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Speaker 1: This is a headgun podcast. Celebrity book Club. Who's that

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Speaker 1: knocking at the door. It's all your friends, your filthy horse,

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Speaker 1: of wine to kill. It's Hollywood, it's books, it's gossip.

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Speaker 1: I'm shook, It's memoirs. Morteenis Celebrity book Club. Can read

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Speaker 1: it while it's hot. Celebrity book Club, Tell your secrets.

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Speaker 1: We won't talk celebrity books. No boys are Alloud. Celebrity

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Speaker 1: book Club, Say it Loud and Cloud Celebrity book Club.

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Speaker 1: Buzz Man. I brought the queer foe. Hey best friend,

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, Hey girl, Hey business partner, one of my

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Speaker 1: best business partners, girlfriends, makeup artists, longtime collaborators, and also

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Speaker 1: my sister's real estate agent. How are you. I am

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Speaker 1: doing pretty good despite the fact that I haven't gotten

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Speaker 1: a lot of projects lately and I'm going through menopause.

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Speaker 1: You know that stuff. But you just have to remember

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Speaker 1: you have worked so hard and it's okay to take

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Speaker 1: Kind of, let's get out of the skit formation so

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Speaker 1: we're even sort of talking about mentally sort of had

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Speaker 1: a women's business conference outside of Atlanta right now because

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Speaker 1: we read vivic A Fox's book came out in twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 1: Didn't even know, No, kind of slipped by randomly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's called every Day. I'm vic A Fox is, of

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Speaker 1: course one of the most well known Black American actresses

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Speaker 1: in Hollywood for many many years. Set it off Independence

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Speaker 1: Day two, can play that game, our literally favorite, one

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Speaker 1: of our favorite movies of all time. And of course

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Speaker 1: Kill Bill. Oh. I can't even wait to get into

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Speaker 1: her training for Kill Bill. Oh my god, going to China. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she also owner of a wig and clothing line businesswoman.

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Speaker 1: She also what's the show that she had, Vivica's Black Magic?

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Speaker 1: Oh right, host of Vivica's Black Magic, which kind of

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Speaker 1: came out on Lifetime after Magic Mike, which was a

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Speaker 1: him on, well as we know, which there's so much

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Speaker 1: about how she got called for being homophobic because someone

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Speaker 1: So this book is it's a it's a memoir, but

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Speaker 1: And then halfway through the book it turns into just

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Speaker 1: she was just like, so, let's say that you don't

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Speaker 1: know what you want to do in your career, make

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Speaker 1: a list of all the things that you might want

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Speaker 1: to do. For example, my friend who was a lawyer

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Speaker 1: at a big firm, she like thought that she might

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Speaker 1: want to be a yoga instructor because she loved yoga.

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Speaker 1: But then she thought, I don't know if I can

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Speaker 1: handle all that pressure and doesn't make enough money. She

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Speaker 1: wanted to make money, and then she thought, I'm already

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Speaker 1: certified as a league layer. It's like and we're like,

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Speaker 1: what is this chapter about. We're like, now this is

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Speaker 1: two chapters about your like friend who like wanted maybe

435
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Speaker 1: to become a yoga teacher and like leave this big

436
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Speaker 1: decided to become a divorce laar. It's like, yes, she's

437
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Speaker 1: already a lawyer. Okay, that kind of tracks, and because

438
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Speaker 1: she's an lgbt QI a lawyer, she can bring that

439
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Speaker 1: expertise to the table too. And it was like such

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Speaker 1: a general nod to her using her LGBTQ powers right

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Speaker 1: for divorce good And it's like now she's this full

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Speaker 1: el ward choice Wishnia it was like getting like all

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Speaker 1: the high power like lesbian divorces. I mean, um, okay,

444
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Speaker 1: but back to the MSG story because I feel like

445
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Speaker 1: we're sort of still in this and yes, can I

446
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Speaker 1: read the ramming part or do you want to finish that?

447
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 1: And then I'll read the rule. Well, read the rimming part,

448
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: because this leads up to why there's tension in relationship

449
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Speaker 1: in the running. Okay, So in November twenty fifteen, Andy

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Speaker 1: Cohen had me on Watch What Happens If We talked

451
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Speaker 1: about me being an empire for the second season, and

452
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: he asked me, when I thought about fifty cents comments

453
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Speaker 1: about my gay themes ruining the show. I went on

454
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Speaker 1: autopilot and I let my anger do the talking. First

455
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Speaker 1: of all, you know the pot called the kettle black

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Speaker 1: oo oo is all I'm saying. I said, He's not,

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Speaker 1: I continued, I mean, we had a great time. He

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Speaker 1: just seems like he's got something that's not quite clear. Oh,

459
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Speaker 1: it was an incredible clumsy way of saying it. Well,

460
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 1: that did it. I didn't hear from him directly, but

461
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Speaker 1: he slammed me on his Instagram. Oh no, now she

462
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 1: thinks I'm gay because I let her lick my ass.

463
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: Elmo wait, I didn't want her to. She forced me.

464
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Speaker 1: My hands were tied fifty shades of gray. Listen, I'm

465
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Speaker 1: a grown ass woman. If that was my kink and

466
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 1: what I was into, then I would do it. Our

467
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: love making was so cherished and special to me that

468
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 1: it hurt to see him makeup stories. But he did

469
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Speaker 1: get a reaction out of it. It's just kind of like,

470
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Speaker 1: it sounds like you did rim him, and like's if

471
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't. Well, No, I think what she's saying is

472
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: that her kink is not like rope play. She didn't

473
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: tie fifty cent up and I see that. I don't.

474
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Speaker 1: I don't think that she's more into like wearing a

475
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: lot of strappy outfits, but she's not being so like

476
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm tying up fifty cents like. I think that their

477
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: relationship was pretty well I mean freaking the sense that, yes,

478
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: she was rimming him. I don't think it's that weird

479
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: for a man to get rimmed. I don't think that.

