WEBVTT - Episode 389: Meet the Parents (Feat Ar'mon Warren) 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:05.240 What's up his lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gi McGuire, 0:00:05.400 --> 0:00:13.760 I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Laura Moura Stephanie's bag. Everybody's like, 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:18.200 where the hell is Stephanie? Welcome back? Thanks. I just 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:20.239 wanted to point it out because people always say where 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:22.720 is Stephanie? So? Yeah, no, I was just going through 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:25.640 some things, through some life changes. Okay, I need a 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:28.720 little break. Alright, Well our mind, this is your second 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:32.559 time you're back to thank you? Back up? No, backup? 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:41.559 How you got your promise? Bring on? Yeah, you can 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:50.040 say yeah, but no, first all I don't know why. Okay, 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:56.480 all right, that's nice matching. Y'all got each other nice gifts. Yeah. 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:58.319 Is it like a company, you know, how you try 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:01.240 to one up somebody likes when you date somebody and 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:03.000 it's your birthday first, and you're like, let me see 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:05.240 what's about to happen, right, so I can see what 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:07.840 type of level I need to respond on? Yeah, I 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:09.920 think that's yeah. I think I was kind of like, 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.120 because I she come, I was like, yeah, I can't 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:17.160 even come no softer than she come hard? Averaingle time? Right? 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:21.399 You think women are better gift givers usually, um, I 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:24.280 think so. I think man is kind of well, the 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:27.560 right man to be more like um, more affectionate. But 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:31.400 I think women are more like thoughtful when it comes 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:34.679 to giving. You know what do you think too? I 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:37.240 absolutely think so. It's always the thought that counts, and 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:41.000 I think we pay a little bit more attention to detail, 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:44.280 and I think we remember more. So you might have 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.600 mentioned something months down the line and will make a 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:51.400 mental note like okay, Valentine's Day coming up, or I 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:54.920 like that, you know. And so yeah, I think women definitely, 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:58.480 but um, men are good gift givers. It depends on 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:02.760 some good gifts. Me. Yeah, I was and said everything. Yeah, 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:05.320 I was gonna say, I think men are much better 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:12.240 gift givers. I give every man the same thing, YEA, 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:19.720 like a nice neighbor. Yeah, especially when you have a 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.079 man like that. It's like what can you get somebody 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:23.920 that has every everything in the fact that when you 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:27.359 know that you're thoughtful and you observe things and you know, okay, 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:29.400 you got this. But I think this would be easier 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:32.840 because of that. So, yeah, women are more thoughtful, but 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:36.079 guys usually spend more. I feel they're going way better 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:42.560 gifts from the most expensive gifts aren't necessarily the best 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:46.200 when exactly like that's true, that's true because he could 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.520 get any girl expensive gift when you think about what 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:52.000 you get is what meaning got me? Is the meaning 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:55.280 behind Yeah, and there's there's been a gift that just 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:59.040 maybe a card or something that I've held more to 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:02.360 my heart than a watch or a person. You know, 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:08.680 like I think, of course, I don't know. Well, yeah, 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:16.000 you're right, whatever, Yeah, I agree with like, you know, 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:20.160 guys do get the more expensive gifts because I think 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.320 I don't know why. It depends to the women that 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:27.200 you're with. Some women prefer expensive gifts, some women prefer 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:29.720 more thoughtful gifts. It just depends the person you're with 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.760 and the type of it depends on how long you've 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:33.800 been with them. Okay, so let's say you're dating somebody 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:36.080 right and their birthday is coming up in two weeks, 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.680 but you just started dating, Yeah, what do you do, Like, 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:42.240 what type of present do you get somebody that early 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:46.440 when it's their birthday for the girl or for the 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.080 guy for a girl, and then we'll talk about for 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:51.920 the guy, But what's appropriate like super early on somebody 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:56.280 you like and you need tolet you're gonna get a wallet, 0:03:56.320 --> 0:04:01.960 no matter what, man, really, men really appreciate you a 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:06.000 wallet if you are doing it too. Um no, a 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:09.720 better wallet right for like an hour wallet. And now 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:14.760 now man, first, now that you look, you start with 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:20.080 you start with credit holder, you start and even the 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:27.000 place also upgrades the a foldable one. The wallet. Yeah, 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:31.120 their purses now they got like you knows got like 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:36.440 guy's got your first. You know that that's out a guy. 