Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 1: I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday. It's for twenty bitch. Let's get high, okay, Hi,
Speaker 1: I was gonna yeah, let's get.
Speaker 2: Okay. Wow, there's just too many songs that say there's
Speaker 2: too many there's too many high songs. I'm not even
Speaker 2: high yet, damn.
Speaker 3: You know what.
Speaker 1: I was trying not to get high immediately so that
Speaker 1: we can at least get into a train of thought,
Speaker 1: because you know what usually happens if I smoke too soon,
Speaker 1: it's a rap. I will not be smart. But anyway,
Speaker 1: how are you doing today, dear?
Speaker 2: I'm doing great. I am feeling good. I'm not high yet.
Speaker 2: I literally didn't smoke just so I can have the cleanest,
Speaker 2: purest tie for the four twenty episode. This is my
Speaker 2: favorite holiday, aside from Halloween and my birthday.
Speaker 3: Same.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's probably in that order too, Halloween,
Speaker 1: my birthday. Maybe they have a tie. And then for
Speaker 1: twenty Yeah.
Speaker 2: Last year on the pod we had Blup Blow and
Speaker 2: Mama and It. She's got so high I don't even
Speaker 2: know how. I like walked out of the room. The
Speaker 2: whole room was hot box. The bitch brought so much,
Speaker 2: so many contraptions and weeds and things.
Speaker 1: Wait, were you here David for last year? Who filmed that?
Speaker 2: It had to be him?
Speaker 1: It had to be here. Yeah, I was literally thinking,
Speaker 1: have you been with us a year?
Speaker 2: Oh no?
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: It was lovely though. She was talking about, you know,
Speaker 2: putting the put weed on the pussy with the fouria.
Speaker 1: Yeah, weed in your pussy, weed in your ass. It
Speaker 1: was like weeds suppositories. I still haven't tried that, and
Speaker 1: I have so many of those in the fridge. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm doing that tonight. It's for twenty and
Speaker 1: I'm putting those motherfucking suppositories in the various holes to night,
Speaker 1: because that is the way to celebrate the fucking four twenty.
Speaker 2: Amen, weed everywhere you guys, might hear a gentleman in
Speaker 2: the background. This is this week's guest. We have our friend,
Speaker 2: our business partner, Daddy Zaddy. Do you like heavy, heavy
Speaker 2: weed aficionado, famous wrapper and sheet writer, writer, entrepreneur, businessman, businessman,
Speaker 2: Well you have you do like a thousand things. I
Speaker 2: don't even know. Problem problem. Thank you for coming, Thanks
Speaker 2: for having me, Los Angeles, Na Content.
Speaker 3: Sorry you got you know that means something out here.
Speaker 3: You got to say the exact area.
Speaker 2: Okay, Compton comptent. He's wrapping content all day, Coffee and Cush.
Speaker 2: You know all day.
Speaker 1: We've been keeping problem. You know, we've been waiting to
Speaker 1: bust him out on our roster because we've been working
Speaker 1: on some things with a problem for like over a
Speaker 1: year now. Because we manifest the fun out of our life.
Speaker 1: We manifested partnership. This is our cannabis partner. If we're
Speaker 1: going to do cannabis, we had to do it right right.
Speaker 1: You couldn't deal with anyone else but problem.
Speaker 3: Super excited about what you guys are about to bring
Speaker 3: the market to.
Speaker 1: So Coffee and Cush is coming. The sister brand, Mama's
Speaker 1: Flowers will soon come. Yes, so you're looking out for
Speaker 1: us in stores?
Speaker 2: Yes, and and go check out problems line. Where can
Speaker 2: they find Coffeecush.
Speaker 3: Coffeecush dot com. You can go there and get all
Speaker 3: the locations, it'll say you, all the mugs and all
Speaker 3: the weeds.
Speaker 2: Get the mug, get them.
Speaker 1: I love that fucking mud fuck.
Speaker 2: We don't have a mug.
Speaker 1: We're going to get a mug. Why do think went
Speaker 1: to business with him?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring you guys so much.
Speaker 2: No, I mean, like today we don't have a much.
Speaker 1: I know it's missing something we slipped, were slipping.
Speaker 3: I grabbed the kids instead of the mug.
Speaker 2: Shit. You know what?
Speaker 1: This morning I called Erica, like how much we'd you got?
Speaker 1: We've literally scraped our weed together for the four twenty episode.
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna tell me this.
Speaker 3: Here you are telling everybody, bitch, why this ship smoking?
Speaker 1: Though, well you know you're a role you cannabis bitch
Speaker 1: when you scraping the weed together is four blunts.
Speaker 2: At first of all, I didn't scrape shit. It was
Speaker 2: packed into the bag. I had weed, we just didn't
Speaker 2: I didn't have like beautiful nugs to show to the camera.
Speaker 3: Listen, it all breaks down in here, soout.
Speaker 1: And get smoked.
Speaker 2: Honestly, can't even believe that problems smoking my weed because
Speaker 2: every time I go to the office and I try
Speaker 2: to offer him my weed, He's like, is it Steve's weed.
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, nigga, I don't have Steve's. No, you
Speaker 2: it's not.
Speaker 3: I'm away for lead that ships smoking though. I don't
Speaker 3: know where you got it from, but I like it.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to give anybody any free advertising. But
Speaker 2: it's some good ship.
Speaker 1: It's some good ship, but it's like some new ship
Speaker 1: because it came. It's shake, they like package shake, and.
Speaker 3: Maybe it's a new ship right now because it's like
Speaker 3: what's going on in cannabis, Like the prices are fucking
Speaker 3: going bersarved, The're going down like crazy, So like smalls
Speaker 3: or what, popular people have realized that you're gonna have
Speaker 3: to break it down anyway, So what the fuck are
Speaker 3: we staring at the beautiful nug for? If you like
Speaker 3: a I don't like to use the term of a
Speaker 3: weed nerd, of course you like wow, the crystal is
Speaker 3: the buzz this is and that for the common smokers
Speaker 3: like man, put that ship in there and like that
Speaker 3: ship up, And that's what we're getting to in the culture.
Speaker 2: So just want eased. Everyone wants to ease convenient.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like everybody's on the go. Like the new age
Speaker 3: we smoker is not lazy. It's not sitting around waiting
Speaker 3: for life. Like we're up early as fuck too. Were
Speaker 3: just mixing it with coffee. You get into it, starting
Speaker 3: our own business, running our own businesses. It's a different time.
Speaker 3: So really ain't even got time sit there and break
Speaker 3: down a weed.
Speaker 1: Isn't it a fine time to be an entrepreneur? Like
Speaker 1: I love coming to the office and I'm like, where's
Speaker 1: the weed atah? Let's get more creative, let's smoke some more,
Speaker 1: and we're get on business zooms and I'm like, hold on,
Speaker 1: I'll be right back, and I'm like in the zoom
Speaker 1: with the white people, like, yeah, would you say, Tom listen?
Speaker 3: Snoop Dogg showed us the way man be yourself.
Speaker 1: Uncle Snooped? This is it you want?
Speaker 3: You want to be in on this or not be yourself? Like,
Speaker 3: don't hire who you are for anybody? Ain't no how
Speaker 3: We watched them crip walking at the Super.
Speaker 1: Bowl into that crips was at the Super.
Speaker 3: Bitches and cribs and cribs.
Speaker 1: I love bitches and crips.
Speaker 2: Whoa I do you don't know that? You know I
Speaker 2: did it. I learned something new about you every day, bitch,
Speaker 2: and honestly, like I got to know Mila on the
Speaker 2: podcast and every time I'm like, oh that's new cool.
Speaker 2: I love that for you.
Speaker 3: Growth growing every day.
Speaker 2: So before we started the show, we had you pull
Speaker 2: a card problem and he looked at Nila, like, what
Speaker 2: the fuck is this ship? And we have a little
Speaker 2: segment on our show called Tarot Time where we pull
Speaker 2: a card that kind of you know, that's the tone
Speaker 2: for the episode. And so problem pulled the King of Wands.
Speaker 2: I love my Tarot Queen. What is the King of
Speaker 2: Wan's meet?
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't know you're about to put me on
Speaker 1: the spot so soon. I usually tell when it's tarot. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm prepared now. Wan's usually you know, since
Speaker 1: I've been learning tarot live on the podcast this year.
Speaker 1: Actually it's been like a year and a half now,
Speaker 1: h King of Wands. The ones are usually represent your
Speaker 1: intuitiveness and creativity. And you know, this man is looks
Speaker 1: like he is on a golden throne and draped in
Speaker 1: golden garb. He looks very rich, so it means natural
Speaker 1: born leader, vision, entrepreneur, honor. How accurate.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 1: When he pulled it, I said.
Speaker 2: Okay, business partner, okay on the internet doing stuff.
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, listen, did oh? I love seeing man.
Speaker 3: I see y'all so much. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: First and one for me looking for you guys, So like, damn,
Speaker 3: there they go again, like I told you about the
Speaker 3: Vegas ship.