480
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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm not saying no, no, I like,

481
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Speaker 1: I like for a straight man to get rim and

482
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Speaker 1: I just don't think that's that bizarre. And I like

483
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: so I like, I don't think that she thinks of

484
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: the bizarre too. I think a lot of guys like

485
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Speaker 1: that and there they see it as like I'm getting

486
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: topped thing or I'm getting I'm still the top, I'm

487
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: getting like service thing. So I think that she is

488
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: referring to like the tying up thing. And it's like,

489
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 1: it's so weird that he said that, because it's like, well,

490
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Speaker 1: that obviously means that, like she did rom you when

491
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Speaker 1: you're just being like what whoa just because like a

492
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Speaker 1: rim doesn't mean I'm gay. And it's like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I feel like he has a point. He like literally

494
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Speaker 1: is saying that he's gay. Also, there was another point

495
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Speaker 1: I felt like this was a very subtle dick when

496
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: she was talking about she was like because it was

497
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: the point it was like so crazy. He was being

498
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 1: so toxic and like John Mayer talking about her kind

499
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: of like dating her, but then like going on a

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Speaker 1: radio show and being like Vivica Fox is like a

501
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: gold digger and only using me for fame, and then

502
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Speaker 1: she was like he was at a time when he

503
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Speaker 1: was running around with a lot of young boys in

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Speaker 1: his entourage. I felt like that was a little subtle suggestion,

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Speaker 1: why in like such a pee anyway, just being like, yeah,

506
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Speaker 1: he's got a lot of young men at his house.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. That's it, not saying anything else,

508
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: just saying that there's a lot of young men. That's it.

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Speaker 1: They's like her birthday she gets home and like she's

542
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: like there's a delivery for Vivica and she's like okay,

543
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: and like the flowers commit and she's like, oh, can

544
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Speaker 1: put them on? Like, oh no, ma'am, Like there's a

545
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Speaker 1: whole truckload. And then they just bring in just like

546
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Speaker 1: an entire truck's worth of white flowers into her house

547
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: as and she had to tip the driver because she

548
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 1: was like they were doing so much delivery. And then

549
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: she gets this call and it's like fifty cents, assistant

550
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: being like I have fifty cent for Vivica, and then

551
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: he's like, happy birthday. I hope you like the flowers.

552
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: They're also their whole down spiral of their relationship is

553
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: so psycho and just like it's a movie abusive boyfriend.

554
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: She's literally on a flight because she's on like kill

555
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: Bill publicity. Okay wait also sorry, But the other tea

556
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: of that is that she wasn't invited to go to

557
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: the oh yeah, kill Bill premiers, which is so fucked up?

558
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Speaker 1: Was it the premiers of the publicity poor? I mean,

559
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: isn't that the same thing. It's like, yeah, it's either way,

560
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: it's fucked up. The European leg of the junket, Yes,

561
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: Vivica was not invited on and I don't know if

562
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: they were being so just like oh like you, as

563
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: a black woman, aren't going to test well and like

564
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: the I feel like, oops or whatever, and I was

565
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: a racist and rags or whatever, or they're just like

566
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: you do China and not this or whatever. I don't know.

567
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: I mean I thought that was rude and I felt

568
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: that it was very fucked up. It's like, not so

569
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: many people in that movie. Why can't you also, she

570
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: says notedly. I mean she's always like and Quentin is

571
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: an amazing director, but she was like, and I was

572
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: watching my two hundred k and my bank account dwindle

573
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: because I was doing seven months of kill Bill martial

574
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: arts training that I wasn't being paid, aren't even paid

575
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: for the training. And then he spoke and then Quentin

576
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: was being so psycho director and was like, actually, you

577
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: guys need to go to China. Yeah, and you're like, sorry,

578
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,959
Speaker 1: you need to like fully go to like an actual

579
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: full monk monastery to like get this training and just

580
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: be full of the characters. I mean I and there's

581
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: that how honest she was about money, and that's just

582
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: been like, so I had two hundred thousand dollars in

583
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Speaker 1: my bank account at that time, and that's when she

584
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: was like married to that like deadbeat yeah who was

585
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: just like watching TV at home. And then she like

586
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: kicks him out by just like finding him an apartment

587
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: and being like, I got to a place. It's like

588
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: and fifty thousand dollars, Like we're done, okay, but back

589
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: to that. Yeah, So they're at Madison Square Quartern and

590
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: she sees fifty and he's talked all this shit about her.

591
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 1: He's called he called her out on radio shows, like

592
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: saying she's fucking all because oh sorry, and so yeah,

593
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: all because of the rimming, all because of the rimming

594
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: and all because like she emasculated him by agreeing to

595
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Speaker 1: host this random like award world like the World Music

596
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: Music Venue Awards that's like presented by the Prince of

597
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: Monaco or something so randomly that Fifty was getting like

598
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: an Entertainer of the Year award for and she agreed

599
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: to like randomly host and she was like, oh, I

600
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: thought it'd be fun. We could be a couple doing

601
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: it together. And he felt like so fun because he

602
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: was like, this was my night, right and I want

603
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: you to be my lady, my lady, and you've stole

604
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: it with your wildly vixen va va voom body like

605
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: on the stage instead of beating the audience like my

606
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: silent wife, like you should be. And it's like, this

607
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: is that classic I feel like relationship thing where sometimes

608
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: you end up painting the person for the reason why

609
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: you fell in love. Wow, that's really interesting. M wow

610
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: wow wow. Like she was ten years older than fifty, right,

611
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: she's starring in kill Bill. She was like impressed by

612
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: her ambition, by her power, by her so much her sexiness. Right,

613
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: and then he was like, oh, how dare you shine

614
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: at this Monaco event and he canceled. Turns out he

615
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: was fully going to He had like gotten ahold of

616
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: a print of kill Bill and like rented out a

617
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: movie theater and was going to propose to her and

618
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: show her kill Bill in Europe so she could have

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Speaker 1: a European premiere. She is a very cute way to propose,

620
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 1: and I hope also to be proposed in Europe with

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Speaker 1: a print of kill Bill. One. You love kill Bill?

622
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: You don't really, actually, I mean I love kill Bill

623
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Speaker 1: not as much as you, bitch you had to kill

624
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: Bill poster in your room. I just yeah, it's really

625
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: really really psycho and insecure, and you know it's the

626
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: toughest acting guys who are the weakest little faggots on

627
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,959
Speaker 1: the inside, and maybe that's why he's so scared exactly.

628
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: So we're back at EMST. She so she sees him

629
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: and she decides to pay it, and she basically does

630
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: that I'm going to go over and say hey that

631
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 1: she doesn't too can play. Kaitlynchett has said hi. She

632
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: walks over and she just goes, we're family. And then

633
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: his like one of his like entourage just like it

634
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: just like leans back and it's just like, oh, thank God,

635
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: like we can like relax now. And he goes, see,

636
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: like I said, my first wife, because he's always saying that,

637
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: like you're my first wife even though we never got married,

638
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,959
Speaker 1: and like will be family forever. Choke. So I'm like jokes.

