1 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks so 2 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: much for joining us. We are so excited to be 3 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: back today. 4 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: Always excited to be back, and you will not believe. 5 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: We have two very special guests today. Please welcome our 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: former Golden Bachelor, Gary Turner and the best part is 7 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: his fiance Lana. Welcome, I got an hour. 8 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 3: How are you hi, guys, wonderful you're doing great. 9 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so good to see you. 10 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: I gotta say you make a beautiful couple. 11 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. I think we kind of do. 12 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: So. 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: Oh god, she's pretty, she's real pretty. You've done well, Gary, 14 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: you've done well. All right, Well, listen, there's so much 15 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: that we want to get in today, so we're just 16 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: going to jump right into it. First, Leanda, we're going 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: to start with you. Tell us about yourself. I've learned 18 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: that your name is Lanta, not Lana, so that's number one. 19 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: Tell us where are you from? What do you do? 20 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: Give us the Give us your story. 21 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 5: Yes, so I was born and raised in a small 22 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 5: town in Indiana, Auburn, Indiana, and spent my childhood there. 23 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 3: I moved around a little bit. 24 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 5: I lived in outside of Atlanta a little bit for 25 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 5: three years and then back to Fort Wayne, UH, and 26 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 5: then just about three years ago, moved down to the 27 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 5: Indianapolis area. I love it the children down here. So 28 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 5: I have three kids. I have my oldest daughter Rachel, 29 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 5: and she lives down by me here in Indy. I 30 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 5: have a son, Nathan Nate, he lives in New York. 31 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 5: And then my youngest Jordan, she is down here as well. 32 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 5: So she's a first year teacher. And so two out 33 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 5: of my three kids are around me. So I'm really 34 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 5: happy about that. And I have a grandson, Chef so Be. 35 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: They're the best id. So tell us how you met? 36 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: How did you meet? 37 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 5: Yes, I'm going have to breeve that because it's a 38 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 5: long witted story. But I watched his season. I watched 39 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 5: All of You, Beautiful ladies. That's the only reason I 40 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 5: knew of Gary and all of You is from the 41 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 5: show and all year by, and I don't know. Something 42 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 5: popped up on my phone about a friend request, and 43 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 5: it said Gary Turner, and so I thought, I don't know. 44 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 5: Somehow I thought I was already friends with them. So 45 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 5: I went to my computer and it said I was, 46 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 5: And so I thought, well, what do you have to lose? 47 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 5: So I sent him a message on messenger, and to 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 5: my surprise, he answered me and got from there. 49 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: So wow, So what was your dating life before Gary? 50 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 5: I had divorced about a year or so year and 51 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 5: a half ago, and so I was really just happy 52 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 5: to just you know, go through life, and I had 53 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 5: my grandson and my kids buy me. So, you know, 54 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 5: at some point I knew i'd probably meet somebody that 55 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 5: i'd want to spend my life with, but I wasn't 56 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 5: really in a rush. So it's I just knew whenever 57 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 5: it was meant to be, something would come my way, 58 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 5: and it was. 59 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 3: It was fine that way. 60 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,279 Speaker 2: So the first meet was perfect, like the butterflies, the sparks, 61 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 2: and how did when did it start getting really serious. 62 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 3: From the start? 63 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, you knew it, that was like from it from 64 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 4: the start. 65 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 2: I mean, it's magical. 66 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 4: It's getting close to eight months since we met, neither 67 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 4: of us has stopped smiling. It's it's like it was 68 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 4: that good right from the get go. And you know 69 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 4: you have to kind of be cautious and is this 70 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 4: for real and all of that, but man, it is 71 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 4: it really? 72 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: And you've spent enough time together to learn each other's 73 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: habits and the annoying things. I mean, we are of 74 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: age now and things do annoy you. You know some 75 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: You got to know what you can work with what 76 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: you can't. So I guess you figured that out as 77 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: well by that. 78 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: Well, I'm guessing so since they're engaged, but I want 79 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: to I want to know. I have a couple of 80 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: questions here. How fast did you guys are talking about 81 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: getting married? I mean, I clearly are engaged, and we'll 82 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: get to that in a minute, but you know, it's 83 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: a it's a big jump from meeting someone to saying 84 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: would you get married? You know, having that conversation. 