WEBVTT - Sex, Weed, & Wellness Feat. Problem 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:15.800 Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:24.840 I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday. It's for twenty bitch. Let's get high, okay, Hi, 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:29.680 I was gonna yeah, let's get. 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:35.000 Okay. Wow, there's just too many songs that say there's 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:38.240 too many there's too many high songs. I'm not even 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:39.279 high yet, damn. 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:39.920 You know what. 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:41.960 I was trying not to get high immediately so that 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:44.720 we can at least get into a train of thought, 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:46.920 because you know what usually happens if I smoke too soon, 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.720 it's a rap. I will not be smart. But anyway, 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:51.800 how are you doing today, dear? 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:57.960 I'm doing great. I am feeling good. I'm not high yet. 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:01.120 I literally didn't smoke just so I can have the cleanest, 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:04.800 purest tie for the four twenty episode. This is my 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:06.959 favorite holiday, aside from Halloween and my birthday. 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:07.560 Same. 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:09.880 Oh my god, it's probably in that order too, Halloween, 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:11.640 my birthday. Maybe they have a tie. And then for 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:12.760 twenty Yeah. 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.440 Last year on the pod we had Blup Blow and 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:21.280 Mama and It. She's got so high I don't even 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:22.800 know how. I like walked out of the room. The 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:25.319 whole room was hot box. The bitch brought so much, 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:27.200 so many contraptions and weeds and things. 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:30.080 Wait, were you here David for last year? Who filmed that? 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:31.240 It had to be him? 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:33.759 It had to be here. Yeah, I was literally thinking, 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:34.640 have you been with us a year? 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:36.400 Oh no? 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:36.759 Yeah. 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:39.880 It was lovely though. She was talking about, you know, 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.840 putting the put weed on the pussy with the fouria. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:46.120 Yeah, weed in your pussy, weed in your ass. It 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:48.600 was like weeds suppositories. I still haven't tried that, and 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:50.640 I have so many of those in the fridge. You 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:53.800 know what I'm doing that tonight. It's for twenty and 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:57.920 I'm putting those motherfucking suppositories in the various holes to night, 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.960 because that is the way to celebrate the fucking four twenty. 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:06.880 Amen, weed everywhere you guys, might hear a gentleman in 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:10.040 the background. This is this week's guest. We have our friend, 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:15.440 our business partner, Daddy Zaddy. Do you like heavy, heavy 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:24.280 weed aficionado, famous wrapper and sheet writer, writer, entrepreneur, businessman, businessman, 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:26.359 Well you have you do like a thousand things. I 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:31.560 don't even know. Problem problem. Thank you for coming, Thanks 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:35.360 for having me, Los Angeles, Na Content. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.760 Sorry you got you know that means something out here. 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:39.280 You got to say the exact area. 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:44.440 Okay, Compton comptent. He's wrapping content all day, Coffee and Cush. 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:45.760 You know all day. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:50.080 We've been keeping problem. You know, we've been waiting to 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:54.080 bust him out on our roster because we've been working 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:56.239 on some things with a problem for like over a 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:59.200 year now. Because we manifest the fun out of our life. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:03.880 We manifested partnership. This is our cannabis partner. If we're 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:05.919 going to do cannabis, we had to do it right right. 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:08.160 You couldn't deal with anyone else but problem. 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.359 Super excited about what you guys are about to bring 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:10.960 the market to. 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:14.920 So Coffee and Cush is coming. The sister brand, Mama's 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:18.320 Flowers will soon come. Yes, so you're looking out for 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:19.160 us in stores? 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:22.880 Yes, and and go check out problems line. Where can 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.520 they find Coffeecush. 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:25.800 Coffeecush dot com. You can go there and get all 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:28.280 the locations, it'll say you, all the mugs and all 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:28.720 the weeds. 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:29.760 Get the mug, get them. 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:30.960 I love that fucking mud fuck. 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:31.639 We don't have a mug. 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.240 We're going to get a mug. Why do think went 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:33.800 to business with him? 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:34.960 I'm gonna bring you guys so much. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:36.600 No, I mean, like today we don't have a much. 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.240 I know it's missing something we slipped, were slipping. 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:40.800 I grabbed the kids instead of the mug. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:42.400 Shit. You know what? 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:45.440 This morning I called Erica, like how much we'd you got? 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.960 We've literally scraped our weed together for the four twenty episode. 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:50.400 I wasn't gonna tell me this. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.640 Here you are telling everybody, bitch, why this ship smoking? 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:55.920 Though, well you know you're a role you cannabis bitch 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:59.120 when you scraping the weed together is four blunts. 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:00.360 At first of all, I didn't scrape shit. It was 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:03.640 packed into the bag. I had weed, we just didn't 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:06.520 I didn't have like beautiful nugs to show to the camera. 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:09.640 Listen, it all breaks down in here, soout. 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:09.760 And get smoked. 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.040 Honestly, can't even believe that problems smoking my weed because 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:14.520 every time I go to the office and I try 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.640 to offer him my weed, He's like, is it Steve's weed. 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:22.080 I'm like, no, nigga, I don't have Steve's. No, you 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:22.560 it's not. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.280 I'm away for lead that ships smoking though. I don't 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.000 know where you got it from, but I like it. 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:30.480 I'm not going to give anybody any free advertising. But 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:31.840 it's some good ship. 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:35.280 It's some good ship, but it's like some new ship 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:38.320 because it came. It's shake, they like package shake, and. 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:40.400 Maybe it's a new ship right now because it's like 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.320 what's going on in cannabis, Like the prices are fucking 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:46.040 going bersarved, The're going down like crazy, So like smalls 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.560 or what, popular people have realized that you're gonna have 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:50.400 to break it down anyway, So what the fuck are 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:53.880 we staring at the beautiful nug for? If you like 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:55.560 a I don't like to use the term of a 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:58.280 weed nerd, of course you like wow, the crystal is 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:01.160 the buzz this is and that for the common smokers 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:02.599 like man, put that ship in there and like that 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:05.560 ship up, And that's what we're getting to in the culture. 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:09.760 So just want eased. Everyone wants to ease convenient. 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:13.040 Yeah, like everybody's on the go. Like the new age 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.239 we smoker is not lazy. It's not sitting around waiting 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.840 for life. Like we're up early as fuck too. Were 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.280 just mixing it with coffee. You get into it, starting 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.960 our own business, running our own businesses. It's a different time. 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.000 So really ain't even got time sit there and break 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:26.479 down a weed. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:29.320 Isn't it a fine time to be an entrepreneur? Like 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.839 I love coming to the office and I'm like, where's 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:34.880 the weed atah? Let's get more creative, let's smoke some more, 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.160 and we're get on business zooms and I'm like, hold on, 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:38.640 I'll be right back, and I'm like in the zoom 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:42.920 with the white people, like, yeah, would you say, Tom listen? 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.560 Snoop Dogg showed us the way man be yourself. 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:48.120 Uncle Snooped? This is it you want? 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.440 You want to be in on this or not be yourself? Like, 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:53.279 don't hire who you are for anybody? Ain't no how 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.280 We watched them crip walking at the Super. 0:05:56.000 --> 0:06:00.240 Bowl into that crips was at the Super. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.880 Bitches and cribs and cribs. 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:05.000 I love bitches and crips. 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:14.200 Whoa I do you don't know that? You know I 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.040 did it. I learned something new about you every day, bitch, 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:17.919 and honestly, like I got to know Mila on the 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:21.159 podcast and every time I'm like, oh that's new cool. 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:22.000 I love that for you. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.800 Growth growing every day. 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:28.160 So before we started the show, we had you pull 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.000 a card problem and he looked at Nila, like, what 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:32.680 the fuck is this ship? And we have a little 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:34.839 segment on our show called Tarot Time where we pull 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:37.160 a card that kind of you know, that's the tone 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:42.400 for the episode. And so problem pulled the King of Wands. 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:45.960 I love my Tarot Queen. What is the King of 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:46.560 Wan's meet? 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.000 Well, I didn't know you're about to put me on 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:51.320 the spot so soon. I usually tell when it's tarot. Oh, 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:55.599 I'm sorry, I'm prepared now. Wan's usually you know, since 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.240 I've been learning tarot live on the podcast this year. 