Speaker 1: Please, I'm going to finish the tarot and then we
Speaker 1: must tell you this story.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So King of y Ones represents pure fire energy in
Speaker 1: its masculine form. Unlike the other ones court cards, the
Speaker 1: King is not so interested in creation and creativity, or
Speaker 1: in dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead, he
Speaker 1: is more inclined to take an idea and then enlist
Speaker 1: others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the King
Speaker 1: of Wands appears in a tarot reading, it is a
Speaker 1: sign you are stepping into the role of a visionary leader,
Speaker 1: ready to direct your people towards a common goal. You
Speaker 1: have a clear vision of where you want to go,
Speaker 1: and now you're manifesting that vision with the support of
Speaker 1: those around you.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 1: Others naturally gravitate towards you because you are charismatic, focused
Speaker 1: and determined, and they believe in you and your vision.
Speaker 1: They want to be a part of what you are manifesting,
Speaker 1: and they are here to support you one hundred percent
Speaker 1: of the way. You are also masterful at getting other
Speaker 1: people to do your work for you while keeping them
Speaker 1: on side throughout the process. It reminds you to leave
Speaker 1: your life with intent, vision and a long term view.
Speaker 1: You have a grand idea of what is truly possible,
Speaker 1: and you will stop at nothing to see it through.
Speaker 1: My kind of motherfucking partner. I'm like the Knight who
Speaker 1: can be a little impulsive with his actions. You have
Speaker 1: the maturity to see your vision through right to the
Speaker 1: end and beyond. You achieve a lot because you are
Speaker 1: clear about your future direction and how you will get there,
Speaker 1: and do not waste your time on activities or relationships
Speaker 1: you believe will lead you nowhere. I'll keep donkey King
Speaker 1: of once.
Speaker 2: Does that feel very much like you?
Speaker 3: I mean say, that's how I feel every day. That's
Speaker 3: how I feel every day. That's crazy and I pulled that.
Speaker 3: Now I'm not you know, I'm not in I don't
Speaker 3: know that like that. You know my mom and my
Speaker 3: wife they do that stuff.
Speaker 2: But it's really is about energy.
Speaker 1: So it's about intent, it's about like.
Speaker 3: That's crazy that I was like that, man, y'all, come on, man,
Speaker 3: that ain't real. I told you I gotta chier. No, honestly, man,
Speaker 3: from being so fucking lost and clueless for the majority
Speaker 3: of my life to finally hear that. It's so different,
Speaker 3: it's so dope. It's about achieving because honestly, like I
Speaker 3: was all over the place and I know I was,
Speaker 3: it was like, wow, what is this?
Speaker 2: What is this?
Speaker 3: What is this? I'm just living, but like to get
Speaker 3: a real focus, like we're gonna do this by this day.
Speaker 3: This is gonna happen. It's gonna take this much time.
Speaker 3: Fuck it, we own. That's hard to do for a
Speaker 3: former fuck up. I feel like I represent a lot
Speaker 3: of the misguided souls of this city, Like we were
Speaker 3: all trapped in this time and in the city where
Speaker 3: it was sex, drugs, like we outside it's like, well, shit,
Speaker 3: if my crazy ass can get out here and get focused,
Speaker 3: everybody can. And that's what I feel like my mission is.
Speaker 1: So and kudos to you for like bringing us along
Speaker 1: on this journey and you know, trusting us. Like literally,
Speaker 1: problem is just like, hey, guys, if you had a
Speaker 1: weed company, what would you think it should look like?
Speaker 1: And me and Eric are like, it's funny you should ask.
Speaker 1: We've been thinking about this shit for two years. Actually actually, oh,
Speaker 1: look at this deck because I'm a fucking deck making queen.
Speaker 3: Come on, you know that It was crazy because at
Speaker 3: the time, it was like I was talking to my
Speaker 3: mom like, list, I'm gonna try to do this legal
Speaker 3: cannabis stuff. Like I'm really spawned from her. I told
Speaker 3: you she's I'm a flower child and around weed my
Speaker 3: whole life. She's grown it, smoked it the whole situation,
Speaker 3: and I just knew once I went to her like
Speaker 3: what's missing, Like what needs to happen, She's like, you
Speaker 3: gotta do this. Mama's flowers, you gotta do Mama's guarden.
Speaker 3: You gotta do something for us, because it's tough for
Speaker 3: women that smoke weed. Like they really used to treat
Speaker 3: her a different kind of way. She would be smelling
Speaker 3: like weed in the same instance. She the only one
Speaker 3: that owns her own business. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: She's the only one that you know, both of her
Speaker 3: kids is okay, Like you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 3: for her to now be able to have women like
Speaker 3: you guys represent that, like look like for her, it's
Speaker 3: like a proud weed smoker lady, like look look at us.
Speaker 1: Go.
Speaker 3: Because her story was crazy, how I used to like
Speaker 3: laugh at her and be like, oh, he's smelling like that.
Speaker 3: Shit again, and and I remember how I used to
Speaker 3: make her feel, so it was deeper than like the weed,
Speaker 3: and it was like, okay, well shit, y'all are you
Speaker 3: know I've been knowing you for a long time and
Speaker 3: you just this big, bright spirit. I'm like, man, this
Speaker 3: is perfect. It all makes sense, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: And y'all was ready. That's enough. You see how you
Speaker 3: was ready. You know how many people I've tried to
Speaker 3: call and be like, hey, man, I see something that
Speaker 3: you got going on. I think it could be dope
Speaker 3: for you. Oh for sure, what what's up? I'm like,
Speaker 3: you tell me, this is your life. I just see
Speaker 3: what you got going on. Y'all was like, shit, let's go.
Speaker 3: I don't need the boxes look like this. They need
Speaker 3: to get this colors. No, that's not right on, y'all
Speaker 3: jump right in. So I'm like, shit, I'm backing up.
Speaker 3: And man, I can't wait for y'all to see these boxes.
Speaker 3: We has never looked like this, No, it hasn't, and
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: We definitely sprinkled some shit on.
Speaker 3: It, making this sexy. I feel like cannabis has shifted
Speaker 3: from this like shaggy, like we don't do shit no
Speaker 3: sexy though, it's better than just being all fucking super loaded.
Speaker 1: Mama flowers making cannabis sexy again.
Speaker 3: Ooh catchphrasees go big tagline that four twenty. See that's
Speaker 3: a hard ma. We got to kid this.
Speaker 2: No, I think it's important. I think it's important that
Speaker 2: you're for your mother. Like, honestly, really, I guess paving
Speaker 2: away and the women that I'm sure she knew too
Speaker 2: that were kind of in that space, and I guess
Speaker 2: even despite people saying like, oh, there she goes smoking
Speaker 2: that shit again, like she was like, this is makes
Speaker 2: me feel good, this is I'm on the right path.
Speaker 2: I feel a line. My son is good, you know,
Speaker 2: like I commend women like that. I wish that. It's
Speaker 2: so cool that you had that experience growing up. How
Speaker 2: old were you started smoking weed because you saw your
Speaker 2: mom's smoking weed.
Speaker 3: I was like, I was, I'm like nineteen eighty nineteen.
Speaker 2: Oh, So you waited because it looked because it was
Speaker 2: already always around you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's because it was like, you know,
Speaker 3: as a kid, you don't want to do anything that
Speaker 3: your parents do. Oh my god, So it kind of
Speaker 3: worked in the opposite, like you didn't want to start.
Speaker 3: I'm like, my mom does that? Why would I be
Speaker 3: doing that? That's how it was. The kids, they're like,
Speaker 3: what are you talking about? Like, dude, that's that's what
Speaker 3: they do. Like I would never I don't want to do.
Speaker 3: Who wants to do what their parents are doing? From
Speaker 3: age twelve to so, this is what was like. She
Speaker 3: would be like, you want to run, I'll be running
Speaker 3: from the weel like it was just strange. And then
Speaker 3: I remember when I was eighteen, and I'll start going
Speaker 3: through stuff with baby mom. It's in different ship. And
Speaker 3: then it was like experimenting with other stuff. She was
Speaker 3: like come here, man, here, man here, this big ass
Speaker 3: bucket was right smoked this. I was like, all right,
Speaker 3: start smoking. Started smoking. I'm like, oh, it just kind
Speaker 3: of smoothed me out a little bit. So that's me.
Speaker 3: I was grown. I was grown. It was weird. Tho y'
Speaker 3: you like my mom, it would look crazy to me.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's my daughter's path. Like when I smoked,
Speaker 2: my daughter's like like, are you gonna You're gonna go
Speaker 2: smoke again?
Speaker 1: Mom? I'm like, okay, if you weed smoking parents, you're
Speaker 1: you're like annoyed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like for me, I'm it's different. And I
Speaker 3: got all these little girls too, so I'm like I
Speaker 3: can just tell them the truth, y'all. Like the truth y'all,
Speaker 3: don't hitting y'all. So I could just be like, listen,
Speaker 3: I'm about to go upstairs and smoke. Don't come up here,
Speaker 3: instead of like, hey, we're gonna wheezle. No, niggah, I'm
Speaker 3: about so don't come. I'm doing this. That's what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: I know that's true. It's like when your parents lie
Speaker 1: to you as a kid about smoking. It's like the
Speaker 1: first it's like the introduction, like to accept fuckery.
Speaker 2: It's like it's like a first major insult.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like oh so I'm just gonna have to pretend,
Speaker 1: like so you think I'm done, okay, but.
Speaker 3: Not even just smoking anything. Like imagine like right now,
Speaker 3: we're parents in a time where if you tell your
Speaker 3: child something that isn't true, they can go into another room,
Speaker 3: google it and find out. And now they're looking at
Speaker 3: you as the person that lied to them.
