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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, before we start this week's episode, I wanted

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Speaker 1: to start off by letting you guys know your booty

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Speaker 1: to start that. I'm sorry, listen, don't look like that, mall,

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Speaker 1: don't do that anyways. I just say that because I

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Speaker 1: did have anal sex. My asshole turned into a bussy

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Speaker 1: ever had in my life. So I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: a show I just were you talking about, say, I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to let you know your Buddha hole will

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Speaker 1: go back to the same way it was eventually. Eventually

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Speaker 1: it does go back, and today is the day it

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Speaker 1: went back to normal. So I just want to announce that. Anyways, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions that your girl

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Speaker 1: man to be a k a a k A debt bitch. Hi,

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Speaker 1: i'mzy and we have a great guest. If you haven't

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Speaker 1: heard me flirt in a while, you hear it now.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you there probably was a time we

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Speaker 1: could have had sex. I don't know what it would

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Speaker 1: have been, but I tell this story and I have

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Speaker 1: to commend you for it. I was single, maybe you

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Speaker 1: were single. Who knows. I was fucking smacked and mall

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Speaker 1: took care of me. I was in that bed by myself.

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Speaker 1: I felt so guilty. He was on the couch and

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Speaker 1: his whole time, and I'm like, you're coming here. He

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Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm good. And I appreciate that ship

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Speaker 1: because you know, that was the first time we really

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Speaker 1: hung out like that alone. We always hang on around

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Speaker 1: people in differ circles. And now I'm just letting you know,

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Speaker 1: if I'm drunk, I'm gonna give you preconsent. We gottaun.

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Speaker 1: I am gonna say, guys, to a lot of y'all

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Speaker 1: may not know, because y'all have been asking this motherfucker

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Speaker 1: to come on the podcast, y'all may not realize that

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Speaker 1: he once was on our shows. The problem was he

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Speaker 1: was only on for seventeen minutes because back then we

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Speaker 1: were paying for hourly studio time, and this nigga showed

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Speaker 1: up forty eight minutes late. So you know, again, seventeen

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Speaker 1: minutes of greatness. Though, that was a good ass fucking idea.

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Speaker 1: We did an episode on the Best Hoo Jobs. We

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Speaker 1: talked about real estate agents. Now, I just want to say,

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Speaker 1: if you have this job. You may not be a whore. However,

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Speaker 1: I feel like we all know a whore. That's like, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I gotta stop living this life. Let me get my

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Speaker 1: other passive stream of income. That's me, that's my my podcast.

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Speaker 1: Now I gonna hold you living planning, real Ty, uh

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Speaker 1: doing eyeline aestheticians, Maul, I'm sure you lets name one housekeepers.

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Speaker 1: I mean, first off, I think everybody could be a

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Speaker 1: whole bitch. I was in a cabe hole and you

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Speaker 1: was a motherfucking person in tech being a hole. You

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Speaker 1: could be a hole in any any profession in real life.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like there's definitely a pathway to like

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Speaker 1: getting out of your whole ship and you like, what

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Speaker 1: can I No, no one would have thought it was

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Speaker 1: podcasting and bit's look at me and they got perfect

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Speaker 1: timing because the fucking bubble them niggas. Really they thought

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Speaker 1: it was gonna be able to slad me up in there.

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Speaker 1: But now the case, So now I just gotta watch

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Speaker 1: him jack off on Snap. I am literally just watching that. Niggas.

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Speaker 1: Take care if you're gonna fly to see and maybe

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Speaker 1: you can't get paid for it. I feel like the

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Speaker 1: FaceTime hours also add up, No, it does im and

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. That's when I'm like, it

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Speaker 1: builds the anticipation. What face, It builds anticipation when you

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Speaker 1: know you're about to see a bit on Saturday. If

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Speaker 1: if I gotta watch you jack off, I know you

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Speaker 1: can't really drop me no cash because it don't make

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Speaker 1: sense to you. So I'm asking for the Nike log in.

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Speaker 1: You're a Nike athlete. I want these shoes, so I'm

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Speaker 1: Nike log in for sure. So mom, we didn't get

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Speaker 1: to do this with you last time. We like to

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Speaker 1: start off with a nice little icebreaker and we want

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Speaker 1: to get you open to talking a little. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you do need an icebreaker that us before you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. By the way, welcome. If you take

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Speaker 1: a look at this, this says the word core. There's

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Speaker 1: two lovely women getting a potassium you know I had.

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Speaker 1: My mom should be saying that. You know, maybe I

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Speaker 1: was cramped up. You know that helps with cramps. I

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Speaker 1: love fruit, damn. You know you could fix cramps. You

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Speaker 1: know you don't. Went to a dude's house about a

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean making sure you good silk? I

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Speaker 1: You know, well, actually this is random, This isn't even

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Speaker 1: her own condoms? Or would you judge a girl for

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Speaker 1: I mean? If we go with the bullshit, y'all. Oh,

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Speaker 1: so a girl who's fucking on the regular, who's pussy

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Speaker 1: It could, and two brushes can be your home. Girls

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Speaker 1: say that absolutely, Like I remember I was at the

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Speaker 1: girl's house and she handed me an open box of condoms.

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Speaker 1: I did get out of an open one that I

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Speaker 1: let me see the open box. But but you know,

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Speaker 1: it comes in like the little flap of three. So

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Speaker 1: but the judgment you don't want to have none and

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Speaker 1: then find out I don't know, it's not that I

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Speaker 1: that's not I will tell you this is scary because

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Speaker 1: years ago, when I first moved to New York, I

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Speaker 1: the next morning that was like, I could have sworn

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Speaker 1: I blame the podcast. We get them for free, you

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Speaker 1: into the gut damn icebreaker. It's gonna be really quick,

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Speaker 1: like a quick fire. So it's a mix of three

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Speaker 1: the first ones that this or that, and I just

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Speaker 1: need you to answer which which one of this or that?

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Speaker 1: So point star sex or passionate love making okay, titty

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Speaker 1: fuck or foot job okay, no, no foot job for you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, she got all right? Last month long

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Speaker 1: distance relationship or living together in a studio long distance relationship, Okay,

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Speaker 1: and you just don't want to be up onto somebody.

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Speaker 1: I literally saw him every day for two months straight.

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Speaker 1: I have a two bedroom and I don't want to studio.

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Speaker 1: It's not like you're living in Florida where it's bigger.

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Speaker 1: You got a big pattio and ship like that, No, dude,

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Speaker 1: That makes that's you know what the studio cannot slam

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Speaker 1: you can't do ship. So the next one is a hypothetical.

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Speaker 1: So this is would you rather would you rather eat

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Speaker 1: a girl out on her period? Wait? Look, or go

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Speaker 1: toilet paper yeah yeah? Over over blood? Yeah I'm not

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Speaker 1: eating Are you crazy? I mean you eat the clip,

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Speaker 1: clip part. I like everything, okay, but then you'll be

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Speaker 1: you know I'm not eating blood, But why do you

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Speaker 1: like you thought I was a bloody yeah, yeah, a period.

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Speaker 1: I know nigga that would do period? Want to know

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Speaker 1: this show has really ruined me, Like I've had period sex,

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Speaker 1: but wow, y'all niggas, don't give it up. It's really

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Speaker 1: your fault, Like what's my first? Of all, I only

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Speaker 1: have period sex with those who are down with it.

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Speaker 1: For example, let's say it's a new nigga, I'm my period.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, I wish we could work around it.

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Speaker 1: I'll be honest. I'll be honest. So the announcements in

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Speaker 1: the beginning of this show came from my first experience

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Speaker 1: arians fucking on my period. You didn't period? Yes, I

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Speaker 1: was on my period. I had a tampon, and I

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Speaker 1: He was like, you know if you go for a

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Speaker 1: athletes are watching the sports to really know. But I

424
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Speaker 1: am curious. Do you find the athletes have different kind

425
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Speaker 1: of semen like are they like more are they horny

426
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Speaker 1: or more? Like? What's there the level different? Ain't none

427
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Speaker 1: of them like my nigga now and my niggas had

428
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Speaker 1: a job job well, I mean, I mean question but

429
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Speaker 1: this they could be sucking me four times and comes everything.

430
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Speaker 1: What was the question I just asked you. I mean

431
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Speaker 1: I will say like it was good they got sam

432
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Speaker 1: because they work out, but they all yeah, but I

433
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Speaker 1: will say to they're definitely selfish fox. The majority of

434
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Speaker 1: them are selfish fox. Like when they come they'd be like, oh, okay, tired,

435
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Speaker 1: go to sleep. They're not into like giving you round

436
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Speaker 1: and keep going like they're really like all right, got

437
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Speaker 1: mine going to bed now and roll over and they

438
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Speaker 1: all got the same schedule. You gotta wake up, watch tape,

439
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Speaker 1: take a nap mid day. Then it's literally they're all

440
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Speaker 1: the same niggas just in different bodies. Wow, have I

441
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Speaker 1: only sucked one dayer? Maybe two one? And he was

442
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Speaker 1: the same with him, I know this is majority. Then

443
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Speaker 1: I wrote him this really long text message. I was like, hey, like,

444
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Speaker 1: you know, I care about you a lot. We're dating

445
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Speaker 1: ish and I was like, I just feel like maybe

446
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Speaker 1: you don't know when I come, but it's when I

447
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Speaker 1: say I'm coming. And I'm only telling you this because

448
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Speaker 1: I would really love it if you come first, that's fine,

449
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 1: but I just think that you forget that I'm there.