639
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: So he gives her a huh. She asked if she

640
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: can give him a hug. That was actually so bold

641
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: of her powerful and it's like obviously he is just

642
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: a little boy, and he melted. I feel like it

643
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: would be very hard for me to do that. Maybe

644
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: I should do that. Take. She has an amazing Honestly,

645
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: this is the best self help book I've ever read.

646
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: Like I have not to get too personal, but with

647
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: X's in the past, current whatever, it's like I I

648
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: have felt very like don't touch me like now that

649
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: like you know, it's like if we are not together anymore,

650
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: it's very just like there is a there is a

651
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 1: moat around the castle of my body, and it's just

652
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: very just like and I will exercise like the last

653
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: like bit of power that I think I have by

654
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: being like, no, you can't like you can't like be

655
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: in my personal space in that way anymore. Um, But

656
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: maybe that's actually me being really fearful that happened. What

657
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: would happen, Well, what happen if you let the walls down,

658
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: the wall down and said, hey, can I give you

659
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: a hug? Wow? Oh my god. I just kind of

660
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: shocked my self with the possibility that let go of

661
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: that the way that maybe would lift your yeah me

662
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: as your entourage. Yeah, and you sort of sit back

663
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: and you take off your flat room and you're like, dude,

664
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: literally me, Well, also, I'm like my fantasy where at

665
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: MSG I'm taking off my flat room right Fenway at

666
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: the cigar lounge. You're imagine running to your ex at

667
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: the box in Fenway certainly wouldn't happen with any of

668
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: my ex No, sadly, neither of us. That's not going

669
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: to happen. So I just think that that was the

670
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: inspiring of her. It was, and she is a strong woman.

671
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: She's insanely strong. And she has all these reflections on

672
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: you know, getting into relationships or feeling like she got

673
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: married because everyone else was or her friends were married,

674
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: and you know, being like, oh, you know, should I

675
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: go with this guy? Like and then she has some

676
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 1: insanely amazing advice that I feel is so actually Patty

677
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 1: Stang or a millionaire matchmaker. Where again she's like out

678
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 1: of women's She's speaking at a women's business count Frience

679
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 1: in Houston and a woman is like, can I ask

680
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: you a question? This is not one of her famous

681
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: Sunday Funday. She also is obsessed with sports because like

682
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: her dad was so like she was like playing basketball

683
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: as a kid. I'm like she wrestled and like her

684
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: dad took her to game, so like she actually is

685
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 1: Sunday Funday and like she's like, yeah, now I actually

686
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: keep my Sunday Funday's Jess Girls, And I'm like she's like,

687
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna do brunch local and then we're gonna go

688
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,760
Speaker 1: back to my house and watch those men play football

689
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: and those tight and those tight. Before I get to

690
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: the Houston thing, can we talk about how she introduced

691
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: queenly Tiefe to sushi? Okay, do you have the passage? Um? No,

692
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 1: but i'll summarize basically set it off. The director was like,

693
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: I want you guys to like be which I'm sorry

694
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: in the movie set it off, like Queen Latifa is

695
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: basically like openly Quelativa is a lesbian, right like, but

696
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: I feel like they don't actually say it in this way.

697
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,240
Speaker 1: But it's like the whole thing is like she's with Jada,

698
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: have you seen I've seen it, But I feel like

699
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: they don't actually say that they're a couple in this

700
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: really psycho way yes, where they're both like dressed as lesbians,

701
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: like being lesbians, being just like you mean so much

702
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: to me? No, no, no, they like, but they like

703
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: don't have like it's not like they don't like kiss,

704
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 1: but no no. So like Queen Lativa is like fully

705
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: butch and I feel like and Jada is her fam

706
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: and she does like grind on her and she'll be

707
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: like that's my I guess I feel like it was

708
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: still like coded reference. Like you watch it today and

709
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: you're like, literally, Queen Latifa is the butch and Jada

710
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: is her fem. But like there was this weird thing

711
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: about that movie where they were like, no, like people

712
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: will watch this and not necessarily think they'll just be like, yeah,

713
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: like Queen Lativa is a badass, check right, like a

714
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: big like a sturdy and sturdy badass. Yeah. It's kind

715
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: of funny because Vivika also isn't like and Queen Latifa

716
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: one of my good friends who's also part of the Oh. Actually,

717
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: maybe Queen Lativa wasn't fully out. I don't think she's

718
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: fully on twenteen so insane. Yeah, I mean she's like

719
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 1: still not fully on this re She No, she thanked

720
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 1: her wife of the BT Awards this week, I mean

721
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: this week, this year, this year, and it was like

722
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: a big deal, right okay, and she was like I

723
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 1: couldn't have done it without whatever whoever. Her wife is

724
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: like yeah, basically anyway, they're like, you guys need to

725
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: hang out, and her, Jada and Queen Latifa like hang

726
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: out and have so much fun and then um, she's

727
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 1: like we're gonna get sushi, and Queen Latifa is like,

728
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: I don't need anything that's raw, and she's just like,

729
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: you need to try this, and so then Queenlifa finally

730
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: try sushi and she loves it. So now every single

731
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: time and quelitiaa hang out, they eat sushi as nomage.

732
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,439
Speaker 1: She insert joke about Cue Latifa not wanting to eat

733
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 1: raw fish here. No literally no, it's a full fifty

734
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: said repression because she quotes Queen Latifa being like, I

735
00:38:50,719 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: ain't gonna eat nothing raw, and it's like, oh, yeah, okay,

736
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: could I read this section about the taco santos though, yeah, okay,

737
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: So this is also like it's this is presented as

738
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: just like basically how to just like hang out with friends,

739
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,760
Speaker 1: like on a budget. Oh. People sometimes want to host gatherings,

740
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,240
Speaker 1: but they think they have to impress people with elaborate

741
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: extrafica meals. They work themselves with a bone, waste a

742
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: lot of money, and don't have a good time. Their

743
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: guests don't either. They stand there awkwardly worried the offering

744
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: to help, thy can of a real conversation until they're

745
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: in their car say never again. It's better to have

746
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: a simple gathering and understand that you and the good

747
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: people you invite are the draw. You don't need to

748
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: have a big place either. I know a young woman

749
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: in New York who as a group of five or

750
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: six friends who meet every two months for something they

751
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: call Champagne and Chipotle. Whoever's turn is to host or

752
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: just the port and each guest just has to bring

753
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: an inexpensive bottle of prosecco or a nice bottle of

754
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: champagne if they're doing well. Another cool way for people

755
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: to gather to talk when you're mine being a budget

756
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: is choosing a restaurant where everyone pays their own way.