85 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the question was would you consider getting 86 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 4: married again? And we both had to look at that 87 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 4: and answer positively before we move forward, And that was 88 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 4: really yeah, it's probably you know, two months ago, you know, 89 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 4: because you know, the consideration has to be there. It's 90 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 4: not like we're ready to make a decision on it 91 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 4: at that point, but we want to know if it's 92 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 4: on the table a possibility. 93 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 2: Well, did you talk about living together or it was. 94 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, yeah, that was That was a bigger part 95 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 4: of the conversation because like, right now my house is 96 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 4: for sale. I may have it sold and so the 97 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 4: conversation has been, you know, Lanta, I'm going to be 98 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 4: parking my ass here, you know, for a couple of 99 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 4: months until we find a house together. 100 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: And so you're staying with Atlanta right now. 101 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, like I'll head back to the lake house 102 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 4: today after, you know, at the end of the day. 103 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 4: But you know, we progressed from spending weekends together to 104 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 4: spending three days a week together, to four days a 105 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 4: week together, to the point where, okay, we were really 106 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 4: kind of pissed off and we weren't spending every day 107 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 4: of the week together. 108 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: I want to see the ring. Enough of the talk 109 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: it care? 110 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 2: Did you pick this up by yourself? 111 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 4: Where's story? 112 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: It's beautiful. 113 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 4: Landa and I went to this jewelers and I had 114 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 4: a basic idea of what she wanted and what I wanted. 115 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 4: And then we went to London and Paris and I 116 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 4: saw the Eiffel Tower and you know, it was spectacular. 117 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 4: That night we woke up, you know, put the shades up, 118 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 4: and there it was sparkling in front of us. And 119 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 4: I came back to the jeweler and I said, I 120 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 4: want the side of Lanta's engagement ring to look like 121 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 4: the Eiffel Tower. I have good So there's you know, 122 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 4: the sparkle. 123 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 2: You know, the yes, take a picture and send it 124 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 2: to my phone. 125 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: Please, Gary, take a picture. We need that. 126 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 4: I sat down with him, I said, this is the 127 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 4: design I really want to have. Came back a couple 128 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 4: of weeks later. They executed it perfectly, and then so 129 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 4: I held that ring for well, I don't know, three 130 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 4: four weeks before I decided how I wanted to do it. 131 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 2: Well, tell us you didn't know, Lena, You had no 132 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: idea he got it. I had no feeling happened. 133 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 5: No, I had no idea when he actually proposed that 134 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:37,679 Speaker 5: it was going to happen. 135 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: Then that's the best part. I don't know how romantic 136 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: was the proposal. 137 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: Where was it? What? 138 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 5: Well, you know we had taken we have taken a 139 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 5: lot of trips, and so we had gone to Niagara 140 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 5: Falls about a month or two to ago, and you 141 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 5: know that being the honeymoon capital. 142 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 3: Everybody thought. 143 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 5: I think when we went, that was going to happen. 144 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 5: Then I didn't, you know, I don't didn't know when 145 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 5: or when it was going to happen. But we we're 146 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 5: on another vacation on the way to Myrtle Beach and 147 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 5: we had stopped in Ashville part of the way there 148 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 5: to break up the drive, and so he did like 149 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 5: a little magic trick, and so there were some questions 150 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 5: that he kind of like guessed my thoughts, and then 151 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 5: there was another piece of paper that said will you 152 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 5: marry me? And I instantly where are you? 153 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 2: Were you outside, were you in the car? 154 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 4: Where were you know we were in the hotel room. 155 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: Did you have a plan? Gary? 156 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 4: Oh, I totally did. I rehearsed the magic trick a 157 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 4: half a dozen times, you know. So I had two 158 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 4: solo cups and under one solo cup was forgetting them, 159 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 4: and so when I guessed the correct answer, then the 160 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 4: last post it note said will you marry me? And 161 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 4: you know we've kind of said that before, and I've said, 162 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 4: you know, are you going to marry me? And so forth, 163 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 4: and so she was kind of her attention peaked. But 164 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 4: then when I lifted the other solo cup that had 165 00:07:56,440 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 4: then it was like, yes. 166 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 3: It gets emotional because you know, there's a lot of 167 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 3: feelings there. 168 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: Yes, I get it. We're so happy for you, We 169 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: really are, thank. 