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Speaker 1: Firm Elvis Presents Minute Morning Show, what would you talk

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Speaker 1: like we could re record that and make it seamless. Well,

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Speaker 1: It means if tomorrow's show on Tuesday show, if you say, God,

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Speaker 1: this thing. But the only reason that's in there now

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Speaker 1: that that's the only time you've ever said podcast up

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Speaker 1: So around the around the Hey, what we go is

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Speaker 1: there's Bethany with her new hair color. We've got to

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Speaker 1: talk about that on today's podcast. They're Scary. There's Dave Brody,

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Speaker 1: there's Great Tea, the frat Boy, and there there's there's

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Speaker 1: there's Garrett, and there's Danielle and then a straight and

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Speaker 1: as like just kind of satelliting around and he's in

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Speaker 1: and out. Well, let's get going. Let's start with Bethany's

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Speaker 1: hair color. Yes, I saw you post this last night. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I saw the preparation leading up to it, with all

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Speaker 1: the all the bowls of it looked like fruit loop colors.

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Speaker 1: You know what it reminds me of is that scene

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Speaker 1: in the movie Hook when the Lost Boys pretend to

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Speaker 1: turns into gloves of brightly colored stuff. Right, that's what

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Speaker 1: That's what it looked like. You can see that on

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Speaker 1: Instagram at ms Miss Bethany Bethany Watson. Right. I love

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Speaker 1: that you got the miss plot right, but couldn't remember

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Speaker 1: the beth watch a Friday. That's a Friday. It's Friday,

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Speaker 1: and I'm fried I every day. But then after you

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Speaker 1: see the picture of the actual outcome the hair, I

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Speaker 1: saw it, I went, oh, I love that. It's it's fantastic. Thanks.

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Speaker 1: I did it because I dyed my hair pink about

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Speaker 1: four years ago. And then my younger sister was going

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Speaker 1: through old pictures and she saw that picture. And my

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Speaker 1: even though she's younger than me, she I basically do

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Speaker 1: color pink. And I'm like, okay, and so I did,

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Speaker 1: and that that's the story behind the story. It look

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Speaker 1: looks fantastic. So check it out. What do you think

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Speaker 1: about her hair color, Danielle, I told her yesterday, Actually

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Speaker 1: I saw it right before I went to bed last night.

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Speaker 1: It's like I got to say when I went to bed,

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Speaker 1: it looks. It looks I love it. Danielle was sworn

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Speaker 1: she wasn't allowed to tell you. I don't tell anyone

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Speaker 1: is a surprise. Let's go around the room and get

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Speaker 1: If you have a problem with it, let's confront her now.

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Speaker 1: Because I I've for one, I honestly love it. It's

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Speaker 1: just fantastic. Yes, Gary. So normally I don't like the

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Speaker 1: color pink on hair for people, but it does work

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Speaker 1: for some, and it works for our friend Dina who

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Speaker 1: does kiss and makeup, right, And I do think you

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Speaker 1: wear it well, Bethany. Okay, there you go. I do

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Speaker 1: like it. Yes, uh, let's see. Let's go to day Brody.

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Speaker 1: on No, he said, on people. So I'm gonna need

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Speaker 1: your help afterwards. I love it, but I'm gonna need

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Speaker 1: someone with a hair cut or a color that you hate,

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Speaker 1: because I'm about to have that in my life. Let's

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Speaker 1: think of Bethany's hair? I love it. I love anyone

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Speaker 1: Bethany does things that she wants to do and that's

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Speaker 1: with you, guys, every money. I trust you. I sleep

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Speaker 1: during the entire Yeah, I'd like to know. Why is

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Speaker 1: Being a parent? There are a lot of things that

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Speaker 1: are worth fighting about hair. It's not one of those battles.

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Speaker 1: But I can't. If Bethany said what do you think

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Speaker 1: having been a theater major and so going to all

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Speaker 1: You know this too. When you go to your friends

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