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.280 You see you get a briefcase and get a bad 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:45.760 you get you get there trying to treatment getting man, 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:50.160 you're getting lugging. What's Yeah, what's the garment bag? You know? Government? 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:55.880 I know bag? Um no, no, I'm not the garment 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:59.960 bag and SWR bag. That's that's what the passport hold. 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.360 Yeah you know what I mean. But I'm gonna tell 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:05.719 my girl now, baby, I love your gifts. Don't get 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:14.839 me the bags. I like the gift. I need a wallet. 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.160 I don't have one. No, I'm telling you it's really 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:20.720 very beautiful diamond bracelet. Like oh no, no, it's not 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:23.920 my first one. One of you've been together six months. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:26.520 But she like like like you'all were saying, I don't. 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:28.240 She didn't come out giving me. She came out and 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:31.360 gave me like a hat. What I'm saying, what type 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:35.160 of hat? Okay? Yeah, So she was like, how did 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:37.720 you feel when she gave that to you? Oh, that's 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:40.640 a great question. That's a great question. I felt like 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:45.560 that's a good idea. Yeah, inspired, I was, Yeah, I 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:48.559 feel like sometimes even used to getting gifts like that. Yeah, 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.400 like I just didn't. I wasn't expecting her to get 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:55.640 me a gift. That's it wasn't no occasion. It was 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:57.760 just thinking of you. I saw this. I think she 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.040 didn't have to. She was out. It wasn't like we 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:03.320 were like serious serious, he was like we were still 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:05.360 in that frand stage and she was like, yeah, got 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.440 you a gift. I'm like what she was doing the 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:12.200 reverse um but the ecology. I get you this and 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.880 then you got a one up me. She was laying 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:22.320 out there, she was laying out, she tipped over. She 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:26.680 gets everybody a jewelry box for their watches with their 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:32.720 like name and every guy her friend. Yeah. Yeah, so 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.440 she does that and then they always get her like 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:38.240 a better gift. But that's her gift. What's the worst gift? 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:43.679 You ever got, Like thinking back ever, um, probably nothing. Well, 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:50.359 and that feels like again, when you're expecting a gift 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:52.240 and you get the person a gift and then they 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:55.279 don't get you anything in return, it's like, well damn, yeah, exactly. Yeah. 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:59.159 I have a story about that when years ago I 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:01.359 had a very cool those friend and I guess he 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:03.760 thought that we were a little more involved than what 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:06.320 we were and for Christmas, he got me a gift 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.720 and I guess he was expecting one in return, and 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:12.400 I didn't. I felt bad, but it's like I feel 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:16.480 like he was expecting, like looking at our situation differently 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.360 than I was, Like I didn't think that. What did you? 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.360 Did you acknowledge it or did you not say anything? 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:22.680 I didn't say anything at the time. It was a 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:25.640 really long time ago, but I just I wasn't expecting 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.400 a gift. That's what you should have went online him 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.480 a gift and when we saw each other and he's like, 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.400 I got you a gift, and I'm like, oh, things 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:36.160 like and I felt Ruth, Chris how didn't have anything? 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.880 I mean, I've given gifts and not expect It was 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:42.560 just like that, like it was like a thoughtful thing. 