Speaker 2: Yo problems. Kids are in the next YO, his ghetto,
Speaker 2: first ghetto. They're beautiful and they're twelve.
Speaker 1: And so when I walked in, I just I saw
Speaker 1: I had just left Luna and literally had the thought, damn,
Speaker 1: she's big, Like she's a big girl. Like I've had
Speaker 1: that thought. And I was like, and then I walked
Speaker 1: in here with his two tall, beautiful daughters with their braids,
Speaker 1: and then then they started talking to me.
Speaker 2: Bro I'm telling you the moment they sat in the room,
Speaker 2: they googled my mom. I don't even know how, and
Speaker 2: they were like, is this your mom? I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: Ship and then they were like is this you Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, you can't hide shit even think even know.
Speaker 2: They figured like I don't even know where they got
Speaker 2: the name. I mean, they must have just she analyzed
Speaker 2: and was like she.
Speaker 3: Walked in here and she said, oh White, then told
Speaker 3: me was coming to beauty blender. I love this product
Speaker 3: with this. I'm like, oh, I didn't know that you
Speaker 3: were interested. She like, so she just like all kids do.
Speaker 3: They'll just start googling. That's they'll just start googling. And
Speaker 3: it's like so innocent to like remember when we wanted
Speaker 3: to know with me back in the day. You want
Speaker 3: to know something, you have to like go to a
Speaker 3: library or you have to like imagine it and what
Speaker 3: can just hope like right now, it's like, no, I
Speaker 3: can get everything, and if you lie to me, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna be like, no, you're lying. Imagine raising kids during this.
Speaker 2: I know I was.
Speaker 1: So it was interesting and cool to see them talk
Speaker 1: about like their stuff at school and talk about like
Speaker 1: they're basically saying people in seventh grade are having sex,
Speaker 1: but they're like staying all casually in front of their dad.
Speaker 1: Even I looked at the death and him like a
Speaker 1: because I've.
Speaker 3: Told her, I'm like, you're gonna see a bunch of stuff,
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff, and that's so it's on you
Speaker 3: to be you. If you want to play a mess,
Speaker 3: you gonna get shit that come out of mess. But
Speaker 3: I talk to them like this, I'm not about to
Speaker 3: hide these kids like that. We're gonna lose the fight. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm raising the to be like women, like not babies,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So it's like you're gonna
Speaker 3: have to see a lot of bullshit if you entertain it,
Speaker 3: that's showing who you are. True, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You should be able to tell me about anything unless
Speaker 3: you're doing it. Now, if they was doing it, I
Speaker 3: bet I wouldn't know anything. That's the flip side.
Speaker 1: But I feel like when you're having an honest conversation
Speaker 1: with your kids and they know they can really talk
Speaker 1: to you, there's no reason to hide anything, like dude,
Speaker 1: like they don't have a reason, Like I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you like Ard tells me shit laughs, and I'm like.
Speaker 2: Girl, you know what I find though, I find that
Speaker 2: a lot of at least for me as a girl,
Speaker 2: Like I feel like I can do that with my
Speaker 2: dad more than I can do that with my mom.
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of girls feel that way,
Speaker 2: like there's a comfortability like Dad isn't gonna trip about
Speaker 2: certain shit that mommy's about to trip over.
Speaker 3: I think it's be like I think it's that and
Speaker 3: I think that it's like I'll take my case like
Speaker 3: I know you, guys's mom, so I can understand why
Speaker 3: whatever is going on is going on and I know me.
Speaker 3: So it's like more so than like try to bash
Speaker 3: you over the head with It's like with these with this,
Speaker 3: my daughters and my son, this group that's not gonna
Speaker 3: work with them. They're not gonna they're gonna ball up
Speaker 3: if you attack, if you ease in. They're gonna give
Speaker 3: you all the information. They're gonna tell you who they
Speaker 3: are because they're not afraid of getting in no trouble
Speaker 3: like that. Now they have to be respectful. They're not like,
Speaker 3: hey dad, Dicky, I'm not hearing that a shit. But
Speaker 3: if they get a boyfriend or dude, they like, I
Speaker 3: want them to be on the car. Me. It's like,
Speaker 3: if you hire a nigga from me, what type of
Speaker 3: nigga is that? That's right? You want a nigga that
Speaker 3: you gotta hide. That's crazy that say it's more about
Speaker 3: you than me. You know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 3: got it. But this is at five six years old.
Speaker 3: I talked to them like that. But the teenage shit
Speaker 3: is tough.
Speaker 2: When it's like that, you got a stomach. A lot
Speaker 2: of shit's just all no man, fool.
Speaker 3: The first time my daughter flashed back at me, I
Speaker 3: was like, I'm gonna lose my mom. Imagine something that
Speaker 3: came out of your dick talking to you. You mean
Speaker 3: Vaina came none, No, it starts out of me. It
Speaker 3: has to come out of here and physic We'll take that.
Speaker 3: Imagine something that shot out of me, out of my body.
Speaker 3: To go into somebody else. No, I don't think you
Speaker 3: know what you're talking about it, And I'm like, how
Speaker 3: to fuck you right up? But it's like, you're a woman,
Speaker 3: You're a girl. I gotta understand that if I go
Speaker 3: at you like that, you're gonna think that's the way
Speaker 3: we fix problems. You're gonna find a nigga like that later.
Speaker 2: That's not gonna God bless you for knowing that.
Speaker 1: God bless you for knowing that. Please God more, How
Speaker 1: old were you when you got smart? Your whole life
Speaker 1: something click?
Speaker 3: I was forced gumping it for most of it. I
Speaker 3: was just being lucky. It was just me and my personality.
Speaker 3: But now that I'm older and more aware and present,
Speaker 3: I know that's why it's worked.
Speaker 2: You are also an expert father, your professional father.
Speaker 3: You six kids I make, I've made children. I'm not
Speaker 3: the best dad at all. I just kind of understand
Speaker 3: that whatever it is is mine and this is my ship,
Speaker 3: my village, and it got a rock.
Speaker 2: How old when you had your first kid? But then
Speaker 2: here you start smoking weeds?
Speaker 3: Ship got that first situation, and that first situation was
Speaker 3: wow to it was a different like. I went through
Speaker 3: a lot name changes, and court systems, and it was
Speaker 3: a lot. I went through a whole lot during that,
Speaker 3: so it was like, actually made me a damn full
Speaker 3: in these streets.
Speaker 2: It made you he's rebelling.
Speaker 3: I was just mad. I was like, Okay, I can't
Speaker 3: beat this situation. No matter who's wrong or right. I
Speaker 3: couldn't make it to where my baby was with me
Speaker 3: and everything was the right way. So it was like
Speaker 3: I turned into this other guy, I'm gonna just fuck
Speaker 3: everything and now I'm just gonna fuck you up if
Speaker 3: we got a problem, And it just made me angrier
Speaker 3: because I couldn't beat that situation. So for that to
Speaker 3: be my first it was like, oh okay, it's like
Speaker 3: in my mind's gonna be like this all the time.
Speaker 1: So so you proceeded to continue.
Speaker 2: To proceed to create more.
Speaker 3: See y'all don't want to really conversation because again I'm
Speaker 3: kidding women, no winning. You guys control the show at
Speaker 3: the end of the day. So no, they chose me
Speaker 3: to have a baby with For you to keep doing that,
Speaker 3: it's crazy. It must have looked like bigcoin to him
Speaker 3: or something.
Speaker 1: I mean, in that sense, we do control the show.
Speaker 3: I've never ripened me right in my life. I took
Speaker 3: in my life no.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and it is that it is a huge responsibility
Speaker 1: because a woman, ultimately you or not have a baby.
Speaker 1: Even if a man is like I do not want
Speaker 1: to have a baby with you, I don't want this baby.
Speaker 1: Women do it all the time.
Speaker 2: We hold a lot of time, a lot of time,
Speaker 2: hold the fucking on because.
Speaker 3: Let's not get personal. We're gonna stay.
Speaker 2: Interests not personal at all.
Speaker 1: Those are facts.
Speaker 2: But also you when you decide to not in a woman, no,
Speaker 2: I make her have to make a troll.
Speaker 3: So that's what that's where the main part comes in,
Speaker 3: where you gotta take responsibility for everything you do. At
Speaker 3: the end of the day, it's my fault. Anything I
Speaker 3: like and do like in my life, it's my fault,
Speaker 3: all of it. But y'all run this motherfucker.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 3: Y'all can either build us up or throw us down.
Speaker 3: Y'all are responsible for the biggest companies ever built. Y'all
Speaker 3: responsible for the biggest wars ever built. It's like, it's.
Speaker 1: Like, won't I won't take responsibility for the worst I
Speaker 1: don't think that's.
Speaker 3: Every great company that we've seen in a lot of
Speaker 3: things probably ended over a woman.
Speaker 2: I don't I need proof.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not gonna in front of a girl or
Speaker 3: with a.
Speaker 2: Grip that maybe maybe okay, maybe I'm not saying it
Speaker 2: never happens. But there's a lot of ego and a
Speaker 2: lot of money and greed. I don't necessarily always pertains
Speaker 2: to a woman.
Speaker 3: But y'all run the show, like y'all the bosses, y'all
Speaker 3: decide everything. Trust me, y'all know that though y'all y'all
Speaker 3: know off rit when y'all see your dude or y'all fuck.