170 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: You, so do we of course we are? Do you 171 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: have a wedding date. Are you planning a wedding and 172 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: am I invited? 173 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 2: Yep, absolutely, we'd better be there. 174 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 5: That we really haven't talked a wedding plans yet. I 175 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 5: think we're just sort of basking in the engagement and uh, 176 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 5: you know, working out some details as far as his 177 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 5: house and. 178 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: So, yeah, well they got a lot to do. 179 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it'll come. 180 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 2: So but you know what, even that you didn't set 181 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: the date, just knowing and wearing that ring and you're 182 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: being together, that's that's the best part. 183 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, what did your kids say? 184 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 4: Well, so before I asked her, I showed the ring 185 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 4: to her oldest daughter, Rachel, and I showed the ring 186 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 4: to Angie, and I said, just giving you guys the 187 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 4: heads up this is coming. And they both wanted to 188 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 4: have some kind of a setup where all the family 189 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 4: was there. And I'd asked the question and they'd come 190 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 4: out of the woodwork and and I go, you know what, 191 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 4: it's not going to work. So I kind of went 192 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 4: my own way with it. 193 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: And good for you. Yeah, I know your daughters are 194 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 2: very happy for you. Don't talk to them, you know, Lana, 195 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: we got to get to know your daughters now. 196 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 3: And so yeah, they'll be thrilled. So yeah, everybody's ecstatic. 197 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: So it's it's so exciting. So this question for both 198 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: of you, both of you are recently divorced. How is 199 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 1: that to have people said to you you're you're together 200 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: too soon? Talk to us about that. 201 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 3: I can answer that for my side. 202 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 5: When I introduced my Gary to my kids, and you know, 203 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 5: they just saw us interact early on, and my oldest 204 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 5: daughter lives closest to me, so she has seen it 205 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 5: from the get go, and my son in law, Noah 206 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 5: as well. And so when we started talking and they 207 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 5: kind of like, mom, how serious is it? Like are 208 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 5: you serious with him? And I'm like, yeah, it's serious, guys. 209 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 5: I mean we pretty much have fallen in love. 210 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 3: And she goes, I knew it. She goes, I could 211 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 3: just see it. 212 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 5: And they both said they knew from the start that 213 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 5: we made a good couple. And they said they were 214 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 5: the same way. They said, when you meet somebody and 215 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 5: you have those feelings, you just know, and they said, 216 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 5: we knew it with you guys too, from the from 217 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 5: the start. So no, for them, they're like, no, it's 218 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 5: not too soon, it's not too fast, because you just 219 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 5: can tell when you met the right person. 220 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 4: And you guy, and for me, you know, I don't 221 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 4: want to sound disrespectful at all. I don't think of 222 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 4: myself as being divorced. 223 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 2: What marriage. 224 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 4: It was such a short time and it was, you know, 225 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 4: in an artificial environment that yeah, I have to stop 226 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: myself and say, yeah, you know what, I am divorced. 227 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 4: You know, it's not like I'm that guy that was 228 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 4: married forty three years and then did nothing. I am divorced. 229 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 4: But the comment of it being too soon has never 230 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 4: come to me. You know, that question has not been asked. 231 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 4: There are some things that are timeless, you know, and 232 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 4: I think one of them is when you meet the 233 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 4: right person, you don't even think about where it fits 234 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 4: on the timeline. It's just when it's right, it's right. 235 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: And Gary, you're we talked about it on the show, 236 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 1: this whole thing of if you love someone, you'll make 237 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: it work. You guys are living proof of that. Your 238 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: house is for sale, you're moving to Indianapolis. You want 239 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: a house with the pool so you can have your families. 240 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: You've made it work. And I think that is so 241 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: obvious listening to you guys talk. 242 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 2: And what they want and they're taking action. It's happening. 243 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: There's no stalling, there's no second guessing. You're one hundred 244 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 2: percent in And god, you guys are great. You're giving 245 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 2: me goosebumps. 246 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're giving me. I wish I had it. 247 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 2: How's it feel to be part of Bachelor Nation now 248 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 2: you are? 249 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: Yeah? Well great, now I welcome it. It's a lot 250 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 3: of fun. 251 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: So, I mean, does it feel weird you're dating your 252 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: hair engaged to the guy that you know we we 253 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: dated him before you did you know? 254 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 4: Why? Know? Right? 