450
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: I don't like when niggas treat me like a whole. No,

451
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Speaker 1: it's exactly why only generally fun people that I care about. Like, sure,

452
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Speaker 1: I have my moments where maybe I'm into someone in

453
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Speaker 1: their chemistry, but I feel like if nigga don't give

454
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 1: a funk about me, he'll suck me like he doesn't.

455
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 1: Well that could be that's the thing with me. No

456
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 1: about like getting mine now, Like I really like when

457
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Speaker 1: men paid total attention to my body, Like I love

458
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Speaker 1: that ship because I'm a giver too, so like I

459
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 1: love when und and so I've like no, like I

460
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Speaker 1: told niggas now like in my older age, like these

461
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Speaker 1: last two three, three years in my older age, yeah,

462
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Speaker 1: like I'm still twenty nine. I mean I'm just saying

463
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Speaker 1: like in the last two or three years, like I

464
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Speaker 1: know I didn't now because he's known for like like

465
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Speaker 1: ten years now. Yeah, I was young and fair, I

466
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Speaker 1: know I don't do that. Oh yeah, nigga. Oh I

467
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Speaker 1: have niggas now Like like them niggas, they'd be like,

468
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Speaker 1: you were really advanced, um for what we were doing,

469
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Speaker 1: you were only that old. I definitely thought you at

470
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Speaker 1: least thirty two. No, I started early, um, but not

471
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Speaker 1: like like in the last couple of years. Like me

472
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Speaker 1: and new guys, I'll ask them what type of fucker

473
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Speaker 1: they are, Like you like rounds or you like to

474
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Speaker 1: go one time and be done. And if they said

475
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Speaker 1: they like to be one time and be done, either

476
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Speaker 1: tax them or just didn't get on a flight. I

477
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Speaker 1: think it depends on how much you like a girl.

478
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Speaker 1: You can go round, Like if you think you think

479
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Speaker 1: it's into that, yeah, Like if a guy's that into you,

480
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: like it's because he's turned on just by looking at you.

481
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But see it. There is

482
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Speaker 1: someone that I used to funk that it was just

483
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Speaker 1: like that, but it was really almost like a weird

484
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 1: obsessive thing with each other, like we just had too

485
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Speaker 1: good a sex. And you know, I don't like rounds.

486
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: I always say it on the show. I come really easy.

487
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Speaker 1: I'll come like. This is no compliment to any nig

488
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Speaker 1: It's just ridiculous how easy I come. If I wanted

489
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Speaker 1: to right now in these genes because they're a little

490
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 1: bit tight, I could suck the edge of this chair

491
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Speaker 1: and come like it's it's a blessing. A lot of

492
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: there's a lot of women that are jealous right now.

493
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: I feel bad sometimes because like I'm like, damn, like

494
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: I don't have to do anything, Like I want to

495
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:09,199
Speaker 1: go longer but I can't. But with dudes that I

496
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 1: can go round with, I agree with you. I think

497
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 1: it's because like I want them. So then let me

498
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: ask you this. Because we had let shoutout lex Pete

499
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Speaker 1: from pur Mines. She came on and said that she

500
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Speaker 1: likes sucking dick from a gum. Now, I normally don't

501
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: see soft dicks because I feel like niggas really want me,

502
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: so they'd be hard as soon as they bust out

503
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Speaker 1: their shorts, you know what I mean. So do you

504
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: believe that, Like can you really be into a girl

505
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Speaker 1: and not be hard, because if you said that a

506
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Speaker 1: man can go around someone, well it depends. Like if

507
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Speaker 1: we're in the chilling in you just want it right

508
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: now and I'm on the couch, like my dick is

509
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Speaker 1: not hard, just laying on the couch and man, that

510
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Speaker 1: day is with me. You just come down just like

511
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Speaker 1: okay if you want random dick, Like that's how I

512
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Speaker 1: know the guy, like chilling at home all day, like

513
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Speaker 1: after we don't watch a Netflix and I run to

514
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Speaker 1: your dick, like I don't expect it to be reight guard.

515
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Speaker 1: Sh'll do anyway she'll do. And that laying down on

516
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Speaker 1: the couch just with a hard dick is that's like

517
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Speaker 1: some weird Why is everything weird to you? Because it's like,

518
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 1: why are you just laying there with your dick hard?

519
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:13,959
Speaker 1: Because I'm hard. I'm just like this. It's like you

520
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Speaker 1: have to ask that why do I what's up with you?

521
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: Like why are you just laying there with you? It's

522
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 1: just because I'm there. Okay, you should be turned home

523
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: by me that your dick is gonna be hard. Honestly,

524
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 1: that's a lot of pressure for me. I need to

525
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: know it'll go down at some point, Like I will

526
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Speaker 1: tell you please put that thing away until this show

527
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: was over. I appreciate it. Give me. I think I'm

528
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: past them years though. Just sucking all day. I mean

529
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Speaker 1: all day. Like even if I go four rounds, we bust,

530
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Speaker 1: not four rounds in about an hour and six minutes.

531
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Speaker 1: Four n yeah, about an hour forty five minutes to

532
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Speaker 1: an hour. For think rounds are different things. Oh no,

533
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: my nigga comes, he's still hard. We're going again. He

534
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Speaker 1: comes again, he put it back in. We're going in it.

535
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Speaker 1: Nothing beat juice I talked about. You think it's just beat.

536
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Speaker 1: Ain't no nigga busting a nuts? Still hard? Let me

537
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: bust again? Like the body is not designed. I mean,

538
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: my dude can do it, but it's not all the time. Man.

539
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: Every time I'd be like, I say everything, he's on

540
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Speaker 1: something I hate. He's gonna beat juice. Man, beat? Is

541
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Speaker 1: this what you think this nigga is on? You're gonna

542
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Speaker 1: sit here and tell me this nigga that beat juice.

543
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let it. I'm gonna let him live because

544
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Speaker 1: it's like I don't know him, but can't celery juice

545
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Speaker 1: and work. They're a routine, get it. I know you

546
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Speaker 1: know he got a routine. He definitely has a routine.

547
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Speaker 1: You're missing the most point his routine. But he got water. Yeah,

548
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Speaker 1: for sure, for sure, Yo, chill. Anyways, we're gonna get

549
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Speaker 1: into our our hord Derve portion of the show. Our

550
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Speaker 1: hord Derve it is the sex tip that we give

551
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Speaker 1: and for this one, we are going to need you

552
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Speaker 1: to give us sex tips. Since you think everything's weird,

553
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Speaker 1: We're gonna ask you. I don't think everything's weird. Some ship, Well,

554
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Speaker 1: we're gonna come saving my comp us movie is weird, man,

555
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Speaker 1: I think. And apparently a dick a dick harder on

556
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Speaker 1: the couch is weird. It's just like fans that's not weird.

557
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Speaker 1: But the drinking and a man I told you, I

558
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Speaker 1: told I shared this story before I had a guy

559
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Speaker 1: ship in the league. Um, you still want me to

560
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Speaker 1: um squirt into a cup so you can mix it

561
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Speaker 1: with the rock and convinced that these niggas they don't

562
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Speaker 1: have anything else, and then they meet me and they're like,

563
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Speaker 1: in heaven, I really believe that. I believe the cup

564
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Speaker 1: everybody wants to suck them about. Then people approved it

565
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Speaker 1: was about to be a cocoa losto. But no, no, no,

566
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Speaker 1: we're not gonna don't do that. Don't do that. Don't

567
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: call that at coco loso. That's not fat king shaming.

568
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Speaker 1: If it's mine, y'all keep shaming me right now. No,

569
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Speaker 1: I'm not king shaming. It's just like a little why.

570
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Speaker 1: I just want to know why, because I taste good,

571
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Speaker 1: just like you think you taste good with the squirt

572
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Speaker 1: is urine. Though yes, no, no, there's remnants of it

573
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Speaker 1: like remnants of toilet paper. There's remnants of its warm

574
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Speaker 1: like piss. Right. Yeah, I don't know. It's be kind

575
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 1: of I mean it comes from your body. So yeah,

576
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: it's like room temperature. It ain't cold, but it ain't hot.

577
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Speaker 1: It's like room temperature. Okay, So for the hord dur

578
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Speaker 1: of this week, I wanted it's a hot. This actually

579
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Speaker 1: comes from one of our followers. He sent this over

580
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Speaker 1: to me, and it is sex tips during COVID. This

581
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Speaker 1: is actually posted on a government site which is crazy,

582
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Speaker 1: but they said, here are some ways to lower the

583
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Speaker 1: risk of being exposed to being exposed to COVID during

584
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Speaker 1: sex with others, because hey, ask your partner if they're

585
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Speaker 1: feeling unwell or have symptoms of COVID. Can honestly, can

586
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Speaker 1: I tell you worried about COVID? I would love to

587
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Speaker 1: just only catch COVID, like like, oh, you gotta mask,

588
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: no condom. You know it's crazy. When this started, so

589
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 1: and you know, I ain't no more. But we ended

590
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Speaker 1: up during quarantine getting back in contact, and he was,

591
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Speaker 1: you know, wanted me to catch that nut. That's I

592
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: told you. That's how we talked. So he like we

593
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: started talking sex, like about sex, and I wasn't sucking

594
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: when this is when I was absent it and so

595
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, what sut up? I was? After that?