757
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: Upscale cafeteria style restaurants are becoming increasingly popular, and they

758
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 1: help you avoid the six separate checks or worse, the

759
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: dreaded mathup. Well, you had a cappuccino dot dot dot,

760
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: because not everyone has a Vivica to pick up the

761
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: check for the group. Remember, your Vivica doesn't always want

762
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: to be picking up the check either. Yeah, I'm scream

763
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: When she mentioned upscale market halls, I'm like, I mean,

764
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 1: in a way, I am just like, yeah, yeah, everyone

765
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: can go off to whatever bowler ree that's going on. Too,

766
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: when we can all meet by the table. We're going

767
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: to like the decalb market, Times Square Market, Mercato, Little Spain.

768
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: Signard is probably a part of business already, and it's

769
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: just being like I'm taking up my small pieya, you're

770
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:57,439
Speaker 1: getting a sushi roll bowl. You know, our other friend

771
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 1: who's maybe not doing so well as getting them just

772
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: some hormone to go, and you know we're having our

773
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: neronis right, we're doing well. I have my friends over,

774
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: we just all lay on my sheets. I mean, but

775
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: I think she does as insane as an also accurate

776
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: as the upscale market food halls. She is right where

777
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: I think you can like freak out about, like you know,

778
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: it's like there's nothing worse than like a tense host

779
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: who's like waiting for their paea that they make till

780
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: like times ready. I mean, obviously a gorgeous there's a

781
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: different if you're an amazing cooking an amazing host, there's

782
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 1: a gorgeous dinner party and you can pull it off. Yeah,

783
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: but yeah, if it's also like you want to friends over,

784
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 1: get some takeout, have drinks, people come over, relax, Yeah,

785
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: I mean the money thing is a different thing though,

786
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: because it's just like, I mean, I guess it's like,

787
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: I mean, one thing she says about the giving money thing,

788
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 1: this is kind of like she get starts to get

789
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: angry at friends who like don't pay her back or

790
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: like don't thank her enough for whatever, and it's kind

791
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 1: of just like, well, her gay assistant calls her out

792
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: for them, yeah, and he's just like, It's like, then

793
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: it sounds like you didn't want to lend her the

794
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 1: money in the first place. If you were just doing

795
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 1: it because you either like wanted her validation or wanted

796
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: her compliments, or wanted her to like act a certain

797
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: way to you. It's like, if you're couldn't give some money,

798
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: you kind of have to be willing to just like

799
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: part with it. And like you're giving it because you

800
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: want them to have that money, right, you want to thrive,

801
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: And it's like, right, just be a better friend. And

802
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 1: I think probably she feels because she talks about the

803
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,399
Speaker 1: balance of friendship, well, she talks about she she isn't

804
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:41,720
Speaker 1: insane falling out with two friends and that's completely insane.

805
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,919
Speaker 1: And I feel like this is her triple apology about

806
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: writing it in the book, is that like she introduced

807
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 1: these two women and like oh, and then they started

808
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: like hanging out together, so like the best friend. And

809
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: then she like she m into something, really bitching on

810
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 1: Instagram about it. I want who leave the Instagram drama

811
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: of just like Taragi commenting on fifty cents Instagram and

812
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: this is like public knowledge or whatever, just being like

813
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: bullies are not cool, right, and it's just like wow,

814
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: they're really just like fully being in public about this.

815
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: I remember deleted that post when that happened, and it's

816
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: just like kind of being wild and I'm like she

817
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: and it like trashy, being like I will not get

818
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: in the drama, but like this is too crazy, I

819
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,720
Speaker 1: have to post. There's so go on. I'm like, I'm scolt.

820
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: Market halls. Women's conferences, okay, okay, so women's Okay. First

821
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: of all, the part where she talks about learning how

822
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: to be submissive at a women's conference, when she's like

823
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 1: saying because she's like she's not used to leting men

824
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: do things for her, and then she was like, I

825
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: was at a women's conference when I heard someone say

826
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 1: and a lot of the time, you need to learn

827
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: how to let someone do something for you. Because I

828
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: wanted to be too a subsivision, No are you The

829
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: type of person always says oh, I got that, And

830
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: it's like she's just being like, oh, I'm always just

831
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: like not letting someone like put my carry on in

832
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 1: the overhead compartment because you want to be this strong

833
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 1: I want to be this strong woman, and like, act

834
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: you do need to just like let a man woo you.

835
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: But then she's like, men aren't peacocks anymore in the

836
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: animal kingdom peas and men do not woo. And I

837
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: will say it's true. Well, and my exterminator also said

838
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: that men don't woo anymore. They just want to hang

839
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:20,280
Speaker 1: out and watch porn literally, And it's like, what happened

840
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: to filling a truckload of flowers in your dressing room

841
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,760
Speaker 1: on the set of a film? Yeah, exactly what happened

842
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: to that? Literally? Where's the world? Just one more thing

843
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: about a Houston conference is when this woman is like,

844
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: where can I meet man? I want him to like

845
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 1: have money, have a job to all this. Yeah, and

846
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: she's like, bitch, like who do you want to meet

847
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 1: Prince Charming? She's like, where am I going to meet him? Bars?

848
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: And she goes the type of man you're looking for

849
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: is not a wasted finance guy at two am. This

850
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 1: man golfs, plays tennis or is in a running club.

851
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: But then she goes, don't be taking expensive golf lessons.