255 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, let's pure I didn't. 256 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: Is that odd for you? 257 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 3: It's all good. 258 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 2: You know, I kissed him one day. I'm just saying. 259 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 5: I must proceed then, so I thought it all. You know, 260 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 5: you just kind of have to know what comes with 261 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 5: the territory. And I know that about him and I'm 262 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 5: okay with it. 263 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's being secure who you are. Yes it. 264 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 1: So, so how did you celebrate after you got engaged? Like, 265 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: did you get back in the car and keep driving 266 00:12:58,280 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: to Myrtle Beach? 267 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 4: Well? Yeah, I mean we spent the night. It was 268 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 4: pre planned to be there that night, and yeah, we 269 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 4: went to Myrtle Beach and we met up with some 270 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 4: of the pick a Ball group that you guys met 271 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 4: at the wedding. Yeah, we still travel together and do 272 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 4: a lot of stuff together. So yeah, and then we 273 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 4: spent I don't know, was it eight or nine days 274 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,119 Speaker 4: in ten days in Myrtle Beach. 275 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 2: Nice so Gary being on the water, and she obviously 276 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 2: in Annapolis there's water. Are you thinking about buying something 277 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: towards that end? Are you leaving Indiana or you know? 278 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 4: You know, family is here and so she has two 279 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 4: kids here, a grand grandson, and I got Angie close by, 280 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 4: and we keep working on Jenny to come to this area, 281 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 4: you know, to relocate there. We both had houses with 282 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 4: pools and plan honestly, that's where we want to get 283 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 4: to is we want to get to a house with 284 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 4: We don't want a huge house, you know, we don't 285 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,079 Speaker 4: want to overburden. 286 00:13:58,600 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 2: Me eat it now. 287 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, but we kind of want the pool. So that's 288 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 4: what we'll start looking for. 289 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 2: Okay, where what area? That's what I'm saying, Yes down there, Okay. 290 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 4: Westfield is where lives now, So Carmel Westfield, Fishers is 291 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 4: where Angie is. So it's all closed. 292 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 1: How far is Jenny from you? I know, she's a 293 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: couple hours maybe. 294 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, from from where I live now. She's on the 295 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 4: other side of Chicago, so it depends on traffic there. 296 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 4: You can make it in as little as three and 297 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 4: a half hours, but sometimes it'll take five hours. 298 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: Wow, So that's a height. 299 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: Wasn't it three plus hours from the airport to get 300 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 2: to your house to the lake house? 301 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? 302 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So obviously we are so thrilled for you too. 303 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: But I don't know if we can talk about it, 304 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: but your book that is coming out. I first of all, 305 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: someone sent me an excerpt from the book where you 306 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: said you wished you had misjudged me. I mean, this 307 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: podcast is all about making that you had misjudge me. 308 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: Everything is, But I just want to say a lot 309 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: of my friends reached on said, do you know that 310 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: he said he misjudging I said, yeah, Gary called me 311 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: right after the wedding, after you know, after that all happened, 312 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: And so thank you, Gary. I wished i'd gotten the 313 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: roads too. I just want to I just want to 314 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: acknowledge that that was very kind of you to say 315 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: that you look forward. 316 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 4: Did you get the excerpt in the book where I 317 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 4: say I misjudged and I wish I could have done 318 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 4: it different, and I'll just say zip it to that. 319 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 4: Did you get that excerpt? Okay, yeah, I hope you. 320 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: Didn't talk about guess I just I just read. I 321 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: had so many friends. I don't know where they got 322 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: it from, but so many people said, you know, he 323 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: really didn't hate you. I said, I know he didn't 324 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: hate me, but it was just funny when I got that. Yeah, 325 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I just still want to say Landa, 326 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: just so you know, Susan got a gift from and 327 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: everyone got gifts one on one, yours truly got absolutely nothing. 328 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: It's not too late, though, Gary. You could send me 329 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: a signed copy of your book, for example. 330 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 4: And notice how she's not at all bitter about these things. 331 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 4: She's very. 332 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 2: It took a minute. It took a minute. She's doing 333 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 2: way better. 334 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: I mean, he came to it, census. It's all good. 335 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: He's found the woman of his dreams who's absolutely gorgeous. 336 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: You guys look great together, I know, right. 