596
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: You pus the asshole? Let me finish. So anyway, I

597
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: asked him, I was like, okay, well I'm down a

598
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Speaker 1: link with you. I haven't really been around anyone. You

599
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: don't have any symptoms or anything. He added, like I

600
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Speaker 1: asked me if he had a fucking outbreak. He was like, oh,

601
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Speaker 1: du I got symptoms? Oh yeah, because I'm gonna have

602
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Speaker 1: you come over and I'm coughing like and he called

603
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Speaker 1: a whole attitude because I asked him if he was

604
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Speaker 1: if he had any symptoms of COVID. So because of that,

605
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, they can see. That's why

606
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: we ain't sucking no more, because you're catching the attitude

607
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: because I'm just asking you if you have symptoms of

608
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Speaker 1: sucking COVID question. It's a valid question, right. He took

609
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Speaker 1: a fit to it, like I was a you go

610
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Speaker 1: to the studio, bro, you know what I mean. So,

611
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Speaker 1: before and after sex, here's what you should do. Wash

612
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Speaker 1: your body with soap and water. No ship, that's for

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Speaker 1: our twenty seven white listeners. Guys, wash your hands with

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Speaker 1: do not share toys with multiple partners. Where a faith

618
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Speaker 1: covering mask, heavy breathing during sex can create more droplets

619
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Speaker 1: than trans it literally says this. No, it says that

620
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Speaker 1: has sex with a mask on. I'm not gonna lie. However,

621
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Speaker 1: there's porn, but I think it's because they'd be in

622
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Speaker 1: the trade. They may be wearing a little ski mask. Okay,

623
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Speaker 1: the ski masks is because that want some dick. That's

624
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Speaker 1: all that ship is. That ship's annoying. However, the COVID

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626
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Speaker 1: like sucking dick through masks, having dudes come over like

627
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Speaker 1: with the glass. How are you sucking addict through a mask?

628
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Speaker 1: They just put a little hole in it. Just it's

629
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Speaker 1: not it's not a mask anymore. Well, I appreciate it

630
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Speaker 1: reminds you to put it on, but also why are

631
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Speaker 1: you The other one is to avoid or limit kissing

632
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Speaker 1: and slive exchange was it's just like, okay, I used

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Speaker 1: to not kiss daring sex, so that one was okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm still not big on that. You're something big on that?

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Speaker 1: Why I just gotta I really like you. We're kissing

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Speaker 1: during sex. I really I ain't gonna lie. Just here's

637
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Speaker 1: my tip to you. If you're going handle six like

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Speaker 1: I talked about in the beginning of the show, if

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Speaker 1: you kiss it like opens the buddahole a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: I think, because I just feel more relaxed when I'm kissing,

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Speaker 1: So kiss the bit you give you put your dick

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Speaker 1: in her ass? Okay, next one, next one. This is

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Speaker 1: my favorite, and this may not be your favorite. But

644
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Speaker 1: that saying no missionaria, that's my guys. Do it from

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647
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Speaker 1: How would you don't like kids in? Oh no, I've

648
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Speaker 1: talked my ship. That's when I get my shirt off face.

649
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Speaker 1: But I like a good like oh wait, holo, wait

650
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Speaker 1: we did it last week with Orlando. Can can we

651
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Speaker 1: get you to go through what you talked? How you

652
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Speaker 1: I would have to. But here's a good one. If

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Speaker 1: two bitches met up right and they was talking about

656
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Speaker 1: how you wasn't ship, and they were like, well, wait,

657
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Speaker 1: prove to me you fuck him? What would be your line?

658
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Speaker 1: What's your line in the bed? Um? Probably shut the

659
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Speaker 1: funk up? But you don't like stop screaming, so that

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Speaker 1: you know it's evidence. I think that we should check

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Speaker 1: for science. I like that. Well, this next tip again, guys,

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Speaker 1: Have you ever done a glory hope of pomo? What?

671
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Speaker 1: I know it's white people ship, but still no, I've

672
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: never done a glory hole? It would you do it?

673
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Speaker 1: Like if you walked into a bitch house she just

674
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Speaker 1: had a hole in her door. You can't even finish

675
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: asking you that, like the type. And then had a

676
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Speaker 1: fucking dream that I was like in the glory hole

677
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Speaker 1: at the soccer stadium, bitch, let me tell you something.

678
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: I woke up and I was like, I have to

679
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Speaker 1: stop doing this podcast. My mind is going too far.

680
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Speaker 1: How the fun I end up doing a glory hole?

681
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Speaker 1: So you did? You did a glory in my dream? Bitch? Real? Like?

682
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Speaker 1: I woke up it like a mouth was open. It

683
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Speaker 1: was one of them nice you got drunk and thought

684
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Speaker 1: you did it like I may destroy you. There was

685
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Speaker 1: a flash you really did a glory hole, bitch, Oh

686
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Speaker 1: my god, really did one. It was like a celebratory

687
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Speaker 1: glory hole for the Orlando City So you was sucking

688
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Speaker 1: a socker. I don't know. It was so vivid. I

689
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: don't remember a lot of dreams, but I just remember

690
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Speaker 1: waking up and I was like, oh my god, Like

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Speaker 1: what the fund was I thinking? And I had an

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Speaker 1: ambient Well, you know, you know a lot of people.

693
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna ask you if you have or have

694
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 1: not ever slept with a porn star, but like they

695
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: do that type of stuff in porn. If have you

696
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: ever been with a woman who has been so sexually

697
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Speaker 1: advanced that she asked you for something that you were like, Okay,

698
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Speaker 1: this isn't normal. Fucking what would be? What would consist

699
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 1: of something that's not normal to you? I mean it's

700
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Speaker 1: not if I like the girl, if I'm not attracted

701
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Speaker 1: to it. I mean, I'm willing to try a lot

702
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: of ship, just not like I'm not gonna go to left,

703
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: like what's to left? Like I'm not doing no Gloriole ship. Yeah,

704
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: you're definitely not playing with my ask. I'm not doing

705
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Speaker 1: You can lick my ask, but you're not sticking hing

706
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Speaker 1: in my ask me. Okay, so let me ask you.

707
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: Because I just came across this porn right because it's

708
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: quarantine and I'm like shoot out and seen everything. Came

709
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: across this new one and I posted it on Patreon.

710
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: How would you feel a little girl asked you. She

711
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 1: didn't want to peg you, but she asked you if

712
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: you would suck her while she wore her strap on.

713
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: We're not doing that. No, it looks like somebody it

714
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: looked like so much fun. Look, that's that's like if

715
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: she got a dildo swinging like I'm not it's not

716
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: technically swinging. It might just be jumping because I'm if

717
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 1: I'm on my back. Yeah, I don't need to see that.

718
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: Maybe I want to stroke my my lost strap. I'm

719
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: not into that. I don't. I don't want another Well,

720
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Speaker 1: I think there is not because when I watched trans

721
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: girl porn, it's only when they fucked couples, and so

722
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: I feel like if I did it, i'd probably be

723
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: like thinking about that might turn me onto, but I'm disgusting. Wait,

724
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: so let me ask you. Let me just see what's

725
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: going on. Out here, So it is guys that will

726
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: let you put your strap on. I haven't done it yet.

727
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 1: I just saw it on porn. I had never thought

728
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: to be like you know, of course I've asked niggas

729
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: to bend them over and use it on them, but

730
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: I've never asked the guy. So I know you don't

731
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,479
Speaker 1: want me to peg you, but can I still wear

732
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: my strap while you fuck me? I haven't asked them yet.

733
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: I just literally came across and I was like, I

734
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: got wet. I was like, what you do? Like I'm

735
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: a little moist watching this. Yeah, like even the girl

736
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: on the porn and she was I put it on

737
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: the Patreon, bitch, But that's different for you to be

738
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: turned on by that, Like you know what I say

739
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: you did in my notes, that's how good it was.

740
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, this is kind of well.

741
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: While you're pulling it up, I will tell you all.

742
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: Before I got to the studio, I was masturbating and

743
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 1: I could not come And I'm starting to freak out

744
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: because I think I've run out of porn. Now. I

745
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: only like watching you watch everything well, like I like,

746
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: come on a girl's face when she's getting sucked very particularly,

747
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: very weird. I understand. I have seen all of the

748
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: clips Nigga's compile them. You know, they call it a

749
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: compilation in whatever. I love the compilations. I'm legit running

750
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: out and I was trying to masturbate, and I was like,

751
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: oh my god, I know this is gonna end. And

752
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: I could not come. I risked sucking hearts. I can't

753
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: use my readers. I don't like it. Now. Yeah, that's

754
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: all right, So we're gonna play I need a new

755
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: thing to be obsessed with. We're gonna play just a

756
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 1: little bit of the audio, guys, from this, Okay, so this, Yeah,

757
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: just so you can see what's going on. What. No,

758
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: it's not no, it's not it's it's a come on.

759
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 1: I just want you to see. Well, I'm just like

760
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 1: talking about it. Yeah, yeah, and she talks. She'd be like, oh,

761
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: stroke my struck, my dick. Oh it's a black dick. Yeah,

762
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: white people are assessed. I just want to tell you, guys,

763
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: it's a girl. And then she's like, do you see

764
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: how hard I am she did it? She just said it. Okay,

765
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: you were right, the dick is just flopping. We're not

766
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 1: doing that. You can't do that while I'm in the

767
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: bedroom is crazy. So I love it. I love it. Anyways,

768
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: I came hardest to this ship and I was like, damn,

769
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: I ain't ever thought of this one. So I thought

770
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 1: of that either. So anyways, we know we're gonna leave

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00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: you with Hord derv. So can you give a sex

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Speaker 1: tip to our audience from your malism? A sex tip? Um,

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Speaker 1: A sex tip, whether it be something that you think

774
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Speaker 1: women always commend you on that you do well, whether

775
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: it be something maybe you've noticed that started working better

776
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: for you and you tried it, whatever, And it doesn't

777
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: necessarily I would even have to be sex. It could

778
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: be leading up to sex. It could be chatting, either

779
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Speaker 1: a tip that you have for women to do the

780
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: men or a tip that you have for men um.