Speaker 1: I think that, No, we haven't always known that, and
Speaker 1: I think we've forgotten and so and when you forget
Speaker 1: who you are, people can take advantage of you. You're
Speaker 1: more susceptible to being attacked. And when you're we're under
Speaker 1: attack and when we're waking up. But we've been we've
Speaker 1: had a veil over our eyes for a very long time.
Speaker 1: And that's because of men.
Speaker 3: You guys are powerfule as fuck. I'm sorry, you guys
Speaker 3: are powerful as fuck. Like so when I say, like, okay,
Speaker 3: I have children and different moms, it's like at the time,
Speaker 3: little maybe I felt like, yeah, that's my bit, that's
Speaker 3: my ship. I did it in real life. Nah, I
Speaker 3: ain't had no choice of that matter, right, It was
Speaker 3: like okay, I just found out, like okay, this is
Speaker 3: what happens.
Speaker 2: And God bless you with five women, which is I mean, wow,
Speaker 2: how old is your son? Is he younger thirteen? So
Speaker 2: he's right in the middle. That's good for him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and yeah my oldest twenty two, youngest six.
Speaker 1: Wow, the wide range too, you know he was outside.
Speaker 3: I only had one after fame child, and that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Not after fame.
Speaker 3: A lot of my stuff was pre frame was ps.
Speaker 3: I was willing. I was willing, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: And you know I used to throw this thing around too,
Speaker 3: so you know, I started knowing what I was doing.
Speaker 3: You know, when you perfect something, you get to knowing
Speaker 3: what you're doing. It was just like I knew, like
Speaker 3: if I just look back at everything, I liked a
Speaker 3: certain type of mess, like I liked I was in
Speaker 3: the mess. I was into stuff that was daring.
Speaker 2: What is the thing that like transition Like I don't
Speaker 2: know made you wake up or say like I can't
Speaker 2: oh or not one thing.
Speaker 3: But it was one moment that that sticks out my daughter,
Speaker 3: I think I told you this. My oldest daughter, she
Speaker 3: her first day in ninth grade and I called to
Speaker 3: ask how I was going, and she was like, oh, Dad,
Speaker 3: all they was doing was talking about your thing in class.
Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you talking about? You got a
Speaker 3: song called d two b right, Dick two bob, that's
Speaker 3: all they keep playing, something like that's your dad, that's
Speaker 3: your dad, and she's like I hated it. Like I'm like, dude,
Speaker 3: I ruined my baby's first day with my with my
Speaker 3: with my ship. Hold on, let me figure this out.
Speaker 3: I gotta kick back. I gotta do something. I gotta
Speaker 3: fix it. So then that moment went to another moment
Speaker 3: and then just what.
Speaker 2: Was that like a moment that where you felt like
Speaker 2: you need to like switch the type of music you
Speaker 2: were making, or just the overall decisions you're making every.
Speaker 3: That ship, that one thing. Put it all in perspective,
Speaker 3: because it's like I was in this weird tear where
Speaker 3: this is how I make my money though, this is
Speaker 3: what I'm doing it for, and that first that flip flopped,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. It was like, well, this
Speaker 3: has to be more important because this make sure this
Speaker 3: goes and it was like, WHOA, I was in this
Speaker 3: weird thing because honestly, I was starting to grow out
Speaker 3: it at anyway, I'm getting older and I'm like, all right,
Speaker 3: I was just talking like that because that's what I
Speaker 3: was on at that time. But the images was paying
Speaker 3: the bills, so it's like, whoa, I gotta make a
Speaker 3: real decision like this is like it went from that
Speaker 3: to like the whole life. It's like, so well, I
Speaker 3: have to put myself through these weird emotional things.
Speaker 2: And like facing emotional things and.
Speaker 3: The finances going up and down, friendships going up and down,
Speaker 3: business going up and down. You're just looking like what's
Speaker 3: the common thing? You look like, Okay, I'm telling I'm okay,
Speaker 3: everything is good. I got my niggas is straight. Wait,
Speaker 3: my dick is.
Speaker 2: Causing all the problems.
Speaker 1: Not my niggas are straight, my you.
Speaker 3: It's my dick. My dick is fucking everything up because
Speaker 3: I'm planning to fuck throughout the days. Like Okay, I
Speaker 3: know I'm gonna do some music on my fuckers name
Speaker 3: do this like this is like wait, I'm fucking too much.
Speaker 3: I'm not doing It's like the reason why this is
Speaker 3: still probably even going on with my m because I'm
Speaker 3: still it's like, hold up.
Speaker 2: I think everyone goes through, even I mean women. It's
Speaker 2: the same ship, Like we can't we use sex as
Speaker 2: a weapon. We use sex as a as a number escaper.
Speaker 2: We both do it, I think, I say both sexes
Speaker 2: do it. Obviously men are like what's more glorified when
Speaker 2: y'all do it? Even if it's based in trauma, it's.
Speaker 3: Celebrated when we do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's fucked up.
Speaker 3: I have these conversations with.
Speaker 2: Guys, but no one talks about the Okay, yes it's celebrated,
Speaker 2: but I guess no one really talks about like why
Speaker 2: niggas are doing that and like the pain that actually
Speaker 2: is behind.
Speaker 3: I think even even in the Bible, its kings that
Speaker 3: have multiple wives, Like it's so that that's what success
Speaker 3: is to a man, Like that's a part of success,
Speaker 3: Like you get the riches, you get the house, and
Speaker 3: you get the women and like and if you don't
Speaker 3: have one of them, you feel like you're not successful
Speaker 3: because that's what's so like you got you'll say, like
Speaker 3: a guy will want to hear his son like, oh,
Speaker 3: you're about to start having sex, so he kind of
Speaker 3: like rushing them, daughter, like, don't nobody touches. It's just
Speaker 3: weird that you know what I'm saying. So once you
Speaker 3: try to even figure it out, like that's just what
Speaker 3: niggas some other niggas said. Your success is whatever you
Speaker 3: say is, you can wipe that off the board. That
Speaker 3: was like the hardest one. I didn't even realize, like
Speaker 3: I put myself on this little year not fucking thing,
Speaker 3: so you're a celibate for a year like eight months
Speaker 3: tweet or something like that. I forgot what it was.
Speaker 3: It was only supposed to be like a two month thing,
Speaker 3: and I just kind.
Speaker 2: Of kept going, did you was it really hard? At first?
Speaker 3: Bro? I found out that all, oh god, it was
Speaker 3: the ruleest away than ever because I didn't do it
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna stay away from women. I would still
Speaker 3: talk to the ones I used to fuck, because now
Speaker 3: I want to see something. I want to see why
Speaker 3: do we even know each other?
Speaker 1: Like wait, who are you?
Speaker 3: Wait? Actually right? And then you start realizing like, wait,
Speaker 3: that was my side I'm her side piece. Wait a minute,
Speaker 3: because then you think like, wait, she's only available. I'm
Speaker 3: my life. I'm from here too. I can only talk
Speaker 3: to her from two thirty to like five thirty eight
Speaker 3: year she gotta have another nigga, So you like you
Speaker 3: the whole everything starts to make sense, and then you realize,
Speaker 3: like damn. It was times where I sitting there to
Speaker 3: some ship I used to smack or whatever, and I
Speaker 3: would feel like this a little weird, like why am
Speaker 3: I not doing it? It was like some.
Speaker 2: Cracks like you were supposed to be like what's wrong
Speaker 2: with me?
Speaker 3: Why am I not doing it? I'm like, wait, this
Speaker 3: sounds like an addiction. And then you get to see
Speaker 3: it like the ladies will be like, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 3: I'm getting in trouble, and the reaction is slower. You
Speaker 3: want to go grab something. I gotta do this, and
Speaker 3: I just I'm just I'm the dick in the jar.
Speaker 3: I got it.
Speaker 2: You've used.
Speaker 3: I had been being you at least by this pack,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So it was like, oh gosh.
Speaker 3: And then you're like, well, what did I really want
Speaker 3: to talk to them about. I was only talking to
Speaker 3: them about this, so it ain't like they It just
Speaker 3: started all made sense. Once I got control of my dick,
Speaker 3: everything made sense.
Speaker 2: But then when that cloudiness went out you the other things.
Speaker 3: Kids, mom, like everything made sense because once you pull
Speaker 3: dick and pussy out of anything, it's just black and white.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Hey, that leads us to today's affirmation problem.
Speaker 2: What's your affirmation you told us.
Speaker 3: Earlier, simple, keep it simple. Black and white, no colors.
Speaker 3: You shouldn't have any colors. Colors are in your ship
Speaker 3: because of your past.
Speaker 1: It's black and white.
Speaker 3: No colors, no colors.
Speaker 2: Like, it's not no colors.
Speaker 3: It's not like if somebody like steals from my company,
Speaker 3: somebody should say, hey, why didn't you watch them? Like, no, nigga,
Speaker 3: why didn't he steal? It started with the steak to
Speaker 3: watch what's wrong with you?
Speaker 2: Let's get to the root.
Speaker 3: The roots, the roots stem down.
Speaker 2: Someone's always looking for something to blame. You know.
Speaker 3: I don't do that. I can't do that. I take
Speaker 3: anything that's going on. It's all my fault with these
Speaker 3: beautiful kids and they mama's and all this craziness. I
Speaker 3: shouldn't have them, like you said, if I didn't want
Speaker 3: to deal with that.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: The other day I was talking to my girlfriend and
Speaker 4: she said she went on a date and this guy
Speaker 4: totally ghosted her because she told him that she had
Speaker 4: a kid. What I know, I know, and I thought
Speaker 4: that was so crazy, And so I told her about
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Speaker 4: designed for single parents. So you don't have to be ashamed.