852
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: Go to the driving ridge and get a bucket of

853
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: balls for ten dollars, and then like this male police

854
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: officer like winks at her from the side, and it's like, hell, yes,

855
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: I have the passenger because this part is absolutely completely

856
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: insane because she's saying that she wants this got to

857
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: be rich, yeah, and she and so the one I

858
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: should take golf left is then look, you won't be

859
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: the first person to realize that successful And then golf

860
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: I replied, So don't bother with this. The lessons or

861
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: sailing classes unless you really want to learn. It will

862
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: be all women looking for men. Trust me, I'm just like, sorry,

863
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: what's this sailing whole women? He's like for a rich man, thirsty,

864
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: thirsty gold diggers. Like a full driving range full of

865
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: gold diggers. Then sign up for a cute, little fun

866
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: run or check out the driving range. A bucket of

867
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: balls will cost you most ten dollars, a small investment,

868
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 1: kind of a big return. I love the day of

869
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: doing like a five k at just like this range

870
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: of gold back, like the Trump Lakes. Don't try it's

871
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: just like rich guy. You're like, oh yeah, oh I

872
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 1: just did a five k. Yeah. I care about charity too.

873
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 1: What are your favorite charities? Isn't that that's so rom

874
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: coumped you? Like? There's a run called like fit Okay,

875
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: this is a tip for our single listeners. There's a

876
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: run called the Turkey Trot. I guess I would never

877
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: do this in Prospect Park. Oh wait, this is the

878
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: jump after where you jump in the cold water. No,

879
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 1: that's polar Bear. Oh sorry, okay, but that could be

880
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: a place to mean an adventurous man. Yes, New Year's

881
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: Day drump in cold water. No where, it's like you

882
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: run a quarter mile or something like that, and it's

883
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: like that's a man who's waking up. Yes, he's not

884
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 1: drunk from blackout Wednesday. You blackout? Wait, that's before like

885
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: black blackout Wednesday is the day before Thanksgiving. She knows

886
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: the drunk is nowt of the year. Really, yes, it's

887
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: a little fact for you because everyone has the day

888
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 1: off the next day. Okay, so then she goes seriously,

889
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 1: but then this is also actually is a really good advice.

890
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: But seriously, just try going to a really fabulous restaurant

891
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 1: on your own and buy yourself a drink at the bar.

892
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: Dress up like you would for a first date with

893
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: this person you have in mind, and don't show up

894
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 1: looking like the thirst trap. Guys are going to notice.

895
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:01,800
Speaker 1: And if you notice an attractive man doesn't have a

896
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: ring and he's by himself, why don't you offer to

897
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: buy him a drink? Hell yes, don't wait for a

898
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 1: man to do something. If you're interested in someone, ask

899
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: him to dinner. And that's when the police officer stands

900
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: up and goes, that's good advice, Vivica. That would get

901
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: my attention. But then it's like, okay, wait, hold, get

902
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 1: to be a better hold it. But if you're saying,

903
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 1: oh god, I don't care how much he makes I'm

904
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: just haird of meaning jerks, well, then think about where nice,

905
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: civic minded guys conquregate. They volunteer for charities, they get

906
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: involved in political campaigns and initiatives. She's lurking around like

907
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: the yes on for proposal and some civic minded gentleman. Well,

908
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: she is always talking about how she volunteered for Madame

909
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton. God, I mean, having marked in politics, I

910
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: will tell you that guys who are in politics are

911
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: so boring. Yeah, but also so are probably the women

912
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: that are going to women's conferences. I mean not all

913
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: of them, but I mean, like, I mean some of

914
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: them are like really fat. I'm sure. I mean a

915
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: lot of straight man are also just yeah boring. That's true,

916
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: and that's what you're just going to have to deal with.

917
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: That's your decision. But I'm also like this five K.

918
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: I love that the five K is for rich athletic guys,

919
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 1: but for like poor just not general jerks. Is charity

920
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: more charities, political campaigns and initiatives? I think actually guys

921
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 1: were going charities probably do have a good amount of money. Well,

922
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: it depends on the charity. If they're being like so

923
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: bored about a charity. But if they're just like working

924
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 1: out a nonprofit. No, not working a nonprofit. I'm talking

925
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 1: about a guy volunteering. Oh, I see, No, if you

926
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: volunteer something clean up because it's just like you have

927
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: the time to go volunteer, and you're just like, I

928
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: want to add a little more meaning to my life

929
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 1: because right you're like looking for a reason because you're like, wait,

930
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm not giving back, right, I'm not giving back, and

931
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: just like your job is just like you're on spreadsheets

932
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: and like you don't care. So bitch, let's volunteer. Okay.

933
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: Her part about like trying to figure out, like what

934
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: your dream man is, She's like, go through and write

935
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: all your exes and just like oh, and like try

936
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: to disrupt the pattern. Try to disrupt the pattern, which

937
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: she also says with jobs too, And that's how we

938
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: got to her LGBT divorce lawyer. Can I just so

939
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: I did write down though what I want my dream man?

940
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, as you know, I am single,

941
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: and that is something that you know, is I'm not

942
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: looking for right at the moment, but it is something

943
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: that maybe I want to manifest. Okay. So I was

944
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: hoping that maybe I could read this listudent, you could

945
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: tell me where I should look, if I should go

946
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: to a golf course. Okay, I'm I'm so ready for this. Okay.

947
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: So I'm Vivica. We're in Houston. We're in Houston. I'm

948
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 1: in the audience. Excuse me, Vivica. Woman in the salmon

949
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: Stephen is wearing a very saint John Montego Bay, Jimmy

950
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: Buffett color right now of Samon. But it's like a

951
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:04,240
Speaker 1: salmon skirt suit. Yeah, you're in like a matching salmon

952
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: skirts and it hugs your curves. As she says talking

953
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 1: about finding a great Taylor, I'm suited and booted, Vivica.

954
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: I've been looking everywhere for a certain type of man.

955
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,200
Speaker 1: His name is Oliver. His father works with a world

956
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: trade organization. I hate the name. Okay, he might be

957
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 1: a journalist. He could also be a human rights lawyer

958
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: as well, or an artist, but like some sort of

959
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: like conceptual or video artist. He has a really big dick.