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.280 Actually it's been like a year and a half now, 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:05.360 h King of Wands. The ones are usually represent your 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:11.400 intuitiveness and creativity. And you know, this man is looks 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:15.600 like he is on a golden throne and draped in 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:19.960 golden garb. He looks very rich, so it means natural 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:24.680 born leader, vision, entrepreneur, honor. How accurate. 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:25.400 Wow. 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:27.520 When he pulled it, I said. 0:07:27.440 --> 0:07:33.840 Okay, business partner, okay on the internet doing stuff. 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:41.600 I'm like, yeah, listen, did oh? I love seeing man. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.120 I see y'all so much. You know what I'm saying. 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:46.920 First and one for me looking for you guys, So like, damn, 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:49.280 there they go again, like I told you about the 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:53.000 Vegas ship. 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:57.280 Please, I'm going to finish the tarot and then we 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:58.720 must tell you this story. 0:07:58.360 --> 0:07:59.280 Okay. 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.840 So King of y Ones represents pure fire energy in 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:06.760 its masculine form. Unlike the other ones court cards, the 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.640 King is not so interested in creation and creativity, or 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:13.160 in dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead, he 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.920 is more inclined to take an idea and then enlist 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:19.000 others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the King 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:20.880 of Wands appears in a tarot reading, it is a 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:24.000 sign you are stepping into the role of a visionary leader, 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.480 ready to direct your people towards a common goal. You 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:29.200 have a clear vision of where you want to go, 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.880 and now you're manifesting that vision with the support of 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:32.680 those around you. 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:33.200 Hello. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:37.960 Others naturally gravitate towards you because you are charismatic, focused 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:40.120 and determined, and they believe in you and your vision. 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:42.240 They want to be a part of what you are manifesting, 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:44.640 and they are here to support you one hundred percent 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:48.000 of the way. You are also masterful at getting other 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.160 people to do your work for you while keeping them 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:53.480 on side throughout the process. It reminds you to leave 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:55.920 your life with intent, vision and a long term view. 0:08:56.520 --> 0:09:00.000 You have a grand idea of what is truly possible, 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.199 and you will stop at nothing to see it through. 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:06.040 My kind of motherfucking partner. I'm like the Knight who 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:08.640 can be a little impulsive with his actions. You have 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.920 the maturity to see your vision through right to the 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.720 end and beyond. You achieve a lot because you are 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.280 clear about your future direction and how you will get there, 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:19.480 and do not waste your time on activities or relationships 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:23.320 you believe will lead you nowhere. I'll keep donkey King 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:23.720 of once. 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.719 Does that feel very much like you? 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:31.600 I mean say, that's how I feel every day. That's 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:34.240 how I feel every day. That's crazy and I pulled that. 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:36.280 Now I'm not you know, I'm not in I don't 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:37.640 know that like that. You know my mom and my 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:38.840 wife they do that stuff. 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:41.040 But it's really is about energy. 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:43.480 So it's about intent, it's about like. 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:47.040 That's crazy that I was like that, man, y'all, come on, man, 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:51.200 that ain't real. I told you I gotta chier. No, honestly, man, 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:55.800 from being so fucking lost and clueless for the majority 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:59.360 of my life to finally hear that. It's so different, 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:03.240 it's so dope. It's about achieving because honestly, like I 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:05.240 was all over the place and I know I was, 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:06.720 it was like, wow, what is this? 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:07.160 What is this? 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.840 What is this? I'm just living, but like to get 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.000 a real focus, like we're gonna do this by this day. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.199 This is gonna happen. It's gonna take this much time. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:17.120 Fuck it, we own. That's hard to do for a 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:20.160 former fuck up. I feel like I represent a lot 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.960 of the misguided souls of this city, Like we were 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.480 all trapped in this time and in the city where 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:29.560 it was sex, drugs, like we outside it's like, well, shit, 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:32.320 if my crazy ass can get out here and get focused, 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:35.719 everybody can. And that's what I feel like my mission is. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:39.400 So and kudos to you for like bringing us along 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:43.520 on this journey and you know, trusting us. Like literally, 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:46.400 problem is just like, hey, guys, if you had a 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.640 weed company, what would you think it should look like? 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:50.760 And me and Eric are like, it's funny you should ask. 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:56.679 We've been thinking about this shit for two years. Actually actually, oh, 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.040 look at this deck because I'm a fucking deck making queen. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.480 Come on, you know that It was crazy because at 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:02.840 the time, it was like I was talking to my 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:04.839 mom like, list, I'm gonna try to do this legal 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.520 cannabis stuff. Like I'm really spawned from her. I told 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:09.480 you she's I'm a flower child and around weed my 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:12.840 whole life. She's grown it, smoked it the whole situation, 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.880 and I just knew once I went to her like 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.520 what's missing, Like what needs to happen, She's like, you 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:20.760 gotta do this. Mama's flowers, you gotta do Mama's guarden. 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:23.200 You gotta do something for us, because it's tough for 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:26.080 women that smoke weed. Like they really used to treat 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.480 her a different kind of way. She would be smelling 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.760 like weed in the same instance. She the only one 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:33.240 that owns her own business. You know what I'm saying, 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:34.840 She's the only one that you know, both of her 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:36.800 kids is okay, Like you know what I'm saying. So 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.160 for her to now be able to have women like 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:42.439 you guys represent that, like look like for her, it's 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.640 like a proud weed smoker lady, like look look at us. 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:45.800 Go. 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:48.400 Because her story was crazy, how I used to like 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:50.840 laugh at her and be like, oh, he's smelling like that. 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:53.800 Shit again, and and I remember how I used to 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:56.040 make her feel, so it was deeper than like the weed, 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.160 and it was like, okay, well shit, y'all are you 0:11:58.200 --> 0:12:00.160 know I've been knowing you for a long time and 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.199 you just this big, bright spirit. I'm like, man, this 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:04.640 is perfect. It all makes sense, you know what I'm saying. 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:07.600 And y'all was ready. That's enough. You see how you 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.800 was ready. You know how many people I've tried to 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:12.040 call and be like, hey, man, I see something that 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:13.480 you got going on. I think it could be dope 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:16.560 for you. Oh for sure, what what's up? I'm like, 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:18.920 you tell me, this is your life. I just see 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:21.520 what you got going on. Y'all was like, shit, let's go. 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:22.960 I don't need the boxes look like this. They need 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.680 to get this colors. No, that's not right on, y'all 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:27.719 jump right in. So I'm like, shit, I'm backing up. 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.000 And man, I can't wait for y'all to see these boxes. 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:38.200 We has never looked like this, No, it hasn't, and 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:38.840 I love it. 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:40.559 We definitely sprinkled some shit on. 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:44.720 It, making this sexy. I feel like cannabis has shifted 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:48.520 from this like shaggy, like we don't do shit no 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:53.200 sexy though, it's better than just being all fucking super loaded. 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:55.600 Mama flowers making cannabis sexy again. 0:12:56.000 --> 0:13:02.880 Ooh catchphrasees go big tagline that four twenty. See that's 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:04.160 a hard ma. We got to kid this. 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:06.440 No, I think it's important. I think it's important that 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:09.600 you're for your mother. Like, honestly, really, I guess paving 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:11.839 away and the women that I'm sure she knew too 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:15.319 that were kind of in that space, and I guess 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:18.560 even despite people saying like, oh, there she goes smoking 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:20.560 that shit again, like she was like, this is makes 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:23.079 me feel good, this is I'm on the right path. 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.640 I feel a line. My son is good, you know, 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.920 like I commend women like that. I wish that. It's 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:31.880 so cool that you had that experience growing up. How 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:33.640 old were you started smoking weed because you saw your 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:34.360 mom's smoking weed. 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:37.800 I was like, I was, I'm like nineteen eighty nineteen. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.920 Oh, So you waited because it looked because it was 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:41.000 already always around you. 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:43.079 Yeah, I think it's because it was like, you know, 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:44.800 as a kid, you don't want to do anything that 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:47.280 your parents do. Oh my god, So it kind of 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:50.040 worked in the opposite, like you didn't want to start. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.520 I'm like, my mom does that? Why would I be 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:54.960 doing that? That's how it was. The kids, they're like, 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:58.199 what are you talking about? Like, dude, that's that's what 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.800 they do. Like I would never I don't want to do. 