781
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 1: I noticed that when I and meeting a woman, you

782
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: kind of know when she's ready to have sex with

783
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 1: you just by conversation, the way she looks at you.

784
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: You know, just in you could just tell when somebody

785
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: is just physically attracted to you and the chemistry is there.

786
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: But I find that when you don't act on it

787
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: right away, like you just let it like just sitfull

788
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 1: for a while like, don't do that. I hate when

789
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:07,959
Speaker 1: he is play hard to get. No, it's not about

790
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: playing male being the pursuer, right, Yeah, it's kind of

791
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: like you know, I mean just let it, like because

792
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: sometimes I enjoy the fact that I know she would

793
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: have sexually, but I don't act on it all the time.

794
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: Do you like when women have to ask you for dick?

795
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: I laugh at it. It's funny. I like my movement aggressive,

796
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 1: like it's like I like that side of a woman.

797
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,760
Speaker 1: I've always wondered that with men, because like, I feel

798
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 1: like when I've fucked with dudes that and I would

799
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 1: say you're one of them, whether they'd be high up

800
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: a social ladder, financially whatever, or just like a cool

801
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: lass nigked. I've noticed they pushed me the least. I

802
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: feel like just the everyday dude is a little more

803
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: thirsty for me. But I've always wondered how those men feel,

804
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,720
Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm the one who's asking for sex,

805
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: like can you come over tonight, or like asking them

806
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: me or telling them to bring condoms or whatever. I

807
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: always feel like I'm that person, and I'd be like,

808
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: I sucking horror. I think sex is better when it's spontaneous,

809
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: like when you don't know what's gonna happen. I think

810
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: I like the lead up. I like to also know,

811
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: like I'm asking you all the freaky things we can do.

812
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 1: So I'm excited knowing that now we can act on

813
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: the things that we talked about, the irony of Mandy

814
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 1: saying this, I want to hold this clip. That's fine

815
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: because whenever I have threesoms and I planned them, she's like, no.

816
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: But planning threesomes is different because I don't planning set.

817
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: But I don't enjoy threesomes. So even the spontaneity of it,

818
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm either drunk, I'm with a girl, I've already funcked.

819
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: I would like I don't plan threesomes. I don't like

820
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 1: three sums. But it's still I've never had a threesome.

821
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: I remember you saying yeah, So to me, the spontaneitia

822
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 1: of a threesome or having a threesome, it's just something

823
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: that comes up or it's cool or fun, but I

824
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Speaker 1: don't I don't care for them. Why do you think

825
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: you haven't had a threesome yet? I was never really

826
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: into it. I never shot four threesome like that, like

827
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure I could have had plenty of them if

828
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Speaker 1: I wanted to, but I just never Why do you

829
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Speaker 1: say it could have like your life's over. No, I'm

830
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I haven't had one yet. I could.

831
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: I've had the opportunity to have. I know when I've

832
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: been around a group of women and I could take

833
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,240
Speaker 1: two of them home if I want to. What stops

834
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: you from doing it? Because everyone I just I don't know.

835
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: I just was never really it was. It wasn't something

836
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: that I was ever really into, you know what I'm saying,

837
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 1: Like just I just was never really into it. It It

838
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: wasn't the thing that I was like, I gotta get

839
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: two women at the same even it just wasn't my thing.

840
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 1: Even the partner that I have now, Like we've been

841
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,760
Speaker 1: talking about possibly going to a sex club and stuff

842
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: like that, and we've talked about three SOMs and I

843
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 1: told him up front I'm not really into it, and

844
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: he was like, well, then why would we want to?

845
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: Would we even have one? I want you to enjoy

846
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: yourself too, but I'm also just very much a pleaser.

847
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: So I feel like when I've had the three sims,

848
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: like with guys, it's because I'm pleasing them and I

849
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 1: know that that's what they want. But wait, you've had it.

850
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: I'm not a whole bunch of three two guys and

851
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: you Yeah, I've had that too. I've had that too.

852
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 1: That was cool. I like that, and that's what I

853
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: told my nigga. Now, I was like, I ain't gonna

854
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: hold you. I have more fun doing that because yeah,

855
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I like penetrate. You will be the only

856
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: dick in the room from now. Well, So I told

857
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 1: him if we got to the sex club, I'm cool

858
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 1: him fucking someone else, like if he just wants to

859
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 1: have sex with other But me being wrong, I don't

860
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: really Why do you think that you had it when

861
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 1: you were younger and you wouldn't have it as older

862
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: at whatever I wish I wish. Um. You know, when

863
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 1: you're younger, it's different. Like when you're a younger guy,

864
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 1: you're in uh, your objective is to come right, Like

865
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: you get dressed, you wanna go to the club and

866
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: meet a girl you want to bring back home. You

867
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: want to come to your life rolls around. I'm gonna

868
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: get a hair cutting, them come like you know what

869
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's like that's just what it is when

870
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: you're younger, dude. Um. But as you get older, man,

871
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 1: you just thought that it's like a lot of ship.

872
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: I look back on that I did when I was

873
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: younger sexually, and you start to feel like, y'all, I

874
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: was a PC. Why did I do that to that girl? Like, oh,

875
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: why did we do that to that girl? You know

876
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's like you really start to think

877
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: like even though she was with, it was always consenting,

878
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: like I want to suck you and your boy, and

879
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: it's like we're like, yo, we're taking her back to

880
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: the crib. When you're younger, Yeah, but it's like when

881
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: you get older and you think about it, you like

882
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: that wasn't right, you know what I'm saying. We should

883
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: like that, Like you know, I mean, it's like, so

884
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm at that point where it's just like I don't

885
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to do like if a girl is

886
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: into me and my homeboy, it's like your fam you

887
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: got it, Like y'all go do your thing. Like I'm

888
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: just not I'm not into that type of ship. No,

889
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: more like I don't I want to be the only

890
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 1: dick in the room. Yeah, I think though the older

891
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: that people get generally if they're over that phase or

892
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,280
Speaker 1: like even girls too, like whether we run into trains,

893
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: because to me, train is like when it's like swapping

894
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: in and out of the room versus three soome with

895
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: two men. I don't think two guys is a train

896
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: on a woman. Um, I think you don't think two

897
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: guys is a train. It's you think a train is

898
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 1: the act of like the swapping in and in and out,

899
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: like like someone leaving thee. But I think that the

900
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: older we get, those things aren't as attractive because like

901
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: we more so know exactly what we want, and so

902
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: you feel like if there's more people included, probably like

903
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: the thing with the threesome for you, you you you said

904
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: you don't get enough dick during a three It's like

905
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: you know exactly what's going to get you off, and

906
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: too many people just confuse it. I love having three

907
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: stoms because I love pussy, but at the same time

908
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 1: I'll just be like, oh funk, well, I don't know

909
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: this bit, and what if I can't come because it

910
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: gets weird. Threesomes are so much like work. There's a

911
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of legs, Like who's gonna suck

912
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: dick this way, blah blah blah blah. I also don't

913
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: like when we're now in they dicks, same dick sucking speed.

914
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm a champion, but beep toting my horn. Um,

915
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,439
Speaker 1: I do a very good job. And I just really

916
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,240
Speaker 1: don't like when you know, some women sucked it almost

917
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: as if like they learned it somewhere and you're watching

918
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: them do it like a routine, like with hand. I

919
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: hate that. I hate the aggressive dick sucker, Like it's

920
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: like you could tell she saw that somewhere, right, yeah,

921
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: but yeah, but you don't know how she feels, how

922
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: she's doing it. You're just seeing the action. You don't

923
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: know how soft she's doing it, how tight she's gripped me.

924
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: You you know what I'm saying. It's like you just

925
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: trying to rip my dick off my stomach, and that's

926
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: it's attached to me. That's not going nowhere, like you

927
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: jerking me too hard with threesomes. Bitches will try to

928
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: outdo you with the dick suck, with this wild aggressive

929
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: ship and it's like, bro, like as much spit is

930
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: on there, like can you even feel your mouth anymore?

