358 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: the table hard enough to make me jump. She later 359 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: called Sean and made up lies about me being bishy 360 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: and cruel remarks when Sean went to the toilet, and 361 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: now refuses to contact either of us at all. That 362 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:12,120 Speaker 1: was the point in Bianca's POV where Milly said, don't 363 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: contact your dad for a few days. We're going to 364 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: be having spicies. 365 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: But Milly is not saying she's not. Once again, all right, 366 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 2: I just dropped in so far from Millie's point of view, 367 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: Bianca sounds like a terror hearing hearing I'd like from 368 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 2: both literally only only hearing from I've dropped into, like 369 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: and depart in a part three. If I had just 370 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 2: only heard this story and none of the context, I 371 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 2: would be like, oh my god, Bianca is mad that 372 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 2: like a younger, like say, a younger dating partner is 373 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 2: getting with her dad or something. 374 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: But you know who we're dealing with here, Sam, not 375 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: a master manipulator, the impress of manipulation, the impress of evil. 376 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: This is this is from from we've because we heard 377 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: the dad and Beyonca's whole side of. 378 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: The story to their their stories lineup, the. 379 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 1: Events line up. But for instance, the dad was like, oh, 380 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: I tried to offer her the ring. Yeah, he tried 381 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 1: to bribe her with it to get her to behave 382 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 1: how he wanted. And then he turns right around and 383 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: gives his late wife's ring. 384 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: So interested to see what happens with Millie and the ring, 385 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 2: because like, is it cool to give your dad's wife's 386 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: ring to your new partner pass it down to them? 387 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 2: Is that cute? I feel like that's horrible. Yeah, we 388 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 2: already talked about but it's so great though. It's like 389 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: adding a new what did you guys? You guys decided, No, 390 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 2: it's not cute, absolutely not. Well, it's like I want 391 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 2: my wife to live on through you. That's what he said. 392 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 2: I said that. He was like, I want to connect. 393 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 2: I want to between my old wife and my new 394 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 2: wife so they can always have a threesome with a 395 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 2: ghost wife present. 396 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: Basically, yes, Bianca does not know that we are engaged. 397 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 1: They were engaged way earlier than we knew. She did 398 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: know we were planning to try for a baby, but 399 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,719 Speaker 1: we honestly thought it would take far longer for us 400 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: to get pregnant. I found out last week that I 401 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: am five months pregnant and we are so happy. I'm sorry, 402 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: five weeks I have allayed asked. I thought that last 403 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: week that I'm five weeks pregnant and we are so happy. 404 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 2: Thank you. 405 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: The problem is Sean is talking about reaching out to 406 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 1: Bianca again to see if she wants to be a 407 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,399 Speaker 1: part of our lives and the baby's life. He thinks 408 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: that with some therapy, we can all live together and 409 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: play happy families live together. Absolutely not. I can't see that, 410 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: and I don't want that to happen. I am scared 411 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: that Bianca will visit and try to turn Sean against 412 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: me and my baby, and that she. 413 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 2: Will ruin my baby's childhood. 414 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: She is violent and manipulative, and I'm honestly scared of 415 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 1: her and don't want to be around her, especially while pregnant. 416 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do because I have tried 417 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: to encourage Sean to cut contact completely with Bianca, but 418 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 1: I think if I push too hard, he'll turn against me. 419 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 2: She didn't. She ended the Yeah, she ended her story there. 420 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: So there's a lot more that happens after that point 421 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 1: in Bianca and the dad's storylines. 422 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, she has omitted a lot, like even did this such? 423 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 2: It's so it's it's so short, I imagine compared to 424 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 2: the other sides. Right, yes, is barely anything. Yeah, Millie 425 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,879 Speaker 2: is omitting a lot per side, Like why didn't Bianca 426 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 2: just go no contact? He did? She did basically. 427 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 1: So basically what she said was very early, like I 428 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: think around the time of the incident where she like 429 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: smashes her camera and she moves out whatever. She's like, 430 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: I want to go no contact except for like big 431 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: family events like like a like a family reunion or right, 432 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: or like visiting the grave together as like a whole 433 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: family or something like that. Basically, the dad is trying 434 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: to like restart the relationship with Bianca, which I think 435 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 1: my guess is he selfishly wants to look good through 436 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: the outside world. 