1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Let's talk about you know, like I said, you know, 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:06,199 Speaker 1: me and Ian we have these conversations that's very controversial 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: a lot of different times. But they always say, like, 4 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: why don't you talk to somebody that's actually married? Right, 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: So from a relationship started off a relationship standpoint because 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: people have been wanting to hear your perspective on a 7 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: variety of different topics. 8 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 2: That mean Ian talk about. 9 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: What is the key to having a successful marriage? 10 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: Oh man, I think I think everybody's key's gonna be different. 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: And that's one of those things. I see people giving 12 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: advice all the time, and I'm like, every key doesn't 13 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: open the same door. I think for me, the number 14 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: one thing is communication is something that I've had to learn, 15 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: you know, especially like us, we piscey. So when we 16 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 2: get in a conversation, we debate and we go back 17 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 2: and forth. We always try to figure out who's gonna 18 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: win the conversation. And early on in marriage, I realized 19 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: that you winning me and somebody's losing. And if you 20 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: do that long enough, that person is going to start 21 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: to feel a resentment towards even having conversation on having 22 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: not logue. And so what I learned about communication is 23 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: that there's one way to listen, and there's one way 24 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 2: to actively listen. And so some people say like, oh, 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: you're listen to me, but you're not hearing me. And 26 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 2: so I've learned to become an active listener and that's 27 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 2: helped me out tremendously. So communication is important. Transparency is 28 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 2: another one. I know. I remember when we got the conversation. 29 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, y'a, I'm gonna get a joint account, and 30 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 2: you were kind of like yeah, Like yeah, I'm gonna 31 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: get a joint account. Obviously I have my own account 32 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 2: and she has an own account, but I wanted to 33 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: have something that solidified that we can always afforward to. 34 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 2: It's not who's doing this and who's doing that. It's like, Yo, 35 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 2: we're doing this together. So financial transparency, but emotional transparency. Man. 36 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 2: I think being vulnerable is something that shows maturity and 37 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 2: I've grown into that. You know, it's not something that 38 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: we see in our community too much. It's not something 39 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: that a lot of men talk about. But I feel 40 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 2: very comfortable or very confident in that. And that's been 41 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: something like the easy keys to success. Man. It's it's 42 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: I don't say marriages for everyone. It definitely is for me. 43 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 2: And I've watched it right, like I feel like between us, 44 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 2: like our parents, we've watched fifty one hundred plus years 45 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: of marriage combined between both of us. So we've seen 46 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: the ups and downs of it. We've seen the goods, 47 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: and we see what a family unit could look like. 48 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: And so I was very concousisdered that. And it takes work, 49 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 2: I think, you know, every day I get to learn 50 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: Danielle a little bit more and I take a challenge 51 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: to learn even more about her because that's what life 52 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: is about. We're gonna grow, we're gonna change, we're gonna evolve. 53 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 2: But I want to be part of that process with her, 54 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: and she's been part of that process with me. So yeah, man, 55 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: that's some of it. I wonder how you look at it, man, 56 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: as you've you've seen this relationship since to begetting Man, 57 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 2: how we've been making this thing look Well, let's peel 58 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: back the layers a little bit. 59 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's talk about Okay, So the finance, that's 60 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 1: a that's a big topic. So you do, okay, so 61 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: you have all you have all your money in one 62 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: bank account. 63 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: I have a few bank accounts. So I have a 64 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: few bank accounts. Say kind of the method I did 65 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: with when I was investing, It was like I got 66 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: something for options, I got something for long term, and 67 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: I got solved with just for ets and indexes. And 68 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: so I got a bank account. But I have business 69 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 2: accounts the side of that. And then we have yeah, 70 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: we have a joint account. So okay, you have your 71 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: own personal account, and then you have a train account. Right. 72 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: Absolutely, she has a bank account, You have a bank account, 73 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: and then you have a family account. 74 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 2: Absolutely. How do you decide how what goes into the 75 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: family account? Oh, I'll put money in there every month. 76 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: So let's just take a raw number, right, And it 77 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 2: may sound crazy, but let's say it's ten thousand dollars 78 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: a month. That money goes in there, and it doesn't 79 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: matter what happens. That money's going in there. That takes 80 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: care of the bills, that takes care of kids needs, 81 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: that just goes in there. That's been something I've been 82 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 2: practicing even prior to getting married. Always. You actually told 83 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 2: me that early. It was like, Yo, you gotta have reserves. 