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Speaker 3: You got it so much clearer it will.
Speaker 2: I'm high.
Speaker 1: I'm high too out?
Speaker 2: Are my eyes open like I'm looking problemly?
Speaker 1: Yes? I know, yes, speak more so smart. I realized
Speaker 1: we never told the story about Vegas. Oh, and I
Speaker 1: don't want to keep the people, so our other business
Speaker 1: partner's not here, You tell the story.
Speaker 3: Shout out to my boys, spooon. So we was in
Speaker 3: Vegas for Grammy Weekend and we got some mugs in
Speaker 3: the cookie store. So he was down there doing that
Speaker 3: and he went to do something and randomly I get
Speaker 3: a call. He's like, Nigga, let me tell you what happened.
Speaker 3: I'm like, what's up. He's like, when I'm talking to
Speaker 3: this lady about the brands called me cush say Mama's flowers.
Speaker 3: The lady stops and says cook MAM's bad choices. And
Speaker 3: then I'm like, oh, for real, I'm thinking it's gonna
Speaker 3: stop there. He's like. Then she pulls me to the
Speaker 3: side and says, so you know anything about any swinger
Speaker 3: things going on in Vegas?
Speaker 2: Why are we? Why are we the swinger? Nigga said,
Speaker 2: not spoody word cracking, because we have the smacking ack, not.
Speaker 3: To shot a swinging, but the fact that the brand
Speaker 3: has connected.
Speaker 1: I am that my brand.
Speaker 2: With safety and sex, safety spaces for sex.
Speaker 1: I'm proud.
Speaker 3: I'm proud to listen in Vegas.
Speaker 1: Essence Essence said that we are the top ten safe
Speaker 1: spaces for black women on the Internet.
Speaker 2: I agree. In case you guys say Essence dot com
Speaker 2: if people are interested in a play party. We didn't
Speaker 2: add last week at the beginning of the episode about
Speaker 2: Orlando's play party, which is in New York.
Speaker 1: It's in New York. You're in New York. It's a
Speaker 1: two day play party. It's May thirteenth and fourteenth. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of black and brown people. It's
Speaker 1: a safe space. It's a cool community.
Speaker 2: We do know the play party. They were right, they
Speaker 2: were fucking right.
Speaker 1: In Vegas representing for us. We love you.
Speaker 3: That's hard. That's so not like a dome. Name for
Speaker 3: a bar, safe space, safe space.
Speaker 1: That's a good place. That's a good name for sex party.
Speaker 2: Too, right, true. Okay, we have a little game on
Speaker 2: our show. I like to play with guests problem all right,
Speaker 2: and it's called trigger. And although I've known you for
Speaker 2: many moons, now I don't have my answers to most
Speaker 2: of these questions. So we're gonna find out.
Speaker 1: You have to say, like one word, answer is quick?
Speaker 1: Well the first thing that comes to mind.
Speaker 3: Okay, just one.
Speaker 1: Word, my blunt. Nobody wants the blunt.
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, yeah, okay, here we go, fatherhood, so many words, mission, monogamy.
Speaker 2: You can't think this long. You can't think this long. Interesting,
Speaker 2: you gotta go quick.
Speaker 3: Sorry? Interesting was the first word?
Speaker 2: Bad? Habits, self inflicted, your idol, your idol? Do you
Speaker 2: have an idol?
Speaker 3: Pops?
Speaker 2: Marriage, loving it, Molly loved it, child support, hate it,
Speaker 2: favorite strain, caution, cush black women, fuck yeah, uh, turn
Speaker 2: on O.
Speaker 3: See when you say certain words? Ninety thousand them flying.
Speaker 2: So uh, passionate, favorite porn category on fuck with porn,
Speaker 2: favorite position, all level therapy. We happily ever.
Speaker 3: After twenty twenty five. Biggest regret not fucking getting control
Speaker 3: of my dig earlier?
Speaker 2: Who and what's your biggest insecurity?
Speaker 3: Too trusting?
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: That scares the shit out of.
Speaker 2: Me, like someone being too trusting or you're being too
Speaker 2: what's your sign again, Taurus?
Speaker 3: That's right, like my baby, that is my That scares
Speaker 3: me the most out of anything, being too trusting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So is it hard for you to get comfortable
Speaker 2: around people like fully, Well.
Speaker 3: Not no more because the reason why it's like that
Speaker 3: is because of the past. So if I'm leading forward,
Speaker 3: I have to just trust my judgments moving forward. So
Speaker 3: that's the scary part because it's not in my hands.
Speaker 3: It's like on the morals of the person, on the
Speaker 3: background of the person, and you're not going to know
Speaker 3: everybody fully it's like, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 3: that's the hardest part. It's like trusting in that I
Speaker 3: made that right decision to have that person in this
Speaker 3: because you know, one fucking food, fuck the whole thing up,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So especially something as big
Speaker 3: as like we're trying to do you know, we're trying
Speaker 3: to take all of this shit, we're doing global, so
Speaker 3: you gotta be you know, tight. So that scares the
Speaker 3: shit out of me because like I will have to
Speaker 3: take the blame for it if I choose, you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, that's a man.
Speaker 3: Shit.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's kind of like the beauty of
Speaker 2: life a little bit though, like because you just don't
Speaker 2: know that's the one thing you really can't control in
Speaker 2: a world where like everyone wants to control everything, Like
Speaker 2: you're saying, like everything's at our fingertips, and that's the
Speaker 2: one thing like you can't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's and that's the thing about me. When I'm scared,
Speaker 3: I'll run to it though, So it's like, well, ship,
Speaker 3: it's coming, but that's what I'm scared of though, Like
Speaker 3: I'm never like I'm not the toughest nigga, none of that.
Speaker 3: But if I get scared, I'm probably gonna attack because
Speaker 3: I'm like, let's get this ship over with. I'm not
Speaker 3: about to let that ship get in my body because
Speaker 3: I don't like the way it feels. So it's like
Speaker 3: I rather address it. But that's probably the only insecurity
Speaker 3: I really have. All the other ship is that shit.
Speaker 3: Don't be mad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't look at me. I'm high looking at it.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm high to relate to relight another women.
Speaker 2: Are you gonna you're gonna go?
Speaker 1: You go hard to go home?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 2: I mean I am going home after this, so it's perfect.
Speaker 1: We have another interview, tod.
Speaker 3: Hold on, let me see. I just looked real.
Speaker 2: Go check on the children. I'm trying not to take
Speaker 2: a lot of inhales right now because I'm already pretty high.
Speaker 2: But mm hmm, how they killed? How are the children?
Speaker 1: It's always hungry.
Speaker 3: When I told them, like, yeah, you don't eat, so
Speaker 3: after two, they was like.
Speaker 2: You still do that?
Speaker 1: Damn wow, I do that every day just so just
Speaker 1: because my god.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't mean to. I end up realizing
Speaker 2: why I feel on edge by two.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I start.
Speaker 3: Realizing the ship you addicted to. Once you pull it away,
Speaker 3: that's it's like getting these little girl I need to eat,
Speaker 3: like get hungry. That should be wow.
Speaker 2: I know because I don't know. I know because I
Speaker 2: ran to you and Daphney, like I swore like a
Speaker 2: year and a half ago, and y'all were doing that ship.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to I don't know what I
Speaker 2: actually I know what. I'm addicted to. Sugar, cheese, bread
Speaker 2: and weed.
Speaker 1: To a good time.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's not like a great country western song.
Speaker 1: A good time sucking hit does definitely.
Speaker 3: Smoke weed, No fucking way. I made her do it.
Speaker 3: One star.
Speaker 2: How about the funniest you she's never smoked before.
Speaker 3: She smoked before, but she had to smoked a long ass,
Speaker 3: long ass time. That ship was the funniest.
Speaker 2: I can't see it.
Speaker 3: No, you can listen all that nice ship flies out,
Speaker 3: it goes. I'm not moving. I said, what the fuck, please,
Speaker 3: I can't. I can't get the water. Nigga, she hit
Speaker 3: that ship one time. Oh my god, yeah, I said, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: but she does the wine. Now.
Speaker 2: How long y'all been married?
Speaker 3: Year?
Speaker 2: How did problem transition from problem? Who was out here
Speaker 2: in the streets to married family man.
Speaker 1: Husband, married to the soft woman because.
Speaker 2: I'm a problem, but he was. You were like on
Speaker 2: the end of the I think you were still No,
Speaker 2: you're read it. You were very much you were you
Speaker 2: were oh my god, yeah, you were so many a
Speaker 2: club with you.
Speaker 3: Honestly, the perfect situation had to come at the perfect time.
Speaker 3: It had to because it was like I bumped back
Speaker 3: into Daphne.
Speaker 2: Wait, can you please share the beautiful story of you
Speaker 2: and Daphne.
Speaker 3: Okay, it warms my heart. Me and Daphne. Our families
Speaker 3: still live like two houses down from each other. I
Speaker 3: met Daphne when I got here from Germany, so I
Speaker 3: was two years old. So I've been knowing her since
Speaker 3: I was two years old. She's always lived down the street.