437 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 2: So it's not actually because he's trying to repair the relationship. 438 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: It's all just for image, I believe, and I think 439 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: that again going back to the incident where he he 440 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 1: offers the ring as like a token of a bribe, like, hey, 441 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: just come to the baby shower with us in the 442 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: extended family and just like play be family, become family 443 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 1: again in front of everyone, and I will give you 444 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: the ring. 445 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 2: She said no. 446 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,719 Speaker 1: He then turns around and gives the ring to Millie 447 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: instead of you know wow, which feels like an f 448 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: U exactly. And he never he never acknowledges that like, 449 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: oh this thing might have hurt her or whatever. I 450 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: will say like one thing we heard from that story, 451 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: She's like, Beanca smash the camera, which could be true, 452 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: Like I could see that being true. But basically, over 453 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 1: the story, turn after turn after turn, the dad and 454 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: Millie stab Bianca in the back basically every time in 455 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: the grand scheme of things. So that doesn't like justify 456 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: you know, Beonca smashing the camera. 457 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: I feel like they're all a little drama, uh beyond 458 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 2: I could I could. 459 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 1: I could see that, Like I could see that, And 460 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: granted it's it's a little unfair because you didn't get 461 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 1: we we got literally the entire perspective from Beiyanca and 462 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 1: the dad. 463 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 2: But even if it's even just the camera thing, the 464 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,959 Speaker 2: camera thing is bad. The camera thing is bad. Did 465 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 2: did did Bianca say that? 466 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: I think either the dad or Bianca's Yeah, that's an 467 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: important thing. The dad also didn't mention it, which that honestly, 468 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: I feel like he would have mentioned that. 469 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm surprised that the dad didn't mention it. That's 470 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 2: and he mentioned many other things. He his dad called 471 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,479 Speaker 2: Beyanca's daughter a manipulator, and yeah, so if he if 472 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,919 Speaker 2: he's looking for more stuff to show that she's a manipulator, 473 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:36,479 Speaker 2: and crazy. 474 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he talk about the camera room she broke 475 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: the camera and all the stuff. And also this is 476 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 1: like a small thing, but Bianca was planning to move out, 477 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 1: and like it seems like one to three months. She 478 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 1: ended up moving out the next week because she was upset. 479 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: So it's like, and he didn't have to do this, 480 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 1: This I think is less of a big thing. He 481 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: could have given her the room for like one or 482 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: two months, so like, you know, makes some music, have 483 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 1: fun and then give it to this woman he wants 484 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: to have a baby with and spend his life with 485 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: for eternity. Afterwards, there's just yeah, there was a wild ride, dude, 486 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 1: crazy all through perspectives, absolutely nuts, bonkers, absolutely nuts. Let's 487 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: wrap it up with finally, once and for all, answering 488 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: the question of this episode, which is should the parent 489 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 1: child relationship be placed above everything else? 490 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 2: I mean, is this case that I that I'm thrown 491 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 2: in the deep end? I think he should have prioritized 492 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 2: his daughter's relationship over the manipulator. 493 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 1: I generally think that you should do that because, like 494 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 1: you know, people do have relationships and split, but like 495 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: breaking relationship is it's very different. 496 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,200 Speaker 2: It's very different. It's very different. 497 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: And I feel like it's more your responsibility to care 498 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: and guide your child through life than it is to 499 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: guide your partner, because you are presumably in equal stages 500 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:03,400 Speaker 1: in life, whereas you are guiding your child from the beginning, 501 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: and you decided to have this child and decided to 502 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 1: take that responsibility. 503 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you are as a parent, you are the foundation 504 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 2: on which a child builds the rest of their life. 505 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 2: And so it's like you are so instrumental in showing 506 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 2: what love looks like, what respect looks like, and if 507 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 2: you erode those things, you kind of have a child 508 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 2: that has this destabilized foundation, which you know, you go 509 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 2: through like years of therapy to maybe rebuild again. But 510 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 2: I think that, yeah, I think it's it's way more 511 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 2: important for a child to have that strong base than 512 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 2: I think a romantic partner and. 513 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 1: Because your magic partner was presumably at a roughly equal 514 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: way more equal life stage. 