84 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: And so that method of just having reserves has always 85 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 2: been something that's been deep in my nature since my 86 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 2: early twenties, and so as I got more money, I 87 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: just increased the reserves and so that that saves account 88 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: is something that just goes. Money goes into there and 89 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 2: we don't have to look at it, like if she 90 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 2: needs to pull from there, she pulls from there. She 91 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: needs to pull money from another account, one of our 92 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 2: because we have a business account together as well. If 93 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 2: she needs to pull from there, it actually is not 94 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 2: even an issue. You know. The crazy part is that 95 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: she's super conservative when it comes to money. I think 96 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 2: that's something that I take it for granted, but I'm 97 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 2: truly grateful for it. Like she won't pull from the account. 98 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: Like There'll been times and she's gonna kill me for 99 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: saying this, but she'll be like, yo, I got four 100 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: dollars in my account. I'm like, yo, why you got 101 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: four dollars in your account? Like there's no need for this, 102 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: and she was like, I don't know, like I didn't 103 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: want to take money. I'm like, I love that about 104 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 2: her because that she's super conservative. But I asked him, like, yo, 105 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 2: you don't you know, you don't have to do that, 106 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 2: and she's just like, Yo, it's just this mentality that 107 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 2: she's growing up with, like, yo make it. You know 108 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 2: that dollar stretch, right, you got to be conservative with 109 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 2: your money. You gotta be careful with you spending. So 110 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 2: even as we've accumulated more wealth, she still has that mentality. 111 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. You said also about you can't win an argument 112 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,679 Speaker 1: because you That's one thing is when you learn in debates, 113 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: like nobody really wins a debate because even if you win, 114 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 1: you embarrass other person. 115 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 2: So that's it though, but you use the word embarrassed. 116 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: I didn't even say that. I just said lose. But 117 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 2: the way you do it, And I've learned this about 118 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 2: myself and probably we got this in common, right because 119 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: we go back and forth and nobody ever wins. We 120 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 2: just kind of like a conversations over but like in 121 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: a partnership, like in a marriage, Like the way I 122 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: argue with you, I can't I can't have that type 123 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 2: of tone with a female, Like I can't have that 124 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: with my wife. I got to realize, like how I'm 125 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: coming across, and I think a lot of times people 126 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 2: don't do that right, Like it's that retrospective like you know, what, 127 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 2: all right, if I win at what court? And why 128 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: do I need to win, right, let me just see 129 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: the perspective, because maybe I could be wrong. A lot 130 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 2: of times I'm like, yo, I could have done that better, right, 131 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, Nah, I'm standing on ground 132 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 2: on this, like I'm firm on this, I believe in this, 133 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 2: but actually hearing it and having like that introspective moment 134 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 2: to say, like, yo, you don't need to win this, 135 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 2: Like listen to this person's perspective because at the end 136 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 2: of the day, I take that jay lit like we're 137 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 2: not supposed to sleep with our backstern right, Like we're 138 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 2: not supposed to do that, Like who wants to go 139 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 2: to sleep with that? Because we're just gonna wake up 140 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 2: with the same issue. So yeah, man, And being transparent 141 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 2: and having that that mature to say, you know what, 142 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 2: let me hear what you got to say, right or wrong, 143 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 2: and let's figure this out. 144 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:39,679 Speaker 1: So you got married before you know all this shit 145 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: a high level of kicks us, you know, you know, 146 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: wealth and things of that nature. If you were to 147 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: get married today, would you do things differently, Like would 148 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: you be more paranoid, would you demand the pre numb? 149 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: Would you like it's one thing to get married when 150 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 1: at the beginning of your career. Yeah, it's nothing to 151 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 1: get me when you've already worked twenty years and you've 152 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: reached a certain level of success and you got a 153 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: lot more to lose. 154 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: It's tricky, man. I watched my peers and I often wonder, like, yo, Dan, man, 155 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: like this ship is crazy out here. Would I do 156 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: anything differently with my wife now? I don't think so 157 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 2: because she because she's she's been here before all this, right, 158 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I'm talking about not if I 159 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: was if I was today trying to get married with 160 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 2: you asking yes, oh yeah, if it was her, I 161 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 2: don't think I do anything differently, and the circumstances would 162 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: the same. Like I had known her right, like we 163 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 2: grew and then we got married during the early le success. 164 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: I don't think I do any if I meet her 165 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:53,559 Speaker 2: during the early leaders success. Man, that's a good question. 166 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: I probably still wouldn't bro just the character of the person, 167 00:07:58,600 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 2: because I would have met her at a different state 168 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 2: life and she would have matured and had life experiences. 