Speaker 3: I told her that I was gonna marry her and
Speaker 3: I was nine years old. So this is crazy. Even that,
Speaker 3: it's still crazy. But so when I said I bumped
Speaker 3: back into her, I was at the ninth month of
Speaker 3: that thing I'm telling you about not having sex shit,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I don't want a girlfriend. I
Speaker 3: want to I want to do anything like that. I
Speaker 3: just want to have, like I want to start with
Speaker 3: tonic friends. Once you work it out your system, you
Speaker 3: feel great. Like I can talk to women. I ain't
Speaker 3: got to be looking at the it's all these things
Speaker 3: I can talk. You know what I'm saying, Like, look
Speaker 3: all y'all eyes. You know. I think that's why we
Speaker 3: do business well together. Remember I told you, I'm not
Speaker 3: trying to fuck y'all. I want y'all to that's y'all fine.
Speaker 3: It's tough for guys. Niggas don't matter, fight their urg
Speaker 3: just but that I bumping her on some whole random
Speaker 3: I saw somebody in the picture that we know mutually.
Speaker 3: I'm like, is this Daphne? She like problem? She calls
Speaker 3: my auntie and like is that Jason. Get on the phone.
Speaker 3: I'm like, we end up living a block away from
Speaker 3: each other. Like again, yes I live, I'm gonna share,
Speaker 3: we live, but I live that next light over, okay.
Speaker 3: And so I'm like, oh shit again, I just like
Speaker 3: sweeped out a lot of people out of my life,
Speaker 3: just bad people. I was just looking for somebody new
Speaker 3: to talk to in the valley or whatever. So I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I can go to her, this cousin dad, whatever. So
Speaker 3: I just go over there. She's like, hey, what's going on.
Speaker 3: We're talking and I'm just telling her all my business,
Speaker 3: all the fucked up shit, because again, this is family,
Speaker 3: this is Sharon's daughter. This is not like I'm trying
Speaker 3: to smack. So I'm saying shit I would have never
Speaker 3: said if I was trying to.
Speaker 2: Hmm, you didn't have a mask.
Speaker 3: I'm just like, yeah, I gotta fight. You got my kids,
Speaker 3: get that together. I'm up for Grammy, but I don't
Speaker 3: really like this and fuck this though, I need to
Speaker 3: get this together. Just real on the block conversation. I
Speaker 3: don't know.
Speaker 2: The rest is history. That's so dope. I love that story.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy, like so that situation had to go
Speaker 3: that way because I fought it like for months, Like
Speaker 3: it was like I didn't even want to bring her
Speaker 3: into my world jet because I hadn't cleaned it all
Speaker 3: the way up yet still at the baby when I'm
Speaker 3: just acting, it was like I'm still getting it tight
Speaker 3: and I don't want to bring that to this and
Speaker 3: I don't want them thinking I didn't want nothing to
Speaker 3: go wrong. So I was very hesitant on even like
Speaker 3: entering into anything because the flip side of it is
Speaker 3: like I know your dad, I know your mom. I
Speaker 3: can't even dog you or anything like that. I'm always
Speaker 3: gonna see you. So if I make this decision, this
Speaker 3: is the one, it gotta be all the way out
Speaker 3: because we can't divorce and then not see each other.
Speaker 3: This can't happen. We're already you know. So it was
Speaker 3: a big one to make. It's like I got to
Speaker 3: hit the real switch. It can't be no plan. I'm
Speaker 3: not about to play because it's missus Polke daughter. I
Speaker 3: can't even do it like that.
Speaker 2: Well, that is an amazing woman, period amazing, but.
Speaker 3: Even her like she's went through life before, she's experienced
Speaker 3: a whole lot. So it's not gonna be too many
Speaker 3: things that I can't tell you. She's she's not gonna want.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure she's seen it all.
Speaker 3: Trust me, I know all of every angle of it.
Speaker 3: And that's the best person to have sitting next to
Speaker 3: me while I'm growing up, Like I don't have to
Speaker 3: be vulnerable and like she's not gonna be in a
Speaker 3: handle like she looked at my little she was like
Speaker 3: niggas man, come on that like ship. I'm thinking, like
Speaker 3: I got a building worth a ship, Like no She's like,
Speaker 3: you're straight. That's rock man. Fuck it. It had to
Speaker 3: be that. I don't think I could have somebody else.
Speaker 2: Was marriage always something you wanted?
Speaker 3: I just always knew I was gonna do it. Once
Speaker 3: my grandparents both sides, they died together, It's like it's
Speaker 3: different like my mom's side. I saw both sides of
Speaker 3: marriage too, So it's like my mom's side, my grandfather
Speaker 3: and my grandmother, and they were all over each other
Speaker 3: like six like just all over each other till the end.
Speaker 3: And then my father's side, I've never even seen them
Speaker 3: sleep in the same bedroom, but I can see the
Speaker 3: beauty in both of them because they stayed together for
Speaker 3: this family of it. So this had to be going
Speaker 3: through bullshit. And now that I'm older, right, and this
Speaker 3: was just a very emotional one. So I've seen them
Speaker 3: both sides of It's like, well, if I'm in it,
Speaker 3: i gotta be in it, so I'm only and then
Speaker 3: once you do that with God, you gotta just That's
Speaker 3: why I looked at it. So that was scary too.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm scared of marriage. Marriage feels like a
Speaker 2: foreign concept to me.
Speaker 3: Something it's a bad contract, a bad sounds it's a
Speaker 3: horrible contract. It's the worst business deal on earth.
Speaker 2: I think it's something I want, but it's just like
Speaker 2: it feels like a large commitment to someone's feelings. And
Speaker 2: I don't know if i'm I don't know. I like
Speaker 2: it sounds cute, but also, can we have separate homes?
Speaker 2: It's like, see that's the can we have separate bedrooms?
Speaker 1: We live in different cities.
Speaker 2: Would you ever have a separate bedroom? No, you think
Speaker 2: that's weird?
Speaker 3: No, I can't think it's weird. I seen my grandparents
Speaker 3: do it.
Speaker 2: Oh that's right, hold on, it's just it's just nothing weird.
Speaker 3: It's my point. It's like, but for me, like I'm
Speaker 3: the other way, I'm like and all that type of
Speaker 3: ship's like it's a lot of love that used to
Speaker 3: go along a lot, so it's like I gotta go
Speaker 3: to just one person. And I was like, oh yeah, oh.
Speaker 2: Damn, she's getting love love.
Speaker 1: If you guys have love love down. If you guys
Speaker 1: haven't heard. We have also an episode with Daphanie, his wife,
Speaker 1: called Return of the Soft Woman that we did like
Speaker 1: very early on. I feel like now, but it's a
Speaker 1: really good episode.
Speaker 3: You guys are anti soft woman, We're not not more
Speaker 3: so like y'all more.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to tap into my soft woman. Okay, I
Speaker 2: really am.
Speaker 3: Like that's been my goal. Like I'll tell you and.
Speaker 2: Let me just tell you something. When I heard when
Speaker 2: we did Daphne's episode, like people were like mad, yeah,
Speaker 2: and I was kind of like, oh, this is surprising
Speaker 2: because I've known Daphne since I was a child, and
Speaker 2: I had one perception of her. And when she told
Speaker 2: me so, I was like, that's very interesting. And now
Speaker 2: as someone who's more healed and like acknowledging certain parts
Speaker 2: of myself, I'm like, yo, I need to I do
Speaker 2: like the feminine energy and like the divine feminine, which
Speaker 2: I think Daphnie is what she was basically saying in
Speaker 2: the episode is so powerful. But as women like I've
Speaker 2: had to show up and for more masculine about to
Speaker 2: take care of shit, I've had to feel like if
Speaker 2: I'm feminist for lack of a better word, like I
Speaker 2: got to like, you know, assert myself in some way,
Speaker 2: and I don't want.
Speaker 3: To do that. That's the balance.
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that all the time.
Speaker 3: I told her, and like I'll two everybody, everything in moderation,
Speaker 3: like everything is in moderation, Like yeah, it's too much
Speaker 3: extreme emotion thinking we got to be this way, this
Speaker 3: time and this way that. It's like, look, it's your spots.
Speaker 3: You pick your spots where to be soft, not just
Speaker 3: be a soft motherfucker. Like that's where people get it confused.
Speaker 3: And then the other way around, it's like, pick your
Speaker 3: spots to be hard, like because I find myself telling
Speaker 3: her like, nah, you gotta crack down a little bit
Speaker 3: on that got to like you gotta if you don't
Speaker 3: like the way that's going in whatever area is.
Speaker 2: Has Daphne reyaled at you? I feel like I can't
Speaker 2: even imagine she doesn't.
Speaker 3: Okay though I love you. Bullshit is she has great delivery,
Speaker 3: so she can tell you some fucked up ship and
Speaker 3: so you really will be like did you I know that?
Speaker 3: Because I wrap so i'd be like, don't do that. Stop,
Speaker 3: I know what you're trying to say.
Speaker 1: You gotta chill, imagin and cursed down her soft No,
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 3: Listen, Daphne cusses more than on my homies. You gotta
Speaker 3: meet her mom. Sharing sharing is like the fun going
Speaker 3: on right she's with that's why. I'm like, when she
Speaker 3: do this soft thing, I'm like, baby, hit him with
Speaker 3: the real ship one time and tell you she's like
Speaker 3: this fucking bitch. She gets going and it sounds so
Speaker 3: beautiful coming out of her voice. It's like, give me
Speaker 3: some more of that ship. I'd be like, curse something,
Speaker 3: Just curse somebody out for me. I want to hear it.