931
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: Like take some time to like get into it, like

932
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: at least let it get deeper in your throat before

933
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: all of that happened. Don't just come out the gate

934
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: before your mouth is on it. Don't get before it's

935
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: in there. It's like a weird ship. Keep it. I

936
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: like it, sloppy, Keep it. That's the kind of thing

937
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: your fingers or whatever. But I think that the problem

938
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: with sloppy head that a lot of girls don't also

939
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: get is that also takes grip right, much like a

940
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: pussy that's too wet. Everyone likes a little bit of friction,

941
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: just like women. We like to feel what's going inside

942
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 1: of us. If I can't feel my I would assume

943
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: I dick going in your mouth. Grip is the key

944
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: with sloppy head. You right, you don't have grip, And

945
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,800
Speaker 1: I mean that whether you're it's your mouth or your hands,

946
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: you're fucking taking else. You can't just make a dick

947
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: sloppy and think it's gonna work. You have to have

948
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: some fucking effort in there, because at the end of

949
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: the day, it's a fucking blow job because your mouth

950
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: is on it. Stop trying to do all this extra

951
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 1: ship that you learn something extra is good. I'm about

952
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: to say I'll be extras, like slap my dick on

953
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 1: your face. I like that. I do that, I put

954
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: it on. I do that, and then I go down

955
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: for the balls. I do the balls. I do a

956
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 1: whole little thing where I might be eating the as,

957
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: rubbing the knuckles on the balls, and doing a hand

958
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: job at the same time. The Amazon that's the Amazon

959
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: Prime right there. Bring it right to your door. Listen,

960
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: you got it. That's how you do it. So you're

961
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: just moving a little knuck like make sure your thumb

962
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: is wet so it's got the balls going. You eating

963
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: the ask and then you spit on the dick and

964
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 1: jack at the same time. It's a lot of work,

965
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 1: but it's beautiful. Also, like wanting to explore that is

966
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: the other thing, right well, I wanted to explore what

967
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: the buddle, right Like, if you're like into sucking dick,

968
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: you don't look as Yeah, I'm saying, like wanting to

969
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: explore ship like that. I feel like when I'm talking

970
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: about the aggressive head and extra ship, sometimes it seems

971
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: like vis just have no idea what they're doing. They

972
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: just think you're gonna like it. But when a bitch

973
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: loves sucking dick, it's probably gonna So here's the thing.

974
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: I enjoy sucking it. But I'm also a size queen.

975
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: So my jaw, especially since I had my fucking two

976
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: wisdom teeth removed, my mouth is different. So it's not

977
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 1: eating like it used to because my ship, like I

978
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 1: don't know, it's different. So like, my mouth just hurts quick.

979
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: What do you think if you're not now is it? Oh,

980
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: it's still up there because I do a whole bunch

981
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: of extra ship. But it's like, but my mouth hurts

982
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: quicker now. So to me, if you're dealing with a

983
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: big sized dick, to go and do all the extra stuff, like,

984
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: to me, just works in it gives your mouth a

985
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: break when I need a break, let me just tell

986
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: you what you do. Ladies. Okay, if you feel like

987
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: he doesn't want you to stop sucking dick but you

988
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: need a break, I like look up at him and

989
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, I want you inside

990
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: of me so fucking bad. I can't wait. Please suck me.

991
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: We start talking, where do you want to come? Do

992
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: you want to come in my mouth? You're like, yeah,

993
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,760
Speaker 1: well you know, Okay, Well he just has to look hungry.

994
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's like you really need dick badly,

995
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: like if you haven't had a meal with Please, we

996
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: are going to get off of sex just for a

997
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: little bit. This you did a little bit? No no, no,

998
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: no no. Yeah. Well I think that this is interesting.

999
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: I saw kind of a conversation about it. So the

1000
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: horrible decision for this week is letting go and moving on.

1001
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: So the conversation stems from a friend of mine being

1002
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 1: really happy in their relationship and creating a family and

1003
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: moving forward, but feel some type of way about who

1004
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 1: their X is now dating. And so I wanted to

1005
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: know that when you get into a new relationship, is

1006
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,439
Speaker 1: it okay to be concerned about what or who your

1007
00:48:56,480 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: ex is doing if you're technically happy in this new relationship. No,

1008
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: that's not okay. Why are you still concerned about what

1009
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: your doing? I would literally kill my nigga if I

1010
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 1: had him come home and tell me he was mad

1011
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 1: about his ex dating whoever the fun it was? So

1012
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: when do you when do you know then when you're

1013
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: over that other person? Because just because you hop into

1014
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: a new relationship doesn't necessarily mean you're over who you

1015
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 1: were before, so you're still thinking about and that's concerning

1016
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: you with a dating you're not over that person. Also

1017
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: couldn't mean that they just may be a generally each

1018
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: other as person. That's true, you know, because some people

1019
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: just have that energy they're just gonna feel as like

1020
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: they could be happy. But you can't be happy either.

1021
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: You know, you can't be happy to you're always there

1022
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 1: and you're always like men have that thought process, you

1023
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: do you think when I but I know women have

1024
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: that ship. I didn't know that you So you're telling

1025
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: me you never had a home girl that had a

1026
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 1: whole new nigga and still send you his ex ex news.

1027
00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm talking about it. But what I'm

1028
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: talking about as far as not getting over, I'm talking

1029
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: about though, like I don't know women to feel like

1030
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: a dick is there's forever, Like I feel like we

1031
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: unattached once we off you Like women have women women

1032
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: in my phone that are like committed, they're in relationships

1033
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: and they text me from time to time to let

1034
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: me know that my dick will always be there. I

1035
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: laugh because I'm just like, okay, whatever, I'll let you

1036
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: feel up with. I've been saying like that, but I

1037
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: don't mean it. But no, because if if you say

1038
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: your dick is always mine, if you hit that person up,

1039
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: you feel like you would be able to get their

1040
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: dick right and vice versa, like normally, can you would

1041
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: you these women? I don't know. I don't. I don't

1042
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: women have boyfriends. I don't because niggas will kill you. Yeah,

1043
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 1: how do you know it's not open? No, I don't know.

1044
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: Time's over, stay away from that man, I don't. I

1045
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: don't know. It's a new time because I don't like

1046
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: dudes with girlfriends either. Well, men's ego. I don't like

1047
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: men's The man's egos too fragile, like he'll do things

1048
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: because like okay, so like example, not to make it dark,

1049
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 1: like a man will if his wife or whatever girlfriend

1050
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,919
Speaker 1: cheats on him, like we've seen this, like he will

1051
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:15,399
Speaker 1: kill her, the dude and himself. But do you feel

1052
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: like it's a lifetime? White people say, but it happens

1053
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: though dating though you don't feel like you've seen more

1054
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:26,240
Speaker 1: people talk about their openness and like polyamory being openly,

1055
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: that's that's cool. But I think that I would have

1056
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: to be on that too, Like I would have to

1057
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 1: be willing to do that to you, Like, I'm not

1058
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: going to just be the side dick because on if

1059
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 1: I had a girlfriend, you know, you never cheated. Like

1060
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: if you're my girlfriend, I never cheated. That's why you

1061
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: ain't never in a relationship. Never. Just it's not that

1062
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 1: I'm just never in a relationship, well because I don't

1063
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: jump in and out of relationships like I like. I like,

1064
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: I'm a guy that likes his space. I like to

1065
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: be able to move around, and honestly, I'm cool with

1066
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 1: so many women that a lot of women can't handle that,

1067
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: Like this woman I hang out with all the time

1068
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: that like, people think that me and you have sucked

1069
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 1: because people think me and Joe were dating right now.

1070
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 1: I can't. But it's because I'm always around women, so

1071
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:16,919
Speaker 1: they just like women that I assume that, oh yeah,

1072
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: you're around her, she's cute. I started with somebody like

1073
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,799
Speaker 1: when I'm out with my friends and I tag them

1074
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: and I post them, I would say, maybe chance, I'm

1075
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: not sashing. But when I don't post money again, you

1076
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: just see food on the table or nothing at all.

1077
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: I definitely wanted second thing. Yeah, oh you mentioned uh something?

1078
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 1: What was it about like the X and the Is

1079
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: this basically her telling her partner or just telling you,

1080
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 1: just telling me? Okay, yeah, I don't think she said so.

1081
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: Then I wanted to ask you, when do you know

1082
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 1: you're finally over someone? How do you know you're alway

1083
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 1: stop clicking on their page and ship? Yeah, when you

1084
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: stopped thinking about them, and you know, you go, see

1085
00:52:58,080 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 1: that's hard. A lot of my niggas don't have social media.

1086
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: Oh that's that's like, there's not like it's more of

1087
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: a it's not even an out of sight, out of

1088
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,760
Speaker 1: mind because they've never had social media. When I'm really

1089
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: like trying to have a hard time, having a hard

1090
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,399
Speaker 1: time getting over someone, I find myself wanting to reach

1091
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: out to them when things are funny, when milestones happen, Thanksgiving, Christmas,

1092
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: fucking New Year's Birthday. I like I'm crafting text messages

1093
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: that are flirty or had a reel them back in,

1094
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: like things like that, when that ship is not even

1095
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: a thought to you, you're over them. Yeah, So it's

1096
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 1: like you don't even think about that person. That's where

1097
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm at right now. I know that you're over to

1098
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 1: someone when you know they're good looking, and even though

1099
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: they're good looking, you don't want to suck Nah, that's

1100
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 1: what a god, that's where that's what I'm over. Yeah,

1101
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 1: would I'll be like, Okay, yeah, he good looking, but

1102
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to suck his dick. That's how I

1103
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: know I'm over the niggadi. He's like, my god, damn,

1104
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: you find a fun all right? Keep you Like, I

1105
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: don't girls in your phone they feel like they could

1106
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,799
Speaker 1: fuck you. I don't really feel like there's anyone I'm

1107
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: sucked in the last few years that wouldn't suck me

1108
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: if I tried to. Right now, No, I know I

1109
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: can still fun, but I'm saying that's how I know.

1110
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 1: I mean when that's just to prove your point that

1111
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 1: it is really too thick. Because there's not one nigga

1112
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: in my phone I would say, all right, since I've

1113
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: moved to New York, maybe not like Orlando times, but

1114
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: I don't think there's one that if I was like,

1115
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: are you busy tonight, and they would write back if

1116
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: they were busy, Because I don't really end on bad

1117
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 1: terms for one. And there's truly a reason that I

1118
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: fuck the niggas that I do. Right, there's a chemistry there,

1119
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: there's a good i'd say rapport to where like if

1120
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 1: I really asked them for sex, I believe they would

1121
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: think about on those times. I haven't asked someone for

1122
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: dick once and they've denied me of it that I

1123
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: used to vote, I just can't see them doing that.