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:02.400 Who wants to do what their parents are doing? From 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:05.640 age twelve to so, this is what was like. She 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.880 would be like, you want to run, I'll be running 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:10.640 from the weel like it was just strange. And then 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.000 I remember when I was eighteen, and I'll start going 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.440 through stuff with baby mom. It's in different ship. And 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:17.680 then it was like experimenting with other stuff. She was 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:20.920 like come here, man, here, man here, this big ass 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:24.120 bucket was right smoked this. I was like, all right, 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:27.920 start smoking. Started smoking. I'm like, oh, it just kind 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.800 of smoothed me out a little bit. So that's me. 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:35.160 I was grown. I was grown. It was weird. Tho y' 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:38.760 you like my mom, it would look crazy to me. 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.200 I feel like that's my daughter's path. Like when I smoked, 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.520 my daughter's like like, are you gonna You're gonna go 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:44.080 smoke again? 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:47.400 Mom? I'm like, okay, if you weed smoking parents, you're 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:49.120 you're like annoyed. 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.680 Yeah, it's like for me, I'm it's different. And I 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.760 got all these little girls too, so I'm like I 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.760 can just tell them the truth, y'all. Like the truth y'all, 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.960 don't hitting y'all. So I could just be like, listen, 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:02.160 I'm about to go upstairs and smoke. Don't come up here, 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:05.760 instead of like, hey, we're gonna wheezle. No, niggah, I'm 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:08.040 about so don't come. I'm doing this. That's what I'm doing. 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.760 I know that's true. It's like when your parents lie 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.520 to you as a kid about smoking. It's like the 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.360 first it's like the introduction, like to accept fuckery. 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:17.520 It's like it's like a first major insult. 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:19.600 Yeah, like oh so I'm just gonna have to pretend, 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.880 like so you think I'm done, okay, but. 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:24.920 Not even just smoking anything. Like imagine like right now, 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:26.960 we're parents in a time where if you tell your 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:30.080 child something that isn't true, they can go into another room, 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.400 google it and find out. And now they're looking at 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:33.800 you as the person that lied to them. 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:38.440 Yo problems. Kids are in the next YO, his ghetto, 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:43.200 first ghetto. They're beautiful and they're twelve. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.240 And so when I walked in, I just I saw 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.480 I had just left Luna and literally had the thought, damn, 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:51.160 she's big, Like she's a big girl. Like I've had 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:53.240 that thought. And I was like, and then I walked 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:57.240 in here with his two tall, beautiful daughters with their braids, 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.520 and then then they started talking to me. 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:00.960 Bro I'm telling you the moment they sat in the room, 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:02.800 they googled my mom. I don't even know how, and 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.920 they were like, is this your mom? I was like, oh, yeah, 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:09.040 Ship and then they were like is this you Yeah. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:13.120 I was like, you can't hide shit even think even know. 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:14.720 They figured like I don't even know where they got 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:16.800 the name. I mean, they must have just she analyzed 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:17.680 and was like she. 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.480 Walked in here and she said, oh White, then told 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:22.400 me was coming to beauty blender. I love this product 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:24.240 with this. I'm like, oh, I didn't know that you 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.280 were interested. She like, so she just like all kids do. 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:30.400 They'll just start googling. That's they'll just start googling. And 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.400 it's like so innocent to like remember when we wanted 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:34.800 to know with me back in the day. You want 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:36.200 to know something, you have to like go to a 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:39.280 library or you have to like imagine it and what 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:41.520 can just hope like right now, it's like, no, I 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:43.080 can get everything, and if you lie to me, I'm 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:47.680 gonna be like, no, you're lying. Imagine raising kids during this. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:48.400 I know I was. 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:50.680 So it was interesting and cool to see them talk 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:52.880 about like their stuff at school and talk about like 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:56.040 they're basically saying people in seventh grade are having sex, 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:57.880 but they're like staying all casually in front of their dad. 0:16:57.880 --> 0:16:59.640 Even I looked at the death and him like a 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:04.080 because I've. 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:04.639 Told her, I'm like, you're gonna see a bunch of stuff, 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:06.800 a lot of stuff, and that's so it's on you 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:09.480 to be you. If you want to play a mess, 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:10.960 you gonna get shit that come out of mess. But 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:13.320 I talk to them like this, I'm not about to 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.520 hide these kids like that. We're gonna lose the fight. Yeah, 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:19.120 I'm raising the to be like women, like not babies, 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:20.960 you know what I'm saying. So it's like you're gonna 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.520 have to see a lot of bullshit if you entertain it, 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:26.080 that's showing who you are. True, you know what I'm saying. 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:27.800 You should be able to tell me about anything unless 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:29.520 you're doing it. Now, if they was doing it, I 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:32.720 bet I wouldn't know anything. That's the flip side. 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:35.800 But I feel like when you're having an honest conversation 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:37.600 with your kids and they know they can really talk 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:40.919 to you, there's no reason to hide anything, like dude, 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:42.720 like they don't have a reason, Like I'm gonna tell 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:44.680 you like Ard tells me shit laughs, and I'm like. 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:46.480 Girl, you know what I find though, I find that 0:17:46.840 --> 0:17:48.560 a lot of at least for me as a girl, 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:50.359 Like I feel like I can do that with my 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:52.000 dad more than I can do that with my mom. 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:53.880 And I think a lot of girls feel that way, 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:57.280 like there's a comfortability like Dad isn't gonna trip about 0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:59.400 certain shit that mommy's about to trip over. 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:01.720 I think it's be like I think it's that and 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:06.119 I think that it's like I'll take my case like 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:09.880 I know you, guys's mom, so I can understand why 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:12.520 whatever is going on is going on and I know me. 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:15.399 So it's like more so than like try to bash 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:17.679 you over the head with It's like with these with this, 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:20.880 my daughters and my son, this group that's not gonna 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:23.520 work with them. They're not gonna they're gonna ball up 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:26.800 if you attack, if you ease in. They're gonna give 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:28.639 you all the information. They're gonna tell you who they 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:31.280 are because they're not afraid of getting in no trouble 0:18:31.640 --> 0:18:33.720 like that. Now they have to be respectful. They're not like, 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:36.719 hey dad, Dicky, I'm not hearing that a shit. But 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:39.040 if they get a boyfriend or dude, they like, I 0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:40.719 want them to be on the car. Me. It's like, 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:42.520 if you hire a nigga from me, what type of 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:44.800 nigga is that? That's right? You want a nigga that 0:18:44.880 --> 0:18:47.480 you gotta hide. That's crazy that say it's more about 0:18:47.520 --> 0:18:50.919 you than me. You know what I'm saying. So I 0:18:50.920 --> 0:18:52.960 got it. But this is at five six years old. 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:54.760 I talked to them like that. But the teenage shit 0:18:54.880 --> 0:18:55.200 is tough. 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:57.359 When it's like that, you got a stomach. A lot 0:18:57.400 --> 0:18:59.960 of shit's just all no man, fool. 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:02.640 The first time my daughter flashed back at me, I 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:05.919 was like, I'm gonna lose my mom. Imagine something that 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:08.960 came out of your dick talking to you. You mean 0:19:09.240 --> 0:19:11.800 Vaina came none, No, it starts out of me. It 0:19:11.800 --> 0:19:17.199 has to come out of here and physic We'll take that. 0:19:18.080 --> 0:19:21.000 Imagine something that shot out of me, out of my body. 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:23.760 To go into somebody else. No, I don't think you 0:19:23.800 --> 0:19:26.359 know what you're talking about it, And I'm like, how 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:29.080 to fuck you right up? But it's like, you're a woman, 0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:32.119 You're a girl. I gotta understand that if I go 0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:34.160 at you like that, you're gonna think that's the way 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:36.520 we fix problems. You're gonna find a nigga like that later. 0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:38.720 That's not gonna God bless you for knowing that. 0:19:38.760 --> 0:19:42.399 God bless you for knowing that. Please God more, How 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:45.680 old were you when you got smart? Your whole life 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:47.040 something click? 0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:49.600 I was forced gumping it for most of it. I 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:51.919 was just being lucky. It was just me and my personality. 0:19:51.960 --> 0:19:54.280 But now that I'm older and more aware and present, 0:19:54.720 --> 0:19:56.399 I know that's why it's worked. 0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:59.080 You are also an expert father, your professional father. 0:19:59.640 --> 0:20:03.520 You six kids I make, I've made children. I'm not 0:20:03.600 --> 0:20:06.240 the best dad at all. I just kind of understand 0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:09.520 that whatever it is is mine and this is my ship, 0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:10.880 my village, and it got a rock. 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:15.479 How old when you had your first kid? But then 0:20:15.520 --> 0:20:16.600 here you start smoking weeds? 0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:24.560 Ship got that first situation, and that first situation was 0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:27.000 wow to it was a different like. I went through 0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:31.199 a lot name changes, and court systems, and it was 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:33.080 a lot. I went through a whole lot during that, 0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:37.280 so it was like, actually made me a damn full 0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:38.040 in these streets. 