Speaker 2: Hilarious.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm surprised that you think we're the opposite of
Speaker 1: the soft woman.
Speaker 2: I asked, but you did not.
Speaker 3: You told us, I told us all my apologies.
Speaker 1: What was that your perception of us?
Speaker 3: I want to know.
Speaker 2: I want to know, Yeah, what is your perception?
Speaker 3: See, I have a different perception for you, said, I've known.
Speaker 2: You, okay, but what is it?
Speaker 3: The group or you are you want to go separate,
Speaker 3: how you want to do it, I don't care how
Speaker 3: you want to give it to me. Okay, okay, let's
Speaker 3: go here. My perception of you is you want to dominate,
Speaker 3: because that's what you see. You were raised by a
Speaker 3: woman that dominates, so that's your character and that's what
Speaker 3: it is. But you really like fuck that ship too, though,
Speaker 3: Like I want I know. I mean, that's what I've
Speaker 3: seen and that's what works. But that maybe not work
Speaker 3: for you. So I think you're gonna find some balance
Speaker 3: somewhere in that. As far as you you like a
Speaker 3: shook soda can like that, you're ready to just both.
Speaker 3: I can feel it. But the thing is, I I
Speaker 3: meet personally, I don't know which way you about to
Speaker 3: proof because you're gonna be extreme whichever thing you you do.
Speaker 3: If you start making cups, you're gonna make the biggest
Speaker 3: cups with the colors that it's gonna be it. We
Speaker 3: can all get in the cups.
Speaker 2: I feel like this is a high tarrant reading by property.
Speaker 3: No, these are these are great things though in business
Speaker 3: are in But it's like which one is great and personal?
Speaker 3: Which one is business? Y'all? You can't be in both.
Speaker 3: Like once I walk in the house, you.
Speaker 2: Can't be great in both.
Speaker 3: You can't be like It's like if you pick to
Speaker 3: be stern, like I'm gonna be a stern person. You
Speaker 3: can't just be stern everywhere because I can't talk to
Speaker 3: my daughters like that. Now. You gotta have a gauge
Speaker 3: on it. Like me outside of the house, I'm different
Speaker 3: than when I'm in the house. In the house. I'm
Speaker 3: a fucking brat. Oh like this, I hate everything everything,
Speaker 3: So I'm fucking winding and doing all this shit I
Speaker 3: can't do in front of the niggas. But that's at
Speaker 3: the house. The men, I walk out the doors, like,
Speaker 3: what's happening? We own? Yeah, you gotta figure it out.
Speaker 3: I think, Yeah, I think that's that's pretty accurate. I
Speaker 3: don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's as far as I think women crave where
Speaker 1: they can come home and submit and chill out and
Speaker 1: wine and be the brade, like when you show up
Speaker 1: as a mom and as a business owner and you know,
Speaker 1: like tough, you're in your dominant you know.
Speaker 3: And it's tough for y'all too, because it's tough to
Speaker 3: find a guy that can handle that, you know, handle
Speaker 3: not even what you guys are saying, that's nothing. It's
Speaker 3: like who you guys have to be around, Like guys
Speaker 3: are fucking very insecure, very jealous. We have to be around, Yeah,
Speaker 3: like you guys have to be around other beautiful people,
Speaker 3: men with money.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm around a lot of women.
Speaker 1: We make it to be curated.
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm around a lot of I think
Speaker 3: you've been around so much in your life. You don't
Speaker 3: really see what you're all around. Maybe you guys don't
Speaker 3: have the normal rolode.
Speaker 2: My dad told me recently that men don't want strong women.
Speaker 2: Most men. Most men don't want strong women. That's the
Speaker 2: statement he said. And I said, interesting, what.
Speaker 3: It's cool, like if everything is pros and cars, Like
Speaker 3: I've dated women where it's like, yeah, I mean, I
Speaker 3: think it's not ain't cool neither though, it's like all
Speaker 3: of them. You gotta pick which one works for you.
Speaker 2: I don't disagree though with him. I don't disagree and
Speaker 2: I and in my mind the way I kind of
Speaker 2: like took it because I mean, I am who I am,
Speaker 2: but like there is a softness and like that, like
Speaker 2: I feel like strong women lack And it's not necessarily
Speaker 2: that you have to give up your power and give
Speaker 2: up your career and give up your opinions. It's more
Speaker 2: of like how do you encompass all these things that
Speaker 2: are really like you're divine, feminine, but be soft? And
Speaker 2: that's what that episode was really Daphnely taught me, and
Speaker 2: that conversation I took from that much later. At the time,
Speaker 2: I didn't understand it, but I think that that's kind
Speaker 2: of like I think that's I don't think my dad
Speaker 2: realized what he was saying, but that's what I have
Speaker 2: come to realize, Like what he means about men. I
Speaker 2: think men don't really want like another nigga in the bed.
Speaker 3: No, you know, like they don't want another nigga yet,
Speaker 3: it's just picked your spots. It's like it's like with
Speaker 3: women with women for a guy, like a guy is
Speaker 3: fucking not as smart as y'all think, Like y'all know
Speaker 3: way more than us. Y'all are the detail. Like you
Speaker 3: guys think that we know that, we don't.
Speaker 2: We be trying to tell you, y'all don't.
Speaker 3: It's too long winded. Like I just had this conversation. Listen,
Speaker 3: hold on, I just had this conversation in the studio.
Speaker 3: I just had this conversation in the studio. We were
Speaker 3: talking about somebody was talking about zodiacs. I'm like, dude, guys,
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck after you say the first word,
Speaker 3: and like, what do you mean? Because this one one
Speaker 3: lady she introduced herself, She's like, is this I'm a
Speaker 3: virgo and I'm intense, but I understood that. Look, why
Speaker 3: do you have to lead with that because it was
Speaker 3: the best thing ever, because now I know what I'm
Speaker 3: getting into funcks with it. We actually hear we made up.
Speaker 3: I made everybody give one word a Virgo and is
Speaker 3: intense towards simple Capricorn's passionate Aquarius, creative areas, confidentis calm, Gemini,
Speaker 3: I misunderstood cancer, mysterious, Leo direct, Scorpio cool, Sagittarius, unpredictable
Speaker 3: and live a ballance. If a nigga just knew this
Speaker 3: instead of all that other ship that come up to
Speaker 3: your more talking about.
Speaker 1: These translating for men.
Speaker 2: Forgot the horoscopes are going to help niggas find the
Speaker 2: women for them.
Speaker 3: No one, just but listen, it's not just it's just
Speaker 3: not cool. It's the fact that you can do it
Speaker 3: in mysterious.
Speaker 2: You're simple.
Speaker 3: I didn't make these up. I didn't make these up.
Speaker 3: It was a whole slettle women in there going now
Speaker 3: through the community. Yeah, because they was all understand I
Speaker 3: need a man, and you know, they talking shit and
Speaker 3: I'm like, bron y'all too deep. We're not that fucking deep.
Speaker 3: We're not deep at all.
Speaker 1: You hear that guy's talk to the men in just
Speaker 1: one word sentences and you'll get further.
Speaker 3: Meaning, like like when you're trying to tell me something,
Speaker 3: like if you're trying to teach me something, are you
Speaker 3: trying to show me something? Give me the simple version
Speaker 3: and I can decide if it's like if I need
Speaker 3: that to digest because as a nigga, while that conversation
Speaker 3: is going on, I'm thinking about, Okay, we gotta get
Speaker 3: this money over here, where the fuck your kids at? Well,
Speaker 3: I gotta get to like it said, like nine things
Speaker 3: going on. So when you putting some more shit in there,
Speaker 3: that's gonna get real long. It's like, hold on back.
Speaker 3: Like with that, I gotta hold on. Give me the
Speaker 3: give me the something cliff notes version. I'm great with those,
Speaker 3: and then we can while we riding somewhere walking like, Kim,
Speaker 3: could you break that down to me? Now?
Speaker 2: Damn, I'm gonna start texting my long texts. I feel
Speaker 2: like I've gotten a lot better with shortening them because
Speaker 2: I don't really I don't want to text anyway. But
Speaker 2: when you really piss me off and we're not talking,
Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you I'm gonna write you a letter.
Speaker 2: And this is the this is it this is and
Speaker 2: they might get.
Speaker 3: You're talking to the baby father or anybody.
Speaker 2: No, just in general. But yeah, like I feel like
Speaker 2: women we men. Maybe, yes, you guys are. I'm so
Speaker 2: glad that you said that. You guys are not deep.
Speaker 3: We're not. We're emotional. It's different.
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. I really think men are deep. I
Speaker 2: don't agree with emotional.
Speaker 1: Emotional.
Speaker 3: We're emotionalless. I share more do we let on, But
Speaker 3: we're not deep.
Speaker 1: They're emotional and they're suppressing the emotions and they're just
Speaker 1: maybe clips up.
Speaker 3: It's nick manystem. It's tough being a guy, like you
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like I know, it's it's way
Speaker 3: tough for being a woman because y'all the smarter you
Speaker 3: guys have to walk outside niggas trying to fuck y'all,
Speaker 3: touch y'all all day. It's like a different thing as
Speaker 3: a guy who's supposed to be out hunting and finding
Speaker 3: and man, I take a different crowd of energy.
Speaker 2: I feel like there's more tools for women at this
Speaker 2: point in the world.