960
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: He's thirty five. He's very gregarious and outgoing. He doesn't

961
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: have a PhD. And he's a top verse. Wow. Okay, First,

962
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: I think you need to go to galleries alone, because

963
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: I think we're always drawn to the gallery opening, right,

964
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: and absolutely keep on doing that. But I think you

965
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: need to just have a date with New York City,

966
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: you know, don't like your put your phone inside, and

967
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: just go to some galleries and actually see the art, right,

968
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: and see who else is saying, Hey, I'm actually going

969
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: to check out the art. Not right, not get this

970
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 1: free little plastic glass of one and and talk to

971
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: people human rights lawyers that I'm saying, join a league

972
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 1: of some sort. I mean I think it's like a

973
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: rugby league. I think a rugby league. I do think

974
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 1: doing this turkey trot on Thanksgiving maybe you could. Okay,

975
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: I guess this guy's I mean it's like I do

976
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: go to the gym now, so I'm not anti athlete,

977
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: and the turkey trotes the only quarter mile maybe it's

978
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: three quarters of a mile. Okay, that's totally though. If

979
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: only think the turkey trot, maybe a few days before it,

980
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I'm training right trot, and so I'm

981
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: going to like the track or something. But the park

982
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: guy in Central Park, Okay, maybe you start exploring Central Park. Okay,

983
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: that's where this non PhD top vers is hanging out. Yeah,

984
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: I mean it is interesting. Oliver. Is it a gregarious name?

985
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know why am I against

986
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: the word Oliver. Maybe that's just work I need to do.

987
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: I guess to me, Oliver is like there's like something

988
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: really kind about it, and it's kind. It just has

989
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: this like precious boyishness to me. I know it is

990
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 1: it's a faggotty name for sure. But I guess it's

991
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: like I want him to have all of these like

992
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: super masculine qualities, but then he has this like kind

993
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: faggoty name, so I know that he's actually not such

994
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: a total asphalt. Well, I think that is more. I

995
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: think that actually goes in the list. Write that down.

996
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: I want someone looking for these kind of strong masculine qualities,

997
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: but sweet, yes, not you know, someone who won't go

998
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: on the breakfast club and say, yeah, you know yo,

999
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: Stephen you know, tied me up and you know, rimmed

1000
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 1: me for eight hours because he's like addicted to rimming.

1001
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,959
Speaker 1: I mean, would that would be fine if that got out? Well,

1002
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 1: I feel like you want that. Yeah, I don't know. Fifties.

1003
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: I mean that comes back to the jessicisms and John

1004
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 1: marathing wrong. There's like if someone said that like my

1005
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: body with sexual napalm, I would definitely be pro that information,

1006
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: you know, but she also has a thing. You know,

1007
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: look around, you know, when you're hanging out at three

1008
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: four am, Are those people that are pushing you in

1009
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: your career? Are those the people that will get you?

1010
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: You know, that role that lawyer's office. Right, you're looking

1011
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: at me being like this bitch, bitch isn't getting me.

1012
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: She's not getting me anywhere. Literally, segment boots. What does

1013
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 1: she eat? What does she wear? How does she live? Damn? Okay,

1014
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 1: well what does she eat? As we know, she loves

1015
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 1: CPK and that's it and red lobster. Yeah, I mean

1016
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: she's classic Hollywood. Sunday is her cheat day. She she'll

1017
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 1: go out the crew. She has a biscuit, she has

1018
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,800
Speaker 1: wave us Ranchero's. It's Sunday Funday. She's having mimosas you know,

1019
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 1: the entire menu as CPKA by heart. But definitely the

1020
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 1: rest of the week is like three blueberries, grilled chicken,

1021
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: spize it up with some lemon. Yeah. I mean I

1022
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 1: assume that she's having some sort of supermarket delivery service

1023
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: when she's getting just like sixteen frozen chicken breasts. Yeah,

1024
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: and if they're each like six out, she's very like,

1025
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 1: I can cook, but I don't have the time. Yeah.

1026
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: I guess she's probably also eating on set a lot

1027
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: of just like, well, she has that note about she

1028
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 1: was like, here's the thing about sets, craft keeps you fed, Yeah,

1029
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 1: and which I know from my one day on set

1030
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 1: and night maintenance, and I'd like never been more full, No,

1031
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: I know. I remember my last time I was on

1032
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: set for Girls season five and like two twelve our

1033
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: ancient HBO. I remember there was just like the hugest

1034
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: meat ball spaghetti parmersan up and it was just like

1035
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 1: like eight hundred of like the largest union teamsters, just

1036
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: like loading up on the largest meat bullies I've ever

1037
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: seen it, like blowing up every bathroom within like a

1038
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: ten mile radius. You're like, oh, right, you can't like eat,

1039
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to eat like the Gaffers, right, And

1040
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, I feel like I had like a

1041
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: make your own bereadable. But also they were just like

1042
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 1: every second be like do you want a coffee? And

1043
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: like I'm such a Java addict that I was like, yeah,

1044
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: I want to coldbrew. Every second after having like a

1045
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: I was being so and obviously like Lena and like

1046
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: Alis Williams were having like one leaf and I was

1047
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: just being like, well, I'm having the salad, but I'm

1048
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: also having a little of the pasa salad, and then

1049
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 1: I'm having a full people and then I'm like creating

1050
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 1: such a Thanksgiving right that's her. Also her advice is

1051
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 1: I mean, her diadvice is also again so nineties about

1052
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: like dressing where it's kind of like that's not really

1053
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: what's killing you there, where she's like, here's a tip.

1054
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 1: She says, have the dressing on the side, dip your

1055
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 1: fork in the dressing first. Then that's such crazy fact,

1056
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: girl camp, it's not how it works. And I'm saying,

1057
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if this like fork of like creamy

1058
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 1: seas or She's also like, do not believe it's just

1059
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: so like Newman's own dressings, Like, don't believe low fat

1060
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: dressings because they're full of sugar. It's very pre dressing culture.

1061
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: It's very dressing culture, very press well, and they'm not cooking.

1062
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: She's not making her own dressing. She was like that

1063
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: Vivic is not squeezing a lemon. No, So anyway, yeah,

1064
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: she's pre ordered grilled chicken. What does she wear? I mean,

1065
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: I mean we know what she wears, pantsuits and sane dresses,

1066
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,240
Speaker 1: leather boots, go to burg dwarves, but like also vintage

1067
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: well now, as she describes in the book, like she

1068
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,959
Speaker 1: is she's come into her more like grown sexy woman

1069
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: style and she doesn't like I think early in her

1070
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: career she was really like I've got tits and I've

1071
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 1: got ass, and I need to lead with that. I'm like,

1072
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear no, I'm getting a stretching material, right,

1073
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: So she's getting a lot of stretch, like a lot

1074
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: of lamy. And also, you know, it was like whatever

1075
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 1: it was the two thousands and like everyone was doing that.