337 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: Wow. It's just so trips coming up? Anything, any plants 338 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: coming up? 339 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 4: We are going to Montigo Bay in December. We're going 340 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 4: to San Diego for the Pickleball National pickleball tournament. Wow 341 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 4: coming up? 342 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So we got to stop and ask you, mister 343 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor, Gary Turner, there is now another Golden Bachelor. 344 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: Have you guys been watching this season? What do you 345 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: think about this? 346 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: Have you compared yourself at all? At any moments like 347 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: I remember that moment? Oh that was hard? 348 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 4: Yes, that is That is exactly why I'm watching is 349 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 4: you know, I know what it feels like because I'm 350 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,479 Speaker 4: the only guy on earth that's been there before him, right, 351 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 4: you know, in our age group, and you know, early 352 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 4: on I you know, I've watched the shows and I go, Okay, 353 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 4: I'm not hooked yet. I'm not hooked yet. And as 354 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 4: time has gone by, I've become more and more interested 355 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 4: in where he's at, especially now when he has the 356 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 4: difficult decisions to make. You know, he's down to two, 357 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 4: and my heart went out to him, you know this 358 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 4: week when he went from three to two? 359 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: Who do you think he's gonna pick? Gary? I I 360 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 1: can't say veal to us. 361 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 2: You're having to watch it. You're a female. Talk to me. 362 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I could. It's a toss up. 363 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 5: I think both ladies left are wonderful. They seem awesome 364 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 5: in different ways, but both very genuine and you know, 365 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 5: beautiful women. 366 00:17:57,880 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. I kind of have a 367 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 3: little of a favorite. 368 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 5: I stop Gary sometimes and ask him, you know, what 369 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 5: was going on for you? 370 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 371 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, So a lot of comparison is just kind of 372 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 5: from getting his point of view of knowing how that is. 373 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: But I have to ask, who do you think I 374 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: want to know? Landa, Who do you think he's going 375 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 1: to pick? 376 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 3: Oh? 377 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: If you had to guess, there's only two. 378 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 5: Love both women, but I love I think PEG's energy 379 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 5: is fine. 380 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 4: That was going to be my answer to. 381 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 2: But Garry, you were so emotional. I remember tears and 382 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 2: us bonding afterwards like it's okay. You felt so torn 383 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 2: and you felt bad letting people go. Not that he didn't, 384 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 2: but he didn't show it like you did. There was 385 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 2: a difference for me. 386 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 4: I couldn't I couldn't keep that in. You know, still 387 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 4: today when I watch him have a rose ceremony, I 388 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 4: get a lump in my throat. 389 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 3: Sure, I think. 390 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 4: About you, guys. I think about Kathy and Susan and 391 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 4: Nance and Joan and on the line, I really do 392 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 4: you guys I don't know that we'll ever be able 393 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 4: to get together as a group again, but believe me 394 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:16,400 Speaker 4: in my heart, give a will a wonderful, wonderful bunch 395 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 4: of people. 396 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 2: We love you too. 397 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: I I've said to Susan, Uh, those two women, the 398 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 1: last two who you know, we've met them. They're both 399 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: lovely women. We don't know who he's going to choose, 400 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 1: but they're so different. And Susan and I feel like 401 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 1: we are like peg. We are the you know, energy outgoing, 402 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: never walk into a room and everyone's your new friend. 403 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: And and Sydney's much quieter, uh sensitive palace, and they 404 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: seem so different, and I don't know. I just think 405 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: it's that's got to be an impossible choice because they're 406 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: so different, and he seems and. 407 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 2: With Debbie, Debbie, she should be the next golden bachelorette. 408 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: Who should say something Pard I'm sorry, Kathy after Kathy. 409 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 4: Never give up the campaign, Kathy, just keep pitching. Keep 410 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 4: one of these days that ship's gonna land for you. 411 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: Oh Gary, you have no idea Off record, I'll tell 412 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: you a bit about my recent dady in life. You 413 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 1: don't even want to hear, but I want to. I 414 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: would we cannot finish this without asking how is your health? 415 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 1: You know you I think I told you scary. I 416 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 1: have a friend who has the same diagnosis, which can 417 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: you believe that you have? He's doing great. Uh, he 418 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: went to the treatment. He's cancer free, he said. You know, 419 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: his doctor just said, you know your old age is 420 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,880 Speaker 1: going to get you before this, But how are you doing? 