0:20:38.560 --> 0:20:40.439 It made you he's rebelling. 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:42.200 I was just mad. I was like, Okay, I can't 0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:44.720 beat this situation. No matter who's wrong or right. I 0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:47.520 couldn't make it to where my baby was with me 0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:49.320 and everything was the right way. So it was like 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:52.320 I turned into this other guy, I'm gonna just fuck 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:55.240 everything and now I'm just gonna fuck you up if 0:20:55.240 --> 0:20:57.080 we got a problem, And it just made me angrier 0:20:57.080 --> 0:21:00.159 because I couldn't beat that situation. So for that to 0:21:00.160 --> 0:21:02.479 be my first it was like, oh okay, it's like 0:21:02.600 --> 0:21:04.280 in my mind's gonna be like this all the time. 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:07.160 So so you proceeded to continue. 0:21:06.840 --> 0:21:08.000 To proceed to create more. 0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:13.440 See y'all don't want to really conversation because again I'm 0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:17.040 kidding women, no winning. You guys control the show at 0:21:17.040 --> 0:21:19.239 the end of the day. So no, they chose me 0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:21.560 to have a baby with For you to keep doing that, 0:21:21.600 --> 0:21:24.360 it's crazy. It must have looked like bigcoin to him 0:21:24.440 --> 0:21:24.960 or something. 0:21:25.560 --> 0:21:27.640 I mean, in that sense, we do control the show. 0:21:27.680 --> 0:21:30.040 I've never ripened me right in my life. I took 0:21:30.560 --> 0:21:31.280 in my life no. 0:21:31.440 --> 0:21:34.200 Absolutely, and it is that it is a huge responsibility 0:21:34.200 --> 0:21:37.680 because a woman, ultimately you or not have a baby. 0:21:37.880 --> 0:21:40.040 Even if a man is like I do not want 0:21:40.080 --> 0:21:42.160 to have a baby with you, I don't want this baby. 0:21:42.400 --> 0:21:43.640 Women do it all the time. 0:21:44.000 --> 0:21:47.120 We hold a lot of time, a lot of time, 0:21:47.200 --> 0:21:49.400 hold the fucking on because. 0:21:49.119 --> 0:21:50.760 Let's not get personal. We're gonna stay. 0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:53.000 Interests not personal at all. 0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:54.160 Those are facts. 0:21:55.400 --> 0:21:58.040 But also you when you decide to not in a woman, no, 0:21:58.160 --> 0:21:59.400 I make her have to make a troll. 0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:01.760 So that's what that's where the main part comes in, 0:22:01.800 --> 0:22:04.199 where you gotta take responsibility for everything you do. At 0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:06.320 the end of the day, it's my fault. Anything I 0:22:06.520 --> 0:22:09.000 like and do like in my life, it's my fault, 0:22:09.040 --> 0:22:11.520 all of it. But y'all run this motherfucker. 0:22:12.080 --> 0:22:12.520 Thank you. 0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:15.440 Y'all can either build us up or throw us down. 0:22:15.920 --> 0:22:19.760 Y'all are responsible for the biggest companies ever built. Y'all 0:22:19.880 --> 0:22:23.400 responsible for the biggest wars ever built. It's like, it's. 0:22:23.280 --> 0:22:25.760 Like, won't I won't take responsibility for the worst I 0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:27.760 don't think that's. 0:22:27.000 --> 0:22:30.240 Every great company that we've seen in a lot of 0:22:30.320 --> 0:22:32.240 things probably ended over a woman. 0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:34.760 I don't I need proof. 0:22:36.000 --> 0:22:40.960 Well, I'm not gonna in front of a girl or 0:22:41.000 --> 0:22:41.320 with a. 0:22:41.240 --> 0:22:43.399 Grip that maybe maybe okay, maybe I'm not saying it 0:22:43.400 --> 0:22:45.399 never happens. But there's a lot of ego and a 0:22:45.400 --> 0:22:48.040 lot of money and greed. I don't necessarily always pertains 0:22:48.040 --> 0:22:48.800 to a woman. 0:22:49.480 --> 0:22:52.560 But y'all run the show, like y'all the bosses, y'all 0:22:52.560 --> 0:22:56.760 decide everything. Trust me, y'all know that though y'all y'all 0:22:56.760 --> 0:22:59.640 know off rit when y'all see your dude or y'all fuck. 0:22:59.760 --> 0:23:02.560 I think that, No, we haven't always known that, and 0:23:02.600 --> 0:23:05.000 I think we've forgotten and so and when you forget 0:23:05.040 --> 0:23:07.160 who you are, people can take advantage of you. You're 0:23:07.200 --> 0:23:10.359 more susceptible to being attacked. And when you're we're under 0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:13.560 attack and when we're waking up. But we've been we've 0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:16.440 had a veil over our eyes for a very long time. 0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:17.720 And that's because of men. 0:23:17.920 --> 0:23:21.280 You guys are powerfule as fuck. I'm sorry, you guys 0:23:21.280 --> 0:23:23.920 are powerful as fuck. Like so when I say, like, okay, 0:23:23.920 --> 0:23:27.560 I have children and different moms, it's like at the time, 0:23:27.640 --> 0:23:30.400 little maybe I felt like, yeah, that's my bit, that's 0:23:30.440 --> 0:23:34.159 my ship. I did it in real life. Nah, I 0:23:34.160 --> 0:23:36.679 ain't had no choice of that matter, right, It was 0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:38.960 like okay, I just found out, like okay, this is 0:23:38.960 --> 0:23:39.479 what happens. 0:23:39.760 --> 0:23:45.920 And God bless you with five women, which is I mean, wow, 0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:49.760 how old is your son? Is he younger thirteen? So 0:23:49.800 --> 0:23:51.280 he's right in the middle. That's good for him. 0:23:51.600 --> 0:23:55.359 Yeah, and yeah my oldest twenty two, youngest six. 0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:58.920 Wow, the wide range too, you know he was outside. 0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:05.439 I only had one after fame child, and that's crazy. 0:24:05.600 --> 0:24:06.520 Not after fame. 0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.880 A lot of my stuff was pre frame was ps. 0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:14.160 I was willing. I was willing, you know what I'm saying. 0:24:14.680 --> 0:24:17.200 And you know I used to throw this thing around too, 0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:20.000 so you know, I started knowing what I was doing. 0:24:20.080 --> 0:24:22.280 You know, when you perfect something, you get to knowing 0:24:22.280 --> 0:24:24.960 what you're doing. It was just like I knew, like 0:24:25.000 --> 0:24:27.480 if I just look back at everything, I liked a 0:24:27.520 --> 0:24:29.560 certain type of mess, like I liked I was in 0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:32.160 the mess. I was into stuff that was daring. 0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:34.520 What is the thing that like transition Like I don't 0:24:34.560 --> 0:24:36.840 know made you wake up or say like I can't 0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:39.400 oh or not one thing. 0:24:39.560 --> 0:24:42.520 But it was one moment that that sticks out my daughter, 0:24:42.480 --> 0:24:44.560 I think I told you this. My oldest daughter, she 0:24:44.840 --> 0:24:47.879 her first day in ninth grade and I called to 0:24:47.920 --> 0:24:50.639 ask how I was going, and she was like, oh, Dad, 0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:52.960 all they was doing was talking about your thing in class. 0:24:53.240 --> 0:24:55.040 I'm like, what are you talking about? You got a 0:24:55.040 --> 0:25:00.200 song called d two b right, Dick two bob, that's 0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:02.120 all they keep playing, something like that's your dad, that's 0:25:02.160 --> 0:25:06.800 your dad, and she's like I hated it. Like I'm like, dude, 0:25:06.840 --> 0:25:10.800 I ruined my baby's first day with my with my 0:25:11.040 --> 0:25:14.160 with my ship. Hold on, let me figure this out. 0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:16.600 I gotta kick back. I gotta do something. I gotta 0:25:16.600 --> 0:25:19.040 fix it. So then that moment went to another moment 0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:19.639 and then just what. 0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:21.040 Was that like a moment that where you felt like 0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:22.679 you need to like switch the type of music you 0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:25.720 were making, or just the overall decisions you're making every. 0:25:25.920 --> 0:25:28.800 That ship, that one thing. Put it all in perspective, 0:25:28.840 --> 0:25:31.520 because it's like I was in this weird tear where 0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:34.480 this is how I make my money though, this is 0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:38.120 what I'm doing it for, and that first that flip flopped, 0:25:38.720 --> 0:25:40.119 you know what I'm saying. It was like, well, this 0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:42.320 has to be more important because this make sure this 0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:44.399 goes and it was like, WHOA, I was in this 0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:46.920 weird thing because honestly, I was starting to grow out 0:25:46.920 --> 0:25:48.760 it at anyway, I'm getting older and I'm like, all right, 0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:50.439 I was just talking like that because that's what I 0:25:50.480 --> 0:25:52.840 was on at that time. But the images was paying 0:25:52.880 --> 0:25:56.439 the bills, so it's like, whoa, I gotta make a 0:25:56.680 --> 0:25:59.920 real decision like this is like it went from that 0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:03.280 to like the whole life. It's like, so well, I 0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:07.720 have to put myself through these weird emotional things. 0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:10.160 And like facing emotional things and. 0:26:10.119 --> 0:26:13.600 The finances going up and down, friendships going up and down, 0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:16.800 business going up and down. You're just looking like what's 0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:23.160 the common thing? You look like, Okay, I'm telling I'm okay, 0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:26.800 everything is good. I got my niggas is straight. Wait, 0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:27.600 my dick is. 0:26:27.480 --> 0:26:28.640 Causing all the problems. 0:26:29.080 --> 0:26:32.520 Not my niggas are straight, my you. 0:26:32.720 --> 0:26:35.760 It's my dick. My dick is fucking everything up because 0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:38.720 I'm planning to fuck throughout the days. Like Okay, I 0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:40.520 know I'm gonna do some music on my fuckers name 0:26:40.600 --> 0:26:44.240 do this like this is like wait, I'm fucking too much. 0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:46.679 I'm not doing It's like the reason why this is 0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:49.119 still probably even going on with my m because I'm 0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:51.480 still it's like, hold up. 0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:54.320 I think everyone goes through, even I mean women. It's 0:26:54.320 --> 0:26:56.959 the same ship, Like we can't we use sex as 0:26:56.960 --> 0:27:01.800 a weapon. We use sex as a as a number escaper. 0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:03.600 We both do it, I think, I say both sexes 0:27:03.680 --> 0:27:05.719 do it. Obviously men are like what's more glorified when 0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:07.880 y'all do it? Even if it's based in trauma, it's. 0:27:07.680 --> 0:27:11.320 Celebrated when we do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's fucked up. 0:27:11.600 --> 0:27:13.240 I have these conversations with. 0:27:13.280 --> 0:27:15.920 Guys, but no one talks about the Okay, yes it's celebrated, 0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:18.240 but I guess no one really talks about like why 0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:20.480 niggas are doing that and like the pain that actually 0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:21.040 is behind. 0:27:23.640 --> 0:27:26.280 I think even even in the Bible, its kings that 0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:29.560 have multiple wives, Like it's so that that's what success 0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:33.480 is to a man, Like that's a part of success, 0:27:33.520 --> 0:27:35.280 Like you get the riches, you get the house, and 0:27:35.320 --> 0:27:37.800 you get the women and like and if you don't 0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:40.359 have one of them, you feel like you're not successful 0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:43.480 because that's what's so like you got you'll say, like 0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:46.400 a guy will want to hear his son like, oh, 0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:48.480 you're about to start having sex, so he kind of 0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:53.159 like rushing them, daughter, like, don't nobody touches. It's just 0:27:53.440 --> 0:27:56.119 weird that you know what I'm saying. So once you 0:27:56.200 --> 0:27:58.600 try to even figure it out, like that's just what 0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:01.480 niggas some other niggas said. Your success is whatever you 0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:03.720 say is, you can wipe that off the board. That 0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:06.639 was like the hardest one. I didn't even realize, like 0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:11.359 I put myself on this little year not fucking thing, 0:28:12.160 --> 0:28:14.640 so you're a celibate for a year like eight months 0:28:14.680 --> 0:28:16.560 tweet or something like that. I forgot what it was. 0:28:16.760 --> 0:28:18.520 It was only supposed to be like a two month thing, 0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:19.160 and I just kind. 0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:21.080 Of kept going, did you was it really hard? At first? 0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:25.080 Bro? I found out that all, oh god, it was 0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.399 the ruleest away than ever because I didn't do it 0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.720 like I'm gonna stay away from women. I would still 0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:31.639 talk to the ones I used to fuck, because now 0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:33.000 I want to see something. I want to see why 0:28:33.040 --> 0:28:33.760 do we even know each other? 