515 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, dating unless you're nine year old and you're fifty yeah, 516 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 4: fifty one to three, which is I once had a 517 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,439 Speaker 4: date within that age gap, and. 518 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 2: It was weird. It was weird. It was weird. It 519 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 2: was weird. I don't think I think it's weird. I 520 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: don't know how you I don't know how people do it. 521 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I will say, like past thirty, it 522 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 1: does equalize a little bit, it equalize a little bit more. Still, 523 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: it's just I don't know, it's just it feels it 524 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: feels like. 525 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 2: But still it feels weird. 526 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, But generally, generally we agree, Sophia, would you say 527 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: the same, like generally that like child parent relationship will 528 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: generally kind of like take precedent over a romantic relationship. 529 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: Agree, there we go. 530 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: Well, ladies and gentlemen, we might not have seen a 531 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 1: lot of love in these stories, but if you love us, 532 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 1: please make sure to subscribe. 533 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 2: We love you and see. This is an episode from 534 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 2: Deep within the Archives. Time for okop rewash. 535 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: Today aft up by talking about fucking in front of 536 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: my grandma. 537 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: That's not what you do, grandma. You talk about like 538 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 2: nice things like church or pastries. Church and pastries are 539 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 2: very nice things to talk about with your grandmother. But 540 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:04,119 Speaker 2: you fucking looking. How did you do it back in 541 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 2: the twenties, Well, I had at least four partners. The 542 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,479 Speaker 2: twenties were actually a crazy time. Twenties were you were 543 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 2: slapping the twenties, I was, I was saying, I bat 544 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 2: people back in they were the if not crazier, Well, 545 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 2: forties they weren't as crazy. Sixties were a little crazy. Twenties. 546 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 2: They were a little crazy eighties, a little crazy. 547 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 1: Eighties, a little crazy Well. This was actually this story 548 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: Sam was submitted by green Eyed Fond twenty two to our. 549 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: Own sub rits Okop show. 550 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: That's right, so send in stories and we will read 551 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: them like this one. 552 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 2: So let's get into it. 553 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,680 Speaker 1: And this was several years ago, and I had made 554 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: the post on read it before, but my account ended 555 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: up getting deleted. This all started when I adopted this sweet, 556 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 1: cute little puppy. He was about four or five months 557 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: old at the time of the story, and a big goofball. 558 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: My sister and I were only young teenagers at the time. 559 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 1: I had gone to our local Walmart and had a 560 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: car load of groceries that we had to bring in. 561 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 1: My sister and I brought all the items and set 562 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: them on the floor like usual. No big deal, right, 563 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: No big deal wrong, stupid. Can't believe you would think that. God, 564 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: you disgust me and your whole family, your whole lineage. 565 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: Literally pisces me off. God, just stop existing. Yeah, how 566 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: about you just control history. I wish your dad and 567 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: your mom never fucked. Thank you, you wouldn't have been made. 568 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: Think about that, think about your mom and dad. Fucking 569 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 1: oh boy, I want you to do it. Our podcast 570 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 1: retention is just dropped. We had finished putting our items 571 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: away and I went to grab the last bag, but 572 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: it was gone. Our dearly beloved puppy thought it would 573 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: be fun to grab it and run around the whole house, 574 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: tearing it up as he thought it. It was his 575 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: play time. Stupid dog, you made me look bad. My 576 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 1: sister starts yelling at me, grab him, grab him, and 577 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: I'm crouched down trying to get him to come to me, 578 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 1: and he's just not doing it. He just stops for 579 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,719 Speaker 1: a minute and then starts ripping the plastic into pieces 580 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: like a little fucking monster. I looked at my sister 581 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: and say, why don't you fucking help me? I could 582 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 1: grab him if you do. I stopped dead when I 583 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 1: hear a gasp from none other than my old, withering grandmother. 584 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: She looks at me and says, did you just say fucking? 585 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: And I'm at a loss for words. But I just say, yeah, yeah, 586 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: I did. 587 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 2: Granny. 