421 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 4: And I'm hoping that's the same for me. You know, 422 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,360 Speaker 4: the doctors say that until I have three or four 423 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 4: of these specific symptoms that there is no treatment. You 424 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,919 Speaker 4: just keep going. You get six month yeah, blood tests, 425 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 4: and away you go. 426 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 2: How do you feel? Do you feel any symptoms or 427 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 2: just feel normal? 428 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:10,120 Speaker 4: It's like, I feel pretty damn good before it's supposed 429 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 4: to feel, but you feel a lot better than the 430 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 4: average good. 431 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good. 432 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 4: But I want to share one thing with you. When 433 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 4: you know Lana's sitting here so gorgeous and sweet and everything, 434 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 4: there's a very sensitive side to her. And our first 435 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 4: date at dinner, you know, there were several things she 436 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 4: did that I thought were very thoughtful, But about halfway 437 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 4: through the entree, I thought it was only fair to 438 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 4: bring it up to her that I had cancer and 439 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 4: I'm into the starting to give her this explanation. She goes, 440 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,879 Speaker 4: I've already researched it. I'm flying her five. Oh my god, 441 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 4: that is so awesome. 442 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 2: So well it was common knowledge, public knowledge, and she's 443 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 2: not jumping in thinking not we googled peoplea gar, it's 444 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,479 Speaker 2: two thy what Google? 445 00:21:58,840 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 4: You know? Are you talking like that? 446 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? 447 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 1: Now let me after after get Google down, Gary, then 448 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 1: you're going to start learning about AI. Well, we'll give 449 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,120 Speaker 1: you the two darning lessons. 450 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 2: I love my jet. I'm so happy to see you too. 451 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 2: The smiles are so genuine, I mean, just a twinkle 452 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 2: in her eye and her ring. 453 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 1: I mean, seriously, I gotta say, bachelor, it's all about, 454 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 1: you know, the thing, trusting the process, finding love. But 455 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 1: all kidding aside to see you too. Both of you 456 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: have had you know, you've had divorces, You've had issues 457 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: in your life. Gary, you lost a wife. To see 458 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: people at our age, all right, Lenda's a little younger, 459 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: but still finding to find to find your a little bit, 460 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: to find someone that you love and and see you 461 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: guys happy together really should give everybody hope that love 462 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: is out there. You can find it. It just you know, 463 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 1: sometimes it hits you when you least expect it, and 464 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: you guys are living proof of that. 465 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, and the show did work because I wouldn't have 466 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 5: known if Gary had it not been for the show. 467 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 5: So in the run way, the show really did work. 468 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I have a question for both of you 469 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 2: and I one at a time. What's your favorite thing 470 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: about Gary? And Gary your favorite thing about Blama? 471 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,880 Speaker 1: That's part that we can talk about. 472 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 4: Good qualifier. My favorite thing about her is her eternal 473 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 4: positive attitude and energy and smile. She's never never down, never, 474 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 4: She's always like and every time I feel a little 475 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 4: shitty about something, I look at that smiley face and 476 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 4: I go, get your ass up. So what's yours? 477 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 3: I want to know Gary's heart. 478 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 5: I mean from the from the very beginning, obviously knowing 479 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 5: he was the Golden Bachelor, you know it's a big deal. 480 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 5: He was, uh you know, huge, and so meeting him, 481 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,120 Speaker 5: I really went into it just wanting to know his heart. 482 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 5: And you know that just shines and he's and you. 483 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,640 Speaker 3: Know, as you know, a loving person. 484 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: Oh is it is it? Lanta? Is it different? I'm 485 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: sure when you guys go out, uh, you're recognized, how 486 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: does that for you. 487 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:34,439 Speaker 3: I love it. 488 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: I actually am braced, like, wait, I got to get dressed. 489 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 3: You look for it, I. 490 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 5: Kind of look for the look, and when they see him, 491 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, you've been noticed. 492 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 3: Over there or whatever. 493 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 5: So he's very gracious, as you know, and he won't 494 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 5: turn down a photo op or you know, to talk 495 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 5: to talk to somebody about you know, the experience. But 496 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 5: I actually don't mind it at all. It's kind of fun. 497 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 2: So and I know, so have you families met yet, 498 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 2: the kids meet the kids. 499 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 3: Yes, everybody gets along. It's just it's magical. 500 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: Really, it's just truly, I'm honestly listening to you guys, 501 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 1: to your story, looking at the love between you. It 502 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: really is a magical story. It truly is. 503 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 5: I mean from the get go, and they just haven't 504 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 5: let up. So it's yeah, it's you know, it's fate. 505 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 2: Gary, I know that feeling. 