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:44.600 It was like, yeah, even when we went plenty of 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:49.040 ever like them the garment bag, like his bag looked 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.440 so uncomfortable and I was just happy to be and 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.480 there was nothing expense. I was on Amazon and I 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:55.600 saw a really dope garment bag and I'm like, oh, 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:58.080 this would be cooler. Let me get this. And I 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.320 got that, and I like, yeah, I'm not a spect 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:03.600 than anything. It's just if you know, seeing his his 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.880 expression when he got it, like oh ship, like you 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.200 really thought, you know, I think it's nice to get 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:13.880 guys things that they wouldn't get themselves, like you know, like, so, 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:15.760 how would you feel if you got somebody a gift 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.080 and they gave it to somebody else? Oh re gifting? 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:21.600 Or how would you feel if you've got somebody a 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:25.840 gift and they just kept it but like never used it. Well, 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:30.040 that's bad gift given. Yeah what if they exchanged it, 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:34.040 that's still bad gift given. But if they were honest, 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:37.160 Like because my friend Jasmine, she brought me a gift 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.760 and I love it, but she was like, if you 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.839 don't like it, it's okay, here's the receipt, go exchange it. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:44.319 And I didn't. I really like it, but I wouldn't 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:46.680 be wrong to do that. And then he only got 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.680 me a present one time for helping him do a deal, 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:54.640 and I exchanged it. Yeah that's what And I said. 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:56.680 I came in, I had on the Louis Vutton coo. 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:59.199 I said, thank you for this coat that bag that 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.320 you and gig on me. I switched it out and 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.360 got something I like better, because when don't you want 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:08.840 somebody to go like yeah, yeah, And that's the thing, 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.199 like maybe shoes for like my girl. But like if 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.679 anything I heard style is I'll probably be like yo, 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:20.560 you know what I'm saying. Here certificate and he just 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:24.720 never used it. You would never know they like I 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:28.040 still sitting there on keeping with me everywhere I go, 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:32.240 but I've just never used it. Well if it's well, 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.440 it's not really weird because if they if they keep 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.240 it on him, then it must mean something. That's what 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.760 I'm saying. What I'm saying, let's talk about it, because 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:43.839 you tell me said it was a um. It was 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:46.360 a gift certificate to the spot at the Four Seasons 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.120 and I gave it to him for his birthday and 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:53.520 he just never used it. Can get it? He would 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:56.280 go get massages at like other places. But he was like, 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:58.680 I'm a like make an appointment and make it like 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.640 a whole day, and like really like do it when 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:03.640 I really need to feel like I want to do that, 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.319 and he just, I mean we broke up, so it 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:07.599 don't matter because we didn't take it back when I 0:10:07.840 --> 0:10:11.960 never used it. He's not he didn't know because it's 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:15.360 the best spar and the like. He just wasn't the 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:22.760 Atlanta but still like but and it was enough to 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.840 get like the best massage plus a great tip. You know, 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.199 everything he had to do was making a pointment a 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:32.760 show up. Now, how would you film why? I don't 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:37.319 know how to get it back? Because I get I 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:41.200 would love that. Well, hopefully he eventually uses it, because 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:43.880 I was very proud of that gifted. Is this wrong 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:46.480 if you gift a woman lingerie and she uses it 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:50.040 with someone else, Yes, that's wrong. You know that's what 0:10:50.040 --> 0:11:00.160 What if she uses in our only fans? Yeah, you know, 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:03.680 and she uses it only only fans, That's what I'm saying. 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.120 Are we talking about only fans when it's just only 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:09.360 her and her? Yes, yes, only her and her fans. 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:12.640 I mean, listen, y'all ain't. I ain't talk to nobody 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:17.200 that's doing that. But if I was to do that, yeah, 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:21.640 that's better than Yeah. I feel like it's the gift 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:26.439 that keeps on giving because very cute linge that you 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:30.360 got her on only fans and she sells umpteen amount 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.400 of private videos and let's just say a hundred dollars 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:36.719 a piece, right, then it's the gift that keeps on 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:39.160 getting because now she's making money and she could wear 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:41.920 it for you and he'll be like, hey, this is 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.800 then you hadn't only fits no, because you're block. I 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.480 think it wants something fresh, Like you are you supposed 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:49.920 to wear the same lingerie over and over again? No, 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:55.240 Once you wear it once, it's over, like every week. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:12:04.520 I'm like, that's it. Yeah, unless I've seen already, like pajamas. 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:08.079 But like the nice Lingerirace said that you might have 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:11.120 bought for like Valentine's Day night, like, you're not gonna 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:16.360 run that back, it's probably you know what I mean? 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:18.280 Now I want to talk about something else. Can we 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:22.280 talk about titles and labels? Right? Because way back y'all 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:25.559 had this song no strings, and now it is like 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.040 titles and some people feel like once you put a 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:32.000 title on something, it changes things. Or you know, I've 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:34.120 heard guys be like, leok, I just wanted to do 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.520 what we're doing. Let's not call it anything. Let's just 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:38.760 you know, see how it goes. When is it time 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:40.640 to say, let's put a title on it, let's put 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.120 a label on it. It doesn't matter to you, Uh, 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:45.800 I feel like it's time. When you when you feel 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:49.439 like it's time, and of course it matters. Yeah. I mean, 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.240 I'm gonna just be honest. If I wasn't the guy 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:54.600 was and I was talking to a female in I 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:57.920 feel like I tell her, let's just keep doing what 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:01.040 we're doing. Obviously I'm doing something else. You get what 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:02.920 I'm saying. I'm just being honest. Like, if I'm saying, 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:07.800 let's keep doing what we're doing, then stop. Yeah, exactly, 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:09.959 it's not because I'm telling you all, like a man 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:12.520 gonna know what he wants exactly. You know what I'm saying. 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.320 So if he's saying let's just keep doing we doing, 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:18.520 that's when you know, I feel like the question what this? What? What? 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.920 What motherfucker's doing? You know what I'm saying, Because if 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.160 this is what we're doing, then I'm saying, what we're doing? 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:25.640 What's up? Just yeah, what's up? So? Yeah, so when 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:28.439 you decided to lock it in to resonate, what was 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:31.520 that conversation like? And like who brought it up first? 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.000 Who said, okay, what are we? We got to be official? 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.400 Because at first it was more like you're just having 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:40.640 fun trying to figure it out. When did that switch? Um? 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:44.640 At first we were friends, uh me and her maid, 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:48.600 sure that we was, you know, ready to be a couple, 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:52.120 but we was friends about like a couple of months 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:55.480 before we even like really you know, said okay, yeah 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:58.679 and got even like you know, did anything sexually or 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:00.680 even before I even kissed him? You know what I'm saying. 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.160 Did you know immediately that you wanted it to go there? 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:05.240 Like even when you're with just fans, because you know 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:07.880 how gas to be like even things. But did you 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:11.720 know like like I'm working towards something. Yeah, man, like 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:14.920 see me like like me like I'm gonna lock it 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:17.199 in like if I don't want you know what I'm saying, 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:19.000 Like I'm just that type of guy like if I 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.600 don't want it, like I don't want it, you know 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.240 I'm saying, if I wanted to lock it in. So 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:25.240 I just kind of seen that she was who I 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:29.000 wanted like and then just her whole level, her her 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.520 mindset like that, you know what I'm saying. After a 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:34.600 couple of months, they were just naturally, like you know 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:38.440 what I'm saying, We just you know, I feel like, 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:43.080 I don't know, I feel like, you know, but what 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:44.760 was it that about her that made you be like, 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:47.440 this is somebody I want to pursue, Like what was 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:49.760 because it always interests me to know, like what was 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.640 the initial Like okay, because you meet a lot of women, 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:56.000 you know, since you were young, and so what makes 0:14:56.040 --> 0:15:00.160 you decide like this is different? Her mind set? I 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:04.000 always say, just her whole demeanor, you know, the way 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:06.600 she carry herself, the way she thinks. I feel like 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:09.240 I'm I'm a little different, like you know what I'm saying. 