0:28:33.760 --> 0:28:34.720 Like wait, who are you? 0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:37.760 Wait? Actually right? And then you start realizing like, wait, 0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:43.160 that was my side I'm her side piece. Wait a minute, 0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:46.400 because then you think like, wait, she's only available. I'm 0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:49.000 my life. I'm from here too. I can only talk 0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:51.120 to her from two thirty to like five thirty eight 0:28:51.200 --> 0:28:54.360 year she gotta have another nigga, So you like you 0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:58.600 the whole everything starts to make sense, and then you realize, 0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:00.440 like damn. It was times where I sitting there to 0:29:00.480 --> 0:29:02.440 some ship I used to smack or whatever, and I 0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:05.200 would feel like this a little weird, like why am 0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:06.520 I not doing it? It was like some. 0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:09.200 Cracks like you were supposed to be like what's wrong 0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:09.480 with me? 0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:11.640 Why am I not doing it? I'm like, wait, this 0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:17.040 sounds like an addiction. And then you get to see 0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:19.920 it like the ladies will be like, what's wrong with you? 0:29:20.080 --> 0:29:23.120 I'm getting in trouble, and the reaction is slower. You 0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.640 want to go grab something. I gotta do this, and 0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:30.320 I just I'm just I'm the dick in the jar. 0:29:33.360 --> 0:29:33.760 I got it. 0:29:34.760 --> 0:29:35.440 You've used. 0:29:35.760 --> 0:29:38.440 I had been being you at least by this pack, 0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:42.560 you know what I'm saying. So it was like, oh gosh. 0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:44.560 And then you're like, well, what did I really want 0:29:44.600 --> 0:29:47.680 to talk to them about. I was only talking to 0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:50.040 them about this, so it ain't like they It just 0:29:50.080 --> 0:29:53.800 started all made sense. Once I got control of my dick, 0:29:54.760 --> 0:29:55.880 everything made sense. 0:29:56.480 --> 0:30:00.800 But then when that cloudiness went out you the other things. 0:30:00.160 --> 0:30:04.240 Kids, mom, like everything made sense because once you pull 0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:08.120 dick and pussy out of anything, it's just black and white. 0:30:08.600 --> 0:30:12.680 Mm hmm. Hey, that leads us to today's affirmation problem. 0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:14.640 What's your affirmation you told us. 0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:19.160 Earlier, simple, keep it simple. Black and white, no colors. 0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:23.560 You shouldn't have any colors. Colors are in your ship 0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:24.720 because of your past. 0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:26.840 It's black and white. 0:30:26.880 --> 0:30:28.480 No colors, no colors. 0:30:28.560 --> 0:30:30.040 Like, it's not no colors. 0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:33.680 It's not like if somebody like steals from my company, 0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:37.480 somebody should say, hey, why didn't you watch them? Like, no, nigga, 0:30:37.480 --> 0:30:40.160 why didn't he steal? It started with the steak to 0:30:40.240 --> 0:30:41.400 watch what's wrong with you? 0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:42.280 Let's get to the root. 0:30:42.440 --> 0:30:44.560 The roots, the roots stem down. 0:30:44.600 --> 0:30:46.440 Someone's always looking for something to blame. You know. 0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:48.880 I don't do that. I can't do that. I take 0:30:49.160 --> 0:30:52.200 anything that's going on. It's all my fault with these 0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:56.080 beautiful kids and they mama's and all this craziness. I 0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:58.880 shouldn't have them, like you said, if I didn't want 0:30:58.880 --> 0:30:59.520 to deal with that. 0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:03.720 Oh my god. 0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:05.760 The other day I was talking to my girlfriend and 0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:07.840 she said she went on a date and this guy 0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:10.560 totally ghosted her because she told him that she had 0:31:10.600 --> 0:31:13.840 a kid. What I know, I know, and I thought 0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:16.360 that was so crazy, And so I told her about 0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:20.200 this app called Stir. It's the first dating app specifically 0:31:20.240 --> 0:31:23.440 designed for single parents. 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I realized 0:32:04.880 --> 0:32:07.320 we never told the story about Vegas. Oh, and I 0:32:07.320 --> 0:32:11.200 don't want to keep the people, so our other business 0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:13.800 partner's not here, You tell the story. 0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:15.600 Shout out to my boys, spooon. So we was in 0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:18.800 Vegas for Grammy Weekend and we got some mugs in 0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:20.960 the cookie store. So he was down there doing that 0:32:21.360 --> 0:32:23.760 and he went to do something and randomly I get 0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:25.920 a call. He's like, Nigga, let me tell you what happened. 0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:27.880 I'm like, what's up. He's like, when I'm talking to 0:32:27.920 --> 0:32:32.000 this lady about the brands called me cush say Mama's flowers. 0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:35.080 The lady stops and says cook MAM's bad choices. And 0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:37.280 then I'm like, oh, for real, I'm thinking it's gonna 0:32:37.280 --> 0:32:39.040 stop there. He's like. Then she pulls me to the 0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:42.320 side and says, so you know anything about any swinger 0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:43.480 things going on in Vegas? 0:32:43.800 --> 0:32:46.640 Why are we? Why are we the swinger? Nigga said, 0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:53.440 not spoody word cracking, because we have the smacking ack, not. 0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:55.880 To shot a swinging, but the fact that the brand 0:32:55.920 --> 0:32:58.120 has connected. 0:32:57.080 --> 0:32:59.280 I am that my brand. 0:33:00.840 --> 0:33:04.080 With safety and sex, safety spaces for sex. 0:33:05.120 --> 0:33:05.640 I'm proud. 0:33:05.760 --> 0:33:07.520 I'm proud to listen in Vegas. 0:33:07.880 --> 0:33:12.520 Essence Essence said that we are the top ten safe 0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:14.240 spaces for black women on the Internet. 0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:17.360 I agree. In case you guys say Essence dot com 0:33:17.440 --> 0:33:19.480 if people are interested in a play party. We didn't 0:33:19.480 --> 0:33:21.800 add last week at the beginning of the episode about 0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.320 Orlando's play party, which is in New York. 0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:25.920 It's in New York. You're in New York. It's a 0:33:25.920 --> 0:33:29.120 two day play party. It's May thirteenth and fourteenth. It's 0:33:29.120 --> 0:33:31.120 gonna be a lot of black and brown people. It's 0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:33.000 a safe space. It's a cool community. 0:33:33.160 --> 0:33:35.080 We do know the play party. They were right, they 0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:36.000 were fucking right. 0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:38.720 In Vegas representing for us. We love you. 0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:42.600 That's hard. That's so not like a dome. Name for 0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:44.800 a bar, safe space, safe space. 0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:47.560 That's a good place. That's a good name for sex party. 0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:53.120 Too, right, true. Okay, we have a little game on 0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.240 our show. I like to play with guests problem all right, 0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:59.840 and it's called trigger. And although I've known you for 0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:03.000 many moons, now I don't have my answers to most 0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:04.920 of these questions. So we're gonna find out. 0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:07.280 You have to say, like one word, answer is quick? 0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:08.600 Well the first thing that comes to mind. 0:34:09.040 --> 0:34:11.360 Okay, just one. 0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:13.520 Word, my blunt. Nobody wants the blunt. 0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:26.400 Right, Okay, yeah, okay, here we go, fatherhood, so many words, mission, monogamy. 0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:29.880 You can't think this long. You can't think this long. Interesting, 0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:30.759 you gotta go quick. 0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:32.959 Sorry? Interesting was the first word? 0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:40.640 Bad? Habits, self inflicted, your idol, your idol? Do you 0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:41.200 have an idol? 0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:43.560 Pops? 0:34:43.600 --> 0:34:51.359 Marriage, loving it, Molly loved it, child support, hate it, 0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:57.879 favorite strain, caution, cush black women, fuck yeah, uh, turn 0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:01.000 on O. 0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:03.920 See when you say certain words? Ninety thousand them flying. 0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:12.120 So uh, passionate, favorite porn category on fuck with porn, 0:35:12.719 --> 0:35:19.120 favorite position, all level therapy. We happily ever. 0:35:18.960 --> 0:35:26.760 After twenty twenty five. Biggest regret not fucking getting control 0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:27.960 of my dig earlier? 0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:35.040 Who and what's your biggest insecurity? 0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:36.480 Too trusting? 0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:37.560 Mm hmm. 0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:40.000 That scares the shit out of. 0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:42.719 Me, like someone being too trusting or you're being too 0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:45.640 what's your sign again, Taurus? 0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:50.880 That's right, like my baby, that is my That scares 0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:53.320 me the most out of anything, being too trusting. 0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:55.640 Yeah, So is it hard for you to get comfortable 0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:57.360 around people like fully, Well. 0:35:57.160 --> 0:35:59.200 Not no more because the reason why it's like that 0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:01.960 is because of the past. So if I'm leading forward, 0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:04.759 I have to just trust my judgments moving forward. So 0:36:05.600 --> 0:36:07.680 that's the scary part because it's not in my hands. 0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.160 It's like on the morals of the person, on the 0:36:10.200 --> 0:36:12.560 background of the person, and you're not going to know 0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:15.560 everybody fully it's like, you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:18.640 that's the hardest part. It's like trusting in that I 0:36:18.719 --> 0:36:21.120 made that right decision to have that person in this 0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:25.960 because you know, one fucking food, fuck the whole thing up, 0:36:26.280 --> 0:36:28.439 you know what I'm saying. So especially something as big 0:36:28.480 --> 0:36:31.080 as like we're trying to do you know, we're trying 0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:33.120 to take all of this shit, we're doing global, so 0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:35.960 you gotta be you know, tight. So that scares the 0:36:36.000 --> 0:36:38.000 shit out of me because like I will have to 0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:41.560 take the blame for it if I choose, you know 0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:42.080 what I'm saying. 0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:43.560 Yeah, No, that's a man. 0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:43.879 Shit. 0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:46.000 I feel like that's kind of like the beauty of 0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:48.759 life a little bit though, like because you just don't 0:36:48.800 --> 0:36:50.880 know that's the one thing you really can't control in 0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:54.400 a world where like everyone wants to control everything, Like 0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:58.400 you're saying, like everything's at our fingertips, and that's the 0:36:58.400 --> 0:36:59.760 one thing like you can't. 0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:02.680 Yeah, that's and that's the thing about me. When I'm scared, 0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:06.160 I'll run to it though, So it's like, well, ship, 0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:08.600 it's coming, but that's what I'm scared of though, Like 0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:11.400 I'm never like I'm not the toughest nigga, none of that. 0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:14.040 But if I get scared, I'm probably gonna attack because 0:37:14.040 --> 0:37:15.920 I'm like, let's get this ship over with. I'm not 0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:18.160 about to let that ship get in my body because 0:37:18.160 --> 0:37:19.880 I don't like the way it feels. So it's like 0:37:19.920 --> 0:37:22.360 I rather address it. But that's probably the only insecurity 0:37:22.360 --> 0:37:25.040 I really have. All the other ship is that shit. 0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:25.520 Don't be mad. 0:37:25.880 --> 0:37:33.520 Yeah, don't look at me. I'm high looking at it. 0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:37.000 Oh yeah, I'm high to relate to relight another women. 