1124
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:50,760
Speaker 1: Need to be honest, if I didn't have a nigga,

1125
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: I would do this. I'm having a great time turning

1126
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 1: dig down right now. I'm loving it, Like, but you

1127
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,959
Speaker 1: have to travel for it. So if I don't still

1128
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: saying no, okay, I'm saying no to two bags, I'm

1129
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: saying no to cash. I'm like, I'm gonna have a

1130
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: way for now, so we'll see. I'm changing that way

1131
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,760
Speaker 1: of my thinking because I feel like in the beginning,

1132
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: like oh my god, no other dick. But now that

1133
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: I know you're going to be in my life for

1134
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: a long time, kids, marriage, so that's what that's what

1135
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: you'll You'll own that like kids and talk about plans, lives, money, finances,

1136
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: type of house we want about all that ship you

1137
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: know that don't know, Like that's it. Now I can

1138
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: look at other people as sexual encounters opposed to before

1139
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,720
Speaker 1: when the feelings were too new. I was like, oh,

1140
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: I really couldn't even understand that concept because I am

1141
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,720
Speaker 1: so emotional. But now that I'm secure, yeah, I feel

1142
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: like want security. Yes, I believe that's why the ring

1143
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,840
Speaker 1: is a lot for some women. I used to always

1144
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 1: think that ship was dumb when I was younger, like

1145
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: this bitch thing she got it all because she got

1146
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 1: a ring. But a ring doesn't mean security either, because

1147
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: clearly doesn't, but a lot. But to me, it's a

1148
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: false sense of security. I'm saying in general, but I

1149
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:03,959
Speaker 1: mean it's not for me because I'm If you're still

1150
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 1: saying that a ring to a lot of people is security,

1151
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that's a false sense of security

1152
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: because just because you have a ring with a guy

1153
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: doesn't mean it's secure, the same way a baby doesn't

1154
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: mean you're secure. I still don't believe that. I believe

1155
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 1: maybe she just want to know that you separated me

1156
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 1: from the rest of these womens. It doesn't mean that

1157
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: he's never gonna another woman, But to a lot of people,

1158
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 1: that's what that security means. I'm not talking about that.

1159
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: It just means like, yo, okay, I am the one. Yeah,

1160
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: I am this is we're gonna have a We have

1161
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:36,879
Speaker 1: a ton of people in divorce, we have a whole

1162
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: lot of people have become single parents. Don't feel sure

1163
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: that's a communication and really knowing your partner. I don't

1164
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: think a ring solidifies I don't think a house solidifies that.

1165
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: I don't think a baby solidifies it. You knowing your

1166
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: partner fully in their full intentions and having that open

1167
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: communication is the only way I feel like you could

1168
00:56:55,600 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: truly be secure. And realistically, motherfucker's lie and motherfucker's are manipulated,

1169
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: so you can never be secured. I mean, I do

1170
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: think that that's the case. Like, I don't think that

1171
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 1: a ring necessarily mean you're not I'm just saying I

1172
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: understand how a ring is that moment because for myself,

1173
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:15,359
Speaker 1: these conversations I've had and the depth of it, I'm like, oh,

1174
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: you are my person. I don't need to ring, but

1175
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: that has let me know I'm secure. I know that

1176
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 1: you're for me. Doesn't make me feel like you don't

1177
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: want to bitch That nigga is riding his bike right now,

1178
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: see some cue. Bet Yeah, you're saying though what I

1179
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: just said, you had a deep conversation, so you feel secure.

1180
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: That's all I'm thinking that the people that think a

1181
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: range means anything more than just a ring, to me,

1182
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: I think that's a false sense of security. You know what.

1183
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 1: For me, I look at it like this, If I'm

1184
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: gonna be with a woman, like I want to feel like,

1185
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: I feel like we need to be like friends first,

1186
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: Like I need to feel like you're my best friend,

1187
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: like you my homie, like and you don't never want

1188
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: to do nothing to betray your homie, even if it's

1189
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: like my homeboy, like my my niggas right, Like I

1190
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: would never do nothing to betray my niggas. I would

1191
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 1: never like be this loyal to my niggas. So I

1192
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: feel like men, we got to get to a point

1193
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: with women where you build that friendship first, Like y'all

1194
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: hang out, y'all do y'all travel. Yeah, but it's like, Yo,

1195
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: this is my dog, Like I'm never gonna do nothing

1196
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: to be disloyal to my my my friend, you know

1197
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like my best So your woman has

1198
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: to be like your best friends and and vice versus.

1199
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 1: So once you get to that point where it's like, yo,

1200
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: we could look at women together but you know I

1201
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: would never do nothing to come between us. It ain't

1202
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: gonna be no disloyalty, no dishonesty, Like it's not gonna

1203
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: be there. What does security mean to anybody? Right? Like

1204
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: for you? How what would make what's secured in your relationship?

1205
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: For me? For example, security means like we're in this

1206
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: for the long haul and we're not seeking other partners,

1207
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: like for like lifetime partners, like that's it on some

1208
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: real Jada ship like not as deep. Of course I

1209
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: don't have that many years. But I'm saying, like the

1210
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: way that they talk about their relationship is like, oh,

1211
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: I know you're for me. We're gonna we're gonna be

1212
00:58:55,960 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: friends forever even if we're not together. Second, see, ain't

1213
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: even gonna hold you. No, there's niggas that I've been

1214
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: too in love with that for whatever reason, it didn't

1215
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: work for us to be together. And they tried to

1216
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:09,920
Speaker 1: pull that ships on me, and I said, like, if

1217
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: I can't have you in the way I want. We

1218
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: just had this conversation with the guy who said we

1219
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: stop stop hitting me. It's not I'm protecting my heart.

1220
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: I don't want you as just a friend. If I

1221
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 1: want you as a partner or a lover or something

1222
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: is more. You're not gonna sit here and be like, well,

1223
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 1: this is all I got to give you, so take

1224
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: it a leap. And so to me, I would rather

1225
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: me personally if you hit me with the well, you know,

1226
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 1: I think we could be friends. Though we could vote

1227
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 1: from town to town, we could. I want you as more.

1228
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: My feelings for you run deep. I care for you

1229
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 1: now more than I feel like you care for me.

1230
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: So because we're not on the same page, I would

1231
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 1: rather close that book and keep it pushing. So for context,

1232
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: we had an episode a few weeks ago called right person,

1233
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: Wrong Time, and I had somebody that I loved loved

1234
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 1: me too, but I couldn't give him what he wanted.

1235
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:54,919
Speaker 1: He didn't want me to see other people. He wasn't

1236
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 1: into that. He was just we were not ideal partners.

1237
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: And we started talking again, just checking up on each

1238
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 1: other whatever, and like he was like, I can't handle this,

1239
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: Like if you can't give me what I'm looking for,

1240
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: if you can't be with me, I can't. I'm always

1241
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 1: in a root for you, but I can't be on

1242
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: the front row watching And I agree, this is not

1243
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: like who I am. That's not the type of nigger

1244
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: I am. It's not gonna work for me. And so

1245
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: for me friendship, I agree, like I don't need to

1246
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: hit you up all the time, but knowing that, like

1247
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: I can get nothing from you, that's very hard for man,

1248
01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: you're taking updated in my motherfucking phone if you don't

1249
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: get the funk out. Okay. So for me it's like this,

1250
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: like I look at it like, okay, you can you

1251
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 1: can meet a woman like I'll meet a woman, and

1252
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm big on building a type of

1253
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: friendship with her first, like filling out as a person,

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01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: just seeing if I can tolerate because I'm can be

1255
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: attracted to a bunch of women, but can I tolerate

1256
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:45,960
Speaker 1: being around you? Can we get each other's jokes? Can

1257
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: we like look at each other in a room full

1258
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 1: of people and know what we're thinking? Like that type

1259
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: of ship. And I feel like, you know, if it

1260
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 1: gets to a point where we don't want to be together,

1261
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: no more. So basically you were moving the sex. I

1262
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: don't think that it ends on terms where it's like

1263
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 1: me and you can't be friends. And because sometimes women

1264
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: just need a friend, like a male friend, Like that's

1265
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: how I look at a lot of women, like women

1266
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 1: to throw pussy at me, and I'm looking at them

1267
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: like it's not even about saying, you just need a

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01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 1: real nigga that you can call, And I feel like

1269
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: I have enough of those so at this point, So

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01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So sometimes you you get in

1271
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: the relationship with somebody that you just funk with like that,

1272
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: and then it's like, Okay, I get to the point

1273
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: it's like, yo, I don't want to ever lose this friendship.