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.360 So I feel like the way she think carry herself, 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:14.040 she kind of like, you know, just my speed. She 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:23.080 seems very fun Yeah, I love y'allah Halloween. That ship 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:26.600 was self funny. So you don't believe in wasting what 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:28.680 a woman's time. If you're not interested and you don't 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:31.280 see nothing, you're not even gonna I feel like that's 0:15:31.360 --> 0:15:34.280 very general for self. I mean, it ain't nothing really 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.560 to it, like like that's doing out, you know what 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.520 I'm saying. And I kind of like, like you say, 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:42.800 she's fun, she's fun to be around, and she motivated me, 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.960 she supports me, understands what you do for a living, 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:52.240 and she's gonna ride for you. You know that. But 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:55.440 that's a lot of pressure that relationship too. Yeah, you 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:59.040 can't sunk up. Yeah, man, you know you can't. You 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.000 can't have a bad Like if I have a bad 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:02.840 day here or if i have a bad day in 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:04.920 New York and I'll tweet something, they could think it's 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.760 something like, yo, I have a whole life, Like you 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.320 know what I'm saying, so and anything. Right, if they 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:13.200 blaming it on the relations what I'm saying, that's crazy 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.480 to me, you know what I'm saying. So right? But 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:18.480 the foundation that I feel like me and Hurt built, 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:21.800 you know, I feel like it's solid. I think it's 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:24.280 parallel because you've built a lot of foundations. Even thinking 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:28.080 about how your career has um just progressed from when 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:30.960 you and Trade first started out just doing the videos, 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:34.440 the vines, the covers to doing an EP to doing 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:38.120 original music, you know, and like all of that. It 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.800 is amazing to see because some people could fall into 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:44.000 the he's just known for being a media a social 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:47.880 media personality and then that's it and doing these cover songs. 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:53.920 But now it seems like labels are trying to sign you. 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:58.080 What is going on? Yeah, the talent is there and 0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:02.000 it's undeniable. Yeah, it was just you know, I honestly, man, 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:05.080 I wasn't like a little just the time in my life. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:07.159 It was a little period where you know, I was 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:10.560 trying to figure it out just with music. Um, you know, 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:13.399 getting back in the groove, like you say, before I 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:16.000 even did anything, and that was that played a kind 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:18.640 of a major role. And you know, just my train 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.720 of thought, you know, that type of thought about me, 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:24.679 like oh well he just is so because like before 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:26.840 any of the social media thing, I was doing music, 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:28.119 you know what I'm saying. So I feel like that 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:30.719 kind of got in the way. But you know, how 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.080 to just get my my mentor right? How did you 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:41.639 get your mental right? You could smoke ahead? How I 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:47.119 got my mentor right? Man? I was more so figuring 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:51.000 out myself for like a couple of months and then Um, 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:53.120 like I said, I met my girlfriend and I feel 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:55.200 like her talk. You know what I'm saying. I was 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:57.919 talking to her about different things before we got together, 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:02.080 when we was friends. So, um, I don't know, man, 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.800 Like your network has a lot to do with your 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:09.360 your levelness. Like you're very family oriented. You come from 0:18:09.359 --> 0:18:11.840 a big family. Your mom is very involved in everything 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:14.240 that you do and in your life and everything. And 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:16.720 you have a great team and support behind you. So 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:18.520 just from the outside looking in and on you on 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:20.800 the level that I do, I feel like that also 0:18:21.440 --> 0:18:24.040 would play a role in you know, getting you kind 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:26.359 of where you are and keeping you focused on career 0:18:26.440 --> 0:18:28.560 driven as well, because you got it in you and 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:32.000 you know you got it in you, right My mom definitely, 0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:34.640 My mom definitely played a role, like she always gonna 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:38.240 play a role. And um, you know of course what 0:18:38.400 --> 0:18:41.640 I do. My brother also he support me even though 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:44.040 we don't do the same. You know, he called me, bro, 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:45.880 you need to drop this video. You know what I'm saying. 