0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:40.439 Are you gonna you're gonna go? 0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:41.319 You go hard to go home? 0:37:41.360 --> 0:37:41.719 All right? 0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.680 I mean I am going home after this, so it's perfect. 0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:46.239 We have another interview, tod. 0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:49.120 Hold on, let me see. I just looked real. 0:37:49.640 --> 0:37:53.160 Go check on the children. I'm trying not to take 0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:56.880 a lot of inhales right now because I'm already pretty high. 0:37:56.600 --> 0:38:04.879 But mm hmm, how they killed? How are the children? 0:38:07.680 --> 0:38:08.680 It's always hungry. 0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:11.200 When I told them, like, yeah, you don't eat, so 0:38:11.239 --> 0:38:16.839 after two, they was like. 0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:15.239 You still do that? 0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:18.600 Damn wow, I do that every day just so just 0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:20.360 because my god. 0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:22.120 I mean, I don't mean to. I end up realizing 0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:23.560 why I feel on edge by two. 0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:25.560 Yeah, because I start. 0:38:25.360 --> 0:38:27.560 Realizing the ship you addicted to. Once you pull it away, 0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:30.359 that's it's like getting these little girl I need to eat, 0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:33.400 like get hungry. That should be wow. 0:38:34.000 --> 0:38:35.960 I know because I don't know. I know because I 0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:37.520 ran to you and Daphney, like I swore like a 0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:39.080 year and a half ago, and y'all were doing that ship. 0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:41.800 I'm like, I need to I don't know what I 0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:45.960 actually I know what. I'm addicted to. Sugar, cheese, bread 0:38:46.600 --> 0:38:47.279 and weed. 0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:49.479 To a good time. 0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:53.879 Okay, that's not like a great country western song. 0:38:57.160 --> 0:39:03.040 A good time sucking hit does definitely. 0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:06.000 Smoke weed, No fucking way. I made her do it. 0:39:06.040 --> 0:39:06.359 One star. 0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:09.759 How about the funniest you she's never smoked before. 0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:12.360 She smoked before, but she had to smoked a long ass, 0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:15.320 long ass time. That ship was the funniest. 0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:16.040 I can't see it. 0:39:16.320 --> 0:39:21.040 No, you can listen all that nice ship flies out, 0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:25.840 it goes. I'm not moving. I said, what the fuck, please, 0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:29.880 I can't. I can't get the water. Nigga, she hit 0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:33.520 that ship one time. Oh my god, yeah, I said, no, no, no, no, 0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:35.319 but she does the wine. Now. 0:39:35.640 --> 0:39:36.560 How long y'all been married? 0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:37.480 Year? 0:39:38.080 --> 0:39:41.319 How did problem transition from problem? Who was out here 0:39:41.320 --> 0:39:44.440 in the streets to married family man. 0:39:45.160 --> 0:39:47.440 Husband, married to the soft woman because. 0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:49.080 I'm a problem, but he was. You were like on 0:39:49.160 --> 0:39:51.560 the end of the I think you were still No, 0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:55.440 you're read it. You were very much you were you 0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:58.799 were oh my god, yeah, you were so many a 0:39:58.840 --> 0:39:59.440 club with you. 0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:05.120 Honestly, the perfect situation had to come at the perfect time. 0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:09.399 It had to because it was like I bumped back 0:40:09.400 --> 0:40:10.280 into Daphne. 0:40:10.840 --> 0:40:12.759 Wait, can you please share the beautiful story of you 0:40:12.800 --> 0:40:13.240 and Daphne. 0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:18.040 Okay, it warms my heart. Me and Daphne. Our families 0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:21.239 still live like two houses down from each other. I 0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:23.400 met Daphne when I got here from Germany, so I 0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:25.520 was two years old. So I've been knowing her since 0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:27.640 I was two years old. She's always lived down the street. 0:40:28.000 --> 0:40:29.920 I told her that I was gonna marry her and 0:40:29.960 --> 0:40:34.840 I was nine years old. So this is crazy. Even that, 0:40:34.880 --> 0:40:37.000 it's still crazy. But so when I said I bumped 0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:41.440 back into her, I was at the ninth month of 0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:45.040 that thing I'm telling you about not having sex shit, 0:40:45.600 --> 0:40:46.920 and I was like, I don't want a girlfriend. I 0:40:46.960 --> 0:40:49.239 want to I want to do anything like that. I 0:40:49.320 --> 0:40:50.719 just want to have, like I want to start with 0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:53.719 tonic friends. Once you work it out your system, you 0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:55.480 feel great. Like I can talk to women. I ain't 0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:57.439 got to be looking at the it's all these things 0:40:57.719 --> 0:41:00.160 I can talk. You know what I'm saying, Like, look 0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:02.560 all y'all eyes. You know. I think that's why we 0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:04.279 do business well together. Remember I told you, I'm not 0:41:04.280 --> 0:41:07.240 trying to fuck y'all. I want y'all to that's y'all fine. 0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:09.920 It's tough for guys. Niggas don't matter, fight their urg 0:41:10.000 --> 0:41:13.680 just but that I bumping her on some whole random 0:41:14.239 --> 0:41:17.560 I saw somebody in the picture that we know mutually. 0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:20.759 I'm like, is this Daphne? She like problem? She calls 0:41:20.800 --> 0:41:23.960 my auntie and like is that Jason. Get on the phone. 0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:26.000 I'm like, we end up living a block away from 0:41:26.040 --> 0:41:30.399 each other. Like again, yes I live, I'm gonna share, 0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:32.960 we live, but I live that next light over, okay. 0:41:33.680 --> 0:41:36.600 And so I'm like, oh shit again, I just like 0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.080 sweeped out a lot of people out of my life, 0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:42.120 just bad people. I was just looking for somebody new 0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:44.239 to talk to in the valley or whatever. So I'm like, oh, 0:41:44.280 --> 0:41:46.440 I can go to her, this cousin dad, whatever. So 0:41:46.480 --> 0:41:48.680 I just go over there. She's like, hey, what's going on. 0:41:48.760 --> 0:41:51.040 We're talking and I'm just telling her all my business, 0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:53.440 all the fucked up shit, because again, this is family, 0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:55.479 this is Sharon's daughter. This is not like I'm trying 0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:58.560 to smack. So I'm saying shit I would have never 0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:00.040 said if I was trying to. 0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:01.319 Hmm, you didn't have a mask. 0:42:01.480 --> 0:42:03.359 I'm just like, yeah, I gotta fight. You got my kids, 0:42:03.719 --> 0:42:05.719 get that together. I'm up for Grammy, but I don't 0:42:05.719 --> 0:42:08.360 really like this and fuck this though, I need to 0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:13.320 get this together. Just real on the block conversation. I 0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:13.719 don't know. 0:42:14.120 --> 0:42:17.520 The rest is history. That's so dope. I love that story. 0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:20.600 Yeah, it's crazy, like so that situation had to go 0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:23.600 that way because I fought it like for months, Like 0:42:23.640 --> 0:42:26.279 it was like I didn't even want to bring her 0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:28.600 into my world jet because I hadn't cleaned it all 0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:30.520 the way up yet still at the baby when I'm 0:42:30.560 --> 0:42:32.600 just acting, it was like I'm still getting it tight 0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:34.920 and I don't want to bring that to this and 0:42:34.960 --> 0:42:36.960 I don't want them thinking I didn't want nothing to 0:42:37.040 --> 0:42:39.719 go wrong. So I was very hesitant on even like 0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:43.480 entering into anything because the flip side of it is 0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:45.680 like I know your dad, I know your mom. I 0:42:45.719 --> 0:42:49.440 can't even dog you or anything like that. I'm always 0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:52.640 gonna see you. So if I make this decision, this 0:42:52.719 --> 0:42:54.919 is the one, it gotta be all the way out 0:42:56.000 --> 0:42:58.279 because we can't divorce and then not see each other. 0:42:58.360 --> 0:43:02.759 This can't happen. We're already you know. So it was 0:43:02.800 --> 0:43:04.600 a big one to make. It's like I got to 0:43:04.680 --> 0:43:07.520 hit the real switch. It can't be no plan. I'm 0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:09.759 not about to play because it's missus Polke daughter. I 0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:10.759 can't even do it like that. 0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:14.200 Well, that is an amazing woman, period amazing, but. 0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:16.920 Even her like she's went through life before, she's experienced 0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:19.319 a whole lot. So it's not gonna be too many 0:43:19.400 --> 0:43:22.600 things that I can't tell you. She's she's not gonna want. 0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:24.799 I'm pretty sure she's seen it all. 0:43:25.239 --> 0:43:28.200 Trust me, I know all of every angle of it. 0:43:28.360 --> 0:43:30.680 And that's the best person to have sitting next to 0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:33.680 me while I'm growing up, Like I don't have to 0:43:33.719 --> 0:43:35.440 be vulnerable and like she's not gonna be in a 0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:38.800 handle like she looked at my little she was like 0:43:38.920 --> 0:43:42.880 niggas man, come on that like ship. I'm thinking, like 0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:45.160 I got a building worth a ship, Like no She's like, 0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:49.600 you're straight. That's rock man. Fuck it. It had to 0:43:49.640 --> 0:43:51.759 be that. I don't think I could have somebody else. 0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:53.040 Was marriage always something you wanted? 0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:55.200 I just always knew I was gonna do it. Once 0:43:56.560 --> 0:44:00.000 my grandparents both sides, they died together, It's like it's 0:44:00.000 --> 0:44:03.200 different like my mom's side. I saw both sides of 0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:06.760 marriage too, So it's like my mom's side, my grandfather 0:44:06.800 --> 0:44:08.719 and my grandmother, and they were all over each other 0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:13.240 like six like just all over each other till the end. 0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:16.359 And then my father's side, I've never even seen them 0:44:16.400 --> 0:44:18.960 sleep in the same bedroom, but I can see the 0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:21.480 beauty in both of them because they stayed together for 0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:23.600 this family of it. So this had to be going 0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:26.319 through bullshit. And now that I'm older, right, and this 0:44:26.520 --> 0:44:29.080 was just a very emotional one. So I've seen them 0:44:29.320 --> 0:44:31.920 both sides of It's like, well, if I'm in it, 0:44:31.960 --> 0:44:33.839 i gotta be in it, so I'm only and then 0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:36.080 once you do that with God, you gotta just That's 0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:38.399 why I looked at it. So that was scary too. 0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:41.319 I mean, I'm scared of marriage. Marriage feels like a 0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:42.200 foreign concept to me. 0:44:42.200 --> 0:44:45.160 Something it's a bad contract, a bad sounds it's a 0:44:45.200 --> 0:44:47.160 horrible contract. It's the worst business deal on earth. 0:44:47.160 --> 0:44:49.120 I think it's something I want, but it's just like 0:44:49.680 --> 0:44:52.640 it feels like a large commitment to someone's feelings. And 0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:54.680 I don't know if i'm I don't know. I like 0:44:54.920 --> 0:44:59.680 it sounds cute, but also, can we have separate homes? 0:45:00.200 --> 0:45:02.840 It's like, see that's the can we have separate bedrooms? 0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:04.080 We live in different cities. 0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:07.120 Would you ever have a separate bedroom? No, you think 0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:07.600 that's weird? 0:45:08.000 --> 0:45:09.880 No, I can't think it's weird. I seen my grandparents 0:45:09.880 --> 0:45:10.040 do it. 0:45:10.080 --> 0:45:12.799 Oh that's right, hold on, it's just it's just nothing weird. 