1274
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: And I think that if we continue then where we're going,

1275
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 1: because we're in a relationship, our friendship will be threatened,

1276
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: Like now we won't even be we'll see each other

1277
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: in the street, won't even speak to each other. And

1278
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to lose that, Like I want

1279
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 1: to always feel like when I see you is love,

1280
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 1: How you doing? You can tell me about the guy

1281
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: you're dating, like I can give you advice, like I

1282
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 1: can always feel in love. Though. It's why I genuinely

1283
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 1: feel like I could call it nigga and if I

1284
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: wanted to, because I can't end bad it's very difficult

1285
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: for me. I don't end bad women I can't. I

1286
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: can't not be at peace from that. If I click

1287
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: on anyone that I used to the last text, it

1288
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: can't be bad. It won't be bad, like I don't

1289
01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:00,919
Speaker 1: but also like I haven't really been wronged. A lot

1290
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: had men who have maybe hurt my feelings with something,

1291
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: but it was never to the point where I've had

1292
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: excess do me like ship But you know what it

1293
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 1: is like even on the show, like they look at

1294
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 1: me like I'm the crazy noess, you've been saying some um,

1295
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 1: it's it's not. It's not like you really, but you

1296
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 1: know what it is. Even it was supporting Trump a

1297
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: couple of episodes ago, I was just like, oh, it's

1298
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 1: not it's not not listen, it's not about me. I've

1299
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: never voted for Trump. Like I'm just having fun with

1300
01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 1: saying maga because people get so worked up about what

1301
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: you say. Ma. I just find out about some pictures

1302
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: with maga just so white people can see, like people

1303
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: people just it's just I just have fun with it

1304
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 1: because people go crazy when they hear that and like

1305
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 1: what's wrong, Like none of these none of these presidents

1306
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: are really for us like we've been really this government

1307
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: is not built for us, like America is a business,

1308
01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 1: not a country, Like people need to understand that. But

1309
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 1: my thing is, like, guys think that I'm weird because

1310
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: I'll say ship, like, you know, I want to be

1311
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 1: friends with her before we start walking around it like

1312
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: what was wrong with friends? Just like, well, that's the

1313
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: important thing because I need to know that I can

1314
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: be around you. I need to know that you the

1315
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 1: type of woman that I could in the beginning we

1316
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: started like we could all have sex, Like sex is easy,

1317
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: but I ain't gonna hold you when talking to a

1318
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 1: bit like me where sex is high on my compatibility

1319
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: scale with a partner, I don't want to rock with

1320
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: you really like you fuck you six months later in

1321
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: it's whack. And I think on the first day we met,

1322
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: but you guys actually like each other and the sex

1323
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 1: only gets better. I never put any stock in that

1324
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: if you suck me the first night, the intensity of

1325
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 1: sex definitely grows when you have a connection connection. Yeah,

1326
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 1: and like and like, they think that I'm crazy because

1327
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: I say I've never been in a fight with a woman. Literally,

1328
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: I've never like, you know, they think I'm like, and

1329
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I haven't. I think that the only

1330
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: dudes that are in situations like that a fun boys

1331
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: niggas that lie manipulate. No, I like that type of nigga.

1332
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie manipulate nobody to tell you they

1333
01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: care about you. Like I know my niggas is they

1334
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: think ship I'm looking. I'm like, yo, this girl is

1335
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: not crazy, Like yo, already tripping right so so so now,

1336
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 1: But I always, I always understand me. I'm very secure.

1337
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: I know who I am. I know that I'm always

1338
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: gonna be the minority in the room full of men

1339
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: because many men don't think the way I think. So man,

1340
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 1: when they're so caught up, been trying to be somebody,

1341
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: and you know, they run around telling women's these lives

1342
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: and manipulating, and I'm sitting there laughing. I'm like, and

1343
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: then you're gonna call this girl crazy when she started

1344
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:27,439
Speaker 1: flipping because now she's seeing a dude that she don't

1345
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: even know. So now she's like, I've been sucking this

1346
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: nigga for six months and then you do something, She's like,

1347
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: this ain't thing they got. I know that's the problem

1348
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: with signs and us sup posting the guests. I mean

1349
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: truly We've three and a half years been figuring out

1350
01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: how to figure out men through little things they do.

1351
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:41,919
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, people are just

1352
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 1: generally not expecting you to turn out. Everyone's hoping for

1353
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 1: the best. When you're into somebody and you're attracted to

1354
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 1: them and you got the vibe, you're really hoping for

1355
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: the best. And it's ridiculous that we got to look

1356
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 1: for this, dude, what's what's underneath that someone's gonna listen

1357
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 1: to this right now and think you're not genuine a

1358
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 1: They think i'm They think I'm lying all the time.

1359
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 1: And but the funny thing is people that really know

1360
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: me laugh at because they're yo. These people just don't

1361
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 1: know you. You're the same exact person, the same since

1362
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 1: you were a kid. Like and that's why when they

1363
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 1: said I say I've never gotten into a they think

1364
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm crazy that a woman has never hit on me,

1365
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: a spit, spit on me. I'm like a woman. I

1366
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: don't even think. I don't even think a woman that

1367
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 1: data has ever even thought about sports anyone else. I'm

1368
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: like after room. When I said the woman has never

1369
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 1: made a spit, they thought I was crazy for that.

1370
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: I've never spent on a man. I mean, listen, if

1371
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 1: it's one thing I'm sure about a woman that I've

1372
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: data has never even thought about spit the phone. Well,

1373
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,960
Speaker 1: you know that's kinky ship. That's different. I'm talking about

1374
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 1: like in a verbal argument and a woman actually spits

1375
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: in your face. They thought I was crazy because that

1376
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 1: never happens like that has never. You gotta tell me

1377
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: a bit pregnant right now? You got you would you

1378
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:59,439
Speaker 1: would spy or something? I still don't think. I still

1379
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 1: don't think you would. I still don't think you. I

1380
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: don't even think that's in you. It might not be,

1381
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: but it's got to be something that would completely like

1382
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:09,080
Speaker 1: to me, Yes, spits on your mind doesn't go to

1383
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: spitting on you. If a woman spits on the man,

1384
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 1: he's the e pitome of a fun boy. Stop anytime

1385
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: a woman spits on the dude, like that's when she

1386
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 1: says I have literally lost all respect. We're gonna do

1387
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:24,959
Speaker 1: apart to y'all and bring mall back to talk about

1388
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 1: the fun boys ship that people do. Because Sharona is

1389
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 1: I don't think really dug into what fun boys be doing.

1390
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: But if Nikola is out here again, spit on the

1391
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 1: real boys talk about boys. It's more like sex and phase.

1392
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: It's not someone that like gets as far enough to

1393
01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 1: where you even have the opportunity to spin on somebody. Well, well, mall,

1394
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 1: where can people listen to you? Where can they follow you? Ladies?

1395
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 1: Can the ladies slide in your dea? Okay, whether he

1396
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: responds or not, we can. I don't know. Do you

1397
01:06:56,440 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: look at most of them? No, I don't really now that.

1398
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 1: The instagram about that primary in general? Oh yeah, I

1399
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: don't know. I didn't What is that? It's when your

1400
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 1: d M is basically primaries, like people you follow the

1401
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 1: right you in general is like I ain't even ship.

1402
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: Maybe they tested some they do. I ain't even gonna

1403
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 1: hold you. I got that, but I love it. I

1404
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 1: was sliding in everybody deals when I got that blue

1405
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 1: champ because I was popping up right up in the front.

1406
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 1: I can't play that d M game because I feel

1407
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 1: like that's somebody. I feel like people were trying to

1408
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: catch you slipping and like the screenshot game, and they

1409
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 1: want to worried about screenshots. D girls really only because

1410
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 1: if you don't mean everybody comments anyway, we see who

1411
01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 1: you want. Mall, It's the same comment on everybody. I

1412
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,760
Speaker 1: leave that on sneakers, dudes pages. What is it? Just money?

1413
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 1: That's it. That's why I laugh when people getting the

1414
01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 1: up roll. But I'm like, I literally leave this comment

1415
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 1: on everything because Mall bey under all the thick bitches

1416
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 1: like women. I don't think skinnies. I don't care like women.

1417
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: I honestly, really, I am kind of surprised that you'd

1418
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: worry about a screenshot. Well, I only worried about it

1419
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: because you know, a screenshot could be taking the wrong way.

1420
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: If I say something like I could say, hey, how

1421
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 1: are you in that she'll take that in send into

1422
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: a chat like this nig on me, he's sweating how

1423
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 1: are you? Y'all don't think that Mall is sweating you?

1424
01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 1: If he responds and don't, don't screenshot it, so where

1425
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 1: can they follow you. We're gonna put the description as

1426
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 1: well in the We're gonna put your mal underscore by

1427
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: the way, yeah, with three underscores. Why you got all

1428
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 1: these underscores? We gotta remove them underscores. Nigger, I really

1429
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: don't you know, I don't care, you don't And y'all

1430
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 1: can check this motherfuck out twice a week. Where can

1431
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 1: they listen to you? For now on Spotify for now

1432
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:47,519
Speaker 1: episodes contract y'all may have to listen to them somewhere else,

1433
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: but you can also watch him on YouTube. Um he

1434
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 1: is one third of the or one fourth y'all kind

1435
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 1: of Parks is like a fourth one fourth of the

1436
01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: Joe Buddon podcast. Check the mall out, ladies. You can

1437
01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 1: listen to the show, fellas. I'm sure a lot of

1438
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:06,640
Speaker 1: y'all already listened to the show Ladies not more Ladies

1439
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 1: the one guys. We are also going to leave you

1440
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: guys with a five minute bonus clip at the end

1441
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:15,560
Speaker 1: of this episode. Also next week, guys, Periods this podcast

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01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: it's coming, so be ready to listen perious. This is

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Speaker 1: my new podcast, Son Periods. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Also sponsored by the City Girls. You guys know it

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Speaker 1: actually sponsored by the official box owner. You guys will

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Speaker 1: be hearing more of that. That is a subscription box

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited by. So the podcast is brought to

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Speaker 1: you by also my other company. I'm just super excited.