1076
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 1: I mean the outfit she wears for her fifty cent

1077
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: and her like couple debut at the like MTV Movie Awards,

1078
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 1: Like it's completely insane, and she was just like she

1079
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: let this designer like go wild and create a custom

1080
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: creation that like spoke to her sense of design. But

1081
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: it was just like it's like so silver, like alligator skin,

1082
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: like strappy everywhere, like short short like like miniskirt with

1083
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 1: like so many cutouts in the sides. And then her

1084
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: hair is just like bangs, curls, and then like blue

1085
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 1: highlights in the wigs and then like some crazy show.

1086
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: She'll also i mean classes she like gets a babe

1087
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: a dress and she's like, oh, this is fine, and

1088
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 1: then she sees the photos and she's like, Okay, I

1089
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: should have like found something like really true to me,

1090
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: and it is very like, don't buy ten cheat bags,

1091
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 1: buy one good bag a year. And that's true. I

1092
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: feel like with accessories, especially a good bag really matters.

1093
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 1: Another two things that she definitely wears spanks, Oh, she's

1094
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: shapewear is my friend. She's also her just being so

1095
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: Shark Tank can being like and I love their female founder,

1096
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: Sarah Blakely. She's an inspiration to women everywhere who want

1097
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: to keep a little bit of it in Okay what um?

1098
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 1: So we know she like when she meets Quentin and

1099
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: he's like, I want you for this role, She's like,

1100
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: come to my house, but like, don't judge me for it,

1101
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: and she's like, I know he was probably thinking I'm

1102
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: a hoarder, but then he was actually surprised that, like

1103
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: her house was like so clam and it was so

1104
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: like spiral staircase as some like it's vell, it's plush.

1105
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 1: It's definitely a velvet. It's definitely plush. My question is like,

1106
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: is it like a cream couch, a puffy white leather

1107
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 1: couch or is it like a black couch. I think

1108
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: it's cream couch. Marble floors, tight marble floor some I

1109
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: think part of it is marble, marble countertops. I don't know.

1110
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: That's feeling almost more like a Persian kind of luxury

1111
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: to me, because Okay, I think she has obviously like

1112
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 1: a lounge cocktail like maybe white leather couches, but I

1113
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: think her Sunday Funday couch is one of the biggest

1114
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: sectionals like you've ever seen. Okay, the Sunday Funny couch

1115
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: is different. Is it more just like I'm imagining these

1116
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,919
Speaker 1: two curved white you're talking about the main like sitting

1117
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,919
Speaker 1: room salon, is more of these creamed curve couches. Yeah, yeah,

1118
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: I see that. My other big question is is their

1119
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: animal print? Yes, Okay, I think absolutely in the main area.

1120
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: It's not just the bedroom. I think it's touches, like

1121
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it's so insane, but I think they'll

1122
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:17,919
Speaker 1: be like maybe a tiger, a foe tiger splayed oh wow,

1123
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: r okay, or I guess it is Maybe it is that. Yeah, No,

1124
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: I guess she is like pretty like faboon out there

1125
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: and has been like working on a career for a

1126
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: long time, so maybe she does like have pieces that

1127
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: are a little bit more statement like that. Because you're

1128
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 1: saying the spiral staircase. To me, that does scream you

1129
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: know something unique. I also wonder she like sold her

1130
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 1: house after the divorce and like made a bunch back, yeah,

1131
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 1: which is another one of her amazing financial decisions. She

1132
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: like didn't divorce her husband until she could figure out

1133
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 1: that she could sell that. Yes, And it was like

1134
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 1: she was like on the kill Bill tour and like

1135
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 1: her gay assistant I'm soon calls her and she was

1136
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: like this better be good, like or she's like in

1137
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: China training. Yeah, and she's just and he's like, I

1138
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: found someone to buy her house. She's like, this bitch

1139
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: better not be lying and like, and I could tell

1140
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: that he was on the other end just like acting normal,

1141
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: like he wasn't talking to a crazy person. So I

1142
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: wonder if her house now, if she is a little

1143
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 1: more just like shark tank and like she is a

1144
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: single woman, Like I wonder if she downsized. You don't

1145
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: think it's so marble and now you think she's more

1146
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 1: like mahogany kitchen. I mean, I'm sure the kitchen is

1147
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: still marble, but maybe she like bawled out at first,

1148
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying to be mahogany cabinets and like marble countertop.

1149
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: I can see that. Well, she also loves I guess

1150
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: we didn't put this in what did she eat? But

1151
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: she loves Core hydration water. It's my newest discovery. It

1152
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: keeps you hydrated and matches your body's pH balance. I

1153
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: just know I like it. I just know I like it.

1154
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: It's like, why is this an ad for Core? Who asked?

1155
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe she does do a sponsorship with Core,

1156
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 1: and she's like both thrown in the book incredibly slut

1157
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 1: all sponsors. But then she's also been like my beat

1158
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 1: a secret. You got it. Lemon throw it on the

1159
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 1: grilled fish, throw it on your face, Lemon water, lemon water,

1160
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: lemon water. She is squeezing lemons. I literally just said

1161
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: two seconds ago she wasn't squeezing a lemon. You said that, Okay,

1162
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: you agreed with me. Well, I don't think she's squeezing

1163
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: lemons a lot. I think once a month she is

1164
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 1: like at her kitchen like kind of a you way,

1165
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: Oh this, I guess this, who are you in the book?

1166
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 1: Oh my, my Vivica squeezing. I mean I just squeezed

1167
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 1: fresh lemon juice. Yeah, I think you're Vivica. Once a

1168
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: month squeezing lemon on a grilled chicken. Yeah, I mean

1169
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm going to do that with our home, Jef Meal.

1170
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: I mean I actually think you are kind of Vivica.

1171
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: It's a huge compliment absolutely, you know, reading this book,

1172
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 1: I felt a little called out. I felt like I

1173
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 1: was in Vivica, like I haven't gone, you know, And

1174
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: she's like, you need to dream bigger, you need to

1175
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:52,919
Speaker 1: be more ambitious, you know, you need to like really

1176
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: work out and go after what you want. And I'm like,

1177
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm not, you know, my dreams aren't big enough. That's

1178
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 1: you know. I feel like I'm so fired in the Minutia. Yeah,

1179
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: I actually do think you'd have some work to do.