506 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 4: I do think it's really really nice how well our 507 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 4: families have blended together. I mean, you know, my daughters 508 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 4: they're rambunctious, and we're not your daughters hers are too, 509 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,959 Speaker 4: so it's not like there's a problem there. They go 510 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 4: right along, get along well. And we've had a number 511 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 4: of family events back and forth where they. 512 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: Were waiting for our invitation. We want to come out 513 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: and see you guys, We want to come out. 514 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 2: Wait, we tried Gary. You thought Fred was up here. 515 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 2: That's how we were going to get together that week 516 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,360 Speaker 2: get and I was like, he's in Saint Martin. Kid, 517 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 2: we got Lena. When you look at Jen and have 518 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 2: conversation with Jen, do you just see him all over? 519 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? She's very much like Gary. She is, you know, 520 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 3: so she's a veryl of. 521 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 1: Fun is they are fun? Ladies love them? 522 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: So do you have any questions for Kathy or I? 523 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 4: I don't follow along as much as I used to. 524 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 4: I guess what's going on in the relationship area for 525 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 4: the two of you. 526 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 3: You know, I. 527 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: Would love to date. I'm not dating anyone, but I 528 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 1: would love to, you know, anyone. Gary sent them my way. 529 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 2: You too, And for me, I have a long distance 530 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 2: relationship that so far is working nicely. So we'll see. 531 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 2: It's it's not easy much more distance than you two, 532 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 2: you know. 533 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. So the other thing I would ask you 534 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 4: is of all the travel you guys do, and you're 535 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 4: very busy, what's been your favorite thing to do in 536 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 4: the last six eight months. 537 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 2: Answer that what coffee talk in our rooms with coffee 538 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 2: talking shit her not. It's so much fun. 539 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 1: I mean it is fun. I will tell you, Garry, 540 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: when we're together, I just turn on. I don't know 541 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 1: if you saw it online Landa. Maybe you did our 542 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: luggage falling out of the car. 543 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 2: I mean Kathy causing the luggage. 544 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: Kathy did not have the car whatever, but hi story, 545 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 1: I would say the most fun thing. Susan and I 546 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: took a cruise to Greece this summer in Istumbles, and 547 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 1: I will tell you it's always the same for me, 548 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: meeting people, you know, sharing our our fun times with 549 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: other people in our story and having other people go. 550 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: You know, I got up off the chair started living 551 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 1: my life because you and Susan have given me hope. 552 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 1: That's been the most fun for me. 553 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:05,679 Speaker 2: Yes. 554 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 4: Did you guys get recognized in Greece? 555 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,399 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Istanbul I was. 556 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 4: I was amazed when we got recognized at the top 557 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 4: of the Eiffel Tower. 558 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, take I'm sorry it sticks in Eiffel towers. 559 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 2: My granddaughter's dream and I was supposed to take care. 560 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 2: She's turning thirteen next month. We were leaving September, and 561 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 2: my boyfriend, who was French, said no, no, no, darling, 562 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 2: you don't go September. They pickety, they march. They're trying 563 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 2: to overthrow the governor president. Whatever he goes not a 564 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 2: good time. And sure enough I saw it all over 565 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: the news and Bella was extremely disappointed. But we're going 566 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 2: to do it in the spring. 567 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: I have to say one more thing, Gary before we 568 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: let you go. Lana. This is for you. Gary has 569 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 1: come a long way. The first night, and Gary, you're 570 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: not going to remember this. The first cover station we 571 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: had in the mansion, you asked me what I like 572 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: to do about travel, and I said, my dream is 573 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 1: to go to all seven continents. I love to travel. 574 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: And you looked at me. Do you remember what you said? 575 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 3: I do not. 576 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: You looked at me, and you and this before I 577 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: got trash, you said, you said to me, you know, 578 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 1: I don't think we would necessarily be a good fit 579 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: because I don't really want to go overseas. I like 580 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: traveling in the United States too, you know, do you 581 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: remember saying that to me? 582 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 4: You know, it's it's proof that I can. 583 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: And that's why I said this is for Lana. He 584 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 1: has evolved. He is a man of the world. He's 585 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: a renaissance man. So whatever you've done to him, Lanta, 586 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: yay you Gary, you're not stuck in the lower fifty. 