169 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 2: I don't know if I do anything different specifically if 170 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: it's her, if it's somebody else, Yeah, man, things are 171 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: gonna look different. I'm watching some of these stories and 172 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: I'm watching some of these relationships that a lot of 173 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 2: my peers have, and I'm just like, Yo, this shit 174 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 2: is crazy, right, Like even encounter having encounters with with 175 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 2: with females, It's like, Yo, there's a lot going on, 176 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: but where's the substance? You know what I'm saying, Like 177 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: I always say that to you, like it. It's tough 178 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 2: for me to have conversations a lot of times because 179 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 2: number one, I don't want anything from anyone, right, And 180 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 2: I think a lot of times I can miss you 181 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 2: can get missed with screw like if you talk to 182 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 2: the opposite sex, Oh he wants something from you. Oh 183 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: you know I need to get something from him, And 184 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: I'm like no, I'm just trying to pass time. And 185 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 2: if you can, you know, stimulate my mind with the 186 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 2: educational conversation, that'd be great. But other than that, I'm good. 187 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 2: And I've seen it over and over. It's like ten 188 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 2: minutes into like a casual conversation that's like, ah, this 189 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: is gonna go left. In fact, this is not even 190 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 2: worth entertaining any further. So it's tough out here. Man. 191 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 2: I feel for my brothers I feel and for females too. 192 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: I feel for females it's not easy to date. It's 193 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 2: not easy to find someone that's your companion. It's not 194 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 2: easy to find a life partner. It takes work, and 195 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 2: the work is getting harder, man, because we grew up 196 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 2: in a generation where, like a lot of the girls, 197 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 2: you know, we grew up around, watch their mothers, especially. 198 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 2: You know, my wife is Jamaican, so you watch that culture. 199 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 2: You watch how your mother treats your dad, You watch 200 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 2: how they take care of their dad or they take 201 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 2: care of their family. It's a different environment and that 202 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 2: just gets you know, matured, and that just grows into 203 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 2: how they're gonna treat you know, their future mate. So 204 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: I'm pretty lucky, man, I'll be honest, I'm really lucky. 205 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: How important is it for a significant other not to 206 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 1: be overly bearing in question somebody that they with, if 207 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:55,359 Speaker 1: they with somebody else that's in business. 208 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 2: It's important. I think it comes with trust though, I think, 209 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: and that's something that's developed over I think, you know, 210 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 2: having that that level of security and what you know 211 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: your significant other is doing is vitally important. I always say, 212 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,959 Speaker 2: like this, this doesn't happen without you know, the trust 213 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 2: of my partner. You know. I imagine if she said, Yo, 214 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 2: you know, I don't feel comfortable with your recording in 215 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: the dining room, Like you know what I mean, Like 216 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 2: what do we do? And the fact that she's involved 217 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 2: in it, it makes it a lot easier because she 218 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 2: understands the tugs and the pulls and it gives and 219 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: takes that have to go on inside of the business. 220 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 2: And so you know, I would encourage everybody to support 221 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 2: I know it was a lot of times like Yo, 222 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: he tried this thing and it didn't work, or he's 223 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 2: trying something again and it's not working. Yo, Hey, you 224 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 2: gotta stay with him. You gotta figure that, like if 225 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 2: you riding with him, you gotta stay with him because 226 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 2: you got to believe in his in his vision wholeheartedly. 227 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 2: And I'm living a living proof of that right Like 228 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 2: we've tried a couple of businesses, right like it didn't work, 229 00:10:57,600 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 2: and she never looked at say, yo, Troy stopped trying. 230 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, I support it, even to the point. 231 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: I'll tell the story about when I invested and I 232 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 2: was like, yobaye, I'm going for it. She's the first 233 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 2: person I told we were staying in La in July 234 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: twenty twenty. I forget it was me and you sat 235 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 2: down at the table. It was like six thirty in 236 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 2: the morning. I told her right before I came downstairs 237 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: that I'm going for it. She was like what. I'm like, 238 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 2: I'm putting one hundred thousand in the market to her, 239 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 2: and she looked at me like okay, Like no questions asked, 240 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 2: not like Yo, that's a lot of money. Yo. You 241 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 2: sure you want to do that? It was like okay. 242 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 2: And after I had made the move, I was like, yo, 243 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 2: why you ain't have no feedback? She was like, yo, 244 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 2: I watch how you work. I trust what you're going 245 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: to do, Like I know if you're doing it, it's 246 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: going to happen. Every time you say you're going to 247 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 2: reach your goal, you reach it. And so that level 248 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 2: of trust, that level of support, it builds confidence right 249 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 2: Like it feels like, yo, I don't care what anybody says. 250 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: She believes in it and like her life is going 251 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 2: to be impacted by it the most. Let's go, Let's 252 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 2: rock