Speaker 3: Y'all set up to blow.
Speaker 1: Women utilize the tool. A lot of go to Harby,
Speaker 1: they'll go to yoga, they'll go to the retreat you
Speaker 1: so you'll understand the detail. Men just punch balls and ship.
Speaker 3: Damn bam, that's what. That's what.
Speaker 1: Just like get mad and cry in the corner. Don't
Speaker 1: you never see it, but you know that they cry.
Speaker 3: Because we don't have these like guys are not sitting
Speaker 3: around like, man, she hurt my feelings and ship now
Speaker 3: the more successful men do. Like it's like a little
Speaker 3: fire pack of guys that I know that we probably
Speaker 3: mentoring us through the other ones I'm looking for, like
Speaker 3: when we're leased, least inform that if that makes any sense,
Speaker 3: Like if like my one guy, he's having baby mama trouble,
Speaker 3: when they know that I don't fucking been through it,
Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, don't do this, don't do that. Then
Speaker 3: that vice versa if you've runned a business and I'm like,
Speaker 3: well I need the questions because I got some of those.
Speaker 3: But man, it ain't like y'all y'all get into it,
Speaker 3: drink and just be so vulnerable. So vulnerable niggas can't
Speaker 3: be too vulnerable. It is none of another guy, because
Speaker 3: these niggas try to you know what I mean, they
Speaker 3: try to use it.
Speaker 1: You have to have a good circle of people that
Speaker 1: you know that that's not.
Speaker 3: That's how it is. I think women and men don't
Speaker 3: understand how close we are. Like it's just y'all can
Speaker 3: say it, and it's just like the whole in the
Speaker 3: things like how we can say y'all can't y'all got
Speaker 3: that one to it t y'all can be vulnerable and
Speaker 3: we can't.
Speaker 2: Do you have any friends that you feel like can
Speaker 2: be vulnerable with?
Speaker 3: I do now, but I'm talking about like when I
Speaker 3: was younger now ship, I'm an open book now, but
Speaker 3: that it takes a lot to get to that, you know,
Speaker 3: especially if you're not. If you're not like your finances
Speaker 3: are together and you still living somewhere where you don't
Speaker 3: want to be. It's a whole nother aggression you gotta
Speaker 3: walk around with like you can't let no nigga know
Speaker 3: I'm crying over this, trying to snipe me or something.
Speaker 3: Street Ship, she said, street ship niggas like street ship
Speaker 3: I am.
Speaker 1: I am street Ship.
Speaker 2: If you have a record, I'm probably yeah.
Speaker 1: Do we just talk about this up? I was like,
Speaker 1: someone told me they want to kill for me.
Speaker 2: Once.
Speaker 1: I was like you are, I was like what I love.
Speaker 1: When I'm in love, I'll kill for you, he said.
Speaker 1: I said, really murder.
Speaker 2: Like what kinds degree?
Speaker 1: You had a gun that maybe even more like your weapon,
Speaker 1: and you would kill for There's no immediate need, but
Speaker 1: if it happened, you would be ready.
Speaker 2: Basic Bitches are basic. Niggas are not deep. Bitches are
Speaker 2: basic things.
Speaker 3: Just the little thing you see we go black and white.
Speaker 3: You're going to love that.
Speaker 1: Wow wow sponsored by episode. Bitches are basic. Niggas are
Speaker 1: not deep.
Speaker 2: Cold Gate sounds like to me, I don't know. Oh
Speaker 2: my god, wait, so do you have a horry for us?
Speaker 2: You know what a horry is? I think I shared
Speaker 2: it with you.
Speaker 1: High level horror story. Did something very ho very ho ish.
Speaker 2: I know you do Mollywood. I know that you have
Speaker 2: some tails.
Speaker 1: Is Mollywood? You're a k A are you problem? Aka? Mollywood?
Speaker 1: On the streets? From me?
Speaker 2: This is wild everything.
Speaker 3: It's like when you said that one word, It's like, uh,
Speaker 3: I don't even need to be what's the whole? What
Speaker 3: makes it? Is it a bad thing or is it bad?
Speaker 2: It can just involve lots of people we filmed. It
Speaker 2: could be like public.
Speaker 1: It could be like you're having sex with your.
Speaker 2: You almost got caught. You had to jump out of
Speaker 2: a window, like anything we have had some.
Speaker 1: Dodging pussy was like in fact, I opened the window,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend saw me. He walked through the window. Then
Speaker 1: I opened the door and he joined. That was the
Speaker 1: horse story.
Speaker 2: One girl, one girl sucked a guy on Juneteenth, a
Speaker 2: white man on Juneteenth with a strap on as reparations.
Speaker 3: Man, get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 2: No, nothing like that. No, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't got nothing like that. Let me think. Uh,
Speaker 3: I don't want to say that.
Speaker 2: He's scared.
Speaker 3: I'm scared. This scares me. This one I gotta come
Speaker 3: because I gotta tell the story without telling the story
Speaker 3: because of just the people in ball you know me,
Speaker 3: high level horror. They won't know, they will.
Speaker 2: Mom's just us.
Speaker 3: We have some of my top one hundred pod. I
Speaker 3: see what's going on here. It's not just y'all, no
Speaker 3: more just watching.
Speaker 1: We want to know the tories, okay, trying to act
Speaker 1: like it doesn't We just act like it doesn't exist.
Speaker 1: Just like just say whatever, it's fine, We're gonna come
Speaker 1: back and hunt them.
Speaker 3: Well, can I tell you a story about somebody else
Speaker 3: with a disclaimer if you can.
Speaker 2: Tell someone else how you want.
Speaker 3: To tell the story, and third person.
Speaker 2: Okay, got it, got it, got you were there.
Speaker 3: I was there, Okay. Yeah, Oh this is fucking crazy, dude,
Speaker 3: this is sad.
Speaker 1: We'll put it on Patreon. It will be only a
Speaker 1: little small number of people who see it. Gosh, okay, stories,
Speaker 1: we'll cut it out of the top.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna get so horrid. I'm just gonna say
Speaker 3: one one day I had, I got loaded and I
Speaker 3: was like, I'm about to make love with five women today.
Speaker 3: And I don't know why I was on this, and
Speaker 3: I don't know what made me get on that, and
Speaker 3: I don't know what it was. And then the thing was,
Speaker 3: but it couldn't they couldn't all be together. It had
Speaker 3: to be different.
Speaker 2: That was a busy day. That was Yeah, it.
Speaker 3: Makes me makes me feel bad saying this story. Now,
Speaker 3: this is who I am. But the fact that I
Speaker 3: that showed you how much of a cracking it I was.
Speaker 3: I dedicated a day to this.
Speaker 2: Were they all different experiences or were they like one
Speaker 2: was at the house, one was somewhere else.
Speaker 3: It was lined up. There's a lot of milk, a
Speaker 3: lot of things that happened that day for Steve going
Speaker 3: water milk. You know, back then it was like the
Speaker 3: hood ha Liloque was like he.
Speaker 1: To refeel you.
Speaker 3: You know, you go, you get, you get prepped.
Speaker 2: Wait, do niggas really think you're drinking milk?
Speaker 3: That's stupid ship from back in the day, But we
Speaker 3: need to think that what I was.
Speaker 2: They were really drinking milk.
Speaker 3: Like all that. Yeah, I was like, make the milk
Speaker 3: our god, and I remember that almost didn't accommomently. Then
Speaker 3: last second, the last.
Speaker 2: Thing I came through right before midnight, like Cinderella.
Speaker 3: Yeah, damn, we finished strong before. So that's where I feel.
Speaker 2: Like you gave full performance for each one or you were.
Speaker 3: Like maybe three Listen, listen. Every basketball game has four quarter's. Okay,
Speaker 3: So I have some strong points, I have some low lights,
Speaker 3: but all in all, the goal was accomplished. And it
Speaker 3: wasn't really about that. It was about accomplishing the goal.
Speaker 3: But no, I went through it. It was it was
Speaker 3: it went up, It went up, long long.
Speaker 1: That's the first insiration to D two.
Speaker 3: Listen them fucking songs. Man, I tell you D two
Speaker 3: B to take use.
Speaker 2: The song in this episode.
Speaker 3: Please do man, right, now we own it, re running
Speaker 3: that ship. Come then, I can't wait. Oh my god,
Speaker 3: I heard one of them. Ship's going viral right now.
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's gonna come back to get me again.
Speaker 2: Yep, TikTok is taking. Hey, make that money, baby.
Speaker 1: Get that TikTok money changeing. We're famous on TikTok. Now
Speaker 1: we went viral.
Speaker 3: Come on. Everybody was wondering, so do we celebrate going viral?
Speaker 3: Is that we get viral?
Speaker 1: Find any reason to go?
Speaker 2: I don't like that word. Yeah, we could find food
Speaker 2: that could happen, Margarita, Why doesn't.
Speaker 3: It doesn't turn in the finance? More followers? Yeah, but.
Speaker 1: Strange. Guess how are you followed? I'm men follow you
Speaker 1: on TikTok.
Speaker 2: Now, oh my god, we can't talk about TikTok. I'm done.
Speaker 2: We're done talking. We're gon feed your children because they're
Speaker 2: probably tiktoking right the fun now I know the.
Speaker 3: Last times watching them do a little summer sault something right,
Speaker 3: I just saw.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, problem, Thank you for coming on this.
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