588 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 1: I never once said Kristen in front of my grandmama, 589 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: And she was taken aback and quickly called my aunt 590 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: up and said, your niece said fucking, and all I 591 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: could hear is laughter coming from the other end of 592 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: the phone. My sister did eventually help me and we 593 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 1: got the bag away from the puppy. But I've never 594 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: been so embarrassed in all of my life. It'll be 595 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: something I will never forget. 596 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 2: Well, you should be embarrassed, and actually you should be 597 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 2: ostracized through your family and completely disowned. Yes, yeah, how 598 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 2: dare you say the F word? I've never said the 599 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 2: F word. I literally have never said fuck once. I've 600 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 2: never said fucking in my home. I will literally like 601 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 2: fuck up the person that says fucking because that is 602 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 2: fucking disrespectful and I fucking can't fucking take it anymore serious. 603 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: Fuck you to the person that says fuck. But you 604 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 2: know what, you know what people can fucking do, Sam, 605 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 2: What can they fucking do, John? They could go to 606 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: fucking r slash Camfy show and fucking submitted story about 607 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 2: fucking or something fucking else. That's right, So go fucking 608 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 2: do it. God fuck you. 609 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: Okay, OPI today I FD up by thinking divorce was 610 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 1: an April Fools gag? 611 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 2: What dude, how do you mess up that bad? 612 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 1: You know it could happen? Apparently, Opie says, let me 613 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: preface this off by. 614 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 2: Blaming all of you. All of you. It's your fault. 615 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: The entirety of Reddit for desensitizing me and giving me 616 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 1: major trust issues for April Fool's Day. So anyways, here 617 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 1: it goes. Yesterday, I got a group text from my 618 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: wife Sarah's side of the family stating there was an 619 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 1: emergency family meeting happening that night over dinner. 620 00:29:58,280 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 2: At my in laws Barb's house. 621 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I immediately had April Fool's Spidey senses just starting 622 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: to tingle. Okay, because we haven't all gotten together since Christmas. 623 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 2: But I overlooked it and it's like, oh, fun family gathering, 624 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 2: let's do it. Yeah, or maybe not so fun. Oh no. 625 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 1: So we were the last to arrive and it was 626 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: pretty somber when we walked it. We all sat down 627 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: at the table and my wife's brother Tim informed the 628 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: family that his wife, Ashley, has been having an affair 629 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: and they are divorcing. 630 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 2: Wait, is Ashley there? Ashley is? It seems in the room. Bro. Yeah, 631 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 2: that is some news I know, like for the whole family. 632 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,479 Speaker 2: And Ashley is there. I had the same like, bro, 633 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 2: like she's there, like if I was. 634 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 1: The affair was with a longtime close family friend, Chris, 635 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: who lived a block away. 636 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 2: Oh no, Chris, Chris, come on, buddy. 637 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: Chris's wife Jen had caught them when she came home 638 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 1: early one day last week and broke the news to 639 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: my brother in law Tin. 640 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 641 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: Now here's the thing. Both families had been friends for years. 642 00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 1: They live less than a block from each other, and 643 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: they have been married for fifteen plus years and have four. 644 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 2: Kids around the name. Oh no, dude, it's really rough. 645 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 2: They're rough, not good. 646 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: Honestly, I've always thought that both of them were picture 647 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: perfect family. I guess not so picture perfect after all, 648 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: so picture perfect after all. So anyways, after airing out 649 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,719 Speaker 1: a lot of dirty laundry and their plans to divorce, 650 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 1: how it could affect the future of family functions and 651 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 1: and all that, they opened it up to the group 652 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: for any question, which is also an interesting. 653 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is like very democratic, Like, yeah, they are 654 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 2: getting into force. Are there any questions from the. 655 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: Jury meritocracy of divorce? After they asked, there was silence, 656 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: and I broke the silence okay, with laughter, okay, and. 657 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 2: A slow class. So here's what Opie said. 658 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: I said, this was the best April Fools gag I've 659 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 1: ever seen, but I. 660 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 2: Wasn't following for it. No, please, it gets worst. Just 661 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 2: just buckle in, just buckle in. 662 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: I told Ashley the wife, and especially Tim, they need 663 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: to consider going into theater because their performances were top 664 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 1: notch and their tears seemed genuine. 