1450
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 1: It'll be releasing soon. Um so yeah, in two weeks,

1451
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:45,759
Speaker 1: but before we go. If you want three more bonus episodes,

1452
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 1: we are on Patreon if you want to support us,

1453
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: don't have a time, calm down is Patreon. It's kind

1454
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 1: of count I do put my feet But Patreon never

1455
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 1: ever heard of it, which is fucking crazy because we

1456
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: talked about it all the time and hosts a fucking

1457
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: bunch of episodes like seventy. We release everything first, you

1458
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean? So much fun on Patreon, Like

1459
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Speaker 1: at first, we genuinely we're doing it for like extra

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01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 1: studio cash because we wanted to do videos and you know,

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01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 1: do merchants stuff, and we make a great amount of

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01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 1: money on there. But Patreon is my favorite place to

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01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 1: do episodes on to my favorite place to talk to

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01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:23,280
Speaker 1: people we need advice, I think Mandy for her new podcast,

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01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: she mentioned sentence to a girl we know in They're like,

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01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 1: it's real hivy listeners that you could separate from everyone else.

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Speaker 1: Not to say we don't funk with y'all too, but

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01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,640
Speaker 1: we don't have to check out Patreon. What's you know

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01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 1: what I mean? So check that out. We are leaving

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01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 1: out with a bonus clip and mall, thank you for

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01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 1: joining us. This has been yet another episode of Orbit Decisions,

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Speaker 1: Bye Bye. I am now prepared to take the risk

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01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: to be out and socialize and do the things that

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01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 1: I want to do, because I find that it's more

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01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: worth it than what it was doing to mental health

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01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 1: for me being at home. And so I get tested

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01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:59,800
Speaker 1: for the safety of the public. I got I got

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01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 1: tost for the safety of people that live in Mexico.

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01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:05,400
Speaker 1: I got tested in safety of being around someone older

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01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 1: or a baby that I knew I would see. But

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01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: other than that, I'm I don't I can't handle it anymore.

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01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 1: I mean, and that's where I'm just kind of like,

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01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 1: and me and him have talked about it, even if

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01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: we just have people watch us, like that's really like,

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01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm considering trying it. I just wanted

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01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: to have fun with him. And we've been on like

1487
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 1: we do go out a lot, like we do the park,

1488
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,600
Speaker 1: or we go and grab food and you know, like

1489
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 1: I said, he joined me at a at a birthday

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01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:35,400
Speaker 1: party with dust and he's come over to my home

1491
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 1: girls house and she loves hosting. But I'm like, I

1492
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 1: want to have fun. There's so much that we can't do,

1493
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 1: even travel right now. Well, yeah, that's where he's gone

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01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 1: with Mexico. You know, I'm the Mexican president that he

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01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 1: was not, No goddamn president. Anyways, let's go ahead and

1496
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:54,639
Speaker 1: and and start deep diving into these issues of instact.

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Speaker 1: The first one, I'm I can't talk about mental health

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01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:59,600
Speaker 1: right now, Let's talk about I actually, I actually, I

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01:12:00,000 --> 01:12:04,000
Speaker 1: really really wanted to talk about lawyer get into that.

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Speaker 1: So so and this is the conversation I've been having

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01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:10,600
Speaker 1: with my friends. So the first topic I wanted to

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01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 1: dive into. Guys. So, in season four, um, we see

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01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 1: Nathan return with Issa, and you know, Issa's helping him

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01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 1: pack or unpack and move in, and he mentions the

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01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 1: reason why he goes to her last season, and it

1506
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 1: had to do with him, um, being bipolar and dealing

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01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 1: with depression and his mental health. And so the question

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01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 1: that I wanted to to bring up revolving around this

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01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:39,840
Speaker 1: topic was how do you handle mental health when dating

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01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 1: and seeking partners? And this was actually something that me

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01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:47,680
Speaker 1: and my homegirl just spoke on because, um, and if

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01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:50,679
Speaker 1: you guys remember me talking about Lawyer Bay, he dealt

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01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:54,560
Speaker 1: with depression anxiety where he was taking medication for it,

1514
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:57,560
Speaker 1: but it also led to alcoholism with him, and he

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01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 1: would just drink a lot. But he was is always

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01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:03,240
Speaker 1: one of those people like do you know those people

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01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 1: that when you call them, even though you just want

1518
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 1: to talk and be like what's up, how's your day going?

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01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: And you have good news to tell them, And then

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01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 1: as soon as you tell them how great things are

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01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 1: going for you, nothing is going good for them, and

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01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,840
Speaker 1: they're just like, uh, well, you know, I hate my

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01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 1: job and today is not good and I drank a

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01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: bottle last night and I'm just depressed. It's weird. It's

1525
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 1: like is it a penny party or should I help you? Right?

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01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:29,479
Speaker 1: And so it's crazy because I had so much love

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01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 1: for him and I cared about him so much. When

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01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: I was telling my my friend Taylor about it, I

1529
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 1: was like, but I want to be there for him.

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01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 1: I want to see him through this and I want

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01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:41,639
Speaker 1: to get him through. And when I was talking as

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01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:44,640
Speaker 1: I continued being there for him. And this was right

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01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 1: before I graduated college and got the offer for at

1534
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 1: E Y and all of that stuff, and I started

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01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: telling her, I was like, this is becoming draining for me.

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01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 1: This is this is a lot, And I mean there's

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01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,600
Speaker 1: a lot even with my sister with mental health to

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01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 1: where I'm I've told my mom just don't want to

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01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 1: be involved. And it's weird because mental health is something

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01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 1: to where we all have to acknowledge now, But I

1541
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,760
Speaker 1: also know I don't want to. I don't want to

1542
01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 1: have that burden. And y'all let me know if it's

1543
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: selfish you like now, in this moment, I realized the

1544
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 1: closeness to somebody, like I've been updated people that were depressed,

1545
01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: like I remember scissors, she didn't have it for a

1546
01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: long time or something. I was close enough to her

1547
01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 1: to where that's my burden too, Right, Yeah, when you're

1548
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 1: dating someone and you're not really sure, but you know,

1549
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,680
Speaker 1: like you guys are talking everything, but what is it? No,

1550
01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:37,040
Speaker 1: I really think, and you make a commitment to somebody

1551
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 1: is when you can commit to taking on the problems too.

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01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 1: And that's why I feel like And it's funny because

1553
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 1: he actually just reached out to me trying to check

1554
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:46,720
Speaker 1: in with me, and I'm like, oh, nig I got

1555
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:49,639
Speaker 1: a boyfriend, now what you hit me? FA? But even

1556
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:51,080
Speaker 1: just him, I was like, well, I hope you're good.

1557
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: I hope you're healthy, hope your family safe, Like you

1558
01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: know so mental health and dating. I just thought that

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01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:59,000
Speaker 1: that was an interesting topic um that they brought to light.

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01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 1: I really do mean I like that. Uh they touch

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01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 1: on that and Insecure obviously, he said, does a great

1562
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:07,080
Speaker 1: job with trying to, you know, bring in taboo topics

1563
01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 1: like the bisexuality or ship like uh, you know, mental

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01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:12,560
Speaker 1: health of black man. I did like that. But I

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01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 1: do believe for anybody that's listening, and I think we

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01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: should bring up friends with this too. Taking on people's

1567
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 1: problems should never leak into your life so much that

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01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,720
Speaker 1: you feel like you can't fucking function. Like if I'm

1569
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 1: starting to get depressed, as you depressed, like no, and

1570
01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:29,519
Speaker 1: people will really drag you down on that ship. And

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01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 1: let me tell y'all, I got depressed, what was it

1572
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 1: two years ago? And uh, I remember your mom was

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01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 1: telling me to take the Saint John's word and all

1574
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: that stuff. And even then, like I would just not

1575
01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 1: call people or just hold it if I needed a

1576
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: friend maybe, but I'd have to remember, like people are

1577
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:47,560
Speaker 1: tired of here and this ship, and I'm and I

1578
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:50,799
Speaker 1: think part of your selfishness can be pushing your depression

1579
01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 1: on everybody. Get a fucking therapist and I'm not trying

1580
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 1: to be insensitive. I'm only saying it because I had

1581
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 1: to do it. You know, there's a scene in Sex

1582
01:15:58,000 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 1: in the City, and I know y'all say I bring

1583
01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 1: it up all the time, mother fuck in secondary. Oh,

1584
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:07,280
Speaker 1: I don't need a therapist. I have you guys, And

1585
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:10,680
Speaker 1: they were like, bitch, no you don't. And that was

1586
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. That's that's me a lot.

1587
01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I I now have someone that I do

1588
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:20,559
Speaker 1: talk to UM specifically that's not intertwined with my friends

1589
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: and just has an unbiased take on things UM. But

1590
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: that was my point. For a while. I was like, well, bitch,

1591
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: what I gotta pay for somebody when I got you?

1592
01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 1: And I would tell that to Cutty and Taylor and

1593
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: crystalind all my friends. But I know that it became

1594
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 1: draining for them too, And so now like I'm if

1595
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 1: you have particularly have real issues, I think our friends

1596
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 1: and we all enjoy like being there for our friends,

1597
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 1: but I think when you know something you can't help

1598
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:45,679
Speaker 1: yourself and you and also your friends, then they start

1599
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 1: to judge you, like bitch, you always do it is

1600
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:51,080
Speaker 1: and you'll know why it's unhealthy. It's like that ship

1601
01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: sucks like give me a perfect