0:45:13.200 --> 0:45:16.239 It's my point. It's like, but for me, like I'm 0:45:16.280 --> 0:45:18.759 the other way, I'm like and all that type of 0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:23.600 ship's like it's a lot of love that used to 0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:25.600 go along a lot, so it's like I gotta go 0:45:25.640 --> 0:45:28.040 to just one person. And I was like, oh yeah, oh. 0:45:27.960 --> 0:45:29.600 Damn, she's getting love love. 0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:34.719 If you guys have love love down. If you guys 0:45:34.760 --> 0:45:38.240 haven't heard. We have also an episode with Daphanie, his wife, 0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:41.400 called Return of the Soft Woman that we did like 0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:44.319 very early on. I feel like now, but it's a 0:45:44.320 --> 0:45:45.160 really good episode. 0:45:45.320 --> 0:45:48.719 You guys are anti soft woman, We're not not more 0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:50.040 so like y'all more. 0:45:51.080 --> 0:45:53.600 I'm trying to tap into my soft woman. Okay, I 0:45:53.640 --> 0:45:54.320 really am. 0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:56.560 Like that's been my goal. Like I'll tell you and. 0:45:56.640 --> 0:45:58.839 Let me just tell you something. When I heard when 0:45:58.840 --> 0:46:03.160 we did Daphne's episode, like people were like mad, yeah, 0:46:03.239 --> 0:46:05.600 and I was kind of like, oh, this is surprising 0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:08.040 because I've known Daphne since I was a child, and 0:46:08.080 --> 0:46:10.719 I had one perception of her. And when she told 0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:12.880 me so, I was like, that's very interesting. And now 0:46:13.440 --> 0:46:18.359 as someone who's more healed and like acknowledging certain parts 0:46:18.360 --> 0:46:20.640 of myself, I'm like, yo, I need to I do 0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:24.319 like the feminine energy and like the divine feminine, which 0:46:24.320 --> 0:46:26.520 I think Daphnie is what she was basically saying in 0:46:26.560 --> 0:46:30.399 the episode is so powerful. But as women like I've 0:46:30.400 --> 0:46:32.040 had to show up and for more masculine about to 0:46:32.080 --> 0:46:33.960 take care of shit, I've had to feel like if 0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:36.360 I'm feminist for lack of a better word, like I 0:46:36.360 --> 0:46:38.560 got to like, you know, assert myself in some way, 0:46:39.120 --> 0:46:40.480 and I don't want. 0:46:40.280 --> 0:46:41.560 To do that. That's the balance. 0:46:41.960 --> 0:46:42.880 I don't want to do that all the time. 0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:47.080 I told her, and like I'll two everybody, everything in moderation, 0:46:48.360 --> 0:46:52.000 like everything is in moderation, Like yeah, it's too much 0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:54.719 extreme emotion thinking we got to be this way, this 0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:57.840 time and this way that. It's like, look, it's your spots. 0:46:57.840 --> 0:46:59.920 You pick your spots where to be soft, not just 0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:04.319 be a soft motherfucker. Like that's where people get it confused. 0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:06.279 And then the other way around, it's like, pick your 0:47:06.320 --> 0:47:09.560 spots to be hard, like because I find myself telling 0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:12.279 her like, nah, you gotta crack down a little bit 0:47:12.280 --> 0:47:15.640 on that got to like you gotta if you don't 0:47:15.640 --> 0:47:17.719 like the way that's going in whatever area is. 0:47:18.120 --> 0:47:20.879 Has Daphne reyaled at you? I feel like I can't 0:47:20.920 --> 0:47:22.760 even imagine she doesn't. 0:47:23.080 --> 0:47:31.759 Okay though I love you. Bullshit is she has great delivery, 0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:35.600 so she can tell you some fucked up ship and 0:47:36.400 --> 0:47:39.880 so you really will be like did you I know that? 0:47:39.920 --> 0:47:41.920 Because I wrap so i'd be like, don't do that. Stop, 0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:43.000 I know what you're trying to say. 0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:48.640 You gotta chill, imagin and cursed down her soft No, 0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:49.319 I love it. 0:47:49.360 --> 0:47:53.320 Listen, Daphne cusses more than on my homies. You gotta 0:47:53.320 --> 0:47:57.399 meet her mom. Sharing sharing is like the fun going 0:47:57.440 --> 0:47:59.719 on right she's with that's why. I'm like, when she 0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:02.239 do this soft thing, I'm like, baby, hit him with 0:48:02.320 --> 0:48:04.279 the real ship one time and tell you she's like 0:48:04.320 --> 0:48:07.160 this fucking bitch. She gets going and it sounds so 0:48:07.239 --> 0:48:09.480 beautiful coming out of her voice. It's like, give me 0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:13.760 some more of that ship. I'd be like, curse something, 0:48:13.760 --> 0:48:15.680 Just curse somebody out for me. I want to hear it. 0:48:15.800 --> 0:48:16.600 Hilarious. 0:48:17.040 --> 0:48:18.880 Yeah, I'm surprised that you think we're the opposite of 0:48:18.920 --> 0:48:19.680 the soft woman. 0:48:20.080 --> 0:48:22.920 I asked, but you did not. 0:48:23.080 --> 0:48:24.800 You told us, I told us all my apologies. 0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:26.520 What was that your perception of us? 0:48:26.640 --> 0:48:27.120 I want to know. 0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:29.360 I want to know, Yeah, what is your perception? 0:48:29.680 --> 0:48:32.400 See, I have a different perception for you, said, I've known. 0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:33.600 You, okay, but what is it? 0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:35.920 The group or you are you want to go separate, 0:48:35.920 --> 0:48:37.279 how you want to do it, I don't care how 0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:39.600 you want to give it to me. Okay, okay, let's 0:48:39.600 --> 0:48:45.360 go here. My perception of you is you want to dominate, 0:48:46.160 --> 0:48:50.000 because that's what you see. You were raised by a 0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:53.359 woman that dominates, so that's your character and that's what 0:48:53.400 --> 0:48:57.680 it is. But you really like fuck that ship too, though, 0:48:58.200 --> 0:49:03.000 Like I want I know. I mean, that's what I've 0:49:03.040 --> 0:49:05.359 seen and that's what works. But that maybe not work 0:49:05.400 --> 0:49:08.840 for you. So I think you're gonna find some balance 0:49:08.960 --> 0:49:11.799 somewhere in that. As far as you you like a 0:49:11.880 --> 0:49:17.040 shook soda can like that, you're ready to just both. 0:49:17.200 --> 0:49:20.000 I can feel it. But the thing is, I I 0:49:20.080 --> 0:49:22.279 meet personally, I don't know which way you about to 0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:26.640 proof because you're gonna be extreme whichever thing you you do. 0:49:26.719 --> 0:49:29.080 If you start making cups, you're gonna make the biggest 0:49:29.120 --> 0:49:31.440 cups with the colors that it's gonna be it. We 0:49:31.480 --> 0:49:32.479 can all get in the cups. 0:49:32.480 --> 0:49:34.560 I feel like this is a high tarrant reading by property. 0:49:39.120 --> 0:49:42.480 No, these are these are great things though in business 0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:45.120 are in But it's like which one is great and personal? 0:49:45.120 --> 0:49:48.200 Which one is business? Y'all? You can't be in both. 0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:50.080 Like once I walk in the house, you. 0:49:50.000 --> 0:49:50.879 Can't be great in both. 0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:53.960 You can't be like It's like if you pick to 0:49:54.080 --> 0:49:56.759 be stern, like I'm gonna be a stern person. You 0:49:56.800 --> 0:49:58.920 can't just be stern everywhere because I can't talk to 0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:00.840 my daughters like that. Now. You gotta have a gauge 0:50:00.840 --> 0:50:03.680 on it. Like me outside of the house, I'm different 0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:05.080 than when I'm in the house. In the house. I'm 0:50:05.080 --> 0:50:10.120 a fucking brat. Oh like this, I hate everything everything, 0:50:10.200 --> 0:50:12.279 So I'm fucking winding and doing all this shit I 0:50:12.320 --> 0:50:15.399 can't do in front of the niggas. But that's at 0:50:15.400 --> 0:50:17.200 the house. The men, I walk out the doors, like, 0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:22.239 what's happening? We own? Yeah, you gotta figure it out. 0:50:22.560 --> 0:50:24.920 I think, Yeah, I think that's that's pretty accurate. I 0:50:24.920 --> 0:50:25.239 don't know. 0:50:25.440 --> 0:50:29.439 Yeah, that's as far as I think women crave where 0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:32.520 they can come home and submit and chill out and 0:50:32.560 --> 0:50:34.360 wine and be the brade, like when you show up 0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:37.719 as a mom and as a business owner and you know, 0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:40.359 like tough, you're in your dominant you know. 0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.759 And it's tough for y'all too, because it's tough to 0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:48.720 find a guy that can handle that, you know, handle 0:50:49.280 --> 0:50:52.279 not even what you guys are saying, that's nothing. It's 0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:54.720 like who you guys have to be around, Like guys 0:50:54.719 --> 0:50:57.879 are fucking very insecure, very jealous. We have to be around, Yeah, 0:50:57.880 --> 0:50:59.640 like you guys have to be around other beautiful people, 0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:00.759 men with money. 0:51:00.840 --> 0:51:02.120 I feel like I'm around a lot of women. 0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:03.720 We make it to be curated. 0:51:04.040 --> 0:51:05.719 I feel like I'm around a lot of I think 0:51:05.760 --> 0:51:07.640 you've been around so much in your life. You don't 0:51:07.680 --> 0:51:11.000 really see what you're all around. Maybe you guys don't 0:51:11.040 --> 0:51:12.839 have the normal rolode. 0:51:13.600 --> 0:51:16.640 My dad told me recently that men don't want strong women. 0:51:16.800 --> 0:51:19.719 Most men. Most men don't want strong women. That's the 0:51:19.760 --> 0:51:22.399 statement he said. And I said, interesting, what. 0:51:24.520 --> 0:51:27.239 It's cool, like if everything is pros and cars, Like 0:51:27.400 --> 0:51:31.279 I've dated women where it's like, yeah, I mean, I 0:51:31.320 --> 0:51:33.600 think it's not ain't cool neither though, it's like all 0:51:33.640 --> 0:51:36.279 of them. You gotta pick which one works for you. 0:51:36.360 --> 0:51:38.520 I don't disagree though with him. I don't disagree and 0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:40.480 I and in my mind the way I kind of 0:51:40.520 --> 0:51:42.399 like took it because I mean, I am who I am, 0:51:42.480 --> 0:51:45.400 but like there is a softness and like that, like 0:51:45.440 --> 0:51:48.520 I feel like strong women lack And it's not necessarily 0:51:48.520 --> 0:51:50.239 that you have to give up your power and give 0:51:50.320 --> 0:51:53.120 up your career and give up your opinions. It's more 0:51:53.160 --> 0:51:55.960 of like how do you encompass all these things that 0:51:55.960 --> 0:51:59.600 are really like you're divine, feminine, but be soft? And 0:51:59.640 --> 0:52:01.759 that's what that episode was really Daphnely taught me, and 0:52:01.840 --> 0:52:04.440 that conversation I took from that much later. At the time, 0:52:04.440 --> 0:52:06.799 I didn't understand it, but I think that that's kind 0:52:06.840 --> 0:52:08.319 of like I think that's I don't think my dad 0:52:08.360 --> 0:52:11.239 realized what he was saying, but that's what I have 0:52:11.320 --> 0:52:15.000 come to realize, Like what he means about men. I 0:52:15.040 --> 0:52:18.000 think men don't really want like another nigga in the bed. 0:52:18.160 --> 0:52:22.120 No, you know, like they don't want another nigga yet, 0:52:22.239 --> 0:52:25.240 it's just picked your spots. It's like it's like with 0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:27.719 women with women for a guy, like a guy is 0:52:27.800 --> 0:52:31.160 fucking not as smart as y'all think, Like y'all know 0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:35.040 way more than us. Y'all are the detail. Like you 0:52:35.040 --> 0:52:37.680 guys think that we know that, we don't. 0:52:37.719 --> 0:52:39.960 We be trying to tell you, y'all don't. 0:52:40.719 --> 0:52:43.680 It's too long winded. Like I just had this conversation. Listen, 0:52:43.719 --> 0:52:46.200 hold on, I just had this conversation in the studio. 0:52:46.640 --> 0:52:48.440 I just had this conversation in the studio. We were 0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:52.040 talking about somebody was talking about zodiacs. I'm like, dude, guys, 0:52:52.080 --> 0:52:54.640 don't give a fuck after you say the first word, 0:52:55.200 --> 0:52:57.680 and like, what do you mean? Because this one one 0:52:57.719 --> 0:53:01.320 lady she introduced herself, She's like, is this I'm a 0:53:01.440 --> 0:53:06.239 virgo and I'm intense, but I understood that. Look, why 0:53:06.239 --> 0:53:08.120 do you have to lead with that because it was 0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:09.799 the best thing ever, because now I know what I'm 0:53:09.800 --> 0:53:13.279 getting into funcks with it. We actually hear we made up. 0:53:13.480 --> 0:53:16.400 I made everybody give one word a Virgo and is 0:53:16.480 --> 0:53:23.680 intense towards simple Capricorn's passionate Aquarius, creative areas, confidentis calm, Gemini, 0:53:23.680 --> 0:53:30.879 I misunderstood cancer, mysterious, Leo direct, Scorpio cool, Sagittarius, unpredictable 0:53:30.960 --> 0:53:33.680 and live a ballance. If a nigga just knew this 0:53:34.280 --> 0:53:35.880 instead of all that other ship that come up to 0:53:35.920 --> 0:53:37.000 your more talking about. 0:53:36.840 --> 0:53:38.480 These translating for men. 0:53:39.120 --> 0:53:43.320 Forgot the horoscopes are going to help niggas find the 0:53:43.360 --> 0:53:43.879 women for them. 0:53:43.960 --> 0:53:47.960 No one, just but listen, it's not just it's just 0:53:48.000 --> 0:53:50.880 not cool. It's the fact that you can do it 0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:53.200 in mysterious. 0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:53.880 You're simple. 0:53:54.280 --> 0:53:56.560 I didn't make these up. I didn't make these up. 0:53:56.880 --> 0:53:59.359 It was a whole slettle women in there going now 0:53:59.560 --> 0:54:02.880 through the community. Yeah, because they was all understand I 0:54:02.960 --> 0:54:04.799 need a man, and you know, they talking shit and 0:54:04.920 --> 0:54:08.680 I'm like, bron y'all too deep. We're not that fucking deep. 0:54:09.080 --> 0:54:10.000 We're not deep at all. 0:54:10.239 --> 0:54:12.080 You hear that guy's talk to the men in just 0:54:12.120 --> 0:54:14.239 one word sentences and you'll get further. 