1180
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:06,960
Speaker 1: But I think you can be her. Thank you, You're

1181
01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: welcome because I think you are driven powerful, But I

1182
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 1: think you need to get out of that journal yeah

1183
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: and write down the goals well I started. I mean

1184
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: it was it was kind of ironic. I mean I

1185
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: was like, literally today she's talking about moving on and

1186
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: like figuring out what you want, and like she talking

1187
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 1: about getting whatever exces stuff at some point in this book,

1188
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: which it's like she talks about like I guess like

1189
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: kicking this just the guy out just kicking or whatever. No,

1190
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: she talks about how all of her girlfriends came over

1191
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:40,919
Speaker 1: and like packed up the U haul when she moved

1192
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: out of that house. Yes, okay, So I was literally

1193
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: listening to her talk about that as I was in

1194
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: my bedroom today m getting rid of clothes that belonged

1195
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: to redacted, and I was like, wow, like, this is

1196
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: this is what life is. It's about putting stuff in

1197
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: the U haul and moving the fuck on. But that's

1198
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 1: only one piece of it. It's like the other pieces

1199
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 1: just like doing the work forgiving, like because I feel

1200
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: like with that act, she was just being like, oh,

1201
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: this fool was a deadbeat, but she was also like

1202
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: I was in love at some point and just like

1203
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 1: he wasn't a horrible person. Yeah, you need to do

1204
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: the work to like more and properly and like do

1205
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 1: the proper analysis and of the work to look back.

1206
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: But then you also need to work to look forward

1207
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: and be like, you know, what do I really want

1208
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: from life? And it can't just be like, oh I want,

1209
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: you know, let me like find the next guy who

1210
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: you know, make six figures and go golfing. It has

1211
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: to be just like, well, what do I you know,

1212
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: what do I really want my life to look? Like? Yeah?

1213
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: Where do I want to live? How do I want

1214
01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 1: to live? What do I want to wear? What do

1215
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: you want to wear? Where do you want to be?

1216
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: What do you want to eat? And so you know

1217
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 1: there's there's bigger questions you have to ask what shape

1218
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: do I want my apartment to be? Right? What shape

1219
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: do I want my shapewear to be? Well, that's and

1220
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: you are asking that question to yourself, and you're going

1221
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 1: to be right very soon, and I will be changing

1222
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: now exactly. So I guess in some ways you're also vivic.

1223
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you're also the friend who's sort of

1224
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: asking for money sometimes, I mean, right, which friends? Like

1225
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: it's like, I do think I'm absolutely texting back when

1226
01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 1: you send the dress? Oh no no, but like maybe

1227
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 1: maybe i'm car payment. Yeah, you know, and you've been

1228
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: doing a good job saving, Like you haven't asked me

1229
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 1: for several thousand dollars in a long time. I don't

1230
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: think I've ever asked you for several thousand dollars. Well,

1231
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: actually one of my time about that's fully not true? Rejected, No, yeah,

1232
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: that's true. Okay, I haven't asked you for I'm correcting

1233
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: myself and calling myself and I haven't asked you for

1234
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: several thousand dollars and in a while. Yeah, now you're

1235
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 1: being so like miss bank accounts savings, just like getting

1236
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: her roth Ira in order to oh, and I am

1237
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: calling and I'm like, girl, I hate to ask this,

1238
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: but yeah, so and you're being like taking out the

1239
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 1: car and being like I got this sometimes, yeah, exactly sometimes.

1240
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 1: And that's me going to New York and getting the

1241
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 1: job at Madame Tussalds. Yes, okay, and ultimately we both

1242
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: work about him. Yeah, I mean more we are the

1243
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 1: gay like living in Hell's kitchen working at Madame Tusalds. Okay,

1244
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 1: I pronounced that differently. Every time I give this book

1245
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 1: ten pant suits out of ten. Sorry, it's fabulous. Yeah,

1246
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 1: it's fab I think it's like I think, yeah, it's

1247
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:35,120
Speaker 1: not the best. It's not the best book. I mean honestly, like, well,

1248
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: like there isn't a ton of juice. We didn't really

1249
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 1: talk about the childhood whatever. It's like very like she

1250
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: isn't she kind of skips ome for ato, Like she's

1251
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 1: just like playing basketball and it's very just like they

1252
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: were good, like they were sad sister to like she's like,

1253
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: let me give you my sister's black eyed peas recipe

1254
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 1: for like three pages for ye, and then she's like

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Speaker 1: and anyway, and like make sure to take the water out,

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Speaker 1: like after three and a half hours, like okay, I

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Speaker 1: got it, um. But then all of a sudden, she

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Speaker 1: just like goes full hog and fifty cent and like

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Speaker 1: unloads all of this dish and just like calls him

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Speaker 1: a monster and like a liar. But then it is

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Speaker 1: also like but ultimately like, yes he's a devil, but

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Speaker 1: like we have made peace. And obviously I love as

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Speaker 1: I assume you do all the women's conference asides, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's a ten of one's conversise in there. Yeah it's

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Speaker 1: a really easy read, yeah, or an easy speed listen

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Speaker 1: on Audible, which I listened to at one point four speed.

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Speaker 1: I wish I kind of listen audible because I love

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Speaker 1: her voice. So yeah, I mean, I guess ten out

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Speaker 1: of ten is extreme. I guess I'm kind of on

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Speaker 1: a high program. I feel good, feeling good after reading US.

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Speaker 1: I feel good too. It definitely it definitely lowers the

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Speaker 1: heart rate. Yeah, but like a you know, in a

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Speaker 1: positive way, if you're feeling anxious about something or whatever.

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Speaker 1: If you're if there's something interfering with your happiness lately. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you've been considering getting ten percent off a better

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Speaker 1: Help subscription. You could also could also be every day

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Speaker 1: I'm hustling my VIVI gaate or listen to it on

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Speaker 1: a car ride, on a walk. Yeah. I will give

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Speaker 1: it UM four out of five really incredible designers that

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Speaker 1: I allow to sort of explore their creativity when they

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Speaker 1: addressed me events. Next week, it's gonna get a little

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Speaker 1: bit rock and roll, super wild and here fu Yeah,

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Speaker 1: get naked, put a sock on your dick because we

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Speaker 1: are scar tissue um, which is also the name of

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Speaker 1: a song a Red Hot Jelie Prapners. You know it

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Speaker 1: rock and roll. Yeah, they're a fucking band and as

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Speaker 1: you know, we are rock historians, rock and rollers. Get

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Speaker 1: ready for a blasted up. It's not a phrase. Thanks

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Speaker 1: so much for all your support, and again, like leave review,

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