0:18:45.920 --> 0:18:48.360 You don't let up, you know, just different things like that. 0:18:48.520 --> 0:18:50.680 Of course, my daughter, my girl, like you know, I 0:18:50.960 --> 0:18:54.640 got I got a support system. So doing the solo music, Now, 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.919 what made you decide is you our mind and not 0:18:58.000 --> 0:19:01.560 our mind and trade you know life. You know, we're 0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:04.200 twenty five now. I don't know if you remember Angeli, 0:19:04.400 --> 0:19:08.600 but I met you when I was like sixteen seventeen. Mark, 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:12.159 you guys go way back. Yeah, I don't think you. 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:16.879 I don't I don't think you remember. Yeah, Peanut, Yeah, 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:20.040 so it was like I remembering that. It's like that 0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:24.960 man in Detroit by the way, if y'all don't know, Yeah, yeah, 0:19:25.040 --> 0:19:27.520 yeah that's what. Are they doing a show about him 0:19:27.600 --> 0:19:29.640 or something? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, he got a show 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:31.840 coming up right now. He put his hands in like 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:35.000 a couple of the shows that's out now, so he 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:38.040 not got a lot going on, but go ahead. Yeah, 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:44.359 but Peanut, I tell everybody who Peanut is if they're listening, 0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:48.520 because I know people from Detroit now. But yeah, put yeah, 0:19:48.600 --> 0:19:51.720 the studio, I know a lot of Yeah, Peanut, it's 0:19:51.800 --> 0:19:54.439 my pope. They probably did what my people probably did. 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:56.000 They recharched on him because I put them in a 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:59.040 couple of YouTube videos and just different things like that. 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:01.720 But here, you know, he a stand up guy in 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:04.159 the city. He also one of the people that I 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:05.879 talked to just to help me keep my mind on. 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:08.879 You know what I'm saying straight, but you know, not 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:10.919 to get into that, you know. But the reason why 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:12.800 I rock with my dad so much because because my 0:20:12.880 --> 0:20:15.040 dad I like twelve wives, you know what I'm saying, 0:20:15.119 --> 0:20:17.720 and he don't. He don't push that, you know, on 0:20:17.920 --> 0:20:19.640 me to be that type of you know what I'm saying, 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:21.600 that type of guy, Like, how is that for you 0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:24.400 from your point of view? That how was that even 0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:31.760 growing up? Well? Um, yeah, yeah for real. So UM, 0:20:31.800 --> 0:20:36.400 to be honest with you, I respect my pops honestly 0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:39.760 because you know, Um, I really don't see how you 0:20:39.800 --> 0:20:42.480 do it, but you do it, you know, And that's 0:20:42.480 --> 0:20:44.639 the thing he I I don't know. Maybe it's a 0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:46.560 lot for me. That's why I'm a man. I got 0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:48.920 me one, keep me one, you know what I'm saying. 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:51.520 But just to traveling back and forth, you know what 0:20:51.560 --> 0:20:53.360 I'm saying, And did you ever look like how did 0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:57.080 your mom handle that? Because that's not easy. I don't 0:20:57.080 --> 0:20:59.439 care anybody what I mean, like for you growing up 0:20:59.480 --> 0:21:03.080 and with their like no, my mom is an independent 0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:05.199 woman now, I know that, But I'm saying, how did 0:21:05.240 --> 0:21:08.680 she handle that? Because sometimes that isn't easy because I mean, 0:21:08.720 --> 0:21:10.960 look at Nick Cannon. He and he'll tell you he 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:15.000 can't be there all the time, you know, for all 0:21:15.040 --> 0:21:24.160 of the women, no matter how much you try. No. So, UM, 0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:26.879 that's something that I'm that that we're gonna talk about. Okay, 0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:30.000 we'll talk about that. We'll talk about that on a 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:44.399 on a on a H came the time inside, but 0:21:44.640 --> 0:21:49.240 definitely I can let you all in on that. Yeah, 0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:53.199 we respect that. He don't let me ask you did 0:21:53.520 --> 0:21:56.719 the way your your father's relationships with women, and did 0:21:56.880 --> 0:22:01.119 it affect the way you treat women? No, only because 0:22:01.119 --> 0:22:03.080 that's why, you know, I go back to saying I 0:22:03.200 --> 0:22:06.200 respect my dad so much because you know, I feel like, 0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:08.639 you know what I do. I feel like I'm a 0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:11.560 alpha male, but also in his own right, I felt 0:22:11.560 --> 0:22:15.000 like he treated his women great. You see what I'm saying. Um, 0:22:15.320 --> 0:22:17.200 I'm not saying that you would be down to be 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:20.480 with for three other women in a relationship, but I 0:22:20.760 --> 0:22:22.680 feel like if you all did that, then you're happy. 0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:25.680 Then you're happy. Yeah, they worked off whatever they worked 0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:29.200