665 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 2: Oh no, I mean even April fools. It was April 666 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:26,320 Speaker 2: fools on this particular it was actually April fool. Actually 667 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,959 Speaker 2: just the time. You can't break serious news on April fools. 668 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, oh man. 669 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 1: So Ope goes on to say, being the newest member 670 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: of the family, my wife and I are married six 671 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: months ago, this was probably not the thing to say 672 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: in hindsight, and you know, looking back, I probably wouldn't 673 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 1: have said anything. 674 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 2: I agree with that. Yeah, you should not have said that. 675 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 1: Everyone in the room looked horrified. My mother in law, 676 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,240 Speaker 1: who had been crying the entire time, lost all composure. 677 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 1: She left the room hysterics and did not return before 678 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: we left. 679 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not I mean, it's not because of op, 680 00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 2: it's just because of the situation. 681 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: I think it's a combination of both. Like, like, you're 682 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: crying the whole time, and then someone just starts laughing 683 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: and slow clapping pain. Tim just shook his head, and 684 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: his cheating wife actually led out a brief chuckle before 685 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: calling me an idiot for thinking this was a ruse. 686 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 1: Oh no, then berated me for being so insensitive about this. 687 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 1: The rest of the family sat in silence, just shaking 688 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 1: their heads as my wife beraided me for trying to 689 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 1: make a joke out of such a serious situation. Oh geez, 690 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 1: I am still dumbfounded. In hindsight, I probably should have 691 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 1: sat in silence, probably, but I honestly still feel like 692 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,480 Speaker 1: I was calling out an April. 693 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 2: I still believe it's an April. 694 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: He still you know, he's like, you know what, and 695 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: not like it still feels like this was a setup. 696 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 1: Even knowing the truth, it still felt like it was 697 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: a setup. 698 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 2: Now. 699 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 1: Usually the edits that people add to these posts are 700 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: not so grand, not good. These ones, however, are probably 701 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 1: the best I've ever seen, so we're going to dive 702 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 1: into them. 703 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 2: Edit. 704 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: I don't think I'll be posting the nest video of 705 00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: this situation anymore. 706 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 2: So he had the record of the mess cocurity thing. 707 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 1: This blew up, and I just got multiple texts from 708 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: my wife telling me I fed up even more by 709 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 1: posting this on Reddit as she saw it on the 710 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:11,800 Speaker 1: front page. 711 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,240 Speaker 2: And oh my gosh, and I didn't change anyone's names 712 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 2: he used. It's cardinal sin number one. You always changed 713 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 2: the names. Bro, Bro, my god. All right, we got 714 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 2: a few more. Edit. Okay, it's been fun everyone. 715 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 1: I may see you all again next week with the 716 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: Today I fed up by making a Today I fed 717 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,760 Speaker 1: up post about a divorce, ultimately leading to my own divorce. 718 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 2: Edit. 719 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 1: Oh, this post is going to be deleted. It's been fun. 720 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,280 Speaker 1: Just got home from work and my wife is pissed. 721 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 1: Final edit f it. It could be me making another 722 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 1: bad decision in a series of bad decisions. But my 723 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: wife said to leave his post up. Apparently it further 724 00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,800 Speaker 1: shows her family, who's also on Reddit. How big of 725 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 1: a dummy I am. Thanks to everyone who said I'm 726 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 1: not the ahole. I may have autism, but I'm not 727 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: an a whole, so that, honestly, he would have been 728 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,320 Speaker 1: good information at the top of the story. 729 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 2: What a situation. Damn, that is crazy. I mean, I 730 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 2: feel bad for Op for not reading a room, but 731 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,399 Speaker 2: it's hard to read a room on April fools. Bro, Yeah, 732 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 2: April fools go on and like he says he was, 733 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 2: he is. 734 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: He is a redditor, so he's a re editor read 735 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: ten million April Fools jokes and he was like, I'm proud. 736 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 2: All right, I ready, I'm going to get this one out. 737 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 2: I'm not going to get God. But you know what 738 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 2: you should always suss out before you leave. What you 739 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,280 Speaker 2: should suss out where that subscribe button is and slap 740 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 2: it's silly. 741 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: Wow, what a ladies and gentlemen, what a subscribe connection 742 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: that one is there? 743 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,760 Speaker 2: We go subscribe just for the connection.