0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:17.000 Meaning, like like when you're trying to tell me something, 0:54:17.080 --> 0:54:18.880 like if you're trying to teach me something, are you 0:54:18.880 --> 0:54:21.200 trying to show me something? Give me the simple version 0:54:21.200 --> 0:54:22.799 and I can decide if it's like if I need 0:54:22.800 --> 0:54:25.520 that to digest because as a nigga, while that conversation 0:54:25.600 --> 0:54:27.200 is going on, I'm thinking about, Okay, we gotta get 0:54:27.200 --> 0:54:29.480 this money over here, where the fuck your kids at? Well, 0:54:29.520 --> 0:54:31.800 I gotta get to like it said, like nine things 0:54:31.880 --> 0:54:34.399 going on. So when you putting some more shit in there, 0:54:34.440 --> 0:54:37.520 that's gonna get real long. It's like, hold on back. 0:54:38.400 --> 0:54:40.480 Like with that, I gotta hold on. Give me the 0:54:40.600 --> 0:54:43.640 give me the something cliff notes version. I'm great with those, 0:54:43.680 --> 0:54:46.200 and then we can while we riding somewhere walking like, Kim, 0:54:46.280 --> 0:54:47.600 could you break that down to me? Now? 0:54:47.760 --> 0:54:51.160 Damn, I'm gonna start texting my long texts. I feel 0:54:51.160 --> 0:54:53.439 like I've gotten a lot better with shortening them because 0:54:53.480 --> 0:54:54.800 I don't really I don't want to text anyway. But 0:54:54.840 --> 0:54:56.440 when you really piss me off and we're not talking, 0:54:56.480 --> 0:54:58.399 I'm going to tell you I'm gonna write you a letter. 0:54:58.400 --> 0:55:00.160 And this is the this is it this is and 0:55:00.239 --> 0:55:00.920 they might get. 0:55:01.960 --> 0:55:04.800 You're talking to the baby father or anybody. 0:55:04.840 --> 0:55:07.840 No, just in general. But yeah, like I feel like 0:55:07.920 --> 0:55:11.239 women we men. Maybe, yes, you guys are. I'm so 0:55:11.280 --> 0:55:13.399 glad that you said that. You guys are not deep. 0:55:13.480 --> 0:55:16.720 We're not. We're emotional. It's different. 0:55:16.880 --> 0:55:18.560 I'm just kidding. I really think men are deep. I 0:55:18.560 --> 0:55:19.919 don't agree with emotional. 0:55:20.000 --> 0:55:20.520 Emotional. 0:55:20.719 --> 0:55:23.920 We're emotionalless. I share more do we let on, But 0:55:23.960 --> 0:55:24.840 we're not deep. 0:55:25.200 --> 0:55:27.799 They're emotional and they're suppressing the emotions and they're just 0:55:28.000 --> 0:55:29.200 maybe clips up. 0:55:30.920 --> 0:55:34.840 It's nick manystem. It's tough being a guy, like you 0:55:34.920 --> 0:55:37.280 know what I'm saying, Like I know, it's it's way 0:55:37.320 --> 0:55:39.680 tough for being a woman because y'all the smarter you 0:55:39.719 --> 0:55:42.120 guys have to walk outside niggas trying to fuck y'all, 0:55:42.160 --> 0:55:44.560 touch y'all all day. It's like a different thing as 0:55:44.600 --> 0:55:46.840 a guy who's supposed to be out hunting and finding 0:55:46.920 --> 0:55:49.320 and man, I take a different crowd of energy. 0:55:49.440 --> 0:55:51.400 I feel like there's more tools for women at this 0:55:51.440 --> 0:55:52.200 point in the world. 0:55:52.880 --> 0:55:53.800 Y'all set up to blow. 0:55:54.520 --> 0:55:58.040 Women utilize the tool. A lot of go to Harby, 0:55:58.080 --> 0:56:00.040 they'll go to yoga, they'll go to the retreat you 0:56:00.520 --> 0:56:04.240 so you'll understand the detail. Men just punch balls and ship. 0:56:05.239 --> 0:56:06.520 Damn bam, that's what. That's what. 0:56:07.040 --> 0:56:09.560 Just like get mad and cry in the corner. Don't 0:56:09.560 --> 0:56:13.320 you never see it, but you know that they cry. 0:56:13.400 --> 0:56:15.840 Because we don't have these like guys are not sitting 0:56:15.840 --> 0:56:18.680 around like, man, she hurt my feelings and ship now 0:56:18.880 --> 0:56:21.759 the more successful men do. Like it's like a little 0:56:21.800 --> 0:56:24.600 fire pack of guys that I know that we probably 0:56:25.160 --> 0:56:29.840 mentoring us through the other ones I'm looking for, like 0:56:29.880 --> 0:56:33.719 when we're leased, least inform that if that makes any sense, 0:56:33.840 --> 0:56:36.640 Like if like my one guy, he's having baby mama trouble, 0:56:36.640 --> 0:56:38.480 when they know that I don't fucking been through it, 0:56:38.480 --> 0:56:40.120 I'm like, hey, don't do this, don't do that. Then 0:56:40.120 --> 0:56:42.880 that vice versa if you've runned a business and I'm like, 0:56:42.920 --> 0:56:45.320 well I need the questions because I got some of those. 0:56:45.840 --> 0:56:48.600 But man, it ain't like y'all y'all get into it, 0:56:48.680 --> 0:56:52.879 drink and just be so vulnerable. So vulnerable niggas can't 0:56:52.920 --> 0:56:55.479 be too vulnerable. It is none of another guy, because 0:56:55.600 --> 0:56:57.920 these niggas try to you know what I mean, they 0:56:58.040 --> 0:56:58.879 try to use it. 0:56:59.239 --> 0:57:01.080 You have to have a good circle of people that 0:57:01.200 --> 0:57:02.200 you know that that's not. 0:57:02.440 --> 0:57:04.759 That's how it is. I think women and men don't 0:57:04.800 --> 0:57:08.640 understand how close we are. Like it's just y'all can 0:57:08.680 --> 0:57:10.560 say it, and it's just like the whole in the 0:57:10.880 --> 0:57:13.160 things like how we can say y'all can't y'all got 0:57:13.160 --> 0:57:15.120 that one to it t y'all can be vulnerable and 0:57:15.200 --> 0:57:15.720 we can't. 0:57:16.360 --> 0:57:17.560 Do you have any friends that you feel like can 0:57:17.600 --> 0:57:18.240 be vulnerable with? 0:57:19.040 --> 0:57:20.920 I do now, but I'm talking about like when I 0:57:20.960 --> 0:57:25.000 was younger now ship, I'm an open book now, but 0:57:25.040 --> 0:57:27.600 that it takes a lot to get to that, you know, 0:57:27.680 --> 0:57:30.600 especially if you're not. If you're not like your finances 0:57:30.600 --> 0:57:32.720 are together and you still living somewhere where you don't 0:57:32.760 --> 0:57:36.160 want to be. It's a whole nother aggression you gotta 0:57:36.200 --> 0:57:37.960 walk around with like you can't let no nigga know 0:57:38.000 --> 0:57:41.360 I'm crying over this, trying to snipe me or something. 0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:48.800 Street Ship, she said, street ship niggas like street ship 0:57:52.000 --> 0:57:52.280 I am. 0:57:53.480 --> 0:57:55.120 I am street Ship. 0:57:55.160 --> 0:57:57.600 If you have a record, I'm probably yeah. 0:57:58.800 --> 0:58:00.680 Do we just talk about this up? I was like, 0:58:00.760 --> 0:58:02.040 someone told me they want to kill for me. 0:58:02.080 --> 0:58:02.280 Once. 0:58:02.400 --> 0:58:05.080 I was like you are, I was like what I love. 0:58:05.240 --> 0:58:08.520 When I'm in love, I'll kill for you, he said. 0:58:08.560 --> 0:58:10.040 I said, really murder. 0:58:10.200 --> 0:58:11.440 Like what kinds degree? 0:58:11.720 --> 0:58:15.360 You had a gun that maybe even more like your weapon, 0:58:15.440 --> 0:58:17.720 and you would kill for There's no immediate need, but 0:58:17.760 --> 0:58:19.840 if it happened, you would be ready. 0:58:21.280 --> 0:58:24.560 Basic Bitches are basic. Niggas are not deep. Bitches are 0:58:24.600 --> 0:58:26.560 basic things. 0:58:30.480 --> 0:58:33.160 Just the little thing you see we go black and white. 0:58:33.880 --> 0:58:34.640 You're going to love that. 0:58:34.920 --> 0:58:41.240 Wow wow sponsored by episode. Bitches are basic. Niggas are 0:58:41.240 --> 0:58:41.680 not deep. 0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:51.600 Cold Gate sounds like to me, I don't know. Oh 0:58:51.680 --> 0:58:54.240 my god, wait, so do you have a horry for us? 0:58:54.320 --> 0:58:55.919 You know what a horry is? I think I shared 0:58:55.960 --> 0:58:56.400 it with you. 0:58:56.640 --> 0:59:01.760 High level horror story. Did something very ho very ho ish. 0:59:02.080 --> 0:59:05.080 I know you do Mollywood. I know that you have 0:59:05.240 --> 0:59:07.120 some tails. 0:59:07.720 --> 0:59:13.760 Is Mollywood? You're a k A are you problem? Aka? Mollywood? 0:59:13.840 --> 0:59:15.640 On the streets? From me? 0:59:17.000 --> 0:59:20.040 This is wild everything. 0:59:20.120 --> 0:59:24.000 It's like when you said that one word, It's like, uh, 0:59:25.400 --> 0:59:28.720 I don't even need to be what's the whole? What 0:59:28.840 --> 0:59:31.680 makes it? Is it a bad thing or is it bad? 0:59:31.720 --> 0:59:35.240 It can just involve lots of people we filmed. It 0:59:35.280 --> 0:59:36.360 could be like public. 0:59:36.480 --> 0:59:38.880 It could be like you're having sex with your. 0:59:38.600 --> 0:59:40.160 You almost got caught. You had to jump out of 0:59:40.200 --> 0:59:43.760 a window, like anything we have had some. 0:59:44.080 --> 0:59:46.440 Dodging pussy was like in fact, I opened the window, 0:59:46.520 --> 0:59:48.640 my boyfriend saw me. He walked through the window. Then 0:59:48.640 --> 0:59:51.480 I opened the door and he joined. That was the 0:59:51.520 --> 0:59:52.200 horse story. 0:59:54.440 --> 0:59:57.720 One girl, one girl sucked a guy on Juneteenth, a 0:59:57.800 --> 1:00:01.360 white man on Juneteenth with a strap on as reparations. 1:00:03.440 --> 1:00:05.240 Man, get the fuck out of here. 1:00:05.400 --> 1:00:07.320 No, nothing like that. No, I don't know. 1:00:08.360 --> 1:00:15.000 I don't got nothing like that. Let me think. Uh, 1:00:15.040 --> 1:00:15.960 I don't want to say that. 1:00:18.440 --> 1:00:19.040 He's scared. 1:00:19.400 --> 1:00:22.280 I'm scared. This scares me. This one I gotta come 1:00:22.440 --> 1:00:25.560 because I gotta tell the story without telling the story 1:00:25.640 --> 1:00:27.360 because of just the people in ball you know me, 1:00:28.040 --> 1:00:31.440 high level horror. They won't know, they will. 1:00:33.640 --> 1:00:34.680 Mom's just us. 1:00:35.960 --> 1:00:38.520 We have some of my top one hundred pod. I 1:00:38.600 --> 1:00:40.840 see what's going on here. It's not just y'all, no 1:00:40.920 --> 1:00:43.400 more just watching. 1:00:43.640 --> 1:00:45.800 We want to know the tories, okay, trying to act 1:00:45.840 --> 1:00:47.640 like it doesn't We just act like it doesn't exist. 1:00:47.800 --> 1:00:50.720 Just like just say whatever, it's fine, We're gonna come 1:00:50.720 --> 1:00:51.439 back and hunt them. 1:00:52.560 --> 1:00:54.560 Well, can I tell you a story about somebody else 1:00:55.760 --> 1:00:58.880 with a disclaimer if you can. 1:00:58.800 --> 1:01:01.200 Tell someone else how you want. 1:01:01.120 --> 1:01:03.040 To tell the story, and third person. 1:01:02.760 --> 1:01:04.800 Okay, got it, got it, got you were there. 1:01:05.560 --> 1:01:12.760 I was there, Okay. Yeah, Oh this is fucking crazy, dude, 1:01:12.760 --> 1:01:13.280 this is sad. 1:01:14.920 --> 1:01:16.760 We'll put it on Patreon. It will be only a 1:01:16.800 --> 1:01:28.240 little small number of people who see it. Gosh, okay, stories, 1:01:29.160 --> 1:01:30.240 we'll cut it out of the top. 1:01:30.800 --> 1:01:32.600 I'm not gonna get so horrid. I'm just gonna say 1:01:32.680 --> 1:01:37.040 one one day I had, I got loaded and I 1:01:37.160 --> 1:01:41.360 was like, I'm about to make love with five women today. 1:01:41.600 --> 1:01:43.960 And I don't know why I was on this, and 1:01:44.000 --> 1:01:45.880 I don't know what made me get on that, and 1:01:45.920 --> 1:01:48.840 I don't know what it was. And then the thing was, 1:01:49.240 --> 1:01:51.560 but it couldn't they couldn't all be together. It had 1:01:51.600 --> 1:01:52.400 to be different. 1:01:52.680 --> 1:01:55.920 That was a busy day. That was Yeah, it. 1:01:55.880 --> 1:01:58.240 Makes me makes me feel bad saying this story. Now, 1:01:58.280 --> 1:02:01.000 this is who I am. But the fact that I 1:02:01.200 --> 1:02:03.120 that showed you how much of a cracking it I was. 1:02:03.120 --> 1:02:04.520 I dedicated a day to this. 1:02:04.680 --> 1:02:07.200 Were they all different experiences or were they like one 1:02:07.280 --> 1:02:08.800 was at the house, one was somewhere else. 1:02:09.520 --> 1:02:12.400 It was lined up. There's a lot of milk, a 1:02:12.440 --> 1:02:15.120 lot of things that happened that day for Steve going 1:02:17.600 --> 1:02:20.960 water milk. You know, back then it was like the 1:02:21.000 --> 1:02:23.320 hood ha Liloque was like he. 1:02:24.840 --> 1:02:25.720 To refeel you. 1:02:25.720 --> 1:02:27.440 You know, you go, you get, you get prepped. 1:02:27.440 --> 1:02:29.160 Wait, do niggas really think you're drinking milk? 1:02:29.200 --> 1:02:31.320 That's stupid ship from back in the day, But we 1:02:31.440 --> 1:02:33.360 need to think that what I was. 1:02:34.280 --> 1:02:37.760 They were really drinking milk. 1:02:37.520 --> 1:02:43.360 Like all that. Yeah, I was like, make the milk 1:02:43.680 --> 1:02:47.640 our god, and I remember that almost didn't accommomently. Then 1:02:47.800 --> 1:02:49.160 last second, the last. 1:02:49.000 --> 1:02:51.160 Thing I came through right before midnight, like Cinderella. 1:02:51.480 --> 1:02:57.160 Yeah, damn, we finished strong before. So that's where I feel. 1:02:56.960 --> 1:02:59.360 Like you gave full performance for each one or you were. 1:02:59.240 --> 1:03:04.680 Like maybe three Listen, listen. Every basketball game has four quarter's. Okay, 1:03:05.280 --> 1:03:07.520 So I have some strong points, I have some low lights, 1:03:07.600 --> 1:03:11.080 but all in all, the goal was accomplished. And it 1:03:11.120 --> 1:03:13.720 wasn't really about that. It was about accomplishing the goal. 1:03:14.400 --> 1:03:16.000 But no, I went through it. It was it was 1:03:16.200 --> 1:03:19.960 it went up, It went up, long long. 1:03:20.680 --> 1:03:22.880 That's the first insiration to D two. 1:03:26.400 --> 1:03:28.880 Listen them fucking songs. Man, I tell you D two 1:03:28.920 --> 1:03:30.520 B to take use. 1:03:30.400 --> 1:03:32.040 The song in this episode. 1:03:32.960 --> 1:03:37.720 Please do man, right, now we own it, re running 1:03:37.720 --> 1:03:40.600 that ship. Come then, I can't wait. Oh my god, 1:03:40.640 --> 1:03:42.560 I heard one of them. Ship's going viral right now. 1:03:42.600 --> 1:03:45.240 I'm like, it's gonna come back to get me again. 1:03:45.680 --> 1:03:49.320 Yep, TikTok is taking. Hey, make that money, baby. 1:03:49.080 --> 1:03:53.200 Get that TikTok money changeing. We're famous on TikTok. Now 1:03:53.200 --> 1:03:53.840 we went viral. 1:03:54.160 --> 1:04:01.760 Come on. Everybody was wondering, so do we celebrate going viral? 1:04:01.160 --> 1:04:02.480 Is that we get viral? 1:04:03.320 --> 1:04:04.160 Find any reason to go? 1:04:04.240 --> 1:04:06.880 I don't like that word. Yeah, we could find food 1:04:07.400 --> 1:04:14.120 that could happen, Margarita, Why doesn't. 1:04:13.920 --> 1:04:17.560 It doesn't turn in the finance? More followers? Yeah, but. 1:04:19.040 --> 1:04:22.160 Strange. Guess how are you followed? I'm men follow you 1:04:22.280 --> 1:04:22.760 on TikTok. 1:04:22.800 --> 1:04:27.520 Now, oh my god, we can't talk about TikTok. I'm done. 1:04:27.520 --> 1:04:30.080 We're done talking. We're gon feed your children because they're 1:04:30.080 --> 1:04:32.240 probably tiktoking right the fun now I know the. 1:04:32.240 --> 1:04:36.400 Last times watching them do a little summer sault something right, 1:04:36.840 --> 1:04:37.320 I just saw. 1:04:37.280 --> 1:04:39.040 Oh my god, problem, Thank you for coming on this. 1:04:39.760 --> 1:04:40.600 Appreciate you. 1:04:40.800 --> 1:04:41.840 Where can people find you? 1:04:42.520 --> 1:04:45.320 Problem three? Far four on all the Things and Coffee 1:04:45.320 --> 1:04:46.160 because dot com. 1:04:46.360 --> 1:04:48.480 Boom, look out for Mama's Flowers. 1:04:48.560 --> 1:04:51.640 Mama's Flowers is on the way exciting times. Thank you 1:04:51.720 --> 1:04:55.440 all for having me. 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