587 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: Good for you. 588 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 2: I mean he's never still, You're never home. You're as 589 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 2: bad as Cathian night. So you love it? Do you 590 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 2: love it? 591 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 3: I love to travel. I love to seeing places. 592 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 5: Then yeah, we've got a lot of bucket list items 593 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 5: to check off. 594 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: And you know what, you're going to have a lifetime. 595 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: You have years to do it all because that's you 596 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: found each other and you deserve a lifetime of happiness, 597 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: both of you. 598 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 4: Thank you well, Kathy, that was very nice of you 599 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 4: to say thank you. 600 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 2: I mean, just give me real quick before we get 601 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 2: what is on the top of each of your bucket lists. 602 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 2: Just one thing. 603 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 4: I want to go to Switzerland, okay, and I want 604 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 4: to cruise to Alaska. 605 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: I've done both of those. Of course, yes, I've done 606 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: both of those trips. That's one do you recommend if 607 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 1: you if you had to pick the next one, I 608 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: will tell you I have cruised to Alaska and did 609 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 1: the the inland passage and went to Mount McKinley, uh 610 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: Dnali now, I would absolutely do the Alaska for Switzerland's beautiful, 611 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 1: but you know you can yodel from any mountain. 612 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,479 Speaker 2: Way. Look, we got to hear it. 613 00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 3: I cannot do it under pressure. 614 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 5: But my heritage is Swiss. 615 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 3: Yes, so that's where my answer. 616 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: I mean, it's Switzerland's beautiful, but Alaska is. It is 617 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: spiritually moving. It is an unbelievable trip. Lanta, I can't 618 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: believe we didn't ask you. Do you play pickleball? 619 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 4: Oh? 620 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I definitely since I've met him kids, you just 621 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 5: learned with players. 622 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 3: So I came into the sport from that angle and. 623 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 5: Had always wanted to play. I just didn't really have 624 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 5: a partner or anybody to do it with. So yeah, 625 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 5: I'm all in. 626 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,479 Speaker 2: So how about golf? 627 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: Oh? 628 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 3: I golfed too. I'm not very good, but I have fun. 629 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 3: So it's just fun. 630 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: Do you guys golf together? 631 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 2: Have you go? 632 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 4: We've only played golf once together. Guess who we played golf? 633 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 4: So Lanta just had a foot surgery so she couldn't play. 634 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 4: This week, Angie and I Rob and one of her 635 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 4: friends in Lanta, we all went and played golf what 636 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 4: Wednesday night? 637 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 638 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, And it was like coldest ship and you know 639 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 4: we're out there playing and of course you know Angie 640 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 4: about the second hole, she comes back with fire, the 641 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 4: small fireball. 642 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: That's why we love Angie, That's why we love. 643 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. She's my god of girl, and 644 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 2: I do love both of you. It was such a 645 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 2: pleasure having both of you. Thank you for sharing with us. 646 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,239 Speaker 2: I feel it, both of us in our hearts. We 647 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 2: want to congratulate you, wish you the best, and we 648 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 2: have to see you again, you know that. 649 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: And if and when you do plan that wedding, which 650 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure you will, uh, I will be there. Just 651 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: happy to see you guys be together for the rest 652 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: of your days. 653 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 4: Absolutely, thank you, thank you, And of course we do 654 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 4: know someone who you know can. 655 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 1: Uh just you know we're going to be this Wait 656 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 1: a minute, wait a minute, excuse me, she's already done 657 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 1: it once. How about let me get certified and I'll 658 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: be your officient. 659 00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 2: No, Kathy, just stay in your lane. I don't have 660 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 2: day in your lane. 661 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: I can do anything I want, sus And that's the 662 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: joy of. 663 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 2: That You're not going there. And with that being said, 664 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 2: thank you so much for joining us. 665 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 4: Just showed up so maybe this is a good time 666 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 4: to leave you. 667 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 1: Thanks to all for our listeners too. We hope you 668 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: enjoyed this as much as we did. Be sure to 669 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new episodes coming 670 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 1: out every week that you will not want to miss. 671 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 2: Definitely not listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on 672 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app, or wherever you listen to your podcast. 673 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 2: Until next time, have 674 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: A good week.